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It was "you, you, you" so I assumed it was a shit test, Yes it was a shit test. and because I am still autistic STFU at the moment, I just STFU, but had fun with my facial expressions. A little smile here and there, raising my eyebrow when I heard something dumb, etc. You passed it. I was told that I've changed, I'm not the same person when we got married, I am just cold now and I don't care about anything but myself. Shit test, passed by stfu Then something switched, and she started bawling. Sn…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 04:51 AM
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Since I managed couple of them well this summer, I didn't expect any roadblocks, which was a terrible mistake. Change is the law of nature, not stagnation. That's what makes life worth living. Hard to appreciate it when you don't have control over your own mind. But if you achieve it, you will understand the beauty of change and stop holding on to unfounded expectations. my arrogance slapped me back so hard next day Wonder why you become a wall as soon as she shit tests you? Because you haven't …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 04:33 AM
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Had a good night out with my step father in law. He may be too far gone and needs this more than I do. I am going to suggest NMMNG to him Stop worrying about him. You need to get your shit together first. The justice boner you got here is you projecting your own issues on him. What part of "you do not talk about fight club" do you not understand? That's annoying because it means I need to be better and that's hard. No you are addicted to seeking validation from your wife. So when you quit cold t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 04:18 AM
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In simpler words, You see the world more clearly if you can get your head out of your wife's ass and do what needs to be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/26 06:20 AM
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Write down your goals on a piece of paper. You can't add anything to them once you are done writing. Remember that those goals need to be extremely important to you. You don't have to articulate why you chose them, you should feel it in your bones that they are important.Then achieve those goals. After that look at your piece of paper. You don't get to add more. Just stare at that piece of paper. It will feel meaningless but also your mind will finally give you answers you are too afraid to ask …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/26 02:56 PM
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So two women are being stupid af. It's nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:53 AM
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No man will abandon his child if he is not fleeing from abuse. Pregnant women can be very abusive because of their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:51 AM
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For 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:50 AM
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Women say a lot of disgusting things about men? Can't take it, when you can throw it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:50 AM
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Lady I am looking out for a woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:21 PM
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She stayed with a man for 10 years without a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:17 PM
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Feminism doesn't teach women to not stick with a man for 10 years like an idiot That's the problem. It leaves women directionless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:09 PM
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Yeah, love her deep voice and speech on ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:03 PM
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No, people should get their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:59 PM
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She is the one going through "tough" procedure because she missed out on having a child in her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:58 PM
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Then she is an idiot because now she has to freeze her eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:57 PM
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No, a couple who met each other at 26 should be married by 28 and have kids soon after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:57 PM
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Out of those 27 percent, most of them are abused by their wives or girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:56 PM
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Yeah, and that's fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:54 PM
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Really? You didn't get my argument that she was financially stable for years now and could have had a child comfortably?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:54 PM
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Freezing eggs mean that she wants a partner, it not very reliable procedure. It's better to freeze embryo but then no man wojld agree to wife her up and raise donor baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:52 PM
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It's been 7 years since she took oath and got govt funded healthcare for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:51 PM
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I am not saying relationships shouldn't fail. I am just saying a relationship of 10 years without marriage and kids shouldn't exist(if you are not childfree for life)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:49 PM
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If you are "led on" for more than 2 years, you really need to learn how to have boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:47 PM
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She was with him for 10 years. Why didn't she dump him and find someone else in like 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:43 PM
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Married women generally freeze embryos because it's vastly more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:39 PM
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It's hardly a sign of scientific success, it doesn't have good success rate and the birth defects increase the long you freeze them eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:38 PM
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Has it occurred to you that maybe she didn’t want to marry him or have children with him Hmm.. then why would she date him for 10 years just to break up with him just before the fertile age of 36?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:36 PM
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I have been creepily hit on by gross old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:36 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:32 AM
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Because it's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:26 AM
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Ah well. Hope you found the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:23 AM
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Nope, because if you didn't care, you won't feel the need to call it a loser behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:22 AM
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Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:21 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:20 AM
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You SAID you didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:20 AM
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Older women have higher standards than younger women. Younger women are more desirable than older women. How is that not rewarding laziness? The more desirable woman has lower standard than less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:19 AM
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So all old men need to do is not be gross
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:15 AM
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And you could have ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:14 AM
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If you don't care why do you need to point out the losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:12 AM
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That's an easy problem to solve. You don't exploit and abuse them. Then society has nothing to worry about Laziness is not a moral failure if society rewards it. It's a societal failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:11 AM
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Older women have higher standards. I am not gonna comment about "gayer" than ever. I don't know anything about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:08 AM
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Right? But if loser behaviour is rewarded better than non loser behaviour, then dont you think it's natural for people to exhibit loser behaviour. Sure there is "punishment" of social ridicule. Like you calling them a loser. But we live in a society with laws and fundamental rights and stuff. Even if he is considered a loser by society, he will survive no problem. In cavemen times, being isolated from a group was problematic but the society we built, it's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:04 AM
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You are not a real man if you dont disappoint a woman atleast once in your life. I really need some space to orient myself” translation... “No”. That's not the translation. That's just a shit test. I’m not interested in talking about all the relational drama anymore. How would you game your wife if you won't talk to her. I’m not allowed to say yes or no based on my feelings. Why? Because she gets mad at you? And that's the end of the world for you? This was really long and I expect no one to rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 12:35 PM
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What outcome? Sex? Money? He has no preferred outcome, he has no mission, he doesn't have any goals either.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 12:17 PM
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ignored couple of don'ts and cannot you justs "I just want to fuck you" When she shit tests you, you become a fucking wall. Walls are boring. Sure it helps you hold frame but it doesn't give her any soft place to land once she failed to rattle your frame. Your dear wifey is avoidant AND Manipulative. She has her tricks to get you to back down. When that doesn't work she just withdraws. There are other tools in the arsenal that are not STFU and broken record. Time to start reading. Someone in the…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 01:35 AM
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Dude you just lack focus. That's always been your problem. Looks like nothing changed in the past year or so. being comfort tested a lot, as she almost manically tells me how much she loves me, Good, you caught that. That's manic response to anxiety of dread. I assume that she has gone through withdrawal phase too. It's not a comfort test, it's a defence mechanism. She is not trying to find a way to get in your frame. She is coping with her anxiety. You are running a directionless dread game. It…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 05:07 PM
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When you ask me to do something I am already going to do, I am going to not do it anymore." and of course just STFU-ing. Is the right thing in these situations just to shut up and ignore or do I correct? No. It's definitely not. It's just child throwing tantrum. Just STFU and do what you need to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 06:00 AM
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psh who are you to tell me how to dress". Shit test I simply STFU as I was not even established within myself if I wanted to set a boundary on the dress or not. It's fine.. stfu is good if you are buthurt. do you really think after you responding to me like that in the bathroom I will buy you stuff. If I get to have a say in how you dress, I get to buy you stuff. If I do not, I do not buy you stuff She poked further and you failed the shit test spectacularly. That's where it just derailed. She s…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 05:55 AM
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Nope, the timing is obvious. She was just salty that he has a kid now and no one in his right mind is gonna wife her up. Not to mention her texts to her friends about how she has BPD. It's so obvious, she liked Jonah Hill, not enough to be a wife for him but enough that she didn't like that he moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:35 PM
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You are missing something here. A woman choose to be wife material. I can treat a woman as an individual, be curious about who she is, what her hopes and desires are, how she sees the world etc etc. i definitely enjoy that. But that doesn't make me stay with her. A wife plays a role in a man's life. If a woman doesn't understand it, she is not a wife material. Women nowadays are so insecure about being good wives because they think that their best won't be good enough. So they think they can cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:32 PM
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He does kinda "control" her. He had a baby with someone else and she freaked out and tried to destroy his life over nothing burger. He probably wasn't even thinking about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:21 PM
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No it's not bonkers. I don't think most men would want their wives to do that His problem was that he fell in love with a woman who is not a wife material. Then he tried to force her to change everything about her. He wised up, left her and is now with a better woman. Has a kid, lost weight, etc. His ex got jealous that he had a baby and tried to create drama. His mistake was trying to change a woman. You don't change a woman, a woman change herself when the time is right for her or when the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:17 PM
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Redpill puts it better She is not yours, it's your turn. Once you internalize it, women will just fall into your frame to keep you and stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:56 PM
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And I am not trying to convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:38 PM
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A wife material is a very specific kind of woman. When a woman is ready for that role, she changes herself into that kind. It's like she instinctually understands her assignment and fall in line with the vision. She doens't choose to do it, it happens to her. She becomes feminine, nurturing, "domesticated" etc. That's what men don't understand. They fall in love and then want a woman to be wife's material. She will when she is ready, if ever. Instead of finding a woman who is ready, they try to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:37 PM
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What do you mean by sexually dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:19 PM
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Some men have possessive view on a woman's sexuality. That's why men slut shame. I think it's because men are expected to "invest" in a woman. Support her financially or risk financial ruin in divorce. So they need a degree of control. What they don't get it that you don't actually have to marry a woman or invest in her. When that happens, a woman will herself leave her slutty ways to commit to him. Problem is, men fall in love with a woman and then want to change her. Instead of letting her cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:17 PM
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Nah you are not a real man if you don't disappoint a few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:57 AM
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Well I am kinda selfish in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:26 AM
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Not only that, women are very "giving" when that happens. They are very proactive about giving you pleasure. Can you even blame me for cheating while travelling? They get the king treatment from a woman they barely met. It's addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:14 AM
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U said hypocritical behaviour. I was commenting on that. I disagree that men who are serial cheaters and men who complaint about cheating are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:04 AM
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I travel for work too. I get to live in 5 star hotels for free and women can get very freaky when they know you are not from that place. I just don't like my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:00 AM
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That's incorrect, it's worth it You have to experience both not feeling desired and feeling desired. It's worth blowing up your marriage for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:57 AM
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That's like woman who say they prefer someone tall but get offended when men have weight preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:56 AM
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💍 you would be the perfect woman for me. Except for the children part. On another thought, the more i think about it, the more i get bored without a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:52 AM
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The men doing the cheating are not complaining about it. The men who never got to cheat are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:51 AM
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Unfortunately when you have slept with so many women, you get used to seeing women at their best. Their best makeup, their best dress, their best most confident behaviour. Then when LTR happen all the insecurities comes out. Getting shit tested is fun, getting comfort tested is not. Reassuring, validating, listening etc etc. If you don't really really love the woman, it's gonna drive you mad. That's why you need a very good quality woman, it gives you perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:21 PM
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There is a difference between having sex for validation and having sex for genuine desire. When that need for validation is fulfilled, you are faced with the reality that you don't actually desire a woman that is lying naked in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:47 PM
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If i went back in time and told myself that sex with lot of young women would cause me ED, I wouldn't have listened. People just have unhealthy way of seeing sex and desire. People won't get it until they see the consequences for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:06 PM
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I donno Doesn't change the fact that guys are insecure about their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:58 AM
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I wasnt talking about you. Lot of women freak the fuck out about porn, how it gives men unrealistic expectations etc how a wife can't match up to those women. But if you have a good woman at home, then she is worth staying for. Lot of women are gonna be more beautiful and if you somehow found yourself with redpill knowledge, you would know how to get those women. Beautiful women are plenty, a good kind woman is just hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:28 AM
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Hmm.. i guess most men don't see their wives as you see your husband. That's why married women feel so insecure about their husbands porn use. I guess that's why a man would feel insecure about an oversized dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:14 AM
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It's a broad question. If you are asking what women find attractive, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:11 AM
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That's like a married man watching porn of women same age, same weight, as his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:08 AM
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I'm young, innocent, and not damaged. What's wrong with me trying to figure you out? Most of the game is written to get 9s and 10s, experienced seductive women. Most women(especially 19-20 year olds, but also some married women with low experience) are like deer in headlights if I tease them too much. They take everything literally. Daddy issues, insecurity, whatever. I took it as bait when she leaned toward me several times, inches from my face. Always assume attraction. If she is being a tease…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/26 01:32 PM
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, I initiated some sexual touch to what she responded “I thought you were just trying to have a nice moment with me.” It was not a rejection, it was a minor shit test, she was already horny I said I was just going to go down on you, I wasn’t even horny”…. Wtf. Ngl man, you bombed it pretty hard No real idea yet why that was, but like I said, I have been practicing more intimate moments without the expectation of sex.... Blah blah blah, she was already horny and you blueballed her last time. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/26 01:21 PM
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Depends on if you can prove that it does cause reputation damage. Then you will pay for defamation (given that you are lying)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:04 AM
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Due process rights was not about speaking up It was feminists Stopping cross examination in college campuses Stopping men from having lawyers present during the hearing Having vague rules about how investigation is conducted and definition of sexual assault or r@pe and having arbitrary rules for it. (Thankfully supreme court refused to take up appeal of the circuit courts decision that colleges have to provide due process to men in college campuses or they will be liable for wrongful action, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:26 AM
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She can talk, but when she starts to take names or imply guilt to a specific person, then she definitely need evidence. If i say I was r@ped, then it's justified If i say, u/fiftypoundpuppy r@ped me, then you will have reputational damage. So i better have some basis for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:22 AM
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Women speaking out about what happened to them without naming the accused? Yes Women being able to make claims without evidence? No Due process rights being taken away from men? No Stopping cross examination of accuser because "it might tramatize her" ? No Taking away right of man to have a lawyer present in college campus hearings? No Making it almost impossible for man to sue for defamation under false accusations? No Saying you don't need due process in court of public opinion but demonizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:09 AM
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You push without passing shit tests, you will turn soft no into hard no. You don't have good game or good frame. There are no shortcuts. Don't fall for simplistic advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/26 04:17 AM
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Inexperienced chicks just don't handle being overgamed well. Their brains can't handle the emotional stimulation so their brain short circuit and they take everything literally. They freak out. Close her or she will ghost you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/26 04:11 AM
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A whole load of nothing What did you do last week, what do you want to do next week. What are your goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/26 02:16 AM
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Not paying taxes will land you in jail. Cheating is not a criminal offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:05 AM
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Marriage is a social construct. It only has power if you believe in it. You are not stopping her from moving on. You are fucking other women. She is not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:00 AM
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I don't like this way of thinking. It's wife's centric. You should say, if your wife doesn't wanna fuck you then go to other women. If no good quality woman wanna fuck you, go to the gym. Wife is irrelevant. She is gonna get old and fat. There will always be hotter younger kinder woman than her. Obsession with a wife is not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:56 AM
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Irrational self confidence and outcome independence. That's how you win the game
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 04:41 PM
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I did a little smack with my dick on her thigh and squeezed her ass with "too bad". Good initiation. Bold, borderline regarded. She laughs and asks: "What's that thing with that ass. You seen some new porn?" (I don't watch porn and she knows that). Duh!!! It's a shit test. Of course she was gonna shit test. You came on too hard on her. She was not gonna open her legs just like that. Pass the shit test and the game begins. I answer yes, go to dress myself up and come back as I planned to read on …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 02:09 PM
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I don't know what it was but it was a sentiment of I simply prefer my peace over engaging in BS, yet feeling grounded by every step we took as we walked back home. That's called frame. When your internal compass guide your behaviour, not the stimulus from outside. Seems I thought being "selfish" and a "jerk" would do the opposite but slowly I am feeling better about my true real self and sex is coming back. Are you being selfish and jerk? You are not mean to her. You are just holding frame and n…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 01:53 PM
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I tried to fuck but she gave me the “later if i have time after I get ready”. Shit test, she was horny. That's why she came to your bed in a robe. I said, your naked, make time now. No. I guess you passed in a way. But if you made it more fun, you could have closed her then and there. Didn’t happen, but then she initiated in the evening. Well she was horny and I assume you didn't act buthurt when she said no. I assume you decided to write about this because you wanted to understand what happened…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 01:47 PM
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If you are not UTTERLY exhausted by the end of the day, you are living hard enough. Talk to a therapist, depression manifests in many ways. Your OYS is so emotionally blunted. Your insomnia is psychological. re-enforced bad behavior this week. Didn't address something when it was a comfort test brought to me with vulnerability and I only moved on it when I got an earful a day later Comfort tests are hardest because it's difficult for us to accept that we are actually worth being comfort tested. …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 01:39 PM
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I looked through your past OYS. Just keep what i said in back of your mind. When you are ready, it will make sense to you. Until then, enjoy fucking anything that moves. It's a life well lived.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 07:36 PM
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Am I the only one who can tell that you just want a good loving relationship and are just running away and drowning yourself in plates, sex and self improvement to avoid being vulnerable about what you actually want? Gatling to all the chicks whose numbers I got lately, or where the conversation got stalled. But eventually brushed it off; even if I'll have zero plates in rotation, I'll be fine Are you fine? When you lost your distractions, it made you feel shitty didn't it? I have half of the si…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 04:43 AM
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Even came up to me with a very serious talk saying she does not know where we are going or what I want or if I want the same things as her. Dread, shitty comfort test. Truthfully, she is in the right for this and I can sense her slowly distancing herself or kind of knowing this could end. I am thinking a lot of what I want out of life. What am I here for. I've learned if this is not set, everything else slowly rots. No? Certainty is boring. Change is the law of the nature. You don't have to be a…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 04:33 AM
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off-loaded the more she complained and said she was overwhelmed. Shit test, she was horny. Your wife's bitchiness is most likely sexual frustration because she is not being railed. You are being more socially dominant, and it's tingling her brain. Pass her shit tests, game her and fuck her good, she will mellow out.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 04:22 AM
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Expected cards from kids, attention from wife, sex. Got none of it initially and reacted by being butthurt and snappy with the kids. Don't make the mistake of seeing covert contracts as something to avoid. Because there is always a genuine desire underneath those contracts. So acting needy or butthurt is wrong, because these are unspoken expectations. But expectations and desires are themselves not automatically wrong. There are men who get all the sex and birthday cards without being jacked or …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 04:09 AM
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