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OYS #43 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 225lbs, BP 135lbs, ROW 135lbs Health I'm in a good health, fully functioning and lifting. No issue in this area. I have my daily routine set. Wealth The interview with the other company didn't go through. Not a problem. It doesn't change anything. I continue digging for opportunities. My bank account is in a better shape than last year. I'm still grinding to get me to th…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 06:17 PM
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OYS #42 Temporary and abundant Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 225lbs, BP 135lbs, ROW 135lbs Health My SQ is in a better form now. My grip on DL is a lot more firm with lifting gloves. Overall health is in a good state. Wealth Main current job is going steady. I will be completing one big project. Everything is looking in the place. Meanwhile, I'm keeping my options open. I had an interview for another company…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 03:04 PM
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OYS #41 Back to basics Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 185lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 240lbs, BP 130lbs, ROW 130lbs Health I deloaded my SQ and worked on the depth. No health issue in general. Wealth It's been a month since I did weekly travel to work. Two days away from home once a week. So far it's been working out well. This week I looked for opportunity to save cost. Last week, a colleague shared his weekend activity. It made me questio…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 05:06 PM
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You are right I'm thinking with my dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 01:19 PM
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OYS #40 Sister enters the ring Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 205lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 230lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs Health This week, I managed to keep my gym schedule. 3x a week. Wealth My side contract job comes to an end this week. The client decided not to extend the contract. I'm evaluating what could have I done better. The investor of another client contacted me again expressing their interest in hiring. This has been going o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 12:32 PM
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Yes. I have accepted it was my fault for not being attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 12:04 AM
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You are right I'm getting off on watching her squirm.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 10:09 AM
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OYS #39 Weirdness continue Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 205lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 230lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs Health No health issue. I didn't do a good job keeping my gym schedule. I went only one day out of the three. I managed to do pushups as a replacement. I wasn't prepared for the schedule intrusion last week. Wealth Last week I went to the work city for a couple of days. It will be a regular weekly trip for my main job. It …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 01:09 AM
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I probably didn't think too much about legal. Let's say the worst scenario is that I was deemed as an irresponsible dad and I have to loose my wife, kid and half of my money. I'm completely fine with it because I know I can get back on my feet.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/22 06:07 PM
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you should always push for more <- I misinterpreted this as forcing it. It should be more like testing the fence. my wife likes to be treated like a slut <- maybe awalt, because my wife does too.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/22 05:59 PM
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Everyday, I have to remind myself that I'm taking ownership of my own life. It feels unnatural. But what is natural really?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/22 12:11 AM
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I don't know. I just work here.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/22 12:00 AM
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OYS #38 Weird Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 205lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 230lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs Health Lift is increasing. Adding carbs portion the day before lift seemed to be useful. I feel I have more energy when lifting. Last DL failed at 235lbs. It slipped through my hands halfway through the set. Wealth Juggling between the two jobs continue. I almost have no time for doing anything else. The money is flowing in. I'm pretty…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 01:26 AM
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OYS #37 No sex no attention Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 146lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 195lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 225lbs, BP 105lbs, ROW 105lbs Health Steady increase on my lift. I have been eating out most of the days this week, but they're all about the same diet. No sugar, no grain, high protein, good carbs and fat. Wealth My side hustle turned into a full time job. I still keep my main job. I have to juggle between two jobs, but I make twice as much now. I ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/22 05:06 PM
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You're right I blew it for not gaining weight and increasing my lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:58 PM
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Your lengthy comment is a major validation shot for me. You're right I suffered from my own negative thoughts. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:56 PM
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Good point. I'm back on reading the Game.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:54 PM
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You're right I should be breaking out from my own limited thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:52 PM
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A plate is 135lbs, right? If I maintain 5lbs per week, I can hit that in the next 7 weeks. About wife, right now I can be honest to myself that I want a wife who provides regular sex. It's not happening yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:51 PM
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OYS #36 field trip Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 145lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 180lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL 205lbs, BP 100lbs, ROW 100lbs Health My lift felt harder this week. I might have reached my limit. I'll start with a slower increase. My diet remained controlled. I have been eating out over the weekend. No sugary dessert. Wealth I'm on to my third side gig. I did a demo in front of the client yesterday. He seemed to like it. It's not a win until he sign the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 12:38 PM
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I'm in a lot of shit that's why. Why are you asking?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 09:40 PM
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It's not a bad habit then. It's a smart decision. You know closing more deals doesn't get you in a better place.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 06:51 PM
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You're 23, squat twice your weight and plate a 10. Why are you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 05:28 PM
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Not bother following up. Don't you worry you are not having enough money when things went south? Is your lead guaranteed to turn into business? What's your fear?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 02:43 PM
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Bro, did you lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/22 02:37 PM
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That's a good point. I might have rewarding her bad behavior all this time, when I should have gone no sex no attention. I'll give it a try.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/22 01:53 PM
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The escorts? They're pros. They know how to please me. It's their job after all. I hooked up with 3 escorts over the span of a month. A 5, a 7 and an 8. All worth the cost. I didn't go for the 9s or 10s because they're high in demands. They can be picky and set ridiculous rules. Even in prostitution, the law of economics is still in play. I found their contacts from online search. What all did I do? I came, chat a bit, gave the money, take a shower and then fuck. I didn't even bother to warm the…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/22 01:47 PM
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Right. I stopped myself in reaction to her. I'm trying to make sure she wouldn't do anything stupid while I'm leaving, like burning the house down. She locked herself in the bedroom is a win for me. Maybe I'm sending the wrong message.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 12:17 PM
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What other detail should I go into?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 12:10 PM
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For me, the hardest part is unlearning the moral value. There's a conflict between "sex for money is sinful" and "exchanging sex to resources is natural". The cool thing is now I can see myself as an unfaithful husband. I'm free from my own script.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 12:09 PM
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OYS #35 is this the ramboville? Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 145lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL 195lbs, BP 95lbs, ROW 95lbs It's been 3 months since my last OYS. A lot had happened. My dad passed away. I suddenly realized I'm on my own now. Health After over a year on OYS, I have developed my health routine, SL5x5 3 days a week, no sugar, no grain, no seed based oils. I'm still 15lbs away from my weight goal 160lbs. I'm in a good health over…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 12:55 PM
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OYS #35 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 142lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 175lbs, BP 95lbs, ROW 95lbs Health I gained another 1lbs. Routine SL5x5. OHP is improving at 95lbs this week. SQ hits peak at 175lbs. The rest are incrementing per the program. I feel I'm in a good health. Wealth Work is in flowing state. I don't see any difficulties. It pays well. The next question I think is how can I improve my income. Tomorrow I will be leaving to th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 02:04 AM
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You are right I wrote too many she and fluff.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/21 11:27 AM
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It sounds like I deserve a rule 9 again.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:19 AM
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OYS #34 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 142lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 165lbs, OHP 85lbs, DL 165lbs, BP 90lbs, ROW 90lbs Health I gained another 1lbs. Routine SL5x5. OHP remains at 85lbs. SQ is getting harder at 165lbs. The rest are incrementing per the program. I feel I'm in a good health. Wealth Second week in the job, I made friends with several coworkers, male and female. I think I have a good understanding about the company better by now. This is a small co…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 10:58 PM
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OYS #33 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 141lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 150lbs, OHP 85lbs, DL 145lbs, BP 85lbs, ROW 85lbs Health Routine SL5x5 increment this week. Again, OHP failed on the last set. This probably is the peak. I gained 1lb this week. Good progress. Wealth My new job is keeping me busy. I decided to swing the hardest I can. I know how to do this job. I have done it before. It's only been a week but I have make myself known already. Interviews for o…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 03:27 AM
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Your laugh is contagious. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 03:51 PM
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The covert contract is that I was hoping she behave nicely. I would not blow up if I have not set expectation of her. Maybe I overthink it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 03:50 PM
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You are right the commute option becomes whatever works best for her. I soften my stance. I was an idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 12:41 PM
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Maybe you are right, but I don't know what she thinks deep down. I know she kicked me. I know she decided to join the trip. I know I have to make a living at least for myself. These facts are enough for me to not caved in.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 12:21 AM
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You are right I dropped the ball before. I missed on my promises and became unreliable. And what makes it worse is that I blamed her for it. I was wrong. Edit: adding more context. I was presented with a big opportunity many years ago. The biggest ever occurred in my life. I asked her what she thinks. She said she didn't like it. So I declined the opportunity. I blamed her since.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 12:14 AM
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You are right I need to manage my emotions. I think it has to do with covert contracts. The old me still remains. I guess this proves that the change is gradual.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 07:09 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 07:02 PM
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I don't think you need a PT. Maybe just STFU without trying to understand it. Zip it. Let her finish her sentence.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 12:31 PM
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What's your diet look like? Maybe change the priority order to: (1) Eat well (2) Train (3) Work around the house (4) Initiate
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 12:25 PM
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Skipping leg days.. maybe fix that first?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/21 12:23 PM
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OYS #32 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 140lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 135lbs, OHP 85lbs, DL 135lbs, BP 75lbs, ROW 75lbs Health Routine SL5x5 increment this week. OHP failed on the last set. I will redo with the same weight on the next session. I missed two lunches and one dinner last week. I didn't gain. Somehow I started that bad habit ignoring myself to please others. This needs to stop. Wealth This week I started with the new job. I like the job. It's someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 11:23 PM
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It sounds like I didn't communicate enough. As a context, I don't think we're teammates right now. And it is my fault for letting her walk all over me for so long. Go Bucs!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 05:39 PM
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I agree I have to maintain composure and act like a man in the discussion instead of a gung ho with dynamite.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 05:34 PM
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You're right I have been a useless POS. This is about me getting back on my feet. I'm the only bread winner. I think it only makes sense to make plans and weigh my options before talking to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 11:21 AM
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ASAP
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 08:38 PM
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I agree it's a sound advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 08:38 PM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 08:36 PM
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You're right this could blow up in my face and legally cost me both my wife and kid. And the chance is high, given last week she still saw me as a family disgrace. Fair warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 03:46 PM
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You are right I have to go into the conversation knowing what I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:58 AM
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You are right the plan is for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:57 AM
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Thank you! I want to be clear with myself before taking any passengers on this trip.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:56 AM
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You are right I can't be afraid.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:54 AM
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Why is it odd?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:54 AM
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Indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:52 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:52 AM
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OYS #31 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 140lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 120lbs, OHP 75lbs, DL 115lbs, BP 70lbs, ROW 70lbs Health Routine SL5x5 increment this week. Digestive system is nominal. I packed another 2lbs. All is good in this department. Wealth Job hunting is the highlight of this week. I got an offer. I closed the deal. What has changed from previous week? Two things. I tried to maintain a better composure in front of the camera. And I tried to avoid n…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 12:15 PM
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I agree on finding some small wins. I need to also work on my negative tone.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 06:04 PM
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Maybe you are right I should not come back here if I don't have at least a $10/hr job.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 12:50 AM
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Maybe you are right I could have fogged it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 12:49 AM
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You are right nothing shameful about $10 an hour job.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 12:47 AM
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You are right to not be phased by it. I clearly don't know what was she actually concerned with. I simply take it as a signal that I 'm unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 12:47 AM
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You are right my next week goal should be an improvement plan. I have been recorded my interviews and learned that I didn't project confidence. I have revised my goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 12:39 AM
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OYS #30 Stats: 42, wife 35, daughter 4, 5'6", 138lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 105lbs, OHP 70lbs, DL 110lbs, BP 60lbs, ROW 60lbs Health Lifting remains at 3 days per week schedule. I gained 2lbs this week. The diet schedule works. I'm keeping it. No more issue with my digestive system. Wealth Job hunting hasn't come to an end. I'm keeping at it. Getting interview is not a problem as everyone seems to be hiring today. But I can't close the deal yet. My days were spent mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 01:04 PM
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I decided to keep on pounding the doors. Maybe I changed my mind later and get a blue collar job.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 04:19 PM
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You are right. I should look more into areas where I can create values. Your last question makes me think hard. It is the very reason I give this sub a try.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 04:09 PM
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You are right. My ego killed a lot of opportunities.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 03:58 PM
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You are right. I have the right to change my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 03:42 PM
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Spot on. Thank you for the nudge!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 02:57 PM
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OYS #29 Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 4, 5'6", 136lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 90lbs, OHP 60lbs, DL 105lbs, BP 55lbs, ROW 55lbs Health I started gaining weight again. My diet seems to work. I might can increase my intake a bit. Lifting remains at 3 days per week schedule. Wealth Job hunting is ongoing. Two companies rejected. I feel butthurt about it, but it doesn't change the fact I need a job asap. Two other companies invited me for interview. I talked to my former bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 02:10 PM
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OYS #28 Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 4, 5'6", 135lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 75lbs, OHP 55lbs, DL 100lbs, BP 45lbs, ROW 45lbs Health Last week I had a follow up visit to the surgeon. He basically confirmed the procedures I went through this last two months cured my stomach problem. I can continue with my life normally. There's no dietary restriction. The incisions have also fully healed. I asked tons of questions while I was in his office. Aside from that I no longer …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 06:25 PM
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I don't know what the pie chart would look like. It seems like I wasted a lot of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 12:26 AM
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I agree with the priority order. Get healthy and then find work. I talked with the surgeon today. He went through everything for an hour. I feel that I learned a lot about the way my body works.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 12:23 AM
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You are right.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 11:28 AM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 11:28 AM
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OYS #27 Reset Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 4, 5'6", 135lbs Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 65lbs, OHP 45lbs, DL 95lbs My last OYS was from 4months ago. I was ruled 9. I feel like I'm giving up. Everytime I tried to fix one area in my life, another part is broken. Things are falling apart. The last two months was the peak of it. I got admitted to hospital twice for a gallbladder surgery. It's a low risk, but regardless I was mentally down. It's really hard to believe that I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 09:39 AM
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OYS #26 Breaking the silent treatment Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 4, 5'6", 150lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, BP 145lbs, ROW 145lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 215lbs The silent treatment was prolonged for a whole week. I think it was a chance for me to test an idea. What if I simply ignored her tantrum all together and do what I feel like doing? It turned out, by taking my focus away from her behavior, it lifted up a big burden. My brain felt more clear in thinki…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 02:41 AM
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You are right I should not take her seriously and engage.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 04:28 PM
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You are right. Best I can do right now is STFU and Lift. This is not the first time she hit me. I have been getting things thrown at me. From harmless plastic cup, diaper with piss, diaper with poop, to a ceramic plate. The last one cut my finger somewhat deep. The mark is still visible. Once, I engaged to prove I'm physically stronger. Now I see it's pretty much useless. I'm writing these down so I can forget about them.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 04:09 PM
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You are right. At least 4. Accepting this as a fact is not easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 04:51 AM
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OYS #25 Not feeling guilty Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 150lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, BP 145lbs, ROW 145lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 215lbs This week I worked on WISNIFG again. For the whole week I was pretty much declining her asks. I might have overdone it and turned myself into a selfish jerk. But, as the result I can reclaim my time. On one random morning she woke me up to take her out for errands. It's nothing urgent. Usually I would drag my f…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 08:30 PM
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I don't know. Maybe it's because I picked the wrong success metric. I used her happiness to measure my success. After all, I started this journey because I got shit from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 06:26 PM
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OYS #24 Restart again Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 150lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 175lbs, BP 145lbs, ROW 145lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 215lbs I'm back from rule #9. My last OYS showed that I'm living in her frame and I'm very much seeking for her validation. Maybe it's because I want to make this to work out. Did I take the two weeks off from OYS to contemplate? Not really. These past two weeks, I have been a total wimp. I agreed on whatever she wants. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 01:27 PM
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You are right. Lots of "she".
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 03:20 PM
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OYS #23 Restart Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 148lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 165lbs, BP 125lbs, ROW 125lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 215lbs The anger phase last week was a reminder that I haven't improved that much. Getting mad over a smirk is completely childish. It's being butt hurt. I should have known better. This week I did a restart on everything. After that door kicking drama, I'm getting silent treatment. Whenever I strike a conversation, she would go…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 03:04 PM
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Good catch! It stops me from hamstering further. I don't know any better.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/21 02:36 PM
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You are right. I'm like a 7 yo girl. Thank you for the links.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 06:56 PM
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Maybe it's the accumulation of being sex deprived and feeling disrespected. I probably need to make the list. I don't know for sure. All I know I was triggered. It makes me think this family wouldn't work if I continue down this path. It's hard not to think about my way or highway.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 12:35 PM
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What?! Also, answering your question last week, it wasn't initiation. It was covert contracts all along. But I guess you have figured it out, nostradamus.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 12:16 PM
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OYS #22 Losing my shit Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 148lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 155lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 215lbs What just happened: I came back from grocery to find her giving me an unwelcome look followed with a nag. I lose my shit and asked what's wrong. And then things went south from there, I couldn't resist. I'm not pleased with her behavior. When she locked herself in the bedroom, I kicked the door open. I feel satisfi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 12:53 AM
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OYS #21 Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 147lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 145lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 185lbs I gained back 2lbs this week, after recovering from a sudden bloated stomach last week. I reduced dairy product from my meals for the time being. This week I started to feel more comfortable with my SQ at 145lbs. I feel I can move up a bit next week. I deloaded my DL on last session. Somehow I was scared hurting my back again. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 01:14 PM
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I think you are right. I was doing it wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 10:26 PM
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OYS #20 A beautiful family moment Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 145lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 145lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs, OHP 95lbs, DL 205lbs I was down for the whole day yesterday. I got a bloated stomach. [Edit: I think through what I have consumed yesterday morning. My suspicious comes to ricotta cheese. I have been terrible with milk these past few years. But cheese usually is safe. Maybe not anymore.]. Not sure what had caused it. It coul…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 04:12 PM
2

Thank you for the pointer! I ordered the book just now.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/21 10:12 PM
2

You are right. It's WISNIFG 101, yet I think it's the largest hurdle.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 03:24 AM
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OYS #19 Comfortable but not out of the woods Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 150lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 145lbs, BP 130lbs, ROW 130lbs, OHP 85lbs, DL 185lbs I hit 150lbs this week. The heaviest I have ever been in my life. I reduced my carbs intake because it makes me sleepy during the day. My lift seems to near peak. It's getting harder recently. I went to the orthodontist getting my teeth x-rayed. After reviewing the options, I decided to postpo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 03:55 PM
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OYS #18 Sex exploration Stats: 42, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 149lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 135lbs, BP 115lbs, ROW 115lbs, OHP 80lbs, DL 175lbs This week I deloaded my SQ after the bar slips from my hand. My knees feel wobbly. I asked SL sub, they suggested leg exercises could help makes my knees stronger. The rest of the lifts are making a steady progress. This week I gained 2lbs. I'm getting close to my initial target 150lbs. In general our relationship…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:10 PM
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Adding this as a note to myself. What went wrong? I was high with the potential while ignoring the probability. I let my need to be right overriding the reality. It stemmed on my crave for validation. I'm still that chump who constantly seeking for validation after all.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/21 12:45 PM
3

It sounds like a beautiful surprise that I will experience if I keep on grinding. Thank you for the fair warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 10:33 PM
2

I don't understand. What do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 07:14 PM
3

You are right. This is a weak mental masturbation.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 05:11 PM
2

OYS #17 Back to square one Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 147lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 145lbs, BP 105lbs, ROW 105lbs, OHP 75lbs, DL 155lbs Gym is open. I went back with lifting the irons. I deloaded a bit to give some runway for adjustment, after a month of exercising with resistance bands. No sex, despite the initiations. I keep on trying to kiss, touch and tell her I want to have sex every day. All is met with rejection. I feel like I'm back to …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 01:12 PM
3

You are right. She's been making the decisions and she's not happy, because all she wanted is sitting in the passenger seat.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 06:43 PM
2

OYS #16 When money is not a problem Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 145lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 150lbs, BP 150lbs, ROW 150lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL 150lbs (resistance bands) Good news is coming from the gym. They're back open this week. I have made reservation for tomorrow. As I continue with improving my physical state, I have decided to get braces as my birthday gift. I have scheduled an exam appointment with a nearby orthodontist for next week. This w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 03:44 PM
1

Lucky guy! Old fuck like me failed so much in life that I have to get back to the training wheels.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/21 10:21 PM
3

You are right. I'm not an intelligent investor at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 12:43 AM
2

You are right. Clearly there is a stark difference between because I want it and because she wants it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 11:48 PM
4

Why did you stop on OYS #2?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 11:44 PM
3

Ooops. I rewrote it three times. If it deserves a rule 13, I'd be glad to take on the punishment. I keep it there to remind myself that I don't know how to fuck well.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 03:44 PM
5

Thank you! I consider myself warned. I have yet to see the Ramboville. I think you are right I might not even bother to take that trip at all. I don't know man. I'm still adjusting with this new skin.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 03:37 PM
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OYS #15 Money matters Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 145lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 150lbs, BP 140lbs, ROW 140lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL 150lbs (resistance bands) I gained almost 2lbs this week. It is within the 1-2lbs/week range target I set for myself. Exercise routine remained 3x per week. I'm a lot more confident with my physical appearance naked. I continued practicing to say no on occasions. I might have overdone it. I got another silent treatment for…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 01:01 PM
3

I subscribed to the hypergamy theory. I guess it only makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:27 AM
3

You are right. The dynamics slightly shifted but it can regress if I'm not careful. Your postings had inspired me to write my first OYS. I thank you for that!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:10 AM
3

Thank you for the eye opening ban a few OYS ago. 🙏
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 11:43 PM
3

If it weren't for the eggs thing, I wouldn't get to this phase. So, Thank you! Edit: Akon! Convict music! 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 02:19 PM
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I couldn't have done it without your continuous feedback. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 02:18 PM
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OYS #14 Dick in the pussy. Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 143lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 150lbs, BP 120lbs, ROW 120lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL 150lbs (resistance bands) Another lb this week. It's been a steady gain 1lb/week. Exercise 3x per week on SL program and abs routine. I'm sticking with the resistance bands until the gym back open in Feb. My dick finally found its way to the magical warm and wet pussy. But the journey is far from over. This week I exe…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 12:34 PM
3

You are right.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 03:48 PM
2

Awesome! I could use the time for doing other stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 01:39 PM
2

We used to have sex almost every day for about a year into our marriage before things started to stall. I rationalized that it must have to do with pregnancy and baby stuff. But, it doesn't add up when, on top of sexless, I'm getting even worse treatment as the days go by.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 01:35 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 10:36 PM
2

You are right. I'm a boring errand boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 10:35 PM
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OYS #13 Grabbed my balls and pointed my dick to the pussy. Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 142lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 140lbs, BP 110lbs, ROW 110lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL -lbs (resistance bands) I gained another lb this week. The gym is closed until Feb. So I stick with resistance bands. My exercise schedule remains 3x a week following SL program with abs routine daily. Last week, I was shitting myself with OYS when saying my relationship is getting bett…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 08:11 PM
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OYS #12 Breaking my fear of rejection Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 141lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 130lbs, BP 100lbs, ROW 100lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL -lbs (resistance bands) I gained 1lb this week after adding some carbs to my daily meal. I guess now I burned more calories than I was three months ago. Daily abs routine started to show the result. My belly looked less bloated. Job search is continuing. I passed last week interview and scheduled for a foll…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 12:03 PM
2

Not too many. It doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:41 PM
2

You are right. I'm failing the bare minimum requirements.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 10:41 AM
2

You did. I have to eat more. Last time I fucked, 3 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 05:49 PM
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OYS #11 Kissing is back Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 140lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 130lbs, BP 100lbs, ROW 100lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL -lbs (resistance bands) I had no weight gain this week. BW remained at 140lbs. Time to pump up my intake. Exercise remained 3x a week at home with resistance bands. Abs routine frequency is increased to daily. No good news from the job search yet. The small firm I was interviewing with declined. I made a rookie interview…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 04:26 PM
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It's gambling. Nothing to do with my knowledge. I was lucky. My bucket list sounds negative with no vision/mission. It maybe is a reflection of my current state. I don't know any better.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/20 11:18 AM
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He did not.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 01:23 AM
2

OYS #10 Barely empty bucket list Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 140lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP, The Game Lift: SQ 120lbs, BP 90lbs, ROW 90lbs, OHP 90lbs, DL -lbs (resistance bands) I was at the doctor's office yesterday for my general check up. I hit 140lbs on the scale. This is a great achievement! I was 127lbs when I started this journey. I still want 10lbs more, but let me savor this moment. Doctor said all is normal other than my sodium level that is slightly belo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 01:16 PM
3

Thank you for the encouragement. Attention makes me nervous.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 10:42 PM
2

Great! Now I'm drawing people attention. Maybe I should take a pause and relearn the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 07:59 PM
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OYS #9 Fear of rejection and self awareness Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 139lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP Lift: SQ 100lbs, BP 85lbs, ROW 85lbs, OHP 85lbs, DL 185lbs I gained another pound last week. I'm getting close to crossing the 140lbs mark. My lift is steady progressing in a more proper form. I have an appointment with the doctor next week for general check up. The blood test came everything is in the healthy range. I can't recall when was the last time I had blo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 04:38 PM
2

I can't see any reason other than that I'm not attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 07:35 PM
1

I agree with your (1) and (2).
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 07:29 PM
1

80lbs squat. The video was 120lbs before I restart.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 07:27 PM
2

Right. Maybe not having any reaction is better than busting an incongruent laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 07:20 PM
2

No. She's thin. Maybe a bit underweight.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:10 PM
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I'm retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:01 PM
2

OYS #8 Is this the flow? Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 138lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP Lift: SQ 80lbs, BP 75lbs, ROW 75lbs, OHP 80lbs, DL 175lbs This will be a short OYS because I feel that everything is in motion. I gained two more pounds this week. My gym schedule is consistent. I'm mentally getting more and more centric nowadays. When I got annoyed on something, I'd do a quick check whether it is my problem. Most often is not. My job search is ongoing. I had two fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 12:18 PM
2

OYS #7 Not following through kills the attraction Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 136lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP Lift: SQ 65lbs, BP 65lbs, ROW 65lbs, OHP 75lbs, DL 155lbs Physical - I'm on track with 1-2lbs per week gain. I deloaded my lift to fix my form based on the constructive feedback from SL sub. Mental - Shifting the mindset is proven to be the hardest part of this journey. Life was a lot more comfortable compared to a couple months back. I didn't get as many na…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 02:52 PM
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This is so true. I can concentrate on getting a lot more things done whenever I got a silent treatment.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 11:16 PM
2

You are right. Now that I think about it. It actually is sad. I'm still living in my wife's frame. I have a long way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 12:12 PM
3

OYS #6 - When I Play Golf, I Feel Guilty Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 135lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP Lift: SQ 115lbs, BP 100lbs, ROW 100lbs, OHP 75lbs, DL 145lbs Physical - I'm in my routine now. Gym 3x per week. Adding abs on top of SL5x5. Sleep 8 hours every night. Daily nutrition intake protein 150g, and fat. A portion of carbs on exercise day. This works well so far. I gained 1lb this week. I'm on track to gain 15lbs more in 3-4months. Mental - I have been think…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 03:16 AM
2

You are right. I got angry and it doesn't help at all. Being assertive is new to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 11:40 PM
2

You are right. I haven't mastered the basics from the two books. I will stick with STFU and lift for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:57 PM
2

Maybe. It doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:39 PM
1

Fuck, no! A flair on my fifth OYS? I feel loved. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:24 PM
2

Thank you for the gentle reminder. Clearly, it's my own fault. There's no point in shifting the blame to others. I'm beyond hopeless.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 06:12 PM
3

OYS #5 - Be responsible of my own act Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 134.6lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP (reread the last two) Lift: SQ 105lbs, BP 95lbs, ROW 95lbs, OHP 70lbs, DL 120lbs Physical - I feel that my belly is flattened since I cut my carbs. Last week I only take a half cup of oatmeal on the gym day. It seems to work better. I can stave off the crave by getting carbs every other day. Last Tuesday, I was vomiting after trying to chug down 1lb of steak + 1lb of …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 02:46 PM
1

A good one. That man said STFU and lift.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 05:54 PM
1

Physically unfit, jobless, spineless, no personality. I'm guilty of most if not all the Red in the MAP. The hardest part is being honest with myself. Prior to my marriage, I was socially active. Hanging out with friends, dropping pants, and feeling confident with who I am. I was 20lbs bulkier. I even cut my T shirt sleeves to show off my little cut. Pretty much careless. All those days are gone. I missed those days, but I had it enough. I want a family now. A big and happy family. From my tinted…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 02:31 PM
1

On the surface is sexless marriage. I probably wasn't quite clear with my OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 01:44 PM
1

OYS #4 - Phase one Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 134lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, MMSLP Lift: SQ 120lbs, BP 105lbs, ROW 100lbs, OHP 70lbs, DL 110lbs Physical - I have been doing good at keeping my gym schedule. 3x mornings per week. I got 8 hours of sleep every night now. I feel I have enough energy to go through 16 hours day. I didn't even need coffee. As a bonus, my morning wood is back. Something is improving. This might be it. The routine I should have had since a long t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:38 PM
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I gained another 3lbs this week. I'm cutting down my carbs intake now to hit 1-2lbs range.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 05:20 PM
1

OYS #3 - I'm going to the gym Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 133lbs, 15%-16% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP Lift: SQ 110bs, BP 100lbs, ROW 95lbs Reflection from last OYS - My life's full of covert contracts. I need to identify and eliminate them. Also, my reading gave me the understanding but not the correct mindset yet. Maybe it's because I remain defensive about the correct way to live. Physical - I finally made the call to go to the gym. I was worry that my wife would scorch me if I …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 02:07 PM
1

I agree. These are covert contracts all over the place. I need to start identify and eliminate. What worst that will happen? I don't know, but I chickened out.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 01:09 PM
1

OYS #2 - I fix the tub, where's my sex Stats: 41, wife 34, daughter 3, 5'6", 130lbs, 15% (Navy) Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP Lift: SQ 90lbs, BP 80lbs, ROW 80lbs, OHP 60lbs, DL 80lbs (resistance bands) Reflection from last OYS - I was defensive. My ego stroked. I tried to be correct on my first OYS, but I tripped and fell face forward. The way I handle comments were childish. It's a "I'm right, you're wrong" type of response. Now I started to question myself "Is this how I communicate with my wife a…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 01:00 PM
1

I'm taking your advice to start with MAP. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 01:50 AM
-1

Yes. I'm making the choice to work on myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 09:21 PM
1

I stand corrected. It wasn't a rambo act. It's a pathetic effort to rape. You call it as it is. This is a cohabitation with a woman who despises me. Why stay in the "marriage"? I'm afraid of divorce. I plan to stay here, to fix the man, although fixing the marriage is not guaranteed.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 11:05 PM
-2

"I don't actually care about you" Lol. Did I hit your ego? Ok, seriously, I fucked up because I'm a nice guy (weasel). I can spend my time finding a job while trying to act nice hiding my flaws. I can also spend my time recovering from the nice guy syndrome first. I choose the later. Tell me how is that hamstering.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:31 PM
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This is my OYS #1. I don't know how my rationalizing will be working out yet. I have studied my materials. I set my goals with priority. Lifting -> reading -> mental -> money/sex/car. I might make tons of progress or not by the next OYS. I don't know yet. Doing multiple different things at the same time rarely ends well. I'll do this one thing at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:05 PM
-1

At the beginning, I thought so too. Getting a job should be my #1. But then, after looking at all other departments, they are all match up with what Dr. Glover wrote. I will end up in the same shit if I didn't get my mental model in a proper order first. So, that makes it a higher priority than getting a job.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 07:18 PM
1

You hit my ego. I was about to blast out pointing that you don't understand. Line by line. It took me the whole afternoon to calm myself down. I decided to take a different approach. I'll take your questions as rethorics. A pep talk. I don't need to prove anything. I have set my goals by priority. I'll share my progress or regress in my next OYS. It could be next week, it could be next month. Don't hold your breath.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 07:04 PM
2

OYS #1 - Uh oh here we go Stats: 41, 127lbs, 5'6", BF 15% (Navy), wife 34, daughter 3 Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG (reading) Lifts: SQ 100lbs, BP 100lbs, ROW 100lbs (resistance bands) Why am I here? I'm not getting the sex I want. Heck, my entire life fucked up. I'm trying to figure it out. Physical - I have been neglecting my body for years. I'm a skinny guy and losing weight a lot. I was 146lbs with some muscle. I worked with a PT weekly. That was almost 10 years ago, before I met with my wife. I was …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 01:08 PM
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