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Something tells me that her definition of "pedophilic tendencies" is extremely broad. Can we just accept that some 16 year olds look like 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:16 PM
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I was talking about heterosexual men and women, which is most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:08 PM
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Pure platonic friendships between single men and single women don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:47 AM
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That seems like quite the reach, but that's expected from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:30 AM
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So you just want to fuck women and don't even be friends with them 😧!? Y'know what you are? A misogynist monster. How dare you not want to be seen as a therapist robot companion that's not worthy of sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:11 AM
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What would you rate reviewbrah?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:41 AM
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That seem like basic things in any relationship. Really barebones compared to spending 30k dollars on a shitty shiny rock she wants to tout with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:47 AM
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I would with zero hesitation. Either I make his life hell on earth or normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:44 AM
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Imagine spending so much on a woman with the sole purpose of her bragging. There really is no unconditional love for men, apart from mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:33 AM
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Yes, I did for my last date like an idiot. Fumbled that so damn hard, although maybe she was always uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:51 PM
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Q4A: You're pregnant (or your wife is) and you live in the future. The doctor tells you with 99% accuracy that your son will be 5"2 as his final adult height. But there is hope: there is a reliable and safe pill that makes your son grow to 6"2. The pill costs 2 million USD and is not covered by insurance. There are several banks offering loans for this pill. It would financially cripple you for the forseeable future. Do you get your son the pill or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:46 PM
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60% of young men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:25 PM
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I'm not from the US so tips are a tad lower. I can see how it can be super lucrative over there though. It's insane that people in the Americans tip so much. I understand that servers need to make a living, but it's crazy that a job that a high school drop-out could do can make 70 to 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:28 PM
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What's the best part-time job to know more young people apart from a supermarket?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:00 PM
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You'll get through it. Can always get something at a smaller investment bank. You want to be in M&A?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:52 PM
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I mean, that's another extreme. Many of them can't even get a date once a month after swiping non stop (like me) and taking the best possible pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:51 PM
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What do you want them to change their personality to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:50 PM
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Why do you dislike programming? I'm studying business and been doing programming on the side and sorta like it. Obviously I'm not as far as you though. Wish I could get a job in it but my maths is too bad for computer science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:48 PM
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If you're a virgin over the age if 25, take the surrogate mother pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:05 AM
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The fat guy who doesn't improve because he'd only be doing it for women will still be doing worse than the athletic guy who mainly trains to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:12 PM
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60% of young men are ugly, pal. What makes ya' think you're in the top 40%? If not, get in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:39 PM
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I almost always go for "Hey, how are you?" Sometimes I want to be cheesy/funny but in my region it's highly possibly that she's the girlfriend of a former friend which will such a line uber cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:25 PM
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Women be like "Stop trying so hard to impress women!" and then take 30 minutes to 1 hour out of their day to put put on make-up and do their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:25 AM
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Women don't starfish when they find you attractive, which is the case if you're top 20%. All else means nothing. This does make me wonder, how many babies are born because of starfish sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:16 AM
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I hope that virtual reality glasses will come soon that automatically removes make up from women. You wear that shit and see them for the mid humans they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:39 PM
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That overlap is much bigger than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:21 PM
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So your argument is that the top 20% is different for each women. Some women may be totally attracted to recessed jawline 5"3 Indian janitors and would be turned off by tall Chris Hemsworth? Do you even acknowledge that looks are mostly objective? Because if no, there's nothing I could tell you that could possibly change your belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:00 PM
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Exactly. You get productive and everything just flows naturally. Sort of like drugs, isn't it? Wish there was a way to do that for lectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:51 PM
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I'd say before age 10. I had zero social anxiety and mostly treated girls the same as boys. Played with them and had many girl friends who I'd invite home and did innocent stuff with. After around age 11 I began to have a crush on a girl in my class. I didn't feel any sexual desire to her because I didn't even go through puberty yet. I was attracted to her personality and just wanted to be with them. Hard to explain, I think it's how some women feel attraction to men they don't have any sexual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:48 PM
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I joke swiped right on a fat tall girl with an unfortunate face I knew for 2 months from a student club. She was pretty annoying most of the time and confessed she liked a guy from the club so there was zero romance between us. Asked me whether I swiped seriously on her and I said nah, to which she said "same". She then asked me whether I fancy having a drink with her and a friend of her and I just ghosted her. Couldn't be assed. She bugged me off so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:39 PM
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Been working on my website while listening to 80s pop music. Good evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:30 PM
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Hurt my arm when I did a blood withdrawal so I couldn't do push ups, dumbbells or planking. Now doing a 10 min jog daily again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:28 PM
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This is why virgin men need to date virgin women and why it'll be hard after around age 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:25 PM
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And you don't think that those specific men are mostly the same kind of men who are within the top 20 percentile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:23 PM
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And if women don't find most women attractive, it can't be possible for most woman in a relationship to find their male partners sexually attractive. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:07 PM
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That's because so many women say they don't find most men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:42 PM
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For me, I realized that being needy makes women dislike you even more. It's best to not care as much, as shown by your case where you lost attraction to him. Women don't want emotional men. You could tell him that he was too needy too early and that you can't handle the trauma. He'll get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:52 PM
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Used to be a guy like that. You can tell him but he'll probably try to tell you that he'll change and ask you to try again. I'd just unmatch tbh. If you want to help him out in the long run you can tell him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:27 PM
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Nah paying for dinner is the ultimate simp behavior. Shows you have zero respect for yourself and want to appease to the other person. I understand doing it when you're together or something. Not for any first or second dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:45 AM
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When you do more reseach into this, you'll realize it's everywhere. Even within animals. Male lions and kangaroos brutally fight each other to death and the winner fucks the female. In chimp societies, each male has a social rank which decides how much food they get as well as who gets the best sleeping positions. Meanwhile female chimps will always be taken care of and have much less competition between eachother. Male bees work their asses off as cannon fodder, female bees are queens and relax…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:39 AM
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Why do you think we care about this? Thanks for giving us free money, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:15 AM
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Marriage is a legal contract where you promise to stay faithful. By cheating you're breaking the terms of the contract. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:49 PM
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Have you also lost your bodily autonomy if you get arrested after voluntarily trespassing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:34 PM
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What region?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:23 PM
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Myanna Buring is so hot in the witcher. She is the most attractive 40 year old I can think of. She looks better in the series than in pics though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:07 PM
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She has a boyfriend bro 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:11 PM
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https://twitter.com/anammostarac/status/1685289925162496000?s=20 The reality of what becoming rich will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:51 PM
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In capitalism, a few people solve most problems right now anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:34 PM
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Gene editing will improve humanity so much. It'll solve the climate crisis because you just plant down trees that can absorb in a fuck ton of CO2. Also, assuming it's safe and advanced, short men will not exist anymore unless it's voluntarily done by the parents. You can even create high IQ kids which means that even more inventions will be done that advance humanity. Also you can get rid of all genetic disorders. The future is looking bright. I suppose the downside is that everyone will resembl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:03 PM
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Holy shit I went to IKEA to buy some stuff and it was another brutal experience. In every couple that was either late 20s or early 30s, the guy was atleast 6". Most were around 6"1 or 6"2. The only "short" men in relationships were ethnic. What a joyous future awaits for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:44 PM
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If he's not hot, I don't even want to know what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:17 AM
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Thanks bro. And will do; no more relaxing. Let's see how it'll pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:56 PM
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Switched from law to business. Not from the US so we do bachelors here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:49 PM
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Started uni in 2020 and haven't made any friends since the start because I got royally fucked by corona. Lost all friends from high school. Hoped it would've all changed when corona and the lockdowns would go away but I never made any more friends and it was too late eventually. People aren't looking for friends after three years. Got depressed (the real depressed, not the WEEHEEE I'M SAD FOR 1 DAY) after 3 years of pure isolation during what should've been my "prime years". Decided to make a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:46 PM
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My entire mental well being rests on the incoming college year. Please, god, help me out this once and make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:12 PM
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Your age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:06 PM
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What if it's a zoom call? The men would go over each picture and give you a ranking of each pic at the end of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:50 PM
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What if the people who reviewed your pictures were men? Assume they're experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:46 PM
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It wouldn't be a dating app. Just a website where you can submit your pictures to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:43 PM
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Q4-fellow-men who use dating apps: Would you pay for a one-time service where two women select the best pictures for your dating profile? Assume you can send in max 30 pictures. They rank them all based on what they think would get the most right swipes. Pictures that are considered too bad will not be ranked with an explanation why the picture is bad. Would you be more inclined to use the service if there is an add-on to get recommendations on ways to looksmax and improve your photos? If you wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:36 PM
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Exactly why I loved r/braincels. Most posts that were extreme/radical were removed. I can't think of any other subreddit that made me laugh so hard. Shame they banned it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:09 PM
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Literally a fictional character from a show. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:07 PM
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I'd wear a half-sunglass from the Kingsman. Looks cool as fuck: https://id.pinterest.com/pin/561964859748859405/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:03 PM
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Mostly to know whether they prefer tall guys or not and then filter myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:37 PM
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Consider getting Kybella or Cryoskin. You need to lower your facial fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:33 PM
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Holy shit that's actually terrible. Why do people need to harass others. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:22 PM
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Wayy too sharp features. She looks like a man with long hair and lipstick in that pic. I'm a simp for women with soft features like Selena Gomez. Sharp jawlines are for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:17 PM
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Is the height on Tinder with or without shoes? Might as well do with shoes to get that 180 cm mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:58 PM
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Why are so many women in love with old men when they're teenagers? My mum loved Elvis and John Travolta when she was in her teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:55 PM
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What makes him think he'll be better than Dalton Gomez?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:35 PM
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Many respond well to it. I don't ask it out of the blue if that's what you're thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:20 PM
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Ask for their type? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:04 PM
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Read the sentence before that you sneakily left away in your quote: It’s probably a pretty good proxy for virginity, but it will underestimate it some. In the entire article he doesn't cast any other doubt either. ​ Also, 62% of Harvard freshmen are virgins when the question was properly asked. https://features.thecrimson.com/2020/freshman-survey/lifestyle-narrative/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:42 AM
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6 out of 10 young men are single 50.52% of men between 18-20 are virgins But remember, it's all in your head. Just touch grass bro. I constantly see beta-bucked guys with girlfriends!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:36 AM
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Well, that was definitely the case in my school. My big friend group of nerds barring one all finished high school as virgins. Do you see it when you're teaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:29 AM
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Tip for men who are on dating apps: if a girl doesn't have much relationship experience and says she "doesn't have a type", don't waste your time and simply unmatch. If she doesn't know her own type, there's a high chance you won't be it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:26 AM
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Would you date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:25 AM
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Revenge of the sith is legendary. It's the best one alone just for that duel. Such good memories from my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:24 AM
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Holy shit women are actually saying this guy is average or below average. And women here still have the fucking gall to doubt the "women only find 20% of men attractive" research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:21 AM
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Source? Also, I like "Do You Believe In Love"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:53 AM
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They speak from a very privileged situation. Many are ugly and below average, but still are able to find boyfriends. They then project this line of thinking onto you. Women are also extremely good liars in general. Had so many dates with women who weren't attracted to me who acted very lovey dovey. It's their gift from god to manipulate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:38 AM
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No teenage love is a brutal experience. People who had it won't ever know how bad it feels if you missed out on it. Tbh there was nothing I could've done. Some boys in my class simply "got it" and some didn't. The ones who did were attractive loudmouths, the one who didn't were nerds. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:33 AM
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In a grey area. I can't really help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:34 PM
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Really? When I see an attractive woman (which is a low bar) I often can't find myself and have to look at her face. You don't have this with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:54 PM
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You wouldn't look at someone you found attractive on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:09 PM
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If you saw your husband (or ex or whatever) in public before you knew him and before you were in a relationship with him, you wouldn't have looked at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:15 PM
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Being an asexual robot is impossible as a human, unless you take some drug that kills all of your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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What is main character syndrome about observing that no one looks at you in public? Trying to say this without sounding offensive, but many people who aren't 5"6 messed-up jawline autists have women stare at them. Very normal thing for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 PM
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I don't even want to approach anyone. When I see someone attractive, I look multiple times at their face. If no one does that to me, the only conclusion is that no one (atleast, no one I see in public) finds me attractive, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:57 PM
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When I walk over street, not a single woman (of my age) looks in my face as we pass each other. What now? Same goes for when I sit anywhere. It's like I'm a ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:47 PM
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Hayden Hillier Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:07 PM
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They did because you can't know his height from his films alone. If both stood infront of a woman and assume both have equal status/wealth, most will pick 6"4 ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:25 PM
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He doesn't say that is the reason 50% of likes go to the top 10% of men. What timestamp does he say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:19 PM
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I hate the fuckin' reddit (this subreddit especially) advice of "Stop your woe-is-me thinking, it's the reason you're failing!" when someone makes an observation about their shitty situation. Let's treat poor people the exact same as romantically struggling men. Unemployed person is mad because he can't get a job? Uhm, sweety, the reason why employers deny you is because they FEEL your anger for you not having a job. Try going to therapy since you're obsessing so much about getting a job. Homele…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:13 PM
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None of the women to men ratios matter. He says in the video how 50% of the likes go to the top 10% of men. The game was rigged from the start. Even if there was the same amount of women as men, the average guy would still struggle since the top 10% of men receive 50% of the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:59 PM
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Nah it's height. 6"4 ugly guy will win against 5"5 Tom Cruise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:42 PM
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I don't have tits for the baby to suck on to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:48 AM
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For me it's mostly for the kids. Hiring a nanny because both need to work just seems like shit. Kids need their parents when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:51 PM
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Remember this: she either wants to date you or not. What you say, how fast you respond and all else doesn't really matter. A good rule of thumb is: If you sent the last message, she should respond. If she sent the last message, you respond. I've had flakes from girls who responded really fast, and amazing dates with girls who'd sent nothing for an entire day. Again: nothing you do matters if she is actually interested in you. NOTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:13 PM
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Why are you even thinking about all of this. Just go with the flow and respond positively. If she's fucking with you, you'll know soon enough because she'll either cancel the date, constantly say she can't go or some other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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Sure, I'm open to any tips. What made you succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:43 PM
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He got a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:41 PM
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He did and it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:17 PM
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Forrest Grump is fun. Don't take it too serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:17 PM
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It is based on him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:32 PM
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Dating app grind (already did this though) Look very best I possibly can be with gym and clothing. Get a solid group of friends and go to events with them. Approach women every week. Join 3 different uni clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:24 PM
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For trying, I refer to putting effort in. Using dating apps, approaching women you're interested in, gym, dressing well. I guess for some men this comes naturally. But not for me. I'm not the kind of guy who just randomly talks to people I don't know. Nor do I intrinsically care about building muscles at the gym, or dressing well. I don't care looking good for people I have no romantic interest in. Ofcourse I don't want to look like a dirty slob to others, but I don't care about wearing matching…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
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Man. I'm simply done with trying. I'm not trying for ten years straight. Love is important but not so much that you have to try for multiple years just to get have a CHANCE at someone finding you attractive. Some guys are simply not in the top 20% or even the bottom 40%. Not every animal is bound to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:50 PM
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I'm giving up if it doesn't work out in the incoming college year. I'll do everything, it's now or never at this point. I won't care that much to the point that I'll get depressed, I just won't put any more effort into getting a relationship. If I get a relationship: cool. If nothing happens and I become a 30 year old virgin, also cool. It will either happen naturally, or it won't. And that's fine too. I hope that I'm atleast rich enough by then to dish out 200k for a surrogate mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:19 PM
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Used to think that too but I just look like shit. Look up the El Paso mass shooter. He simply has ab unfortunate face, nothing much he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:51 AM
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There is no way you have raw sexual desire for 5"6 Jack Black who looks like shit over someone like Chris Pratt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:48 AM
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Which asian country has the thickest women? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:28 PM
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Get friends first before thinking about getting women. Everything becomes easier after getting a good group of friends you can do shit with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:33 PM
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Yes, the DYHC institution will be neutral. Its only goal is to prove/disprove these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:28 PM
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If I ever get uber rich - I'm talking 500 million USD net worth -, I'll create a research institution that solely researches purple pill topics. The 80/20 rule, hypergamy, virginity rate in men vs women, etc. Everyone will have a place of truth. The institution will be called: DYHC. Short for: Do You Have a Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:05 PM
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Q4W: Why do so many women dislike it when you become friends with them first and then ask them out? Would you rather be cold/warm approached and asked out instantly? Assume you're not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:07 PM
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I will eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:09 PM
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Statistically insignificant on large scale, unless you want to see the individual level of attraction for each man. Show pictures of 100 different men to 100 different women. Ask each how attractive this man is as well as whether they could have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:56 PM
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They'll stay single till they get a top 20% genetically gifted man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:49 PM
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Easy. Raw sexual attraction is when you want to have sex with the person because of the way they look. It's also known as "love at first sight".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:37 PM
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To understand the 80/20 rule, you must first understand that women can enter relationships with men they feel a low amount of raw sexual attraction towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:40 AM
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Relationships =/= raw sexual attraction. Women have less of a problem starting a relationship than men. Why do you think dead bedrooms are so uncommon. Do you think women "just" lose attraction to their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:34 AM
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I'm certain that in the future, surrogate mothers will be a thriving and legal industry. 60% of young men are single compared to 30% of young women. Women have no reason to have kids with a below 20th percent men. Statistics show that women only find the top 20% of men truly attractive. Men will always have an instinctive desire to pass on their genes, which surrogate mothers are a solution to. Add in that the compensation can be big (between 50k and 200k) and you have every incentive there is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:18 PM
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Any long term relationships out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:05 PM
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How much luck have you had with cold approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:42 PM
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No one ever said 50s or 60s apart from a few extremist red pillers. But a large group of men look better in their 30s and 40s compared to their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:11 PM
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There probably is. Your parents are your first template of what a romantic relationship is supposed to be. Very true. Wonder how I'd have turned out if it wasn't so bad. It'd be a much less awkward conversation about the topic, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:47 PM
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Lmao same. Wonder if there's a correlation between sons of parents with dead bedrooms and men with low romantic succes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:52 PM
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That much make up is just disgusting. Why do women do this to themselves. Actually looks like a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:47 PM
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Does anyone have stats on dead bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:17 PM
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Sunglasses look stupid and tryhardy when worn inside
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:19 PM
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The vast majority of women have an absolute pure disgust for men with glasses. Glasses indicate weakness, which women are turned off by. If you wear them, wear contacts or laser your eyes. Easy and immediate boost to your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:19 PM
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Have you lived in a European country and personally experienced this, or know someone who did? Because I've been here since I lived and I know zero guys, whether hot or ugly, who have been approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:08 PM
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Do you think Europe is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:18 PM
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I could literally be his brother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:05 AM
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Your definition of aversge is reeaally broad then. Who would you say is ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:26 PM
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My face looks like a combination of the El Paso mass shooter, Hayden Hillier Smith and Reviewbrah. Oh and my hair is recessing faster than my 5 year older brother's hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:20 PM
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My face looks like a combination of the El Paso mass shooter, Hayden Hillier Smith and Reviewbrah. Oh and my hair is recessing faster than my 5 year older brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:16 PM
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In real life, 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women. I'd say that comes close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:00 PM
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How many rejections from Tinder first dates would you go through before giving up? Right now I'm at 2 and I can't fathom doing even 3 more. The last one was especially rough. Told me straight in my face that she wasn't attracted to me after 2 long dates and weeks of chatting. A young woman telling you in your face that she isn't attracted to you after spending 4 hour long dates with you while you think she felt something is just absolute brutality. Not mad at her for expressing her true feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:57 PM
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Most women, whether homely or not, prefer a tall man. At that height I'd go for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:35 PM
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https://twitter.com/BanisMajor/status/1680802847019999233?s=20 So fucking brutal. I wonder how many women think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:24 AM
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"Dating is harder for women because we only want to fuck the top 1% of guys" Sounds like a problem created by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:21 AM
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You can be thin and not be flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:05 AM
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For any first years reading this, be sure to join clubs, frats or both. You CAN make friends and go to parties through that, but it's not a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:20 PM
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Does anyone know how you can express yourself more freely when talking with strangers or co-workers? Every time I'm in public my brain keeps telling me to act normal and don't say anything out of ordinary. I feel a physical reaction that gives signals to my brain telling me to avoid doing anything that could be seen as shameful. This leads to me supressing my emotions when talking with people. I avoid standing up for myself/others to avoid confrontation. I avoid saying certain things that could …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:36 AM
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I only block people who are both unserious and unfunny. If you're gonna shitpost, atleast be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:18 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:14 AM
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Every man in existence knows within the first five seconds of seeing a woman whether he'd fuck her. In that essence, they're fantisizing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:27 AM
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Cold approaching? Those are insane stats for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:14 PM
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He has an excellent eye area
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:45 PM
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It's a stacy larp subreddit for trooners and old women clinging to their younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:42 PM
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I need them desperately
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:30 AM
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You're awkward and no woman ever showed any interest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:29 AM
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Q4A Would you rather be a: 40 year old virgin tech billionaire man who is unknown to the general public. Medieval male peasant who has the best love life one could possibly imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:08 AM
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High IQ. But how would you explain dead bedrooms (assuming there's foreplay in it)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:54 PM
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Your friends host a party and they invite their other friends who you don't know. Easiest way to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:47 PM
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Body language, especially eye contact is a big one. Teachers know who has a crush on who simply by seeing which pupils often stares at the other. Honestly, words don't matter much from what I've seen. There's no way to make a first date go well if she isn't interested in you. If she is interested in you, it doesn't really matter what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:39 PM
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What does it matter that other people are around you if you aren't going to interact with them anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:03 PM
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You can buy a beer for much cheaper at the supermarket and drink at your hotel. You can order everything you could possibly want via phone and get it delivered to your room. You have a private television in your room with zero other people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:47 PM
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My biggest regret is doing nothing with music. I loved singing as a young lad but the piano lessons I was sent to by my parents were boring as shit and took away all my joy in music creation. I really couldn't care for practising so much that I could perfectly re-play a song with sheer muscle memory like a Chinese kid. Can anyone else relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 PM
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It is impossible for everyone to be in an Ivy league
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:43 PM
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It's really easy: Just don't have sex. Sex isn't a need, not being killed is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:37 PM
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If the reason is medical, whether for her or me, then I could understand it. If she "doesn't feel it" because she isn't attracted to me or is never in the miod, then I'd go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:40 AM
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Just kill me now if I don't. Mod disclaimer: I'm only half joking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:35 AM
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The dead bedroom sub always makes me extremely depressed. I'll just leave the moment my future wife turns out like that. Even if we have kids. It'd be a good truthpill for them, life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:53 AM
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LOL, imagine asking your girlfriend to kiss her. Holy shit your idea of mascunity is pathetic at that point. If she doesn't want you, she'll pull her head away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:49 AM
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Brutal. Whoever sent that video to him is a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:41 AM
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Relationships go poof when one side doesn't have sexual attraction to the other party anymore. Most women are meh about most guys, which is why they divorce much quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:52 PM
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Most relationships fail because women only have raw sexual attraction to the top 20% of men. The rest are meh which isn't enough to build a long lasting relationship on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:46 PM
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Nah I'd still marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:25 PM
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Zendaya is meh. I could go to the grocery store and see a few girls who are more attractive than her. She isn't ugly, I'd say around average with a unique look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:07 PM
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Well, we are relying on the testimony someone who decided to rush to PPD to post his breathless account of "going outside" like he's the man from Plato's allegory reporting on the marvels beyond the cave. I'm stating my experiences here since everyone on here constantly says how it's all in my head and that couples with below average men are really normal. Well, I went outside with that advice in mind and guess what: that advice does not hold up. I expected people to shame me for doing exactly w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:00 PM
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Nope. Did I get location mogged?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:08 PM
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Varies, but they're often with white women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:07 PM
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I wish I did (especially at the end) but I can't talk to random women while my family is right besides me. Cringe is simply too strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:59 PM
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I was with my family so no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:47 PM
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Yes. The only short men who seem to be doing well are always either black or latino. Asian is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:22 PM
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Went to a big music event a few days ago and I literally did not see ANY guy who was accompanied by a woman where the guy was: My height or below (5"9) White Age range of 20s So much so for "Just go outside and you'll see the 80/20 rule is bullshit bro!". I did not see any guy like me who was doing well. And I saw a lot of guys like me, thousands. Surely the next c*pe will be "They did not bring their girlfriends with them bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:11 PM
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https://twitter.com/Titsandnuggies/status/1678720451340533760?s=20 So damn applicable to this sub and Reddit in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:48 PM
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For guys, Tinder and any other dating apps are a waste of time if you can't consistenly get atleast 1 date a week. In my experience, 90% of women that you meet will tell you that they don't feel the spark so you have to keep grinding till you get one. This means you'll waste a lot of time just by chatting with random women who (1) may not even want to meet up and (2) likely won't feel a spark. If you can not get atleast 1 date a week, but rather something like 1 date a month, you'll be spending …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:22 PM
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Never ever seem needy. Quickest way to kill any attraction she had. Text her less than she texts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:44 PM
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Fucking disgusting. Please, god, grant me an innocent woman that does not even think about doing something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:43 PM
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If you share the same beliefs as: The news Universities Billionaires Big companies Hollywood You are NOT part of any "resistance", your thoughts are carefully created by executives. Please loudly yell "I fall for psyops and I'm proud" to let your community know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:19 AM
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Jonah hill's dms aren't even bad. He is firmly but respectfully stating that he doesn't want her to do slutty things. People need to stop calling being firm "emotional abuse". This girl is also bipolar so you shouldn't trust what she says eitherway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:46 AM
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Damn jonah hill was based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:59 AM
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The difference is that people are 100% more honest here. It used to be even better back when mods didn't hand out bans for "incel content" which is extremely vague and up to interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:55 AM
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Tried to watch it in a plane but I really couldn't care for the plot. I turned it off. I remember Gosling being poor, being offered a racing job and then simping for a mother with a convict boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:53 AM
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A person who doesn’t realize people have flaws has personal issues that person should resolve. Twisting my words into something that I didn't mean while not responding to the meat of the comment. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:48 PM
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A broke musician will still do well because the social status of him simply being on a stage and playing for a crowd is enough to charm many average women. Competency and ambition has little to do with it. Otherwise, the most talented and ambitious programmers who are located in the Bay Area would have easy pickings (they don't). This is also why 50 year old balding bosses who look like shit are able to fuck hot secretaries. Or why average looking cult leaders have a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:41 PM
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Nah it's hard to recover when a woman sees you as an asexual robot. Probably one of the biggest insults you could make to a man, especially one who is in love with you. If rejection wasn't so personal then I could deal with it. But asking someone out and being rejected by her because you're not her ideal man is by its very nature personal. Also, the biggest reason why I stop being friends is that after I've been rejected, I realize she's just another woman with flaws. You stop seeing her for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:35 PM
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Male musicians are adored by women for their star status. The Beatles didn't look anything special, but their status alone is what drove some women crazy. Same goes for Lewis Capaldi who would be posting on inc*l forums had it not been for his musical ability. Women go crazy for a man who has a high rank in the social hierarchy. Same reason why female chimps fuck the males connected to the alpha male first, even if the alpha male is physically smaller and weaker than other chimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:43 AM
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I’m mostly confused by how quickly he identified my mother as my mother specifically. Clearly he remembers something. I don’t really care if he admits he bullied me, I think it was more important for my mother to say that to him. He'll definitely think about it later, so that's good. Deep inside he knows. Maybe you'll get a letter 50 years later where he apologises like my grandmother's bully did lmao. I agree with you to some extent. Being different makes you stand out. Then again, school doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:34 AM
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Bullies will do everything in their power to tell themselves they didn't bully you, or didn't know they were bullying you. Even when you cry in class and ask a teacher to call them out, they'll continue. Then when it gets so bad that you have to switch schools and your teacher publicly announces this (like an asshole), they'll all be like really suprised as to why you switched. Something I noticed is that bullies often target kids who look different. I used to have long hair as a guy which made …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:13 AM
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I don't want someone who sleeps with strangers. This includes people they don't know longer than 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:52 AM
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God I'd hate to have a girlfriend who dresses slutty. Please just give me one who is modest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:49 AM
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I feel like you have a cartoonish imagination of what a struggling dude looks like. Have you ever seen incel selfies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:33 PM
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Same, I was thinking about working at McDonalds. Some cuties there as well. Only thing I'm scared of is needing to talk to Karens and hoodrats. I just want to make the burgers and clean the tables Honestly just work at the center. Sometimes I saw people from my school at Dominos and it was fun for 2 seconds and then they had to work again. Also, the treshold to work for the first time only becomes bigger the longer you wait. Working your first job is cool at 17, not at 21 (like me)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:18 PM
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a lot of guys are still socially stunted because their parents just let the internet be the nanny. Not gonna lie this happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:13 PM
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It's code word for cock carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:43 PM
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Female collegue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:38 PM
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In our edgy high school years we mostly did racist jokes. Think that's what it is referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:30 PM
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"Finally, I admit that 27 is small sample size for this type of analysis, but it isn’t so small as to be statistically insignificant. In fact, when the dating app Hinge recreated my study using their full data set of thousands of users their results were almost the same. "
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:07 PM
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I think Sam Altman is what most women would rate as a 5. Some slightly lower, some slightly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:56 PM
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Imagine how dangerous that data would be if it actually got released. Entire generations of young men who'd lose hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:40 PM
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If you actually read the article I sent, you'll see that the original author explained that other data with larger sample sizes supported it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:36 PM
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Apparently the guy who created the 80/20 rule for online dating with his 2015 Medium article has responded to criticism in another article a few months ago. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-answering-questions-and-criticisms-part-ii-a-response-to-a-criticism-that-81a618d53a7a He responds to a feminist who tried to debunk his original article and wrote about how "the 80/20 rule is a big fat incel lie".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:22 PM
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It shocks and disgusts me, but atleast there's some kind of logic to it. He wanted to start anew and in his sick twisted mind, he thought the only way to achieve this was to murder his entire family. Now why would anyone write letters and be in love with him, knowing the danger he posesses? There is zero logic in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:06 AM
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https://allthatsinteresting.com/chris-watts-love-letters Why the fuck do women do this? My opinion on the entirety of them lowers each day when I read shit like this. 4 in 10 of them have monthly rape fantasies as well. What's next? There's a reason many of them like true crime. Wonder whether this has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:50 AM
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If the fish could speak it'd only speak in virtue signalling ways like women. "Most fish prefer more expensive bait but there are definitely some fish out there who don't mind cheaper bait. Also, if you feel insecure about your cheap bait, we fish can "sense" it and leave your bait." "I know a guy who has cheap bait and he always gets a lot of fish!" "Actually, I really don't mind the cost of the bait. While my past bites have been on expensive baits (30 USD) I definitely wouldn't mind a low cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:13 AM
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You'll gain nothing by asking this. Most will tell you here that it doesn't matter, yet they all greatly prefer a non-virgin guy who had atleast some experience. Similiar to how asking women about whether height matters, results in them somehow saying "Actually height doesn't matter much!." Despite most women having an internal minimum height requirement and greatly preferring a taller man. You can't ask women to be blunt about what they prefer. Or I mean you can, but the answers will be useless…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:05 AM
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How can you say "don't worry" when your situation isn't any better, if not worse, than his
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:58 AM
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If he's a 5 I'm a negative 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:10 PM
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Anyone else just bored of games these days? I used to be on the edge of addiction during high school but now I get bored after 1 match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:58 PM
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Lmao at her "There are only players in my engineering masters degree". Flat out lie. I'd believe it if it was a business degree. What she's saying is that she finds none of the guys there attractive and conveniently throws them all under the "player" label.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:42 PM
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I kinda look like him except my cheekbones aren't as pronounced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:33 PM
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They all are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:29 PM
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No woman found Ron attractive. It was even so bad that Emma Watson felt sick after having to kiss him. She said how it felt really wrong. Absolutely fuckin' brutal. Atleast Rupert had the last laugh and now has a loving wife and kids while she's still childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:17 PM
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My chin isn't as prominent as his and my eyes look like The Weeknd's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:13 PM
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Once got banned for posting a video that showed that shorter man have it harder in life. Apparently it was incel content because of lookism. If that's incel content then 50% of what's posted here is incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:23 PM
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Wrong, since people had plenty of friends back in the 1800s when worker had zero rights and the economy was a lot more laissez faire than now. People during those times lived to work even more than now. It's a recent trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:10 AM
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And that type never includes me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:04 AM
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Agree, truly a waste of potential. Why do they always eat more? I guess it doesn't matter for them in the long run since their bahookas are there to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:21 PM
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All of my matches are always women who haven't been blessed with the large jugs. They know they're wanted so they go for the best of the best of the best. They always go for either tall guy, dominant asshole, gymbro or a combination of these from my real world experience. It's like they feel more feminine so they want a more masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:20 PM
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It's a shame how women with the largest natural boobies (while in normal bmi) are also the pickiest. I really am God's strongest soldier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:53 PM
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Height still ruins it though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:03 PM
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I'm 5"9, my wrists are thin and I have major upper eyelid exposure combined with big eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:45 PM
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I was thinking the exact same. My tinder match rate was quite high in USA compared to my euro country when I went on holidays there. Also I constantly see instagram profiles of American high school boys who very obviously belong to the nerd group who have girlfriends. In my school there were literally zero guys who had glasses with girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:40 PM
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Not a woman, but I've literally never seen it happen. Whether in my own country or any other. Even in NYC I've never seen it. The women I talk to tell me the only men who do it are either hoodrats or guys much older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:53 AM
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Simping for girls during high school. Being a edgy nuisance in my teens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:44 AM
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Maybe pretty boys on Tiktok, I doubt in real life standing next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:11 PM
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I hate their rampant misusage of the word "incel". You can't call an actor who has a wife and children an incel for being right wing or whatever. Also I read a lot of virtue signalling shit on there like "Actually I don't care about height teehee" and "Omg Jack black is SO HOT!" Like, be honest with yourselves for once. None of you would fuck 5"6 Jack Black even if your life depended on it. You'd swipe left on him without second tought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:59 PM
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His voice is such absolute shite. You can't be a public figure seeking election and have a voice like that. Just compare it to JFK's. He sounds like he's in pain. Is there really no surgery that can restore it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:35 PM
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Related to this, I watched the clip of the police officer who was the first responder to the Allen oulet shooting. It's insane to see him talk with some woman and her children and the next second he hears gunshots. https://youtu.be/LWvKT5fHa0U
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:27 PM
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Intersting, if he'd ask you out would you deny his advances?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:00 PM
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Y'know a pattern I noticed in Reddit threads about celebrity crushes over the years? Men will appreciate a female celebrity's beauty and leave it at that. Women often write up wall of texts how she dreams of being in a relationship with that male celebrity, away from her current husband. Many men also often write despicable shit like "I understand if she'd leave me for Chris Hemsworth, haha!", while women never write something along those lines. Imagine having dreams/fantasies of leaving your hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:19 AM
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The majority of men aren't lusted after. Women only have raw, sexual attraction towards the top 20% of men. Many of the top 20% are already taken by a hotter women, and many live playboy lifes who never want kids. So they gotta settle for 'Meh, he'll do.' Most men just want to spread their seed which doesn't necessarily require a women's raw lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:58 AM
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Trust, but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:54 AM
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Accept it and find joy in other things in life. It won't be easy since every man and woman is hard wired to become depressed if they can't find romantic love, thanks to hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:52 AM
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If you're an average guy and you have never seen her before, nowhere. Not because it's not acceptable, but because your chances of succes are laughably low. You have a 1 in 2 chance that they have a boyfriend and most women are extremely cautious when a random guy asks them out. You're better off warm approaching people you have atleast seen once before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:38 PM
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If you're an average guy and you have never seen her before, nowhere. Not because it's not acceptable, but because your chances of succes are laughably low. You have a 1 in 2 chance that they have a boyfriend and most women are extremely cautious when a random guy asks them out. You're better off warm approaching people you have atleast seen once before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:36 PM
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80s/90s USA is such a great vibe. Early 2000s as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:30 PM
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Buccal fat doesn't impact women as much as men. Many men don't really care about it. The only instance where it'd matter is if you want to become a supermodel. Selena Gomez' entire face is buccal fat. I'd say for women in many instances it's actually better to have more buccal fat since women's looks are mostly about appearing youthful. Having buccal fat as a guy is much more brutal. I can't think of any male celebrity who is seen as attractive by women who has (more) buccal fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:27 PM
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That was in no way incel content. All he said was cold approaches don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:23 PM
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Some argue that specific minorities have worse starting positions than others which is then "corrected" by discriminating against other races. They believe that since these minorities are often poorer, you can now discriminate in favour of them to "cancel it out". The dumb part is that you could be the child of a literal billionaire, but be black/latino and still be seen as having less chances than a white/asian kid who comes from a poor family. Doesn't make sense. I sort of understand that peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:19 PM
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After u/5PointTakedown asked out 25 women (more now) and did not get a single phone number I realized it won't work for the vast majority of men. I've also watched some videos of people cold approaching (along with rejections) and women in general are extremely cautious of men in public. The only instance where it can work is if you're doing a shared activity or have seen/talked to that person earlier, but at that point it's not even a cold approach anymore. Pure cold approaches where you never …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:16 AM
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That's the dream. But finding a 'hell yes' woman as an average man is incredibly hard. These are rough numbers, but I'd say 50% of women you meet are taken or don't even notice you, 40% find you downright ugly, 5% are "Eh, I guess he looks ok", and the last 5% COULD be excited. Combine that with the fact that most women take zero initiative and it only becomes harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:04 PM
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The problem is that most of the time she hasn't explicitly said no yet. So in your desperate mind you have hope she still is interested, even if she gives you all signs she isn't. It's weird what desperation will do to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:41 PM
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As someone who has been on a few first dates with women of the same age: they can seem really excited and interested during the conversation as well as entire date and then hit you with "Actually I just see you as a friend." I've learned that the way the date goes in itself is in zero ways a reliable indication of interest with young women. Even if you flirt, make sexual jokes which she responds positively to, touch her, etc. Doesn't matter if she doesn't "feel" it. The point is that you have no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:38 PM
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No. Every women has the same preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:31 PM
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Why is it that when people talk about the dire situation of Japanese men's dating lifes, people always try to blame the work culture or the economy? The brutal work culture has been the exact same for hundreds, if not thousands of years. It's not a recent thing. As for economics, there is a strong inverse correlation between birth rate and a country's wealth. The highest birth rates are in some of the poorest countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:28 PM
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Lack of options. Why move on when no one else is interested anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:16 PM
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I agree with not arguing, but not talking at all will do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:10 PM
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This will bring any man nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:46 PM
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I was talking about Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:40 PM
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I've come to realize that life "ends" around the age of 30. Every time I've been told a fun story that someone fondly remembers, they were younger than 30 during that story. I guess that at around age 30 your core memories seem to have set. Or most people just don't do anything worth telling about after that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:13 PM
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When 40% of Japanese men "fail", it's not their own fault anymore. Some men will fail due to their own faults, not a massive 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:07 PM
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I love how the argument here shifts from "Japan has a horrible work culture" to "Actually all Japanese men sit around and never leave their homes"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:03 PM
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Are they not putting any effort because they've failed, or are they failing because they aren't putting in any effort? Most likely it's the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:37 AM
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Cause of this is that many men are dating 2 women at the same time. Just like in the west. 80/20 never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:36 AM
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Insane mental gymnastics how you still made the 80/20 rule the fault of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:36 AM
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You changed your flair. Lost your virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:05 PM
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Personality matters after your appearance is good enough. If you're a 5"5 man with an ugly face you could do everything perfect and still be rejected by 99.99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:21 PM
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She's going to waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:21 AM
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I'm back from my ban. Each purplepill ban made me more productive. During my first ban I've had my first ever date, in which I got rejected. During my second ban I've had another first date with one follow up date (along with the inevitable "I just see you as a friend"). I also made a serious start with programming and began exercising to become stronger. I wonder what my third (and last) ban will bring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:00 PM
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My guess is that all of them were middle to early 30s and late 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:31 PM
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She needs to experience teenage love this instance. ASAP. I mean I wasted my youth playing video games and I regret is so fucking much. u/potoricco get yourself a boyfriend, right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:11 PM
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It's wild. I remember when I was 16 and I genuinely was a kid still. Still had a kiddish looking face. My mind was stupid as well. Incredibly inmature. Some people in that age range feel "older" but I definitely wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:09 PM
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I can't argue against something that's so vague. Tell me, in precise detail, what "effort" should be put in to stop being in the bottom tier of the dating market. Give me a list of when you think a man has done everything in their power to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:14 PM
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No one wants to be desperate, but some have no choice. You could do everything right and still fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:48 PM
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Hear ye, hear ye! Gather 'round, noble souls of r/Purplepilldebate, as I reveal the terms of a wager steeped in the pursuit of love. Know that I, Jobbo, made a bet with the valiant u/5PointTakedown, daring him to secure at least one fair maiden's telephone number within a span of twenty-five attempts. If he failed to achieve this feat, I pledged to crown him the king of our subreddit. Thus, armed with his faithful canine and a heart aflame with determination, u/5PointTakedown embarked upon his q…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:30 PM
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Yes, men need to grab any chance they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:19 PM
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Genuinely don't understand how he wasn't accepted. His paintings looked beautiful. Especially for someone who did not even enter art school yet. Seriously, many people who I know go to art school can barely draw. I guess the acceptance rate was brutal for that school. I do see why his professors told him to go architecture school instead, since he wasn't good at drawing people. Still, it looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:58 PM
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Tens of millions of lives would´ve been saved. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:07 PM
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Would the world have changed if hitler married to a pawg?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:58 PM
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Ay we're in the same exact position. Dropped out for now but changing my college.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:34 PM
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From my random Wikipedia dwellings, I've come to the conclusion that Hitler was an incel. Kershaw notes that as a soldier during the First World War, Hitler did not take part in discussions of sex with his comrades. When teased about his celibacy during this period, Hitler responded by saying "I'd die of shame looking for sex with a French girl," and "Have you no German sense of honour left at all?"[12] When asked by a comrade if he had ever loved a girl, Hitler replied "I've never had time for …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:22 PM
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Or they'll just say "But Chad can wear whatever he wants!!" as an excuse to continue doing nothing to improve themselves. It's not that. I's because anything you wear is not your style if you're unattractive / not attractive. Wear polo while unattractive? Wayy too formal bro. Loosen a bit! You're not 50 years old. Wear polo while attractive? Nice, looking like you're serious. Wear casual while unattractive? Wayy too casual. You're not a kid anymore! Wear casual while attractive? Nice, looking li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:24 AM
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Definitely. Age 18-21 really are my dark times. Next year it'll get better when I switch colleges, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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Q4W: Which of these men do you consider more attractive? Do you think beauty is subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:12 PM
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Advice about "vibe" is useless because it is so vague. When do you have a good vibe? What can you do to improve your vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:02 PM
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https://ourworldindata.org/working-hours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:16 PM
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When discussing the cause of modern men struggling with romance, remember this. That graph also reminds you to never take advice from someone who was in high school when the percentage was above 65%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:08 PM
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For that to be the main cause of rising single rates in young men, you'd need to believe that men in past times had more free time to dedicate to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:04 PM
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The rate of single men is rising in the category of 18-24 as well. Money doesn't matter at that age, as most at that age are in university.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:56 PM
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It's vague and confusing by design, so that they can ban anything they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:37 PM
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Given that men are still prized for being providers or established, why don’t we assume a lot of men being single in their early years are due to focusing on career and paying off tuition fees? Rent is high! With exception of the 1980s to early 2000s, this time is one of the easiest in economical history. All throughout history there was very little social mobility. Most worked their entire lives on a farm for a pityful salary, or spent their entire days in a factory. So literally thoughout all …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 PM
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Too many to list that have been proven honestly. As for disproven, the only one I can think of is that men always want a virgin / low body count girl. Men simply want someone who has a lower body count than them. You can't have "more experience" than them. As long as you are around the other guy's bodycount, it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:40 PM
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Women have a primal, sexual attraction to the top 20% of men. These are mostly the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:32 PM
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4 in 10 women have monthly rape fantasies. I'm not gonna be compassionate with someone who has a 40% chance of masturbating in the shower to that trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:35 PM
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Massively carried by the bucket of make-up she's dumped on her face. I know underneath that she looks like much older. She looks hot in those specific, carefully picked pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:32 PM
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Holy shit imagine living in a marriage with an ungrateful bitch like that. Hopefully that dad fucked many bitches later on and got a better wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:11 PM
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Please for the love of god go away from here. I don't even mean that ironically. Enjoy life and experience teenage love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:42 PM
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Mods delete every thread that makes this god forsaken place entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:41 PM
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Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:39 PM
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I agree. It's dumb how he's trying to be populist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:22 PM
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I just hope he doesn't go all populist like Trump. I agree with you that he has done some good things for Florida from what I've seen. In his entirety he seems intelligent and calculated. Wish he keeps that image.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:21 PM
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Shame. Just hear Desantis speak vs Trump. It's not even fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:06 PM
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If Desantis doesn't win the next election, I don't ever want to hear any yank scream about how they're only able to choose for out of touch old people who can't speak coherently. Could a yank cast a vote for him in my name?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:52 PM
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Definitely not. I'm 5"9 and when I visited the US for 4 weeks I felt either taller than most men or perfectly average. In my country the average for men is actually 6" and I do notice I'm shorter than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:26 PM
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That is it! Even though I know of the concept, I couldn't connect it with that. I've noticed that it's something women often believe in regards to men struggling with dating. All of the normal dating advice subs are rampant with it, as well as this sub to a degree, mostly women. Just yesterday someone on r/tinder was saying how dating as a man was fucked because the only people who swiped right on him were "sea cows". Ofcourse a women swooped in to tell him that the reason he was failing was bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:09 PM
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Wish people would stop with the "Tehee your mindset is why you're single" when someone is just being blunt and honest about their situation. It's like if someone was ranting about his shitty boss. How he only promotes people he likes, doesn't understand the actual project, etc. Then someone swoops in and says: "Akschually the reason why your project is going bad is because you hate your boss. Your vibe around your boss is bad, he FEELS it!" Or someone ranting about how he is sad because they fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:43 AM
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None, atleast not in the early part. In the early part, women want a masculine man who has it all under control. She wants to be feminine and emotional. As a man, try crying on a first date because one of your family members recently passed. Let me know how many second dates you get, my guess is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:31 AM
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Ed sheeran is a rat and most women would ignore him if they went to high school with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:41 PM
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Are you in college/uni? Im 21, let me give you advice to do better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:18 PM
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Even assuming what you say is correct, would you feel more feminine next to a guy standing at 5"9 or 6"3, all else being equal? Because that is exactly what it is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:01 PM
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Your last paragraph is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:52 PM
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Most people in bars sit in a group and don't want to be bothered by a stranger. Atleast, that is if we have the same definition of a bar. I'm thinking of something similiar to a UK pub, but maybe that's much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:32 PM
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What is not expensive in NYC when you pay 10 dollars for a beer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:30 PM
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It's like they knew how bleak the future would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:44 PM
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Well, enjoy your beard. I do have body hair but my beard coverage is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:00 PM
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There are men with naturally hairless bodies? Testosterone must be so low at that point. How tf does that even work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:14 PM
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Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:27 PM
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I'm on a streak, 1 date from Tinder a month if you count since April. I pray to the algorithm that more bitches will be sent to my way and we keep this going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:52 PM
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If you get a 40% match rate, then you are either not unattractive or you watched Wonder Woman 5 billion times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/13setda/dont_ask_me_if_im_single_4_years_of_swiping_as_a/ So, who were the people saying the 80/20 rule was fake? She said she is an average looking woman. inb4 this is only on dating apps - What makes you think her standards are different in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:11 PM
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Get some good pictures first so you make maximum use of your beginner boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:44 AM
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I think it's illegal for you to date him, or barely legal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:47 PM
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Lol no. It's because asian people in general often have less forward faces than whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:06 PM
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So does Reviewbrah/Report of the week have a girlfriend already? He reminds me a lot of my innocent self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:45 PM
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Definitely true, wish I read this when I was 16. Never go for a girl you have to "prove" yourself to (such as by playing jester).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:25 PM
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Eh, it was fun in the beginning but why the screaming shit. That line of needing female friends at age 27 was hilarious though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:30 PM
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No they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:26 PM
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The thought that women are in any way affected by men messaging best looking women is laughable. All my Tinder matches whom I asked (from pretty ugly to average looking) told me that they were drowned in matches and messages. Not a single women will do bad on dating apps unless she thinks she can get Dior models while looking average herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:15 AM
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Well we suffer the same fate then. Yes I really dislike it. Sometimes it's not super noticable in pictures from far away depending on how I look in the camera. But in selfies it is and I find it really ugly. What doesn't help me either is that one eye has noticably even more upper eyelid exposure than the other, so it's assymetrical on top of that. Which surgery are you referring to? From my research only upper eyelid fillers could work (risky as fuck though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:25 AM
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It's still degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:20 AM
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Still it ruins my perception of them. It's similiar to saying "Yeah I have a pegging fetish and fantasize every month about it but I don't actually want to be pegged bro, totally not! Who in their right mind would want such a thing haha!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:36 PM
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Oh wow you're right. He even has it more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:33 PM
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You're onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:31 PM
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I need to start a male make up brand and pay red pill masculine youtubers to promote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:12 PM
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Are there any male actors/celebrities with heavy upper eyelid exposure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:52 PM
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Probably insignificant honestly. NOT having a bad smell is important. After that the results are small.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:49 PM
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That's because you only saw him on TV and weren't standing next to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:46 PM
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Dominance, lower voices are seen as more dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:45 PM
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The 4 in 10 women fantasize about rape stat ruined my perception of women. Do men atleast have a stat that is similiarly as bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:45 PM
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I love how my best performing tinder picture was taken by my mum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:03 PM
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4 in 10.. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:37 PM
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Get a boyfriend then, don't miss out on teenage love if you haven't experienced it yet. Obviously don't get used by some guy unless you're fine with that. You'll thank me in five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:51 PM
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Their parents just don't give a shit about their sons becoming independent men and pamper them, like my parents did to me. My mother did want to make me do stuff but my dad said that if he didn't need to do anything, so won't his sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:49 PM
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Why does porn upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:48 PM
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Like I said, 1 in 20 on the condition that you have a decent conversation beforehand and ask women within your age range. If you get 20 nos, I retract my opinion and bestow you with the title of PurplePill champion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:25 AM
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Nah not in my country. Way too awkward and most people don't want to talk in there. Also, many consider it rude if you talk in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:18 AM
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If you have the willpower to do, continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:16 AM
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How were the rejections this time? Also, if you feel like it's bad for your mental health you should stop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:12 AM
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Enjoy it. Wish I could go back to high school 3 years ago. I wouldn't be as much of a pussy and ask out every girl I was interested in. Feel like my mind hadn't really gone through puberty yet, only my body. Seriously, ask a girl out from your class who you think is interested in you. Ask around who might be interested in you first or something. Have so much regret that I was a pussy and waited. Also, go to every party imaginable. Even if you think it's stupid, just go. Even people you don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:14 AM
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Hmm. Seems good. Still don't understand why they're shocked. From what I remember you look normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:09 AM
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How did the convos themselves go? I find it hard to understand they'd be shocked like that if the conversation was decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:03 PM
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I do and I have seen you post before. Prove me wrong, at worst you'll gain more experience, at best you'll get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:17 PM
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Just a yes? 1 in 20. Assuming you have a decent conversation beforehand and ask out women within your age range. I do think you'll get quite the amount of flakes/cancels, but just a yes should definitely be attainable. Especially when they stop you to pet your dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:10 PM
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It’s not as popular as the media paints it to be Do you have a source for this? I'm interested what percentage of young people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:50 PM
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I geuss it's true in the sense that you'll be less desperate. The problem with that saying is that the men who already get sex are also the ones who don't care about it. You aren't obsessed with something you have freely access to. Grab any man that doesn't have an absurdly low libido and stop him from having sex for four years. He'll want it just as much as a basement dweller who has an anime bodypillow. You can't just naturally "not care about sex" when you don't have any, since hundreds of mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:40 PM
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Right, but I fear how many more women won't feel that spark either. Getting rejected on Tinder is like who cares. Getting rejected after 3 hour long face to face date sucks so incredibly much. I'm not pessimistic, but I can already see that a person can only take so many rejections like that 'till it will have a toll on them. I guess I can do a few more, but if I need to face something like 8 more rejections after 3 hour long dates then I'm not sure what kind of influence that will have on my me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:27 PM
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Yes, and my point is that the 80/20 doesn't apply just to casual sex like many often claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:23 PM
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I manage to get second dates, so I don't think it's awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:36 PM
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Yes, or atleast not masculine enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:27 PM
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Women would only have casual sex with people they find attractive anyway, so it effectively means the same thing. It isn't, because if the 80/20 rule is real, there are lots of women married to men who they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:19 PM
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Makes me depressed to get more rejected though. But I guess I have to continue playing the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:53 AM
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I'm stupid and read your question wrong, I didn't ask for consent before hand but while I was touching the side of her leg. I asked whether she mind it and then escalated from there. I initially thought you asked whether I asked for consent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:50 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:38 AM
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What do I do if all women I'm interested in see me as friendship material? For example, last 2 first dates from Tinder. Both said they had a great time but don't feel anything. Flirted heavily with both of them. Sexual jokes, touched them (with consent), etc. Still nothing. I think I have that standard "friend face" from that one research I can't find the link for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:32 AM
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Nobody says that shit in real life to save face. Much like how no one talks about politics on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:14 AM
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The 80/20 rule is about women finding 80% of men unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:21 PM
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Being cringe also means that you are free
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:38 PM
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You gotta learn the act of plausible deniability
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:31 PM
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Yes. In the US I had atleast 1 match a day, most of the times around 3 a day. Are women there even more picky on height like is the standard 6'4 and up and 8inches and up? In the US the "6"0 guys only"-thing is a meme. When I was there I was taller than most people at 5"9. So either American men lie about their height, or I coincidentally in all my weeks of travelling only saw men that were shorter which is unlikely. Here though, that's not a meme. 6"0 and a bit is the average height for young p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:57 PM
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As someone from that country, that last line is false. Just as bad as any other western country. Tinder is much more brutal here than when I was in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:51 PM
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I'm a billionaire (or close to it), have kids with a woman who finds me attractive while I find her attractive, about to enter politics. That'd be the dream scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:39 PM
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If I was born with dwarfism, I'd rule out any normal career and go straight into comedy, acting or music. Just the fact alone that 99,99% of women will reject you means you need to do everything you possibly can to become famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:57 AM
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Lookswise? Tom Cruise, Leonardo Di Caprio, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Pierce Brosnan, Sean Connery, Daniel Dae Kim, Henry Cavill, Chris Evans, Christian Bale, Mad Mikkelsen.. and a lot more that I can't be assed to list. For any man that is old, place the word "peak" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:48 PM
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Sometimes you have no better options and she is pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:41 PM
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If you look up the word delusional in the dictionary, I think you'll get that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:38 PM
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Lol, women say this and still try to claim the wall doesn't exist: It’s not problematic for her. It’s just a frustrating general trend for men in their 40s to only seem to want to date 27-32yo women. It’s not about the young women, it’s about the men. It is like women become invisible after they turn 36 and even more so after 40. You can be hot AF, have a great career, have travelled the world, be successful, fun… but you’re a 40 yo woman so most men your own age and even 1-10 years older have l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:39 PM
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Just get the surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:36 PM
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I think most of them do it because so many women want it. Combine that with the fact that every woman and their grandma says how they can't orgasm and yeah, guys will try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:44 AM
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Nah, the rate of single man goes down for each older age group. Surely if it was harder, there would be more singles in the older age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:57 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:36 PM
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I feel like you if you haven't atleast kissed by the second date, it's over. Opinion from women? (Unless you married your boyfriend from high school and haven't been on any other first dates)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:20 PM
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The notion that women face a lot of perverts and other gross stuff in online dating is bullshit. Women I ask say they get the occasional weird pickup line and some guys who want sex who'll they quickly ghost. Yes, some men will be insane but it's just as insane to apply that to the entirety of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:54 PM
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Finding a good partner. Both getting into a good school and finding a good job are the direct result of your own efforts. Finding a good partner is entirely about luck. Whether it's due to luck that you were in the same room, joined the same university, her finding you attractive. All comes down to stupid luck. This also means that for some people getting (into) a good job/school will be harder than a good partner.Also, I'm talking about the perspective of a man. For most women, finding a good p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:36 PM
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I like it brah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:15 AM
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I said huh because I was genuinely confused. Do you seriously not understand that calling your mum in the middle of a first date doesn't come across as masculine, which women will likely be turned off by?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:34 PM
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Huh? Why is it weird to you that a woman is not attracted to someone after he called his mum?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:10 PM
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When asking about red flags, it is typically assumed you already find the person somewhat attractive. Atleast, that was my interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:09 PM
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The former gives away a vibe of 'I'm not an adult man yet and I need mummy's support', She was only 17 at the time and the guy was 18. Would you consider to be 18 'adult male'? The real reason is because it is not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:02 PM
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The facial bone structure of Daniel Dae Kim (the boss in the I'M A SURGEON meme) is unreal. Best I've ever seen. Up there with Tom Cruise, Pierce Brosnan and Mad Mikkelsen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:40 PM
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Having hobbies are economic burdens and resource black holes, avoiding hobbies in your 20s is very good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 PM
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I'm 21 male. So far I've had two first dates from Tinder. These girls were either my age or slightly younger than me. One had never been in a relationship before, the other for 9 months when she was 16. In both of those dates I asked: "What would be the biggest red flag that you could never accept from a guy?" Before I say what they answered, think about that question for a second. The biggest red flag you could never accept from a guy... Perhaps aggressiveness, being an alcoholic, smoker, drug …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:14 PM
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Someone who is blackpilled wouldn't say any of this: "I'm an average looking guy who lifts, showers everyday, approaches and studies game, yet still girls are stuck up bitches to me" It's ironic how you say "stop being blackpilled" while also saying that people should accept that they are fundamentally unlikable or unremarkable. Sounds depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:36 PM
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This all sounds extremely vague, which is why it it's not popular. Exactly how would these people go about changing themselves? At what point can you say that you're fundamentally a remarkable and a likable person? Atleast with the things you listed (showering, gym, approaches) you directly see the results of what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:13 PM
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But what would I achieve with accepting that I'm a "fundamentally an unremarkable and/or unlikable person"? Genuinely, why even try at that point? Are you saying these people should fully change their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:56 PM
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I did try those, wayyy too much meat. I guess that's my biggest problem with much of American food. So much meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:35 AM
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Subway sandwiches are amazing. And no I will not listen to anyone how their sandwich was bad because x. I've been to subway plenty of times and was always satisfied. Whether I was in my home country, the US, or London. All are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:10 AM
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Men commit more suicides though, what is better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:07 PM
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Seems like cuck behaviour. Is she enjoying you or your wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:34 PM
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Nah she deserved it as well for not knowing her place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:10 PM
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Pessimism definitely gets you to take action. I was ultra depressed during october of 2022, which was also when I took action to change my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:42 PM
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Or some people are just honest with themselves. I'm struggling yet still optimistic, but if I have to endure this for another five years I'll probably be as depressed as they are. It's how it goes naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:03 PM
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40s is a weird age group for women. For men it's just, some guys look a tad unkempt, some still look handsome, most look normal. For women they either look like models or like former meth addict grandmas. No inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:01 PM
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1, she's been with my dad since she was 16 and did not have any other boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:14 AM
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Delete if incel content, but the most blackpilling experience is hearing how your mum rejected guys when she was younger. Wonder if I would've been born if my dad's chin was 8mm backwards. Or if he was 8 cm shorter. Small measuremental changes, yet generational impacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:50 PM
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Is that the same orchestra that covers Elvis songs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:04 PM
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Just change your sexual attraction to a different gender bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:03 PM
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That comment was in relation to you bringing up conventional beauty standards in media as evidence for the 80/20 rule. Wrong, considering I said "All of this shows.." where I was drawing a conclusion from 2 facts. You never indicated that you were solely arguing against the beauty standards in media argument. If you're going to argue, for the love of god join a coherent writing class first. I don't feel like continuing this considering how much time I wasted just to find out that you were attack…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:08 PM
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And from that you can say the exact same thing for the features that men prefer. There's very little variance. Then this is a direct contrast, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:30 PM
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Q4A: Would you rather be: 40 year old male multi-billionaire that's ugly and a virgin (guy with short height, very recessed face, high-pitched voice) 40 year old attractive man that has the greatest love life one could possibly imagine, but is also poor. Regarding security and paparazzi, you may assume the billionaire is unknown and hasn't made any enemies. Logically speaking, since many on this sub say sex and love doesn't really matter as it is not a need, everyone should pick option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:09 PM
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Why would a client lie to you when you are supposed to have their best interest in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:01 PM
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So do you still think this or not? Which didn't show that those women all rated the same 20% of men as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:50 PM
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What, so now you do agree that there's no variance within the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:48 PM
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Christian bale wasn't chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:19 PM
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All of it shows that most women prefer the same features. There is very little variance between the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:01 PM
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Then how do you explain that conventional attractive men fare much better than ugly men on dating apps? How come male characters that are made for female audiences in movies, magazines and book covers always appear to have dominant, masculine features such as a prominent jawline, piercing eyes, tall, and buff?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:10 PM
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No, I'm merely stating that the study doesn't support the absolute interpretation of the 80/20 rule, especially when you consider that there was very little correlation with messaging. How is that not the case when women literally (and yes literally) said they found 80% of men unattractive and 20% of men attractive? It certainly indicates more interest than not messaging at all. I'll give you that. Still, I've received a lot of messages from women on Tinder who had zero intention of meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:12 PM
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Nothing. Zero advice was given. For some inexplicable reason my parents never motivated me or gave me any advice around it. I remember when I was 10 years old I told my mum I liked some girl in my class. The only thing she told me was not to tell this girl since she could reject me and tell the entire class. That's the only thing we ever talked about related to dating in my entire life. My dad straight up never talked about it or asked. He just wanted to know whether I was doing good in school. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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Right, so the saying should be instead: "Women's attraction to looks is varied for people they're already attracted to, which are mostly the same men"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:42 PM
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Can you explain why if women generally would sleep with men on the first date, they'd be asexual or were rejected by many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:40 PM
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Seems like they spend all their time and effort into the looks and aesthetic of the studio instead of the sound
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:30 PM
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Why are there so many damn podcasts with shit tier microphones and audio mix? Do these people just see it as some hobby and use it as an excuse to talk with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:02 PM
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So you wouldn't sleep with your current boyfriend on the first date, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:13 AM
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Can you show me the ample evidence? Being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:12 AM
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That seems like logical fallacy. A study didn't prove x, this means Y is true. No it isn't, since the study didn't show that either. Unless you can show me where the okcupid study proved that women were attracted to different men. Replying back =/= interest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:10 AM
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Q4W: What is your opinion on this advice? "Women sexually attracted to you will sleep with you on the first date."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:55 AM
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80/20 OkCupid study
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:52 AM
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Every single couple I see is perfectly looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:38 AM
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The advice is said as "Women's attraction to looks is varied and unique for each woman!" If they see a fat guy, they'll say they themselves aren't interested in him, but "there's definitely a women out there who is!" Most women are attracted to the same thing. This is on a universal level and defies any ethnical or cultural standards. Women are sexually attracted to dominant, masculine features: 1. Men with a, masculine, dominant face (good jawline, piercing eyes) 2. Men with a dominant, masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:37 AM
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Yes, if it's the opposite gender. Although I understand if it was a 60 year old man or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:01 PM
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How can you feel insecure when someone visibly lusts over them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:34 PM
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I should get into shitposting on that sub sometime. Thanks for the idea! ----- The text above is a joke and is not an attempt at brigading/witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:42 PM
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One rejection is okay, so is five more. Eventually, it's going to take a toll on you, just like it would on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:54 PM
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I can tell you with full confidence that every man on earth who has been rejected by a woman thought "Fuck that bitch anyways." And that's okay, just like women are allowed to think after being rejected "Fuck that dick anyways."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:45 PM
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The current young generation needs a band similiar to The Offspring that writes songs about: Endlessly swiping on Tinder for lust Mindlessly scrolling on Instagram for dopamine hits Declining testosterone rate of men Declining birth rates in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:41 PM
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That's because women don't discuss what attracts them in public. They'll throw height under vague shit like "confident", "strong", "big".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:28 PM
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Every human on earth feels bad after a rejection. The strong guy who has no emotion and is always calm and collected is a figment of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:17 PM
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No time for that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah, an approach being: looking at your general direction, briefly standing next to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 09:34 PM
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Apparently Lewis Capaldi has a hot actress girlfriend. Shows you what having a rockstar status can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:41 PM
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Yes, when it properly grows on your chin and cheeks. When it doesn't, you're setting yourself up to be called a neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:04 PM
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Q4W: Do you find Lewis Capaldi attractive? Just testing the notion that women's tastes are vastly different. Surely many ladies will think he's attractive, thanks to their magical different tastes in men! You may use this picture edit: As for defining "attractiveness", say whether you'd have a one night stand with him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:01 PM
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Mutilation, absolutely disgusting. Shocked how deranged American "christians" could possibly convince themselves that doing something like that to a natural born baby is god's way, or whatever kind of fucked up reasoning they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:30 PM
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Beard growth sucks when your coverage is shit. Atleast I can join the Amish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:43 AM
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Take your pick: (A) Inexperienced chad, doesn't know his looksmatch; (B) Woman is his looksmatch; (C) Doesn't have many options, not a real chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:13 PM
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Highly doubtful. Do you mean to tell me that as long no girl gives you the fuck me eyes your life is worthless? I find that hard to believe. You said lusted, the emphasis is on that. Being lusted over, love, doesn't matter what you call it. You try to make it look like some degenerate sex, when you know it's about more than that. I remember a thread on r/askmen asking what was the greatest feeling you ever had. Lots of the replies were about men holding a woman they loved (in a romantic way) in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:10 PM
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Being lusted for is a quintessial part of being a human. The notion that there are far greater things to do is just idiotic. What even is "far greater things one should aspire to"? Is it making 10 billion USD, is it becoming the president of the US? What would any of that matter if you have never experienced love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:57 PM
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You married earlier than my grandpa, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:09 PM
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Women who are good with children and enjoy caring for them is feminine thus sexy Same reasom why jocks do well in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:01 AM
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Did anyone else never have the urge to "rebel" as a kid or while going through puberty? If my parents told me not to drink or do drugs, I just wouldn't do it. Not claiming that it's good to not rebel, since it made me boring in many other ways. It's just interesting how some humans have this and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:56 PM
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Go to any game club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:52 PM
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I hate people who sugarcoat stuff so incredibly much. Especially in that thread. Bald on young men looks off. Bald in your 40s and 50s is normal. If being bald was hot, it wouldn't be the first insult literally any bald guy gets thrown at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:49 PM
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She's a degenerate party girl who should never have been prime minister.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:43 PM
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I wrote in the daily thread about what would happen if you teached your kid to mew from a young age and made him primarily eat hard foods. 30 day ban for incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:43 PM
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Without fail, if we don't have the same humour I'll automatically know you won't be my friend. Anyone relate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:38 PM
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You can't be serious. Which celebrities do you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:24 PM
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I was just interested in their response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:40 PM
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She has big milkers, my boy Pierce has a taste and it is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:33 PM
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Peak Pierce Brosnan was the ultimate chad, probably the most attractive man to live. Any woman who says he's not her type is lying or is a lesbian, no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:19 PM
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I myself didn't take that away from that thread. I thought that was more of a way to frame the situation so that the man doesn't blame her and gets angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:13 PM
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So you'd rather have that if you make a mistake, the guy clearly points it out and bickers about it, rather than saying that it's fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:02 PM
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Q4W: Would you say this thread is accurate? https://twitter.com/alpharivelino/status/1656029596637175809 If you don't want to read the entire thread, the author basically says that to have a proper relationship with a woman, you must take blame for everything, never argue with her and basically treat her like a child. If you argue with her, get angry, want her to take accountability, etc, she'll leave you or stop loving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:44 AM
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Most women say they want an intelligent guy who listens and is respectful, yet most go for a dominant loudmouth who takes initiative and leads. These don't have to be contrasting, what I'm saying is that women say they find a certain aspect important, despite the other being more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:14 AM
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I'm not scared of getting arrested. I'm scared of the hits my reputation will get. Asking out 1 woman and getting rejected is suspicious, asking out 2 and failing and you're known as the creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 AM
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I'm not from the US so I wouldn't know. Are people who go to these elite schools typically socially awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:47 PM
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I'm still flabbergasted how in school, girls were allowed to wear clothes that covered as much of their skin as their underwear while I couldn't wear a fucking cap or wear a vest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:53 PM
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Interesting study on Freshmen's virginity rate for the class of 2025 in Harvard: 60% of Harvard freshmen in 2021 were virgins Freshmen ranked in the top 5 percent of their graduating class or higher were more likely to be virgins than classmates who ranked in the 10th through 25th percentile of their graduating class. Freshmen who reported spending most of their time on Snapchat were less likely to be virgins, while those who reported spending most of their time on YouTube were more likely to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:15 PM
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Is this only for men or also women?
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/23 06:11 PM
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Read it so many damn times on this god forsaken subreddit. They'd link some research that apparently proved it but I was always still skeptical. Giving birth over the age of 50 is so rare that there's an entire wikipedia page dedicated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:53 PM
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Do women realize how many men there are that hold "misogynistic opinions" and are super succesful in the dating market? If a guy is "misogynistic" but also ugly, telling him to change his misogynistic views won't work for him. In fact, he'd have more succes if he was hot but misogynistic than ugly and women-respecting. Do you think anyone knows the true opinions on women from sex idols like Henry Cavill, young Leonardo Di Caprio and Chris Evans? Have they ever publicly said something about women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:59 PM
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If you don’t have this you basically have to start from square one. Feels kinda like breaking into a new industry I've been doing exactly this for the past year since I lost most of my friends after 2020. It's hard. The biggest problem is that there's a lot of people who are indifferent about growing their social circle. This means you'll have a lot of people who don't really want to meet up with you, but act nice enough to be an acquitance to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:26 PM
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Sounds wonderful. I'm happy for you both. How was that date? I myself am indifferent about jazz. I sometimes go with my dad (jazz lover as well as musician) to jazz festivals and genuinely enjoy them, but it's not like I actively listen to jazz on Spotify. I like it for how relaxing and calm it is, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:44 PM
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Definitely marry young and get divorced, assuming we're purely talking about mental differences and not financial. Missing out on teenage and young love sucks so fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:33 PM
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I just know he's atleast 6"1 by the way you describe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:03 PM
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Is going to a jazz pub a good idea for a first date? Mainly scared that the music will be too loud for us to hear each other, but live music is always pretty cool and sets the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:48 PM
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You have an incredibly loose definition of exploitative then, assuming that's what you meant with: how men don't seem to care about how it's produced. Do you believe that Belle Delphine was exploited into making millions of dollars, which went to herself and not some pimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:33 PM
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Well, that's plain wrong. Small portion may be forced, large majority of women on Onlyfans are doing it themselves to make sweet cash. Do you think Belle Delphine was forced as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah, quite recently joined a game club that has a suprisingly somewhat decent rate of women. It's (still) awkward to ask someone out. Especially if you're known as the "new guy". People go there to do their activity, not to meet their significant other. It's a good way to meet friends and find people you connect with tough. Although you gotta be lucky with the kind of people you meet. Also, lots of women who go to these clubs already have a boyfriend. Overall I'd rate it 6,5/10. The best part a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:00 PM
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Not true, since most women would be disgusted if their boyfriend paid for an OnlyFans where the woman is 100% doing this out of her own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:46 PM
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I'm not succesful but that does mean I can give you advice on what NOT to do. Do NOT create distance between yourself and the girl. If you're going on a date, don't sit across from each other at a table. You're setting yourself up for failure that way because the distance in itself is a barrier. Ideally, you sit close next to each other like on a stool in a bar, or a bench in the park. The more distance you create, the more awkward it'll be to break that first physical touch barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:13 PM
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Would women give the same advice that goes along the lines of "stop your pathetic self pity, stop being obsessed with finding a girlfriend" in the scenario that a woman would complain that she's depressed because she can't find a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:59 PM
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A 20 year age difference is so wild to me. Holy shit. I'm a man, but I'm flabbergasted that some women do this. Not shaming anyone, just genuinely suprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:43 PM
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What if no one flirts with you, or seems indifferent about hanging out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:15 PM
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Nope, never see any of them. Very occasionally when I'm in the train to uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:09 PM
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We belonged to the same clique because one of her friends was the girlfriend of one of my friends. Didn't talk with her outside of school aside from a few parties. She sat with us during lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:48 PM
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"Being nice" is a way too common advice given by bluepillers falling for the just world fallacy. In a just world, people who are nice succeed. People who aren't nice do worse. In the real world, being nice only matters to a small degree. Many arrogant, narcisstic men are incredibly succesful and have zero problem finding a relationship. If someone at this instance struggles romantically and genuinely follows the advice of "be nice", nothing will change for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:50 AM
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Finally get a match again. Girl seems cute. After a day of conversation asks for my snapchat. See her last name on Snapchat, it sounds familiar. Turns out it's the younger sister (2 year age difference) of a female friend in high school whom I knew decently. I was in the same class as her for 6 years. I wasn't interested in her but it still feels awkward talking to her younger sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:43 AM
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Yeah I could, I'll try it out. I typically sit across from the other party, which does feel quite distant and doesn't allow for breaking the touch barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:19 PM
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Maybe that's it. I have to drive for first dates and only take non alcoholic beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:38 PM
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How do people kiss on first dates? They're so damn awkward. Either I'm doing it wrong or haven't been on the right first date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:22 PM
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It really depends on the severity of the autism. But in general, yes, men with Autism will have a lower chance of succes with women than non-autistic men. Most (keyword: most) women want a smooth talking guy who can easily pick up on social cues, which people with autism have trouble with. Doesn't mean that the chance is zero, there's definitely women out there who who will accept it. Again, it depends on the severity. I'd say a man with light autism probably has the same (or slightly lower) cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:34 PM
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Would be fine as well, on the condition that she's doesn't go hysterical mode and stays collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:12 PM
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Do nothing and simply trust that I wont reprociate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:04 PM
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I was seriously about to fill it in but I'm too scared for the feds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:12 PM
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I went to NYC last summer and almost exactly did this. I didn't bring a notebook because I was mainly there to do tourist stuff. I'd count any couples that adhered to all of the following: Man was in his early to mid 20s. Man had glasses on Man was of average height, or shorter than average height. I kid you not that I did not see a single couple that was in accordance to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:10 PM
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Lefties on r/politics putting it up for a mega corporation like Disney will never not be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:02 PM
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Some do, many don't and are stupidly spending their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:20 PM
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At this moment: none as I'm still struggling myself, although slowly getting there. What did help me so far is: 1. Looking as best as I possibly can (decent weight, good haircut, smell good) 2. Meet as many people as possible. Do this by putting yourself into as many social situations as you can. Do this by making more friends. Make more friends by joining clubs, joining niche groups and finding like minded people. Also, the first part of this will really suck since you don't know anyone and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:06 PM
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Also notice how in that thread, none of the women actually give any proper advice that'd help anyone. Message to anyone (especially women) who want to give advice: if someone is bitter and complaining about not achieving something, they're most likely bitter because they've tried and failed when they weren't bitter. If a poor person is bitter because he's poor, telling him to stop being bitter won't help him. The reason he's bitter is because he's poor. What would help is giving him specific adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:24 PM
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That's probably the most noncoherent post I've ever read. I keep re-reading it and none of it seems connected to the original subject. The title is: "Men aren't happy because they are having less sex and aren't in relationships" (this is meant to be sarcastic I assume) If you then summarize it, paragraph by paragraph: She has a realization about men being lonely (That's ok) She has a male friend who became misogynistic after being dumped. (Not related to the main topic, since that's a man that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:55 PM
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I did not refute that, I'm saying they're less likely to do risk taking that would increase their succes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:23 PM
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The risk tolerance of a man is hugely important for his sexual succes. Men who do what society tells them to do: "Don't risk making a woman uncomfortable by asking her out, flirting with her or breaking the physical touch barrier", will find much less succes than men who don't care and just act upon their instincts. This is also why the virginity rate will be much higher in a room full of valedictorian university students than a room full of early 20s drug addicts. The former group actively avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:06 PM
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I realize I've never heard her speak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:46 PM
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I've been banned for 30 days before for writing a comment where I hypothised whether mewing from a young age would make your kid attractive. It was considered incel content. Anyone who looks even 5 minutes into mewing will see that it is not purely done by incels but also by women and normal men who might want to improve their face. Still got banned and they refused to lower the amount of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:42 PM
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Has there been studies done on the "deep voicepill"? Sound makes a big impact on perception. My prediction is that men with low pitch voices do better than men with high pitch voices in many regards to life. Not just sex, but also career, politics, status, respect by peers, etc. If this breaks the "no incel content" rule, please just delete this comment instead of banning me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:34 PM
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Men with faces and body/height that most women are indifferent about. They're not considered ugly nor attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:54 PM
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Q4M: What are some of your hard earned life lessons? Mine are: (only applicable to average or below average men) 1. If you want anything in life, you must take active steps to get it. Most things don't come natural to most men after the age of 18-21. Some people get lucky, but most have to work their ass off to get it and maintain it. Whether it's getting rich, being healthy, finding a girlfriend/friends, career goals, etc. Embrace failure and rejection. If your situation sucks within the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:40 PM
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Best asian ass I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:49 PM
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Nah their fat isn't distributed on their ass like with other ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:53 PM
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Check Tomomi Motozawa, you'll thank me later. Japanese though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:51 PM
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Splitscreen games are amazing. Fond memories of playing Left for Dead 2 on the Xbox with my two older brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:47 PM
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Sure I'd still be friends. Sex is a biological need and if someone struggles to the point that they're paying for it, I wouldn't care. I'd rather have them do that than constantly whine about how they're struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:10 PM
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Probably helped that videogames were not the concentrated kid crack like they are today. This was mainly my problem. I grew up when games like World of Warcraft, League of Legends and many other insanely addicting games were growing very fast and were still new. Games that show incredible scenarios and fantasies, while also creating online communities within those games are really hard to resist as a kid. I can't really blame my parents, they were late teenagers in the 1970s where gaming was som…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:15 PM
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As in, someone who mainly plays videogames and doesn't have any other passions beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:07 PM
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I wish I discovered music creation instead of videogames when I was younger so that I could've devoted my life to creating songs. Wouldn't even have cared if whether or not I became succesful. For my dad it even played out pretty well romantically, he met my mum because he was in a band and her friends would sometimes watch them play songs. For any parents here: please never let your kids play videogames. Quickest way to remove any potential passions they have because everything will be boring c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:33 AM
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Enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:28 PM
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Yanks and brits are so lucky that they have proms in schools where it is common courtesy to bring a date that can potentially grow into a relationship. Correct me where I'm wrong, but being denied a prom date isn't seen as terrible because almost every guy asks someone out. In my country we don't have proms. The only way to do date a girl like with prom was to tell a friend whether you "liked" anyone. If that person didn't like you back, the entire class would roast you and clown you for a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:19 PM
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Mods who ban anyone and anything they don't like for "incel content", despite not being clear what incel content is. People who use weird debate techniques to win, and not actually searching for the truth. Insults
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:11 PM
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Everytime I try this, I'm taking all the initiative. Which is fine for the first time, but I do expect the other party to also reach out the second time. I'd ask to have a drink, we drink, they never reach out again. It's not like they didn't like it, because when I ask to have a drink again they'll accept. The other party just never initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:41 PM
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How do you transition acquintances you meet at a certain location (work, club, gym, hobby) into actual friends who you talk with outside of that niche? Anytime I make these kind of acquintances, we never talk outside of the specific niche to become actual friends. It stays surface level. When I suggest to do something together, they're all busy with their own friends. Or I get a "Yeah totally bro!" and never hear from them again. Then when we lose contact, neither of us seem bothered by it and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:43 PM
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Chadriguez
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:16 AM
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Are you saying women do not look at a hot guy in public and think something along the lines of "Damn, he can get it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:13 PM
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What do I do if I literally never get "indication of interest", "fuck you eyes", "her staring at you" or whatever you call a woman looking you in the eyes because she considers you attractive? If I go somewhere no one really bats an eye at me. Even when I try to catch any women staring, nothing. Early 20s m
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:21 PM
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I don't have anyone to talk about romance. Mum and dad never said anything about it and now it's just too cringe to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:42 PM
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Exact same and why I started actively trying to look for women. Everyone told me my entire life "it'll come naturally", but the reality is that if you're a man, doing nothing gets you.. nothing. Also getting rejected, but at this point I'm just hoping that the law of large numbers will do their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:02 PM
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Q4M who have casual sex. How do you ensure the other party has no STDs and will take the pill to avoid a pregnancy? Is all casual sex done with condoms? Why would you go through all the effort if you're gonna fuck with plastic around your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:21 PM
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Generally, the fertility rate correlates negatively with a country's wealth. This doesn't just apply to countries that still live in tribal cultures. Ignoring that, what does inflation and the economy have to do with young people dating? A beer costing 15% more won't make guys go "Oh I guess I'm not gonna take her out since I might have no pension in the future!" Neither do real estate prices or low wages. Most young people aren't saving money for their retirement. Many are renting and living on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:01 PM
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I don't think the economy and inflation has much to do with young people's dating struggles. The poorest countries have some of the highest birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:47 PM
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Thanks, and I'll try. And yeah, it could've been much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:10 AM
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Please don't advise people to touch someone without their consent. If you want to hold their hand offer yours palm up. If they close the distance and clasp your hand great. If you want a hug, offer one, don Eh, I worded it differently than I wanted. What I want to say is: take the initiative to make an attempt to have physical contact (handshake, hug). It will never feel natural, but you gotta bite through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:08 AM
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Yes, she was from the same college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:07 PM
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Just had my first date ever (21m). Met her on Tinder, she looked better than in her pictures. We walked around the city for a bit, before sitting at a bar and having a drink together. Messed up the start by not giving any physical greeting, not even a handshake. I wanted to correct this later on, but at that point it seemed too awkward to say "Hey since we didn't hug before, can we do it now?" Anyways, I didn't worry much about it because what would one mistake matter? She'll probably see throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:02 PM
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I feel so bad for that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:27 PM
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Why do people even like flashy cool cars? I like any car that doesn't need to be repaired often and brings me from A to B. Only time I understand is if you're some high end lawyer and you're solely working for rich clients who won't take you serious if you drive a Toyota.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:31 AM
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It must suck living life the easiest way possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:05 AM
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Why are so many women who are obsessed with Ariana Grande insufferable? 80% of the time they think very highly of themselves as if they're another Ariana Grande. Biggest red flag I've seen so far. High chance of being narcisstic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:01 AM
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So many women in here think that autism is equivalent to being socially awkward and that you can "solve it" with therapy. You can't tell an autistic person "Just be charismatic and relaxed bro!" That's precisely what autism is about. I'm dumbing it down a bit, but autistism causes people to take things very literal which causes them to miss out on social cues. You can't "force" them to learn those social cues as they can't recognize them. It's also ironic how many women here are actually very bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:11 PM
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Lmao, stop taking this so personal. None of these are bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:07 PM
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The real key is becoming famous, whether that's singing or any other way. I lost count of how many ugly/average Youtubers met their girlfriend because she DM'd the guy after watching him. Literally think of any guy Youtuber you know, look up their girlfriend and they how met and 80% of the time it'll be that she already knew him from watching his videos and sent him a private message.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:26 PM
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Did Notch ever find a girlfriend later?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:32 PM
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If these men are ugly, then the average guy is subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:11 AM
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What are your ugly dudes with hot gfs/partners that give you hope? Here's my list in no particular order: Jacob Batalon (actor of Ned in Spiderman) Quentin Tarantino, extremely hot wife but could be a golddigger. Murray from Impractical Jokers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:38 AM
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What would society look like if men weren't as horny? My guess is that we wouldn't have evolved beyond apes. Good traits that are naturally selected for don't matter if you don't care whether you'll reproduce. Just eat banana and hang in tree all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:23 PM
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She may be forced to interact with you, but she isn't forced to give you a compliment. Unless American baristas/waitresses are so fake that they'll give out compliments that they don't really mean, in that case, disregard my advice. In my country, no one gives you a compliment while they secretly don't want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:42 PM
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Are you a managing director or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:37 PM
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King. Now compliment her next time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:37 PM
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The question is: do these men have girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:13 PM
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Cold-approaching female strangers while standing alone in a bar is about the worst way for a non-good-looking autist to make friends. What's a better way, I'm curious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:08 PM
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Did you see his thread? A lot of advice was telling him that he was normal and that he should go to bars/parties to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:05 PM
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What do you consider cold approaching though? A random person from the street, or a girl in your college class? I can't bring myself to do the former, it feels too unnatural and awkward for the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:24 PM
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Has anyone here met their gf/bf from work? What's the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:29 PM
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That thread is about OP saying that social circle does NOT work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:46 PM
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Talk some sense into me, what do you tell them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:35 PM
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A cashier versus someone in an office does increase her attractiveness to me. It shows she's thought about her future. But it's up till a certain point, for me there's no difference whether she's a doctor earning 1 million or a teacher making 50k. What I look for is that she considered her future and isn't working a dead end job. How prestigious that job that is and how high the salary is, I don't care. Just have some kind of career planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 PM
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For a few hours I was free from the singularity. Oh well, back to rotting it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:29 AM
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No man has ever said that looks do not matter to him. At the same time, it doesn´t take much to make the average man happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:16 PM
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59
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:36 PM
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Not sure what's the root cause. If I look at my dad and his friends, versus me and my friends, I notice that everything just was "easier" for his generation. He went to some church youth group and just happened to meet my mum and that was it. No self improvement shit, no going to the gym, no skincare routine, no caring about fashion. He was just himself and met someone. Everyone in his high school had girlfriends, while that was the minority of boys in my graduating class.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:36 PM
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My dad loved that series back in the day! That, and the A-Team.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:46 PM
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People really be here giving advice to dudes aged 20 while they are old enough to have watched new Seinfield episodes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:37 PM
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200 dollars for what looks like a white sweater cut in half. Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:55 PM
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No, just hormones. I'd be more scared if they weren't thinking about pussy since that'd mean they're seriously lacking testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:55 PM
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The fact you seriously think teenage boys aren't obsessed with pussy is enough for me to stop replying. A singular personal anecdote isn't a valid argument. If sex is a need, incels would just fuck each other, since clearly “guys need sex lore than women” and who better to understand that than another man? Hetero sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:50 PM
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From the few times I did it, it's mostly the same: drink alcoholic beverages talk about dumb shit and tell stories about how this reminds you of a guy who... if young, play some stupid game where you throw a table tennis ball into a cup few people who get drunk few party animals who do drugs It's a pretty okay way to talk with new people, but not everyone wants to talk to strangers there either. People still love to stay in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:30 PM
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I wish some research team would make a study whether shoe lifts/elevator shoes increase your perceived attractiveness. Bring in a hundred women to rate 20 guys without shoe lifts so that you get an average. Now bring in 100 different women to rate the same 20 guys, while wearing shoe lifts. Does their rating go up, and by how much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:33 PM
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No, theyre not. They just have better things to do than obsess over pussy. Lol, every teenage boy obsesses over pussy. All of them are getting hormones that's making them constantly horny. Don't ask how I know, but every single guy I knew in high school watched porn and jacked off. Boys in the 1980s bought playboys and used that. The reason they aren't bitter like incels yet, is because they're young and full of hope that they're the ones to have sex. Don't give them sex for ten years and they'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:26 PM
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That's because those teenage boys have sex. Every single men gets an entitlement to sex if you hold it away from him long enough. Same goes for women if they would be constantly rejected. Poor people feel entitled to a home if they live on the streets. If those teenage boys don't have sex, then imagine them not having sex for the next 10 years and checking back on them when they're age 30 and a virgin. Most would have turned bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:10 PM
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I guess it's fine. But I'd be cautious doing that if he might think you're into him when you're really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:19 PM
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If it never was serious for you, why care so much about what you're sending back? I guess if you want to FWB her when she breaks up then I wouldn't burn any bridges and be positive but distant to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:15 PM
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I'd find it cute, but only if you know him as a friend already. Sending someone a random poem without talking beforehand is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:12 PM
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I'm always bewildered that's it is common these days to say how weird it is for men to not have any female friends. The only female friend my dad had when he was younger was my mum. Same goes for every uncle I know. Same goes for the fathers of my mum and dad. None of them had any women friends except for their wives because they just did man stuff. They didn't share any interests with women, and consequently did not know many women they spent a lot of time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:13 PM
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Just use the self checkout
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:30 PM
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Should I continue messaging this girl from Tinder who responds enthusiastically but never initiates any conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:02 PM
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Just create a band while never having played an instrument, no talent and not knowing the fundamentals of songwriting bro! You think this is way easier than it is. EVen for talented musicians who spend every day of their lives creating music it's still hard as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:14 PM
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All of the interesting hot take threads that create nice debates get removed for breaking some dumb rule. You have to tip-toe around the rules, which is extremely ironic as the headmod's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:12 PM
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Anything above 3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:15 AM
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Ask her for her hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:41 PM
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Humans did, so they can. Many animals have clans and societies where they decide who eats first, who sleeps where, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:18 PM
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God she's thicc. Those are some beautiful hips while she has no double chin, normal arms and no big belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:50 PM
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I assure you that doing that to humans is not legal Because.. the law was made by those animals. Who would've thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:34 PM
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You normally make decent and nuanced takes, but this one is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:58 PM
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If down bad enough, most men will do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:30 PM
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I'd genuinely rather marry a ChatGPT powered sex robot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:40 PM
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When I was in the US I felt tall at 1.81m. I only walked in places like NYC, Boston and Philadelphia and only rarely did I see someone who was noticably taller than me. At home I'm the smallest of my friend group. It's why this stuff about American women only liking >6" men seems like bullshit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:38 PM
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Just checked Jeremy Meeks' instagram, apparently he has 1,5 million followers and is now starring in movies and television.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:06 PM
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I'm not arguing semantics, either you entirely reject the idea of Maslow's pyramid or agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:03 PM
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How does this relate to you saying that homosexual sex with heterosexual men fits into Maslow's need of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:51 PM
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Do everything in your willpower to lose it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:43 PM
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Or you should not try to be pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:39 PM
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No, you should not read it so literally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:33 PM
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That's idiotic and pedantic, so you can also say: If you're starving and eat 1 single slice of ham a day as your entire diet, your food needs are technically being met because Maslow never specified how nutritious or how much food you should get! If you're living in the middle of Siberia and freezing to death because you're naked and only have shoes on, your clothing needs are technically being met because Maslow never said how much clothing you should wear! If you live in a city where people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:13 PM
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Only a small percentage of men are homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:04 PM
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No, sex is literally at the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Not talking about love or friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:40 PM
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With "bottom" I meant most important, since the hierarchy of needs is a pyramid. I see now how confusing that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:13 PM
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Daily reminder that sex and reproduction is on the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy of needs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:56 PM
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Amazing, nice work!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:30 AM
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From the Pew Research study, 63% of men age 18-29 are single. Someone has to check whether PPD men under 30 are higher or lower than that percentage. I also wonder which location struggles the most with dating, and which location the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:35 PM
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How do clothing brands exist that sell a basic shirt/sweater for $100, while there's an identical one for $20? Not just talking about ralph lauren, even random brands I've never heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:33 PM
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I feel with you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:50 AM
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I can't really give advice since I'm not indian. Maybe it's normal for caucasians and indians to have relations in your country though, I have just personally never seen it between white woman and Indian man. Try making more indian friends of your age, they'll undoubtly know some indian women you can connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:12 AM
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Why not other indians?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:43 PM
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Most "tall girls" would commit suicide after spending less than a week as a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:18 PM
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There was research done that showed women found men with tattoos more attractive but I can't be assed to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:27 PM
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Nah this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11fokt7/what\_did\_you\_open\_up\_about\_that\_caused\_the\_end\_of/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:49 PM
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Christ, that thread about men opening up to their girlfriend and her breaking up shortly after is brutal as fuck. Guess that's the reason why I've never seen my dad cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 PM
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Many of these are so brutal. Wow. Women really are disgusted if men open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:40 PM
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Absolutely brutal, jfc I wasnt ready for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:34 PM
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https://youtu.be/vK4y6C1Uuhw CNN talking about purplepill topics such as the rise in lonely men. 80/20 rule is also mentioned. Scott Galloway is so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:11 PM
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That's my dream
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:17 PM
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Yes, that's what I was trying to refer to as well. With upbringing I also meant how you're treated in school and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:12 AM
2

Wish I grew up in the 90s. Wouldn't have wasted so much time behind a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:11 AM
1

They still get dicks from ok guys, there is no incentive for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:03 AM
2

That's mostly due to your upbringing, not genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:01 AM
1

Wasn't trying to be mean, I've done the exact same shit with many girls over the years. All of those times, I could've been saved a lot of time with the simple sentence: "If she really cared about you, she'd put in effort". Just trying to stop you from wasting any more time. Move on to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:49 AM
1

Stop thinking about her. She doesn't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:59 PM
1

True, wish something better would come that's not as predatory. Then again, that's the power of network effects in companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:36 PM
1

Fuck tinder for delaying with showing me my likes. I get no matches for days, set my profile to private for a week, and suddenly after I get a lot of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:23 PM
2

Matthew 5:5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:26 PM
1

Depends. In real life it is fine, but not over text.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:24 PM
1

Nothing, if I don't find her genuinely attractive there's nothing that can be done. Sometimes I had girls interested in me on Tinder. They'd do the typical stuff like messaging first, double text, etc. But even when I was down bad, I couldn't bring myself to put any effort into it back. All these girls either were morbidly obese, didn't put any make-up on in any of their pictures or had very short hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:45 PM
3

See the other reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:29 PM
11

What's this new found obsession with poor people? Are we supposed to care or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:31 PM
1

Good to know. Are you scared of STDS? Do you always use condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:13 PM
1

Anyone here ever paid for Tinder? I'm asking because you always hear about how Tinder uses their algorithm make you pay and isn't showing your face. Are there any men here who have previously been unsuccesful on Tinder, paid, and got more matches as a result? Also interested if you paid for Tinder and it didn't change anything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:09 PM
2

Cool, thank you for answering. Sounds like you had a good experience so far. What did you think about the safety in Colombia? Did you ever go outside when it was dark?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:14 PM
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I am, but I have no idea which steps to take after that. I really don't want to immigrate to those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:06 PM
2

What did you think about Turkey? How do you meet the women? Do you pay them, do you go to nightclubs/use tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:53 PM
2

I need me a cute Japanese/South Korean babe with thick thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:25 PM
1

Which countries did you visit for this, and which country was the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:21 PM
3

Japanese women on Tinder never show their face when I set my location to Japan. Do you have a link to the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:18 PM
4

Lmfao, legend. Shame he's banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:18 PM
3

They genuinely believe that the meth head at the gas station and the 50 year old at the pool is an accurate representation of the "average man". They then make threads asking men to leave them alone, not knowing that both of these men never heard of Reddit in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:55 PM
3

Look up clone fragrances if you want a more affordable option. Scent should be similiar but may not last as long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:57 PM
3

Not true. I've looked at a lot of junior software engineer vacancies in the US and nearly all of them require a Bachelors degree. Especially the ones that are paying you 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:55 PM
4

Any other men just feels "comfy" wearing a padded shirt that makes their shoulders bigger? Any other men just feels "comfy" wearing elevator shoes that give 4 inches in height?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:08 PM
1

Tight =/= comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:05 PM
2

Nah, short hair is ugly as shit unless you have a model tier face, which would still look better with long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:01 PM
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I believe a major factor in this is the decline in friendships in young men. You need friends to go out with. You don't go to a club alone because it feels awkward. You can't go to parties because you aren't invited. Even if you have a good social network it's not a guarantee. Not all of your friends might want to go out every time you feel like. Instead, many of these young men who would otherwise find their soulmate, feed their need with online games, Youtube videos and sites like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:14 PM
1

My eyes. My face overall looks pretty harmonious but having shit eyes just ruin it. They kinda look like mad mikkelsen's eyes except slightly more fucked and my chin and cheekbones isn't as strong to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:56 PM
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Like everything involving mother nature, it will self correct in the long run. The short term will be messy though. I still believe that most women who say they don't want any children now, will change their mind later. Your primal goal as an animal is to fuck, have kids and care for it till they get old. Anything that stops that is against your instinct that has been beautifully developed over hundred thousand years. It'll remain a niche minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:45 AM
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Yes, from a pure nature perspective. Every goal of every organism is to reproduce. An organism that doesn't want to do this, for whatecer reason, is abnormal. Being gay means that repoduction is impossible. Note: not saying they're mentally ill, just a fault in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:34 AM
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If you're a normal functioning human, you should have a natural innate desire to have babies around childbearing age. All excuses of it's painful, etc won't stop this. Pregnancy is at its easiest its ever been. Many mothers died as a result of pregnancy throughout history, and many of them knew of the risk. This was the case for hundreds of thousands of years, and through all of that, the only women left now are the descendants of those who always beared children. Every woman will eventually wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:55 PM
1

What is the difference between second degree murder and voluntary manslaughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:55 PM
1

I also love the scene where he gives him the rest of his burger/snack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:42 PM
3

US is so based for those long juicy sentences against criminals. Not those low sentences even for absolute scum like in my country. Here 5 years ago some young guy was waiting in the line at a fast food restaurant. It was late in the evening, presumely after partying. Guy X is a bit tipsy but not causing any trouble. He accidentally looks in the eyes of some lowlife hoodrat. He jokes around and asks "You enjoying those french fries?" Hoodrat says nothing back and it seemed like the end of it. Fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:39 PM
3

So you're basically PPD's Saul Goodman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:31 PM
1

I don't plan on getting a new car for a while tbf, was just wondering about it. Can't say changing gears bothers me too much even in traffic, but then again if I were to experience the alternative maybe I wouldn't wanna go back either. I believe that in the long term, most people will find it easier and more relaxing to drive automatic. But if you at this point have no problem with manual then just keep doing that. When non-electric cars are banned in the future, you'll have no choice either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:22 PM
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Hm, not sure if I'd choose automatic then. I myself really dislike switching gears, if you're fine with that and don't care about it then just keep going manual. Mainly because you gotta get used a bit to automatic, as in, driving 2 weeks with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:51 PM
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Automatic. I like paying attention to the road without constantly having to adjust shit at the same time. Switched from manual a few years ago and it's just much more relaxing. Never switching back. I understand if you're choosing manual for low budget though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:37 PM
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I understand short men doing it, they're often treated like shit and made fun of all the time so I'd do the same. I'm 178 cm barefoot and thought about elevator shoes before. The hassle just wasn't worth it for me, athough if the shoe was very comfortable to walk on I could consider it again. They were also extremely expensive, 500 euros for a pair. I would mainly do it if I'd go out. I remember being at a big public music venue and feeling small. Literally every man in the crowd was >185cm. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:32 AM
3

That's just boomers after their divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:45 PM
1

The stats are against you. 63% of men age 18-29 are single. Meanwhile, only 25% of men aged 30-49 are single. Surely if it does not get easier, more men would be single as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:15 AM
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Assuming all of them are normal functioning humans who have an innate desire to reproduce and want love: none.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:11 AM
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Gonna try and make contact with this girl who's exactly my type who is in one of my college classes. I do feel like she's already taken but I'll just try. It'll be hard at first because no one talks to strangers normally in college clases in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:07 PM
2

Tell them that gluttony is a sin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:59 PM
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Apple is overpriced shit if you bought it after 2015. I guess their cameras are better but I don't care so much to the point that I'm spending 1k on a phone. In that sense, it is the perfect phone for women. Designer branding, good camera quality for taking pictures for the 'gram, simple userface.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:58 PM
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Nah not for me. My match rate is abysmally low and my pictures are decent. Don't think I'm too ugly although not a model. Then again I'm from Western Europe so competition is insane here. The ratio was 90 to 10 if I remember correctly. I had more luck when I vacationed in the US, although all women responded much less and ghoster quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:32 PM
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Oh yeah, blank bio too. Even just putting "hey how you're doing" in your bio is better than that. I also never care whether someone's bio is funny. Would rather just see them showing their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:46 PM
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For me the biggest are: In bio only mentions drinking wine and/or going to (rave) parties Smokers, even "social smokers", absolute yuck. (Only trashy people around my age smoke) IG/snapchat in bio, will waste your time 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:44 PM
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That is the case in many cities in the US where there's a clear distinction between the "haves" and the "have-nots". I sometimes look on Zillow in cities in California and New York and holy shit, home prices are absurd. I get that tech and financebros can pay it, but what about the average guy? I consider the ultimate middle class income to be a teacher's income. Apparently the average income for a teacher in California is 62k. How are there even high school and middle schools in those absurdly …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:51 PM
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Nah, I've seen a lot of before and after surgery pictures and none of them made the patient "hot". Even after putting in hundreds of thousands of dollars, the jawline, cheekbones and general faces of Brad Pitt and Leo remain superior. Even if the guy had an extremely recessed chin, the fix mostly made him look normal instead of ugly, not hot. It's about your entire facial harmony which is mostly decided by your bone structure and fat tissues. Being attractive is about extremely subtle facial asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:44 PM
1

Had before, but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:35 PM
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No, I'm 180cm now so that difference is barely noticable. 300k seems nice but wouldn't be worth the hassle of that mum. And for that reason, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:33 PM
1

There's probably people who said the exact same about cigarettes when smoking was popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:46 PM
0

It's bizarre how few male celebrities there are that are 5"6 or shorter. Roughly 15% of American men are that height. The heightpill truly consumes all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:44 PM
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It's actually 29% of men haven't had 'regular' sex, meaning a vast majority (70%) are having regular sex. More than 80% are having semi-regular sex, mostly due to dating and being in between dates or long term partnerships. Wrong, the survey asked "How many times did you have sex the past year?", with the possible option of "Not at all", which 29% of men under 30 picked. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066 It was actually 1 in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:25 PM
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Most look incredibly plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:44 PM
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Women are massively carried by their make up. Take away that and they look worse than a lot of guys. I remember seeing my crush without her make up and she didn't look anything special. Same goes for any women. There's a reason they need 1 hour minimum to get ready in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:45 PM
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Nah you should release her in the sea and let her live her life as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:40 PM
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Never said no one can read or no one has sex though, just saying that it is a large group. Much larger than in previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:35 PM
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Sex and relationships are competitive and nobody is entitled to those things. Same goes for money, food and housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:34 PM
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30% is still a large amount. Would you say the same if 30% of people did not have proper schooling or were illiterate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:55 PM
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30% of men under 30 haven't had sex the past year. 63% of men under 30 are single, compared to 34% of women under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:43 PM
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My predictions: Political: Lonely men become an important "voting group" such as in the past with feminist women who wanted equality.This is already happening in South Korea. The main way this will be done is by adhering to an anti-feminist agenda and talking a lot about "men's issues".This will unite a lot of lonely men, in the sense that they won't care whether the political leader is economically left wing or right wing. Could see it swinging elections/coalitions in many countries. Economical…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:35 PM
1

Just want a girl who's personality doesn't revolve around drinking alcohol and going to parties. Also not morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:17 PM
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Easy, women only find 20% of the male population attractive. The upper 10% are male supermodel tier. A big portion of them probably live a playboy lifestyle so they won't ever settle down. The other group who wants to settle down isn't settling down with someone out of their league, so they're going to date someone minimally as attractive as they are, which are other supermodels and actresses. They're not going to do have babies with a 60th percentile average hag. The lower 10% sort of look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:29 AM
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Too long I did not take any action and always hoped that it'd find me. I'm getting too old for that now. I'm slowly becoming an actual adult and my lack of experience is laughable and inexcusable. I'd agree with you if I was a 30 year old something who had earlier flings. But I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:28 PM
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I mean, everyone understands that "average woman" obviously refers to the woman in their age range. The average woman in my country in my age range doesn't have children and isn't overweight, so point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:39 PM
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Combat sports are inherently unsafe - you're trying to knock the other person out most of the time. So by saying that not having weight classes makes it more "unsafe", you essentially say that one of the parties has a bigger advantage to knock the other person out. Using your line of thinking, the bigger fighter simply has a bigger advantage found in every sport. Not being big enough is like not being tall enough for the NBA, you're simply not a fit. Why do we separate males and females in almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:59 PM
1

So do you think having weight classes in combat sports is also unneeded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:49 PM
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What do Americans even like about the NBA? How can you like a sport where being tall gives you a direct advantage? Why aren't there height classes like with weight in combat sports, where the basket is lowered/raised based on the a standard ratio of the max height in that class?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:45 PM
0

Every "innocent shy girl with glasses" is always that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:38 PM
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Reading the room is incredibly hard because people respond differently when they talk with someone who they're attracted to. I can be a comedian around girls I don't care about but I get shy and nervous around girls I want to ask out. Meanwhile, other men might have the exact opposite. Same applies to women, some women become scared/shy when they talk with someone they're intested in, while others are very friendly. But still, you'll run into the problem of how she was just "being friendly". The…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:27 PM
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I'm a single young man but agree with him. Any hair outside of the top of a woman's head is masculine. It's fine if you want to look like a guy, but outside of that nah. Funnily enough, women who prefer men with beards because it makes them look more masculine don't create the same fuss. The fact he said it to someone is rude though, best just to unmatch the person if you're not interested and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:33 PM
1

Doesn't Ronaldo have a wife? Is she infertile?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:01 PM
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Anyone else just trying to get rich enough so that if all else fails, I can pay for a surrogate? It goes against all primal ways of how winner male animals are chosen to have kids, but I guess that's the beauty of capitalism, specifically money. Sounds pathetic but I refuse to leave this planet without having created atleast one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:53 PM
1

The only reason I hate Onlyfans is that I wish I was the one to have made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:40 PM
1

Depends on what you consider respectable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:29 PM
1

RemindMe! 1 year
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:11 AM
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God, it's depressing how many women are "tired" from having guys confess their feelings for them. Imagine this regularly happening to you, let alone getting tired from something like that. Even more depressing is how they're fine with being friends with men, but consider them too ugly to fuck. Can't think of a bigger insult, "Yeah you're personality is nice and all, but you're just too ugly teehee!" is what she's saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:50 PM
1

Memo to myself: If you're still alone next Valentines, it means you didn't take any action and you're a failure. If you're together with a girl who often uses drugs, you're also a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:43 PM
7

What do you offer of value to your female social network?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:07 PM
1

his David Attenborough video is hilarious,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:37 PM
2

Didn't know it was in Canada now as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:31 PM
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Being the only asian in a caucasian group seems brutal, saying this as a white guy myself. I genuinely can't think of the last time that I saw a relationship of an asian guy with a caucasian girl. Whether online or in real life. I went to the US for a 4 weeks past summer where this should be more common and didn't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:13 PM
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Fuck their rules, just be known as the guy that casually hits on them. But yeah having woman friends does not much for your romantic options. They never really care that you're single if you're a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:57 PM
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Only if they're not overweight. Some women think way too fast that they're thicc when in reality they're just obese. Girls who are within normal weight and still have big tits are goddesses though. Shame they always go for taller guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:46 PM
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What is an appropriate age to start watching porn, how many days a week do you consider "in moderation"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:29 PM
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Men getting a wive, children and a mortgage has stopped way more men from achieving their dreams than porn ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:29 PM
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I already watch that show. What about it? Murray scoring a beautiful wife while he's a 46 year old celebrity millionaire doesn't disprove what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:45 PM
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If a dude tells you he is gay, he's 100% gay. If a woman tells you she's lesbian, it's always on the following: likes the attention of being different, not actually lesbian makes sure that you know you have zero chance of getting with her, not actually lesbian still thinks men are hot, just dislikes living with them is actually lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:39 PM
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So many times I've been told in here that the average guy was doing okay. Where are all of those people now? I'm just happy that we've finally disproved all of that. The conclusion is that the average guy is massively struggling. Society will ultimately see the consequences of this through things like a lot more outcast men who commit crimes, lower labor participation, extremist attacks, lower birth rates, more depression, higher suicide rates for men, more aggression. I wonder what the impact o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:07 PM
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A lot of women on here say this though, as well as some bluepilled >30 y/o Joes who had their first kiss before Tinder even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:44 AM
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"most guys are doing fine, average women pair up with average men, it's all in your head inkwell teehee" I've heard this so many times on this subreddit from women. I absolutely knew for certain that this is not the case looking at my friend group and acquitances, but I never had any statistics. But now here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:43 AM
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Depends if he has model-tier face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:34 PM
1

Eh, I grew up with a caring dad who I looked up to and still got to this subreddit. My youth was great, but it doesn't make much difference for your romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:31 PM
1

These are all musicians and actors. How you see them on TV and the internet is what they want you to see. They're just the same as any other guy, albeit slightly more narcisstic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:29 PM
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Exactly. It's easy as fuck for a normal young woman to enter a relationship with an average guy, no dating app needed whatsoever. So the ones who are on dating apps either aren't normal (undesirable) or have way too high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:37 PM
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Lmao, I saw that image as well when making this comment. The heightpill consumes all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:14 PM
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Some random meme on instagram made me search up the Twilight movies and the actor for Jacob. Christ, that guy had a perfect life. He earned $13 million from all the movies by age 19 with insane looks. For some reason I thought he was much older in those movies. Apparently now he's happily married and has a kid, but his career kinda fell off after the Twilight saga. Although I don't think he cares much while sitting in his mansion. Worry not though, not even he could escape the blackpill. Apparen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:39 PM
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Biggest ones are being a single mother and a drug abuser. At that point, most men will see you as just something to fuck every now and then instead of relationship material / the potential mother of their children. There's probably some men for the drug addicts who are fellow addicts, as well as some men for the single moms who are single fathers. All else being equal, there's still a large amount of men who will avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:23 PM
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I hate the word "panic attack" so much. Somehow, only women seem to have them whenever they have to confront something. Crying, being nervous and whatever is fine. Just don't call it a panic attack. Panic attacks are extremely intense and can make you feel like you're nearly dying. Facing something that is slightly inconvenient isn't that. It's the same misuse when women say "I'm so lonely!" when they're jealous or didn't feel like the center of attention in a group of people for more than five …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:24 PM
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If men could control their sexual desires, humanity wouldn't even have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:13 PM
1

If you genuinely think that young men in SEA are as tall as American and European men, then you're being delusional. The mean height in the Thai military for male recruits in 2006 was 169 cm. According to the Statistics Korea in 2020, the average height for a South Korean man in his 20s was 174 cm. The reason everyone looks taller is because it is quite common for men to wear elevator shoes in South Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:51 PM
2

Be above 6"1 and have a good jawline, you missed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:23 AM
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Ironically, those are all conventionally attractive men so the "varied tastes" that you are describing are still mostly the same with slightly different quircks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:21 AM
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I wasn't trying to be offensive. I genuinely don't understand how you were in 3 relationships without having sex. It must drive these men crazy, unless they're asexual robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:31 PM
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I guess you don't count blowjobs and handjobs as sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:26 PM
0

You never say to your friends: "Woah, she's hot?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:13 PM
1

Ofcourse she doesn't even understand the basic concept of camera angles. Does she also think the Tower of Pisa is actually human sized?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:12 PM
1

You are in your third long term relationship and have zero sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:08 PM
0

This is the answer. Not everyone can have that top 20% so it's better just to fantasise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:07 PM
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My biggest mistake is how badly I was a simp in my teenage years. Helped a lot of girls with their homework. Like I used to send them homework and summaries for exams if they asked in the hopes of them getting/being attracted to me. Spent two years multiple hours a week talking to a girl on snapchat and got friendzoned later on. Also just simped for a lot of other girls in school without any return. Would've been cool had any of it worked, but it didn't. So much time wasted, I was so much made u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:24 PM
4

Imagine getting insecure because a random perfume salesman noticed your mum is more likely to buy perfume than yourself. How do you even function in society at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:44 AM
3

Men's primal instinct to spread their seed is stronger than women's primal instinct to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:31 PM
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There are many rich, succesful men who also want a submissive bang maid. The image you're trying to paint isn't true. Just like how not only poor lazy sluts can be bitches, but also rich succesful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:26 PM
1

We know it's all about looks, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:43 AM
1

Too much effort for them when you already see guys everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:02 PM
1

True, but in reality it's probably gonna take more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:50 PM
1

They don't need to. Most of them already have 3 orbiters from their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:40 PM
2

We're all gonna make it, keep your head up king. Trying to better myself as well, but it's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:28 PM
10

You probably don't even find 5"3 Indian programmers attractive. Really rude of you ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:19 PM
11

Sorry, all women are queens and everyone looks perfect the way they are. Now happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 PM
9

I am, can't even get fatties I wouldn't look twice at in public to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:35 AM
-4

If a woman ever has traumas or issues with sex due to her past, run as fast as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:28 PM
1

My frame is a lot better than him I think, it was mostly to show the fat/muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:20 PM
1

He doesn't explain it well Does he explain anything well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:36 PM
1

If that's you in your profile picture, you definitely are not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:36 PM
1

At an outdoor restaurant in perfect sunlight, nice smile with my mouth closed In front of the White House with my arms crossed and smiling At a party in a tuxedo, slightly blurry In a restaurant, lightning could be better. Random selfie I took in my house when light was really good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:33 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:26 PM
1

Skinnyfat, without doxxing myself it's very similiar to this: https://i.imgur.com/17wVzQQ.png I get it, not exactly Prince Hercule, but I shouldn't struggle this hard. This is very average in my country though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:46 PM
2

Another day without a single Tinder match. My pictures aren't even bad quality either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:28 PM
1

Being a male streamer is such an easy way to get a girlfriend, I'm actually jealous. Hundreds of thousands, if not millions of young women watch you. Because of this, there's is an extremely high chance that atleast one of them is both hot and really into you. What's her name?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:23 PM
2

Yes, when I was young especially. I always blamed my exam failures on the teacher just being bad or making the test too hard when I probably could've done more. Sometimes I was right though, like when barely anyone had sufficient grades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:34 PM
1

Try 0 at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:21 PM
5

Lmfao, ofcourse the writer is a woman. Yeah, if you're a short woman you'll have no negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:57 PM
3

It's legitimately over if you're 38 and never had a romantic experience, whatever your height was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:56 PM
1

The creator of Minecraft (Notch) has a billion dollars but is still lonely as fuck in a Hollywood mansion which gave him mental issues and caused his tirades on twitter. Before someone tells me that it was because of his personality. Possibly, but there are much worse dudes than him who don't seem to lack any options. Also, his loneliness gave him his mental issues, not the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:12 PM
1

If she was interested in one of them, it wouldn't have made a difference either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:55 AM
2

A. It will make things awkward since I purposefully put in effort in conversations. If there are long silences, that means the other person isn't reciprocating the favour. Shyness or being an intovert is not an excuse, since you can easily get someone to open up by asking things they like to talk about. Silences always indicate that someone is not throwing the ball back, which means I'll nope out. I don't mind carrying a conversation, but it'll never work out if the other person says nothing. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:51 AM
4

It's weird; every time I was rejected by a woman that I was very attracted to, I subconsciously stopped looking at them through these rose-tinted glasses. You realize that many of them aren't any more special than your average bloke. At that point, you judge them as harsh as another guy. Many of them had no own interest or real personality, they just copied what seemed cool at the time. It's hard to be friends with someone when you see them like that. This wasn't some revenge thing for rejecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:41 AM
1

It came up recently because they started talking about attracting decent women being easy to a shorter guy in our social circle that claimed to have "tried everything" I don't understand; are they saying that attracting decent women is easier if you're shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:31 AM
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Yep. If you look like a nerd and your personality is nerdy, it's always better to join the nerd group instead of trying to join the cool kids/jocks. People subconsciously sense whether you fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:37 PM
1

Yes, self esteem is a direct result of your achievements and how others treat you. If there's a group of 10 people and 9 people bully 1 guy, he'll never get self esteem no matter how much self help bullshit he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:32 PM
1

That's family and sense of connection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:30 PM
1

I don't care. The only thing I'd hate is if my child chooses for their s/o an unambitious loser who does drugs, too much alcohol and has tattoos. Basically, anyone who lacks self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:08 PM
3

Average male height in japan is 5"7, so why do you only see 6" men in relationships? Probably the reason why their birth rate is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:47 PM
2

Like I said, everyone is attracted to perfect people but most humans are fine with average. If women wouldn't be able to have genuine desire for average men, earth population would never have become this big. Every single man on earth prefers a woman with bigger breasts, bigger hips with an hourglass skinny shaped body. At the same time, most men have no problem entering a relationship with a woman who is on the flatter side or doesn't have these features. Would you call that settling as well? B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:14 PM
3

Most guys are attracted to perfect women as well, but they're also fine with less and average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:13 PM
0

That's exactly what I'm saying, gotta hold it out for that .1%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:28 PM
-2

They could be fucking loads of guys A minority of women want casual sex they could just want to hold off on relationships until later Wrong, most women aren't asexual creatures and want a relationships they could want nothing to with men at that point in time How big is that group? they could be lesbians Wrong, atleast for the ones I checked. This bullshit binary thinking is what's wrong with TRP. Your entire reasoning relies on things a small percentage women do and then applying it to the enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:55 PM
0

Most people who are in a relationship show this on their profile, atleast here. It's also a contradiction to say that "people only show their best lifes on instagram" while also saying "people don't show their relationship on instagram"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:47 PM
-2

Most women aren't asexual and want a boyfriend, so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:43 PM
0

What other reason do you think they're single then? Why is it a stretch to say that she doesn't think all her current options are up to her standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:39 PM
1

Nah, these are just normal women with Instagram. Everyone here has Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:00 PM
6

I don't see them. From my early 20s friend group, only the 6"2 tallest guy has a highschool sweetheart relationship as well as another average guy who lucked out by spending an entire year partying and meeting a lot of people. He genuinely didn't do anything else, just partying every few days for an entire year. In my country, most women I see on Instagram who are my age are single. I predict that most of them are holding it out for chad, because I know for certain that there's many single avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:23 PM
4

Yeah but girls from those countries rarely date foreigners I think
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:48 PM
1

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:39 PM
0

Meh, I'd only want either Korean or Japanese girls and they only date men of their own country I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:36 PM
14

Just spend every waking hour of your life in the gym brah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:01 PM
60

It's over. Personalitymogged to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:42 PM
92

Me at the right. Sorry for not taking off my shirt guys, I completely forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:38 PM
1

I have those as well. Believe the term is "eyes with high eyelid exposure" and "prey eyes". Funny how our experiences match. Teachers would always call me "tired looking" in class despite having no problem sleeping, while my friends would call me high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:36 PM
1

Those are not hooded eyes, LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:31 PM
2

Meet more people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:23 PM
5

So what should short men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:22 PM
8

Lmao she has a worse hairline than my 56 year old dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:10 PM
1

I'm skinny though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:44 PM
1

Holy shit imagine unironically thinking this about a law review study. Please don't be able to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:18 PM
1

This doesn't even happen though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 PM
3

Nah they'd just be another nerd with a long sleeve shirt and a jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:58 PM
27

I'd argue the opposite, if you're willing to go to an actual incel meetup you're on the extreme side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:06 PM
1

Agree, I guess he's dead average for his age and race.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:17 PM
6

That's because Tom is weird as fuck in all other aspects. Avid scientologist, narcisstic, controlling. Also to be that succesful you need to be acting 24/7 which I assume is what he did and why he never saw his children. However his face in his peak is legitimately the most harmonious face I've ever seen. Never heard a woman call him unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:14 PM
6

Lmao you made me laugh for 3 minutes straight. Thank you. God, I wish it was purge week every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:12 PM
2

What does money matter if you're alone? I guarantee you that every single guy would rather be poor and have a loving relationship than rich without a relationship (and no way to get one except for paying)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:11 PM
2

Not unattractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:05 PM
2

If you get a solid amount of matches on Tinder, you're not as unattractive as you're claiming. I tried Tinder from my hotel and got 0 matches, lmao. At that point I knew it wasn't my location.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:01 AM
1

That quote sounds based. From who is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:41 AM
1

I've got a loving family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:38 AM
1

Back when I was in New York I felt dead average at 5"10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:27 AM
1

How do you meet them? Like if I moved to NYC with zero connections, what would you do? I definitely see sense in your post though. People are much more social in cities like NYC, maybe it's the vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
3

Girls my age? I'd say a good 40 to 60%. As long as you aren't flatter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:19 AM
9

God you're dense. Imagine thinking this takes any effort. I love how "basic bitch" your comment looks. Classic dense dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:16 AM
9

The trigger conveniently jams, just in time for her to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:09 AM
3

I wonder which gender earns more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:22 PM
4

You guys literally bitch at women being better at being men than men are Better in what sense? Also you're funny as fuck if you think "degree and an income" will give you any advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:20 PM
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Majority would be depressed after their third rejection and in arms for "politics" to do something against high standards. They'd also create new terms for women having high standards to shame women into lowering them, but in a much more effective way than men ever could. Similiar to "mansplaining" and "me too" and "pick me girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:06 PM
3

Keyword: careful, not paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:45 PM
7

Stop ignoring statistics. Fewer women fall victim to violence than men. Female victims know the perpetrator more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:39 PM
0

Do you use condoms, are you afraid of STDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:07 PM
1

If you're serious about it, maybe try a sports club. Anything will do, just join as a beginner, meet people, get healthy at the same time because you're working out. It's a win all around. I join a sports club. No one talks to me because I'm an ordinary Joe and all the cliques have been formed years ago. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:28 PM
1

Step 1 is getting off the internet and especially getting out of any incel/black pill infested spaces, such as this one. Tell me exactly which location to go to. Step 2 is likely putting some work into your appearance. Most guys don't really do that, so it's an easy way to set yourself apart. Get a proper haircut, get some proper fashionable stuff to wear, get a skincare routine, be hygienic. Almost ALL women do this by the way, so this is really the minimum you can do. Agreed, although I do mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:34 PM
2

I love how the actor of Ron was the one who now has a happy family with a loving wife. Hopefuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:19 PM
1

He's not saying the first part you strawmanning idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 PM
2

They are, because males in nature have a strong biological urge to spread their seed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:55 PM
6

Lmfao that sub was unironically amazing except for the borderline insane shit there was sometimes. Many memes were amazing though, burst out laughing multiple times. Anyone remember the black guy who was the waiter in a cinema meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:51 PM
1

putting in real work and improving yourself. Tell me precisely what you think this entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:50 PM
11

Most men swipe right on 40-50% of women, which is normal. Being attracted to .1% of men because their jawline is that much better isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 PM
5

Try it yourself, right now. Download some amateur selfies from Sean O'Pry in his 20s and make a fucked up bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:41 PM
7

Dude was just trying to warn how bitcoin will hit 50k in 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
8

Men are attracted to good looking women as well, but they're fine with it if she doesn't look perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:37 PM
2

I don't see how it's related, fitness is always generally good unless you're stressed out of your mind and you can't afford to spend any mental energy. I'm quite skinny (although not skeleton, just untrained). I do try to jog once a day. If I'd lift I'd only do it for muscles. I get that's what women like but I'm pretty socially isolated at the moment. Working hard on that last part. What do you like doing for fun? With the right strategies, I feel like making friends and maintaining a social ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:56 AM
3

Why not 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:16 AM
4

Ps4?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:29 PM
1

I'll never understand the desperation some poor people have. Like, yachts are great but it's mid at best when you're with a group you're not totally friends with and have a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 PM
2

Thanks so much for the detailed reply, will watch them. Although I'm not into casual sex, considering I haven't even experienced normal love yet lmao For example you said you just graduated hs, so if your plan is to go to a party school then I would recommend you join a frat and learn to post tiktok content. Not sure if I'm a right fit for frats. I don't mind a good party with drinks once a while, but I don't want it every other day if you understand. If you're a shy gamer dude then I would reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:10 PM
1

People help women much quicker and can make friends much easier on the sole fact that they're women. Like another poster said: go to a subreddit for finding friends and notice how threads by females are the only ones to get replies. You won't ever realize this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:03 PM
1

I'd love to, do you have any recmomendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:59 PM
2

No, I did show my interest in girls that I thought were showing signs of being interested into me. All of those times, it was just the classic trope of: "I was just being friendly!" Others, who I didn't talk, were probably into me. My friends would sometimes randomly ask: "Do you like x?" I never knew whether they were pranking me or not (which was normal for them to do) so I just denied everytime they asked. But like 80% of guys in my graduating class were single, so it doesn't matter much what…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:48 AM
1

Can I have a source, or is this your prediction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:30 AM
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Most girls in my graduating high school class were single because the tall/attractive boys already had someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:19 PM
1

Sure, but I'm also curious into your anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:43 PM
2

You don’t need a source lol you clearly disagree. I'm willing to be convinced. Just really can not believe it right now, but that may be due to my circumstances in life. And cope with what, exactly lol I’m not upset. It's just an internet term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:51 PM
2

Lmao, I genuinely wonder if that guy found a girlfriend yet. Would love for a journalist to look into it. He is after all an icon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:35 PM
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There’s a reason most “pretty” or “hot” women end up marrying unconventional looking men; Although I'm early 20s and don't know anyone that is married (apart from my uncles and aunts), I still do not believe that attractive women end up marrying not conventionally attractive men. Just seems like another "Men have all the choosing in their 30s!" cope
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:29 PM
3

He's talking obviously about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:01 PM
1

Napoleon complex isn't real. If the person was the same but taller, you'd just assume that he was socially dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:21 AM
1

From what I’ve read, the combination of later marriage, young adults living at home, increased video game use and decreased alcohol use is reducing sex for both genders. I agree. But when I wanted to make a thread to discuss exactly this, my post was swiftly removed for "incel content". After enquiring, the mod found the words "recent rise of male virginity" an incel concept, which could not be discussed. Really blew my mind with some of the insane shit you see here, but whatever. I assume that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:59 PM
11

Agreed. Not really related to the thread, but a lot of people also like to critique "geomaxxxing" in the sense that these women only wants the guys for their visa. But when I look at the guys themselves, they seem happy and their relationships are lasting long at this point. None of them are married either. It'd seem like too much effort for the women just for the visa alone while secretly not liking the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:21 PM
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I also know 2 guys who did this. One has a thai girlfriend, he spends half the year in Thailand. The other works as a programmer from the Philippines wherehe also found a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:01 PM
1

I thought the rise of virginity in men was an incel concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:19 PM
1

You think about the latter when you're horny, you think about the former when post nut clarity hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:18 PM
1

Robert De Niro? Emperor Nero? Ben Shapiro?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:34 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:33 PM
3

I'm surprised that OLD is still kicking around as much as it is, given just how much men and women alike complain openly about it. Everyone and their grandma is saying "I met my boyfriend on Tinder!" which constantly brings in a new cycle of thirsty dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:32 PM
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My parents had it so effin' easy. All they did was go to some church youth program and met each other there. None of this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:30 PM
1

I understand, but even when you consider all of those factors, I still find it unlikely that a large majority of men were sexless during those times, which is being implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:58 PM
2

I feel like the conclusion doesn't neccessarily follow from the result. Did 1 in 17 men reproduce, or do 1 in 17 men have surviving descendants today? There's also this paper that debunks it: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/haeccb/successful_neolithic_men_did_not_typically/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:52 PM
0

for the most part, the girls using dating apps frequently are the average to below average girls. Exactly. I once matched with an okay looking girl, we talked a lot and facetimed but something always felt wrong. I quite never understood why she would need Tinder to find love, considering she was the same age as me and moderately attractive. Eventually I found out that she had a lot of mental issues and basically spent her days alone working some shitty job and sometimes visiting her sister. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:24 PM
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Never called women objects, that's all on you. With average I just meant your average girl, like your average Joe. Here, I'll answer your original question for OP: "I am a living, breathing entity with my own desires, dreams, highs and lows and everything in-between. Just like you. Whatever you deem yourself to be, so am I.Instantly, I am not 'average' - the very process of being a human being makes us special. Women are the Ying, men are the Yang. They work in tandem.So what I bring to the tabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:54 PM
2

I think most frustrated men here are only a handful of life adjustments away from having some measure of success. A few adjustments could of course mean a lot of work, I don't deny that. Which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:45 PM
8

What does the average woman bring to the table, looks aside?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:21 PM
1

Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:39 PM
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Agree, mans looked majestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:58 PM
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Good point, edited the images so it shows the names.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:17 PM
2

How are the people buying drugs the victims? Drugs have been around forever. Thats just victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:05 PM
1

Where do I meet them, except for those cons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:04 PM
-1

Yes? Imagine if there was a large group of young women who are so depressed that they're willing to pay money to get the feeling that she has friends or is called beautiful. This victim blaming shit is exactly what drove these men into paying for it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:01 PM
12

That's not what most think of with the word socially awkward. What you're describing is on the verge of downright insanity. Most think of socially awkward as not knowing a subject to talk about, asking the other person a lot of questions like it's an interview, stuttering, awkward silences, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:09 PM
-2

Logical, literal, asocial, it doesn't matter what it's called. I already gave my explanation: - The winners of Math Olympiads are mostly men, despite equal education opportunities; - Math-heavy majors are primarily done by men, despite equal education opportunities; - There is a large rating gap between men vs women chess players, anyone can play chess; - Women cry more and longer than men; - Women are three times more likely than men to experience common mental health problems. Not saying that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:14 PM
-2

Saying it blunt here, but women are more emotional "brained" and men are more logical "brained". This is why there's more men diagnosed with autism, why most Math Olympiad winners are male despite equal education opportunities, why math-heavy degrees are primarily done by men despite equal education opportunities, etc. Socialising doesn't require logical intelligence. In fact, it actually works against you since you might take things too literal like those diagnoed with autism do. Socialising do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:22 PM
17

The thing is: it's only "wrong" if she isn't attracted to you. Also, asking someone out doesn't mean "Hey you're hot can I have your number?" Most of the time it's having a normal conversation with someone and asking for their contacts at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:55 PM
1

Same for long hair versus short groomed hair as a guy. From age 10 to 15 I had long hair because I genuinely didn't know it was seen as gay/female. My mum always said it looked okay so I just rolled with it. Having a youngish looking face didn't help either. I was always automatically seen as a nerd but had no idea why. Girls didn't want to talk with me either. At age 16 I started getting into haircuts and got my barber to cut it short. Immediately I noticed that everyone treated me with more re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:52 PM
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If men want to date women who initiate and don't expect gendered roles, they should date feminists. Seriously, my ex said this all the time. Sounds good in theory, but every single feminist still wants a dominant masculine man who can take care of her and be a leader. Biological preferences triumphs ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:07 AM
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Going to say the same next time a woman is groped/stayed at her abusive ex/declined a job offer or promotion because she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:05 AM
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We fish are not all the same. Some of us like ingredient x, and some of us like ingredient y more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:27 PM
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The only reason I know that reference is because of a certain song. I forgot what the name was though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:18 PM
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Honestly when I hear men claiming to struggle to the extent that's claimed on this sub I'm like "how" Having no one interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:41 PM
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I agree with this post but it is now up to male entrepreneurs to install some sense of balance to the dating market. Here's my solution: Assuming a ratio of 9 men to 1 women, each guy only gets 1 match. As soon as a guy has 1 match, they're removed from the swiping pool until they removed that match. Women, however, can still match with 10 to 20 men. This breaks up the monopoly the top 20% men have and pretty much guarantees each men will be seen atleast once. The downside to this is that many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:57 AM
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Nah, it's not so black and white. Sometimes you meet a woman who is cute and looks innocent. Then you learn that she had a lot of casual sex and can't shut up about her first ex. This always makes me lose a lot of attraction for her than I initially had. Also, no one can truly hide their body count. You might not know the exact number, but you can make a estimated guess on what she's telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:46 AM
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It means they want a man who is, compared to themselves, physically, emotionally, intellectually and financially superior. You can't be inferior to her. If she could beat you in a physical fight, make you cry in a discussion, feels like she is smarter than you or can buy more things with her wage, she will think that you are inferior and will leave. Women always date up, never down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:53 PM
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and I did not do this for women One sentence later: I did this mainly for me and the future woman I knew I would have and now have. For the future family I will have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:43 PM
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The virginity rate for young men in 1989 was 7%. In 2018 it was 27%, now probably around 30-35% because of the pandemic. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:39 PM
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The first spot where fat goes is your belly. Like I said, woman's "dad bod" is just lifting a lot and exercising but with a slightly high body fat percentage to hide the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:58 PM
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Which of these do you think qualifies as a dad bod? A top tier well trained body with a slightly high body fat percentage: https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/33421fbc3a09174daac93618ad026ff05325356d/0_0_750_591/master/750.jpg?width=700&quality=85&auto=format&fit=max&s=c81c46c1c54d7ad2fa652c7ae1a7cc3b Or, someone who does what you described: https://metro.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/dadbod-comp.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=1028&h=630&crop=1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:09 PM
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What women think a dad bod means, isn't what an actual dad bod is. Women think a dad bod is when a guy has some good muscles but with a slightly high bodyfat percentage so that his muscles are covered by fat and he doesn't look "ripped". Think Jason Mamoa with his "dad bod", or, Zac Efron, Chriss Pratt, Mark Wahlberg and Sean Penn. This is just fit and sorta bulking/not paying attention to what you're eating, but still lifting. The difference with an actual dad bod is when you have a big belly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:06 PM
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I’m not sure how can I work around my height ? I feel like I have to accept I’m at the bottom of male preferences and Be in a relationship where a man settled for me or die alone forever Are you sad because chad isn't going to marry you because he isn't primarily attracted to tall women, or because you legitimately can't find a man who is willing to look past your height and enter a relationship with you? One is your own fault, the other is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:32 PM
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Not sure if you're doing it on purpose, but that's a false dilemma. There's a big area between "everyone finds romance" vs "no one finds romance". Obviously, you won't be able to get EVERYONE find a partner, but can we atleast agree that there's a real problem if romantic loneliness is rising to absurd levels within one gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:33 PM
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The person who will be able to solve the male loneliness epidemic, even if short term, is going to get uber rich. People are willing to dish out a lot of money when they lack intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:28 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting an attractive and sympathetic partner with emotional vulnerability and communication skills. There is something wrong with it when too many of them have high standards which is causing romantic loneliness en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:19 PM
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You're doing the classic woman thing where you don't see non-Chad men as actual men, and thus take them out of the equation. Men with options are the ones who will not settle, because they have all the leverage. They could get a new girlfriend every two months, and those short-stints of having a girlfriend are far more dopamine inducing than marriage. There's no incentive for them to marry. Most normal Joes can't "pull" another woman as quickly as chad. They are the ones who will swipe on Tinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:17 AM
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Keep your head up, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:10 PM
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Nah, the turning point was 2008. This was right when virginity for both men and women was the same, but changed drastically for men the following years. This was right when the Iphone became common usage and smartphones changing to touchscreens. This also introduced the app store, which would pave the way for dating apps and globalised dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:25 PM
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P.s. no house wives allowed. Lazy as fuck. Yes I'll do 50% of any house work. But you ain't sitting on your ass all day. How could I ever respect a woman like that. Wait, there are seriously housewives that expect their man to do 50% of the house work? Or am I reading this wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:39 PM
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100% this is true. This is coming from someone who dated ALOT in her 20s. I really giggle at all the men on here who think women dont have to worry about their income or career being a turnoff to men. Most men nowadays expect a woman to work, and to work at a job where she will make decent money, meaning she can afford to pay her own bills and go out and have fun with them not paying for everything. Genuine question, how would you even meet the guy if you don't have a job? Like how would a girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:37 PM
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Define exploitation? Would you still see it as exploitation if he was the man of your dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:56 PM
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That's what I'm hinting at, do you really need to go for the gym for that instead of letting your fat go away naturally by eating less? There's a whole lot of range between being fat and ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:12 PM
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Here's an experiment. Gain 80 pounds of lard and then tell us if it becomes easier or more difficult. You don't need to lift or go to the gym if you're overweight and want to lose the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:57 PM
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It's not male projection, it's mathematically impossible for each women to settle with a chad (a chad being top 20% man), unless he has harems. So from a purely logical view, women will be forced to marry their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:52 PM
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Notice how Chris Brown never has a problem getting into relationships, despite being the most well known women beater in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:02 PM
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Countless videos proved that as long as your jawline, cheekbones and eyes look a certain way, you could send "wanna fuck" and you'll get enthusiastic replies back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:46 PM
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Women aren't that superficial. The reality is that a lo of men stink of desperation and that really is off putting You can send the exact same ""desperate"" messages with a male model face and it suddenly it isn't desperation, but playful flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:40 PM
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Maybe that’s the problem, men need to stop going to places with low hanging fruit like at college parties, clubs and bars. Asking them out in any other place is a social death sentence if she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:57 PM
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Now I'm curious which celebrity you do find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:29 PM
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Zendaya. Facially she looks like a mildly attractive mixed girl but nothing spectacular. Bodytype is flat and I really don't like that. Her personality seems nice though, but that's not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:20 PM
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For me it is the fact that women only consider a small percentage of men truly attractive and the fact that these traits can't be changed (height, facial bone structure). I heard women say on here how they find less than 1% attractive of men. Meanwhile, when I'm out and about I think "damn, she's bad" on like 70% of women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:33 PM
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Are you ethnic skinned? Are you asking out caucasian Swedish women? If so, that's probably the reason you aren't seeing much result. I've literally never in my entire life seen an ethnic man with a white women. They avoid them like the plague. My honest advice: ask out ethnic girls instead. Best of luck soldier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:06 PM
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Men have been obsessed with sex since the dawn of time. Ever thought about what the oldest profession is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:17 PM
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Unironically this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:17 PM
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No, there'd just be the same 20% but now even more selective. If every guy looked the exact same, women would go for the top 20% of men based on social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:44 PM
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As you can see in Sweden, for example, there are a lot of men marrying asian women and a lot of salty swedish women who are trying to put a stop to it (stop that is basically them whining instead of actually getting married). Do you have a link to this? Not doubting you just genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:02 PM
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Meanwhile, you can go to Portugal where everyone is very short, or Holland where everyone is very tall, or Poland where everyone is very close to global average, and women there do not care that much for height, because they don't see meaningful variance. I'm from one of those countries and people very much do care about height. The only guys who had girlfriends in my graduating high school class were much taller than average or literal models
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:58 PM
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Are they from Latin America?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:56 PM
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No no, we always offer sympathy and say: how terrible how those companies are treating you! Eat the rich, tax companies into oblivion!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:30 PM
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Her dating advice? "You need to put yourself out there. I'm sure you'll meet a nice boy at church, volunteering, etc." Never mind that I've tried those things and there are no "nice boys" at church, the gym, or volunteer gigs. It's scary how similar they are to each other. What do you mean by "nice boys"? There's so many normal guys I became friends with at church and certain volunteering gigs, I've been there myself. I mean yeah you might not meet with young Leonardo di Caprio but you can't com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:18 PM
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Feel sorry for me it's society fault I'm making minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:11 PM
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Stop saying it's because of the economy. Male sexlessness didn't rise as much during the great depression, 1973 oil crisis, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:48 PM
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Misreading signs can be incredibly dangerous to a man's social life To give a real example: The company my brother works at had a party to celebrate hitting targets. A female collegue constantly flirts with a male collegue he knows, dancing with him, etc. Eventually she wants to go home and waits for the cab, male collegue she's been talking with the entire party comes over and waits with her and.. puts his arm over her shoulder. Next day she goes to her boss to say that he touched her without c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:05 PM
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And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why you never immediately believe a woman who says she has been raped by an otherwise normal guy. Literally both consensually naked and making out and still the "He raped me" trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:10 AM
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Exactly. Ask yourself: Who was happier? The young peasant working physically in the fields with a very strong community, or the office wageslave with much less social relations? Sure, technology has obviously advanced and certain ilnesses are gone. But at the time they didn't know any better. Same as to how in 100 years they'll think how depressed we would've been all the time without a true cure for cancer and non self riding cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:10 AM
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The discussion just becomes whether humans and chimps have the same primal instinct. I think they do, similiar to how dogs and wolfs share them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:58 PM
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Weren't you the one trying to devalidate my claim by saying how we share 60% of our DNA with bananas and that we're direct descendants from a cell? You're implication is that human and apes aren't comparable in any way, similiar to how we're not comparable to a banana and the cell. Any normal thinking human would understand that apes are the closest relative to humans and that it wouldn't be farfetched to say that we share some primal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:33 PM
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That would argue even more for my case
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:55 PM
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Are you being serious right now? Would you also say that a wolf and a dog are in zero ways comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:50 PM
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Again, they're direct descendants. I get the point you're trying to make but it'd be the same as saying that dogs and wolfs are totally different animals who are not comparable in any sort of way (they share only 98.8% of DNA), which is what you're trying to insinuate and obviously untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:12 PM
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My dude we're directly related to chimps. This is basic biology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:20 PM
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We're direct descendants from Chimps though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:18 PM
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Very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:13 PM
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What makes you think befriending high ranking alpha males are easier then befriending normal women? Never said one is easier than the other. It's about which one has results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:06 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:05 PM
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Smart, one cancels out the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:37 PM
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Watch coffeezilla's vid on him. He's just a grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:39 PM
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That's actually so mean of her, but keep on not giving a shit. Godspeed my good sir. How was dating in your days?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:09 PM
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I'd say many tall men can be less concerned with proving themselves physically. I know several men in the over 6 feet 3" that are just more laid back. Because they have no reason to "act confident", it comes naturally for them as they're literally towering over others. I'm 5'8" and never worried I was short. My wife is 5' 7" and it did and does bother her sometimes. Your wife said your height bothers you? Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:59 PM
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Yet if you post the 80/20 statistic, women here lose their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:46 AM
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Not people in those insanely competitive careers where they work 60+ hours a week. There's a reason they went that far.
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:11 AM
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Didn't they eventually divorce? I bet she's thinking now how she possibly fell for a Crips convicted gang member. The power of a good jawline and cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:21 AM
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You're fucking up then. One of my friends is what'd society see as a loser. Hardcore gamer, edgy humour, plays league and runescape all day, lazy, drinks a lot, non existent chin. Oh and did I mention he's 190 cm? Always has a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:02 PM
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Symptom, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:48 PM
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Yet men don't gaslight struggling women into thinking that it's because of their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:49 PM
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Imagine having one of the the highest paying job in the world, that you had to grind so much for. A job that others could only dream of, and with all of that, still not being able to get a women. Nightmare
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:17 AM
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I distinctly remember a comment from this subreddit where a girl claimed she got wet after she saw a 6"7 guy.. standing. She very specifically said how it wasn't due to his face or anything else, but simply because of his height. The fact that there are still people here claiming how being short isn't somehow a big dealbreaker or negative suprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:32 PM
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But you find the other person attractive as well, no? What difference does it make if he doesn't want to enter a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:26 PM
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From what I've seen, most of them have unhealthy relationships with their parents which made them want to leave their household in the first place. They then try to make men feel bad for not leaving by attacking their masculinity or their lack of independence. Same thing happened to me when my classmates (I was 16) found out that my parents paid for my driving lessons. They repeatedly told me that I'm some lazy rich kid who didn't want to work while I was just thinking: "Imagine not being able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:52 AM
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Yes, because 99% of the time the guys making these comments online have warped, impossibly high standards and don’t even see, let alone consider the women many of these “lesser” guys are having sex and relationships with. You're trying to paint what he's saying as something extreme like: "His chin was .5mm off and my brow ridge is definitely more prominent." If he did, then I'd agree with you that he's being unrealistic and stupid. But now he's just making the claim that the other guys were over…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:58 AM
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Why isn't it? Isn't the advice that everyone here gives is to get fit and be hygienic? Is it really that strange to say that someone who's objectively uglier than you (speaking about overweight and unhygienic, not facial bone structure), likely has a smaller chance to have a girlfriend/sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:06 PM
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But they're not into the guys who are into those things. Same how feminist women are not into feminist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:03 PM
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Getting another human to work for you and offer you his salary seems like a big thing in return to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:59 PM
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Only one man can be the life of the party, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:53 AM
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Nah a lot of women on Reddit call this a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:22 PM
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I get your fear, but isn't that risk the same if a guy asked you out in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:28 AM
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Literally just download tinder. That's all you need to do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:15 PM
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Need a source for that with the reasonings as to why they didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:08 PM
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At what point is it still gold digging if you're willing to get fucked daily/weekly, bear the guy's children and live with him for multiple years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:34 PM
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Sex is sex. It only holds as much weight as you allow it. And many men have allowed it or the lack thereof to hold their entire lives hostage. Just own the red pillers by ignoring your primal instinct that's developed by thousands of years of evolution to ensure the survival of the human species! Just become a robot lack of any emotion that makes us human!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:49 AM
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Yet women, over the entire attractive range, received more replies to their messages than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:47 PM
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Attractiveness for men is largely based on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:05 PM
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OkCupid study. Women rate 80% of men as unattractive, men rate like a bell curve. So no, it wouldn't be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:00 PM
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That's some cute just-world thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:20 PM
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I wasn't talking about dating, just relationships in general. Your second point is just bs, that may have happened to rich nobles and royals, not your average peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:02 PM
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People throughout in history have been much poorer with much less time to spend on dating, this isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:32 PM
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See my earlier reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:47 PM
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You asked how this comes as a shock to people, I gave you the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:29 PM
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They don't learn them anything, neither do parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:43 PM
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Schools only tell boys to ask for consent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:40 AM
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How the fuck can a physical compliment from someone you know and your age group be something you don't like, especially if you consider them your friend? I get not liking a catcall from an old construction worker, but someone you already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:13 AM
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Inbr "Noooo that's just because of how much they're working! It's not like humans worked much harder throughout history!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:23 AM
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He's obviously talking about paid workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:07 PM
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Lol that article is actual shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:52 PM
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Are you inplying they shouldn't interpret inaction as rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:22 PM
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You seriously overestimate how strict they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:09 PM
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Is females now "badspeak" because it's transphobic or some other bullshit? People use "male" all the time, why isn't that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:46 AM
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Just world fallacy, misogyny isn't limited to unattractive males. There's millions of good looking men out there who punch their wives and/or rape women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:17 PM
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I'm not twisting anything. Messaging does not mean the same as pursuing for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:14 AM
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"Messaging" is so vague though, that could also mean entertaining the guy once and then ghosting him. It doesn't say anything about attraction and doesn't disprove the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:41 PM
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The actual article waa removed after the Toronto van attack. There is a link to it in the opinion piece
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:35 PM
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Which arguments of that video, especially regarding the 80/20 rule, do you think are good? Because from what I've watched, none of them disprove the 80/20 rule. The fact that a women is forced to be more selective due to easily being more assaulted/harassed on online dating doesn't explain why she'd only swipe right on the top 20% of men. Attractive men aren't any less likely to assault a women than average or uglier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:16 PM
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So women are messaging people they have no interest in and don't have any attraction towards? Sounds like settling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:32 PM
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https://www.yourtango.com/2016285828/women-find-80-percent-men-unattractive-says-crazy-study https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rugya9/women_on_reddit_women_do_not_think_80_of_men_are/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:12 PM
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https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a https://www.yourtango.com/2016285828/women-find-80-percent-men-unattractive-says-crazy-study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:11 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:08 PM
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How do you know they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:16 AM
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There's a VAST difference between getting a free drink and lying to security to get the guy kicked out Is there though? Both are manipulative and with one you're making him pay for overpriced drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:24 AM
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Men complain that women only notice attractive men, yet they're arguably worse in this regard as they do not acknowledge the existence of women outside of their preferred type when talking about what they think are the shared experiences of women. A mixed demographic of women will only be selected through the conspicuous groups that stick out by virtue of fitting the male's "type" (blond, brunette, young, moderately attractive, slim, ect). He will then judge every woman to be this kind of woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:57 PM
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Nice find. Dumb how I missed that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:00 PM
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Exactly, plus we're assumling that all the respondents aren't lying. Wouldn't suprise me if many guys were lying about being sexually active and women not sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:23 PM
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We can also look at UK university statistics for this. You always hear that university is THE place where everyone has casual sex, right? Well, if we look at the statistics: 34% of male university students report being sexually active at all 43% of male university students report never having had sex For women: 47% of women university students report being sexually active In total, there's 1.36 million females to 1.02 million males students. That's an excess of 340,000 females. There's more wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:41 PM
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Best comment I've ever seen, jesus. His account got banned as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:30 PM
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Most of the time they use the black and white fallacy and try to reframe the question into "Would you date a guy if he was extremely ugly with zero attraction from you but he had some status and was rich?" They never want to talk about the nuanced effect it has on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:06 PM
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I also asked this on another thread and was met with the same response. Still don't buy any of it. There's a big reason ugly succesful and rich man are never lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:32 PM
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That's not even what the discussion was about but alright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:10 PM
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Huh? I clearly said people who have long hair aren't well groomed. Stop making shit up for no reason, never said it was attractive. Nor did I tell you to consider anything good looking. Where do you go to where college aged men aren't well groomed? Every guy I see here looks like he goes to the barber every 3-4 weeks. Again, a small minority has long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:30 PM
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Vast majority of people I see are well groomed. The minority isn't, although many of those people choose not to because they have long hair. Sounds like you're basing your experience on either the computer science department of a technical university or some Magic the gathering official tournament.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:09 PM
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Have you ever seen an average man in the west? Where are you even from? Go walk through an average college in any Western European country and you'll see how wrong you are. Most guys look normal. They're much taller than any guy in Korea as well. Korean guys are only fethisized because of Kpop, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:58 PM
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Not if you look at college age men and women in the UK. 34% of the college men in the UK reported being sexually active, 43% of men reporting being a virgin. On the contrary, 47% of college women reported being sexually active. That alone is insane, but it get's even more strange if you account in that there are more women than men in colleges in the UK. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ntscbc/new_data_from_the_telegraph_indicate_that_levels/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:51 PM
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No it isn't. Confidence comes from within. Confidence comes from being experienced at whatever it is you're doing. You can't fake confidence, nor can you gaslight yourself into believing you are. Same with a test you didn't properly learn for. You can tell yourself "I'm gonna ace this test." But as soon as you see that first question you know you messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:38 AM
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and (perhaps) Sweden. Bro, absolutely not: - Actual Swedish men are already pretty lonely themselves. Half of the households are made up of single childless adults. - Swedes are reserved and introverted as fuck and won't ever become your real friend unless you met them in fifth grade or something. - A statistic showed that, of the expats who have lived there for five years, only 1 in 4 found a partner. That INCLUDES women, so just think about how low it is for men. Not Swedish myself btw, just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:06 AM
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Honestly doesn't sound that bad, you're basically mere-exposure effect maxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:10 PM
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There's a name of this, it's called the mere exposure effect. "The more often a person is seen by someone, the more pleasing and likeable that person appears to be."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:08 PM
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Can you tell more of your experiences? Always love stories like these. How did you meet most of your lays?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:07 AM
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This comment is so based that just from reading it made me transcend and I am now in another universe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:59 PM
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You seriously don't know how good you have it. It almost sounds like humblebragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:06 PM
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Didn't you post this exact same question a few months ago?
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 PM
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You didn't hear them calling you creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:24 AM
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Honestly no. Sounds like how a couple would have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:33 PM
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Be very happy your country gives you tools you defend yourself. Wish we had that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:28 PM
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I don't think the guys who are attracted to 99% say that they're attracted to 99% of women out in public to those women. That sounds like the most cartoon naive shit someone could possibly do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:11 PM
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Had a girl at a bar call some random buff guy to "sort me out" for asking to buy her a drink, i have a conceal carry though. So i was fine. lmao, king moment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:03 PM
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If it were that easy, why do you think he didn't lose it already?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:34 PM
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You'd basically be in a lifelong recession as our economies are based on infinite growth. Losing that much of the population means consumer spending will be much lower as well, which drives the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:09 PM
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Decreasing population is absolutely terrible for a country though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:27 PM
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Just go to a different continent and leave your family, friends and career behind bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:24 PM
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What about Japan?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:45 PM
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Say some shit and see who responds back, that's it. Girls at clubs and pubs who don't want to talk will let you know by not responding or just telling you to fuck off. Also, don't buy her a drink too quickly. Ensure she wasn't talking with a dude before your interaction either.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:33 PM
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No, men don't give a fuck about social status or career. It's why most women consistenly date up, and men consistenly marry down. The only thing career wise men care about is ensuring you're not a stripper or away for 6 months. And even then, a lot of men would be ok with that. The only things that men care about are: - How hot she is - Does she match your personality (optional for many men) - Is she not an insane bitch (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:47 PM
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Nah, they hide your face which makes it subconsciously harder for people to connect with you. Everyone who wears glasses always looks better without them, it's a simple boost.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:40 PM
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All good. My fault as well since I worded it pretty strange in hindsight
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:37 PM
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I think you misunderstand me. Saying "there's more to life than females" to someone who has has extreme struggles with getting into romantic relationships is delusional, because your body is biologically trained to like that shit. It's a primal need. It's like telling a person who had zero education that "there's more to life than primary school". Like, yeah definitely but it objectively sucks not having went to primary school. It's like telling a poor person who can barely pay his bills that "t…
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:33 PM
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No, humans are designed to have sex. The biological goal of your body is to re-produce and die. Saying "there's more to life than females" is stupid and delusional.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:19 PM
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Don't be fat. Stop wearing glasses and wear lenses. Get a haircut every 3 weeks or month. Have good skincare. Don't stink. Those are all the major points. All the other points (style, muscles) are minor that marginally help. You only do the minor points for yourself, not with the expectation of getting women.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:05 PM
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Look at what people do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:44 AM
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Why avoid men who are muscular? I'm not muscular myself so I don't care but just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:43 AM
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? So the behavior tracked and recorded via the data collected doesn't take into the account THE ABUSE being ignored and dodged The survey asked to rate them from 1 to 5 if memory serves me well. Nothing to do with behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:48 AM
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That's brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:00 PM
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