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Great comment, you are clearly experienced and know what you are talking about. Allow me to add two things. One, physical attraction. People put too much emphasis on talking, but in reality, a woman decides on the course of the interaction the second she sees you. She doesn't do this intellectually, it's our animalistic side. If she finds you attractive, all you have to do is not to shoot yourself in the foot. It will all go down smoothly Second, the very same woman can behave completely differe…
/r/seduction21/07/26 05:52 AM
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The gender ratio, on paper might be 3:1, but that number is heavily skewed by blue collar contractors. In a normal office environment, the ratio is no different than a regular European country. And speaking of European countries, do you prefer to compete with a regular Dutch/Swiss/Italian, or an Asian/Middle Eastern man? I'm genuinely asking
/r/seduction18/07/26 01:04 PM
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My friend, Dubai is one of the best places in the whole world for an expat who is looking to find some company. The whole city is built by and for expats. You won't even interact with the locals. I bet you can meet someone from any natonality if you look hard enough. And about the male to female ratio, your observation is context specific. If you go to places like LSB, Mr. Miyagi etc, sure, you won't meet many decent women. But go to a respectable place for a sunday brunch and you'll meet regula…
/r/seduction18/07/26 12:11 PM
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You are either living under a rock or from outer space. I'm not saying this is what majority thinks, but there is a small and loud group of women who thinks as such Search for bear vs. man in forest. You'll be shocked
/r/seduction12/07/26 11:13 AM
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True, women are not desperate for casual sex, but from what I see and experience, not being touched for a long time is devastating for a woman. Here when I write touch, I use this term in a more broad sense.
/r/seduction11/07/26 12:11 PM
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My friend, hate to break it to you but this premise is completely wrong. Yes a woman can get laid in an hour if she really wants to, but this doens't mean that she will get satisfaction from it. For a woman it's not about getting laid. It's all about getting laid with the man she desires, which is not that easy
/r/seduction11/07/26 12:09 PM
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is this a recent thing or was the world like this a decade ago? nowadays it's either all man are r*pists or all women are wh*res. seems like most people lost their critical thinking skills
/r/seduction11/07/26 12:06 PM
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Because OP thinks the only thing that stands between him and the love of his life is a set of headphones
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:34 AM
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Overstimulation makes life much worse. Just saying
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:34 AM
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I've never been social media follower but after I stopped listening to podcasts, I notice a significant increase in mind clarity. For some, well most people, a minute in silence is wasted time.
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:32 AM
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By creating abundance
/r/seduction06/07/26 04:12 PM
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The devil you know...
/r/seduction20/06/26 06:37 PM
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bro you killed him
/r/seduction20/06/26 06:36 PM
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I think you meant to type "mystery method" not "misery method" Well either way i'm not familiar with the method but I agree with you, many guys, well most guys have no plan after they "get lucky" If the woman in front of me is not showing clear signs of interest, there is no point in pursuing her. Better spend my time and energy elsewhere. This is my mindset: if I'm walking up to a woman and starting a conversation, she is going to benefit from my actions, if things go smooth. So in a way, I'm d…
/r/seduction17/06/26 03:03 PM
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Your last paragraph is what most people miss about all this. People see dating as a way to market themselves and get some thing in return. Most men feel the pressure to "sell" themselves as a good partner. Be it a ONS or LTR I think a healthier frame should be very different. Look at her and ask yourself, "do I find her attractive" because if not, the thing will not work. Same question should be asked the other way around. "does she find me attractive" because otherwise she won't respect me and …
/r/seduction17/06/26 09:19 AM
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OK first of all, introverts are good at social connection. It's just they (well we, as I'm also one) don't like too much stimulus, crowded places, excessive noise etc. Being antisocial is something different. You might be extroverted and still don't carry social skills. To take it further, having balls to approach as stranger has nothing to do with your temperiment. Try to understand yourself, what comes from where, just putting a label on yourself and calling it a day won't take you so far
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:56 AM
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your day will come
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:53 AM
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OP is way too enthusiastic and jumping on every comment
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:52 AM
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Same here. I approach strangers regularly. It becomes natural as you get comfortable. But I rarely see others doing it. You can see the stress and awkwardness in many cases. Once I saw a guy doing smooth approach. I walked up to him, greeted him and had a brief conversation. Yeah natural people are very rare nowadays
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:34 AM
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Super hot women are less neurotic? Brother we must be living in different worlds
/r/seduction02/06/26 04:31 AM
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I can easily see that you "get it". this type of hands on knowledge only comes from experience. People living in their head way too much, focusing on the words they chose, playing scenarios in their head. The correct way to approach is to build connection and have fun
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:37 PM
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Two is a company Three is a threesome More than four...
/r/seduction25/05/26 01:50 PM
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Lots of things can be said here. So I'll list a few of the most fundamental principles. First, get off the social media and youtube. 99% of the content creators are there to market their products. You need to get out and build experience yourself. Everybody is living in a differnent environment, are in different conditions. Even for the same person, circumstances will change and he needs to adapt to changes. So build your own reality by getting lots of feedback by doing the actual work, not read…
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:56 PM
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Normal is a range. 15mins is on the extreme short end. So consider yourself lucky
/r/seduction23/05/26 08:57 AM
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Why not both?
/r/seduction22/05/26 09:51 AM
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True. Younger generation, both men and women are too agreeable. They would die rather than walking up to a stranger to start a conversation. And sadly going back home alone doesn't have any consequences anymorez because they'll get sedated by their phones until they fall asleep. Posting pictures of having fun is way more important than actually having fun
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:30 AM
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You responded to one of my comments from a few months ago. I had to read the original post again to get the context. There is a healthy balance between thinking, doing and feeling. If you go heavy on one dimension, you'll kill the other two. With women it's a bit different. Women talk a lot, I mean a lot, but they also feel a lot too. I'm not saying you shouldn't listen to her when she is speaking, but first you should understand that most of the things she says are not exactly true. The words a…
/r/seduction25/04/26 08:02 PM
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You either die like a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villian. This phrase perfectly applies to dating.
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:56 PM
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I'd like to frame this as unforgettable instead of can't forget. Having said that, I had a handful of those and all shared the same attributes All looking completely normal, regular women, mostly wearing jeans and no makeup. Relatively healthy and fit. All had some deep, unsettled family issues and we're very jealous of me. None of the "normal" women I slept with can come near those experiences. Moral of the story? Makeup, clothing, that famous hourglass figure says nothing about what you will e…
/r/seduction21/04/26 11:05 AM
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This is a solid post. Many forget that it's all about the journey, not the destination. When you approach a woman, you don't know if she is taken or not, if she is in the right headspace etc. Plus, not every woman has to find you attractive as everyone has their own type. I guess people are so afraid of rejection, they don't even shoot their shot.
/r/seduction02/04/26 03:04 PM
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This is a great answer. You covered all the basics. There is not much left to add. But I'd like to bring a different perspective for the OP You don't "have to" carry the date. If you build chemistry, things will take it's course. What good is a second date if the first one was not slightly flirty and mutually exciting? Think of the date as a mutual effort. You and her (assuming you are a dude) will be happy in the end if things go well. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. You are evaluating…
/r/seduction31/03/26 04:45 PM
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At first I thought he wrote 4 seconds
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:10 PM
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Thelonelyisland
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:09 PM
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Is a pole a pole?
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:08 PM
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If you have to ask, you have a high chance of blowing up sooner or later. And yes, be yourself is the only real advice but you ruled that out so good luck
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:37 PM
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You are asking the right question. People come in and enforce their own beliefs, and never think that relationship dynamics are very different in different places on earth
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:45 AM
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i don't see a link for a service or an app what makes you think this is a lead funnel?
/r/seduction17/03/26 06:26 PM
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Nature works in mysterious ways, and I hope you get cheated on. Just like how you don't care about another man, you should experience the same from the other side
/r/seduction11/03/26 04:41 AM
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Once in a blue moon, a redditor drops real gems
/r/seduction10/03/26 09:30 AM
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People from some professions have a lot of stories and real world experiences. I never miss such a chance with lawyers, doctors and taxi drivers
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:23 AM
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Well to be fair, finger usually itches too, provided you are a healthy male
/r/seduction05/03/26 08:32 AM
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Oh yes, I'm happy to be a man too. Simps are living in a completely different world. At least women get approached. Simping is the worst of both worlds. They have to put in a lot of effort, get a lot of rejection and no benefits at all
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:14 PM
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Yeah I think this is the most balanced answer. Some women like to go out, chase/get chased by guys but for some it's a hassle. Women hate uncertainty. This is the "devil you know..." situation. At the same time, many won't tell you about their alternatives because in the back of their mind, any FWB, even ONS can turn into a relationship. Even the sluttiest one has dreams of being a bride and they don't want to ruin it
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:36 AM
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Here, this might help https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw?si=-JeW09RT55s8n6II
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:59 PM
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Ok learning is good. But is it worth knowing about this type?
/r/seduction16/02/26 05:35 AM
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This sounds like a genuine question. Let's see if I can help. I'm not an Arab and not a Muslim, but have been around the Gulf region for a long time, so have a fair understanding of the culture. What you feel is real, completely justifiable. You've dealt with a hand, and now there is another person in front of you who is doing "better" than you. Rightfully you question everything. You are asking the "why" questions. The first and obvious reason is the rules around the society. Which again is a v…
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:53 AM
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Can't give you any insights about OLD. I'll focus on the day game as that's what I do everyday. Early 40s is a great era in a man's life, if you keep your body fit and your mind sharp. I'm in my mid 40s and while I'm physically more or less the same guy compared to a decade ago, I'm way more interesting and capable today. Can you still score on OLD? Yeah it's possible. But why bother? If you have hobbies, travel a lot and financially secure, you don't need to prove anything to anyone. Let them c…
/r/seduction12/02/26 05:20 PM
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See, you answered most of you own questions. Being funny doesn't mean being attractive. They are not mutually exclusive. You can be attractive and cold, and still be in high demand. Or you might spark a lot of laughs and yet not go anywhere. The word masculinity has been abused to death, so I won't add another meaning to it, but I can come up with a name that would illustrate my point. Patrice O'Neil was not that hot but he was great with words. His main goal was not to be funny. It's how he pur…
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:56 PM
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My friend, the grass is always greener on the other side. Sure there will be differences between different parts of the country, but in general, if you have a hard time in UK, chances are, you'll be miserable in US
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:51 PM
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Sure, creating your own opportunities puts you in a different league. But since OP is far from that level, I didn't even go there. Once you get used to cold approach, it becomes a second nature. And when it feels natural, you get more effective. That's the textbook definition of positive feedback loop
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:50 PM
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There is no way of knowing what the "problem" is with this little information. So we can't give you precise tips or suggestions. Now, the world is filled with people who have zero flirting skills. No, not zero, negative skills, i.e. mess things up even when the woman is into them, they find a way to screw themselves. So you are not alone. But once in a while, an opportunity comes, the woman is so active that things will progress. Do woman flirt with you? When you approach them in a social settin…
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:27 AM
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Laughs and meaningful conversations don't mean things will escalate. But you already experienced that
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:20 AM
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I don't know if mystery is overrated but it has a place. You can't use it as a tool, but you should always leave some headroom for imagination on her head. But this works only if you are attractable and she is attracted to you. As all other things in mating, these are the ground rules. To me, the safety argument is a bit overrated. I've been seeing this coming up more recently. To me it seems one of those recent buzzwords. Western women are safer than ever, way safer than their ancestors, but at…
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:23 AM
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I can tell you, it will get worse. Probably half of the content online is already generated by bots. On the top of that, they are training the new bots with synthetic data. This means the narrative is getting dumber. If you realize, the only chance we have is to give it up entirely
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:13 AM
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Most probably it is
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:48 PM
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Good comment. OP is either a bot or reads too much. Going too heavy in the beginning doesn't help anybody. If anything it hurts your chances by killing mystery
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:19 AM
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That's good self-awareness right there. You need help. Rizz is not about finding topics to talk. In fact, you can't talk your way into a girl's heart (or other places, pun intended) Also masculinity is not like a light that you project over the wall. It's a state, it's who you are. The actions come out of that state. Unfortunately, many people mistake the "projection" as the real deal. And finally, connection is way beyond words. In fact, talking is potentially the worst way to connect with some…
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:09 AM
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OK you are clearly trying to make sense of the current environment and genuinely asking questions. So I'll give you a hint. The fact that you couldn't answer this simple question should show you that you are looking at the wrong places. Listen to u/Silly_Randy , go find yourself a few people who are "successful". Approach them, ask them questions and observe them. You will see that each has their own ways. That's you answer right there. There are no guidelines, there is no rule book. You need to…
/r/seduction01/02/26 09:37 AM
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#1 is overlooked in many cases. That's why people have a lot of action during university years, and it takes a nosedive afterwards. All this talk about finding a partner and one of the first questions I ask is "how many new people you met this week/month, and what percent of them you continue to see in your natural environment"
/r/seduction01/02/26 09:33 AM
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Can confirm, step 3 is the way to go. I don't understand why people try to turn this into a conquest. Instead it should be a win-win situation for both.
/r/seduction29/01/26 08:51 AM
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You are on the right path my brother. Understanding the real motivation of women makes you look at the world with darker glasses. Ask a woman and she will give you a list with 99 "requirements". Look at the last 10 guys they sleep with, and you'll see that none of those guys match that list. Women are highly in tune with their feelings, but they fail to see that all their rules have an "IF" clause in front. They don't know or fail to understand or don't want to acknowledge that the way they reac…
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:16 PM
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My friend, hate to break it to you but the OP got it all backwards. It all starts with attraction. If a woman is attracted to you, yes, she will want to be closer, have conversation etc. But again, these will only come after she is attracted to you. You can't negotiate genuine attraction by neither love bombing nor by making her feel unique. I trust that women are more connected with their feelings and know how they want to feel, but unfortunately they don't know how to get there. If you listen …
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:06 PM
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True. Also most people can't even tell the difference. And some don't even care
/r/seduction27/01/26 05:45 PM
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I think you missed the point in u/pickupmid123 reply. I don't know you and the interaction you had with this lady. But the way you articulate the message with her and react to pickupmid's message tells me that you are in a scarcity mindset, and to make matters worse, you are trying to negotiate/justify your actions. You can't put all your eggs in one basket. If you spend so much time and energy on one interaction, how are you going to move on tens, even hundreds of events like this? Mating is a …
/r/seduction18/01/26 09:55 AM
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Low body fat, defined jawline, I think he gave a pretty good answer to OP The downvoter might be a bit too emotional
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:23 AM
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Sure let's discuss A regular person mostly operates on a lot of expectations and assumptions. Things that are dictated by the environment. I.e. social programming. Example, you say you chase "beautiful" women. Why? Yes we are all driven towards beauty but it's only a fraction of attraction. When you are more present, all your interactions become more authentic. You leave out all those ideas, just focus on what is in front of you. Are you really interested? Yes, good move on. Is she showing genui…
/r/seduction11/01/26 04:13 AM
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Not OP but I'll share my experience. It's the opposite for me. I've been meditating on and off for more than a decade, and lately as I develop my practice, I started to approach women more, flirt better and have more "success". We are all sexual human beings. A healthy person wants to, and needs to connect with the opposite sex. It's in our DNA. Meditation helps you bring out your true self and that drive gets stronger. My interactions are also getting better. As in smoother and more enjoyable, …
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:10 PM
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There are some superficial things, like the way you dress, the parfume that you use, the number of languages you speak. This kind of things might turn some heads towards your direction. Good conversation starters. And then there are more subtle but impactful things. The way you hold eye contact, how you speak, and especially how you articulate your point. How you interact with other poeple and how other people react to your presence. Your posture, the way you walk. People put too much emphasis o…
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:02 PM
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I see that you got a few downvotes. Some angry and bitter people out there. Agree, posture makes or breaks your game. Especially when it's genuine
/r/seduction10/01/26 09:56 PM
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Seems like you aree overthinking the issue. You and her are both looking for something casual, and in this context, both you and her will ideally have multiple options and rotate between them. Maybe she was not in the mood, maybe she didn't find you attractive enough to jump to bed with you that night. Maybe she was already with someone else before coming to see you, and didn't want to go for a second round. Who knows? If you are into this type of relationships, you need to be flexible about unk…
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:18 AM
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Adult film actor Surprised nobody said this Guaranteed action
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:43 PM
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OP is in her head too much. Probably didn't experience the power of her gaze yet
/r/seduction24/12/25 05:12 AM
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I'm not surprised such a website exists. Nowadays there is an ai tool for everything
/r/seduction24/12/25 05:11 AM
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I don't think you are asking the right questions. She might have 99 reasons to go cold turkey. She might see you as her prince charming and tomorrow see you as Quasimodo the moment she wakes up. To make matters worse, we are talking about a woman on the dating apps. She gets infinite number of messages the moment she picks her phone up. Here is the question that you should be asking. What do you want from this game? Not only OLD but also dating in general. There is this saying, don't complain ab…
/r/seduction21/12/25 08:24 AM
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Great writing coming from experience.
/r/seduction16/12/25 06:14 AM
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for a moment I thought is he serious or sarcastic
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:32 PM
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Quite an impressive list of professions. These will make all the other men respect you more but women? Not so much. One can be a bum and still score if he has the social skills
/r/seduction09/12/25 09:15 AM
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Came here to write the exact same reply. I guess there are a lot of people like OP floating around in space, not knowing what is good for them. Hope OP gets the message
/r/seduction09/12/25 07:33 AM
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Here have my diwnvote
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:50 AM
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Yes it's obvious but I can't call it out yet. Which one is it?
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:49 AM
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It's clear that you are also very experienced in this. Yes women have the intuition and respond to eye contact in a primal way. Many men don't know how to read the room and I think it's because they don't even hold eye contact when talking. I don't know if this is happening to me or it's common, once the physical contact takes over, I start looking away and when I lock eyes again it's more intense
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:39 AM
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This guy connects
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:33 AM
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Yes this is a an unwritten rule, but there is a huge asterisk to it. Don't turn it into a staring contest
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:33 AM
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Most? Bro, you must be doing something fundamentaly wrong
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:31 AM
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Bro, you nailed it! OP shows he doesn't know what he is talking about. "4 am outside the club". I used to call it "last exit before the bridge" for the women but also men as well
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:14 PM
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I out pretty in double quotes, because most people assume pretty people, men and women, are better, luckier, more honest etc etc. While being pretty is a privilege, it's also a liability too. You rightly pointed out the insecure attachment one of the many issues. They know people approach them just because they are pretty and don't take them seriously, which is true in many cases. They feel they are being lied to almost everyday and they can feel it. As a result it's not easy to build trust for …
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:03 PM
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You would be surprised how insecure the "pretty" ones can be
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:31 AM
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Good for you. I had a very similar experience. A mother daughter duo walked in the ther restaurant right before me. They took a table and I sat to the table next to them. The mom got up and I started talking to the daughter. When the mom came back, she joined and the three of us had very nice and lengthy conversation. In the end she said "you should come to our neighborhood, it's a nice area", clearly encouraged us to meet. The moral of the story? Moms want the best for their daughter, and if yo…
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:30 AM
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I'm not going to call you dumb, but this question is flawed in the sense that you assume that she is going to tell you what actually happened. Men and women are wired differently when it comes to communiation. Words are a reflection of how she feels inside, and her feelings might swing drastically. Do you think that after a woman cheats, she regrets it and takes full responsibility of her actions? I can tell you, it's not that common. In many cases, her BF pushed her towards that direction and i…
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:51 PM
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You don't have any idea what you are talking about. Do you even get out of your apartment?
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:39 PM
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Well in that casez sorry I had to do it https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKw_ECqC1uX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==
/r/seduction26/11/25 10:59 AM
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I don't see how living in paris is different than say Stockholm or Palermo? The key is you'll adapt to the culture that you are in. Are you French?
/r/seduction26/11/25 07:15 AM
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Perfect. This is a good step in the right direction. You experienced the setback in your mind. Next time, go say hi and talk to her. She plain out rejects you? You learn. She is cold? You learn. She shows interest? You learn. You can frame it as a game. Take it serious enough to keep playing, but light enough to be able to laugh at your own mistakes. Just know that even the best of us has to keep playing. It's the courage to put yourself out there, it's about knowing yourself and being authentic…
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:25 PM
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Thanks for the wishes. We were fortunate enough to be raised before 2000s, without phones and internet. Our generation had it's own problems but the last one is really in deep trouble. They are dealt with a bad hand, sure but they didn't try to break out of it either. It makes both men and women. Both sides are mostly living in a fantasy land. It's very hard to come across clever and wise people. And frankly I am not chasing anymore. Everybody leaves a unique mark in our lives. Learned this year…
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:09 PM
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Nothing changes until you take a step. If I can give you one advice, focus all your time and energy on actual approach. Internet is full of BS written by either sales people or boys from their moms basement. Pick one book, read it and apply all the teachings
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:12 AM
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Sounds like you have the awareness and the motivation. All you need is taking small steps. I can give you some ideas but in the end you need to put your foot in front of the other and open your mouth to say hi. Think of it this way. You have to approach about 100 women to start a relationship with one or two. So better start early and pass the 97 fast
/r/seduction25/11/25 10:29 AM
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The very first sentence of the original post is flawed. This text doesn't look like written by ai so it tells me that OP does not understand what he is talking about. In many cases, a woman makes the "decision" in a few seconds she sees you. I'm with you on this one
/r/seduction25/11/25 09:13 AM
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My friend, you are asking the right question but to the wrong people. Who gets rejected more? People who suck and don't even try, or people who are good at it and try a lot? I'm not in the demographic you asked for, but I'm confident that I can give you accurate answers. Why? Because I'm the guy who has the courage to walk up to any woman on the street, while doing groceries, waiting at the coffee shop etc etc I can tell you what "doesn't work" It's not trying. I know some people, who approach l…
/r/seduction25/11/25 09:06 AM
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Well I'll give it to you, you suck, yes but you are still ahead of the curve. First for trying, and second being open about your situation. The world is filled with incels, both men and women who don't even leave their house. Don't be too harsh on yourself
/r/seduction25/11/25 08:48 AM
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You convey your message clearly. I agree with everything you wrote. This is one of those things that is not talked much. Younger women are mostly living in a fantasy land. They have super high expectations, fragile egos and to make matters worse, they don't have a direction in life. They just blindly follow each other, the latest trends etc. I might sound a bit harsh but this is what it is. After 35, around 40 some transform to a wiser woman. The same transformation some man go through. So at th…
/r/seduction25/11/25 08:45 AM
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Once I was coming up from Moorgate station. There was a guy with a camera, and they were shooting a staged approach video. I was waiting for a friend and watched them take the same shot multiple times Many things we see on YouTube are fake and staged
/r/seduction22/11/25 06:24 PM
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Depends on so many factors so I can only talk from my own experience. On average, I'd say 1-2% resolve to actual dates. But we need to put things into perspective. It's extremely rare that I get a number and don't meet her for a date. Because I only get their contact information once it's clear that we'll meet later on. Phone is only for logistics. I don't like texting, plus it kills mystery I don't go to bars and clubs. My success rate is higher when I'm traveling.The lowest "conversion" is in …
/r/seduction22/11/25 08:37 AM
1

Yeah, go out and shoot your shot But why did you delete the post?
/r/seduction22/11/25 07:02 AM
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The answer to this question is super easy, yet takes some time to internalize. Of all the women that you come across, some are taken, some are not in the mood, some don't find you attractive, some don't see you as their type etc. etc. There is nothing you can do in these situations. The rest of the women, who are available, would find you attractive and you fit in their "type", they need you as much, if not more than you need them. Think about it. You as a man, can go out, approach a woman, say …
/r/seduction21/11/25 11:31 AM
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You are right. But this is a scenario in a healthy relationship between two healthy people. Some people are broken and others learned to expose those weak areas. OP wrote a very superficial article. It's normal, he is trying to get some leads and has to write to the people who are in that level of understanding. Back to your message, I think inside a relationship it's better to call it maintenance rather than escalation.
/r/seduction17/11/25 08:03 AM
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OK, i'm willing to listen, but first tell us your age, a rough estimate and how you formed these experiences. I'm in my mid 40s and played in the field for the last 30 years. In case you'd ask
/r/seduction15/11/25 02:11 PM
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OK I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you wrote this post. May I ask how you get this information? Tell us about one or two experiences how this worked out for you. Yes women feel your energy even before you speak a single word, but rest of the article doesn't seem right
/r/seduction15/11/25 12:44 PM
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I bet you are a teenager
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:40 AM
3

did OP hire you as marketer?
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:39 AM
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You don't need to filter them. Let them filter you out. You sound like you are bitter about how the gender dynamics work. Some women are gold diggers, yes, but not all are like that. Believe me, gold diggers know their type and are very selective about their prospects. For them, time is a resource. If she feels she can't extract enough resources from you, you won't see her again. Dress nice, but don't overdo it. If you have fancy watches, leave it at home at least for the first date. Don't try t…
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:07 PM
1

You can't be more confused than the OP. Sometimes it's best to say OK, and move on. Don't look for deeper meanings
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:58 AM
5

victorious warriors win first then go to war -sun tzu
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:16 AM
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OP is super confused. The first paragraph was spot on, and when i read the rest of the post, I thought these two sections can't be written by the same person. I don't know why but the younger guys/gals are looking for things that should always work. It's all black and white for them. They don't factor in the 99 factors outside of their power, that will influence the output.
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:53 AM
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I just pass the tourch. I still remember the day I read this list https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/279126743.html And now that I'm an old-ish man myself, if I see someone as a genuine question, try to share some of my lived experiences. Remember this conversation in 20 years and you give back to your follow younger men Deal?
/r/seduction08/11/25 06:18 AM
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Nope, never got married. Had some serious relationships that lasted a few years sharing the same house. Each fell apart for different reasons. Looking back, I was very lucky to meet most of those women, but the most likely outcome would be a divorce.
/r/seduction08/11/25 06:06 AM
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You are asking the right questions. I wish I came to this realization when I was your age. Women and men have different hormones, drives and feelings, so I can't speak for women. Howevery as a man who had his experiences, I can confidently say that there is no such thing as free sex. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should marry your highschool sweetheart but when it comes to experience, the principle of "too much of a good thing" holds true. When you are young and the whole world is in fr…
/r/seduction07/11/25 11:03 AM
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Just returned back from Bangkok. I stayed less than a week. Visited Phuket a few years ago. I didn't like Phuket and wasn't planning to return to Thailand, but I had to take a connected flight and I said why not stop over for a few days instead of a few hours. I'm never going back, even if they pay me on the top. Your question was particularly about dating or hookups, so I'll focus on it. If you can approach women wherever you live, Thailan is neither good nor bad. There are lots of western expa…
/r/seduction07/11/25 10:26 AM
8

do you even leave your house and interact with real people?
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:54 AM
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100% Depending on the time of the month, you might get completely different results
/r/seduction05/11/25 07:02 PM
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My man, you lived the life and built some experience. Both points are spot on! You can't negotiate genuine attraction. Once the excitement wears off, she is already gone. And I like your last bullet point too. While there is a slim chance to turn things around from here, it can only happen if the OP pulls first. But judging how he words the situation, I don't think he has the courage to do so.
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:51 AM
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Some people love to complicate things and discuss simple matters at length. Cut your losses and move on is the only proper advice here. If we invite this lady and ask her why she is doing what she is doing, she can give us 99 reasons. But probably none will be the actual reason
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:48 AM
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He is speaking from experience. Where are you coming from?
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:41 AM
2

Have you seen or experienced stories that suggest otherwise? In theory there might be many reasons, but for majority of the cases, this is the actual reason.
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:40 AM
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It's no easy to comment without any context and some details. He might be a complete dud. I hear the younger generation, who have access to porn from very early ages might get damaged, sometimes beyond repair. Maybe he doesn't find you attractive as much as you'd expect Maybe he naturally has low libido, caused by low testosterone The exact scenario happened to me multiple times. My partner being playful and seductive. Sometimes I don't get turned on by her ways but still join the game. You don'…
/r/seduction03/11/25 05:50 AM
1

Yes they are. Social media and dating apps made it even worse. Women need to be presentable and present themselves to the best suitor. In the past, the clusbs/bars was the best and potentially only option for a woman to expand her reach. Nowadays, they can reach a much wider audience over the social media and get way more validation from the dating apps. So for many women, clubs/bar scene is not that important anymore. Sure they still show up but way more expectations and less urgency. You wrote…
/r/seduction02/11/25 06:19 AM
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Sounds good on paper, but not applicable for many people. That "leverage" costs a lot, not only in terms of money, time and effort as well. In many cases the cost doesn't cover the outcome
/r/seduction02/11/25 05:59 AM
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This
/r/seduction30/10/25 03:49 PM
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Ok I don't disagree. Aren't we talking about the same thing? I'm by no means a looksmaxer, but lift weights and keep a healthy body and posture. So wouldn't call confidence #1 because it's somewhat chicken and egg situation. If you look good, you usually get good feedback, which improves your confidence that makes you look even better
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:06 AM
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Man, this is spot on. A regular nice guy doesn't stop at simping, he plays the protector of those women and gets jealous when a man actually shoots his shot with her "queen"
/r/seduction29/10/25 04:40 PM
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Good video, but I say the author is way too naive. Nice guys can be very toxic and in many cases are the actual bad guys. Most think that the world owes them because they are nice. Think about it, the more favors they do to the women, the higher their expectations. And the hatred grows as they watch other men express their sexuality and approach women playfully. They always have an excuse, "women like bad boys" as they fail to understand social dynamics but more importantly look at the mirror an…
/r/seduction29/10/25 04:38 PM
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I agree. Keep on doing what you are doing. I just read the book minimal game from Aaron Sleazy. Highly recommend the book as he shares a few powerful tips It's all about building a feedback loop. You do more of what works and improve what doesn't work. Remember to have fun and be yourself. If you are sincere, i.e. don't use any prepared openers and be spontaneous, you will get very little to no rejections
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:40 PM
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Because the journey is the destination. Because we are social animals and like to interact with others. Not all conversations have towards resolve to a sexual goal. Seduction is about discovering yourself, figuring out what you like, desire, find attractive. People talk a lot about seducing the other person but rarely pay attention to how they feel inside Things happen if both you and I find each other attractive
/r/seduction26/10/25 12:49 PM
5

Most likely and down to earth answer
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:13 AM
3

This is the reality in 2025. You can't expect anything from anyone
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:12 AM
1

please consider the whole sentence, not just half of it. It was a sarcastic comment not a suggestion
/r/seduction10/10/25 08:58 AM
1

You can do pilates if the ratio is important to you
/r/seduction10/10/25 06:30 AM
4

I had the same experience, while I was walking with a woman, I put my arm on her shoulder, she said I'm not comfortable with this. A few days later she invited me to her place. Honestly, I don't see the point of pursuing such women. Later I learned the story, she was broken beyond repair and looking back I just wasted my time. And as expected, the sex was not good, not worth it anyways
/r/seduction09/10/25 10:49 AM
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Ok it's all clear now. You answered your own questions. You are in a tough situation as the anxiety is causing the issues it's not easy to resolve. Alcohol might be a band-aid but it brings a host of new problems. Unfortunately I can't come up with some advice. If you can find a cure for OCD, even symptomatic solutions would help a lot. It's not about you as a person, just the anxiety
/r/seduction07/10/25 12:50 PM
1

Bro let's face it. We are old. I don't understand the new generation. I can't and I don't want to. Remember the days, your favorite band is coming to town and you are hyped days ahead. We used to listen to albums both sides, read books cover to cover. We lived the peak of civilization
/r/seduction07/10/25 12:30 PM
2

Interesting take and yeah I see it. I used to play when I was younger when Instagram was not even invented. Being a performing musician was huge. Nowadays if you are not insta-famous it doesn't count
/r/seduction07/10/25 09:28 AM
2

Ok this is getting more interesting now. You got laid the day before and you say you felt confident in the moment. So my question is why would this shake you so much? Again, without knowing you or witnessing the events my guess is that you are putting way more meaning to this which increases the pressure on you. I read your other replies under this post. We are the same age and I'm also a former musician. I can tell you this, a woman will make your life beautiful if and only if you are at peace …
/r/seduction07/10/25 09:25 AM
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With such little info and no context, we can't tell you what exactly the problem is, so take this with a grain of salt. On paper, you should be doing OK to great. But you say that you are in a dry spell. Obviously, there is something off. The way you describe your interaction with the waitress tells me that you fell into a needy mindset. We are clever animals, we can sense if someone is uptight, stressed and naturally don't want to be in close proximity Now this is a chicken and egg problem. You…
/r/seduction07/10/25 08:08 AM
2

I guess success does not come by coincidence. He is a sharp guy, hard working and creative.
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:04 AM
6

work, gym and other activities sound like great places to me
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:47 AM
10

This is a good "review" for that "certain guru" I wasn't surprised, he is well traveled, clearly has a lot of experience and is a wise guy.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:45 AM
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I assume you are a man because of this reply. Of if you are a woman you must be extremely naive. Some women, I'm not saying all but some of them, can be extremely cruel to their sisters. And they do this cruelty by looking friendly from the outside. I'm not judging, I'm not saying women are bad, this is how they are wired (again, not all but surely some of them)
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:23 AM
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Yeah they are consistently inconsistent
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:31 AM
1

What seems to be the problem
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:30 AM
1

As a man, I understand your frustration. Unfortunately some men think flirtation is a game and by applying certain moves, they will get a "reward" Look at the replies to OP's question. Most talk as if there is only one situation and only one woman on this earth. Reading the room seems to be the lost subtle art
/r/seduction04/10/25 03:29 PM
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You asked the "most" but I'll share a few It's not the destination, it's the journey. Enjoy the ride without expecting anything in return. If things progress with a woman whom you find attractive, great. If not, well that's it. She wants you to succeed. As a man, you have the drive, capability and experience to approach a stranger, a friend of a friend etc and "try your luck". You might be the only decent looking and desirable man who approached her in the last week/month/year. If there is no cl…
/r/seduction04/10/25 03:21 PM
1

Ever heard of Goldilocks zone? If you push too hard, it will backfire. If you don't put in enough effort it won't happen. My common "happy" scenario is when I'm relaxed and in the look out for opportunities. Simple
/r/seduction04/10/25 02:52 PM
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and to top it off, they change and become almost a different person twice a month. There is this saying "Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other"
/r/seduction04/10/25 02:29 PM
2

Read the room my friend.
/r/seduction03/10/25 04:25 PM
48

I see that you got downvoted. People are not comfortable hearing the harsh truths. The scenarios you describe here happens a lot.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:07 PM
17

Hate to be that guy but the joke passed by me
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:02 PM
16

I think, therefore I f-up
/r/seduction02/10/25 07:56 AM
1

OK just to be clear, when I wrote instinct I meant awareness, drive. We are making generalizations here, and until the mid 30s, in general a woman will be better equipped compared to a man similar age. One gender is not superior to the other, but a woman has intuition, and she can sense a lot, especially if something is off. Most men are focused on (as you worded) tits and ass and can't see anything past that. Again, I'm not saying women are better than men. All I'm saying is that they have cert…
/r/seduction01/10/25 06:13 AM
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Well yes and no. You might be missing a point here. Attraction means different things in high school years, early adulthood and middle ages. Yes in high school and college, we didn't have anything but the looks. It was 90% of what we are. And most of the attractive guys from those ages didn't learn to develop their personality and some failed in later stages in life. Late 20s, and early 30s, being "hot" means to have a smoking body and a style that goes well with it. And in the middle ages, attr…
/r/seduction30/09/25 06:29 PM
1

This was a very civil and respectful discussion. While I agree with you on the "not all..." idea, I'll respectfully disagree with the fantasy concept. Crazy women and bad boys are lots of work, drama and in the end leave the other one drained. But it's fun, and as human beings, we are always yearning for the thrill. Familiar is boring. Security is boring. Sure there are many happy couples in their stable relationships and they might be in love for half a century but those couples should be like …
/r/seduction30/09/25 06:14 PM
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if, and this is a big if, this is not a bot account, I still think that he is asking the right questions. Yes almost all of his observations are wrong, but one thing he is right is that men are born with zero equipment and most don't get enough guidance in early ages. On the other hand, a women is born with all the instincts that help her succeed in mating. For **most** man, it's not easy. At least he got that right.
/r/seduction30/09/25 06:05 PM
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Oh wow where did this come from. Don't remember when was the last time someone brings out the uncomfortable truth. We all pay a price, most encounters leave a mark and take something away from us. Sure, some are fun and exciting in the moment but we are social animals looking for love and belonging. Being stoic is not easy so as being married but playing in the field for decades is really tiring
/r/seduction29/09/25 03:46 AM
3

it doesn't have to be complex to be good. best ideas are the simplest ones
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:10 AM
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The first, best and most important advice: lift heavy weights. And specifically never skip the leg day. All you have to do is squats deadlifts and overhead press. Rest is just the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:28 PM
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Ok I got you and won't disagree. But think about this. If you want to be healthier, just get out and walk everyday. Sure you won't look like a Greek god but not everybody needs to do muscle ups. In the same way, if you make it a habit to get up and just talking to people, you'll eventually get more natural
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:26 PM
2

This guy lifts
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:19 PM
3

Ok but all I'm saying is if you were more fit, it would be much easier for you. Plus most 5'7 130 guys are sitting at home cursing their genes. You are an exception
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:13 PM
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Plenty of fish in the sea Actually no, there is very little number of people who take good care of themselves physically, mentally and spirituality, who are respectful, accountable and trustworthy Finding one is like looking for a needle in the haystack
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:58 PM
1

What's wrong with this advice
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:55 PM
2

There are all kinds of people on this earth but yes let's say some single women want to keep other women around them single
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:55 PM
2

About the fitness, yeah it's almost necessary. It's not the ultimate enabler but surely makes things much more easier
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:53 PM
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Yeah and after putting yourself out there and making the effort, you need to let things happen naturally, without forcing things
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:50 PM
1

u/Rhino3750ss shared great advice, and he clearly knows what he is talking about. If you approach a person with an intention to "close" the whole interaction will feel off. You can't fake genuine connection. You can only build that connection if you approach with curiosity and open mind. In a club setting, women are prepared and expect to get approached. During the planning, dressing up, putting on makeup, they get hyped. They put the investment upfront and now waiting for a return on their inve…
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:19 AM
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It's good that you are asking this question. It's not about the eye contact, it's about what's behind those eyes. They say the eyes are windows to the soul. If you are genuine, have good intentions, the person in front of you will enjoy your presence. After all we are social creatures and enjoy connecting with other people. But if you have a strict agenda in your mind, have a tendency to force things and more importantly don't know how to read the room, it will be very uncomfortable for the othe…
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:01 AM
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This is the best explanation of the term
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