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Was this part of the purge? Lmao I'm going to take it at face value regardless. Premarital sex doesn't make marriage worthless. Marriage is still something special. People are having premarital sex specifically for that reason - they know they'll have to make a commitment to one person for, ideally, the rest of their lives, so why would they make that commitment without ensuring first that they're sexually compatible with their partner? It's like how stores often offer free samples. The dating s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:11 AM
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What do you mean about the second part?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:33 PM
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If a woman is having the sex unwillingly, out of a sense of duty rather than desire, that already seems like a sign of an unhealthy relationship. The existence of porn stars and prostitutes proves that women can seem like they're into sex without actually being into it. Capability doesn't justify it. Maybe I've just been conditioned to think this way, but unwilling sex seems like the kind of thing that would build resentment in a relationship. A woman denying her husband sex also builds resentme…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 05:37 AM
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If a woman has the energy to dress herself in the morning, she has the energy to have sex. You said in another comment that women should put on a performance during sex, like 'high-priced prostitutes or porn stars,' if they're not feeling in the mood. Maybe it's just me, but porn star reactions seem like they'd take a bit more energy than what it would take to get dressed in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:09 PM
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Porn isn't real life. Women shouldn't have to put on a 'spectacle' in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:05 PM
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I agree that a home needs money to survive, that much is undeniable. But a family can fall into disarray if there's not someone to manage its private affairs. I don't think the traditional role of women, i.e. being homemakers, should be underestimated. When men come back from a hard day's work, their wives (traditionally) welcomed them home, and they didn't have to worry about anything because it would all already have been taken care of for them. It's nurturing, comforting, to know that someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:04 PM
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I'm not saying she shouldn't have sex, either, I'm saying she can't help it if she doesn't feel in the mood. Some wives might have sex with their husbands even if they're not in the mood, though admittedly that's rare; I think the reason it's rare though is because no husband wants to have sex with a starfish. If a woman's not into sex, and decides to have sex anyway, it's usually not that enjoyable, at least psychologically, for either party. It might be physically pleasurable for the man, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:51 PM
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Honestly if men and women could control their arousal life would be a lot simpler for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:50 PM
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Much of the time, I don't feel like cooking meals for my family, but I do it anyway AND make an effort. Some of those times I even begin to enjoy the process. I wouldn't say preparing meals and sex are equivalent; one is a duty to the family, a duty the family wouldn't survive without. The other is an act that both parties taking part are supposed to enjoy. Often both the man and woman contribute to household duties, and even today, women tend to contribute more. Nobody likes housework; I promis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:00 AM
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I see your point, but it just looks like a trade off to me, one that's not inherently unfair. Women have the burden of giving birth, which is no small thing, and being pregnant leaves them vulnerable so they need to vet their partners from the beginning to know they've found someone reliable. A man vetting before sex makes no sense, because he doesn't have enough information yet to commit. But in the same vein, a woman vetting after sex makes no sense, because she might already be pregnant. By t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:49 PM
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True, but what I was getting at was - how is it worse for a woman to shit-test early on than for a man to shit-test later on? They're both testing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:39 PM
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me too, when's yours due? I always get (what I feel is) a heap done in one go and then, content with myself, waste hours of productivity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:08 AM
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How is it worse then to shit-test early on than to shit-test later on? It makes sense to shit-test early on because you haven't invested anything yet, and you want to know whether it's worth it to invest at all. If you're shit-testing later, you've already invested a lot and by that point you should already know whether the relationship is working well or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:29 AM
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holy grail I think it's not so much anal itself that men like, but the fact that their girlfriends will do something they dislike to please them. If a man is lusting after the anus though it kind of seems like he's insecure. Is he that desperate for validation that he needs her to do something she's uncomfortable with?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:13 AM
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Her post might've come off a bit strong, but to me it just seems like an outpouring of regret from a person who probably feels incredibly guilty for being closer to her brothers and father than her mother, despite how hard her mother worked. /u/pinkgoldrose I want you to know that you don't need to beat yourself up for however you felt about or treated your mother. It's not just you. Every child goes through a period of their lives when they take their parent/s for granted, and some people never…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:31 AM
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TRP opinion that sexist guys get most sex since they DGAF and are assertive and dominant Do you agree with that opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:29 AM
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The men in this thread aren't just acknowledging beauty/hotness though. They want to be with beautiful/hot women who they think are out of their league. Nearly every single top commenter says something along those lines. "I know they'd never go for a 4 like me but I can't seem to lower my standards below a 7" etc. That kind of behaviour is typically what TRP attributes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:00 AM
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Penis-shaming is everywhere, it's 100% socially acceptable to make jokes about small or misshapen penises in media and private life. True, but I feel like most of the shaming is done by other men. I haven't heard a woman in real life making jokes about micro-penises or small dicks, only men. And it seems like there's been a push in the media recently encouraging skill over size, and women seem to be going along with that, even if it's just for political correctness. Sure, in porn, size matters. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:30 AM
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The bouncer is guarding a narrow doorway. People go in or out through that doorway, he's not going to be ambushed. The two murdered policewomen were caught in gunfire, out in the open where the armed person could come from any direction, and then grenaded. Even a man would've had little chance against that unarmed. The second policewomen was, again, ambushed. When you don't know where the gunman is and he can see you, you're a sitting duck, whether you're male or female. As for whether they're p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:35 AM
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Well, they probably don't want to be the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:33 PM
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I assume that I should at least have said, "Let's watch a movie," rather than, "Do you wanna watch a movie?" But how much risk does the former carry (any?)? Could it possibly pressure a very awkward and very docile woman who (unless she fibbed) needed to work the next day at 11:00, and get a bad reaction? I read your comment below, and it seems like you're more worried about the extended risk rather than the immediate risk of her saying no. That extended risk is her getting intimidated and ghost…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:43 AM
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It's kind of funny that the top two comments at the moment contradict each other. Personally I've seen many women in great shape dating men who don't seem at all Chad-y, but I've also seen fit, tall guys dating women who don't look all that special. I think this one varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:50 AM
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Whichever option it was, (a) or (b), making a move, especially since she showed interest in you despite acknowledging the situation was more intimate than she's perhaps used to, couldn't have hurt. Not making a move is fine though, too, don't stress about it. If she says it feels awkward just take it at face value. She's not trying to insult you, or imply she doesn't like you. Much the opposite - she's probably saying "I like him but I don't want this to end up in sex on the first date" to herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:03 AM
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Aw thanks. I just like to word vomit. You seem much more rational. Honestly I think the main reason guys don't want to next is because they haven't gotten a clear, harsh refusal from the girl they're after. Guys need that. If she lets him down easy, with a half-lie, she thinks she's doing him a favour but in reality she's just letting him get his hopes up. I think some guys just have this mentality that if a girl is refusing him, and if she's civil about it, then it's not really him she's refusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:43 AM
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I don't really like the idea of game, either, but the reason so many people bother with it is because it works. It only works on some girls, but the alternative for the guys who turn to it (at least, in their minds) is no girls at all. Honestly, I think 'game' itself is just a crutch. TRP, game, pua - it's all a crutch that men who might be having a tough time turn to to get themselves back up on their feet. They start focusing more on self-improvement, some girls start responding, their own sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:01 AM
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Surely they care about men's votes as well, though? It's not like women being able to vote takes away men's right to vote. If they got no votes from women at all they would stop existing as a political party pretty quickly. Doesn't that go both ways? If a political party got no votes from men, wouldn't it fall apart just as quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 03:24 AM
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Honestly the entire system is just a vicious cycle that perpetuates crime. What's funny is that when it comes to the judicial system, at least, it seems like this benevolent sexism stems in part from the very fact that there are so many male judges. The research paper you linked to references this book and pp162-3 contain extracts from interviews with judges. The female judge appears to be the only one who actively tries not to be too lenient on females, whereas all the males (apart from the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 02:36 AM
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Her behaviour was a response to his behaviour. Lack of respect from one party resulted in lack of respect from the other. Her passive-aggressiveness was definitely unwarranted, but his attitude was also completely unwarranted. Of course, it's all a hypothetical scenario though. Who knows how it actually played out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:29 AM
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He could have at least tried to act civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:58 PM
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