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I don’t know how I’m supposed to argue against someone who says they didn’t say something that they said. Your whole gripe with women “being passed around” is that they’re engaging in sex consensually with multiple men. If they were raped, you wouldn’t have a problem with them, right? But since they engage in the act consensually, it’s only a problem then. You’re perpetuating rape culture. You just don’t acknowledge it, but that’s exactly what slut shaming is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:58 PM
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Matching your energy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:50 PM
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You’re playing the rapist and predator card.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:46 PM
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there's nothing wrong with having consensual sex, and the fact you think there is, is exactly why women like me find male sexuality repulsive. You see it as an inherently degrading act. You shame women for enjoying it consensually, and only deem it permissible when we are hesitant / inexperienced towards it. It's rapey and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:53 AM
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I think men have a dysfunctional relationship with sex and women are the main ones caught in the cross hairs for that dysfunction. That's the part that's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:48 AM
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no, they're not.
/r/MensRights22/06/26 06:58 AM
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Grown man doesn’t know how consent works and thinks it’s funny. Y’all are cooked.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:31 AM
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Hey, so this is rape.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:29 AM
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Men are also perfectly capable of seeking out consent.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:28 AM
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I’m baffled that you don’t know what consent is yet insist upon having sex. This is really bad.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:27 AM
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This is getting worse and worse.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:26 AM
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Men really shouldn’t be having sex if they don’t understand how consent works. No one should. You should take this as a learning moment and be grateful she doesn’t further press this.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:24 AM
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What is this “regretting sex” thing that men come up with in their heads? You seem to think it’s a common thing, but doesn’t that suggest that there’s something so awful about men that women would regret sleeping with them? It seems like a self own, and a sidestep of the actual problem.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 06:20 AM
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Lots of women don’t want those things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:16 PM
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I will not make men’s access to women easier until men are better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:15 PM
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you can have human connection without having sex. these are terrible arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:24 AM
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it's actually not uncomfortable at all. If a man needs sex so bad that he dies if he doesn't get it, oh well then. It's not my responsibility to compromise my bodily autonomy for someone else's survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:19 AM
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can't the same exact thing be said for how men here talk about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:21 PM
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This doesn't sound like a modern man this just sounds like a man throughout the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:20 PM
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huh? most women do date their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:18 PM
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Is it about women's design, or more about the fact that many men just aren't up to par?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:17 PM
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i'm not following. why would this need to be lied about? I'm not under the assumption most, or even many men will meet my standards. It was always going to be a diamond in the rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:16 PM
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You’re not a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:04 PM
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You can have love and a sense of belonging without sex. I'm sorry, but I'm just not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:45 PM
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Yes. It is. And you all know it is. Hence why you are owed NOTHING. You don't get to perpetuate / turn a blind eye to your own bullshit then wonder why people aren't blindly supporting you. No one wants you to stand up for us, at this point, we just want you to leave us the hell alone. Has it ever occurred to you that many of you simply deserve to be hated? When you start being better people, the hate will stop. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:04 PM
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Why would it be alongside eating and breathing? That makes no sense. Maybe in terms of "reproducing" in order to keep the species going, sure, but outside of that? I don't see the reasoning. Wanting something really badly doesn't mean it's a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:00 PM
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we have more similarities than differences. you would need to provide evidence that men need sex on a physiological level before people just blindly believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:56 PM
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Well, he didn’t dodge the bullet since he was cheated on and hurt.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:44 PM
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How is not having sex compared to living in dangerous sub par conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:41 PM
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Sex is not a physiological need. Orgasms are good for you and should be had, but you don’t need to have sex to do that. There are virgins who exist and are fine without having sex. Like I said, it just sounds like you have addiction issues tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:39 PM
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The shit men perpetuate is still ongoing and not in the past. Y’all’s blindness to your current failures is why people care less and less about your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:36 PM
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Or maybe what you’re saying is nonsense ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:34 PM
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Yeah sure whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:12 AM
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Feminism advocates for more than just jobs. It’s liberation and freedom of choice in all facets of life, regardless your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:11 AM
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You need to be educated in order to educate. Make a podcast and scam impressionable boys if you want “spread your knowledge” so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:22 AM
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Then those who can’t should seek therapy for their sex addiction and dependency issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:20 AM
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And your answer is a worthless dodge. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:19 AM
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A good man, or good people in general, are those who take personal accountability for their actions, and who try to do good instead of making excuses to do bad. They don’t see good deeds as transactional. They are not entitled to people’s admiration and affection. They are authentic, genuine, try to improve themselves and help others when needed because of solid morals and goals for a peaceful existence. The men here largely do not fit that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:13 AM
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Fiscal, leadership, and safety opportunities that allow them to navigate society more freely than women can. The only limitations men have are in areas that are predominated by women because god forbid men are associated with anything feminine, which is a largely self-inflicted issue. Oh and sure, y’all don’t have as much sex as women. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:09 AM
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Frothing at the mouth over crusty old people preying on young people is a reasonable response, actually. Misogyny as I’m using it here is y’all’s unwillingness to see women as people with value beyond sex, and mayyybe romance, but mostly sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:06 AM
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You think getting into a club is a societal opportunity. You’re the unserious person here. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:04 AM
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Sorry, but I can’t take any of this seriously when men keep getting granted opportunities that women have to fight twice as hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:03 AM
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Well they’re wrong then, because the bad people are the entitled misogynists who are allergic to taking personal accountability. Side note, unless you’re young yourself, maybe lust after people your own age and you’ll have better success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:01 AM
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I only have empathy for good men 🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:59 AM
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Lol what a bunch of half baked truths. so low paying jobs, sex work, and clubs, got it, really scraping the bottom of the barrel there. plenty of men are in sex work. If you really wanted to do it, you would. and the only reason more women have more success is because men buy their work Maybe stop participating in the thing that’s creating an imbalance for you. Lol literally once again proving that your problems are self inflicted. Same thing with the babysitter thing. Maybe men shouldn’t be pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:58 AM
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Because everything you’re saying is irrelevant to both me and the previous conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:50 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:49 AM
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I think treating women as incubators and bangmaids speaks to perceived expendability as well. I like how y’all quite literally think that because women have access to more sex than men, that means we’re valued as human beings. We are not, and the very men in this subreddit prove that every day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:48 AM
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You’ve been listening to one too many male podcasts my guy, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:45 AM
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I don’t have sex with evil men, tf are you yappin about. Lay off the drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:41 AM
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Yes, they do, and caring only about getting laid is probably why people don’t give a damn about your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:39 AM
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What the devil are you going on about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:37 AM
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I made it clear what kind of men I do and don’t have empathy for. Yes, both genders contribute to gender roles, that doesn’t mean these roles weren’t created by men and for men. Feminists have been telling y’all for decades that patriarchal constructs need to come to an end, that’s literally the only way these problems will stop, but if men want to continue plugging their ears and blaming everyone else, I quite frankly don’t know what else can be done for them, nor do I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:34 AM
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Nope, i don’t. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:32 AM
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I don’t keep up with the lingo passed around in your echo chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:31 AM
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Men have more societal opportunities and respect than women, and I’m not sure why y’all are playing pretend as if they don’t. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:30 AM
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Only good men with accountability are owed empathy. Idk what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:09 AM
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idk maybe be better people and stop being the predators of the species? Maybe centuries of reinforcing the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions, need to be conquerors, and ought to put women in their place has eventual negative consequences? Like, I’m sorry no one is thinking of the poor men, but men complain about shit that they’ve literally done to themselves. Like, you got your cake, so eat it. The only men I care about are the ones who actually make an effort to be good people and take pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:07 AM
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Nope, I’m well on task. women are still underpaid and underrepresented in most high paying / leadership positions. When that changes, we can chat ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:59 AM
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Only good people deserve empathy as far as I’m concerned. Men need to fix their perception of what love means. If it means being entitled to women’s time and affection, mistreating them, disrespecting them, relegating them to being your bangmaids, etc. then you deserve to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:56 AM
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It has to do with my point that women aren’t valued beyond their looks while men are. Keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:52 AM
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When america gets a female president, let’s talk This isn’t to speak of the day to day torment men put women through. Thanks for proving my point though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:46 AM
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Being valued beyond our looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:34 AM
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Women having something men want doesn't mean their lives are universally easier. Men have things women want too, but men rarely if ever want to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:54 PM
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To be fair, the men here have no empathy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:54 PM
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no one said it doesn't fit into the puzzle, only that the puzzle is made up of more pieces than that. The point of life is to live. There are a variety of ways to do that which don't involve sex and relationships. I genuinely worry men don't seem to realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:47 PM
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y'all just make up these arbitrary qualifiers and expect people to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:41 PM
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is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:39 PM
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“Infanticide is unfeminine and unsexy” is such a fucking weird take, and that’s saying something for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:14 PM
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Wouldn’t know, I didn’t read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:32 PM
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honest feedback, you need to learn how to speak to people. i did not cast the first stone, i commented on your unnecessarily rude response to the other person when you diminished their viewpoint as "bullshit". Clearly, you lack self awareness to the point of not seeing how you come off, but you don't get to insult people like a child and then absolve yourself by calling that "debate'. Where I'm from, debate requires a civil and respectful exchange of ideas, not middle school-type flailing and pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:10 AM
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debate =/= insulting people and throwing tantrums. you're owed nothing. good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:00 PM
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Yep, and men overrepresent them. Glad you agree, Piss Hands. Now stop talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:45 AM
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Nope. That might be your argument, but my argument is whether alcohol is accounted for or not, men are still largely the glaring problem when it comes to rape. It’s pretty concerning regardless how you shake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:35 AM
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Familial rape, child rape, random assault rape, are all predominated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:26 AM
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I stopped reading after the first sentence. Don’t know who you think you’re talking to, but it’s certainly not me. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:22 AM
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I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:21 AM
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I think men feel contempt towards women and womanhood, while women feel resentment towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:20 AM
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contempt and resentment aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:42 PM
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i mean, men overrepresent rape statistics even when excluding intoxication altogether, so there's still very much a reason to perceive them as the problem within this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:41 PM
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he's still batting a strong 99% don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:37 PM
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y'all love replying to comments with "bullshit" then saying absolutely nothing of value after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:36 PM
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wait is that's what's being asked here? if women would stop having sex if it meant no sexual assault? i'm so confused by the aims of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:32 PM
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i guess it's different for everyone, but i don't know if i fully agree either. romance and romantic love can exist without the inclusion of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:30 PM
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yeah no, what would be the upside to this for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:28 PM
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Not doughy physique. Doughy muscly. I don’t know how else to describe it. The muscles are there, but they’re not super bulging or you can’t see every single defined ab (I’ve seen his other shirtless scenes in different projects, so I’m certain it’s not just the lighting lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:49 PM
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You can’t get on him for worshipping women when you yourself acknowledge that men are overly desperate and “scramble for any woman they can get”. Self respect. It’s important. Get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:27 PM
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Why do you feel the need to continuously compare these issues to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:20 AM
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You didn’t address a single point I just made. I’m not out of touch, I simply don’t care. Sorry the world is so horrible for men that they can no longer club women over the head and drag them back to their caves, but those days are done. The standards are different now. Men need to either evolve and adapt, or get left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:34 PM
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First, the women in my life who are in relationships are just with regular guys who happen to be decent people. This narrative of women having “insanely high standards” is meaningless until you A) actually define what those standards are and B) prove that the average woman has them. From where I’m sitting, our standards aren’t insanely high, it’s just that many men are subpar. Second, you’re not special enough for a person’s self worth to be dependent on whether you personally want to fuck them …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:22 PM
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Corporations exploiting poor people isn’t comparable to dating. Lol. You don’t need to date in order to eat and survive. Seriously, some men need to get over themselves. The world doesn’t owe you pussy and romance. Learn to love yourself and maybe you’ll be less bitter about people exercising their freedom of choice. If you want to be chosen, level up and be the person that they’ll choose. If it doesn’t work out, get a hobby. Get a dog. There’s more to life and fulfillment than dating. Otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:06 PM
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Women having freedom of choice isn’t bad. You want us to be desperate and have zero standards and choose any schmuck just so you don’t feel left out. I think that makes you the bad guy. And it’s compounded by hypocrisy, because women who don’t have as many standards are called whores or are blamed when they select horrible abusive men as partners. There’s quite literally no winning with you people. You just hate the fact women have autonomy, that’s all these stupid conversations come down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:53 PM
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Women being picky isn’t unreasonable. Again, it indicates a problem with the pool of people they’re picking from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:46 PM
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I’m just saying that men not looking at themselves as the problem is a tale as old as time. If women have all the access to men at their fingertips, yet so many men still complain about not being able to date, I think that indicates a problem with men. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:40 PM
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Honestly, I’m with you. But I kinda like the idea of defining these things for myself, since they don’t have any objective meaning to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:03 PM
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Before social media, it was tv. Before tv, it was radio. Before radio, it was books. All things accused by men of warping women’s minds and making romantic prospects difficult. I’m just saying, this conversation is nothing new, and it would appear there is one common denominator through it all that is probably the actual problem. Occam’s Razor and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:27 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:24 PM
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Yeah no, I’m not the one with a warped view of history. you’ve been steaming in the echochambers for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:24 PM
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“In the short term” reading is a gift. And no one said anything about being a victim, men have systematically subjugated and brutalized women and you’re still talking about brutalizing women. It is what it is, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:18 PM
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well this reply surprised and touched me, and I'm glad you're on a journey of rediscovery. We're all just trying to figure life out, so I'm happy my perspective could help you. I appreciate you sharing your views and hearing mine, and I genuinely wish you all the best and that you continue to heal <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:10 AM
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they died for the government body telling them to go to war. men abused women to the point a whole movement had to be made in response, which is what actually gave women rights. Not men. You really like to just talk out your ass. Take it to an echo chamber that will listen. I'm not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:04 AM
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beating people up isn't power. it's just defaulting to basic means to get what you want in the short term. People with actual power don't need to come to blows. Even the soldiers you glorify are just meat sacks following someone else's orders. Cogs in the wheels with muscles. Pack mules. It's meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:01 AM
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you're saying a bunch of nothing. Any constrictions women face in regards to service is because of men. You don't get to strip women of their right to choose then turn around and say you're doing them a favor. Men decided that. Not women. And yes, men are afraid of women voting, which is why you have men still squawking about repealing the 19th. Any monkey can beat a person up that doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:30 AM
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"Men fought to protect women" they did not. They subjugated and brutalized women at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:29 AM
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Yeah, I agree with this for the most part. To sexist people, femininity = inferior/subservient, and I'm not about that. So I define my femininity for myself. I think that's how most people should go about defining masculinity and femininity, regardless their gender. It should be on their terms, not others'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:28 AM
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Why would you imagine your loved one having sex with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:25 AM
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do what you want as long as you're not hurting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:23 AM
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masculinity and femininity are traits that anyone can have, regardless their gender. women don't decide what they mean, and men don't decide what they mean. Culture decides.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:22 AM
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Remember how your dad could pay for school working part time No? And idk, men have been complaining about their inability to attract women for as long as I've been alive. Maybe the problem is with them, the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:20 AM
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You really ignored what was said and went off on your own make believe argument. As I said, read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:28 PM
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No, that’s not what I think and that’s not what I said. Read again. Slower. Take notes to keep track of the points made if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:00 PM
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You don’t even know what logical means. You’re welcome to actually explain your reasoning, but otherwise, plugging your ears and going “nuh uh” isn’t going to work. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:55 PM
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I’ve already explained my reasoning so I don’t need to repeat myself. You either get it or you don’t. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:52 PM
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Another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:50 PM
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Y’all genuinely need to read more books. The lack of comprehension skills is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:43 AM
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Okay, but when I mentioned the hypothetical, I was talking about the hypothetical. Not the statement that men are more dangerous than bears, which isn’t even the crux of what people are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:21 AM
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It doesn’t. But there’s limitations to what bears can do to people. At the very worst, a bear will eat you alive, leave your entrails strewn about the forest floor, come back to pick your bones as you slowly asphyxiate on your own blood. Horrendous, yes. Wouldn’t recommend it on most days. But to some people, a strange man can potentially do worse. Because unlike bears, humans have imagination, and to some people, there are some things worse than death. What it comes down to, and what men are mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:09 AM
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No, you’re not being disrespectful. And it will always vary from person to person, culture to culture, but in my views, there’s a certain amount of living and experiences a person needs to do before they truly become an adult. Most people at 18-20 haven’t had those experiences, especially not those of a 30 or 40 year old. This puts them at mental, emotional, and practical disadvantages compared to people who are older and have had more practice being human beings. A young person is less likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:54 AM
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…..That’s not how hyperboles function. The question proposes a hypothetical scenario for people to consider. It’s a hypothetical. It’s okay to simply not speak if you don’t know what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:44 AM
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A controlled environment allows a great deal more options for women when dealing with strange men than an uncontrolled environment does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:36 AM
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You can’t grasp the basic mechanics of this hypothetical. I doubt any minds will be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:34 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:32 AM
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The environment is the point of the hypothetical. I know critical thinking is hard, but it’s sad you can’t even muster an attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:31 AM
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Then stop squawking at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:28 AM
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No, it’s asking whether you would be alone in an uncontrolled environment with a man or a bear. This is the third time I’m saying it. For the logical gender, you really seem to have trouble retaining information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:27 AM
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The hypothetical is about an uncontrolled environment. I quite literally just said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:25 AM
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For the record, defaulting to sexist views of women isn’t doing your demographic any favors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:24 AM
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Not the point of the hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:23 AM
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Yes, I’m aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:23 AM
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Women saying things you don’t like doesn’t mean they’re being illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:15 AM
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Well that’s not the point of the hypothetical. It calls out an uncontrolled environment like a forest for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:12 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:11 AM
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Yeah true on the last point, I never implied predators come in one variety though. Not all men are predators, but most men who look for insecure qualities in women probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:11 AM
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What do you think being predatory means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:09 AM
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Ngl idk what you’re disagreeing with. My point has been clear and men have a number of grievances towards women, yes, which includes women being picky, but also they’re angry that women have more dating prospects. The latter is what my replies are based on. Idk what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:08 AM
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The folks in female dating strategy don’t represent “almost every women” anymore than the men here represent almost every man. I see your point about men having different takes on what traditional means. That is certainly true. For the sake of the convo though, my post refers to traditional as commonly defined here in this subreddit and similar subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:42 AM
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And women make their own money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:39 AM
2

Nope, still sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:38 AM
2

The person I was talking to made the Mai. Point that insecure women have more options than insecure men. I don’t see how my argument is consistent when that’s the only thing I was replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:36 AM
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Are you disagreeing with me? I can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:33 AM
1

Well I’m not. This is just a Reddit thread. I have no reason to lie. Think what you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:31 AM
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You can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:28 PM
1

Cool. You’re still a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:27 PM
1

No. It’s not if you are lacking dating prospects set more boundaries, it’s if you’re angry that women have more dating opportunities because men keep giving them those opportunities, then maybe men should stop giving them the opportunities. I don’t understand how so many of you can’t seem to grasp this. You’re complaining about something that is largely self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:24 PM
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It’s something that can’t be reconciled. Why are you as a seasoned adult pursuing people who are just barely adults? There will always be an implicit imbalance imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:22 PM
2

Bitterness about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:20 PM
1

I don’t want a younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:20 PM
1

No. Not sure how you came to that conclusion. Anyone who actively pursues people who are significantly younger than them, especially younger than 25, are sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:20 PM
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If you’re a 40 old dating a teenager, you’re a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:32 PM
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Socially-adjusted people don’t agree with you, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:27 PM
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So the me too movement isn’t just about rape, it’s about sexual exploitation. A 21-year old “smoke show” is just a young person probably underpaid, and desperate to be in this competitive field and has virtually no power compared to the rich and influential industry leaders who have all the say on the trajectory of their career. So let’s get that dynamic straight first of all. Second, people shouldn’t trade sex for success, I think that goes without saying. More pertinently, people shouldn’t coe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:22 PM
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My B point is not useless because the point is that men are making it difficult for themselves. The outcome for insecure people is the same: being disliked and stayed away from. Men just take the more roundabout journey to get to that conclusion with insecure women because they have a difficult time saying no upfront. Like most things in this genre of discourse, the dating gap between women and men would not be as wide if men actually bothered to set up boundaries for themselves the way women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:11 PM
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It’s not moving the goalposts. I understand that women get more dates than men period, regardless if they’re confident or not, so that’s not really a revelation. But the outcome of those dates with insecure women is important because it indicates men don’t actually like insecure women either, they’re just not immediately upfront with that dislike the way women are towards insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:03 PM
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I didn’t get any dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:01 PM
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Well actually no, I was speaking colloquially. I didn’t get any dates as a teenager and young adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:01 PM
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So, I know you’re saying that men don’t care about low self esteem, but my literal argument is that some men very much do. Like, I don’t know how else to say it, but yes. Yes they do. Lol. That’s why they’re considered predators. I didn’t say they’re a majority, in fact I said the opposite. That the average man is not scrutinizing women for these qualities that coincide with insecurity. But it still happens. As far as intentionality goes, some are intentional with it, and as another user replied…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:49 PM
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Yes, insecure women can be controlling and quite abusive themselves. But many times, that’s not what the outcome is, especially not in the cases where these relationships started because men actively sought out women with insecure qualities. I mean, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but we’re speaking synonyms here. You’re describing men who who look for someone who is always going agree with them and cater to everything they want, and I’m describing men who are looking for insecure women. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:11 AM
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my main point is that there’s not a bunch of insecure women in happy healthy relationships. People in general don’t like unmanaged insecurity, women are just more honest about it. Men either trick themselves into thinking they are then get smacked with the reality of what that entails and dip, or, for the men who actively seek out insecure women, those men are probably predators, and I wouldn’t consider them viable options for women. If men had a more realistic perception of what it means to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:54 AM
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Why are you so bothered by abusive men in positions of power being held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:46 AM
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But they do do that though. There are indeed men who heavily scrutinize women for the previously mentioned traits. Yes, of course dating a person who happens to be insecure isn’t an immediate sign of predation, but if a man is actively looking for such traits in women, then he is A) definitely doing lots of overthinking, and B) is probably a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:41 AM
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No, you said a woman could be as insecure as possible, and still get lots of dates. My point is that, A) that isn’t always true, and B) getting dates doesn’t equate to substantial relationships. So it’s not an endless stream of options as you’re suggesting and men don’t actually like insecure women as much as they let on. Anytime someone tries to introduce some gray to these black and white declarations, you people deem it as “nothing”. Heavens forbid we have a nuanced conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:31 AM
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Then read my original comment. Intentionally seeking out insecure people is what predators do. It’s not misandrist to say that. The average man isn’t doing those things, which aligns with your first paragraph. The remainder of my first reply pertains to how women perceive ND / insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:28 AM
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“Hollywood provides plenty of examples” oh, you mean that commercial conglomerate that is literally paid to warp the populace’s perception of a skewed reality for profit on a regular basis? Yeah, let’s base our worldview and values on that. Edit: just read the rest of your comment. You’re out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:20 AM
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They shouldn’t have to, I’m a big proponent of certain people avoiding any and all contact with other people. But in turn, don’t pretend to be an expert on the people you never engage with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 AM
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I’m confused by what you’re disagreeing with. Men who don’t overthink why they’re attracted to a woman aren’t over analyzing women’s age, submissiveness, agreeability, etcetera. How is that a controversial statement? It directly supports your original point about the average man not overthinking these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:12 AM
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Where did I say that? Are you even reading my responses?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:05 AM
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Women don’t want difficult men either lol. Again, insecure women might get more dates than insecure men, but that’s because women, regardless their personality traits, will get more dates than men in general. The real measure of what you’re talking about comes down to how these relationships pan out, and as I said, they usually don’t. At least not well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:02 AM
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I was not confident and didn’t get many dates growing up. In general, some insecure women might get dates, but how many of those dates are blossoming into functioning relationships? Now that I’m in my late 20’s, I understand that men don’t really enjoy insecure women as much as they claim. They enjoy the idea, but not the outcome. Deeply insecure people, regardless your gender and which way you swing, swiftly become a chore. The clinginess, the lack of agency, the indecisiveness. Many men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:56 AM
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I have a grudge against predators, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:51 AM
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It’s crazy that unwashed men who don’t speak more than five words to women on a yearly average have the gall to judge half the species for daring to live past the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:50 AM
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Probably because us old hags were once young and preyed upon too, so we know what it feels like and don’t want it to be repeated. It’s called empathy. Crazy concepts, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 AM
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This isn’t as true as what you’re suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:44 AM
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I dunno. I think many men are definitely predatory and look for certain signs of insecurity in women they can prey upon. It’s largely the ones who harp excessively on women’s submissiveness, age, and agreeability whilst misrepresenting those traits as “feminine”. I do think the average, well-adjusted man simply doesn’t think too much about those things and will likely vibe with a variety of personality types regardless. As far as women’s take on ND men, it’d hard to say without lumping everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:43 AM
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Do they though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:35 AM
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This is really interesting, but I don’t see how it can be objectively applied to people in their day to day lives. People aren’t going to stop themselves from pursuing folks they want solely because of this desirability metric. People who either don’t care or who have enough confidence in themselves are going to do what they want, and it may possibly work out for them, or it may not. For me, I’m going to optimize myself as much as possible within reason, but I also know I’m not going to stop mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:29 AM
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No, I just want to understand the logic some of y'all have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:56 AM
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I think women can do wrong, but I don't think having consensual sex is wrong. Be that as it may, the average "modern woman" doesn't have an Only Fans account. I think being addicted to porn/the internet will skew one's perception of reality. But average women have average occupations and average lifestyles. That's it. Truth be told, these concepts of "high status males" "low value women" etcetera have no meaning to me. I'm just curious to see how some of y'all think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:52 AM
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i understand, given the climate of our culture and history, why some women care about men's money. But there's more and more women for whom that's just not much of a factor anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:50 AM
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if it works out for them, i don't see the problem. but i hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:49 AM
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which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:47 AM
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feel free to explain what the discrepancy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:46 AM
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i ain't even gonna front, 70k is pretty good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:44 AM
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how do you even begin to measure desirability compared to standards with any level of objectivity? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:43 AM
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we're in agreement there. the dichotomy is simplified and overblown, but I'm trying to speak as the Romans do, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:41 AM
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“They never loved the idea of traditional women” Bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:16 AM
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That would contradict the ethos here that women only want “Chads with six figures”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:14 AM
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Ok well I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:23 PM
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I don’t. But the men here apparently do. I’m simply speaking their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:46 PM
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I guess I don’t see what difference that makes. Whether they’re sleeping with lots of folks or not, their standards are still high, meaning the average guy according to this sub doesn’t have a shot either way. So why even bother making a distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:42 PM
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The men here who complain about modern women never giving the average guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:41 PM
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Controlling your cheating partner isn’t going to stop them from cheating. Just don’t be with them if you can’t trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:39 PM
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I get this. I feel like I’d probably bring this up during the second or third date, not during the fresh getting to know you stage, but I totally see the validity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:37 PM
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I wouldn’t complain about the patriarchy unless the topic came up, and even then, it’s not exactly a first date topic, but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:36 PM
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I don’t think roadblocks come with every decision. Depends on the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:09 PM
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Anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:03 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:59 PM
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60% said they would have sex with a minor if they could get away with it. they're also the number one killer of pregnant women. Not a good track record at all, these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:14 AM
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"who else"? Potentially any given man. Men's apathy and blindness to their own failures is why women are withdrawing btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:14 AM
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women coming together and reminding one another that we should never settle for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:12 AM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:41 AM
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god forbid men have any accountability for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:40 AM
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just be safe, clean, and consensual. idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:38 AM
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i like how you're trying to pretend that subreddit is anywhere parallel to r/incels. Y'all are so insecure and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:37 AM
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women with opinions he doesn't like
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:35 AM
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no. I don't like it when people try to derail the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:21 AM
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canned redpill talking points don't work on me, beloved. let's stick to the subject, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:46 AM
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if women vocalized and insisted the things that redpill men claim, then maybe not. Men quite literally boast about how they're simple, visual creatures who chiefly care about sex, governed by biology, whose urges can't be helped. Even if we all know that's not true, men, not women, will be the first to tell you it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:32 AM
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I'm agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:15 AM
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It'll be good for women too. Please leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:14 AM
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yo i'm serious. what the devil are you talking about? at what point in history have women had an equal say on what they can and can't be included in? Forget war for a second, I'm talking about in general? When has that ever happened? Was it before or after women couldn't vote or when they were traded like cattle? Let alone in regards to making decisions about warfare, which has been part of humanity since..well, forever. What are you on about? Gotta be the most asinine thing I've read today. may…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:12 AM
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I think men have always been a mix of clueless and careless towards women's actual feelings and perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:04 AM
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good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:03 AM
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A subreddit that caped for Elliott Rodger and child marriage and managed to gain more than 100 followers is alarming regardless. Furthermore, misogyny has never been limited to inceldom. You can get hella bitches and be a misogynist. So yes. Reddit is filled with misogynists. This isn't a controversial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:59 AM
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cool. women still aren't getting it from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:56 AM
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books written in the 18th and 19th centuries by whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:55 AM
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I mean, r/incels were calling for rape and pedophilia to be legalized, so I'm not sure what you expected to happen there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:54 AM
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men quite literally push these narratives about themselves. women aren't getting it from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:52 AM
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serial killers aren't the only men who torment women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:51 AM
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I mean women were equal participants in the creation of notion that women couldn't wage war what the devil are you talking about What your point is? that men started wars. not women. men. Placing burden and accountability on women for wars men started and subsequently excluded women from is irrational. Yeah, they were. they were not. I just said how they were not. is anybody home?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:47 AM
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Dang you really are willfully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:37 AM
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What do you mean “how convenient”. It’s a direct consequence of men barring them from fighting. What did you think was going to happen? Men started wars. What’s not clicking for you? Who cares? Women still weren’t safe at home, not to speak of the women who were being raped and brutalized by the same soldiers you’re pedestaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:31 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:22 AM
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Levy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:21 AM
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It just proves that your gender is viewed unfavorably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:20 AM
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They weren’t allowed to fight. Men are the ones who chose to A) start the wars, B) fight in the wars, and C) exclude women from fighting alongside them. Also, women weren’t safe at home, they were being exploited for labor in factories with subpar conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:18 AM
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Actually this is a good analogy. Not all eggs are bad, but some are. Patriarchy is a cake made with bad eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:04 AM
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In that case, I guess white dudes are the biggest Marxists of them all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:43 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:29 AM
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This isn’t uncommon whatsoever. https://www.forbes.com/sites/cherylrobinson/2021/12/22/how-this-republic-services-general-manager-is-breaking-the-stigma-on-female-garbage-truck-drivers/?sh=36f66f2071bf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:02 AM
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Cakes require eggs. That doesn’t mean cakes are eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:00 AM
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You being a man doesn’t mean people can’t tell you what words mean. Patriarchy has an established definition. Masculinity and femininity are traits that anyone can have regardless their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:29 PM
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Patriarchy doesn’t equal masculinity. And masculinity doesn’t equal men. It also depends on what you mean by masculine ideas. If those ideas are steeped in misogyny, then yes, they should be condemned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:24 PM
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Feminists push for women to be represented in underrepresented roles pretty regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:23 PM
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I wouldn’t say feminism is a hateful ideology. Unless you mean hateful towards patriarchal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:22 PM
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Being a Victoria secret model is a career goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:21 PM
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can I ask does this desired dynamic apply to all your relationships (family, friends, etc.) or just romantic? And if the latter, why? (i'm not judging, just genuinely curious)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:54 AM
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so you want to be needed but not loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:25 AM
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even if you did, your point is shallow at best (and i'm being nice)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:23 AM
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I suppose it depends on the area you're from. My city has lots of singles events. Some will have more men in attendance than women, but others are a fair mixed bag. I source these events through meetup dot com.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:09 AM
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The fact that you think making genuine connections with people is a chore is probably why you're not having success in the dating world. I mean, I get it, I also don't have much interest in people, but I also don't expect to have many dating prospects as a result either. Pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:03 AM
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i mean...why not just go to a event tailored to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:59 AM
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if women aren't as horny as men, why do men spend so much time slut shaming them and squawking about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:56 AM
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for someone who respects maturity, this is a childish post that could have been written by a 5th grader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:49 AM
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they're okay. It really depends on the guy. I've been attracted to chubby dudes, skinny dudes, toned dudes, and all other kinds of dudes in between. I suppose my ideal man is muscular, but in that doughy muscle kinda way, not necessarily ripped. Bulging muscles scare me actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:43 AM
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The same reason many men don't like mindless, horrible, yet attractive women (at least not for anything long term). Humans like human connection at the end of the day. if you don't have any substance beyond how you look, then connection will fade. If you're only interested in the short term good time though, then do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:41 AM
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Do what you need to do. Just be safe and don't hurt people. Cheating falls in that second category.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:33 AM
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Or people can walk and chew gum at the same time. You can condemn xenophobia and misogyny simultaneously. what a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:30 AM
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Maybe if you see women as people whose existence is not attached to men, the purpose of feminism will become a little less murky to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:27 AM
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I'm pretty sure being raped without justice extends beyond 'hurt feelings'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:22 AM
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In general, I'm not a fan of criticizing men's appearance, especially not when there's far more substantial things to criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:20 AM
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being fat doesn't mean you can't pursue your career goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:17 AM
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I can't leave this subreddit because i'll miss these unhinged takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:16 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:15 AM
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not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:14 AM
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They're trying to make this subreddit redpill 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:12 AM
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What do you mean never? There are women who do those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:11 AM
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i'm guessing this is sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:10 AM
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I think y’all will blame women for being too picky and also not picky enough regardless. No matter what we do, it will never be enough. we will always lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah that’s harsh. I don’t think men are useless as human beings. But I also don’t think they’re needed as partners. Women are realizing that we don’t need to be dependent on men anymore, and there’s a lot of resentment wrapped up in that because of how poorly men have treated us. Still, it’s true that we don’t need men to get by, But I wouldn’t say men are useless. Everyone’s useful in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:28 AM
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That’s literally why they’re making you wait. So they don’t make the wrong choice. Y’all just like to hear yourself talk. Maybe you should just choose women who are less picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:21 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:18 AM
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Are you sure they’re saying men are useless or that they personally don’t need men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:15 AM
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I don’t dish anything out to people who don’t deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:25 PM
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You’re rambling about nothing. Women should be wary of all types of men. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:42 AM
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used box? talking about humans like that is an automatic dismissal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:20 AM
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The topic isn't about dumping people you like. Tbh I don't get what your point is. It's already been established that being rejected sucks, and yeah, judging people for petty reasons isn't great, but to be honest, the reasons you listed here are actually valid reasons to not want to go on a second date with somebody. First impressions mean something, whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:20 AM
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ok that's still a valid reason to be turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:18 AM
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Right, because radicalized incel culture is totally not a thing that has gotten women killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:15 AM
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yeah no. Abuse comes in all shapes, sizes, and backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:14 AM
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Why are you basing your perception of humanity on high schoolers and people who barely know how to be adult humans? And why did you feel the need to draw a racial distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:10 AM
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that's good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:08 AM
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I went to a white school and an “inner city” Chicago school, and I’m still failing to grasp what point you’re making
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:50 PM
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I don’t think all or most men are predators, but I think too many are, and we have no way of knowing who is who. Men wouldn’t need to “run to women’s rescue” if men weren’t predatory to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:45 PM
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At any other point in history, women were treated like property, so I’m not sure what more you’re expecting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:14 PM
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It’s not screaming, it’s expressing disdain for kindergarten talking points in a college level course. State government is still government, and it’s still governmentally-sanctioned oppression. The federal government’s purpose in part is to make sure state governments don’t overreach in stripping people of their rights. It’s why the abolishment of slavery is on a federal level. Why gay and interracial marriage are a result of federal rulings. Why labor rights are federally invoked. Your argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:38 PM
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No, I guess not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:33 PM
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Because bodily autonomy is an inalienable right for everyone. I’m not going to cry about it, I’m going to vote about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:32 PM
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Okay? Anyway, abuse isn’t limited to strong men, which was my original point, and that makes the rest of your post faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:29 PM
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Yes, they can. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:26 PM
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The same way women can abuse men in relationships. Not to mention there are other kind of abuses that extend beyond physical. The psychology of abuse is complex. Not sure why you’re talking about this topic when you don’t seem to know much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:21 PM
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I’m aware what roe did, stop squawking at me the same stale points. Legislation being at the state level doesn’t make the oppression any less governmentally-sanctioned. Not to mention republicans are trying to implement a national ban which makes your stale point a moot one. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:17 PM
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This idea that misogynistic, abusive men are limited to “strong” men is fundamentally flawed from the outset and corrodes the rest of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:12 PM
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Roe v wade fell two years ago, and y’all are still using the same regurgitated talking points. This is why shit never gets done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:07 PM
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You’re never going to get women to be okay with the removal of their bodily autonomy. You’re just not. Republicans really fucked up with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:05 PM
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Roe v wade has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:04 PM
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Oh….haha yeah…very weird. This totally is an unrelatable phenomenon to me…haha…ah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:01 PM
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My partner would already know Adam Driver is my hall pass, so there shouldn’t be any turbulence there lol On a real note, no, I wouldn’t cheat on my partner. I value relationships because I value the person I’m with, not just because I can say I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:59 PM
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Well, it is what it is. You can’t be a woman on the internet without men harassing you or calling you a whore and for the streets, so we both have our burden to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:54 PM
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Because men have a lengthy track record of being predators, and just because you love your wife doesn’t mean you shouldn’t help out around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:48 PM
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Why would I need to clear up the fact that I don’t enjoy my date farting loudly for fun? That should go without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:30 PM
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To be fair, my threshold for perceived racism is even more rigid than perceived gross behavior like belching lol. I simply don’t have the time to teach people to not be racially insensitive. Whether it’s due to a gross burp, or whatever else, folks are free to feel how they feel. And yeah, it could be their loss, and I’m not saying you need to be happy about it. But it’s their choice at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:29 PM
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Agreed with everything you said in your first paragraph. For the second, yeah, people are free to shame what they want, but I’m not so sure the fabric of society and order will fall apart if we don’t all shame people for their dating preferences. I personally think we’d all be a lot happier if we minded our own business a little more. Like, yes, there are some women who will be like “where are all the good men??” But I also don’t really care? Lol maybe that’s just me, but I think people are free…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:18 PM
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Most families are two income households pooled together. What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:29 AM
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Depending how brazen the burp was, I could easily see that being a turnoff for anyone, woman or man lol Regardless, unless they’re an asshole about it, I don’t think people need to defend their reasons for rejecting someone. I understand it’s hurtful and rejection sucks, but again, if you see someone being indiscriminately judgmental, why would you want to be with that person anyway? And sometimes, judgment aside, people just simply don’t vibe, and that’s okay. Let them do their thing, and in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:18 AM
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There’s reasons why that last point isn’t entirely true, but it’s not the point of the conversation, so I’ll skip it. If you’re saying people should be aware whether they’re conventionally attractive or not and then pursue people based on whatever conclusion they come to from that, I mean, sure, but also…why? It doesn’t change the fact that not everyone will be attracted to everyone at equal rates. I’ve seen conventionally attractive pair up with mid people and vice versa. There’s a yum for ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:12 AM
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I feel like this kind of rhetoric is the result of overthinking something that maybe shouldn’t be overthought so much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:00 AM
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Saying no can be a result of valuing yourself just as saying yes can. It’s not about the “yes” or “no” it’s about making choices based on your wants and setting boundaries as needed. Sure, rejecting people for superficial, impermanent reasons isn’t a great look, but that also just means they’re not the person for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:57 AM
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You’re talking about conventional attractiveness, which is not objective, it’s still largely socially influenced. And while yes, most people can agree what is and isn’t conventionally attractive, that doesn’t mean there is objective attraction towards said conventionally attractive person. For example, I know Chris Hemsworth is attractive by conventional standards, but I am not attracted to Chris Hemsworth. There are other, less conventionally attractive men who I find more attractive than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:41 AM
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Sounds to me like the average man needs to up his game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:27 AM
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I think red pill and the concept of alpha males have both always been silly and a bit meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:25 AM
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Why are you talking about women as if we all approach relationships the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:24 AM
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Maybe men wouldn’t predominate these areas if they didn’t actively ensure women didn’t compete with them. These types of declarations always fall flat on their face for that reason. It’s meaningless and silly, and given the nature of this sub made up of men that express a consistent over-dependence on women, I’m not so sure if y’all would be okay as you proclaim. But who knows? And, more importantly, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:22 AM
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There’s no such thing as “true worth” when it comes to attraction. One person’s uggo is another person’s hottie. The fact you genuinely see the world in terms of “chad” or “not Chad” is honestly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:17 AM
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I don’t really want anything from men tbh except for them to learn how to take no for an answer. If I meet someone who’s attractive and matches my values, then great. If not, also great. Otherwise, no other demands. Edit: it would appear that the general consensus here is that men want women to stop valuing themselves and to be desperate just as much as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:13 AM
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I’m not following what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:10 AM
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Wait I’m confused, I thought you just said women only go for guys who date multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:02 AM
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I don’t care if a man has dated multiple women or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:59 AM
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So should women be selective or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:57 AM
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But isn’t the prevailing philosophy on this sub that men will settle for women they don’t actually desire while women will rarely do the inverse? Wanting to have sex with a woman you find ugly isn’t desire, it’s just being a sex addict. Nor is settling for women you don’t actually like. I think women and men desire each other about the same. I certainly desire men. Women just aren’t as desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:48 AM
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I’m with you, especially on that last point but they don’t want to hear it. The women they’re talking about are women who they personally find attractive. Not conventionally unattractive women, so most of these convos are hypocritical on their part from the jump
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:44 AM
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I mean, yeah. Why would you expect “that special someone” to make up a significant portion of the population. That sample size SHOULD be small. Also, aren’t y’all the ones telling women they shouldn’t be involved with multiple men? Make ip your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:39 AM
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I mean, I’m not gonna lie, I’m not going to marry or date a man if I don’t find him physically attractive. But I think where these people get confused is that they think physically attractive = conventionally attractive, and that’s really not the case. One woman’s uggo is another woman’s hottie. As long as he greases my gears and is a good person, I’m all in. The traits you listed are true and could lend itself to people finding a man attractive too. It’s pretty subjective, as is the nature of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:55 PM
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Women would like to do those things. Many just prefer to do those things with men they, y’know, actually want to do those things with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:51 PM
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Unhinged posts like these are why I stick around on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:19 AM
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No offense, but I don’t see what makes you an expert on what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:18 AM
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I’m so glad I don’t frequent the internet to the point of referring to people in terms of pill color.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:16 AM
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“Create public vulgarity to children” the video is age restricted and nowhere indicates that it’s for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:14 AM
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Everything women do is bad and terrible for the kids to you lot. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:12 AM
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I guess I just don’t really care if a majority of women or men have relationships or not. It’s good for people, regardless the gender, to say no if they’re not actually invested or interested in someone. If more men did that, then maybe there wouldn’t be as much of an imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:06 AM
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The inequality is self inflicted by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:01 AM
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Well I’m not a fan of repeating myself, so I’ll say it one last time and leave you to mull it over, but something being easier for group A as a direct result of group B making it easier for them doesn’t equate to privilege. White privilege doesn’t exist because POC actively and willingly sign away their own racial rights and liberties. Hetero privilege doesn’t exist because queer people broadcast that straight marriage is more valid than gay marriage. You, as a man, are part of a demographic tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:55 AM
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Well if you knew how to read, you would see I never disagreed that it’s easier. I disagree with calling it a privilege because again, handing people something when you don’t need to then calling it a privilege is not how privilege works. Your pseudoscience doesn’t negate men’s ability to say no. It just doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:46 AM
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I mean, if the hungry people are hungry because they keep handing me their food, I don’t see why we shouldn’t hold the hungry people accountable for their own poor decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:45 AM
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I’m not your sweetie. Again, it’s only “much easier” because men choose for it to be that way. You don’t get to inflict disadvantages on yourself then call the other party advantages. That’s not how privilege works. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:43 AM
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And if you do believe this pseudo-evolutionary narrative, what exactly are you complaining about? Why get bent out of shape over this natural advantage women have as nature intended? Either way, I don’t see how this is women’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:39 AM
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“If it is an advantage, it’s one that men entirely create on their own” that was my original response to you. I haven’t changed anything I’ve said, so no, nothing has been admitted. And no, I don’t buy into this canned idea that all of men’s poor decisions can be chalked up to biology. You’re adults. You’re responsible and accountable for your own decisions. You could be choosy as women are, and probably should be. You just don’t want to be, which is fine, but then don’t turn around and act as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 AM
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No. As I said, men’s active decision to say no less than women do is an “advantage” they create for women. It’s entirely self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:29 AM
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Women have the capacity to be rejected. Men have the capacity to say no. It happens all the time. For someone who talks about reality, you seem to engage very little with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:26 AM
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I mean, no it wouldn’t. There are men who do pursue people they want, and the feeling is reciprocated, and it works out. Just because it doesn’t work out for you doesn’t mean the species is automatically in jeopardy. At the end of the day, you choosing to pursue people you don’t actually want is entirely on you and no one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:24 AM
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I’m not a “blue pill” woman, it’s not “whenever we want”, and it doesn’t take “little effort”. You can’t talk about reality when you’re completely apathetic and blind towards the perspectives and experiences of half the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:20 AM
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I’m not obsessed with fucking people, I’m saying men have a very easy and active choice here to not pursue people they don’t actually want. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:00 AM
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No. Especially not when the other party often ignores the concept of consent. And if it is an advantage, it’s one that men entirely create on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:59 AM
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I thought your point is that women have an “advantage” because men want to fuck anything and everything no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:56 AM
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This is a narrative you made up in your head to justify not taking any accountability. You’re not being starved of anything, and you don’t need to fuck people who you’re not actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:55 AM
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Y’all always say this canned response, but not fucking everything with (or without) a pulse doesn’t mean you’re shutting off all desire, let alone a desire to have a family or relationship. I thought the issue is that some of y’all will fuck people who you don’t even actually desire. That’s entirely self inflicted and can easily be controlled. You just don’t want to, and instead blame your poor decisions on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:52 AM
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men can just say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:36 AM
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women have every reason to complain about men's predation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:35 AM
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how are women "causing" men to make active decisions and choices that they don't need to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:33 AM
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i'm not following what the problem is. whatever "advantage" you think women get because of this is entirely due to active decisions men make. It's not like it's a compulsory thing. RelativeYak7's partner wants it. She wants it. So what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:32 AM
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it's not your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:26 AM
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anger and lack of emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:25 AM
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studies show men fall faster than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:19 AM
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tbh it just sounds like your partner is a lousy lover, which is common for men, yeah, but not inherent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:14 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:58 AM
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If the angry mediocre man on reddit says so, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:57 AM
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definitely seems preferable to spending any time with someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:54 AM
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Women have standards because men are our number one detractors, abusers, predators, and killers. If you can’t accept that “regular” men have the capacity to be incredibly awful towards women then there’s nothing to say to you. Even if regular dudes weren’t horrible people, women would still have every right to have standards. Just because you think it’s a problem to be single doesn’t mean everyone else does. Maybe learn to tolerate your own company instead of projecting your insecurities onto ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:14 PM
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honestly, i was being nice to you but your mentality towards women is weird and complete dogshit. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:50 AM
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But I thought the problem is that men are left with no hope. Now you’re saying the problem is that women will be single. But obviously women don’t seem to have as much of a problem with being single as men do, so I still don’t see how that’s women’s concern or responsibility to are sure men don’t feel sad. We’re free to choose as we please. Also, I don’t understand your point about women needing to be dependent on men. If that is the case, and we’re supposed to cast aside our financial independe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:24 AM
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I guess I don’t see why that needs to be women’s responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:44 AM
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i don't have a problem with most women nowadays. I think we all just need to do what's best for us, and worry less about what other people are doing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:26 PM
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I guarantee the people living in squalor would still do anything to get more money and live more comfortably. We all have a right to pursue happiness. There’s a difference between pursuing happiness and never being satisfied. People in poverty don’t need to be satisfied with poverty, and people in unfulfilling relationships don’t need to be satisfied with unfulfilling relationships. Yes, be grateful for what you have, but don’t sell yourself short either. It’s a balance that’s never one size fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:50 PM
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how does "misandry" impact you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 09:54 AM
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A) what you perceive as misandry often isn't misandry. B) feminists do call out extremist women. We don't accept TERFs as a true core of feminism for this reason. The "mainstream" feminism I was taught came through my education, which was always inclusive of men and how these ideas can be beneficial to them. Yes, much of it is critical, but that doesn't equate to misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:19 AM
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Men assume themselves to be the authority on women’s morality all the time. But you find it ludicrous for women to do the same towards men for some reason. To me, it doesn’t matter who it’s coming from, if your intentions are steeped in a place of control, entitlement, and no level of self accountability, then it’s safe to say those are rotten intentions. Literally all you need to do is look at history and the present day impact of men’s behavior versus women’s. Women having sex isn’t causing Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:18 PM
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I don’t think it’s rude to ask :) my situation’s pretty abnormal because I’m not a virgin for religious regions. There was a time when I genuinely was just not prioritizing dating and sex and didn’t really start thinking about it until my 20’s. Around that time, i started struggling with my body image which added onto the ramp of me not having sex. For most of my adult life, I haven’t felt comfortable connecting with someone physically on that level, until very recently where that’s slowly start…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:14 PM
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That doesn’t mean they don’t have good intentions for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:47 PM
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Yes I’m serious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:47 PM
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Lumping all feminists together isn’t compelling. There are multiple schools of thought within feminism. In my views, if the goal isn’t equality, then it’s not feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:47 PM
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No I don’t think it’s awkward, I think intentions and boundaries need to be communicated earlier on to avoid friction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 07:46 PM
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To not be terrible people who hurt others and themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:24 PM
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I mean, I know that’s not a common viewpoint in your echo chambers, but it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:22 PM
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Please feel free to elaborate. I can think of some examples, but I’m curious what you have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:16 PM
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You’re free to disagree, but all you have to do is look at the arguments here from men regarding women and gauge where exactly a subset of them would ideally prefer women winding up in society. Most complaints consist of women having sexual autonomy, having the freedom to choose, having standards (or a lack thereof, depending on which redpiller you’re talking to), and increasingly realizing that they don’t need men. I can’t speak for all feminists, but the most popular arguments stem from anger …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:12 PM
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Feminists do have men’s best interests in mind though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:03 PM
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I think the main difference is that feminists lecture men because much of men’s current behavior is a threat to everyone involved, women and men alike. There isn’t much societal threat women have towards men, except doing the unthinkable act of having autonomy and making decisions without factoring in what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:02 PM
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I don’t identify as any kind of pill, but I meant that all red pillers suck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:57 PM
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Women have never monolithically agreed on what's good for us, and I never claimed to be the spokeswoman for all women. Of course there are women who are going to directly disagree with me. There were women who didn't think women should vote. But there's plenty of reasons to consider their views as wrong and as in opposition to women's welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:59 AM
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"perfect for me" doesn't mean "holistically perfect" as a human being. I don't see why that should upset anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:55 AM
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to me, they all suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:31 AM
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Typical man responses warrant a typical woman response
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:23 AM
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no offense, but how does any of what you said counter my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:21 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:11 PM
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Yeah no, I don’t think about the world in terms of “Chad” or not, first of all, and second, from my understanding of what y’all define that as, it’s not my speed, and third, even if the people I’m into were “Chad” it wouldn’t change the sentiment of my post. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:03 PM
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I disagree and don’t think my position is weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:28 PM
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In my case, no, because I think being single is superior to being in a relationship at this time in my life. Maybe that will change, but it's going to take some doing. Settling for someone and settling down aren't the same things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:35 AM
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i think teaching could be lots of fun with the right partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:33 AM
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But I don't care about other people's standards. That's part of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:06 AM
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I didn't say there are no decent men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 AM
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never said what my standards are, and even so, people are free to dream if it's what makes them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:04 AM
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The point of my post isn't about high and unrealistic standards. But I do discuss that in the comments. The point of my post is that people are free to have whatever standards they want, high low, whatever, as long as it's not detrimental to their lives. I don't see how you, as a stranger, can possibly determine what counts as "too high" of a standard for someone you don't even know, nor can I fathom why you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:32 AM
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it's giving socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:29 AM
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It's giving troll, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:22 AM
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I don't get what the point is you're trying to get at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:18 AM
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Why would you care if I complained later?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:15 AM
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The body of my post does a pretty clear job of explaining my position...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:15 AM
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"I think that knowing what those standards are, is an important part of that discussion and I've already explained why numerous times" honestly, no you haven't. I've explained what the point of my post is multiple times and it's clear you want this to be about something that it's not. Yes, it's possible for strangers to give feedback, but only when enough information is given. The rhetoric around here is that "Person A" shouldn't have standards for "Person B" without ever know who either these p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:13 AM
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no offense, but this kind of lingo has no meaning to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:57 AM
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hmm maybe, but I'm not closed off to relationships entirely. I guess I'm just not going to wait for it to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:56 AM
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Idk it's a mixed bag. I have friends and family who ask for relationship advice whilst being in relationships. I don't really have anyone asking for relationship advice because they want to be in a relationship though, it's more so about navigating the current relationships they're in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:54 AM
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You don't need to tell me how posting on the Internet works. The point of the discussion is to talk about why one needs to worry or care about another's standards, be they "reasonable or not". To me, it's not a concern at all to begin with, but if it were, it would be less about how reasonable their standards are, and more so about the impact those standards have on the quality of their life. Something which a stranger would rarely be qualified to asses. So in my worldview, it's weird that you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:48 AM
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Yeah, I've been over 200 pounds. My post isn't dying on any hill, it was just sharing a view. I don't see what's being pieced together. I could be 50 pounds lighter and still think the same way. I wish you could just talk to me and share your perspective like a human being instead of obsessing over my weight and trying to get one up on me because I'm fat. It's weird, and you're being an asshole for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:26 AM
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You mean in my life? The people in my life who are in relationships ask the most for relationship advice. Is that what you're asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:22 AM
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respect :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:09 AM
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We're talking in circles on the first piece of this exchange, so let's please forget it. For the rest, I think there's a difference between demanding something without putting any effort into yourself and wanting something while being comfortable with the prospect of potentially never getting it. I believe I straddle both categories in which I do want to be my best self so I can attract who's best for me. But I also am comfortable with the idea of never getting my dream guy and thus don't feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:06 AM
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happy to talk about it and get your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:58 AM
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idk lol I even tried to acknowledge that some people do have pretty high and unrealistic standards, but some folks just wanna be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:57 AM
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This I can agree with to some extent. It really all depends on what the standards are, where the person is at in life, what's actually good for them, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:56 AM
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yeah no problem, but your comment was still rude af.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:55 AM
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There are lots of people who would prefer to be in a relationship for relationship's sake even if it's not really who they should be with or even completely want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:27 AM
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Why are you triggered by the word "settle"? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:25 AM
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I too am wondering what cereal bowl I pissed in. But ah well. I appreciate you actually trying to understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:23 AM
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Dang why are y'all coming at me for being overweight? lol Not everyone who is fat is miserable and without options. I've dated whilst being a fatty and pre-fatty era, hence why I know what I'm talking about. No need for the high school bully mentality, or is that what "pink pill" is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:14 AM
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It's not that people weren't agreeing with me, it's that they were telling me what my standards are when I never made any mention of them. You can find a person's standards reasonable or not, my point is that it's fine for people to have the prerogatives they have. In other words, making such a big deal out of random people's standards who have nothing to do with you is a little silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:10 AM
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I see now where the confusion is. When I said "I haven't been 200 pounds all my life" I meant that I haven't always been 200 pounds and I won't always be 200 pounds. There was a time when I wasn't, but I can still say I prefer to be single now compared to then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:08 AM
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Ohhh I see. You misunderstood or I worded it poorly. I said I haven't been 200 pounds all my life. As in, there was a time in my life when I wasn't 200 pound lol That's why I followed that up by comparing my happiness now to when I was 20 (when I wasn't 200 pounds). I wouldn't lie about my weight, and it's kinda weird that it's being focused on this much tbh I don't think it's that big of a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:02 AM
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If a standard is "out of touch with reality" then that would exit the realm of "healthy and happy" yes? Even so, I guess I don't comprehend this attitude that random bystanders can determine what standards another person should have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:57 AM
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What did I lie about? I don't get it. I'm aware not everyone wants a 200 pound person. Not sure what that has to do with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:54 AM
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I don't see why it's required for me to share what my standards are when that's not the point of my post. My post is that people can have whatever standards they want, or lack thereof, as long as it doesn't compromise their health and happiness. I never said you couldn't have an opinion, but making baseless assumptions about what my preferences are isn't exactly an informed opinion that merits much value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:52 AM
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Being in a relationship I'm not satisfied with is settling. So yes. I would rather be single than settle for a man I'm not happy with. I mentioned nothing about what my standards are. Idk why this is hard for you to comprehend or why my weight is such a trigger point for you, but idk what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:48 AM
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I think you're confused. In my posts, I mention I was 225 at my heaviest weight, not that I'm currently 225 pounds. I've dated at 225 pounds, I've dated at 150 pounds. My point is that I'm happier being single now than I have been in prior years. The rest of your comment about worth and stuff is meaningless to me, sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:41 AM
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eh? I've never described myself as bottom 1% of anything. And do you think what I've posted on Reddit about my weight spans the entirety of my life? I don't get what you're saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:32 AM
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I agree with you, and I guess I could do a better job of explaining what I mean by settling. I think settling means going for someone who doesn't add to your life. People can light your fire and check your boxes in a multitude of ways, so it doesn't make sense to have one checklist and judge people by whether they fit the bill 100% or not. It's more about the quality they bring to your life. If they don't make it better, make you happier, make you a better person, and if you don't reciprocate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:29 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:26 AM
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oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:19 AM
2

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:17 AM
1

Good thing I don't want Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:16 AM
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It's not unprompted. I posted this after seeing another comment on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:14 AM
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I haven't been 200 pounds all my life, nor will I be. I just have enough experience to know that I'm happier now than I was when I was 20. Either way, "Gorlock the Destroyer" wanting .0000001% of men seems fine in my book. Sorry if my post threatened in you in some manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:13 AM
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Well, you didn't ask about 10 years, you asked if it was worse 100 years ago. Roe v Wade was still in place 10 years ago, and right wing theocratics weren't making as consistent of an effort to strip women of their rights as they're doing now, so sure, things were better 10 years ago. Or at least more stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:01 AM
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true, but if having someone match a 7-mile long list versus not matching it makes that person happier, then I think that's okay. We pick and choose our battles, and some want to fight harder than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:58 AM
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Progress doesn't happen in a linear line, it ebbs in flows. There are cultural and societal trends when clear, concerted efforts to push back against oppressive systems are louder than others. It was pretty loud between 2017 and 2020 with the Me Too movement. Since Roe V Wade fell, however, the push back against women is more apparent than it has been in recent years. None of these observations mean we are basically back to being cattle, it just means the friction is more tangible than it was, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:54 AM
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Pretty sure these women don't mean "things are worse than when women were legally considered property"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:49 AM
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is this a serious question? absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:48 AM
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The topic is about biases against the other gender. I hate that I get periods, but that doesn't substantiate having a bias against men since men aren't the cause of that. Understand what the conversation is about before speaking. And no, I don't have empathy for men who think murdering your partner is at all comparable to a woman posting thirst traps. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:45 AM
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I think that's why it's different for everyone. I've been rather happy single, and at this point, prefer it. If I'm to bring in someone to shake up my life routine, he really ought to be worth it, instead of "kinda" worth it. But not everyone prefers single life, especially depending on where they're at in life, to your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:38 AM
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I think it's difficult to make that judgment call when you don't know what someone else's parameters for a relationship are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:36 AM
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None of these things are caused by women, and you don't care about these talking points either. They're only brought up when women's problems are highlighted. People like you and OP's "problems" extend to how much sex women are having and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:33 AM
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the reason for the disdain is a pretty important distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:23 AM
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lol this is why we don't take your problems seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:17 AM
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I actually think there are some valid things men could complain about when it comes to women, but on here at least, they instead opt for the nonsensical topics like body count, women's right to choose what she wants to do with her own body, etc., and it makes hearing their concerns out a lot more difficult. Women's biases come from self preservation. Your biases come from bemoaning that you simply can't control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:14 AM
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are men also not born with youth? i have no idea what this sentence is supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:12 AM
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what does your last sentence mean? If you've got nothing against either, why would you treat somebody different depending on if they're virgins or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:10 AM
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it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:05 AM
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yeah, there's obviously a reason for it, but it doesn't mean it's a bad reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:04 AM
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why? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:04 AM
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well, in this context, the point is to counter what throwaway164_3 said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:03 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:02 AM
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I don't think women have as much of an issue with this as you think. I certainly wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:02 AM
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It would work if men actually tried therapy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:44 PM
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I guess for me it’s about the demand for virginal women that prompted my question. But yeah, agreed, there shouldn’t be any expectation either way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:42 PM
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Maybe that’s their reasoning. But I have doubts if it would work. You can not have a relationship but still know some things you don’t want in a relationship. I guess they think women aren’t perceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:41 PM
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The value is high with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:38 PM
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I mentioned my virginity so I wouldn’t get the usual “you must have a high body count” noise and so that actual sincere answers could be given. Whether I was a virgin or not, I would still think I’m a prize, but I don’t want any of the men here, so that’s neither here nor there lol Caring about body count in general is silly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:34 PM
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I mean, clearly your strategy isn’t working for men, but do you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:32 PM
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I think it depends on the reason for the virginity. I do find it odd that it seems then that internet men not only want women to be virgins, but to also have zero dating or relationship experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:30 PM
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Maybe my brain is mush, but how does my question put me on a pedestal for being a virgin? And perhaps you don’t care, but quite a few of your compatriots on here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:26 PM
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Virgins can be lustful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:25 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:15 PM
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How do you know these people aren’t getting therapy? And the point is that guys should try to improve themselves as people. Not “slayers”. Maybe then they’ll be happier. Men don’t even like themselves. I think that’s a bigger concern than their ability to get their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:14 PM
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What do you mean? I have a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:47 PM
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“Get therapy” is actionable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:46 PM
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Caring about body count is child’s play. Nobody grown and living outside the internet cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:44 PM
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It’s clear to me who are the failures when it comes to this, but they’re never going to take personal accountability, so no, I don’t see it getting better, at least not online. There are plenty of people irl who don’t struggle with this though, which is why I see internet conversations about relationships as entertainment more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:44 PM
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I’m always up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:41 PM
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How do lonely women affect men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:40 PM
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They say it because they think it will scare women into letting go of their standards and settling for subpar men. But clearly it’s not working, and not only that, it’s patently not true. Older single women are happier than older single men. When you look at nursing homes, the loneliest angriest people aren’t women, but men who get virtually no visitors compared to their female counterparts. It’s just empty scare tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:38 PM
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Isn’t that what’s required for literally anyone in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:35 PM
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What is “masculine advice”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:29 PM
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Ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:56 AM
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Damn, you really went off the rails. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:16 AM
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Nope, not the men I choose. Just men in general. Their culture. However you wish to describe it. It’s entirely possible to criticize bad men and not be involved with said bad men. Also, I’m sure you can analyze the difference between being sexually attracted to someone and seeing them as a sex object. I’m not going to hold your hand on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:14 AM
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But then why did you lump proud single moms into the group of oppressors and “oligarchs”? You’re not making a bit of sense, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:09 AM
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What cult? Do you even know what you’re acting hysterical over right now? Calm down. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:08 AM
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First, off, calm down. Lol. I didn’t say I think anyone deserves to be lonely, so like…chill out. Lol. Second, when you said 1 out of 4 men don’t have friends, I took that as being a high margin of men without friends, because it is. 1 out of 4? That’s a lot of friendless dudes, my guy, and indicates deeper problems than just not being able to get a girlfriend. I see the broader the point, but still, i simply don’t think being single is an inherently bad thing. Maybe men would be happier if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:06 AM
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Lol tell that to republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:59 AM
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I’m a random woman on Reddit. I sure hope you don’t love me lol And I didn’t say you, I said the type of men you’re describing. Most people don’t take pride in single motherhood, they take pride in being a single parent after their deadbeat male partners abandon them. Maybe you should worry about the latter instead of the former. Not surprising single moms are who you focus on. Is there any failure men are accountable for, or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:43 AM
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Lol at thinking misogyny is before your time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:39 AM
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That’s not what she said. Maybe take the chandelier suit off and be a little less fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:38 AM
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Dang, if you get upset by this, I guess I shouldn’t tell you that we do an entire background check on men before agreeing to the first date. As for the why? Safety and wanting to avoid bums. But mainly the safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:35 AM
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Men see women as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:08 AM
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Lol who are the oppressors? What change do you want to see happen that involves women? I think the solution for men is pretty straightforward, but y’all seem adamantly opposed to putting any work into yourselves and putting it all on women. Additionally, men like what you’re describing don’t love women. They can’t even see women as fully realized individuals who exist outside of catering to men’s “needs”. What kind of love is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:07 AM
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Finding meaning outside of sex and relationships isn’t going against any biological imperative. What you’re describing isn’t “normal” it’s a massive problem that men can’t even seem to connect with one another, so idk why that’s somehow women’s responsibility. It’s not. It just sounds like you’re making excuses and trying to make women feel responsible for men’s issues. I’m still waiting to hear what exactly you want women to do that isn’t some absurd “solution” taken out of the handmaid’s tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:04 AM
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The fact that men have had societal advantages for the past several centuries and still pretend they’re somehow an oppressed party compared to women of all people is why I have difficulty taking y’all seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:59 AM
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Who does that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:57 AM
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Who said that’s the goal? I’m saying idk what else can be said apart from the above options. You all talk a lot about what you don’t want to hear, but not what you do want to hear, and if you do, it’s usually some sexist bullshit that compromises women. So where does that leave us?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:17 PM
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So anything that comes from women’s perspective is sardonic and meaningless yeah? Maybe your refusal to show empathy towards the very group you’re demanding it from is why people don’t care about your problems. Again, y’all have a glaring lack of self worth by calling yourselves valueless and treating being forever alone as a death sentence. You can find happiness outside of women, y’all just refuse to accept that, but then also simultaneously disrespect anything we do or say. Confounding demogr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:14 PM
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Because when we don’t exercise caution, we’re blamed for our abuse and mistreatment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:08 PM
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I don’t understand. Are you suggesting something being 60 years ago means it doesn’t apply? Do you think the problems being addressed then suddenly came to a stop? I don’t get what you’re saying. I’m not saying it’s impossible to attract a man, I’m saying women experience pressure to do so successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:06 PM
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“Let’s be horrible and blame all our problems on women, but also demand empathy from women” no that’s not how this works. The people who aren’t malignant get empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:04 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:02 PM
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I think that’s what men tell men tbh. I think men should focus on finding fulfillment outside of sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:28 PM
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It’s not a manosphere talking point, it’s the culture I grew up in and combatted directly throughout my life. I know you mean well, but it’s kind of a slap in the face for you to say what is or isn’t a valid concern for women when you’re not experiencing it yourself. It’s also shortsighted to suggest these social pressures for women magically don’t exist despite them being enforced for centuries. Sure, we’re starting to detangle some of it, but that’s a short exit ramp compared to endless highwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:23 PM
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I don’t think the opinion of men I just met on dating apps would be valid considering they don’t know me, nor what I would need to work on. The friendships I have with my male friends, however, have led to conversations that highlight what it is exactly I need to work on haha I have been rejected, which tells me I’m not considered a worthy partner to at least someone. Which is fine, rejection is part of life. But this idea I’m floating through life without any questioning or challenge to my char…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:14 PM
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It’s not for me, but okay for thee. People can do what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:12 PM
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Same I was like huh? I still am a little like huh tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:11 PM
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Yeah that could be the case for some people. In mine, I don’t care about behavioral red flags (unless it’s like, being violent or rude or something), as much as I do about values. I mainly want someone who isn’t prejudiced and who takes personal accountability. It’s a wide enough net to catch some good fish, but narrow enough to weed out the barnacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:04 PM
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I’m sorry, but there is absolutely pressure put on women for being a good partner. Most of which revolves around the needs of men. So much so that an entire movement had to be born to pushback against the pressure being put on women. Even to this day, there is a high amount of expectation put on us in terms of appearance, being accommodating to men, be sexual but not too sexual, conform to traditional gender roles but also don’t encroach on men’s finances, being womanly and feminine, not competi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:49 PM
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I agree. I don’t hold imperfection against people, but I do hold specific terrible traits against them, which unfortunately are common enough to be considered red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:46 PM
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I mean, yeah, I think both women and men should do that before jumping into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:44 PM
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The way men often complain about being lonely reveals the entitled attitude they have towards women, so I have difficulty empathizing with that and don’t think I should. Men will go out of their way to not look at themselves in regards to this issue, which gives them space to blame and snipe at women for everything and turn into misogynistic cretins. So yeah, my instinct is to remind them that maybe they should at least a little bit, exercise some introspection, given how frequently they don’t, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:38 PM
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I’m not sure what this is supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:20 PM
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I mean, yeah. If you’re upset that no one wants to date/fuck you, I don’t know what anyone else is supposed to tell you to do except to work on yourself or get over it. What else do you want us to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:16 PM
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“If I can’t fuck you, then you can’t have rights” This subreddit is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:13 PM
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I think people just don’t want their partners to be terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:12 PM
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Yeah no. No one is relationship ready by default. Women also need to work on themselves. I know for a fact that I’m not ready to be in a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:10 PM
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It might not be what you asked, but it’s part of my original point, so I’d rather stick to that than veer off on a talking point that i didn’t make/that you misunderstood. My main thesis is that family annihilators are part of the profile of men who tie their self worth to women in a manner that is possessive. When that’s threatened, they’d rather abuse, disrespect, or kill their possession(s) than see them happily free or shared by another. Hurt people hurt people, and all that. So yeah, over d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:11 AM
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Did what
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:52 AM
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I listen to a lot of true crime, so yeah. Chris Watts comes to mind. The Loftons. Shawn Barrett. Again, they killed their own families/partners over failed relationships. I used “annihilate” because the popularized term is “family annihilators” for these types of men. It may not be an every day occurrence, but it happens enough times to cause alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:47 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:37 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:36 AM
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I didn’t though. Once again, you’re being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:35 AM
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No, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:29 AM
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Just because you find it hysterical doesn’t mean it is. I think you’re just bad at reading comprehension, like I said before. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:28 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:25 AM
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it’s not hysterical to say that men have a range of terrible reactions to rejection, beginning with harassment and ending with being family annihilators. You’re not walking me through anything considering you’re the one who can’t seem the comprehend the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:23 AM
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You’re hella insecure, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:20 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:07 AM
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I didn’t point only to the killers though. I stated that it’s a spectrum of terrible reactions. These reactions are common enough to cause some concern, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:05 AM
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You’re being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:03 AM
2

This sounds lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:01 AM
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I think redpillers struggle to acknowledge women as fully realized individuals who have experiences, insecurities, desires, and ambitions outside the context of men, and as long as they continue to bump into that roadblock, the next steps of what makes a fulfilling relationship will always be out of reach for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:00 AM
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I’m glad people are waking up. He’s always been a buffoon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:56 AM
3

Seems like a reasonable standard to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:54 AM
2

The only kind of camping I’ll do tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:50 AM
4

No offense but this guy isn’t attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:48 AM
2

People are only just now realizing that? I thought we been knew
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:47 AM
1

I would choose option 2. I don’t see any reason why I wouldn’t go with that option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:41 AM
2

Can you expound?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:17 AM
3

Many men depend on women for a sense of self worth. Ostensibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:17 AM
2

Is this a bit? In quoting me, you replaced my points about men’s violence with “[hysteria]”. What did you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:11 AM
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You thought I said men annihilate women’s families when I was referring to their own families. Then you said you’re aware men have terrible reactions to rejection when that wasn’t my point. My point is that family annihilators is on the spectrum of terrible reactions men have to rejection. Which was the original point. Men have an over dependence on women, otherwise they wouldn’t have these reactions that range from harassment to murder. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 AM
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Pointing out men’s violence isn’t hysteria. The rest of your comment is foundering gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:52 AM
2

Hysterical where? you misread what I said about family annihilators and didn’t understand my statement about that behavior being on the spectrum of terrible responses men have to rejection. It’s okay to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:48 AM
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No, I don’t know that, because you’re blindly disagreeing and not saying anything substantial. Also, you seem to have trouble reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:31 PM
1

I always meant their own families…….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:29 PM
2

I don’t get what’s “insane”. Men have a spectrum of terrible responses to rejection, this being one of them. Are you denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:51 PM
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Men have annihilated their families in response to threats of divorce or women leaving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:50 PM
8

Are the old single cat women in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:30 PM
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Honestly, it’s precisely what I want, because men harass/kill women and annihilate their families just for being rejected, which tells me there’s an over dependence going on. I’ve been begging men to get some self worth for years now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:29 PM
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“Liberate from women” implies men were ever under the thumb of women. Your inability to wash your own clothes is not a result of financial and systematic oppression, it’s a result of you being lazy. Finally doing your own house chores is no type of revolution lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:27 PM
1

Incel is a pejorative that refers to men who are bitter because they can’t get sex. Normal men who happen to be virgins are fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:21 PM
1

How though, when it’s been established that men will go for “ugly” bottom of the barrel women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:19 PM
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“Commitment is the man’s commodity, not the woman’s” what exactly does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:16 PM
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you forgot to take your pills again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:37 AM
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the fact this even needs to be debated speaks volumes about this subreddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:36 AM
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Men breaking up with women is not "rare". I'm really begging y'all to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:35 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:40 PM
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You sound insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:39 PM
2

I don’t appreciate you calling it weird. Gender roles just aren’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:38 PM
2

So why are you focusing on abusers….you can be an unreliable partner without being abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:04 PM
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okay, well do something to self improve, and stop being a jerk towards people who haven't done anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:14 PM
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Being a "10" isn't a fixed state. There's no way someone can be a 10 until you get to know and appreciate them as a person first. A perceived 10 can drop to a 1 depending on their personality / vibes, and a person who isn't my fantasy type can readily become a 10 in my eyes if I'm in love with them. If there's full fulfillment, it's not settling in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:12 PM
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but why call them trash? Also weed themselves out of what? OP's point is that if you're into someone, you'll magically be into traditional roles whether you initially agree with said roles or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:07 PM
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no, emotionally. idk if it's jealousy or what, but it comes off as insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:06 PM
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being abusive isn't the only reason a person should be broken up with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:05 PM
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She’s not even ugly. I don’t get how you’re in 2024 and still threatened by lesbian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:59 PM
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I’m aware. I don’t see how it applies here, but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:56 PM
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Where’d that come from? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:54 PM
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Maybe for similar reasons I’m single. They’re comfy with their own company, haven’t put themselves out there, relationships weren’t a priority at the time, etc. I guess the way I see it, there’s already not a heck of a lot of good options for me right now, so it’s not the end of the world if that’s the case as I continue to get older. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, I’m okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:53 PM
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I guess I’m curious what happens if you fall for a person largely because they’re not into traditional roles. Do you think that person will suddenly change their feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:51 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:48 PM
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Some people would never “be really into” someone that values traditional gender roles though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:46 PM
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Women initiating break ups more doesn’t make them less reliable partners. Y’all always want to gloss over the fact that relationships aren’t being ended for funsies. Usually, the partner has done something to lead to ending the relationship, but that would require holding men accountable for something, so I get why you never want to address that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:28 PM
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Isn’t that the case for men who get married and eventually have kids? The child should always be #1 regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:26 PM
3

Again, you know nothing about women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:22 PM
1

This is a weird question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:18 PM
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So it’s bad if women have a bad relationship with their father, and it’s bad if women have a good relationship with their father. Everything that has to do with women is bad, if this subreddit is to be taken seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:18 PM
1

Random men on Reddit trying to tell me who I am will never not be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:01 PM
2

Maybe this is what they mean when they say modern women aren’t fit to be wives, because lord knows I don’t have the time, energy, nor patience for any of this buffoonery. I would be gone first thing in the morning, without a word, trust and believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:02 AM
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They don’t know what they want and resent the fact that their fantasy of women being non-autonomous robots whose existence revolves around men is proven to be a lie, and they literally can’t cope. It’s sad, and funny. But mostly sad. But funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:59 AM
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Idk what I’m supposed to tell you. You inferred incorrectly. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:57 AM
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Us: “you can be heard without being coddled” Men: “so I guess that means misogyny is acceptable???!!” Tf is in de watah abeg 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:53 AM
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If I ever hear one of them describe women as frail again, I’m going to direct them to this thread without context and leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:48 AM
1

Again, she wasn’t being an asshole in her original post. It was only until y’all started getting hella defensive over literally nothing. One thing I know is that after engaging with this subreddit for the short amount of time i have, I don’t ever wanna hear another man describe women as overemotional ever again, because y’all got to be the most fragile group of people on this entire website. Can’t read, can’t reason, just want to complain and be negative all the gag dayum time, damn 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:46 AM
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Bruh look up why morgues don’t like to hire men. It’s not as rare as what you or anyone would like to believe. Again, worry about your own group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:40 AM
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Homie legit compared men oppressing women to a simple question about accountability 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:37 AM
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Women aren’t a hive mind and don’t frame it one way or another. In fact, isn’t it men who keep complaining about how women are whores and want to have sex outside of relationships? Y’all can never get your narratives straight, and I know I can’t be the only woman who is too unbothered to try to keep up atp. It just sounds like noise to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:34 AM
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I don’t know if you know this, but women like sex and can be invested just for sex. What you’re saying is an outdated view that women can’t enjoy sexual pleasure for pleasure’s sake with no strings attached. If I want sex from a man, and I get sex, then nothing is lost nor won. I simply get what I want, and hopefully he does too. You genuinely seem out of touch, and maybe I’m just tried, but I still don’t get how choosing who you want to be in a relationship with means you’re being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:31 AM
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No? I mean little as in few. A scant amount…reading comprehension is a gift
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:24 AM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:27 PM
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How does choosing who you do and don’t want to be in a relationship mean you’re being a man? I’ll never understand how you people here think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:21 PM
2

Again, says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:17 PM
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“Women will tag it as a situationship to make it sound more promising than it is” Says who? Where do y’all pull these conclusions from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:15 PM
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Or therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:11 PM
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Why are you lumping 30-year olds with 80-year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:07 PM
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You can have pre-menopause symptoms at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:06 PM
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Why are there never any think pieces about single old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:03 PM
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I already said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:59 PM
1

So do you take personal accountability or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:56 PM
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What demand? All that was asked is if you take accountability for your life. Why is that such an insurmountable expectation for you? Seriously, are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:55 PM
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Everything you said is inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:50 PM
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You made a nonsense point. How else am I supposed to respond? There is no connection to accountability because men obstructing women isn’t accountability. Your argument is silly, and again, very telling about how coddled you are. If you don’t have the capacity to self reflect and take personal accountability for your own life choices, then you are owed absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:28 PM
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You said veterans died for women’s rights lol me telling you to shut up is an act of grace for your own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:24 PM
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I mean, I was the geek in school, so no. You're free to make baseless assumptions about my life, I don't entertain that kind of noise. lol but the fact remains men have a reputation (or several) for a reason and y'all truly aren't the ones to judge anyone. It is what it is. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:09 PM
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What do you mean that's what you thought? What you described isn't men holding anyone accountable. Do you not know what accountability means? That would explain so much actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:07 PM
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80% is wild lol. Whatever percentage you want to put out there, men have a reputation for being whores, and it’s really not your place to judge women for their sex lives, or for anything, really. Worry about your own group
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:50 PM
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Well that’s not what OP said in her original post. She asked valid questions and provided suggestions that would be helpful to anyone who genuinely wants to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:46 PM
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Men already do that, and it has nothing to do with holding people accountable. It’s telling how coddled men like you really are when you devolve to these trite arguments over a simple question of taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:43 PM
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I mean, the subreddit is called purple pill Debate. If you’re not equipped to debate and would rather bitch and moan about women all day without any pushback, there are other more suitable subreddits for you. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:39 PM
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20% according to whom? “The men I go for” according to whom? The men in this very subreddit talk about how little dick discipline men have every day, it’s not something I made up. You can also criticize a group of people without “going for” those kinds of people. Y’all have so many canned and nonsensical arguments, it’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:34 PM
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the thing these people are being “triggered by” is merely being asked if they take personal accountability lmao y’all are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:28 PM
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Well, how is that going to work when their entire philosophy is take no accountability and blame all their problems on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:27 PM
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I’m convinced that y’all think accountability is apologizing for hurting your feelings, and no, that is not necessary in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:26 PM
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Not taking accountability for anything is a horrible trait to have and leads to being a horrible person, so it isn’t really anyone’s responsibility to coddle people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:25 PM
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That’s funny. I’m depressed yet haven’t had the luxury of using that as an excuse to avoid accountability for anything. How does one tap into that life hack, or is it reserved only for a specific subset of whiny men on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:23 PM
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Lol can’t have the women commiserating can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:18 PM
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Am I expected to take this response seriously? Are you actually trying to make the argument that the actions of a random ass woman on Reddit determines the decisions of all virgin women everywhere? The internet has rotted y’all’s brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:15 PM
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This entire subreddit is filled with men who do nothing but complain about meaningless shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:05 PM
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Honestly, it would be great if you just stopped talking considering you don't seem to have anything worthwhile to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:49 AM
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i'm a virgin. this is such a stupid thing to be concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:35 AM
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you spew out whatever comes to mind whenever shown the slightest disagreement from women, and then expect people to, what? nod and agree? Get better arguments, or pipe down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:59 AM
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quit yappin, grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:52 AM
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Your comment is nonsensical. The worst mistake humans made is never encouraging men to simply shut up when they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:50 AM
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this subreddit has gotta be the most entertaining on reddit. I'm just here for the laughs atp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:45 AM
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"If men really wanted to-" they did. The worst things you can imagine men could do to women have been done and are still being done in direct response to women advocating for their liberation. Your demographic hasn't done women any favors, and it's a slap in the face to women who died and suffered to defend their freedoms by accrediting it to men. You're owed nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:41 AM
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you're only proving her point. writing dissertations just because someone asks if you ever take any accountability. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:37 AM
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"What are your thoughts on being responsible for your own life choices? " Lol this is not the crowd that will ever give a substantial answer to this question, I appreciate your efforts here though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:33 AM
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this is funny coming from the demographic that is known for sleeping with literally anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:28 AM
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not for everyone. On a moral level, at least. Just choose people who fit your values. I honestly don't get what you're arguing against here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:18 AM
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Calling it "slimy" makes it doubly nonsensical in that case. Everyone is different. You can have preferences without worrying about half the species' sex life. Just choose people who align with your values. Why is this so difficult? And lol. No. I'm too grown to buy into the narrative of the latter half of your comment, sorry. Men are adults who can be held accountable just as much as anyone else, and expecting women to go along with bullshit double standards "just because" is silly and not goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:17 AM
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Well, good news, it's not slimy. If you're safe and clean (and non religious), turns out that it doesn't make much of a difference, actually. Nor should it, especially to the demographic that does very little to hold themselves to the same "virtuous" standards they hold for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:51 AM
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I find it soul crushing that random men care this much about random women's sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:42 AM
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criticizing sexist bs a misandrist doesn't one make. a hit dog will holler, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:43 AM
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to them, subservience in some form or another
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:19 PM
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I don't think you nor I can confidently say what the intentions of "all the women" in this sub are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:18 PM
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perhaps you're reading it incorrectly. We honestly have no way of knowing if what you're inferring is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:15 PM
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what do you mean by goading?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:46 PM
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I got a man fired for harassing me in my DM's, so maybe don't take "the women you've seen" as the basis for women's behavior in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:44 PM
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you're not going to get them to respond to this reasonable question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:43 PM
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It's not jealousy or intimidation, it's concern and pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:42 PM
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this sub is meant to make insecure men feel less insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:34 PM
5

That was never in dispute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:11 PM
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Why is this a fantasy for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:14 PM
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Women like sex because it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:07 PM
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She doesn’t need to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 PM
3

It’s crazy that you think you of all people have authority on what is and isn’t objective truth 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:11 PM
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Your inability to see yourself as special has no bearing on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:10 PM
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Men don’t care about love either. They just want to get laid. According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:09 PM
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Ladies, should I check myself into a mental ward because of my mink lashes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:08 PM
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I too love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:06 PM
3

Or maybe some men see women as humans and just want to be decent. I can’t imagine going through life thinking about people the way some of y’all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:51 AM
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yeah no one believes this stuff outside the internet, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:17 PM
0

why are you mad? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:17 PM
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If you’re a 45 year old man who wants a family and hasn’t yet had a family, I think that’s a red flag unto itself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:22 PM
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Again I have no idea what you’re talking about. But women having emotional connections with people outside the people they don’t want to have an emotional connection with isn’t a bad thing. If men refuse to be human beings and exercise basic forms of empathy and emotional intelligence, then they’re owed nothing. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:06 PM
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Men are the ones who struggle with emotional reciprocation, emotional intelligence, and empathy. If you’re asking why women won’t give a random Joe Schmoe she’s met off the street the time of day, it’s because we’re entitled to our boundaries and freedom of choice. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:01 PM
12

You spoke about women saying they love one another as if the concept was alien to you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:55 PM
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He’s so close. I have faith in him, perhaps unfounded, but i have faith no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:52 PM
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Tbh idk what you’re talking about, but I know at some point in your wall of text you tried to spin women’s emotional connection with one another as a bad thing, which tells me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:50 PM
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No I’m being sincere, sorry haha 32 isn’t old, so of course y’all still look young lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:48 PM
2

It’s okay to be wrong, d4rkw3b5.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:51 PM
7

He doesn’t want to. Otherwise, what will he have to shake his fist at?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:49 PM
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Y’all are so close to realizing men’s inability to exercise empathy and emotional intelligence is the problem, and not women. I’m just standing by, patiently waiting for the epiphany to click.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:45 PM
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Because 32 isn’t old at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:40 PM
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I like how men declare they don’t have a biological wall when half of them start balding and developing ED midway through their thirties. Also men can shoot blanks and not be able to impregnate women. I blame sex education for this one sided narrative regarding women’s fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:38 PM
1

That isn’t true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:36 PM
8

Most people outside the internet don’t believe there’s a “wall”. everyone ages in different ways and at different rates. Some people are open to people who appear older, some people are not. Young women absolutely do not flock to clearly older men the way the internet pretends, but again, it’s not so much a “wall” than just a clear difference in age, experience, and place in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:35 PM
2

hey fun fact, non-modern women didn't enjoy being raped either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:05 AM
1

you're no authority on what's important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:48 AM
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I don't believe you, to be frank, but supposing you're being truthful, you should therefore understand that lust and mutual attraction are important features of relationships. This doesn't just apply to the "droves of women" who flock to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:18 AM
1

you mean the women who need to literally force themselves to have sex with you? mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:11 AM
2

stay away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:09 AM
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she "shouldn't" do anything she doesn't want to do. again, why is this a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:07 AM
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my hot take is that I don't think the average woman's expectations for men are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:05 AM
1

You’re speaking on how women feel without consulting women because….?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:02 AM
1

Lipstick and eyeliner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:21 AM
1

I actually don't wear much makeup at all. Lol. Like I said, you tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:19 PM
1

You tried. I’ll give you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:24 AM
1

You’re clearly not following.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:22 AM
1

women go out “basically” 24/7? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:17 AM
1

Don’t make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:16 AM
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Men stop acting like you're the only one with problems challenge 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:53 AM
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Remember to take accountability for your own behavior. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:47 PM
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I don’t need to ask men to help me change a tire, so that example is unrealistic and unrelatable. If I’m being assaulted, I would ask anyone for help, man or woman. So no, I wouldn’t be pissed if they tried to help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:45 PM
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There is a gap between thinking some women are hoes and thinking the person you are having a child with is also one. If you can’t see that, idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:41 PM
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What does women being assaulted have to do with anything and why is that the first counterexample you go with? Weird behavior. Women who don’t want to be with insecure men who project that insecurity onto women are not at fault for your self esteem issues. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:36 PM
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It really doesn’t. I know it’s difficult to conceive, but not everyone shares your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:33 PM
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Testosterone is not a get out of a jail free card for men, and I’m tired of y’all acting like it is. Control yourselves, or stay way from people. Those are your only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:41 AM
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systemic discrimination against dorky dudes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:55 PM
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Amongst maladjusted men online, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:54 PM
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I'm not sure why men like you act like you're the only one on the planet who has insecurities. Women, especially women of color, are regularly told they're an inferior people compared to men, and yet I manage to be responsible for the type of person I come off as when engaging with other people. Knowing that society sucks doesn't mean you lose custody over yourself. Your insecurity isn't what's laughable, it's your inability to take personal accountability on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:49 PM
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Men need to figure out how to confront their feelings of insecurity without blaming half the species for it. Seriously, what does blaming women for your feelings of inadequacy actually resolve? What do you want women to do? Pretend to be attracted to you in order for you to feel better about yourself? Sorry, we have other shit to do. Your feelings exist, but shuttling them off on random people who have nothing to do with you is not a valid solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:38 PM
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“Everything is women’s fault including my own feelings that I put no effort into resolving” — men on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:34 PM
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In a word, they’re not. Men are just more closeted and homophobic than women are due to patriarchal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:30 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:29 PM
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The can’t laugh at himself one is HUGE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:23 PM
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dirty fingernails poor hygiene in general / doesn’t care about his appearance refers to women as females listens to male “empowerment” podcasts (hard no) lazy doesn’t cook or clean makes comments about my race asks about body count smokes can’t poke fun at himself poor communicator
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:20 PM
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This is the only true comment here. Men say a lot of things about what they do and don’t like, but when it comes time to put it to the test, they often fail. Miserably. Just like what ya like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:18 PM
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Touché. It being a parody is probably why it’s so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:56 PM
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Depends on the type :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:54 PM
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Not related to the main point, but Ouran High School host club is another great reverse harem anime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:41 PM
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Fiction is meant to comment on life, not be replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:35 PM
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This subreddit is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:31 PM
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“Women have the agency of sexuality” it always amuses me how men on here produce these write ups about women’s value when it’s coming from their perspective and clearly no one else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:29 PM
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You heard it here first, ladies. Stop shaving. Stop wearing perfume. Let that acne come thruuu bc agreeable moment here loves his woman Al Naturale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:26 PM
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Some of y’all are weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:22 PM
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Bruh shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:20 PM
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No we weren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:05 PM
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Calling women selfish isn’t an insult in this case. When it comes to dealing with men like you, we need to be. Read my reply and you’ll see I don’t have a problem with paternity tests within themselves. It’s actually good for the mom in case the dad tries to deny his child and become a deadbeat (a situation that is far more likely and common btw). I’m speaking to the school of thought exercised by the men specifically in this sub. You have proven it yourself that you think women are the enemy, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:51 PM
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a progressive society that actively excludes trans and non binary people isn’t progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:50 PM
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My example refutes the idea that gender is universally a binary. It’s not. Even outside of cultures that have 5 interpretations of it, even outside the human species, gender has never been restricted to a binary. Meanwhile, you’re trying trying to justify prejudice and ignore these facts by citing one teacher in Canada. I’m not sure how that compares to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:47 PM
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Who cares? They’re still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:43 PM
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You have your perspective. I have mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:05 PM
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What case? Which point? I just see more angry flailing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:59 PM
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Using fringe examples to justify your prejudice doesn’t actually justify the prejudice. Idk what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:59 PM
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“Something as fundamental and intuitive as “man and woman”. By your limited understanding. The idea of the non-binary is nothing new. You yourself acknowledge this yet simultaneously ignore it. You have lost sight of the purpose of progressivism. Winning elections is the tool, not the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:53 PM
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Only one portion of my reply mentions gender, so throwing “gender studies!!!” around as a buzz word isn’t going to work here. The rest is about how illogical your worldview is. Just because something was thought to be one way in the past doesn’t mean that view is correct. History has proven that repeatedly. I’m sorry you’re not up to speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:46 PM
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But men aren’t hypocritical? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:44 PM
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I chiefly see people bring up sex versus gender when the validity of someone’s gender is called into question. What situations are you referring to when this conversation happens unprompted or unnecessarily? Also, what exactly is the political motivation behind having these conversations in your views? Historically, countering a commonly accepted social idea results in suffering, which is what we’re seeing now. What do you think the end goal is for these people who are pushing so hard for accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:43 PM
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“I don’t understand it, therefore it’s bad” -neinhaltchad Sure, angry people online don’t present this subject with the highest amounts of patience and clarity, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t hundreds upon thousands of resources out there that do. In fact, I was being rather gracious by calling these conversations “new” but the concept of the non-binary has existed, cross culture, for millennia. The anger and frustration happens because, despite the information existing, people like you not …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:36 PM
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Accusing your partner of cheating without reason isn’t good. That’s my point. I know women are the enemy in your mind, but that only reinforces my point that you really shouldn’t be procreating with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:27 PM
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If you disregard your partner’s feelings, you shouldn’t procreate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:22 PM
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Okay that’s fine, not sure how that dismantles my original point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:21 PM
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He used “lecture” loosely and pejoratively. His issue isn’t that these concepts are being forced, his issue is that the concepts are being introduced at all. He didn’t say anything about how those who “disagree” are being treated, only that people who are bringing these topics up consider it problematic when they’re disregarded. And it is problematic. I’m not sure how else a person is supposed to respond when their identity is being dismissed and presently legislated against
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:17 PM
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I’m not saying people should be harassed. 🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:13 PM
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I mean, his point is a traditionalist nonargument at its core, and can easily be dismantled by pointing out the endless and variable ways society has evolved its understanding of, well, everything since day one. We already know that much of what we thought in the past was either wrong or simply not applicable to the reality of now. Rather than pointing out what’s wrong with these new conversations on gender, he’s more angry that the conversations are happening at all. It’s neither productive nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:08 PM
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His gist is that we shouldn’t discuss gender and its nuance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:59 PM
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“All the hate was unprovoked” this is intellectually dishonest. Concerns about age gaps, racial biases, and divorce over kids is not hinged on men’s sex lives. Age gaps are concerned with predation. Racial biases are concerned with racism. Divorcing someone because they don’t want kids is an extension of expectations for women to have babies and disregard their autonomy. These problems have pre-existed for centuries, and while not every man in these cases intended to exacerbate these issues, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:56 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:49 PM
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Ah yes, the boogeyman of this sub: a selfish woman. How dare we be concerned with ourselves at any point, yes? You can spin it in a way that sounds palatable, but the core of the paternity test in this sub is “women be hoes, and you can’t trust them”. That’s it. The only way I could see this working is if the expectation to get a paternity test was established well beforehand instead of springing the demand on your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:48 PM
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Knowing my partner will change and assuming they’ll transform into monsters aren’t the same. If you want to have a paternity test, then have this conversation before progressing the relationship. Don’t spring this on people and expect them to be okay with the fact that you think they’re horrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:42 PM
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You’re not saying anything that refutes my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:40 PM
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Huh? Nothing that you said relates to what this guy was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:38 PM
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It turned into cheating AFTER a precipitating event of lack of sex. Which isn’t justified, but that’s not what’s going on with this paternity test situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:36 PM
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You tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:34 PM
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I don’t think it’s bad if men wear makeup or not. But if they’re so frightened by it, they should try it so they see it’s not the boogeyman they claim it to be. Sure, there are cases where people feel pressured to do things they otherwise wouldn’t do. But that’s not the main point OP was making. His whole concern is that “it’s fake, therefore it’s bad” which is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:32 PM
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“Like what” Like women victimizing men, physically, sexually, etc. and society sweeping it under the rug. “Makeup itself is fake” So is 90% of everything else we do with our bodies. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:31 PM
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Your partner should’ve already proven their trustworthiness well before the stage of considering starting a family with them. If you don’t trust them by that point, then procreating with them is frankly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:26 PM
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yeah reddit is glitching out re: your reply - but if we're talking about natural instincts, getting pregnant would be an incentive to have as much sex as possible, not a deterrent since it meant the sustaining of our species. There's nothing in our biological makeup that suggests having sex during pregnancy would compromise the pregnancy. Sure, there's a cooling down period once labor and recovery comes about, but i'd imagine women of yesteryear were motivated to bang more then than we are now s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:50 AM
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It's not absurd, actually. The paternity test isn't about "testing yourself", it's about ensuring your partner didn't cheat on you, don't be obtuse. You not only distrust your partner, you assume they've betrayed the relationship in one of the worst ways possible...without them giving you any reason to think they'd do that. I wouldn't assume my partner would beat me, and if I did, I wouldn't be in a relationship with him. Why are you having kids with people you don't trust? It's nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:24 AM
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Yes you did...otherwise, why mention pregnancy as a risk factor if you didn't mean it curbs promiscuit y in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:20 AM
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the point has gone over your head. Assuming your partner will cheat on you or beat you means you shouldn't be with that person to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:15 AM
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The "evidence" is that they're two completely separate scenarios... One is protecting against unintentional harm, the other presumes intentional malice and a failure in your partner's character. Knowing people have cheated on their partners doesn't mean you need to suspect your partner is cheating on you without reason. Otherwise just don't be with that person if you struggle with trust issues that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:14 AM
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Yes you did...otherwise, why mention pregnancy as a risk factor if you didn't mean it functions to curb promiscuity in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:10 AM
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it would be hidden, obviously. And you have zero conception of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:08 AM
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then why did you mention pregnancy as a risk factor if you didn't mean it functions to curb promiscuity in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:55 AM
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pregnancy doesn't inhibit women from sleeping around and being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:51 AM
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Pregnant women can still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:40 AM
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This doesn't answer your question, but I think men would be a lot happier if they stopped worrying about controlling random women's sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:39 AM
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I beg y'all to take some critical thinking skills courses before wasting your time posting drivel like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:36 AM
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Serious question, do you think women wear makeup 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:20 AM
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These thinkpieces on makeup, especially given they're a direct results of the beauty standards men themselves encourage, are frankly superficial, meaningless, and just another way to protest women exercising any ounce of autonomy over their own bodies. There are actual things to complain about when it comes to women, you know. Tangible things that negatively impact men in significant ways, but you all repeatedly choose to soapbox about the dumbest of topics. I'm over it. On a related note, I enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:14 AM
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Okay, so women should purchase guns under the specific assumption their husbands might turn violent someday. We don't know which ones to trust, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:12 AM
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"I hope you don't get in an accident" and "I suspect you might cheat on me" aren't comparable on any level. The arguments presented in this thread are weak at best and a complete departure from reality at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:07 AM
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It's not "a woman" it's your partner, and it's not her "feelings getting hurt" it's you saying you don't trust her on the most fundamental level. Why bother being with and starting a family with someone you have that much deep distrust and disregard for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:03 AM
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I don't know any sex positive feminist women who are opposed to the legalization of escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:54 AM
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it's called self control and accepting that you may not always get what you want. Welcome to being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:47 AM
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I just think it's funny how women can genuinely victimize men in ways that are often overlooked by society, but the loudest complaints y'all have deal with body count and other bullshit that doesn't make a difference. Reddit echo chambers aren't an accurate reflection of the world we live in, let alone of things that actually matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:36 AM
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this feels anti-black
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:31 AM
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nobody owes you sex. get over it and find fulfillment elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:09 AM
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pffft please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:07 AM
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What am I making up? because your second sentence suggests I’m right. Men think it’s okay to be attracted to young girls, including minors, and make up excuses for it. This “18-23 year olds are just more attractive” argument is simply a thin veil to cover up the predacious nature of their desires. There is no valid reason a 30 year old person would want to have anything to do with an 18-year old who’s barely learning how to be an adult. Let alone someone who is younger than that. This goes for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:17 AM
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By me. A person who sees beyond bullshit and refuses to scapegoat biology for men’s weird choices. As an example, the number of men who would willingly have intercourse with an underage teenager if they could get away with it is astonishingly (or not so astonishing depending on who you ask) high, and that has nothing to do with fertility rates. Many men desire women and girls to be as young as possible because many men are predatory. It’s as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:10 AM
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Young women are attractive to men because men see them as easy to control. This has already been stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:04 AM
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Don’t you ever get tired of excusing men’s behavior with biology? How convenient for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:03 AM
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Yeah yeah, everything wrong with men is due to biology, and therefore we can’t question their questionable decisions. I’ve heard this song and dance before. It’s neither interesting nor compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:59 AM
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Because you can't infringe on people's autonomy. Edit: Looking through your comments, you clearly just have an issue with women, so of course you would question why men should care about their boundaries. It's giving rapist. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:34 AM
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I like how the fertility argument is used as if men are known for wanting to settle down and raise kids as opposed to sleep with as many women as possible and take care of their offspring as little as possible. As if they just look at a woman, and magically detect her fertility levels lol It's not about fertility, it's about entrapping people while they're young and naive. "Ironic." not really. I'm not interested in being predatory towards my partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:33 AM
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I think you pretending that there's a gray area when it comes to sexual boundaries is you speaking in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:49 AM
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I think what men call a "biological imperative" is just men being creepy and wanting someone easy to control. I wouldn't call that pedophilia though, I would call it manipulative and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:47 AM
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It wasn't peaceful for the following: BIPOC Women LGBTQ Immigrants Non-Christians Disabled Persons Impoverished persons Or do they not count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:45 AM
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I don't understand why something being natural means it needs to be pursued. Hence my flu example. We're not slaves to nature. While one person is busy raising kids, another could be spending their freedom on studying the cure to cancel. I don't understand why you're framing these arguments as if humans are constricted to limited options for a life fulfilled. We're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:41 AM
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Which was obvious from what I said, or if you thought, so, are you and idiot, troll, our autist? your original comment would have people believe women generally have a thing for serial killers, so no, it's not obvious. Your hostility mixed with ableism tells me everything else I need to know about your integrity. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:36 AM
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Society was more peaceful in 1960 in several countries which countries? If we make laws incenting rape you'll have more rape yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:28 AM
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Helpful humans still consume. Not sure why you would think there's mutual exclusivity there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:24 AM
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I think birthing more bodies to eventually grow into consumers is the real cycle of consumerism, but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:17 AM
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Then I'm not going to have kids. There's no incentive nor reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:13 AM
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I'm Black. My baby wouldn't look like this. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:09 AM
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this is one of the most subjective opinions a person can have. Y'all really need to stop overusing the word "objective"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:07 AM
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Not sure about serial killers, but for genetic traits associated with the ‘dark triad’, the men with the top 10% of those genetic markers have 27% of the kids. no offense, but this is gobbledygook. Being a criminal isn't considered a desirable trait by the general population. Also men in prison are fathers more than the general population most of these men have kids before they go to prison, not *because* they went to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:01 AM
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Yes, but when those needs are voiced and are still ignored, it’s no longer a case of taking two to tango, and more one just being selfish and prioritizing his pleasure of women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:10 AM
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…keeping your lady from going to the club is punishing her for something out of her control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:08 AM
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Ok by why do women need to be punished for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:03 AM
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“The only people to blame is his previous partners” or his lack of willingness to learn and improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:03 AM
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Sure but then the solution is to keep creepy men from clubs, not women. There are also more and more women-only clubs for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:00 AM
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You can have casual sex and still care about the person’s pleasure. I agree people should communicate, but Whether they’re in a committed relationship or not, a lot of men are simply clueless about certain things they really shouldn’t be clueless about in regards to sex and female anatomy. It’d be one thing if men asked how it’s going and gave an opportunity to clarify, but often times that doesn’t happen, and even when women choose to communicate, it often gets ignored because men “know what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:55 PM
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in my experience it's chiefly men squawking about how they don't want "whores" as wives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:39 PM
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There are droves of men waving pitchforks over Keke Palmer, Chloe Bailey, and other women for being so-called "whores"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:38 PM
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everyone involved is supposed to care about the other's pleasure. sex is something you do with people, not to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:37 PM
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to be entirely honest, anyone who genuinely thinks about people in terms of "Chad" or not are out of the runnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:31 PM
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I think humanity is poised for women to be the pursuers as god intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:29 PM
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depends on how you're acting upon it. if you're hurting people and infringing upon their boundaries as a result, then the problem speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:19 PM
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you don't have to underplay women's sexual libido to make a point. I thought what OP was saying made sense. But that doesn't mean women's libido is nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:16 PM
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do you genuinely believe the average woman desires serial killers, or are you making sweeping judgment calls based on fringe outliers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:12 PM
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The problem with this narrative, and a big problem with dating narratives in general, is that it places the onus of behavior chiefly on men while women are somehow at a fixed point and the objective arbiters of what's considered "good" or not. When really, bad women (however you want to define bad) pursue men, just as much as bad men pursue women. Clueless women pursue men. Confused women pursue men. Good women pursue men. Horrible women pursue men. So when we come up with these narratives about…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:05 PM
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good music, dancing, drinking, and laughing with people you like are generally considered to be fun activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:53 PM
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by being an emotional man and threatening violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:51 PM
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y'all come up with wild theories lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:51 PM
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why would you tell your partner to shut up in the first place if you actually love and respect him? it doesn't matter if he's masculine or feminine, he doesn't deserve blatant disrespect like that, and neither do you as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:50 PM
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climate change is getting worse, and more people chose sage green as their favorite color in 2022 than ever before. Really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:47 PM
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not rude, controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:44 PM
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because clubs are fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:43 PM
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what are women wrong about in this case? having boundaries?
/r/MensRights29/04/23 04:07 AM
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I can tell no one respects you. Dismissed.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 03:08 AM
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What is the argument you’re making? You’ve seem to have lost track.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:30 PM
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If I make someone uncomfortable, then I should face consequences for my actions.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:28 PM
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so you're saying men's actions are prerequisite of women's actions. In other words, men don't hold themselves accountable.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 07:43 PM
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Indeed. I simply know how to not stare at people to the point of making them uncomfortable and catching me on camera. What a concept.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 07:41 PM
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People: “hey, maybe men should be a little less shitty.” Men: “men will be men 🤪” People: “k then we don’t accept you.” Men: “no one cares about our rights!” Bitch-made fr lol
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:54 AM
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Whether you think it’s needed or not, consent is still the difference. People post their bodies online for attention. People go to the gym to workout. Going to the gym does not necessitate your viewership. A gym isn’t a so-called lion’s den, and it’s ridiculous you think your token of attention is so obligatory that it would be. It’s not obligatory. Your penis is not that important. If your simple “looks” are making people uncomfortable, safe to say, you’re probably not just furtively glancing a…
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:42 AM
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The difference in perception has already been explained. It’s called consent. Take your own advice, and brush up. Dismissed.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:25 AM
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If a woman going to the gym is the same as a “whore” who sexualizes herself on the internet in your mind, it’s clear the issue is not about your eyes wandering by happenstance and more about the knee-jerk urgency to oversexualize people who are simply trying to exist in the same space as you. If it were a mere matter of “glancing”, there wouldn’t be enough time for these losers to be caught on camera. Again, play dumb if you want. I’m not buying it. You’ve been given your options. Go forth and d…
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:18 AM
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Nobody cares what you like. The world doesn’t revolve around your boner. Again, either act like an adult, or get treated like an animal. Choose wisely.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:10 AM
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Don’t speak to me until you can string together a coherent sentence.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:07 AM
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No. The consent is in regards to sexualizing oneself online vs. just going to the gym. You pea brains can be obtuse about this if you want, but the rest of functioning society isn’t going to condone your desperation to be leering freaks just because you feel like it. You’re not a lion, you’re a human. Either act like an adult, or get treated like an animal. Those are your options.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:06 AM
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it's called consent. The mistake you've made is assuming the "internet whores" are the same ones going to the gym merely to work out. If you see all women as a monolith, then women can see men as a monolith as well and every negative assumption that comes with it.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:37 AM
1

But how would you know women don’t have comparable sex drives when you don’t even have sex with them? 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:08 PM
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Well, again, I didn’t say that. That said, since you’re so interested in the topic, being able to give good sex is indeed a value. Perhaps not the only value, but a value nonetheless. But I’m sure you wouldn’t know anything about that either. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:05 PM
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“That implies that’s a woman’s only value” No, it doesn’t. It simply implies you haven’t experienced women wanting to fuck you, ergo why you think they lack a sex drive. But rest assured, there are plenty of men, and plenty of women, whom women would like to have sex with. You just don’t happen to be among that group. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:56 PM
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“I’m MGTOW” Color me shocked and awestruck 🙄 No one ever suggested sex is women’s only value, but go off, sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:29 PM
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Lol you wouldn’t do shit.
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