leaveatrace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Dominant women	Rant/Venting	leaveatrace	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 02:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dominant women I can't function without porn, I've tried multiple times to quit it's impossible for me. And yes I do want a dominant women and I know its not their natural state. Bound to be a few exceptions to the rule though.	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/17 01:15 AM
1	Dominant women I've heard what you're talking about how "the water turns the freaking frogs gay". I know there has been some studies on that and it seems to be the case. Thing is, I know plenty of guys that don't want dominant women and are "redpilled" that drink tap water. I don't think that's the reason.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/17 03:35 PM
1	Dominant women I think you might have been right on point on everything IF I didn't already like to be dominated as a young child. I was not watching any porn then and I remember clearly some of the sexual fantasies, and they all had a dominant women that humiliated me and was cruel to me and controlled me. Even the games I played as a kid with girls had me have their ass in my face and them sitting on me and ordering me to do stuff. To make them do what I wanted I'd say "don't make me do X" and they'd make me…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/17 03:35 PM
2	Dominant women I actually actively rejected my own masculinity because I associated it negatively due to an abusive father. Seems you had a father for some time at least then ? I never had one. When I say intimacy I don't necessarily mean sexual intimacy, If I just wanted that I'd go to an escort. I mean the intimacy one can have with a close friend. A special bond. A sense of closeness. And not just cause you're fucking her. I want to know if it's possible to have as much fun with a woman as it is with a frie…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/17 01:04 AM
0	Dominant women Over the years I feel like I've learned a whole lot here, I don't see myself as blue pilled at all in the sense that I know the theory but I just don't want to apply it for myself because I don't want to have the role a man should have according to TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/17 01:04 AM
3	Dominant women I think you're right, yet everything that I read here makes a lot of sense so I still learn a whole lot and I appreciate that.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 08:10 PM
1	Dominant women I've sometimes thought about going to an escort but the sex is not what I'm after. I want intimacy, a relationship. If you're like me and you're submissive why don't you want to find a dominant woman like me ? Why submit yourself to the norm in society ? I understand and agree with you about improving one's self in studies and other parts of life of course, I don't think that's related to the issue at hand though. Thanks for the link I'll read it later.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 08:08 PM
1	Dominant women I want to work and improve myself for me, not for the sake of someone else. I understand now that a lot of men make decisions in their lives to get a woman. I resent that because it diminishes the value of the actual objective you're trying to reach. It's as if it's only a proxy. Anyway thanks for the advice, I'll read up on single moms but I don't think that's the reason of my nature. I'm sure plenty of men who grew up with only their mom's aren't submissive. 2pac and so many blacks for example…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 08:07 PM
-8	Dominant women A bit harsh mate. But I agree that porn sedates me, but it has too. It's like medication, I have a normal/high libido, I masturbate at least once a day and pretty often twice a day and it's been that way since I was a teen. I think it's better to control myself that way than be in my natural state and start hunting women. To me that's letting your instincts dictate your actions and I prefer not to.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 07:12 PM
0	Dominant women In today's western world I don't believe single moms are that rare. ALso I think plenty of guys who grew up with only their mother are "alpha" or at least have more normal desires. I don't think it has much to do with that.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 07:09 PM
1	Dominant women I'm sure there are some benefits and that it makes sense we have friends in an evolutionary point of view, what I'm getting at is that we don't have friends for some special interest or ulterior motive. We have friends because it's fun, we like them and want to do stuff with them and laugh and ... you get the point. Men go after women for sex, it feels like that devalues the nature of the relationship and makes it much more shallow. I also don't expect women to understand what true friendship is…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 07:09 PM
-2	Dominant women Yes I was raised by a single mother. I'm sure that contributed a bit to how I am but I know that some guys who also had single mothers are very dominant and "alpha", so not sure how much it contributed, I'd wager not much at all.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 03:29 PM
1	Dominant women But I've been like this since I was 5 years old and even before, just hard to remember before I was 5. It's innate in me (nature), not nurture. I know I'm in the minority but those have been my desires for as long as I can remember.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 03:26 PM
2	Dominant women Emotional intimacy exists. With everything I read here it's more like we're biological robots and the intimacy that exists is a result of our nature to have sex/a relationship/kids but not something "truthful" in a sense. With friendships it seems the friendship is what both friends try to have for the sake of it alone, there's no ulterior motive (for real friendships of course).	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 01:00 PM
1	Dominant women Nah nothing happened to me, I've always been like this, as a very young kid it was the same.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 12:55 PM
-14	Dominant women Impossible, fapping with my imagination is extremely hard for me. I've also tried to stop porn and I can't do it. I've noticed that If I don't fap/watch porn I become very aroused by the women in my everyday life. I can't function like that.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 12:53 PM
1	Dominant women I have this envy of women but masturbation can suppress it. I feel like it's all biological. The sexual urges are dealt with, it's the lack of intimacy and romantic feelings that still get to me. It feels like there's nothing to suppress that, but who knows maybe there is. I searched posts that were related to "dominant women" and this Your not going to find any help here. seems to have been the same kind of advice that poster got. I find that a lot of what trp explains makes a lot of sense but …	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/17 12:42 PM