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Nah, it actually means, "I'm too emotionally stunted to realize that I'm the problem and am nowhere close to overcoming this deficit."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:56 PM
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The most common response to this is, "He's either got a big dick or big checkbook." Everyone then laughs. The default male viewpoint is that men are judged by their ability to protect and provide, with looks being a barely registering thing. This is why TRP even exists. The idea that looks and game matter to women, more than anything else, is foreign to most men. That is changing as more men grow up in the current terrible environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:58 PM
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Congrats! I'm still working on my first decade with my wife. Got any tips for making it last?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:51 PM
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It depends. The closer they are to your taste, the longer it takes. Some can be dismissed at a glance. Some take months. That's not even taking into account lust goggles and the fact that people can't be neatly put into boxes, or even that you know your own taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:23 PM
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Being nice is stupid and bad. Being virtuous is good. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:15 PM
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Eat, sleep, and exercise correctly. It's simple, but it's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:14 PM
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Neither. Trump is doing some good things, but his actual ties (not Russia) worry me a lot. Zelensky is just a puppet installed by the military industrial complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:08 PM
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The thing is... you never know. You could go into it looking to hit it and quit it, and then fall hard. You could go into it looking for a lifetime and realize after six months that she is too shitty. I wouldn't lie about it, but the answer is always, "I don't know how we'll turn out. We will just have to see." Anything else is the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:05 PM
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Red pill believes in LMS(looks status money) and behavior can all be used to varying degrees. Money is beta provisioning. It's actually detrimental to alpha strategy. The rest is correct. RP says that even if you don't have the looks, with very good attractive behavior you can score any hot woman you want. TRP starts with the assumption of the reader being an Average Frustrated Chump, someone who gets dates and girlfriends but not much attention and casual sex. It also specifically preaches agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:53 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:10 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:38 PM
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The nuclear family goes much, much farther back, around the time of Jesus in Rome, which popularized it throughout Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:36 PM
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Where do you find your commenter ranking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:29 PM
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It has nothing to do with want. It's easy. It's the McDonald's of dating. Everyone knows that it's shit but they don't feel like cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:08 PM
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Men and women have completely different standards in beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:05 PM
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Yes, the purpose is to confuse the populace so much that they stop caring. It was so successful that the USA adopted it as soon as the Obama administration removed the post-WW2 prohibition against domestic propaganda in the 2014(?) defense funding bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:59 PM
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Helping clean someone else's party. It's the shopping cart test of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:54 PM
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Most women are broke. In fact, I know exactly zero women who were worth anything when they married outside of old women remarrying after taking their husband's stuff. They all had enormous amounts of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:53 PM
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That's why the most important thing in a partner is life vision. I spent a lot of time myself thinking I would never find someone who would mesh with me. Then one day, I met my wife and she has blessed my life everyday since. Don't give up. You have to keep an eye out if you are looking for someone niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:35 PM
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That sucks. What makes you think you can't have that for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:28 PM
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That's really sad. Have you never seen a happy, or even functional, couple before? Do you really not know why having a partner is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:21 PM
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You want someone who makes your life better, not perfect. Perfect doesn't exist, and if it did, they would date someone in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:06 PM
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Young and rich is a bad combination. You'll never make real friends because it's impossible to tell who actually likes you. You're also likely to end up with serious drug habits and mental issues. The list goes on. The best is growing up middle class and then succeeding in gaining wealth quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:59 PM
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I don't get that reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:55 PM
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Nah, I enjoy being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:49 PM
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The secret to wealth is to earn it over time. Everything else is a scam. I became wealthy faster than most and a lot of it is enormous luck, but it still took decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:48 PM
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You can dance around it but millions of men know about this phenomenon personally. Women don't care about men in objective criteria. They only care about ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:45 PM
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I am and can be friends with just about anyone. I am a very curious fellow and enjoy the drama of weird people. That being said, I would never date a woman who wasn't in the upper tiers of just about everything. I am attractive and top tier myself and I cannot stand to live with someone who cannot be reasoned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:43 PM
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Mean and median aren't the same thing. Median is usually used because it is more representative of the "average" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:40 PM
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Everyone who has ever been in the service knows this is a lie. There is no minimum bar of effort that suddenly makes you attractive. That doesn't exist. We know this because women's standards near military bases shoot up compared to further away. Women want the best, not some set of criteria. If there was a button to make every single man on Earth meet whatever criteria you have in mind, women would demand an even higher bar within a few months. There is no set of checkboxes that will make women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:28 PM
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It's a useful lie. There are a lot of men who are like that, especially when they are young and full of hormones. I will be giving my daughters the full information, but that is part of it. You have to sort through the men and find the ones who like you for more than a warm piece of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:21 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:45 PM
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Everything is "manipulation." I am manipulating your brain by putting down words for you to read. I manipulate my wife by complimenting her when she is done getting ready for us to go out. I manipulate my children by giving or taking away treats. Getting someone to do something isn't necessarily a bad thing. The essence is in the intent behind the actions. Doing things to make your partner happy are only manipulative in the most autistic reading of the word. We all have little rituals and plays …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:41 PM
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Unironically yes. My wife will hand me a jar to open, and when I open it, she and our daughters clap and cheer. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:49 PM
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I'm the opposite. I think I'm ugly, but I have been approached by women my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:21 PM
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I had a wife. We kept separate bank accounts split the bills 50/50. Things worked fairly well. (We were middle-class childless couple in major city in a house MCOL) This is the way to do it, although it doesn't have to be a 50/50 split. A lot of times the husband will pay more of the bills because the wife doesn't make as much and they both want nicer things. Joint accounts cause more problems than they fix in my opinion. How is it supposed to work if one spouse/SO doesn't work to take care of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:12 PM
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This isn't the own you think it is. You could find a ton of men who would love this. The problem is that women find it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:05 PM
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Denying it is like flat-earth level kookiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 PM
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I care how I'm treated the first time. Not 40 years in the future. You should. Youth and sexiness go away. Character does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:44 PM
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If you think companies act in concert to implement anything that wastes time and money without someone in authority forcing it to happen, then I don't know which reality you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:42 PM
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You are correct, but that doesn't mean they aren't done. That just makes the flip back to normality easier once the social consensus moves back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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You originally made it sound like they were super trashy compared to the person you met when you started looking for longer-term relationships, which makes sense. When you don't care about how someone will treat you forty years from now, you can ignore a lot of faults which would otherwise really constrain your dating pool. I don't know everything, just most things knowable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:35 PM
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I am not talking about DEI in it's minor form. I am talking about all quota-based Equal Opportunity initiatives, which are tied together in spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:33 PM
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Because marriage was never a priority. Especially in my 20s. Ah, so in other words, a yes. So you can't explain it? I can tell you the direction because it is obvious. I can't give you specifics because I'm not the Wizard of Oz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:30 PM
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No, some women have the ability to be hyper-successful. Most women are capable of doing some sort of work and are generally cheaper when it comes to busy work. Getting rid of DEI will not remove women from work. It will just get rid of the ones who are leeching from society. The real change will come from men. As the prospect of marriage becomes reasonable again, a lot of them will be more willing to marry. With women having less upward mobility without real work, marriage will be attractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:27 PM
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Is that because you weren't looking in the right places at 20 that you learned to look in your 30's? And what's that? More than what the true crazies think, less than what the general population thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:19 PM
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Most people are gross and pathetic. Women aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:17 PM
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Me? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 PM
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Young age at marriage is one of the top predictors of divorce. That generational knowledge also led to boomers having a higher divorce rate than today. You say that as if these women then remarry someone better. This does happen from time to time, but it's not the usual scenario. The primary reason women began divorcing so much had everything to do with financial incentives, and those incentives are going away. too risky It's too risky to just fuck around for fifteen years and then trying to mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:15 PM
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Of course it's still good. Women still enjoy many advantages. Also, I need to be dramatic to bait the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:52 PM
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It's because the man you can get at 20 is better than the man you can get at 30 and so on. It's actually in a woman's self-interest to be more picky and careful. Most women have forgotten this because the baby boomers ruined dating by cutting off generational knowledge. We now have to relearn everything the hard way. If you are actually a young woman, then this is even more important for you than the Gen X and Millennial women. They were able to enjoy advantages that you will never dream of or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:46 PM
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I have been helping a friend build up a small manufacturing company. It's really interesting to see how different B2C and B2B companies are and so similar at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:31 PM
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It's actually sad that most men still think women are wonderful, but the younger men are learning thanks to seeing how women behave when given full license. Life for women peaked in the 90's. Every single day of your life will be the worst day for women until the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:21 PM
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Physical fitness isn't even in the top five problems with women in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:26 PM
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Rape is not only illegal in those, but its definitions and punishments are generally harsher.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:18 PM
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It's important for both sexes. Weight lifting helps women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:10 PM
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My wife and I are LLL. We are both quite independent yet align in our goals. Neither of us wants to dominate the other and prefer to view our marriage through the Christian lens of mutual service.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:09 PM
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I think it goes well beyond the male/female divide. Most therapists are unhelpful at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:51 PM
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Therapy is part of the answer for a lot of young men these days. It's just very hard to find the correct therapist who isn't some $400/hr executive coach. They exist, but they are hard to find. Most therapists are drug-pushing, slow-witted quacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:24 PM
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Everyone knows female humor doesn't exist. The adjective was extraneous, so I removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:09 PM
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femininist woman doesn't understand humor Surprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:40 PM
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How many women want to date and marry manipulative, violent criminals? The demand is so much higher than the supply that those men never run out of girlfriends and wives to impregnate before the presence of a child causes a lot of the women to run away to protect that child. Now, do the majority of women want that extreme of anti-social behavior? No. Do most want some level of it? Yes. Most women prefer men higher in beta traits - it's just that he must still have enough alpha traits to keep his…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:20 PM
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People used to not believe me when I said it will be women, not men, who bring back traditional dating and gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:01 PM
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Peeing? Questionable, but fine. Pooping? Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:00 PM
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It depends on the level of autism. They are usually more sympathetic to other more autistic people, but not always. With severe cases, it's hard to deal with for long, no matter who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:57 PM
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This, but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:31 PM
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Ah, so you know already.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:10 PM
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I have hung out with many musicians and actors growing up. I am projecting my stereotypical experiences onto both of them. It has nothing to do with the article or any other specific evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:09 PM
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He's too young to understand that women never actually mean any of that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:05 PM
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All musicians are fucked in the head, same as actors. I wouldn't be surprised if they were both monsters in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:04 PM
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The best way to handle parents is from a distance. They have to know in the back of their minds that you could, and just as importantly would, cut ties if you felt it necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:00 PM
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Now the true messes begin. Enjoy losing things for months only to find them in random drawers months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:59 PM
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Work is the transformation of energy from one form to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:57 PM
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A lot of rich kids rebel against their distant, work-obsessed parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:56 PM
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I think there was a small amount of illegal activity, mostly goaded on by FBI confidential informants. It was never an actual threat. The rest was just a protest, only truly scary because of its size. People who call Jan 6 a coup don't know what an actual coup looks like. It's small, fast, and heavily armed. It's not a bunch of boomers walking around unarmed and then leaving after defacing some property.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:46 PM
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I don't think it's very vague. The priority of common man issues change over time, but they don't really change much in their essence. Most people want the same basic things, and when that is broken or threatened, nothing else matters. Right now, the biggest one is that people want to be able to get a job with reasonable effort that supports a basic independent lifestyle. Run on: Universal Healthcare Student Debt Reform Immigration Reform (Originally a DNC issue until Bill Clinton) Independent C…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:39 PM
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No, but they called it one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:32 PM
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I guess you weren't around for Bush v Gore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:46 PM
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That sounds a whole lot like common man issues... especially if you throw on debt and healthcare and labor issues. I agree. The DNC is so wildly out of touch that it has forgotten the basics like representing actual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:45 PM
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No, I'm old enough to remember the Bush eras. People only view that fondly because they don't remember GWB pushing prayer in school and the Christian Mother organizations banning tons of stuff. And that's only the surface. I remember what the Democrat talk about Republicans was back then. The only thing that has changed is that Republicans have picked up the same animosity now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:39 PM
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No, the DNC needs to correct it's platform. It needs to stand against genocide, for civil liberties, and for the common man again. Trump is winning by pretending to be two of those three. If we can return to the things that actually matter instead of giving the mega-donors everything they want, then we can sweep everything. Picking a charismatic candidate won't fix anything. Policy drives the long-term trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:36 PM
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I don't have to. I live in Texas surrounded by them. You are missing a ton of their motivations and reducing them to make yourself feel better. If we can't understand why the DNC lost, we can't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:23 PM
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Legislation and gerrymandering have been around since the beginning. If it wasn't over before, it isn't now. This will just cattleprod the DNC into being a little less stupid. I was amazed at how bad this election's campaign was. Even if heads don't roll, more people are going to get in touch with reality not that it has punched them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:19 PM
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Everyone enjoys seeing their team "win." It's just rarely the reason someone joins a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:15 PM
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Hey, 90% of my family voted for Trump in all three elections. The reasons are: Immigration Anti-Woke Sentiment School Reform Economics Although, anti-woke sentiment is the second reason, feminism isn't really a huge part of that, per se. Most normal, and especially older, Republican men either don't care about it or think it's a joke. There are a lot of Republican women who hate Feminism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:57 PM
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There is, of course, a bit of that, but most of them have normal reasons for their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:53 PM
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I doubt it. Trump is likely to do some really dumb shit, especially in this term, but weed is unlikely to be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:52 PM
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criminalize verb turn (an activity) into a criminal offense by making it illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:30 PM
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If you think Republicans are cold-hearted psychopaths, then you don't know them. Most of them are normal people just voting for what they think is best for everyone, the same as Democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:29 PM
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To be fair, Trump is probably the most pro-Israel president in American history. I wouldn't be surprised if he bombs several of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:24 PM
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Going to? Weed is already federally illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:19 PM
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Expecting a good solution from government is where you went wrong. Even if there was a correct solution to such a complex problem, you could never actually get it because most people are stupid animals and the smarter ones spend their effort on farming the stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:50 PM
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Train an AI to detect AI posts and then sick it on important subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:18 PM
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My first red pills were from a psychology major I was dating. She told me about the differences between short-term and long-term preferences in men and women while asking me what I thought about them. A lot of TRP is pulled straight out of psychological research.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:39 PM
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You're asking the real questions. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:01 PM
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It's honestly not the money that upsets them... much. It does suck to be the gender expected to buy stuff when you don't have much money. The women who demand it and flaunt how they use men are what puts the sour taste in their mouths. Every single man who dates enough will run into the woman who uses him for money. The best ones stare at their phones during dinner. The worst ones string a guy along using plausible deniability to milk them using covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:46 PM
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I'm not surprised here, but if he said that in public, he would get reprimanded and possibly beat by the men around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:40 PM
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Have you kept yourself pure until marriage? I did not, although I wish I did. Are you married? Do you have children? Do you dedicate yourself to being a good father? Yes to all three. Are you faithfully in church, have you read your Bible back to front? Yes. How much to you adhere to The Word? I try but of course I fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:38 PM
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The primary problem is that when you mention these crazy women, other women circle the wagons for them. You will never hear a man defend a murderer or rapist or violent man. Women will all jump out of their seats to demand why the equivalent woman "was forced to be like that." The other issue is that for reasons beyond most people's understanding, the crazy, blue-haired feminists get far more say in life than they should. From police department policies to Fortune 500 boardrooms to the halls of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:32 PM
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I'd be a tradwife all the way, even by your definition. Even if it weren't the absolutely better life compared to the modern woman's life, my religion and philosophy would push me towards it. The fact that women can't see such simple truth is just more evidence of how stupid and brainwashed they are in general. The main change in definition I would make is college. You want to go to find a pool of high potential and pedigree partners. It also helps prepare you for life. It's not required but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:29 PM
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It doesn't take long to rack up huge body counts if it's what you dedicate your free time to for a few years. A single one night stand per weekend gives you another fifty per year. Two years takes you to triple digits. This isn't hard to do. Most people just aren't interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:32 PM
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It's okay to act single when you are single. It's not okay when you aren't. This doesn't seem difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:28 PM
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Conditions like BPD aren't present or not. They are really on a sliding scale. She probably has a minor case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:29 PM
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Comfort is good. Reminders that you need to be stronger are good. You need both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:01 PM
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She has diagnosed BPD. She is the woman TRP is designed for, a manipulative liar who has abandonment issues. She is trying to put off her transition into a U-Haul lesbian because she knows that she'll never get better after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:57 PM
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You are partly right but mostly wrong. Women have very little understanding of men and say stupid wrong things all the time. This is why female friends and family are genuinely surprised when they try to help a close man with online dating. Women aren't a collection of evil masterminds. They are a bunch of stupid, misinformed animals running mostly on instincts, just like the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:57 PM
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That person is stupid and has never read TRP. That reads like leftwing kook conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:54 PM
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Get on my level. Imagine your friends being obsessed with appearing fancy while you just bang chicks in the tent you live in. The seething was enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:42 PM
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Most people are irrational animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:30 PM
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It's just part of the stages of growth. You'll get over it with time. Success helps. Deep personal introspection helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:14 PM
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If you have the same opinions you had at five, then you never thought of them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:12 PM
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Have you tried talking to your boss or the person who would actually fix such a thing? Unfortunately, most of office politics is avoiding any indirect work. The same thing happens with the coffee maker where everyone waits until the conscientious person takes the last cup, makes a new batch, and then suddenly wants coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:10 PM
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In our household, I get the final say in everything. It is a religious thing to us. That seems tyrannical until you realize I don't care about 95% percent of things and just want to make my family happy. In reality, my wife makes the vast majority of decisions in our household by herself. Where there is any disagreement, we discuss it and come to agreement another 95% of those times. In the final tiny percent, I get the final say. This is more than what most men are looking for, although less th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:02 PM
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No, you have unique appeal to a small demographic. I'm sure you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:32 PM
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This is the key. Without social pressure, men don't want to be masculine and women don't want to be feminine. They turn into unattractive, androgynous messes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:25 PM
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I am not jealous of women at all. Every benefit they have comes with steep tradeoffs. Their privileges come at the expense of being second class at everything in life outside their narrow range of social competence. Every woman's life is a retelling of Flowers for Algernon. That sounds like hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:08 PM
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a penis is genuinely an all-powerful mind control weapon which can overwhelm the senses of the majority of men It's a funny joke because it is true. Men only put up with the vast majority of women because they want sex so much. societal influences throughout history on the genders Biology informs culture, which informs laws, which informs biology. The loop is closed. Each is a couple decades separated from the others, but they are never too far out of sync. You cannot point to a television progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:58 PM
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I would just choose the two most dramatic women for the slam dunk against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:36 PM
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For island survival? Of course. Sexually? Men aren't sexual creatures at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:34 PM
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It just takes time and shared interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:23 PM
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No, because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:22 PM
2

I would choose u/wtknight. He is intelligent, reasonable, and conscientious. It would be easy to split work with him and any conflicts would likely be easily handled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:21 PM
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She's ugly but young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:44 PM
1

We've never had to test it, so I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:54 PM
1

Both of them are weirdos and assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:52 PM
1

wife > daughter > mom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:47 PM
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Divorce is up there with molestation in effects. I do view parents who divorce on that same level. If you are a monster to your own children, then I literally don't want to be on the same planet as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:44 PM
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It matters because the morals of the situation change. If it's just fate, then I am obligated by my vows to accept it. If not, she will be thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:36 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:58 PM
2

No, everyone in my family reads a ton. It wasn't gendered at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:43 PM
1

Lost half her body in a car accident medical condition or "I'm just not feeling it... fuck off" condition?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:43 PM
2

I am pro-immigration but not in its current incarnation. People don't realize that there is more child and slave labor in the USA than in any other developed country. You think of glossy ads and stories instead of underage prostitutes and eight year olds losing fingers in meat processing plants and women afraid to call the police on their abusive boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:47 PM
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Woman B wins every time because a relationship without sex isn't a relationship anymore. I can learn how to handle her over time and it will just become part of the routine. Woman A would continuously frustrate me until I cheat or end the relationship completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:21 PM
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Helpfulness and duty. I have dated more women because we bonded over cleaning and doing the dishes at an entirely other person's house party than anything else. It's the ultimate green flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:16 PM
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It depends on how severe his autism is and how intelligent he actually is. The best case scenario is that an older man who grew up similarly mentors him, preferably his father if that applies. In any case, you and the father will have to be more observant of him. He will not know why he is excluded and might not even notice it happening or care. You will have to find his social deficiencies and explain strategies for coping with his disability. Avoid ever using the phrase, "Just because." If he …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:07 PM
0

And yet, Arnold Schwarzennager was divorced for banging his maid. Class influences LTRs a lot. It has little, and perhaps even a negative influence, on STRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:47 PM
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Social skills can be learned, even by those with disabilities like autism. Most parents don't raise their children outside of feeding, clothing, and yelling, which is lackluster for normal children and disastrous for neurodivergents. I was fortunate enough to be mentored by an older gentleman in my church who had similar issues and could guide me in ways that make sense to people like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:31 PM
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We both didn't like what we had become and desired what we weren't. Our life goals were in great alignment. We completed the circle of learning the rules, rebelling, and finding out why they are rules. So no, our past isn't traditional in the ideal vision for sure, but we are now very happy and know why. I wish I didn't have to learn things the hard way, but that's just how it is sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:41 PM
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Just FYI, it isn't that taller women are unattractive. Short women are just more attracted to men in general and that attraction is attractive. There are zero average men turning down tall, yet otherwise average, women. It's the other way around. Every 6' woman wants an even taller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:39 PM
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I have always been desirable to women physically but was unable to maintain my early relationships because I had no guidance on how to actually interact with women. I went with the traditional method of being a gentleman, giving her all she asked for, and treating her like a princess. Of course, this blew up in my face over and over. After a few times, I decided to stop bothering with relationships and just started fucking. How long would you go before entering a long term relationship? How many…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:22 PM
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That advice has nothing to do with OKCupid studies or anything like that. Women are far more socially conscious and anxious when compared to men. It is rare for them to be candid on any topic of any perceived consequence. One of those topics is sexual attraction. Listening to a woman's words during approach instead of focusing on body language and actual actions is where a lot of men become frustrated because women's words are usually counter to what they mean. As an example, a woman says, "You …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:33 PM
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It depends on the man and how you define femininity. Most men want a dommy mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:10 PM
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Men would be happier if women judged men on anything other than just looks and social skills. Men would collectively give women a standing ovation if they started judging men based on the morality of their actions. That's just a fantasy though. Women will never care about honor or morality. Those are male abstractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:07 PM
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It's just a salutation. It's short for, "How do you do?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:42 PM
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I'm from Texas, so that's a freebie for me. I'm terrible at foreign languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:15 PM
1

I meet all of those criteria except one and I can guarantee you that she isn't in my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:06 PM
1

I dislike social media. The only stuff I see is the mommy instagram accounts that my wife follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:52 PM
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I see you haven't yet learned the subtle art of entrapping men. I'm thankful everyday that women have so little understanding of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:46 PM
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Isn't that a bit young to be hitting your homemaker advertisement phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:42 PM
1

That means from 25 to 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:30 PM
1

Are you 28±3?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:20 PM
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Women think that male friends are work horses and female friends are emotional tampons. They don't understand friendship at a fundamental level. It's just free stuff for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:18 PM
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You should talk to people you disagree with more. If you do it correctly, you'll figure out that life is complicated and not everything is a good vs evil superhero fantasy movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:40 PM
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There are women who want to punish other women, but they are a tiny, tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:30 PM
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You probably don't know many pro-lifers then. The most adamant ones are other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:16 PM
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No, it's not a test of anything. It's a pretend gotcha that is only funny and invigorating to kooks. Do you actually believe what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:07 PM
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I can't imagine being a man and not knowing how to change a tire, for either sex. It's part of knowing how to drive. I'd feel stupid, not emasculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:52 PM
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I am pro-abortion, not just pro-choice, but stuff like this just makes our side look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:48 PM
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I think it's obvious that I'm not talking about teenagers and college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:45 PM
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If you have been unhappy for five years, then you have something serious. Not only that, but you haven't been able to fix it on your own in that time either. You need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:08 PM
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They should talk to a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:22 PM
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You think anyone works minimum wage shitty jobs because they have other options? They are the economic version of the kids picked last in gym class. You can pretend this isn't true all you like, but that's all it is, pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:38 PM
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I don't hate them, but I would never date them. I don't hate fast food workers, but I'm not going to pretend they are doctors or scientists. They are losers. Hating losers just makes you a loser as well. They are to be pitied and ignored until the next time you need a cheeseburger in a hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:00 PM
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TRP and PUA in general is made for Average Fucking Chumps. That is a guy who gets laid from time to time and has had girlfriends. If you have never been to a party in your life, had a girlfriend, or even talked to a woman outside your family, then you are a loser and have to fix that first. TRP is about going from the middle of the pack to the top. That being said, there are questionable things in game. Some advice is terrible. Some is better suited for some compared to others. We all have agenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:39 PM
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I love how no one in that thread's comments or here noted that no one likes her. If one person doesn't like you, that's life. If everyone except the dude you are banging ignores you, you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:26 PM
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No, my wife is very special. I had all but given up on love until I met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:01 PM
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You should block her number unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:57 PM
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You can get paid to be a misogynist? I have been doing it for free this whole time!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:20 PM
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Women have far less developed visiospatial centers. It's one of the bigger sex differences. You can look into the Piaget water-level test as well. It's bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:24 PM
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You don't miss out on income, training, or experience by going to college... Oh.... bless your heart. I didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:19 PM
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Even if college is free. You miss out on a minimum of four years of income, training, experience, and many other things. TANSTAAFL And that is assuming that a degree is meaningful to everyone. It's not. The radical example is a literal trisomy-21 person. He can't even truly appreciate high school and you want him to go to college? It's not just literal trisomy-21s either. At most, 30% of the population can actually benefit from so much education. The rest are just there to receive another four y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:14 PM
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It's not nonsense. We are overproducing graduates at all levels. That's why enrollment is declining. University has become a religion. You have to go to "better yourself." We "need it for society." The zealots will even push for total enrollment, making university high school 2.0. And somehow at the same time, those same people have unlocked tuition controls, added a student loan business, and jacked up the prices of everything involved. It's disgusting psychopathic baby boomers preying on poor …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:57 PM
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We have too many university students. It has hallowed out a degree's value. It's simple supply and demand. People with "useless" degrees made lots of money and provided tons of value and viewpoints before every position required a specific degree in that exact job. You can thank the baby boomers who turned education into a religious business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:28 PM
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He was slaying before the surgery. It honestly didn't effect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:22 PM
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You should ask the incels about it. I know they have done extensive research into procedures, although I don't know how much of what they know would apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:36 PM
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No one deserves anything. You get what you negotiate. Anyone who thinks differently is no better than a child waiting for his parents to take care of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:12 PM
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A lot of men do and I am one of them. I want a wife who focuses on home life, because I have zero interest in raising mentally traumatized children. I grew up during the transition from SAHMs to double incomes. The double income children were always fucked in the head, sometimes even more than the children of divorces. I view non-traditional mothers the same way I view absent fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:46 PM
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You'll see comments on YouTube videos I will never understand anyone who reads YouTube comments. I would rather read the bots in R/politics during election seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:40 PM
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For me, it was always "fit." Some guys fit with most women. We call those men naturals. They were born with the pretty privilege that makes life boring and easy. There are other men who are able to find their niches and flourish just as much. The perfect preppy guy makes a terrible goth guy. You have to find out who you are, find a niche that closely matches you, and then do your best to be that niche. That is fit. As an example, I had an extremely ugly roommate in the Marine Corps. He was so ug…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:52 PM
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All women have options, so they get to place emphasis on personality, the same as high tier men. This means that men are encouraged to develop more. Most women just coast on the bare minimum, which isn't much at all now because men are desperate and women crashed as a demographic with the baby boomers. To give you examples, mental wellness isn't a bonus for men, it's a requirement. The same goes for conflict resolution. She won't do it, so it always falls to the man. Etc. Etc. For men, the bonus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:28 PM
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That's because it does. If anything, the bar is higher for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 PM
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That is only mildly true if you take the entire world into consideration, and even that is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:47 PM
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Politics doesn't matter. It is an effect, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:46 PM
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Most humans are stupid animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:45 PM
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Then we are at an impasse of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:25 PM
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You are looking at it on its face. Big companies are run by powerful men who think that the Earth is overpopulated. Most of the weird things happening right now are specifically designed to lower birthrates and increase deathrates. You can listen to Bill Gates talk about it openly. He isn't the only one who thinks this way and is in the majority among his peers. The most common term for this ideology is Neo-Malthusian if you want to look it up. As for this concretion, these powerful men want wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:23 PM
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You are taking it too literally. I think women have issues with communication and conflict resolution because they do. They are too anxious and avoidant, in addition to having poor skills in actually facing conflict. Anyone who doesn't know this doesn't know women. You would be surprised by the number of people who enter relationships selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:17 PM
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Of course, some mental illness isn't controllable, but most are at least manageable. I have known many women in relationships and am now married. If someone don't care about their partner, then that someone is the problem. Anyone who can't understand that is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:12 PM
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Men want hot women who have great personalities. Women should care if they want actual relationships with good men and not just strung along over and over. The better the man, the more personality matters. Women wildly overestimate how much emphasis men with actual options place on looks. Can a woman find a man if she is just some fucking deadbeat loser? Of course. That doesn't mean she won't pay a price. She will only keep men who would keep such a woman. The other problem is that women project…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:39 PM
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You need to troll less obviously. You have to walk a line where you say something outrageous but someone might actually believe that you believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:33 PM
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Don't be afraid to introduce pauses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:22 PM
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That's something only someone close to you can answer. If you are looking for general advice, work on your mental health and learn conflict resolution techniques. Those are two keys to long-term relationships for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:20 PM
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Congrats on reading the actual material. A lot of men would be in better shape if they did. If she fucks you two out of the first three dates, then she is obviously very interested. Sometimes the stars just don't align.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:16 PM
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Married, USA Dated less than three years. Married for more than seven. Not since the first child. She now only works during tax seasons to remind herself why she hates work. I have always paid from the very beginning. She gets me nice things from time to time as well as on usual occasions. My wife is my happiness. I am proud of her. We both prefer it this way and talked about our goals in life from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:07 PM
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Just looked it up. It isn't at all. The federal government released a new rule for cross-state insurers to prevent release of records. The Texas AG is suing to have that rule examined in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:15 PM
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There are many tiers of gold-diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:10 PM
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The entirety of modern dating problems is due to policies directed at shoveling money and power to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:02 PM
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It depends on how well it goes with the rest of her look. I prefer a small amount of tasteful jewelry in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:05 PM
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It has nothing to do with the income, only the actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:03 PM
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Forever. You have an odd view of these things. All it takes is probable cause (supplied by a mandated reporter) and a court order.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:02 PM
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Are you telling me that my wife doesn't like it when I cosplay as He-Man to mow the yard???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:41 PM
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How much a woman makes has nothing to do with her gold-digging status. I am pretty sure you know this. Why even make a post like this at all? Is it for attention or do you think you can actually gaslight people this easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:39 PM
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I'm assuming this is over abortion. Doctors have been mandatory reporters for a long time for many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:37 PM
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I think only certain people are worth helping. Most people in poor situations cannot be helped and might even be harmed if they receive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:36 PM
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Does it turn you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:34 PM
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As you gain more experience with women, their halos begin to fade. You see them as they are, pathetic children coddled so hard that they have no sense of reality. The only men who respect women are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:33 PM
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Women are so well treated that they have to make up bullshit to pretend they aren't just passenger princesses in their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:36 PM
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Women are more aware of how insufferable women are than men are. They just lie more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:19 PM
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It's because you aren't a woman. You cannot understand what life is like when the expectations of you are so low while treatment remains high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:17 PM
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Friends are friends. Partners are partners. That's like saying someone is a bad friend because they are sad their mom died.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:59 PM
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They can, but it's not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:58 PM
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That just seems normal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:39 PM
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Lonely is a feeling, not a status. Some people have two friend and don't feel lonely at all. Some people swim through groups of people and feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:38 PM
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I had several ugly friends in the Marines who I know slayed, and I'm not bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:51 PM
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That's an adorable photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:44 PM
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Find people that are looking to be bothered. Hang out in the break area when you see people go. There are zero workplaces where everyone has their nose to the grindstone from start to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:25 PM
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I will never date a woman who has to go to Sea World to get MRI's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:20 PM
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There are women who get passed around for sure, but not in the way you described. Trains happen, but they are super rare outside of very specific high-test communities like gangs, the military, and athletics. The way it happens is that word gets around that certain girls are easy and she'll eventually have sex with an entire friend group until she realizes none of them like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:47 PM
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No, it's just a place to gain authority and access, the same as schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:32 PM
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He's in the right. Everyone should publicly humiliate women who talk about breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:51 PM
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I can't tell if you are trolling or coming off in a wildly different way than you see in your head. 10/10 bait
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:35 PM
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The job search is always a game of statistics. You need to have many irons in the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:01 PM
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Both sexes appreciate thinner partners unless they have a weird fetishes. Anyone who has been both fat and healthy understands just how stark the difference in general treatment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:38 PM
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That's because Feminism is an arm of global capitalism. When you make your way to the top, behind every powerful woman is a man telling her what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:08 PM
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That's funny, because damn near all the high skill jobs are occupied exclusively by men. Women have a lot of social power, not actual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:44 PM
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The Moon Is A Harsh Mistress, by Robert A. Heinlein The Worthing Saga, by Orson Scott Card The Secret Teachings of All Ages, by Manley P. Hall The Bell Curve, by Richard J. Herrnstein and Charles Murray The Underground History of American Education, by John Taylor Gatto
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:55 PM
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Iraq
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:51 PM
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It's a turn on. We tell men to not stick their dick in crazy because it is too good. However, it is a major red flag for long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:50 PM
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It's easier to outsmart them. Most rich people are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:49 PM
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He 100% exists in real life. The most famous historical example is Rasputin. As someone who runs in those circles, you can see it everywhere among the younger ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:47 PM
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Who would choose to be well read when you could be well hung? If you read too much, all the blood goes to the brain and it shrinks your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:39 PM
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I wouldn't immediately kill the relationship, but I wouldn't do it either. I'm not into that and it seems like a dangerous hobby. Since she is my partner, I have a duty to respect and appreciate honesty, especially when it hurts. Sex is something that has to be negotiated, just like everything else. The more honest we are, the better it will go. That will mean facing and giving nos in a considerate manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:13 PM
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No one ever feels brave. It is a recognition given out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:32 PM
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Then what do you think is bravery, if not facing your fears and pushing forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:25 PM
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It's because media is a fake narrative designed to poke and prod the populace in directions beneficial to those who own said media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:16 PM
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They're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:14 PM
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No, but he might say no if you do ask him not to bring her. This is why you need women, to distract your friends' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:14 PM
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It's true. Not all women like it, but there are many that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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Have you ever thought that broadcasting being fake and manipulative is part of that reason? Women are better than men on picking up on details, even if they aren't very bright in general. Just be your best self. Learn. Play. Challenge yourself. Have fun. Be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:31 PM
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Your problem is that you take women seriously. They aren't men. They give zero point zero fucks about what is fair or honorable. You are talking to and thinking about them like they are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:24 PM
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I just walked around and girls became interested in me. It's not that tough bro. Learning how to handle what comes after is the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:22 PM
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To be blunt, TRP is for Average Fucking Chumps, non-attractive, non-ugly, mentally well men. You aren't that guy. You can read TRP for information, but if you try to directly apply the advice, you will have a bad time. You will have to personalize it to your own circumstances. Since you are autistic, you need to start building up a schedule, rigid if possible. You are what you do everyday. Stop trying to crash diet your way to success. It's going to take a long time of improving slightly everyda…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:55 PM
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She got very upset because I was late from work and she thought I was cheating. I couldn't calm her down before the neighbors called the cops. Thankfully, she told the truth while I was handcuffed in the back of their car. It was a new policy to arrest the man in all domestic disputes and release him the next day without charges, but they offered to let me off since I was military as long as I agreed to leave and not come back that weekend. I was smart enough to ask them to escort me through the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:34 PM
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Now I am convinced to watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:22 PM
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I absolutely did. I was young and caught the eye of a BPD woman. It was hell and heaven at the same time. It ended with me in the back of a cop car, deciding I didn't want to ever experience anything like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:21 PM
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People on reddit are weirdos who think they are normal because they have Internet friends, who are also weirdos. Everyone on this platform was bullied as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:57 PM
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I get all my real work during the morning. In the afternoon, I'm just doing meetings and email.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:54 PM
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Australia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:25 PM
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Exactly. I am not represented by anyone who isn't banned from social media anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:00 PM
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This entire post is saying the color red doesn't exist because it can be many frequencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:49 PM
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You wouldn't want that life. She is nothing but a leaf drifting down the river of time waiting for someone to force her to live her own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:48 PM
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They are less whiny and stupid than the feminist ones, but they are men so I have less tolerance for it. It's important that they exist, but I don't want to see them. My favorite social activists are the sovereign citizens and the police auditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:45 PM
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Green Day is now emo??? Am I getting too old?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:01 PM
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They are weird. I love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:00 PM
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Most people spend their lives worrying about scary shit that is unlikely to happen. It's like refusing to swim at the beach because you just watched Shark Week. People who live like that are miserable. You only get one life, so you should live it the best you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:18 PM
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I bet more do than don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:15 PM
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Marrying and loving a woman who shares my goals and aspirations and raising children with thoughtful effort and love. So far, we are doing great! We aren't each others' firsts as we both made mistakes for a while before finding each other, but other than that we essentially fit your description and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:49 PM
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No, I am in agreement with almost all of the original TRP that says exactly what I am saying now. Money can get you women, but you can't buy sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:45 PM
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I will reach for what I want in life. Fuck all the losers who hide from life building their own personal hells. It might blow up, but I'll deal with it then. At least I lived the dream for a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:32 PM
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Because male attractiveness has nothing to do with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:29 PM
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Ogres unite!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:26 PM
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A lot of them have been here for many generations and don't speak Spanish anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:23 PM
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I would too. It's just not reality. Humanity is very similar, but we still have our variations, especially on something as complex and particular as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah, I'm not going to scrape aluminum shavings to sweat less for a period of time and then have homeostasis force the sweat glands to over-activate and return to the desired sweating anyhow, only now addicted to metal poisoning for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:11 PM
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The USA has a very, very different culture from anyone else. We are descendants of the most radical religious groups with sprinklings of economic migration over time. Sex isn't as big of a deal in other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:07 PM
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As long as she is respectful and treats me well, I don't care what she says honestly. Women constantly say things they don't mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:12 PM
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Both the husband and wife are called to leave their families and cling to each other. She is now my wife. She has to come first, even before my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:10 PM
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All of women's power comes from men wanting to sleep with them. It has nothing to do with their physicality or competency outside of the few exceptions that prove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:04 PM
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It's better to date women with the same life vision as you. Everything else is window dressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:53 PM
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It depends on who you are and who you want to be. Do you want to be the aspirational wagie job hopping every three years or do you want to build your life into something that feels good beyond the paper? It's a hard question. Neither life is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:02 PM
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Any woman who asks you to shave anything is a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:00 PM
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My wife and I have an extremely traditional relationship. I work. She is a SAHM. Other than cooking and big cleaning for guests, she does the chores. She also does most of the childcare. It has nothing to do with money or power. It's about children. In case you haven't noticed, society is attacking you from birth, to integrate, to lower yourself, to submit. This used to be okay when society was a bit more orderly and sensible, but it is no longer. My children will have an enormous advantage over…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:27 PM
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We all know what actual polycules look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:45 PM
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My point is everyone has their own situations, strengths and weaknesses, and change radically over the years. I'm serious though. How can you lead a happy and fulfilling life if you are so scared? I think you might have some trauma that you are repressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:25 PM
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The person you believe doesn't exist is my actual grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:02 PM
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No one actually knows until it happens. You are projecting your anxiety towards unknown futures and seeing monsters in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:57 PM
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You don't feel that your comment might have been a bit exaggerated and driven by your own internal anxieties?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:45 PM
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Then why didn't you explore that reasoning with her instead of jumping to, "He doesn't love you and will dump you on the side of the road the moment you are weakest." You should let out your negativity in cesspits like this so you can provide positive energy to those close to you. You aren't helping anyone with that, not even yourself. My initial hunch may have been correct. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist in order to help resolve negativity? It's not a weakness to do so. I have even…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:26 PM
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You should probably not badmouth others' spouses. At best (for you), she will resent him and possibly undermine their relationship. At worst (for you), she will resent you for doing it. It should only be pulled out in dire situations like abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:13 PM
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It's not the only way, but it is a way. I cannot explain the feelings of a parent to a non-parent though. It's something you have to learn for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:58 PM
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I have an old TRP post on personal finance, although it's not beginner stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:48 PM
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That's good. I hope that someday you'll also get to enjoy the blessing of selflessly caring for someone so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:35 PM
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If you have children and this isn't a joke, then you desperately need to see a therapist for yourself and those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:25 PM
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Being in relationships and having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:45 PM
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First, I want to get my career into a place where I can get a remote job Don't do this. You need to spend the first years of your career embedding yourself into the industry, learning its ins and outs, coming into contact with people who can give you advice that can't or won't be said in email. You can live cheaply anywhere. Remote work is fine once you have made it through the gauntlet of initial experience. Before that, you are just shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:43 PM
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Just wait until you change diapers. It's even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:14 PM
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Men aren't like women. There is no brotherhood for strange men. Everyone is weary about strange men. Everyone is attendant to strange women. The tradeoff for this is that men form much closer bonds to the men they know and like compare to women amongst themselves. The less I know a man, the less he is like me, the more weary I am of him. I don't agree with a female-only immigration policy. That's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:14 PM
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Men aren't like women. There is no brotherhood for strange men. Everyone is weary about strange men. Everyone is attendant to strange women. The tradeoff for this is that men form much closer bonds to the men they know and like compare to women amongst themselves. The less I know a man, the less he is like me, the more weary I am of him. I don't agree with a female-only immigration policy. That's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:14 PM
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Not usually, but I lived alone for over a decade. Laundry is the easiest chore ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:01 PM
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My wife and I are 100% way too deep into that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:57 PM
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Then you aren't thinking hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:54 PM
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I used to go to wine bars and hunt down mid-30s women when I was younger. They were easy and wanted to leave at like 11 PM. The only problem was that they wanted you to go in the morning instead of sleeping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah, she's probably looking to bang before the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:52 PM
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I volunteered for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:50 PM
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Someday, my wife and I will be old, with far worse than embarrassing underpants. That is inevitable. How could I even consider the ruination of my own child's life for minor inconvenience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:49 PM
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They are usually medicating, sometimes with actual medicine. Other than that, it usually pretty obvious once you have known them for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:53 PM
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The count of boyfriends doesn't really matter past a certain point. Yes, virginity is the ideal, but that isn't a realistic expectation in this era. What actually matters: Does she have kids? Is her reputation poor? Does she have disease or mental illness from her escapades? I am attractive, so I can demand a no to all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:07 PM
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Nobody who's not hollow cares if you're goodlooking. It's just not true. Even mature, integrated people still care about the base stuff. In addition, you are essentially limiting yourself to virtuous monks. A good example is sales. Even for other salesmen who know what the fuck you are doing to them, bringing donuts and other gifts changes the outcome. Knowing what is being done to your body means the affect is limited, not extinguished. Looks matter. Status matters. Social skills matter. Etc. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:38 PM
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You have to do what's right for you at the end of the day. It's the Internet, so you will of course see the 0.0001% of men who give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:32 PM
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That's probably BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:28 PM
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He would get more, lower quality women. Male models tend to date other models though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:28 PM
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I am probably the biggest "looks don't matter as much as you think" guy here, but this is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:22 PM
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That's just called negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:21 PM
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Appreciate the cheesy. It makes otherwise banal work refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:51 PM
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For every woman who wears baggy clothes because she has anxiety from her chest developing earlier or more than other girls, there is another posting thirst traps on her main social media everyday. Most women fall in between, sometimes wanting attention, sometimes not. Those men do get catcalled. It's also worse for men because there is no recourse when a woman is sexually assaulting you. If she's too drunk or callous to notice her friends laughing at her, she won't stop until the man hurts her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:13 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:41 PM
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You are 19. That means you will be sorted harshly on your resume and then judged for attractiveness and mental wellness in the interview. Everything else is whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:34 PM
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Women are just like men. They orbit men they like too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:31 PM
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You see it all the time in the engineering field.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:30 PM
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Yeah, but women want other women's husbands, not their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:29 PM
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Holy fuck... that has to be photoshop. I refuse to believe anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:28 PM
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She is correct. What you think of as "no makeup" is more likely the "natural" makeup style. The heavier makeup is one of the styles women do for other women, aka all the rest. Let her look how she wants, or if you want to score big points, learn how to compliment her other makeup styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:22 PM
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Oh, I know why they are popular amongst the general population. Most people are pathetic losers who cannot think for themselves and are thrown about on the whims of sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:51 PM
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If you take women, especially on the Internet, seriously, then you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:50 PM
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I feel like it dehumanizes the process. It's probably amazing for flings, but for a real relationship, you really want to know them better than a picture and bio. The few times I dated people who weren't friends of friends, it was a spectacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:28 PM
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Yeah, it really helps to have someone mentor you through the unspoken rules that are constantly changing. It's why help the college students at my church. I focus on the engineering students, helping them with their studies and finding them internships and jobs. It's really easy these days to end up in a corner, not even knowing it until it is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:13 PM
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Why use online dating at all? It's really awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:09 PM
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The first sentence is a reference to being the third party. The kid needs to know he was in the wrong. Yell is probably too strong of a word, but the tone is in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:54 PM
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Neither, they are both trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:45 PM
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I would just yell at the kid to stop being a nuisance and either workout or leave. I wouldn't have thrown the kid's stuff, but I sure as hell would have moved it if I wanted the machine. That kid is going to learn a hard lesson if he doesn't change his ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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Liberal arts degrees used to have higher standards as well. The idea that only STEM is important is rooted in the complete failure of our education system. It is important to our overlords that we are only taught enough to barely work the machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:20 PM
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You go to college to get a degree, not to learn anything useful. The era where college taught to a higher standard ended before anyone here was alive. You have to teach yourself and experience the world for what it actually is outside of books and classrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:12 PM
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If you never take the risk, you will never see the luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:55 PM
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You are correct in that as well. That is essentially what he was saying. He was using ugly men to highlight that the red and blue pills understand that female attraction is multifaceted and looks aren't required. They are just nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:40 PM
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He is correct. TRP says looks are important, but not the entire thing. I have literally known the "ugly guy who has such frame and masculinity, he pulls dozens of girls." He was a roommate of mine who had to have his nose reconstructed after a firework accident and it improved his looks. He pulled more than most men I have met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:32 PM
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A good relationship is the best feeling you can have. A bad one is hell on Earth. On average, it is really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:29 PM
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Hard work doesn't guarantee success but it is an essential ingredient. The only other essential ingredient is a penchant for risk. That's it. Everything else is nice but you don't have to have it. A lot of hard workers hate risk. A lot of risk takers hate hard work. It's rare to have the correct combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:25 PM
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Women will literally warn each other about men wearing the wrong shoe brand instead of dating good men. Women deserve the shit they get because they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:25 PM
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We're going to meet up with a few friends with young kids at the park to let the little monsters wear each other out while the parents sweat in the shade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:22 PM
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Not really. Most women sleep around in an attempt to lock down the next boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:10 PM
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I would hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:47 PM
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It's very common. A lot of women have screwed up attachment. Most of them are smart enough not to say it out loud though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:17 PM
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There was very good reason that the USA wasn't set up as a democracy. People are just too stupid or uneducated to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:16 PM
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Competence (in things women care about or is put in front of them) > > > > Looks FTFY. There aren't gaggles of women following around autistic Silicon Valley millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:14 PM
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I would go out for a pack of cigarettes and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
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That was a diet day for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:11 PM
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Women make much more sense when you realize they have zero respect for words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:58 PM
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I wish my kitchen knife had as much edge as this. I would be chopping happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:55 PM
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Imagine putting down people making an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:54 PM
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That may be, but once the relationship is over you no longer have to worry about "making it work." You can just have fun, either with each other or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:13 PM
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This is awesome. It should be the foundation of cold approach, but that PUA advice is born from a time when sitting at the doctor's office waiting room meant chatting with strangers for an hour. I still go around talking to people everywhere I go. You never know what kind of interesting person you will meet or what nice tidbit you might get from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:11 PM
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You control what you can, accept what you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:40 PM
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That's only if you can't control your own feelings and try to treat her like a girlfriend instead of a cum rag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:38 PM
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Taxing childless people in the face of low birthrates isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:16 PM
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Our only stressors in life are ourselves. You need to focus your attention inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:13 PM
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Toddlers want to do whatever you do. The only thing staged is that he didn't throw a fit when she did it with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:12 PM
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Don't listen to these losers. Accept the request and then text her, "Missing me?" Ex-sex is free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:10 PM
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I had a friend in my group complaining about his awful matches on Tinder one time. A female friend of ours offered to help him with his pictures, bio, and messages. She thought it would be fun. Like every other woman who tries this with men she thinks should have no problems online dating, she was incredibly surprised how awful it is to be the man in dating. She eventually agreed with him that online dating was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:37 PM
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Guys have far less interest in celebrities than gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:25 PM
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I started drinking raw milk because of hippies in California. Tradcons have nothing to do with it. I highly doubt that drinking it is more dangerous than going to Taco Bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:11 AM
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The reason you aren't a millionaire is because your first thought of a millionaire is someone on TikTok instead of a guy who runs a small oil field service company intelligently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:42 PM
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Raw milk is tasty. Being in the sunlight feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:39 PM
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Not every piece at a department store will be good. That doesn't mean you have to slum it up at Good Will looking for the one diamond in the rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:34 PM
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You must not have met many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:33 PM
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This is both right and wrong. Yes, most people who are successful have zero understanding as to why. That being said, you should mostly ignore people who are unsuccessful because they have so little experience and skill that ignoring them is all but required. You want the people in the happy middle. They have problems and eventually overcome them. That's where the gold is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:48 PM
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Is this what a woman trying to post as a man looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:45 PM
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She must be hot if someone hasn't traumatized her out of doing that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:39 PM
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You should never take women seriously. They are overgrown children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:38 PM
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You can go to a tailor and have them adjust the fit of just about anything. Most people just don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:33 PM
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The Pareto principle or "80-20 rule" stating that 80% of outcomes are due to 20% of causes was named in honour of Pareto, but the concepts are distinct, and only Pareto distributions with shape value (α) of log45 ≈ 1.16 precisely reflect it. Empirical observation has shown that this 80-20 distribution fits a wide range of cases, including natural phenomena[5] and human activities. Pareto Distribution (emphasis mine) It doesn't have to be exactly 80/20. It's just a rule of thumb that occurs often…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:42 PM
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It's 20% of the men are having 80% of the sex, not 100%. No one knows the exact distribution either, there hasn't been a study on it, if you even could. We can only extrapolate from the distributions of partner count, which do show Pareto Distributions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 PM
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It's honestly less enthusiastically Trump here than in 2016, let alone 2020. I'm actually uncertain he will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:21 PM
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Good people are typically busy. You should be more busy. You should set up a schedule for weekly date nights that both of you set aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:19 PM
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The Pareto Distribution is probably the hardest aspect of TRP to rebut. Women don't think of it at all and only deny it out of habit. That's why female friends and family members are legitimately surprised when helping the men in their lives (that they like) with online dating can't get any success, even for average and better men. Even outside those women, you can just ask them to go to a Walmart and count how many men they would date versus how many they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:17 PM
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old tiktok People change. People say stupid things all the time, sometimes not even in jest. I want to know who she is today, as a whole person, not a single silly tiktok from years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:48 PM
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I actually do. The only problem is when she doesn't take the L and back off a bit. It's the same with men. It's exciting to see them take their shots. It's shitty when they can't take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:40 PM
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That's because they are normal people. When you move past the talking points, most people have the same opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:38 PM
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I learned the hard way that inheritance brings the nasty out in family watching my parents and their siblings interact in my grandparents' inheritances. I have a lot of money already so I'm not too interested in anything beyond childhood photos, but I already promised to be the executor. In your specific situation, I would just call it contested and throw it into the contested pile to be negotiated at the end. There will likely be other things like it and we can split them up and barter with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:37 PM
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In life and death situations, you will reach for a different part of your humanity, a part that most people like to pretend doesn't exist. There is an entire set of emotions that most modern people never experience in their lives. They can't understand it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:03 PM
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Which is seems more likely to you? You are living in a world completely different from the one everyone else lives in and sees. You have issues seeing and understanding what is happening around you. I know which one I believe. You might as well try to convince me that you are Jane Austin visiting a bigfoot villiage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:43 PM
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This is just another reminder of the truism: You can never make a woman satisfied by giving her what she asks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:39 PM
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Genghis Khan. Women's opinions mean far less than great men's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:38 PM
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This is the opposite of my experience. People tend to reflect the energy you put out. I think you were just being ignored when you were being awful and misinterpreted that as respect. You might want to talk to a therapist about working on social skill since you seem to be unable to read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:35 PM
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Reminder: You aren't attractive because a man wants to rub his sausage on your buns until the clarity reaches him and he leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:30 PM
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Women's views on morality are completely different from men's. Women focus on the person. Men focus on the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:18 PM
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Voting is stupid no matter how you do it. It would also be impossible to enforce that rule without even more overreach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:17 PM
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I'm older and even back then, the girls didn't talk to each other about it for the same reasons you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:53 PM
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It wasn't always the dad and certainly never him confronting the daughter. I grew up in Texas, in a Republican district. I heard about this from other women from the same area later in life too. My wife is from a completely different city in Texas and had the same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:45 PM
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Damn near every girl in my area and age group was on the pill. It was usually the father pushing it behind the scenes because he didn't want to pay for a pregnant daughter. The doctor would happily oblige and prescribe it for "period regulation." My girlfriend's father wouldn't even wait for a boyfriend. He got all of his daughters on it as soon as they started menstruating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:02 PM
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That's true in a sense. I wouldn't call it masculine versus feminine environments. I would call it finite versus infinite games.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:18 PM
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Women's studies is men's studies of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:12 PM
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He's either gay or incredibly weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:10 PM
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They are absolutely pushed into it by every authority figure in their lives. You are the odd one out if neither your parents nor doctors nor others pushed it on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:09 PM
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It's like everything, there is a happy middle that you need to walk. You should walk on eggshells around women. You shouldn't antagonize them into a frenzy. His advice is for the typical married man who believes, "Happy wife, happy life." He double targets meek husbands with the title of his book. With this in mind, it is obvious why he focuses on those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:07 PM
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You can think whatever you like, but pay attention the next time your female friends are discussing someone, especially a woman, doing something wrong. You will notice they care more about the person than the alleged crime. This is how normal woman view the world. Then pay attention to men doing the same thing. They will focus on the actions and situation, barely even mentioning the person. Men and women view the world completely differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:28 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:22 PM
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You are projecting a male viewpoint onto women. They don't care about consistent frames of morality and philosophy. They don't care about fair rules for honorable competition. They live purely by the laws of the jungle and say whatever they think will manipulate you into doing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:18 PM
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Yes, most people do not have opinions and certainly don't argue them in front of me. I treasure the few people who do as close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:00 PM
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That's the typical poor matchup these days, gangly man dragging his hideous girl around like he isn't embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:42 PM
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There is no planet on which that woman is a 6. I wouldn't even have tagged her as a woman if seen randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:40 PM
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A fish can't tell you whether or not Bigfoot exists either...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:38 PM
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My rule is that only people who can tell me the differences between Roman manus and concubinus marriage get to use the word patriarchy without me laughing at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
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Getting to less than 15% bodyfat will change your life. The only way to do that is to fix the way you eat, lift, and sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:31 PM
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No, that sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:29 PM
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Of course that is the case. It's not as marked for men as it is for women, but it is still true. Everyone knows a friend who married a man or woman who liked to party and "grew out of it" but didn't really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:24 PM
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Yes, but with different reasons, desires, approaches, and drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:53 PM
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Men and women are only called the same species because we have other examples of sexual dimorphism in other animals. We are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:20 PM
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They aren't literal princesses either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:19 PM
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You are making the classic mistake of reversing causation in a correlation. Loneliness and suffering led to TRP, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:53 PM
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Join local events through Meetup that match your interests and start talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:51 PM
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It will happen eventually, but the process will be slow. Younger women are discovering that casual dating and sex are unrewarding from their older relatives and acquaintances, but they aren't ready yet for the realities of switch their mindset from SMV to RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:50 PM
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You need to read actual TRP. Money never makes you sexy, but I digress. Once you sleep with enough women, you lose most of the "women are wonderful" effect. You will learn that most women are losers, just like men, especially when compared to the men they want to fuck. That being said, after a few years, most will see that women aren't shitty men. Then those men can appreciate the yin and yang of humanity. It's a natural progression. First, you treat women like princesses, then whores, and final…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:41 PM
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Good luck. Most women will never accept trad dating until women start publicly shaming other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:34 PM
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No one is mad at women for being anxious. They should be. They are tired of the unending list of ways men must bend over backwards in public for women to still never feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:33 PM
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Women don't want their problems fixed and are especially insulted that anyone would say they are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:31 PM
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I have everything I need so gifts are just annoying things you feel bad for throwing out. Events with friends are great times and memories. There is no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:30 PM
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You need more friends so you have the confidence to distance toxic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:29 PM
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You should form your perspective from many different viewpoints in order to find a truer synthesis. If you don't, it is very easy to get stuck in your own head. We have a tendency to surround ourselves with agreeable things, and if we don't seek disagreement, then being ignorant is the default. Specifically regarding TRP, it has nothing to do with women. It is by men, for men. Making yourself the perfect plate is not in your best interest. Settling down early isn't TRP. That is tradcon. Tradcon …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:48 PM
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That's a part of it for everyone, but never the primary reason. Most women who don't want children live in overcrowded areas and their instincts for preventing overpopulation kick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:29 PM
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You have never had someone who approached you who did dumb shit on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:49 PM
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I can't stand not working, and I was looking to be rich. If I wanted to, I could have either worked hard a quarter of the year or taken an easy part time job to maintain that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:48 PM
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Those same men would fumble if you approached them. It's okay to just say, "I don't have to approach, so I don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:18 PM
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How so? I can sus out women who are morons when I approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:12 PM
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That can happen whether or not you wait for men to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:46 PM
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Doing farm work is a lot of work, but you don't have to farm. You can just by a low cost property, put down a cheap home, and just pay your taxes and minimal living expenses. I did this after going bankrupt. I bought a plot of land and lived in a tent while I stockpiled industrial equipment I was fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:45 PM
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Every time someone mentions "rightwing states," they are actually just being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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when a dude really has it made, a woman can't really help or hurt his image This is so wildly untrue that I actually laughed. Men are constantly judged for their partners. I will say that behavior is far and away more important though. This is why the higher up you go in society, the more important marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:58 PM
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If you are going to the woods, you don't need to be rich. You can save up for a few years, buy a property outright, and live comfortably doing minimal work. The only reason to be rich is to live the rich lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:53 PM
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Yup, for women it's about finding a man who is serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:50 PM
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Especially if traveling alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:49 PM
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That still leaves centrists and liberals. He's only excluding maybe 30% of women, probably less in his area if that's his bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:45 PM
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More men have autism, so the vast majority of severe cases are male. That's how bell curves work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:43 PM
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Yup, people like that are always toxic, whether abusive or just anti-social.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:38 PM
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I would dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:38 PM
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That's what we do, almost to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:33 PM
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Women know that their fertility drops precipitously, especially if they don't have children. They also know that their sexual and relationship value drop with it. Because of this, they are obsessed with finding "men have issues too" points surrounding fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:27 PM
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You haven't actually read TRP. If you had, you would know that the core argument of the subreddit is that resources are now handed to women in such an amount that the beta strategy (resources) is working less and less, so the only strategy left is alpha (sexy).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:28 PM
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he didn’t care if his wife fucked someone else because she would return to him… Because he was having sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:55 PM
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How hard could it be to spell Maleineal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:46 PM
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He just has open relationships. You would be surprised how many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:02 PM
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I would teach him how to get women. It's not hard, but it does take skill and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:00 PM
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Casual sex is addicting, but it burns you out like every other drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:59 PM
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Old people don't type like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:54 PM
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There are some good ones like Destiny, but yeah, most of them are the cringiest soyboys you will ever see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:53 PM
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The standards for sex and relationships are different. A lot of men will fuck women they would never introduce to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:51 PM
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No, they just insult you for not being a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:12 PM
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People pretend nothing is wrong on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:06 PM
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Women want commitment without being committed, while also hating men that try too hard. They are basically drugged up messes raised by psychopaths into the modern art masterpiece known as the modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:21 PM
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Every guy I know who shouts and comments, "Hell yeah! I love titties! Fuck breast cancer!," has no problem getting women. Women friendzone the boring, serious guys, not the fun, boisterous guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:15 PM
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Most employers and employees lie to attract people. This really ramped up once both had the opportunity use the Internet to widen their search. This is why it is incredibly important to use industry networking to find good matches, and most importantly, avoid the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:09 PM
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Companies are just legal documents. They don't have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:09 PM
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We are all so coked up on short-term pleasure that it makes it hard to push through the struggle for satisfaction. Many people don't even know what satisfaction is anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:33 PM
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Everything outside of fucking and leaving is betabuxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:08 PM
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Your dad had you at 10? That's impressive, but maybe not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:05 PM
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I honestly do not know. As old as I am, I wasn't alive when you could even somewhat call things normal. People hide the ugly details of their lives and history and science avoid digging into them. I can only assert that they could be much better, not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:12 PM
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There are several factors: Testosterone has dropped for both sexes. - This is the primary sex drive hormone. Women who transition to men become insanely horny and have standards comparable to men. Hormonal birth control fucks with women's attraction. - There are many studies about the different effects of birth control on female attraction. None of them that I know of have specifically found a tie between HBC and sex drive, but I wouldn't be surprised. Denser living is known to cause female anim…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:26 PM
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TRP says that sex is unevenly distributed, not relationships. Those are two very different things. Even when 90% of people married, cheating, swinging, and dead bedrooms occurred. It's only visible to everyone today because the women don't even bother pretending to be reasonable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:13 PM
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It's even more prevalent in the gay community.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:10 PM
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Fame is its own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:55 PM
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That's not love. Women see abusive relationships as a sexual kink. That's why there is always more demand for abusive men than there is supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:27 PM
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So even in your own wild head canon, women authors write men doing all the risk and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:26 PM
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You say that, but even the typical fantasies reveal the truth. The male fantasy is slaying the dragon just to get a chance for love. The female fantasy is being preyed upon by some monster who is only kind to her. Even in their own fantasies, women can neither love nor be anything but an object for consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:11 PM
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For sure, that happens all the time. That doesn't change what I said. Men can love women. Women can't love men. It's just not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:57 PM
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Love is true, but women can only (maybe) love their children. They don't love men. Men love women and their children. Women can only feel lust for a short time, usually until they have successfully domesticated their men. After that, they can only be fueled by admiration and social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:40 PM
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Relationships are good. You don't want to become old and left behind by life. That is very, very lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:22 PM
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You should decide what kind of man you want, become the women he would want, and hang out where he does. OLD is a waste of time if you aren't just looking for random sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:46 PM
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Women are less prone to this problem. They always spout random three page lists of requirements, but they just get dickmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:25 PM
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They hated her, because she spoke the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:21 PM
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The parent commenter is also a woman, and women have bad taste in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:19 PM
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Mommy gfs don't exist. Those are women trying to bait pay-pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:17 PM
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It is the destiny of all subreddits to turn into mushy, false images of their original glory. You can thank the admins for that. Even this subreddit, where the mods walk the line as hard as possible, cannot stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:16 PM
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You are looking for a woman that is your other half, not an identical copy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:14 PM
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It is. It's not hard for men to get it. It's hard for women to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:06 PM
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I agree with you here, but the mental aspect is interest, not the situation or pretending to be someone else to avoid feeling ashamed. Sexual interest is the number one turn on for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:19 PM
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No, I agree with you in that regard. I was adding the point that there isn't a standard. If every single man met military standards, women would just raise the bar again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:16 PM
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Maybe? I have never seen it that way. To me, I find female sexuality to be highly mental, and roleplay is something fun that helps them in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:25 PM
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Two thirds of young people are obese now, so just meeting the military standards puts you near the top now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:24 PM
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I think roleplay is mostly a female kink. For me, I don't care. I would play along. Her being excited makes me excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:07 PM
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This is just how the Anglosphere is. In the USA, we regularly make rape victims pay child support, even if the offender was convicted and put in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:03 PM
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It's not logic. It's how they feel. Women are highly emotionally and socially driven. They don't understand or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:01 PM
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It was my experience from the military that convinced me that women desire top men and not some objective set of physical criteria. A lot of military bases are in small cities, and their standards shoot up commiserate with the percentage of young, fit men. This is despite the fact that the men in these bases knew of this fact and most would drive hours away from the base on weekends for easier pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:12 PM
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Women can be stupid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:05 PM
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I do love potato salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:48 PM
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I would end the engagement over a woman even suggesting $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:46 PM
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Low carb is too extreme for most people. A low sugar/alcohol diet is a better choice unless you are doing serious bulk and cut cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:44 PM
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Imagine burning your downpayment on a house to a god you don't believe in, just so you can get drunk and feel pretty for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:29 PM
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I see it all the time. It has happened to my friends and family. You don't even have to gender the question either. Men make bad decisions all the time too. "Don't stick your dick in crazy," wouldn't be a popular saying if men didn't love doing it. Men get fewer choices, but it is rare for them to have none. The criteria for a good partner is almost universal: Trustworthy - First and foremost, if you cannot trust them, then all of their other traits and evaluations are meaningless. Interested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:26 PM
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I am amazed by the atheists who spend so much money on a meaningless (to them) Christian ceremony. Traditional weddings are almost free to church goers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
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It's probably the same cost to have the maid do all the cleaning. He put in the effort of explaining what not to do just to send his gal pal a message. She is too stupid and ungrateful to understand that message, so she will likely be dumped in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:35 PM
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It's certainly one if you didn't ask for it, but it's not a strong one. I would look at it as an invitation to flirt harder and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:24 PM
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He's doing it to make a statement. She is on her last leg and will likely be dumped whenever the apartment lease comes up for renewal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:23 PM
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I am always amazed by the amount of bullshit some men put up with to not even have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:22 PM
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The steps to casual sex are: Be hot. Have game. Go to places where women go when they are looking for sex. Honesty has nothing to do with it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:19 PM
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One of my early girlfriends had a meltdown because she thought I was cheating on her. I was not. Her screaming and throwing escalated to the point where the neighbors called the police. I was cuffed and put in the back of a cop car. They got our stories separately, and thankfully, she told the truth. The cop said he was supposed to put me in jail for the night and released without charges, but he offered to let me leave since he didn't want me to get in trouble with the military. I asked if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:05 PM
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They probably use Tinder now, so I would imagine it's harder to see, just like your female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:37 PM
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Fucking and dating are two different things, and above average men fuck a lot of ugly chicks every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:32 PM
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Most men don't get an awesome women. Most women don't get awesome men. It is possible for anyone to get a partner, just not a good one. I would say that the number one problem that stands in the way of incels is the intersection of want and will. Men want to be loved as they are, but women don't like that. Women will only tolerate it in hot men. Most men have to adopt a new personality at some point in order to succeed in dating in this climate, and they aren't willing to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:08 PM
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It's not any different than the ocean of mothers who quit breastfeeding when it becomes uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:57 PM
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Conflict is impossible to avoid forever, especially in LTRs. The secret sauce is learning how to manage it like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:44 PM
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That's my point. Men love that conflict, and are driven towards it. Women are the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:37 PM
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There are attractive women who aren't my type. I wouldn't call them average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:35 PM
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No, school is designed to make you into a great early 20th century factory worker, obedient and barely smart enough to work the machines. You can read more on the history of public education by reading John Taylor Gatto.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:20 PM
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It usually goes to either work, hobbies, or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:17 PM
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You are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:13 PM
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What? This is the opposite of true. Fats satiate you and processed food is notorious for being empty, low-fat, high-sugar calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:12 PM
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It's not your manners. It's your anxiety that makes you avoid conflict even when it isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:11 PM
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I thought dating was fun, but that when only losers were using online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:10 PM
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Everyone takes credit for their wins and blames others for their losses. It is only rare exceptional people who can rise above this human tendency. The difference between men and women in this regard is that everyone has a tendency to coddle women and chastise men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:16 PM
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The uglier you are, the harder you have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:12 PM
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That lifestyle still exists, just not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:04 PM
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Women cannot understand the problems of men, and that is a good thing. They would hate us more for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:02 PM
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No, women are hyper-agency but for different things. Men and women judge by radically different criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:01 PM
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I agree, but you have to realize that shoe goes on the other gender as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:59 PM
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That guy is beating up the same dead strawman that has never been the point. He's just proving to anyone who has actually read TRP that he is a fucking moron arrogantly showing his ass, expecting everyone to call it pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:55 PM
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The Federal Reserve creates money by loaning it. The US Government borrows a portion of that to create/stimulate aggregate demand. I also disagree with the quote though. If nothing else, the state provides the service of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:54 PM
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I wonder how much you can sell that card for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:36 PM
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It's rare for men or women to be logical. You also do not have to be logical to move towards a goal. Ant colonies perform tons of feats and exhibit rich, complex behavior, all without anything approaching something a person would call logical reasoning. Women are immoral, not illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:22 PM
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The only people who actually care about politics are people looking to swindle everyone else. Most people don't want to deal with it because the swindlers intentionally make it as painful and impenetrable as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:09 PM
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The true litmus test of a red blooded American is whether or not he has a project car that doesn't run, especially in his front yard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:07 PM
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I have a few outlines. I enjoy the worldbuilding and planning. I have never put in the actual work of turning them into real books though. I will do it at some point for the experience, but I don't know if I will enjoy it when it turns into work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:02 PM
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No, they are getting cards with money already put on them. I think it is something like $5k. It's enough that they interviewed a migrant who was crossing every few weeks for income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:59 PM
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I said, "my way or the cry way," because you said: it will take more work if the guy likes to be crude and aggressive This sounds a whole lot like: she will blame her bad actions on the man It's like the saying, "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best." It may be true, but only really deranged women say it. As for me, I have dated entitled women before. I to this day try to make my partner happy, although I am far less sacrificial than I used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:54 PM
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No, sensitivity has to do with mirror neurons in emotional pathways. It's an inborn characteristic. A person's response to that is emotional regulation, or maturity as you say. I have never felt other people's emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:08 PM
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You have never dated an overly sensitive person before. It's annoying. A little bit is nice, and even adds spice to the relationship. it will take more work if the guy likes to be crude and aggressive AKA "my way or the cry way" When you aren't as sensitive, you don't feel everyone around you. You can just have your own emotions. People don't have the same amount of emotions. Non-sensitive people aren't bottling it all up. There's just less to express.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:43 PM
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Not necessarily, but most likely. It's some combination of looks, personality, and situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:27 PM
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It is valued up to a point. It is annoying if you have to spend all your time, effort, and emotionality picking up the pieces of a hot mess constantly. Women have to walk the line of being sensitive and caring without going so far that they are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:12 PM
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Pay for bots into a ring of co-engaging accounts. Use follow-back strategies. Engage with popular hashtags and tweets. It's a lot of work unless you are doing it for business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:06 PM
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The female incel equivalent is a woman who can't get or maintain a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:04 PM
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I have quite a bit of cash waiting for the coming credit crunch to buy some real estate and maybe some industrial equipment. I am also currently negotiating angel investment in a local manufacturing startup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:01 PM
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Pregnancy delays menopause. Menopause has many detrimental health effects. There are also whispers of the long-term effects of hormonal birth control, which would not be taken for a time. The Handmaid's Tale is softcore BDSM porn written by crazed women. It has zero connection to reality, neither historical nor current.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:51 PM
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I would rather be the hot one, since women don't have honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:29 PM
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Childhood and adult friendship are completely different. The secret sauce to adult friendship is regular, scheduled activities. Anything random requires wooing and herding people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:27 PM
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We don't allow the selling of organs because poor people would become organ farms and lower the standard of living. In surrogacy, there is no damage to the uterus. If anything, pregnancy is beneficial for women's long-term health. We aren't depriving these women of the opportunity to have their own children, since most women aren't having children anyhow. I just don't see a rich woman paying a poor woman for surrogacy as exploitative at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:22 PM
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Abortion is a lot easier to understand as a morally thorny issue since it involves killing. No one is intentionally killing anyone in surrogacy. There is no physical damage done outside of accidents. At best you could claim emotional damage to the woman or developmental damage to the child. I do agree that we regulate labor, but we should have a high bar for sweeping regulations. I don't think there are any uncompensated externalities here. The only person not consenting is the child, and the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:53 PM
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I don't understand. If you are so conservative and humble, why aren't you married with kids yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:55 PM
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You are equating what people say with what they think. That's often not the case with men and almost never with women. You should treat their sentences like the buttons rats in cages push for more food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:50 PM
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Expecting women to be punished equally, especially for a sex crime, is just fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:46 PM
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I pay men to do back breaking labor all the time. Our society is built upon men who die because their job is dangerous, or if they are lucky, they will retire in their 60s barely able to move. If paying them for work isn't immoral then neither is surrogacy. As for pregnancy farms, it isn't the surrogacy that is the problem. It is the human trafficking that is the problem. The same goes for third world factories. The questions of slavery have to be brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:43 PM
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It's worth reading because it is inciteful to see how much women do not understand men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:35 PM
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A good book on this is Self-Made Man by Norah Vincent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:10 PM
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It's just a way of helping couples who have problems with fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:37 PM
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surrogacy is morally thorny. How in the world is surrogacy morally thorny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:24 PM
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I am always amazed by the people who call literal tv and movie stars ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:21 PM
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No, women use covert contracts to bait men into giving them things for free. Nice guys are the victims. Women hate them because they hate pathetic men. Men just feel bad for them and feel sympathetic embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:44 PM
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No, TRP says looks and behavior matter. Incls say that only looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:11 PM
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Maybe not at an overt level, but they instinctively have it in relationships they care about. They are just so used to receiving for free that it makes them feel entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:52 PM
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Normal people exchange niceties constantly under the assumption that there is reciprocity. This is the basis for all relationships, sexual or not. When reciprocity drops, so does the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:50 PM
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The last time I cried was for my grandfather's funeral a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:31 PM
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Neither, but if you held a gun to my head, then I would pick Hayley.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:46 PM
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This ignores reciprocity and covert contracts. It's the kindergartener's understanding of social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:44 PM
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I do change my words, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:42 PM
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I was only giving advice because I read her comment and thought she was sincere and trying to see it from both viewpoints. I appreciate that. It had nothing to do with her stance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:34 PM
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I just recognize that there is a large difference between how the world is and how I wish it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:06 PM
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No, I lean towards the autistic side that believes that words should have unambiguous, stable definitions. Unfortunately, that makes me the weirdo. Normal people adopt, revise, and throw away words all the time. It's human nature, and fighting against it is like driving a bulldozer into the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:27 PM
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Women are children, so you don't have to say it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:47 PM
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In my heart, I feel like I initiate the flirting outside of the instances where women come charging in looking to club me and drag me back to their caves. That may just be my male point of view not seeing the subtle ways women are making me do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:09 PM
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I think feminist is wrong, but you are touching on a truth. A lot of TRP is teaching men to date like women do. If I'm not getting what I want, I leave. I'm going to put a lot of effort into my presentation. I'm going to use social manipulation to get what I want. Andrew Tate is a grifter. Most MGTOW are losers. You should read r/theredpill 's sidebar to get more context for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:58 PM
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Okay, I was looking at the comment you responded to. I can see your other point now. I agree being flirty is good, although I don't think it is super necessary in the beginning and more the man's job to initiate anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:49 PM
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This is just reality. All words come with baggage. I thought she was making a good effort to get her point across, unlike most people in her position, so I wanted to help. It's not just men either. Feminism has been dragged so thoroughly through the mud that most women don't like it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:41 PM
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It is a common saying pulled from The Bible in Matthew 7:6. EDIT: It seems you are just baiting me into more comments to downvote. Have a great day reinforcing stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:34 PM
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I was trying to be nice, but it appears I'm just throwing pearls before swine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:16 PM
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Never, I can appreciate women but I would never want to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:12 PM
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You are correct in that DNA is being collected insidiously, but you should worry more about health insurance companies than the government in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:11 PM
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I am glad you are trying to get you point across evenhandedly, but I have to warn you that Feminism(TM) has so poisoned its own well that using their buzzwords will hurt your ability to communicate your opinions. Additionally, your points are too many and too small. You should focus on one point at a time while setting out a concise summery with supporting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:09 PM
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This is a tough one. On one hand, you are saving a ton of money and time. On the other, food is so central to human life and happiness that it would remove more than just the calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:35 PM
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and socialize While it is better to go outside than it is to stay at home, you do need to interact with people. Even if women have it easier in dating, it is very self-defeating to just sit in the corner watching everyone while anxiously staring at your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:33 PM
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Picture the man you want to be with. Then think about where he hangs out and what he would want in a woman. Become that woman. Hang out in those places. It really is that simple. If you are a good woman and socialize, men will line up to date you. Your main problem is making sure those men are good and committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:18 PM
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Autism and BPD arise from abnormalities that look more like dyslexia and aphasia than just an overreach of masculinization of feminization in the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:17 PM
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TRP is for humans which are highly unique in the sexual relations in so many ways that we can only make slight comparisons to other species. TRP said from the beginning that alpha/beta has nothing to do with their biology definitions and are inherited from PUA, where TRP came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:10 PM
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I both agree and disagree. I agree in the sense that the average man is more "autistic" than the average woman, and the same goes in the other direction for "BPD." I disagree because the actual ailments are usually due to other factors. The only one that can maybe be attributed to hormones instead of brain defects is the emotional enhancement and swinging experienced by men who take estrogen to transition. Women who take testosterone do not become more autistic, only really horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:00 PM
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Are you asking about literal 10/10s? That's not how you originally phrased it. I have known one though. He was a CK underwear model married to a 10/10 wife. They were so attractive that no one hit on them and just wanted to be near them and look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:23 PM
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Yes, I have a large frame. I am a 6 or 7 to most women, but there is a minority of women who think I am a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:12 PM
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Picture the man you want to be with. Then think about where he hangs out and what he would want in a woman. Become that woman. Hang out in those places. Push sex back to the 5th date at the very least. Escalate the commitment from the man in this order: Meet the friends (one month) Dating exclusively (two months) "I love you" (six months) Meet the family (one year) Engagement (two years) Marriage (three years) Any time you push for an escalation and he refuses, you dump him and find a new boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:08 PM
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It depends on the animal. Birds are the most like humans in mating and are very picky visually for the males. Our closest relatives, the chimpanzees, are not picky at all. Males will fight each other during a female's estrus to mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:51 PM
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I had forgotten how good Lindsey Lohan used to look. I can't believe that was 20 years ago. I feel so old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:34 PM
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I only read technical magazines. I don't know what that even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:28 PM
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You would be surprised how many women think defined abs looks good on women and not uncanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:25 PM
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I am 6'3". I don't know what my face is on the incel scale. I look like a smaller version of Hafþór Björnsson. I met my wife at a friend's house party.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:22 PM
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Most of the men on PPD are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:14 PM
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Women are only happy because we are so rich that we shower them with money and opportunity solely for existing. In less rich countries, they are far less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:13 PM
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I'm married. When I was single and hanging out in single places, it was normal for women to come over and ask me to take them home. I still have women hitting on me despite the ring. I never did OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:11 PM
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The best way is to look visually and compare it to representations. That's what actually matters. Be aware that as a woman, your view of what looks best on women is different from men. Outside of fetishists, men do not like defined abs on women. The ideal range for men is 10 to 15 percent. The ideal range for women is 15 to 22 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:07 PM
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I believe that all able-bodied incels are voluntarily celibate. You are either in the wrong country or your standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:26 PM
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I'm there for my bro, so I'll tolerate his hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:25 PM
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You might want to try an esoteric(magic/mystic) group. They like to read old literature and are slightly more male dominated. You could find a lot of men appreciative of art in a place that isn't a clam fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:29 PM
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That's sad. You should always support your partner's interests, even if you aren't into them. You should look for different guys. Perhaps you could find ones that would be supportive at a poetry or reading club? You should stay away from musicians. They are nutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:04 PM
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They might have a keen nose for SMV, but RMV is a completely different story. A lot of women have RMV problems that put them into the fuck/forever-girlfriend zone. The SMP and RMP are also way, way different and can have very different values for the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:00 PM
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That's actually a really good reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:41 PM
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It's still a bad idea unless you are really good at dating. Waiting for men to show interest is a good initial filter for avoiding the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:40 PM
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Now I have to know why you are saying "corny music (analogy)." Is analogy a genre of music? Are you saying that corny music is an analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:26 PM
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I guarantee you have an orbiter who already does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:59 PM
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They know that said high value guy likely isn’t going to take an interest in then in any way besides the sexual Maybe some, but I have a lot of female friends and this is not the norm. Most women, especially young, fall for the idea that because a man fucks her or even calls her a girlfriend that he loves her. They don't learn the importance of commitment until their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 PM
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Then become someone they would like to spend it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:51 PM
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Life is ugly and uncomfortable. That's why we always speak in indirections and euphemisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:50 PM
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I would tell them to either marry or they can both leave forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:48 PM
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The problem is that 6'5" rich men marry hot 6' rich women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:43 PM
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My main advice is that your maturity and the man's personality are the most important parts of real relationships. You have already thrown away an entire decade into the void and you have roughly 5 years left to find the man you want to have a family with. That's plenty of time, but you have to be serious. You have to ramp up the commitment faster and dump when they don't step up to the next level with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:40 PM
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You need friends. There are tons of single women desperate to be treated well every Valentine's Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:31 PM
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It is illegal to negotiate any aspect of marriage outside of inconsequential details. I would like those restrictions removed. The number and character of the interested parties is only a small aspect of the invasion into private life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:09 PM
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As if women's groups don't spend 99% of their time talking about men...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:02 PM
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It looks like you are trying to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:00 PM
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Everyone would lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:58 PM
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That would have ruined the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:55 PM
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I would only legalize it under the conditions that all marriages are legalized. We have too many restrictions on something the government really has no business in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:51 PM
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You say that as if most men have the ability to stop abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:36 PM
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It depends on who you are and what you want to do. For normal people, they matter a lot until you get some work experience. Then they don't matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:32 PM
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I'm sure there are studies with finely tuned definitions of complacency that blame men for everything and even stretch to connect it to cheating, but this is something any man with a large friend group and age understands. It is rare for the men who know the man to be surprised when he cheats, even when we are disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:00 PM
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That does happen, but it is a small minority compared to the other two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:46 PM
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If your friend group doesn't respect your relationship status, you need a different friend group. Just his mere presence does work, and when it does become physical it is far more life threatening than sex, which is a mutually beneficial activity anyhow. You are young so single isn't strange. As you age, the negative stigma of singleness continues to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:29 PM
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Except that men provide non-financial things as well. Having a boyfriend means being annoyed by fewer men. It means feeling safer. It brings with it social status. It means having a handyman. The list goes on and on for both sexes. I am a man who doesn't believe in 50/50, but it's because I expect more from my partners as well. You have to be an actual princess to get princess treatment, and most women do not have that capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:09 PM
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Men have a disposition for it or not. Most cheating falls into two categories: Woman marries man who cheats on her and all his exes. She is "surprised" that he continues cheating on her. Woman decides sex is over and stops all affection, even nonsexual ones. Man feels unloved and finds another woman who loves him. As long as the woman doesn't marry the known cheater and continues having sex, the likelihood of her getting cheated on is super low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:04 PM
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That's just a normal haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:55 PM
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It has its ups and downs. I wouldn't recommend it as a career because I think 99% of police work is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:17 PM
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Drag a friend into it so they can torture you properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:26 PM
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I speak the same way I write. It can be offputting to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:23 PM
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You miss every shot you don't take. Women are anxiety-laden creatures. You should be bold in moving forward and then moving on if she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:47 PM
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Jury duty has never been popular. Work is less forgiving than ever. Feelings of civil responsibility are low and dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:20 PM
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Very, very common. Women like the idea of being with other women, not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:16 PM
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Profiles have nothing to do with the overall shittiness of OLD, even if it is a problem in the small.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:01 PM
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I think it gives them a larger pool of men while simultaneously advertising their sexuality to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:00 PM
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Men are just... men to me. I can objectively point out the differences and attributes, but none of them are attractive or unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:58 PM
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Why are women obsessed with finding generous men if they're not having kids yet? Isn't it weird wanting your boyfriend to be your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:55 PM
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She would be lucky if I didn't press charges against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:53 PM
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No, I grew up before that was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:48 PM
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Except instead of letting bureaucrats start a war because talks threatened their funding, we could have made Russia a great ally against the ascending China. Now Russia has no option except to ally with China. Now China gets to spread its political and economic influence with little to no resistance. Instead, we are spending unauditable sums of money not smashing Russia. You will understand what I am saying in a few years once the propaganda stops on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:46 PM
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It's not protest, but indifference and despair. All relationships need a carrot and stick to work, even abstract ones like our relationships with society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:38 PM
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From what I have seen, they just move in with an older relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:31 PM
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You don't understand Russia's interests in the region if you don't think they have exactly what they wanted. It is a part of their plan, even if they don't like it. They know they are fighting a war of political attrition against the US. Every day that the Ukraine doesn't take back the region emboldens other countries to politically favor the BRICS alliance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:28 PM
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A stalemate that everyone knew Russia wanted... We really need to draft men into mandatory service so they can understand how the military actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:18 PM
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That is just the final action and mostly symbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:04 PM
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You only think that because we are still moving forward by momentum and all of our neighbors are doing the same actions. The signs are already here. The US Army is now completely downsized to its post-WW2 minimum because they can't recruit. We are being pulled into many conflicts around the world as countries buck against US hegemony smelling our weakness. Labor participation continues to drop. Texas is now defying USSC court orders and telling the federal government to do something about it. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:03 PM
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People think you need to storm the Bastille, but all that really has to happen is for people to stop playing the game. If enough people stop playing, the game ceases to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:52 PM
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It's because society no longer offers a fulfilling life in return for normal work, so men are beginning to rebel against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:43 PM
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To me, love is action. We have mistaken lust for love. Love is sacrificial in its nature. Lust is a form of selfishness. I also believe that men love women, women love children. And in the opposing direction, children respect their parents, women respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:28 PM
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VTubers make me feel like an old man. I cannot even fathom why anyone would want to watch a cartoon play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:45 PM
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It's normal for women to ignore most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:40 PM
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That woman is making fun of another woman who had a gym incident that went viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:13 PM
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in the US the average white non hispanic male is 5'9 No, he is not. That is the total average US height. The average height for non-hispanic white men is 5'10" in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:10 PM
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It's the cycle of all social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:05 PM
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The best way is to buy a two year old phone and activate it under a new plan while transferring your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:01 PM
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This isn't the W you think it is. Yes, women always fare better than men. That is axiomatic. It's not men or women that lose the gender war. It's everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:59 PM
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No one gets what they deserve. That's not how life works. You get what you negotiate. I have known girls like this and they unfortunately tend to fall into the trap of throwing everything at the attractive boys at church, getting their hearts broken when sex didn't mean love, and possibly even keeping the baby and marrying another guy who jumps on the opportunity to victimize them. On the other hand, they sometimes luck out and end up living the lives you thought weren't possible anymore. I am j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:15 PM
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There are plenty of attractive men who aren't smug assholes. It's not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:04 PM
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That guy reeks of smug asshole. It's hard to listen to him speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:52 PM
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Yes, but I don't call myself a feminist. They don't believe in equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:06 PM
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You are very, very wrong. I have personal experience watching my sister turn down a top graduate student in a PhD program with a six figure job already lined up to date a man whose not-so-previous girlfriend fled the county with their child for safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:28 PM
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My loser sister married a Henry for a while. That was an eye opening experience for me to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:25 PM
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That article is designed to infuriate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:35 PM
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A good BJJ or wrestling guy wipes the floor with pure strikers in 1v1. We have already done that experiments with millions of dollars in stakes. I do agree that striking is more important for self-defense because 1v1s don't always stay that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:47 PM
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It still has the same connotation. They are just young women trying to be cool girls who just want to be fun and non-committal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:43 PM
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I would debate the idea that it is low quality, but that is because I have a very different view of what quality means, especially from typical women. The only reason I am able to afford my lifestyle with a SAHM is I was very lucky in many ways and make far more than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:24 PM
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While both parents work, the wife will work less. She will take a job that allows reduced hours. This is why a lot of them were teachers and why a lot of teachers left the profession after schools bumped their paperwork and hours. The other option is that the wife will take a break from her career for her children's younger years and go back to work afterwords. The real problem is that young people are so destitute these days and still refuse to lower their standards from their boomer parents. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:18 PM
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Most of the time it's fine. But when it goes poorly, it becomes a nightmare where there are only wrong options. The only social boundaries for women are enforced by other women. As an example, a woman in my friend group who really wanted to be with me, despite my longtime girlfriend, got really drunk one party and kept groping me and asking why I can't get with her. I tried to laugh and play it off, nicely turn her down, and eventually yelled for her to stop. Everyone was just laughing at me unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:43 PM
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China is the shining bastion of why communism doesn't work. They regularly kill large swaths of their population while trying to do "the right thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:31 PM
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It's the only way forwards. Otherwise, we risk regressing back to traditional norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:21 PM
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You don't have to emulate the radicals you see on the Internet. Believe it or not, most people aren't extremists, and I certainly won't allow them to define what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:04 PM
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I am a milquetoast, center leftist, and comments like that are exactly why I don't care about politics anymore. The extremists run everything while the normal people watch in horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:57 PM
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Most women cannot or do not want to take care of themselves alone. Independent women are fantasy literature from bitter female intellectuals. Women don't like sex apps and for for good reason. Serious dating apps like eharmony are 50/50 men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:54 PM
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You are sorely mistaken. My wife seriously believes that giving women the ability to vote was a huge mistake. I am the leftist in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:48 PM
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The only time men have fun during dating is sex. Everything else is the painful work necessary for that reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:45 PM
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I'm not, but I do know a few single people who are fine. Most of them are divorced men who have zero interest in going through something like that again. I also know plenty of people in relationships who are trainwrecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:43 PM
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I'm not, but I do know a few single people who are fine. Most of them are divorced men who have zero interest in going through something like that again. I also know plenty of people in relationships who are trainwrecks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:43 PM
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The problem is that by the time women feel like marrying, the men don't want them enough. By making men and women equal, we can bring men back to the table willingly. As the top men marry top women, it will create a zipper effect where the lower men and women become more likely to marry as a result. With the natural exit of the SMP fixed and LTR incentives restored, the SMP will right itself again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:39 PM
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Politics is most a teenager and 20s thing. Once you spend enough time in the real world, you realize it doesn't matter that much and won't change because of you anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:42 PM
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We agree to disagree on them. It usually doesn't come up because we are old enough to have moved beyond politics now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:19 PM
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They were specifically designed to make things unfair in order to protect poor, helpless women. They are neither poor nor helpless now, so they have to go. No one cares about women's trust in men. Men aren't the problem. Women and the laws surrounding them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:18 PM
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I married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:00 PM
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Marital property, VAW policy, child custody preference and support, EEOC, Title IX, etc, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:57 PM
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Misogyny will never hold you back from sex. Being ugly and pathetic will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:41 PM
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We don't need to roll back their rights. I think that's unproductive. We just need to remove all of their legal privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:04 PM
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It's certainly not only, but if you think HVM do not discount loose women, then you are sorely mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:02 PM
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Many lawyers do work on percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:59 PM
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You are assigning malice where there is none. You are disparaging men for being bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:53 PM
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And if it were a true single unit, the husband's sexual needs would be the wife's. You only want to keep the old ways of marriage that are beneficial to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:47 PM
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It isn't. People who are married become one unit. You gals tell us to pick better women but then do everything to reflect that good women aren't out there. A woman who doesn't offer constant sex isn't a good woman. If she doesn't want to be free use, she should either not get married or marry someone she wants to submit to. It's mind boggling how women don't believe in this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:35 PM
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I take notes when it's important and leave the rest to my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:07 PM
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Most men don't care about how clothing looks. Feel is far more important. We also become attached to clothes we have for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:06 PM
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Remembering disparate personal trivia is a female strength. It would like me being upset at my wife for not being able to beat me in a wrestling match.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:00 PM
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Demanding free reign of someone's income is like demanding a "free use" partner. Some people are into that, but it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:57 PM
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Good luck with that. I hear a new sucker is born everyday, so you might even get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:36 PM
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If you want a rich man you need to be either: hot enough to be a model that gets paid to go to parties, born rich as well, or lucky enough to snag a guy on his way up. Your better bet is to go for professionals who are in low demand by women. Engineers and programmers are easy prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:44 PM
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I definitely think he should be covering her during her vulnerable time with the child, but your idea is just as crazy. If you marry someone who is making 4X+ your income, expecting them to just hand you half to do whatever you want is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:36 PM
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Barbie is the male version of Barbie. Ken is literally the protagonist. Barbie is the Watson to Ken's Sherlock Holmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:38 PM
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All kinds, mostly on holidays. Outside of business, I don't care what I wear, so I let her have free reign.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:02 PM
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You laugh, but I know a guy who did that. He nutted and threw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:36 PM
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I am already in a matching outfits couple. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:35 PM
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That is pain that no one deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:32 PM
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It used to be more fun. There were less commercials. Men were more likely to be involved in sports in general. It was a great way to bond with other men. It has lost a lot of prestige in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:30 PM
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This is why IRL social groups are so important. If you aren't using OLD to just fuck stupid women, then you are using it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:27 PM
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Every teenager feels like this. That's why teenage communists are such a meme. Over time, you will realize that the communities and rituals are valuable and meaningful whether or not there is a deity overseeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:24 PM
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It's a different love I think. You really love your children, but taking care of them is painful. Grandparents get to have fun and leave. It's less close, but more positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:22 PM
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emotionally distant manipulator
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:19 PM
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There are many younger people so antisocial and anxious that even talking to them at all in public is an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:25 PM
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It's the opposite. Women are so distant or mean to men these days that even normal kindness is mistaken as interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:30 PM
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Quite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:28 PM
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Normal isn't actually normal. It's an ideal that we all chase. We all want to be perfect adults, but we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:54 PM
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Or they are looking to cheat in their relationship... They see married men as unlikely to tell or ask her to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:03 PM
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It stops some women and turbocharges others. Enterprising single guys will wear wedding rings just to get women easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:56 PM
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As if knowing a man is married stops those women...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:52 PM
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This is how I felt for a long time. Most women are trashy. I was prepared to be single forever until I met my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:46 PM
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Pussy is actually the same for all women. There's little functional difference between them. What separates the gf from the fwb is everything else. It's a balance of looks and personality. I don't want to be embarrassed to be seen with her in pubic, and I want her to be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:23 PM
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That can, but it is seen as poor taste. The rich marry amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:17 PM
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No, they are women who have more to offer and therefore demand more from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:56 PM
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I know many of both. It's just that women have no sense of what a man finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:29 PM
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Women who do the fwb thing are usually lower value women. The only reason you tolerate them is that they turn themselves into fleshlights for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:26 PM
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Women are constantly looking for things to get. It's their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:17 PM
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Among the rich, it's usually even. Among the professionals, the woman is better looking. Among the poor, the man is better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:16 PM
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I don't understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:46 PM
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Potentially, yes. If you can get both to fully understand and work hard to put the relationship first, then miracles can and do happen. They are just very rare. Most people are selfish and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:45 PM
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I believe that humans are a mixture of animal and divine, at least some.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:40 PM
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hello
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:40 PM
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Roid rage is a thing. Roid rape is not. Men aren't as empathetic as women due to brain differences in gray versus white matter. Women are better at recognizing emotion and associating disparate patterns. Men do not have to be raised not to rape. That's fantasy. Actual rapists have other things going wrong in their heads. Normal men do not have rape tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:56 PM
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It feels like walking around Walmart. You are both intrigued and disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:50 PM
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Their boyfriend rate is under 2% and 80% of their dates don't call them back. Women's issues with dating are different from men's, but if you change "can't get sex" to "can't get boyfriend," they are quite similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:49 PM
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If testosterone were the primary driver of rape, then all bodybuilders would be rapists. They aren't. More so, women do rape. Rape isn't just testosterone. Most men do not have to "temper" a rape instinct. I have never once felt even an inkling of desire to do that and I am definitely not low T. I have never heard my male friends speak about such a desire either. Rapists are a tiny portion of men who likely have mental issues. The male dominance in this field has more to do with the larger male …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:46 PM
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It's more similar than you think. They aren't the same problems but similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:38 PM
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Tinder works just too well for women This isn't true. Women hate dating apps at least as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:32 PM
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You get a front row seat to how stupid and absurd the government actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:31 PM
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The friends are justified in leaving because friendship is shared time at its core. The creators are justified in feeling bad because loneliness hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:09 PM
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The vast majority of rape in the UK is performed by migrants from cultures where it is expected to rape women in public without male escort. That is why it is on the rise there. The rest is done by the native sickos, which unfortunately exist everywhere. It is mostly a male phenomenon because women have easier access to sex and are more likely to be accepted and well treated by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:06 PM
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The algorithms reward consistent, daily content. This requires a lot of work, especially for people starting out by themselves. You work a lot and take no vacation, even for weekends. You will very quickly lose touch with all friends you had before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:52 PM
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Online content creators live lives of solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:43 PM
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Young people today can't imagine how different life was just a few decades ago. It has more to do with technology and government policy than women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:41 PM
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It's just the female version of, "If I can't get a girlfriend, then I will become the girlfriend."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:38 PM
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There are only two nonnegotiable aspects to a relationship: What does it mean to be husband and wife? What does it mean to be father and mother? Everything else is petty bullshit where you pick your favorite out of the group that fits the actual criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:16 PM
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The purpose of dating is to slowly leak who you actually are to each other. Turning your first date into an impromptu therapy session is just antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:20 PM
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More than people think but less than people hope. Just wanting to change does help if you focus on one or two things at a time. Habits will eventually reform. You just can't wake up one morning perfect. It takes years and decades to change the person you spent years and decades becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:12 PM
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Most left over time. The few that are still here mostly comment in the Daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:56 PM
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Unfortunately, the line is fuzzy and depends on many factors. You should let your partner be your guide on it. As for maintaining attraction, when you are looking, you are showing off yourself and your availability. In a relationship, you can use more than your looks to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:02 PM
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That would be an embarrassment. It would seem like she's still looking around despite being in a relationship with me. You can look good without looking like a hussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:52 PM
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You can't even imagine what it would be like to be hurt on such a primal level by the person you loved and trusted the most in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:58 PM
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If the mother is letting that slip, she was thinking about leaving with the kid anyhow. The only question is whether or not you want to reward the mother for her behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:52 PM
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No, high tier women can get the long-term interest of high tier men. It's the (slightly above) average ones who spend their life getting pumped and dumped if they never learn. A woman who gets no attention from men is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:49 PM
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That is Enlightenment fantasy bullshit slop fed to rubes to give psychopathic utopians free reign to raise children into a homogeneous blob. Communal responsibility looks more like a nun hitting your child with a paddle or ruler than whatever you are picturing anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:45 PM
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To me, the measure of a society's freedom is the legal and cultural environments ability to foster and tolerate free people. A free person is someone who has, understands, and exercises his natural rights. Natural rights are basically things you can do without physically harming someone, except in self-defense or mutual consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:42 PM
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I don't consider amenities to be freedom, even if I do support them. I do agree that European societies enjoy better public safety and trust, which does impact de facto freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:22 PM
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Name one way your country is more free than the USA. I am actually curious. The work culture depends on the company, but few will be better than European ones. Europe has stronger labor rights and more homogeneous societies. The main problem is how difficult and expensive the USA is to live in now with a decent standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:57 PM
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Men prefer the "no makeup" makeup style. When they are younger, they don't know that it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:44 PM
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If it were 50 years ago, then I would say that the US is a great place to move to. It isn't anymore. Any extra money you make would go towards having the same living standard you have in Europe. You should only come here if you want freedom or you are from a third world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:41 PM
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Absolutely not, and it isn't even close. Women's in-group bias is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:00 PM
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The better way to put it is that men have less fault and more responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:41 PM
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Nice. I love oatmeal raisin cookies. They are my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:18 PM
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Women have actual choices and choose who they want. Most men do not have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:15 PM
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I don't think anyone should be removed from the marketplace, but I also have no problem with people voting with their feet and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:51 PM
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Women don't talk about it with each other, just the dude they are banging. Half the time they are just trying to make the Chad jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:28 PM
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I am thankful for what Disney did to Star Wars. It jarred me out of my previous position that large corporations are driven by profit motive. Any idiot could have milked that franchise for tens of billions of easy dollars just turning the better books into movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:22 PM
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Hell, most of the people on the Epstein list won't be released. There's a reason they refused to actually prosecute him for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:41 PM
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I would in a heartbeat. It's our duty to kill undomesticated dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:39 PM
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People forget that the Dixie Chicks were unilaterally removed from public life for criticizing the Iraq War.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:37 PM
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According to The Abuser Handbook, you need to love bomb her before pulling back to induce anxiety, or it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:35 PM
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Most of your life is determined by a mixture of your genetics, epigenetics, and how you were raised for the first seven years of your life. Very few people are capable of moving this center of gravity in their lives, even if they want to. The fact that this woman is a fat activist means that the hand she is dealt is worse than most. The likelihood of her figuring out what's wrong before her health takes her is essentially zero. All she can do is cope with her miserable frenemies until she gracel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:33 PM
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You just get nicer athletic clothes and get them fit. The specific brands and styles you want depend on the activity, but fit is always the most important. If you don't know what you want, then just go to active places and copy guys you think look fashionable. Having a female friend helps here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:44 PM
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That's good. Do a lot of research before thinking about steroids if you do. A small amount can help you, but it's hard to stick with that small amount mentally. I don't think it is worth the tradeoff personally. There are only two factors in fashion: the scene or look you are trying to communicate and making sure the clothes fit by using a tailor. Everything beyond this is masturbatory money spending. Skincare is mostly diet and washing your clothes and bed sheets. If you are looking for a fun s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:05 PM
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Neither. Trump and Putin are both just avatars for the people and the position in the social cycle. You should also capitalize World Peace completely if you are going to reference it as the proper noun for the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:46 PM
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Women are better at emotional perception. Men are better at emotional regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:38 PM
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You should spend half on physical improvement and half on social activities. Both will help you if you stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:35 PM
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That's a myth. Most married people pay more in taxes than they would single. The marriage tax break ended before anyone here was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:24 AM
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FDS is already bringing it back for the traditional reason. Dick ain't shit and women should demand more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:39 PM
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The United States was founded by all the biggest religious fanatics of Europe. We come to it naturally. We are already seeing a return to it as young women are discovering that casual sex sucks. The purity (ring) culture of 90's Christian groups was wild. The entire 90's Christian culture was wild to be honest. They really branched out from traditional teachings during that time, embracing a focus on young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:03 PM
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According to the literature, you want to have at least five positive interactions for each negative and less than eleven. That is the Goldilock's Zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:24 PM
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That's not how it works at all. BB is telling the responsible beta orbiter that he's the father. It's fucking her neighbor. Extreme examples like what you are saying are rare, even if not as rare as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:20 PM
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Women's standards are almost entirely malleable. Their high current standards are artificial and temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:17 PM
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Humans desperately want someone to promise regularity and security, even if it is false. That is the primary compensation companies offer employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:13 PM
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The only advice I got growing up was to not be lazy and go to college. Men aren't as toxic as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:39 PM
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No, we have distorted views of ourselves. It takes an intelligent, helpful, and honest second person to really help people. I have never heard of anyone changing for the better because they read a self-help book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:27 PM
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Good therapy is hard to find but priceless. Unfortunately, you have to wade through a sea of quacks whose only goals in life are to ruin the lives of as many people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:49 PM
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You can thank insurance companies and government regulators for forcing consolidation and overbooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:46 PM
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That's a recipe for disaster. You are either going to work for someone else making menial wages in a place like NYC or Chicago, or you are going to blow your life savings. At least with a degree, you can compete for the real trading jobs. Your best best bet for non-degree work is to get into a trade or learn industrial repair or programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:11 PM
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It's the opposite. Women are the weak points in relationships right now, so it's easy for them to get bored and ruin the lives of everyone they (no longer) care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:48 PM
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When I started, it was strange for men to cook, but I see more and more men picking up on the skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:46 PM
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Interviewing and hiring is essentially a roulette spin. You just keep spinning until your number comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:42 PM
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Salaries adjust for the location. The guy who makes $100k in SF would only make $60k in Boise. You shouldn't live in SF unless you make $200k+ or are actually on the career path for it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:05 AM
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Never date boring people. They will suck the life out of you while calling you a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:59 AM
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I personally like women who are chubby but not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:56 AM
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You could make one up if you want, but it would be homomorphous to a normal math system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:46 AM
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A lot of women lie to themselves and others about their dating status. That 19% is a minimum, not the actual number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:45 AM
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They don't feel like they are avatars of sexual selection because that sounds mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:44 AM
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Their math is wrong but yours is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:42 AM
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They aren't optimal, but they are far less destructive statistically than single mothers. They are also rare and don't transmit single-fatherhood to their children, so they are less disease-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:30 PM
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Single mothers are a blight to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:19 PM
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She's only going to put out less with a ring. Get out of there before you break you and the kid's heart. She has zero interest in being a reciprocal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:01 PM
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I don't think she is evil. I think she feels trapped in a warped culture where if she doesn't do this to him, another woman will. I think she is stupid because playing games like this is a waste of time. She should focus on men who actually like her for more than her hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:04 PM
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I would bet five bucks that she had feelings the whole time and that this was the plan. It's also not the catching of feelings but being a FWB that's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:50 PM
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No, it's just horny men and normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:33 PM
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He's not a good person, but she is an idiot. I have zero sympathy for the people who force my lawnmower to have a giant sticker saying, "Don't put your hand in this spinning blade."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:31 PM
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It stands for, "I don't want to call her an afterthought at 2 AM when I struck out at the bar."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:27 PM
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I am dreading the day when my oldest breaks down from not having a smartphone. I don't know what to do about it. I am still trying to figure out whether partial social isolation or internet access is worse for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:13 PM
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It's probably for the same reason he is here, to watch the circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:11 PM
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We didn't have the Internet, so we were miles from anything looking like the truth before our 30s or 40s, if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:45 AM
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I had "girlfriends" going back to kindergarten and my mom was relieved to find a playboy in my room. Moms are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:42 AM
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You should go to r/theredpill and read the sidebar. The other guys are grifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:31 PM
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TRP says that money has nothing to do with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:11 PM
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The replication crisis includes theoretical physics. There are no women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:08 PM
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Judaism is matrilineal in a way, even to this day, in that ethnic inclusion is based on the mother. However, I am using it in its more narrow family structure form where the father isn't considered a part of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:52 PM
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There are three family setups that exist among humans: nuclear, patriarchal, and matrilineal. Nuclear families are identified by a man and woman both leaving their families and starting a new one. Patriarchal families are multi-generational and share property to combat other families led by an elder, nearly always male. Matrilineal families are centered on mothers and men only exist as children, brothers, and temporary lovers. All three family structures exist at all times in all societies. Usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:26 PM
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I would rather just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:56 PM
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It's about life compatibility. Men have an idea of what they want in their heads most of their lives and try to get women like that. Those traits aren't always commonalities, but usually have some through seeking familiarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:56 PM
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Yes and no. It's not what they are consciously doing. A lot of women chase men who aren't interested in them for a decade or more, wake up from their stupidity, panic, and pick the best on paper guys near them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:54 PM
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Exempting the prosperity churches, the reward is spiritual and in the afterlife. You could argue that the first is part of the world, but it is a long stretch from there to Just World theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:41 PM
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I just can't believe that TRP is the first place where you heard that men prefer younger women. That being said, most men aren't as concerned with virginity as the incels here make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:20 PM
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Before anything else, being a good person is its own reward. I don't like hurting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:59 PM
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There are reasons to float cash. When you have enough money, even your checking account carries interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:55 PM
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Christianity is the opposite of Just World. It directly calls the world fallen and corrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:51 PM
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Cleanliness is next to godliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:47 PM
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Those fantasies are meant to disturb you. I grew up in a community that practices women staying home even today. There are problems in that community, as there are in every community, but none of them stem from women staying home. The Handmaid's Tale is written like typical softcore feminist porn written by women who talk about how awful it would be to be completely dominated like that and then giggle to their other friend's about how hot that situation would be. A society like that has never ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:02 PM
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If I was a widower and my wife raised my son for 10 out of 12 years, I would push for it as well. Deserve doesn't exist. Only negotiation exists. Taking care of each other's children is a traditional aspect of marriage. You can argue against that, but that hardly makes you a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:44 PM
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How the bills being split depends on life goals. Are we just fucking? Are we serious? Whose career is going to take priority? Etc. The problems only occur when the alignment isn't correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:39 PM
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Marrying a woman means taking care of her children too. This man has raised the boy for 10 out his 12 years of life. The man says that he feels the boy is like a nephew, but if my sister and her husband died, I wouldn't hesitate to adopt my nephew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:53 PM
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Educated women aren't intimidating. It's their personalities that are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:32 PM
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I just can't stand how slow "new" reddit is. The page is shifting elements around constantly. The old version is snappy and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:31 PM
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having aligned life goals > everything Bills are only a shallow aspect of a deep problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:29 PM
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You need to reschedule that class if you aren't already waking at 6 AM anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:27 PM
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You're married to her and the boy's father is dead. I understand his feelings but he has to think about the boy's life and feelings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:25 PM
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Correct, but this effect will pronounce itself in homosexual groups in ways different from just comparing two hetero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:21 PM
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They skew towards their gender's tendencies, but there will typically be one that leans heavier towards masc and the other fem, especially internally to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:13 PM
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It's easy. Just have the men stop working and the women stop having children. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:00 PM
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Even gay and lesbian relationships tend to involve a masc and fem partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:51 PM
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You say that as if most men vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:48 PM
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Age changes a lot of things. It's easier to be single young than old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:39 PM
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Most people choose poor relationships over loneliness, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:30 PM
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I find it to be that only autists are capable of finding meaning outside of that. Advertising targets the average buyer and that's what sells to the average buyer. Only autists are capable of being more excited about trains than tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:28 PM
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There are no countries you would want to live in where this is the case. That's why they are all imploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:26 PM
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This isn't true in a lot of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:25 PM
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I love it. I randomly get letters offering $5k for depositing $100k. It's easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:24 PM
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Single women over 40 are broken and broken people are easy to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:22 PM
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It's usually the girl looking for it in my experience. The men are then happy to oblige. A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:19 PM
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Most men love women that initiate sex, plan dates, take charge of the relationship, and the like. Those women are just rare and hit well above their looks. Being in charge sucks and is therefore usually the man's job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:15 PM
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Most men want dominant women. They are just extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:17 PM
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I generally don't care about gifts at all. I just want to hang out with people I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:14 PM
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Far-right conspiracy theories are just as old and popular as the far-left ones. They are both gaining popularity as people atomize, flounder, and generally distrust society. This has been slowly growing since the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:12 PM
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That tiny sliver of history is a fifth of US history and a larger percentage of post-industrial history. The household metric is also skewed. It counts a broke grandson living in his grandmother's house, which is an increasing population as we speak. The real solution to the housing crisis is to force banks and corporations to auction off their inventories of single family homes. You would be astonished at that number. It's not just tech companies I want to break up. It's all large companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:16 PM
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In the USA, the police are considered a revenue agency for their jurisdictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:25 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:13 PM
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Almost all children grow up to earn more real income than their parents and experience rising incomes within their own lifetimes. I'm done with it right here. They aren't accounting for inflation in a realistic way, despite throwing the same allegation at the government. It costs far more to get a middle class job through college. It costs far more to start your wealth building through home purchase. You are more likely to get thrown into poverty due to either medical bills or divorce. I don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:10 PM
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Messy house, messy mind. Jordan Peterson is extremely correct in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:59 PM
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Here's the gini coefficient data for the USA. Feel free to shoot me your information accounting for welfare. We haven't evolved into lazy creatures in a few generations. It doesn't work that way. Problems have occurred in our culture and law to create this. I also don't believe in ridiculous redistribution. I think if we managed the laws and economy better, then we wouldn't even need any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:38 AM
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I don't want poly people to go to jail. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:42 PM
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Unless they are professionally trained, all women lose any serious conflict with men. With serious training and talent, this gap can be closed with untrained men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:39 PM
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It's getting slowly more fucked for everyone, not just Gen Z. The USA is in the middle of demoting from a first world country to a second world one. Eventually we won't have a middle class anymore. There will only be rich people living in compounds and poor people scrambling to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:58 PM
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Are you looking for exercise or actual self defense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:49 PM
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you mean if I don't perform correctly my wifey duties he's going to cheat? duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:47 PM
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In my experience, women don't get stressed over housework unless company is coming over. Toddlers, however, stress the hell out mothers just existing, especially in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:42 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:40 PM
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Alternative is 99% garbage, true, but mainstream is 100% garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:47 PM
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I hate ride or die women. I already have a sister who stabs her boyfriends to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:29 PM
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Women are more into the feelings of the situation than the visuals and most porn isn't good at creating that yet. Women instead like fan fiction and erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:28 PM
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It's my experience that the ages of 2 to 4 annihilate mother's nervous systems, especially for the first. The big thing is breaks. I make sure to give my wife a no-kid break in the evenings to unwind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:27 PM
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Just remember that your kids will trauma bond too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:17 PM
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The main hurdle to intersex friendship is that most women make terrible friends even if you ignore the sexual component.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:16 PM
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I was three-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:14 PM
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This. The modern economy runs on women's anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:13 PM
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No, once I internalized that woman weren't broken men, I stopped being disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:35 AM
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I just skimmed the paper and marriage status isn't included in the results. Most of the paper is on the father and mother's age and ethnicity. I don't think marriage status was available in the original dataset. If it was, they probably would have mentioned it, even if only to remark on it being unpredictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:48 AM
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This is remarkably untrue. The most successful man I have ever known viewed women as animals without souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:31 PM
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Most women aren't assertive like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:30 PM
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It's very possible that you read that situation too negatively too quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:28 PM
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I don't think so. Men and women are looking for completely different things in each other. While a chatbot is going to appeal to one aspect of what women want in a boyfriend, it can't give most of the other things. It's also the easiest thing for women to get. Any woman young enough to even consider a chatbot boyfriend will be young enough to know that infinite attention and drama is available online through the video games they play. That being said, women are far, far, far more likely to form …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:35 PM
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That's average. Most people get with someone from high school or college where they are artificially sorted by age. When we are talking about single people in their 30s, we aren't talking about those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:34 PM
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No, but pretending that 35 year old men don't get 27 year old women all the time is just ignoring reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:27 PM
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They aren't evil. They're just stupid. You have a limited time to find a good relationship. It's not easy to do, and it only gets harder the longer you wait to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:36 PM
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You could make shrimp alfredo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:33 PM
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I stand by my assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:32 PM
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It's written like male fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:59 PM
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I stopped counting when I hit 100, so I just put that. I don't know what my actual number is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
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Most people have no philosophical underpinnings to their belief systems, well adjusted or not. Incels just have to deal with COINTELPRO directly. The FBI turned the Eye of Sauron upon the incel community a few years back. They know for the same reason that communist protestors know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:10 AM
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Wife/Husband goggles don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:47 PM
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See what I mean? You just can't understand how differently men and women see physical attractiveness. Every man understands what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah, I just never take it out on the women. I take it out on the man who was stupid enough to bring her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:00 PM
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There are zero hot 50 year old women. There are no ugly 20 year old women. Age isn't everything, but it's the primary factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:41 PM
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Psychological Operations (PSYOP) are military units with MOSes, units, and budgets. They are the descendants of Propaganda, which became a naughty word after WW2. What many people call psyops are actually Counter Intelligence Programs (COINTELPRO) which dates back to the beginnings of the FBI for suppressing unapproved ideologies in the USA. All of these things are public and confirmed by reputable sources, including the government organizations themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:31 PM
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None, we each have our own hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:22 PM
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Women's love is admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:21 PM
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Because it's not men's main criteria. Youth is men's main criteria. Looks are just a way to sort women of the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:20 PM
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She has been through more cock than a hen house. Either way, she is hot and trying to impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:27 PM
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Women tend to act poorly privately in relationships without the social pressure and group ethics. She feels intimidated by your experience and feels like she has to show that she isn't completely inexperienced. She doesn't understand she's being a dick. If you are just looking to fuck, then you should view it as a shit test and either ignore it or amplify it by talking about your exes. If you are looking for something more, then you should use this as an opportunity to examine her communication …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:23 PM
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Girls mainly outperform boys at school because of the radical grading rework in the 90s. If we went back to testing alone, the gap would be small.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:35 PM
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You brush at night to keep your teeth and in the morning to keep your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:33 PM
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Marriage itself is bad for men right now. Unfortunately, if you want to have children and give them the greatest advantage possible, then marriage is a requirement. It is the entry fee to the game right now. Housewives are an extension of this logic. A housewife gives even more advantage to your marriage and children. You pay a great cost for this. Each man has to decide what he wants and how much he is willing to sacrifice for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:01 PM
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opposite coasts LDRs rarely last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:34 PM
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If you are looking to buy an already-built home perhaps, but if you get a home built, there is a layer of trust there. Money and time have to be invested on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:02 PM
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I trust the home builder to build a nice house. I still buy an inspector because people make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:52 PM
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If I'm going to use a surrogate, then I might as well not marry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:24 PM
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It implies that women are either stupid or lying manipulators. You can choose which.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 PM
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Every group of humans has their own flavor of crazy and mean. You just have to find ones you can like or tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:50 PM
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This is what I do too. I turn the autism to maximum until the interrogation stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:46 PM
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Communism is pro-gun (in theory).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:45 PM
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Crazy women fuck better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:41 PM
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I don't think there are any under-50 Journey fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:40 PM
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Most men are wired for monogamy, the same as women. We are just both bad at getting it in this environment. A lot of early TRP was young, traditional men being disappointed in the women around them and the way the courts were adjudicating divorce. They came to the conclusion that during The Misandry Bubble, the only reasonable action was to play women and never commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:54 AM
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Women who are naturally masculine do well. Women who try to ape their contorted view of masculinity do poorly. No matter how, men who act feminine do very, very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:22 PM
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No, it's just a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:17 PM
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Sexual power comes from who dedicates more time to raising children. This is biological law. For mammals, that means females. In other species, the males have power when they hatch the eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:15 PM
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All women express these behaviors to one degree or another. Go have your "sanest" female friend rate strangers in public on a simple 1-to-5 scale. Her cumulative ratings will look like the OKCupid study despite the fact that ugly people avoid going outside. TRP may "target" BPD women for short-term relationships because they are the most willing, but don't forget why men look for TRP in the first place. Men come to TRP because the overall male experience of men with women drives them there. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:11 PM
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Young is hot for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:57 PM
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Equivalence isn't sameness. They are gendered story archetypes and therefore will have different stories to impart. A man's life isn't a woman's life and vice versa. Each needs and wants different things. I said they are equivalent because they are each gender's "how to be sexually successful" story. I agree with the second point. I agree somewhat with the third point. I think if you combine it with the second, then I fully agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:29 AM
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Ugly women get more sexual attention than all but the most attractive men. You can't even debate it anymore with the numbers put out there on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:11 AM
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Beauty and the Beast is just the female equivalent of Man Saves Princess and Live Happily Ever After. Finding Beast sexy isn't surprising either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:04 AM
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Women are blind rating other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:59 AM
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Most women are boring and functional, just like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:58 AM
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They moderate the big, default subs. Whenever they hijack other subs, they kill them. The actually decent portion of reddit is small, focused subs moderated by halfway normal people for that interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:57 AM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:33 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:17 PM
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Just enjoy it. They will just be jealous of how good you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:06 PM
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Because girls are nice. As someone with sisters, a wife, and daughters, I can confirm that it's the other girls who are meanest to them, especially about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:44 AM
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It varies a lot from child to child. Some are early. Some are late, just like with most childhood development. There's also accidents that happen even after potty training is mostly done. If you can't handle that, then you shouldn't work with small children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:41 AM
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Women spend their whole lives lying to everyone around them. You are the one in the wrong expecting anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:41 AM
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I guess we should get rid of police and government since humans are beings of perfect morality and predictability now. Doing anything else would just be an insult to humanity's perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
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They already do these things. The reality is that UMC women who earn real money love to either take a several year break with their kids or leave their fields altogether. One of my good friends is a managing partner at a mid-sized law firm who laments this constantly. He is constantly losing his good female employees to this right as they start making him a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:09 PM
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Men can't breastfeed. That's just not sexism's fault unless you want to call Mother Nature sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:52 PM
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It's things like industry, job, personality, and time-in-position. Tell me which of those is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:52 PM
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The gap exists as avg woman vs avg man but goes away when you control for non-sexist factors. This is why I said the sexist pay gap theory is debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:41 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:40 PM
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It's not entirely caused by birthing children, but that is the largest factor. Unknown causes, where sexism would reside with other unmeasurable things, is tiny. I don't remember the exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:22 PM
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Of course his rationale is bunk as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:19 PM
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I have talked to several in my work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:17 PM
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The primary cause of the job-adjusted gap is children. If you think women having children is sexism, then we live on two different planets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:13 PM
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Yes, but the theory that it is caused by sexism has been debunked for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
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Women are hit with far more poisonous propaganda than men. Who hurts more waiting until 30 to actually date, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:01 PM
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Feminism was a reaction to black men voting, Marxism, and scientific managerialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:00 PM
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No, feminism is just an arm of scientific managerialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:55 PM
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The same reason rich men try to get richer. When you are hot/rich, you live in a circle of hot/rich people and compare yourself to them instead of normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:33 PM
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It's a good thing that economists proved the sexist pay gap theory bunk decades ago. We would never trot out nonsense over and over for propaganda purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:31 PM
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No, the world is run by natural cycles, forces, and incentives. While there are men and women who sit at the top, they are just avatars of fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:29 PM
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Team sports and Barbie are awesome. Mr Beast is just normal brainless content. H3H3 is just a center left YouTuber. Andrew Tate is a narcissistic criminal. Fresh N Fit is mostly cringe. Making fun of feminists is a patriotic duty. Honestly, it's not enough to make a decision. Does he go to church? What are his life and relationship goals? None of those traits are important in what makes a man good. You might as well flip a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:17 PM
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They grow out of it just like they grow out of playing stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:07 PM
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I knew kids like this growing up. They never turned out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:06 PM
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Anyone who says you don't owe strangers kindness is an antisocial loser. You are one step up from a crazy person roaming the streets without their pills. I expect nothing less from the loser den at 2X.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:51 AM
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IME, it all came down to personality and social group. Some guys just knew they wanted to marry and spit out three kids ASAP. Some dated the same woman for ten years and then married. The limited options guys either waited until the girls dumped their forever-boyfriends or never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:02 PM
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People are blind in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:57 PM
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Despite what the incels think, personality and status are just as important as looks. Most Chads aren't 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:56 PM
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Boogie is exactly the kind of guy that will run through a train of hot, disturbed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:29 PM
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I didn't realize it was that toxic until the neighbors called the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:28 PM
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It is now. That wasn't always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:25 PM
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I need to be able to suspend disbelief to enjoy a film. If you are going to remind me of the current real world political arguments every five minutes, then I'm not going to be entertained. I don't demand historical accuracy in non-documentaries, but everyone who makes your argument is skirting the fact that the film just sucks because it is written and produced by pompous amateurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:22 PM
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I support it. They'll be treated better in just about every area. It seems that they even feel better inside, which is unsurprising given their better treatment on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:30 PM
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There was an incel post a while back on transmaxxing that really popularized it. Even before that, there was a blackmail gang on 4chan's r9k that was targeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 PM
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It is. It ruins the magic for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:31 PM
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Sex is like air to women. They don't need an app. They are looking for something more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:26 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:14 PM
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I blame the scientific managerialists that put us in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:53 PM
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They don't have to take it hostage. The only thing you need you destroy a civilization is for the men to barely work and women to barely reproduce. No one has to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:52 PM
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Being fat isn't genetic. It's a sign of poor health, environment, and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:50 PM
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Usually they just laugh at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:46 PM
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Science is sexist because reality doesn't conform to 1800s hippies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:34 PM
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I specifically limited my dating pool to 5'8"+ because I didn't want a short son.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:31 PM
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OLD is a waste of time unless you are just looking to fuck with zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:29 PM
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Excluding tragic accidents, everyone dating an asshole knows that person is an asshole and specifically dates them for being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:28 PM
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The two most informative books to read other than The Bible are: The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Mothers and Fathers Are Going Broke, by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi The Underground History of American Education: A Schoolteacher’s Intimate Investigation Into the Problem of Modern Schooling, by John Taylor Gatto
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:17 PM
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She is projecting her view of what a sexy man does onto herself to embody it. She is trying to brag but just comes across as a lonely old woman trying to ignore her dying fertility and relevance to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:55 PM
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Women are being told to not like him, so now they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:41 PM
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There's always a war in their region. This is the first time they have cancelled the Ball in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:28 PM
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I didn't think so either, but for whatever reason the US has decided to send ground troops, or at least threaten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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Who knows? I feel NATO will come out on top too, but BRICS didn't decide to ramp the aggression for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:23 PM
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I think a few have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:16 PM
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Who knows? China is really spicing up their anti-Israel propaganda, which is really surprising to anyone who knows how much the Chinese loved Jews until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:15 PM
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I think Yemen already announced their intentions to declare war on Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:13 PM
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CENTCOM just cancelled the Marine Corps Ball in order to raise readiness. WW3 is coming faster than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:05 PM
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I think every man goes through a white knight phase in his life where seeing a distraught woman makes him feel a need to save and comfort her. Most men grow out of this as they mature in their social understanding, even if that instinct is still there. Over-emotional women, especially angry or callous, can illicit disgust in men who have had relationships with women like that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:47 PM
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There are many things that cannot be legally negotiated in them or in their postnuptual cousins. Their most useful ability is in determining and affirming separate property prior to marrying. You cannot negotiate child custody, child support, asset division, or debt division. Nuptual agreements just don't do much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:27 PM
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Yeah, prenups getting thrown out is a myth. The actual problem is that prenups don't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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For every unstable man, there's an unstable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:56 PM
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Women make acquaintances easier than men. Strangers around them welcome them and cater to them. Women have an extremely hard time making and keeping real friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:55 PM
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There's nothing wrong with occasionally wishing you could be young and carefree. That's normal. You only run into trouble when you try to do it later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:45 PM
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If you read the linked thread, you will see that TRP considers feminism to be female sexual strategy, a concerted, instinctual push by woman to obtain advantages in the sexual market place. TRP is just as much about the why as it is the how.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:29 PM
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The blue pill is literally tradcons and feminists teaming up to shit on men. People don't understand that because they don't understand TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:30 AM
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A good read is one of the first threads by TRP founder pk_atheist. In summary, TRP split from r/seduction because of feminist intrusion and a want to discuss evolutionary psychology as it relates to dating. The best way to learn TRP is to read its full sidebar, which takes less time than you would think. The basic theme of TRP is: Marriage is not a good deal for men anymore. Women prefer different traits in short-term(alpha) and long-term(beta) partners. We use studies to find out what women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:16 AM
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The ratio of bachelors degrees awarded to women is one third. This is despite the fact that it is an economically disadvantaged degree, which are usually dominated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:20 PM
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Any woman who is still dating around at 34 is bad at dating. Big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:14 PM
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I would be down as long as she didn't stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:13 PM
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If it makes you feel better, VICE writers don't get paid much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:07 PM
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Femininism is the Anointed Mainstream. It's legitimacy comes from being an arm of the scientific managerial class, supported through money and decree. Viewing it as academic work is a mistake. That's not its purpose. You cannot judge an orange as a bad apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:32 PM
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The biggest cope is that divorcing your husband is at worse no big deal for the kids and at best beneficial. Fat women know that they are being made fun of and cope with the low standards of men, not magazine articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:07 PM
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It's because the actual RP guys have mostly left reddit and incels spend more time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 PM
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You want a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:02 PM
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She's a 7, not an 8. She's too short to be an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:58 PM
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There are probably cheaper boxing gyms. You could also just buy the bags and hit at home if you are just looking for exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:59 PM
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My main interest in my wife is her personality and life goals. She is also physically gorgeous, but I would never marry for that. Romance is just a chore that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:54 PM
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Good to know. The next time my wife asks for something, I'll tell her that she needs to make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:45 PM
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It costs a lot more to have good teachers and equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:43 PM
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All desires are driven towards the goal of reproducing. That's the central thesis of evolution. Obviously, reproduction itself is where the most powerful desires are held.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:41 PM
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Bad. There's many good reasons we took away honor killings and went to third party court justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:14 PM
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As women age, they have to put in more effort to make things happen. Cougars aren't active because they want to be. They are active because nothing will ever happen if they aren't. And by effort I don't mean clothes, makeup, and other passive attractors. You will have to go out, start conversations, and show your interest actively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:28 PM
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On average, gen-xers and older can interact with strangers in a calm and jovial manner. It falls off from there to the point where zoomers are terrified of everyone in public. Women didn't used to nervously scream, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!," whenever a man talked to her in public. "Awkwardness wasn't immortalized with smartphones" How have smartphones made people awkward? idk, My main issue with smartphones is that anyone can take a video in public and post it to social media, and embarrass someone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:39 PM
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Even if you received a scientifically great future from the system, you would rebel against it. No one wants their life handed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:33 PM
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I think the attractiveness you are perceiving is the way he holds himself and the way others are reacting to him in that video, which are the main components of a man's attractiveness. It's difficult to impossible to communicate that in a selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:27 PM
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Cold approach is the top skill of PUA. You need a firm foundation to do it. People used to be thrown into that deep water back in the day because: Both men and women had better social skills back then. Talking to strangers was expected, normal behavior. Awkwardness wasn't immortalized with smartphones. Staff and the police would laugh at a woman saying that hitting on them was sexual assault. I would never suggest someone follow old PUA advice on cold approach today. It's an invitation to social…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:24 PM
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I agree that photos are poor instruments of showing men's desirability, especially when they are intentionally done poorly. He just didn't change much. And having known gay people, they don't even need photos to pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:08 PM
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Women get excited by the idea of giving. Every woman I have dated has enjoyed doing things for me and buying me things, as well as other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:50 PM
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I don't see any glow up in the twitter video outside of using a hat to hide his balding and some jewelry. I have no doubt he can pull though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:46 PM
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Everyone projects. It requires intentional effort to go beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:42 PM
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Dates are work and many men feel they don't have to work after the relationship is steady. Only women get the luxury of sitting around waiting for men to do something for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:41 PM
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Women try to fit in with women's, not men's, beauty standards or they'll be relentlessly mocked by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:59 PM
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I think women in the military at all are a country destroying mistake. They are an enormous burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:39 PM
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I actually don't mind body hair and prefer pubic hair. Shaving is fine, but I hate stubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:35 PM
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All the banks are closing offices. Part of it has to do with economics. Part of it is political. None of it is a sign of collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:32 PM
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No, it was originally just a catty phrase women used online. What would they being getting revenge for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:45 PM
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There aren't enough women who can do PDEs to go around. You are equating looks and class with intelligence, which isn't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:10 PM
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Because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:00 PM
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Barrack Obama did a clearing of the generals on ideological grounds to push through women in frontline units, which is a disastrous policy in itself. The covid-19 vaccine pushed even more people out of the military. The military is at unseen levels of unpopularity among its own recruitment base. The general populace is so unhealthy that getting anyone is hard and leads to desperation and poor performance. We are looking to force WW3 right now on top of all this because our leadership is filled w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:43 PM
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Sometimes it takes more, sometimes less. The only real answer is enough to keep it going. The main issue is that relationships usually end because one party has ceased to put any effort in and convincing them to do so is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:12 PM
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It comes from women, not men. Rollo stole the phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:07 PM
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The military isn't what it used to be. As someone whose family has fought in all US wars, including me, I wouldn't let my son join the military today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:04 PM
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Never. I used to think, "How does he stand her?" Now I know that people of opposite poles in the same proclivities find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:01 PM
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I would teach him how not to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:59 PM
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Good knives that you can sharpen are everything. Pot and pan quality are nice but nowhere near the same impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:04 PM
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Now that decade-long LTRs are a thing, you don't even need a personality. You just need to offer easy pussy or pay rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:00 PM
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men on PPD are constantly being told by the women here that cold approaching is bad Never listen to women. They don't understand the world most of the time and lie when they do understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:56 PM
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They usually don't. There are exceptions driven by hormones, anxiety, and the like, but the fact is that most young women have either bland or rotten personalities. The few women with good personalities do get snatched up early though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:03 PM
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Imagine being told at 18 that you are sterile and will never have children outside of adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:56 PM
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No it doesn't. The men who have options don't enjoy women's personalities either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:51 PM
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