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I used to think that giving my partner nudes would give him the incentive to not watch porn instead. Boy was I wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:32 AM
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Exactly what happened to me. In the end my family member excused his sexual assault as both parties being drunk. Wtf I was such a pick me. And manipulated like crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:17 AM
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There was this guy on a post who bleached the laundry so his girlfriend wouldn’t ask him to do laundry again. I’m thinking if you ever give a bj to your bf use TEETH so he doesn’t ask you again 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:57 AM
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I’m screaming 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:55 AM
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This gives me so much hope! Seriously can we get more of this!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:32 AM
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Guy I know literally verified this. Sadly he couldn’t even get a date. Both girls stood him up. He meets the basic standards, okay job, car, owns house, clean, and knows handiwork, eats healthy, nice body, YET he still couldn’t find a date. Dock is truly abundant and women are not easily won over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:35 AM
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Awesome job standing up for women. We need more of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:37 PM
5

Someone get this girl an award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:29 PM
9

Where’d you find this picture of me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:55 PM
3

Just watched this a few days ago and whoa boi. I had an identity crisis. I’m planning on a rhinoplasty and new wardrobe, hair and skin maintenance for my glow up but how I’m wondering if this was caused by my good girl childhood influence? (Perfect looks and body)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:38 AM
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Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:25 PM
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I could just listen carefully to see if he brings up exes, or the topic of being victimized by a woman. Or any vague excuses he would make that seem like they come from a cheater. Example if he has a bunch of woman friends even during relationships he most likely an emotionally cheater that triangulates. You could ask if he thinks girls and guys can really be platonic friends and see what his take is. Some questions you ask can be not about the past relationships but if you word them as general …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:19 PM
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I guess I’m doing it wrong. I just downloaded and started using the app like tinder ( swipe to like or dislike) without even a thought to how I would be perceived. Thanks for the tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:26 PM
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I don’t necessarily agree. I think it’s more complicated. I dated two LVM’s who had never had a girlfriend before and were 22 23. BIg red flag. However what if the man decided not to tell you that he’s an inexperienced dater. That’s one of my deal breakers. I want someone who has been in a few serious relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:23 PM
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Is giving a half worded compliment a sign of insecurity and a LVM? I’m so sick of getting compliments that just don’t feel right. Someone on OLD send a messaged me “beautiful smile”. To me that’s not a compliment, that’s a “ I feel inadequate so I’ll relinquish the responsibility I take for admitting to your beauty by taking the (I think you have a) out of the compliment. Have you guys gotten half assed compliments lately?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:20 PM
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I actually had a guy that offered drinks as a first date. I respond with : I don’t drink on first dates but dinner is okay. He says: I don’t eat on first dates. This guy clearly wasn’t strained for money with the job he had. I’m so glad the trash took itself out 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:32 PM
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This guy like me on hinge. Lmaooo I deleted him right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:29 PM
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I actually am religious, and I think sex is very valuable. If I’m gonna have it it’s gonna be on my own conditions with someone who’s wholly in love, devoted and has proven their worth to me. Therefor I will be waiting until I’m I’m engaged or married. I think the right man will wait for you sis. With even more incentive to fully commit because you’re putting yourself at the highest price imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:27 PM
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Looks like my itinerary for the rest of 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:04 AM
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He really tried it tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:03 AM
9

Thanks. I reassured myself that I’m freakin beautiful and there’s a lot of men that would cherish being with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:48 PM
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Yea I’m objectively beautiful black women and that sounds about right. This really makes me sad and proves what I was thinking. Men in other races and a lot of the men in the black community think black women aren’t as pretty as lighter women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:57 PM
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Thanks for the help. I’ll start working on my exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:18 AM
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No problem! I love supporting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:00 PM
5

No sis. You’re attractive! You’re the prize!! and he proved it. If he knew he so attractive you’d just fall into bed with him he wouldn’t have resorted to manipulating you to get it. He probs thought he didn’t have an easy chance, this is where most guys rely on manipulation imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:50 PM
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I am starting to get over a small crush on my roommate. Should I make an exit plan? I think he either likes me or is overly friendly and I am noticing myself revert to my pick me ways. I want to keep things professional. How should I proceed? First I think my crush stems from perceiving him as the first possible HVM I’ve run into. He owns the house, (I’m renting a room) and he’s cooks and keeps the house clean. He’s also an engineer. His friendly acts have confused me. He helped me move my stuff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:43 PM
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Ouch. It happens to a lot of us. FDS says don’t sleep with them until you are in a relationship. Guys tend to give a lot of empty promises so you can get in bed with them and proceed to ghost you after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:15 PM
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If he was serious about you he would. I had the same thing happen. Was talking to a guy who was at his parents house for a few days and he not only wouldn’t call me when I asked cause he was hanging out with his parents, then he canceled our date so he could stay home for another week. (Love bombed and future faked me so hard that I was so confused as to why he wouldn’t want to talk to me) Me being a pickmiesha at the time slept with him a few weeks later and he pretended to sleep the whole morn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:04 PM
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What should you tell the guy when he asks what you’re looking for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:36 AM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:30 AM
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How do you even respond to a question like this? My answers would be this? Why don’t you date me then tell me. “I know my worth but I’d need to know if YOU see it. vise versa I’m a big believer in actions, not words. So it wouldn’t matter what either of us say if actions don’t line up.” Is this saying too much. Thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:12 PM
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Damn this is shitty. I know if I was negged I would back down and be lk uh yeah I’m probs an 8. How do these women have that type of confidence??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:37 PM
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My ex sexually assaulted one of his first crushes. He was very vague and tried to discredit the action by saying they were drunk and it he didn’t remember it going that far but she did. Being a pickmiesha, I believed him and stayed with him for 1.5 years. I learned my lesson and now feel so guilty and bad for the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:32 PM
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I should send this to the LV loser that has texted a “hey how ya doing” twice after i broke it off and ignored his text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:01 PM
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The reason I stopped using tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:48 PM
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“Wild exaggeration” is what you meant. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:54 PM
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Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:26 AM
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They can somehow feel it when you stop giving them energy. They always try to come back just when you got over or when you’re about to. You need to block and delete his number and all social media’s. If you already know your attachment styles I’m sure you know why the two of you won’t work. It’s a toxic mix, you’ll only continue breaking yourself down. I hope you figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:24 AM
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I was starting to get really pessimistic about dating and just be single for a few years. This is exactly what I needed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:59 AM
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I could see the men in a friend group thinking that. I’m glad you stood up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:42 AM
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I literally saw this scenario. I was living in a sketchy apartment and my neighbors got threats from a man. He was screaming that the neighbors(woman) causes his baby mamma to take his kids and threatened to come shoot them if it wasn’t fixed in an hour. thank god I don’t live there anymore..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:16 AM
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There’s so many young men on Tinder that lie about their age so they can get matched with older women who have their settings for older guys. It’s annoying 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:13 AM
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I’d add on fingering. Try both every time until you get really good at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:58 AM
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Why would he say something like that about someone who’s been shot in the head. This guy has some real issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:09 PM
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I just started OLD like a week ago and have had 3 different guys do the same thing. Or the non direct beating around the bush invite to make me actually be the first to say oh yes let’s go on a date. Lk wtf why do men have such fragile egos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:17 AM
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I have so many stupid screenshots from men on OLD. Where can I post them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 AM
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My ex’s friends pickmiesha girlfriends always tried to pressure me to go to the strip club with them. I was like no I’m not comfortable on multiple occasions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:09 AM
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Literally just matched a man exited me cause his profile gave off emotionally mature vibes. We start texting and there’s deep convo an immediate connection. Then I find out he’s a stoner 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:30 PM
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I just either think those types of LVM aren’t smart or they don’t know you have to balance interests so that they become a lifestyle habit .Or they have the “my way the high way” attitude and need to do things a specific way. “ example. Making the gym their “life” with 4 hour gym days because they can’t sacrifice their eating habits or bother to learn how to count calories and macros”. These are the type of men who can’t adapt, leaving little space to grow. As soon as they get another responsibi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:27 PM
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They think harassing women is funny and acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:53 PM
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I follow r/memes and half of them are jokes about porn and masterbating. It’s gross how these men are using huge platforms to normalize this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:52 PM
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The dating handbook says vet with a video chat. Any suggestions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:27 PM
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Are there apps to video chat or do I just give a google number or Snapchat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:25 PM
2

Hahahaha omg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:29 PM
2

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:01 PM
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I gotta save this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:48 PM
1

Omg! I’m having such a hard time finding black men to date. They all act like this. Smh. I just wanna date in my own race for once 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:46 PM
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That terrifies me. My gut feeling with my ex was that he always thought I was annoying. I gotta trust my gut more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:19 PM
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I need help identifying a red flag. During vetting a 30 year old man over FT he told me he hasn’t had a relationship in 7 years but mentioned he’s been on dating sites too. This guy is in IT but completely broke his Mac screen and is waiting until next year to buy another cause it “still works”. IMO I saw two red flags, he is cheap or doesn’t have an emergency savings and won’t be a generous man, may be a 50/50 guy. Second he’s been a player for 7 years or has some serious issues where he couldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:15 PM
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I know someone I graduated college with who was like you. She had a long term relationship and said they didn’t want marriage but they planned for a homestead. I don’t know anything about the relationship but she seemed very sweet, she was more of a progressive hippie. It works for some people I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:58 AM
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I’m in Wisconsin and I see too many men with fish. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:32 AM
8

I have the same problem. Two serious relationships were with white men who were NVM and emotionally unavailable. I dated black nvm boys in high school and started dating white men cause I figured they would have less trauma in a okay off family with two parents. Boy I was wrong. I don’t find many black men attractive and the black men I’ve been matching with and trying to date lately end up having kids or are LVM. I really do want to date more POC and especially black men but it’s insanely hard …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:15 PM
2

I’m glad you guys posted this because it was deleted by the time i saw it on my feed. So I just read the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:32 PM
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Just had some guy that asked for my number yesterday text me this: Him: Hey OP hope you having a wonderful day I know it’s late but I grabbed too much Ashley’s barbecue about to eat dinner Me: Thanks I did. No thank you. I don’t do invitations that aren’t planned ahead. Hope the dinner was good. Him: It was fantastic and of course I understand hopefully one day though You have a good night ttyl 😂😂 I could tell he’s to insecure to ask me straightforward or he wanted a ego stroke where I said some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:17 AM
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He resents you already just throw the relationship away. You’re probably codependent on him so you feel like you can’t live without him, but you can. If he is not adding more value and stressing you out you have to ask yourself if he’s making your life worse or better. You’re mental health is much more important. You’ll thank yourself after you get over him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:44 PM
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Gonna send this to every LVM that comes my way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:45 PM
2

I just realized it’s a completely different YouTuber I’m talking about. His name is Elliot Scott and the video is a mind games tier list. Mind Games Tier List
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:11 PM
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I’m screaming lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:01 AM
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He has another great video. It’s an in depth video of how men manipulate women during dating and how to recognize red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:27 PM
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