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Why did these comments get deleted?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 08:32 AM
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He's wfh and then tonight was texting me right before going to sleep from his bed..
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:44 AM
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I don't want to nag or force him to call me nice things. I want him to call them to me because he wants to, like he used to until he went to Spain.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:09 PM
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Thank u, he does call me though.. He does want to return to live in Spain but I do too and he said if it continues going well we could move together. Should I ask him about him no longer flirting with me or? He still does it just waaay less
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 10:07 PM
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What about old classic movies? Any recommendations for those?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 05:28 PM
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That show did make me cringe. Barnett seemed nice, I wonder why he picked Amber! She's quite crazy, but they seem to be doing strong.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 09:51 PM
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I message him :) he didn't answer but I'm glad I did it!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 12:44 PM
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Hahaha oh well!
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 10:56 PM
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Thank you! Both comments were very insightful. He knows I had a boyfriend before him and that we have had sex, so withholding sex until marriage will be manipulative I feel.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 10:55 AM
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Thank you for your comment! It has only been two dates, but he says it's so easy with me and that he likes me. I'm visiting home now and he's been calling, telling me about his day and asking me when I'm back.. but we shall see.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:20 PM
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If he says he isn't actively looking for a relationship but that he can change his mind as we connect, should I continue dating him casually? (No sex). We get on, he calls me and makes effort to see me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:20 PM
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Do you have examples of being sassy without coming across as a bitch?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 02:33 PM
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I have... I've read all of his books. Highly recommend! It's made me a more loving person in general
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:08 PM
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Ok thank you... what do you recommend I do? Tell him it's over?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:23 PM
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Thank you Jack! I sometimes see him on Friday and Saturday, but this time he had a birthday and the next day I had a birthday party, so we saw each other Thursday instead... I really wanted to see him Sunday as well but he studies. I am aware he may be seeing other women though, but I feel like we have a connection that is quite rare and hard to come across. I have posted in RPW but they are against plates and I know they would tell me to not see him again because of a similar post to this, so I…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 09:24 PM
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He wrote 'aaah we didn't confirm so I made plans. When else are you free??'.... what do I say?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 10:55 AM
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He wrote 'aaah we didn't confirm so I made plans. When else are you free??'.... what do I say?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 10:54 AM
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Ok, but should I message him? We set a place but not a time
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 11:02 PM
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So I used to read anewmode a lot, especially the forums. They say to never ever text first or show feelings until he shows commitment. I think this Is bollocks. I dated this amazing guy last year for 6 weeks, i felt he really liked me. He would text me all the time and I would try to be mysterious and also would rarely initiate contact. When I did initiate I fretted that I seemed desperate. After 2 months he told me it wasn't working out, that it seemed as if I didn't like him. After this I date…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 04:51 PM
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Definitely reach out to him, I used to play that game as well of never initiating contact and ended up with him walking away
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 07:30 AM
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it would attract me more. One guy I dated told me too many things too soon and used his family problems as a way to make me feel bad for him which was not attractive at all. My ex told me things little by little, opening up each time which I earned by being trustworthy and patient, and asking him qs and showing interest (I knew a lot about him within the first 6 weeks however), and it made me sooo attracted to him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 10:31 PM
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Interesting! I am sort of going through something similar, where I text him much more than he texts me! I don't mind because he does seem to like me and makes an effort to see me. But if she were to contact him everyday isn't that not leaving him any space to let him start the conversation?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:36 PM
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Haha what do you mean by that?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 11:26 PM
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Thank you runway. Regarding your second point: It was so I could edit the second picture and see which one was nicer as it was taken in the dark so to make it a bit brighter. Then I didn't crop it to take away the top part that shows the battery, time and date etc, and the pictures at the bottom, because I wanted to send the original instead, but sent the snapshot by accident. I don't send pics to guys, to be honest very few have asked me anyway but those that have I just ignore or I tell them t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 11:02 PM
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Good point! Thanks x
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 10:31 PM
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That is true... you can't see my face, more like dim lit pictures of mainly my stomach etc... and also a picture of my brother.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 10:18 PM
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Ok, thanks QueenBee126 :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:56 PM
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Ok, but I want him to delete the photo because I don't want it floating around on other people's phones... I don't feel comfortable him having those mini naked pics of me
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:40 PM
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I mean, I understand. I'm not going to try to convince anybody because it is futile, you can believe me or not. What do you think I should I say to him though? I was thinking of just saying the truth. I even whatsapp nice things to myself from time to time, just things I do to put me in a good mood (won't tell him this because I'll sound crazy)
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:33 PM
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Thank you I think I will use this advice! Do you think he will believe it?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:20 PM
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Yeah I have to say it is the most embarrassing moment I've had in a long time
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:19 PM
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To edit it and compare which of the two look better! I feel so embarrassed even typing this out. I feel like I should say something..
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 09:00 PM
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Of course you would think that, why would you not. I lost weight recently and felt good about my body, proud even, after wanting to for so long, and took photos so I could see it as if it wasn't mine, sounds strange when I type it out. It upsets me that he may now think I send pics to guys...
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 08:53 PM
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I took the photos for two reasons, first was to boost my self esteem because it makes me feel better about the way I look, it was the first time I took them and quite liked how they came out! The second reason was because my best friend sends naked pics to her men and she showed me some pics, and literally out of curiosity I wanted to see if I could get that angle because it didn't seem like it was possible! (I did manage to get the same angles and my face is not in them). I took a screenshot of…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 08:48 PM
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Anything by David Deida. Personally I enjoyed 'it's a guy thing' and 'blue truth'
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 12:17 PM
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Ah wow, insightful!. Thank you for your advice. I'll ask if he is around next weekend
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 09:51 AM
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Hello, I think so too, and usually lose interest in men who don't set up a date. But when I last saw him on Saturday, he said we would see each other in September, as right now he is away visiting family, and then I'm going away for a wedding. So we have not texted since i saw him
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 10:28 PM
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Thank you! That does make sense... But I've read countless times to not text more than the guy. The guy I am seeing now has not texted me since I last saw him on the weekend, he is away now on holiday and I won't be able to see him until September, and I know he won't text me until then. I would feel like a burden texting him, but passive if I don't
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 09:20 PM
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I ended up cancelling and feel much better! Thanks for you advice
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 11:07 AM
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I am so happy because I achieved both of my goals!! When my mother came, we got along better than ever before. We are like best friends. We had laugh attacks, we connected just by looking at each other in the eyes, and we really bonded. Somehow I also lost weight, without even trying. I have been going to the gym regularly so that has helped, but I have been eating so much rubbish because I went to a 4 day long festival, that I was surprised that I lost 3 kg (my goal was 2). This month I want to…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 09:45 AM
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Excellent article. I was wondering if anybody has any advice on how to actually seduce a man? I've realised that I am not very seductive, I am quite shy. I laugh at their jokes, touch them, look them in the eyes, but don't know much beyond that. Any useful websites or advice?
/r/RedPillWives02/08/16 08:12 PM
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I did tell him he came on too strong, and he stopped messaging, but then came back with a bang! Writing 'muah' with the kissy faces now... He is finishing his masters and said he would move for me, and I did not encourage him to say that. He is ten years older than me though and wants a family, which I do too but still want to get the person first
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 11:04 PM
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He booked a ticket to come and visit me, by plane is an hour and a half and by train is five hours, not sure how he is planning on coming.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 10:49 PM
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I really appreciate your advice, that is why I love this forum. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 10:33 PM
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Thank you so much, such a valuable insight. So I should cancel because he is high comfort and low attraction? This is what I feel like doing which is a shame because he is quite decent but I get the 'creepy' vibes from his intensity, he barely even knows me!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 10:26 PM
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I don't want to live with someone I feel attracted to, who I could potentially fancy. I have had loads of viewings and the women have all been either very bizarre, or need to move in at the end of the month. I have accepted a guy who is someone I could be friends with, who has a girlfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 03:34 PM
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Hello, thank you for your advice! My grandmother was around, and she has quite a strong personality and did most of the talking. He spoke a lot to her, and my grandmother adviced me not to live with him because he has a lot of friends in this area and didn't seem too desperate to find a place. the other option was a nerdy guy who would work a lot on making a movie, so in a way more interesting, more similar to my age, and is from another city so desperate to move in. In the end I told him no bec…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 03:28 PM
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Thank you! I took your advice and he asked me out for a drink, so I'm meeting him this evening, I'm quite excited! And so glad I let him lead
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 03:24 PM
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I have been much more mindful this month while eating which feels great! I also want to keep it up at the gym two or three times a week and lose 2 kg this month. My mother is coming to visit me, I haven't seen her in two years! She lives in another country but only three hours away by plane, however she lives with an abusive man who is violent, drinks, doesn't work and takes her money. I refuse to go back and watch that, and she can't afford to come to me. I used to buy her plane tickets to come…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 08:23 AM
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Oh dear, that's tough. Thank you, I can imagine if I stay with him, that in ten years time or more I'd be kicking myself for having let him done this to me and still stayed with him!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 04:00 PM
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Thank you for showing me how absurd this situation is!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 03:54 PM
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Yes he really regrets doing it, and feels very ashamed and understands if I leave. He said he did it out of habit and just carried on when he was dating me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 03:53 PM
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To be mindful, especially when I eat. When I am tired after work, I tend to eat in front of the laptop which I enjoy so much, but it is such a bad habit!
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 06:44 PM
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