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DiscussionMermaid28/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:35 PM
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Question For WomenMermaid28/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:41 AM
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I was in Florida when this happened and had never seen so many women before. I'm assuming it's generational because, like I said, I'm an older millennial. We dressed up for clubs, had dress codes, we danced, the straight guys danced, you made friends with strangers, and it was just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:43 PM
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I wonder if it has anything to do with how much we roast each other growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:17 PM
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5 to 1. I dunno the exact number. There was a Bachelorette party, a big group of 7-8 ladies ŵearing black leather clothing(they were not happy), and other groups of 3 or 4 sitting around. I only saw maybe 1 or 2 guys on the dance floor at a time. I think some of the guys might have been gay or bi. As for a made up story. Why? It's not that exciting. The nephew didn't even kiss anybody cause he was too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:02 PM
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They are overlooking that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:21 AM
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I recently heard that men in Latin American flirt and approach women all the time. They move on from rejection pretty quickly. It's almost like a sport. Any thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:17 AM
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I don't think the younger generation deal with it better. I think that's why they dance less than the older generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:00 AM
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He's not tall, and he's a bit overweight, which is two strikes against him. He can dance, which was a plus. I think being one of the few guys there helped him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:57 AM
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I'm an older millennial(40s). I'm not someone who goes to clubs anymore, but for a recent family vacation trip, we went to a bar/club. I was with my fiance's adult daughters and nephew (they are gen z). I grew up dancing with no shame. That's my generation. We dance. I knew the "kids" wanted to dance, but I had to be the one to make the first move. We had to be the first group on the dance floor. The place was packed with women, but nobody was dancing. I've never seen that before. The ratio was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:13 AM
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She might want a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:30 PM
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You are really never lonely with cats. Cats are pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:29 PM
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I believe this is more true for women after getting out of long marriage. I've seen divorced women not wanting to go back into long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:26 PM
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Before, I moved in with my current boyfriend. He hired his mother to clean his house. Cause he wasn't doing any kind of housekeeping. My ex was on disability and therefore wasn't helping me with any bills after our breakup. My father is dead. I can pay someone to take care of my car. My therapist has said that I'm hyper independent due to childhood trauma. So.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:31 AM
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Doesn't the ratio change after the age of 50? Isn't there more single women than men as we age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:15 AM
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Yes. Killing bugs. That's a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:08 AM
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I love the answers by the women in this thread. Sex is great when you are in a really good loving relationship. When your partner cares and wants to satisfy you. You want to satisfy your partner. I love the relationship that I'm in. I'm attracted to my boyfriend due to his kindness, intelligence, wit, personality and his looks. I'm not sure if he's everyone's cup of tea but he's mine. We make about the same income wise and I pay my own bills and he pays his own. So neither one of us are with eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:08 AM
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There's more violence towards women committed by men. So I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:15 AM
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Yet, Men are still trying to date compared to women if we base it on OLD profiles. Men outnumber women on most if not all dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:04 PM
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https://www.verywellmind.com/depression-statistics-everyone-should-know-4159056 That's where I found some information. It also includes information about postpartum depression which is something men don't experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:52 PM
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Women attempt suicide more than men but men are more successful. Men tend to use guns more than women for suicide. Homelessness would be another topic with different factors. - drug use - criminal records (higher among men) - social circles ( women tend to have a larger social network than men, having more options to seek help) - availability of shelters by gender (more women's shelters for domestic violence) Etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:30 PM
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I met my boyfriend online through OLD app. I know that's how a lot of people meet. My understanding is that there are more men than women on those apps. I believe more women have removed themselves from the dating pool than men. Maybe one of those reasons could be cause women suffer more from depression than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:43 PM
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Personal experience. Never wanted to use my social media accounts for dating. That being said, the guy would still have to initiate the communication to someone not showing signs that they are open to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:27 PM
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I would assume those on a dating app at some point would want to date. What about the women who just removed themselves from the date scene due to their own mental issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:50 AM
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This is one of them. https://www.verywellmind.com/depression-statistics-everyone-should-know-4159056
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:45 AM
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I think anyone with disabilities have it harder. I loved that show Love on the Spectrum and it showed both sexes on the spectrum having a really hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:47 PM
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Are you saying that men are more incline than women to date someone with Autism and social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:47 AM
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Cause they (most men on this thread) think we should settle for them. Women's standards are too high and that's why the world is going down the drain. Women need to lower our standards and date these "nice guys." We are just way too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:58 PM
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I think it's true for my younger self and not so much now. I'm in a heathy relationship now and he checks most of my boxes. But I don't think I had a long list. Non-smoker, left leaning, taller than me, not religious, self-sufficient, and a sense of humor. Is that a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:34 AM
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I think it's about control. They are trying to keep their "power" by making sure we can't advance and have to be burden with unwanted children, stay in relationships we don't want, give up the jobs we've supposedly taken from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:29 PM
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Then don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:22 PM
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The amount of men on here who have no clue about why a woman might decide to have an abortion is outstanding. It's not always the woman who sleeps around with multiple men. Married couples have abortions. Couples who want children have abortions due to medical issues. Our bodies are not all the same, birth control doesn't work for all of us. Some of us are raped and get pregnant. Some of us aren't financially ready. We aren't always allowed to get our tubes tied till we reach a certain age or ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:19 PM
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I was given bad advice from my male coworkers back when I was on the dating scene. One male coworker told me to offer to split the bill on my date. I did, the guy was offended. I went on another date with a guy and he spent most of the date talking about himself, never asked me any questions, and did the whole I'm a nice guy but most women don't want a nice. Dude didn't even walk me to my car. I assumed , dude didn't like me at all. Went home, dude DM me telling me he likes me and wants to see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:16 PM
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Maybe those men are just lying and deep down really want a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:24 PM
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I think it's hard to date for men on this sub who make comments about "all women" like women are a monolith. I see it all the time on Reddit and back when I was in the dating scene. Actual guys telling me that the reason they were single was due to the fact that "all women" want guys who cheat or treat them like crap. Personally, I think it's hard for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:08 AM
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Yes, my ex. He was funny. Those funny guys get you all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:29 PM
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Dating apps are saturated with people who's attachment styles are very insecure and/or avoident. It's finding the person who has a secure attachment style that is hard. They tend to be picked up quickly and don't stay single for long. (I wish I knew this before cause it would have saved me some heartache and therapy bills. )
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:54 PM
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My ex had horrible teeth. He was a funny guy and was the first person to ever love me. I came from a really dysfunctional family and had a lot of low self esteem. I thought he was the only person who would ever love me. I actually thought I couldn't do any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:52 AM
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Why isn't hygiene discussed? I've seen pretty women with bigger guys all the time. But what you won't see, is a pretty girl with a guy who doesn't take care of himself. Sloppy clothing, acne everywhere, oily hair, only bathes 2-4 times a week, etc. Just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:23 PM
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I use to run a nerdy social group and a lot of my friends met their future partners from it. I didn't set up trying to hook up friends but I think creating a safe place where like minded people could meet made it easier for some of the awkward ones to date. So it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:13 PM
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Dating sucks. Found someone that I'm sexually attracted to and I enjoy their company , well I'm gonna try to keep him. I don't like sharing. I found men are the same as well. Before I met my current boyfriend, I talked to a few guys who wanted the commitment more than me. I didn't feel a connection but they were ready to lock it down. Can we at least go on a second date before we talk about being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:34 PM
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I don't think it's a scam but it's harder dating online the older you get. I'm in my late 30s and met my boyfriend on OKCUPID, but the guys I met before him all came with a lot of baggage. Then finding someone who was respectful and had time to actually see me was difficult too. So it wasn't a scam for me but it wasn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:22 PM
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