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Question For Menmissionglowup/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:20 AM
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there was nothing enraging about this convo lol. it’s just lame when people lie about living a life they don’t actually live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:33 PM
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none. you’re old, short, and your hair is “thinning” (bald). nobody is checking for you and your value has not improved. you come on here to fantasize about a life you’ll never live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:45 PM
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i’ve had it in for four years now. it’s very important for me to not get pregnant right now but i’ve been learning a lot more about birth control, and it’s potential consequences are a little frightening. i’ll probably keep it in just for the sake of not have any accidents but it is nerve wracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:16 AM
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the emojis😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:49 AM
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what makes the whole drake vs kendrick beef even worse is drake is being a sore loser. man messed up his legacy for sure. he’ll probably try to sue the grammy’s next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:48 AM
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you’re funny. i like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:12 AM
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still don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:01 AM
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def mandatory. if that’s your type don’t deviate from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:01 AM
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if i knew the answer, i wouldn’t have asked the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:00 AM
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you clearly have a type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:59 AM
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love how you just avoided my question🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:58 AM
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my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:56 AM
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then how is she a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:54 AM
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what’s the fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:50 AM
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but wouldn’t a 10/10 need a nice face and body?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:49 AM
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for saying i might remove my iud?? how is that larping? you need a new vocab.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:49 AM
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most men wouldn’t agree with you. men will date and bang a woman with an ugly face if she has a nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:47 AM
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no one’s stopping you from doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:46 AM
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she’s so gorgeous. i love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:44 AM
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i spam then dip for weeks to a month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:43 AM
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lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:42 AM
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iuds have an increased risk for infections and diseases like pelvic inflammatory disease. i also have a hormonal iud so the increased risk of cancer is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:41 AM
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what’s wrong with liking getting came in? you’re kink shaming me🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:40 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:39 AM
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i wouldn’t even date a guy more than two years older than me. it actually gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:38 AM
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jason stratham is ugly a man my age is gonna look better than an old man 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:37 AM
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gen z 2.0😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:37 AM
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completely random side note but i think i might remove my iud early. i’m supposed to get it out 2027, but lately ive been thinking more about the long term negative impact of birth control and idk if i want to risk my health like that. i like getting came in but i also want to live a healthy and long life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:35 AM
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i couldn’t be in a relationship with an older man even if i was offered a million dollars. just thinking about the concept makes me physically sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:31 AM
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the topic was men continuing to pursue women who they know are taken. reading comprehension is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:23 AM
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no need for male friends when i have a bf. most are just trying to orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:14 AM
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ah yes the plight of the unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:13 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:13 AM
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i get approached all the time. not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:13 AM
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but how would i troll or “have fun” in this specific situation? that doesn’t make sense. who am i trolling and what’s fun about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:57 AM
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you’re bald. no you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:56 AM
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when you larp, there’s a benefit that comes with doing so. what benefit do i get out of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:54 AM
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last year, i had a guy ask me the exact same questions and then told me i “gotta go black”. you tried and failed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:50 AM
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i literally talked about it on this sub when it happened last year😭 idk why it’s so hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:48 AM
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glad to know me and my bf are a looksmatch according to you🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:45 AM
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this. it’s not about the guy being a fuckboy. it’s about him being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:44 AM
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idk if he waited for my bf to leave. my bf went to the bathroom so i was just standing off to the side and the guy approached me after a couple minutes of me waiting. asked me who i was waiting for then asked me if my bf was black, and told me to take down his number when i said no he wasn’t. similar things have happened to me before. last year, i had a guy ask me the exact same questions and then told me i “gotta go black”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:42 AM
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gross. i wish the worse on those people <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 AM
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probably
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 AM
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eh its nice dating someone who’s objectively attractive who chose you. thats a nice feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:38 AM
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as i said below, i think the guy was trying to “convert” me after finding out my bf was white. this isn’t the first time i’ve had someone of my race try to pursue me after telling them my bf was not black. some guys take it as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:36 AM
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i wonder why that is. approaching someone is fine but continuing to push for something when the person says they’re in a relationship is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:34 AM
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you really like to use lol anyways i don’t know what’s so outlandish about it. i feel like this is a common question black women who date out are asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:33 AM
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that would be a wild thing to make up wouldn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:30 AM
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so men don’t actually respect each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:26 AM
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just based on how men talk about women and how they speak about how men have it so hard in society, i expected there to be more respect for one another especially when it comes to relationships. also girl code, in my experience, doesn’t just include friends and applies to strangers too. i guess i assumed guy code was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:25 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:22 AM
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well the guy in question was black and my bf is white. so it came across as he thought he could “convert” me. just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:22 AM
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no it’s just weird to me how men are constantly preaching male unity and talking about how hard it is to be a man but you guys don’t even have respect for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:16 AM
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yummmm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:04 AM
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men have no loyalty to each other when it comes to women. today i was at the gym and some guy tried to approach me. asked me for my instagram to which i said i have a bf. he said “come on, i just wanna be friends” to which i responded “i don’t keep male friends, sorry”. two weeks ago i went out with my bf to the bars. bf goes to the bathroom and a guy approaches me saying i looked gorgeous (obvi). asked me who i was waiting for and i told him my bf. he asked me if my bf was black and i said no. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:04 AM
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ily <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:54 PM
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the conversation was about finding a niche of simps. being an ugly man and using unattractive women for sex because you can’t get better doesn’t necessarily make you a simp. unless im just out of touch with what simp means. i am getting old so maybe thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:48 AM
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like attracts like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:42 AM
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you don’t have to do anything. you choose to do it. if that’s your prerogative, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:39 AM
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weird flex but i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:30 AM
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🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:25 AM
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that statement goes to show that you see most unattractive women as invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:25 AM
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ok grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:15 AM
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i use tiktok like maybe 1.5 hours a week during the semester. i just love the algorithm and reels and shorts will never compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:09 AM
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love you more! hopefully when i’m back tiktok won’t be banned😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:05 AM
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the semester is starting next week so i’m gonna disappear again but it’s been nice interacting with you guys. i really do wish all of you guys the best in life and hope your dreams come true <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:00 AM
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yep they will. it’s easy to use men for money if you can sell a nice pretty lie to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:56 AM
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you need new lines
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:50 AM
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i think a popular OF model wants to date and be exclusive with an attractive man and sees unattractive men as pretty non-existent. just like attractive men do towards unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:49 AM
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this is from a catfish episode where she catfished as a more attractive woman i’m a catfish fanatic. i would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:47 AM
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i just like to debate people and i think that’s the case for most of us here. like to debate and bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:46 AM
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when i used infidelity in this matter, i meant a woman cheating on her average or below average partner with a more attractive man. men do all the same things for attractive women so i dont get your point? can you give me an example that’s exclusive to women only?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:45 AM
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idk how they took away from anything that i said? there’s definitely white female users on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:43 AM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:40 AM
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a lot of us have posted ourselves lol. there’s some black, white, and i think a hispanic female user on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:39 AM
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unattractive women are treated like they don’t exist like unattractive men, and both get made fun of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:35 AM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:33 AM
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see how long they can go? besides from infidelity, how are these women going “low” in order to have access to an attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:33 AM
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that’s an awesome teacher. that makes me happy reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:29 AM
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i see my chad in two more days. i’m so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:27 AM
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idk about this theory. for one, that’s a dumb reason to be misogynistic. everyone knows pretty privilege exists. attractive men and women get treated better than unattractive ones and that’s just what it is. two, privileged people rarely care about the plights of the underprivileged because they don’t have the same life experience. they live in a totally different world and the way underprivileged live will never impact how they live.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:26 AM
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22
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:16 AM
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why is she cooked?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:16 AM
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i’m happy you saw the light eventually❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:15 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDG6F8vvT0i/?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:08 AM
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country is a big one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:40 PM
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this is a wild take
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:23 PM
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me reading this as a future nurse: 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:08 PM
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i’m so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:07 PM
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it’s that how you want to put it, cool. i already acknowledged that it’s a shitty mindset but that’s how i feel. hot lack explained it well on this thread. women can fit many different characters and images. but if a man doesn’t embody masculinity, then lots of people won’t respect him. also my standards for men and women are obviously different since i’m only attracted to men. i have sexual and romantic interest in men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:05 PM
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haha yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:03 PM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:02 PM
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i agree. but the way we are conditioned impacts us and our behaviors forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:10 PM
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eh i think she’s latching. but im also someone who throws out all of my ex’s stuff if we’re not together anymore. its just weird to keep the stuff of someone you say you’re done with and even more weird to wear it. i know a girl who did something similar, and as soon as her and the new bf she had broke up, she went back to her ex. regardless, i would be heated if i was the new boyfriend because thats disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:41 AM
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this was harsh but i agree with the premise. i feel like most women don’t care about bios unless the height is mentioned in it. i’ve never heard of a woman swiping left on an attractive guy because his bio sucked. to be fair though, i don’t think women lie about these things because we want to feel “powerful”. i think its because women are conditioned to be nice and to not hurt people’s feelings. this is why you hear women saying that “looks don’t matter” and that men need to “work on their pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:34 AM
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I feel like it’s less superficial especially if you first start talking before seeing how you look this is 100% true. i met my bf anonymously and we talked for hours about a multitude of topics prior to seeing what each other looked like. it lays a good foundation for really getting to know someone and connecting with them on a deeper level. that being said, i don’t think it’s necessarily weird to date someone you met on reddit though i would suggest women to be extremely cautious when meeting u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:26 AM
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yep. i still think that looks and physical attributes are the #1 determinant of success when it comes to dating and sexual opportunities. when it comes to what a successful relationship looks like, how i think people should navigate relationships, and the moral compass i think people should have to be seen as potential relationship partners, im all over the place there. a little red, a little blue, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:16 AM
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anonymous college campus app
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:04 AM
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i 100% agree with you hot lack. this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:46 AM
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truthfully, a man being bisexual just feminizes them in my mind and therefore i lose respect for them. fourish years ago i was talking to this one guy that i thought was super hot. he liked me and i liked him and things were going well. but one night he told me that he thinks he might be bisexual because he had a slight interest in men. immediately i was uncomfortable, but i felt like it was “wrong” for me to stop talking to him due to this revelation. proceeded to talk to him for two more weeks…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:33 AM
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my parents have been married for 26 years. it’s the most amazing thing to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:15 AM
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omg?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:03 AM
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i’m a pro at internet investigating. the fbi should hire me. i think the most important thing is that majority of men don’t have $300k so she’ll never find one especially on dating apps. and the men who do have that type of money aren’t in proximity to her. she’s not in the spaces they occupy or apart of the lifestyles they live so the other things you mentioned don’t really matter because these men would never even know she exists. her ex husband seemed to be a high earner but they met because …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:57 AM
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i do agree with you that these men are being delusional. but the thing is, the men who say dating gets better in their 30s and 40s are thinking they’ll be dating women in their 20s, not 30+ women. they think that not only will they have an attractive younger woman on their arm, but that they will have the opportunity to live life like they’re in their 20’s again, with little responsibility and expectations due to the usual lower expectations of younger women when it comes to finances and such (d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:16 AM
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but financial security and emotional compatibility should go up with age. because as you get older, those attributes should be more developed and put together. as you get older, your life priorities should be more mature and based on building a substantial lifestyle with another person. especially if creating a family is a desire for both people. it always makes me side eye when i see men say that these expectations are a bad thing. i know why men say this, but it is a bit worrisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:49 AM
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i’m actually going to apologize because i think this is a real dating profile after doing some research due to boredom. she’s being ridiculous asking for a man to have a $300k salary, though it does seem like she has a solid career and business so i see why she would be the level of delusional she’s being. she had breast cancer and went through years of chemo and doctors told her she would never be able to have a baby after she finally won her battle with breast cancer. her toddler seems to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:28 AM
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you’re gonna be ok <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:02 AM
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i love my bf so much. he is just the most amazing, caring, and beautiful man in the whole wide world. i’m obsessed with him. i can’t wait to see him in a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:02 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:59 AM
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that’s definitely a totally real profile
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:59 AM
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you could have sex and masturbate with someone you love. thats always fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:56 AM
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my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:54 AM
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100% multiple times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:52 AM
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absolutely not 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:13 AM
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yes! that’s her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:07 AM
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while her dress is so pretty, what stands out to me is her smile. she looks genuinely happy and that makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:06 AM
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i have no idea but the girl i’m thinking of was always posting guys from tiktok she thought was cute. i don’t know if she’s still on here but i liked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:05 AM
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lol i think i know who this is but i forgot her user
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:49 AM
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i don’t think i ever shared this but a couple months ago, my bf made a computer program for me. when i press run, it’ll either tell me a random fact, one of my boyfriend’s favorite things about me, or a sweet message from him to me. everytime i press run the output is different so i always have something new to look forward to. it’s one of the sweetest and most thoughtful gifts ive ever received
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:04 AM
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that makes sense. i think everyone who works out feels that way at one point or another. just do your research, do the proper work to achieve your goals, and do what makes you feel comfortable :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:59 AM
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but bmi is different for people who actively work out because a lot of the weight you gain comes from muscle. if you’re not an active person, then yeah don’t gain anymore weight. but a 160 pound man your height who works out consistently looks drastically different than a man your height who doesn’t. it’s not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:41 AM
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i think these stats are on the smaller side for men, especially one’s who work out. up your weight some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:30 AM
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is it peanut butter french toast?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:18 AM
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the australian guy with the asian girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:52 AM
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you can work out when young and still date. why is it one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:51 AM
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i love it! you’re very talented. i wish i could draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:20 AM
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-1/+2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:19 AM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:40 PM
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that salmon looks so good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:38 PM
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you were right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:38 PM
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thank you dry-ad❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:36 PM
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i recognized that earlier and called out my past behaviors on this subject as inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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thanks badger🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:14 PM
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i appreciate the sentiment. i don’t even know why it’s bothering me so much because i know they responded that way due to their life experiences which is totally understandable. i guess it’s just frustrating because i am being genuine in my feelings and people are still nit picking for things that im doing “wrong”, when i know im not being malicious at all. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:14 PM
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neutral. my bf is really into art but i don’t really care about the topic at all. it’s nice seeing him be passionate about it but it doesn’t make him more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:05 PM
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idek
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:04 PM
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some people on this sub just love to be mad for the sake of it and that’s really sad to me. i expressed genuine empathy for the plight of short men and recognized the obvious discrimination and prejudice they experience in society, and i still had people getting mad at me. some people got mad that i currently have a tall boyfriend like im just supposed to break up with him after dating for years, simply because i empathize with short men now. other people got mad because i said that if i were to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:56 PM
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so because i wouldn’t date a man shorter than me, a 5’6 woman, i don’t empathize with short men… that doesn’t sound insane to you? i said i would literally date any man as long as he wasn’t shorter than me and its still an issue. insane. and me not wanting to date a man shorter than me does not mean i still don’t have empathy towards short men. i can display that by not degrading short men and showing sympathy towards their issues. this is like saying i can’t empathize with homeless people unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:43 PM
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of course. thank you for taking the time to read how i felt <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:31 PM
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is it thin or is it fit and muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:13 PM
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whats wrong with doing cardio?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:06 PM
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it’s called cutting. you do need to be in a calorie deficit to get lean in the way they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:58 PM
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wait erectile dysfunction or eating disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:54 PM
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it’s called cutting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:53 PM
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because i’m dating currently dating a tall man, my sentiments towards the issues of short men are invalid. does that even make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:50 PM
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i already addressed this in another comment where i said my previous mindset on the topic was inappropriate and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:01 PM
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super accurate. i did a body scan a couple months ago and it’s on par with the body fat % i got on the smart scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:04 PM
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wtf does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:02 PM
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10 7.75 (physically yes, mentally no) 8 (for the most part, men have this part down but they can be a little deluded to protect their egos) 9
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:52 PM
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no need to apologize dude. i have no idea what you experience and i wont pretend to know. but from what i see and hear in society, i can only imagine how that would make someone angry and apprehensive to trust people on this topic. your responses are beyond justified. i wish you didn’t feel that way. more specifically, i wish women didn’t make you feel that way through our actions and our words. truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:43 PM
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well besides from having empathy for discriminated populations and those treated unfairly, i think i feel some sort of a connection to what they’re saying because i used to feel similar about features of my own body. granted the treatment towards my features don’t compare to the treatment of short men whatsoever. but the sentiments i read from the users on the sub were so similar to how i used to feel about my insecurities and such. i don’t know what those men go through on the day to day but i …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:37 PM
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when did i say anything about not wanting to be in the vicinity of a shorter man? i quite literally said i would be totally open to dating a shorter man if my current relationship were to end. respectfully, im not sure what would make you happy in this situation. i expressed empathy for the problems of short men and i literally felt so passionate about the matter that i cried about it, because many (arguably, most) women don’t care about the matter at all. im currently in a multi year relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:30 PM
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i guess it’s just me not wanting to be taller than a man because in my mind, it masculinizes me and feminizes him. but on the other hand im also 5’6 and the average man is already taller than me. i guess i dont see why i have to date someone shorter than me when most men are taller than me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:24 PM
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how am i pretending to empathize? i never truly cared about the plight of short men until today after scrolling through that sub. i’ve been dating my boyfriend for over two years. am i supposed to break up with him because i feel bad about the way short men are treated now? what would be the correct way to move forward that would make you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:17 PM
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last time i checked, it was on sale for $35 on amazon. obviously not cheap for a scale but i think its worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:15 PM
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no need to thank me at all. i think the world would be better if we just listened to each other a bit more. i haven’t always been the kindest person on this sub whatsoever but i am making more of an effort to step into the shoes of others and just remember we’re all people at the end of the day. thanks for reading <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:12 PM
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what type of response is this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:09 PM
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i have dated shorter men before. one was one inch taller than me and the other was two inches taller than me. current boyfriend is 6’1 but is also the only tall man i’ve ever dated. and we met in the strangest way so it wasn’t like i filtered on a dating app according to height or anything like that (we met anonymously if you’re curious). in the past on this sub, i have stated that if i my relationship were to end with my current boyfriend, i would date no shorter than 5’11. and today, i would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:07 PM
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absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:56 PM
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last time i checked, this one is on sale for $35 on amazon. i think it’s totally worth it. it not only gives you your stats but it breaks it down so you understand what each category means. it’ll also tell you what percentile your stats place into as well. 10/10 recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:56 PM
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and lastly, i just love how much i love my boyfriend and how much he loves me. he always talks about our future and it just warms my heart that he gets so excited about hitting all those life milestones with me. he also just thinks im so beautiful in literally ever form and sees me as amazing though i see myself as flawed. im so thankful for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:51 PM
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second, my frontal lobe is definitely developing. i found myself scrolling through r/shortguys and actually cried for like 20 minutes after seeing some of the posts on there. it really breaks my heart that these men are treated so horribly and feel so bad about themselves over something they can’t control and how society views them. my heart literally broke. missionglowup does have a heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:47 PM
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thread of mini updates if anyone cares to read them: one of the male users on this sub is really fucking weird and i hope his engagement/marriage/whatever fails. some of you guys have been calling this guy out for awhile too. i really hate people who disrespect their partners behind their backs. shit makes me rage. you guys can say whatever you want about how i’m always talking about my bf but at least you know im loyal to him and obsessed with him because i truly love him with everything in me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:44 PM
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probably for the next 24 hours then i’ll disappear again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:24 PM
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<image> first time using a smart scale and i think it’s the coolest thing ever. also love my stats. i love being a gym girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:21 PM
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yay congrats🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:50 AM
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not even surprised at this point did my dream come true and you became a mod? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:30 AM
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i’m really not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:30 AM
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and he’d need leg lengthening surgery for the extra two inches it’s still not her ideal not matter how you want to flip it around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:23 AM
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that’s totally fair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:20 AM
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is it her ideal though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:19 AM
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dead serious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:12 AM
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what does whining and complaining do about? women don’t give a fuck and there’s no reason to. why not just adapt and keep moving forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:11 AM
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what is there to figure out? i thought you said men don’t get mad that women want to date men they find attractive, and are aware of their attractiveness due to social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:10 AM
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i have no idea. i would never ask those questions if i knew i were ugly and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:06 AM
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not at all. it confirms everything i just said. it shouldn’t matter. it shouldn’t even have to be explained. but unattractive men act like everything about attraction isn’t fair until it comes to their own standards and thresholds for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:05 AM
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the great thing about attraction is that it’s dynamic once thresholds have been met. you could start dating someone you find attractive who might not be your ideal partner you dreamed of in your head. but with time and bonding, that person can turn into your ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:01 AM
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if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:52 PM
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lol i thought that was funny too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:51 PM
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no demographic of people is a monolith. there’s always outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:49 PM
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a woman can find a man hot even if he’s not her ideal or a hyper-attractive man, attractive. if a woman’s ideal is a 6.5, brunette with muscles, she can find a 6.3 blonde with muscles super hot as well and will bang him all the time despite him not being her ideal. and a man a woman finds attractive may not be considered hyper-attractive. you guys try to make the situation so black and white when the premise is if she does not find you attractive, however that may look like to her, she will not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:48 PM
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no that she’s an opportunist. i don’t even say this in a bad way either. i support all women, especially those who do what they need to do to achieve a better life for themselves and their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:42 PM
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they wouldn’t be complaining about women wanting to date attractive guys if that were true. if you’re ugly or unattractive, why would you be complaining that women don’t want you or give you a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:41 PM
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as long as he has money and doesn’t bring her back to the states. then her real nature will come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:39 PM
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deadbedroom or someone the woman genuinely finds attractive and wants to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:30 PM
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yes but the belief is that once women get the ring, they stop putting out. a lot of RP guys use this as reasoning for why men shouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:29 PM
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that too. as long as you have cash, they don’t care what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:28 PM
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tell me how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:27 PM
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because they use them as a reason for why women aren’t actually attracted to men, why marriage is a scam, why women can’t be trusted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:27 PM
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women didn’t just meet their partners in classes or friends groups so your argument is already null. my parents met randomly in the 90s in public. my mom was the queen of high standards and my dad met them. they dated and have been married for 26 years. the end. i agree that women today are less likely to settle and they should be. there is no incentive to settle with men like there was in previous generations. even in the 90s, women did not have the financial and economic freedoms they do today…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:25 PM
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i’m referring to people who aren’t in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:21 PM
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great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:20 PM
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get a prostitute. they’ll fuck you without caring what you look like. just make sure you pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:17 PM
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the same men who complain about dead bedrooms are the same men who complain about women having high physical attraction standards and only wanting chad. the jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:15 PM
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but we don’t. men expect women to lower their standards just because men are desperate and thirsty, and it doesn’t work like that. also male desperation when it comes to dating is not a compliment. it’s a huge insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:14 PM
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women had high physical standards and criteria in the 90s and 2000s too. what are you talking about? you don’t think women during that time rejected or avoided men because they weren’t attractive enough? get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:12 PM
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i used to do the stairmaster for ten minutes after every workout. now i don’t do that anymore and will do a cardio day about once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:00 PM
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even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:59 PM
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so you’re comparing women who primarily married for economic and financial reasons due to lack of freedoms and rights… to women who don’t need men for these reasons, and therefore want to marry and sleep with men who they actually find attractive and who fulfill them. ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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or maybe they want to be sexually attracted to their partner? women aren’t men and our sexual attraction is different. men will settle for someone they’re not super into just to have consistent sex with someone, anyone. women don’t work like that. so yes if i’m dating someone, they need to meet my physical criteria or else, there’s no relationship to be had and i’ll be single. wouldn’t you rather women navigate like this instead of wasting men’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:50 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:44 PM
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of course
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:43 PM
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couple times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:42 PM
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nope. this is one of the most insulting things you can be told as a woman imo. a compliment would be “i’m going to marry you/i can’t wait to make you my wife/etc”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:40 PM
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being loving and romantic doesn’t equate to having low standards. one should be romantic and loving to someone they find worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:39 PM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:36 PM
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they won’t. they’ll be tall athletic pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:36 PM
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i 100% agree. but that’s all due to our society expecting women, especially mothers, to go above and beyond without little appreciation and help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:45 PM
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i couldn’t do it either. but the responsibility of being a mom isn’t for everyone. many people would say “well don’t have kids then”. but many fathers walk out of their kids’ life with no concern at all, and nobody gets on them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:40 PM
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oh ok you’re tall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:22 PM
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there’s actually an uptick of women doing this. it’s very interesting but makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 PM
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some toni braxton christmas song
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:18 PM
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facts. literally just thought this as i looked at the rain outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 PM
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that’s my point. i’ve never heard a woman say this about a man she found absolutely unattractive. like a 0/10. i’ve only heard it referred to when a physical attraction threshold has already been met for that woman. whether that threshold for said woman is low or high. it doesn’t make sense to even waste time and energy on someone you find unattractive. unless you have a low self esteem or you’re really unattractive yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 PM
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i wish it snowed where im at. that would be nice for christmas eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:11 PM
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yes i found him physically attractive from the start but found him even more physically attractive over time. as i’ve already said and explained multiple times lol. it’ll make sense when you get into a relationship like i said. or talk to a happily married couple. i also didn’t understand the concept when i hadn’t dated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:10 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:05 PM
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it is relevant to what i’m saying because you haven’t experienced what i’m talking about. you’ll know what i mean when you get into your first relationship with a girl you find pretty and really like. my attraction to my boyfriend grew over time despite me finding him attractive from the start. idk why this is so hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:05 PM
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how tall are you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:03 PM
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definitely but i feel like it’s not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:03 PM
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that sounds so much fun. have a good time!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:59 PM
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oh this looks good!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
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omg?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
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i really hope so qualityacademic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
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high on what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:57 PM
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i’m 5’6.5 and about 5’9 in heels. i want them naturally taller than me. i legit want my daughters to be athletic pretty amazons in sneakers. so they have to be tall naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:56 PM
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that’s not what it means lol. how many relationships have you been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:54 PM
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im working on it. i just want my daughters to hit that 5’9-5’11 mark😖
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:51 PM
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you want your sons to have mom’s facial genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:50 PM
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this is the case for my boyfriend’s parents. his mom is below average height and his dad is average height while he’s tall. but he has grandparents and other relatives who are tall. genetics are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:49 PM
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oh yeah you’ll definitely have tall kids. good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:47 PM
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i don’t think it’s that rare. frequency and reasoning for the display of “weakness” is important. i find it hard to believe women get turned off seeing a man cry about something serious or something that means a lot to him. we’re not heartless creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:47 PM
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that’s not how attraction works and i can tell by your statement, your dating experience is not plentiful. which is ok. for example, i have been with my bf for over two years. when we first met, i found him very attractive. i wouldn’t have dated him or had sex with him if i didn’t. today, i kid you not, i think he is the most attractive and amazing man ever. like genuinely. i used to be the biggest chris evans fan and i find my bf hotter than chris evans. my “type” has changed due to my bf becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:45 PM
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i have never used a man’s vulnerability against him. even with my sulking whiny ex. never did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:36 PM
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my bf is 6’1 and i’m 5’6.5. but i do have taller grandparents and one of my brothers is relatively tall for his age. so im hoping all the tall genes go to my kids. i hope they’re at least taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:34 PM
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no they don’t. women do not claim they build attraction from 0. ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:33 PM
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i really want my kids to be tall. especially my daughters. i manifest this everyday🕯️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:31 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:28 PM
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i’d rather be single but A
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:26 PM
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men hear the “attraction grows” statement and think women mean they’re building attraction from ground zero. and i think it’s because men want that to be the case. even though deep down, you guys know that makes no type of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:25 PM
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depends on the display of weakness. crying over things every now and then is endearing to me and signifies trust. being a whiny sulking loser does piss me off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:15 PM
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💋
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:57 PM
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hi friend <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:57 PM
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good but was so exhausting dude. really enjoying my break from school right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:56 PM
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i have an extremely high sex drive and my testosterone levels are on par with where they should be as a woman. so that’s not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:55 PM
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never
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:39 AM
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you totally missed the fact that libido is mostly hormonal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:26 AM
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reading that makes me think i have libido issues😵‍💫 maybe there’s some meds or supplements you could take? i would do research on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:25 AM
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don’t. why would you want that😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:20 AM
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the first sentence is so true. i’m high libido and ive always preferred a relationship or at least a fwb over one night stands. guaranteed access to consistent and frequent sex is better than having to go through the process of finding new people to hook up with all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:19 AM
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the fact that you actually typed this, thought “this is great” and hit reply. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 AM
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nice pfp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:51 AM
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they’re not underrated. guys love those types of girls and express it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:51 AM
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why would you want that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:50 AM
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hi guys. i kinda missed you all. kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:49 AM
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oof
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:49 AM
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lmaooo you get my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:48 AM
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rude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:47 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:47 AM
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massages
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:21 PM
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attractiveness is objective, though people make exceptions all the time. and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:01 AM
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being the bigger person hasn’t gotten women anywhere. he’s a bad partner and he was unattractive. that’s it, that’s all :) i hope she finds a partner that will marry her, take care of her and her baby, and actually looks good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:50 AM
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i’m gonna rag on it. i have no respect for men who don’t care to properly take care of the mother of their child. these men deserve nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:39 AM
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100%. women as a whole need to realize the importance of protecting our wombs. her sister was wayyy more caring and involved than he was during the delivery, and assisted with whatever the new mom needed which was beautiful to see. and not only was the dad unhelpful, he also was 5’7 and cross-eyed😤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:14 AM
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i and my future husband will be able to. i wouldn’t have a poor man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:20 PM
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literally my reaction. i was like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:19 PM
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lmao her bf also kinda pissed me off. he didn’t want to hold her leg up when she was pushing, and was either on his phone sitting down or holding her hand every so often. like i get some people are kinda off put by the process of delivery, but it’s also like, that’s YOUR baby and YOUR girlfriend. she’s literally experiencing the worst pain ever and you can’t even hold her leg up to make pushing easier? but he did cry when the baby was born and as he was holding the baby. that was cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:51 PM
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i can download all the apps i need soooo 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:47 PM
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aren’t we all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:43 PM
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woman said she wants her kids to have a good dad and doesn’t want to get a divorce, and a man has an issue with it. what is the world coming to🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:43 PM
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there’s nothing wrong with what she said but there’s something wrong with you having an android. that’s the only issue i see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:41 PM
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aw :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:40 PM
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just watched my first vaginal birth from start to finish and it was such a rollercoaster. when the patient finally gave birth after two hours of labor, i actually cried because i was so happy for her🥹 but omg between the pain, screaming, crying, and stitches i kept thinking “absolutely not”. it hit even more because the patient was the same age as me which i thought was so crazy. i won’t be having a baby until 4 or 5 years from now. and even then i’ll probably just have two myself, with any othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:40 PM
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no do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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some people just go to have a good time with friends, make or female
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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dancing at clubs is a woman thing. you learn something new every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:55 AM
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woah how did i get brought up in this??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:54 AM
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thanks queen🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:54 AM
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aw so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:06 AM
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people can’t just go to clubs to dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:05 AM
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it’s so nice dating a man who’s not submissive in bed. thank god that phase of my life is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:05 AM
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you got 2/3 correct lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:05 AM
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i played multiple organized sports year round for 12 years straight. good try but epic fail unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:00 AM
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that’s what my g*n is for. faking my death is just the warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:23 AM
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anyways i fucking love being a gym girlie. my bf has changed my life in so many ways but introducing me to the gym definitely takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:49 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/y89rbqw2v50e1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12ea62558a5dc60132f1e47163570e0328bf4518 literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:44 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:44 PM
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i wish i had an answer for you but i honestly don’t know. all of my boyfriends were LL before my current one so i get the frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:55 AM
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we just make time. helps that my bf has a good refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:43 AM
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i guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:27 PM
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do you actually think these women will date men they weren’t paying attention to just to have sex? when these women didn’t want to have sex with these men in the first place? i’m confused😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:17 PM
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i just had to remind everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:13 PM
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me too when i have a child years from now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:12 PM
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it won’t because women are saying they’re not having sex at all. the men who weren’t getting laid will continue not to get laid. and they’re still going to cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:11 PM
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i get that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:10 PM
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i have taken birth control measures by getting an iud and if worse came to worse, i’m from california anyways. i did my part. gotta keep living. though i do feel for women who can’t make the same choices i have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:10 PM
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never!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:09 PM
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these women are saying no sex at all though. casual or not. they’re not saying they’ll date men they’re not into just so they can have sex in a relationship. so again, men will still be complaining about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:07 PM
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idk personally, i’m still going to bang my chad bf 3x a day. that’s just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:05 PM
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but they would still complain that they’re not getting laid and cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:03 PM
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normalizes what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:01 PM
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wouldn’t this make men complain more though? i don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:58 PM
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lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:58 PM
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hi!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:57 PM
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that sub makes me so happy that me and my bf are both HL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:57 PM
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the only contraceptive that works 100% is abstinence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:55 PM
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i know. literally none of his friends have a girlfriend but one. they all express wanting one but things don’t really work out the way they wish them to i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 AM
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damn you’re right again. my bad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:44 AM
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the friends he hangs out with most don’t have girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:37 AM
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ok ok understood🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 AM
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i wasn’t even snooping😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:31 AM
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thank you🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:27 AM
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me after going on my bf’s phone to search a pizza place up and seeing “engagement rings (4 days ago)” as i’m typing: will missionglowup be a fiancé soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:24 AM
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i really don’t care if a man has friends or a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:13 AM
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did you not read her comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:12 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/xiuqnemwjxxd1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=30a22f89dbaa2c44d55f44a27b8fc815a7d446d6 love a woman who knows what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:39 PM
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that’s how i feel too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:39 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:26 AM
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for women yes (as in women care more about men’s face than body. but i don’t think the inverse is true.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:13 AM
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the enthusiasm being conditional is the problem. decisions about intimacy or anything really, should not be conditional. one should be confident in their choices after determining if potential risks outweigh potential positives. waiting three dates to have sex isn’t going to ensure that the relationship will work out or that he wants to date in the first place. that’s why doing anything on condition isn’t smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:52 AM
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if you are 100% sure about your choice and want to genuinely do something, the chances of regret are slim
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:47 AM
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my bf is/was like that. his birthday just passed and i set up a special day for him two hours away from us in a major city. we did a nature activity, a dinner where his friends met up with us as a surprise, and an escape room afterwards which is something he said he wanted to do for a long time. he said that im the only person who’s made him excited about his birthday since he was a kid. i come from a family where birthdays are a huge deal. and they should be treated as such because the next one…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:47 AM
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i think when people do things they genuinely want to do and are 100% sure about, those regrets won’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:43 AM
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i think compatibility is way more important than time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:41 AM
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no i go all out for my birthday and others’ birthdays
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:39 AM
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trust should be developed naturally. not based on a timeline. that’s just asking for disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:38 AM
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agree mostly though i argue for men, body is more important than face
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:36 AM
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100%. in my experience, if a man likes you and wants to be with you, he will show that. waiting x amount of dates to have sex isn’t drastically going to make him like you any more or any less if he’s really into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:36 AM
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it’s 100% dumb because you should be having sex with people you genuinely want to have sex with. there’s no regrets about naturally having sex with someone you actually want to do it with, regardless of when that is. creating some made up time line to “weed out” guys is weird. and then guys wonder why they get into dead bedrooms. don’t date or marry someone who views sex as something they give or reward to someone instead of something they do with someone they’re attracted to when it feels right…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:29 AM
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going to clubs with my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:54 AM
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my “pick me” opinions: •women waiting a set amount of time to have sex with a guy is dumb. waiting for x amount of days, months, years does not ensure that a man will take you seriously or have a ltr with you. it also gives me a bad vibe about the woman and her ideals of sex. •i really am not a fan of the concept that women should seek to date a man who has already built himself up in regards to career and possessions. i think a true sustainable relationship is one where the partners both start …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:52 AM
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yeah we had a stillborn on my floor today. i didn’t see it but it was pretty sad to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:48 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:33 AM
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nursing!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:32 AM
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yes i will in a couple hours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:29 AM
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in my first l&d clinical today i got to see three vaginal births and one c-section. it was so much fun working with these little fresh out the womb babies. they were so small and precious🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:02 AM
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ah yes i know what you’re talking about now. i’ll give it a try. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:19 PM
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is lat pulldown for back though? i use the lat pulldown machine for my back workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:14 PM
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i already have somewhat visible abs. i just need a super quick ab workout to add at the end of my arm days to keep my core tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:10 PM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:08 PM
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i already have lightly visible abs. i just want to keep my core tight and add something extra to my upper arm workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:08 PM
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you’re annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:06 PM
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how many sets and reps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:06 PM
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i already have definition. i just want to keep strengthening my core.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:06 PM
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how many sets and reps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:06 PM
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i said ab workout
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:05 PM
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both work…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:05 PM
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what about crutches?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:40 PM
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no. i just need a consistent ab workout to do after my upper body workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:39 PM
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for my gym peeps, what’s your quick ab workout (if you have one)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:34 PM
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not impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:33 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5hrsfvuaqfxd1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79010f66082a09c22d650cf497343362b4b876ca ah it all makes sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:43 AM
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so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:39 AM
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i miss the strip club. i need to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:31 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:32 AM
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i wouldn’t show my face. it’s moreso being intimate on camera for the public to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:46 AM
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we’ve talked about it because we know we would do well on it. but i’m too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:29 AM
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reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:28 AM
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????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:25 AM
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omg no that is not me😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:25 AM
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yeah i’m a huge gym girl. i have tried to do it but it never goes well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:18 AM
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do you truly believe there’s no women at all who are attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:17 AM
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there’s no hope for me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:13 AM
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lame when a guy does the cucking. hot when a girl does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:09 AM
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that’s so cool. i’m always fascinated by it because i don’t understand the mechanisms behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:09 AM
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terry crews is a good one if you can do the chest twitch thingy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:04 AM
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what “plans”, if any, do you have to improve your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:03 AM
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i’m the exact same way. last time i said it on this sub they got so mad. but like you, i can’t be sexual with a dick that i don’t find nice to look at. it just doesn’t work for me mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:02 AM
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a dysfunctional one😭 kinda slutty race car driver. hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:01 AM
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you’re so right friend. mine are bald, uncircumcised, my height or shorter than me, and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:00 AM
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don’t say uncircumcised. they’ll get mad and saw you’re promoting child mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:59 AM
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are you the only fans type?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:58 AM
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omg? those are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:54 AM
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i’m sure something might be down for halloween costumes. reveals are always fun on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:53 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:52 AM
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do you even want to date or do you have no interest in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:52 AM
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i’ve never heard the outie belly button one. interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:50 AM
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it is an ask me anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:49 AM
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least fav?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:49 AM
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i actually feel like a good portion of users on at least this thread are black. at least that’s how it seemed when we did physique reveals a week or two ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:49 AM
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last time i said mine, some random radical user who doesn’t even visit this sub gave me a whole lecture on why i was wrong for my dealbreaker and how im the worst person ever. so ill refrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:48 AM
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i see. thank you for answering my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:46 AM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:46 AM
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ah ok very cool. i had a similar experience with another dating/lifestyle “philosophy”. youtube is great. how does your black pill perspectives and beliefs impact your dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:42 AM
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do you guys still go on dates? are you still attracted to your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:38 AM
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it’s the things i say on here that get people mad lol thanks for answering by the way. i’m always interested in hearing men’s thoughts on the question. i’m sure being settled for really ruins someone’s sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:38 AM
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hm i guess i respect it. though the one who will be with you for the long haul with support you through all of that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:34 AM
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i see. what happened to making plans and the silliness of young love? where did it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:33 AM
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i’ve said worse🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:32 AM
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i understand. i hope things work out for you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:31 AM
1

how did you become black pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:30 AM
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any woman who would do that is kinda dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:30 AM
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fav leg day exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:29 AM
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i’m here!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:29 AM
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why is it important you get an idea of your career trajectory for dating? especially if you’re looking for a long term partner. i never understood this perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:28 AM
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oof you’re really putting in some work. did you have to switch up your nutrition? if so, what diet are you following?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:27 AM
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very cute. do you feel like you love her more than you did when you guys first got together?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:26 AM
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can i asked you what stopped you from marrying someone earlier in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:25 AM
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you need to date the tall athletes. that would be so perf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:24 AM
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what’s stopping you from looking for one right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:22 AM
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do you wish you would’ve found a wife earlier in life? or it’s something you don’t really care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:15 AM
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would you prefer to date a tall women or a short one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:15 AM
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have you found it difficult to find someone who meets your ideals and preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:14 AM
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that makes sense. do you love your wife? how has she/does she impact your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:13 AM
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lighten up keebs. it was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:13 AM
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that’s awesome dude. what does a typical cardio workout look like for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:13 AM
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that’s around the age i was guessing. what does your relationship/dating life look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:04 AM
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shhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:02 AM
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jeez you’re a baby. why are you on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:02 AM
1

how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:01 AM
1

how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:01 AM
1

how’s the gym journey going?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:00 AM
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bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:00 AM
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did you ever play a sport? what do you think prohibits you from getting the dating results you desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:00 AM
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got ya. what’s stopped you from doing that so far, if anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:59 AM
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i hope they ask you to be a mod someday. you’d be great!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:58 AM
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is this your AMA? i have questions to ask youuu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:56 AM
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do you like being tall? how does it impact you dating wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:53 AM
1

how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:51 AM
1

do you aspire to be married and have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:50 AM
1

what does your dream girl look like and what personality characteristics does she have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:49 AM
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well i’m happy you’re here. i like reading what you say on the daily thread. can i ask a kinda personal question?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:48 AM
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🥲 i hope it all works out for you. the path won’t be easy but it’ll be worth it in the end. the world needs you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:47 AM
1

i’m a soy sauce fanatic but on popcorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:44 AM
1

obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:44 AM
1

haha fair. why would you prefer to work with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 AM
1

one of my fav ppd commenters🩷 what’s something you wish men understood about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 AM
1

that’s awesome. would you ever open your own practice someday or is that not an interest for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:41 AM
1

it was stacy’s idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:40 AM
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if you could magically change one thing about dating dynamics between straight men and women, what would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:40 AM
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that’s a good rule. if you were asked to be a mod, would you accept the position?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:39 AM
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fair. if i was dating a man who had a lot of hair at the beginning of our relationship but lost it, i wouldn’t break up or divorce him over it. but im not willingly getting into a relationship with a bald man in my 20s. maybe if i was still single and in my 30s, i’d be a little more understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:38 AM
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what are your long term academic and career goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:36 AM
1

ppd queen👑 if you were a mod on this sub, what’s one rule you would instill or change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:35 AM
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i’ve been pretty curious about this… how did you find this sub and why do you frequent it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:33 AM
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bald men are just so ugly and odd looking to me. it’s vital that my man has hair on his head. what will i run my fingers through?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:32 AM
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i didn’t know you were the only bald man to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:28 AM
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i’ll deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:27 AM
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i’m all for everyone doing an AMA. i definitely have questions for everyone😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:22 AM
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lol who are your three least favorite people on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:22 AM
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balding is a major ick. i’d rather data a guy with a small dick than one who’s bald or balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:20 AM
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thanks bud
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:50 AM
1

i don’t know what’s changed in the past couple days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:42 AM
1

she’s gorg to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:38 AM
1

aren’t you a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:37 AM
1

omg😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:37 AM
1

love that for us ladies on here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:36 AM
1

you’re really trying. i’ll give you that❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:17 AM
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i’m so happy to have such an amazing boyfriend who treats me like a princess, genuinely loves me, is super hot, and is just a good man all around. the dating pool seems to get trashier by the day so i’m happy i’m not in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:05 AM
1

it would be more funny if it was original
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:01 AM
1

i disagree and that’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:01 AM
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👟 :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:00 AM
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the only person bothered in this thread is you so obviously the shoe fits and you’re wearing it. i said from the start that’s it’s kinda funny how these grown men start raging about standards they can’t meet. it’s like children throwing a tantrum because it’s annoying, funny, and kinda adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:53 PM
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we can just agree to disagree. again saying you have a preference for men who provide because it’s something i consider masculine isn’t a jab. a jab would be “i wish poor men would d*e because they’re a waste of space”. that’s a jab and offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:45 PM
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triggered by grown adult men who throw tantrums because they’re too poor to meet the standard of someone who wants a sole provider? i don’t think so buddy🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:43 PM
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stating your feelings isn’t a “passive aggressive post” or “jab”. it’s just you stating your own opinion which is perfectly ok. the world isn’t rainbows and sunshine where everyone agrees on the same thing and has the same exact views. which is why raging about someone having an opinion that’s different from yours is dumb. this is where we differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:36 PM
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who’s problem is that? theirs or yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:29 PM
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we live in a society where telling the truth is a “childish insult”. look how far we’ve come. all the men who were talking about her expressed being attracted to her in previous posts and follow her. cope harder buddy. you’re genuinely not the brightest. you can twist and turn it however you like, but people are not raging and threatening harm to people that express a standard that they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:29 PM
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really? me saying i find tall men masculine doesn’t indicate that men who aren’t tall aren’t real men. i think you’re jumping to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:20 PM
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as i said to someone else, people don’t rage about standards they meet. you don’t see tall men lashing out about women’s height standards/preferences for tall men, because they’re tall. so why would these men be lashing out and threatening to harm her if they had enough money to solely support her and themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:12 PM
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but she nor i ever said anything about being a “real man”. you did. saying that you see something as masculine doesn’t indicate that someone who doesn’t have said thing isn’t a “real man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:10 PM
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when did i say anything about “real men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:04 PM
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any man complaining about her standards is most likely broke and not masculine to her. people don’t complain and rage about standards they meet themselves. you don’t see tall men lashing out about women wanting tall men because they’re tall. you don’t see fit women lashing out about men wanting fit women because they’re fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:02 PM
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telling me to grow up but defending grown men throwing tantrums because a woman they find attractive said she refuses to date a man who won’t pay 100% of the bills, is crazy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:55 PM
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how are her opinions dumb? they’re her opinions. well that is the truth isn’t it? they don’t have enough funds to be able to pay all the bills. if they did, they wouldn’t be so upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:52 PM
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how is she jabbing at and insulting men by saying “i associate men who pay for bills as masculine and consider them true providers”. this seems like a statement to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:50 PM
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keep searching. maybe you’ll find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:46 PM
1

stable and lowkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:43 PM
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they’re allowed to explain why they have that preference. if they associate it with masculinity and being a true provider, i don’t know why that’s an issue. if men were as logical as they claim to be, they would realize that they’re not masculine enough for said woman and go on about their day. instead they want to throw tantrums like the women is going to change her standards just because they’re angry they’re too poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:41 PM
1

and that’s totally fine. i’m sure there’s a woman out there who would be willing to do that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:33 PM
1

i don’t see women bashing and trying to humble men who say they don’t want to date fat women. not saying it doesn’t happen, but i don’t see women taking those frustrations out on men and threatening to harm him because he doesn’t date fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:29 PM
1

this has to be it. the woman i’m talking about even responded to the hate by saying men who can’t meet her standard should find someone who doesn’t mind splitting, and they were upset about that asking her “what does she bring to the table?” and “what makes her so special”. these men are so embarrassing lol. it’s no wonder why so many are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:27 PM
1

so the response is to rage and try to “humble” someone who is clearly stating that you’re too broke to date her if you can’t afford to pay all the bills… makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:11 PM
1

it’s so weird (but kinda funny) how mad men get when a woman says she wants a man who is a provider and solely pays the bills. they have this weird want to humble women with this standard when they could move on with their day and find a woman who doesn’t mind splitting. it’s like they feel attacked or something💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:06 PM
1

so at least i’m being fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:27 AM
4

asked for men to order wife, daughter, and mother in order of importance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:26 AM
3

i believe a man should put his children before his wife so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:26 AM
3

children i bring into this world and raise since birth will always mean more to me than any other person. including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:22 AM
3

i don’t think i want to buried
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:18 AM
2

to answer my own question but as a woman, my order of significance is: son, husband, then father. son first because my children will be the most important to me. they will literally be little beings that i helped create, and my life responsibility will be to take care of them and provide them with the best resources so that they’ll succeed in this world. if i don’t have anything else in this world, i’ll have my kids so they’ll always be first. husband second because he will be the person i’ve vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:57 AM
1

“you knew her first?” whew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:53 PM
1

mother is owed “loyalty” over your own child?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:45 PM
3

ya know, not everyone is meant to have kids and that’s perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:32 PM
2

i like this explanation. very cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:24 PM
5

your mother over your own daughter? your own dna and child that depends on you and will look up to you for guidance? you’re wild for this take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:23 PM
1

i would probs kms since i have nothing to live for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:19 PM
2

🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:19 PM
2

i personally believe that the order should be daughter, wife, then mother, but your order is one i also understand. i saw this tweet on twitter who chose the same order you did and i think they bring up a great point about how the order you chose promotes good familial structure. https://preview.redd.it/6q7rceego6xd1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e569202245d853a3085543285c1c229f5cd8e6ad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:17 PM
1

you can hypothetically answer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:10 PM
2

this is the correct answer. probably the first time i’ve ever agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:10 PM
1

it’s my opinion regarding my life. other people can do whatever they want but if i were to die without having kids, i would feel like a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:07 PM
1

having *your own children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:00 PM
1

i think life is meaningless without having children and you can’t really do that without having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:59 PM
1

q4m rank these people in order of importance: mother, wife & daughter. explain your reasoning for the order you picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:58 PM
1

kinda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:57 PM
1

why is that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:59 AM
2

aw so cute. thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:59 AM
5

when do men go to war for their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:58 AM
1

well can they? i have my own thoughts but i want to hear from the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:38 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:24 AM
2

q4m do you think men have the ability and capacity to genuinely love, care, and respect a woman? why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:17 AM
2

thank you so much. you are 100% right. i didn’t complete grasp this until this moment with my mom. it really is sad that women putting themselves first, for really the first time in history on such a large scale, is getting so much push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:46 AM
2

selling myself short? i promise you that im not interested in corny old ass ryan reynolds. you can have him, im not competing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:27 AM
1

english?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:26 AM
1

i want to live my early 20s without the responsibility of children and any impacts of birth on my body. simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:20 AM
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was discussing with someone about having kids young after the post i made earlier about childbirth. and it reminded me of this convo i had with my mom last year… i am the first woman in my family for the past four generations on BOTH sides, to reach my age without having a baby. my mom had me at 22 and had already been married for four years when she had me. last year, we were sitting together and she just turned to me randomly and told me she’s so proud of me. i asked her why and she told me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:17 AM
1

no i will definitely be married before having any children the only thing you mentioned that’s a given with childbirth is wider hips. bigger boobs are not a given and boobs actually often deflate and get saggy due to loss of elasticity. there’s also loose skin on the stomach which is a big no no to me as i like midriffs and bathing suits. i just want to have the fit athletic body i do now for as long as possible and maximize it while i can. it look me so long to be happy and comfortable in my bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:47 PM
1

i am worried about what it will do with not only my body (because having kids young DOES change your body and you will never look like you did prebaby), but my sense of self and my identity as an individual as well. i want to travel. i want to save money. i want to live alone with my future husband for a couple years. i want to buy things i want because ive worked hard to do so. i want to do whatever i want to do whenever i want to do it. i have siblings who are drastically younger than me so i …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:32 PM
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he’s attractive on mute. both him and blake lively are kinda cringey once they start talking. that being said he is old, and i can find a bunch of guys as or more attractive than him on my college campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:26 PM
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that’s fine with me. i just want to live my younger years having fun, doing what i want, and being beautiful. not having my life, body, and freedom altered by being a mom. the kids can wait until 28/29/30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:23 PM
2

thanks. as you can see, common sense isn’t so common on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:21 PM
2

imagine giving birth in older times. when you have no idea about your baby until they come out, or why you feel the way you do be it physically or mentally. so scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:06 PM
2

yes it’s called postpartum depression and it’s a very real thing. it’s due to major hormonal changes, and often times regret since your life has drastically changed so quickly. it can make moms show signs of depression, may make moms not even want to be around their babies, and more. some moms even have visions of k*lling their babies. it’s so much of a thing that when women go to OB appointments before and after birth, they are screened for it. kinda like that anxiety/depression screening you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:03 PM
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i get to see live births and c-sections during my clinical rotations. this is the area i want to work in post grad so im stoked. i want to make sure these moms and babies get the best care because they’re both putting in a lot of work and deserve nothing but the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:53 PM
1

yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:50 PM
1

msn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:50 PM
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yes. i learned a lot about what they do in the hospitals to moms who just had children and why they do it. also what moms can expect after they go home. just dealing with all the body changes and everything feeling so strange and different. certainly was an eye opener because i never really throughout about the after effects of birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:49 PM
1

it’s a masters program
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:44 PM
1

i wasn’t a bully in high school despite my sorority girl to nurse trajectory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:44 PM
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do not have children with men who don’t appreciate the hardships of pregnancy, labor, and motherhood. do not have children with men who won’t take care of you and your children. do not have children with men who do not fulfill you in every way whether that’s physical, mental, emotional, financial, etc. literally do not put your life on the line for a man who is not worth it to you 10000%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:42 PM
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on another note, right now in school we’re learning about labor and delivery and it’s insane. as someone who wants kids and to be a mom, learning about what happens to women’s bodies during and after birth made me feel kinda queasy because it’s so intense and traumatic. definitely made me push my “when i want to have kids” age back a couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:40 PM
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oh i agree. and you mentioned something important, the motivation has to be there. i’m not even talking about dating dynamics but with anything in general. so many people choose to cry about things instead of doing something about them or adjusting their thoughts and moving forward. it’s difficult to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:33 PM
1

you got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:31 PM
1

look up the aries zodiac. we’re known as the most competitive sign. we always want to win, and we rage when we don’t. i don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:31 PM
1

just trying to take it day by day. this time next year i’ll be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:26 PM
1

nursing *student
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:21 PM
2

kinda agree. i am thankful that men exist and would hate life if they didn’t, but i definitely think the world would be more peaceful if men didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:21 PM
1

i contribute a lot of my competitiveness to being a daddy’s girl. but i’m also an aries so there’s that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:19 PM
1

i’ve always been a straight A student. i graduated undergrad with a 4.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:16 PM
1

i think the moderation of complaining matters too. my ex was one of those “if this didn’t happen x amount of years ago, i would’ve done etc” people, and used that to validate why he wasn’t motivated in life. it became unbearable and i started to become insensitive to his feelings. expressing feelings isn’t a bad thing. life sucks. it’s just using those feelings as a reason why a person isn’t doing anything in life, that throws me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:15 PM
1

nursing school is actually draining me so much lol i’ve aced my last two exams and got a 98% on a paper that everyone around me scored low on. but im always tired and i feel like i never have time to study for all my classes because we have an exam for a class every single week. then 12 hour clinical shifts every single week too. so much work, not enough time. i would love to take a nap right now because i feel super tired, but then i feel guilty for not doing schoolwork. i also need to go to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:12 PM
3

i have said this to plenty of males on this sub and others?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:03 PM
1

or the miserable can just form relationships with each other. that works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:57 PM
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thats totally fair. people who are ambitious need to distance themselves from these type of people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:56 PM
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i will say one of the things that caused me to fall out of love with my ex was how much he would complain and sulk about things. it’s not even a “women hate when men show their emotions” thing. it’s a “pick yourself up and keep going” thing. i really hate people who are constantly trying to find a reason to validate their poor behavior or lack of ambition. stay away from those type of people. they will just try to drag you down with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:52 PM
1

no. i was just saying men want us to care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:48 PM
1

i think 3 is the most optimal cut off. statistically, going past that just increases chances of divorce and an unsuccessful relationship anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:48 PM
2

hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:42 PM
1

when society started calling out predatory behavior (thankfully so)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:41 PM
1

but want us to care about the male loneliness “epidemic” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:40 PM
1

nothing too harsh or abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:38 PM
1

he’s just copying the things i say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:42 AM
1

lmaooo you always make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:55 AM
1

what’s causing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:17 AM
2

how many attractive men are there, to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:16 AM
1

makes sense. i hope things work out the way you want them to <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:12 AM
1

why not pay for an escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:07 AM
2

no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:06 AM
1

me either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:06 AM
1

i don’t think this is the case for most women. i think most women get men they actually want. women don’t date out of desperation as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:05 AM
1

i actually find that women and men have a different idea of what facial features are attractive in men so that’s a big different imo. but point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:00 AM
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well you’re a man and men and women find different things attractive so i don’t necessarily expect these people to be good looking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:54 AM
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both factors need to be there, especially if sexual intimacy is an expectation. unless you’re asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:50 AM
1

i agree. i would just say in relationships, after a decent amount of time, it’s just looks>personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:46 AM
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are you really gonna say that women complain more than men? seriously? no, lowering standards isn’t the logical thing to do. be with who you actually want to be with instead of wasting someone’s time because you want free labor, to get laid, and you’re scared to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:45 AM
1

the “personality is more important than looks” concept always made me giggle because it sounds like straight virtue signaling and i personally don’t trust anyone who says it. you can’t have sex with personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:41 AM
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i think the reaction would be different if men lowered their standards and stfu. but instead of doing that, they try to manipulate women into doing the same thing and get mad when we don’t. so it is their fault because they could’ve just kept chasing stacy and been content with that, instead of shaming women for not wanting to stop chase chad. simply because men don’t want to be alone and feel like they’re entitled to companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:34 AM
-5

men realize they can’t get stacy so they lower their standards just to not be alone and to have consistent sex. then they rage and complain because women don’t do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:28 AM
-4

both are true but the first one is the main reason why men are so upset with dating dynamics right now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:22 AM
1

he’s the absolute best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:16 AM
1

i really don’t want one. my dad keeps trying to get me to get one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:08 AM
-3

being able to walk alone at night. that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:03 AM
1

can’t get mad at the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:56 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:55 AM
1

i was just being snarky because i felt like you were coming for me lol. please don’t take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:41 AM
1

oh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:29 AM
1

my bad. i can be snarky like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:27 AM
1

what gif is this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:26 AM
1

i’m just a girl. of course i’m gonna use trendy lingo until it goes out of style😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:25 AM
1

right because i was posting progress pics for you specifically. the bald virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:23 AM
1

because he copies what i say for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:22 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/wjcvb9bza7wd1.png?width=1319&format=png&auto=webp&s=a8466f5949df3783904c016bd571bcc147d1115e he gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:19 AM
2

https://preview.redd.it/yk8pqsuaa7wd1.jpeg?width=5617&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1fe25107fecd80cc1cd66d51af0393b33a3931f9 like look at the quad and calves definition😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:15 AM
1

img like look at those quads. looks at those calves😩
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:09 AM
2

i think my new favorite feature of mine is my legs. they’re just look so strong and perf to me🤌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:01 AM
1

exactly. it like an indescribable feeling of protection and safety that’s experienced when next to a tall man. it’s really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:36 PM
1

having a tall bf is so nice. just makes me feel so cute and feminine ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:27 PM
1

he’s so ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:28 AM
2

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:51 AM
0

guess i’m a pedo since my bf is a little younger than me 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:13 AM
-1

aw that is absolutely adorable🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 AM
2

22
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:01 AM
1

people usually get to that weight due to trauma of some kind. i commend people who lose the weight though, especially through hard work. that being said, if i was in this situation, i probably wouldn’t date the previously 400 pound guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:58 AM
-2

it’s always a little bit funny when me and my bf get random comments from people simply because we’re an interracial couple in public. last night we went to the club, and some guy randomly came up to us and said “i love this. i love this, you guys look amazing.” we looked great ofc but me and my bf just looked at each other like 🤨🤔🥴 the comments always have good intentions behind them but they’re always like… ???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:55 AM
0

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:51 AM
1

fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:12 AM
1

i have no idea really. i just came up with this scenario based on a youtube vid im watching lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:01 AM
1

no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:53 AM
1

do you think you would push her to get the loose skin removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:53 AM
1

OMG???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:47 AM
1

no way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:47 AM
0

omg i thought you were my age. you learn something new every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:41 AM
0

how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:37 AM
1

q4m imagine you’re a man who occupies the gym frequently. during most of your workouts, you recognize a woman you find attractive who frequents the gym around the same time as you do. one day, after noticing her for weeks to months, you take the plunge and ask her for a date to which she says yes! during this date, she shares with you that she used to be 400 pounds. but through diet and working out, she now looks fit and attractive. plus she has your ideal body type in women. her personality is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:35 AM
1

what about us moderate POC?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:19 AM
1

sure. but then wouldn’t/shouldn’t the focus be on marriage and/or relationship rates instead of sex rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:18 AM
1

sure but what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:08 AM
1

good point. that was certainly the case for me and i definitely think that plays a part in these statistics. my senior internship in undergrad was for sexual health and prevention. college students at my school were very receptive to the information we would tell them about sex safety and disease prevention. i guess what im most confused about is the hyperfocus on sex specifically when these stats are mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:59 PM
1

i really don’t lol. like what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:51 PM
1

i still don’t know why gen z having less sex is an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:48 PM
1

she’s just thicker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:36 PM
1

eh definitely more muscle than fat. i have the same stature, my waist got smaller and i still have the same clothing size as i did pre-gym. if my stature changed, my measurements got bigger, and i went up in clothing sizes, i would have agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:36 PM
1

disagree. as someone who was really skinny pre gym and now has a fat ass and a fit but soft curvy body, eating more helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:29 PM
1

going to bed wearing the day’s dirt and germs. nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:28 PM
2

totally agree with you dry ad🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:27 PM
1

i feel like asses that were built in the gym are so perky and shapely which looks good to me personally. but i can appreciate a natural ass too because they tend to be more fat, and the movement of them is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:13 PM
1

you obviously have to eat healthy and consume things like protein and carbs. you can’t eat like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:12 PM
2

it’s the truth. if you focus your workouts to your back, thighs, and butt, you can create a curvy illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:07 PM
1

you have to eat to build muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:06 PM
1

that’s your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:49 PM
2

kinda? i mean what makes someone curvy often has to do with bone structure and fat distribution which you can’t change in the gym. but you can certainly create curvy illusions with non-drastic muscle gain. muscle gain doesn’t need to be extreme. it just needs to happen in the right places so you need to focus on the right areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:43 PM
1

i built a butt in the gym. it’s not hard and has jiggle to it. but you can definitely tell the difference between an ass that was built in the gym and one that wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:40 PM
1

i am talking strictly about her face. what would i grieve about? she’s a rando woman i’ve never seen before today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:39 PM
1

congratulations!! that’s so exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:32 PM
1

no. seems like a kind and respectful move, to me anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:19 PM
1

that’s fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:14 PM
1

i can elaborate in dm. if i elaborate here, ill get banned. i’ve talked about this stuff on here before and got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:08 PM
2

she’s not even 35 in the second photo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:07 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:06 PM
-4

that’s why a lot of women don’t care about the “male loneliness epidemic”. it just comes as whining and men get expecting sympathy that’s not reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:05 PM
1

she has a really pretty face actually. face card’s better than most of the men her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:04 PM
1

if i get too specific, I’ll get banned. i can message you if you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:04 PM
1

someone doesn’t know what “bw” means. sad. bw desire to be feminine and submissive but are simply unable to. any attempts to make choices that would put them in that submissive position are literally hated on by their own community. i am saying this as someone who has dealt with this and see bw go through this literally the time. a bw was literally just berated on twitter by bm for saying she doesn’t split bills with men she’s in a relationship in. imagine getting d***** threats and hate thrown …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:01 PM
1

yes it’s definitely a specific group of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:54 PM
1

yes bw (AMERICAN because that’s what bw are; AFRICANS are not AMERICAN) have not been given the opportunity to be feminine. BW do not think being submissive or feminine is weakness because they want to. it’s usually because they are never given the opportunity to be submissive and feminine, and have to take on masculine roles for the same of others and the community. bw are literally the only race of women who get shamed and dissed for wanting to be submissive, and setting boundaries that allow …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:24 PM
1

why are we talking about traditional AFRICAN households? are you unaware of black AMERICAN history or are you just playing dense for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:12 PM
1

i think it’s mostly about being out of shape. but a lot of it is just bad aging genetics like balding, beer belly, wrinkles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:00 PM
1

her face card has never declined
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:59 PM
1

this is so loud and wrong bw are very rarely given the opportunity to be submissive and feminine, due to their role in the community to be strong and be the backbone for everyone but themselves. now there are things bw could do to change this… but many times bw are shamed when we do try to make choices that prioritize our happiness and take steps towards achieving that fairytale ending and love story we do desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:56 PM
2

you will find him. he’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:52 PM
1

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:52 PM
1

love, desire, care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:51 PM
1

not at all actually. he talks about how much he loves or misses his girlfriend and discusses some of his daily activities. he’s also from canada and he talks about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:31 PM
1

idk his exact user lol. i just know it starts with zair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:27 PM
-1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:47 AM
0

break up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:47 AM
1

this is a great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:04 AM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:53 AM
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nope. i’m all over the place with pills. but i do heavily believe that in any relationship, especially a marriage, the male is supposed to lead and the women should follow. and that the man should be seen as the head of the household and respected as one. and i know this isn’t a common mindset amongst women, but my personal life goal is to be a mom and everything i’m doing in regards to career is purely for the security and wellbeing of my future children that i will love and care for. it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:52 AM
0

to me, frequency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:36 AM
0

take my husband’s last name as God intended. i am his wife. he leads our union and I’ll follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:35 AM
1

you’re being funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:22 AM
1

i 100% agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:21 AM
2

no but you’re def a realist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:02 AM
-1

glad you’re still here with us queen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:15 AM
1

that’s roped into the compassion trait. because i really really love him. and people in general honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:45 AM
-3

physically: my smile, my lips, my legs, my ass, my skin tone, my hair personality: humor, empathy, compassion, intelligence, how girly and soft i am, how motherly i am
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:32 AM
2

you don’t have one. you’re pretty random.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:37 PM
1

i thought about you but your posts are always random
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:34 PM
2

this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:32 PM
1

thanks bud❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:42 PM
2

i’m a grad student who is constantly studying. you guys do not want to see my trader joe’s quick dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:38 PM
1

yes correct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:37 PM
-2

🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:33 PM
1

makes sense sine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:32 PM
2

you’re so right unique. i won’t let them silence me😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:32 PM
1

mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:31 PM
1

i’ve been doing that for the past year
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:31 PM
1

we like each other the exact same lol. i just threw the man a surprise birthday celebration and he told me no one has cared about him or his birthday as much as i do. we match each other perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:30 PM
1

right so you agree this sub is about debating as well as gender dynamics. and the daily thread is for all types of topics. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:28 PM
1

i totally agree. so i should just ignore them right like ive been doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:27 PM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:26 PM
1

you don’t know that. i would say no at this moment. not because i don’t love him but because i want the best proposal, engagement experience, and wedding, and i would not get that while we’re in school. i would like us to be graduated, making good money in the workforce, and not stressed with school commitments (mainly me as im in an accelerated grad program and im constantly busy with something school related which sucks the fun out of life in a multitude of ways)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:25 PM
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that makes sense but if people are freaking out that much about people being in love and happy in a relationship, then they need to do what you did and read other posts or get off the internet in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:23 PM
1

who cares? this isn’t a woe is me sub or thread unless i missed that in the sub rules or sub description.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:20 PM
1

we are literally in school still. most people aren’t getting married or engaged while they’re currently in college and have yet to graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:16 PM
1

no i don’t care if people engage with them lol. it’s just weird how people get so angry about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:15 PM
1

if all these people can talk about their niches every time they post, why can’t i? “bf like me” is a huge flex and i love talking about it. it makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:13 PM
1

you really don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:12 PM
1

i have a niche and people bitch about it so i’m trying to change it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:12 PM
1

we’ve been dating for a little over two years and are still in school. i don’t expect a proposal at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:11 PM
1

i heard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:05 PM
1

hmm ok so niches: hannah talks about school. automatic talks about BMIs. zair talks about his gf. random user talks about impregnating random women. the guy who double spaces his posts talks about his daily interactions with women and how they’re not up to his standards. some other guy talks about how he’s a virgin and bald and the world is over. another guy talks about dickpill 24/7. but when i talk about my bf and how much i love him, all hell breaks loose. create a new (not boring) niche for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:03 PM
2

mostly. that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:47 PM
1

well we do have a lot of sex… BUT i’ve always commented on other topics besides my bf, and talked about dating in general. the way i post now is no different than it was before besides the fact that im busier with school and im not on here as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:46 PM
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not yet. he randomly asked me the other day how i would feel if he proposed to me next year so idk what that signifies. i sent him a video of a ring about a year ago and i do know he has it saved on his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:41 PM
1

this is the truth that people are scared to admit. i appreciate the honesty and that’s why im not going to stop posting about my bf or how happy he makes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:36 PM
1

i don’t see people getting mad at zair for talking about how much he loves his girlfriend though or how much she loves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:35 PM
1

this is quality content right here. this is awesome. this is what life is all about. keep the updates coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:27 PM
1

you’re capping. i’m about to start making posts about my bf as often as that guy who double spaces every sentence, and is constantly talking about his interactions with women every single day and how they’re not meeting his standards. then you guys can really hate me because im not even on this sub as often as i used to be due to school. chad is still a man. we’re in a relationship and he genuinely loves me like i love him. in fact, you guys should be happy for me since according to all of you o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:26 PM
1

the shark? 🦈
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:14 PM
1

didn’t read the story but read your thoughts… i don’t date men who have female friends. i don’t have male friends so they shouldn’t have female friends. all is balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:14 PM
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i don’t see you comment this same sentiment when other post similar things and you’re not the only one either. the guys on this sub say women are unable to truly love men but then get weird when a woman on this sub is being outspoken about how much she loves her partner. that’s odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:12 PM
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you guys are so annoying lol. if i can read people’s date recaps and about people hooking up with women to purposely turn them into single moms, i can talk about a wholesome moment in my relationship. that zair guy talks about his girlfriend all the time and i get hate because i love my bf and think he’s great. cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:08 PM
1

thats your prerogative, not mine. though i respect your thoughts and how you choose to live your life🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:05 PM
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my favorite thing about my chad is that he is so in love with me. we were laying down with one another the other day, and he was just telling me how much he needs me in his life and how much i complete him. how i make him better and how much i make him a better man. he was so passionate about what he was saying that a tear fell from his eye and throughout our relationship, i’ve only seen him a cry like two times over very serious things. i love him so much and it’s so precious that he loves me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:59 PM
1

you get it 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:32 PM
1

i know it was a joke lol. that’s why i said i’ve never measured🤣 i agree 100% with your analysis because i feel the exact same. i also really only get pleasure from PIV so maybe if i was more into alternative sex acts i would care less about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:18 PM
1

good questions moshi anything above 6 inches is great. my bf is 7.5 and that’s literally perfect. why do i like a bigger one? feels good and creates a “fuller” feeling. also big dicks are more of a mental and physical challenge which makes sex fun. do i have a big pussy? i don’t think so nor have i ever been told i have one. i never measured though. despite having a preference on dick size, i did have a bf who was smaller (4 inches) and i didn’t think less of him because of it. i liked him and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:03 PM
1

my attraction to him would drastically decline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:51 PM
1

what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:26 PM
1

don’t let that get you down. i had a small dick boyfriend once and we had sex. he just never dominated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:22 PM
-2

it always surprised me how much artsy projects are required in college. like why am i doing a canva project in a masters nursing program??? i want to kms
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:12 PM
3

i would actually agree with you here tim tim
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:08 PM
1

omg?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:07 PM
3

idk why. men fuck anything, even turtles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:57 PM
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what’s there’s to think really? she’ll have to adjust her standards and move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:50 PM
1

5 is small
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:23 PM
1

5 is small
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:23 PM
1

both of them lacked height and money one of them lacked dick size but i truly am more compatible with my current partner from a personality standpoint and he loves me better than both of them did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:19 PM
1

well then that goes to my original statement. was totally into my past partners the most i could be at that time, but because i see my bf as better than them in every way, i love him more and treat him better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:47 AM
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i just love my bf more than my exes so it inspires me to do more and be the best i can as a partner. part of the reason why i love my bf more is because he is an amazing guy, we have a lot in common, he understands me, etc. but a small but important part of that is he’s very attractive, he’s tall, he has money, he had a large penis, he’s intelligent, etc. i find him extremely attractive and i want him to be mine forever. so all these factors together equals to me treating him like royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:23 AM
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i’ll copy/paste from another reply: i’ve never thought of the guys i’ve dated as low value until i started dating a high value man. when i was with them, i treated them what i considered was great at the time. it’s only now in reflection that i realize i treat my current partner way better than i treated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:03 AM
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i’m many things but never a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:03 AM
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i’ve never thought of the guys i’ve dated as low value until i started dating a high value man. when i was with them, i treated them what i considered was great at the time. it’s only now in reflection that i realize i treat my current partner way better than i treated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:02 AM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:29 AM
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i’ve said this before but i’m currently laying down really thinking about life so i’ll say it again… it is really crazy how i treat and love my “high value” bf compared to my exes who were just average guys. i can be vulnerable and honest, and recognize that there is definitely a difference in treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:08 AM
-1

expand further?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:04 AM
1

i also love those videos but it always makes me feel so bad when the wife is distraught. makes me happy these husbands are getting embarrassed though and will most likely get divorced and have everything taken from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:20 AM
1

dap does a good job of exposing the preds, embarrassing them, and even punishing them. i highly recommend you check them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:19 AM
1

thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:15 AM
2

yeah i could tell he’s a predator in how he’s trying to defend these sick men. he feels attacked that people like him are being charged and convicted for being sickos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:15 AM
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plenty of these men get convicted because it does hold up. who cares what the minor’s age is on the app? if they tell you in conversation they’re a minor, and you talk sexually to them and try to meet up, you’re being charged. simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:13 AM
1

no but they truly don’t need one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:09 AM
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no that’s not how it works. these predators know the person they’re trying to meet up with is claiming to be a minor. the decoy literally says they’re underage during the messages or calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:02 AM
2

they primarily use dating apps to catch these predators. idk what you mean by bate and switch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:55 AM
1

my fav genre of youtube DAP is better than chris hansen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:54 AM
2

then they’re being a bit dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:53 AM
1

yeah i agree that that’s a bit of a far fetched opinion. i think most women can definitely be satisfied with average though the preference tends to be bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:48 AM
1

i wouldn’t classify 6 as small
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:46 AM
3

that’s why you’re on hinge <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:23 AM
1

it does bode well because you’ll never be with someone you don’t actually find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:20 AM
1

it makes total sense. sex with a small pp is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:19 AM
1

women are the prize bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:19 AM
2

5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:12 AM
1

you can always tell who the non-intelligent people are on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:11 AM
-3

she’s so real for that because why should she?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:10 AM
1

this is totally ok though and i think dating should be this intentional i agree with this. but the person stating they don’t date black women wasn’t specific. it was a general statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:54 PM
1

depends on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:44 PM
1

3 or smaller makes the most sense, though i think 2 or less is the most optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:38 PM
2

that’s the internet for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:36 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:21 PM
3

red flag that he’s a virgin at 26 dealbreaker that he’s bald
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:58 PM
1

red flag that he’s a virgin at 26 dealbreaker that he’s bald
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:56 PM
2

he looks too model like to me which is why i would swipe left. he has a nice smile but i think its moreso the accumulation of all of his features that make him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:55 PM
1

that makes sense. i wouldn’t swipe right but he’s good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:51 PM
2

love you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:12 PM
4

to a certain extent? i’m a fairly competitive person so i prefer when someone is competent in their own hobbies and not necessarily my own if that makes sense. i wouldn’t date a guy who was a 5.5 in attractiveness regardless of competency. but to align with my answer above, competency wouldn’t tilt someone’s attractiveness scale for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:12 PM
1

lmao facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:56 PM
1

i wouldn’t want to be super tall but like 5’8 or 5’9. i have an athletic fit figure and i just feel like a couple inches in height would maximize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:45 PM
3

thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:42 PM
4

i’m so excited to go to the gym later🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:34 PM
1

idk i just think i would be more attractive., especially with my body type
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:00 PM
1

thank you so much <3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:33 PM
1

young you would be so proud of you if i had to guess. i see your academic updates on here and you’re killing it girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:28 PM
1

thanks dude🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:24 PM
4

i feel like if teen me saw who i am now and the life im living, she would be so in awe. the fact that im getting my masters at a great university as a first gen high school grad. the fact that im so pretty and guys constantly approach me. the fact i have a good amount of friends and people really like my personality and who i am. fact that i have a super attractive boyfriend who loves me so much and treats me like an actual princess. young me would be so proud of who i am and that genuinely make…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:21 PM
1

it really is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:13 PM
1

technically yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:13 PM
1

you just sounds kinda lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:12 PM
1

5’4 in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:10 PM
1

really? i’m 5’6 and i wish i were taller
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:10 PM
1

hot, aesthetically pleasing symmetric face, tall, strong and fit body, white happy i have a partner who encompasses all these things :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:07 PM
2

i agree with that as well. i think women should just start telling me having a small dick sucks and does make them unattractive. it’s better to know the truth then to be told a bunch of lies you don’t even believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:37 AM
1

true, women don’t want to be seen as the “bad guy”. fortunately though, that’s starting to die out with my generation. thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:25 AM
1

it’s just due to socialization and being raised to not hurt mens’ feelings. women will lie to a guy’s face to make him feel better but when we talk to our friends or other women, that’s when the truth comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:15 AM
1

they’re just virtue signaling. everybody knows having a small dick sucks and is undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:13 AM
1

beards have always looked gross to me. idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:27 AM
3

this is how i am with my bf and programming. i have no idea what anything means but ill ask him to explain what he’s doing and he loves to share with me. its really cute seeing him be so passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:35 AM
1

no it looks great. i feel like im more attractive with blush on and i feel men have approached me more or complimented me more since i added wearing blush to my makeup routine. lightly pigmented blush looks great on black girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:25 AM
1

nothing wrong with getting married until 21 imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:13 PM
2

yes sir
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:41 AM
1

me reading this on my iphone 16 pro max: 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:40 AM
1

haha i get that. what do you like about being a WAG specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:40 AM
1

i don’t need my partner having a bunch of attention on him. i don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:24 AM
1

i’m a honest person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:21 AM
1

i have. both the highlighter and bronzer. i returned them but i liked the highlighter better than the bronzer. i’m not a fan of the halo glow line in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:13 AM
1

yes definitely buy it. the formula is very blendable too so you can always alter how much pigment you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:07 AM
1

the elf camo blush is AMAZING. literally my holy grail that i use everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:02 AM
1

i guess. i like my man lowkey and exclusive to me. untouchable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:01 AM
1

happy birthday🥳🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:57 AM
-4

i could never be a WAG. i would probably kms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:52 AM
4

ladies if you haven’t already, add blush to your everyday makeup routine. it will literally change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:19 AM
1

first :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:05 AM
3

smart
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:59 AM
1

that wasn’t even the skimpiest pic i was gonna post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:52 AM
2

why are you coming for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:34 AM
1

ah ok i see what you meant now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:15 AM
1

wait is she an average woman or attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:07 AM
-1

i loveee a gym girlie. you look amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:06 AM
-1

u/moshimoshi78
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:05 AM
1

exactly 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:03 AM
1

aw thanks💕
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:00 AM
0

four is ideally what i want to have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:56 AM
1

why is she lucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:52 AM
-1

especially hannah and moshi <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:46 AM
1

ooh say it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
0

adorbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
2

i just love the idea of being a mom so much and taking care of my future children. in my head the more the merrier. but i know that once i actually have a kid that will probably change. really wanna avoid the mom bod lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:44 AM
2

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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:36 AM
1

also in a dream alternate world, i would have a very large family of my own. like 6 kids. i think i would really love that chaoticness and just seeing all these different kids with their own personalities and likes/dislikes. having to take them to sports practices and band practice or whatever. i think it would be so fun to be a mom in that situation but i know when i do actually have kids, i will probably give up on having more kids after the second or third one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:34 AM
4

i’m going out tonight! i’m so excited to dance with my bf. he has no rhythm but that makes it funner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:24 AM
1

is it usually the former or the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:14 AM
1

Q4M i always see guys say that women can sleep with high value men but can rarely get a long term relationship out of them. if a woman can get a long term relationship with a high value or very attractive man, what does that say about her? does it say anything about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:09 AM
1

i have no ideas. i just play the games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:02 AM
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can we play another game? it’s so fun when we do things like reveals and stuff. great group bonding experience me thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:56 AM
1

there’s one middle eastern i saw (i think?)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:02 AM
0

gorg😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:01 AM
0

it’s a general statement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:21 AM
0

users being passive aggressive to me on here doesn’t make me do anything but laugh. you guys should know i don’t give a fuck by now🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:12 AM
2

right? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:07 AM
0

it’s taller than average for a woman in the US but not tall. i wish i was 5’8 or 5’9.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 AM
0

really? you look taller in your photos
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 AM
0

i know. that’s how bad i wanna be taller lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:32 AM
0

5’6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:29 AM
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i wish i was taller. if i was taller i’d be unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:26 AM
1

nice fit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:08 AM
1

says you. you legit have my fav body type and i love your smile. so so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:07 AM
1

ooh you’re gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:02 AM
1

i agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:01 AM
1

😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:58 PM
6

https://preview.redd.it/0jg5piwsweud1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0e29b35a4732f2a8af684d294b7aa746b4839f20 granted this wasn’t the only photo i was going to post but none of them really gave “near nude” vibes. i was at least covered in all the nsfw photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:45 PM
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i won’t get specific because i don’t wanna get banned but it always makes me giggle when i see one demographic of men constantly complain about going 50/50 and splitting bills. i kid you not, they talk about it online 24/7. it makes sense why they’re that way but it’s very embarrassing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:29 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:38 PM
1

all those things are correct but i’ve never been on of nor would i ever start an account
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:01 PM
1

people using you. people creating lies about you just because you’re attractive. people placing you in the “short term” box just because you’re attractive. people feeling intimidated and inferior to you just because you’re attractive and therefore, they try to put you down. also lack of genuine relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:57 PM
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might be a bitch but never a liar. thank you yuyu🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:55 PM
1

you look how i imagined
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:52 PM
1

it’s true. i’m not saying the problems are worse than unattractive people’s but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:52 PM
1

because you can still have an opinion on things. some of the people on here use this sub as an incel “woe is me” hangout and that’s not what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:50 PM
1

that’s not true. being attractive comes with its own problems and doesn’t exclude someone from having thoughts about the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:48 PM
1

he does know what this sub is about. we talk about the posts on here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:46 PM
1

because this sub is about dating dynamics and anyone can talk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:45 PM
1

you can be attractive and be on here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:43 PM
2

not offensive at all. good question :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:42 PM
1

literally anywhere. i asked him before i posted my booty gains reveal and he said idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:41 PM
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i do and he tells me i should show my body off more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:38 PM
2

i literally just messaged you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:31 PM
2

besides yuyu since he’s questioning my authenticity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:30 PM
1

dang it😓
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:28 PM
1

send me a message request. i tried to message major decision but its not giving me an option to send pics. also you’ll have to come back to thread and tell everyone i was telling the truth🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:28 PM
1

nope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:25 PM
1

i don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:22 PM
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i’m trying to be more considerate of others’ feelings. for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:22 PM
1

i don’t. it’s a joke. i would never do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:20 PM
1

i’ll dm you the pics if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:19 PM
2

the girlies are saying i shouldn’t post nsfw body pics so I’ll spare everyone. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:16 PM
1

i’m trying to promote my of
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:12 PM
1

never :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:08 PM
1

i’m wearing a top and panties and nothing private is shown. so i’m like, would that be ok or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:02 PM
2

YOU GUESS?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:59 PM
1

i think my longest was three and a half months
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:59 PM
2

i’m wearing lingerie so i’m naked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:54 PM
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can i do a nsfw physique reveal or will i get banned😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:53 PM
2

i actually did for someone on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:51 PM
1

you already know what i look like😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:49 PM
1

physique reveals are dead. lets do face reveals instead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:48 PM
1

i got spankings but all the reasons for why i did were justified and were never given because i did something bad once. they were giving due to me being defiant and i think thats reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:39 PM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:37 PM
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that’s not what authoritative parenting is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:37 PM
1

then no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:21 PM
1

i’ve done it before multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:15 PM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:09 PM
1

just work out seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:09 PM
2

define “beat”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:05 PM
1

i think it’s fine as is but i’m a woman so my opinion is probs irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:49 PM
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let’s bring back authoritative parenting. society would improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:29 PM
1

authoritative parents do not raise worse kids lol. you’re just saying that because you have a strict ideal of what authoritative parenting is and associate it with abuse which it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:29 PM
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you still have to have some chest to be able to do it. if you’re flat, it won’t show.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:27 PM
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i think it looks great. he’s cutting right now and i can definitely see the progress compared to months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:22 PM
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nah bad angle. he has enough chest to do that terry crews thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:20 PM
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she is gorgeous but comparisons to other people throw me off because i just see myself as myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:11 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/duaa3jehjdud1.png?width=768&format=png&auto=webp&s=c0be7e2c25d1e11902ee0e9fde5b0fa1aca8bdcf heard the guys were doing physique reveals so i thought i’d post my chad😏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:10 PM
1

i don’t feel like i look like any celebrity. but people always tell me i look like gabrielle union which i guess i can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:06 PM
1

i truly think gentle parenting was one of the worst things to happen to society
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:47 PM
1

nah his family sucks at celebrating birthdays and holidays in general. his parents are divorced so i think that might add to it. but they also don’t do anything but say happy birthday and maybe send him money. i come from a family where every single birthday will be celebrated. even if a party isn’t thrown for you, you’ll at least get a birthday dinner and the house will be decorated for you with a few gifts for you to open. and i think that’s how it should be. i told him that as a partner, i’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:02 PM
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ok everyone, quick bf birthday celebration recap! the first activity we did was go to a japanese garden. my bf really loves scenic settings like that so he loved it. he found it very calming and was happy i took him there. https://preview.redd.it/pgfssqy26dud1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8104d7d7e82d7d3f26ed62193923d14cceebb6dd next was dinner, where four of his friends joined us. he didn’t know they were coming so he was shocked that his friends were there but so happy. everyone was…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:54 PM
2

congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:35 PM
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smart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:04 PM
2

they’re pretty looksmatched. they’re both average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:01 PM
0

that’s why ulta is better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:01 PM
1

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:00 PM
1

what does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:49 PM
1

alpha something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:33 PM
1

i had a sorority sister who looked just like her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:27 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:59 PM
1

that’s fair. again im pretty boy crazy so its just hard for me to get into a “romanticizing women” mindset. kinda makes me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:52 PM
1

socialization to not look like the bad guy and not hurt men’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:50 PM
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i don’t think you’re lying. women lie to men too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:44 PM
1

romance a woman? no. because i’m boy crazy and love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:43 PM
1

melanin🤎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:37 PM
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lol i can’t answer that question because i’m not a man. i don’t see or experience the world or attraction the way men do so any attempt to answer that question would just be purposeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:36 PM
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aw holidayinvestigator9 thinks i’m weird☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:35 PM
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i would say one of the things i learned the most about in my current relationship is sunburns. my bf sunburns so easily and as a bw, i have no experience with that personally. i never knew that sunburns actually hurt to the touch. i’ve become a professional sunscreen and aloe applier at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:33 PM
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because that’s what those cropped group pictures usually look like. any woman who’s been on OLD has seem probably hundreds of pics like this. male OLD profiles tend to look pretty similar. same poses. same bios. same pics. same fish. same group pic styles. same settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:31 PM
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not annoying at all. i appreciated hearing why you as a man like seeing group pictures on women’s profiles because you date and are attracted to women. it was insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:29 PM
1

so like pics with friends and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:26 PM
1

ok friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:26 PM
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don’t know how that disproves that unattractive women swipe right on attractive men. doesn’t the 80/20 theory that you men quote 24/7 agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:24 PM
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NT?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:23 PM
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i’m speaking as a woman who exclusively dates men. why do i care about your opinion as a man about women’s OLD profiles? i’ve only ever heard women find men with group photos on their profiles as corny. nobody wants to play the “i wonder which one is him” game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:21 PM
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literally nobody cares. not once have i thought “omg that looks like a cool place. i’m gonna swipe right on this guy because he’s on a rooftop😍”. i cared about how hot the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:18 PM
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it’s a pretty known ick among women who use OLD that group photos suck ass because women often swipe right thinking they’re swiping on the hotter person in the pic, and end up matching with the ugly person in the pic. it’s annoying and a sign of insecurity tbh. when i did use OLD, i automatically swiped left on people who had group pics on their profile because i didn’t have the time or patience to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:16 PM
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ugly men have the balls to swipe on hot women out of their leagues all the time. your point? let people do what they want, even if you know they won’t get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:13 PM
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congrats queen🫶🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:10 PM
1

never was interested in pixelated cropped group pics with someone else’s arm in the photo or around the guy in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:09 PM
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what women care about when looking at an OLD profile is if the guy is attractive or not. thats what gets the swipe. not whether he has friends or not. who would swipe left on a 8+ man just because he doesn’t have pics with his besties on his profile? no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:08 PM
1

thank you so much🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:05 PM
1

less lame but still lame
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:04 PM
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i have never though negatively about a guy who didnt have a group photo on their page. this is an OLD profile. why do i need to see pics of friends when im trying to find out more about the person who created the profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:04 PM
1

creating time limits for when you should have sex with a guy is super dumb. either fuck him or don’t based on how you feel and your want to have sex with said person. waiting or withholding sex doesn’t ensure that a relationship will happen or get far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:02 PM
1

stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:00 PM
1

men need to stop adding group pics to their OLD. please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:58 PM
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todays the day of my bf’s birthday celebration that i set up💕 im so excited and can’t wait for him to experience all the things i have planned for him. each activity is something he’s expressed wanting to do for for a long time, so i hope he sees that i listen to him and always want to make his dreams come true. im having his closest friends meet up with us for dinner as a surprise which is really nice of them because the birthday celebration is 1.5 hours away from where we all live. they’re doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:56 PM
-1

this mindset that it’s so last century is why men aren’t doing well with dating then crying about how they can’t get their way. you guys want to be spoiled like women. if women wanted to date another woman, they would do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:11 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:08 AM
1

i literally do it all the time. you old men are too philosophical and lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:06 AM
0

i’m literally a 22 year old woman. i’ve been on this sub way longer than you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:01 AM
1

well a man shouldn’t expect to be spoiled. men do the courting and women are courted. if a man does what he needs to do as a partner and takes care of his girlfriend/fiance/wife, then he will be spoiled in more ways than he can count because he doesn’t expect it, and fulfills his duties as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:00 AM
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it’s ok. they’ll attack me and call me mean. i’m trying to be nice now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:50 AM
0

i was gonna say something sexist but i’ll refrain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:14 AM
1

no we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:13 AM
2

true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:25 PM
1

mostly true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:25 PM
0

what’s dickpill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:21 PM
0

i’ve done it but hate how i feel when doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:18 PM
2

i’m gonna be so real. men in their early to mid 20s are hot asf and knowing how i am, i know that they’re always going to be my preference when it comes to pure physical attraction, regardless of my age. like who wouldn’t like a nice fit (preferably kinda ripped) man with a nice full head of hair and nice youthful skin? with youthful charisma, high energy, good stamina? BUT… love is so much more than just the physical. the bond and chemistry that you have with someone you genuinely love and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:15 PM
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i’m gonna be so real. men in their early to mid 20s are hot asf and knowing how i am, i know that they’re always going to be my preference when it comes to pure physical attraction, regardless of my age. like who wouldn’t like a nice fit (preferably kinda ripped) man with a nice full head of hair and nice youthful skin? BUT… love is so much more than just the physical. the bond and chemistry that you have with someone you genuinely love and someone who genuinely loves you is so indispensable tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:09 PM
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i didn’t fail to say anything. i read what you said and responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 PM
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woman here. not at all. i go to mechanics when i need something done on my car so my bf doing the same or calling someone isn’t off putting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:07 PM
1

<image> it’s finally cooling down 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:00 PM
1

this was the number one thing i said i would miss about college. all the hot young attractive men 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:58 PM
2

we do not. stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:56 PM
1

as an early 20s college kid, i’ll tell you first hand we’re pretty stupid and still have a lot of mental development that needs to take place. please don’t let that get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:54 PM
1

in both undergrad and now grad school, i’ve gone to school with so many people 30+. in undergrad the oldest classmate i had was a man who had to be in his late 50s. my oldest classmate right now is in her early 60s. it’s never too late to get an education. and if you’re serious about going back to school and that’s valuable to you, you should be more focused on achieving your academic goals than caring about the population of students you’ll be in school with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:38 PM
1

you can be soulmates and still be pragmatic in a relationship. it doesn’t have to be either or and i’m confused on why you’re trying to separate them. i don’t agree with you that relationships are essentially just business transactions and should be viewed that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:48 PM
-1

🎯 as i said in my comment, women who even like chris brown tend to be degenerates themselves. i don’t think i’ve ever met or seen a chris brown stan who wasn’t morally challenged to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:45 PM
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what is there to c*pe with😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:43 PM
2

this used to be my fear but you’re 100% right. it’s hard to get “bulky” unless that’s what you’re aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:29 PM
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i think those women just have mental and confidence issues. and chris brown apologists tend to be degenerates themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:27 PM
1

glad i’ve never witnessed a marriage like that. with all the long lasting marriages i’ve seen, they genuinely love each other and are each others’ best friends. yeah they’re married and parents but they still make time for each other and are lovey dovey and obsessed with one another, no matter how much time has passed. that’s a quality marriage to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:23 PM
0

i am with one. i still wanna work and do something with my life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 PM
4

no. you can get a bachelors in nursing and become an RN. but if you want higher paying positions, want to teach, or become an NP, you need a masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:04 PM
-1

just because your relationship is like that doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:02 PM
-1

being in a masters in nursing program is so hard because why do i have exams every single week and 12 hour unpaid clinicals every single week? like HELLO?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:01 PM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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period
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:50 PM
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i’m a major overthinker in general but when it comes to things regarding people i love, i just want them to be happy and to make them feel special. so i overthink x1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:41 AM
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aw thank you for including me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:37 AM
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that’s cute and i’m happy you liked that. my bf has never really had proper birthday celebrations because his family failed him on that front. i planned something nice out for his birthday last year and he was quite emotional about it, telling me no one has ever put in as much effort to celebrate him on his day before and that it meant a lot to him. i come from a family where birthdays are a big deal and i want to continue that with my bf and our future kids. he doesn’t know what’s in store for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:36 AM
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legit in tears because i’m trying to plan my bf’s birthday celebration because it’s so stressful and i just want things to turn out how i envisioned them in my head. i’ve set up activity #1 that i know he’s gonna love. then after, we’re gonna go to dinner. what he doesn’t know is that his best friends will be there so it’ll be a total surprise. then after that, i have another activity that he’s really been wanting to do for a long time set up. but here’s the problem… all his friends are guys. on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:30 AM
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gay daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 AM
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gloomet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:14 AM
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that’s why you have to have multiple crushes at once
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:14 AM
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no way😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:12 AM
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lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:11 AM
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No, never dated a man that was all i needed to read. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:41 AM
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you gonna answer or continue to deflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:33 AM
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that’s really cute. i’m happy your marriage has worked out so well <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:42 AM
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if sexual attraction is the metric, i would agree. but that’s not really a valid argument. men are willing to have sex with just about anyone they don’t find repulsive. doesn’t mean they actually desire you or crave you just because they want to get their dick wet consistently, compared to being single where sex is more likely to be much more inconsistent. do you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 AM
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you date men? what kind of men do you date? what’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:13 PM
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all i had to do was glance at your page. i’m not disagreeing that men tend to bottle up their feelings. but if you think men don’t express through action and words that they settled for their partner and would prefer to be with someone else, you’re being a little dense. i don’t know why you’d try to argue about this with someone who exclusively dates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:07 PM
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i don’t expect you to have seen one. you’re a man and you’re already under the pretense that women suck /men have it so hard. of course your worldview is obstructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:02 PM
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i didn’t say anything about confessing. women find out by men’s actions that clearly display that they are obviously not into their partner and would prefer to be with someone they deem “better”. you’re giving men way too much credit. men are not good at being secretive. the truth always comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:29 PM
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men are not good at hiding it lol. if they were, so many women wouldn’t be broadcasting their hurt when they find out that they were settled for by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:23 PM
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right but the user above said men settle for who picks them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:31 PM
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ok if women respond happily to being called “wife material” why do men take it as a diss when women call them “husband material”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:02 AM
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no. im saying men will bang just about everyone they find moderately attractive so a man having general lust for you is not valuable or a badge of honor. what is honorable is being seen as a man’s object of sexual desire. his preference. what he is dying to bang and puts in the effort to do so. and this object of desire is not usually the wife. the wife is usually chosen because she’s safe, homely, and consistent, and can provide him with what he’s looking for emotionally and through her labor. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:59 AM
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i disagree. i think both have the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:18 AM
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both can incite lust but one has more lust than the other and it’s not the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:17 AM
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i think husband and wife material have the same meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:17 AM
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i think your lack of comprehension is even crazier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:02 PM
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i said a man having an attractive ex leads to insecurity for lots of women. where was the gotcha there? the topic was about women liking men with an attractive ex. this was a major fail even for you. do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:58 PM
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kill bill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:48 PM
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i think people can just have preferences and standards just because. and i think that’s ok. i’ve never attacked men with n count preferences or called them insecure because of whatever those standards might be. i’m not that type of person. i am a slut shamer. that is true. never denied being one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:47 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:30 PM
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i wouldn’t sleep with someone i wasn’t dating and who didn’t meet my n count standards so i’ll always be virtuous. you can call it insecurity if you want, doesn’t change my views on it. i like the way i like things and i keep them that way. under this guise, men who have n count preferences are just insecure. according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:29 PM
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i don’t really see how it’s insecurity. i value who i sleep with. someone who has a bunch of partners doesn’t. so i wouldn’t date them. in regards to wanting a partner who has the same n count as me, it really is just an ocd thing simply because i just like it that way. maybe it would be is security if i wanted to sleep around and rack up an n count but i don’t. similar to how i don’t like my foods to touch on a plate or how i eat my pokē bowls rice first, then the fish and toppings after. it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:08 PM
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good for you. i’ve met a couple people in my life who don’t consume sugar and i admire them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:04 PM
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no i wouldn’t. i dont really care about the lower limit as long as it isn’t 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:03 PM
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no. i just think it’s like an ocd thing. but i find high body counts off putting which is why i do have an upper limit and wouldn’t make any exceptions. i dont like man whores and i don’t think they can be trusted as partners. in my eyes they’re on the same level as men who have been with prostitutes: undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:56 PM
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i would. i wouldn’t date a guy who has been more people than me. my bf and i have the exact same body count and i like it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:52 PM
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go tell him that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:44 PM
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oh yeah he’ll be perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:43 PM
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funny enough, i come from a male dominated household and have always been in male dominated circles until college. maybe there’s a connection between that and my mindset lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:39 PM
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i just think a lot of women aren’t interested in teaching a man. i’m certainly not one. if i were single, i wouldn’t date a virgin. the n count would have to be at least one and no greater than 6/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:36 PM
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your response is very sweet and respectable. but it really signifies to me that we live in such a soft society. i already knew this but this comment was a reminder. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:34 PM
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not necessarily but we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
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probably thinks he’ll suck in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
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i see. i’ve seen some people say the show you’re talking about is pretty good. need to add it to my watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:23 PM
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currently trying to set up a surprise birthday event for my boyfriend. it’s so fun trying to set up all these little things without him suspecting it. he’ll be super shocked to see his besties at the activities i’ve set up for him. i hope this is a birthday he’ll always remember :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:22 PM
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i’ve also told guys they’re cute while they were working. i’ve had guys approach me while i was working or at least call me beautiful. what other excuses do you have? in my situation, i got the number and we went on dates. he wanted to get into a relationship but i wasn’t really attracted to his personality. i moved on. you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:21 PM
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ooh i love this fit😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:16 PM
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you’ve never seen sex and the city have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:15 PM
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i’ve literally approached a guy i thought was cute while i was working. you guys don’t know how to set up and create opportunities, nor take advantage of them. i mentioned fire signs because every fire sign i know (men and women), including myself, knows how to do this and purposely goes out of their way to make themselves known to who they find attractive. we go after who we want regardless of the situation. which some can say is a bit much but usually the audacity is admired to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:13 PM
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idk where this assumption is coming from that the picker isn’t ideal themselves😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:05 PM
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100% agree. any woman i’ve been extremely sexually interested in was a redhead. just something about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:04 PM
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where did they go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:03 PM
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talk to them? i know none of the guys on this thread are fire signs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:03 PM
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thanks queen💕 as someone who is still praying for other changes, i know it absolutely sucks to hear this a million times but your time is coming. the experiences we share as women are usually quite similar regardless of the differences we might have. if you do decide to get fillers or get any procedure done, don’t let opposing opinions get to you. your happiness is all that matters at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:01 PM
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lol that’s so cute. i was a late bloomer so i was stoked to have finally gotten mine. young me didn’t know what she was in for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:42 PM
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interesting. i find that the pickers are usually highly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:41 PM
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same here. to the point where i was looking into hip fillers because not only was i a little boxy but i also have hip dips🤡 i remember spending days researching hip filler costs or looking up workouts on youtube to minimize hip dips. it was one of the main things id spiral about. now that my hips are filling out, i have a noticeable natural looking hourglass shape because my hips are now wider than my waist. i was not as curvy a couple months ago as i am now so it really has been a sudden change…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:38 PM
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22.5 to be specific haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:17 PM
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i followed a creator for years on youtube. she got kicked off last year for allegedly being a grifter channel who tried to get ___ women to hate ___ men. but she was just a realist who told the truth and they wanted to silence her😡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:12 PM
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it’s the strangest thing! especially when you’re so used to your body being one way all your life and then it just changes in such a short timespan. being a woman is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:08 PM
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literally was saying this around a year ago and now the hips are coming in. second puberty is not a myth!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:07 PM
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hater
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:05 PM
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