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Question For Menmissionglowup/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:20 AM
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i’ve had it in for four years now. it’s very important for me to not get pregnant right now but i’ve been learning a lot more about birth control, and it’s potential consequences are a little frightening. i’ll probably keep it in just for the sake of not have any accidents but it is nerve wracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:16 AM
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the emojis😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:49 AM
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what makes the whole drake vs kendrick beef even worse is drake is being a sore loser. man messed up his legacy for sure. he’ll probably try to sue the grammy’s next.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:48 AM
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you’re funny. i like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:12 AM
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def mandatory. if that’s your type don’t deviate from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:01 AM
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you clearly have a type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:59 AM
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love how you just avoided my question🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:58 AM
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my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:56 AM
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then how is she a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:54 AM
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what’s the fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:50 AM
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but wouldn’t a 10/10 need a nice face and body?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:49 AM
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for saying i might remove my iud?? how is that larping? you need a new vocab.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:49 AM
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most men wouldn’t agree with you. men will date and bang a woman with an ugly face if she has a nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:47 AM
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no one’s stopping you from doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:46 AM
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she’s so gorgeous. i love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:44 AM
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i spam then dip for weeks to a month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:43 AM
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lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:42 AM
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iuds have an increased risk for infections and diseases like pelvic inflammatory disease. i also have a hormonal iud so the increased risk of cancer is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:41 AM
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what’s wrong with liking getting came in? you’re kink shaming me🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:40 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:39 AM
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i wouldn’t even date a guy more than two years older than me. it actually gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:38 AM
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jason stratham is ugly a man my age is gonna look better than an old man 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:37 AM
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gen z 2.0😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:37 AM
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completely random side note but i think i might remove my iud early. i’m supposed to get it out 2027, but lately ive been thinking more about the long term negative impact of birth control and idk if i want to risk my health like that. i like getting came in but i also want to live a healthy and long life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:35 AM
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i couldn’t be in a relationship with an older man even if i was offered a million dollars. just thinking about the concept makes me physically sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:31 AM
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no need for male friends when i have a bf. most are just trying to orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:14 AM
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ah yes the plight of the unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:13 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:13 AM
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i literally talked about it on this sub when it happened last year😭 idk why it’s so hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:48 AM
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glad to know me and my bf are a looksmatch according to you🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:45 AM
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this. it’s not about the guy being a fuckboy. it’s about him being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:44 AM
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idk if he waited for my bf to leave. my bf went to the bathroom so i was just standing off to the side and the guy approached me after a couple minutes of me waiting. asked me who i was waiting for then asked me if my bf was black, and told me to take down his number when i said no he wasn’t. similar things have happened to me before. last year, i had a guy ask me the exact same questions and then told me i “gotta go black”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:42 AM
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gross. i wish the worse on those people <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 AM
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probably
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:39 AM
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eh its nice dating someone who’s objectively attractive who chose you. thats a nice feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:38 AM
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as i said below, i think the guy was trying to “convert” me after finding out my bf was white. this isn’t the first time i’ve had someone of my race try to pursue me after telling them my bf was not black. some guys take it as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:36 AM
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i wonder why that is. approaching someone is fine but continuing to push for something when the person says they’re in a relationship is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:34 AM
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you really like to use lol anyways i don’t know what’s so outlandish about it. i feel like this is a common question black women who date out are asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:33 AM
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that would be a wild thing to make up wouldn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:30 AM
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so men don’t actually respect each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:26 AM
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just based on how men talk about women and how they speak about how men have it so hard in society, i expected there to be more respect for one another especially when it comes to relationships. also girl code, in my experience, doesn’t just include friends and applies to strangers too. i guess i assumed guy code was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:25 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:22 AM
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well the guy in question was black and my bf is white. so it came across as he thought he could “convert” me. just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:22 AM
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no it’s just weird to me how men are constantly preaching male unity and talking about how hard it is to be a man but you guys don’t even have respect for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:16 AM
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yummmm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:04 AM
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men have no loyalty to each other when it comes to women. today i was at the gym and some guy tried to approach me. asked me for my instagram to which i said i have a bf. he said “come on, i just wanna be friends” to which i responded “i don’t keep male friends, sorry”. two weeks ago i went out with my bf to the bars. bf goes to the bathroom and a guy approaches me saying i looked gorgeous (obvi). asked me who i was waiting for and i told him my bf. he asked me if my bf was black and i said no. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:04 AM
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the australian guy with the asian girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:52 AM
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you can work out when young and still date. why is it one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:51 AM
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i love it! you’re very talented. i wish i could draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:20 AM
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-1/+2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:19 AM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:40 PM
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that salmon looks so good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:38 PM
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you were right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:38 PM
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thank you dry-ad❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:36 PM
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i recognized that earlier and called out my past behaviors on this subject as inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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thanks badger🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:14 PM
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i appreciate the sentiment. i don’t even know why it’s bothering me so much because i know they responded that way due to their life experiences which is totally understandable. i guess it’s just frustrating because i am being genuine in my feelings and people are still nit picking for things that im doing “wrong”, when i know im not being malicious at all. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:14 PM
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neutral. my bf is really into art but i don’t really care about the topic at all. it’s nice seeing him be passionate about it but it doesn’t make him more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:05 PM
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idek
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:04 PM
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some people on this sub just love to be mad for the sake of it and that’s really sad to me. i expressed genuine empathy for the plight of short men and recognized the obvious discrimination and prejudice they experience in society, and i still had people getting mad at me. some people got mad that i currently have a tall boyfriend like im just supposed to break up with him after dating for years, simply because i empathize with short men now. other people got mad because i said that if i were to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:56 PM
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of course. thank you for taking the time to read how i felt <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:31 PM
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is it thin or is it fit and muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:13 PM
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whats wrong with doing cardio?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:06 PM
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it’s called cutting. you do need to be in a calorie deficit to get lean in the way they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:58 PM
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wait erectile dysfunction or eating disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:54 PM
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yay congrats🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:50 AM
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not even surprised at this point did my dream come true and you became a mod? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:30 AM
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is it her ideal though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:19 AM
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dead serious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:12 AM
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i have no idea. i would never ask those questions if i knew i were ugly and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:06 AM
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not at all. it confirms everything i just said. it shouldn’t matter. it shouldn’t even have to be explained. but unattractive men act like everything about attraction isn’t fair until it comes to their own standards and thresholds for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:05 AM
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the great thing about attraction is that it’s dynamic once thresholds have been met. you could start dating someone you find attractive who might not be your ideal partner you dreamed of in your head. but with time and bonding, that person can turn into your ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:01 AM
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lol i thought that was funny too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:51 PM
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a woman can find a man hot even if he’s not her ideal or a hyper-attractive man, attractive. if a woman’s ideal is a 6.5, brunette with muscles, she can find a 6.3 blonde with muscles super hot as well and will bang him all the time despite him not being her ideal. and a man a woman finds attractive may not be considered hyper-attractive. you guys try to make the situation so black and white when the premise is if she does not find you attractive, however that may look like to her, she will not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:48 PM
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no that she’s an opportunist. i don’t even say this in a bad way either. i support all women, especially those who do what they need to do to achieve a better life for themselves and their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:42 PM
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they wouldn’t be complaining about women wanting to date attractive guys if that were true. if you’re ugly or unattractive, why would you be complaining that women don’t want you or give you a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:41 PM
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as long as he has money and doesn’t bring her back to the states. then her real nature will come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:39 PM
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deadbedroom or someone the woman genuinely finds attractive and wants to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:30 PM
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yes but the belief is that once women get the ring, they stop putting out. a lot of RP guys use this as reasoning for why men shouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:29 PM
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that too. as long as you have cash, they don’t care what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:28 PM
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tell me how it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:27 PM
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because they use them as a reason for why women aren’t actually attracted to men, why marriage is a scam, why women can’t be trusted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:27 PM
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women didn’t just meet their partners in classes or friends groups so your argument is already null. my parents met randomly in the 90s in public. my mom was the queen of high standards and my dad met them. they dated and have been married for 26 years. the end. i agree that women today are less likely to settle and they should be. there is no incentive to settle with men like there was in previous generations. even in the 90s, women did not have the financial and economic freedoms they do today…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:25 PM
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i’m referring to people who aren’t in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:21 PM
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great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:20 PM
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get a prostitute. they’ll fuck you without caring what you look like. just make sure you pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:17 PM
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the same men who complain about dead bedrooms are the same men who complain about women having high physical attraction standards and only wanting chad. the jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:15 PM
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but we don’t. men expect women to lower their standards just because men are desperate and thirsty, and it doesn’t work like that. also male desperation when it comes to dating is not a compliment. it’s a huge insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:14 PM
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women had high physical standards and criteria in the 90s and 2000s too. what are you talking about? you don’t think women during that time rejected or avoided men because they weren’t attractive enough? get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:12 PM
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i used to do the stairmaster for ten minutes after every workout. now i don’t do that anymore and will do a cardio day about once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:00 PM
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even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:59 PM
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so you’re comparing women who primarily married for economic and financial reasons due to lack of freedoms and rights… to women who don’t need men for these reasons, and therefore want to marry and sleep with men who they actually find attractive and who fulfill them. ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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or maybe they want to be sexually attracted to their partner? women aren’t men and our sexual attraction is different. men will settle for someone they’re not super into just to have consistent sex with someone, anyone. women don’t work like that. so yes if i’m dating someone, they need to meet my physical criteria or else, there’s no relationship to be had and i’ll be single. wouldn’t you rather women navigate like this instead of wasting men’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:50 PM
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couple times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:42 PM
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nope. this is one of the most insulting things you can be told as a woman imo. a compliment would be “i’m going to marry you/i can’t wait to make you my wife/etc”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:40 PM
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being loving and romantic doesn’t equate to having low standards. one should be romantic and loving to someone they find worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:39 PM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:36 PM
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no do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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some people just go to have a good time with friends, make or female
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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dancing at clubs is a woman thing. you learn something new every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:55 AM
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woah how did i get brought up in this??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:54 AM
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aw so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:06 AM
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people can’t just go to clubs to dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:05 AM
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it’s so nice dating a man who’s not submissive in bed. thank god that phase of my life is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:05 AM
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i guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:27 PM
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do you actually think these women will date men they weren’t paying attention to just to have sex? when these women didn’t want to have sex with these men in the first place? i’m confused😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:17 PM
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i just had to remind everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:13 PM
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me too when i have a child years from now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:12 PM
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it won’t because women are saying they’re not having sex at all. the men who weren’t getting laid will continue not to get laid. and they’re still going to cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:11 PM
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i get that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:10 PM
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i have taken birth control measures by getting an iud and if worse came to worse, i’m from california anyways. i did my part. gotta keep living. though i do feel for women who can’t make the same choices i have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:10 PM
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never!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:09 PM
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these women are saying no sex at all though. casual or not. they’re not saying they’ll date men they’re not into just so they can have sex in a relationship. so again, men will still be complaining about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:07 PM
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idk personally, i’m still going to bang my chad bf 3x a day. that’s just me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:05 PM
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but they would still complain that they’re not getting laid and cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:03 PM
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normalizes what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:01 PM
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wouldn’t this make men complain more though? i don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:58 PM
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hi!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:57 PM
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that sub makes me so happy that me and my bf are both HL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:57 PM
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the only contraceptive that works 100% is abstinence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:55 PM
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i know. literally none of his friends have a girlfriend but one. they all express wanting one but things don’t really work out the way they wish them to i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 AM
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damn you’re right again. my bad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:44 AM
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the friends he hangs out with most don’t have girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:37 AM
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ok ok understood🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 AM
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i wasn’t even snooping😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:31 AM
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thank you🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:27 AM
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me after going on my bf’s phone to search a pizza place up and seeing “engagement rings (4 days ago)” as i’m typing: will missionglowup be a fiancé soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:24 AM
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i really don’t care if a man has friends or a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:13 AM
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did you not read her comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:12 AM
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he’s so ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:28 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:51 AM
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guess i’m a pedo since my bf is a little younger than me 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:13 AM
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aw that is absolutely adorable🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 AM
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22
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:01 AM
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people usually get to that weight due to trauma of some kind. i commend people who lose the weight though, especially through hard work. that being said, if i was in this situation, i probably wouldn’t date the previously 400 pound guy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:58 AM
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it’s always a little bit funny when me and my bf get random comments from people simply because we’re an interracial couple in public. last night we went to the club, and some guy randomly came up to us and said “i love this. i love this, you guys look amazing.” we looked great ofc but me and my bf just looked at each other like 🤨🤔🥴 the comments always have good intentions behind them but they’re always like… ???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:55 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:51 AM
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fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:12 AM
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i have no idea really. i just came up with this scenario based on a youtube vid im watching lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:01 AM
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no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:53 AM
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do you think you would push her to get the loose skin removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:53 AM
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OMG???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:47 AM
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no way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:47 AM
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omg i thought you were my age. you learn something new every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:41 AM
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how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:37 AM
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q4m imagine you’re a man who occupies the gym frequently. during most of your workouts, you recognize a woman you find attractive who frequents the gym around the same time as you do. one day, after noticing her for weeks to months, you take the plunge and ask her for a date to which she says yes! during this date, she shares with you that she used to be 400 pounds. but through diet and working out, she now looks fit and attractive. plus she has your ideal body type in women. her personality is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:35 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:47 AM
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break up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:47 AM
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this is a great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:04 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:53 AM
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nope. i’m all over the place with pills. but i do heavily believe that in any relationship, especially a marriage, the male is supposed to lead and the women should follow. and that the man should be seen as the head of the household and respected as one. and i know this isn’t a common mindset amongst women, but my personal life goal is to be a mom and everything i’m doing in regards to career is purely for the security and wellbeing of my future children that i will love and care for. it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:52 AM
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to me, frequency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:36 AM
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take my husband’s last name as God intended. i am his wife. he leads our union and I’ll follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:35 AM
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you’re being funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:22 AM
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i 100% agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:21 AM
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glad you’re still here with us queen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:15 AM
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that’s roped into the compassion trait. because i really really love him. and people in general honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:45 AM
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physically: my smile, my lips, my legs, my ass, my skin tone, my hair personality: humor, empathy, compassion, intelligence, how girly and soft i am, how motherly i am
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:32 AM
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both of them lacked height and money one of them lacked dick size but i truly am more compatible with my current partner from a personality standpoint and he loves me better than both of them did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:19 PM
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well then that goes to my original statement. was totally into my past partners the most i could be at that time, but because i see my bf as better than them in every way, i love him more and treat him better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:47 AM
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i just love my bf more than my exes so it inspires me to do more and be the best i can as a partner. part of the reason why i love my bf more is because he is an amazing guy, we have a lot in common, he understands me, etc. but a small but important part of that is he’s very attractive, he’s tall, he has money, he had a large penis, he’s intelligent, etc. i find him extremely attractive and i want him to be mine forever. so all these factors together equals to me treating him like royalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:23 AM
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i’m many things but never a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:03 AM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:29 AM
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expand further?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:04 AM
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i also love those videos but it always makes me feel so bad when the wife is distraught. makes me happy these husbands are getting embarrassed though and will most likely get divorced and have everything taken from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:20 AM
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dap does a good job of exposing the preds, embarrassing them, and even punishing them. i highly recommend you check them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:19 AM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:15 AM
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yeah i could tell he’s a predator in how he’s trying to defend these sick men. he feels attacked that people like him are being charged and convicted for being sickos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:15 AM
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no but they truly don’t need one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:09 AM
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no that’s not how it works. these predators know the person they’re trying to meet up with is claiming to be a minor. the decoy literally says they’re underage during the messages or calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:02 AM
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they primarily use dating apps to catch these predators. idk what you mean by bate and switch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:55 AM
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my fav genre of youtube DAP is better than chris hansen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:54 AM
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it makes total sense. sex with a small pp is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:19 AM
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true, women don’t want to be seen as the “bad guy”. fortunately though, that’s starting to die out with my generation. thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:25 AM
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it’s just due to socialization and being raised to not hurt mens’ feelings. women will lie to a guy’s face to make him feel better but when we talk to our friends or other women, that’s when the truth comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:15 AM
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they’re just virtue signaling. everybody knows having a small dick sucks and is undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:13 AM
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beards have always looked gross to me. idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:27 AM
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this is how i am with my bf and programming. i have no idea what anything means but ill ask him to explain what he’s doing and he loves to share with me. its really cute seeing him be so passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:35 AM
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yes sir
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:41 AM
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smart
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:59 AM
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that wasn’t even the skimpiest pic i was gonna post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:52 AM
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why are you coming for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:34 AM
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ah ok i see what you meant now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:15 AM
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wait is she an average woman or attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:07 AM
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i loveee a gym girlie. you look amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:06 AM
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u/moshimoshi78
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:05 AM
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exactly 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:03 AM
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four is ideally what i want to have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:56 AM
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why is she lucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:52 AM
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especially hannah and moshi <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:46 AM
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ooh say it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
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adorbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:45 AM
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i just love the idea of being a mom so much and taking care of my future children. in my head the more the merrier. but i know that once i actually have a kid that will probably change. really wanna avoid the mom bod lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:36 AM
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also in a dream alternate world, i would have a very large family of my own. like 6 kids. i think i would really love that chaoticness and just seeing all these different kids with their own personalities and likes/dislikes. having to take them to sports practices and band practice or whatever. i think it would be so fun to be a mom in that situation but i know when i do actually have kids, i will probably give up on having more kids after the second or third one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:34 AM
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i’m going out tonight! i’m so excited to dance with my bf. he has no rhythm but that makes it funner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:24 AM
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is it usually the former or the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:14 AM
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Q4M i always see guys say that women can sleep with high value men but can rarely get a long term relationship out of them. if a woman can get a long term relationship with a high value or very attractive man, what does that say about her? does it say anything about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:09 AM
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i have no ideas. i just play the games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:02 AM
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can we play another game? it’s so fun when we do things like reveals and stuff. great group bonding experience me thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:56 AM
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there’s one middle eastern i saw (i think?)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:02 AM
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gorg😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:01 AM
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it’s a general statement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:21 AM
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users being passive aggressive to me on here doesn’t make me do anything but laugh. you guys should know i don’t give a fuck by now🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:12 AM
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it’s taller than average for a woman in the US but not tall. i wish i was 5’8 or 5’9.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 AM
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really? you look taller in your photos
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:33 AM
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i know. that’s how bad i wanna be taller lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:32 AM
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5’6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:29 AM
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i wish i was taller. if i was taller i’d be unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:26 AM
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nice fit!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:08 AM
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says you. you legit have my fav body type and i love your smile. so so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:07 AM
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ooh you’re gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:02 AM
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smart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:04 PM
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that’s why ulta is better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:01 PM
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i’m gonna be so real. men in their early to mid 20s are hot asf and knowing how i am, i know that they’re always going to be my preference when it comes to pure physical attraction, regardless of my age. like who wouldn’t like a nice fit (preferably kinda ripped) man with a nice full head of hair and nice youthful skin? with youthful charisma, high energy, good stamina? BUT… love is so much more than just the physical. the bond and chemistry that you have with someone you genuinely love and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:15 PM
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i didn’t fail to say anything. i read what you said and responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 PM
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what is there to c*pe with😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:43 PM
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this used to be my fear but you’re 100% right. it’s hard to get “bulky” unless that’s what you’re aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:29 PM
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i think those women just have mental and confidence issues. and chris brown apologists tend to be degenerates themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:27 PM
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glad i’ve never witnessed a marriage like that. with all the long lasting marriages i’ve seen, they genuinely love each other and are each others’ best friends. yeah they’re married and parents but they still make time for each other and are lovey dovey and obsessed with one another, no matter how much time has passed. that’s a quality marriage to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:23 PM
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i am with one. i still wanna work and do something with my life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:15 PM
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no. you can get a bachelors in nursing and become an RN. but if you want higher paying positions, want to teach, or become an NP, you need a masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:04 PM
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just because your relationship is like that doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:02 PM
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being in a masters in nursing program is so hard because why do i have exams every single week and 12 hour unpaid clinicals every single week? like HELLO?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:01 PM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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period
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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that’s really cute. i’m happy your marriage has worked out so well <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:42 AM
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if sexual attraction is the metric, i would agree. but that’s not really a valid argument. men are willing to have sex with just about anyone they don’t find repulsive. doesn’t mean they actually desire you or crave you just because they want to get their dick wet consistently, compared to being single where sex is more likely to be much more inconsistent. do you agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 AM
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you date men? what kind of men do you date? what’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:13 PM
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all i had to do was glance at your page. i’m not disagreeing that men tend to bottle up their feelings. but if you think men don’t express through action and words that they settled for their partner and would prefer to be with someone else, you’re being a little dense. i don’t know why you’d try to argue about this with someone who exclusively dates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:07 PM
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i don’t expect you to have seen one. you’re a man and you’re already under the pretense that women suck /men have it so hard. of course your worldview is obstructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:02 PM
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i didn’t say anything about confessing. women find out by men’s actions that clearly display that they are obviously not into their partner and would prefer to be with someone they deem “better”. you’re giving men way too much credit. men are not good at being secretive. the truth always comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:29 PM
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men are not good at hiding it lol. if they were, so many women wouldn’t be broadcasting their hurt when they find out that they were settled for by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:23 PM
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right but the user above said men settle for who picks them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:31 PM
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ok if women respond happily to being called “wife material” why do men take it as a diss when women call them “husband material”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:02 AM
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no. im saying men will bang just about everyone they find moderately attractive so a man having general lust for you is not valuable or a badge of honor. what is honorable is being seen as a man’s object of sexual desire. his preference. what he is dying to bang and puts in the effort to do so. and this object of desire is not usually the wife. the wife is usually chosen because she’s safe, homely, and consistent, and can provide him with what he’s looking for emotionally and through her labor. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:59 AM
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i disagree. i think both have the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:18 AM
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both can incite lust but one has more lust than the other and it’s not the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:17 AM
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i think husband and wife material have the same meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:17 AM
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kill bill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:48 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:30 PM
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good for you. i’ve met a couple people in my life who don’t consume sugar and i admire them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:04 PM
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no i wouldn’t. i dont really care about the lower limit as long as it isn’t 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:03 PM
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no. i just think it’s like an ocd thing. but i find high body counts off putting which is why i do have an upper limit and wouldn’t make any exceptions. i dont like man whores and i don’t think they can be trusted as partners. in my eyes they’re on the same level as men who have been with prostitutes: undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:56 PM
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i would. i wouldn’t date a guy who has been more people than me. my bf and i have the exact same body count and i like it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:52 PM
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go tell him that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:44 PM
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oh yeah he’ll be perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:43 PM
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funny enough, i come from a male dominated household and have always been in male dominated circles until college. maybe there’s a connection between that and my mindset lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:39 PM
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i just think a lot of women aren’t interested in teaching a man. i’m certainly not one. if i were single, i wouldn’t date a virgin. the n count would have to be at least one and no greater than 6/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:36 PM
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your response is very sweet and respectable. but it really signifies to me that we live in such a soft society. i already knew this but this comment was a reminder. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:34 PM
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not necessarily but we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
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probably thinks he’ll suck in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
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i see. i’ve seen some people say the show you’re talking about is pretty good. need to add it to my watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:23 PM
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currently trying to set up a surprise birthday event for my boyfriend. it’s so fun trying to set up all these little things without him suspecting it. he’ll be super shocked to see his besties at the activities i’ve set up for him. i hope this is a birthday he’ll always remember :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:22 PM
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i’ve also told guys they’re cute while they were working. i’ve had guys approach me while i was working or at least call me beautiful. what other excuses do you have? in my situation, i got the number and we went on dates. he wanted to get into a relationship but i wasn’t really attracted to his personality. i moved on. you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:21 PM
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ooh i love this fit😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:16 PM
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you’ve never seen sex and the city have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:15 PM
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i’ve literally approached a guy i thought was cute while i was working. you guys don’t know how to set up and create opportunities, nor take advantage of them. i mentioned fire signs because every fire sign i know (men and women), including myself, knows how to do this and purposely goes out of their way to make themselves known to who they find attractive. we go after who we want regardless of the situation. which some can say is a bit much but usually the audacity is admired to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:13 PM
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idk where this assumption is coming from that the picker isn’t ideal themselves😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:05 PM
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100% agree. any woman i’ve been extremely sexually interested in was a redhead. just something about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:04 PM
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where did they go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:03 PM
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talk to them? i know none of the guys on this thread are fire signs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:03 PM
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interesting. i find that the pickers are usually highly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:41 PM
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i followed a creator for years on youtube. she got kicked off last year for allegedly being a grifter channel who tried to get ___ women to hate ___ men. but she was just a realist who told the truth and they wanted to silence her😡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:12 PM
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that’s understandable. this is why i asked this question because i wanted to hear opinions like this. thanks for sharing <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:09 PM
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that’s fair. being alone does affect one’s mental health. but would it negatively impact their mental health more if they were in a relationship with someone and found out that person didn’t really want them and would have rather been with someone else if given the chance ? it’s obvious the answer for you would be no. you’d rather be with anyone just to have someone. and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:55 PM
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and husband material isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:38 AM
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i think they always eventually find out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:25 AM
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do you think “wife material” has the same meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:18 AM
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beautifully said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:18 AM
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i understand that. but the user above said most men settle on who picks them. so in this example, men are settling but based on my time here, men hate being settled upon. which is why i asked for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:40 AM
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why should the answer always be yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:03 AM
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maybe she can or can’t. maybe the situation she’s in or the location she’s at doesn’t put her around rich men. idk. height isn’t a personality trait but some women would see dating a 5’6 guy as a downgrade after being with a man 6 foot+.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:54 AM
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thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:22 AM
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interesting. so why are some men so adverse to being settled on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:05 AM
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i want to say, preferences aren’t always hyper specific. so i do think it’s possible to find your ideal or “perfect” partner. that being said, i agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:57 AM
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preferences can be broad. they don’t have to be hyper specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:55 AM
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so do you think it’s valid for women to think they settled if the reason is not related to appearance? like for example, the guy she dated or was in a relationship with before you was rich and you’re poor or of average income. is that a good reason to feel like she’s settling being with you? also is height excluded from the appearance subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:54 AM
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everyone has their own definition of settling so that’s up to the person answering. the general premise is you’re not your partner’s ideal and not their first choice for whatever reason, regardless of how big or how small.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:48 AM
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i don’t think every woman will find their ideal partner. should they settle? that’s up to them. does their happiness alone outweigh the happiness they could have with someone who isn’t their ideal? they have to determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:45 AM
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i don’t disagree with you. just asking a question :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:44 AM
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settling as in not the partner’s ideal and while they may have preferred to be with someone else for whatever reason (at least in the beginning), they pursued a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:40 AM
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nope. i just do pop ins here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:28 AM
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broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:24 AM
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for those who answered my little poll last night, i wore the pink latex dress and vans last night. instant hit. tons of compliments on my outfit and how beautiful i looked (per usual). lots of stares and glances ofc. bf kept saying i looked hot all night so we love that. will wear the other outfit next weekend :) hate to get a little sappy, but today marks 30 years of my parents being in a relationship with each other, and they’re only 44 and 47. i just think that’s so cute that they’ve loved ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:15 AM
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hi <3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:43 AM
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what’s your old user
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:42 AM
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why? last time when i went out in that dress i got like a million compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:41 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:40 AM
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went from full time ppd user to per diem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:38 AM
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i’m going out tonight and can’t decide on which outfit to wear: pink latex minidress with vans -or- strapless blue and white minidress with white boots
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:36 AM
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$50. that’s it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:19 AM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:19 AM
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aw that sucks. i really liked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:18 AM
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mine is kinky. he’s dominant and always open to try things. compared to my past boyfriends, he’s the best i’ve ever been with. not just because he’s hotter, but also because he performs better sexually and is more sexually adventurous, just like me. my exes were very vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:16 AM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:14 AM
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you don’t have to be ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:14 AM
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lmaooo kpop fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:11 AM
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wait no where did icycore go🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:11 AM
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would be great if the link worked👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:10 AM
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lol i’m just checking in for a couple hours. then i’ll be gone. school’s about to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:11 PM
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i searched my user on here and saw i was mentioned quite a few times since i left
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:56 PM
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that’s a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:55 PM
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never
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:55 PM
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this is facts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:54 PM
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legend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:53 PM
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respect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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i should be asking you that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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i’m just checking in. jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:44 PM
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is it for summer school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:40 PM
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do you teach during summer break at all? if so, for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:32 PM
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<image> yes we’re currently in miami on a baecation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:29 PM
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i’m good. how have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:20 PM
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i do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 PM
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i’m not coming back. just checking in on the people i don’t totally hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 PM
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nah i’m just saying hi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:18 PM
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damn i can’t believe i left the sub and you guys were still talking about me. i’m honored kiddos 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:07 PM
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good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:57 PM
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same here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:56 PM
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whew she looks great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:54 PM
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as a sorority girl, i would say this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:53 PM
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i left because i started dating chad so my mission was accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:53 PM
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because sex is nothing to be ashamed of. it serves a biological function and it also feels good and boosts my mood. no one should be ashamed of their sexuality unless it involves illegal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:22 PM
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i’ve made several posts over the past few days counting down the amount of days until i get laid/see my bf. so just finishing it out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:45 PM
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i’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:45 PM
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update: i finally got laid🥳 we’ve had sex six times and we’ve only been with each other for 14 hours so far. so i’m a happy gal. but most importantly, it’s just nice to be with my bf again. it was nice waking up to him holding me and taking care of me. i can tell he missed me because he can’t even go five minutes without kissing me or smiling at me. he really loves me and i love him too <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:29 PM
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probably because she and her fans are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:22 PM
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probably that my bf’s hair is brown and not “blondish” edit: allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:37 AM
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what a wild thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:36 AM
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omg?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:29 AM
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yeah pre transition she was def the most attractive out of everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:26 AM
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i honestly don’t know. i’ve never looked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:11 AM
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ah ok that makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:08 AM
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that’s what i always say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:05 AM
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same happens to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:58 AM
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that’s awesome! i hope you enjoyed your workout and congrats on the new place :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:42 AM
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that’s really smart. i’m gonna start doing something similar. do you use an app to track your weight? are you trying to bulk, cut or just maintenance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:39 AM
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congratulations on your weight loss. that’s a huge deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:38 AM
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good question. i did gain weight but i mainly contribute it to lifting and gaining muscle mass because my eating habits haven’t really changed much between now and then. if anything i eat healthier now than i did when i was skinner. i also think a bit of second puberty hit me. my hips have gotten wider and my boobs have gotten bigger over the past year so there may be some weight gain from that as well. i was always pretty skinny as you can see in the first photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:35 AM
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always straight. my hair is trained so i don’t use relaxer. i was wearing extensions in these photos but my natural hair (as pictured) looks like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:30 AM
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how often do you take progress pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:27 AM
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dude i get this so much. from january to like march 2023, i was so scared i just went to the gym to walk on the treadmill for like 30 minutes then left. something that helped me get over my gym anxiety was doing things with dumbbells in a corner of the gym or in a private room. places where other people weren’t really at. eventually i started using the machines and the barbell when i felt comfortable enough. and even that took time and wasn’t all at once. today, i still deal with anxiety sometim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:26 AM
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lmao i hate you😭 (mods this is a joking expression. i don’t actually hate him.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:15 AM
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thank you! i’m so happy. i didn’t realize how much progress i made until i found that old pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:13 AM
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<image> i’m gonna share because i’m legitimately proud of myself and im kinda in happy tears. the photo in the top left corner was me summer 2022 that i just found in my camera roll. when i met my bf (fall 2022) he was super into working out and i wasn’t. he got me to go to the gym with him a couple times starting january 2023, and it took me a minute to ease into it. i had major gym anxiety and felt lost compared to everyone else. around may 2023, i decided to take things seriously and started …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:12 AM
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i wanna share a gym progress pic to go with my “start lifting” testimony but don’t make it weird guys. promise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:55 AM
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i really hate when guys start moaning when they’re lifting at the gym. it’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:42 AM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:43 PM
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idk why it’s breaking news that women prefer a good size penis that’s not small and typically bigger than average. i thought we all knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:03 PM
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taller than average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:54 AM
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turn them down because i respect myself and know that i offer to much to just be treated like a charity case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:21 AM
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i’m 6 months older than my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:13 AM
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that’s a lot of acidity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:13 AM
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it’s moreso how the weight looks rather than a number for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:12 AM
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im surprised that a man agrees. some other guy claimed this is a gold digger mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:16 AM
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i’ll c/p my response to someone else who also asked this: not complaining about how dating and relationships “favor” women. unless you’re a man who doesn’t want to have kids and you’re dating a woman who also doesn’t want kids, or you’re wasting time dating for “fun”, there should be more catering to the woman in a relationship. a man should provide to show that he will make sure their children and her are taken care of. a man should show why he’s worthy of giving children to throughout the dura…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:09 AM
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this is true. my bf’s mom is a sweetheart. but she always sends me money which makes me uncomfy. the rest of his family is very kind as well and is always asking about me and inviting me to holiday events.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:06 AM
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literally nothing that i said was about how much money a guy makes. YOU made it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:04 AM
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more like don’t have kids for men who aren’t worthy of all the sacrifices you’ll make
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:58 AM
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i didn’t say it was a common occurrence. it just goes to support my point that not everyone needs to become a mother, especially if they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:52 AM
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this has nothing to do with working. even if a woman has a job, you should be doing all this and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:48 AM
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yes. my childhood best friend’s mom literally abandoned her and her four other kids. she’ll pop in and out of their life but is not consistent. my current best friend’s mom is also inconsistent and extremely narcissistic, to the point where they won’t talk for months. both of their moms are abusive in every way. i am legit the only person i know with a mom who not only loves me, but that i have a close relationship with. growing up i thought everyone had a good mom like mine. that’s far from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:32 AM
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i think many women don’t see the benefits outweighing the costs. as someone who wants kids more than anything, even this makes sense to me as a woman. something kinda strange is all of my close friends that i’ve had throughout my life have shitty really bad moms. maturing is realizing not everyone needs to be a mom, and many of these bad moms didn’t even want kids. they just felt obligated to have them. now this feeling of obligation is reducing which i think is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:27 AM
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as someone who’s done a lot of academia work regarding maternal mortality rates specifically in the US (especially among women of color) this is far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:03 AM
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just like women keep society functioning when they give birth to children and raise them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:02 AM
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i was gonna say exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:01 AM
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partially agree. i think most women want to be mothers but the women who opt out aren’t regretting it. there genuinely is a population of women who just don’t want to be moms. it’s not uncommon, just not a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:00 AM
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it was sarcasm. but i know i’ll see it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:59 PM
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i really don’t think that’s true. i think most women do want to be mothers and have kids. that being said it makes me angry to see men downplay childbirth and not respect all that motherhood comes with for women. to complain about their role as men in dating dynamics and relationships, when they will want a woman to birth them (usually) a couple children someday. it’s ridiculous and i can see why women are opting out of reproducing. who wants to go through all the pain, changes, and loss of self…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:57 PM
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i’m so excited to witness this as a soon to be labor and delivery nurse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:43 PM
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that’s actually pretty cool. when do kids usually start wresting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:42 PM
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not complaining about how dating and relationships “favor” women. unless you’re a man who doesn’t want to have kids and you’re dating a woman who also doesn’t want kids, or you’re wasting time dating for “fun”, there should be more catering to the woman in a relationship. a man should provide to show that he will make sure their children and her are taken care of. a man should show why he’s worthy of giving children to throughout the duration of the relationship. a woman is not only growing a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:39 PM
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men don’t appreciate childbirth & child-rearing, and all that requires from a woman. but then wonder why the birth rate is dropping. silly games, silly prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:27 PM
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one thing that i want more than anything is to make my daughters “bow” girls when they’re young. i want them to have a bow in every color of the rainbow so the bow can match their outfit. and im gonna give them cute hairstyles that makes the bow a cute little accessory. i always look at this photo of my great grandma as a kid where she has her hair curled and a bow in her hair and i just think its the cutest style for my future daughters. so elegant & classy but so girly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:07 PM
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also op i would suggest just being open to new experiences and opportunities. when you have the chance to do something, just give it a chance. you never know who you’ll meet :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:43 AM
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what did i just read😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:36 AM
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i would prioritize making more friends first and improving social skills through those relationships. it’ll make things like meeting men and interacting with them in any way, less daunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:34 AM
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i wish that were true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:30 AM
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i love a good wedding cake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:16 AM
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do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:15 AM
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don’t be! your time will come and be 10x better than what you expected it to be💕
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:15 AM
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you really did not read my post…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:13 AM
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no but i’ve seen one before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:12 AM
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but i’m not just referring to social networks…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:11 AM
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right. i should’ve said pre-“internet like it is today”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:06 AM
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yeah things are very different now. i also had a family computer that i’d play games on. i remember you had to put the physical game CD into the computer, in order to play whatever game you wanted. there was also no wifi. there was only an actual physical internet router that had to be connected to the desktop computer. crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:05 AM
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the point is, there is no explicit indication that this is an incel forum or that the purpose of this forum is to be an incel handout spot. because that’s not the point of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:59 AM
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i feel like society thinks that people my age (22) have no idea of what life was like pre-internet (like it is today). i’ve had like two conversations with my boss at one of my jobs where she’s like “this is how it was before computers/internet/etc” and i just think, yeah i remember. i grew up with a vhs player in my room to watch all my favorite disney movies. i used a pay phone numerous times as a kid. and i remember how ground breaking it was for touch screen phones to come out, and how cool …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:57 AM
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<image> where is the indication that this is an incel sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:53 AM
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😓
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:48 AM
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thank you silly_billy12345, very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:47 AM
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i missed where this sub or thread is an incel forum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:47 AM
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she’s very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:46 AM
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no way i missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:45 AM
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i facetimed my bf to show him something, and he acknowledged what i showed him but just kinda zoned out and stared at me, smiling really hard. i said “what’s up?” and he said “you’re so beautiful. you look like a princess. you are a princess.” and just kept smiling at me. my heart literally melt. i used to daydream about someone loving me like he loves me and now im living that dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:43 AM
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this sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:26 AM
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you’d still be legally financially responsible for her for at max a decade, prenup or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:18 AM
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i dress up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:10 AM
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and what will you do when she inevitably divorces you and marries someone better than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:09 AM
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the photoshop😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:08 AM
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not every
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:56 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:38 PM
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ah ok. she probably has a roster which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:38 PM
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lmao so true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:33 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:33 PM
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you’re really trying to make a valid argument and i gotta appreciate the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:32 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:31 PM
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wait you have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:31 PM
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if it’s not obvious, im not gonna stop. none of the hostility i get from it makes me feel any type of way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:11 AM
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tell that to the whiners as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:10 AM
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it’s almost time for the olympics!!!! i’m so excited🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:50 AM
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so what’s the answer? everyone on here has to be sad and depressing so the lonely guys can feel better about themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:46 AM
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its interesting to me obviously i know a lot about music and would love to teach it since i’m so passionate about it. i took a music history class in high school and that really ignited that desire for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:40 AM
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maybe i’ll look into doing something similar as a side gig after i start my big girl career
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:37 AM
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if i could be anything in the world and money didn’t matter, i would be a songwriter who also does background vocals for artists. and then after years of doing that, i would retire and be a part time music history professor (i still might pursue this someday).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:01 AM
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didn’t say it was. just highlighting that this isn’t an incel sub. if we can talk about how much women suck and how average guys can’t get laid, we can talk about how happy we are in relationships and how much we love our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:49 AM
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where’s the cassettes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:42 AM
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makes sense. that’s nice that you care about incels so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:42 AM
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this isn’t an incel sub or thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:33 AM
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who cares though? this isn’t an incel thread. why do happy people need to hide their happiness because it might hurt a sad person’s feelings? if a sad person is really that triggered, they should get off the internet until they can get their emotions together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:32 AM
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become chad, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:34 PM
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she’s so real for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:23 PM
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the stair master DRAINS me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:23 PM
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got ya. that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:20 PM
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in my first relationship, i felt loved and protected enough. in my last relationship, i didn’t really feel loved and protected at all but that’s for an array of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:06 PM
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it does compute to me. i totally get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:43 PM
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manifesting we last forever✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:42 PM
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that makes sense. but my past partners never made me feel as loved and protected as i do now. does that change anything or is it just the “chad effect”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:40 PM
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Q4M ok serious question and scenario… so before i started dating my bf, i never sent nudes or naughty photos because it made me uncomfortable and i felt like it compromised my safety. i didn’t even send stuff like that to past boyfriends. but now that im with my current bf who’s very attractive and a great partner, i send him stuff like that all the time (started a month into us officially being a couple, three months after we met). do you personally think i send him that content because he’s at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:25 PM
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he doesn’t have earrings but yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:19 PM
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he doesn’t have a lifted truck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:31 PM
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my has the first two and he’s not a douche
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:30 PM
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not a douche, just hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:29 PM
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fluffy hair and gold chain are basically mandatory but the earrings are just a nice add on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:27 PM
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hater
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:17 PM
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i know i talked about some physical dealbreakers but let’s talk about some physical rate boosters. to me, if a guy has: fluffy hair, a gold chain, or earring(s), he automatically gets 2 extra points on his rating. yum. legit tingle activators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:15 PM
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<image> happy friday everyone <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:06 PM
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i know what they are and know they’re used to determine certain things. i will say my bf got a tarot reading from a psychic. his reading did not come to fruition. (i also got a palm reading from her and that wasn’t true so maybe she just wasn’t legit).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:43 AM
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hm then maybe i just have too much faith in people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:41 AM
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mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:27 AM
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he didn’t comment on my photo. but another bmi obsessed guy thought mine was 21.1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:26 AM
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i get what you’re saying but i think they’re just conversation points. do you really think people who talk about these things here are being so analytic and specific irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:22 AM
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name one woman with lip filler who looks better after lip filler than before lip filler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:11 AM
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not face reveal but a body reveal because i wanted the bmi professionals to guess mine. it’s towards the start of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:11 AM
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i personally have. this sub and reddit in general isn’t that serious. i don’t think being on this sub indicates anything about anyone. same with any other social media platforms. social media isn’t real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:09 AM
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i was gonna say something mean but the reddit admins would probably b*n me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:03 AM
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if i was a man, lip fillers would be my #1 ick. i’ve never seen good looking lip fillers ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:02 AM
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they should bring the purge back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:00 AM
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i’ve never been on this sub during a purge but realistically i know that not everyone on this sub is unattractive. there’s literally almost 130k who subscribe to this sub. assuming people who spend time on here are ugly or that people who are “attractive” shouldn’t be on this sub, is kinda odd and a bit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:00 AM
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theres no insecurity. i know that specific user isn’t my biggest fan so i expected them to say something like that. nonetheless, i do think they assumed i was bigger since i spend time on this sub. obviously not 100 bmi, thats dramatic. but definitely probably overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:59 AM
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weird for discussing gender and relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:54 AM
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not true. i told people earlier i was gonna post photos of myself so people on the sub could guess my bmi. one person told me that since im on this sub often, my bmi must be 100. and two people asked me why am i on the sub after seeing what i look like. and while i appreciate the compliments, this is a debate sub. anyone can debate and share their thoughts regardless of what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:52 AM
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that’s exactly how i feel. my female friendships fulfill me more than enough and add quality to my life. the only males i need around me are my partner, my father, and my brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:48 AM
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why is the consensus that anyone who spends time on this sub is fat, ugly, or weird? why is it so difficult to believe that some people here can be attractive or average looking and/or in a relationship and just like to discuss the topics mentioned here? i really don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:46 AM
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this is so real because this is how i feel about having guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:42 AM
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not hard at all. just don’t have male friends. problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:41 AM
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funny enough, i used to be skinnier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:14 AM
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facts🎯🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:49 PM
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her:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:46 PM
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lmao the caption😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:44 PM
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5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:37 PM
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think about my life goal and how it needs to be accomplished before i croak
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:31 PM
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chewy vitamin gummies are a weakness for me. i eat those things like fruit snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:29 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:28 PM
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boredom and i like to debate with people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:21 PM
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not my bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:20 PM
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that’s not a bmi :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:18 PM
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didn’t i give you a cookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:56 PM
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ok everyone get ready. i’m posting some pics below this thread and you’ll guess my bmi. the winner gets a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:53 PM
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<image> so again, your definition of a healthy bmi right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:47 PM
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wait your definitely of a healthy BMI or the actual healthy BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:45 PM
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if imagining that im fat helps you sleep better and protects your ego, keep at it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:41 PM
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i was listening to “take it back” yesterday. i really do like the song and feel like it’s written well. it’s one of my favorite logic songs but i hadn’t heard it in awhile. so when it got to the talking part of the song i was just like 🥴 i think people just get annoyed with him always talking about how he’s biracial 24/7 which is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:38 PM
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that’s what would make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:36 PM
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my initial post was just me expressing a thought. i’ll probably post pics on the new thread though and have the bmi nerds guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:32 PM
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how would you guess with no photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:25 PM
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good pics. i actually really like logic. i do think he can be a bit cringe at time but a good artist nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:24 PM
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i would love for you guys to guess my bmi. i think it would be the funniest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:20 PM
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the height doesn’t help but he has a very feminine face imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:09 PM
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favorite logic song?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:08 PM
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well i did a lot of college content. so like day in the life, study with me, how to use your ipad to take notes, college advice, etc. all those aesthetic-y type things. now since im starting nursing school, im gonna focus more on nursing related content. i was contacted by the app after a good amount of my posts really blew up. they approached me about making specific content on their app and being rewarded for doing such. i accepted. as i continued to post, that’s when i started receiving brand…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:05 PM
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i do education and productivity related content mainly. sometimes relationship and gym stuff as well. i do get paid well for a little side gig and have had some popular brands send me PR products/boxes. i dont plan to take content creation seriously or anything. its just a little side quest for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:46 PM
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no. i’ve been considering dabbling in it but don’t want to invest if the app is just gonna get banned. i know i would do really well on tiktok though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:39 PM
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i am one. and i have obligations with the app i content create for to post a certain amount of posts a week and to fulfill different requirements/tasks. i do enjoy it and my posts perform well but there’s definitely some downsides to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:29 PM
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damn sorry that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:31 PM
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being a content creator is so hard. hard to come up with ideas. hard to remember to post. i see why people do it full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:13 PM
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i don’t agree but your opinion is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:45 AM
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it was a joke. no we’re not engaged. we just talk about kids and stuff like lots of couples do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:27 AM
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spiritually
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:24 AM
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i love when my bf and i talk about our future kids. how we’ll raise them and all the things we’ll do with them. he gets so excited and happy when we talk about stuff like this too. like he even came up with an idea for a gender reveal! a partner seeing a long future with you is very comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:19 AM
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paul’s boutique
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:03 AM
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i agree with everything you said! i think team sports are great for teaching life lessons such as how to work with others, the importance of communication, providing support, etc. but going to the gym is such a personal journey that can’t be replicated. even individual sports don’t compare and i say this as a prior track runner (sprints). going to the gym really teaches you about persistence and endurance. how to keep going when you really feel like giving up. not only does your body look good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:05 PM
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i played three team sports year round from the age of 7 to 18, but it’s really been the gym that’s had the biggest effect on my wellbeing and fitness. i’ve only been going consistently for a year but it’s literally changed my life. i’m so happy my bf got me into it. if you don’t work out, start. i promise you won’t regret it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:57 PM
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this is so cuteee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:32 PM
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the way non high value men talk about what high value men do and don’t do, and how they think, should be studied. weird talking about the actions and mindsets of people who are way out of your tax bracket🤒
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:12 PM
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<image> 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:38 AM
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nope never
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:58 AM
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she’s not lying. she’s christian and she takes it seriously. she’s done other sexual things with boyfriends but not penetrative sex. she also tries to exclusively date virgin men as she has been rejected for explaining to dating prospects that she won’t have sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:56 AM
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so why not date one of those people if you’re so scared about being left if you can no longer provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:33 AM
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can you come up with ways to mitigate ending up with a superficial gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:21 AM
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damn that’s a short amount of time to fall off so drastically. my bf and i have been together for a year and nine months and we’re still going strong, so i guess i just projected that onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:09 AM
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interesting. how long until a relationship isn’t new and the sex changes in frequency?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:05 AM
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i wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:59 AM
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random thought but i wonder what typical sex looks like for most couples. my bf and i were talking about this the other day and he thinks most couples have vanilla sex and i think most couples have kinky sex. i also think most couples have sex multiple times a day and he thinks we’re an anomaly (3x a day), and most couples have sex a couple times a week.there needs to be studies done on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:58 AM
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facts. my best friend has been in various healthy relationships and is still a virgin (she’s saving herself for marriage).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:55 AM
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yeah interesting enough i feel like i have been so love struck recently and im not sure why. and yes, i think i would love him if that were to happen. i truly love his soul. his physical being is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:54 AM
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omg??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:50 AM
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1 year 9 months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:43 AM
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i didn’t get that vibe especially because he didn’t show me the photo for super long. but who knows for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:39 AM
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go wherever you want. true love is out there <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:24 AM
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well i do. when you fall in love with someone and they love you back and consistently show that to you, you’ll feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:19 AM
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you didn’t answer my question. what’s the ppd chad standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:15 AM
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so a woman being in love means she has autism? that’s news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:15 AM
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lmao how is there a high chance our son would be autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:13 AM
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i was gonna be so jealous if it was. that dog is absolutely adorable. i love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:12 AM
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that’s certainly been it for at least the past couple years. but what are the ppd standards to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:11 AM
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is this your dog??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:10 AM
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another cute storytime… so a couple months ago, my bf and i went out to dinner. we’re having a conversation, sitting across from one another, and then he pulls out his phone since it’s vibrating due to someone calling. he says “oh (one of his closest friends) is calling”. he texts his friend something and then puts his phone away. we go back to his apartment after dinner and we’re just chilling watching reels. we then start talking about some photo the closest friend who called earlier sent him …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:43 AM
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thank you many_dragonfly4154. very cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:35 AM
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nice try. i just post about my super hot amazing bf here because i love him so much and i want all of you guys to know it too. i want the whole world to know!!🥹😊😇😜🩷🩵🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:34 AM
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yes women should never date men they find unattractive regardless of how good their personality is. what’s wrong with that? no one said they should fight over this 10% of men you’re speaking of. i said they should only date men THEY find attractive. there is not only a small number of men who are attractive. even the average men you speak of can be attractive. as mentioned, attraction is not as black and white as you believe it to be. i 100% believe women should not date men they find unattracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:30 AM
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i loved it. made me giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:23 AM
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just because you would go for one type of guy doesn’t mean that’s the only guy you would go for. that’s where you extremist get confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:15 AM
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i’m just going by ppd standards :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:14 AM
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after almost two years of being together and him simping for me all the time, i’d be genuinely surprised. anyways can i link this response to a comment i made not too long ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:13 AM
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i’m going by the 6666 method
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:10 AM
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that’s true. i’d be so alpha widowed if we didn’t end up together forever :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:09 AM
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what does it say about me that my bf is chad and is apart of the “10% or less” of attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:06 AM
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but out of that 80% of average/normal people, a woman can find someone who’s attractive to her. attractive isn’t some black and white metric and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. your previous statement of “a large percentage of women are fighting for attractive men with good personalities” is a perfect example of the gaslighting i mentioned earlier that men try to do to get women to date men they don’t actually want or find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:02 AM
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so the answer is to date someone you find ugly instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:50 AM
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they can do whatever they want. i’m all for people doing whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:50 AM
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this is definitely part of it but i think the bigger reason why men here tell women to go for unattractive guys is because people, regardless of gender, love to demonize people they find more successful or better than them. that’s why whenever men see some headline about women getting abused or mistreated, they automatically assume it was by some super hot rich chad without even knowing the details of the situation. it’s hard for them to realize that many of the “good guys” who they vouch for wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:39 AM
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<image> my results would’ve been so different a couple years ago😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:20 PM
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how do i do that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:14 AM
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no, her cousin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 AM
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love joan jett though i am more of a debbie harry kind of girl. but incorrect nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:12 AM
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winner. do you have a prize in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:11 AM
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winner. do you have a prize in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:11 AM
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i just got off the phone with my bf not too long ago and he said “i’m gonna marry you ___”. and majority of the convo was him telling me how much he loves me and how much i mean to him. he’s not one to be super mushy so when he is being like that, it always makes me swoon. he’s so perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:10 AM
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in a dream world, what would your dating life look like and what does your dream relationship look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:16 AM
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how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:07 AM
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my favorite singer is the greatest female vocalist of all time. who is it? if you get it right, i’ll give you a prize. you only get one guess btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:06 AM
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any woman who claims looks don’t matter is just virtue signaling or is unattractive and desperate. any guy with sense would know that “looks don’t matter” is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:02 AM
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if women are making these statements, they’re delusional too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:55 AM
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i 100% agree with everything you said. all i said was i think it’s funny when men use rich famous know men in their arguments about male desirability, when the average man isn’t rich and isn’t as attractive as these male celebrities (who ironically post thousands a year to maintain their looks and reduce signs of aging).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:51 AM
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someone got it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:47 AM
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have you ever loved somebody so much it makes you cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:41 AM
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is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:41 AM
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that’s a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:40 AM
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ate a high protein dinner, walked a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:40 AM
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i haven’t seen that but i feel like i see something about leo or henry cavill everytime i get on here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:34 AM
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i turned 22 last month and i do feel old. but in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:58 AM
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no❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:40 AM
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what woman thinks the latter scenario is impressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:39 AM
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this. average people and celebrities are in two different worlds. idk why people try to use celebrities in their arguments as a “gotcha”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:13 AM
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i love how when men try to prove a point, mainly in regards to desirability, they always use some super rich male celebrity to validate their opinion. it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:44 AM
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i thought about that but i’m trying to limit myself to taking out food once a week. maybe i’ll do that though and skip taking out food next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:23 AM
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i was 100% sure about what i was gonna have for dinner tonight until i was talking to somebody and they mentioned this food i haven’t had in awhile, and now i might get that😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:17 AM
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i just graduated college and i don’t think people really cared that much about them. it’s nice to have something around your neck yes. but nobody is like “they have so many cords. they’re so cool.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:08 AM
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do people really care about cords that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:58 PM
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rnb is literally the best genre of music, hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:55 PM
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you’re still on this sub. haven’t seen you in a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:50 PM
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100%. that is facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:01 PM
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oh. i couldn’t guess correctly since you said most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:57 PM
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still don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:55 PM
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Q4M what do you think about the common narrative that short men have an inferiority complex? do you think it’s true or false?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:54 PM
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rip. it’s all downhill from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:53 PM
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that’s really unfortunate. it’s not too late to change that narrative though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:52 PM
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who is the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:51 PM
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<image> it’s starting…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:47 PM
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ultimately that they’re bad and that younger women need to stay away from older men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:29 PM
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like you mentioned, long term, this mindset will hinder you. metabolism slows as you get older. but i think losing the mindset of “i already look good” would be helpful. i think in our age group, most people “already look good” prior to working out. being unattractive or overweight/obese usually isn’t the issue. people tend to work out to look better and to introduce healthy habits into their life. there’s tons of benefits to being active and it really minimizes physical health issues long term.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:25 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:11 PM
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majority of them are, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:53 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:51 PM
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break up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:50 PM
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only in regards to age gap relationships . i appreciate her impact in that area.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:49 PM
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yeah definitely log out. sorry you’re experiencing that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:18 AM
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definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:17 AM
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who has ever said ryan gosling is average?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:39 AM
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oof on my current state’s “are we dating the same guy”, all the guys are significantly below average. i’m like up your standards ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:39 AM
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your motivation should be to finish up your workout so you can go home and relax
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:38 AM
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woah woah woah my iud has three more years sir
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:55 PM
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i pray we do someday. we already have their names picked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:47 PM
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really? i thought you were 25+
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:18 PM
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why are you like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:08 PM
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hate to be soppy but my love for him is so strong, it literally makes me cry tears of joy. it’s a really nice feeling to give love and to really support someone in every way you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:08 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:52 PM
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i can’t describe it quantitatively. saying i love him a billion times couldn’t even amount to how much i truly love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:46 PM
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truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:35 PM
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i hope so. i literally tell him these things all the time and try to express them through actions as well. i love him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:34 PM
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i am actually so in love with my bf. i cherish and value him so much and i just want to give him the world🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:20 PM
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my general preferences got me 5%, but when i made the results match my bf’s features i got 0.36% i hate this calculator though because of the age range apart. i can only put 21-26 though i wouldn’t date anyone older than 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:44 AM
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get a girlfriend obvi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:38 AM
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that’s a life worth living
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:37 AM
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i’m sure this is bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:25 PM
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your mindset prior to having kids changes when you actually have kids and have a little being you want to protect and take care of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:38 PM
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there isn’t but you already know that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:37 PM
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hm ok. if you ever have a daughter, respond to this when she’s about 5 and lmk if you still have that same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:39 PM
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people who seethe over things that have no possibility of happening have mental issues. and that’s a whole different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:12 PM
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for majority of men it doesn’t get better though so why focus on the rarities instead of the average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:09 PM
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is english your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:07 PM
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i honestly high doubt that. he’s not really attractive especially these days. but everyone’s preferences are different. i agree that it’s untrue but i think it’s disgust rather than c*pe. you can’t really c-pe something that wasn’t really a possibility in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:07 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:01 PM
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it’s so hard to take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:00 PM
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i really don’t think it’s jealously. moreso disgust if anything as women don’t typically want to date predatory men and majority of women don’t have access to men with million of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:00 PM
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everybody looks better in their 20s compared to later in life. there is no “but especially women” to add to that statement because that would make the statement false. men 30+ are typically bald or balding, and out of shape/fat. famous men with millions of dollars who are old are not representative of the average old man. and this is where men get it confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:54 PM
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it was an observation that i made based on your behavior and other old men i’ve encountered irl and online, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:36 PM
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there’s nothing that i’m wrong about lol. old men get trigged that they’re old and unwanted by their preference and i said that’s a weird thing to be mad about. that’s it, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:35 PM
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we love punctuation!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:32 PM
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because i’m talking about a specific scenario. and this scenario is old men being mad that young women find them ugly and creepy, and therefore undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:31 PM
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who said this is a problem i care to solve? it was just an observation regarding something i find weird and scary. not everything is a science experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:30 PM
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english?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:28 PM
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right, but right now we’re talking about old men being triggered that young women find them ugly and washed up and won’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:22 PM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:15 PM
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it’s honestly really odd and weird when old guys genuinely get mad and trigged that younger women find them unattractive and therefore, exclude them from their dating pool. it’s crazy that they get mad about it in the first place but also kind of scary how mad they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:13 PM
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why does younger women not liking older men and finding them unattractive trigger you so much? don’t you think that’s a weird thing to be mad about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:10 PM
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how cool. i just got the summer fridays one yesterday! i had the rhode lip balm beforehand so im trying to compare the two to see what i like best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:09 PM
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same here. i legit had to read this a couple times to try to understand what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:06 PM
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what’s your fav product?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:03 PM
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you need a new topic to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:03 PM
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so you just hit legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:49 PM
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who said anything about sleeping with anyone? i said dating. we see where you mind is at.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:49 PM
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this is so random but ever since i woke up, that clip of fergie singing and doing cartwheels on Good Morning America has been on repeat in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:38 PM
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neat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:37 PM
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so you’d be ok with your teenage/early 20s daughter dating someone at least 10 years older than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:35 PM
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to be fair, it’s nice to live somewhere warm in fall/late winter. what other place can you go swimming in february?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:34 PM
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this is good weather here btw. in a couple weeks, it’ll be triple digits everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:26 PM
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exactly. i hate the “fatherless women” rhetoric but only fatherless women end up in age gap relationships. no good father would let his daughter date someone significantly older than her because he already knows what that older man is seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:19 PM
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yeah i think i know maybe five, including myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:17 PM
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<image> get on board
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:16 PM
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i’ve seen women say this regardless of their relationship status
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:45 AM
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it’s true there are country averages. that’s a good metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:28 AM
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right so why do men spew out their dating advice and perspectives to women like women even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:28 AM
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that’s not the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:27 AM
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🎯🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:26 AM
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not always true. if she truly loves the LTR, she won’t think about someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:25 AM
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big is preferred obviously but average is sufficient i think if she really loves the guy she’s with, she won’t think about the bigger dick from the hookup/past LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:24 AM
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most of the time i think that’s the case. average dick size is fine but smaller than that? that’ll be a tough sell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:50 AM
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i think for most women, he’d have to be REALLY attractive i will say i had a bf with a small dick before who i found attractive. didn’t leave him over it or cheat on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:46 AM
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because men are thirsty enough to buy them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:42 AM
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this right here is the very scary difference between men and women’s mindsets in dating. and this is why women need to be cautious with the men they date and not listen to male dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:40 AM
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depends on how hot he is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:38 AM
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i have selling sunset on my watch list. i’ve heard it’s really good so i’m excited to check it out. i will add the other recs to my watch list <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:02 AM
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🩷🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:01 AM
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sounds like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:19 AM
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as i said to someone else earlier, who tf are you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:58 AM
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that’s not what the sub saysssss
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:52 AM
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if anything i feel like my take is pretty conservative but go off edit: this reply is a joke. please don’t take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:50 AM
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love reality tv but i’ll watch anything. i just have a lot of free time on my hands this summer so im just open to whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:40 AM
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hm some interesting titles. i will watch these by the end of summer and let you know my thoughts. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:39 AM
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i’m subscribed to it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:38 AM
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a phone plan is a financial obligation hence why i said finances. if you’re not the primary account holder and you’re getting a discount because your parent(s), you’re not the sole financial provider in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:37 AM
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im gonna spare you because it’s sunday and i just wanna be nice today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:32 AM
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i’m religious, but even my religion says you need to constantly be working in various ways to improve yourself and make yourself better. i don’t believe or agree with any notion that says people are good enough as they are because that’s just a lie. does this mean you need to push yourself to extreme measures to be “worthy” or “valid”? no. but you can always make efforts to be better. always.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:31 AM
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i’m not agreeing with you on this one bud. and i say this as a recent grad/future grad student who literally does 95% of things regarding finances on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:27 AM
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not vanity at all. i think fitness is more about the internal aspects of us more than the external. its tough and tiring but damn its worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:25 AM
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who tf are you🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:25 AM
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is it an anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:17 AM
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screenshotted and will be adding to my watch list later. thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:16 AM
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but don’t you want to have pride in something? it’s so satisfying knowing that the work you’re putting in is making your body look and feel fantastic. and it really teaching you a lot about persistence and perseverance. definitely get in the gym. start off with a few days a week and then see how you feel after about a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:16 AM
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you don’t even have to leave reddit. just leave toxic subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:14 AM
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your femcel bit was a little cringe but i know that’s your aesthetic i have baby reindeer on my list but ill add ripley. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:13 AM
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it’s not my fault that my bf is chad and i have family that loves and cares about me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:12 AM
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right sorry. i meant why is she obligated to keep you on her plan. nonetheless i think it’s just a way to teach responsibility. i personally don’t think they’re wrong for doing this though i get the frustration you might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 AM
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🙂‍↔️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:09 AM
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lmao thank you queen🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:08 AM
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if you think that after everything i’ve shared on this sub, that’s a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:05 AM
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i don’t think so at all. you’re an adult and you’re truly entering the adult world now as someone who’s about to graduate. why should she be obligated to continue paying your phone bill at this point? having you take care of YOUR phone bill when you have a stable income is not “handicapping” you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:04 AM
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so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:00 AM
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yes!! fitness is great for the mind body and spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:00 AM
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life update since i haven’t been on here in a million years: •i’m still dating my hot 6’1 super smart chad •i graduated college this weekend!! was gifted with a brand new car and $5k •gym has been going great. ass keeps getting fatter. •since distancing myself from ppd i think ive actually gotten a tad bit nicer and sympathetic to male causes. tad bit •currently looking for netflix shows to binge so please suggest some (please)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:59 PM
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me graduating college
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:54 PM
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if they want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:54 PM
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i think women are socialized to spew that nonsense because they don’t want to be mean or hurt feelings. women in general tend to be more sensitive to others’ feelings than men so it makes sense. but virtue signaling when it comes to dating topics really just hurts women in the end, and it’s a big reason why the red pill is so prominent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:54 PM
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i don’t see an issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:49 PM
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are you planning to work full time after you graduate? if yes, what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:56 AM
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in the daily thread it’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:35 AM
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you do know that this also applies to men? also there are things you can’t do until 25 due this lack of development, at least in the US. you can’t rent a car and many creditors won’t take you seriously until 25. that being said, i personally think many rights like voting and going to war should be pushed back to 21. but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:50 PM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:32 PM
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thank you🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:31 AM
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you need to touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:28 AM
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definitely not it💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:25 AM
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thank you. it’s my birthday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:25 AM
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7-10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:29 AM
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yes. i matched with plenty of 5’7 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:34 PM
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maybe not the guys you know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:05 PM
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how long is it and what is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:01 PM
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those posts are banned? i still see them everytime i come on here, though granted im not on here as much as i used to be. nonetheless i still don’t get why others being happy gets you so bothered. i like seeing people happy and when people are happy on this sub about something, i tend to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:57 PM
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i never said i was. all i said was i’d rather take the advice of a married person who is in a successful marriage rather than someone who’s never been married and probably doesn’t have many successful relationships under their belt. i don’t see the harm in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:56 PM
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I’m not married perfect that’s all i needed to read. thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:50 PM
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my dad is typically right about things and i tend to listen to people who have experience to back up what they’re saying. also my parent got married in 98 so not that long ago. but actually… how long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:47 PM
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no four years is plenty enough. and it’s much more lenient that a lot of the expectations other women have on this topic. nonetheless, my dad provided me with this rule so im gonna listen to him. he married my mom after four years of dating and they’ll have been married for 26 years in the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:44 PM
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i can tag several posts on this thread right now that have nothing to do with debating but yet, i didn’t see you under those threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:43 PM
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my rule is he doesn’t propose to me within four years of being together, we’re done.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:37 PM
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i think you’re just a hater and can’t stand to see others happy. and i can’t help you with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:36 PM
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so being happy that my boyfriend is telling his friends that i’m the one is a brag? got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:31 PM
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ugh you’re so right. my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:23 PM
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i do but i wanna tell you guys too❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:19 PM
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ok so quick story time because i’m still so happy: my bf went out with his friends the other night and came back to his apartment with said friends. they’re chatting in the living room and i’m in my bf’s bedroom online shopping because im just a girl. it’s like 2 in the morning so i know he thinks im sleep and not aware that i can hear their conversation. they’re talking for awhile about different things and then they start talking about relationships because one of my bf’s friends is talking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:14 PM
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kinda true but only for the past year
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:11 AM
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the past three times i’ve gone out, some random person (2 males, 1 female) has told me i look like a model and that just makes me feel so good and super hot🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:06 AM
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love that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:44 AM
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x. too many degenerates on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:44 AM
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as a woman, i would never. and im not a guy but that seems pretty lame and boring regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:43 AM
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yum
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:42 AM
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where does insecurity come in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:46 AM
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and my birthday is next week. yay yay yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:41 AM
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also i’m about to hit the year and a half mark of dating my bf and i think that’s absolutely crazy. i guess time really does fly when you’re dating a chad🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:41 AM
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promiscuous women just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:36 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/C5BwNuPua8Z/?igsh=MWozY3Z6OXRjb2plcQ== still so much more progress to be made but we’ve come a long way. super cool illustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:35 AM
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my best friend met all but two of these requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:20 AM
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i work/shadow part time at a fertility clinic since i’m planning to be an ob nurse. one of the patients i met last year while shadowing just had a successful, stress-free natural birth to a healthy set of twin girls. the woman is 50 and she conceived with her husband naturally. i love women and im so happy she got the children she wanted❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:19 AM
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dating at your level is fine. just don’t date below it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:58 AM
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i respect your opinion but women with money have access to men with money and if they’re not using their connections wisely, that’s on them. people with high status date others of similar status. the rich date and marry the rich. lawyers date and marry lawyers. doctors date and marry doctors. and so on. a wealthy woman can find a wealthy man if she uses her accessibility wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:06 AM
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this is currently the scenario for most households at least in america, especially in the current economy we live in. most couples simply can not survive on a single income and this is already the case without children (more $$$). majority of men aren’t high value. thanks to the red pill and stupid podcasters, you have a bunch of average and low tier men talking about what high value men want and do but they don’t even know what that’s like because they’re living paycheck to paycheck. they shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:57 AM
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similar to a man’s worth being his ability to provide and protect though i’d argue most men don’t do either anymore. but this is important. it’s just not more valuable than what women contribute to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:52 AM
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this and the fact that in general, women bring more value to relationships that men. they bring life into this world and are usually the default caregivers of the home and kids, on top of bringing in some form of income. what men do in relationships doesn’t compare whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:49 AM
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no men get all insecure and try to dim their partner’s light through manipulation and control. plus it’s just not a good look. she’ll have to make so many sacrifices when she can just find a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:42 AM
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you said it, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:40 AM
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you’re not that dense…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:38 AM
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i got one. you can get one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:37 AM
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i wanna post myself but i have too many enemies💔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:37 AM
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there’s men with all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:36 AM
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ah i see. then in that case, women who want this should definitely date down! i have a hard time pretending to be attracted to people im not actually into so i couldn’t do it. but props to the girlies who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:35 AM
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sure but women are the prize in relationships so it doesn’t really work the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:34 AM
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women should only date men who are in their league or above it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:30 AM
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what is a himbo servant😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:27 AM
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women should never ever date down. not in terms of looks, status… nothing. just a bunch of problems waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:22 AM
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“settle down girl” theory supported once again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:19 AM
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cute!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:18 AM
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sure. everyone has a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:17 AM
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the comment is on my thread?? as soon as you get a therapist for the things i said, i’ll have my bf get me a new one. deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:01 AM
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pls do <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:54 AM
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thank god for therapy because it’s really helped me love myself more than ever. maybe you should look into it. it’ll probably help you start relationships with women who don’t have personality disorders or will ghost because they have someone better lined up for them🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:50 AM
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dweeb how fucking old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:42 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:42 PM
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not rage bait. so many people talk about gaining “relationship” weight and looking worse once getting into a relationship but i think in a good relationship, both partners are constantly improving for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:44 PM
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c-word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:42 PM
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i’m glad you know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:59 PM
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i appreciate the compliment🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:41 PM
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nah my body is pretty nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:38 PM
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i got so much hotter since dating my bf and he’s gotten so much hotter since dating me. this is how true love works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:32 PM
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i have one of those. i honestly love it but insertion sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:18 PM
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you are. good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:23 AM
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again, you’re talking about me multiple times a day when i barely remember you’re a user on here unless i see you talking about me lol. you talked about me three times today alone. 3. you’re obsessed, embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:17 AM
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notice how i NEVER mention you and you’re constantly posting subliminals about me. literally giving me nicknames lol. and best part, you dont even tag me🤣 YOURE AN OBSESSED FAN. i would call it weird but ill just say im honored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:08 AM
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being poor has always been a reason why men can’t get women and therefore couldn’t/cant reproduce. when marriages were arranged, fathers would not let their daughters marry men wouldn’t could provided. but now there’s more prerequisites for getting into a relationship besides be a provider, and men are having meltdowns about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:57 AM
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you’re obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:54 AM
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i truly think most of them will be fine. i go to a very large university and see short guys in relationships all the time. in the gym. at the cafeteria. around campus. these guys are literally shorter than me (5’6) and have girlfriends. short men who genuinely want to love, care, and nurture a relationship are usually ok. but this is usually true regardless of a characteristic someone may have. if you have ill intentions or you’re trying to enter a relationship for the wrong reasons, you can’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:25 AM
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pretty much. i think men who aspire to love someone genuinely and be loved have no issue with getting into relationships. plus i think these “lonely men” are just mad they can’t have their way. we’re dealing with the first few generations of men who aren’t getting relationships and women handed to them simply because they were born as males, and now they don’t know how to act so they whine all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:17 AM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:24 AM
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well most religious people want to date people who are also apart of their religion. so it sounds like you have nothing to worry about because they wouldn’t be checking for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:11 AM
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for sure. i have a bigger shoe size than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:39 AM
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very on brand for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:35 AM
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i’m about to have a field day with these responses😄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:28 AM
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interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:03 AM
1

so in a relationship you expect your partner to be on birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:50 AM
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i’m not asking other men. i’m asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:42 AM
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no i don’t think short guys are mean. i think they can have a complex about being short though. which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:40 AM
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lol i understand but how do you know she really wants you? like what can she do to display this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:40 AM
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what a strange question to ask…?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:32 AM
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i get that but what exactly are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:31 AM
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interesting. what does worshipping a man and his ego look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:21 AM
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q4m: is sex important to you? why or why not? if you said yes, if you could have it your way, how often would you have it? would you rather have it with a committed partner or randoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:11 AM
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😥
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:46 AM
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don’t care🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:35 AM
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i agree. if you’re not connected to money as a man, it’s so much harder to get into these circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:33 AM
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one of the craziest things about college for me is having access to wealthy people and those who are “high status” or going to be high status. i have a friend who’s the daughter of a rock legend. i know someone else who’s brother is a very known nba player. met famous football players. i know multiple influencers. all of my boyfriend’s friends have parents who are wealthy, even some who are millionaires. i had someone who’s currently an nba player try to date me. college is such a wild place bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:15 AM
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oh i agree but just want to clarify she’s not technically cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:08 AM
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there’s benefit to it even if it isn’t special to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:59 PM
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i think teen years. i think the longer it takes for you to have that first relationship or interaction with the opposite gender, the more fucked up you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:55 PM
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missing out on “young love” really does fuck you up for years and i don’t know why people try to deny this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:36 PM
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she’s not a diagnosed little person…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:34 PM
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everyone in hollywood knows they’ve been in an open relationship for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:32 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:31 PM
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boredom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:06 PM
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if it works for you, that’s awesome. i just don’t think it really changes the outcome of things in regards to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:47 PM
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i think lots of women tend to think in absolutes, myself included but not on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:31 PM
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well if you’re talking about this sub, it’s a debate sub to discuss gender and sex issues. people in happy relationships or who have a good dating life can still engage in these conversations, especially in a place like the daily thread where people are able to talk about whatever they want including relationships they’re happy in :) if these neurodivergent loners can talk about all their experiences and views, why can’t people who are in relationships and who get laid talk about theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:30 PM
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because if you’re attracted to someone and want to engage in sexual activity with them, do it. why wait for some arbitrary time limit to pass? that’s not gonna ensure that the guy is gonna stay with you if you wait x amount of days or months. just like having sex on the first date doesn’t ensure that you won’t end up in a relationship with the guy you banged on the first date. just be secure in your decision to do what you want. that’s what helps prevent regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:26 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:20 PM
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i can’t wait to see my Chad drive our kids to sports practice and games. It’ll be so cute 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:19 PM
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i always found the concept of waiting for sex silly. i get the logic behind it but i just think it doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:17 PM
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i find that actual chads tend to be providers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:14 PM
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night owl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:02 PM
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i think that i mainly felt bad because it bothered him so much. he pointed out that i was taller than him but in a sad way and that sucked. and personally, i just didn’t feel feminine and felt awkward. also didn’t love that other people had pointed it out in a joking way which made me feel manly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:52 PM
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lunchables are so gross to me and idk why. i never liked them, even as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:39 PM
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no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:39 PM
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scary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:38 PM
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men also don’t reach full brain development until 25? that’s not a woman thing. it’s a human psychological thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:38 PM
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in my previous relationship, i went to an event with my ex who i was literally towering over in heels. it didn’t make him feel good and it didn’t make me feel good, especially since others noticed. after we broke up, i definitely told myself that i don’t want that to happen again but i still wasn’t super strict about height. but now im dating someone who’s 6’1 and if we were to ever break up, i wouldn’t date anyone under 5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:37 PM
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true but men also demonize and villainize attractive men. they try to paint the picture that only attractive men can be “bad guys”, and tell women to lower their standards, like average or below average guys are any better (they’re usually not).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:59 PM
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you’re so real for this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:56 PM
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she stands out the most to me. her eyes😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:06 PM
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i would say stacy is more aligned with my personal dating and relationship goals. if you want to fuck a bunch of randos, then being a chad is probably more optimal. but being a stacy is more of a long term success option which i prefer. but in general women have more advantages than men when it comes to dating and relationships anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:58 PM
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dakota looks so pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:55 PM
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congratulations! that’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:55 PM
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stacy, which i am
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:54 PM
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<image> yeah🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:01 AM
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i think you would be better off putting Q4M for this. women who get plastic surgery are pretty open about the fact that they’re treated better by men after getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:49 PM
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are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:45 PM
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op didn’t say his depression was caused by being touch starved. also there’s literally professional hug givers and prostitutes that provide services. why not hire one of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:31 PM
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satisfy their instincts ok then. so it’s mostly mechanical as i already said. perfect! jerking off really isn’t an issue after all. it’s just not preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:25 PM
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i’m serious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:21 PM
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mostly mechanical. not purely. if it wasn’t mostly mechanical, men wouldn’t fuck women they don’t find attractive just to say they got laid🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:21 PM
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jerk off?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:13 PM
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how will a gf help you not be depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:10 PM
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prior to my current relationship, i would never talk about something like that and felt weird about it. in my current relationship, i am completely vulnerable (thanks to him) and im 100% open to talking about my cycle or other intimate topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:09 PM
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twox daughter obvi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:02 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:02 PM
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i would rather d*e
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:01 PM
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kimberleigh sounds prettier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:18 AM
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i love when you do these questions😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:12 AM
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Q4M What does your ideal partner look like in your mind? Physically, mentally, emotionally? And how does she treat you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:08 AM
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yay free will!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:05 AM
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no they do not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:26 AM
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i just saw a tiktok video about unattractive men on the show being super shallow so you’d be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:04 AM
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Q4All Would you ever be on “Love is Blind”? Or utilize a dating app where you have no idea what someone looks like until after you’ve developed a mental and emotional connection first? I basically met my Chad like this so i’m curious to hear what everyone else thinks about the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:28 PM
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dude go back and read what you said. you’re saying that the women who don’t get plowed don’t put themselves out there but also complaining that most young women are getting plowed by other guys… maybe you should adjust your focus to the women who aren’t getting attention but of course those aren’t the women you actually want. see how that works. they shouldn’t have to approach you. if you actually wanted them like the women you do focus on, you would’ve been had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:36 AM
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men and women are so alike when it comes to physical appearance insecurities. and neither sex likes when they’re rejected for something regarding their own physical appearance, but have no problem rejecting or thinking less of the opposite gender for the look or size of a physical trait they possess. humans gonna human.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:23 AM
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i have no idea who either of those people are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:18 AM
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there’s tons of women who are not being “plowed by someone else”. you’re just not paying attention to those women and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:18 AM
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no i totally get it. i’m comparing an insecurity of women’s with an insecurity of men’s and trying to determine if the sentiments are the same between the two groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:09 AM
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agreed. i feel like women and men feel the same way about “lacking” in traits tied to femininity and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:57 AM
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that’s what i figured but i wanted answers from men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:34 AM
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this is what i figured is the case. thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:33 AM
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makes sense. thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:32 AM
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i have some theories but i want to hear answers directly from men… Q4M Why do men get upset when/if they get rejected for their penis size? Is it not okay for women to have preferences in this area? Or is it okay for women to have preferences but the way the woman rejects the man that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:23 AM
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they were complaining and trying to demonize women because why does a woman wanting a penis that satisfies her make her a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:29 PM
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because it is. if you don’t want to bother with such groups then don’t. complaining about women because they want to be with a guy who will satisfy them is pointless and childish. i don’t complain about men i don’t want because they don’t exist in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:21 PM
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right so then don’t deal with such groups. problem solved :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:11 PM
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that’s perfectly fine. just no need to villainize someone for having preferences or standards that you don’t qualify for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:36 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:46 AM
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nope to both questions. though we didn’t have much sex because i was unsatisfied so my feelings did manifest in some way. i’m very sexually satisfied in my current relationship which is why we have sex two to three times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:18 AM
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i was still intimate with him. he was my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:15 AM
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well i hope you keep sharing your perspective as a demisexual female on this, sub as those experiences are important and should be heard <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:31 PM
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i should’ve specified that none of the women i know are demisexual. my fault for the lack of specification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:19 PM
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obviously that stuff matters too. we’re just talking about dick size alone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:18 PM
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i think my absolute fav size is 7.2. my bf has that and it’s literally perfect. makes me finish every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:17 PM
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6-7.5. i think 8 is where it starts going over board.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:11 PM
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so true bud
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:03 PM
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that still doesn’t mean you’ve had a bunch of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:57 PM
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i’ll just answer the first question because i might not be applicable to answer the others. i have been with a man who’s penis was too small but i wasn’t turned off per say. just unsatisfied. we started a relationship prior to being sexual with one another so his small penis was a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:54 PM
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in my circles, small is bad but too big is also bad. slightly bigger than average is preferred because it’s still big but not overwhelming and typically not painful. i definitely think dick size has an impact on how easy i finish because it’s more filling and hits spots that a smaller penis can’t. in fact, i can’t even finish from penetration with a small penis while with bigger than average penises i can. yeah oral and all the other stuff is nice but finishing through penetration is so much bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:48 PM
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having a preference doesn’t equate to having a bunch of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:31 PM
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i think the last part of your comment is reaching. it’s okay for people to have preferences. claiming that a woman who is unsatisfied by a man’s penis for whatever reason “has had so much dick” is just some made up revenge fantasy storyline. she’s just not compatible with said man and there’s no need to villainize her for recognizing that she’s not compatible with him. it’s ok to reject someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:28 PM
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i’ve never met a woman who would disagree with this take but women aren’t a monolith :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:22 PM
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as a woman, i think this is the most accurate response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:33 PM
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thank you so much💕
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:20 PM
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the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:57 PM
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under a year
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:56 PM
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my fav
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:55 PM
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i agree with your premise though i don’t think it’s the dating apps that are causing it. more so the fact that women have the freedom to choose men they genuinely want due to not being reliant on men anymore to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:54 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:53 PM
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makes me laugh because it’s really men who are more like children than women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:53 PM
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yes! because i like displaying affection to my partner and like when he displays it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:52 PM
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i’ve actually been saying bro more over the past two days and i do not know why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:51 PM
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<image> honored. aiming for that gigastacy title🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:50 PM
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they do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:21 PM
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medium hair on men is superior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:21 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:04 PM
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what a reach
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:03 AM
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i don’t have any opinion on it really. men who want to date long term but don’t want to get married or have kids are well within their rights to want that. i just won’t date them because our morals and values don’t align.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:31 AM
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god i can’t wait to be 25+
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:53 PM
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true. probably similar to the rates of military men who say they don’t cheat when they’re away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:46 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:31 PM
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i wouldn’t look for another partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:30 PM
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my dad would bring home stuff on valentine’s day for me after he got off work. usually candy, balloons, and flowers. and my mom would have a gift bag of stuff for me waiting on my bed to open after school. nowadays they’ll send their gift together in a box but again, i’m hundreds of miles away so it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:28 PM
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as a little girl, my mom and dad would always give me candies, balloons, a card, and teddy bears for valentine’s day. even as an adult, who’s hundreds of miles away in college, they’ll still send me a box of things for valentine’s day (as pictured from two years ago). its very sweet and shows that you don’t need to be in a romantic relationship to celebrate. you can just celebrate with anyone you love❤️ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:56 PM
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but your statement doesn’t apply to the second part of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:04 PM
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if both things are shitty, why did you just focus on one part of my comment and not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:01 PM
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men do do that though. they literally just said so on this thread if you scroll down a bit. i’m not sure why it’s so insane to believe that many women are settled upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:00 PM
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i agree with that last part
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:59 PM
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the same thing can be said about being girlfriend or wife material
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:58 PM
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reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:58 PM
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but as mentioned in my post, men do something similar but in a different way. why can’t both things be accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:58 PM
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that makes sense. thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:50 PM
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good analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:50 PM
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hmm i feel like most women do it to some degree but not in a malicious or super intentional way and i too, hate these words and concepts🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:49 PM
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but men do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:45 PM
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why do men get so weird when women differentiate guys they’d have casual sex with and guys they’d date? like if she wants to have casual sex with chads but will seriously date average guys at the end of the day why is that an issue? guys do the same thing when they say they want to have casual sex with the super hot girls but date the average girl who won’t give them as much male competition and won’t make them work as hard because she has less options than the super hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:42 PM
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show her this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:38 PM
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handsome face
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:38 PM
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because men are gross and women aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:37 PM
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gotta add it to your routine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:37 PM
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it’s a genuine question. don’t see how it’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:35 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:34 PM
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for not being born with the traits women select for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:55 PM
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ok? this is true in every single animal species
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:50 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:30 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:22 PM
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i’m so sorry that happened. sending virtual hugs xx
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:12 PM
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roids are gross. glad my bf is natty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:12 PM
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acknowledging that the situation is happening i agree with. though im not sure its bad and it usually is at the fault of men for why women aren’t interested in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:11 PM
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well what’s supposed to be happen? like actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:05 PM
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i appreciate it but i don’t think them saying that was needed. it’s like someone saying “all lives matter” when “black lives matter” is said. of course all people can do something but we’re highlighting men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:26 AM
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i didn’t say they weren’t. the post was discussing the standards of men so my comment was about men. going tit for tat isn’t really necessary or intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:58 PM
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this exactly. op is right that men don’t have high beauty standards for who they’ll settle with just to have somebody. they do have high standards for women they genuinely find attractive without feeling like they’re compromising their standards, that they will treat well and value because they actually want them wholeheartedly. there’s a reason why a lot of women in relationships say they don’t feel “good enough” for their male partners, and i think a lot of this is sourced in the fact that a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:35 PM
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if/when i get pregnant, ill be fine with having either gender because having a healthy child is most important. but i really really want a daughter first. like so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:06 AM
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each other like men used to do. you’ll never get out of that boat by doing nothing or even worse, comparing yourself to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:45 PM
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because men today like to compete with women to make themselves feel good instead of competing with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:06 PM
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got ya. well i think the same premise exists that it’s such a quick procedure that anesthesia isn’t a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:50 PM
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i think it’s because despite insertion being a very painful procedure, it’s an extremely quick procedure (no more than five minutes) and the pain usually subsides after insertion. like i was able to walk 10-15 minutes home after it with no issue. so putting someone under is probably more trouble than it’s worth. though i know that most healthcare providers will provide anesthesia or medication if the patient really wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:42 PM
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25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:22 PM
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25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:22 PM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:01 PM
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they’re allowed to complain. doesn’t mean asking out men is the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:01 PM
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extremely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:57 PM
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today marks my three year anniversary of having my iud. so grateful for all it’s gotten me through🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:47 PM
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not wrong. i used to ask men out but im so glad i was enlightened. asking men out is like the equivalent of asking men for their hand in marriage. a woman who respects herself would never.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:44 PM
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not at all. women really shouldn’t approach men so that’s not really the advice you should be giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:37 PM
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it’s relevant to what you said though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:27 PM
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date men if you want to be asked out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:22 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:21 PM
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i think most women prefer at least taller than them but of course, the taller the better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:23 AM
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yeah i think that constitutes for most of the reason women prefer tall guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:22 AM
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i honestly think it is. i think women are willing to settle in other physical appearance areas if a guy is tall. most women don’t want to date a short man even if he’s above average attractiveness in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:09 AM
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what country is that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:11 PM
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not a minor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:07 PM
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be original
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:07 PM
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i don’t think so but i’m religious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:59 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:40 PM
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being blackpilled doesn’t equate to being pessimistic. i subscribe to it because it’s true and i don’t know why people like to play pretend to protect feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:34 PM
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i’m a woman who subscribes to the black pill and i think more women not subscribing to it is due to the socialization we’re raised with unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:32 PM
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because we weren’t compatible anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:41 PM
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if you can show me studies for your claims that would be great. not that i’m doubting your premise but to say no man can be confident in his life without sexual enforcement is a pretty major claim to make. once again, the over focus on socially awkward and the total avoidance of ugly and undesirable. odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:36 PM
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the point was that saying you want a non promiscuous person don’t mean you want them to be ugly or weird. there are attractive and semi attractive men and women who aren’t promiscuous for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:30 PM
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they weren’t douchebags and i broke things off with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:26 PM
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i never slept around with an f boy. you’re making a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:52 AM
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feels more special when he chooses me and makes me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:42 AM
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i never wanted f boys in the first place. this decision was probably solidified after the second or third person i slept with. why the focus on socially awkward and the total avoidance of ugly and undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:38 AM
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you want him to make you feel special for giving you access to his body, but you also want other women to sexually desire him so it actually feels special for him giving you his body. this is mostly correct. other women finding him desirable isn’t a requirement but a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:12 AM
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i’m not into promiscuous men for similar reasons why men aren’t into promiscuous women. i like my men exclusive and unobtainable. i don’t want someone everyone else has already had. i want someone with self respect and who is picky about the people they grant access to their body. i still want that man to be desirable and attractive. does men saying they don’t want to date whores or high n count women mean they want to date ugly, undesirable socially awkward women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:38 AM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:01 AM
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my bf is 6’1?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:58 AM
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it can be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:38 AM
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for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:38 AM
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10% is generous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:37 AM
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“a weak 6” lol but i agree with you. i don’t date old men though so my strong dislike for baldies makes sense🤒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:36 AM
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marriage to a man can be a bad thing. most choices in life can be a bad thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:34 AM
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me either!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:33 AM
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i know it’s a little early but im so proud of you🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:32 AM
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that’s generous. i’m in college and so many guys are balding which ages them so quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:31 AM
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jacob elordi
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:30 AM
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because only dumb women want to play house forever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:29 AM
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i consider a man who approaches women more valuable than one who doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:28 AM
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“don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? you might not marry a girl just because she’s pretty. but my goodness, doesn’t it help? and if you had a daughter, wouldn’t you rather she didn’t marry a poor man? you’d want her to have the most wonderful things in the world and to be very happy. oh, why is it wrong for me to want those things?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:43 PM
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my bf is so perfect. i can’t believe he chooses to love me everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:50 AM
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my bf is also living proof it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:33 PM
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it’s one of the most popular summer olympic sports along with swimming and track. people know what gymnastics is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:32 PM
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depends on what you’re trying to do in college or life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:19 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:32 PM
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i’m so sorry you’re dealing with that. sending love <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:02 AM
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i think it can help. having sisters as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:02 AM
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being lame equates to having no options. being relevant usually corresponds to having status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:04 PM
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be hot. don’t be lame. and be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:57 PM
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does there need to be a theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:51 PM
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or it just fell out? men really believe whatever fantasy possible to make themselves feel more special than they are🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:48 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:46 PM
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spring semester starts next week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:00 AM
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nah just two semesters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:57 AM
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we’re in college and young still. though i am at his apartment every single day most of the year so we kinda do live together. just not legally. for colleges, it’s currently winter break so he went back home to the east coast and i went home to the west coast to spend time with our families for the holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:49 AM
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thanks friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:17 AM
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i see my bf this weekend after not seeing him for a couple weeks. i’m so happy🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:15 AM
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i have no idea what either movie is so both or either one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:14 AM
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i love talking about that stuff with my bf. we’re 21 but we’re actually going to look at houses soon to get inspiration for our couples’ vision board lol. and we already have our kids’ names picked out which makes my heart melt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:11 AM
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it just sounds like she has OCD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:09 AM
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you’re actually correct. men assume that all men who aren’t “chads” are good. this is why when a woman speaks about a negative experience she’s had with a man, men will usually say “well if you just dated an average or below average guy that never would have happened to you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:10 AM
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welcome to the club🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:06 AM
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i have before. wouldn’t again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:37 PM
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i just finished and i was able to do most of what i needed to do so i’ll take it. i work out five times a week so i would literally die if i have to take a seven day break. two rest days is already enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:46 PM
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only if that data is up to date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:29 PM
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i haven’t seen that so far but my first day at the gym ever, some guy did that to me and then tried to work out with me the whole time. didn’t love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:14 PM
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sure but a lot of old people act like they’re knowledgeable about everything and can’t be told anything. being old comes with wisdom, but there’s a certain point where you’re out of touch with what’s “in” and your knowledge isn’t as applicable. thats why old people don’t need to be political leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:10 PM
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must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:57 PM
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that’s what i figured too because i see a lot of moms in here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:57 PM
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you named three…? plus these actors are all towards the backends of their careers and don’t even take on that many acting jobs anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:56 PM
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facts facts facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:49 PM
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what male actors are you talking about? there’s literally only a handful that are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:49 PM
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it truly is wild how everyone packs the gym the first week of january. like im definitely an advocate for better health practices but why wait until the first to start?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:36 PM
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the gym is so packed bro. i can’t do anything because everyone is everywhere😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:29 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:21 PM
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that’s probably the nicest thing you’ve ever said to me. thank you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:10 PM
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t-7 days until i get laid 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:06 PM
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a great relationship with a sexy man that leads to marriage and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:54 PM
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to answer your question, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:52 PM
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too worrying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:52 PM
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do you really think an average woman cries that much? do you really think men don’t get turned off by a partner that cries all the time about everything or that has a mental disorder like anxiety or depression? let’s get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:30 AM
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there’s a difference between crying all the time about random shit and crying for justified reasons. nobody is getting the ick for a man who cries when say, someone or something he loves, dies. or when he’s really having a hard time dealing with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:39 AM
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men are as emotional as women but show their emotions in different ways. being emotional isn’t just crying and being sad. being angry, vengeful and filled with rage, are emotions as well which men are notorious for. it’s men who keep pushing this “men aren’t emotional” and “women are so emotional” narrative and then get surprised when nobody cares about anything you guys complain about. not about men’s mental health. not about men’s sexlessness. not about nobody dating any of you. not about men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:11 AM
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i think men can share with each other and bond but they rarely do it in a deep emotional, intimate way like women do in their same sex friendships. most male friendships are not beyond surface level. and men use that as a reason for why male friendship isn’t enough and why they deserve relationships and companionship from women. we see it here all the time. i don’t necessarily agree with the person who wrote the post but i’ve always heard men say women are too emotional and men are logical, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:51 AM
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it’s definitely men who enforce this behavior. that’s why men say they can’t have emotional, deep relationships with their guy friends while women have them with each other just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:40 AM
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<image> interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:33 AM
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send some to me plz. thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:12 AM
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lmao right. they think it’s cool and like people are watching them in awe when it’s really just sad. and i say this as a 21 year old🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:11 AM
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revenge c*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:11 AM
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it’s not that i don’t believe him but what else is he supposed to say? but thanks for the luck. i’ll need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:14 AM
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good point. i guess what others think make me think a certain way which prompts the wanting to get surgery to genuinely love myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:14 AM
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