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mo_dingo/r/seduction12/09/13 11:52 PM
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IMO she was looking for guidance and you gave it to her. We teach the world how we expect to be treated and you told her exactly what was expected of her, just as you would a child or an employee. She saw the consequences of her wishes/potential actions, debated the outcome and decided to respect you. I know it's hard for some in TRP land to see a woman as being genuinely naive, especially if they are in contact with nothing but sloots and TRP stories, but not all women represent the worst examp…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 11:52 PM
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I don't blame the women for spending too much money in a relationship. It's the men who use their money to entice women, so guess what they get, women who only value them for their money. From the beginning, they show off how much money they have, triggering beta bux from the onset. Doesn't matter how masculine you are, if you show them that you don't respect your own money, they won't either. Then imagine trying to repair that problem 5 years into marriage, when you already set the standard.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:13 PM
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By listening to /u/Nieben Once you have a multitude of women to choose from, continue to set boundaries and expectations from them and they deliver, you lose the sense of fantasy - When they do not give themselves to you, they are a blank canvas in your mind, a medium that you can paint in any way you choose. In reality, face to face, they will disappoint you, please you, anger you, etc. and it will wash the mirage of fantasy from your mind. You will start to see the women in your life as they a…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:26 PM
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http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2636456/ Divorce Corp - Excellent Documentary, some of it won't be anything new to RP but there is enough to make it worth watching. Shows you how you can game the system if you are so inclined. It's up on the torrent networks if you can't find it elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 10:17 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral, if it works should at least be analyzed and understood, if not modified and experimented upon.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 02:58 PM
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I get the purpose of your analogy but I would like to make a distinction, just for arguments sake; If you knowingly purchase stolen goods, you aid and abet the criminal act of theft. Theft is one of the few crimes on the books that violates our fundamental rights. Furthermore, in your example, you witnessed the brutal and violent mugging and chose to profit from it. This is a even further violation against a persons rights, the most important right, the right to life and limb. If you think somet…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 09:04 PM
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Thanks for the link to the first post, great read. Nicely sums up what I try to do every day.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:28 AM
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The problem with government is that people who lust for power, psychopaths and sociopaths, are the ones that end up in power. They abuse the system and take whatever they can get. It's just what happens when you can make up your own rules. Guess what, you get to abuse them and protect yourself. Insider trading is legal if you are a senator or congressman. Which is why a centralized government is poisonous to a free society. Look how complacent the people of the U.S. have become to government int…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:43 AM
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Why start your own when you can ride the coat tails of successful men. This is feminism at it's work, not equal opportunity, equal results. Very socialistic.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:36 AM
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Not if the people are well-armed and intent on maintaining a state of Anarchy. Just remember that Anarchy means a non-monopoly on the use of force. So that means competing courts, security officers, lawyers, etc. Contracts can establish rule of law in a society.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:15 AM
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As /u/swimcris11 said, stay away from /r/Anarchism, it's full of socialists/marxists/leninists. /r/Anarcho_Capitalism is much better, more Libertarian.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:10 AM
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Indeed. To me, it's Libertarianism taken to it's natural course.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:09 AM
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You fundamentally misunderstand anarchism if you think that anarchy means lack of law, groups and collectives. Anarchy means the removal of a monopoly on the use of force. No centralized police/government/court/etc. does not mean that there would be no laws, just no one single powerful force to corrupt a nation/state/city. /r/Anarchism is mostly Left-anarchists, socialists in anarchists clothing IMO. Right-anarchists (or center/libertarian anarchists) are found in /r/Anarcho_Capitalism - they pr…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:09 AM
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NP, here is a post I wrote a while back here on TRP. Sure. My situation is a little unique. My family has been in the jewelry industry for a very long time. They are mostly out of it but my father is still in the business as a side gig. He has a wealth of knowledge that I have been able to tap into. I have two functions. First and primary, I use my savings to buy finished jewelry wholesale and retail it on ebay. 1st lesson - You make money when you buy an item, not when you sell it - overpaying …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:35 PM
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Then what would you recommend to read that will change your life?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:51 AM
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A budget is the single most important thing you can do to actually pull yourself out of the consumerist trap. You then see, in glaring detail, what useless junk you spent your money on. I doubled my savings rate by just stopping eating out and buying stupid man-toys. Now that goes into my new business venture which will give me the freedom to never have to have a boss again.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:49 AM
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Better how? More physically attractive? Better potential mother of your kids? Earn more money? If she's overweight and losing 20lbs would make a big difference, encourage her to work out with you. Start with walks, something simple and low impact, anything to burn extra calories. If she isn't interested, start pulling away affection from her when she rejects your guidance/leadership. She will step in line if you remain firm and maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:15 AM
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Don't give away all of your power, instead, grant her access sometimes, others, completely shut her down. She has to keep reaching for the prize, always on her toes, never quite knowing for sure how you will respond, never attaining power; otherwise, everyone knows the consequence of a greyhound actually getting the hare.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:04 PM
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But there's so much to gain from actors and those being acted upon when they both pursue their own rational self interest. Businessmen Will gAin greater profits by delivering better products and consumers will receive superior service, because one is moTivated to do so. Same thing in relationships, pursuing your own desires means that you end up pleasing your partner. If only everyone were so rational.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:22 PM
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Work is different than your social life. Don't try to fuck women at work. Managing women at work does require forethought and game, but your end goal is not to get laid. You are right to make simple tasks seem complicated, especially to your superiors. Keep it up. There's some great posts here regarding managing/interacting with people at Work. Do a search.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:27 PM
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I just wonder if he is hamstering his failure to close into the idea that "she wasn't good enough for him". He has no idea how she is in bed; it's just his pathetic attempt to take her down a notch so he looks better. That's what women do, destroy others to improve their value. Shit test failed on an epic level.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:41 PM
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If you are indePendent and business minded, you will out earn any college degree requiring professIon. Starting and running your own business is the key to financial independence. I won't work hard so some corporation rakes in profits and I'm a slave to their wages, but I never hesitate to endure the pains of self employment because i knOw my income is only limited by my drive, dedication and creativity. Not everyone has what it takes to take charge of their lives, those who don't suffer the lim…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:50 PM
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When there are no consequences to a persons actions, you cannot blame them for continuing their behavior. It is not her fault, not one bit. We teach people how we want to be treated. And boy did he ever let her step all over him. He deserved every bit of it, only took him 16 years and a therapist to figure it out. I know your instinct is to blame her for her shitty behavior but I urge you not to. It begins a cycle where you can start to hate women for the behaviors that men allow them to conduct…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:02 AM
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Very good point. Why try to find the few exceptions to the rule when there are plenty of ones who don't break the rule?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:54 AM
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But it isn't just about the ring. Yes, the ring starts the image in a girls mind that he is unavailable, then as he ACTS unavailable and uninterested, that further enhances women's desire for him. Having a ring and being needy doesn't work. It's all about the attitude behind it. Women see him as a challenge because he isn't giving into their flirtation. They are powerless and that is what sexual strategy is about.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:37 AM
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Agreed. I think some may fall into the trap of "not worrying about women" and continue to pursue life goals, all the while you are not getting laid at all. Women don't just fall into an Alpha's lap, he has to to pull them into his world. You have to work for it. Go out and meet new women, work on your social/game skills, increase your personal network, etc. Anything less will leave you without success with women. I think some redpillers here use excuses such as their work, hobbies, training, etc…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 01:44 AM
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Yup, I wish more people understood this. Condoms are not an effective tool to prevent the transmission of Herpes. Micro-breakouts can cause transmission skin-to-skin and you would not even be able to tell.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:13 PM
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It's hard to comprehend how weak some men are and while we can hope this is the case, it just as easily could be a pathetic shell of a man taking only what he feels that he deserves. It's sick to us but somewhat common now.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:11 PM
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Sure. My situation is a little unique. My family has been in the jewelry industry for a very long time. They are mostly out of it but my father is still in the business as a side gig. He has a wealth of knowledge that I have been able to tap into. I have two functions. First and primary, I use my savings to buy finished jewelry wholesale and retail it on ebay. 1st lesson - You make money when you buy an item, not when you sell it - overpaying consistently will ruin your business. Second function…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:21 PM
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Exactly, I started a small eBay business and I earn 20 - 30% on every dollar I invest quarterly. This means my rate of return is 80-120% annually. No way will you ever get that kind of return on the stock market. Buying a stock and hoping that it will go up via $ per share is speculative gambling, buying stable stocks that pay a dividend is investing.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:32 AM
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If she sees him as a beta, it makes perfect sense why she isn't fucking him. Trying to string him along until he shells out the BB.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:54 PM
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Yup, reminds me of the comic where sheep are deCiding which wolf to vote for.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:35 PM
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Words don't mean a thing, you can't pass this BS verbally. She needs to see and feel the reality of the situation. This is performance management 101. Allow the error of their ways come to pass and they will be faced with them, instead of hearing about what they could be beforehand.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:13 PM
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2 is a much better way to go about things. It is no where near as controversial as 1. If he can accept 2 and actually starts to apply it to his life, then move onto 1.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:17 PM
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I remember a quote, "I can judge a man by the one stanDing beside him".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:16 AM
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I don't think he is ready to be unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 08:44 PM
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Love your comment & saving. I'd like to continue with that theme and paraphrase what someone else has written here in TRP, just can't remember who. Women love men who are confident, dominant, high status, attractive and charming. Once a woman finds such a man, she will play this deranged game during their entire relationship attempting to turn him fat, ugly, weak and full of self-doubt. If she succeeds her efforts, she will drop his ass because he is no longer a man.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:50 PM
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The brah code
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 01:47 AM
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Indeed. She doesn't even feel she did anything wrong. Classic gaslighting.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:11 AM
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I could go on an odyssey-esque rant about beta male parenting, but here is one that particularly stands out. Co-worker of mine is a ex-police officer with his first kid. His wife calls him, at work, at least 10 times a day bitching/whining about their daughter (who is 5 years old now) every time she something. They allow their daughter to come into their bedroom at all hours of the night, waking them up, FOR NO GOOD FUCKING REASON! He is absolutely miserable, day in and day out, mostly for the f…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 02:37 PM
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Upvote for Zoolander reference.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:17 AM
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I seriously wish more people would understand that. A friend of mine just got into PUA stuff and is loving it, however, he is telling everyone about it, including women. It's a waste of fucking time. I have dropped some RP ideas and so far so good. When I feel he is ready, I will let him in, but not until then. I like that no one knows how I operate, it's mischievous, dark and fun.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:45 AM
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I'm with you 100%. She does not want to leave. Remember, a woman's words are not her true desires. If you say "Get out" to every shit test you receive you won't be getting laid very often! If you do, you are letting her emotions control you. Don't get angry and throw her out. Instead, use language that puts her in her place. It's all a fucking game, remember that. Everyone here should know the truth about women; thus allowing us to outwit her at every step along the path. Use her weaknesses agai…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 04:19 PM
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Agreed. To add to this, for those who lack natural confidence, it can take a long time to build it up, to the point where you exude it naturally. Just think about that process, to go from a chump to a fit, happy and confident person doesn't happen overnight. Furthermore, women have a very keen BS detector. Until you are confident down to your core, you may likely come off completely different. It's a journey, not a goal with end posts; don't expect it to work Day 1. Owning your emotions takes ti…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:13 AM
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Can you imagine all of the nice shit she would have done for you if you had applied the 2/3 rule during that relationship? Total insanity!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:38 PM
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but you're not a fucking celebrity, so why are we having this discussion? This is something that I wish everyone would understand. If you are short, bald & stuck in a wheelchair, you have to accept that this is who you are and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. So why fret over the things that you cannot change? Instead, focus on the things you can change. Lose fat if you need to, build muscle, dress better (it's very important to wear clothes that fit, a shirt 1-2 sizes to big is …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:53 AM
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Absent fathers (either physically or mentally), IMO, is the number one cause of blue pill men. If fathers don't teach their boys how to be men, where will they learn from? Their mothers, and that usually ends up badly, unless your mother happens to be a RPW. It's almost worse to have a ultra-beta father than not having one at all. At least, when your father isn't there, you have the opportunity to seek out proper male guidance from others. When your weak dad is present, you see him treated like …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 11:43 AM
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What it really means and what actually happens in real life are two very different things. What do they say about the road to best intentions? Give someone a monopoly on the use of force and they will abuse it, only a matter of time. Whatever ethics or supposed ideals they have will soon be washed away once the power is secure. Look at the founding fathers of the USA vs. modern politicians. George Washington would have been elected King had he wanted it, but he knew the evil of power and chose t…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 12:53 PM
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Sure, PM me when you get the chance.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:43 AM
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Agreed, you only get half-truths when watching the main stream media, and you would like to think that if you watch CNN and Fox news, you would get the whole story......nope, not even close. They have an agenda. Look for news elsewhere. Check out Stefan Molyneux on Youtube, he waits until all the bullshit hype of a story fades, waits for the truth to come out, then he does a hard-hitting investigative piece. If you think you know the truth about Treyvon Martin/George Zimmerman or Obamacare or th…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:44 PM
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At least they are honest about it. I saw one post that was looking for a LTR who was "HIV Friendly". Now I get 420 friendly, but HIV, really? What phrasing...
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 04:57 AM
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Ayn Rand ran her own cult - here is a great article that goes into detail. Her works helped push Libertarianism to where it is today, but she is just one of many. But as to the book, /u/noPTSDformePlease is correct in a general sense. John Galt, the man behind the scenes, tires of endless interference from the U.S. Government in the affairs of private business and withdraws from society. The weasels that work for the govt milk businesses dry, while propping others up, not because they are good, …
/r/AlreadyRed17/03/14 11:19 PM
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Nice. Just like TRP, we didn't create the disaster, we just learn to benefit from it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 09:23 PM
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yep, I bought my house at the very bottom of the housing market crash for 50 K. the entire house got brand new appliances including a new air conditioner, they also extended the back of the house to add 600 square feet. mortgage is 360 a month, I'd pay $900 a month if I was renting.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 02:35 PM
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I completely agree and I am glad that you made that distinction. The only caveat I would add is a home loan, when the interest is under 5%. Why? Because inflation negates the interest that you pay and allows you to purchase a home, should you wish to do so. But if you don't plan on staying in a city for more than 10 years, I would rent, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 01:09 PM
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And to me, starting a budget first is the best way to create your emergency fund. I keep 5k in cash in savings at all times, the rest goes into my investments (which are liquid, like stocks, so they can be tapped quickly if necessary). It is extremely liberating to have a nice savings built up. You never worry when you get paid, what bills come in what order, etc. You set auto-draft and let it do the work. Budgets beget savings, so start an auto-draft out of your paycheck that goes straight to y…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 01:04 PM
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Are you trying to add more plates or content with where you are at? If you seek to add, I would not go out with her on saint patty's day, regardless of her actions. I think you handles it fine, maybe not perfectly, but good enough. You stood up for your already-established boundaries and did not waiver. Most others advice here is good. I would have allowed her to keep kissing me, rolled onto my back, and guided her to give me a BJ. That way, you verbalize nothing, establish that she needs to tak…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:12 PM
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I am at a complete loss as well. I have had a couple women feel utter contentment just listening to me explain complex subjects. And an exceptional vocabulary shows your superior intellect which IMO, translates to higher value.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:18 AM
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A buddy from work relayed a story to be about him and his wife. He invited his wife to meet another couple at a restaurant for breakfast one morning. She was being lazy and didn't feel like joining them. So he went alone and before ordering, he plotted a method to get his wife to come and eat with them. He proceeds to convince them to play a prank, he asks the couple to phone his wife, saying that he is not feeling well, speaking deliriously, not sure what they should do and she should come over…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:40 PM
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It depends on how you define Alpha. If you use the general definition "social leader", then absolutely, she can be an Alpha female of her group. But Alpha/Beta is beside the point. She discovered that her b/f was cheating & because she has self-respect and firm boundaries, she dumped his ass. Her best friend fucked her b/f which again, for someone with firm boundaries, is unacceptable and she dropped her sorry ass. I'd probably like to know this woman, she sounds like she may have a strong moral…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:50 AM
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Agreed. I don't find spinning plates fulfilling any way shape or form, so when some here @ /r/TheRedPill bash on marriage and LTR's, I have to understand where they are coming from. They see weak men choosing horrible women, completely submissive to their woman, getting them pregnant, then getting fucked by the government through child support/alimony when, SUPRISE! SUPRISE! - she gets bored & divorces your ass. And many times, she doesn't even divorce you for another man, she just got tired of …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:43 AM
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You may not be able to trust them as a friend, but you may trust them as a woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 02:32 PM
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I got the same thing from Shingles in November of last year, my left eye still won't blink on it's own & I can't take new pictures without looking like a retard (I've lost 50lbs in the past 6 months, it would be nice) Hope you are recovered fully by now bud!
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 01:56 PM
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They are talking about bluepill marriages. If you let your g/f or wife run your life then you are correct, expect to be miserable.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:35 AM
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I would correlate it to black people using the word "nigga". Coming from them it's not offensive, for whatever reason.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 02:24 AM
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Maybe this will help. I was a beta in middle school, friends with a girl Niki & spoke with Niki on the phone for hours during the night, so much so that my parents got a second phone line so the main line would be free. I clung to hope that we would get together, but I was too scared of telling Niki how I felt because I intensely feared rejection. Eventually, I got extremely fed up with the situation and started to hate Niki, cut off contact and moved on. I stumbled into other girls in late midd…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:18 AM
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What is his advice on mortgage debt? I assume he treats it like any other debt? IMO, any debt at an APR of 5% or lower is free money, due to inflation. Getting a mortgage at 15% is not smart, but at current interest rates, it's a no brainer. Then again, the only debt I have is my $50k mortgage @ 3.5% and I have a lot of savings/investments because I hate spending money on non-assets.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:09 PM
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sounds like it's time for the ball gag in her mouth. or you can have something loud in your room that will cover up the sound, like loud music. it's amazing what kids will get used to, I swear my ex's kids could sleep through a tornado.
/r/AlreadyRed23/02/14 08:51 PM
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some of them had/have even said things like "she's so annoying/ugly" when we were dating. That sounds like beta passive aggressive bullshit, using manipulative tactics to get you guys to break up because they see you as competition (women are notorious for this type of behavior). I am assuming that you don't consider them friends due to your use of quotations, meaning they are merely acquaintances rather than real friends. I get that you feel weird about it as I would too a bit, but I need to un…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 02:16 PM
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How did the woman betray the guy? Meaning, did the woman cheat on the guy with someone else, then, after your friend and the woman broke up (because of the cheating), you come along afterwards and sleep with her? I guess I could see a bit of betrayal because she cheated on your friend, and now you are sleeping with her (while she is in a LTR with someone else and cheating on him with you). Enabling her slutty behavior I suppose. But if you understand women, this is what they do, can't blame men …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 02:05 PM
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Beats me. /u/trplurker has the best explanation thus far, but we should have evolved past that nonsense by now. Maybe it's just simple envy, regretting the fact that you aren't sleeping with the girl anymore and someone else is.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:53 AM
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But why is it not right? I am looking at this from a moral perspective. What is immoral about sleeping with a woman who is not married/LTR? How could this be considered betrayal?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:50 AM
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Great point, never thought of it from a evolutionary perspective.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:47 AM
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I will never understand why men feel that they own a woman for eternity after they fucked them, and why they are bothered by one of their friends fucking them afterwards. If you are currently dating a woman and she fucks a friend of yours, I can certainly understand why you would be pissed at both parties. But afterwards? Why the fuck do you care what she does after you have nexted her? I am genuinely curious why TRP guys should give a fuck about this shit. Please educate me.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 04:13 AM
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Close, I have a G20 :) But that is correct. I paid $500 for my Glock and I know I could probably never get anyone to pay that much for a used 3rd gen 10mm Glock.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 03:25 AM
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If you can't navigate the problems of holiday gifting with your LTR then you have larger issues, IMO. This is all about early frame announcement and consistent maintenance of said frame. If you are consistent they will expect the behavior that you have delivered in the past and promised in the future. I state very early on in the relationship that I hate holidays, I refuse all holiday gifts and will not give them. I only give gifts when I feel that they have done something or their general behav…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 05:31 PM
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If you buy the diamond right, you can end up significantly under retail pricing, but as I posted earlier, you need to know how to determine fakes from real, natural diamonds, as well as how to grade them on cut/clarity/color and have a scale to weigh them in carats.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 04:56 PM
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I'd like to do some further discussion on "diamonds have no resale value" BS from someone who is in the industry. Any good that has a high demand but small supply will command a high price, relatively speaking. The value of diamonds is what we give it, through it's use & perception. Whether it be for cutting saws/blades or larger stones with less occlusions/yellow hue & proper proportions (cut), they do have value and they certainly have re-sale value. However, if you go to the mall and by an en…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 04:54 PM
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Inconceivable
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:44 PM
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They suspect nothing. It's like a con artist getting conned on a daily basis. Can women be introspective in any way shape or form? Part of me thinks that when they look in the mirror, all they see is a horribly disfigured version of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 05:44 PM
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heartless find solace here. On top of that, many live up to the negative stereotype aswell as a lot of men here are bitter fucks with a vengeance. Which makes them no better than women, IMO. We can't allow our emotions to cloud our judgment. Learn from the mistakes of the past, understand and accept that women are who they are and won't change. Then find happiness in your own life; do not let it be dependent on others.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 03:24 PM
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RP confuses me sometimes. We are after the truth, and while she MAY be lying, ask yourself, "what do we know about women that could account for this behavior/situation". For a woman, this could absolutely be true. Maybe her testosterone levels have risen enough through aging that she has experienced a change. Or as /u/LordXerces says, her psychological state may be in such a way that she finds pleasure where she didn't before. Don't be so fucking cynical to assume that every single word out of a…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 12:22 PM
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First, women hate other women, they are competition for their Alphas and they seek to destroy all other competition. Second, women lack control of their own emotions; once something gets triggered, no one but their Alpha can calm them down. Any attempts by lesser beings are seen as attacks and must be thwarted at all costs. The way women deal with this without inviting attack is to nod, agree, amplify & justify their emotions. So when another woman or a beta males tells them to calm down, they s…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:55 AM
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If you decide that a person is too important to your life to let go, then I only see two choices atm. Make this distinction carefully, just because someone is from your past, a family member, is currently a good friend, etc. doesn't mean they must stay in your life. 1) Do as others have posted above, nod, smile, agree and do whatever you want. 2) Or do as /u/floppy_bacon_pants suggests, tone down the rhetoric into political speak. Each word must be carefully calculated in such a way that it offe…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:20 AM
1

When the entire world gives giant rewards when someone behaves a certain way, you will see more of it. Think of it like the illegal drug industry. The Government created the drug cartels by making drugs illegal. When you make a good that is in high demand illegal, people will find a way to get what they want, and will pay a very high price for it. One may argue that it's the drug users fault for buying drugs, for if it wasn't for them, the cartels couldn't sell drugs at a large profit and stay i…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 03:10 AM
2

I agree that this is first and foremost what RP is supposed to teach you. Earning your respect. Hating women for being women is beating the dead horse at this point. I would call it self hate or fear, since they are too scared to assert their needs for fear of rejection. which is why this sub reddit exists; to prove that happiness lies by our own actions and not the acquisition of some female unicorn. and, as counter intuitive as some may see it, your own pursuit of happiness ends up making rela…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 11:42 PM
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A police officers job is to enforce the law, nothing more. This idea that they are out to protect us is a joke. only you can protect yourself and your family, never forget this.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 08:33 AM
-5

Since when is a vasectomy permanent?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 06:29 AM
3

I have an interesting experiment 1) Go on 10 dates - say you are a doctor, but make it clear that you only make 40k a year because you work for a non-profit, volunteer most of the time, (any BS reason why you wouldn't make money as a doctor) and furthermore, make sure they understand that you will never make lots of money in the future. I wonder what the results would be?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:04 PM
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Good point, but they do need advice. The crap they get from magazines is atrocious. Who then is best to advise them?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:56 AM
17

But as men, don't we fall into the same trap? How can we give women dating advice? Maybe because we actually tell women what we really want/need, and unlike women, we don't begrudge a woman for doing as we wish. subconsciously though, can't men fall into this trap?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:39 AM
2

I wouldn't call Adam Carolla Red Pill but he is pretty damn close. He has a podcast now and it's fucking hilarious. Check it out if you guys can (The Adam Carolla Show).
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 02:05 AM
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If you are at all interested in politics, money, economics, etc. you must read more of his work. He is an amazing writer. I wish he was still alive today.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 06:09 PM
2

I ask some of these questions on first dates, because I am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage. I'm not going to waste my time with women who don't fit into my plans for the future. you can ask some subtle questions that help filter, but eventually you have to get down to the nitty gritty. don't fear their reaction, if they're hostile, it's probably a great sign that they are not ltr material.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 11:31 PM
1

your post is full of examples, examples that show the power of the state and that of women. but again, you overlook the entire picture. many states are not as bad as others. I live in Arizona, I can have all the guns I could ever want, also the child support system is tame compared to other states. I know of multiple fathers who continue to not pay child support and not face any legal consequences. secondly, your assumption about these women in these examples does not apply to all women. if you …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 11:28 PM
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Remember, these stories are from men who got fucked by women, women whom these men chose. They were blind to their true nature. They didn't swallow the redpill before they got into the relationship, nor did they assert a redpill lifestyle from the beginning of the relationship. These are stories of bitter, jaded men, who chose the worse women and got fucked. There is a lesson to be learned here though. If you do marry & have kids, you need to closely examine the woman and her family. Warning sig…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 05:58 PM
1

http://laidnyc.wordpress.com/2013/09/26/how-to-create-a-natural/
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 11:36 AM
2

If you live in america or another semi-free country, conceal carry a pistol at all times. It is my responsibility to protect myself, not others. if you depend on the police or the kindness of strangers, you will be sorely disappointed. I carry, whether I am out jogging or going out for the night. Don't pass off your responsibilities onto others.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 10:29 PM
2

Yup, instant giveaway.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 04:20 AM
2

and blue pillers aren't saying a word about it either. that is what disgusts me, seeing a skinny guy with the really fat chick. I can't believe where are society is heading.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 04:20 AM
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Especially the pictures from a very high angle. They are trying to hide the fat in their jaw//cheeks/neck. Usually they are too dumb to realize that the more pictures they post, the more likely they won't get the angle/lighting just right and it usually exposes their fat ass. Arms are also a great giveaway, fat arms, fat belly.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 06:56 PM
2

From what I have read, there is no reason to get tested for STD's until you start showing symptoms. (unless you were exposed to a known pathogen, engage in IV use or homosexual sex or lastly, have sex with multiple partners without condoms). The tests for some of the STD's are meaningless until they correspond with physical symptoms. A negative result for Herpes doesn't mean you don't have Herpes. A positive result may be a false positive. If you start to get cold sores or genital sores/blisters…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 11:55 AM
1

However, my gut tells me that when women say "I like guys who are spontaneous," what they are really saying is, "I like guys who I cannot control." Completely agree with this sentiment. It highlights why women like Alphas - they don't listen to others whining when making decisions, they walk the path that they choose.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 02:11 PM
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eek, and he wants to keep having kids until he has a son, good luck buddy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 10:40 PM
1

Agreed with /u/becauseimimportant. If you are truly friend zoned, then use it to your advantage. But I assume you didn't even try kino with her. Start just to see her reaction, don't presume you are in the friend zone until she completely rejects your advances. But here is the key, you need to isolate and escalate kino until she actually rejects you. You are probably listening to her words and not her actions. Remember, words mean nothing, only actions.
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:50 PM
6

If night sarging screws up your week, start deploying day-game. You will meet different women this way, ones you would have never met before. Sarging isn't about going out partying every day, it's meeting women, and you can do that anywhere at any time. It's not the most important thing in your life. Improving yourself is the only thing that matters. Limit your night game to Fri-Sat night or just one of those nights; every other night is reserved for normal sleep to prepare yourself for work/sch…
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:44 PM
1

Exactly. Making contact is the only thing you should worry about now. The rest will come later. You can't expect to hit home runs your first few times to the plate, just hit for contact with the ball, even if it's foul, you are making progress.
/r/seduction05/10/13 02:39 PM
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You are right, your friends are not being helpful. Good on you for recognizing their lack of wisdom in this arena. Since they don't seduce women, how would they know what to do? Has something changed in your physical appearance? Meaning, have you put on weight, or changed your look significantly? I presume not but I just wanted to inquire anyway. Are you looking for sexual partners or to start a relationship? I presume you are looking for sexual encounters only, so I would recommend you follow t…
/r/seduction04/10/13 09:48 PM
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Exactly. You could even say "I wanted to say hi but I didn't know what else to say since I am a bit nervous". Sometimes being completely honest will help you diffuse the battles you have with your inner-self. It may not be the best but it certainly gets the ball rolling. And if she is into you, that is all you need.
/r/seduction04/10/13 09:35 PM
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I thought dating women my age was just fine (31), or just dating women that were mildly attractive and showed me some attention, but now: I only date younger women (under 27). I only date submissive women, ones that like to "take care" of their man. They must see themselves as a support mechanism to the man's aspirations & most importantly, they must view marriage as a sacred institution, one that shouldn't be undertaken lightly. They must not have advanced career goals. They need to be happy st…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 08:02 PM
3

lol, this had me rolling.
/r/seduction03/10/13 01:33 PM
7

I think your problem may be that you aren't being selective enough with women. Just because she is hot doesn't mean you should fuck her. I recommend the following: Start a list of the qualities that you want in a woman, specifically, ones you want in a LTR. Physical attributes, intelligence, submissiveness, personality, enthusiasm, introvert/extrovert, etc. Then instead of trying to fuck random hot women, find women who fit your dossier and pursue them. You don't have to engage in LTR's with the…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 08:34 PM
1

No worries. Glad to clarify. I just finished a 4 hour fuck session with one of my subs, my mind is a little distracted. :)
/r/seduction30/09/13 06:45 AM
1

1) Text your roommates 5 minutes before you arrive to head to their bedroom until you get home and get her into the bedroom. Or, state a non-sexual reason to head to the bedroom (e.g. watching a movie, showing her a video on your computer, playing with your guitar, etc.) 2) I work M-F but I get off at 5-6pm typically. So 7-730pm dates are easy to work out. It helps if you are texting her on a Monday to set a date up for the following day. It limits her from cancelling on the last moment. I do we…
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:50 AM
1

I meant that in reference to his whisky dick, not the condom issue. I'll edit.
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:43 AM
2

Seriously. Should I put on a condom? That is a very beta move. Are you trying to pay child support for 18 years? Wrap it and protect your shit. My father has herpes, so now he is limited to dating women on a specific dating website, one that is for people with herpes. Shit happens (whiskey dick), move on. Maybe she will be cool with fucking you again if you try next week or the week after, but don't depend on it. Find other women and move on. And if drinking gives you headaches, you need to sett…
/r/seduction30/09/13 05:29 AM
2

Very good point, that is an excellent way to look at life.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 12:32 AM
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Very good point. You have to get them young, before their metabolism starts to decrease. Then state from the onset that if they get fat that you will drop them immediately. another thing too, is if they only need to lose 10 or 20 pounds, and they're willing to start diet and exercise, and you state that their weight loss is mandatory, from the very beginning, then that something that you can deal with quite easily. but she has to have the mindset that pleasing your man is top priority, above alm…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:09 PM
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She is a strong woman for not listening to her hamstering friends. I hope you have told her so, she deserves to be commended for her integrity.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 01:59 AM
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Doesn't matter if she pays rent or not, or if she's on the lease or not. According to the law, she's a tenant if she's lived there a certain amount of time. Check the NC laws, you need to give 30 day notice to kick out a roommate, which is what she would qualify as in this case. 100 percent correct. Research the law, evict her through proper channels, you will have a leg up on her if she goes nuts. you need to move out of the house before you give her the eviction notice. Don't be anywhere near …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 09:17 PM
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No kidding. I also just found out that she likes very rough sex, slapping, whipping, being tied up, hair pulled, etc. her most intense orgasm was when she was getting fucked in the ass. I'm going to have some fun with this one. and I'm telling everyone, if you want a very conservative woman like this, Look into Hispanic women. If her parents are very conservative and taught her right, she will be very red pill.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 07:16 PM
1

I'm 31 and I exclusively date younger women. I don't even bother with them if they are over 25. But I am not actively searching for hot women to bed (they are typically lame in the sack, regardless), I am searching for a LTR that leads to marriage, kids, etc. So my standards are very high, since I know how easily marrying the wrong woman will fuck me over for the rest of my life. e.g. A 19 year old, Hispanic, parents are very old-school (Her mother taught her that the man is the head of the hous…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 08:26 AM
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Jesus, this. Hey, look at me, I am 30 years old, I have 2 kids from some loser and now I want YOU to take care of them for me, while I go to school and fuck off. Fuck that noise. On the flip side, I did just find a 19 year old Hispanic girl that stated "I am naturally submissive; when it comes to intimate encounters, I am whatever my man needs. I can transform to many things to keep my man happy in every way possible... I couldn't believe my eyes when I read that. Thankfully I am naturally domin…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 11:25 PM
1

My thoughts exactly. If she says they're cold, tell her to warm your hands with hers, perfect kino and reciprocal action.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:44 PM
2

Yup, if you can run your business from home, have true passion for what you do, then it will be seen as ambition, drive and perseverance. But you are right though, working in such jobs like doctor/lawyer can really eat you up.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 11:05 PM
1

Are you able to have sex after your orgasm? Meaning, can you take a break, say for thirty minutes, then go at it again. That is what I do. Cum the first time whenever you first sense that you can. Let it happen. Then chill for a bit, talking or giving her oral/finger, then I will start to masturbate myself until I get hard. Then fuck for a very long time! It works wonders. I have found that I don't have an orgasm the second time usually, but I also don't get blue balls.
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:17 AM
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Great point, I was hoping someone would finally do so. Everyone has their own goals. Fucking random women can be a goal, but it's not everyone's goal. Oneitis is a woman you can't have, or you have her but she is toxic to your very being. As long as he can maintain his frame, his personality, his confidence, his alpha status, he controls the relationship. He must not cave into silly demands. He must do as he wishes, because he wishes it. A LTR can damage your sense of self, pride and manliness; …
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:00 AM
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Yup, break up immediately, as soon as you know your future is over. Always be willing to get out of your comfort zone. It is strange how comfortable we can feel, even when we are drowning in our own shit. We get accustomed to it, and after a while, we simply don't notice it. Our brains filter out so much crap. Open your eyes, take a step back, ask yourself, is this going to be the rest of my life? Am I ok with living like this?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 11:19 PM
2

Regarding debt - this is great advice. You shouldn't ever use credit to buy a car, TV, stereo, etc. Unless you are doing so to build credit, then, you get very short terms and pay it off quickly. Savings is so important. Same with short/long term disability. Get hurt or hospitalized? Who cares, you have savings & disability checks coming until you are better. With that said, if you are ready to settle down and have a family, and want to live in the same place for the rest of your life (or the ne…
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:57 PM
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Living in AZ, I find that Hispanic women are much more RedPill, but that is negated when some dumbshit impregnated her at 17. They are, by far, my favorite women to date.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 07:43 PM
1

Another thing I would like to add would be the following: People settle. They may be unhappy in some aspects, but they continuously put on a front, because they know if they don't, the relationship will sour. So they harbor resentment, bitterness and disdain for their spouse, but they have so little self-esteem that they refuse to even consider divorce. They essentially delude themselves into believing that "this is the best woman/man that will ever fuck me, so get used to it".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 07:38 PM
2

Another option would be to state that you are going to be somewhere and if she wants to join, she can. It's a statement, not a question. Doesn't matter whether or not she responds, if she does and joins you, great. If not, do as Jessie_James says, wait until Monday and set something up for later in the week.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:06 PM
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Great OC, thanks for the post - I find this incredibly useful. Marriage, if undertaken, must be done in a very careful, calculated manner. Anything we can do to filter out partners like this should be encouraged here.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 08:44 AM
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While I agree with your first statement, there is another thing to consider. Just because someone is a pushover doesn't mean you can, nor should bully them. If you do, it means that you like finding weakness in people and get joy by exploiting it.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 08:36 AM
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Oh but I can psychoanalyze her. I would bet $100 right now that something terrible happened to her, and most likely, it was molestation. The signs are there & they couldn't be more clear. I have heard this 1000 times from 1000 different women, and they all sound the same (Loveline) Why the hell would she mention that she has "daddy issues" when leaving the car? She is stating this, in response to sex/sexual contact. There is no other conclusion to draw. The other problem is that she may lie abou…
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:32 AM
1

Anytime.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:24 AM
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You are correct, you shouldn't mess with a girl that has been brutalized emotionally. You should move the fuck on, as I said in earlier posts. When a woman says no, freezes out, pushes you away, turns away; It could not be more clear - she actually means no. Her actions are in congruence with her words. Now, a woman who says no, or stop, then jumps on you when you freeze her out, is not saying no. When she jumps on you, you could, if you so wished, ask her, "But I thought you said 'No!". Althoug…
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:20 AM
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It's a shitty situation, when a woman says the word stop, but then pulls herself into you, you should ignore the words, IMO. But freezing out is a viable option. It is certainly safer.
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:59 PM
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I remember reading here, on /r/seduction that men shouldn't try to use a fishing pole when dating, they need to use a dragnet. This is very true - A unfortunate side effect is the unwanted fish that you pull from the ocean. Many will escape the net, some will leap into your boat with the utmost enthusiasm, and the rest, well, they will stay in the net as long as they feel comfortable. You have to examine each one and make a determination of their character. You will see all sorts of women come o…
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:57 PM
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I have a feeling that she was molested/raped. This is classic behavior, soft boundaries and lack of assertiveness. Ask her if she was molested/raped. If she was, RUN. You cannot fix her, only she can, with years of therapy. If she claims that she wasn't, her "daddy issues" are either so deep, that she will lie about what happened. If she spills the truth, you may feel the need to be Captain save a Ho, but please don't. She is damaged goods, a victim for sure, but that doesn't mean you need to ge…
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:26 PM
0

Indeed. I say go for it. Worst case scenario, you get burned every time and give up. Best case, you actually make a connection and things progress. Now you have a gym buddy! Just don't be a persistent asshole about it and get thrown out of the gym by the staff.
/r/seduction19/09/13 12:02 AM
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The drugs part would definitely be a no-go for me. Oh well, enjoy the fun while you can!
/r/seduction18/09/13 12:26 PM
4

What about her makes her non-LTR material?
/r/seduction17/09/13 09:30 PM
1

The only social norms you need to worry about is overly-aggressive physical contact. Meaning, don't grab their ass or their tits after only talking to them for 2 minutes. Other than that, talk, say whatever you want, to whomever you want. Don't worry about what's socially acceptable. Don't worry about looking like a creep. You may inadvertently say or do something that isn't appropriate, but that is ok. You may come off as a creep, and that is ok. Training - gives you knowledge. Practice with sa…
/r/seduction17/09/13 09:07 PM
1

You are very lucky to have such a woman in your life. I hope you cherish her every day. I recently started to lose (serious memory problems) both my Great-grandmother on my mom's side and my Grandmother on my dad's side. While neither of them are quite as red-pill as your grandmother, they are definitely not blue-pills. They are great models of women though, dedicated, generous, loyal, honest, forgiving and hard-working. They loved their husbands and treated them like kings.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 05:01 AM
3

I agree with you completely. On the other hand, this experience may have been cathartic for him, highlighting his mistakes, seeing exactly what he didn't want in a woman, right in his face.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 04:53 AM
1

It depends on how seriously you take your new knowledge. If you are proactive, you could be using it every weekend. But if you are only assimilating information and rarely acting, then you shouldn't expect much progress. This doesn't mean that you need to go to bars/clubs/etc. every night, but doing so will help you get your head in the game, see where you are at, a real time assessment.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:38 AM
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I don't date black women, not because I am a racist, I am simply not attracted to them, physically. I never have been, since I was a youth. Unless they look like Halle Berry, then, all bets are off. So yes, it's a big factor. But don't worry about it, remember, she rejected you before it could even start, and that is a great thing. Now, you don't have to go on some shitty date that she didn't want to go on. Move on, it is as it should be.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:31 AM
1

If a couple signs a prenup before marriage, is marriage still a terrible thing? I would never get married w/o a prenup.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 01:22 PM
2

That was my thought as well, but since he isolated her at the party, getting in good with the friends wasn't necessary, since he had already partially isolated her and skipped that step entirely. Either way, he did well. Always room for improvement but we can't always move mountains.
/r/seduction14/09/13 06:29 AM
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1) You had your finger inside her vagina, short of fisting her anus, I think you pretty much escalated as far as you could while at the party. 2) Once her clam-jamming friends showed up, you were screwed. But you shouldn't have let it get to that point. After it was clear that she didn't have any boundaries and was letting you touch her anywhere on her body, I would recommend saying "lets go outside and get some air". Continue physical contact outside while walking away from the party. This is k…
/r/seduction13/09/13 06:46 PM
2

Actually, this situation can work wonders for the relationship. If you are married w/o a prenup, she has a large incentive to avoid divorce, due to her possibly paying palimony. But regardless of that, lets look at the core of the relationship. Did you start, from day one, asserting your frame? Did you establish that you managed the finances of the family? Did you set percentages/amounts to be transferred to savings to meet your savings goals? Did you establish appropriate spending habits? When …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 05:55 PM
1

In all seriousness, forget about her and move on. The best you will get is a one night stand, the worst, rejected. You know she likes you, but circumstances being as they are, this probably won't happen. I know you like her, really, I do. I have been in the same boat and the feelings are so fucking strong that it's hard to ignore them. Do yourself a favor and walk away. Now if you won't listen to me, which is fine, your life, I would suggest that you be blunt. Invite her over to your place (ASD …
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:40 PM
1

Isn't girl leaving town in one day and you'll never see her again?
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:08 PM
1

How far did you escalate? Are you grabbing her ass? Running your hands through her hair? Kissing her neck?
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:50 PM
1

The logistics were fucked (getting picked up at a set time) and that was the crux of issue. Don't worry about anything else. She is very conservative and sounds very submissive. As such, she listens to her family/elders and she fears shame. It sounds like you don't have the time to make this happen, and believe me, you need a lot of time to land her. Does she know that you aren't in town for long? Don't mislead her, she is looking for something that you cannot provide, which is a LTR. I would fo…
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:48 PM
4

No he doesn't, but I have found his podcasts are a little on the boring side. He needs more guests/interaction.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 12:18 PM
2

Yeah, me too.
/r/seduction08/09/13 05:42 PM
1

Yeah, so far the only match I have had was from a bot trying to get me to go their damn pay cam site, so frustrating! I probably don't have the looks to pull Tinder off. I do need better pictures though.
/r/seduction07/09/13 10:10 PM
-5

Damn, what about the first Matrix? So many revolutionary ideas in the movie. I don't even know where to start regarding the Neo/Trinity dynamic. Good side, Trinity doesn't realize that she loves him until Neo discovers that he is the One (reaching a level of social value off the chart). Bad side, Trinity is fated to love the One?
/r/seduction07/09/13 09:53 PM
2

I have a feeling that he was exaggerating, but maybe I am wrong. I feel as though people should do whatever they like, as long as they don't physically hurt others. Sure, there will be short-term & long-term consequences for their actions, but as long as they understand said consequences, they should feel free to act upon their desires. The problem is when parents, friends and family FAIL to educate others of life's consequences, enable bad behaviors and sometimes, encourage terrible character t…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 12:05 AM
3

Totally agree. I know the sort of anarchist you speak of, they frequent /r/anarchism (stay away from this sub) and are really communists/socialists/fascists but can't see the irony in calling themselves anarchists. I'm an AnCap which is diametrically opposed to such nonsense, as seen by our being banned from /r/Anarchism for poking so many holes in their ideas.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 11:28 PM
3

In the absence of a clear power structure, someone always take charge, even if it's subtle. I was in a similar relationship, but I truly didn't care if she left me. I was unhappy and would have been genuinely pleased if the relationship ended. So whenever she would flip out, I said, "if you are so unhappy, go, walk out the door". I wasn't a RP yet but I felt naturally superior to her (because I was superior to her), so it was expressed naturally. And she would always come crawling back, apologiz…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 09:27 PM
4

Indeed. It helps if she is intelligent & open-minded but you are right, women will follow you into whatever hell you take them into, so long as they respect you.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 06:58 PM
5

So glad I am an anarchist, fuck the government and their monopoly on the use of force.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 06:56 PM
1

Exactly, can't get into a 21+ club, doesn't matter how drunk you are. Another poster had a great idea, see if your buddy knows bouncers that will get you in regardless. You may have to choose a different venue. It may change your game but it's good to be flexible. You shouldn't depend on just one bubble to feel comfortable in.
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:48 AM
7

You say she is out of your league, do you really feel that way? If you do, and I completely understand why you do, I am concerned that this will effect your relationship with her negatively. Even if you hide your insecurity with her for a while, eventually, she will figure it out. But awesome FR regardless, turning a bad situation into fucking wonderful night.
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:45 AM
1

Totally agree, don't declare your interest verbally, especially during night game. It screams to the woman that you are highly invested. State your sexual intent with kino, nothing else is necessary.
/r/seduction05/09/13 01:27 AM
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Anytime. Risks are one of the scariest parts of seduction. It's all based on fear and fear, leads to anxiety. I am still not over my AA (it's much better though), despite deploying this strategy, and I don't think I ever will. I have overall anxiety, so that is part of it. I could take some meds to help combat the issue, but I refuse. But I will say that despite the feelings, I am at the point where I overcome the battle inside me, every time, and approach. It did take a while but it feels good!
/r/seduction04/09/13 09:57 PM
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I think you are putting the cart before the horse. It would be like practicing how to be a better sexual partner before you learn to even approach women. You can't get better at sex until you start having sex with someone, and you can't do that unless you meet them! So you always need to start at the beginning, approach first, start a dialogue, flirt, start kino & escalate kino. Once you are at the point that you're making out and grabbing her ass, take her somewhere and F-close. So, back to the…
/r/seduction04/09/13 02:25 PM
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So, both girls wanted your phone number. Hmm... I presume that you did not kino escalate with either of them & because of they, they may have put you in the friend zone. Only one way to find out, call one of them and ask her if she wants to join you in some activity that you are already doing. If she says yes, at said activity, escalate kino to determine if she is into you.
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:45 AM
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I was the same from 13-25 years old, most of the women I dated were from my circle of friends and I didn't see a reason to approach women at the time. I didn't like that circle of friends and now I am building new ones, which takes time, so while that's going on, I have to start approaching. Otherwise, I will have a lack of quality people in my life!
/r/seduction03/09/13 10:08 PM
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Agreed. If a man wants to be submissive in the bedroom, for instance, he must find a woman who is dominant in the bedroom and he must assert his need to be dominated. He can't sit idly by while she does whatever she wants, you must guide her to be the Dom that you need. But I wouldn't recommend being submissive in any other area than that, because, by nature, you will be a Beta in the relationship and she won't respect you. Having the balls to tell women what you want is assertiveness and is nec…
/r/seduction03/09/13 07:16 AM
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Most definitely. I try to think of it like this: You can be a Hall of Fame baseball star only batting with an average of .300 or even less. Meaning you only hit the ball 3 times out of 10 and you are considered a star. Flipping it around, striking out 7 out of 10 times can be considered a victory! When I think of it like that, even a 1 out of 10 success rate with women is amazing, with all of the variations of women/men on the planet.
/r/seduction03/09/13 06:58 AM
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Great stories, I can't imagine the feeling you must of had w/ the Queen sing-a-long, a great tale, one which you need to tell for the rest of your life. Props to /r/keto as well, great diet and I wish you well getting your body to the point where you wish it to be. I just made a post there regarding plateaus, my journey through weight loss, reading Models and inspiration to change my life.
/r/seduction03/09/13 06:48 AM
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Totally agree. I only set goals where I control the outcome. I have said in other posts, that I have very high AA, so I set goals to approach X women, that is it. Approaching is fully under my control and up to me whether or not I accomplish said goal. It's important to keep them simple as well, the more convoluted you make the goals, the harder it is to accomplish them, which makes failure rates sky rocket. You don't need a whole problem, cut it into segments and attack them from the bottom up;…
/r/seduction03/09/13 05:21 AM
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This seems like the biggest troll I have ever seen, OR, she is the most self-deluded woman I have ever encountered. How the fuck is she banging hot men when she is a fat ass?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 06:11 AM
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That hits home, hard. Seriously, my old blue pill ways started flooding my mind, all at once. It literally gave me chills. I was never this bad but damn. Should I send her Flowers? AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 06:53 PM
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She has tons of videos on Youtube but most of them are selling her courses or DVD's, unfortunately.
/r/seduction31/08/13 07:46 PM
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I find Charlize Theron a 6 and Jennifer Lawrence a 9, so your scale cannot be universal. But I do think that the opinion of the rater is more important than the universal average rating that society gives a woman. I like dark haired and tanned/brown women so much more than any other, so I have my own internal bias. Also admittedly, Jennifer Lawrence's personality makes me want to bang her so much more so my attractiveness scale may skewed. And damn, is David Gandy a handsome man, reminds me of J…
/r/seduction28/08/13 05:28 PM
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The problem is that when a lot of our new readers see this HB rating, they presume it refers to attractiveness and not social value. I try to think of it like this - A man finds her attractive, so she is a Hot Babe, but her self esteem is very low, so her number is a HB3. As others have used the past, the Queen of England is a 10 on the scale, but she is certainly not a HB, since no one finds her attractive. This is the congruence that makes me hesitate to use this system.
/r/seduction28/08/13 05:21 PM
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Since mouthpiece hasn't answered, I will give it a shot. Regarding direct speech versus subtle hints: A good pickup artist conveys very little attraction via language, rather, he chooses to do so through action. Start searching threads for "Kino" and you will find loads of information on the topic. Physical contact escalation will clearly show your intent with her, without speaking a word. Just remember, you must escalate after each successful contact and never stop escalating until she stops yo…
/r/seduction28/08/13 02:58 AM
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From one of my favorite Steven Segal movies - "Assumptions are the mother of all fuckups." I know what you mean though, generally it's better to think your way, since it gives you more confidence, less anxiety and general nervousness. But we can't be psychopathic and delude ourselves into thinking that every woman loves us. In reality, a lot of women are giant pains in the ass and we want nothing to do with them. And when they reject us, they are doing us a favor. Now, the good ones, well, that'…
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:32 PM
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But if some of us think Mhz means Mega-hertz, while others think it means micro-hertz, we will not be able to communicate effectively!
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:49 PM
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So if the HB scale has nothing to do with a woman's attractiveness, but rather, her social value, why use the words hot and babe at all? That seems completely counter-intuitive and contradictory. Secondly, from the comments below, and my own admitted ignorance, most of us have been using the HB scale incorrectly all along. This would make a nerdy gothic/emo girl, with zero friends, empty personality, zero self-esteem, possibly suicidal and/or cutter, etc. a HB0 or HB1, even if she is absolutely …
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:10 AM
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When you enable these sorts of activities, you get more of it. It's just human nature. The Government has created a legion of dependents: 1) Students via student loans - Can't be discharged by bankruptcy (which I believe to be highly immoral), so tuition rises every year because students have an unlimited bank roll to borrow money. What incentive do the universities have to keep costs down? A friend of mine's wife borrowed $1 million dollars to fund her M.D. At least being a doctor, she earns ov…
/r/seduction22/08/13 01:45 AM
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I think what he means, is don't meet at a place that you are unfamiliar with. It needs to be a location that is suitable to your lifestyle, and pua friendly. Locations where you can't maintain close contact with your date to continue escalating kino are not suitable. Also, for DHV, you may want a place that has plenty of women for your to flirt with. If it's some expensive restaurant/bar, forget it, especially if you would be expected to pay. I would say 3rd/4th date is way too soon to have her …
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:28 PM
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Exactly, picking up any girl you want seems like oneitis. Obsessing over one woman who gives you way too much resistance is self-destructive. Pickup should be about maximizing your potential, honing new abilities and creating opportunities that would have never presented themselves (pre-pua knowledge). Sometimes, a woman won't be into you, and you should NEVER expect every woman to find you attractive. That is ludicrous.
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:01 PM
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Unfortunately poor, stupid, & dull people ignore said advice, have kids despite their lack of financial/physical support, and populate the world with even more dumb kids. All the while, intelligent, patient, reliable and dedicated people have very few kids, if any at all. Idiocracy is coming to fruition, I say!
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:04 AM
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Indeed. At least the sith acknowledge their emotions, instead of repressing them. I like to think that there could be balance, where emotions are openly discussed, felt and displayed, but the boundary must be drawn at violence from said emotions. We do it every day as humans. How the fuck are the Jedi so helpless to manage their emotions? Pathetic beings, I say!
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:00 AM
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Has she had her hormone levels checked? Does she take any meds, especially anti-depressants? Does she seem depressed? Some anti-depressants can absolutely kill sex drive. Your situation infuriates me, how much success you have in your life, your SO, children, etc. yet achieved completely opposite results. If there are no medical reasons, then I am at a loss.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 09:37 PM
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Do you have much of a social life outside of the home? Whether it's meeting the guys for drinks, LAN sessions or hunting, doing something consistently will help your quality of life. There is only one thing that you can control, and that is you, and your lifestyle. Have the both of you put on weight since the pregnancies? If so, I would advise you to immediately rectify the situation. I know (from experience), when you are in a LTR and in your bubble, there seems to be little drive to push yours…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 08:28 PM
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How big is your town? If it's relatively small, then you may want to consider moving, not for women, but employment and lifestyle improvements. Women would be an added benefit to the move. If there are no clubs in your area, then you need to determine where women of your chosen demographic hang out. Yoga/spin classes are great because the women are physically fit, like you, and care about their bodies. Group events (based upon some theme), charities, singles events, bars/restaurants, pool rooms,…
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:13 PM
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TRP can be used to unleash your inner Alpha, and crushing your outward Beta. Most men want to be Alpha's, but lack the courage, knowledge or will to do so, IMO. They become scared that they may lose their gf/SO/wide, so they begin to value themselves less than her, and thus, become supplicant Beta's. Or they have been conditioned to believe that they should worship the altar that is women. TRP has helped me flush out my mystical idolatry for women and brought them back down to earth, where they …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 07:49 PM
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Have you had tangible success with your new found attitude? What has been her reaction? I have a theory that women, when they get bored with their husbands, start to put them in the friend zone.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 07:38 PM
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Agreed. It sounds like he has an issue with sexualizing the conversation. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable with physical kino in public & needs a change in venue, simply for his own comfort.
/r/seduction18/08/13 07:58 PM
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The problem with talking in clubs is that it is so fucking loud that you can't hear anyone without yelling in their ear. You cannot initiate real conversation inside the club, you have to take it to a different location, and depending on the club, they may not have any. Some have upstairs sections that are much quieter. In the club, you have to speak with your body, your hands, your smile, etc. If you insist on going to dance clubs, just after initial contact is made, grab their hand and get the…
/r/seduction15/08/13 10:13 PM
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I AM THE CLAW!
/r/seduction12/08/13 11:23 PM
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Good point indeed, the difference between telling a girl she is ugly in a serious tone, versus playful sarcasm will change a face-clap to an effective neg.
/r/seduction10/08/13 02:58 AM
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I am certainly not a pickup expert, so take my opinion with a grain of salt. With that said, she, and her opinion, ultimately do not matter. She is one of 1000+ women that you come across in your lifetime. Think of her as one of your first experiments. She responded positively to your advances, IMO, so I see an opportunity to escalate. You were a bit Beta in your interaction (which created some wierdness), so now is the opportunity to show her your Alpha mode and see where things go. This may fa…
/r/seduction09/08/13 04:39 PM
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Whatever she thought, it all seems good, but there is only one way to find out, go back in a couple weeks and see if you can get her # & escalate from there. Bring your friend to distract her co-worker while you pursue things. Not that you should base everything on her opinion/actions alone. She will be one of many tests for you in the future & her reaction isn't the most important result. Removing your approach anxiety is the first and most important step!
/r/seduction09/08/13 10:31 AM
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Naturals are, by definition, good at what they do, but they cannot explain how they do it. Unfortunately, while they may be good motivators, they probably won't help much with technique. The rest of us, the unnatural types, must follow a formula, breaking down conversations almost as if we were in a laboratory, and the women are our subjects. Naturals don't know the formula, they are the formula. Why would they spend months/years delving into their own psyche to determine their own techniques, w…
/r/seduction09/08/13 10:17 AM
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