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| 2 | Divorce may be challenging, but co-parenting can be a nightmare.Right, but OP shouldn't have to pay for extracurriculars on her time that weren't mutually agreed upon. Otherwise she could sign them up for expensive private sailing lessons every weekend and OP would just be on the hook for the bill. That's a hard nope. She can absolutely do anything she wants with the kids on her 50% of the time, but if she wants OP to split those costs, he should only be required to do so for expenses he agreed to in advance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/23 07:40 PM |
| 7 | What is child support if not for expenses (rant)?That's outrageous. Definitely not fair at all that you have more waking hours with the kids, she makes more money, and yet you are paying that in child support. I would expect and hope that a court would see this arrangement and honor your request for 50/50 on overnights, at which point the child support calculation would actually grant you support if she makes more money. Hang in there. I am hopeful this will get set right at your court date, though I understand the financial challenges are pai… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Are "essential" (medical, dental, vision, daycare etc.) expenses typically 50/50?I was also told by my lawyer that the court typically makes these expenses split “pro rata”, i.e. proportionate to income, and I have a similar arrangement as you do. Doesn’t feel right to me since I am also paying a lot in child support which already evens things out quite a bit, but at least you can know you are not the only one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 10 | What I'm building based on my divorce experienceI appreciate the simple clean design, and I think there is a reasonable value proposition here. I have also been storing screenshots of text messages, Google spreadsheets of expenses, notes in Notion, etc. I haven't found that process to be unmanageable, but if I knew about something like this early in the separation process (and had the foresight to know I'd need it), I could definitely see the value. Good work on taking such a difficult time and channeling your energy into creating something. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/21 01:27 AM |
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