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| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"It’s obviously not real…🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"You’re not objective. You have OCS. Obsessive Circumcision Syndrome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"You came out of nowhere to this thread trying to save your buddy here. I don’t give a shit about your study. Again; you’re tunnel visioned on this issue that doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:28 AM |
| 0 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"You’re the one coping with your cut dick buddy. Not everyone cares about this small “issue”. Go sit in the cuck chair and let an uncut man fuck your wife if you’re that insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:23 PM |
| 0 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Cuck rage. Circumcised dicks work just fine. If yours doesn’t, go sit in the cuck chair and let an uncut man fuck your wife. Because that’s the route you’re going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:14 PM |
| 0 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Maybe if you weren’t so focused on circumcision you would’ve answered my comment 35 days ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:06 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menI think listing your salary can come off as snotty. Leave the title but leave out the salary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:50 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menHow do you tell if you’re AF/BB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.So they pass along all the resumes to the bad men huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Women dominate HR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.He never said he was oppressed. He said their end goal is to make men 2nd class citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:37 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVTrads need to give up the 1950 fantasy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:31 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVJust work on your personality bro (get rich) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:29 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVIf they tell the truth the simp factory stops making orbiters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:28 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVBased! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:27 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVBro that kittens post was ridiculous 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:25 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVI agree. Looks status money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:24 AM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVI remember the kitty post and I said the same thing in the comments just instead of “SMV” I said looks. Essentially men need to reach a certain threshold of attractiveness to have their hobby’s be attractive. Hobby’s mean nothing in the grand scheme of things if they’re ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.lol what? It’s a biological urge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.Can you write normally? I don’t understand what you just said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 3 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.This post reads like someone read every circlejerk “get a hobby” post and tried to make examples out of it. It’s that unrealistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 9 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.Yeah none of it is creepy. He just met her at school instead of gaming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.Yet will break up with their boyfriends all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.Is it just me or is guy 3 really not that much different than guys 1 and 2. She just met guy 3 at school instead of some hobby lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.The longer you are friends with a woman the more she sees you as just a friend. Also for current males in their 20s, the competition has increased tenfold compared to past generations. Your friend is not one of the three guys in your area that’s suitable to date as a woman. Now you’re competing with every guy in your city if not state. So instead of 3, it’s 1000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?May. She has the least red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Statistics show most people meet online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Completely agree. If you try to go to bars, everyone is on their phones trying to display they’re having a good time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 6 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.The problem is, women friends do not want to date their male friends. So yes, trying to befriend women with the objective to date them is a waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:08 AM |
| 7 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.It would have to be forced. It wouldn’t go well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:07 AM |
| 12 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Sex is on the bottom of the hierarchy of needs Just because you get it, doesn’t mean it isn’t important to them. What a weird post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:06 AM |
| 4 | There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STDThis is what I was thinking. OP automatically assumes the worst case scenario. Also, notice how straight men aren’t allowed to explore sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:58 AM |
| 5 | There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STDYou are assuming the most extreme case scenario for the male. The argument starts in bad faith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:57 AM |
| -1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsBut it’s not just a social disability. It’s a wide spectrum of mental issues. Like I said, people on the higher end of the spectrum cannot function. They cannot function in society. Low charisma doesn’t = autistic. Reality is a lot of gen z was raised in isolation on technology and never developed good social skills. Covid only made this worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerI don’t think it’s necessarily a road to misery. The system doesn’t make it attractive anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsImmigration is a temporary solution to the bigger problem . A culture shift has to happen and it likely will within the next decade or 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsPoor people have more kids statistically. The economy reason is a boomer cope because they can’t say the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:27 PM |
| 3 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerThey had the economy handed to them on a silver platter, cost of living was nothing compared to today. They also had less competition than your average gen z . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerYou’re being too realistic, stop it man /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsChange your flair to black pill. Because if you’re right the entire system is degenerating and society will collapse due to the birth rates plummeting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsNo hard core data proves your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 13 | The average clueless boomer had a more balanced and realistic view of gender relations than the average terminally online zoomerYou have it backwards. Gen z has realized the boomers mistakes. The boomer media makes fun of marriages because the men hate their annoying wives. Not because the man is cucked. Marriage isn’t beneficial without raising kids, and even then a lot of gen z grew up in boomer/gen x households that were divorced or hated each other and should’ve been divorced. Gen z has realized the boomer mentality of school->college->marriage-> kids -> retiree is not achievable for most of us due to the economy and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsMen have 4 main traits that make them attractive. Looks, charisma, money, status. Looks are the first thing you will notice in a guy. An average guy with good charisma can likely court a woman. However, he still exceeded her physical standards. Truly ugly guys never get a chance to display their personality. Physical standards are the first metric both genders use to qualify their partners. Thinking otherwise is just lying to yourself and others. Like I said, it’s not a bad thing, it’s how peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:03 PM |
| -1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsSo you’re saying all women cheat on their average boyfriends. Doubt. You probably knew some degens who were into polygamy and think that’s everyone. Most people are not doing this I went to college.. this did not happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsBoyfriends for social proof means that bf is high in social status and likely has a good image and job. Doesn’t mean he’s a fucking cuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsAll woman are looks obsessed. That’s the first thing you see in a man. Both genders go for looks first. This isn’t news or a negative thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsNot at all. Plenty of autistic people still get girlfriends . It has nothing to do with autism specifically. Autism is a wide spectrum and shouldn’t be used as a cope for men. Good looking mildly autistic guys will do better than your average NT loser. If a good looking guy is “awkward” women do not care. You are also telling people with a disability that they can never get a girlfriend which is pretty fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsPersonality isn’t everything. Charisma is. A lot of men these days are late boomers not because of autism. It’s because society has created this issue. Looks, status, money, and charisma matter more than your general personality. Yes, autistic people don’t have charisma but a slightly autistic dude who’s good looking and has status can still get more woman than an average NT loser with no money. Autism isn’t a social death sentence. It’s a wide spectrum and if you’re on the worse end of the spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:33 PM |
| 19 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsThe problem is you’ve used extreme examples to support your unrealistic claims. If you could actually debunk legitimate claims men have made I’d be interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Looks are the first thing a man sees. A man could be great in bed. But who’s gonna know that if he looks terrible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 11 | Flirting is a learned skill by men.How’d you know? Wanna give me the lotto numbers too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:05 PM |
| 35 | Flirting is a learned skill by men.So what if my parents screamed at each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:38 PM |
| 6 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.If I go to the blackjack table with $500 I have the potential to double my money. But if I lose it all, do I blame myself for gambling or the casino? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Black Pill Zoomer The hopeless romanticism left you last week dude lol. As a zoomer myself, I don’t really know the best way forward. It’s more than obvious our generation is materialistic, narcissistic, and driven by likes and follows by social media. The modern era only fuels this type of rhetoric that op has written up. I think at least understanding the reality that the “happy marriage” that boomers and gen X had promised is gone for most of gen z. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Honestly good but it’s also a failure on the woman’s part to not see the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.They just want the top 10%. That’s all this post is, confirming that the top 10% are the only “viable” men out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.It’s easy for you to determine that. Not for women because they aren’t just basing their dating prospects on future money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Disgustingly true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Who said that? Not me. Not the stats. Did you mean rich guys that make up the vast majority of the income? You literally said in your post guys who move up the ladder will cheat and that being someone’s day 1 means nothing. Somewhere in the middle. This is false. Most men get married and have sex. If you were actually looking at what women were doing, you wouldn’t say the things you’re saying. The marriage rate has plummeted as each generation passes. Not even half of millennials were married in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.You just said guys that actually try to do better also cheat when they have more options. So who do women date? They don’t date bums, they don’t want to date guys who work hard because they might have other options. This is a classic case of don’t listen to what women say but look at what they do. Go after the top 10%, make up reasons as to why the bottom 90% can’t be good enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Then they’re either dating for potential or someone who is living to their fullest potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.So are women willing to date bums in fear of cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 02:30 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is the "blue pill" solution to solving a deadbedroom?Why get married in the first place if you don’t want the government involved in your relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIs your flair legitimate or a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?This is what they don’t get. It’s not a flex to say 39% of men haven’t had sex in the last year. It’s concerning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?We are on track for a steep population decline, and a large population of angry men. Won’t end well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:49 PM |
| 39 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Exactly this. Getting a girlfriend is on the lower end of the spectrum of “important parts of my life” right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?The majority of men not having partners doesn’t support your statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?The red pill has some truths tied to it but • it sells men a dream of spinning “plates” • it can quickly get ugly real quick in terms of viewing women as robots who are programmed to want the top 1% of men and will discard you for the next guy at a moments notice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:42 PM |
| -1 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Yeah they’re delusional. He doesn’t readily standards so he must not reach hers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:40 PM |
| -1 | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?What is victim pilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:35 PM |
| – | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?Isn’t that the whole premise of being “blue pill”? Being unaware and stuck in the matrix? Or is the pill thing not a reference to the movie? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?There are and will always be fringe angry people. I don’t know what this has to do with you being out of touch. Considering you said you’re raising kids, you likely have been out of the dating scene for quite some time now. You cannot relate to or empathize with the struggles of someone like me, a young gen z man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:27 PM |
| – | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?Awesome, so you’re no where near the dating scene and have no clue what’s going on in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:24 PM |
| – | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?Or you could say she’s the average blue piller. Completely unaware and denies anything other than the reality they were provided with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?It’s happening unconsciously whether you ignore it or not. If there’s no middle, what is purple? I figured purple was middle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:13 PM |
| 13 | Are there more red pillers or blue pillers?I picked purple because I’m in the middle. I’m not red by any means; but I’m not living in Disney either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:03 PM |
| 19 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Lots of men have given up. You just don’t hear about them because they have.. given up. Lol I’ve mostly given up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Date psychology , com or the LA times… let’s see which news source is more reliable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Were you raised to center female authority figures emotions?Yep, mothers like this are extremely verbally manipulative and almost abusive, fuck that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2023-08-03/young-adults-less-sex-gen-z-millennials-generations-parents-grandparents 43% of Californian men aged 18-30 had 0 partners Your data is bs and unverified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 19 | If a guy's GF/wife gets raped, how long do you think he should be willing to stick around with no sexual intimacy?This post is absolutely unhinged … do mods even exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:55 PM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?The guy you replied to just went on a schizo word salad rant. I have no idea how he went from political correctness to fat people and then to massacres | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:18 AM |
| – | how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter?Because it breaks the lie that they just have to have a good personality. Their entire lives they’ve been told if they have a good personality and act respectful they will get a girlfriend. Looks being more important shatters their reality and makes them angry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:16 AM |
| 7 | Women are NOT for saleThe way you worded the post implied they did go for drinks at the apartment, and he then made a move and she declined then went home. NOT that he asked her to come back, made a move, and then she went home. I don’t believe you did it maliciously, but it could’ve been worded better. If you made it more clear she declined at the restaurant, my response may have been different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Women are NOT for saleYou took absolutely no accountability in how you worded your post. Myself and most users figured the lady went home with the dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Why? It only positively affects you. It doesn’t affect your ability to get a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:35 AM |
| -1 | Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prisonWho’s “we”? Most men are still living in fairy tale land | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:05 AM |
| -1 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenThen you had an esteem issue, not a flirting issue. Not sure what the point of this post is then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prisonDo you think she legitimately has a penis? Dude what the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prisonThe typical red pill FOMO. I need to write a post absolutely slandering the red pill because they’ve absolutely sold you a fantasy that you will never achieve. The red pill starts out with some truths like improving, betabucks, hypergamy, but then derails into shit like this. Extreme nonsense to get men scared that their crush has extreme fetishes and that they will never measure up. The end goal of the red pill is a degenerate male fantasy. Be a bachelor who “spins plates” and if he does get in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 4 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"First off, the guy is a doctor and knows more than you. Two, being circumcised really isn’t that big of a deal. I have never cared at all. Thinking it’s a legitimate issue is actually pathetic and should be shamed, let the parents do what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:54 AM |
| 2 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"Circumcision isn’t a real male issue, the only ones who care are extremely hyper-fixated on their dick not being the way they want, and it’s almost pathetic to a point. It’s an irrelevant discussion and I laugh every time some guy brings it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:52 AM |
| 7 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenBecause the truth is becoming more widespread, it’s even harder for the average blue piller to remain clouded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenHere’s what I think. There is no learning how to flirt. You either are born with high levels of charisma or you’re not. Throughout life, I’m sure you’ve noticed those with high levels of social charisma. Flirting is a natural skill, yes it can be “learned” but you will never be as witty as a natural who can do it in their sleep. Your best bet is to lean into one of the 4 pillars of male stats. Money, charisma, status, or looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Women who brag about their boyfriends/spouse online are red flagsMost women aren’t posting 24/7 about your relationship but they will want to occasionally post you. I do agree that most men are pathetic and can’t walk away easily from a relationship. Their standards are weaker than their mindsets, all for sex. In this disgusting hyper competitive environment we as men should be ready at any point to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Women who brag about their boyfriends/spouse online are red flagsIt’s a societal issue at this point that would only be cured by banning social media as a whole. Your personal opinion is irrelevant and your standards irl would get you called a boomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Women who brag about their boyfriends/spouse online are red flagslol it absolutely applies to Reddit. Instead of them bragging on Facebook about loyalty they’ll wear a fedora and tell you how good their relationship is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Women who brag about their boyfriends/spouse online are red flagsYou will die alone with this standard as a gen z man. Women are posting 24/7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The majority of men and women have had multiple relationships throughout their lives. The majority of women. The process of dating is getting to know who you’re most compatible with, and that often happens through trial and error. Relationships are like Pokémon badges to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I don’t believe this data for one second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?LOL!!!!! You really think our capitalist system can survive without population growth? What a ridiculous argument and I’m not even going to entertain this ridiculous claim. You must be a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The boomer media outlets have to make something up to account for the vastly different statistics regarding gen z. You have one side that pushes trad life like it’s 1955 and the other pushes for the current state of affairs. If mainstream media actually spoke about the true reasons, they’d be shunned. You are on another level of delusion even most blue pillers are not on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesI know. I’m just saying that’s my only rebuttal and it’s not a strong one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Capitalism only thrives if the population grows. This is a simple concept. Come on reality man, you should know these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?No shit older men have dated. This whole time I’ve said stats relating to gen z. You literally live in 1990 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesThe only rebuttal I have for this is men can run around shirtless and not be seen as weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:30 PM |
| -3 | CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of malesAll the red pillers in the comments acting like staring isn’t apart of this are hilarious. Telling on themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?We’re talking about young men, not just men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You said they had no problems economically in 1970 which is a lie. The population is a now problem, not a 1970 problem. You just somehow think a capitalist nation going back to their 1970 population level won’t wreck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Why do other men support societal delusion?But .. they aren’t. You refuse to believe the data. Most young men aren’t dating just fine.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?High cost of living. I just told you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It seriously takes a simple google search to disprove this revisionist nonsense. How much more will you lie about a country you know nothing about? https://easc.osu.edu/resources/k-16/film-guides/taxi-driver/historical-context/timeline South Korea in the postwar was extremely poor, the north actually recovered economically more quickly and South Korea didn’t overtake North Korea in per capita GDP till the mid-1970s (Lie 78, citing a 1978 CIA factbook). The dictator Park Chung Hee championed a “d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Lower rents, stabilize the economy, maybe don’t shut down the economy in 2020 and ruin an entire generations chance at owning a home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Because their country like ours, relies on population growth to grow their economy. Their system will fail otherwise. If it wasn’t a problem, why is the government trying to tackle it? Seriously, do you think it’s just a meme? The government isn’t involved for the fucking jokes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Looks, status, money, or charisma. Those are the 4 main attributes that can set a man apart from the rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I have mostly opted out, not because dating is difficult but because in my situation it’s mostly useless to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?South Korea only became a nation in 1948. Are you genuinely this naive? For someone who references reality, you sure seem to refuse to acknowledge it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Exactly, so even the playing field with legalized prostitution. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Have you even been to a bar as a younger person post Covid? As someone who has, most people are on their phones, in groups, and don’t want to talk to randoms. That’s just the truth. In the era of social media, people go out to these bars to appear to have a good time, drink, and make sure their social media sees everything so they can appear to have a fun life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You seriously use South Korea as an example, they are struggling to get their population to have children and are trying to reward their people to do so, and it’s failing badly. South Korea’s birth rate is so low, the president wants to create a ministry to tackle it Are you seriously this naive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Is it? Women don’t have to try very hard for causal sex. In reality, I’d say it evens the playing field in terms of how easier it becomes for men to access sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Why do other men support societal delusion?So your big solution is to just have guys approach strangers in real life. That’s the big solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It’s not fear mongering. The birth rate is below the rate we need it to be. The USA government has already met and discussed this issue. Just because you want to ignore it and scream it’s not happening doesn’t mean it isn’t. You talk about reality but your reality is 1990. We’re in 2024. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?And men frown upon women who have had sex with a lot of men yet they still do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Here’s a better question, what do you think most of the men need to do to improve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?When the majority of men start leaving the dating scene and eventually the birth rate plunges even more than it already has, and the government tells you well sucks to suck you have no retirement benefits, you will realize how wrong you are. Unless you truly are a boomer that has experienced the best economic growth ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?They are absolutely different, but I’ve noticed some of those men with no experience believe they need sex. Is it the ultimate solution? Absolutely not. Would it even the sexual playing field and stop the body count arguments? Absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I told you that a majority of young men are struggling with dating. You sound like an old boomer who still lives in the 80s and hasn’t opened their eyes since the 1987 stock crash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Good point. Lots of men view therapy as a yes man just validating your feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?She’s actually arguing that women don’t change their standards over time. lol, how delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It wasn’t always the case in the past, she probably is older and in her generation it didn’t happen, or she’s from a more conservative area where it’s not as common. Anecdotal experience is one of the worst fallacy’s people love to use. It’s one thing to acknowledge the fallacy from the start and make an argument but otherwise it’s just such a bad take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The quality of life is significantly worse outside of the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I wouldn’t say it’s personality, but charisma. I believe charisma isn’t something you can just learn, but are more born with. Some people are just naturally charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The point is other men delude themselves into thinking this is an individual issue rather than a societal one and tell men to individually improve rather than realizing the average male experience in 2024 is what op described, dateless and struggling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Imagine trying to market yourself on MySpace, and others telling you to improve your profile beyond what can be done, but in reality MySpace is not a valuable platform anymore, so improving is generally pointless. The truth is there’s a reason lots of young men are opting out of dating. Every day there are new posts and men leaving the dating scene. You talk about reality but you refuse to accept this isn’t 2000 anymore, we’re in 2024. You ignore what is actually happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It would at least give them the sexual confidence some of them are missing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I don’t believe in any “pill”, just simple market forces. So you believe in the invisible hand for dating, except this isn’t the economy. Sex leads to relationships. They’re inseparable. Trying to put them into separate categories is a useless exercise, because no marriage starts or survives without sexual chemistry. They are absolutely separate in the sense of what people are looking for. Again, people tell you to improve because you are the only thing that you can control. I can’t give you inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ?He’s just not attractive. He’s likely very ugly. Well below attractive men are auto creeps. I’ve seen it happen myself. Those men need serious improvements in their mannerisms and looks and it’s an extreme uphill battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveI can understand not wanting to date misogynists. Your philosophical argument makes no sense though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Again, you assume this is an 1980s movie where the dateless guy is some nerdy dude Keep the rose tinted glasses on and keep telling yourself that one. It’s not just some nerdy kid in a romcom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Legalizing prostitution nationally would be a great start I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?No, read about how other men have failed and do the opposite. Clearly. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Flair up, but I’m going to assume you’re red pill here because that’s definitely more on the line of their thinking. The difference is it’s not just me. It’s a majority of young men that have been thrown into to the dumpster of a hyper competitive dating field unlike this world has ever seen. The problem with your “just improve” mindset of the red pill is most red pillers just care about sex. They want to improve so they can spin “plates” and live some sort of bachelor dream, and if they do get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It’s not misinterpreted. There is no “improve or get left behind” the goalposts will always become higher, the standards get worse each year. Eventually the bubble will pop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?This made me laugh lol. There really is no winning is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?“While it is wise to learn from experience, it is wiser to learn from the experiences of others.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The goalposts will always move to excuse the failure of failed relationships rather than acknowledging he’s just as much of a failure if not more so, than the guy with 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I’m not wallowing in misery, I’m just telling you how it is. I’ve been on both sides of the fence when it comes to dating. It’s night and day, and some men never get to experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?A majority of gen z males are dateless. 63% of gen z men are single while 44% never had a relationship as a teen. It’s absolutely a wildfire. You may not notice it depending on your age. But if this trend continues it will affect society at large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I never said women are beneath me. You’re arguing random things to try to paint me as a misogynistic person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I disagree, at least for causal. At 30, you can pull 20 old and 40 y old as well. While I was 21, I could go max 2,3y older. And also didn't want to date highschoolers, so age range was +-3 and now is +-10 I’m discussing relationships. At the end of the day, sure a 33 year old can have sex with a 23 year old but in reality it’s not common and if you actually get serious with her, she’s less mature than you, and society will likely look down on you for dating such a younger woman. As an older man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Again you assume every man who can’t get dates are extremely bitter and hate women. I’m telling you a majority of a generation are practically dateless, and your only response is to blame every individual rather than maybe thinking this is a societal issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You are conflating sex and relationships. The point isn’t that Larry had sex so he’s better, the point is he’s failed in 5 different relationships and while he has experience, he is ultimately a failure who cannot hold a relationship together long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?What is the end goal of being in a relationship? Marriage. If you have had 5 failed relationships yes, you are just as much of a failure relationship wise as me having zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You assume every man who can’t get dates have something wrong with them. 63% of gen z men are currently single and 44% have never had a relationship in their teen years. We’re talking about essentially half a generation of men who aren’t even able to date. This isn’t just the fringe nerd who can’t get a girlfriend like in an 80s movie. Eventually societal change will happen whether you like it or not if this trend continues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I’m discussing relationships, not just sex. And yes, I’m currently on nofap to try and improve myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Yet at the end of the day, we’re both single and maidenless. It doesn’t matter what he did with his past relationships sexually, that’s not the point. I’m discussing relationships, not just sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Well if you believe in shits like "women age like milk", "women after 30 are damaged goods" that that mentality is fucking you up. I am also 31 and many of my peers are unmarried yet, many of them are still hot as fuck. I would argue that if a women takes care about fitness and health, she look better at 30 than 20 I never stated women age like milk after 30, but women like men, have less choices as they age. I also think Reddit gaslights women into thinking everything ends at 30 while telling m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You personally getting a bf means nothing in broader terms. Maybe your future children will support you at an old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You will care when you have no benefits at age 65 from the government because there are not enough future workers to support the older generation. If you think there are no consequences to the eventual population decline, you’re in for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You’re the type of person who this thread is referring to. Clowns must keep the circus running to get paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?When I say the data backs my argument, I’m referring to the fact that marriages are decreasing, gen z men are mostly single and have rarely dated. This trend will continue, and I’m not sure you understand what happens next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?So you believe in 1970s and 80s that the gender pay gap was an individualized problem and not a societal one? Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:43 PM |
| -1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?It’s a great question and I’m not sure I have a legitimate answer. We may be too far gone as a society to fix it without men standing up against the current system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I never claimed they would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I actually think the men need to come together and force change, not the women. The women are the benefiters of the current system. To even the playing field, men must move forward and change the game. A great start would be mass staying single and not going into marriage or anything. But sadly men never unite, not sure if you said this but someone on this thread said all men are competing, and if you “leave” another will try to get the woman. Men are extremely hard to unite regarding this issue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Try telling this sub that and you’ll be screamed at that personality means everything. It’s a sad world we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Typically when things change in a societal level, the individuals come together and create change. As a woman, you should understand this more than most. If you were concerned with the gender pay gap and I told you to just work harder, you’d probably get mad. Because there were legitimate social issues between woman and being paid fairly. Telling individuals to just “improve” does nothing on the societal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Why do other men support societal delusion?I somewhat agree, it also depends on how attractive the shy man is. Attractive shy man - quiet confidence Ugly shy man - creepy, awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You can ignore society but the data backs my argument way more than it does yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?So what? Nobody says dating and life overall is fair. The point of this post is that other men never tell you it’s unfair, you’re just expected to do well. Someone is born in working class family while someone is born in rich family with connections. Person A has to work 100 times harder just to reach person B starting point. However that doesn't mean that person A can't become successful or even rich eventually Money is not dating. I can get rich at 35 and have as much fun with the money at age… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The alternative is listening to Larry who’s had 5 failed relationships. At the end of the day we’re both at square one, but Larry is a failure with baggage while I’m not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?So for any societal issue, you believe every individual affected just has to change, rather than things changing on a societal level? You realize that’s not how things happen right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Okay, who are those women looking for then? It doesn’t necessarily make sense to me that they wouldn’t want someone who’s similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Why do other men support societal delusion?So who are the looksmatch of shy nerdy women then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:19 PM |
| -1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?They’re more the enabler rather than narcs themselves. They believe they benefit from the current system (they don’t) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:15 PM |
| -2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Okay. Let other men simp beyond belief and get taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:14 PM |
| -2 | Why do other men support societal delusion?This is clearly a societal issue not an individual one. Start viewing this as a societal issue and you will realize why this makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Except this isn’t just a flame, this is a wildfire across the country. Why do you fail to understand this is a societal issue, not an individual one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Why do other men support societal delusion?Some people just start off better than you. You can spend years working to be a 7/10 but the other guy started out life at an 8/10 and put in half as much work and became a 9/10. There are also things that can happen to you like balding that are completely out of your control. Acting like you can just “raise” your attractiveness like a video game stat is laughable. Some people just have “it” and you don’t. It’s much easier to accept reality than to work on an endless goal for years. Be yourself,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do other men support societal delusion?You don’t learn to be attractive. You either are or you aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Why do other men support societal delusion?The circus needs clowns to keep the show running | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 8 | Men who fear that women are settling for them and feel they may be reduced to Beta Bucks... would you be okay, if she offers a hall pass?None of that relates to you trying to not so humbly brag about your body count on a Reddit thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Men who fear that women are settling for them and feel they may be reduced to Beta Bucks... would you be okay, if she offers a hall pass?But then again, I have a body count that skews statistics. I visibly cringed when I read this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Monogamy is natural, marriage is just the institution that promotes it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.If you get deceived by someone irl lying about their height you should be happy that’s all you’re getting scammed for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsi befriended the bf of my female friend and its fine although its hard to call her a friend anymore its more like acquaintance. Thanks for proving my point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.lol, what? The menu is full of food options. Are you implying the diner is trying to scam you? The point is that the guy at the booth has a ton of options but has difficulty choosing. When woman say they have it harder because they have more options, it’s a pathetic argument because having more options isn’t harder, you just suck at making decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Who has it worse, the homeless guy who can’t get food or the guy sitting at the restaurant booth looking at a menu full of options, but is deciding on what to choose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?Exactly this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 0 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?Be fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itThen find someone you love from 18-35. It’s not hard to do as a woman. Seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 6 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manIt already has. That’s why guys like Tate blew up in 2022. The balloon already popped. Now Tate is a terrible person, but he went viral for speaking on typical red pill topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 12 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manYeah… wanting a woman who’s not fat and doesn’t have kids in their early to mid 20s isn’t unrealistic. If it is, then I will happily remain single for the rest of my life knowing my generation has no viable partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsThey likely don’t want to be friends with you because they see you as competition, especially if you’re an average or attractive dude. If anything, they are the ones likely pushing for her to stop talking to you. Also, let’s say you actually do become good friends with the guy. If they break up, now you’re in the middle of that. I seriously rather just not be friends with most women in the first place and avoid this situation all together. We aren’t kids anymore, and reality is these friendships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsMany do. Else who are the orbiters? I only learned about them here. You assume that the “orbiters” actually want to date them. I’d be considered an “orbiter” to some of my old women friends; but I wouldn’t touch them with a 10 foot pole. They discarded me in the past for a different guy, now they lay in the choices they made. Yes, that happens. Or maybe she was not single when you 1st knew her. Maybe she thought you were kina cute and sweet, but chose not to dwell overmuch, coz she was spoken fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsI agree, but friendships with women are doomed from the start. Once she gets a bf she’ll discard you. It’s just the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsThey want more simps playing the long game for them. It’s sad. I actually rather be single for life, than date past “friends” who didn’t want me in the past but suddenly now that I’m “better”, they want me. Let’s be honest, first bf didn’t work, 2nd didn’t work, now you’re 27 and the clocks ticking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsBetter yet don’t be friends with women. It never lasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.Because it’s also an interesting topic and devalues marriage as a whole, destroying the trad dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsHere’s an unpopular opinion. Men shouldn’t be trying to be friends with woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsBecause one day you might get sex!! She might like you after she’s dated and fucked the first 3 guys!!!! Don’t you love being the beta bucks!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.I don’t have an issue. I don’t believe the tradpill is right. But I’m also not going to dance around the fact our birth rate has plunged due to failed marriages. Now I went to college, I doubt there’s a true correlation with causation unless they all met their partners there. Diploma farms aren’t the reason people get married. Again, I ask. How do I, benefit from marriage as a young man in 2024? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsThe guy with tons of female friends is gay. Let’s be real. Most straight men don’t have that many women friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsWhat self respecting man wants to wait for a woman friend to “see the light?” Be honest. She liked someone else more than you, dated them, had sex with them, etc. It’s only after all that, and with aging she suddenly “matures” and decides you are the one. Nope! She can go find another guy. I’m not an obvious 2nd option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.2011 And… you cut off the info right before the true modern era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:53 PM |
| -1 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.Traditionalism is about raising children. So yes it matters. Truth is, regardless of what minor statistics you pull out of your ass, as a whole marriage and birth rates are plunging. Divorce rates are higher than ever. 1/4 millennials aren’t married, and I could see 1/2 of gen z not getting married . As a gen z male, there is absolutely no benefit in marriage unless I want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:45 PM |
| -2 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.Explain the birth rates plunging then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.Sex. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.You are looking at one specific group. The marriage rate has fallen. The birth rate has fallen. These are facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.Yeah it just seems like cheating is the worst realistic option but red pill guys want revenge and to “eat their cake too” and that’s where they lose me, and have always lost me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.The better option for the dead bedroom guy is to make it appear other women are interested in him then, without actually acting on anything. If he truly loves his wife, he won’t cheat. But he’ll tell her the lady chatted him up at the grocery store. Or that the new lady at work was asking him for help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in deadbedrooms are there because they are not willing to have sex with other women. That makes them less attractive.This theory only works in the cavemen era. When you factor things in like social status, money, and charisma it’s not just “alpha = good looks and spreads dna” but alpha = high status job, high social status, good looking, wallet, etc Also, cheating is socially looked down upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:26 PM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?It was obviously implied they went home and watched the movie. Come the FUCK on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:04 PM |
| 9 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Why not reject him after the date , and refuse to go to his apartment? How deluded can you seriously be? Naive to the max | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The problem with that argument is that turns it into should healthcare be a right. Keep bringing it back to sex, because abortion only happens due to sex. Once they tell you sex should be a right, you’ve basically got them in a corner where now they agree that all incels should be able to get sex at anytime because well, it’s a right. In reality they just want it to be a right for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 9 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?She could not go back to the apartment with him where he said they would drink. Shocking I know! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why single men feel "touch deprived" but are hardly touch with their own bodies?I have never had a relationship, but I wouldn’t say I worry about the touching aspect of not having experience. I wouldn’t say my life is going well, but I don’t necessarily feel it’s due to lack of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 12 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Unless you’re THAT naive you should understand basic social concepts, like going back to someone’s apartment and drinking while watching a movie might imply there could be sex down the line. You went on a DATE and then AGREED to go back to an apartment (private setting). It’s pretty known what could happen. If you are genuinely that naive, remove yourself from the dating pool until you figure out basic human interaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why single men feel "touch deprived" but are hardly touch with their own bodies?It also could be that I’ve never experienced what true touch is I guess. I can’t miss something I never had in the first place. It’s not necessarily awesome, it could indicate there is something wrong with me emotionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Yes. I frequently bring it up in political debates when women say abortion is a right. I typically ask them if they think sex is a right , they say it absolutely is. It’s ironic, isn’t it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why single men feel "touch deprived" but are hardly touch with their own bodies?Yeah… I’ve never felt the need for touch specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:37 PM |
| 31 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Why would she agree to go back to his apartment and drink alcohol? It’s hilarious how little agency you give the woman in this scenario. Yes the man shouldn’t hold resentment, but the woman could’ve also rejected him at any point prior to the actual sexual move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipCompatible = good looking, high social status , money Makes perfect sense . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:17 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBASED!!!!!!!!! They’d never want to be an average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t approach men because rejection for women has a much bigger stigmaTitle is wrong. They don’t need to approach. End of story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipBecause your argument makes less sense than ops. And I did tell him that I’m not so sure I agree with his statement because men do this too. It’s simply a human error | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Why single men feel "touch deprived" but are hardly touch with their own bodies?I’ve never felt “touch starved” or particularly cared about being “touched”. Not sure why this even matters to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThey went in with a false perception of you based on how they perceive how men should act. It’s very logical and just dissecting human behavior in a way that you don’t like. Men do it too though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipLove in general is conditional. So you’re not capable of unconditional love towards anyone other than a pet and your child. Let’s get that out of the way. Where op is wrong is that it applies to men as much as women, except because men put women on a higher pedestal in general, their standards are much lower. So they have a wider acceptance of “archetype”. If women did not behave like this more men would be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is popularity and social standing in a partner so much more important to women?You’re assuming status = popularity. Status can be your job, your connections, your instagram follower count, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is popularity and social standing in a partner so much more important to women?Because if you’re socially awkward and not high in status, she cannot talk you up to her circle. It’s very simple. High status is in my opinion, even more important than looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:43 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.So instead of trying to refute my point, you decide to bring up an extremely mentally ill person who committed a horrible act. Pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipNot at all. The archetype is what you base your standards on. All op is saying is that women’s standards are based on a predetermined archetype and if the man does not fit that standard he does not move forward. It’s very logical and correct. This is just appealing to fantasy. Men also fantasize. It’s just the brutal logical explanation of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Even more so in the real world. Let’s take an example. 5ft 6 balding skinny fat good guy Lad hops on tinder and goes to the bar that night. Gets nothing. 6ft 2 wavy hair jacked Brad goes on tinder gets 80 likes goes to a bar, gets continuously hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThere is no logic in your argument because the example isn’t logical. If you genuinely think most women are going after “empathy” and “nurturing” that’s laughable, and out of touch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipHe’s logically dissecting attraction. You don’t have to agree, but at least acknowledge he’s somewhat correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipIf men went around thinking like that, he’d be called insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipTheir standards just change. Wallet becomes more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipWomen aren’t looking for nurturing and empathetic men, so your entire example is utterly low quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.I’m not mad at all. Your argument is typical and useless. It’s not 2016 anymore, the truth is not hidden and the data is out there. If you choose to seethe and believe nothing has changed you’re beyond debating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysMaybe I will make my own post https://preview.redd.it/mim5h2g0uq9d1.jpeg?width=724&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df5624a0cea2299a2e6d533580fe23df082140fa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipYes, and that supports op. Once the rose tinted glasses come off and the man doesn’t conform to that archetype, it’s over. You’re just confirming that op is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThe invisible patriarchy strikes again! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThe point is the archetype determines your standards not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipThe only issue I have with this is it applies to men to. It’s essentially appealing to fantasy. I don’t see how this is a harsh truth, rather than just using this to your advantage if people are this void of iq | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Your only rebuttal is to insult the men that complain. It’s pathetic and you should feel ashamed to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysYou are derailing. You had more than enough stamina to debate the basis of my comment. It’s laughable. You can only refute simple statistics of single mothers. Anything more complex than that goes right over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipSo your argument is that women essentially create their ideal man via the media they consume and if you do not conform to their ideal archetype, you are not going to last long in a relationship. I’m not sure if I agree, only because I don’t see how this wouldn’t apply to males too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysIt obviously relates to your comment, and the fact you rather debate me on what I should have replied to vs the actual debate, just tells me you have nothing of substance to say regarding single mothers and you know deep inside you’d be on the losing side of this debate, so you resort to debating the original basis of my comment instead to derail the thread . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:10 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.The fact you think this, shows you think society still lives in 1990. You are not operating in 2024, and it’s laughable to think the only issue is women not “going after men they don’t want”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysI have little grievances with single mothers other than it’s a net negative on society as a whole. The debate isn’t over, because now we need to understand why there are even single mothers in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | One possible reason why dating is so hard for single men: single men are competing against married men.Yes, the married men who cheat on their partners don’t “help” but I wouldn’t necessarily blame them for the current dating struggles in society. Considering how easy it is for men to get absolutely fucked in a divorce, I find it hard to believe a majority of men throw their entire lives away to cheat. Even if they do, it’s certainly not enough to worry about. The competition argument is certainly valid though, but it’s not married men increasing the pool. It’s just technology and the wider reach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysThe comment I made was absolutely relevant. Yes, obviously most women aren’t single mothers. But it’s absolutely become more common in the last 30 years and you have to acknowledge that it is and likely will be even more common in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.We absolutely live in a social matriarchy. Society in its current form, mostly benefits women. You see it in education, dating, and the working world. The social matriarchy isn’t just about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysThe debate topic was if women live on easy mode in dating and it’s an obvious answer. Yes. Single motherhood is an effect of the lack of obstacles women have to face when dating. The fact you’re seething this hard is laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Men are victims to the social matriarchy we live in. Dating is just one aspect of that. It’s ironic you say that, because if you’ve ever seen an attractive woman get rejected they seethe more than your average man does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.The whole basis of liberal (truly progressive) buzzword rhetoric is to just make women feel as if they are a victim of the invisible patriarchy . You will never be able to explain this to a progressive woman because their whole argument circles around men being the “oppressors” that get everything in society. They are gaslit beyond belief. We are certainly at the breaking point. 10 years ago I’d say half these threads would be banned and no “pro male” comments would even be allowed. Now you’re a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysSingle moms aren’t triggering to me. It’s just sad that the child has to be raised without a father because of poor decision making from both parties. Mostly the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:47 PM |
| 0 | One possible reason why dating is so hard for single men: single men are competing against married men.The more competitive field isn’t married men cheating on their partners. It’s just the vast additional amount of men in that pool. I’m a young man in my 20s. In the past, my competition was only my local area. Now it’s my entire state, potentially multiple states via dating apps. This isn’t a married men cheating on their wives problem. If it is, you have to prove how married men are somehow stealing all the single women and why women always go after cheaters, because that’s what you’re implying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysYou’re right, they’ll be childless and single. Some will definitely be single mothers, and they’ll likely never find another man to date seriously because most men understand how pathetically bad it is to date a single mom. I’d never date a single mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:41 PM |
| 2 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.The women or “blue pillers” still think it’s 1972 and women are victims of society and men basically get their way no matter what. The problem is, society changed massively but the messaging to men and women didn’t. So you have “feminists” who operate as if they struggle like the women of the past did, when in reality we live in a social matriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.It’s a systemic issue because it’s not individualized. When it becomes large enough that a large percentage of men are affected, it’s systemic. You only say it isn’t because it actually makes men a victim, and you likely don’t believe men can actually be affected negatively by society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:37 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.If he’s an attractive guy, none of it matters. Fixed it for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Eventually the bubble will pop. If I had to guess, by the 2040s when it becomes clear gen z will not be having enough kids to keep the pyramid scheme going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:35 PM |
| 0 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.The sexual revolution was the beginning. Technology just propelled it to a new level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysEventually they’ll either be single moms or single forever. JP Morgan says what, half of adult women will be single by 2035 or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysExactly. It’s like comparing a homeless man looking for food vs the man in the diner looking at the menu full of choices, and them telling me the man at the diner booth has it harder because he has to pick from a menu. It’s a laughable and easily refutable argument using the diner example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:31 PM |
| 3 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysYes, the competition pool has absolutely made it harder for the average man to date. As a general rule, men of my age (gen z) are far better off just working and making money to retire early and leave the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysNo, this is the average woman experience on a dating app. It’s just the HARSH reality that men have to work 100x harder in the 21st century for a 10x less quality relationship than their grandparents did. The best thing you can do as a gen z man, is make money and retire early and not give your time to the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysAs I typically say, welcome to the average life of a man in 2024. You have to work 100x harder than your grandparents did for 10x less relationship quality. There is, really no rebuttal for this. Meanwhile, all the technological advancements related to dating have only helped women and maybe the top 10% of men. The rest of us have to make dating a full time job just to even get somewhat better at it. Another interesting fact regarding your anecdote is the harsh reality that the competition isn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingBecause it diverts the accountability away from society and to the individual man. It also shifts any agency away from women, because lots love to act like a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingThose “billionaires” are profiting off the low iq commies who buy “eat the rich” shirts from said billionaire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??How so? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??Pictures can be deceiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??Thank you for giving me a checklist . Great job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | One possible reason why dating is so hard for single men: single men are competing against married men.This thread is just another “blame men” thread. They pulled this one out of thin air and it’s very pathetically obvious how bad this argument is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | One possible reason why dating is so hard for single men: single men are competing against married men.So your anecdotal evidence suggests men are just cheaters, and that cheaters make it hard for single men to date. This is one of the most laughable conclusions I’ve ever seen on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | One possible reason why dating is so hard for single men: single men are competing against married men.So your anecdotal evidence suggests men are just cheaters, and that cheaters make it hard for single men to date. This is one of the most laughable conclusions I’ve ever seen on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | What is flirting to you ?Only average or below average men even have to ask this question. A top percentage male doesn’t even question if a woman is flirting with him. That’s how… rough it is for men these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The problem is, prostitution needs to be legalized nationwide. Women will straight up tell you sex is a right in a debate, it’s truly a privilege. To make it a right, it has to be legalized for anyone to receive. Not just the top 10% of men parading around. The reason they say it’s a right is because they’ve rarely been denied sex. So when you never have to work for something, you take it for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:05 PM |
| – | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementThey are only referring to 9/10s or higher. Average men are invisible, therefore not accounted for in this statement. Everything a woman asks for outside of looks, you can break down to: well if the man attractive or unattractive, would it change her reaction to said ask? If she says all you need to do is give a woman flowers, would she accept flowers from 5ft 6 balding skinny fat Lad? Because she is likely thinking she’ll receive flowers from 6ft 2 Jacked Chad. And yes, the statistical evidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingProbably not, especially because these types of women love to circlejerk that they want a tradman while they aren’t anything a tradman wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Spending 50/50But if you don’t pay $200 for her steak dinner you’re fucking FEMININE /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Why most marriages failMost marriages fail because of finances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule what do women get out of 50/50 relationship?Relationships are conditional, therefore transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Q4men who believe in the 80/20 rule what do women get out of 50/50 relationship?The question was rigged from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Women on Reddit downplay men's contributions by choosing to focus on housework, and ignoring earnings.it’s all just to create a victim mindset. Vacuuming, taking out the trash, and washing dishes are not hard chores. And let’s be honest, they have their kids do half the work anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:47 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.Why don’t people understand this? It’s such a simple concept. Things don’t make you attractive, looks do and then your personality is the icing on the cake. When op thinks of this guy, she’s literally thinking of the Chad meme guy rescuing cats. Not your 5ft 6 balding dude who’s skinny fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.This just boils down to the fact that every activity you do is just unconsciously a way to attract a partner. It’s pathetic but human biology However doing this solely to get laid, is low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Because you’re “cheating”. Everyone pays for sex, some just like to get right down to business. Others will pay for 4 dates and maybe get a kiss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Both are wagies. The latter is trying to fill the empty void of hedonism . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Absolutely not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:35 PM |
| 14 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Because they never have to experience anything close to it. They don’t have to try to get male attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Men and women don't really need each other anymoreAwesome, I will now go order DoorDash, instacart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?They like the attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 08:23 PM |
| 31 | Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud?If marriage is a legal matter and the government gets involved in the case of divorce and makes men pay child support, I see no reason why they can’t get involved if a woman does something wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever used sexual tease for your advantage consciously?I always thought that statistic was inaccurate, but it also depends on who they’re asking. Do they ask a bunch of 25 year olds, 45 year olds, or 60-80? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever used sexual tease for your advantage consciously?Using this statistic is great. I’m doing this from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?Old men can’t accept the fact that they should’ve paired off with a woman their age long ago. They ruin it for younger men and that’s why so many are single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?Hopefully not too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:34 AM |
| 5 | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.It’s fine to reject anyone on any basis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What does everyone believe with regard to "trauma" and male sexual assault?This post seems just wrong like someone could get roofied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.I guess I agree to a point. Maybe not a “platonic” conversation but rather a non flirting conversation. Platonic to me just means friends. But it’s clear you just mean they need to not flirt 100% of the time which I agree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.It depends on the woman’s looks to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Your personality is judged by your looks. A confident ugly man is just a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:44 PM |
| 35 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Bingo. Social skills matter but only after you pass the looks/status threshold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.If they have 0 female friends and don’t talk to women platonically, it’s not a skill required to flirt then. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Your social skills are also judged based on your looks and status: Let’s say a man is very introverted. Good looking introvert with high status: Has quiet confidence, ‘intimidating’ (in a good way), great listener Ugly introvert with low status: Awkward, creep, low confidence, can’t talk, etc. If you don’t believe me, look up the halo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Platonically means as friends. Men who have 0 friends that are women still have girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Talking to women platonically isn’t required to flirt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.You are merging being able to talk to women platonically and flirting. Those are two different types of interactions. There are guys who don’t have any women friends who get girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Why would they want to platonically bond with someone they’re interested in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:24 PM |
| 16 | Debate The importance off social skills is absolutely underrated in modern men.Because before you get to even show off your “social skills” you are judged by your looks and status. Not that it’s not important, but the others are basically “cutting the line” so to speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Is asking out a friend only going to ruin your friendship if you're not attractive?They’ll likely get a boyfriend eventually and stop talking to you anyway. Might as well ask them out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 01:54 AM |
| 7 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.Yea bro it’s over for the blue pill 😂 it isn’t 2016 anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 12:30 AM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameI’m surprised you said drake and not Taylor swift | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you that marriage is largely obsolete today now that social norms have been largely relaxed?If you’re not having kids, there really is little benefit to getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 115 | Women saying they hate their husband is so common on RedditHating your married partner is an issue no matter the gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSame but the Knicks and raptors made a big trade so the raptors barely had anyone to play Detroit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey won against the raptors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 05:05 PM |
| 6 | How low would autistic guys have to set their standards, if women only date up?Autism is a wide spectrum. Some are not functional at all, while some it barely affects their lives, and some can live a relatively normal life but they need help and guidance getting through school and stuff. Unfortunately it will be very hard for someone with autism to date. I mean hell even guys who are not autistic have a hard time these days. Idk what to tell you. Maybe ask a therapist for advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 06:39 PM |
| 3 | All evidence suggests that people prefer a bad relationship to lonelinessI’d have to agree. Maybe not with all your points, but the title is based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?The difference between us and our parents gen is now it’s a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?This is what society at large doesn’t realize. So many men understand the game and don’t want to be second choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:20 PM |
| 3 | The Whatever Podcast is a shit show and Brian needs to be deplatformed. Why do people watch him?Who is Brian and why do they want him canceled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Uncomfortable Red Pill Facts, yes from multiple studies, For Women. Ladies please explain!Women are thirsty just not for the average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Are young adults infantilized? How does this affect dating?It’s because that 28 year old is contributing to the gen z dateless issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think older, single, childless, "cat ladies" are largely happy or not?Most of them succumb themselves into 10 different hobbies to keep themselves busy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:08 AM |
| 10 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?You mean you don’t want to go on a date with her and her 2 kids? Monster! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Why do women pick the worst partners?Exactly. It’s not right away in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:58 PM |
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