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Well, yeah. This is a debate sub. Okay, well then in the spirit of good debate I'd like to see the evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:25 PM

I made a very clear point actually. You have a specific condition that allows you to reduce emotion and hyperfocus on logic and matching patterns. Neuro typical people are more nuanced and irrational. Also what would I even come up with an argument against? You want me to try and disprove that women don't always say one thing and do the opposite? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:04 PM

My words and my actions always match That’s not a fair comparison though because you’re closer to a robot than a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:38 PM
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You must be <————this tall to whine You
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:58 AM
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Why couldn’t you date in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:56 AM
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Same graph - women think that only 20% of men are 5/10 - that’s pretty narrow group, right? That same graph shows that women message men they find "unattractive" at higher rates than men do. The pretty obvious explanation is that physical attraction for women is more specific, but also less important overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:16 PM
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How many women have you personally known that have dated gangbangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:05 PM
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You know she can be sympathetic or empathetic to men other than you right? lol She never felt either of those in her previous relationships or for any guy friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:11 AM
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In my 50 years of life I have never once seen a woman feel sympathy or empathy towards a man with baggage from other women. Your wife doesn't do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:15 PM
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Many times I started to smile only to realize the "compliment" was entirely backhanded. Can you give some examples of compliments you received that you later realized were backhanded?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:15 PM
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but what would a straight man wear to feel sexy? Whatever he wants? Anything that makes him look/feel more attractive. Mens bodies and clothes simply aren't sexualized the way women are. That's fine, because it's not the goal. I've only ever known that for "grandma compliments" like "handsome." Then don't wear a tux lol Get a tailored suit that's more stylish or expensive looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:14 PM
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If you would say you and other woman wear lingerie home alone because then you are trully doing it for yourself Some women definitely do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:54 PM
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I'm not agreeing with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:16 PM
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Your example doesn’t actually make any sense. Why would people tell someone who doesn’t have trouble sleeping with women to be gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:43 AM
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They thrive on plausible deniability and hate "what are we?" questions that put them in a YES/NO spot. I'm sorry, are you actually saying men are the ones trying to define their relationship and put a label on it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:43 PM
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have you been to the relationship or divorce subs? most…naw. There are around 500 people or so at any given time on the divorce sub. There's about 6.5 million adults living in los angeles county alone. This is why school is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:18 PM
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not because they're not sexually repulsed by the vast majority of men? These women are still messaging, dating and fucking these "below average men" so no, it's not because they're sexually repulsed. How are average men getting anything on dating apps, if women only pick the top 10-5-1% of men on dating apps? Because women aren't only picking the top 10-5-1% on dating apps. So what I said No? I literally gave two options that were NOT what you said. Is english your first language? They gave them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:00 AM
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not because they're not sexually repulsed by the vast majority of men? This is the conclusion part you haven't proven. Actually explain what average men are getting on dating apps An average amount of interest and dates But why would robots care about his attractiveness? Why do you keep bringing up bots? What else could it be, if not bots, if those account aren't real women? It could be other men, it could be women fucking around. The point is, you don't know for sure. So then what is your point…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:45 PM
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Dating app and marriage stats are common knowledge You're not claiming any raw stats. You're making a conclusion based on those stats, and that's the part you haven't provided evidence for. Asking for proof of the sky being blue is a dishonest tactic Good thing I never asked for it then? lol No, they're not Lmao Average guys aren't getting anything Lmao Cope. Women collectively only pick the top 10-5-1% of men on dating apps This number gets smaller and smaller every time you bring it up. Eventu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:53 PM
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I don't need to provide proof of the sky being blue just because the other person is being dishonest Of course not, because the sky being blue isn't your claim. It was someone else's and they already provided evidence for it. Thanks for proving my point on that at least. So the male model tier guys are getting tens of thousands of bots and fake accounts, while average guys are getting no bots and no fake accounts No the average guys are getting an average amount of accounts and male model tier a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:16 PM

The asmongold, million dollar extreme and kotakuinaction subs fit your description and all have over 5k members. Asmongold alone has close to 500k
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:15 PM
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Who cares? Court are extremely biased towards women. I feel like you should considering this the argument you're making lol It’s actually impressive that we’ve yet to reach the point where a woman can decide the execution of any random guy with a few words. But I guess that’s just the correct punishment for the sins of all men’s grandfathers or something. lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:13 PM
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Yeah I do wish men took these kind of issues more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:42 PM
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Well, you didn’t last long before resorting to personal attack. Asking questions is a personal attack? Still, you surprisingly admit the massive amount of power women have when it comes to false allegations. All I said was she could make the claim. That's literally true of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:55 PM
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She can claim you forced yourself on her She can claim that regardless of whether or not you kissed her. After that she can blackmail you to hell and back. For what? Your lego collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:41 PM
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Leverage over what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:07 PM
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And yet… quite a few seem to have a knack for choosing the most abusive, violent, and awful men possible. Most relationships don't have violence or abuse. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:09 PM
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Because conversations. That doesn't prove anything. And a lot of them were women I knew in real life. You know multiple single women that were all on tinder AND they all matched with your fake account? lol If you were just using some models photo and swiping on people you know while acting normal, I don't see the big deal. The original chadfishing claims were about being a model and still getting women while being racist, violent or a felon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:46 PM
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any man who has set up a Chadfish account knows the truth. Every woman chases the Chadfish. How do you know those were real women and not fake chaddecoy accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:23 PM
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I don't have any evidence, I don't need it. I will debaate with you though, but you have to stop asking for evidence. Pure gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:02 PM
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Sure, but a jackass ex-boyfriend is something that all women seem to have in common. Going from gangbanger to jackass is a hell of a goalpost shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:30 PM
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who beats his girlfriend green and blue Green and blue? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:18 PM
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What are you even talking about? If you're going to make a claim you need to provide some kind of link or evidence to back it up. Where? This is just comically dishonest. You said you have no idea if those accounts are real women, and since the men in those accounts are fake, no one is actually getting anything. They're matching and talking with "someone" That's it. You don't know about the marriage stats? If you're going to make a claim you need to provide some kind of link or evidence to back …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:08 PM
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I never said I do things because they are the right thing to do. I am moved by selfishness. I know? That's literally the issue I've been trying to explain to you. You are incapable of truly understanding honesty and so it's impossible to trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:53 PM
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Abundance of options does not devalue sex Abundance naturally reduces value. That's just how it works. It's like saying having lots of money - devalues money My dude, it literally does lol Is $1000 more valuable to a homeless person or a millionaire? Still, from the POV of someone living in a desert - you're very lucky, even though you don't think so. You're just a spoiled brat who doesn't value what was given to them in abundance. I'm not a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:52 PM
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Bruh , sex isn't something only one person can enjoy , you're telling like women don't enjoy sex at all ? No? I'm telling you that people get used to their situations. For women, as soon as they become teenagers they're offered sex pretty much non stop. It stops becoming a selling point early on. Women can get sex on their terms as much as they want I know, my point is that this devalues sex as a benefit for them because it's always available. Free labour isn't enjoyable at all I can't imagine w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:03 AM
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80% women can get sex whenever they want , 80% men can't get sex even after a lot of tries So? That just makes sex worthless to women. Telling them they can have sex whenever they want is no different than telling a guy they can provide free labor anytime they want. Occasionally some guys do want to help their friends move a fridge, sure. but a daily/weekly stranger complimenting them in a store in order to get them back to their place to move their couch is going to get old fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:05 AM
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Your condition makes it impossible to believe that you care about, or depend on social relationships. once I am accustomed to not lie as a default it takes less effort to keep the streak going. It only took 3 responses for you to admit that you don't tell the truth because it's the right thing to do. Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:39 AM
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I am capable of speaking without lying. I'm sure you are, that doesn't mean you won't lie if you ever feel it's advantageous to do so. I am capable of speaking truths without manipulating it to cause misunderstandings. Again, you are capable but it would only happen because you wanted to. Without feeling guilt, remorse, or a strong connection to people there's no reason to believe you're ever telling the truth because you have no human experience to properly condition you on why it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:58 AM
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I do constant self checks on my speech. I am able to do it. With constant effort. I don't understand how this would affect anything we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:39 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:20 AM
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Not manipulating truths said to create misunderstandings. I don't believe you're capable of that. Just from a mental health standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:19 AM
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No MATTER what your criteria is, there would still be women "liked" by men, based on YOUR criteria That's not the argument. We're talking about a specific group of guys, "liking" a specific group of women. No one is arguing that there won't be guys who like women somewhere, how could you even think that was the point? Your criteria doesn't matter, there would be someone with your view of "like" I honestly don't think you understand what's being said. We're saying their claim isn't possible. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:18 AM
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Their criteria is that simply finding someone attractive (which is what liking someone just from their photo means) doesn't count as liking them. So that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:29 AM
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Nope. I am honest. This is kind of a weird thing to say because I don't think it's actually possible for you to comprehend honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:28 AM
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Because there's a desperation in men that doesn't exist in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:25 AM
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I've never seen someone get offended on an atomical level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:15 AM
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I’m asking him to provide evidence that supports his own claim (that equality is possible) That's not their claim. They were going back and forth with someone who said "the stats prove this" but then never linked to any stats. The burden of proof is on the person making the claim, not on others to disprove it. The other person is the one who made the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:18 PM
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Women considering 80% of men below average, is reality "without anything to back them up" Women only picking the top 10-5-1% of men on dating apps, is reality "without anything to back them up" Male model tier guys getting tens of thousands of women even if they openly admit to being convicted serial "pea doughs" and "grapists", while normal, average guys get nothing, is reality You already admitted this wasn't actually true. Not sure why you included it here. 70-90% of families being broken up …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:37 PM
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you did immediately went to insinuate that a man must be gay if he notices that the man is the more attractive one in a couple nowadays. I said he might be more attracted to men than he thinks. That doesn't mean he's gay, but even if it did, so what? That's not a negative thing. It's clear you meant it as a negative thing. Why do you think that? The reason you do it so you can just shut down any further conversation and dismiss any observation by basically going "Ha ha you're gay", because you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:09 AM
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Someone has never been to college… You can never prove something doesn’t exist you can only prove that something does… Yeah... that was my point? lol You asked the previous person to prove something doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:40 PM
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Does everyone spoon feed you your homework as well? How about instead of claiming something doesn’t exist you just provide evidence to prove the opposite? Because if you took a second to actually think about it you'd realize it's not possible? Provide me evidence that the nasa isn't covering up the fact that government cheese is made on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:28 AM
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Yeah I could see that. Like more of an immediate envy or jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:19 PM
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I don't think you know what homophobia is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:19 PM
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The average age of first time pregnancy in the US is 27 so including marriage and courtship your numbers are way off. Most people don’t wait until their 30s to “settle down”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:37 PM
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I think you’re just more attracted to men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:30 PM
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Zero argument, just personal attacks There's nothing to argue against, you're just making claims that aren't based in reality without anything to back them up. The majority of women are having sex with a minority of above average men I don't know why you keep trying to flatter me but it's getting a little weird now. Because if women actually desired average men(I'm not even going to mention the below average men), then those men would actually be picked by women unconditionally, not be settled f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:54 PM
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Because it's all 6.4 multimillionaires getting tens of thousands of women, while the vast majority of men get nothing Lmao bro. Social media has completely rotted your brain if you actually believe this. Do you seriously not even know about the dating app stats? I know they don't say that tens of thousands of women are all dating the same 6'4 multimillionaires lol A relationship or marriage status is not proof of actual love and desire Then it's also not proof of women settling either is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:12 PM
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Yes, tens of thousands of fake accounts just for you So just to be clear, that means no you don't actually have any real examples of what you're talking about right? Funny how average guys never get any of those tens of thousands of fake accounts What do you mean, I did. Am I one of the 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:03 PM
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Because women pick the SAME top 10% of men on dating apps What's your source for this and how does it hold up to couples that met offline?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:51 PM
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Create a thousand fake dating app accounts using pictures of above average men and you will get tens of thousands of women, each try, no matter how self admittedly degenerate, disrespectful, and insulting you are How do you know those aren't fake accounts too? Did any of those women actually sleep with the men you're talking about? Create a thousand fake dating app accounts using pictures of average men and you'll get nothing, no matter how good your "personality" is This is a funny way to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:12 PM
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This is the lie. It’s a baseless claim. What? It's literally just math. If you're going to say it's a lie, you need to explain why it's not possible. And, might I add, once you didn’t source. You need a source the fact that it's possible for different women to each be attracted to different guys? lol Most women are not attracted to their partners. Most women are not attracted to YOU. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:45 PM
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Women are extremely monolithic in their tastes. They mate copy extensively. Their social conditioning is very conformist, and they all chase the same men. That's a nice source you got there. It'd be a real shame if you forgot to link it. Every man has experienced the hilarious phenomenon of getting flirted with more once he’s taken. I don't believe you've ever experienced either of those. So, your lies make you a liar, and liars can be dismissed out of hand. What did I lie about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:24 PM
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So all women are dating the same top 10% of men? No? Why do you keep claiming women have to date the same top 10%? It's much closer to each woman's top 10% being different. You're massively over complicating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:21 PM
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Dating app experiments So no real examples then. Okay. Great evidence. I'm going to stop exposing women's lies, and their nature they're hiding, because you shamed me with these personal attacks If you were actually capable of feeling shame, you wouldn't be the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:05 PM

If women are only attracted to “attractive men,” then 4/5 women are not attracted to their partners. I honestly don't understand how you can type this out and think it makes sense? Each of those women can find their partner attractive while not finding any of the other men attractive. Doesn't that make more sense than trying to claim most women are with men they're not attracted to? lol How are either of you struggling with this so badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:02 PM

Because you're arguing so confidently about a topic you're completely illiterate on Out of the two of us I'm the only one that's had a successful dating life, so I don't know how you're in a position to say I'm completely illiterate. Red pill's definition of "women being attracted to attractive men" is that women collectively only consider a small group of above average men attractive Okay, that still doesn't back up your idea of most women not being attracted to their partners at all. One doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:55 PM

Didi you even understand the context of the argument? The context? Yes. Your comment? No. It doesn't make any logical sense. Women here are claiming that it's common knowledge that women are attracted to attractive men Okay. That still doesn't make your point coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:29 PM
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Male model tier guys get tens of thousands of women despite openly admitting to being convicted serial "pea doughs" and "grapists" Can you give some specific examples of this happening? serial "pea doughs" and "grapists" The only kind of people who talk like this have terminal brain rot from social media. You need an internet break.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:52 PM

Your logic makes no sense. Which would by definition mean that most women in relationships aren't sexually attracted to their partners No it doesn't and if you actually think it does you have way bigger issues you need to work on before you try to tackle any kind of dating or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:47 PM
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Did you know there are trump-only republicans who were Obama voters This would only be impressive if you ignored the fact that obama went against 2 of the worst candidates the GOP has ever put forth. These people aren't voting on policy, they vote on vibes. You can't reliably replicate what appeals to them. It's like when the "Obama coalition minorities and PMCs" theory of the case fell apart Democrats lost the aspiration to come up with a new idea. I have no idea what you're trying to say here.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:27 PM
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He's alienating independents How is he alienating independents? and certainly any Trump-only Republicans They're a complete and total lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:51 PM
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why would anyone do that. You'd have to ask them. But I would assume their answer would be something along the lines of showering/grooming not "actually move the needle significantly on attracting women"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:32 PM
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But that's my point. Like do you only do the bare minimum on hygiene because you're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:35 PM
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so many young guys are struggling, that I think the percentage of them who have poor hygiene is still really small. I don't see why you would think this, even still. Their hygiene doesn't have to be poor to need improvement. Like even just doing the bare minimum on brushing/cleaning your teeth is shooting yourself in the foot. it will not make a difference at all Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:32 PM
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But most men can take care of their hygiene just fine so it's pretty useless advice that will somehow be upvoted to the top of every thread where a man asks for dating advice. Most men don't need dating advice though. So we're already dealing with outliers that are specifically saying they struggle and often admit to not being social. So it makes sense to mention hygeine as something to focus on. I mean you don't actually think these guys are scrubbing, trimming their facial hair and dressing up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:07 PM
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we observe that most modern women today tend to care about immutable qualities like looks and showering/dressing better/working out only helps if you are already good looking You would only shower if you thought you were good looking enough to take advantage of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:01 PM
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Let's have some fun, shall we? How I imagine you felt typing this out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:39 PM
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That's right, and that's the reason why the first thing in advice should be about attractiveness and not about "common interests", "being a good person", etc. Because despite what guys on this sub say, "attractive" is a wider spectrum than people think. The kind of women who go crazy for timothee chalamet usually aren't the same ones who think bad bunny is the hottest guy on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:32 PM
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You could tell these men to go get a passport and travel overseas, where they’d have better chances. Why not suggest that, if you know they’re cooked in the west due to being short, ugly, bald, ethnic, etc, instead of endless empty platitudes? Adding this to my growing list of evidence that guys on this sub have a humilation fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:19 PM
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unattractive men will go out and try to be confident then women will call them creeps or call them out for shooting above their league. Where do you even get this stuff from? 99% of women on the street are way too conflict avoidant to call a guy a creep to his face on the street. Most of the time you're just going to get politely rejected. Regardless of attraction level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:18 PM
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Maybe not. Seems hypocritical. What do you think is the most important aspect of choosing a partner is? I don’t claim knowing their personality throughout to be the most important aspect of me choosing a partner either. I don't believe that's ever been a mainstream claim from women, but even then why do you think it's impossible for them to accurately judge their interest in someone's personality from 1 date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:14 AM

That's not what I asked at all. I asked if you've continued to go on multiple dates with someone after you decided there was something you disliked about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:56 PM

Have you ever continued to go on dates with someone after deciding there was something about them you didn't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:03 PM
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If I wanted a stereotypical 1950s submissive housewife that doesn’t talk back that would be very superficial and shallow. There's literally nothing superficial or shallow about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:52 PM

If they don't like what they see in your personality, how long do they have to go keep going before they're free to move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:51 PM
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You are nowhere near as smart as you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:50 PM
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You literally don't know a single thing about me so I'm not sure why you would make that assumption lol You're right about one thing though, you are perfectly justified in giving up on life and rotting out the rest of your days in your room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:30 PM
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normal peoples 'hobbies' are 'get drunk', 'walk outside', 'watch tv' lol at trying to sneak "walk outside" in there as a negative im more interested in the stuff im interested in which to be honest is none of the stuff above anymore because it all got ruined trying to have mass appeal. i mostly just read science fiction books now. Right, you chose to be perpetually single and alone. You're happier this way. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:22 PM
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I'm not, I have normal hobbies that other people are interested in. Which is why you don't see me online defending them and telling people to "lick my sweaty arsehole"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:53 PM
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"I'm choosing to be lonely!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:42 PM
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I never said you did. I'm just telling you those other hobbies are still lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:21 PM
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DnD wasn't in that list I quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:18 AM
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I'm not narrowing anything. I'm refuting the "crucial point" that you need to be traditional and manly to be in a relationship with the women you and OP are talking about. Eschewing gender roles has nothing to do with being anxious, shy, overly agreeable, inexperienced or unconfident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:46 PM
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Tell you what - just try and name three personality variants instead? You have claimed to know all kinds of ‘different’ people. Conservative, progressive, and liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:35 PM
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So many of the guys here see absolutely everything as 100% black or white. Black and white thinking is a common symptom of anxiety and autism, which is why it's so common here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:30 PM
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The issue is that, many of these women espouse beliefs that men should eschew traditional gender roles and masculinity, then turn around and deny those men sex and relationships. My dude, there is nothing masculine or manly about going outdoors or hiking lol. I know more women than men who are outdoorsy, and the guys are all progressive hippie types. They're as untraditional as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:29 PM
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it was considered extremely weird and uncool to play yugioh, warhammer, bayblade It still is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:25 PM
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I disagree, it's very common to see women here say that attraction matters. It's the degree to how much it matters that's debated. But even still. So what if it's denied? What would it do to help you for women to say they want attractive men? I swear some of you guys won't be happy until you're personally told how ugly and undesirable you are by women. It's like you have a humiliation fetish or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:23 PM
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The more I interact with them This is a very normal and human way to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:29 PM
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Was that really the only example you had? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:38 PM
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That's a guy, you said there were women making that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:40 PM
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You can't come up with a single post backing up what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:30 PM
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It’s not a moral judgement. Just like women who don’t like bisexual men but are still pro LGBTQ. That sounds hypocritical to me dude. They’re not morally against gay/bi men but they’re just not sexually attracted to them Then what are they against? This is like saying you have nothing against chinese or black women, you're just not sexually attracted to them. There's some underlying judgement there. Many people don’t believe in morals because they can be subjective. Some people just believe in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:27 AM
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Promiscuity isn’t necessarily a moral behavior either like I told you. You can say it as many times as you want, it doesn't change anything. It's a moral judgement, and a value. Plenty of men who don’t have believ in religions or morals but still are disgusted by being in a relationship with a high knotch count woman. Everyone has values dude. Also who doesn't believe in morals? lol If a woman who does not generally behave confidently wants a man who generally behaves confidently, she wants a be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:21 AM
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You said that me wanting a behavior in women that I don’t have myself (purity) is hypocritical but women wanting men behaving confidently even though they’re insecure is not hypocritical. Goofy, everyone has insecurity, there are people who do nothing but speaking engagements, and are extremely outgoing social people that are insecure. Confidence isn't a value. The equivalent would be wanting someone who wants loves being social and has a large friend group when you prefer to stay at home and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:52 PM
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I just can’t be attracted to be with a promiscuous woman in a long term relationship. Yeah bro, desiring a specific type of behavior is called a VALUE lol In this case you value chastity. Whether you value it for yourself determines if it's hypocritical or not, but it's still a value. Are non 6 figure earning women who want 6 figure earning men hypocrites? No Are low status women who want high status men hypocrites? Define what low and high status mean in this context. Are insecure women who wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:37 PM
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According to the people who think it’s hypocritical for a man who wants a virgin even though he’s not a virgin himself Those aren't remotely similar, the original example is a value judgement and you keep responding with differences in physical features. You're not providing any example of actual hypocrisy. I also don't think you realize you're defeating your own argument. If those aren't examples of hypocrisy then you have no reason to be upset or complain about women choosing men who are talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:15 PM
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It’s an attribute that they want in the opposite sex that they don’t have themselves. So wanting a woman with long hair is hypocritical if yours is short?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:38 AM
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This is why people don’t cite sources That's not why people don't cite sources lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:42 PM
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Like the hypocrisy Lisa Bilyeu and so many other short women have for height preferences for tall men? Genuinely how is this hypocrisy? You're comparing personal values vs physical preferences It would be like saying a man is a hypocrite if he has blonde hair and prefers brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:28 PM
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This kind of shit is why you’re lonely btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:45 AM
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I don't see single women at bars and clubs. How would you know if they're single or not? Adult social events are unreliable Everything is unreliable. I haven't heard of too many parties that are open to strangers. Why would you go to a strangers party? I'm talking about something that a friend hosts, a house warming or bbq or game night. Anything. Romance and sex is something I only ever see the aftermath of. I only ever see people who have it. I don't see them getting it. I don't know what gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:14 AM
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Bars? Clubs? Social events? House parties? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:14 AM
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How is that different than just not being sexual? Huh? It's different because they're still sexual, they just don't respond to being told they turn guys on or that their body is so hot. They've been hearing that forever. How are men supposed to take initiative to find women? If this is your goal then you need to go places where women are also looking for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:33 PM
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I promise you don't have the male experience Oh how embarrassing for you, I'm literally a guy lol. you don't understand how extremely easy it is for a man to make a woman uncomfortable or scared. It's easy to make anyone uncomfortable or scared. I'm talking about doing it unintionally. I notice even the slightest sudden move can accomplish that. Why are you making sudden moves? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:23 PM
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But men don't want to make women uncomfortable or scared, and we don't want to be seen as predators. I promise you this is really really easy to do lol Women just seem to hate sexual attention, and we have no way to give it in a way we know they'll be inclined to like. It's not that women hate sexual attention, it's just been offered to them daily since they were like 13. It becomes white noise at a certain point. That's why as they get older they gravitate towards people who make them feel seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:48 PM
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I don't really think that most men are capable of loving someone other than themselves tbh Totally disagree, I think you have it backwards. Men are either not being taught or don't know how to love themselves and use relationships and success at work to fill that void. Imo one of the major reasons guys fall apart so hard when their relationships/careers end is that they put all their need for validation into one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:28 AM
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Harrassment is defined by an action of repetition That's the situation I described yes, so how is it civil? What were you talking about then ? Did you not read my comment? I was very specific. Have you ever encountered the people hustling their albums on the street in a large city?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:52 PM
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Great, is that a reason to actually abandon any for of civilness ? Abandon what? How is being harassed to buy something civil? I personally never violently rejected them for anything, taht's a simple interraction. It's also not the kind of interaction I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:34 PM
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If I'm waiting in a line doing nothing ? Yes, why not ? Most people don't want to be harassed into purchasing something when they're just going about their day. This is a pretty common feeling. That's one of the problem, we created so much barriers that simple interractions are not even tolerable anymore. I have to question your experience with the situation I'm talking about if you consider it a simple interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:12 PM
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You're confusing simple with easy. There's a very real difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:03 PM
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I don’t think the reverse-situation works. I wouldn’t mind women approaching me in everyday life. That’s not really the reverse because you WANT women to approach you. Instead imagine it more like those people trying to hustle their albums on the street. Is there a chance you’ll actually like the music? Of course. Are you in the mood to listen and buy it while you’re in line to get coffee on the way to work? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:32 AM
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Most people can do a backflip I don’t even know if I’m confident in saying most people could do a pull-up lol like there’s no way you actually see regular people on a daily basis if you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:24 AM
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Two people share a home, furniture, and bills. They stop chasing status upgrades to impress strangers. ...What? lol You've never heard the expression ""Keeping up with the Joneses"? Getting married leads to having kids, having kids leads to needing a bigger car to carry them around in, a bigger house to raise them in, vacations to spend time together etc. There is no bigger economy boost than marriage/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:22 PM
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which means you quoted them I literally said you’re quoting them lol Doesn’t automatically mean you disagree with them or agree with them Which is why I specified it being used in a larger statement that disagrees lol I get the nuance I really don’t think you do because you specifically asked them what misogynistic elements existed in RP exist even though it was clear they didn’t think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:34 PM
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No putting a word in quotes literally means you’re quoting what they’re saying Literally yes, but you’re not understanding the nuance of why. When done with a single word it’s to draw attention to it being out of place with what they’re saying. For example, if you wrote a whole piece critiquing the way the police handled something and mentioned that they arrested the “criminal” it signals you’re using their words and definition because you don’t agree with with how it’s used. too many of yall on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:23 PM
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I usually vent here, no real reason to discuss my gym routine Why are you venting here? It’s a debate sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:10 PM
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Just because one person says one thing while identifying as a member of a group, doesn’t mean it’s the stance of the whole group. But I thought All Women Are Like That?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:43 PM
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Why do you think I'm joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:38 PM
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If you're going to disrespect a sexual icon like devito, I'm going to say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:13 PM
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You realize they had to close off the batman returns set to just the actors because women kept throwing their panties and bras at danny right? Danny is more than a sex symbol. He's a sex trademark.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:23 PM
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Yes like actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:10 AM
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Danny Divito’s humor never made him a sex symbol. You've never seen batman returns then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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What makes you say that? Is their partner a balding 4’11 middle aged man with an incredible sense of humour? It's a little bit of that, but it's more that someone like chris hemsworth is NOT their type physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:56 AM
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I wasn't making the argument that no one would ever pick hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:29 AM
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Hemsworth has a sense of humor. and danny doesn't???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:28 AM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:14 AM
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1 in 4 men in the US have a tattoo, it's going to be prevalent among just about any group you look at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:13 AM
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Then why everytime a guy says he struggles to get dates and it's actually kind of depressing for him (you know, sharing his emotions) ... he is faced with "you must hate women" ; "go take a shower" ; "you just have a loser mindset" ? I've genuinely never seen that happen to anyone who is sincerely talking about their dating struggles in an appropriate way. a problem that mostly relies on chance How is dating success based on chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:10 AM
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that Danny DeVito could beat Chris Hemsworth with enough charm I can think of multiple women I've known over the years who would take devito over hemsworth easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:45 PM
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I literally just told you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:20 PM
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You guys really wear your trauma on your sleeves don't you? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:06 PM
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Of course there is It benefits you to hide your privileges So first off, I meant literally in my comments I hadn't said anything that would be possible to even lie about. Secondly, what privileges? Because it's the same thing as a rich person telling a poor person that their money plays either no role, or not a significant role in their wellbeing If the question is "how do I be happy without being rich" then yeah, that advice makes sense. Your issue is you don't trust the premise to begin with, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:47 PM
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The ones from 2 months ago until today
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:26 PM
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Seeing your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:00 AM

Well one of those requires a sense of care and ability to empathize and listen to the other person. Basically it requires social skills. The other is no different than acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:38 AM
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I wanted to know your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:34 AM
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Let’s not be obtuse I wasn't. So why make it at all? Make what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:07 AM
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No, just found the most recent commend you’d made at that point. What's a commend? What kind of answer were you hoping for? Nothing specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:27 PM
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I replied to the most recent one you’d made at the time. So you did look through my comments? So, anyway, what sort of reaction were you hoping for? Nothing specific. I just wanted an answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:11 PM
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Can’t reply to a comments in a thread with a blocked user in them. So then you did look through my comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:46 PM
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Uhh, no. That’s an odd assumption to make. So why did you reply to my comment here then instead of the original thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:35 PM
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How am I “scouring your comments”? I'm assuming you looked through my comments for one to reply to instead of replying to the actual comment I made that seemed to upset you so much. You seem really fixated on the DM. What’s that about? Bringing it up when it's relevant to the point I'm making isn't a fixation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:28 PM
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Can we skip to the part where you tell me the point you’re hoping to make? I made my comment, that was the end of it for me. I'm only responding to your questions. Did I upset you? Do I seem upset? I'm not the one scouring your comments or DM'ing you. You said I replied to you “across multiple subs” and I corrected it when pointed out. It's really not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:21 PM
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Nah, I still trust it. There's nothing to trust. Why do you think you tried to lie? I don't think I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:24 PM
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Here, yes. But where have I replied on multiple subs? Fixed I trust her judgement over yours. You mean trusted. So, you ever been engaged? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:40 PM
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Can you stop trauma dumping on me please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:36 PM
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How often do you have bad days?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:17 PM
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And yet you feel comfortable speculating, what’s that about? Because I'm basing it on what I've seen from you and your comments. Where have I sent you multiple messages across different subs? You haven't replied multiple times here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:12 PM
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I think she’d probably have tried breaking up with me first before driving into oncoming traffic. I didn't know her, so I can't say whether she did or not. I was hoping for something more substantial in your replies Like what? I already came to terms with her being dead, why would something as petty as that give me pause? You tell me, you're the one DM'ing me and sending multiple messages across different subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:21 PM
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Drive into oncoming traffic to get out of marrying me? No, I think it’s more like she could have avoided it but just let it happen. I get that this is just a troll attempt but it’s laughably bad No it was a pretty sincere question. But I’m also confused on how you think it’s laughably bad when you’ve responded to me 4 times in a separate thread and sent me personal DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:55 AM
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They didn’t say it was easy. They just said what worked for them. Again, you should really look at how you’re framing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:22 AM
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Wasn’t exactly her call to not go through with it You don’t know that, you’re not a mind reader remember? It seems kind of weird you’d think I’d consider her to be better off dead It’s less that I think you’d consider it and more that I think you should consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:20 AM
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Quote specifically what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:17 AM
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something tells me she wouldn’t have gone ahead with the whole “marriage” thing But she didn’t go ahead with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:15 AM
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If my (single man) lack of contentment stems from a complete absence of sexual & romantic connections You’re assuming that’s where it stems from. I have a very hard time believing you would be content in a relationship. Did you have sexual and romantic connections at some point in your life before that made you feel content?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:13 AM
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You don’t sound very sure of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:10 AM
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What point are you trying to even make? Who said it didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:03 AM
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They didn’t preach for you to not have sexual relationships though? I find the fact that you both focused on that really telling about your headspace with this whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:02 AM
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The thought of having to spend the rest of their life with you. Also it’s not “would be”, it’s “is”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:59 AM
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It's not your argument, you're just defending it But how does that make me disingenuous? There's nothing for me to lie about. No, the absolute majority can't Why not? Like, the person with both romantic and platonic relationships telling the person who only has platonic relationships that them having romantic relationships plays no role in their wellbeing, not being disingenuous? I don't believe their argument is that it plays no role, their argument is that you can be content without it. Those …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:41 AM
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Or, it doesn't make sense, because it doesn't make sense, because you're being disingenuous It wasn't my argument to begin with, so I'm not sure how I'm being disingenuous? I'm operating from knowing that they CAN have romantic relationships. Which is a fact Men can't have romantic relationships either? The person that hasn't given a single honest response is testing my honesty What have I lied about? The problem with this thought experiment is that you need trust without any proof in order to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:26 AM
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That doesn't even make any sense Is it possible that it doesn't make sense because you lack the experience to understand what I'm trying to say? The person who has both platonic and romantic relationships telling the other person that their wellbeing stems from their platonic relationships, is of course being disingenuous You're operating from An assumption that the other person has both platonic and romantic relationships That both romantic and platonic relationship is necessary for contentment…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:57 PM
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Because someone who has both platonic and casual romantic relationship acting as if it's their platonic relationships that determine their wellbeing, is being disingenuous Do you have enough consistent platonic and casual romantic relationships to make that judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:48 PM
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Perhaps you got confused because that's not what I said. I didn't say you did? If she did have sexual encounters, it means that her experience of being single doesn't reflect the experience of a guy who's single. Why does it need to? Therefore, it is crucial information in order to determine how useful her advice is for single men, who are significantly less likely to have sexual encounters. Only if you think men need sexual encounters to be content while being single. If she doesn't think that,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:49 PM
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But the question wasn’t “how do I have sex?” it was “how do I learn to be content with being single?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:01 PM
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Why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:11 PM
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Im not lying saying either talking about or meant is the same stuff from where im at They're two completely different words with two different meanings. You very clearly lied about what I said. Fair share is enough and maybe they could implement government assistance for that if really needed. Their fair share means their payments about about to triple. This whole thing started with you complaining about how women spend child support and by the end of it you argued that men should be paying 3x m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:43 PM
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Because what I said was simple and you asked me what i meant. Why are you lying? I asked what you were talking about, not what you meant. http://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1knkcha/alimony_laws_force_men_to_provide_after_the/n5kmzw3/ No the plan would not do that at all he would just pay his fair share. If you think that's what I mean Your version of a fair share triples his monthly payment. I don't see how you can say I'm not getting what you mean when all I did was calculate the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:01 PM
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Makes sense you didnt know what the grandma part meant at first but now will pretend like you did. How does asking what you're talking about mean I didn't understand what you meant? If you want to see it as me not wanting to as me not being able to counter you thats fine aswell. It's not me seeing it that way. Your outline for a more reasonable system for men literally triples their monthly child support payments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:20 PM
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Which a person thats slow would do so. No you did thats why you asked that now you want to pretend like you did after i said that. This makes no sense at all lol. If you really did then you wouldve said it was a dumb idea the first time. Instead of asking what am i talking about. It's the same thing? lol You're talking about people using their grandparents like we're coming up with advice for some random couple instead of talking about policy that needs to work for everyone. Not everyone has gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:55 PM
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Oh you gonna be honest and let me know that i seem a little slow when you already said it. What? I guess that would actually be you since you seem to think you havent already said i was remedial atleast 2 or 3 times already. I said your writing and grammar were remedial. Kinda weird to like talking to slow people so much Why do you think I like talking to you? they were answered well and i said some extra stuff while answering it for sure. You said some extra stuff? lol Like how in the hell can …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:08 PM
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Daycare is something both parents should be paying anyways so thats a dumb question to begin with tbh. You said it should be a reasonable cost and I asked you what you considered reasonable, how is that a dumb question? lol He pay his half and she pays hers so that will cut costs. It wouldn't be halved. It would be proportional based on income. They can sometimes have the grandma on either side take some of the load off if possible. lol? What are you even talking about? Dude I gave you a good an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:01 AM
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If it was so poorly written surely you wouldnt grasp everything im saying. I would get some what do you mean by that in some of the messages you have sent. "Yes I wrote it badly, but you could still read it" is a pretty wild defense lol As for the rest no telling what the cost will be thats why i said they can pick a decent place and go from there. Dont want it too cheap or too expensive. You know expensive is what the average person cant afford the average person makes 66,622. So you originally…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:18 AM
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f it was so bad then you wouldnt be able to respond to what im saying so its good enough. So because I can read it, it's not poorly written? How does that make sense? A decent daycare which means whatever the costs are to make sure its atleast decent for the child. Stop using vague language, decent is too subjective. I'm asking for a specific amount that you would consider reasonable for daycare. you dont want to get one thats too expensive either. Again, this is too vague. Define expensive. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 AM
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Just because i messed up on one word you now gonna act like i cant speak English at all It's more than just messing up that word. Your overall sentence structure and grammar is pretty remedial. So unless you cant read then it seems like English might not be your first language because i definitely gave the answers needed for all that bs you asked. Question: What's a reasonable cost to you? Your answer: I think its one of the things the government should step in on but probably never will. As the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:55 AM
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Not that bad through sounds just like threw so its understandable. Is english your first language? I think its one of the things the government should step in on but probably never will. As they love using tax dollars for their own needs and sometimes the people. For the man a decent daycare is important and it will come out of the CS system as its for his kid. Shouldnt cost more on average to setup the same system they have for ebt but just for CS. Of course like EBT they can get food if the ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:09 AM
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its not my fault you arent able to read what i say very well. Is English your first language? Immediately followed by the EBT CS system is what i through out there lmao You over here talking about them needing the money for daycare when that can be done for reasonable costs What's a reasonable cost to you? So whatever falls directly to what the kid needs is what i said the man will pay to help. Would you be okay with a stricter system if it ended up costing men more on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:06 AM
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It's not a zero sum game. You can care about both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:24 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:05 PM
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I know, I said that because with consistent sexual interest they'd eventually embrace or get used to it. Where exactly is this consistent sexual interest coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:50 PM
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I never said they were receiving it for the first time. Eventually the shock will subside and their ego boosted. No, what usually happens is guilt and shame for missing an opportunity or further disbelief causing even higher guards against affection being put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:29 PM
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each time a guy complains on this subreddit it always circles back to wanting to be sexually desired. Too many guys on this sub hate themselves to the point that they would never allow themselves to trust that the desire was genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:55 AM
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I know you were just trying to insult the last person. You also still haven't explained how the other woman was acting in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:48 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:37 AM
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https://tenor.com/view/waltergotme-gif-18867690
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:48 AM
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What the fuck are you even trying to say here? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:45 AM
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throwing that possibility on the table isn't crazy You weren't throwing that possibility on the table, you were just trying to insult them. Trying to pretend like it was a genuine argument IS bad faith though so good job. You also still haven't explained how the other woman was acting in bad faith when she gave a preference against certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:36 PM
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The last one was literally just a detailed post someone made about self improving and you called them ugly lol. What was bad faith about it? The other two were a woman saying she avoids men who are into red pill, there's literally nothing bad faith about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:14 PM
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because when somebody said something I disagree with I debate instead of humiliate Some examples of your debate skills I tend to avoid insufferable and narcissistic women, like you for example. Cool, one less insufferable woman for us to deal with. Or maybe you're just kinda ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:46 PM
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I don't have a gf Yeah no shit, I wasn't seriously asking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:35 PM
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Every week? Your gf doesn't get mad that you're hanging out with other girls every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:03 PM
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Not really, I have lots of female friends actually Do you know for sure that they consider you a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:25 PM
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What's the relevance of this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:21 PM
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You can find the same basic idea being used in any kind of negotiating strategy, business etc. Dating isn't a negotiation or business though. It's not transactional, and approaching it like it is just leads to a relationship built on a really unstable foundation that's unlikely to last in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:45 PM
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For example: When a feminist leader labels the red pill as misogynistic ince group, you will see the idea will be repeated all over even though it doesn’t make any sense. However when another authority figure (male celebrities, singers, influencers, writers, etc.) brings up the red pill arguments without the label they agree to it. Do you have a specific example you're basing this on? Who would even be considered a "feminist leader" these days? Rephrasing is also another way of meeting them on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:42 PM
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It's the product of men who play too many video games thinking that "be confident" is the trick to beating a boss. I don't know if it's video games as much as internet culture has created a culture of tier list data. In the sense that if you wanted to learn something or get advice you generally had to put in a lot more personal effort to get your conclusion. Now you can skip straight to "expert" level advice on everything. Stocks, dating, what to wear, what to drive etc. This leads to guys being…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:18 PM
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I've never said this to anyone before, but you should seriously consider just using chatgpt to write everything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:11 AM
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Typical homophobic rambling by PPD women. Just call them all fhaggs and be done with it. So tiring How is saying specific men in this sub would be happier being with other men homophobic? lol They're literally arguing FOR more homosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:48 PM
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Do you think gaslighting is just disagreeing with someone? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:28 AM
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The main rule of workout club is don't tell people you work out because people just take that as an opportunity to ridicule you for not being on roids ....what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:14 PM
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Men like hot women I thought we were talking about lauren sanchez?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:29 PM
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They don't even need a pulse my dude lol A lot of dudes out there will take anything they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:32 PM
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Literally everything makes dudes hard lol That's not a good answer. Guys can be attracted to the idea/situation more than the actual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:12 PM
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They aren't duplicitous in what they're attracted to. This is naïve bordering on dishonesty. Guys hook up with women they don't find attractive all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:36 PM
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hey, you can't comprehend a simple example and need something that is exactly the same. Yeah maybe I'm weird but I do think your example needs to actually demonstrate what you're complaining about lol I wonder how you can go in life without being able to associate one behavior with another. It's actually easy when you don't see everything in black and white binary thinking terms. It's weird to me but I don't hate, just weird. I really don't think you understand that I'm not misunderstanding what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:20 PM
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Does it have to be common for someone to be insecure about it? No, but if your example of something a woman would be insecure about includes her bf directly bringing it up in a way that insults her it doesn't make much sense as a counter point to why men shouldn't worry about their exes previous partners. Do you think it's common for men to tell their gf how good the bj their exes gave them? No, which is why I don't think you're doing a good job backing up the point you're trying to make. many h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:30 PM
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If I mention how great the blowjobs my ex gave me it's possible my current gf would feel like she has to live up to her at some point and if she doesn't she'll feel insecure about it You think it's common for women to talk about the dick size of their ex to current boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:36 PM
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if a guy is not gay then he doesn't care about another dude's sexuality - they literally don't see them as a sexual being I don't think this is what people are talking about when they say guys care about size more than women. It's not a sexual thing. It's perceived masculinity/power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:34 PM
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If you earn money as a man and try to lure a women that because of that you are a better decision but same women have financial independence and guy gets upset because he have to find other ways to relationship to be happen. This is borderline gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:30 PM
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And no rational person would see “that math test raped me” as making fun of rape victims So first off, your evidence for people thinking "half a brain" is offensive is that a completely different group of people pushed to stop using "raped" as an adjective? That doesn't make any sense. Secondly, you're factually wrong because that phrase did receive an offensive association. It hasn't been publicly acceptable for say for a long time now. I make a point out of saying Ye and correcting people to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:57 PM
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There is no equal push If there's no equal push, then that backs up my point that any normal rational person would not see what she said as making fun of people with brain damage. Ye has made it clear on multiple occasions that it is not okay to call him “Kanye West”, and that it is his slave name. He even has an unreleased song called “Slave Name” about it. At least his name change isn’t about trying to defy biology. This is what I was talking about. Everything you say is disingenuous and inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:37 PM
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If you can't see why kids love cinnamon toast crunch then I don't have anything to say to YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:31 PM
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The lyrics include half a brain used as an insult. Show me a similar and equal push to stop using "half a brain" as an insult with regards to how it's used to describe people with brain damage. I just have a very different worldview than By different I know you mean "fake and made up" Society considers deadnaming to be unacceptable. Did you not understand the question? I asked WHY it's not okay. If the only reason you think deadnaming is unacceptable is because society says so, then you don't ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:29 PM
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....lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:16 PM
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Use your words
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:15 PM

Using brain damage as an insult She wasn’t. there was a big push to get people to stop using raped casually since it was seen as insulting to rape victims? Show me a similar and equal push to stop using the word “slow” specifically in how it’s used to describe people with brain damage. I’m not playing a character You are. It’s very obvious. If it’s not okay to deadname Jenner or Page In your own words explain why it’s not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:01 AM

Why do you think that’s an incredibly stupid point to make? Because the two situations aren't connected at all. No one would reasonably make this interpretation of what she's saying. So you're either baiting/trolling or you're really dumb. Please stop deadnaming Ye. Please find a real hobby instead of playing this character on reddit. Women could show men the same respect and start to see the value in incompetent men as partners Too obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:55 PM
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I think it fundamentally misunderstands what women find appealing when it comes to feeling sexy or finding something hot. It's just a very male take on how women view sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:13 PM

like if a guy was simulating eating her out then that would appeal to women oh no lol This is an airball of a take. You didn't even touch the rim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:38 PM

Chris Brown literally beat his wife. If you're talking about rihanna, she was his GF, not his wife. Get fuckin' real man. What point do you think you're making exactly? What Eminem said was bad too Then why are you ruining your mascara crying all over this thread about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:12 PM
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If you don't listen to rap, how can you claim that this is a case of women being unwilling to "criticize certain groups"? How do you know there are worse offenders?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:24 PM

There are thousands of other rappers who've used similarly, in fact, usually far worse misogynistic lyrics I don't know if I agree with that. Em was much more direct with his attacks. Most other rappers were talking about generic hoes. Like in terms of women receiving hatred from lyrics, I think it's hard to argue Em didn't put some huge targets on these women's backs. He did the same to men too, but that's not what we're discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:00 PM

You could argue this is insensitive to those with brain damage You could, but that would be an incredibly stupid point to try and make. (like Ye from his car accident) In what world is kanye a shorthand example of someone suffering brain damage? lol when a woman is incompetent like this, it is generally seen as sexy Why do men find incompetent women sexy and how is that women's fault? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:56 PM
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It’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:27 AM
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:*(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:13 PM
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Do whatever you want? I don't care about "inceldom" being solved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:59 PM
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What people think is different from the facts on the ground Why is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:58 PM
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many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:57 PM
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Because the judgements being made are making assumptions that men are consuming this when it is predominantly not men. No, the person you responded to was not making a judgement of men, she was explaining HER specific preferences. Why does it matter in the context of your reply to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:56 PM
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Don't women watch this type of porn much more than men? Why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:22 AM
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That “possible reason” does not explain the most common reasons why they are incels. Okay but does it explain why people think they have terrible personalities? We dont have to know how each individual incel looks like to understand most of them get no women cuz they’re physically unattractive. lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:20 AM
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You are trying to center the argument of the root cause of incels around them having bad personalities. No I didn't. I provided a possible reason for why people usually think all incels have terrible personalities in real life. But that’s not the root cause, they have pissy personalities as a byproduct of them being undesirable to women. All of them? Not a single incel has ever been capable of being attractive enough to a woman with a different personality? The most common root cause of incels i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:10 AM
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I'm not? lol Why are you white knighting for online incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:20 PM

Good advice works when it’s followed. Nothing works 100% of the time. That's the point I was making, it has nothing to do with steaks. Reduce your autism when reading comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:17 PM
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To a level of being unfixable? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:14 PM
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It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:45 PM
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I'm glad you have goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:41 PM
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You have a very active imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:38 AM
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Are you confident that both A) They didn’t develop that personality after being continually rejected and outcast? Why does that matter? Would knowing someone who treated you like shit had a tough life make you accept their treatment? That men with similar personalities who happen to be more attractive, don’t get sex and relationships because of their appearance? With similar personalities to incels online? No, I don't believe they generally get sex so I'm not exactly sure what you're asking here…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:30 AM
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Do you feel vulnerable when you ask for info? Not at all, but I've never cared about traditional/toxic masculinity. In what way would a man be embarrassed to show this to another man, compared to women?...I'm trying to understand why you hold the opinions you do. As I said before, this isn't something I personally struggle with. Is your position is that men have no problem telling other men/peers that they need help or don't know what they're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:54 AM
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Do you disagree that incels online generally have extremely abrasive personality traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:19 PM
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It happens everywhere so much so, that I bet that men instinctively prefer to ask for info from another man. If there's one thing men are known for, it's showing incompetence and vulnerability to another man. They're quite famous for asking other men for help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:14 PM
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Hilarious that this is the ONLY thing you took away from their comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:11 PM
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< True, although people tend to get frustrated when given advice that doesn't work. It's advice, not a recipe. Like if I tell you how to grill a steak better, you might still burn it. That doesn't mean I gave bad advice, or that you're incapable of doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:09 PM
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Because a lot of them DO have terrible personalities, and they display it when asking for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:06 PM
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Find the logic in that. Easy. It's made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:02 PM
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I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:45 PM
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Oh cool. Something new you can blame all your shortcomings on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:59 PM
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You sound depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:46 PM
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Someone felt CRINGE on the internet. That is UNACCEPTABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:26 PM
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they've watched their friends get humiliated for respectfully saying: "Hi." They've been ghosted, laughed at, called creepy just for showing interest. This is not the average guys experience. especially when women openly admitted they only wanna be approached by men they already find attractive. Who in the world wants to be approached by people they find UNattractive? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:19 PM
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I'd have the moral sense of losing if "getting everything I wanted" means "changing what I want". That's just literally growing up. You grow up wanting to be a rockstar, turns out you're not very good at playing guitar so instead you end up maybe working at a music label in an office position. Or you go into the arts and design album covers/posters. You make the best of what you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:08 AM
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That doesn't mean anything, there's no guarantee enough men will group up or even be strong enough to make a difference. If your argument is about enforceable power, men don't meet that requirement either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:59 PM
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Does this mean men don’t have rights either since they’re enforced by “other” men and can be taken away?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:18 PM
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I'mma be honest dude, I don't think pointing to a case involving decades long sex trafficking of minors for child pornography is the best way to make your point. the woman I mentioned in OP should have gotten a sentence at least that long Are there other instances of that crime receiving punishments that long? It seems like arson is just an unfortunate grey area of crime like vehicular assaults where there isn't a specific enough law to match the punishment to the damage caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:51 PM
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You literally pay women to flirt with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:32 PM
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His sentence was 3-10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:24 PM
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The point is changes in behavior are expected. Again, most of these are not considered "change" in the way we're talking about. We're specifically discussing changes that a partner has to ask for and whether it's even considered fair to ask. You don't need to ask your partner to text you to spend time with you or set up dates, you WILL need to tell your partner if it bothers you that they have a weekly poker night on fridays. That change can be anything they determine. Not you or a collective. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:44 PM
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Compare the sentence Cosby got for being rapey (but not physically harmful) to the slap on the wrist this woman got for burning a man and ruining his life. Cosby only did 3 years in prison, he's already out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:14 PM
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You’ve already admitted both genders do this and have been provided with multiple examples. Examples of being asked to change things that are not related to cheating. men tell their woman it’s not acceptable to behave this way You have never in your life talked to a woman like this lol You don’t assume the “collective” know what you expect without telling them. So if your partner doesn't tell you not to flirt with other women, you would keep doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:26 AM
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Through experience I know women expect you to behave differently once you’re in a relationship with them. I couldn’t imagine trying to argue against this. The only examples of this you've provided are Not going to strip clubs Not flirting with other women You're going to have to do better than that if you want me to believe you actually know what you're talking about. The strip club is a great tool for men to practice talking with women. lol The collective of men dating agree they don’t like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:41 AM
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Anyone who’s not an idiot learns this through experience. Is that why you're struggling with this? You don’t even know that flirting was only an analogy used to get the liars to admit there are changes expected. You fell for it spectacularly and have no idea. You don’t get to determine what change is based on your option of what should be required. I never said I do. I'm talking about the collective experience of people dating. Things that are implied and agreed upon without needing to say so be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:53 PM
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It’s insanely easy to beat such weak logic. Effortless. I hope you aren’t this trash at everything you do. Oooh I bet you broke out the GOOD mountain dew when you typed this up huh? Doing what you’re “supposed” to do does not remove the definition of change. No shit. No one disagrees with that. This is where things get tough for you, because your condition forces you to take things literally, and that's not how people communicate. When we talk about not having to "change" for a relationship, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:09 PM
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If you could read, the comment you replied to said exactly this. “So you’re saying it’s acceptable to expect people to change once they’re in a relationship? “This is the only point I’ve conveyed to women here that they furiously refuse to admit. No dude, you're again conflating two different things and removing nuance. I assume this is due to your condition so it's not unexpected but you should still try and get a handle on it. A person isn't "changing" when they stop flirting with strangers be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:49 PM

Gonna blow your mind here but... the government is funded by our taxes No shit. The government should still honor its debts, yes? pigs will fly before reparations ever happen, I can guarantee you that. Ok. That doesn't change anything about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:01 PM

as well as being told I need to pay reparations You don't. But the government does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:17 PM

OP with the scorching hot.....7 month old election take? Did you forget to hit submit on this last year or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:15 PM
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I replied after you came in trying to white knight on a comment that had nothing to do with you. Mad about what was said when I wasn’t talking to you. "They’re saying they never would have gotten with him in the first place." This was literally my first comment to you. This comment was me "mad" and trying to "white knight"? She literally said she didn’t want him to change for her and you just admitted both genders do this. There are SOME behaviors that both genders expect to change. There are OT…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:17 AM
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She and the other women are denying this. No they aren't. I wasn’t talking to you. Then why did you reply to me 3 times? lol Honestly you seem really overwhelmed and confused by all this. Once again. The point: The hypocrisy is that despite the denial, they all expect men’s behavior to change once in a relationship, yet balk at the idea that men expect them to change as well. You need to show something that women do that's on the same level as a strip club for it to be hypocrisy. I’m not going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:45 PM
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I gave you an example which you just quoted…. Maybe use that. You really wanna die on the hill that it's hypocritical for men to stop going to strip clubs when they get into relationships? That’s the point of the post that women including the one you’re white knighting for are trying to deny. There are behaviors that they expect to change. You're agreeing with me, how am I denying something I just said? You're all over the place dude, you're simultaneously claiming that there's hypocrisy in a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:33 AM
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No. The point is there is an expectation that the man’s behavior will change as he goes from being single to being in a relationship. Give me an example of the kind of behavior men only are expected to change that isn't "going to the strip club" lol There are certain things such as going to the club and flirting with women that are expected to stop. Both genders would be expected to stop doing this. They don’t want to admit this because it becomes hypocritical when they admit they expect men to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:28 AM
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They said , and I quote. " Most women go out to dance and have fun with their friends" Was there more to their comment or did it end there? They also said that " most women go for the possibility of meeting someone" is not true. If you asked the majority of women that are going to the club if they're looking to meet someone that night they're going to say no. In fact, I'd say the vast majority of women don't go home with someone most nights. So I'm not sure how this backs up anything you've said…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:25 AM
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No shit. You still don’t get the point. The point was "don't date people who don't share your values" What am I missing? If someone frequented strip clubs you wouldn’t expect that to continue once you’ve entered a relationship. No, they're saying frequenting strip clubs is a non negotiable. As in, they wouldn't date someone who went to strip clubs at all, not that they would expect it to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:51 PM
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The whole scene is built on hooking up and showing off, not dancing with friends innocently. No one ever said it was. The person you responded to was talking about someone who DOES enjoy just dancing with friends still being able to do so while in a relationship. Someone says that's why they like it there's an 80% chance they're full of shit There's an 80% chance your ex cheated on you like this and you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:43 PM
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They wouldn’t have known in the first place. Which is why she’s admitted she’d leave once she learned this. No shit, who wouldn't? Not telling your partner you go to strip clubs weekly is a pretty fuckin big red flag, no? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:32 PM
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Okay, I'll pretend you're 5. Is that what it takes for you to be interested? The claim is women only go to dance and enjoy music. They don't go for anything to do with men. But if you take away men, no women go. All this does is suggest that more single women go to bars than women in relationships lol Even still, no shit removing men and straight single women looking to meet men isn't a successful business plan. You're dropping 80+ of your client base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:17 PM
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The first 3 points you’re trying to make have nothing to do with the situation. The person you’re responding to never said that clubs needed to be only women, or female only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:01 PM
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They’re saying they never would have gotten with him in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:59 PM
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No it’s why do people tell these unwanted weirdos that they need to center their lives around chasing a partner? Literally no one gives that advice, but the actual answer is because those unwanted weirdos make threads on subs like this asking why they can't ever get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:20 AM
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Aren’t these men unwanted weirdos in the first place? Your question is basically "why do people make fun of unwanted weirdos" and I feel like if you think reeeeeeeeeeally hard about it, you'll figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:04 AM
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When women talk about how a man splitting the bill on dates is a deal breaker or whatever else, it is just nonsense and a sign that they aren't actually into the dudes they go on dates with. If a woman genuinely likes a man, it won't matter to her how much money he has or whether he pays for dates or not. Women caring about these things is a sign that they don't actually care about the men they date. It seems MUCH more likely to me to be a sign that those women usually only prefer to date the ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:40 PM
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Not nearly as much as they need a job to attract a partner and support a family no. But they DO need a job, yes? The comparison isn't perfect That's a huge understatement. This entire analogy relies on the idea that any and all work men do is objectifying them for their labor which is really not true. Given those issues for men get somewhere less than 10% as much effort, attention, time, and money as the same issues affecting women Where did you get that 10% number from? For now So they've been …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:55 PM
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It's amazing how you so completely lack any level of self-awareness and think you don't look like the most pathetic joyless lump right now Imagine ever giving a shit what some permavirgins on purplepilldebate thinks about me. That's one step above thanking mods for their tireless work. You're literally the iconic obnoxious cancer that kills every single actual leftist movement You are not a leftist. I fucking hate seeing people like you in the wild. Well duh, you hate seeing anyone with a girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:52 PM
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So like, are you just combing through my entire history Was I supposed to just say "yes huh" when you lied about being bitter towards women? This is kinda what I meant when I said you're exhausting and joyless. and I explained that we have a very different view of what joy is considering your unhappiness with how your life turned out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:39 PM
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You've literally demonstrated nothing at all that says I'm "bitter" towards women in the slightest "Especially in the context of women talking about how they haven't had sex in "so long now" (months), talking about trying to hook up with other guys, etc." "Yep, preppy good girls never ever date thugmaxxed guys to piss off daddy. Nope, never happens!" "No, nerd girls aren't lusting after the guy on the chess team, they're lusting after the quarterback - and they'll get to fuck him at least once, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:33 PM
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How is it an assumption when it's based on your comments? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:20 PM
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While it does help men stay alive longer at their jobs, the end result is men being alive longer to continue supporting and providing for their wives, furthering the objectification of men as work and status objects. Do men not need a job if they're single? If the beauty industry doesn't help women but objectifies women, then by that same argument work industries helping men work more doesn't help men but objectifies men too. You're comparing a single industry with a specific focus they've marke…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:14 PM
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If it happened years ago, why are you still so bitter and hateful towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:02 PM
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The fact it helped men was an accidental side benefit to the goal of helping women. The goal of helping women in a workforce they don't participate in? To this day men still have worse health outcomes compared to women for virtually every single disease and medical issue in the book What does this have to do with liberals/democrats? lol men can get fired on rumours of sexual misconduct You can get fired for no reason at all, right to work is a republican/conservative position. The leftist/democr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:52 PM
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You seem like a really exhausting and incredibly joyless person to deal with. "getting depressed when people talk about sex I was at a party and that all happened and it kept making me feel absolutely miserable and excluded from a whole world and alienated and worthless. I know I'm too old to ever be included into that world (30s) but it still made me miserable to hear about a world I was never a part of as well." I think we might have different definitions of joy lol Not to mention you have com…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:45 PM
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I'm a leftist social democrat, so yes, I would actually love to know how you can apparently tell this! First off, I very much doubt that. Secondly, I said you've never been to those spaces. That would require you to actually leave your nest. If you had, you'd see very large groups of asian, and latina women fighting against the deportations and immigration policies of this administration side by side with white liberal women. This is especially true in major cities like los angeles. To think lib…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:32 PM
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The left doesn't help men at all, often actively harms men, and then blame men for not supporting them enough. I think the left has done more for men through union support, healthcare reform, mental health advocacy, and workplace laws than conservatives could ever do. At least the Conservatives don't pretend to care about men But they do? Unless you just don't think they try to appeal to men at all on political issues, which you have to admit is a ridiculous idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:22 PM

Well, I mean most people are the solution and cause to their life problems to some extent or another. I think circumstances/environment matter much more, but it's really just a difference of opinion on that. if you are saying mostly men do this to themselves almost illustrates perfectly, what I am talking about. Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:38 PM
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Wanna know how I can tell you've never been to liberal/leftist spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:14 PM

It comes from men and women alike. In fact men you are vulnerable, share negative emotions come across as less secure and less masculine to women. This just isn't my experience at all. Obviously it happens, but I'm very confident that the majority of vulnerability is unprocessed trauma that shows itself in insecurity that needs to be addressed by therapy and self work. it would be hard to deny there isn’t a prominent trend in society of men suffering in silent desperation and agony. I don't disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:12 PM
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they'll stop caring about those men. They never cared about them in the first place. It's the same objectification of men as work objects and status objects as what feminism often does. ? That neither Conservatives not liberals give a fuck about male victims, and they both objectify men in largely the same way. This goes both ways. If democrats/liberals actually cared about women they would have worked to enshrine meaningful legislation that protected the rights they say they're "fighting for"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:10 PM

I think if he meant that he would have said that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:01 PM
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those are examples about demonizing men You asked when men were used to get people to care about issues. I should have been more specific Only if you want people to actually understand what you’re trying to say. no sympathy or empathy given to men as victims A large part of the current conservative platform is about feigning sympathy for the “poor factory workers” who lost their jobs. No different than when they talk about bringing coal jobs back. Bringing back American jobs is almost entirely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:43 PM

which leads to toxic masculinity How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:37 PM
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So it's a masculine trait to twist someone's words against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:52 AM
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How is that toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:32 AM
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Republicans aren't talking about women when they say "hordes of migrants" or "urban teens" "Scary male minorities" is one of america's oldest go-to's when it comes to making people care about an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:12 AM
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I find the greatest display of toxic masculinity, often comes from women, when men are trying to articulate the ways in which they suffer. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:33 AM
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How many times have you heard "someone's father or son" to get people to care about issues? A lot, they just don't use that specific phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:32 AM
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why aren’t women dating men then? I mean...they are lol. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:21 PM
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Objective beauty standards Literally not a thing lol You really think if you’re objectively a 4 Show me an objective 4 you think it’s ok to say you’re a 9 because “you see yourself that way” ? I think people who try to objectively quantify something as emotionally complex as attraction onto a scale of 1-10 should consider that they might be on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:25 PM
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They actually made a film about this called Joker. Thanks for the new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:51 PM
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Idk if you’re trying to be sarcastic but I’d start by being realistic and actually dating your looksmatch Who gets to decide what their looksmatch is? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:42 PM
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Acknowledgement of what exactly? "Sorry you can't just have sex whenever you want"? Do you honestly think hearing that makes OP feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:41 PM
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Can you link to wherever gpt got that information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:06 PM
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They are. It's called the law. Literally the opposite of personality responsibility lol If you have to be forced into doing something through a penalty, you're not taking personal responsibility are you? And don't act like the industry isn't skeezy. Are you reading what people are saying to you? No one is arguing against that. People specifically telling you the industry is bad, you're the one saying it's fine because people are still choosing to go into it. You're essentially saying that people…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:59 PM
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Why aren’t you putting any personal responsibility or accountability on the industry/owners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:52 PM
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OP: SOME people have fucked up sexuality You: So MOST WOMEN have issues? You should at least try to pretend to be asking in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:13 PM
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Men don't claim to care about anything other than how hot she is. That's not true at all. All of these manosphere podcasts complain about how women don't bring anything to the table when it comes to being a traditional feminine partner. Like cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:10 PM
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The full context (paraphrased) Why put it in quotes if you’re going to paraphrase? lol He never said “women are desperate around a guy with lots of money” on that recording. You’re trying to spin what he said. And do keep in mind this was on a SHOCK-jocks show You’re straight up lying. The recording was behind the scenes footage of trump and Billy bush headed to film access Hollywood. An extremely safe network tv show that did puff pieces about celebrities and actors. “I better use some Tic Tacs…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:48 PM
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Of course its real just because standards are subjective(to a point) doesn't change the fact that relationships are based on transactions and conditions Again, since you can't measure it or define it, or even objectively describe it, that makes it meaningless. Whatever definition of "balance" you come up with will have 100s of relationships that don't fit, yet still work. At the end of the day feeling loved and secure are the only things that actually matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:30 PM
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Yes it does you said there isn't one and there is just because people dont keep count of it daily doesn't mean they dont keep one. You know it's not real though right? There's no ultimate truth or balance that must be maintained. All that matters is both partners feel happy and secure in the relationship, regardless of how "fair" it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:00 PM
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Eh there's a limit to that logic or people wouldn't complain of being taken advantage of. That doesn't contradict what I'm saying. If you feel you're being taken advantage of then you need to decide what if you want to continue the relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:20 PM

only thing I got left is roi matters Relationships don't exist in an excel spreadsheet. There's no math or balance that needs to be equaled out at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:20 AM

Cause If people who do less of that and yet get some while others have to become superman with a 1000 friends minimum to just get a hello then there's a problem I'm going to need more than just "because it's not fair :*("
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:53 AM

I think we can agree that there should be an equalisation point where you start seeing profit for the effort you put in, right? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:07 PM
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Why would you being an incel or not matter? lol I mean you pay for sex currently, so congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:03 AM
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Shouldn't you have his actual father do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:52 PM
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Sure. You just coincidentally ended up alone and unwanted lol Total accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:41 PM
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I personally don’t GAF about relationships anymore at this point This is equivalent to not caring about becoming an astronaut. You never had a chance whether you care or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:48 PM
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Sabotaged, or saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:08 AM
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Can’t take a picture with a fish, can’t take a picture with a TIGER now I am hearing? I’m pretty sure you’re not interested in the kind of women who would be bothered by stuff like this so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:06 AM
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I will never understand why you continue talking about things you're not able to understand or experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:49 PM
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I do think one of the biggest issues modern men have today is the lack of advocacy for male mental health. Don’t get me wrong, there’s been plenty of studies using male subjects run by male scientists. But the whole socialization of men tends to focus entirely on “suck it up” rather than advocacy for them seeking mental health treatments, being encouraged to vocalize their emotions, etc. I think doing so would support men having stronger intrapersonal relationships and better self esteem that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:04 PM

like a lot of women are told and broadly believe that a man not accepting their rejection for sex is spousal rape. That sort of depends on what do you mean by not accepting a rejection for sex? men aren’t allowed to reject women w/out fear of some form of retaliation from their intimate partners- accusing them of being gay Dog, cmon lol. This is not even remotely a common thing at all. Edit: Commenting and then blocking is SO cringe. It's a debate sub, get your emotions in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:12 PM
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I was already in the gym for 3 years You said you weighed 300 pounds up until the surgery lol Were you eating the equipment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:17 AM
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Missed the part where I voted left for the past 20 years, left which has pushing for women's rights? What women's rights did you specifically push for? Were you under impression I'm trying to win your approval? It's a debate sub, so in a way, yes? lol Let me demonstrate how little fucks I give by not even bothering to read the rest of your comment. You're hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:18 AM
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If you are being selfish to me, then I will be selfish to you. If you want me to be nice to you, be nice to me. Have you ever considered that you might have that timeline backwards? If that was true I wouldn't be voting for politicians on the left for around 20 years. Well nothing about you backs this up but okay! Meh, my life is already ruined bejond belief. lol even though I had to say things which are frankly humiliating for a man to talk about I did. That's kind of the point lol But... every…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:59 PM
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Asking goverment and men to do something about it, isn't maning up. I was unaware of the very strict requirements for "maning" up. Then again you want women to make changes and you immediately go on to say you're looking for the government to help so you're also not "maning" up. You're doing the exact thing you're complaining about. At this point I'm willing to let those politicians on the far-right give it a try, so... guess time will tell. I have a feeling this wasn't a tough decision for you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:08 PM
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No. My answer to people/groups which want to draw my attention to the problem of mysogony, yet fail to acknowledge boys/men problem is that proper solution for mysogony is for women to men up. For women to man up against mysogony? Isn't that what they're doing? Like if you/men don't care, and aren't putting any effort to make changes, there's nothing they can do but continue on and tell you to fix your own problems. What would need to be done for you to consider the problem addressed? Which coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:23 PM
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So therapy doesn't count as an answer to men/boys problems because society isn't taking boys/mens problems (lol at that btw) seriously? If not, answer is "just man up", "pull yourself by the bootstraps", "join the military"... There's a pretty specific theme I'm noticing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:26 PM
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Now tell me again how mysogony is a huge problem and I will tell you to just man up. Because that's the answer boys/men get for all their problems since forewer. Do you include "go to therapy" as part of "just man up" or are you intentionally ignoring that element? Because it can't be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:55 PM
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What exactly are you looking to debate here lol? This whole thing is just a huge rant. I don’t think you’re actually open to be challenged on any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:06 PM
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Yes, that's why I'm likening it to praising single moms, congratulating either situation is fucking retarded But they're not praising the "situation". They're showing support. Being a parent is hard enough, let alone a single one. Both single moms and dads need all the help they can get. It comes off as jealousy to think single moms are getting praised for their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:55 PM
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Why aren't we applauding all the women who have sex and not end up pregnant Why should we be applauding people for having sex at all dude? lol. Does that honestly not strike you as weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:54 PM
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It's passive aggressive to accuse him This sentence literally contradicts itself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:47 AM
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What does most people being able to relate to it or not have to do with them choosing to criticize people like OP? Huh? Because his views likely DO come from a place of being insecure, fragile, or misogynistic. It's the equivalent of people talking about how crime ridden and dangerous areas in cities are, when it's clear they've never been there. The things OP is complaining about are just really not that widespread at all in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:43 AM
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You say something like “I want to matter to someone before life humbles her into appreciating me,” and suddenly you’re insecure, fragile, or worse, misogynistic. Because that's a genuinely weird thing to say, that most people will not be able to relate to lol. This really shouldn't be so difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:04 AM
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2nd time I've had to ask. what format of healthcare are you proposing that would be better than universal healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:09 PM
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Accusing those who disagree with you of supporting Trump is typical of you people I'm not accusing you of anything. You literally stated multiple policies of trumps that you both support. I've mentioned/listed them a few times now. you can’t debate, you can’t reason - you simply expect blind and unquestioning obedience hilariously ironic coming from the person that started this entire conversation by trying to define who is and isn't a "true leftist"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:52 PM
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I keep responding because you won’t go. That doesn't make any sense lol You’re irrelevant because in the face of a fascist insurgency, the best your side could offer was “Brat Girl Summer” Kind of hard to take your critique seriously considering your bias for trumps policies and agenda. I'm also confused on you calling it a fascist insurgency considering you literally agree with multiple major policy positions the administration is putting forth. now Project 2025 has complete control of the appa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:28 PM
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I don’t care what you think If that was true you wouldn't have responded 10+ times. you people have lost and you are irrelevant Irrelevant? lol You're a genetic dead end. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:49 PM
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Because it changes nothing Firstly those would be absolutely massive positive changes in the US, secondly what format of healthcare are you proposing that would be better than universal healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:42 PM
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I hope elon sees this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:38 AM
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Sorry, you can't redefine the term. Sure you can. You can redefine any word if enough people agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:35 AM
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Yeah, because you people are so obsessed with your self-declared moral superiority This entire thread started because you were judging AOC for going to the met gala charity event and declared her a fake leftist lol It's also not the reason I don't believe you. It's because I think someone actually concerned about that would have mentioned it in the first place instead of complaining multiple times about ukraine having nazis. Especially when multiple people pressed you on your complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:44 PM
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That’s what we call projection You are not using that correctly lol 2nd time What do you find performative about stronger unions and universal healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:40 PM

It always cracks me up to see comments like this and then like 2 replies down Why would I help another human just because he has a penis like I do? and The world is inherently unfair, and as it stands at the moment, people are not trying to make it fairer, in fact, the opposite is the case. Want results? Outcompete your competetiors (other men), make yourself competitive. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:37 PM
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I find that hard to believe but okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:18 PM
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You’ve rattled off the usual list of performative liberal causes This is a pretty wild take. What do you find performative about stronger unions and universal healthcare? you haven’t mentioned capitalism because you can’t imagine a world without it lol you’re a walking cliche - BLM, pronouns, call outs, cancelling, etc. I mean...that goes both ways no? Hating women, supporting russian talking points, praising trump and complaining about minorities and racism against white people while claiming t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:17 PM
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You want capitalism with the edges shaved down How would you know what I want? You literally said you don't know me, remember? We also just talked about strawman arguments. I haven't mentioned anything about capitalism, but you're attacking that instead of addressing what I actually said. I'm assuming because you realize it makes you look bad. Phil Ochs was singing mockingly about people like you 50 years ago Are you really a 50 year old virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:50 PM
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So then if they lift the benefit cap AND provide money to ukraine you'd be totally fine with that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:04 PM
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You clearly stated that as a door dash driver his opinions were invalid No, I didn't. I said he wasn't equipped to explain it. Meaning he had no idea what he was talking about. An opinion must be rooted in some form of reality and objectivity about the subject or be strictly based on a feeling. You can have an opinion that there are too many fouls in basketball, you can't say basketball is the reason the economy is doing poorly. implying that someone who does that type of job isn’t worth engagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:58 PM
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The British government isn’t funding the Russian army whilst simultaneously cutting welfare You don't count energy imports (oil, gas,) as funding for the russian army? Is your issue that a single unit with nazi ties may have access to these funds at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:45 PM
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The Ukrainian Army literally has a neo-Nazi battalion So does russia. So why are you only bringing it up to attack ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:28 PM
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You're showing that you are a snob who looks down on others and have no class solidarity. ...what? lol I can think they're an idiot who has no idea what they're talking about AND advocate for them to receive better pay, healthcare, a union etc. Class solidarity isn't just blindly agreeing with people because they're poor. You aren't interested in creating a better world Well one of us advocated for police reform, better wages, stronger unions and better systems to rein in corruption, and the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:11 PM
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You’re quoting sections of comments and claiming I mean something else - e.g. claiming I support Russia because I don’t agree with welfare cuts. All of my quotes directly link to the full comment for context. I also said multiple times that my opinion on your support for russia comes from trying to paint ukraine as being a nazi state while defending russia for the exact same problem. This is like 2-3 times now I've said this. In fact, the only time you DID address it you called out ukraine for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:49 PM
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Belittling someone who does a menial job and dismissing their opinions on that basis? Really are showing your true colours now, comrade lol What does being on the left have to do with accepting uninformed opinions? Also I'm absolutely shocked that you came to defense of someone with far right views. SHOCKED.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:35 PM
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you’re taking comments out of context and trying to claim I’m saying something other than what’s clearly written. I literally linked directly to the comments lol. The context is not being hidden when I'm directly quoting you and responding specifically to your replies attempting to paint them in a different light. It’s well documented that the Ukrainian armed forces contain factions that openly wear Nazi-insignia and are neo-Nazis; denying that would be Orwellian. Pretty interesting that your de…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:26 PM
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The against whom is immaterial Not when it's part of a larger overall pattern of yours to complain about minorities/migrants. People can read my comments No shit, that's why I linked to them lol that the UK government refuses to lift the two child cap and if you weren't an ant natalist on top of all this, I'd actually believe you cared about that. Claiming that makes us pro-Russian is a tiered liberal trope which I’m not going to dignify with a future response. That's probably smart, because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 PM
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Keep that delivery rate up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:30 PM
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and AOC had it down the length of her body. How semantic do you want to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:29 PM
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So to recap; I’m calling out dehumanising rhetoric Against who? Was it a white person you were talking about racism against? opposing cuts to welfare Your specifically said it was "arming nazis" in ukraine. Opposing cuts to welfare is just a way to dress it up some populist rhetoric. No different than complaining about taxes to get funding taken away from programs that help minorities. And I don’t support uncontrolled mass migration You don't support migration from specific countries. There's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:28 PM
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It was in the next line, it kills leftist movements because people spend all their time figuring out is oppressed the most This is a youtube level take. The leftist movement struggles in the US because americans value personal freedom and individual success over societal benefits. No one is fighting over who's more oppressed. so why reply? Because you made a dumb comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:15 PM

To the best of my knowledge, no male politician has ever attended the Met Gala with an empty slogan scrawled on their ass. Eric adams did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:54 PM
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Only in America does leftist = totally open to LGBT, immigration. That's largely one of the dividing lines, yes. What's your point? One of the biggest tricks the media and US govt ever pulled on the American populace is Bro, you're a doordash driver. I'm quite positive you're not equipped to understand or explain the current socio political landscape and how we got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:53 PM
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Then show me where I’ve supported Russia or complained about racism towards white people? So derogatory, dehumanising language is ok as long as it’s directed against white men? Conversely, the UK can somehow afford to fund a future proxy war of attrition by kiting out neo-Nazis to the tune of £3bn a year. It’s s awfully convenient that, when the great unwashed reject the official narrative and develop views that run contrary to the interests of the oligarchy/establishment, the blame can be place…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:47 PM
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Your know your comment history is public right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:56 PM

Why? It’s a charity event that’s supported LGBTQ+ and POC for decades. Just a heads up, he's not that kind of leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:48 PM

Besides your odd comments being supportive of russia, hatred of women, and complaining about racism against white people nothing I guess. I just figured if you could decide who a true leftist is I should be able to as well. Mostly I think you just want an alternative to capitalism because you have absolutely no chance of getting wealthy enough to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:47 PM

Because you're not a true leftist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:35 PM

How would you know what a "true leftist" would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:24 PM

No trust leftist would attend the Met Gala How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:35 PM
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Words I literally never said. You didn't say "a single false accusation is enough to cause skepticism that is a fact"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:27 AM
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You misrepresented me by trying to make it seem like I said “Women are saying the actual amount of rapes doesn’t matter” No I didn't lol. The person I originally replied to said that. I quoted it to you to point out that your logic didn't match with what they were saying. Tell me, how is that not a misrepresentation of my argument? Because I never said it was your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:25 AM
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Asking you to be specific is not semantics lol The fact that you refuse to do so is because you're being disingenuous. You're being vague on purpose. It's the equivalent of someone telling you the deluxe package isn't that much more expensive when it's twice the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:24 PM
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Not a statistically significant amount. What is your definition of a statistically significant amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:13 PM
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you’re intentionally misrepresenting me Asking you to clarify your vague statement of "not a huge amount" is misrepresenting you? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:03 PM
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but yes I think most men nowadays are very wary around women. Where do you live? There were studies coming out that men interact with women a lot less in workplaces now Can you link to this study?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:00 PM
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Nope. Do you know anyone who lives their life this way? Do you think it's common? I know you're just itching to call men who would live that way misogynists though so go ahead. huh? lol Why would I care if some dude wants to be by himself? Most guys in this sub spend the majority of their time alone, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:49 PM
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Rape is more common, but not by a huge amount. Be more specific. How much is a "huge amount"? And the reason so many men are getting mad in this thread, is because most men aren’t ready to hear what women think of them. ? That contradicts the multiple upvoted comments every day that state how common men are bashed in the media and online and real life. I think you're talking yourself into a corner here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:48 PM
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You have multiple comments disagreeing with general scientific consensus for no reason other than you dislike their conclusions, so no I don't think you'd believe it. So like I said, more than you would be willing to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:46 PM
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They do, isn't that what the bear thing is all about? Nope lol If I gave you a box of chocolates and told you one is poisonous, would you still eat it? If eating a box of chocolates was the equivalent to dating, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:40 PM
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To be alone with a woman. Do you genuinely live your life this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:38 PM
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Both rapes and false rape accusations are statically rare Do you agree that one is significantly more common than the other? But the possibility of either happening at all is enough for women to be extremely wary of men, and for men to be extremely wary of women. Then why are so many men in this thread upset at women for being wary of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:37 PM
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That’s not what they’re saying. One group is saying the data is alarming, the other is saying the data doesn’t matter. I didn’t strawman you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:22 PM
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how many of them have committed sexual assault More than you would be willing to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:20 PM
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What other ways do you feel yourself becoming more feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:18 PM
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Women already treat all men as predators until proven otherwise They don’t Why would you be offended Why do you think I’m offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:17 PM
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A risk to take on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:15 PM
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I literally quoted it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:14 PM
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Seeing as I never said that, I think you may be mistaken at best. "A single false accusation is enough to cause skepticism." Skepticism is a fact now? Right So then what are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:36 AM
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everything op said past "unknown" just reveals why we have such massive issues with investigating sexual violence EXPLAIN HOW it discredits what OP said. violence... topic... Stop typing like a 14 year old girl trying to get attention on myspace, it's really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:26 AM
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Women use this logic all the time to justify treating random men as predators. So yes, this logic is societally accepted. But your entire argument agrees with the idea of women being justifiably afraid of rape. You specifically are saying it makes sense for women to treat random men as predators. Are you under the impression that skepticism isn't a feeling? lol Did you realize what you said made no sense and decide not to mention it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:24 AM
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did you miss the part about "unknown" in this op? Explain how that discredits what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:16 AM
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the reason i did bring this up is op's post is on a similiar level of silly without credibility and mainly based on arbitary conclusions + assumptions and data no? Did you miss the multiple studies OP included?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:43 AM
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Women have been talking about the same thing for years now, just for rapists instead of accusations. Women are saying the actual amount of rapes doesn't matter? Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:10 AM
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A single false accusation is enough to cause skepticism. By this logic, a single rape is enough to cause fear. That isn’t a feeling, that is a fact. Are you under the impression that skepticism isn't a feeling? lol That is why you just be proven beyond a reasonable doubt, not a preponderance of the evidence to be convicted in criminal court. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:41 AM
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if the chances of getting raped is around 0,05% false accusations are similiar low... that said we talk past the issue... I don't understand how this relates to what I said at all? My point was that comparing car accidents to rapes is an incredibly stupid way to compare risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:37 AM
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Whatever the rate of false accusations are doesn’t really matter So feelings over facts then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:26 AM
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are you aware that it is more than 20x more likely to be in a car accident than getting raped? I can't imagine how dumb I would have to be to find this surprising or informative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:23 AM
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Why don’t women want anything to do with you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:53 AM
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You can simply watch their actions. You’ll see they magically pursue and date all of these men who have the qualities they don’t care about. It’s totally just a coincidence though right? Her husband and her exes who happened to be around 6ft also had great personalities. She did date that 5’9 guy for 2 weeks that one time. You have invented something to be mad about. This kind of shit is going to cause you SO many problems in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:06 PM

I responded to specifically what you wrote. No you didn't. "Your point was about companies exploiting women and children, by getting them to exploit their parents/men." This is bringing the point back to them exploiting men/parents. When I was specifically saying they exploit everyone. The overall point being that it's not unique for men to be exploited. As usual, when it's women doing something wrong, it's not their fault, but society's fault. And men are somehow implicated and blames equally. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:58 PM
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Your point was about companies exploiting women and children No, my point was that companies exploit everyone. 0/1 Do companies exploit men by getting them to exploit women? If so, can you give some examples? You need to re read the comment I responded to. 0/2 I'm still not seeing how any of this adds up to "women = children" Can you just skip to the part where you actually try and make the point you're dancing around?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:19 AM
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What's the connection between my point about companies exploiting everyone and women being children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:24 PM

You forgot to add the satire tag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:51 PM

Calling something manipulative and human trafficking is “giving a shit” It means you care about the act of exploitation and manipulation, not the people doing it. The person you were responding to was making a point that women aren't losing out on passport bros. They don't care if they go overseas to find someone. That has nothing to do with caring about actual abuse they might commit once there. I have no idea how you could find this difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:52 AM

The literal wall of women under you who are calling it manipulative, and going so far as to call it “human trafficking” seem to disagree That's a completely separate issue and doesn't actually refute their point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:38 AM

But now, men are waking up. They’re realizing they have other options. Instead of tolerating the Western dating scene, they can look abroad, where they don’t have to sift through women with past “hoe phases,” radical feminists, or those with overly masculine or entitled attitudes. Thinking there's enough men doing this to even be considered a "movement" that would threaten the average woman is the biggest sign I've ever seen someone needs to take a break from the internet. Passport bros are remo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:35 AM

are you going to hold individuals against a whole movement or ideology When those individuals are the mods? Yes Like what point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:26 AM

So you think men just want women to like them? That's it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:23 AM

I had no idea I was so rare! This sub is fantastic for self esteem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:08 AM
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They also use children to exploit parents and women to exploit men. If they can make money on it, they’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:01 PM
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Yeah it's definitely possible that the gaslighting and abuse triggered something for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:03 AM
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So these were just unstable, mentally ill women. Not women who couldn’t resist you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:45 AM
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Were they stalking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:35 AM
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You're taking it as a debate but it doesn't have to be that way at all. It's no different than a friend knowing you would enjoy something if you gave it a chance and pushing you to trust in the experience. Obviously there's a line, but having someone encourage you to be your best is invaluable. I went out with this lawyer chick once and it felt like every other statement I made there was some pushback. It's more like you wanting to try karoake and being shy so you never do it, and she helps push…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:57 PM
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but it doesn't make sense to me how pursuing a degree in liberal arts, or her accounting job suddenly makes someone better at conversation. The more life experience someone has, the more interesting conversation with them will be is a pretty general rule to live by. Doesn't just go for women either. You ever try talking to a NEET about anything other than anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:52 PM
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Divorce is failure. Divorce happens when you either fucked up at picking a person...Both are shameful and horrible and both mean you fucking failed. I'm guessing she left you and took everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:49 PM
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being ripped is seen as an expected standard When was the last time you were in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:43 AM

It's not just gals that downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:23 AM
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Your example of killing people in video games is dumb because the consequence is that you can go to jail. My what? I never said that lol Did you even read my comment? Rough sex won't kill you. It might hurt, but that's the point for some women. Okay?....I'm not seeing whatever point you're trying to make. How does the lethality of rough sex affect anything we're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:02 AM
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What are you talking about? Everyone has fantasies that they would never pursue in reality. It's pretty normal actually? How many people imagine themselves in a different career or job or something but would never actually follow through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:28 PM
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It is a well known fact that around 60% of women watch pornography and are more likely then men to watch degrading and rough stuff like gangbangs. In fact, women are 113% more likely to seek out rough pornography then men. You said this like it was some revelation by itself? lol What's the connection? There's plenty of dudes who are into combat footage/fight videos/gore videos that would get nervous making eye contact let alone dealing with blood or confrontation. In fact, women are 113% more li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:08 AM
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Your evidence for them being pro feminist is that they’re pro feminist? Strong argument. the majority of therapy is based on talking things out Yeah talking things out is chapter one in the feminist playbook. despite men desperately needing their services Didn’t you just say talk therapy works for women instead of men? lol it would be world shattering news Kind of hard to argue against a totally made up scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:34 AM
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What part of therapy heavily emphasizes feminism? That doesn’t even make sense. They’re completely different fields with different focuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:11 AM
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You need to add some cream and sugar to your comment, it’s way too bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:03 AM
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The hard, icky emotions are part of the package No they aren’t? lol There’s a ton of better solutions for what you’re describing. After you get a handle on the extreme emotional outbursts you can bring a partner/friend into the process but until then you’re going to push everyone away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:00 AM
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It's not that deep bro Dude said it was saving lives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:25 PM
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So redpill solved everything, and made you starved for attention? ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:16 PM
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I don't care what anyone says So then why post to a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:09 PM
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If people becoming poorer and regression in technological capability/competence isn't a problem or a "real practical issue" then I guess there's really not much else to say. Why would people become poorer? A return to local businesses would put more money in the average persons hands instead of corporations. The people getting wealthiest from automation are the people who need it the least. But I don't think average people really share your view. Ask the average rural trump voter how they feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:34 AM
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I know this is all hypotheticals, but since your position is based on it, I'm trying to understand the real practical issues. What do we rely on that's not providable from a less automated solution? Why would we just not simply scale down? It's not like our society runs on rocket ships or something. If amazon up and disappeared tomorrow there would be ramifications but it would just mean a return to local purchasing and longer wait times, less money in the economy. All things we can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:10 AM
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This dude trying to cast harry potter spells as a comeback lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:45 AM
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In complex societies where resource processing and utilization is a complex process relying on systems of scale and assumptions of ROI that's a poor assumption. Why would society collapse from this instead of adapting? What do we rely on that's not entirely providable from a less automated solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:43 AM
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but trying to get closer to those people never works out. Is it fair to say that that the more people get to know you the less they like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:14 AM
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Fixing this list would be a real, tangible, logical solution to Democrat's dogshit marketing. At least, a (very) partial one. Failing that, they should take it down. Sure. Unfortunately it's much harder to do that when one side refuses to compromise on anything and then threatens to shut everything down if they don't get their way. One side is electing people to implement solutions and the other side is electing people to flip the board over and not play. How is that on democrats? What if we add…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:01 PM
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Of course you do. That's how you play the game. So are we discussing the actual issues or just feelings and optics? I was under the impression the men in this sub wanted real, tangible, logical solutions. You still haven't answered why it's fine for Democrats to pander to everyone except men. Because I don't see that list as pandering. Adding a section just to make men feel warm and fuzzy inside WOULD be. The alternative, that you may not be ready to admit to yourself, is that it is rational, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:14 PM
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Who cares? The women's section doesn't mention any laws. Just acknowledge the problems. Fair enough, I guess we do need more pandering in politics. As to conservatives, you should watch this: Use your words. Pay close attention when they talk about not just convincing voters to like you, but convincing voters that you like them. Telling people you don't expect their votes because they lack empathy is, uh, not a winning strategy. I literally said it's easier to do that when you lie. Like bro, c'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:09 PM

Lets see, suicide, education, homelessness, incarceration... the list goes on. What laws would you like to see passed to help with suicide? Honestly this one is always just so weird to see brought up as a failing point for the left because I genuinely can't think of a single fuckin thing conservatives have ever done to help with mental health in this country and somehow they get a pass on that. But I know it's no use arguing. You feel these issues aren't unique enough to men, or that men have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:32 PM

Why? What message do you think that sends? That there are still political battles to be fought on women's behalf that are unique to them? What would you suggest putting in the mens section if they added it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:08 PM

The left's marketing isn't anti-men per se, it's just pro-everything-except-men. Men are a major part of the majority of the groups listed? What are you talking about? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:03 PM

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:01 PM

if Hitler had restricted his mass murder of Jews, Slavs, Roma, homosexuals, Communists, and other people he considered undesirable to men only, historians probably wouldn't remember him as the most evil person who ever lived. After all, who outside the Balkans speaks of the Srebrenica massacre today? Hard disagree. Those events aren't brought up or considered widely because they just don't have the same impact, if you look at scale or history wise. There's genocides involving the japanese, armen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:56 PM
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BUYADOGDIEALONE Idk if Kevin Samuel’s had a dog but he definitely died alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:23 AM
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What an ironic statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:51 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:36 AM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything lol. I was just letting you know you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:30 AM
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Strong argument. You convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:09 AM
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I don't see the correlation, being emotionally supportive shouldn't be as difficult as carrying someone around Then you've probably never been on the receiving end of someone who's using you for that so it's going to be hard for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:35 PM
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That notion itself has to be examined though. A lot of men are conditioned to think this way as they grow up. I think it's been examined to death, but I don't disagree overall. People are largely the result of their childhoods so it's difficult to break negative habits like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:29 PM
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Why is emotionally supporting your partner problematic? Is that not what you should be doing? The analogous situation would be like helping your partner walk when they twisted an ankle, vs physically carrying them everywhere. Personally I avoid telling anyone about my problems because people are so self absorbed and most likely don't want to hear about it. Would you say you live a mentally healthy enjoyable life at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:26 PM
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Are women more receptive than men to being supported? Yes. All you have to do is read some of the comments from men in this sub anytime the idea of supporting each other or even more importantly seeking out support comes up. Too many dudes on this sub think saying "I'm fine" is a substitution for talking about the issues they're dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:22 PM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:19 PM
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Self censorship is weakness. Say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:14 PM
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The lack of self awareness is stunning. "What did I make up? Be specific. What was my argument? Be specific" lol let me refer you to your previous post Nothing I said was made up though lol. Multiple other people have said the same thing in this comment chain. I mean do you even read what you type? I can't ask for any evidence for your claims, I can't ask you to be specific about points you're trying to make. Why even bother hanging out in a debate sub if you're going to melt down anytime anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:53 AM
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You haven't been right about a single thing this entire exchange, you're just making shit up. What did I make up? Be specific. you made a failed argument What was my argument? Be specific. when it turns out I wasn't pivoting I was backing up my original argument Yeah I always bring up my original argument 10 comments AFTER the fact too. even though I was too stupid to read your original argument This doesn't even make sense lol What would reading your original comment have to do with being smart…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:10 AM
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What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:05 AM
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Once I spell out a more nuanced position Took you quite a while to finally admit I was right. I'm sure this has been a very humbling experience for you and you'll probably think twice before deciding to get thrashed again. For the record, you made a bad argument, couldn't defend it, changed it, couldn't defend that either, didn't provide any sources to your claims, threw a tantrum, got exposed for being a friendless virgin and then threatened to send me pics of yourself to prove that you're cool…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:02 AM
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I assumed I wasn't arguing with an illiterate moron, it was my mistake. "It's your fault I didn't read your original comment that spawned all the discourse this discussion is based on!" Keep coping. It's no one's fault. It's just...like not relevant to anything we were debating. Like I said, if it was important, you would have told me to read it immediately, and not 7 comments later after you ran out of ways to defend your argument. If you could back up the point you originally made, you would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:55 AM
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Lmao so you didn't even read my original post. I read the one I replied to lol. If you felt like the point I responded to was being taken out of context, you would have said so immediately, NOT as a defense to me saying you changed your argument. What a completely clueless idiot. "Waaah you had a completely different argument! You're not allowed to use multiple arguments!" Just pathetic lol. Remember when you accused me of getting emotional and uncomfortable? You're throwing an actual tantrum lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:32 AM
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You need to go reread the very first comment I made in this thread, that is if you even read it in the first place. Not my first or second reply to other comments where i express skepticism over the institution of therapy, read my original comment. I literally could not have articulated a clearer position, it seem like you've either forgotten it or never read it in the first place So your current argument is bad because I didn't read a completely different comment that makes a completely differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:18 AM
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Refusing to address my arguments by pretending they're irrelevant when they directly contradict your worldview is not an argument. I literally addressed your argument, then you changed it to something no one was disagreeing with. Are you even reading what I'm saying? The idea of overcoming depression doesn't contradict anything I've said. It's still irrelevant to the idea of therapy being useless. You have not cited one fact in this discussion. Well yeah, because I don't need a citation to tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:13 PM
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My point is well defined in that it is clearly possible to overcome depression Cool, I'm proud of you for setting your own goals in this discussion. Unfortunately It has absolutely nothing to do with what we're talking about because I never disagreed with that. You stated that therapy doesn't cure depression and anxiety, I explained that the reason for that is that it can't be cured. You then changed your statement to overcoming depression. Why are therapists so bad at helping people manage it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:11 AM
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You absolutely can make a full recovery from depression or anxiety I notice you did not use the word cure. It may be chronic in certain cases but to approach these conditions with the mindset that you cannot overcome them That's not what I said. You approach drug addiction with the mindset that it's a lifelong condition you have to manage too. That doesn't mean you're acting like you can't overcome it. You have no idea what you're talking about yet you're asserting yourself as some person who un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:48 AM
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I know many people in therapy, and in no instance have any of them ever been cured of their condition. You can't cure depression/anxiety. Even still, I know people who have successfully completed therapy and gone on to have extremely fulfilling lives. How is anecdotal evidence helpful? When you go to a doctor you get cured of your ailment. When you go to a therapist, your mental health may or may not show any improvements. Absolutely terrible argument. What doctor cures you of MS or muscular dys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:14 AM
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can you and all the other therapy worshipers explain why despite more people than ever going to therapy, people are more depressed and anxious than they've ever been? Why do you believe it's impossible for both numbers to rise? This just makes you look like you don't understand percentages/statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:43 AM
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I am not attacking women or calling them bad or promiscuous in this post. You literally said a significant amount of women are cheating on their bf or fucking 3 separate guys while online dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:29 PM
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They're weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:10 AM
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Yes, but then dismissed it once I read this dudes comments because he was definitely being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 AM
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if you didn't read it, how did you know it was condescending? lol you're so bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:31 PM
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I have no idea if the person I replied to was a man or woman, I was calling out their obviously bullshit story. How exactly is that a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:30 PM
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It's what the behavior is associated with that lowers attraction, not the specific behavior itself. ? Do you need me to retype what I said? He went from independent to being dependent on her during the time span in their relationship, emotionally dependent that is, financially nothing changed. This is incredibly vague. Be specific, emotionally dependent how? and why? I know that some men dislike "clingy" women but the difference is that most of those men would still find the woman sexually appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:48 AM
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Answer what? You didn't ask me anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:14 PM
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Yeah no it's you going to the attack over a spelling mistake That's literally all that happened. Anything else is purely your insecurity at play. He's worried about being in a room alone due to his fear of having a false allegation made on him, in a political landscape where that is a common tactic (clearly). I'm surprised you needed that explaining. I didn't both because that's old news and secondly because it's irrelevant to what we're talking about. if you think being alone with someone is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:53 PM
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How does being in a room with someone alone put someone at risk? .... You honestly can't see how any dangerous event could result? Wow I mean, maybe the room catches fire or a plane crashes into the building, but we're talking risk assessment right? So we're talking about the likelihood of something bad happening. The risk of two coworkers in a room is so low as to not even be worth considering. Congratulations for laughing at someone's disability. That alone shows your character. I'm laughing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:35 PM
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You wanna point out where I'm putting them down? Are you saying you brought it up as a positive example of women? Calling out someone for wronging you =/= putting them down You're not talking about specifics, or about anything happening to YOU. You're talking about women in general. No one wronged you in this scenario so why are you trying to play the victim? I answered the question already. I know, like I said, you haven't experienced this and you're just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:17 PM
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It's not specifically crying, it's behaving in a manner that the woman in question consider effeminate. The person I'm responding to specified crying. It sounds like you're talking about something else entirely. it wasn't because he specifically cried but he did exhibit effeminate behaviour. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:14 PM
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I think it's more likely she put you in the creepy tier, and YOU equate that to being in the wade wilson tier. Which if we're being honest, doesn't make any sense for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:11 PM
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Great. I'm dyslexic lol What law is not taking measures to ensure the safety of your staff or anyone related to your work? Are you being serious? You're intentionally removing the context of your own argument lol "I don't think any conversation regarding public office should be held in total secret between two people." How does a conversation between two people at work put the safety of staff at risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:09 PM
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I don’t think any conversation regarding public office should be held in total secret between two people Then your opinion is pretty much irrelevant because that’s not realistic or feasible. Also, it’s witness. Not whiteness. saying it’s too much hassle to keep people reasonably safe is actually illegal What law is it breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:14 AM
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Have you ever considered the possibility that in that specific moment, you WERE being creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:08 AM
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Who? Where? Why? What women? "The vast majority of women will grill a man for crying." Them? Read above It's a really simple and straightforward question. You won't answer because it's obvious you've never experienced this in person and you don't want to admit you're just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:22 AM
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There is no fucking chance you've seen a woman flip a table at work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:11 AM
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Ma'am I don't know why y'all feel it's your responsibility to explain away the wrongdoings of women you don't know anything about How is this any different from feeling like it's your responsibility to put down imaginary women you don't know anything about? go back and forth with me about shit i've seen in person You've personally witnessed a woman grill her husband/boyfriend for crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:07 AM
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How adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:22 PM
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Skill issue. Just learn to dodge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:42 AM
0

What experience are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:40 AM
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Men arnt allowed to cry, because other men would make fun of them. But other men generally don't do that. lol? You could at least TRY to be objective about this dude. Were you homeschooled? Men make fun of each other for literally anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:40 PM
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You really do seem to be suffering from some kind of traumatic brain injury
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:53 AM

modern day society is built of this intentionally misleading interpretation. lmao what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:46 AM
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I don't think you have the personal experience needed to discuss this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:54 PM
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When women talk about taking their boyfriends to a bar to flirt with men and force him to engage in "mate guarding" other women should make them accountable for their abuse. FDS is essentially red pill for women. The reason women don't hold them accountable for anything is probably because they have no idea that site/ideology exists. It's so incredibly niche that it's a dead giveaway that you're terminally online. My ex-gf slapped me for a stupid joke about a TV character and no women held her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:46 PM

I don't watch/follow women's fitness accounts so you'll have to do the research on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:26 PM
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They are firmly subsumed in the blue pilled fantasy. The guys with red pill flairs who make red pill and conservative arguments are part of the blue pilled fantasy? lol ok Normal dudes feel inspired to go to the gym and start lifting when they see bodybuilders Inspired or turned on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:55 PM
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dudes don't care about unrealistic body standards. The guys on this sub frequently complain about unrealistic body standards. I mean how many threads has there been about women wanting men who are a certain height or build? Sam is on gear The only relevant part of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:42 PM

Candace Owens also has clueless takes at times but I really like still. Candace is the kind of person who's so disingenuous and dishonest that even Rogan of all people called her out to her face. It's mind-blowing that she still has a following.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:38 PM

They would probably even accuse Sam Sulek of being problematic Being a fitness influencer while taking steroids to create an unrealistic body standard is hugely problematic. What are you talking about? lol It would be no different than a woman taking ozempic or having certain surgeries done and then filming herself doing a couple squats as if that's all you need to do to attain her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:02 PM
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The internet has completely cooked your brain dude. You need to touch all kinds of grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:12 AM
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As a man you’re the one who has to make the plans to go out, you’re the one who plans the vacation trips This immediately gives away that you are not speaking from first hand experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:02 AM
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I'm a heterosexual male lol having some kind of "success" rate at all can be thought of respectable. If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:50 PM
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It is working… 5% is a pretty respectable rate. lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:04 PM
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There is a reason I spend 2.5k on botox a year, am jacked, and sitting in my spray tan from this morning right now. lmao I wish this was short enough to use as a flair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:22 PM
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It’s very healthy and helps him get laid with improving success. Then why isn't it working? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:15 PM
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Women would still rather choose to be reincarnated into a beautiful woman, even if it means increased risk of stalking, groping, being roofied, or SA. What are you using to determine these kind of things happen to "beautiful" women more than "ugly" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:24 PM
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Kind of like how women don't only message the top 20% of men. That only strengthens my point lol Because of all the word games you chose to play, you forgot we were talking about how visual men vs women are. I didn't forget, I just figured you were giving up on it with your weak attempt at backtracking. Did you have an actual response?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:09 PM
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No, the whole point of 80 20 is that it is the same 20. That's what online goobers have twisted it into, but it's not true lol. You think women get hot for Danny devito the same way they do Chico lakowski? You think Danny is part of the 20%? You really think devito is representative of the bottom 80 percent? Even still, I think the average woman knows she has no shot with chico, so her interest in him isn't based on anything real. The reason women still message guys not apart of the 20% is becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:44 PM
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"the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway." This is what you're using to prove that only the top 20% of men receive messages? Also This graph also dramatically illustrates just how much more important a woman’s looks are than a guy’s. But men are less visual right? Also, I never in this thread wanted to claim women are more visual based than men. I would suggest not making stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:24 PM
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You really expect me to believe you've never heard of the 80/20 talking point? I've only ever seen it in comments, which isn't a valid source lol I'll get the sources Will this also include your reason for why you think women are more visually based when it comes to attraction? I asked this like 3 comments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:52 PM
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I am absolutely shocked that you're not even going to attempt to defend your point lol I didn't see this coming at all! and definitely didn't call that you had no idea what you were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:42 PM
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Frankly, debating you is going to be exhausting. I can imagine it would be when you have no idea what you're talking about lol How about we start with why you believe women to be less visual than men. Men are generally more interested in and responsive to visual sexually arousing stimuli than are women. What then contributes to only 20% of men getting matches on OLD? Can you link to where you're getting this stat from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:38 PM
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My question was asked in good faith. That makes you the dumb one because my point was REALLY simple. Women are not "less visual" than men. Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:14 PM
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Sorry I didn't realize I would need to literally walk you through this step by step. You used women's lack of attraction to most men as an example of the rigid standard of appearance men are held to. But those two things aren't strictly related especially since visual attraction for women isn't as necessary like it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:02 PM
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Consult the lack of body positivity for men and how women rate 80% of men unattractive. You're looking at this from a guy's perspective. They're not connected for women like they are for men. For example there are objectively attractive women that I would never be willing to date. Has nothing to do with their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:50 PM
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If I were 6ft tall, perhaps my mental health wouldn't suffer this much to begin with? So you'd be slightly happier but still undateable. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:19 PM
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Nothing can help the fact that you'd still be single and unlikeable at 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:19 PM
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Using myself as an example, I know what my problem is. My problem is that most women want nothing to do with short men, and I am a short man. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:13 PM
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It did, you just didn't get it It didn't. You seem incapable of just giving a straightforward simple answer on what a man's duties are like you are for women. You actually seem incapable of discussing men in any context other than by comparing them positively to women. The point is that women are responsible for picking men that won't fulfill their duties What duties? In the absolute majority of cases a degenerate man is known for being a degenerate, he has a reputation, a past, etc. For people …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:49 AM
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That….didnt answer my question at all. You’ve given me what you believe a woman’s duty is. So what is a man’s duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:53 AM
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I think people are downvoting because they don't believe you have a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:15 AM
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It's a woman's duty to pick the right man as the father of her children What is the man's duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:09 AM
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Why do I sense you are actually crying. I am concerned. Are you ok? Hey everyone, look at what a good guy I'm being! Hey! Look at me!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:05 AM
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But that’s not a fact, it the opposite. huh? You literally have not answered the questions I asked you to multiple times. How is that not a fact? Please answer this specifically because I'm starting to wonder if you're an ai. Your inability to understand how corroborative evidence works is telling. You're not understanding that I don't find your sources trustworthy or compelling. That's not a failure to understand corroborative evidence at all. You are repeatedly refusing to address or acknowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:04 AM
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But I LITERALLY just posted sources and links above, with multiple corroborated reports, that clearly demonstrates Imane has a Y chromosome. No, you posted sources and links that refer to an allegation a disgraced organization made about imane having a Y chromosome. This has never been officially proven and is pushed back against by other doctors stating that imane was born, raised as, and is living as a woman. Like you have to accept that this is not confirmed in any way and is in dispute. You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:39 PM
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How do you not realize you are clearly wrong here, intentionally lying, and not addressing my direct question despite the tons of evidence I presented? ....what? What did I intentionally lie about, or not address? Be specific. Like I can’t agree with you just because you want me to, despite all the objective evidence demonstrating you are wrong I don't think you understand what I was saying. I was specifically talking about saying I was acting in bad faith. I never said you needed to agree with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:30 PM
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It would help if you actually read my comment because I already answered this. No, I don't agree that imane having a Y chromosome is a proven fact. I elaborated further on why it wouldn't matter either way too. and you still haven't answered any of my questions after accusing me of acting in bad faith. Like at this point you have to admit you were wrong, there's no way you can justify it to yourself any further right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:09 PM
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Imane has a Y chrosmome. I take it you finally agree with that fact? Yes or no? No, because you still haven't shown proof of this. This is still an allegation made by an organization with a history of fraud and lying. Did you forget this entire derailment was started from the sam harris argument? He stated that biological men were in the Olympics with women, Imane having a Y chromosome does not make her a biological male. Do you agree or disagree with that? You still haven't answered any of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:16 PM
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Imane has a Y chrosmome. I take it you finally agree with that fact? Yes or no? No, because you still haven't shown proof of this. This is still an allegation made by an organization with a history of fraud and lying. Did you forget this entire derailment was started from the sam harris argument? He stated that biological men were in the Olympics with women, Imane having a Y chromosome does not make her a biological male. Do you agree or disagree with that? You still haven't answered any of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:15 PM
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"‘Those tests are not legitimate,’ he said. ‘The tests themselves, the process of the tests, the ad hoc nature of the tests are not legitimate. ‘There's no reason for the test. The test was, as far as we can see, taken arbitrarily. 'The decision which I've seen reported related also to the competition where one of the boxers beat a Russian boxer.’" The IBA was banned from the Olympics for fraud and shady practices. Their test was NOT legitimate. ""We then worked with a doctor based in Algeria to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:42 PM
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Imane Khelif has a Y chromosome. This was a claim that has never been backed up or proven by anyone legitimate. Let’s settle this fact before continuing the rest of this discussion. By discussion, you mean ignoring all of the questions I asked right? If Imane was XX, there would be no controversy. Well that's just not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:59 PM
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You need to put the effort and tell me what you specifically disagree with him his article. I was already very specific in my issue but since you need more time to formulate a response I'll state it again. The section you quoted is talking about biological men fighting women at the olympics. Except this didn't happen. He even acknowledges that Imane Khelif isn't trans, but says it's not the point. It's like complaining about accidents caused by drivers high on weed, and then mentioning that ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:45 PM
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This is the problem with people like you; you’re incapable of engaging in good faith and are full of objectively wrong beliefs and no evidence or hard data or facts is going to change your mind alas. This point would be much stronger if I hadn't asked you multiple times for examples of what you were claiming along with dodging every question I asked. Your literal only example of the "woke mind virus" is saying that democrats have become pro/for biological men competing in athletics, all based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:16 AM
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Is there a reason you didn't actually address anything I said? Your sam harris article section is based on a lie, Biden and the white house supported trans rights, including allowing them to compete in athletics under their correct gender since before 2020. I’m pro trans rights. I don't believe you. How do you not understand the difference between biological sex and gender identity? Why do you think I don't? The democrats went from supporting trans rights in 2020 to utter woke stupidity and deni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:52 AM
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They were not so openly in denial of reality in 2020 Biden made a ton of pledges to the LGBT community, including recognizing the transgender day of visibility. What are you basing "not so openly in denial of reality" on? The entire article is a great read I have a hard time believing that considering the section you included is based on a lie. Does he do a better job fact checking in the rest of the article? Democrats need to become once again the party of science, reality, free speech etc. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 PM
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Give me some specifics, what wokeness was added to the campaign that wasn't there in 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 PM
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Damn man didn't know you were there. Is this what you said to your son after he fell?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:07 PM
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Exactly, listen everyone, calm down. This guy didn't let his baby fall down a flight of stairs while he was playing video games. It was a TODDLER, there's a difference. I gotchu bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:38 PM
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Babies sleep most of the day. You can chill when they're doing that. When they're not asleep you're literally changing them, feeding them, or playing with them. Stop acting like it's hard work. This is coming from the same guy that let his toddler fall down a flight of stairs because he wasn't watching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:54 PM
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Like I said it's a side job lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:31 PM
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"Working at DoorDash is an exhilarating ride that’ll never be boring. You’ll have the opportunity to blaze a new path for industry-defining work, and the satisfaction of achieving goals you set for yourself. If you’re looking for a place that will define your career and help you grow beyond what you thought possible, come build with us."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:09 PM
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I'm not triggered "you're a fucking low life loser!!!" "God you're insufferable" "You're an unhinged twat" "you seem like unhinged, whining little bitch." "You're a fucking clown dude." "You have absolutely no life boy. Do you think I really care what you have to say?" lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:38 PM
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and you're triggered as fuck. What is that like 6 comments in an hour across my profile? I'm guessing it's a slow day sitting in a parking lot hoping someone orders something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 PM

Ah, planning to go out with a “bang” huh? Makes sense. The cowards way till the very end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:18 AM

Anything taken away can be given back. In the long run women will be fine. You’ll be lonely until the day your body is discovered by a neighbor calling in a welfare check.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:10 AM

You deserve your loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:20 AM
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but when it comes to masculinity liberals either say it’s toxic or say nothing at all I totally disagree. Can you give examples of the mainstream democratic platform saying this? liberals have been losing men for a while, and that trend has simply been accelerated in the recent election. It's semantics, but I don't think liberals are losing men as much as conservatives are gaining them. Those men just don't like the liberal answers and that's the reality. It's the reason subs like this exist. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:29 AM
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The left has either said that masculinity is toxic (e.g. negative) or that any positives of masculinity are equally applicable to women (therefore saying it doesn't exist as a male-specific trait) This isn't true at all though. Ignoring the fact that I don't think this is a major part of the democrat platform, I also think saying that toxic masculinity exists does not mean that masculinity in itself is toxic. Just like I'm sure a conservative would say when their leaders speak about "radical isl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:19 PM
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Shouldn’t you hope for something more realistic? Like time travel or a magic lamp?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:56 PM
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they cannot appeal to men without acknowledging that masculinity exists, that masculinity is important, and that masculinity is positive. Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:54 PM
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I only mentioned identity politics once Everything you talked about is identity politics, you just don’t want to think of it that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:53 PM
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The dems will never ever win until they ditch the woke We won in 2020, and 2022, what has changed about the democratic platform since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:45 PM
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Trump repeatedly brought up Harris’s race, called her retarded, and ran a ton of ads about how she’s going to turn criminals into transgender rapists, how is that not identity politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:40 PM
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Did you even read what you replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:32 PM
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My point is that you can whine about American voters’ being stupid all you like; but it won’t get you into power. I never said it would though, you're making a point I'm not arguing against because I'm not talking about the election. I'm talking about how american voters are viewing the legacies of biden vs bush. You blame the electorate. My dude. This isn't a situation of 6 of 1 or a half dozen of the other. The dems failed to connect with voters this election/presidency. That's fine. That does…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:09 AM
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It’s not irrelevant to the point I was making, which is that the American voters priorities are misinformed and harmful. I have no idea what point you think you’re making right now because I never denied what you said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:41 PM

I don't know how you can say with a straight face that it makes sense for the country to think a president who fabricated evidence to send us to 2 wars that lasted multiple decades, crashed the economy, and failed to stop multiple terrorist attacks did a better job than biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:41 AM

Biden’s approval rating is now sitting below Bush post-Katrina Which is genuinely insane and more of a sad indictment of how reactionary and uninformed American voters are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:00 AM
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Disagreeing with a woman (or an effete man) on how they reach voters unlike them is not blaming women Sure....but that's not what happened lol They just lost an election, I'm not pulling this out of my ass This again, is not what I was discussing with the other person. I know you're REALLY excited to get your hot takes out there with everyone else, but it's really not relevant. Irrationality is sort of the forte of liberal ideology, and with women being more liberal in general it can be confusin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:49 PM
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But your only reason is that men are sexist When did I say that? I'm not blaming women "Cool, your thought process is just irrational like one" So it's just a coincidence that you default to blaming a woman for making a reply you disagreed with? And then stated that they were acting like a woman when you found out you were wrong? You implied men aren't talking about those issues "organically" other than abortion which is a crock of shit. Nope. I outlined the specific issues I was talking about. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:14 PM
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This reply proves my point lol, you can't understand that because you're too far in your ideology Use your words, explain what I'm missing. Cool, your thought process is just irrational like one, then and your thought process is to immediately blame women when you're upset or disagree. lol Literally the definition of being triggered. Not in this thread, but they sure as fuck were talked about during the election season we just had What does that have to do with what I was responding to? The firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:46 PM
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In a thread about why Democrats fail at attracting men of all sorts If trump was an actual answer to any of these issues then it'd be much more understandable. and women's ONLY takeaway is misogyny I'm not a woman. Men do not organically worry about things like economics or foreign policy They do, but those aren't the issues we're talking about are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:05 PM
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Democrats are just piss poor on messaging In their defense it's hard to craft a message for someone that refuses to believe you, seeks alternative media that lies about your message and in the rare event the message gets through, it's dismissed and replaced by the opposite concern? For example, keep an eye out for how many people talk about how poorly their 401k is doing or was doing under biden, even though the stock market was hitting all time highs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:53 AM
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What case are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:44 AM

I'm not talking about the type of circumcision that is a personal choice. Genuine question, what are you talking about then? I often wonder what we should do though. If we aren't pieces of shit and want to be taken seriously or given the same consideration we give women's issues, or hell, just not be made fun of/denigrated. Men have got to stop treating everything as a fight or war and embrace the self love/self help mental health model women got into years and years ago. leftists have got to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:35 AM
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"Within the first six weeks" is unreasonable, but it is not a ban. Obviously. This is basic English language proficiency. It's a catch 22, it was written specifically to be nearly impossible to meet the requirements. Legally the impact is the same. Understanding this might require some advanced English language proficiency though, so I'm sorry :( but I'm not as angry at the decision as you are. Why does this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:25 AM
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Abortion is not banned in Florida "a similar proposal in Florida fell just short of the threshold of 60% support needed in order to pass, winning just 57% support. The defeat will let stand the strict law the state enacted earlier this year, banning abortion after the sixth week of pregnancy, with limited exceptions." Are you personally affected? Are you? Literally the only answer I could give to this that would meet your criteria would be to be 7 weeks pregnant in florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:19 PM
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No point in wasting political capital on an issue he's already declared victory on. Trump does not operate on political capital. It doesn't affect him and he doesn't care. The only thing he cares about is his supporters opinions of him. His hardcore base will definitely want a national ban, and he'll at least attempt it so he can say he tried or they stopped him. This is how he operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:58 PM

I think it's sometimes that discussions about feminism is what triggers men to think about issues they face What doesn't trigger men these days? Tv shows, comic books, sports, music, dating apps, flags, parades, politics Just add it to the list of never ending events that men use to whine about everything that bothers them. I do see circumcision brought up organically quite often and still met with sarcastic dismissive attitudes from women though. It's not just women, a LOT of men have a sarcast…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:52 PM
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There’s more access than ever before Literally not true lol This is just common sense. more abortion being performed than before it was oveturned. Similar to gun sales hitting an all time high when the assault rifle bans were being proposed when Obama was elected. Statistically, the math aint mathing. On what? You're not making any kind of specific point or statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:41 PM
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The number of abortions in Florida has risen substantially, last I looked, as people from across the southeast flock there to get an abortion. I'm guessing you made sure to look before may when the ban took place? I don't like that they have to do that Well good news for you because the ballot failed, so florida won't be a destination for that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:38 PM
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Why don't we focus on the sexual predators that cause this to begin with. Maybe we should have done that before electing one to the white house on tuesday, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:33 PM
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There are more abortion clinics where it IS legal than there were before Roe was overturned. It would only take a single new abortion clinic opened after roe was overturned for your statement to be correct lol What point do you think you're making?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:25 PM

It seems like any time any men's issue is mentioned it's met with "yeah but women have it worse". It's because usually men only mention those issues to attack or diminish women. Those issues aren't being brought up in an organic setting to actually be discussed. It's like the whole outcry about "when is international mens day going to be a thing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:21 PM
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You should stop being unattractive and see if things change then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:13 AM
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How do you know they weren’t legitimate? Did they ever tell you why they were going to remove you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:59 PM
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I don’t care how drunk the guy is if he has sex with a woman clearly drunk I never said anything about women being too drunk to consent. Where did you get this from? that’s where most of this regret comes from is creeps. I thought you said women only go for the elite top guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:37 PM
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They don’t go to the bar/club and say let’s go have casual sex with a trash bag This is such a common experience that they've made movies based on the premise. You've never heard a woman regret sleeping with a guy the night before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:55 PM
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And since blue pilled men are less masculine than red pilled men, you don’t have the experience that more masculine men have. There's no way you actually thought this was a good insult lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:48 PM
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I’ve never known a woman in my entire life no matter how unattractive or how attractive that went on dates with guys she didn’t know, that weren’t clearly above average to elite level desirable men. I think you're confusing a very very specific group of women in a social bubble and conflating what they do with all women. lmao what? I've known plenty of women who dated absolute trash bags at different points in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:47 PM
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When were we debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:16 AM
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That wasn't a counterargument. I was making fun of you for bringing up women fucking cell phones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:57 PM
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Meanwhile women fuck dogs, horses and cell phones. Cell phones? lol Did you really run out of examples after dogs and horses and just decide to throw one more in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:20 PM
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oh!!! so you are a racist. I think parts of california smell like shit too. How does thinking a place smells mean I'm racist? Sure, like in the US all the cases are followed up, right? No, our police our beyond useless. They're just much harder to pay off/bribe so the type of corruption is different. atleast our convicted rapists are in jail. Running around free Do you even know who is the main culprit? lol. Shows you are just a racist I have no idea what point you think you're making here? How …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:19 PM
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Are you ready to face the truth instead of twitter algorithms painting India in a bad light? I don't need twitter to see india in a bad light lol. I could just use my sense of smell instead. This shows, percentage of rapes in India is much lower You mean the percentage of cases that are followed up on by police and properly investigated is much lower. We have a really bad false accusation problem Who was falsely accused in the recent rape and murder of the doctor trainee?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:02 PM
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Neither cosby or weinstein were acquitted. Their decisions were overturned, there's a huge difference. It's why weinstein will probably be tried again. It's also kind of ironic to use examples of 2 rich and powerful men found guilty of sexual assault getting off on technicalities as an example of metoo being bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:46 PM
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Absolutely wild to use india of all places as an example of men having fear of backlash for SA against women. Sure, even hitler had his positives Good flair for anyone feeling brave enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:36 PM
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You're accidentally correct. Obese people don't eat because they think they're going to starve, they're using food as dopamine to feel better. It's the same thing OP is talking about, using women/gf as a way to fix your life or feel happy. It's the wrong way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:55 PM
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That was mgtow was. You think the MGTOW sub saw women as just other human beings? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:53 PM
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That sub was absolute garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:50 PM
3

Do you honestly believe you've ever been the "better catch" for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:43 PM
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I don't think you actually read what I said lol. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:08 PM
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I bet you also believe whites owe blacks reparations for shit their ancestors did. I don't think anyone speaking in good faith believes white people owe reparations. The government however, absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:31 PM
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36% alone is somewhat close to half lol I think we're done here. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:24 PM
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About half of the population is conservative leaning That's absolutely not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:10 PM
4

somebody help me Not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:10 PM
1

Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:20 AM
1

How is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:12 AM

Maybe I consider experiences of more people. I think you mean "I fall for personal anecdotes that confirm my world view" Even on this sub you should have seen plenty of testimonies how it sucks and it's a waste of time and so on. This sub is filled with maladjusted autists who are not representative of the average population lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:04 AM

attractive men who do attract men women still exist Aww shucks ☺️ men don’t approach because tinder works so much for them I never approach. Never have unless you count coworkers/mutual friends. If you’re not into bars/dancing you really only have online dating as an option so I’m not sure why you don’t believe it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 AM

I got dates on tinder. I even had two long term relationships come from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:56 AM
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I’m confused. They’re right? You SHOULD be speaking to a professional and not randos online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/24 10:22 PM
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You took that super personally for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:01 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:57 PM
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The point in the fallacy is that consensus doesn't equal truth We're not talking about truth. There is no objective truth to people's feelings. Honestly, how are you struggling with this? peoples beliefs influence their feelings and feelings influence belief, you can't seperate them No one is trying to separate them. I'm telling you people don't like things that smell bad and you're disagreeing lol. Like what are you even talking about? Because you're not intelligent enough for your opinion of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:02 AM
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Thoughts, beliefs and feelings are intertwined, you're just being contratian for the sake of it here. They're not. The point of the fallacy is that just because people believe something doesn't make it true. People's feelings are real and not something that can be measured objectively. You can't tell people they are wrong for distrusting thieves. Also it's "contrarian". I don't think neckbeard has held any weight as an insult for at least a decade, you might as well call me a square. I noticed y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:24 AM
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Argumentum ad populum You're not using that fallacy correctly. We're not talking about something people believe, we're talking about something people FEEL. There's a difference. This would be like me saying people in general do not trust thieves and you trying to apply that fallacy. Also, that's the neckbeardiest shit ever. Don't be that guy. In relationships specifically, perhaps not Cool. So then your point is irrelevant. He was an alcoholic before I was born. Yeah but he was able to maintain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:31 PM
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With a sense of humor like that I can see why she left
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:29 PM
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It's not about being neurotypical or divergent, it's about being rational or irrational. And it's pretty well established to be considered irrational for people to want a paternity test with no reason for suspicion. Blind faith has been used to justify far more irrational and damaging behaviour than suspicion ever has. In relationships? Please explain how I didn't know the inner workings of his mind, he died when I was a teenager and I barely knew the man, but I doubt paternity certainty was par…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:17 AM
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I am OK with people not trusting me fully on any issue, it would be smart of them to. Okay but we're talking about the general populace which is neurotypical. Because, rationally, you can't be sure of anything. That's a terrible answer because it can be used to justify all kinds of irrational and damaging behavior. He was an alcoholic who drank himself to death and ruined my childhood, so I don't really care if he was my father or not. Maybe if he had the opportunity to find out you weren't real…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:53 AM
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You're not expected to trust someone 100%. Just as you wouldn't be expected to be okay with someone not trusting you on this issue. Believeing there is 0% chance the children are not yours is blind faith I think it's more like if you don't have a reason to suspect anything, why are you unsure. Have you gone and asked for a DNA test from your parents to make sure your father is accurate? If not, why? I'd apply the same thought process to a woman who wants to have things in place to allow her esca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:32 AM
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I'm not discounting government corruption and government evil. Quite the opposite, I assume it. Cool, then I don't need to read anything else you wrote because you're agreeing with my point. You mean like now? Nothing would change So why are you arguing for this again then? It's quite hilarious how y'all suddenly libertarians and very concerned with individual privacy only when a measure might benefit men. Where were you all when it came to regulating smartphones? Or during the VPN debates? Or A…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:13 AM
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"someone else" is obfuscating the entire issue, you're comparing strangers to someone you have an intimate relationship with. It's not reasonable or common to be hurt by your partner even though it's possible. It's largely the point of the relationship to get to a place where you feel comfortable in letting your guard down. That's dangerous to do with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:08 AM
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This is not for public records, just medical records I have no idea what this has to do with my response? "The public at large" doesn't mean "public records" lmao Sorry if that wasn't obvious It's still not obvious. Legal consequences for who? What does this have to do with standardizing paternity testing? And I'm talking about a hypothetical where the mother is adamant about not getting the kid tested...well, there's not many reasons for that, right? The mother wouldn't be the one waiving it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:04 AM
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No? Those two situations aren't the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 AM
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Like... here in Europe there's so many laws protecting privacy that that is impossible to do. You don't actually believe this do you? lol (in fact the gov't doesn't even see it because a private lab does the testing) Oh dope. More ways for politicians to get kickbacks on giving government contracts out to companies that totally pinky promise they will follow the regulation! For realsies! You're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:46 AM
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The grounds is to verify parentage If both parents are willing to raise the child, then I'm not sure why the public at large should care? If parents want to waive the test then let them, I said it should be standard, not forced. You just talked about legal consequences? That doesn't make any sense. And pushing to get it waived is a confession as much as anything so it's still serving the purpose. A confession of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:42 AM
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Your life didn't turn out the way you wanted at all huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:36 PM
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How can you be so irritated when people like you! They even help you out sometimes! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:56 PM
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You're so mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:19 PM
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there's many late-bloomers out there. Are you sure you're not a parody account? You're really saying it's okay to be a fuck up because you might be a late-bloomer? lol I swear you have to be a female If I was this would probably be the longest conversation you've ever had with one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:18 PM
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you were talking about gyms No I wasn't lol I asked why you only worked at gyms. So what if it's entry level? So it shows what you're capable of in life. Which you're making very obvious, isn't much. Pep talk? "people actually like me", "I'm very young and I have pretty good support system" This is a wildly goofy thing to tell strangers lol Like why would you think anyone cares that you have a support system? lol people like me!!!!! LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:27 PM
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I know the context. Then why are you bringing up that you have literal lockers at your job? lmao You don't know what type of job I have. I know it's entry level I'm very young I'm SHOCKED people are helping me with that because people actually like me. LMAO You're practically oozing with feminitity You're literally giving yourself a pep talk in your comments and talking about how much people help you because they like you lol You ooze autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:52 PM
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The job I work at literally has a room filled with lockers. I'm pretty sure that's considered a "locker room" Not in the context for this thread lol. The fact you don't understand that kind of explains why you can only get hired at those kind of jobs though. Men don't talk about sex in there. No shit. They're at work lol You're calling me a goofy weirdo Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:27 PM
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Anybody who's worked at warehouses, retail, or even at certain restaurants knows that there's locker rooms Those aren't the locker rooms they're talking lmao Why do you want to make fun of me? Because you're a bitter goofy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:19 PM
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You really already replied and then thought "AND ANOTHER THING" You're that mad? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:51 PM
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Bruh, every place I worked at has a locker room. Why are you only working at gyms? What guys like in porn is completely irrelevent to the discussion of locker room talk. I never said they were connected? lol I don't know why that shit makes you that mad It doesn't make me mad, I just wanted to keep making fun of you. You're the one dedicating yourself to this because you're upset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:48 PM
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Not what actual locker room talk is. You spend a lot of time in locker rooms? And I shouldn't have to explain to a grown ass man why describing all your nasty niches from top to bottom wouldn't be considered "homoerotic" to anybody. But you will, because it makes no sense and no one is going to understand what the fuck you're even talking about. What even is a nasty niche? lol PORN is private and I doubt the typical CUCKOLDRY fetisher would admit to all of his friends that he's a cuck You didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:28 PM
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My point is that Trump doesn't represent the average man. He's high status, very arrogant/boastful That doesn't make any sense as an explanation for why it was considered locker room talk. Men can talk about sex too, but it's not really as graphic or homoerotic as women are with their conversations. You're going to have to explain how describing a sexual encounter with the opposite sex is homoerotic. men are more individualistic and tend to dislike the idea of sexualizing their parter to other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:46 PM
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Anyway, what Trump said was described as streotypical "locker room talk" So I was right. The so-called "fairer" gender is actually worse than us. Based on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:08 PM
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I never knew he said all that nor do I care. I am SHOCKED you would talk so confidently about something without even a basic understanding of it. SHOCKED lol. I actually like Trump but my point still remains. Most men don't talk about their sex lives nearly as graphic or in depth as women do. Trump is an exception. I can see why you like trump. My point wasn't about him. It was the fact that everyone branded what he did as "locker room talk" which is the exact opposite of what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:13 PM
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Trump: "I moved on her actually. You know she was down on Palm Beach. I moved on her, and I failed. I'll admit it. I did try and fuck her, she was married." Trump: "No, no, Nancy. No this was [inaudible] and I moved on her very heavily in fact I took her out furniture shopping. She wanted to get some furniture. I said I'll show you where they have some nice furniture. I moved on her like a bitch. I couldn't get there and she was married. Then all-of-a-sudden I see her, she's now got the big phon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:14 PM
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What do you think locker room talk is? What was trump talking about that got branded as just "locker room talk"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:21 PM
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What subject did I try to change it to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:27 AM
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Fellas, is it gay to talk about sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:19 AM
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Women talk about sex in detail, men are very vague and use shallow discretion then change the subject. Yeah men are famously shy when talking about sex with each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:14 AM
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I wasn't asking for an exact number, I was asking you to clarify your own hypothetical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:26 PM
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What do you mean more gen z folks? How many more? Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:02 PM
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Shallow? It means not very deeply, just touching the surface. Is English your first language? Words can have different meanings. In the context you used it in, most people would assume you meant the guys were being very looks focused and derogatory when speaking about the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:45 PM
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That's a super weird context to use "shallow" in but okay. But sure there are men who do that too So you admit that you were wrong when you said guys would never say anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:10 PM
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I'm confused. It sounds like you're agreeing with me that this isn't a gendered issue and men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:00 PM
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You didn't say "I would never say anything like that" You said "they (guys) can't even fathom because they (guys) would never say anything of the like to their guy friends" So your whole point is men don't talk about women like that. Which honestly makes me think you either didn't have many guy friends growing up or still don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:21 PM
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They can't even fathom it because they would never say anything of the like to their guy friends about their girlfriends. That's just....not even remotely true lol. Did you have guy friends in real life? They'll describe how the man fucked her, his confidence, the size of his dick, each vein on it, the taste I'm starting to think this is a fetish for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:14 PM
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I disagree with this. I'm shocked. Oh, so only neat and tidy wars that we have a near-guarantee of prevailing with a minimal loss of manpower and equipment will happen again, then? Because those are the kinds of wars you can deal with without a draft. Our wars in the middle east are the exact opposite of everything you just said and we never needed a draft for it. We didn't prevail in our mission, we suffered losses of soldiers AND heavy losses of equipment. I'm pretty sure I said that there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:03 PM
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Yeah you're storming off and reporting my comment because YOU struck a nerve lol Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:05 PM
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I was obviously referring to pregnancy. That's weird, because I just mentioned this and you said I was projecting and needed to follow my own advice. What advice did I need to follow when I was pointing out your sentence didn't make any sense? Keeping in mind that you just confirmed you used the wrong word. it doesn’t change the fact that supporting or telling men to “keep it in their pants” is still a pro-life/anti-abortion stance. It doesn't need to change anything because it's not lol. What b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:05 AM
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And what I said is true. Sex is the natural biological outcome to having sex? lol That's not even grammatically correct, so how could it be true? Well, that's because you're assuming I must be wrong without fully grasping my position. No it was more because I don't know why you would think I'm being defensive lol but please keep up the neckbeard redditor debatelord attitude because it's genuinely hilarious. Telling men to 'keep it in their pants' is acceptable and different from telling women to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:05 AM
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Because "it can never happen". Which, I would argue, is brazen hubris. You can argue whatever you want. Nothing will change the fact that the draft is politically suicide and is closer to being removed than reinstated. I do, I don't have the hubris to insist that wars will never happen again. So first off, no one said wars will never happen again. Secondly that also wasn't the argument you were making lol Those people are still right. Actually as of now they're still wrong considering we haven't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:27 PM
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Oh, okay, so there IS a path for things that are 50 years old to change, then? Got it. Good to know. Yes, and my point was that the draft isn't on that path lol. Thankfully, we never will Correct. Certainly better arguments than "it can never happen" and "things that happened 50 years ago will never change!" Sadly I think you actually believe that lol Vietnam isn't a near-peer adversary, and if it was SUCH an unpopular thing, why do we still maintain selective service? Because it's always harder…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:31 PM
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Like striking down portions of the Voting Rights Act? Or obliterating Roe v. Wade? Jesus christ if your argument is "things that are 50 years old will never come back", you're done. No? Because those issues have been EXTREMELY divisive and contested since their inception and have been discussed and campaigned on by politicians all over. The draft has not been a topic nationwide for well over 40 years at least. You didn't actually think you had a good argument with your examples did you? lol That…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:16 PM
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The point I was making in my original comment and the point I was making is you typed that sex is the natural biological outcome to having sex. You need to read more, and type less. That position, arguing that men should avoid sex in order to avoid risking child support, is what I'm addressing and is the exact same argument used against women when it comes to abortion. and I keep explaining they're not the same. One is personal autonomy in regards to medical procedures and the other is personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:07 PM
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that is, in fact, how linear time works It unfortunately doesn't do anything to help your argument that something we stopped doing over 50 years ago is going to suddenly come back. You're just handwaving 5 decades of societal and cultural change. During World War II? Didn't mean much at all. Why are you pretending like you didn't understand what I asked. You specifically mentioned a smaller war than world war 2. So I was obviously asking about the impact of that war. I'm guessing you dodged the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:37 PM
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Yeah, and that's the insane take. We had a draft for a full 20 years last century last century LMAO and once it was for a much, MUCH smaller war than what we were engaged in in World War II Don't stop there. How did the draft impact support for the war/government going forward? That is a realistic scenario. It's not even remotely realistic. This is a war that requires boots on the ground right? So are we being invaded or sending people overseas to fight? If this is happening overseas, why are we…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:05 PM
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That's a wholly different argument than whether or not "we will" use the draft The entire argument hinges on the whether or not a draft CAN happen. How are you not understanding this? You're trying to sell tidal wave insurance in the middle of montana and saying "no one is is saying a tidal wave WILL happen. Just that it could!" There will be no "in the event of a draft" Full stop. Because there will be no draft, there's no reason to use it as an example of sexism against men, especially conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:50 PM
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The argument is that sex is a natural biological outcome to having sex I don't think that's the argument. Thus, both individuals are responsible for their decisions and should avoid sex if they’re not ready to be a parent This has nothing to do with what I said. So yes, when someone argues that men should avoid sex in order to avoid the idea of having to pay child support, then they are making a pro-life, anti-abortion argument No, they aren't because abortion isn't their choice/option so that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:59 PM
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You literally dodged every question they gave you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:55 PM
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We’re in this situation because most people think like you ....what situation? lol What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:50 PM
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No one argued that anyone is going to institute a draft That's literally the argument that's been going back and forth lol Democrats would absolutely institute a draft if national circumstances called for it What national circumstances do you see as a future possibility to make this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:50 PM
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You got absolutely embarrassed in this comment chain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:31 AM
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Is this a bot account?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:30 AM
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This is such a terminally online take lol. famously pro war democrats are going to institute a draft lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:27 AM
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There will never be another draft. Zero chance. Not happening. Never. Bet your life savings on it. There is literally no single piece of legislation that would be more unpopular. Like full scale riots across all cities if they tried to do that. It’s not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:23 AM
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The majority of them But the rest of them think the woman should die instead? Not trying to advocate for pro-life I’m guessing you don’t know what the word advocate means then? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:18 AM
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No it isn’t? Anti abortionists are not even remotely involved in this situation. If the argument is that a man doesn’t have a say in birthing the child once it’s conceived, then random ass Karen who lives in a different city REALLY has no say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:15 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:13 AM
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It being normal doesn't mean a man wants to be in a relationship like that No one is saying they should. They're saying it's normal, which means it's common, which means you can either get over it or deal with finding someone from a smaller pool of dating partners. it's always better to know you are the type she is actually sexually desired not just that she's done with the hot guys and sees you as more stable. How is that hard to understand. Because it's fucking weird to view all interactions t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:06 AM
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I mean isn't that normal? There are going to be people you're more sexually attracted to and people you love more as a person. That doesn't mean either is better than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:29 PM

You literally just made up a completely different example with completely different circumstances and said "false" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:29 AM
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its a quick litmus test of where you stand. The issue is that it's an extremely inaccurate way to figure that out. Im only interested in winning - straight up. First off LMAO Secondly, winning what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:20 PM
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If that same woman has applied that standard unevenly between you and others she dated before What is this obsession with things being fair? How does the way she treated other guys matter as long as you're being treated the way you want to? quickly figure out how she has treated the guys in the past and you find out where you rank. This is incredibly weird behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:50 PM
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See, when you call someone neurodivergent as an insult You taking offense doesn't mean it was meant as an insult. I'm not sure what any of this has to do with your diagnosis though. You also still haven't explained how I'm arrogant. Did you realize that didn't make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:28 PM
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You didn't explain how I'm arrogant, I'm aware that trouble multitasking is a symptom so I'll remind you here. you would know I didn’t “admit” anything. You said I was making fun of ND people when I asked if you were, unless you are I don't see how that statement can be true. Neurotypical enough you cunt? Actually no, not really lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:56 PM
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because you don’t like being told you are an arrogant How am I arrogant? lol You make fun of neurodivergent people? So you admit you're neurodivergent? I really think you should have said this at the beginning so everyone who tried explaining this to you didn't have to waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:27 PM
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I think this is just a case of not being able to explain it in neurodivergent terms that you can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:43 PM
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I mean you're not though lol. Your comments make it clear that you're over thinking what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:22 PM
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You're taking what they said way too literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:18 PM

I'm literally just asking a simple question lol Never did i say men are owed anything, nor did i say men are entitled to anything. If we're going down this road, I never said you said those things. You said you want something, I'm asking if you think you deserve the thing you want? That's it. If you want a spoiler, I'm going to ask why you think you do or don't deserve it depending on your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:42 PM

Im a man and when I say things like "i want to know what a first date is like, or a first kiss, having love and romance." Do you believe you deserve those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:32 PM
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You're on here too arguing people. I'm not arguing with you though, I'm making fun of you lol. There's a whole difference between me making sarcastic remarks occasionally and you making multiple posts and 90% of your comments being in this sub. Whether you are or not doesn't change the facts. It would change the fact of you claiming I am one lol The FACT is you automatically default to blaming women when called out on your shit. Clearly got triggered and responded before reading my entire commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:50 PM
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Your post isn't funny though. Having a sense of humor is also having social awareness to know what will make people laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:55 PM
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Where I ended up in life is as a married home owner with a family in the suburbs. Which is why you spend your free time complaining about women on reddit lol I mean congrats, you wifed up a 6 and feel regret. It happens. But this is the response I expected because the common consensus from women on PPD I'm not a woman. But assuming I am just because I disagree with you definitely doesn't help your "i dont have problems with women" defense. The reason why telling a guy the truth of... No one care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:32 PM
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The guys in the study you listed don't have a lean V-taper, and you haven't provided anything to show that physique is attractive to all women. Just those in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:52 PM
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Bitter, jaded and unhappy with where you ended up in life vs where you think you deserve to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:11 PM
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Can you define “fit” in a way that every woman will agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:13 AM
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I’m not implying anything, I’m directly stating that women are an incredibly diverse group with broad tastes, so acting like they all desire the same thing just shows a lack of experience. trying to attract young hotties Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:56 AM
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That study is based on two groups of college aged women in their early 20s. Do you know what the word diverse means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:47 AM
0

If bluntly telling low tier men their faults actually helped this sub wouldn’t be full of guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:36 AM
-2

Being condescending while also inexperienced is a terrible combination man. You’re insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:33 AM
1

What are you teaching your son to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:25 AM
0

A blackhead-riddled face? yellow teeth? You actually think those people don't know they need to fix those issues? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:46 PM
1

if a woman rejects me because I have hair like Anton Chigurh, its her fault, not mine. if i like to dress like a geriatric clown, its her fault. I mean it's no one's fault? You're just not compatible in those situations. theres situations in which his advice is valid. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:19 PM
0

You should really try talking to more diverse groups of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:15 PM
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we haven’t fully normalized the idea of offering sympathy and actual help to men My dude, it's getting turned down for a date. It's really not that big of a deal. Attraction is so personal anyways, how exactly is finding out that Woman A likes skinnyfat guys supposed to help you succeed with Woman B who likes buff guys? You want some actual usable advice? Don't tailor yourself for women who are rejecting you. Be confident in the person you are and find someone who likes that because then you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:27 PM
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If you’re going to reject someone because of their physical appearance, at least be specific so that the person can improve any parts of their appearance that are within their control and have more luck with other people in the future. To anyone in the future who might read this and think it's a good idea. Don't. I can't stress enough how weird it would come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:06 PM
1

You're trying SO hard to be offensive and it's not working at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:56 PM
1

That's not what they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:09 PM
1

You've been out in public? I don't buy that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:07 PM
4

You have no experience with this to speak from. I honestly don't understand how people like you feel compelled to join in on a conversation you're not a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:29 PM
1

I don't see those posts. Could you give me some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:11 AM
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That analogy would only apply if I were pro marriage. I'm not It's not like being pro or anti makes a difference. You're not in the running. Also, when the guy with no legs tells you Being short isn't the same as having no legs Still, you did your best, and that should count for something. Good effort, and you'll get better at this with time and practice. You spend your free time online warning men not to get married because your wife left you, I really don't think you're in a position to judge …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:51 AM
-4

How would I know? Do you follow single mom and onlyfans hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:44 AM
-4

soyboys Kind of an ironic insult considering meat is a luxury in your country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:32 AM
-5

Being told you are only husband material gives of the vibe that you are a submissive guy. Fellas, is it gay to be married to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:26 AM
-3

However, men need to get over the idea that marriage is the endgame. As a divorced man, I can tell you that it's not. This is like taking swimming lessons from someone who drowned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:24 AM
0

They said looks don't matter at all, and then hooked up with you. Seems pretty straight forward to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:41 PM
3

how looks don't matter at all, how they don't like fit guys and prefer dad bod and chubby guys, and that they need to be "intellectual stimulated" to even consider it ...and then the exact same girl hook up with me 2 hours after we met Is it possible you're not as good looking as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:57 PM
0

no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:47 PM
1

The same mentality as yours. Why are you excited about me, I never showed you anything exceptional to make it reasonable. Well you havent shown anything detrimental either so thats good enough for me to be excited. uh what? This legit makes no sense at all and I've tried reading it multiple times. Just ask them. Were they talking once a week or once a day at least I did. I got a wide range of answers, everything from a day to multiple days in between conversations and making plans. How else do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:20 AM
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So a woman you know in real life embarrassed you and you ran to reddit to try and feel better about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:12 PM
0

"Let death be kinder than man" by Althea Davis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:18 PM
-1

Just means you have bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:01 PM
0

Tell them that they're on the spectrum? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:22 AM
1

not binary thinking "if women were as competent as they claim they wouldn't be vulnerable to such tactics" This is binary thinking. You're only allowing for 2 possibilities. Either women are competent and they always catch liars, or they aren't and they're wrong about their competency. Binary thinking is a symptom of being on the spectrum. So that might be worth looking into.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:46 AM
1

but talking less 1x a day when you are still getting to know each other is ridiculous. It's clearly not based on how badly this has been working for you. Ask any married couple how many times they talked when they were dating. You're not dating. You're getting to know each other, there's a difference. Once you get to the exclusivity section you can start making more demands of each others free time. Until then there's no reason to invest so much time in each other. People make time for whats imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:44 AM
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It's really not. Just head over to facebook and you'll see an endless wave of memes and t shirts saying the exact same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:40 AM
1

You seem to do a lot of binary thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:18 PM
6

Might be time for you to learn that different people have different priorities. Your approach has gotten you nowhere and you're not willing to change. So what exactly are you looking for here? Someone to tell you didn't do anything wrong and everyone else has the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:15 PM
-14

Behind every calm male face is a storm that can't be seen Guys on this sub are so fucking weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:11 PM
1

Someone who parties and does coke every weekend? Someone who's read a thousand books? The first one depends on who they partied and did coke with, second one depends on their charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:24 PM
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None that I need to tell you. I don't know or care to know you. Interesting. Sure... By any means necessary, be interesting! I got it. I feel like you think this was clever but I don't understand why lol you can have friends who don't give a crap about you; you can have human bodies around you and still feel lonely. You can have friends who care about you deeply and still feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:18 PM
1

If that's the type of interesting the BP wants men to be You're framing this weirdly. I'm not stating requirements, I'm just telling you how things are. The country is facing a documented loneliness crisis and you are saying it's rare? You can have friends and still feel lonely dude. Yikes indeed. Nice, but insults don't make the spaces I'm able to be in any less important. What spaces are you able to be in? Must feel nice to think that response meant anything to me. I'm sure you'd feel lucky to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:50 PM
1

Ok. I guess even delusional people can consider themselves interesting. Don Quixote comes to mind. A dude who spends his life attacking windmills is the absolute pinnacle of interesting. Why do you think being interesting is some crazy high bar? People want interesting people around. So if you're not invited to any social circles, your probably not interesting enough or forgettable. Which again, is extremely rare for someone to have NO friends. Being interesting is not difficult. And you laugh b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:35 PM
2

You can't self proclaim yourself an interesting person. Sure you can. If you can navigate most social situations, you can reasonably consider yourself interesting. This isn't a math problem, it's social sciences. No one receives a formal declaration of being interesting from their friends. as well as the multiple high level decision making seats I'm invited to sit in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:17 PM
2

I'm very interesting. How so? I'm also not delusional enough to decide that I'm interesting. This honestly makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:08 PM
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You honestly think it's hard to be interesting? Are you like accidentally boring or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:57 PM
0

Not just women. I think it's hilarious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:55 PM
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OP has seen now seen first hand what RP has said all along is much more effective- gain higher social status than them Just become a multi millionaire rap artist. IT'S SO EASY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:54 PM
1

Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:17 PM
2

Would you willingly be friends with the kind of guys that post here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:04 AM
1

Now, from this we could also postulate You’re making a completely unfounded assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:02 AM

its publicly funding human sexuality You absolutely mangled the original point to force it into your argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:08 PM

If someone is dying of thirst and you have the capability to give them water, it's absolutely a moral imperative that you do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:04 PM
2

Nobody would date someone they find unattractive, thing is 80% of men are unattractive to women This is misleading because women honestly just don't think of men in that way. Random guys are not attractive to them, even if they would find them attractive under different circumstances. It's not that women think 80% of men are ugly/unattractive, it's that they don't think about them because why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:13 PM
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by the time they realized they been plowed like free prostitutes with amount of trauma that no therapy can fix, its too late too little Too late too little for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:02 PM
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it would take nearly a decade and? and? That's the very opposite of a pressing issue. if it is 1-2% it is millions of men a year. Nothing is stopping any of those men from getting a test done on their own. Because we should be trying to fix as much as possible. "because" is not an answer. You're talking about enacting a law that will be forcing citizens to do something they may not want to do, you need to do better than "because" Only in a few stats and that relies on the man finding out Those s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:22 PM
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Plenty of times people have posted the stats Copy+paste if we drop it down to 0.1% of births per year that will add up over the years to millions of men, you are reaching if you think this isn't a problem. Not just years, it would be almost a decade just to get over a million worldwide. That's with even assuming your numbers are correct, which I don't. Because there is a societal cost to this problem. There's societal costs to a lot of things the government stays out of. Why should this be any d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:48 PM
0

you doubting there have been millions of men all around the world who have suffered this indignity? Yes. I really hope you didn't just assume that was true without any kind of data to back it up because that would be weird. Never said they did, but they have a duty of care over it's citizens. I'm speaking to something specific, you're talking vaguely about something subjective. You need to narrow it down if you want to argue that the government should be involved. Women are adults and can leave,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:16 PM
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Because there are millions of men who 100% trust their wife that shouldn't have. First off do you have a source for this? Secondly, the government has no ground to ensure men have a reason to trust their wives or vice versa. I could just as easily say the government should mandate social workers to visit every married couple once a month to see if there's any domestic violence because there's millions of women who 100% trust their husbands when they shouldn't have. When you are married or in a L…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:54 PM
0

Do those two things conflict with each other? No, but it doesn't answer the question of what's stopping you from going getting your own dna test. Why does it need to be mandatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:48 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:16 PM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:07 AM
2

So basically you ignored what I said, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:45 PM
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Incel rhetoric. Not "anything that doesn't worship women is women bashing" which is the standard you're using. incel rehetoric isn't open woman bashing, it's hatred. The equivalent would be like saying there's no racism because no one is saying the N-word. A statement like "women take no accountability and spend all their time whining so they can take all their husbands money in a divorce" is clearly and objectively bashing women, but wouldn't meet your bar which is ridiculous. I want examples. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:39 PM
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My argument is that you cannot hold all the elements of a demographic accountable because said demographic is over represented in a given metric within its universe. That depends on the demographic and systems in place. For example, I would say police are an example where you need to hold an entire group accountable. I don't need to provide concrete examples to make this point. Reddit mods are too trigger happy with the ban hammer. Again, I can't debate a point you're too afraid to make. Bottom …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:30 PM
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Yeah, I thought it was a reddit or selection bias thing at first. Until, I went on instagram and the website formerly known as twitter and saw a lot of similar stuff. You feel like you see more open hatred of men on social media than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:22 PM
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What's your definition of "open woman bashing" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:20 PM
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Nice talk bud I especially like the part where you seem to think I'm capable of countering points you never made because you're too scared of backing up your own argument. I told you to make the argument and I'll explain why you're wrong. Until then you're not saying anything useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:01 PM
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Welll I could argue with pretty damning stats about certain specific demographics, but I've been told it's wrong to generalize. Unless, of course, we're talking about men. Go for it. It only ruins your own argument and proves you don't understand the conversation you're trying to involve yourself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:44 PM
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Why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:35 PM
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Bragging about paying for a subscription to social media is the saddest thing I've ever seen in this sub. Edit: not just pay, but HAPPILY paying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:32 PM

Are you speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:10 PM
1

Have you interacted with women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:49 AM
1

A bee sting can kill me, whereas I've seen plenty of people survive limb loss. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:57 AM
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That's not necessarily true. Some people are just garbage and want o spread hate. Sounds like we're talking about two different groups then huh? You're choosing to focus on the much smaller less significant group for some reason. Blips on the radar still do damage. Anyone that pushes the button is garbage. A bee sting compared to a lost limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:43 AM
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Why would you need to convince anyone that you fully believe an entirely vanilla and boring opinion? lol Why add the qualifier that you "fully believe" something you're about to say if you're not trying to get out ahead of pushback to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:50 PM
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I feel like if women didn't care, they wouldn't participate in public shaming or passive aggressive comments about virgin men. Except these are almost always done as an attack on men that have done something wrong or drawn negative attention in the first place. Compare that with the amount of public shaming/passive aggressive comments from men on social media about women. The overwhelming majority of negativity and hateful comments come from men on social media towards women, and it has nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:43 PM
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They openly say that they are not into virgin and inexperinced men. Those traits alone are turnoffs for many women Well yeah, I assume those women are not virgins and experienced themselves. Most people prefer partners with similar histories. Women don't have a habit of attacking random men for their lack of sexual history. Who said this was deep? Its my opinion You're framing it like it's some hard to believe statement, as if you think people would disagree or not believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:38 PM
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Because RP content is often hilariously wrong lol. RP content deals with extremes and fringes, it's right about a very very narrow niche of people. It completely ignores the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:10 PM
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Thats why incel and virgin are used as insults because they see not being able to attract a woman as a negative thing. Insults are often meant to attack insecurities of the person you're saying them to. The truth is MEN see not being able to attract women as an extremely negative thing. Women don't care if guys can't get any, it's when they become bitter and hostile about not being able to and won't shut up about it that they're forced into the conversation. I fully believe that if there were a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:07 PM
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I'm sure it makes you feel better to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:59 AM
11

The guy struggling to get dates is calling a multimillionaire superbowl winning quarterback weak. Okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:41 AM
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Her revealing on a podcast how much of a cuck he is probably stings a bit This word has completely lost all meaning if we’re just throwing it situations like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:46 AM
2

This kind of wisdom is wasted on this sub, but you're completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:09 PM
2

No? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:21 PM
2

I hope you're 2 inches shorter in your next life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:48 PM
2

Just doing my good deed for the day is all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:21 AM
1

do you only come here to kick people while they’re down I do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:58 AM
2

I'm saying i would directly pay the child's needs instead of giving money to my ex. Well no, you said "no child support" should be the penalty for adultery. Now you're saying there would be support, it's just up to a certain limit you've defined. And for clothes or anything the kid wants, I'll buy it when my kid is with me. How would you make this accountable and legally binding?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:29 PM
0

I find it so weird that you would choose to stop supporting your children because your wife cheated. Like would you just stop seeing your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:09 AM
1

Assuming everyone that disagrees with you is a woman is peak bitter and single behavior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:47 AM
-8

It gets better man. Hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:14 AM
1

So in your mind, multiple people disagreeing with you equals a conspiracy. Because it couldn't possibly be that you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:04 AM
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You're saying I would need to have these guys block time on their calendar, getting into actually cruel behavior, before you might come to the realization that they're interested in seeing Abby? I believe they're saying an initial conversation on tinder is not a date. Do you disagree with that? Are the first messages you send on tinder a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:00 AM
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If It's not one of you, It's the other huh? What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:58 AM

Where did I mention anything about a person with no work experience being a good worker? Are we not using "men with successive rejections" from the OP as the stand in for the worker? What successful well adjusted men are in toxic relationships where they are being called entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:57 AM

There you go with the gaslighting again. There you go using buzzwords you don't fully understand again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:48 AM
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But all of those things are true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:46 AM
-4

Personally it's a nice feeling to know there's some karma in the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:42 AM
-2

Using your analogy, how is an unemployed person with no work experience a "good worker" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:01 PM
0

had a year in /played. Rookie numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:53 PM
5

Does your wife have orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:33 PM
3

I'm not really understanding why you'd blame/punish the victim. Because it's a troll account that tries to blatantly rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:31 AM
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I can’t believe multiple people fell for such an obvious bait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:03 AM
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You seem to be implying women should accept any and all flaws in men regardless of how detrimental or harmful to the relationship they are. He could be needy and clingy Why do you think this should be tolerated? He could be insecure about your past and his place in it Again, why should this be tolerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:00 AM
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I'm not being reductionist, you are. Reducing all of the nuance and context involved in a relationship where one person manipulates the other down to "you either believe them or you don't!" is the very definition of reductionist. You're taking a complex situation and reducing it to binary good/bad input/output choices. You are suggesting that if a person is told a lie, that that person can't help but to believe it. We're not talking about fake news here. It's incredibly easy to fake feelings for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:45 PM
1

Considering East asians also share the racial stereotype of “looking young” The common joke/stereotype with that is they look young until they're about 40 and then age rapidly. Have you been around working class Latinos ?? They do not look “younger than average” I've lived in los angeles/southern california my whole life so yes, and yes they do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:44 AM
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People can't control whether someone lies to them but they have a choice in whether to choose to believe what the other person is saying to them at face value. You're being reductionist again. Being lied to/manipulated isn't a binary situation. I also still don't understand why you didn't just start with this instead of going into your whole weird rugby fantasy. And if he does, he's a fool and the mess he lands himself in is his own damn fault. This is just blaming the victim and still doesn't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:18 AM
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Latinos don’t have special skin lol. Signs of aging are pretty obviously going to show on skin that gets damaged by the sun more than darker skin that has more built in protection against UV damage. It's a well established fact that darker skin looks younger and less wrinkled than lighter skin tones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:26 AM
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Let me rephrase it. Say I got injured by a man rugby tackling me... What exactly is the point behind making up a convoluted alternate scenario that is nothing like what we're talking about? Like in what way is a woman trying to avoid being lied to the same as someone putting on rugby gear and then getting mad when they get tackled? Stop trying to speak in slogans and analogies and actually explain what you mean. You ignored the bit about the caveats. I know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:18 AM
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If you don't engage with the game, can't get played. If you were played, you tacitly agreed to playing it, you just lost. This is complete gibberish lol. Of course not. So then considering how common this type of vetting is among women, and how often they get into relationships, isn't it likely that she DOES find him attractive even if she's not sleeping with him right away?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:35 PM
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So she dislikes playing games so much she... plays games. You might be unfamiliar with the phrase "getting played" it doesn't have anything to do with playing games. That's probably why you found what I said confusing. The simpler explanation is that she doesn't like him. That's not simpler, it's reductionist and bitter. It's also a weird way to view relationships unless you think every woman out there doesn't like their bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:46 PM
1

Umm, because this is a debate sub That doesn't mean there's a counter point for everything you don't personally understand. You can't just keep dismissing explanations and then say there's no argument. First, because when a woman actually shows a lot of sexual interest, it's a night and day difference from how she treats Joe Schmoe. Second, this topic has come up before and women have self admitted that they'll sleep with a guy earlier if they think he has other options. I don't see how either o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:21 PM

I love how nobody in any of these discussions is ever able to explain why a guy should by happy with waiting. I never said you needed to be happy about waiting? I specifically said if you don't want to wait then you should move on. Nobody can just admit that there's no real argument for this other than the obvious I'm not understanding why you think there needs to be an argument for it? The explanation is pretty simple, women don't want to feel like they got played so if they have real feelings …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:28 PM

This sounds like a one-way street going her direction only. Then you're free to move on lol Stop being bitter about people you aren't compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:59 PM

Super random but is your username based on a skit from the podcast "improv 4 humans" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:31 AM
1

I definitely haven't been here for a decade lol. Also, I don't think you understand what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:23 PM
-1

Just start a telethon or gofundme instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:14 AM
5

Why do you enjoy screaming into the void so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:52 AM
4

The fact you left off health insurance/medical care really shows how uninformed you are on this subject. When you turn 26 and have to start paying for your own instead of being on your parents, you’ll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:58 AM
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without the option of selling their bodies They have the option, I don’t think it’s a lucrative market but they still have the option. Also as you said, manual labor is the male equivalent of selling their body for money. let’s feel bad for For both. The idea of a living wage is that everyone deserves to make enough to live off of it. No matter how undesirable/unimportant the job is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:42 AM
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But I did not pay Sure you did. You already said you paid them. you’re naive about how paid for sex works You got me there. I admit it. I’ve never paid for sex before. It’s embarrassing I know. it implies being attracted enough No it doesn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:39 AM
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A living wage in America has is near universally understood to mean enough money to afford food/rent/medical care. You have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:14 AM
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And what if I didn’t But you did. You literally said you paid for it. why do you have to be so hostile I can only make an assumption but it’s probably because you’re incredibly unpleasant to interact with. Which isn’t helping your “prostitutes like me for me” case
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:09 AM
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You have no experience with what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:24 PM
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Words are indeed words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:01 AM
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That might be your experience. The vast majority of first dates were dutch or split checks for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:00 AM
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You can see this very easily once you notice that most women expect men to pay for dates from the very beggining, and if a man doesn't pay, then she'll move on to the next one. I have literally never been on a date with a woman who expected me to pay or was upset if I didn't. Stop dating traditional/conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:35 AM

She is getting everything she ever dreamed of Your answer to the question “what rewards do women get for being feminine?” Is “everything they ever dreamed of” ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:03 AM
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What rewards would you say they receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:59 PM

Because people are stupid and fail to realize that if socialism was amazing, the entire world would be socialist right now. Why do you think that? And if capitalism was really that bad, it would not be the most popular system used. Do you think the popularity of financial systems is based on how "good" they are or because they benefit people in power more than other systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:15 PM
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Feel free to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:46 AM
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You're not speaking for the majority either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:22 AM
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I love that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:54 PM
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All we see is false accusations left and right You should probably stop trying to speak for all men. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:36 AM
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Liar. Feel free to prove me wrong. Liar again. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1cn1p58/one_of_the_best_things_men_can_do_for_their/l3dkvbr/ "you're do too" Lying again. Disagreeing with you is not a lie. It's called an opinion. And yours fucks each other like sister fucks the brother, father fucks the daughter and typical inbreeding. https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4899-5001-7_11 "India is one of the very few countries in the world today where consanguineous mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:39 AM
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They were able to get the guy whose research looked into the understanding of alpha male wolves Isn't that just how science works? His original hypothesis was disproven by further research? What do you disagree with about the change to his argument? But that guy says it's not true anymore, so ignore your lying eyes. People's experiences are one of the least reliable ways to analyze or view a situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:15 AM
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Yup, by killing kids. That's not how I make a living. It's "You're" 😂. Doesn't even know one language. That's pretty embarrassing because I was quoting you lol. That's what the quotation marks " " around the words mean. Yup, proved you were lying again. No you didn't lol I forgot you have trouble understanding English. I don't, which is how I was able to read the definition you provided and see that it didn't refer to anything you were talking about. Why should I believe you? I don't care if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:47 PM
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Yeah bcz when you can't make a living, you go and shoot up a bunch of kids lol. I guess it's a good thing I make a living then huh? Oh, I forgot its no use you have trouble understanding English. "Youre do too" lol Let's assume you knew See now isn't that easier? You can't understand your own mother tongue which is why there is a language barrier. You couldn't find anyone using that phrase huh? Yeah I know, basically the idea you weren't lying was a null hypothesis. The definition you just quote…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:49 AM
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You shoot and kill kids for fun just as you said I was gonna scam you. Guessing this is some kind of america diss? lol Pretty clunky considering one is rare and the other is how you're going to be making a living soon. Also you have a higher rape rate then ours lol That's because you guys don't even bother reporting or arresting anyone for it anymore. Which is why women get groped for just walking down the street in your country. If you knew you wouldn't have asked the question "Do I choose wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:42 PM
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Yeah you think wrong bcz killing kids goes to your head. LOL what? I don't either, what's your point? My point is you can't even get a job of your own, how are you going to take mine? lol After I told you You didn't need to tell me. I already knew. It's called stastics. What statistics are you referring to? Doing a 360 means changing your stance completely and arriving at the same result You're not understanding what I'm saying lol. This phrase makes no sense to people who speak english. It's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:10 PM
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I thought you were matured and experienced. and I thought you were just trying to scam me for a gift card, but here we are. 3rd, I know 4 languages Okay so it's definitely a language barrier then. If I come to your country, I could take your job I don't work at a call center so I'm not sure how you think that's possible. "I figured out you were single" You are single. So I was right. Basic maths What basic maths are you talking about? 180 means changing your mind and arriving someplace else. 360…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:22 PM
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Shows. You don’t even know what attraction means. I know no one will ever be attracted to you. Nope. no barrier Is English your first language? covering up your own lies There’s nothing to cover up because as I said you’ve never been in a relationship. A last year high school student could do this Do what? So did you understand I understand you said 360 which didn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:48 AM
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You have right? Yep. Yeah that's not a logic I think this is just an issue of the language barrier between us. You didn't, your first words were "Do you choose women based on effort?" suggests you never knew. You can choose women without having any experience being in a relationship lol. It's called bait and switch. You have experience so you should know but uh....seems you don't. So you were lying about experience. Huh? Let's do a 360 and assume you were 100 percent right, ok? I'm pretty sure y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:28 AM
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No you weren't. You have no firsthand experience of being in a relationship. Personal experience is the absolute baseline of understanding. You have none, therefore you can't know anything about them. but don't give any logical explanation My explanation is completely logical. You have no experience, therefore you have no personal knowledge of what you're talking about. you aren't a doctor You don't know that. I did make a play which you didn't notice. I could have easily lied No, it would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:40 AM
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Attraction is not always physical. That's what you are confusing with. There are different types of attraction. So I said attraction is not always physical, you disagree and then to prove me wrong you link an article explaining how attraction is not always physical? Strong argument. Yeah I don't care. I believe you. Yeah and they come around later when they see that I wasn't wrong. The circle keeps on repeating. I am fine with being made fun of bcz many lack the mental capacity to actually under…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:53 AM
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First time hearing this lol. Do you even know the definition of being attracted to? It is the basic requirement of being in love. My dude, how are you struggling this with? Couples that have been together for multiple decades, had kids, they still love each other but the attraction has faded. You can also be attracted to someone you know nothing about, you're not in love. This isn't like some weird concept. This is completely normal shit. I never did it. Yeah I know, I was being sarcastic Huh..n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:32 AM
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"Attraction will always include the physical." You said something else. No, I actually didn't. Attraction is not love. Being in a relationship with someone you love does not assume you are physically attracted to them. My views are not my own but taken from other people. Like how I have heard women say he is so romantic, he did this and that and took me here and there or he plans everytime and puts in too much work. Same thing from guys too the only thing that matters is the results, even if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:03 AM
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Ok, then tell me about couples who stick around till old age or even when one becomes handicapped for life or when one gets 3 degree burns. What about them? You realize you can love and be with someone you're not physically attracted to right? Women do it every day in marriages all across the states lol Then give me logical reasoning not empty words. Because dating and attraction do not require expensive or grand gestures lol. Ask some couples how they've met, I promise you will hear story after…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:28 AM
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lol no. Not even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:43 PM
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I do believe it enhances attractiveness but when you get to deeply know a person, that attractiveness doesn't matter after a certain point bcz then connection becomes emotional rather than physical. Attraction will always include the physical. I don't understand why you think that reasoning is not accurate. Because I have actual experience dating? lol Gatekeeping now, are we? Yes. You should probably have at least some experience with a subject before speaking on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:36 PM
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I meant you specifically. Do you think the bar can go that low?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:21 PM
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i mean...I am at the top 5% of my country just by knowing english, And i know lots of people who know English... We should probably only focus on countries that matter for this Moral of the story: 10% of 3 billion is quite a lot Depends entirely on what you're measuring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:21 PM
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No, it's a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:08 PM
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It hides your true self. I guess I should have been more clear. I was asking what proof you have that most men dislike makeup on women and think it's a lie. Don't know of such thing happening. Most of us prefer the real face not the fake one. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8245686/ Just a single example I explained how and why. You seem to have this issue where you take your opinion and just kind of treat it as objective fact. I don't really understand why. It is obvious that the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:07 PM
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Bcz it's a lie. Most of us hate lies. Why do you think most men think makeup is a lie? Follow up, why then do men almost unanimously prefer pictures of women with their make up on? It can be. Although fancier the date, the better the chance of success. That's not true at all lol So whom will you choose one with more effort or less effort. Uh I would choose the one I liked more? That seems fairly obvious. Idk. Do you choose women based on their effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 PM
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It’s women who need to be honest about only wanting the top 5-10% of men Today I learned I'm in the top 5-10% of men. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:44 PM
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Why do you wear makeup when we don't even like it that much? Why do you think men don't like makeup? What do women do in initial stages of dating where men plan dates, give flowers, make the first move and ask out? Planning a date can literally be "go get coffee" and pro tip: Don't give flowers on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
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if I punch down and date women lower in attractiveness/overweight Do you believe this is actually possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:38 PM
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Your personality is extremely below average though. That counts for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:37 PM
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https://content.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1006531-1,00.html This is a collection of statements by 5 people, most of them retired military personnel with no political power giving their opinion on reinstating the draft. In fact, one even states how unpopular his opinion is. "I think I'm the only member of the Senate Armed Services Committee who would reinstate the draft." https://www.cnn.com/2003/ALLPOLITICS/12/29/timep.draft.tm/ This a collection of the same statements as the first a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:29 AM
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Do you want me to further explain Stop Loss? No? I want you to provide evidence that the united states almost implemented a draft during the war on terror like you said. Explaining stop loss would not be evidence of that. In fact it kind of makes me think you don't know the meaning of the word "evidence" "I can totally prove you wrong, but I just don't want to" There's nothing to prove wrong. You made an obviously wrong claim and haven't backed it up. Until you do, I don't really care. still fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:21 AM
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Claiming that something is factually incorrect without evidence only works in kindergarten. I'll provide my evidence when you do the same. If you had anything of value to say, you would have already said it. Correct. I did say it already. I don't consider explaining to you that you're wrong to be valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:16 PM
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Because they weighed their choices and concluded that they could have taken the entire country in two weeks. If it wasn't because Ukraine held their own miraculously and the U.S. was quick to send resources they would have succeeded. This isn't proof that they invaded due to ukraine joining nato. Like at all. Months before the invasion, it was incredibly popular in social media to say that Russia wouldn't invade Ukraine and that U.S. were warmongers for suggesting that a Russian invasion was imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:14 PM
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When Ukraine fought back and held their offense long enough to get restructured Russia's supply lines got fucked, wasting all their resources away. How does russias incompetence prove they attacked to stop ukraine from joining nato? They simply could have started a skirmish on the border to trigger the clause you're talking about. Yeah. We all said the same thing about Russia with Ukraine. Imagine being so confidently wrong lmao. Feel free to let me know when I said russia wouldn't invade. South…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:57 PM
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it was primarily because they were in the process of joining Nato that Russia started fucking around their borders because there's a clause that says that you can only join Nato if you don't have territorial disputes/wars alongside your border. If that was the case they wouldn't have committed to a full scale invasion and wasted so much manpower/equipment. Unlike the U.S. South Korea is surrounded by enemies. And not a single one of them are going to invade.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:37 PM
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It is when a statement is factually incorrect. If you want to say 2+2=6 I'm not going to bother arguing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:33 PM
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Hell, we almost had a draft during the war on terror. No we didn't. If the government actually thought that they would never need another draft, we wouldn't even have selective service. Yeah I forgot how much the government loves rolling back laws that grant them power/information of their populace. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:11 PM
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Wasn't the reason for the war precisely because she wanted to join? or are we crazy? That actually proves my point but there's an entire list of reasons why russia invaded. It's about way more than not wanting them to join nato. I don't think you understand, wars will happen, even though there are ultra-advanced technologies, agreements, peace movements. The development of nato and the nuclear bomb has led to the most peaceful time in world history. men and boys are going to have to face the fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:06 PM
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I can’t recount for you the history of mankind and distill it into a simple sentence of why having no draft is a bad idea Okay. That's probably a good thing because I don't need you to. I’m not sure how to articulate it I noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:39 PM
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Ukraine, Russia and other wars say "hello" Hi. Literally the second option I gave was to join NATO. If Ukraine had, russia wouldn't have touched them. If you need me to explain why then you shouldn't have bothered responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:38 PM
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It's a federal offence not to register, and it can affect jobs/student loans if you refuse, so sadly it still is an issue. It's not an issue because they're not going to implement it. Obviously the draft should be retired but I don't care what I signed, I'm not going to war and neither are 99% of the other men that signed it. It's just not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:34 PM
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I don't think that refutes anything I said. I would also probably not use any history prior to the development of the nuclear bomb as evidence of how modern countries should defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:33 PM
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How is a country supposed to defend itself without a draft? Peace treaties, nato, investing in drones, make the military a worthwhile career option There's more than a few options if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:25 PM
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I think no one should register, but ultimately it's not worth caring about because we will never have another draft in this country again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:21 PM
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Proof that I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:24 AM
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I don’t think it’s a common sentiment among women at all. Do some think that way? Sure but compared to men it’s a fraction of a fraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:28 PM
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It's always kind of weird to me how people focused on women rights have no problem trying to throw all men under the bus every time they debate something. Damn, throwing this right back at my would be devastating if it actually made sense. I'm not focused on women's right and I haven't thrown men under the bus. Most men aren't rapists either. Cool. I guess it's a good thing I never said they were huh? Frankly from most of the anecdotes and studies I've seen about woman rapists, education on what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:17 PM
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Because women can also rape men. Definitely, and I'd have no problem with that being part of the course for men. I also don't think it's the end of the world that they're choosing to focus on the issue from that angle considering the stats. I mean should we have special classes for recent arabic immigrant kids only to talk about how not to blow themselves up?? If they were blowing themselves up at the same rates as people experiencing sexual assaults/harassment? Probably. Should we pull black ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:12 PM
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What a weird response. That would only make sense if you think the way women dress dictates whether or not she's raped. I didn't see the way they dress mentioned as a possible safeguard, so what exactly do you think their information was accusing girls of?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:02 PM
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What do you mean why? Because its singling the boys out Is teaching the girls ways to prevent rape also accusatory because it's singling them out? If there was seminar on dress code at your place of work and only the female staff were invited HR would be inundated with complaints about sexism Not if the seminar was specifically about outfits women wear to work. Then again I would never work somewhere with a strict dress code so I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:38 PM
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seems rather accusatory to teach it to only boys. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:12 PM

That article doesn't assume men are rapists by default. Do you honestly have an issue with better defined consent education so that we try to avoid these messy edge cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:53 PM

"broadly speaking, I feel like men have proven useless in the political moment" Is this the part you're referring to or was it said at a different time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:43 PM

Sub-consciously, we all do. Let me explain it in a way you might understand better. Neurotypical people don't categorize partners by their character stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:11 AM
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Your opinion that they're not in a position to critique. Other people may disagree, and to call them all"misogynist" is not the logical conclusion you think it is. Your argument would make more sense if you had seen the examples I was speaking of. Since you haven't, you really have no idea if my assessment was correct or not. Your desire to white knight for random men online is incredibly strange. You've got shit-colored "misogynist" glasses and you're hardly the only one. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:14 AM

Stop trying to date out of an excel spreadsheet. Normal people don't categorize partners by their character stats dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:27 AM

they don’t want to date losers for the most part Don't give away secret knowledge like this for free dude! Go get some grant funding and put together a research paper because this is mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:45 PM

Said in a thread that's talking about how misogyny and misandry is running rampant online... Yeah? I'm not sure what point you think you're making here. It's very clear to me you currently lack the understanding and psychologically of putting people down in ways that don't address the problem if any. I think you mean psychology? It might help to know what words you're using if you're going to try and say I lack understanding on a subject. Please look up the psychologically around shaming people …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:43 PM
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You're doing the "any and all criticism of women is misogyny" thing. You're misunderstanding what I wrote. The "almost anything" I'm talking about is referring to the content in the video, from skateboarding to dancing to being a comedian. None of those situations presumes a situation necessary to critique women in. I am saying that it looks like you're one of those people who believe women should only ever be complimented online and treated with kid gloves. I don't see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:39 PM
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Any popular dating sub is about 70% "dump him etc" I have seen the exact same sentiment towards women in those situations so I'm not sure how this proves anything. It's not misandry to recommend someone break up with their partner if they're having problems. This is an interesting video TED Talk For future reference that's a Tedx event. Which are largely just people using the Ted name to make themselves seem more prestigious. They're not directly affiliated with Ted at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:16 PM
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Interesting, I mean I've seen a lot of women decrying any kind of criticism of women as "misogynist" when men are criticized for the same thing Do you have any specific examples? that's the vibe I'm getting from you. It's a weird terminally online idea that women should be exempt from any kind of negative remark by virtue of their sex. You're kind of playing both sides of the field here. You're saying you don't see these misogynistic comments but now you're saying if they exist they're normal cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:16 PM

That has nothing really to do with gender bias or something. Why? Men killing women is much more real and serious than women cutting guys dicks off. There's no way mutilation of women's body could be conveyed as something funny and not immediatly cancelled, so i don't agree. You can mutilate women's bodies in real life and not get cancelled so I don't really agree with that. Comedy is an exceptionally efficient way to see bias. Much comedy is actually about serious life experiences and analysis,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:13 PM

That's the funny thing about anecdotes, for example I've never seen entire threads calling men slobs. I have seen comment sections full of men belittling women for almost anything on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:21 PM

men calling them hoes yeah Does that not count? I mean you realize it's on nearly every single video featuring a woman showing any amount of skin. Most videos I've come across of women displaying any talent have guys in the comment belittling them. I don't see the same thing on videos featuring men. Also comments agains men always seem like they mean every single man. If a man is writing a hateful comment against a woman it's almost always targeted specifically against that specific woman. "all …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:19 PM

these are comments that I see almost on a daily basis on instagram, while the opposite of that affecting women can only be found in the deepest shitholes of incel forums. You don't see comments calling women hoes or useless on instagram or reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:31 PM

Do you think it's more common than entire threads/comment sections calling women hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:29 PM

I have no idea what the fuck you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:28 PM

Publicly humiliating your husband online for TikTok validation points would one hundred percent be decried as redpill manosphere misogyny if done by the other gender and women do that constantly. What do you consider "publicly humiliating your husband" ? Because I see both genders making dumb videos about their partners and I personally don't see the claims of misogyny on ones done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM

Everywhere you look it's misandry. Could you maybe be a little more specific? Places like here and Reddit we can't even talk about dating strategy because if you get banned What do you mean? This sub is literally built around debating dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:24 PM

OJ getting away with killing his wife was played for jokes too. I don't think comedy is a good example of how people express their views. People laugh at things they don't tolerate all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:23 PM

Any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:28 PM
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What is misandrist about complaining about your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:43 AM
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What are some common misandrist takes that you see that are considered harmless?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:31 AM
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Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:29 AM
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Do you think misandry is more common on social media than misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:41 AM
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I don’t think you understand what I’m trying to say at all You didn't really think saying "a group of men" was subtle did you? lol You should probably focus on actually backing up your argument instead of trying to clumsily sneak in racist memes. As I've tried explaining to you, if you're going to make the crime stat argument, you have to accept the original premise that women have a legitimate reason to be wary of men in general. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:18 AM
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So again, we're back to you agreeing with the very point you're trying to disprove.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:26 AM
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Well yeah, hair pieces are often pretty terrible looking and plugs are better. But I don't hear women complain about those either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:06 AM
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Most of those aren’t the equivalent to makeup at all. I also genuinely never hear women complain about hair pieces. Men overwhelmingly insult men’s hair vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:31 PM
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The vast majority of criminals are men, the vast majority of african americans do not commit crimes. That's about as simple as I can make it for you. What happens when you replace men with a different group or people? A sharp and sudden drop in violence and sex crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:21 PM
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You realize that if you did you would be agreeing with their point that you're....trying to disagree with right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:09 PM
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Sure thing. Good luck with the next alt!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:57 PM
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You’d go home and rationalize away what just happened What happened? Almost everyone where I live would have stopped the riots within 30 minutes That's only because if something happened to the local walmart half your town would be out of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:54 PM
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Reread the comment. No, take a deep breath. Type out what you want to say and THEN hit send. I'm going to read responses you came up with later in the shower lol. I am sure, you will still deny and claim "Too many choices = Choice Overload" Again, nothing you said disputes the claim being presented lol. And it is a quick process. How much time does it take to see a message and if it's low quality, discard it? If it's any amount of time longer than I want it to take, it's too long. So it wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:51 PM
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They seem to know which is which. That doesn't dispute anything that's been said about choice overload lol. Either they are lying that all the messages are from low quality men or they have a quick way to determine which of those are low quality. Or the majority of messages they've read are from low quality men AND it's not a quick process. You might be suffering from dichotomous thinking. It's a symptom of a disorder commonly found on the spectrum. Might be worth looking into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:05 PM
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You’re probably typing this out in a roach infested studio apt in Oakland This feels racist somehow? lol I live in los angeles btw. If you’re a guy, I don’t let other men get away with disrespecting me You’d sense that and I’m probably also larger/stronger than you So you’d think about it and then tuck your little tail between your legs This is a cute little fantasy you've imagined. What happens next?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:01 PM
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Why do you think I wouldn't say this in real life? I’m saying that social media with smart phones has ruined people like you Kind of funny to post that on a 15 day old alt you use to whine about women online lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:47 PM
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You’re assuming that in our family it is not commonly accepted for trusted adults to guide kids when they do something like that and the parents are not present No, my assumption was that you wouldn't be considered a trusted adult by your family. What I described was typical for most families not long ago prior to everyone losing their minds around 15 years ago lol are you saying everyone lost their minds when obama was elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:40 PM
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Having too many choices =/= Choice overload. lol all of them are as overall nearly as good as others. and how is the process for determining this different from a situation where you have fewer options? and you know which choice is which Same question as before
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:33 PM
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That's a pretty awkward response don't you think? All jokes aside, you should probably check with her parents before giving her advice like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:27 PM
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Not like I’m personally awkward Do you think it's possible that people feel this way without ever saying it to your face? My niece recently did this and I advised her Are her parents okay with you giving her advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:01 PM
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I'm not in the mood to go over the risks men have to incur with dating but they are more common than the risk of violence and stalking that women often bludgeon others with when told to make smarter decisions. Don't you think it's a little ironic to complain about women being afraid of something you admitted you struggle to keep from doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:56 PM
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Have you been called awkward before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:21 PM
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That's not the case with dating. Your choices are 500 messages with varying levels of quality and taste. There is no choice overload. You're contradicting yourself here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:12 PM
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You: Oh you hike? Name every trail
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:33 AM
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When did I demand to be first on the trail? lol Literally all I said was that you can enjoy the outdoors AND dislike spiderwebs in your face. For some reason this opinion greatly offended you. Are you afraid of looking like a wizard? Wizards don't need a staff to cast spells dummy. They use a scroll or their spellbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:16 PM
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Are you asking me how to present as an experienced outdoor guy so you can fool the next one? No? lol I was honestly just curious if you were going to stick to your claim of never walking into a spiderweb because I personally find it ridiculous. Good luck when she finds you standing on the kitchen counter because a spider skittered across the floor on your honeymoon I'm not scared of spiders, I just don't want their webs on my face lol. Beyond that, it's not like it's some deep dark shameful secr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:08 PM
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I’m not precious and I’m smart enough to expect insects. That's not what I asked but okay. Good effort at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:45 PM
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If they are first on the trail, they are too inexperienced to go out with me. For what it's worth, I believe you. And if the person who was first on the trail failed to do so? Do you just walk with a stick the entire time or do you walk with your face leaning forward to take the full brunt of nature? They need to keep that headset on and game instead of hiking. So if you've ever walked into a spiderweb while outdoors, you are automatically a gamer and banned from hiking in your opinion? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:11 PM
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If you "didn't see" a spiderweb you should expect outdoors, then you have little to zero experience outdoors. How much prep time would you say you spend on avoiding spiderwebs? Stay inside. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:42 PM
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It means he can't handle nature and adversity outdoors. Men frequently pretend they are manlier and tougher than they really are; it's performative. The spiderweb/bee/mosquito thing is evidence that he's misrepresented his hardiness and experience outdoors. Again, the only part I disagree with is spiderweb avoidance being an indicator of that. It's entirely possible to both love the outdoors and at the same time dislike the unpleasant aspects. Absolutely. If he jumps into a floating kayak and tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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Then stay inside and don't attempt to date people who are outdoorsy. I mean that wasn't my original point. You're totally free to do that, I was just saying that not liking spiderwebs doesn't mean you're not into hiking. Not sure why you brought your beef with spiders to me, but you are doing an awesome job of proving my point about delicate men. By joking back and forth with you? Were you being serious this whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:25 PM
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I'm not trying to remove anything. I just don't like spiderwebs on my face lol. I have a very long standing non aggression pact with spiders that goes back decades. The record low spider deaths in my house speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:47 PM

I expect you not to build your house in a high traffic area where I'm walkin. Like build your web over by the trash can, or light. Tons of bugs over there. Win/Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:37 PM

Do you have any idea what men expect women to take to the face? I mean ideally they're consenting to that. I never consented to taking spider jizz to the face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:10 PM
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Well then I would suggest you stop visiting sites that feature that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:36 AM

Hiking has nothing to do with not liking a spider web in your face lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:33 AM
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You realize those embedded YouTube links aren’t random right? It picks videos based on your browsing history dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:30 AM
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Showing tits and pussy is the same as showing dick Only within the same context. A topless woman at the beach isn’t the same as a guy showing his dick to kids from his car is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:28 AM
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a common theme is women lamenting the fact that its almost impossible to find decent men for LTRs. This has nothing to do with whether or not men are willing to date/marry them. how so many complained about how porn had damaged their ability to have relationships with 'regular' men that they encountered (making LTRs and marriage difficult if not impossible). Again, not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:31 PM
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My point was more that escorting can have a whole host of other issues that would make dating/marriage complicated. It's not the body count that's keeping guys from marrying those women as yes porn stars and other women with high body counts can get married whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:37 PM
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Where are the blue pills chasing down escorts to propose marriage? It shouldn't matter right? Escorts is a loaded term, if you changed it to include sex workers then I'd say there are a lot of "bluepill" guys willing to date/marry those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:21 PM

Haven't you been following #MeToo and the plentiful "no means no" campaigns? metoo peaked in 2017 and has dropped 70% in interest since then. That's 7 years. Why are you acting like it's still a massive mainstream movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:36 AM

Not at all because a dialogue tree has a specific flow and rigidity. You ask a question and then follow up with a question based on if their answer was A or B. Then from A to A1 to A2 to A3 etc. So if you ask about their job, your follow up is going to be related to that based on their answer. Improv would be letting the energy and story dictate what questions get asked and where the conversation goes. Maybe you asked about where they grew up, but that turns into a funny story from your childhoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:29 AM

My favorite part about your anecdote is that it started very simply with just a woman posting something and you commenting to disagree, that was that. It's now morphed into her "Screaming and blaming men" abuse towards you over.....supporting the wnba? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:39 PM

Because those jobs suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:43 PM
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The discussion being "will a relationship fix you" If you're the only one that thinks you're fixed it's unreliable to use that as evidence no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:31 PM
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When did I assume blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:57 PM
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I dodged it because it's irrelevant to the main point of the discussion. Irrelevant to YOU. I can totally understand why they asked. Sorry, but it's pretty annoying seeing people immediately shift the goalposts to start attacking me personally. How were you personally attacked? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:50 PM
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That's not even remotely true. I'd be willing to bet the vast majority of issues that require therapy can all be traced back to childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:34 PM
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It's very clear you're upset with the idea of men requiring physical intimacy to be happy and are desperately trying to paint me into some kind of villain They very clearly and directly asked you multiple times about your partners feelings on the relationship and you've either dodged it or answered it from your perspective every time. The fact that you're getting so defensive over a really basic question is kind of telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:30 PM
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Because it's not? It's more like a debate podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:56 PM
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Whatever isn’t a dating podcast. I’m also not sure how that changes anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:05 AM
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Whatever podcast and fresh and fit are 2 obvious ones. I have no idea who david alvareezy is, but his channel also does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:02 AM
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It's not the act of judging people, it's your reasons for doing so. Again, this really isn't that complicated lol. I feel like you're trying to come off confused to make it seem like what they're saying isn't making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:09 PM
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Of course, I would never expect you to better yourself as a person. I was just trying to help you understand what they were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:52 PM
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You won't ever see them on TV, youtube, anything. Not even remotely true. A lot of very popular channels have OF models on regularly. Just watch any of those weirdo dating/game shows or the red pill debate shows. All of them regularly feature women from OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:14 PM
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They're saying your judgement is a problem. It's really not that complicated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:10 PM

"...so my last situationship ended with him cumming on my face and ghosting me the next day haha" Drop the link
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:43 PM
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I mean, does it really matter? In the grand scheme of things? No. In the moment that I asked, sure. The story is far less about her and moreso to demonstrate a dynamic and a lesson. Interesting that you don't see my question in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:28 PM
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I find that hard to believe but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:26 PM
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I don't want to be seen as "economy class" in the bedroom... Then....don't? I don't see the issue. If you want to be good in bed, work on being good at the things that your current partner likes and do them. It's really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:43 PM

because if most men knew the truth The truth doesn't matter. If you're insecure, nothing she says will make you believe her. You're a living example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:30 PM
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I’m ambivalent about it. If I held resentment, it would mean I still cared or it bothered me. I took the lesson and did the work, so I see no utility in being petty. Do you think she still brings you up to strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:28 PM

you must be unaware of what short men experience in real life if you think it's only an online take. Said by a guy online who spends time in a sub dedicated to complaining about being short. You are EXACTLY what she's talking about lol. online is where people can speak their actual thoughts. I promise you that's not true dude. Social media is more like halloween, it's all pretend. A lot of people online are playing a character they've created of themselves. They talk how they want to be perceive…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:40 PM
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Dismissive of you sure, not OP though. That's not a reasonable take at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:40 PM
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I mean that's why he's her discussing it. Almost like that's why this sub exists. I have no idea what you're trying to say here? Who is disagreeing with this? I'm sure your stupid posts and advice won't help at all, either. This isn't an advice sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:42 PM
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Why does he care? Because he's trying to be successful with women. Doesn't seem like it's working though does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:36 PM
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Guys in this thread are acting like there are two options only. Binary thinking is a common symptom of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:34 PM
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Women are basically silent Nazi's, pretending to be a pony. If no one else takes this flair I'm grabbing it. It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:13 PM
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Let's switch the genders. Imagine if you had multiple guys commenting "yeah I stuck it in the wrong hole and told her it was an accident ha ha aren't I quirky". I guarantee you, they would be downvoted to oblivion and get a lot of pushback on it. If you actually think this is a comparable situation/analogy you should be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:23 PM
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That's a no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:36 AM
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Are you unhappy with your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:26 AM
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Well, mostly everything but I have a feeling you're trying to play dumb again. At this point it's starting to feel like you enjoy being made fun of and this might be a sexual thing for you. Since you didn't ask for my consent I'm gonna have to report this to the admin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:14 AM
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Now, tell me again how bad it is out there for women It’s really bad out there for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:00 AM
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You'd have to question all 99.99 billion of our ancestors to get an answer to that question. The vast majority of people are not maladjusted though so I'm not seeing how that relates? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:41 PM
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You refuse to accept the possibility that you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:37 PM
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Anything to avoid accountability huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:31 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:22 PM
1

Because those kids aren't going to stand a single chance at growing up mentally healthy. Why bring more maladjusted people into the world just for the ego boost?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:09 PM
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Please whatever you do, don’t have a kid. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:42 PM
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Women can be guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:14 PM
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Gender is just clothes dude lol I wasn't using it to mean they were all men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:02 PM
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Why did you send this twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:53 PM
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Your general consensus would probably matter more if it wasn't pulled from the kind of guys that hang out in PPD daily chat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:53 PM
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You know I heard people complain at the biases of enforcement on reddit but seeing it first hand is wild. It couldn't possibly be that you're....wrong....could it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:43 PM
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I'm asking for support I know? That's what I said? lol I'm documenting. How's that going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:39 PM
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Do you not have anyone in real life you can talk to about this stuff? Why do you keep seeking support in these daily chat threads? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:20 PM

I wanted you to state it explicitly so you didn't have any plausible deniability of what you were saying. I stated it explicitly the first time and never denied it? lol I suggested you look into it. You're the one who's taking the idea of being autistic as some kind of slur. That's something you need to work through. No doing so would be a waste of my time. How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:19 PM
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I mean i’m not top tier but yes i’ve had success. I don’t really care what you’re inclined to think tbh. Which is why you've spent multiple comments trying to convince me you're successful with women? lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:58 PM
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So you got dumped and got mad. Yeah I had it all wrong, you're clearly very successful with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:55 PM
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talking to someone who is white knighting on reddit tells you i’ve never talked to women. Making alt accounts where you seethe about being single and unwanted is how I know you've never talked to women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:30 PM
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Arranged marriages aren't forced marriages Anything done without full consent of the people involved is by definition forced. Racism? What was racist about what I said? Dowry of any kind is illegal Oh right, I forgot that when something is illegal it means people never do it. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:26 PM

You in particular can claim to not. But the same people that recognize asking someone "Have you talked to a doctor about getting an autism diagnosis?" is as much as an ad hom attack as "Have you talked to a doctor about getting a bpd diagnosis?" What argument of yours was I dismissing with my question? What exactly would I be treating? A possible autism diagnosis? Why do you think playing dumb is some kind of clever debate tactic? People in real life would find this incredibly annoying. lol How …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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You’re a despicable person. I just want you to know I'm imagining you saying this like daffy duck. When the gloves come off women always make their disdain for any non chad known. I'm not a woman. It's understandable why you would make that mistake though because you don't have experience talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:10 PM

we know most ppd ladies would take offense at that question How would I know that? Even more importantly what does that have to do with me? lol You took offense to it, that’s fine. Not everyone has empathy for people on the spectrum. It’s something I hope you come to better terms over time as you learn more about how to treat it. you’re trying to say I have trouble understanding social interactions Yep. I feel pretty confident about that actually. Oh the irony lol How is that ironic at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:39 AM

You mean some women’s parents are willing to sell their daughter into a loveless marriage for goats or idk whatever you guys are trading these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:30 AM

You can ask that if you want. I wouldn’t take offense to it. It would just be weird as I’m not really exhibiting any symptoms associated with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:05 AM
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I’m too ugly for casual sex Awww don’t say that. I bet you’re too ugly for a lot of different kinds of sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:59 AM
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This was total gibberish lol I have no idea what you think you were saying but it made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:41 AM
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Because accusations of being autistic are used as attacks on Reddit. I guess it's a good thing I didn't accuse you of being one then huh? I asked if you had ever sought out a diagnosis. I didn't say you were. You're implying I have a personality disorder because you don't like how I've responded Because you're exhibiting signs of having trouble understanding social situations, which is a common symptom. You wouldn't take it this personally unless there wasn't some truth to it. Not buying it. I n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:58 AM
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