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I guess not. Kind of the only way I can categorize it though. There are similar elements. Regardless I don't see what the problem with having a cuck fetish is. It's not like you can train yourself out of having a sexual quirk. For better or for worse, it's somewhat a part of you and you can try to change it but ultimately will probably just have to cope with it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:47 PM
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This is pretty half baked advice, and a misrepresentation of what I was talking about. I don't watch cuck porn. I watch normal porn of girls being slutty. I have a fantasy, sure. No ED. No small penis. No insecurity. Cuck fetishes have this one aspect to me: girls are cock hungry whores with no moral grounding. It turns me on in a weird way to think about my girlfriend being someone she isn't, entirely. I don't care about the way the other man looks. I just care that she doesn't care. Maybe it's…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:01 AM
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What if you have a bit of a cuck fetish? I do, and I still think porn is dumb. But I think this is a bad reason for not liking porn. Porn and my imagination are the only ways I've been comfortable exploring my cuck fetish. I like porn almost purely for the cuck. It's like... The proof women are nothing but valueless amoral whores to my sexual brain. I dunno. Does that make me inherently lesser? I'm not offended, I just think you're wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:50 AM
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Happy isn't something that happens as a byproduct of something else. Happy is the way you do things. Positivity, courage, and a big picture understanding of the task at hand. You will fail. But every great person fails. Multiple times. Some more miserably than others. Problem solve. Slowly learn. You aren't just making a program, hitting 'run', and watching it work. You're constantly working and moving and re-evaluating. Welcome failure with open arms. Laugh at the absurdity of it. Be thankful y…
/r/becomeaman20/02/16 04:29 AM
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He can be mad all he wants. Respond charitably. Tell him about the way you managed to snag 'his' girl, and maybe he'll learn something for the next one instead of being butthurt over his crippling oneitis. Create competition for yourself, man. It makes you stronger in the end.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 02:23 AM
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She is submitting herself to your superiority in asking that you do this for her, which does not support any concept of equality. Physically, men and women are equally as able to shovel a driveway. Despite a man's physical superiority, naturally, a woman can almost just as easily and with more physical benefit shovel a driveway and go along her way. Her time is no more valuable than yours. You just made a stride for gender equality by denying that pussy pass. Women are practically not inferior t…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:33 AM
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OP, no matter what happens, some weird shit is going down as a result of either way you decide to respond to this situation. If you like this girl, it's your call, but I guarantee you'll just come crawling to us with tears in your eyes. "He's still an important person in my life." She doesn't understand her place in yours. It's not that she isn't important to you, it's that she can't be fucking around with anyone's emotions (yourself or her ex) while being in a relationship. I, personally, would…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:39 PM
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The world of women and men isn't bad or good. It just is. It's fluid and it's hard for everyone to navigate. Be realistic with your goals and interaction and accept magic and inspiration where it comes. Being a man isn't about being some repressed piece of shit who doesn't communicate with women. It's about being open and true to yourself deep down, and realizing the consequences of letting anyone get to you. Don't choke on your emotions, just place them well. They're important. No problem. Good…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:32 PM
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Yeah, you're receiving the best advice you can probably receive in this context. It doesn't really matter to us if you are breaking frame with your girlfriend. If you want to have a good frame, you need to first have a confident and deliberate state of mind. If you want to have a confident and deliberate state of mind, you need to stop being an idiot like that. The drunk driving is at the root of the problem. To keep good frame, stop giving such a large amount of fucks about what matters to her.…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:10 PM
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Holy shit, OP. No shame. All sass. Not very RP behaviour. Own up on your mistakes. It wasn't just a mistake. You made a conscious decision to be an idiot. If you treat it like just a mistake, you'll probably do it again and again until you fucking slam into a cyclist or total your car.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:37 PM
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Men's Issues is a super delicate topic. I would advise really focusing on proving your premise before you work at musings on solutions or directions for social change. Don't use any devices that assume your audience will be sympathetic. Don't be a knight for the issue. Speak of it from the frame of mind that they come from, otherwise they'll just be reading a different language. All of this is pretty obvious, but it's so crucial, as feminists masturbate to this well-constructed piece of awful rh…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:26 PM
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I would encourage men here to take Gender Studies courses. Not only is it a field study on RP in action (GREAT place to pick up women if cards are played right), but it's also a chance to see how much using emotion to argue doesn't work. I took one last semester, and got a B- on a paper arguing against the prevalence of the Wage Gap. Fortunately, the teacher wasn't a total idiot, and I managed to argue it up to an A-. I really think that to defeat the hamster, one must understand every hinge in …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:51 AM
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Thanks, man. I work just as hard as anyone, but I feel the payoff is equal in a way. I really love what I do.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:23 PM
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And I'm impressed at your ability to look for keywords then quote them out of context!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:12 AM
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Oh my. I didn't even think this was an issue. I'm a musician, and I'm currently spinning 2 plates. I make less than 25k/year, on average. Sometimes much more. I wouldn't call that mad plates, but I'm currently living with my mom to help her make mortgage payments (less than standard rent where I live, plus I get to have a studio there for free forever, and that's fucking equity), and then saving money to eventually move and establish myself/go to music school in Europe in the next year, after I …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:45 AM
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Melody is totally subjective! BUT, your opinion is all that matters to yourself (obviously). Check out more modern crossover hip-hop stuff, like Robert Glasper and Snarky Puppy. Both jazz. Both relevant. Jazz was given a bad name by the 70-90s. Everyone was way too coked up, and it didn't change shit. Now, we have straight-edge motherfuckers playing sweet soulful shit just like the old, old days.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:17 PM
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Learning to understand those concepts will make you a great player from start to finish. Tension and release are what it's all about!
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:09 PM
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As a professional keyboardist/guitarist/bassist/singer and teacher, I have a couple of things to point out. a. On bass and guitar, practice chromatic scales. Don't worry about diatonic (within a key) scales, just yet. Worry about where notes fit on the fingerboard. Get to know them intimately. Your ability to play notes accurately and competently, as well as your knowledge of where they are, is what will build the best foundation, after you understand that, scales will be worth more to you. Scal…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:34 AM
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Ok, my mind is changed, but I dislike seeing sensationalism and idolization of such superficial cultures, which is why I deemed it impractical. Another point is that this is basically conjecture. Media sensationalizes the story for us -> we perceive it as RPT confirmed -> we use it as an example to affirm our worldly knowledge. It seems more like confirmation bias than affirmation. I think that affirmation is better found in more concrete, real world examples. I don't really think that men under…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 10:59 AM
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OK, I'd like to break this down for a second. Celebrity dating and culture is MASSIVELY sensationalized, and should not be used as examples of RP Theory. I don't think this woman is any example of a typical woman. I don't think that any man on TRP right now is likely to reach that level of SMV. This woman clearly is able to sleep with superficial, massive celebrities. So why DOESN'T she just sleep with all of them? This is a sexual marketplace none of us are very likely to be a part of, and at t…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:39 AM
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Shit. I totally did 2, 5, and 8 on my date last night. It went well, but It didn't feel optimal, and I wasn't even a little bit sure why until now. Quality post, right here.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:18 AM
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AGREED. This should be every day. Honestly, the quality of material on this sub has plunged with the growing amount of anti-feminist circlejerking that goes on. I agree with most of them, but I think that's reason enough not to post just to affirm your viewpoints. The only way gender issues are relevant to TRP causes is where they conflict ethically with how our practices might be perceived, and even there we can't tear apart the societal establishment. We're pretty disliked. We continue to exis…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:50 PM
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Ah. People pleasing is not what I am implying. I agree with your thought on the matter. It's more the give and take. Honestly, it doesn't particularly matter how you go about it. I just find that my current strategy has been conducive to success socially and professionally. I'm still figuring out that aspect of social dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:54 AM
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That's awesome! That's basically what I'm talking about though. It's like putting on a bullshit threshold. I'm quite polarizing, but when I converse, I try to be charming and let it flow but at the same time be honest and forthright. The two can be hard to mix and it sometimes pisses people off. This doesn't bother me. There's a certain point where the bullshit runs too strong and I just have to ignore that person or allow the conversation crash and burn. However, I don't go into a conversation …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:50 AM
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As a professional performer, this is far from true. You have to develop trust and rapport with your audience. You have to demand respect, and when it's given to you, you have to be open to process all offers and return them. A good performer always interacts and seeks offers from their audience. Same goes for conversation. Not giving a fuck with an open ear/mind is the best way to go. Your opinions should be constructed to better yourself (subjective to your taste) and you should be able to back…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:47 AM
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Accepting this has made relationships much more fulfilling and less delusional for me. I never really related to the pedestal metaphor because I don't usually place a girl above me. However, I placed them somewhere, PERIOD. I expected things of them. I assumed everything I had to offer was more than enough, and in the end it would bite me in the ass and I wouldn't learn a thing about true kindness in interacting with someone you care for in a relationship. Now, I never indulge my girlfriend in a…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:52 AM
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Everything was going great to me before you talked to her after saying you don't want to talk to her. You lied/showed weakness. I, personally, think she knew she was going to fuck you. You fully indulged her even after she admitted to her unseemly behaviour in her relationship. As any man who has slept with a woman after some exchange of honesty and weakness knows, the BP hamster wheel is in full turn after sex when you forget everything wrong with the person and convince yourself that there is …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:40 PM
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This can get exhausting with female friends. I'm never able to kick back and relax and say whatever with most of my female friends because of the coooonstant shit tests. Now it's just, 'We never hang out anymore!' Oh, we don't? I was just doing as I please and didn't notice.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:50 PM
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Agreed. I realize that usually like 3 months after 'falling in love' with girls, at which point I realize I can do better than to put up with staleness, and I move the fuck on.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:56 AM
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Well, he's just a dumbass, then. Dude, you're taking the hard road. It's the least I can do.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:00 AM
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Addressing the first thing: Blue pill and red pill are a bit of an unnecessary distinction when it comes to explaining to your friends. If they see there as just being a line between the two, they won't care whether they really cross, and will, as blue pillers do, try to hamster their way into seeing the 'truth' on either side. I think it's all leading by example. Teach him what's best for him! Anyway, good luck with your friend. Some newbies don't want to be vocal. Some newbies do. A lot of tim…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:28 PM
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Oh dear GOD, no! I clearly am commenting despite being downvoted. I can't sell karma. I am not discouraged by losing it. It's less that I fear being alienated, and more I fear being misunderstood, but I still explain my position with as much honesty as I can. I just, like lots of other humans, want to relate to other people who I see as like minded to me, and to me, that can best be achieved through being honest. If they don't like it, I was probably wrong about their like-mindedness. I probably…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:19 PM
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Thinking about it, I find it rather unfortunate that people's hamsters are training for a double marathon just to fight against brutally honest truths. I, like everyone else, have a hard time thinking my way around that. I really would love these truths to be ones everyone recognizes. I'd love TRP to penetrate the minds of feminists and white knights everywhere. I think it would make the world better. I suppose this is the part of the struggle. I guess that is a point I could stress, that the po…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 01:25 PM
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TRP is, many times, a circle jerk. Tons of posts are just people stating things relating to trp, and other people emphatically agreeing with certain points. If ever someone disagrees, then they're downvoted to the deepest depths of hell and are never heard from again. So, although I do see some contrarian comments, I don't see them as often as I'd like. AS WITH ALL OF REDDIT. The reddit model is a breeding ground for circle jerks of all varieties. I see no reason why trp ought not let the newbie…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:42 AM
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Literally all I'm proposing is that. Like an 'asktrp' sub reedit that focuses on the discussion of semantics in the actually theory. So far, there's a mass of terminology (and great, there's a glossary) all jumbled up in conjecture and anecdotal and statistical evidence. To be honest, I find it riveting, but I'm biased because I already was leaning toward trp ideology before I stumbled across it. However, there is a relevant component that needs to be emphasized. People need discussion to help i…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:33 AM
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I never said it would be not moderated. The idea is more for discussion of ideas that are introduced in TRP. Explanations. Like, I learn more effectively from real interaction with another person because it gives me the sense that they are trying to explain the concept in words that cannot be contextually misconstrued. It can also give people a chance to make mistakes with the concepts, which are far too easy to interpret poorly. You could make the useless and fallacious argument that the ideas …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:10 PM
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Just a musing, but I think there ought to be a new sub dedicated to educating newbies. It might totally vanquish the need for sidebar rules such as we have, currently. If there already is one, present it more obviously. I do not claim excellent knowledge on the TRP, but I am a person who learns best through discussion. I'm sure there are many others out there like me. You could argue that this isn't an existent trait, but the fact so many ask for advice instead of gleaning knowledge from sifting…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:27 PM
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H-holy shit. I saw the first video a while back, but watching it again made me physically angry.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:15 PM
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I'm a dude who likes some relatively weird stuff. However, it'd be a huge turnoff if I wasn't told by the girl that she was transgender before she decided to kiss me. It's just the honesty. It clearly is a huge thing in her life. She could be hot as hell, but if she lies out of her own insecurity, then I'm out of there. If she told me, contrary to a lot of people in this thread, I might be down for things short of me touching penis. Maybe I am a little bi (is that an issue here?). However, the d…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:42 PM
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Except women can do a hell of lot not to be completely obnoxious. I have been inclined to be a hell of a lot more down to have sex with a girl who can steal me away from my friends with a conversation. Maybe it's just bitterness about how attractive, uneducated, and entitled women (or, I guess, people in general, but it's rarer in men) get to vote. That's probably what murders my libido.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:53 AM
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Yeah, but the fact poverty exists in the 'first world' is ridiculous. Some people get sick and it isn't their fault. They get prostate cancer, or they develop breast cancer or a brain tumor. Then what do they do? If they're rich, they might live, if they're poor, they'll probably die. Some people give 50% of their huge (or not so huge) incomes to charity every year so hospitals in poorer areas can have equipment or so poor people can go to school. Other people give that money to high-class hooke…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:15 PM
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That's the thing though. To walk down the streets with the benefit of everyone and everything looking as though they have their bases covered requires a net contribution. I don't want to walk around seeing obese people or homeless people dying on the street because they couldn't afford an education. When I went I Memphis, I saw more obese black kids alongside rickety houses and sorry business owners and large expensive corporate facilities than I thought could exist. If you're ok with that, then…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:55 PM
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Also, Obamacare is like a pitiful crawl in the direction of socialized medicine.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:25 PM
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Mine covers everything non-cosmetic. My aunt paid a total of $3000 out of pocket for all her surgeries and treatments over 4 years of having cancer. Those treatments would have cost that much for the first 2 months in America. The system is a bottom line for those who need it. I think of the taxes I pay as charity. I agree with the premise that a country is only as good as its middle class. It does not cause me to be lazy or to coast, and it teaches me that my respect for someone does not relate…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:23 PM
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I live in Canada, dude. I pay a day's work per month on my healthcare.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:48 PM
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Socialized infrastructure is like a bottom line behind a free market system that gives organizations and corporations the money they need to support and rehabilitate those who have been slagged down by society or themselves. Lower class people have access to high class education, which mixes the pool and allows people the opportunity to be successful despite initial circumstance. Purely merit based. Danes don't pay a cent for school, and being a student pays as much as a part time job, and like …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:29 PM
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I'm gonna be honest, I'd do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:04 PM
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Isn't RWJ like... Persian? He's at least VERY Balkan. If he's white, I'm translucent, and most of my friends are transparent. I still can't find her with a single Asian dude no matter how hard I search. Although, she is PRETTY much white, so she probably prefers and identifies with whiter individuals. Or she just hates dat Asian dyuk, and is apologizing for it. Heh.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:58 AM
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I don't think there is righteousness on either side of this deal. However, the burden of conduct I think is placed on this man's fiance who failed to read into the limits of his anger and felt the protection of society's misandry toward domestic violence (which I think is rarely reasonable). She didn't feel accountable for her actions, as he probably didn't feel for his, they were controlled by emotion. He did, however, directly feel the consequences long-term and she did not. Even if it were an…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:19 AM
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You manipulated the hell out of these insecure, clearly self-destructive college chicks. IMO, lying is not a good habit to form. It's a lot more difficult to be honest with girls and to deal with your failures than to prolong them. I'm all for superficial, meaningless sex, but I am not one for trying to lie to preserve them. Sex is pretty easy to get! Maybe you're just attractive, and they're just acting hedonistic, and know what they've gotten into. In that case, you're lucky. Even with college…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 05:46 AM
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She does make a lot of money, and apparently has enough to go to the superbowl.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 07:01 AM
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To me, TRP is about self-responsibility in sexuality. It embodies the understanding that if you take control of your life and take responsibility for your misfortunes, you will come out a better human. I'm tired of hearing betas mercilessly railing on women and feminists as though they're some sort of inhuman adversary in society. Sure, they are ideologically, but power comes from understanding and discussion. Hate and bitterness will not win you a single battle. RP'ers should be able to come wi…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 11:18 AM
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Those are some badass words, man. Much respect. Yeah, I do find myself 'over-judging' girls' intelligence. Out of high school, I was both academically smart and was starting my first tour, so I found myself thinking women were bottom of the barrel of my priorities, and those who I did try to give a chance I found to be too dumb. My brother and I both do it. Now, I'm behind all my buddies in terms of confidence and the practice. You're right. I am doing it wrong. When I'm at a show, girls do thro…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 09:07 PM
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Haha, I was waiting for a response like this. I'm actually a jazz guitarist. And not the whiny, weird kind. I play a lot of soul, jazz, funk, RnB, pussy-getting music, basically. I also play a lot of metal, and I used to be in a Crust-Punk band called Shitty Corpse (I miss it because the name), but those were just for fun and not my passions. It's mostly the fact that I'm a picky bitch, and can't help but take people's best interests into account. Thanks for your words, man. Pretty invaluable ad…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 03:06 AM
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Yeah, well, I'm not seeking to brag. Just trying to get the facts out in order to get answers. And you're right. It is self conviction. I'm picky, but I also am a pussy. That's gotta stop. I gotta stop being a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 02:57 AM
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I like this. Also, to be clear, considering the distance and all that, I wanted to make it clear I wasn't looking for a strong commitment, as she was going away, so we mutually decided we wouldn't go crazy if something else came along that agreed better with us. It turned out alright though. I would never stay with a girl who was sleepin' round, but I would make it clear that I'm not about to murder them if they do it. Honesty was the goal, in that scenario. Otherwise, I appreciate your strategi…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 02:28 AM
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