onherown Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Okay please one thing.		onherown	/r/askMRP	20/11/16 02:05 AM
0	Woman here. I am trying so hard.		onherown	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 08:02 PM

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1	Ladies: Your husband is obliged to put up with your shit, not MRP How long have you been lurking and how much of the sidebar have you read? I've read and reread the Surrendered wife, which I first applied in 2002 or so. We then went to grad school together (same program!) and now own and operate a business together. I have surrendered again significantly lately just being a part of the business and giving up a really nice ego stroking academic job related to our shared education. I got to get dressed up, earn AN INCOME, and feel, like, smart. But as an adjunct…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/11/16 04:20 AM
1	Ladies: Your husband is obliged to put up with your shit, not MRP Thanks for asking specific questions. I WOULD suggest askmrp for thread questions but if makes the boys, er, uncomfortable, one will enjoy banning you. I'm not banned here yet, as I am at askmrp but I want to say the 250 bucks I spent on the sidebar books and shared with my husband was well spent. I have also reread TSW several times(hubby also found it and got halfway through it before I hid it. One of the reasons I got him his own selection of books.) He doesn't Internet recreationally. I'd se…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/11/16 02:32 AM
1	Ladies: Your husband is obliged to put up with your shit, not MRP It seems like it. Stonepimpleitis in particular likes to ban self identified women. Oh, did I just commit a bannable offense here?	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/11/16 02:20 AM
-1	Married men do you have crushes at work if you how do you deal with it? Sorry, you're not real because you're female. Go ask women elsewhere on the Internet what men are like. At least the manly men. Because here they have to spend their time demonstrating their manliness rather than their intellect. is there a /r/securealphamen who don't need to scream women out of their echo chamber? And don't send me to the red pill chick groups who just want to trap a man. I have one. He's great except that it takes me too long to get physically aroused unless I pretend we're bo…	/r/askMRP	26/11/16 11:03 PM
1	I get the feeling like a bunch of 40 year old virgins who were cheated on their wives of 20 years made this sub to cope You, more than any other one here, can't handle a woman actively working to create this in her life.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/11/16 10:45 PM
-2	I get the feeling like a bunch of 40 year old virgins who were cheated on their wives of 20 years made this sub to cope But you should ban and delete based on what THEY say, not the spinout. You deleted my last thread a good 18 hours after I last touched it. It wasn't my fault it got deleted, it was that so many newbs got their panties in a twist over my comments and didn't / COULDN'T get all the previous info. But go head, get down, girl. Enioy nuking another thread. Not mine.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/11/16 08:49 PM
-1	I get the feeling like a bunch of 40 year old virgins who were cheated on their wives of 20 years made this sub to cope Hey I'm the wifey who bought half the sidebar for her husband and got two threads deleted and 48 hour banned last weekend. And I disapprove of this message. While hubby was railing me bent over on our newly raised bed (you could read the significance here if my threads hadn't been all deleted) Sunday afternoon while the kids were at Nana's, I got THIS close to asking him 'Are you the King? SAY I'm the king.' I only didn't because I was afraid he would be confused. He did promise me later to rere…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/11/16 08:25 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Was my post deleted?	/r/askMRP	20/11/16 01:08 AM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. The night we met. He told me later he reminded me I'd given him my recent copy of the economist. This was overseas. We were expats. I had a great career then and was planning graduate school. I joked that someday I would be qualified to apply for one of those jobs listed in the back. He loved that, my ambition. His exact words were that he knew we could be a good couple that night and that 'no matter what, you were gonna get yours'. Now that we have adjusted to a much smaller life, well, we've b…	/r/askMRP	20/11/16 12:03 AM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Okay. Went to your blog and he'll make some meathead crack about your landing page. Can you recommend three posts and I'll leave them open as tabs on the main computer browser. He checks our business dashboard and admits he always checks my open tabs to see if there's anything interesting. Usually I leave stuff about monetary policy open. We ARE almost doomers but not quite peppers. One thing we both agree about ourselves as a couple (based on shared history) is that we could be dropped anywhere…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 11:49 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. He says he did. I didn't watch over his shoulder. We sleep in different rooms because our business requires management over a long day and he takes first shift. I deal with the kids, then he gets them from school and I meet up for dinner. (Which 90% of the time I have planned shopped for and prepared even though he's free in the afternoon. I want him to nap but way too often he gets pulled into some volunteer work for church usually and skips his nap). I guess the next book is WISNIFG. A big iss…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 11:38 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Most of our friends are from church. This is also a conservative area. He really appreciates the drugs. Date night two weeks ago was ghb and the first two episodes of westworld I downloaded. He'd never even heard of it. I guess he's generally happy with what I do. I think my feelings are a huge inconvenience to him. What does he think about xx? I assure you it depends entirely on how he feels that minute. He's an ENTP and I'm an ENTJ. understanding our temperament differences has taught us how t…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 11:30 PM
1	Woman here. I am trying so hard. I was first on reddit when silk road 1 went down. Then I found deadbedrooms. . Search there for 'drugs to fix a deadbedroom? ' and you'll find a bunch of people telling me that if I need drugs to want to fuck my husband we should divorce. So then I started reading here. If I were a troll why post here and not on the main subreddit? Because that's what this sub is for.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:59 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. You need viagra to screw on MDMA. At least it helps. Common side effect. Most important thing is not to do too much or too often. Good specific vitamins. Protect the seratonin machine.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:54 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. How do I pm? Using an app.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:49 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. And regarding turn of phrase I actually have a weird jedi like way of turning off my emotional responses. My family is full of people on the autism spectrum but it never seemed necessary to get a diagnosis. Got 97 percentile verbal on my graduate school entry test back in 2002. Quant? Far less. He's more of a Quant than me.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:46 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. None of my female friends can handle hearing about the drugs. Pillars of the community and stuff. ..	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:34 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Being here all day is my tantrum. Father in law is picking up older girl right now for a matinee (the Harry Potter one) and younger kid will be easy to keep busy. Showtime.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:32 PM
1	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Yeah admittedly, I think that would need drugs	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:28 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Onions, man. :)	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:28 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. I literally have a copy 2 feet away. He actually read it about 2 years ago!	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:27 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. His biggest complaint about me is weed and alcohol. Which he does too. But I guess he wants me more sober than him. Yoga and exercise increasing is helping me not drink with him as much. Another thing is that I gave up a fun and very financially rewarding academic post because the variability of being an adjunct was hard on the family and business. I now just work with our business and it's hard getting our sea legs working together. He would say that he just works too damned hard to have people…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:24 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. None of us had a condom. Second time in my life I'd tried cocaine.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:13 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Actually in his narrative he's a much more sexual person than me. That the chilliness of our deadbedroom years shut him down. Now he says 'please kiss me'. And I feel like he's grading my performance. He looks me in the eye and asks what I want and I want NOT to be asked that question. At least not in the moment! Yes. He has old wounds too. I just want a great future going forward but it is not sexy for either of us.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:10 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. I like your posts too. And UEMCGILL (my Alma mater). But he won't read a computer. Book. Need a book.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:06 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. I never actually talk about this stuff unless he's giving me the silent treatment. I couch it in vulnerability. It's almost always after I've stopped crying and come back to the room.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:04 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. That's why I bought GHB too. It's the closest thing to a female aphrodisiac. I've been reading you for 2 years BPP and think I'm probably a lot like your wife. And you loved her formidableness. These ppl calling me troll for initiating don't understanding that's for me that means opening u the schedule and wearing something nice. There's never any romantic approach unless I'm already perfect. And then he complains about the script! I'm the lower libido person and came 2 reddit right after the fi…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 10:01 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Edit: Shanghai not Beijing. My last business trip was to Shanghai when I was pregnant with my first. She's 8. We've since bought a local business and I have no reason to travel. Maybe I would cheat with the opportunity. But I don't want a divorce. We used to have a don't ask don't tell before we were engaged. (Oh and you needed to be out of the country too lol.) We also got close to a 3 way with one of his old best friends he rarely keeps in touch with. Hell! He asks ME how old friend is doing o…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 09:50 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Thanks. Just got out of the shower. BTW he's been a great dad all afternoon. Just made the kids lunch and when I hollered for help because I was sure my fancy sensor excel razor was still in the bathroom box we took away last weekend (really bad family getaway which is one reason this is all coming to a head) it wasn't there. He sheepishly brought in two cheap ass dollar store razors I keep just I'm case. Then I remembered (lol) that last time I took a shower I was so exhausted that I forgot to …	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 09:40 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. I'm not a troll. And I' ve already got some great ideas. I want to ask him, risk return ratio, what is it worth to have an intimate life with me (and the reason I bought Althols MAP insteadof MMSLP is because I don't want to make it all about sex).	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 09:18 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Wow. Some man is a great writer. Lol.	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 09:11 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Because I'm real baby. My only fear right now is doxxing myself. We're community people. It was wrong to say that we don't socialize together. We go to church. I hate it when I end up sitting between his parents (they've all joined OUR) church though they have a history with the denomination. I've asked him to sit with me in church because it's weird having to be their 'weird little wall of detached identity' because vague ppl at church are curious as to what all these relationships are? I like …	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 09:10 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. It's just too fucking political there now. Trump shit. In my life I'm allowed to be a feminist. As a visible female entrepreneur in my town I believe and publicly espouse causes that they tut tut at drowning everything out. I don't respect them to be honest. Maybe that's a lack of self reflection on my part. Anyway I've been reading them since I started reading mrp. Which was a year before I bought the books. There's just this obsequiousness there. Servitude. From how he fell in love with me. He…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 08:53 PM
2	Woman here. I am trying so hard. Search deadbedrooms for my other post. Look up MDMA and you'll find me. Another annoyance of mine at him (while we're here) is that he won't evolve technologically. Flip phone. Crappy texter. Tv content? He hasn't the foggiest on how to set up bittorrent or a vpn. Hell I use tor to help my friends win stupid online contests and maybe aquire mdma or another one. Or viagra which we enjoy on MDMA which we limit to 4x a year as spread out as far as possible. Got to follow best practices! I have alwa…	/r/askMRP	19/11/16 08:34 PM