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ADVICEorangesalt/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 04:57 AM
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ADVICEorangesalt/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 05:37 AM
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I wonder where Skype sex will fall with this distinction. Surely we should follow the 'are you naked? Then yes' formula?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 01:32 AM
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Hello! Thanks for replying. I realise that I wasn't very clear — I only met him after finding out about rpw so I had a bit of time to think about the sub in general. He does not know about rp.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 07:51 AM
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hello! thank you for replying; your comment has provided some clarity about what really happened. i have a question, if you don't mind – would you reckon that monk mode will be helpful? it'd be something very new to me and am feeling quite apprehensive. after all it'd definitely be easier to just look outward to feel better, right?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 07:40 AM
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I'll be moving into college this month, and finalising funding for my startup. Amidst all this, i want to eat well via homecooking. My goals then would be to commit to eating nutritiously all month, and to look out for myself and practice self care at least daily. These two habits have been very elusive for me, and usually drop out after 2 weeks. Hope to stay the course this time round!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 10:29 AM
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how effective would it be for a female to develop an MAP comparable to the concept from /r/marriedredpill? surely something systematic with tangible progress would be very helpful to look at! Although we'd definitely need a modified version to suit our different needs...wonder what everyone thinks!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 09:07 AM
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Is gracefully accepting offers from others always the right thing to do? I live in a culture where people ask to do this or offer help regardless of how they really feel, just to keep up appearances or to look good. Accepting an offer immediately can be judged as being greedy/lazy/etc. How should I manage the situation in this case? Even those who are unwilling tend to be quite pushy especially if there is an audience, so it feels like I'm in a tight spot. It'd be amazing if you could share your…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 01:59 AM
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woah that's kinda like what I did! great that i didn't mess up then :P thank you for replying!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:45 AM
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you replied very promptly, thank you! :) he definitely had more to say when the day ended. I'm not a very good listener, so I did the thing where you use your own words to repeat what he said to make sure I actually heard him. was this appropriate?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:26 AM
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I should definitely say that! :) It didn't occur to me that they'll have something to comment about either way. thank you for replying!
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:23 AM
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thank you for the straightforward answer! turning things into problems won't improve anything. Would you happen to have insight on why I feel the compulsion to do so? I'm definitely not acting on it, but if I can correct this 'instinct' then avoiding this would be much simpler eventually :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:21 AM
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thank you for replying! :) you're right, I shouldn't be worrying about this. even the concern that I'm not being 'helpful' enough is still fairly self-absorbed, since there was no problem in the first place. however complications happened later in the day, where he was overloaded with work because his immediate superior resented that he was being buddies with the only other guy in the office. I mostly kept quiet so that he can complete his rant, and am grateful that he only has a week left there…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:17 AM
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...I have done both at least once, but realized and apologized within the hour it happened. I follow the rule where if the last sender is you, you don't initiate the next stream of texts, and that has helped me moderate the frequency!
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 11:49 PM
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I'm not sure what to look for. Are there definitive signs that can indicate that I need to pull back a little? So far he has been quite responsive to my texts, so I suppose I'm not overloading him too much for now.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 01:43 AM
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I may just be very confused, but how do you tell the difference between devotion and clinginess? I try to be as available and as positive as possible, but I wonder if there will be a point when it becomes 'too much'.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 12:26 AM
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I've been looking for girl friends to be with, especially after dropping my male buddies. What traits should I look for if I want consistent, dependable company? edit – I realised that my post was very vague. Here's the elaboration: Previously I had little faith in female friends in general, because the ones I chose were very flaky and non-committal, or are part of cultures that I want nothing to do with. It may also be helpful to include that I used to be in an all-girls elementary school, and …
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 12:16 AM
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Thank you for your reply! Would addiction to love be the contrast to the OP then? I'm sure that it would be just as real.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 03:46 AM
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What would you define as 'addiction'? Imo it's okay to rely on these things to feel better once in awhile, as long as it doesn't go overboard or interferes with one's quality of life. Money. How do you tell the difference between healthy and unhealthy in this case? I may be suspect to this, as I'm currently moonlighting so that I can live more comfortably and be in the position to be a homemaker when the time comes. However that's taking a toll on my relationship because I have great trouble wit…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 07:00 AM
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Thank you for the affirmation :) I've been feeling very insecure about our relationship lately; hopefully I can channel those feelings into something more positive.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/16 06:08 AM
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We've just cancelled our date! T_T I was looking forward to it so much, but he's overseas for an extra day so I didn't mope about it! In fact I offered to postpone the whole thing so that he can rest, because he seemed really stressed about today. I'm still dealing with lingering feelings of doubt though :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/16 11:55 PM
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i should have thought of that! thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 06:36 AM
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my SO wants to go swimming but i'm terrified of being a downer during the whole thing! compared to his swimming abilities i'm quite awful at it, and it's going to be an exercise date so there will be frustration if i can't keep up. we're taking a 'date break' this weekend so I'll be sure to practice by myself and make sure I don't freak out/make it all about me when the water gets too deep. is there anything else I can do?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 02:28 AM
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Of course! There are other subs for that :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 01:07 AM
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Do women with personality disorders have a place in this sub? The material here has been very helpful and I would love to play a more active role here with asking questions and sharing things I found, but I'm terrified about how you all will take it (especially after reading Lucifers Daughter on TRP).
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 01:18 PM
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I'm so thankful that you wrote this. I've been lurking a lot myself, and have been very hesitant to 'buy into' the theory and contribute. The part about not pleasing an alpha but a captain really resonated with me, I found myself being attracted to men who had a more even balance between comfort and dominance. Would you say that I'm an LLL? (on the other hand HHH also applies quite well to my current relationship, and we're happy. I'm very dominant at work, but consciously make sure to defer whe…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 02:56 AM
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A "beta" provider can still be encouraged to develop into a strong confident "alpha" over time. The art is to pick someone and bet on him becoming a winner in the future. good women effectively develop good men I'm having problems with that recently. How is spending one's (unrecoverable) youth on someone else's life in any way a good investment? Could be because we're both 18, and that's a lot of time for either of us to fuck up somehow :/ Besides, how can I know for sure that he won't leave me …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/15 11:33 PM
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thank goodness for my childhood ballet classes for my posture aha, scoliosis can be a bitch
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 03:17 PM
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