orisha Archive

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0	“Woman falls in love with you for everything that you are, she spends the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not. If she succeeds she will dump you for a guy who is what you were when she met you.” -Dante Nero And the guy changing into what the girl believes is her ideal partner may end up backfiring in the end. I mean, in some cases, maybe? What about a woman that things his partner has to help more with house cleaning or to be more tidy in general. Pretty sure if a guy start to be more involved in the household work, no girl are going to ditch him because of that. What about being more careful with spending? Perhaps drinking less? My point is, your partner might want you to do some changes that are …	/r/seduction	17/12/19 10:24 AM
0	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. Oh yes, "blue pill" that explains it.	/r/seduction	22/09/18 02:26 PM
0	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. You don't know shit about OP, but you met "hundreds" like her? Sure buddy. Girls (I know well) have confirmed this in social discussions Social discussions I kind of doubt you even interacted much with girls.	/r/seduction	22/09/18 01:18 PM
4	I, a previously 20 year old kissless virgin, just had sex last night thanks to this subreddit I mean, is not ideal, but it is better that not have them.	/r/seduction	10/09/18 08:58 PM
5	Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life? Same goes for any other activity. You have no idea what having a lemon pie is until you have it. Exactly. But let's go further. If you don't know the ingredients of a dish, don't know how it taste it or its smelling, saying "I don't care much about this food" is irrelevant. You might try and might become your favourite food. Or might make you throw up and want to never try it again. Which is exactly my point. What you believe previously doesn't matter, if you had the experiece of try it. Look, a…	/r/seduction	15/05/17 08:52 PM
19	Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life? Your examples are really bad. Learning guitar, learning about sports, are not at all in the same level of experience than having sex, not even close. You have no idea what having sex really is until you have it. Is a very primal experience that might be extremely enjoyable or not. You might think you don't care about drugs, and then try some and get hook up. Or might find them benefical, or just not interesting. The thing is, you have no idea what is to feel high until you try it, period. What y…	/r/seduction	15/05/17 04:25 PM
13	Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life? But that's the thing, you can't not know the value of sex until you had it. You might think it is not really a big deal for sure, until for ex. you found yourself unsatisfied with it often. Or you realize it is something you want to do it way often that your partner. Or want to to try new things while your partner does not.	/r/seduction	15/05/17 03:47 PM
1	Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth. I see. I think things will definitely easier if I was more into men. Oh well.	/r/seduction	02/05/17 06:19 PM
1	Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth. Good for you. So the attraction for girls banished? Or you consider yourself somewhat bisexual?	/r/seduction	02/05/17 05:23 PM
-10	What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle? I'm not criticizing Swing or Salsa (I dance both and I love them), but the lame version that ballroom dance do of them.	/r/seduction	17/04/17 10:15 PM
-20	What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle? You are doing ballroom Swing and Salsa? That's the issue. Go to learn proper dances, not poor imitations.	/r/seduction	17/04/17 06:46 PM
3	Gentlemen, Learn To Dance I'm a Tango teacher, and regularly dance Salsa, Kizomba, Swing and other dances. Rest assure I know what I'm talking about.	/r/seduction	31/03/17 07:10 PM
5	Gentlemen, Learn To Dance That's the same thing that saying "I'm skinny and weak, I should stay away from the gym". Dance will make you improve your coordination, and will make you a more confident person. You are exactly the type that most have to go to dance lessons.	/r/seduction	31/03/17 02:13 PM
3	Gentlemen, Learn To Dance Well, I would suggest that if you are going to learn to dance, go for the real thing, and not poor imitations. Ballroom dancing is the result taking a social dance and take every bit of style and personality from it. I said this as a Tango teacher, who often dances Salsa and Lindy hop.	/r/seduction	30/03/17 09:53 PM
10	My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I like Yeah, I bet you are a great friend.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 04:07 PM
1	When I challenge a girl to guess where I am from but she be like "I don't know, wherever you want". What are some best responses to counter that? My advise would be to not do that line, unless there are clear sings she is interested in you. When somebody asks me something like this, or guess her age or whatever, a lot of times I'm thinking, "I just asked it to you to make some conversation, I don't even care much about it", and then probably say some of those replies you get. They mean "I'm not in the mood for games (with you)". What do you expect to get with that kind of question? You just build expectation to say you are from what amazi…	/r/seduction	15/01/17 04:22 PM
1	Need serious advice- Month after break up with ex, I keep blaming myself for its failure as if I wasn't good enough to keep her and she's seemingly moved on with new bf week after we broke up. Can't focus on moving forward? To realize that is a good first step. It will sound like I'm bragging, but whatever. I am fortunate enough to have plenty of stories with amazing girls. Some of them are very pretty, they are smart, they are kind, they have interesting lives and great ideals. And yet, I didn't fall in love of them, even if sometimes they were really into me. Instead, I fell for girls that objectively I could not say they were the prettiest or smartest. Why is that? I don't know. But it helped to realize that a g…	/r/seduction	11/09/16 11:05 PM
11	Need serious advice- Month after break up with ex, I keep blaming myself for its failure as if I wasn't good enough to keep her and she's seemingly moved on with new bf week after we broke up. Can't focus on moving forward? I see pics of her and her new bf all happy and her swooning over how good looking and aesthetic he is, it pains me to know how it seems our break up where I tried to be the best to her I could be, I see her in a seemingly better place in life with someone that looks like an "upgrade" I always find myself blaming and thinking I just wasn't good enough for her But I still feel I fucked up, like a loser. One thing that will help you, is to realize that most of what are you feeling is not about her,…	/r/seduction	11/09/16 01:47 AM
30	Here is a recommended place to meet attractive women Eh, no. I'm a dance teacher, that is not how it works. Lot of women happy to dance with fat old guys because are decent at dancing. Furthermore, most girls go to dance classes because they want to dance, not to hook up with someone, so being attractive is not really the best virtue. Being a good dancer is. Clearly you never step in a social dance floor, better if you just not comment in what you clearly have no experience with.	/r/seduction	16/04/16 10:14 PM
24	10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Woman 35 min? TL;DR;?	/r/seduction	14/11/15 08:57 PM
1	I had an experience with ED, and it's shaken my sexual confidence. How do I get my mojo back? Realize she can will be sexually satisfied whether she orgasms or not That is true, but there is more than that. Realize that there is other ways you could make a girl reach the orgasm. Most girls will be extremely happy if you are enthusiastic (by enthusiastic I mean you enjoy it and happy to oblige, not this) If you are good with your hands and/or your mouth, most girls will not let you go. Also, make her come with oral sex or fingers on top of being really hot, will make you feel more relax b…	/r/seduction	23/10/15 04:53 PM
1	7 Exercises To Increase Your Sexual Stamina Edging?	/r/seduction	02/02/15 11:58 AM
1	How do my friend(f) and I (m) wingman/wingwoman each other? That could become awkward real quick. And if she doesn't have trouble with you acting like that, in such obvious bay, she totally can do it herself. I for one would prefer a girl that approach me rather than being introduce to her by a guy I don't know out of the blue.	/r/seduction	06/12/14 09:10 PM
1	Making a trip to Barcelona, any advice? Ey, I live in Barcelona. Let me know if you have more specific questions.	/r/seduction	05/12/14 01:01 AM
4	I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the night Hahahaha, that made me laugh. I think it have to do with things that perhaps guys don't realize they are not doing, like listing to them, be gentle, attentive, etc. Keep being this way, girls love it.	/r/seduction	02/06/14 12:07 AM
6	I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the night And that's what confuses this girl. She might feel you are just having fun, but at the same time, you treat her really nice. She doesn't even can be mad with you. So she wonders if you really like her, or is just fun. That's why she decided to test you. But not by giving you shit. I think she was actually mad. She tested you stopping the relationship out of the blue.	/r/seduction	01/06/14 11:28 PM
48	I think I accidentally turned her on, success at the end of the night Ok, I think I have a different opinion than most people in this thread. Most seems to thing that she was giving him shit as some kind of a test or challenge. I don't think that was the case. There was a test, but it was earlier. Here is how I think it went. Girl broke up with him, suddenly. She did it because she is starting to feel she really like him, and perhaps he doesn't seems to feel as much for her, so she stop the relationship to see if he react. He doesn't. She start to ignoring him, ho…	/r/seduction	01/06/14 11:05 PM
1	Just got dumped. Is this an honest text? Does she really need time to think? Indeed. This is not the best subreddit to ask that kind of question.	/r/seduction	04/05/14 08:12 PM
1	Lets talk horrible screw ups Not sure if this is what are you looking for, but I will copy paste an story from a couple of years ago: Similar story here, just happened last weekend. So this really hot girl (lets call her Laura) is visiting me right now. She lives in another country, so I will not say we are a couple, but when she comes we have a lot of fun together. Probably because I'm not his boyfriend and she is away from home in a hot south European country (spain), she is open to get more wild than usual. So last satur…	/r/seduction	05/02/14 12:52 PM
3	Can anyone offer tip/tricks/techniques on gaming a third for a MFF threesome? Ok, I had many threesomes, with several girls. For most of them, it was their first time with a woman, and for pretty much all of them, their first time in a threesome. So I think I'm able to give you some advice. You don't give much detail, so I can't give you specific advice, so here are some general suggestions. (Two things, I'm not a native english speaker and I will just write some random suggestions, so don't expect a Pulitzer candidate comment) First and more important: RELAX. Yes, I know…	/r/seduction	13/08/13 03:45 AM
1	I think I fucked it up but I'd like some advice. Yep, and don't send her a message and then add her to facebook. If she reply, just keep it that way, if she wants to add you she will invite you.	/r/seduction	07/12/11 03:18 PM
5	Dancing in circles in clubs . . . Afterwards I couldn't help thinking about it and wondering what I could've done to show that I was also interested. Talking to her at all would be a start. Well, usually is very difficult to chat with someone when you are dancing with loud music. Usual openers does not work well there. How would you recommend to start a conversation?	/r/seduction	26/09/11 03:34 PM