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| 2 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I believe any further discourse with you would not be conducive to real understanding on either of our parts. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Okeydokey! | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Oh no, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to vilify you. I perceive you as nothing of the sort. I've just realized that you're actually indoctrinated enough to compare using the words "toxic masculinity" to genocidal tendencies, and there's really no helping you. At least from me. I'm not a mental health professional. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Well, with a warped view like that, putting your shoes on in the morning is probably a challenge, but I meant just in general. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Oh wowwie. Good luck then! | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Hahahaha okay you're fucking with me now, right? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.So you claim to understand that toxic masculinity does not refer to masculinity as a whole but you hate the word anyway and it somehow not based on your feelings? Okay | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Also,I'm mocking you basing your argument on your feelings. Not your feelings themselves | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.The problem with that is your argument is policing speech in favor of your feelings. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Problem is that the misandry understanding is only on people on your side of the fence. There is no misandry here. It's just you and your men's right activists that are butthurt. I'm not going to Crusade for you or you're hurt Fifi's. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I'm not holding onto anything, nor am I an authority on what words get used. I'm here to correct a faulty idea or what the words portray. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Yes, it's a semantic problem. We've established that. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 0 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Those are also sentences that reinforce toxic masculinity. The term applies to those who's masculinity has been warped and become toxic. You seem to be very hung up on how the word makes you feel, and not what the words are actually addressing. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 0 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Because fatherlessness is not the only cause of it. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I should have been more clear. Masculinity is not violence against women. A form of toxic masculinity would be violence towards women. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Its two words though. Toxic femininity is a thing too. ;) | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 03:20 PM |
| 2 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I have to give you points for cleverness. That was very funny. That said, I understand with your disagreement of a particular ideology. I do not subscribe to it myself. However, my original point is only that the idea of toxic masculinity is not targeting men as a whole, though it may seem like it. There are problems with masculinity, just as there are virtually every aspect of life. When things that are meant for good are twisted into an almost hyperbolic representation of itself, it needs to b… | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.His point was to bait me into saying something racist while using a logically faulty comparison of a racial stereotype to a societal problem. So, sure. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I went to film school. I could hardly define sociology. What I do know is that when people are dicks, they should stop being dicks. You just admitted that your problem with this isn't the ideology, its how the word they use to describe the problem hurts your feelings. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 02:33 AM |
| -3 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I don't think its accusatory at all. And if it were, I'd tell you to man up and listen to other people. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 02:23 AM |
| -1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.I don't think that's the case at all. It isn't necessarily men's fault, as I've noted in other posts, often times mothers teach these toxic behaviors to their sons (boys don't cry). But a man who is grown and still acting in toxic ways is doing so of his own volition, and he is at fault. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 02:14 AM |
| 0 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Or they died in a car accident, or were murdered, or the dad was a drunk and got kicked out of the house, or he ran away to join the circus, or literally any other reason on the planet. You've provided an anecdote, and nothing of any substance. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/18 01:40 AM |
| 5 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.The force that built western civilization also caused some horrendous atrocities. "Toxic masculinity" refers to the negative aspects of it all, like violence against women. The term is imperfect, but the idea that "men can be dicks, and sometimes train other men to believe that dickish behavior is what makes them a man, so maybe we should stop that" is sound. Also, rap videos are very much American, so that would make racist in a few ways. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 10:03 PM |
| 3 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Toxic femininity would be totally appropriate, though I think it would be a slightly different set of behaviors. "Mean girls" kinda thing, ya dig? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 09:06 PM |
| 3 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.If your argument is that many who use the term are misusing it, I can't argue otherwise. And clearly the term tends to hit some exposed nerves. But you are literally just arguing semantics some more, and not actually disproving the idea that "sometimes men are dicks, and train others to be dicks and we should stop that". Also, to clarify further, the difference is that you're attributing "greed", an inherently toxic idea, to a group of people, while "toxic masculinity" applies "toxic" only to th… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Since you deleted your other post I replied to, and reposted this adding a parenthesis, No. I am obviously not saying that. You know I'm not saying that, but you decided to try your luck anyway. I've called the idea ridiculous and racist in other posts. Racism is incompatible with functioning society, humanity, and science. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 08:00 PM |
| -7 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.So you admit your problem is semantic and not academic? Also your "parallels" we're not parallel. You attempted to compare racist, disproven beliefs to something measurable. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 07:30 PM |
| -12 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Ah, that's a cute strawman. But no. See, we know men are generally more aggressive. Nobody says this is a problem. It is when that aggression is used to target though who are "less masculine", whether male or female, that it becomes toxic. For instance, there is nothing wrong with attempting to stay strong in times of duress - burying your emotion for a time so that you can push through the hardship, and deal with it later. However, it is toxic when you choose to never deal with your emotions, a… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 07:20 PM |
| -17 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Okay, here's the difference. Society as a whole does not recognize "greed" as an inherently Jewish character trait, nor can it be scientifically proven. However, things like propensity towards aggression are socially, and biologically linked to masculinity and testosterone. This is a faulty comparison. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 0 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Very carefully. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 06:51 PM |
| -9 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Life? The love of a good woman? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 06:47 PM |
| -18 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Its very simple. Hit the "unsubscribe" button here, MGTOW, and any other sub filled with toxic masculinity and then leave your computer for a few days. Call it a week. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 06:43 PM |
| -14 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.No, that's exactly how its used. This place is filled with misinformation and cherry picking. Please look into the real world. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | "Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise.Toxic masculinity does not refer to masculinity in general, but rather a specific type that requires "alpha"-type behavior to be validated as a man. People without fathers tend to fall prey to this type of thinking precisely because they didn't have a good father figure. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/18 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Bought myself a cheap wedding band (13.99 on amazon.) Hopefully this helps keeping me left the F*%# alone.Trust me, no one was interested. | /r/MGTOW | 10/09/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Loose Vaginas and SizeNope. Vaginas are elastic. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Has men set their bar too low?Ugly isn't objective, maybe? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 04:52 AM |
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