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I'm kinda reminded of Nazi chat logs where they argued about their Meyers Briggs result and the amazing line he's too much of a cuck to be an ENTJ was said [Here](https:/discordleaks.unicornriot.ninja/discord/view/597703?q=redpilled#msg) is the beginning of that conversation and OP will love it because they go into their horoscopes as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:58 PM
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I haven't lookes at this sub in ages. What the fuck has happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 07:18 AM
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Heh. I love the bit in the beginning of the New York Post article. Dating out of your bubble is always difficult. I couldn't get a date in my three years in the military for the same reason. It's not a Man Shortage. It's a Man In My Vicinity shortage. The articles themselves admit it - People aren't leaving their surroundings, they're not dating outside of their preconceived norms. My theory is that people find themselves in their little bubbles, talk only to their bubbles online, and stop being…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:55 PM
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Depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 01:29 PM
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https://youtu.be/dxx6BupgRmI
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:45 PM
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I have a hard time with people who are overly vocal about their political opinions. A woman who needs to make it clear that she is a feminist on the first date has to be pretty great otherwise. It doesn't matter which way, tbh. I don't take myself seriously enough to think my views on any subject are the be all and end all of it. I just have a hard time with people who are absolutely convinced in the rightness of their words and proselityze.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 10:01 PM
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I feel like responding since I actually was in a Navy. That actually is how actual captains and first mates go. The first mate's job is to do the captain's orders because the captain messes around with a thousand things and can't tell the crew exactly everything he wants. A captain will listen to his first mate's advice but it's the captain's word that matters, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 09:56 PM
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Sexiest man alive Second place I will never understand why beautiful people dye their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 07:09 PM
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Then your experience is irrelevant and incels don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:32 PM
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I googled "John Bates" and the first result was this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 06:41 PM
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Wait, do you not believe in global warming? I'd say there's a difference between that and virtue signalling. Like, in a recent thread people got upset at me for saying that until I saw TDK Heath Ledger was "that gay cowboy" to me, as if it's absurd to list as the role I knew him from the one where he played a gay cowboy, or like I should have said "The cowboy whose sexuality is irrelevant to my percecption of him as an actor". That's virtue signalling. But agreeing with the vast majority of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 06:10 PM
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Are we doing the "Pop songs represent what people are truly thinking"? In which case, I love bicycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 10:36 AM
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I meant all people who don't have sex before 18. The ones who are abnormal are not abnormal because of their lack of sex. There are usually other issues at the root of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 08:01 AM
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MRW
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:50 AM
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There's something that needs to be said to people who claim they are walking corpses that the sub's rules don't allow me to say. /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin, help me out here. That said, that's absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:46 AM
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The thing is that a lot of people don't have sex by 18. It's not as big a deal as incels make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:46 AM
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She started a series of videos about feminism in gaming. They were kind of shitty - Other people covered the topic with much more intelligence, though not in a dedicated way (Penny Arcade guys have been talking about this for years, along with their annoyance with the industry, jokes about child abuse, and everything else they talk about). There was a minor scandal with how she fucked over kickstarter supporters, which was then immediately overshadowed by GG reee-ing about her and generally bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:42 AM
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Dude, we're less than one percent of the world's population and yet we control the media and the banks and the state of Israel. Also, we are either behind Donald Trump or he's the person who will stop our reign. How do you not assume we are better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:32 AM
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Same with Sarkeesian. You think she'd be the name she is today without Gamergate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 09:25 AM
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How dare you say that? seriously tho, yeah. That's why Anita Sarkeesian and Milo Yiannopolous have careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 07:06 AM
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May Louise Parker is in my opinion one of the sexiest women in Hollywood. She's 52
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 07:01 AM
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I actually spent some time thinking about 80/20. You're a guy who will make one approach a night. You're going to go for the best option - the top one percent. A guy who makes two approaches a night will also choose the best options he could. So on and so forth. Incels may make one or two approaches. But they will be approaching women who have had a rain of sausages fall on them. In the meantime, women who are towards the middle of the curve or lower than that will be getting attention only from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:41 AM
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Don't worry, the 1034776949393757584930939048576th time might be when it finally sinks in. This, /u/dragoness_leclerq, may be why incels shouldn't be a part of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:38 AM
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i
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:47 PM
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Dude, my flair pretty much says that. You don't even need to look at the color. Seriously? Any guy who is a self described "beta male" is not going to satisfy a woman who's used to having one man after another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:19 AM
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iCarly is evil, OK? I can't forgive what she did to Drake and Josh - It wasn't alright and she should pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:12 AM
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Your flair does that for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 11:11 AM
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Unfortunately /u/atlasbeshrugging isn't answering any of my PMs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 09:00 PM
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George is spelled with a G.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:00 PM
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Best idea I've seen. "You punch me, I punch a child. Your fucking move"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 01:43 PM
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Before I spent too much study time. Then I tried to make up for it and ended up having to copy work I didn't understand just so I could hand it in, and now I'm swamped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 06:36 PM
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I thought I had a handle on romantic life/university life time management but as it turns out I'm as big a dumbass as before the pendulum just moved the other way. Fuckballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:55 AM
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I am having a psychotic time balancing me time, study time, and girlfriend time. I am also studying physics and apparently that's one of the most difficult things to get a Bach degree in - guys are moving to engineering and telling us how much easier everything is there. I need an extra six hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 11:38 AM
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This one time I had a really awesome thought. Obviously you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 03:30 PM
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You can't handle the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 02:28 PM
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Some. Forgetting Sarah Marshall is a romcom very much aimed at men, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 10:23 AM
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Dread Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 06:23 AM
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I just haven't seen a super emotional response - I've seen defensiveness. "Sluts" who want to justify it in spite of being shamed and virgins who want to shift the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:53 PM
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Most people on this sub - Sex has different values for each person. I personally do attach a lot of emotional baggage to sex so I'd dislike a one night stand but I wouldn't shame someone who does like them, but it would be a mark in the "why not to date this person", just like when I was an older virgin some women didn't like that. It's all part of dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:44 PM
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Which side is which?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:29 PM
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A lot of incel thinking, IMO, comes from not having positive male role models in relationships. I think encouraging more male friendships is more important than encouraging more female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 01:38 PM
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I fucking love Kevin Bacon. The man is a treasure. The cast of Super is ridiculously talented and I include Nathan Fillion in pure ham mode. It also includes a woman raping a man. It's a weird movie. Also, I was amazed that Gunn went from the "seriously, fuck superheroes" film to the MCU. And also, his brother plays a mook in it (like he does in Guardians of the Galaxy). I'm not sure if I like Super but literally every part of it is gold. As an experience it's a weird one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 01:23 PM
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No, people on r incels are fucking morons who don't know shit from shinola. Counting on them for relationship advice only reduces you to their level. I would rather someone take advice from TRP than from there. Let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 11:58 AM
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They also "next" women who stand up against that sort of thing and then cry AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:14 AM
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I was convinced it was about Bros Befo Hos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 04:55 PM
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She doesn't do make up much anyway. I'll probably meet her mother tonight. If I stop shitposting that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 05:50 PM
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Completely agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 03:10 PM
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Flossing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 12:13 PM
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That's something much easier said than done. It took me about two and a half years in a socialize-or-die environment until I was finally able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 07:22 AM
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I'm ticklish and I fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 04:58 AM
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I mean him beating Flash Thompson in front of the entire school. I agree that she was attracted to his niceness but it was nice in addition to everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 06:03 PM
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But it's after he got buff, beat the shit out of a bully after humiliating him, and looked like Tobey Maguire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 05:33 PM
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That was never discussed. You asked me if I was using the Oxford Dictionary definition of incel and I said I wasn't. I looked it up to confirm that it was different from mine and found that it didn't exist. I define incel as someone who is part of the incel community, as any other definition has goalposts that are consistently moved. Without fail, incels show a toxic self defeating attitude and try to put down not only themselves, but others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 05:13 PM
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https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/search?utf8=✓&filter=dictionary&query=incel No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 04:58 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I fully agree with you. I just think that if we were going to get a satisfactory answer we would have gotten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 01:46 PM
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I've been doing this all wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 01:38 PM
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Isn't it enough to have this thread every single week and not get a satisfactory answer? Do we really need it in the shitpost section?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 01:37 PM
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I accidentally hit my girlfriend in the face and her mother is coming in from abroad tomorrow. She's got a serious black eye and I'm wondering if I'll get the stinkeye. Her father knows me fairly well so it was funny to him but I dunno how she's gonna react.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 10:36 AM
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If a guy can't have sex and is unhappy about it, that's OK. I've been there. Most of us were there at some point. But someone who calls themselves an incel has chosen to align themselves with a group of pathetic losers who reinforce their pathetic loser status by dragging themselves down and everyone else as well. For an incel it's not enough to be miserable, you have to bring others down as well. I remember an r incels thread where a guy asks if going to the gym will help him. The resounding re…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 10:12 AM
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I will agree that no books shaped how I think about relationships. My conclusions were drawn from experience - both of my own and of friends and family. Paul Joannides's sex book has a very BP look at sexual dynamics though. It's also a great read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 05:19 AM
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You are quite the charmer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 10:25 PM
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I am becoming more and more frustrated by the fact that the consistently funniest posters in this sub are RPWs. Mostly it's Atlas and Alice, but I've got my eye on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 08:14 PM
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What's BP principles? I see TRPers say this constantly when there is literally no unifying BP principle, and in fact, most BPers will agree about most things that TRPers agree on. The debate about how bad TRP is comes from its cultish nature (as this thread addresses) and the misogyny (which is debated to death in every other thread on this subreddit). A lot of TRP advice is just really bad - Trying to constantly pass shit tests and comfort tests will lead to a very bad place in the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 08:12 PM
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It's why people say most self help guides are scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 02:17 PM
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Off the top of my head, I can name a few geniuses whose peak was way after their prime reproductive years. Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, and George R R Martin all created their best works at later ages - NG today and Terry Pratchett in his last five years of life are both at their peak productivity, and Martin has pretty much been resting on his laurels because of the work he wrote at 50. The works widely considered to be Fyodor Dostoevski's best were written later in life. There are a lot of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 04:42 PM
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Saying that Brad Pitt isn't creepy is offensive to me as a fan of his acting - He can do creepy really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 12:01 PM
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Nobody wants to hear about periods, so it's not discussed. It isn't part of public knowledge - I only found out about the extent of the side effects because I asked my girlfriend why she wouldn't take birth control and got an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 11:56 AM
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As far as the toilet thing, IIRC it wasn't even an issue until Fox News brought it up. And as a human being who lives on planet earth, a lot of the time I've seen men and women use the other's bathroom when one was occupied/locked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 10:46 AM
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I'll be honest, I though about responding and looking for it, but I've been procrastinating for too long. /u/probablybelievesit did a good job of writing out my thoughts fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:32 AM
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I agree, and have said as much repeatedly, with your point regarding how to go after women: Try, and don't get discouraged with failure. However, your view of women is kind of... odd...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:17 AM
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This has gotten a ton of mileage in every single sub relating to gender issues. I'm actually glad it's opened a discussion because a lot of men aren't aware of the degree that female BC can have side effects. I mean, these articles are reprehensible, but I'm glad that the subject is being broached. It's bringing up communication about gender issues that don't normally get much mileage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 08:15 AM
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Learning on the internet is OK but not great. Due to the nature of the internet any advice is going to be very generic. EDIT - This is a misconception RPers seem to have a hard time with. People don't care that people are getting sex and relationship advice. People find TRP's obsession with demonizing women creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 02:27 PM
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I get a terrible face rash when I grow a 'stache. If anyone has advice for it I'd love to hear it but until then my face never goes more than three days without a razor passing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 02:14 PM
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No. Talking about dating and having sex is normal. Me and my friends give each other advice, talk about this sort of thing. You know, locker room talk. Talking about your disdain for women and about how you should manipulate them is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 02:09 PM
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I remember a thread that showed that a lot of RP men lacked a good male role model growing up - either no father, or one who wasn't there emotionally, or one they looked down on, or an abusive one... If you look at TRP and how a lot of them talk about their fathers then the evidence is there. It is also supported by one of reddit's favorite books, No More Mr Nice Guy. It doesn't ring a hundred percent true to me - I was a virgin Nice Guy for longer than most /r/incels posters have been alive, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 08:07 AM
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Those are all websites for social misfits. I can't imagine someone looking up How To Treat A Woman on wikihow being socially competent. Might as well watch the Britanick video. Movies and television are all around us, and nobody treats women like the bad example other than Michael Cera characters before they learn their lesson (Youth in Revolt is painful about this). But most romantic comedies have a "sweeping her away" bit like the good example. I wouldn't consider that treating her like a teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 11:27 AM
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It's why you hire a hitman with no morals dumdum
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 09:38 AM
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I'll also add that I don't think anyone other that right wing nutjobs is clamoring for them to take the pill off the shelves. This does, however, seem to be the argument a lot of women are making about these pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 09:33 AM
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Being dominant is said everywhere. Treating a woman like a teenager isn't, and for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 06:08 AM
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Am a BPer. Being in the friendzone sucks when you want something else. It's why I either stop trying to get with that person or I cut ties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 06:55 AM
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This is the greatest post this sub has ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 06:53 AM
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I think an RPW wouldn't be able to deal with me - I'd get dumped fairly quickly. It would be interesting to see how miserable we'd make each other until one of us pulls the trigger. I have friends who are into PUA stuff. As long as they weren't the full ranty Redpill type I'd be okay with them. Fling: I'm not really a fling-y guy. Theoretically in a fling I don't care about their personality that much, so, sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 12:54 PM
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Catholic priests wrote screeds on women's nature and how to avoid being manipulated by she devils
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 02:09 AM
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But it means that people saying that TRP is a reaction to it are wrong. EDIT and that TRP has always been mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:17 PM
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Because Red Pill is the same shit that the Catholic Church spewed a thousand years ago. Comparatively speaking, feminism is brand new
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:41 PM
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I've been called out for it because it shows my lack of self esteem. I like to think my constant redditting does that better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:13 AM
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I think RP "truths" have been mainstream since forever. Feminism is the new kid on the block.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 07:38 AM
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I miss Xemnas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 12:33 PM
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I agree with this completely and utterly...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:17 AM
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That comic is such a ludicrous strawman taking it apart would take a century.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 05:15 AM
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I'll have you know my shitposts are never bait. I only shitpost with the highest of memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 12:25 AM
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Except that each RPer is rebelling against a different facet of what they believe to be society, and it doesn't match up as well as you guys think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 10:18 PM
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You, Atlas, Shoup, TW, CrazyTom, and can't think of anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 10:15 PM
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I finished the military with a serious "assert dominance" mentality and tried to apply that to the workplace. A woman l worked with misattributed my dickishness as misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 07:39 PM
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It was at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 06:41 PM
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You don't hang out with the wrong crowds then. I've been called a misogynist IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 06:22 PM
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Spelling "fucks" as "fux" automatically made me assume OP has a few deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:44 PM
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I didn't know that the reason I dislike TRP is because I have no balls. Thanks for the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 04:40 PM
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I love Atlas and Alice's shitposts. Those two are the most consistently funny posters on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:07 PM
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Depends on the guy. A good friend of mine has horrific acne. Very few women will reject him purely on the basis of acne but dealing with it increases his odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 02:10 PM
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/u/alreadyredschool wrote something very similar to what I think, but there is a slight difference so I'll post. I think that you need a minimum of hygiene. It depends on who you want to date (earthy hippy women from my experience don't care, but that's because they also don't really do much of their own hygiene), but that minimum is important. Beards should have a certain minimum length or you should shave regularly (depends on the man, anywhere between twice a day to once every two days. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 11:03 AM
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People have completely forgotten about this. The issue was never Bill Clinton's philandering. It was his lies. A ton of politicians slept around and had no problem with it because when they were put on the spot they admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 10:52 AM
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Trump is 1.88m tall. That's 6'3 for 'Mericans. That's pretty decently tall. He'd be a giant in Israel, or France.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 10:50 AM
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Donald Trump is tall and powerful. Literally everything, except for his health. The man looks skeletal recently. I dislike Trump but other than what seems like a cocaine habit he appears to be in good health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 10:49 AM
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His impeachment was never about prudishness though. It was about dishonesty. At the time, Americans were polled - They didn't care about the affair, they cared about being lied to. There have been multiple scandals worldwide where politicians cheated. Consistently, the ones who got out of the hole were the honest ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 10:47 AM
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I'll be honest, I'm a little too short tempered right now. Let's leave it as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:43 PM
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What the fuck is this bullshit? Nobody on TBP ever said you shouldn't self improve. What the fuck have you been reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:22 PM
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Look, I've had "Bitches are crazy" moments. I haven't had "We need to tell them what to do exactly and they should be beneath us" moments. There's a subtle difference between the two. Or unsubtle if you have a sense of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:08 AM
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I prefer a relationship to grow out of a friendship, but entering a friendship to turn it into a relationship is a terrible idea that almost never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 05:05 AM
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A lot of RPWs justify TRP by saying it's locker room talk. I don't think it is because locker room talk isn't that hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 05:03 AM
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Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:50 PM
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I think the tryouts themselves are rather similar, tbh. Not sure, though. My own service required really easy tryouts. I had a pulse so I passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:48 PM
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I also know men like that. They touch a gun once in basic training and make themselves out to be commandos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:37 PM
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IDF here. Female fighters are some of the biggest fucking psychopaths I've met. I've met commandos and I've met border patrol women soldiers and the commandos scared me less. A woman who chooses to go into combat in spite of society's expectation is usually many times as combative as a man. I'll be honest - these women scare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 05:53 PM
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You're not a man - real world locker room talk, or just between the guys soldier talk, is crass. But it's not like the shit in TRP. It's like how people say that Donald is the guy saying what everyone's thinking - He's saying what you're thinking and you're a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 01:58 PM
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I need a word stronger than "FUCK NO"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 11:20 AM
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Ja
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 04:49 AM
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Why am I agreeing with RPers today? y'all making too much sense right now I'mma go read some Steinem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:13 PM
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/u/SetConsumes is right (next up - four horsemen cross the skies). If you want to orgasm, and need it to be from sex, don't settle for a guy who doesn't want to get you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:11 PM
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So are TERFs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:09 PM
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It didn't work out great in Israel. Ya'ir Lapid started the Yesh Atid (There is a Future) party in Israel. He was an actor and a journalist whose political party was entirely non politicians, running on a campaign of "Politics are broken". He swept the election, and was in a great position to oust Binyamin Netanyahu, and then he couldn't beat career politicians at their game. Netanyahu and Liberman tripped him up and made him look like the world's biggest idiot. He got very little accomplished a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 11:14 AM
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Herman Cain was taken seriously for all of two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 10:54 AM
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If there's one type of man I have zero respect for it's the guy who tries to get with a girl in a relationship. I get that this is minor compared to most things but it's like the biggest part of the Bro Code. I feel hurt by it on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 10:51 AM
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Yes. My driving teacher when I was 17 was 41. He married a 20 year old. She wasn't a straight 10 but definitely an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:16 PM
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A woman has no honor, you offend not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 02:06 PM
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I challenge you to a duel, knave. How dare you besmirch the honor of honor!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:58 PM
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I want to argue about Batman but you're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:27 AM
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Other Batman villains have had healthy relationships. Cobblepot has been shown in various relationships, pre-Snyder Mr Freeze was happily married before the accident...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:07 AM
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Well they do give me crackers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:24 AM
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I posted under automod because I'm a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 09:13 AM
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To be fair, in the film Suicide Squad, the relationship is fairly decent. In the comics it's rather different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 09:11 PM
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PUA guides will advise you to make your move ASAP. I don't think they're wrong about this, if it's someone you've never met. But at work or in a university class, IMO it's important not to be the guy known for hitting on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 08:26 PM
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Your rhetoric comes straight from that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 06:36 PM
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It's far from a perfect comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 04:44 PM
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The post is written about men but I fully mean that it applies to women as well. Some abusive men are easy to spot, some aren't. We were all raised on the idea of "some behaviors you only do in front of family". The sort of abuser who isn't easy to spot will only do those things outside of the public eye. Of course the guy who has a shit fit in public probably has them in the house. But the guy who retaliates after having a bad day by taking it out on his loved ones is a different matter. It doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 04:21 PM
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This sub goes through cycles. Now it's height. I expect the next one to be Men's Rights, based on some conversations I've been having.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:21 PM
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So regarding "Not as quickly as TRP"... I don't see TRP as new. I see TRP as the same bullshit priests used to spout when they said "The woman is a snake". All the talk about "biotruths" is stuff I learned in history. Comparatively, feminism is the fast growing new thing. Regarding those threads, I don't have much to say. It is incredibly hard to discuss a subject that a lot of people have a lot of contrary and heated opinions about. Discussing men's issues leads to a lot of "whatabout"ism, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:11 PM
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Speak for yourself, don't try to drag everyone else down to your level. He wouldn't be incel if he could comprehend that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:04 PM
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That last one is the hardest obstacle to overcome. Because a rejection is personal. And not taking it personally is a tough skill to develop. This is possibly the biggest way TRP actually can help a guy get laid - if you don't care, truly don't care about the opinions of the women you hit on, it's much easier to just ignore it and try again. Dating is a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:56 PM
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Minor correction - Nicole Richie is famous for being the daughter of Lionel Richie, who isn't in the hotel business but more in the "Brilliant musician" business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 02:47 PM
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Couldn't find any. Care to link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 01:42 PM
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They're gaining popularity and strength. I don't expect it to be overnight but I think it will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 10:42 AM
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I think it is changing. Groups like MensLib are gaining strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:58 AM
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Pretty much. There can be exceptions to rules but they weaken the rule. If there are enough the rule is meaningless. Like AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:05 AM
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NAWALT proves AWALT? What kind of LSD did Set Consume?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 09:19 PM
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if breaking up marriages was bad MRP would also be one of the worst places on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 08:04 PM
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There is a literal Holocaust Denial sub here on reddit. Stormfront has said they recruit from reddit. A sub that breaks apart bad relationships isn't on the top 10 list.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 04:20 PM
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Dear god what a revolting pair of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 03:35 PM
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Israel actually did that for a while (Not the country, but the kibbutz system). My former boss grew up in one of those. Seems like it would fuck you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 10:33 AM
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You're on fire in that thread. I'm upvoting this. Comedic post of the week!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 05:47 PM
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Well the military funded my education so for me student loans don't exist. QED
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:55 PM
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I definitely mock atheists who go on and on about how they don't believe in god
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 03:26 PM
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So I'm saying I disagree with the way things are because they're unjust. Because the men I've seen doing care work have roughly the same ratios as women as far as being good at it, with the one exception who is now a Jihadist. Because as a society we are limiting ourselves by defining "masculine" and "feminine" as certain things, and it's stupid and detrimental to all of us. To be completely and utterly honest with no modesty at all, I was a damn good caregiver. The only one I've met who was bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 06:10 PM
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I have literally explained in three different posts why it matters. Because when you limit a gender from doing something, you have less people doing that something, so you have less people good at that something. And using generalizations with no proof behind them is bad, but even worse, it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:20 PM
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Because I have yet to see proof that men are worse care givers than women, or that women are less honorable than men. Society as a limiter only makes sense when there's a good reason for it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:07 PM
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The problem is that when you define something as more masculine or more feminine, you're limiting the other gender. The most blatant case I have of this is that care work is seen as a mostly feminine line of work. In Israel, guidelines make it much harder for men to be primarily care workers as a result of cultural perception. Part of the reason I quit my job working with people with special needs is that I realized I would have to get specific external training to make any sort of professional …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 04:24 PM
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Start with Snatch, that movie is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:20 PM
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This is a really good question, one that was asked in /r/MensLib as well. This is a difficult question to answer because saying something is a positive masculine trait implies it's not in women. Same as looking for positive feminine traits, really. So I wouldn't really say any. Any example I think of (protectiveness, honor, integrity) could be applied to many women, and not in a masculine way. The closest thing I have ever found to a definition is Menschkeit, as explained multiple times by Al Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:20 PM
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Does anyone in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:13 AM
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redditisfun has a flair option if you press on the post title.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 08:13 AM
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Dear fucking god I'm glad I never got into this self hating bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 02:44 PM
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You're 23? I was a virgin until 23. I know people who had it worse and got out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:37 PM
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I made a shitpost thread a while back that was deleted and the mods didn't tell me. I suspect each mod has their own policy on this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:29 PM
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Say wha? If promiscuity is ugly to you, it is. I wouldn't fault a guy for not dating a woman because she's been with a lot of guys. If that guy were with a lot of women (or just looking for a casual thing) I'd call him a hypocrite and a dumbass, but people's standards are their own. I don't think I've seen a BPer get annoyed at someone for rejecting someone based on N-count, unless it was someone who had been with a lot of people themselves. In general though, TRPers don't really get the benefit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:16 AM
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I was interested in a girl, got friendzoned, and moved on. I met a different girl, and broke up with her after realizing she had another boyfriend. Girl A had a boyfriend by then (who was a friend of mine), and she hit on me a month afterwards. I was in a fuming rage for a day or so, ended up getting drunk with the two of them and telling both of them all of the shit they had been saying about each other. Burnt bridges quite well that day. It was the closest I ever came to believing TRP things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 10:28 AM
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Because women are doodooheads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:06 AM
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A female who doesn't do any work in bed is not someone I want to be with. If that's what you want then let me assure you - a fleshlight and lube will be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:42 AM
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Am from middle east. Women are expected to remain pure virgins and men are expected not to. With the rampant homophobia please don't ask me how it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:38 AM
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You mean a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 10:16 PM
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That story is the creepiest thing I've heard. It sounds like this guy was a loser who needed to impress high school girls. Being nice works, IMO, when it is genuine and not a tactic. Letting your inner self shine in a positive way is attractive, and people who are deep down nice people make that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 08:21 PM
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Alternately, and I'm sorry in advance for this mods: YOUR THEORIES ARE WRONG AND YOU ARE JUST RATIONALIZING BECAUSE HATRED IS EASIER THAN CONFRONTING A REALITY WITH SHADES OF GRAY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:30 PM
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That's the one with the cute mice hiding from cats!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:28 PM
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Known her for a while before we went out, knew her father for way longer. Could she have ridden the cock carousel before? Technically yes, but it would be really creepy for a 14 year old to be sleeping with a ton of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:24 PM
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Antisemitism and depression. Banned from OKCupid for racism. All this speaks of a person who dearly needs help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:10 PM
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My flair is what's known in our world as sarcastic. It may not be very funny, but that's what it is. For what it's worth, my girlfriend has not done much, or any, cock carousel riding. I feel sad, not for you, but for people who share your belief, that that's what something deeper means. I am secure in the fact that should I need it, there is a woman in my life who will do anything for me, because she knows I would do the same for her. One who got to that point because she likes me as a person, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 06:05 PM
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Inspired by your recent comment to me, I looked through your submissions, expecting to laugh. It's not funny any more. Please get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:56 PM
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Never noticed your nickname on /r/OKCupid, but I'm referring to this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:53 PM
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TRP works if all you want is to get laid with no strings attached, in that it could help you get laid. It will destroy the way you percieve women and ruin your chances at anything deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 05:32 PM
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OP may be the funniest person I have met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:51 PM
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That's not just a redpill thing. That's what I recommend to everyone too. Not necessarily being the life of the party, but definitely being capable of socializing in a group. Interesting fun guy gets laid much more than guy in the corner with the resentful look. Dark and mysterious only works if you are in a position to be noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 02:41 PM
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TRP is PUA advice wrapped up in misogyny so it can appeal to angry immature men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 11:10 AM
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IIRC the social contract is that sex the first time you meet is admission of a one night stand unless the sex is completely redonk in which case you may want to pursue more of it in the confines of an adult relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 09:14 AM
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Forgetting Sarah Marshall, and your favorite alcohol. Jason Segel is all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 08:37 AM
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The inventor of the pill would be rich enough to become Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:42 AM
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I used to think that, but it doesn't work a lot of the time. Last time I tried that, my feelings for the new girl were just my feelings for the old one redirected. And when that one ended, I went back to being brokenhearted over the old girl. So from my experience (which is probably less than yours) the healthiest relationship will start from a relatively blank slate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 07:27 AM
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It's the equivalent of saying "I have a Jew nose" instead of "my nose is big"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 12:18 PM
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Then you're not Aryan, you're Slavic. My girlfriend has brown eyes and brown hair and she's Aryan. Aryan isn't just blond hair and blue eyes, you need to be descended from the right parts of the world. I sat at a lecture by Shlomo Perl, that's how I know this. For those who don't know him, he survived the Holocaust by joining the Hitler youth and was seen as an exemplar of the Aryan ideal by his teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 10:59 AM
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Never one who was open about it. Sexists, or chauvinists, yes. Pure misogynists based on that definition? None that I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 10:55 AM
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GLO and RooshV have their pictures out there. I'd also assume you guys are at the very least fit, because of the huge emphasis on lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 08:44 AM
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Here is one. OP doesn't even realize how badly he's fucking up his marriage though it comes through incredibly well through his field report. It's not when they report failure that bothers me. It's when they think they're succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 11:33 AM
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The thing is that by acting like TRP recommends pushes away the ones who would listen to you being vulnerable. The secret is to become comfortable being vulnerable. To be able to get hurt. That's what Manson doesn't talk about in his article, which is a shame. It's being able to open yourself up and get hurt. I suspect he doesn't talk about it because there is no good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:54 AM
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Yup. I'll edit. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:42 AM
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It won't likely lead to abuse. It may, I admit. Closing yourself up emotionally is the #1 undisputed best way to avoid getting hurt. But it will prevent you from finding the opportunity for something better. Here is a piece by Mark Manson about this exact thing. Guys whose relationships improve after applying TRP are either dating manipulative women, or are manipulating a weak one. The first one is a grand exercise. I did that once for four months, a constant game of preying on each other's weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:32 AM
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I possess rational thinking skills and have met women. I attribute it to a combination of those two factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:23 AM
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AWALT (and all it includes including AFBB and everything about the anger phase), to be a little more specific. What it has to say about attraction will attract mostly certain women which leads to a lot of AWALT traits. A lot of posts on TRP and MRP are guys destroying their relationships as a result of following TRP. I also have a hard time believing you can have a good relationship while believing TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:00 AM
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That it's wrong (factually, not just morally), and it seems to hurt its adherents and it acts like a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:33 AM
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I'm a dude. If I had a perfect view of how women behave, I'd rush to it and praise its creator a hundred times over. TRP is just wrong. I dislike the hate part of it and I just think it's wrong on a factual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:01 AM
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You're trying to get nominated for next week's sticky aren't you? I'm onto you, posting quality stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:19 PM
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I've met both women and men who felt that their gender meant they could act the way they wanted to. Asshats are asshats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 11:56 AM
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Now I've got a joke in mind about TRP's idolization of younger women and Woody Allen's allegations in mind. I think he has a generally good grasp of damaged people - those are who he makes his movies about. Both Alvy and Annie are incredibly damaged human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:35 AM
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Really? I don't see it at all. Two self possessed people fall in love, one falls out, the other struggles to comprehend the fact that they were over. I don't see how it has any connection to the pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 03:07 AM
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I haven't seen Annie Hall in like 4 months. I think it's time for a rewatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:13 AM
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Just as an added resource, Dr Nerdlove says a lot of the things TRP does except without the hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:29 AM
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I'm going to quote Alan Tudyk and say "You have to look good to feel good"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:43 PM
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When y'all stop hatin on women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:37 PM
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My opinion matters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:32 PM
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Technically I have American citizenship and I can vote as an absentee but the registration process seems so meh and there's a part of me that just wants to see what will happen. EDIT Also, this sub is all about screaming your opinions into the void and pretending to be relevant. I don't think anyone's mind was ever changed by this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:26 PM
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Because the whole world is watching your idiotic country nominate a nutjob. It makes me feel better about my PM, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 10:19 PM
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/r/fatpeoplehate was huge. /r/coontown was huge. /r/european was huge. The only reason people shit on TRP is because it encourages bigotry. The main reason a lot of people are attracted to TRP is because it confirms the little bigoted monster we have in us, which most decent people try to suppress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 01:07 PM
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OP sounds like the Riddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 01:07 PM
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It's not about misandry or misogyny, it's about the situation. The situation is that something about you makes people not approach you so either you approach or are lonely. Life is shitty and unfair and the only thing you can do is try to carve out something not terrible for yourself. It sucks to always have to approach. But it's what we've got. So we can bitch about it or we can buckle down and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:46 AM
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With the 80 20 rule I was being facetious. I'm kind of losing any seriousness I had about this conversation to be perfectly honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:36 AM
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I'm saying that if Brad Pitt had said "Fuck it I've done this shit for too long" and gone home after 2 years of barely making a living wage at a demeaning job, he wouldn't have reached the heights he was at. Not everyone can be Brad Pitt but very few put in the amount of work he did. I didn't have my first kiss in high school. I didn't have a relationship. I had a girl tell me she might consider being in a relationship if I did x and y and z and pretty much became her slave until I realized she …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:32 AM
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80 percent of women will go for the top 20 percent of men. As a 7 I am not included in that, so I have the same odds as a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:20 AM
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The world belongs to people who did futile things for way past the point where it was advisable to quit. Brad Pitt was a sandwich board for years until he managed to get a tiny role on a television show. The guys behind Angry Birds made 50 games before making a hit. JK Rowling was rejected by 19 publishers. Literally anyone who succeeded in anything had a string of failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 05:06 AM
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You're strawmanning me. I said they let it get to them and they stop. What I'm saying is - Don't stop. The only way to get out of that cycle is to keep bashing your head against that wall until it falls down. Try new methods all the time. Get to a point where you're happy to be talking to a stranger, not sad that you're getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:43 AM
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What about the 20/80 rule? Shouldn't that have excluded me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:41 AM
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The incels I mock are the ones who post to r incels. Not the guys who aren't getting laid but are earnest about trying, or the ones who have given up but don't post to that cesspit. Only the ones who post to that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:38 AM
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It ends in no. It ended in no for me. So you try again with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:37 AM
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7? Maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:36 AM
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I served in the IDF and I vote right wing in Israel. I'm not an average TBP poster. It's OK to be a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:27 AM
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I know what I'm reading in r incels. I'm reading posts by people who have given up. Who do nothing but continue to be upset over their circumstances. I may be projecting myself, but what I see there is there. It's people saying "They just say no there's no point".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:23 AM
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In a way you're playing a numbers game every time you talk to a woman trying to get a date. Unless you come off as a creeper your actual approach matters very little. I was nervous and came off poorly a lot because I was taking rejections to heart. Each one would make me sabotage myself a little more, making the next attempt likely to fail. It was only after I allowed myself to feel good about trying that I started seeing interest. The actual approach itself was "Hey I like you do you want to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:18 AM
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To be honest I don't mock fat people IRL. It wasn't the greatest example. If I did I would mock genders equally. I slut shame equally IRL though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 04:14 AM
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I don't call everyone who wants to have sex but can't an incel. I call the posters on incels incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 06:23 PM
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I'm a fucking IDF war vet. I won the jew off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 06:22 PM
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I think Lenin was more of a "Nyet" kind of guy than a "No" kind of guy. Nothing has 100% success, but not trying has 100% failure. EDIT I am completely wrong, apparently Lenin spoke English very well. Sorry. According to Yahoo answers he had an Irish accent, but this interview doesn't mention an accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:45 PM
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Wow, leave it to TBP to completely miss the point. The point of the analogy is that if some bluepillers are indifferent to incel, but a very significant portion hates them, TBP as a whole is a group that hates incels. TBP as a whole is a group that dislikes incels. I happen to also dislike incels. Involving Nazis into it makes your argument bad. Especially when you are talking to a Jew. A lot of TBPers don't like incels. So the group as a whole generally does have a dislike for them (which is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:44 PM
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Incel = Involuntarily Celibate. You don't want to be celibate? Work at it. Or stop complaining. Forget about every other societal rule, this is the only one that matters. Shit or get off the pot. Accept celibacy, stop complaining about it, and don't say it's involuntary, or work at it. Then we can work on rule #2, which, to quote Bill S Preston, goes "Be excellent to each other" EDIT I appear to be in a media mood today. QUOTES FOR EVERYONE!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:23 PM
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Who are the Jews? Incels? In which case, I guess I'd be Solomon Perl, if we're going to use your metaphor. Or the inverse of him. If the Nazi Party had accepted former Jews and not killed them. I think. It's an odd one. I mean, the Nazis didn't persecute Jews just by their beliefs. There was a genetic component to it for them. I could be offended seeing as my grandparents are Holocaust survivors, but I'm just mildly amused by this Godwin. Yes, if TBP were literal Nazis then I'd be a Nazi. And in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:19 PM
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Take an honest look at /r/incels. Where the fuck is any actual meaningful attempt at getting out of it? I fucking hate TRP but at the very least they say "Here's how to get out of your situation". I find their read of the situation idiotic and their methods immoral, but at the very least I can respect them for doing something. What are you doing other than encouraging a downward spiral into self-hate, and societal hate? I will never make fun of a 30 year old virgin who is having a difficult time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:06 PM
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A lot of us don't. I, however, was in the position of being a 23 year old virgin who was not happy with it. What I did was talk to women and put myself out there and get rejected and cope with the hard feelings of rejection until finally I stopped striking out. When I see incels post and get encouraged, I want to slap them in the face and tell them to stop pitying themselves. Since I am online in a different part of the world, I confine myself to being snarky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:04 PM
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If you're fat, eating McDonalds will not help you lose weight. There could be several reasons you are overweight. There are a few ways to work to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:01 PM
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If you see a guy who is fat, sits around on his ass all day, and eats nothing but McDonalds, but then complains that he can't get thin no matter what he tries, you're going to make fun of him. Literally every bit of advice will tell him "exercise and eat less", but he doesn't do that, and continues to complain that there's no hope for him it's his genes. I'm gonna make fun of that guy. With incels it seems worse because they also talk about how evil women are and venerate Eliot Rodgers. Fat peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:24 PM
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Because there's a difference between someone like you and my friend who dumped his fuckbuddy and hasn't gotten laid in the eight months since.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:20 AM
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I honestly can't find it as reddit's search is shit and I don't remember enough about the post anyway, but there was a 23 year old virgin a few months back who posted asking for advice and got it. We mock the "incel" title because it's a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 11:19 AM
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Dude, I wouldn't cheat. Maybe if I was drunk enough to affect my judgement but I make a point not to get that drunk. And it doesn't matter how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 10:26 AM
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No. I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 10:00 AM
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/u/biggerdthanyou wrote a brilliant response as to why BPers dislike TRP. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4zprhp/cmv_men_with_naturally_high_smv_criticizing_trp/d6xt5px
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 07:10 AM
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If I was offered a four-way with the non-Viola-Davis female cast of Suicide Squad I wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 07:00 AM
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I seem to remember a poll on this sub that showed a high correlation between RP and people raised by single mothers. Anyone remember what I'm talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:52 AM
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I see a huge difference between a presidential candidate and a group of asshats online
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 06:04 AM
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This sub has been going through a serious AMALT phase recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 10:15 AM
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Only mature people have the skills gained from experience of knowing what mistakes not to make. This is a tool both men and women have. It's not female intuition any more than it's men being naturally smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 12:41 PM
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Malvo was a serial killer whose only joy in life was fucking with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 11:27 AM
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Spoilers for Fargo the TV show. Lester Nygaard is the ultimate redpill man. He starts off bitter and frustrated in life, thinking it's because he's nice but he simply settled because he didn't think he could do better. After a huge heaping of abuse he snaps, and from there learns that fucking people back can solve his problems. His newly gained confidence attracts him a hot wife who he is willing to cheat on, and who he throws away once it's useful to him. He's smart (he figures out the riddle t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 10:44 AM
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Whose parents? Teens in the 60's had tons of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 06:14 PM
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Pharmacology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 10:00 PM
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Myself. This place needs a BP mod and pretty soon I will have the time and the lack of infractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 09:59 PM
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I guess I'm a romantic then. There are good people out there. Why not try to be one yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:12 PM
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I wonder if there actually is some science to be done about it. It could be interesting. But then I remember a friend of mine who became very camp after he came out of the closet and then returned to his former mannerisms (not stereotypically gay, probably the most gymbro friend I have) and it really is probably due to socialization. But I don't know. This could be really interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 09:49 AM
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I like blooper. It makes me think about Paul Rudd being goofy on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 04:32 PM
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THE BELL CAN NOT BE UNRUNG
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 06:17 AM
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The problem is that Terpers can define anyone as Alpha in spite of not having any of the traits they talk about and then say that you need those traits to be Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:28 PM
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Ask twenty guys if Anna Kendrick is hot. You'll get different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 06:30 PM
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Easy. There are no set-in-stone rules to attraction. A lot of the time we don't know what it is we're attracted to, and each person varies, though some less than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 05:54 PM
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I'm bored, and TRP is perfectly on the right place of offensive yet harmless to me that I can engage with it. For instance, I have an incredibly hard time debating the one Neo Nazi who frequents Against Hate Subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 05:30 PM
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My entire difficulty in debating here stems from the fact that I know everyone experiences the world differently and everyone has their own life experience. I'm never the one claiming there are rules to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 05:26 PM
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Terpers who would vote for Hillary are people with extreme cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 07:06 PM
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You're taking the fun out of summer reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 10:18 AM
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Oh then that's resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 10:15 AM
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That's why I used him as an example in the other thread. Later I tried using a guy I knew in the military but people don't know him. Famous people are just an easy baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 10:13 AM
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Said fatso is a little shorter than me. As far as attractive qualities go, he's incredibly funny (the sort of funny who can get away with saying anything because people are laughing too much) and a great singer. That's about it. At a certain point we realized he was an MP rat and even then people still liked him because of his humor. Also, skin tone itself can be attractive to some people. OP, not everyone's likes conform to your rigid view of what's sexy. Otherwise, either Christina Hendricks o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 10:09 AM
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First off, everyone has something that's someone's fetish. Assuming a guy is a completely hideous beast, I think he can still get laid based on personality. He will definitely not have as easy a time as someone good looking, but I find that physical attraction and personality attraction tend to merge. Have you ever had a breakup where you realized she was much uglier afterwards? I remember reading research that suggested that women are actually more extreme in this, estimating looks by personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 05:47 PM
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Then why is OP so black and white in his definitions? All I am saying is that what attracts people is different. OP's claim is that attraction is universal but someone may have more of one quality to compensate for a lack in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:40 PM
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I am saying your universal truths are not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 02:20 PM
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Patton Oswalt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:31 PM
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I guess the issue is in disagreement over what constitutes an attractive quality. Of course someone has to have an attractive quality to attract someone, but where I differ from TRPers is that I think that different people are attracted to different things, and looks are only one aspect of it. A guy can be short and overweight but generous and funny and he's going to be able to get laid. The biggest lady's man I know is tiny, ratfaced, and could probably be picked up by a light breeze, but he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 10:05 AM
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Can we jerk each other off a bit more? I'm liking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:14 PM
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Where? AFAIK, Freud has been mostly disproven. I know I definitely don't have a thing for my mother but I do like "take charge" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 04:36 PM
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http://www.alternet.org/story/155087/sex_escape%3A_why_do_men_go_to_dominatrixes Not necessarily. A lot of men who are otherwise dominant enjoy being dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 04:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/b1W5vwhLcsw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:38 PM
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Still we try to be decent if someone appears to need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:06 PM
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I agree but I have a hard time disliking John Casey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 12:35 PM
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I was quite active there. I left when I realized that they weren't willing to self examine, and they spent more time on e-celeb drama than on vidya journalism. I was actively disgusted when I saw a post calling someone a kike get upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 11:41 AM
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So fucking what? It was a small piece of shit indie game, even assuming one jilted ex's allegations are true. Where the fuck is the outrage against day 1 DLC, or games being shipped out incomplete, or nonsensical good reviews for AAA games that don't deserve it? Why focus on a dumbass indie developer when you've got Activision, EA, and Ubisoft competing to see who can fuck over consumers best, and journalists slobbering all over who can praise the next Assassin's Creed more? Supporting Gamergate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 10:17 AM
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I'll have to live with your disapproval.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:46 AM
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Nope. Looked at thread titles. Couldn't be arsed to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:40 AM
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Top post is about how both genders have a hard time at parties. One after that is about male body shaming. The next few are generally about toxic masculinity and how it's hurting men, though TBH I hate the man bun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:24 AM
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Second half is still a great war film in itself. And Baldwin is pretty good in it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 09:06 AM
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raise it in /r/menslib. I'm sure there will be ideas or support there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 08:22 AM
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I dislike them as a gamer, not as a BPer. There are many layers to this. The big issue with vidya journalism, in my opinion, is that AAA games are often treated well by journalists because publishers own their asses. Other than briefly addressing this in their core screed, they mostly go after female developers (Zoe Quinn and Amber Scott) or online dumbasses who no one cared about until GG marked them (Anita). I had a minor online correspondence with Amber Scott back when she worked for White Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:54 AM
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Occasionally someone asks for advice on TBP. Then they get an assortment of advice from the members.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:30 AM
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Too many claim AWALT is literally AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 03:32 AM
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So you got called out for being a terper and you whine about being called out. Good job holding frame bro. Hint - Most of the people on TBP don't see TRP as harsh truths, they see it as idiotic misogyny. That specific post probably doesn't deserve to be downvoted, but I don't care one way or another. TiA and KiA are both bigoted shitholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:18 PM
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TiA has a very bigoted user base. This has caused a few of the founding mods to leave. KiA isn't really about journalistic integrity. It's about a war against what they percieve as SJW interests, and singling out bigger offenders. I am more offended by them as one of the people they singled out is Amber Scott, who back in the day was a well known participant in fantasy boards and was always a friendly and smart poster. If they were so honestly for journalistic integrity they would actually focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:16 PM
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TiA has a very bigoted user base. This has caused a few of the founding mods to leave. KiA isn't really about journalistic integrity. It's about a war against what they percieve as SJW interests, and singling out bigger offenders. I am more offended by them as one of the people they singled out is Amber Scott, who back in the day was a well known participant in fantasy boards and was always a friendly and smart poster. If they were so honestly for journalistic integrity they would actually focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:15 PM
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The problem is that a lot of RPers claim that AWALT means literally AWALT. Because if AWALT doesn't literally mean AWALT it has lost any value it may have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:09 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feral_child The wikipedia article on these cases. Children raised away from human behavior found it impossible to adapt to human behavior. In some cases there were physiological changes in addition to psychological ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:04 PM
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And a hundred years ago, pink was a manly color also because of biology but we've evolved beyond that point!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:02 PM
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It's also likely she had smaller. In any case, if she's seeing your dick, chances are she's not gonna back down. A fucking pornstar used to mammoth dicks today said she prefers average sized ones https://np.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/4wmp36/iama_asa_akira/d688ttz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:37 AM
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Yes, all of those are unreasonable. EDIT reading all of our conversation now, I see exactly my own fears in the past reflected at me. You've probably heard all people have said that I could say. That it really isn't as big of a deal as you think. That it's less of a dealbreaker than it looks. But this is all stuff you can only internalize by experiencing it, and so far experience was shit. So I really can't say much other than good luck. Please don't get sucked up into a psychotic idiotic cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 04:04 PM
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That is literally average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:54 PM
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Because most people aren't virgins by the age of 18, so having that as an expectation is eliminating the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:46 PM
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Because one is what Bane did to Batman and the other is a phrase for using something the first time. It's not a great choice of words of mine, I'll admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:45 PM
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Yes, most people lose their virginities between 15-18. If that's a category you're going to be picky over you're going to have a harder time. Not impossible but harder. The advantage you will have is that they will probably also be looking for someone at a similar experience level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:44 PM
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They said it's not a realistic expectation to have a virgin wife, not that female virgins don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:41 PM
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A lot of guys do say they prefer virgin girls and have responded to me saying this. There's also a difference between breaking and breaking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:37 PM
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Posts like this make me wish for a big bad wolf to huff and puff and knock all the straw down. In the history of TBP did anyone ever say that virgin girls don't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:36 PM
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NO U
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 02:35 PM
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If all you're looking for is getting off, gonewild, handcream, and 10 minutes should do the trick. But good sex is with a person who is comfortable with themselves, open minded, and feeling right about it. None of which applies to virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:05 PM
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BPers are super monolithic and we all believe the same things. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5698440 FOR SCIENCE EDIT not exactly my claim, but it supports something close. But the more sex partners you have the worse you are at LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:25 PM
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Because promiscuous people are generally shit at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:14 PM
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Except generally guys who know their shit about sex would prefer women who know their way around a dick and most virgin women prefer men who are close to that themselves. Promiscuous chads are only idolized by promiscuous chads and people who want to be promiscuous chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 02:17 PM
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Promiscuous people are judged. not identically, but they are judged. people who think otherwise are generally not the brightest. you're using feminists as a bogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 12:42 PM
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I was saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 12:41 PM
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No, not necessarily. There are also experienced girls who love breaking in virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 11:41 AM
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That little shit should have disappeared once we invented tables. Since then it's only made things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 11:06 AM
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Everyone, male or female, is judged by their sexual history. Let's dispel this illusion that people aren't judged by their sexual history. My girlfriend admitted to me that she originally thought I was much more experienced than I was, and was hesitant to date me until she found out the truth. Other women have turned me down for my inexperience. Just like TRP recommends turning down women who have ridden the cock carousel. A virgin girl will usually want a virgin guy. Men and women are both judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 10:30 AM
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I don't remember this but she told me it was an offensive joke that made her think I was an asshole. Back then I was thinking she was pretty but with a severe case of crazy eyes so I should probably avoid. We got together after being not really close friends for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 08:27 AM
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http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/health/2016/04/why-doctors-mental-health-should-be-concern-us-all Here ya go. Doctors are crazy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 08:23 AM
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TBP is dedicated to satirizing TRP, a subreddit which regularly claims that half the world's population is worth less. Yall act like yall are heroes sent to protect the innocent young men from the woman-hating cesspool that is TRP, or just a bunch of silly kids making jokes, but a lot of the shit yall say is rather mean spirited. The vast majority of TBP don't act like that. Some want to make fun of idiocy. Some want to rage. Some have been hurt and want to get some form of understanding of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 08:18 AM
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https://youtu.be/KCO-SBPTF5E Just letting my friends Sam and John explain it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 02:09 AM
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I may be wrong then. I dunno. I can't keep track of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 09:56 PM
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Voluntary enslavement. She's not stupid she's still gaming him and hooking the man harder this way too. This behavior benefits her relationships stability and commitment. What, specifically, is she getting? Stability and commitment are good if there's something else too. If I have a pure shit bar, I don't care if it's organic or free trade. I want a chocolate bar, or at least some granola thing. Then I look for those additions. Why can't you call yourself on your own shit in retrospect? Hopefull…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 07:04 PM
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I'll add my voice agreeing to this. It sort of crosses the line between "Devoted" and "Enslaved". As a human being I expect to be called on my shit, and I expect to reciprocate what I get - if my girlfriend is supporting me through my hard times while not getting support and shutting down her emotions, there is an unhealthy element to the relationship. It's about mutual support and mutual appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 05:26 PM
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Together, we will make the world a stupider place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 01:36 PM
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I made a few idiotic submissions that were removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 12:11 PM
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What about that one RPer who straight up confessed to rape in one of his posts and whose very presence was triggering to bluepillers? His name escapes me, but he too was a dependable lolcow. CisWhiteMaelstrom. He has a new account every few weeks but I don't remember which one it is. I think he's modding /r/altright right now but I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 12:10 PM
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OP was bahleeted... WHY WAS OP BAHLEETED? WHY?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 12:07 PM
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Fuck them then. But people are pretending the world thinks like that when it doesn't. And some people get called misogynist all day and don't realize that maybe it's actually them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:43 AM
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I don't think hating the movie makes you a misogynist. But saying you can't say you hate the movie because you'll be accused of misogyny is kind of a dog whistle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:29 AM
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I thought I was the only one who disliked original Ghostbusters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 04:27 AM
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I'm totes redpill. I mean, I don't lift or manipulate her and I kind of let her lead and I make sure to talk through everything but she's still with me so I'm redpill. My boss once saw me sad after an argument and told me "Whatever it is, apologize to her. Be a man, get on your knees and grovel" and considering how happy he is in his marriage I guess he's redpill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:13 PM
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You have turned moving the goalposts into an art.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:10 PM
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Tell that to my girlfriend. I secretly suspect she is incapable of not taking the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:07 PM
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Genuine laugh here. When I had more free time I would gym up on a regular basis. Now I just run. I could do more but I don't so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 05:18 PM
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This one time I went to the gym and couldn't figure out this thing everyone was doing where they were repeatedly raising and lowering things. Seemed kind of like witchcraft to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/16 08:40 PM
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The truth is that if it were moderate venting it wouldn't matter. There are two problems here. The first is that self described incels wallow in their self pity. This makes them less likely to open their eyes as to how to get out of their situation. It ends up functioning more as an echo chamber than as an offmychest equivalent. The second is that it recruits people. I officially lost the capability for wizard powers at the age of 23. I know people who have had it worse. If these people were to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 01:37 PM
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Look I'm not debating fuzzy feelings. Obvs. That is literally what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 05:42 PM
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Getting laid is a pretty great high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 08:52 PM
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If a friendship is ruined by accidentally saying something stupid it was a shit friendship. I've managed to carpet bomb the shit out of friendships and retain them. I've also said the wrong thing at the wrong time and been cut off. But it's happened with both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 08:51 PM
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Wake up in morning. Fall from tree. Hunt mammoth. Bring home flesh. Go to sleep. So it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 08:49 PM
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"Not discriminating against men is a difficult barrier against women." Also, name a field like that and not a hypothetical. I'm not going to waste my time pointing out where less qualified women are hired over more qualified men because it's the norm now. Software. Game design - the harrassment that female game developers have gone through is horrible. The military. Being a mechanic - with my own eyes, I've seen that one go bad. Pretty much every STEM oriented workplace I've seen has had that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:46 PM
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Studies have shown that men are more likely to divorce a sick wife than women are to divorce a sick husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:41 PM
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That it's blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:16 PM
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Did not know that. Coolio.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 09:22 PM
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Huh. I was convinced it would mean A Man Of God. I am no alpha male. But when spoken to in Hebrew I love responding in Hebrew. And sometimes you get to make someone go "Huh?". One time /r/israel managed to completely troll /r/conspiracy by changing to Hebrew for a week. They were convinced there was going to be a false flag or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 09:14 PM
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Did they? I don't actually keep track.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 09:06 PM
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Nope. As I said, my only real connection to what he says is how true it feels to me. Dr Oz feels like a snake oil peddler. Nerdlove feels like someone who does have some decent advice. Even though technically speaking Dr Oz is an incredible surgeon. However much he peddles guano cereal you can't take that away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:58 PM
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Regarding the AWALT - I pretty much gave up on an argument with a guy on another thread who was making the case that AWALT does mean that ALL women are like that. The rest are strawmans of BP beliefs. Negging is just kind of stupid. Shit tests are manipulative behavior and not as common as terpers think. Women can love me the way I want to be loved, I have no idea how you want to be loved. And both men and women can be immature because humans can be immature. I work with a woman who I believe ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:52 PM
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I feel like I should be talking about my Hollywood connections but except for a really really distant relation to a C list actress I've got nothing and I'm not willing to lose this one. Oy vey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:48 PM
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You were saying that redpill draws wisdom from many sources, among them the Bible. I'm saying that the Bible's wisdom is schitzophrenic at times and that a lot of it - including a part you mentioned specifically - goes directly counter to TRP. The best example of hypergamy in literature may well be Abraham jumping between Sara and Hagar according to which one will give him more children. I am having Bible class flashbacks because of this conversation. This may be the weirdest one I've had ever. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:43 PM
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Because a lot of TRPers say that no one gives the advice that's in the good part of TRP without the parts that are morally problematic. Here's someone who gives pretty much everything OK about TRP without saying things like AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:36 PM
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אני אומר שאין שום קשר בין "אשת חיל" ורדפיל. להגיד שזה מגיע ממקורות כמו התנ"ך היה דבילי גם אם התנ"ך לא היה מלא בשגיאות, שמראה כמה פילוסופיות שונות. יש בו דברים יפים. יש בו גם סיפור על נביא שהורג ילדים כי הם צוחקים על הקרחת שלו. יש את הסיפור של יעל וסיסרא, שבו השופט ברק הוא מטומטם שלא מצליח במשימה שלו ורק נשים מצליחות לנצח את המצביא. את הכנסת לסיפור את התורה ואת היוונים. אני אומר שכל קשר הוא מקרי לגמרי. עריכה - דרך אגב, רוב היהודים שאני מכיר שלא ישראלים לא יודעים עברית אז זה די מפתיע כשמישהו כן יו…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:24 PM
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I also read Eshet Khayil just now. In the original Hebrew. It's in praise of a hard working, dedicated, kind woman, one who doesn't have the lie of beauty. It kind of seems anti RP. EDIT - there seems to be controversy about the text because in some versions she's god fearing and in others she is wise and there's some debate among scholars as to which one is accurate. I really need to watch Footnote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:55 PM
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You could have also meant the greeks, who believed that love was a thing that only existed between older men and younger boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:49 PM
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You mean where the bible says that a man has to satisfy his wife in bed or she should leave him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:43 PM
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Nerdlove is his own source and the fact that he is trusted by many makes him a relatively more reliable one. Considering I don't actually pay much attention to dating gurus and the people I listen to for romantic advice are friends and family, a lot of what he says makes sense to me. But to be perfectly fair I don't care all that much about what he has to say for that specific reason. I get my advice from a man who has been married for thirty one years and is happy, and from a guy a few years ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:42 PM
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An example of dating advice that is outside of TRP and is good and doesn't include hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:36 PM
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Had nothing off the top of my head. Pressed "Dating" on his website and got this - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2016/02/fix-your-dating-failures/ Definitely valid. EDIT HAHAHAHA I FOUND HIM TALKING ABOUT ABUNDANCE MENTALITY I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO REACT TO THIS ONE http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2014/01/leveling-up-abundance-mentality/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 07:24 PM
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Yay, the link I've been spamming is catching!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 06:09 PM
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I think TRP's sources are pretty much on the same level as Dr Nerdlove. Don't pretend they're better. The difference is that Nerdlove's examples match my reality far better than TRP, which is definitely not the work of 10,000 people over the course of millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 06:06 PM
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The article itself says that not all women will behave completely according to AWALT. Furthermore, assuming only women are irrational and immature is only possible to those who don't know men. I can give my girlfriend as an example of someone who is dating someone who is of a similar or lesser level of attractiveness, who has less money, and who has less status (though that one is debatable. In my society I'm higher status and in hers she is. Culture clash is funny that way). She is constantly h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 05:54 PM
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And each time I resist answering with "because penises are little devil horns"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3thh1i/awalt_is_a_result_of_red_pill_men_not_being/ That is a thread discussing AWALT. A ton of RPers are in it saying AWALT doesn't literally mean every woman. You even have RPers saying there are women it doesn't apply to. This was one of the top results when I searched this sub for AWALT. I don't understand how to debate you on this. I know many women who don't branch swing, who aren't hypergamous, who prefer "beta" guys... but any example I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:37 PM
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So far so good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:04 PM
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If you're fighting a wildfire that's exactly what you do. But if a relationship has reached that level it seems kinder to let the fucker burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 12:18 PM
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https://youtu.be/-zNaeo8nPOo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 10:59 AM
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I swear I've seen this thread 10 times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 06:01 AM
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People should be nice. A woman gets into manipulative bullshit I "Next" her. Life is too feckin short to get into that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:35 AM
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I've had enough debates with people where they say "AWALT is a heuristic it doesn't literally mean all women".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 03:33 AM
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I'll have you know I love myself on a regular basis, right after flossing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 05:56 PM
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So low level dread game is just self improvement (albeit with scummy motivations), but high level dread game is being a piece of shit and exactly what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 04:18 PM
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Well it's the one after the most awesome person in the world entered her life so I'd say it's pretty damn meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 02:39 PM
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It's something I think I know very well. I've seen her at her worst and she's seen me at pretty damn close to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 02:33 PM
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Sociopaths maybe. I wouldn't be comfortable, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 01:44 PM
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It's bad for relationships. A relationship based on fear is not a pleasant place to be, even if you're the one causing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 01:28 PM
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Not a typo. Been using it for years. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 12:37 PM
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I'll probably be a little ostrich sized by TBP for this but I feel like trollxchromosomes often goes too far into the realm of female empowerment and goes into attacking men. But I don't think that reddit truly hosts an anti male group that operates on the level TRP does. You've got a few crazy tumblrinas like that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 12:25 PM
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/r/theinfraredpill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 12:18 PM
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If there is no respect it's not going to be cured by dread. EDIT Alternately, "It's better to be feared than loved" is a really bad motto for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 09:06 AM
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https://youtu.be/9NF5XU-k2Vk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:30 AM
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Dread Game is the thing I can most easily point to as harmful. If it works, what you essentially did is insert an element of fear into your relationship. What should be built on love and respect is now built on fear. Congratulations for sowing the seeds of abuse into your relationship. If it fails she sees through the shit and cuts you out. This is a big way that TRP is bullshit for TBP, though. If my relationship were to make me feel like it's an endless competition as to who shows more mastery…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:26 AM
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TRP observes some sociopathic behaviors which are true for some people. Most things in AWALT don't apply to my girlfriend or to myself. They do heavily apply to a guy she works with, and an ex of mine. TRP is demonstrably false when it's used as an "only one gender is like this" science. When it's used as "some people in both genders are like this" it's meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/16 08:08 AM
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I see no random idiotic humor pervading this sub. This is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 06:46 PM
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A hundred percent this. Except I am tall and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 02:46 PM
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The problem is that FU had him in their banner. It's not one post, it's a sub clearly stating who they idolize.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 06:11 AM
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Someone idealizing a mass murderer and using their lack of success in one field to say that half the human race is evil is deserving of mockery. And the ones who say a man's value is based on the amount of sex he gets is TRP. I honestly don't know what to make of you saying the opposite. It seems disingenuous as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 05:55 AM
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Kind of poorly. My girlfriend snores. When people make fun of virgins on TBP I get annoyed and argue with them. I disagree. I find it disgusting and I always have. But speaking as someone who is active in the sub, it rarely happens. But people on Forever Unwanted/Alone? They're revolting. They wallow in their misery, perpetuating a circle where they do nothing and feel shitty about doing nothing. They idolize Eliot Rodgers, a guy who is pretty much the poster child for pathetically lashing out i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 05:37 AM
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Hate against what? An anti woman hate group? I guess it would make anyone who stands up against racists a bigot, right? Everyone opposed to the KKK is part of a hate group?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 05:22 AM
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Free speech is protection from government censorship. It's not "Here's a platform to preach hate".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 03:35 AM
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Amusing note - in the past week, the new Defense Minister Avigdor Lieberman, widely known in Israel as the biggest warmonger in politics (or a close second after Naftali Bennet), has implemented procedures to make Ramadan easier, and has publically stated he wants to cooperate with the Saudi peace initiative. You know, because Israel never does anything to stop fighting. I wasn't going to divert this into international politics but your post is dumber than an actual wooden post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 01:45 PM
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Women do have a much easier time getting out of conscription than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 05:00 AM
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https://youtu.be/6FaSRDSd75E
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:19 AM
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Rorschach's Journal. June 1st. 2016 I think western men have the most self-control in the world. We are bombed every day with explicit sexual material without stop. I walk down the street, look up and what do I see? Some victoria secret model almost naked on the billboard. I catch the bus, bam. Almost entirely naked girls going about their day either oblivious to the pull they have on men or a complete lack of concern for the blue balls they are going to provide young men with because they're bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 07:03 AM
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You are making false claims based on what you believe a bloop would say. That is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 09:06 AM
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The straw is strong in this one. No bloop in the history of this sub has spoken against one night stands. No bloop has ever said that one specific way is definitely better than the rest. A lot of bloops aren't PC but nearly all of bloops dislike outright hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 08:53 AM
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We literally hate men. Those of us who are men are white knights hoping for some of that feminazi smooching but we are doomed to be beta orbiters forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 12:28 PM
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I'm debating telling her about this debate. I know I'm finding it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 06:47 PM
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Thirty seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/16 05:30 PM
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Because the idea of the sub is Men Going Their Own Way. Avoiding women, or at least giving them no importance. To use a terrible metaphor, when I stopped watching Homeland I stopped watching Homeland. I didn't go on an online forum to talk about how I was totally not talking about Homeland any more and how Homeland was no longer a part of my life. This may be the first time I'm talking about it since Carrie almost drowned a baby. If you qant to truly go your own way and focus on your life, do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 05:36 PM
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Or as I like to call it, Men Totally Going Their Own Way And Not Talking About Women At All, No Sir No Way, We Are Happy And Don't Talk About Women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 05:08 PM
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To be fair I posted a picture of Pumba.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 05:04 PM
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http://vignette2.wikia.nocookie.net/disney/images/1/10/Pumba.png/revision/latest?cb=20130906091916&path-prefix=es EDIT for context for future people the post I was responding to asked for a picture of my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 11:27 AM
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Because TRP isn't just morally wrong or ethically compromised. It is also a hundred percent provably empirically scientifically wrong. Do people like the ones TRP describes exist? Yes. And in enough quantities that confirmation bias will keep the faith alive. But also, I kept being nice. To everyone. I learned to stop putting the women I had a crush on on a pedestal and realized they were people just as shitty as any others. And then my kindness attracted a woman who actually was looking for a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 10:16 AM
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Except that I match the first far more than the second one and I am an avowed bloop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 04:41 AM
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So all communication is manipulation? If I ask my girlfriend to make me coffee with the intent that she makes me coffee and she does, did I manipulate her into making me coffee? Because if that is the case then tou have managed to strip the word of its meaning completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:53 AM
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A newborn has a need and is communicating that need the only way it knows how. That counts as manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:42 AM
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Not really? Children are ridiculously transparent in their manipulations. They are amoral vicious little things but not yet quite there as far as manipulation goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:20 AM
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That last one reminds me too much about how Jews are subhuman yet still control the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:18 AM
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This sub will pick a theme and peck at it for ages this is the third time I see it this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 12:37 PM
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I am the Alpha and the Omega
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 06:28 PM
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Ted 2 ruined her for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 10:52 AM
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Maybe make it a wiki so that people can constantly add things! The world is always changing. But what do we call it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:58 PM
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Sigourney Weaver and Linda Hamilton were leads of action franchises decades ago. I doubt a big change is happening quite yet. Let's see how Wonder Woman and Captain Marvel do and then see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:50 PM
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Two of the best sci fi franchises of all time are female led - Terminator and Alien. Terminator occasionally tries the "male lead" thing but sucks each time. Not disagreeing just adding to your point. I may have an unhealthy crush on Sigourney Weaver as well to be perfectly honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:48 PM
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I think Katharine Hepburn has her beat but I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:46 PM
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You have got to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 10:34 AM
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Part of my issue with TRP is that it strengthens the narrative that you are worthless without sex. Essentially, TRP talks a lot about measuring your success in life through your success with women. And the ones who are MGTOW talk so much about how they are going their own way that it gets kind of comedic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 01:25 PM
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There could be three very exhausted women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 08:44 AM
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There was a TBP thread a while back that had my blood boiling. Something like "It's not actually that hard to get sex". If you're the sort of person it's hard for, then it's pretty fucking hard and the truth is that TRP would not exist if it was easy. I wasn't a virgin until 23 because I wanted to be, and a guy who is a little socially awkward and who doesn't understand the difference between when women flirt and when they talk is screwed over in these matters. And the fact that most women are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:50 AM
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Here is someone approaching TBP asking for help. Among the comments are "find focus in your life" and "socialize" and "here's some dating advice". Pretty much everything good about Redpill is in there, also a lot of good that's not Redpill, and no harmful manipulative bullshit. Why is redpill bad? Because it wraps up manipulative bullshit along with the good stuff and the good stuff is found everywhere else, and I am including TBP in that with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 05:22 PM
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Endorsed Contributors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 11:34 PM
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Triggers trigger me. I've been stuck in a recursive loop since the Waynes were shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 09:06 PM
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The chimpire was the entire collection of racist subs. Also included gasthekikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 06:40 PM
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As BP, yes. Evil fucks of all kind can have a lot of fun with people who will do things for them. I was terrified of relationships for years and carried a lot of anger for a long time as a result. If I had found redpill then I might have bought into it. Fortunately I got over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 06:44 PM
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It seems like a lot of top comments here aren't BP. Thought that was against the rules. Anyway, I think that a lot of these subreddits prey on people at their weakest. A man at his darkest could find legitimate self improvement but he could also find TRP and in a place of bad judgement the hate and filth could reach him better than actual good can. The other aspect is that negative subreddits affect the whole website. If reddit were to truly clamp down on racist subreddits I think askreddit woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 06:12 PM
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Shit, replace women with people and I'll agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 07:00 AM
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I'm debating putting that link in an RES shortcut and just pasting it into every debate thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 08:37 AM
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Dude, there are very few worse places you can come to for advice on this matter. Just saying. Not even going to chip in with my own 2 cents because everything's been so fucked up by now that it would be stupid to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 04:31 AM
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I'd have difficulties with short hair. Also an irritating voice. I know a girl who would have been perfect had she not sounded like The Nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 09:16 AM
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You misspelled it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 09:15 AM
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I'm responding to you there as well no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 06:25 PM
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I would completely dispute the hypergamous thing as opposed to men - I would say the vast majority of people including women are OK with dating people under their league as long as they have other attractive factors - be it a sense of humor, or kindness, or a thing they do with their tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:57 PM
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The Most Women thing is bullshit. The problem is that by saying Most you can handwave away any other examples and make disproving you essentially impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:49 PM
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This I will agree with. It was only when I was forced to be around more men that I found the sort of inner peace that allowed me to be myself around women I liked. No idea why exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:46 PM
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You stated what you thought blue pillers think. I countered. Of course a fit man will do better than an unfit man assuming those are the only factors. However, I will quote the great Mr. L. Jackson and say that personality goes a long way. But it better be a charming motherfucking pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:35 PM
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Blues say that for some women some of those things are true. For some men some of those things are true. The Blue Pill Truth is that each person has their own preferences. I rejected a girl who was a physical 10/10 because I didn't like how she acted, but I've been rejected by a girl who was a 3/10. I know a guy who exclusively dates women you would refer to as ham planets. I would also add as another Blue Pill Truth that looks aren't everything, though I would snark that maybe that's all TRPers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 04:50 PM
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Oh shit he was? I need to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:49 AM
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Proof - http://media3.s-nbcnews.com/j/TODAY/Sections/Today%20Pets/2011/9-Sept/Chili%20OHAR001Apri2010%20(2).grid-5x2.jpg EDIT hyperlinking doesn't work on addresses that have parentheses in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:56 AM
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NADALT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 03:50 AM
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If you tell a BP that all dogs always have four legs he'll show you one of the ones with two and wheels because those are cuter than the three legged ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 03:42 AM
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McDonalds is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 04:22 AM
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Why should we? Too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:29 AM
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Probably not much better off. I'm much better at self moderating than I used to be. It also takes a bit of a toll sometimes, the sheer negativity. So then I back away for a bit. But as I said it's great for boredom. The problem is that just identifying actions doesn't help, because the actions come from the vile spaces in your mind. Identifying those spaces is much more helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:26 AM
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Past ones. I was emotionally abusive and kind of an entitled ass. Took me years to realize it but now that I do I don't like the person I was. Doing better. A lot of people will talk about changing people but I don't think it'll happen here. It's too adversarial. So I'll point and laugh at shitshows in TBP and engage in conversation here when I'm bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:58 AM
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I'm alleviating boredom. Also, reading RPers' posts helps me identify thought patterns of my own that lead to dickish behaviors. But mostly the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:52 AM
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Apparently I hate men. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:05 PM
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This a hundred times. Why is near daily sex with one woman less considered than once every two weeks with a different woman each time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 06:01 PM
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Carry the 1.... That's still 26
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:04 AM
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The Geneva Conventions would beg to differ. Also, playing with my dog has no rules. Is that like a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 07:52 AM
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I had a pretty good wartime experience and a few terrible relationships and let me tell you they are nothing alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 05:52 AM
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Yup. I'm a crier. It happens a lot to me, no matter how much I try. Things get hard the waterworks go on. It's irritating as hell and it gave me a ton of trouble in many different places. Me and my gf had a fight and, crying, I told her I don't want to end it. It ended in a way that I was grinning for two days straight. As a general rule, the days after I open up to her about something bothering me are the best in the relationship. My question - are you truly happy in relationships where you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 05:52 AM
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Big bazongas. Boom boom!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:00 AM
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I am subscribed to /r/againsthatesubreddits, /r/antisemitismwatch, and /r/topmindsofreddit. This sub is an interesting place to talk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 04:07 PM
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You mean drapetomania? https://www.google.co.il/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drapetomania&ved=0ahUKEwi6ttfe1tnLAhVJaRQKHXfIAZoQFggqMAM&usg=AFQjCNFR1df0gij9QgP9WpiYQAa6dO2wtA&sig2=1lHZH5YKUz8AeviaUjU4og
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:51 PM
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This is the conclusion I've reached. RPers have just had so many shit relationships they can't believe you can have a non shit one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:47 PM
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I'm at the opposite side of that. I don't care what you were born as but dicks are disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:24 PM
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The problem is that none of us have a universal solution. I have the one that worked for me. Others have the ones that worked for them. I've seen people say "the most important thing not to do in a relationship is X" where X is something that saved my relationship. And I am sure that it would be wrong for them but because of who I am it's right for me. TRP works on a specific subset of women which are the ones TRP complains about. If I were to use RP methods on my relationship it would fall apar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 07:03 AM
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A lot of people make fun of people saying "misogyny" by making it out to be about my soggy knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/16 05:20 AM
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Then why are men encouraged to spin plates and women spoken of derisively for riding the cock carousel? Why the fury when a woman cheats but encouragement when a man does? I'll give you a hint here - it has to do with when knees are wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 10:15 AM
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Disagree with that one. Sometimes sex is bad for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 07:40 AM
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Nobody ever says "let's form a cult" or "let's hate women" but it's an incredibly culty place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 05:28 AM
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Because RP also promotes cult thinking and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 04:47 AM
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Megyn Kelly is 45? Shit, her plastic surgeon is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 02:30 PM
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Definitely agreed. This sub is too toxic a place to spend a lot of time in. But it was entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 05:37 PM
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No u. Truth is that I try to debate but it feels pointless, especially now that Xem isn't here. I feel like someone says "the sky is green" and I'm like "No it isn't" then he goes "Yes it is" "Look outside" "i see green" "well it's blue with some clouds here" "cite your sources" and where the fuck am I going to find proof of something as common as the sky being blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 05:20 PM
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Confidence is part of how we walk and talk. Someone who feels comfortable and present and confident will show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 01:26 PM
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I'd get bored having to lead all the time. I need a give-and-take in my relationship. I could be the "Captain" but it would just end up so boring. I get that some people might want a submissive sex puppet who cooks, but I am definitely not one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 10:14 AM
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Hear it online too. A self assured woman is twice as sexy as someone unsure of themselves. I wouldn't say it's one of the main things attracting me to someone but it sure is a decent bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 09:05 AM
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I thought about writing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 06:38 PM
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Yeah, not all straight men. But I suspect I'll be an outlier because I don't mind cuddling with a man. I would mind cuddling with a woman because that is some bizarre signalling and unless I am completely sure of the "friend" status I would probably feel weird about it. This may be a military thing - men in the military will sleep in the same bed and generally show that sort of affection much more. On the other hand Friends had an episode about this exact thing fifteen years ago (don't remember …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:54 PM
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We handle it. But it's shitty deceptive behavior and deserves being called out, just as much as and for the same reason as a ton of Red Pill bullshit should be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 06:21 PM
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This thread isn't the same without Xemnas... sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 11:35 AM
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I'm actually going to join the RPers on this one... it's shitty behavior. Being told 'I'm busy' twice can mean that the person is trying to politely say no but a lot of the times I've found it to mean the person was actually busy twice. When you send mixed signals, it's your fault when they're misunderstood. Be a decent person and own up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 11:31 AM
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Haven't heard of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 01:58 PM
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I suppose the context changes things in a lot of the cases. The cougar is shown as wrong, IIRC. Saw the movie 10 years ago, don't remember much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 11:58 AM
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Unfortunately I haven't read Lolita, only absorbed it through popcultural osmosis. So I couldn't tell you very well. But my impression is that Lolita is kind of a disturbing book, where Harold and Maude is actually a very sweet film. Or at least, that's the impression me and the people I know get. Maybe we see it like those who think that Humbert Humbert and the girl (whose name isn't Lolita but I don't remember the actual name) are a cute couple and we're the disturbed ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 11:30 AM
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Great movie. I really mean it. It holds up just as well today. It just always had that question mark next to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:48 AM
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I don't disagree with you at all. I want to make this clear before I say anything - you are a hundred percent right. I would like to ask about something - the film Harold and Maude. For anyone wondering about it, it's an absolutely incredible somewhat dark comedy about the relationship between a teenaged boy and an old woman. It also has a soundtrack made entirely of Cat Stevens which should make it a must see to anyone with a sense of hearing. But I always had the thought that, if it were about…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:16 AM
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I was there. I had the crushing loneliness. I know what it's like. I sympathize. But they then turn it to hate, and that gives them zero empathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 06:11 PM
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Not just the main character but the most twisted character in the book is also a woman. Again it could be nothing. Thats just my reading of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:51 PM
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Meh. Brown but in the majority in my country (Israel). It does give a bit of perspective. Not so much help with those who are blind to their own bigotry but definitely to those like me who could use the occasional reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 06:13 PM
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I always felt that Gone Girl is a perfect novel on how TRP views relationships and women. It's all manipulation and falseness to the end. EDIT - Always = three months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:50 PM
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I dunno. I read one other book by the author (Dark Places) and that one was also about toxic femininity (is that a word?). I haven't read Sharp Objects yet but if it is then there's obviously a trend. One book can be happenstance but two is suspicious. If the third is like that I'd say it's a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 05:47 PM
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This is great, I would add something that redpill actually also preaches - Be OK with being rejected and move on. This is hard. Be willing to take a "no" with a smile and a shrug and knowing that it's not you but them and they would feel lucky to know you. This is ridiculously hard to get ingrained but it is possibly the most important tool of them all. If you ask out a hundred women you'll do better than the man who asks out two. But you need to learn to take the ninety some odd rejections you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 06:46 PM
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I wanted to see what rationalizations people would make if any, or if anyone had a decent point to make. I got a few whataboutisms and a lot of intentional blindness. I'm not gonna crosspost this to TBP because even I'm not that big a karma whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 06:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/46wqnp/the_problem_with_feminism/ Here you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 05:42 PM
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Original post was deleted so I have no idea what was in it. Among many other controversial labels (right winger Zionist Israeli Jew was a specific accusation I saw a few days ago) I would consider myself a feminist, though not a militant. Only a feminist in that I believe genders are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 04:00 PM
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Pretty good. Piercings everywhere which takes her down a few levels for me but otherwise good. Definitely capable of roping in better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 03:46 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/46wqnp/the_problem_with_feminism/ Upvoted, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:01 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/46wqnp/the_problem_with_feminism/ Upvoted of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 02:01 PM
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But a public space being used to incite to hate can be called out for being uncommonly comfortable for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:15 PM
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I don't see TBP saying that men are all children and deserve abuse because they're going to hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:41 PM
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2 is not accurate. 1 is. I work with a girl who loves chubby guys. That's her type. She's entirely uninterested in the Chad of the workplace, who has a ton of girls fawning after him. That said, some body types are generally more attractive than others. People who work out are more conventionally good looking than people who don't. Bald men are generally less attractive than men with hair on their head. This will be the case most of the time. But I do say most and not all for a reason. And that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 12:01 PM
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I just wrote a huge long post and deleted it to find you did it better with one last sentence, you asshole. I should have read the entire thread before writing a response. But yes, OP's posts and the top comments suggest the problem may not be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 07:43 PM
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Would be interesting to have a poll in the sub to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:21 AM
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I really like this metaphor. Or simile. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:13 PM
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How the fuck is that a role model for anything? I say this about both RP and that fucking gif. I hope it's out of context because in context it makes no fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:11 PM
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WELL YOUR MOTHER IS A HOOER
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 11:39 PM
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The thing is that boners are a result of blood flow. I wake up in the morning I'm not horny, but it's still there. Mathematics don't make me horny, but yet hey there little guy. Boners are weird things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 07:35 PM
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I do not pay enough attention to celebs. Off the top of my mind, no one. Celebs stay with celebs. Maybe Channing Tatum? Not female but the only one I can think of. Still, Anna Farris was a bigger star at the time. She was headlining feature films (the house bunny, the one where she's stoned). Pratt wasn't. Anyway, this argument has gone way off course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:52 PM
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Her status was higher than his. Five years ago people knew Anna Farris. Chris Pratt was known to people who watched Parks and Rec.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:32 PM
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Anna Farris was with Chris Pratt when he was a fat side character on a TV show and she starred in comedy movies. It's actually much more common for hot women to be with schlubby guys than the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 05:26 PM
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It's impossible for me to be egotistical as I have no negative qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 03:50 PM
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Some parts of TRP are correct, as another person said. Oneitis is shit, though some RPers define it as any emotional connection. Lifting? Give me more of that, yes sir. But once we get to Dread Game, AWALT, overcoming LMR, and a ton of the other crap spouted? Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:34 PM
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I should post more on BP I've never gotten these messages
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:31 PM
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Sometimes I read an RPer's post and go 'wow, I agree with these people' and then I reach the end and I'm like 'nope. Nope. Nononononope'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:28 PM
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All day? Maybe about a half hour a day. Because my life has gotten mildly boring and there's nothing I'm really watching other than Brooklyn 99. It's either find a new show or fling shit online and my monkey brain is bored. When life gets interesting again I'll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 01:25 PM
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I actually just came back from the local MTG league where a few of us talked to each other about our girlfriends. Some nerds actually have girlfriends. Crazy, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:49 PM
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You can't say that sort of thing here. That's misguided about Red Pill. Women are totally equal except for everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:49 PM
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In general nerds tend to be socially awkward people who have a hard time with the opposite gender. This leads to less sex. Nerds who have good social awareness and skills tend to have as much sex as non nerds who have those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:47 PM
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Most CMVs seem neutral if you agree with their side. As someone who definitely leans to the blue side of the scale, they seem offensive as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:10 PM
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But do you ever complain about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:08 PM
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Why is it more important for women to feel 'safe' with their man than the other way around? Why are women less likely to date a guy without a job than men are a woman without a job? Why can women be emotional without it killing desire but men cannot? Men also need to feel safe. RP works on making you feel like she can't hurt you and that's how you feel safe (or learn to live with crippling paranoia), but other relationships work on feeling emotionally secure. Physical security is a different thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 03:13 PM
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But half the CMVs on this sub are like that. No CMV actually wants their mind changed. They all want to stir the pot and usually get the other side angry. Which OP has done moderately well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 02:45 PM
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I counted another one other than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 07:54 PM
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I've been attracted to women and they haven't realized it. Many times. As a former Nice Guy, I can tell you that it happens constantly. I went out with a female friend, my girlfriend, and a guy who was clearly hoping it would be a double date, and I was the only one who realized what was happening. Some people are obtuse. Some people figure things out. I find women are almost as bad as men at knowing when someone is attracted to them. Basically, I have experience being around women. And people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:50 PM
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To say this is wrong would be to understate the magnitude of how wrong this is. This is wrong like Custer was wrong thinking it's just a few indians what can they do. This is wrong like Hitler deciding that actually he should attack Russia. This is so wrong that it has retroactively proven that one plus one equals three because it invalidates everything you have said in the past because of just how wrong this is. My point, if you do not understand, is that you are wrong. You do not know women. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 06:41 PM
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I want a pet dragon sooo bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 01:33 PM
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Aladeen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 06:11 AM
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Can I ask you something? When you saw The Wolf of Wall Street, were you rooting for DiCaprio?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:53 AM
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Nope. Every girl they make feel like shit is another girl who falls for my beta charm. I got mad generosity game. Not sad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:39 AM
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I have diagnosed myself as totally awesome. As an awesome person I agree with this diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 11:56 PM
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If they were really happy they'd brush it off. We just give them the warning signs. I just want to agree with this. I'm happy being a supportive and kind person. Or trying to be, anyway. I can be a bit of a dick sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 11:53 PM
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So my girlfriend taught me the German word Doch. For those of you who know German this might be an inappropriate translation but I always translate it as 'YA-UUUH', in the way of a little kid insisting about something. So in the spirit of that, DOCH!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 12:10 PM
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Because they are different in that. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 09:39 AM
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Nofap is a cult. Let's not go there. Release is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:19 PM
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But someone who defines themselves as Blue Pill is someone who has read TRP and rejected it. Wouldn't that person be farther from the truth than someone who has yet to stumble upon it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:18 PM
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I was wondering if I could reference these posts in im14andthisisdeep but it feels like a cheapshot in my own thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:16 PM
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The thing is that I support that both are equal. I just don't support manipulative behavior. When people around me engage in it I hate it. I've walked out on relationships and lifelong friendships because it felt like I was being fucked with. So when men are manipulative I call it out because I've suffered from women being manipulative and I think that as a species we should be better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:13 PM
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That's pretty much what it is. SRS focuses on disgusting things said on reddit. TBP focuses on disgusting this said on TRP, ARP, MRP,and PPD, all of which sound like horrible diseases. However, SRS also has a somewhat nutty community.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:11 PM
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Nope. Sorry if it came off that way. It's a thought I've been contemplating for a while - it has some relevance to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:14 PM
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My perfect little butterfly crushed my heart. Then my beautiful ray of sunshine did. Then my amazing farmer girl did. Now I'm in love again and of course there's the question of where will I be when/if it crashes down on me. Probably in the dumps. But I've learned a new thing each time. I've become a better and stronger person. And I still believe that having someone in your heart is better than being terrified of being close because someone hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 03:54 PM
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I actually see that as something that causes immaturity, though I may be confusing cause and outcome. I moved out four months after my eighteenth birthday. Volunteered for a year with people with special needs, then joined the military, and now I work with people with special needs. I had about a month of living at home between each of these. I think the biggest steps for my maturity were taken in the military, but also quite a few were after I left home the first time. I actually got into PUA t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 03:50 PM
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It is when you don't water the garden. MGTOW WOO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 02:32 PM
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Milo is also a shitbag, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 07:07 PM
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Most feminists don't believe that bullshit. Those who do can get a big 'fuck you' from me as well. But why respond to idiotic hatred with more idiotic hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:29 PM
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Its insistence that 51 percent of the population are subhuman. Also that manipulation is the only way to get what you want. Also, racism gets upvoted in the main RP sub. Which I am frankly thankful for because it means that at the very least non-racist assholes will be repelled by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:24 PM
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I know a guy who does this. He's an asshat. Never met a woman who does this. At a certain point I did realize a woman was cheating on her boyfriend with me but I dumped her and then she dumped her boyfriend so it was less branch swinging and more being a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:20 PM
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No. No. Dear god no. There is not enough No in the world. How do I put this appropriately? ... Kevin? Thank you. People cheat for various reasons. I don't want to say a blanket statement like 'because they're assholes' but it would be close to what I believe. If a man cheats and says he still loves his wife and you believe him, then why won't you believe it the other way? In BP terms it would be 'misogyny'. But Red Pill actually has a beautiful term for this. You're hamstering away trying to rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:17 PM
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But Tesla's inventions went unnoticed by the world. Just as I said, maybe if he had someone looking out for him, by his side, he could have gotten them out. My Martin edit was mildly facetious. A Song of Ice and Fire is what brought him to mainstream audiences. Yes, he will never write another Song for Lya or The Second Kind of Loneliness but it's not like the man stopped creating once he met a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 06:57 AM
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Then why bring him up? EDIT you may yet have a point. George R R Martin stopped writing award winning stories about broken hearts after he met the woman he's now married to. We have to settle for his lower quality stuff like A Song of Ice and Fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 05:19 AM
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I wonder, if Tesla had been married, he would have had the support he needes to fight Edison's bullshit and actually get his inventions working. Marriages aren't what TV will sell you. Look up F Scott Fitzgerald's writing process. I'll give you a hint. Her name is Zelda
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 04:50 AM
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You finally have my interest. Is there a PDF or something of Models I can find easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 04:47 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:53 PM
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The guy I was responding to specifically says necessary. Also, as I mentioned below I am not super fit and yet I am in a relationship. Not a rockstar either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 03:25 PM
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Heh. I have no issues with how I look. Actually, not true. I should work out more. But I'm generally happy about it. Thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:47 PM
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Your point is that you have to physically be good looking to get women. My point is that while it does help, it is definitely not the only thing, and it's not necessary. And I doubt you've never met a couple that was unbalanced in the looks department. Chris Pratt and Anna Farris were together when he was a fat side character on a show and she starred in comedy movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:36 PM
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I'm not showing pictures of a coworker. But he's 25 and on the way to getting married to a 23 year old. He also works as a teacher so she's not exactly getting the beta bux Saying that exceptions prove the rule is idiotic. That's like saying that people who fall from a cliff and die disprove gravity. That ugly guy is the biggest outlier I know. I know many people who are ugly and attract people based on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:19 PM
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I've seen some pretty hideous fucks with girlfriends. I know a guy whose face could be exchanged with his asshole and who is built like a giraffe who has dumped girls who are objectively 9s. Personalities are also sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 02:07 PM
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They aren't necessary to have relationships, though. To quote a great man, personality goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:58 PM
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Naw, man, these shrooms are like... life, you know? It's like... wow... Who are you? I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 09:33 PM
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First off, as I've said, I don't really object to PUAs for the first impression tricks they have. My main objection is to the LTR stuff. Maybe I'm a bad blue piller, but that's my view of it. Secondly, all those are tricks that eventually influence you as well, and for the better. If you sound friendlier on the phone and smile at people, you will feel like a happier person. Learning how to tell a joke well will help you become a more interesting person. These aren't lies, because they affect you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 04:35 PM
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I don't see Red Pill as a solution to these deeper problems. Or at least I don't think it has a satisfactory one. I don't have one either. The only thing I can say is that unlike organic chemistry, socializing and dating do not have strict rules. It all varies person to person, and the only way to get what you need to do for each person is by developing an instinct. That can only be done by practice. A few weeks back there was an askreddit thread about things you shouldn't do when approaching a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 01:46 PM
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But social skills aren't something you just pluck out of air if you don't have them. And nothing, and I include Red Pill in that, has an answer beyond practicing. Like any skill in life, social skills require work. There is no alternative to doing the work. There are tiny tricks to every small social interaction, most of which I don't know. Pretend you heard a joke right before answering the phone. Whenever you meet someone's eyes for the first time that day, smile. Memorize good jokes and learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 12:32 PM
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I have no great method. Learn to socialize. I was very fortunate that my country has mandatory military service and so a nerdy guy from a well to do family had to learn to live life as a warrior with a group from all walks of life. This lead to more confidence in social situations as well as helping me gain the confidence to stand up for myself. But essentially forcing yourself to deal with social discomfort will lead to better social skills which lead to more success with the opposite sex. Red …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:49 AM
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Life is too complicated for a fool proof method.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 08:54 AM
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Selfishness is a survival trait in some places. Selflessness is one in others. Read Maus for a story where a man's selflessness saved his life. Selfishness in a relationship, when pushed beyond rationality (like nearly every LTR FR does) is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 04:45 AM
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RP says All Women Are Like That. I don't need more than a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 04:34 AM
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I'm saying moderate. Be reasonable. Use some measure of common sense. Life is too complicated for an online plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 04:33 AM
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Yes? I mean, I haven't researched the subject. If I do and she is a female supremacist then yes I have issues with what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 06:46 PM
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I fight a lot of those myself. But I don't go the other way and say "Women are animals". My problem is more with a lot of men, to be honest. Because the people who say "With how you're dressed of course men react like that" are a big part of the issue, and most of those are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:35 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:33 PM
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It's the prevailing view where? What you're saying, in part, is things I agree with. My girlfriend's ex before me was an emotional mess, and she couldn't deal with constantly being unloaded upon. Life is a balancing act - I don't say unload your every feeling on your SO. I have my hobbies, she has hers. There is very little overlap between our practical lives - we have to make time for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:24 PM
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Can you link to a post there where someone says that women are wonderful? It's a long and well written opinion that I completely skimmed through, but combing through 200 replies isn't my thing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:15 PM
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What is the Blue Pill approach but an RP bogeyman then? If you disagree that Blue Pill should be represented by people on /r/thebluepill, then where is it represented? I'll disagree with anyone who says that women are all wonderful unicorns, because that person has never met a woman. Nobody's a wonderful unicorn. It's also not a comfort test. People need comfort sometimes, not as a test, but as an actual thing. If I'm having a bad day and my girlfriend sits with me and talks to me and hugs me, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:03 PM
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Nope. I act in my self interest all the time. I just also keep in mind that I am in a relationship with a human being who deserves respect. I can call her on her shit, and I have, multiple times. Just as she can call me on mine, and she has, multiple times. But red pill says explicitly, "don't give." If she comes to you in distress, Dread game it. She's being a child. And I find that offensive as hell. Because one of the bedrocks of my relationship as that we're each other's support. When she is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 03:43 PM
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What? I'm trying to understand that... Nope. Not computing. Did I mention feminism? My take on feminism is gender equality. Those who use feminism to mean gender superiority are also bad. Is that what you want to hear? I mean, I don't think many people will disagree with you. If you say on Blue Pill that men and women are equal then people will agree with you. Crazies will say that women are better. Redpillers say women are animals who are slaves to their desires, and who must be tamed by men. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 03:18 PM
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Thank you for putting it exactly. TRP is the only one I've found that is blatantly selfish. I think the big difference between "BP thinking" and "RP thinking" is the thought "What does the other person want? How can I accommodate my desires with those of someone else?" The ideal BP relationship is one where those are alike. The ideal RP relationship doesn't give a fuck about the other person, or wants them to agree exactly. Which is a nice ideal if you're an asshole, but doesn't work in real lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 02:51 PM
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parahumans.wordpress.com. A teenage girl gains the ability to control bugs and shit ensues. It's essentially one Oh Shit moment followed by another for the length of the entire Song of Ice and Fire series.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 10:25 AM
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Tell that to the fucker with a knife to my throat saying 'Read their posts, precious, yes...'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 07:21 PM
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There's a lot of implied advice... be kind and respectful, be considerate of the other person's emotions, think before you act...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 11:45 AM
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