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Us. We tax payers are funding old people’s pensions. When you have a steep decline of birth rates, you eventually get to a point where there’s two workers for every 1 old pensioner, and that pensioner needs hundreds of $$ per week to continue buying food. You also need workers to take care of them in care homes and hospitals. That system just doesn’t function when you don’t have enough workers to pay for them to live and take care of them. Either the workers gets squeezed with taxes, the 68 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:01 PM
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No one said anything about "growth", you can maintain or even slightly decrease a population just fine, we're having a sharp spike downwards, that's the difference. If the birth rate was exactly 1.9 and stayed there, nobody would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:39 PM
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"Men overestimate their looks" compared to what or who? What I mean is, women find 80% of men below average, like just straight off the bat, most men are considered ugly by women. Meanwhile a guy who's more attractive than 70% of the male population might rate himself a 6/10, because when he compares himself to other men, he is objectively more attractive than 70% of them. Is he overestimating his looks? Objectively speaking, he is more attractive than the average man, so a 6/10 should be fairly…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:40 PM
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You say that, yet Mortal Kombat has a higher player base of women compared to the Street Fighter which has more "characters appealing to women". The gory male fested Mortal Kombat appeals more to women for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:35 PM
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No one said anything about "Having to go up every year", you can maintain or even slightly decrease a population just fine, we're having a sharp spike downwards, that's the difference. You're comparing two completely different things. Black Death was a pandemic that killed everyone, that's not the same as a population just deciding to not have kids, the lower birth rates isn't what destroyed their economy, it was the pandemic itself. The Great Depression and the first and second World Wars were …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:06 PM
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No because I don't care for anecdotal data.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:37 PM
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Nobody is claiming we need to constantly increase the number of humans on the planet. We can avoid a collapse by keeping the population steady.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:23 PM
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Except no economy has ever collapsed from a birth rate decline That's because no economy in history has ever suffered from a birth rate decline. It's a very modern problem, no civilisation in human history has just decided to not have kids before. We're the first generation in history that can have sex without the pregnancy that follows, and we KNOW it can cause an economic collapse because the maths doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:20 PM
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This simply comes down to the fact there are more conservative men than conservative women, so if conservative men want to date women, their options are either fighting for the limited amount of conservative women, or casting a wider net and attempt to date left leaning women. The reason conservative women have an easy time dating is because there's plenty of conservative men to go around. Supply and Demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:16 PM
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Oh absolutely. Both men and women prioritise looks over personality. The kindest nicest sunshine of a woman could flirt with a guy, and be completely dismissed because she's obese. Swap genders/traits and it's the exact same situation the opposite way around too. At the same time men will happily date some of the worst women just because they're attractive. Only thing I'd say is while women are hypergamous, men are polyamorous, this trend appears all over the animal kingdom, not just humans. "th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:44 PM
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I don't care in the sense that I cannot take your opinion seriously enough to rethink my own opinion. But of course I care enough to reply to your comment. But also, you've changed your tune, before it was "It’s fairly obvious like 99% of the time anyway lmao" and now it's "It's obvious with the average male to female transgender". With a bit of a push we could probably change it from "It's obvious even with pictures" to just "It's obvious when meeting these people in person". Then I would agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:28 PM
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>They’re ignoring the personality of the woman Yes... because it's not important. it genuinely does not matter if she's kind or if she's horrible. It changes nothing. the post is just showing that being horrible doesn't stop you from getting relationships. Meanwhile the men who are posting this are being told over and over and over and over again that the reason they're single is because of their bad personality, this post clearly shows having a bad personality doesn't mean anything. That's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:22 PM
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I'm not sure how the women is wonderful effect is related to this post. The post doesn't mention how the woman is a wonderful person, it's just pointing out how there are women who are willing to forgive and date/marry a child rapist solely because he's tall and handsome. The people posting this say looks matter more than personality, and this is evidence towards that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:47 PM
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Toupée fallacy. I don't care what you think but you're not looking at pictures like this - https://litter.catbox.moe/z6xkhob766i1kxc4.png and going "buh so obvious". You can find 100's like this on trans subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:42 PM
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Toupée fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:26 PM
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Different types of ugly, but they’re still ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:56 AM
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Highest quality? Yes, being fit and in shape will absolutely get you the highest quality partners, at least in my personal anecdotal experiance. Quantity? I’d still argue yes but I’d be less confident, you could argue you can attract more women with a bit of belly fat, dad bod style, considering most women are overweight and may feel more comfortable dating other overweight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:53 AM
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That’s not really a flaw with the Blackpill. Blackpill states that looks are the absolute most important thing when it comes to dating. A random attractive guy getting rejected doesn’t contradict this, it just means his other qualities was enough to turn that particular woman off. Good looking men get rejected all the time. Open tinder as a male model and a ton of women will still swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:49 AM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:45 AM
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Your title is correct, everything else you said was absolutely irrelevant. People are going to you because it’s your job to sort these things out. You’re also making a statement like men 50/100/200+ years ago weren’t saying the exact same things to people in your position. If a man 200 years ago dropped a drink at a bar, is he getting on his knees and cleaning it up? No, he’s going to tell the bar staff he dropped his drink. If men 200 years ago went to a bar and forgot to bring money, some of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:23 PM
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I'm surprised to see nobody here talking about the new Jubilee Surrounded video, it seems right up this subreddit's alley. Mark Manson (Author of "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck") argues against 20 people in the manosphere, and argues his claims like "A woman's body count doesn't matter" and "The most attractive men are those who respect women". Some things I agreed with but some things were just eye rolling, overall very entertaining. Absolutely despised some of the manosphere guys though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:37 PM
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16, worked at a takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:35 PM
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Yeah it's wrong. I know America works with different cultural norms where you literally ask the person you're dating to go steady/exclusive, but here in the UK this would be a no go, by agreeing on a date, you are exclusive to that person for the time being, we don't really ask people to be exclusive because that's just expected. You shouldn't really be flirting with anyone else or going on dates with anyone else, and you especially shouldn't be sleeping with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:34 PM
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You refuse to listen to any black pill because TikTok adverts? I’m a bit confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:09 PM
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The primary custody is whoever is able to provide for the best interests of the child. Dumping the kid on someone who doesn't care for the kid just because of their gender is damaging and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:49 AM
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This is so utterly stupid that I'm inclined to believe this is ragebait and just want to tell everyone to stop taking this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:28 PM
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That's the meme version
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:17 PM
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I really wish we could see basic information on the people writing comments sometimes, like age, height, weight, gender. It completely changes the context of the discussion. You'll talk to someone who's clearly lying or exaggerating something, then 5 replies later you find out they're like 50 years old and suddenly everything they wrote starts to make sense and it's not that they're lying per say, they're just out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:03 PM
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My point is when people are actually allowed to protest the regime safely, there's a gigantic turnout for it, even when that protest is taking place outside of the actual country they're protesting for. Also, "they" didn't create anything, there's always been Khamenei loyalists in Iran.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:37 AM
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Meanwhile the Anti-Regime Protest in Canada <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:45 AM
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>yet you have seen a tall, handsome but awkward guy get no women whatsoever. I actually, truly have not, and I know like 5 guys like this. Tall guy struggling sure, handsome guy struggling sure. But someone who’s both tall and handsome at the same time? Never seen a guy like this struggle regardless of how autistic he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:07 AM
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They're counted towards the 63%. If you include men who have sex at least once a year, then this number drops to around 30%. So 30% of men under 30 are not getting any action at all. So it's more accurate to say, 30% of men you should know should be getting nothing, are completely single and sexless, with a further 28% on top have had some sort of fling/fwb/casual experience at some point in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:15 PM
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Defines single as not in any kind of relationship, people who have girlfriends/boyfriends are not included in this 63% stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:10 PM
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Different beauty standards for different audiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:56 PM
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You messed up by talking about men claiming they like women with no makeup. Men like women with makeup, most men who claim they like women without makeup actually prefer women with makeup. Ask the men who like "no makeup" to give you a picture of their ideal woman, and most of the time they'll show you a picture of a woman wearing makeup without realising she's wearing makeup. It's not that men are lying about this, it's that men don't actually know when a woman is wearing makeup unless it's sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:37 PM
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This says far more about who you personally hang out with than it does about what's actually happening in the real world. Statistically, 63% of men under 30 you know should be single, then 25% under 49. You've probably never seen it come up IRL because it's not a topic people talk about IRL, men aren't exactly going around telling women IRL about how their height matters after all. And if you do bring anecdotes into the conversation, I could very easily just turn around and tell you how the vast…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:34 PM
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A decent amount of muscle is better than too much muscle which is better than no muscle at all. A decent amount of makeup is better than too much makeup which is better than no makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:57 PM
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Post is about how much money random Iranians have in their bank. Half of the comments are just talking about how hot they are. https://np.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/s/W1Vtoipjlh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:36 PM
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A date implies the possibility of a kiss, but that depends on how the date itself goes. The possibility of sex may also depend on the success of the date for some. What would you call this social construct if not a boundary that slowly breaks down over the course of a successful date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:28 PM
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The implicit, unwritten rules, cultural norms, and interpersonal limits that dictate acceptable behavior A metaphorical bubble around a specific actions we believe may or may not be appropriate to ‘push through’ depending on the person, time, and place. In order to figure out what these rules are from person to person, you gotta poke, prod, and push the boundary to find out where the soft boundaries are and where the hard boundary lies. During a date, Boundaries between two people dating can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:12 PM
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If it’s not a Fuck Yes, it’s a No. I’ve never met a girl who’s said “I don’t know…” when they actually mean Fuck Yes, And if I one day do, and if they’re going to play those types of games, then they’re going to learn pretty quickly they’ll get exactly what they specifically asked for, I.E saying I don’t know means no, saying maybe means no. If they want sex, they have to say yes. I absolutely refuse to play those games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:55 PM
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Pushing boundary = Going in for a first kiss without explicit verbal consent that she does want a kiss. You’ve never kissed before, so you’re pushing that kissing boundary for the first time. Pressuring = Constantly attempting to push a boundary, especially after already being rejected. You’re putting pressure on her that builds up until she either reluctantly gives in or blows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:46 PM
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This is why I stand by the advice of “If it’s not a Fuck Yes! Then it’s a no”. If someone’s not obviously interested in wanting to date you and won’t go out of their way to make time for you, then they’re likely just stringing you along and you’ll have better luck elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:19 PM
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Someone can be beautiful, but that doesn’t mean you’re attracted to them. It just means they’re not your type. As an example, Megan Fox is objectively beautiful, but I’m not attracted to her. It doesn’t really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:01 PM
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I have personally witnessed this in real life to not be the case. If a man is attractive enough, women will do all the talking, flirting, setting up dates and finally dragging him home if the man is too much of a sperg to do it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:53 AM
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On the rise. The algorithms we have now simply did not exist 15 years ago, and you can trace back Blackpill mindsets all the way to 4chan’s r9k in 2011, then the incels subreddits starting in 2013 which led to it’s first ban in 2016. These communities had no algorithms, they never appeared in popular or all, you had to purposely stumble upon it and choose to stay. Tiktok and tiktok like algorithms still wouldn’t show up for another 2 years, not until 2018. By that point, Blackpill was already ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:43 AM
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I’m assuming 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 PM
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Agreed. Very attractive men are the most privileged group of people in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:05 PM
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Aye, the dating scene is one of the few areas in the world where you’re still allowed to be incredibly racist without anyone giving you a glance. You can sue an entire company for not hiring you because you’re Indian, yet a woman straight up saying no to dating Indians is almost universally accepted as a perfectly normal mundane opinion.
/r/BlackPillScience21/01/26 04:13 PM
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Men’s bodies This study showed that when placing traits in order of importance. Men believed that Personality and intelligence was most important, followed by facial appearance, then ability to talk about feelings in 4th place. Followed by overall body build, ability to emphasis, sexual performance, then finally at dead last, physical strength. So in the top 4 traits, facial appearance was the only physical trait and it came 3rd in the list. If I were to read this study back in 1993, I wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:13 PM
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Preselection, tons of studies have shown it’s true; even random YouTubers have tested it and found this out.
/r/BlackPillScience26/05/25 11:54 AM
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People overwhelmingly date people with similar BMI’s. There’s a direct correlation between a person’s BMI and their partners BMI. - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4772434/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:41 PM
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It could be subconscious. Why do obese women tend to date obese men, are those obese men attractive, or do these women only find obese men attractive because they themselves are obese? If those obese women find obese men attractive, then why don’t we see healthy fit women finding these obese men attractive? I’d argue how attractive you are plays a role in who you find to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:09 PM
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If I see someone that looks and dresses like a smackhead, I’m going to assume they’re a smackhead and avoid them. If I see someone is dressed in decent high quality clothes and well groomed, I’m going to assume they’ve got their life together. I agree with the other dude, how you present yourself tells people a lot about who you are before you even meet them. It’s very rare that someone looks and dresses like a smackhead but actually has his life together. This is just the halo effect in action,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:55 PM
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Got to agree, for example, women wasn’t even allowed to participate in clinical trails until 1993, meaning anytime before that, all medication was tested on men. Same for cell research, they almost always tested with male cells because female cells were too unpredictable (hormonal differences). It makes sense we’re spending more on women’s health these days considering we only tested on men and male cells in the past and now we’re playing catch up.
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/25 12:48 PM
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Yes, they would. You are vastly underestimating the amount of assholes who can easily get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:45 PM
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I spend a good 10 minutes trying to read comments and figure out what everyone meant by “fake” and “photoshop”, I had no idea what anybody was talking about, I sat here thinking “he has those tattoos, it’s not fake”. Eventually I realised people actually believe the M S 1 3 that is clearly and obviously added to the photo in calibri font is what people are talking about. I genuinely honest to god did not think anybody was dumb enough to actually believe they were trying to pass off the labelling…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:35 PM
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When and where did I say gay men can’t be masculine? Please quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:52 PM
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In the OKCupid study, even though women rated men as less attractive, they messaged these men evenly despite their ranking. It wasn’t evenly, their messages were skewed towards more attractive men, you can see it in the graph, the medium man was rated around 0.83/5, yet on average women messaged men who were rated a medium of 1.66/5. In the OKCupid study, the bottom 20% of women got less responses from the bottom 20% of men than with the genders flipped. This is what people tend to mean when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:54 PM
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Porn is so normalized to us that we often forget just how weird it actually is, especially to a religious couple who‘ve made a promise to never use porn anymore in the marriage. In their religion, sex before marriage is considered a sin, based on that, it’d odd to think discreetly jacking yourself off to other naked women in hardcore porn while being in a Christian marriage is not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:19 PM
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What? I have no idea what your purpose was with this comment. What does this have to do with whether or not gay sex is masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:03 PM
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Nobody said you can’t be masculine and gay. We’re discussing whether or not having gay sex is or isn’t masculine. Masculinity is a spectrum, not binary. You can have 100 masculine traits and 1 unmasculine trait and still be considered masculine, or not, depending on who’s judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:54 PM
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No. I’m a healthy fit man who takes care of his health, have a successful career, and financially secure. Out of the 3 women who’ve approached me, one was a drug addict high on cocaine and the other two were morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:51 PM
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There’s a big bias with this. Questions like that are going to naturally have answers that people want to see. If you’re not neurodivergent and you saw that question, odds are you’re not going to open the thread and reply “No”. And even if you did, who’s going to upvote it or reply to it? 15-20% of people in the US are neurodivergent. So even if we kindly presume only 15% of people here are neurodivergent, that thread is going to look identical to if 50% of people here are neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:45 PM
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No definition of the word masculine in the west allows the inclusion of gay sex. To be Masculine is to have the qualities or appearance traditionally and socially expected of men or boys. Gay sex is the opposite of that, thus the opposite of Masculine, thus unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:35 PM
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Your Pill Colour Rainbow Pill Gender identity I don’t see how gender is relevant here Your timezone 24/7 party baby 🥳🥳 How long you have been posting on the subreddit I forgot, it was around the time your mum came over to my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:32 PM
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I’ve noticed, on all of the dates I managed to go on from online dating (like 5-6), all of them only started online dating the past 2-3 weeks. They jump on, immediately get matched with a bunch of men, go on dates, get a boyfriend, and leave. I’ve yet to go on a date with a woman who’s been on an app for longer than a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:35 PM
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I posted Lizzo in an AI test once to try and prove to someone that Lizzo was ugly, and she got 9.6/10 attractiveness. Needless to say I haven’t trusted those tests since.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:45 PM
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My anecdotal evidence says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:43 PM
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No, both men and woman have seen a drastic increase in loneliness over the past 2 decades. It’s a societal shift that can’t simply be blamed on “people are lazy”. There’s a ton of variables that go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:41 PM
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Autism isn’t literally increasing in the population, we’re simply diagnosing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:37 PM
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Femcels don’t exist lol, I’ve definitely met a pick me in here before, but she did only fans so I can only imagine it was just her way to try and gain more customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:49 AM
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All it means is that for one reason or another, you’re good enough to fuck but not to be in a serious relationship with. That ain’t got nothing to do with ‘sexual energy’ my man, as most men don’t exude any sexual energy yet get into relationships anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:37 PM
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“It’s not about looks” “I have a lethal face card”. I don’t understand why people who are good looking try to claim it’s not their good looks that help get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:24 PM
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I was basically going to say the same thing. I’ve been around the manosphere for over a decade now and never once in that entire time have I heard someone claim “Sperm is better than uteruses” or said some weird logic about how they can repopulate the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:18 PM
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Incels hide their hatred all the time. You only notice the times they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:16 PM
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The brain isn’t a muscle, and if it was, it still wouldn’t be the largest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:07 AM
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You stopped talking as soon as you got to the most important part, you spoke about how status is important and you can improve it, but then never go on to say how one improves their status. All fine and dandy saying there’s an unlimited ceiling yet I can’t think of a single thing I can legitimately do to improve my status that isn’t something life changing like changing career path, or learning an entire instrument and joining a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:46 AM
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Dude’s posting because he can’t get matches despite liking 20-50 every day, something going wrong somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:21 PM
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Would
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:20 PM
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Never mind a pistol. All a dude needs is a knife and your 2000 hours of MMA is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:20 PM
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/r/fitness is dead, 12 million subscribers yet nobody can even post anything and any actual questions that can’t be easily googled get removed. You’re better off looking for more specific niche subs that cover what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:18 PM
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That’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:53 PM
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Collage is just one path to a good career, many people are starting to get apprenticeships now which can be just as good career wise and without the debt (although you miss out on the college experience). Whether this is possible for you or not depends on what career you’re looking to get into. Look into apprenticeship schemes. Learn how to manage your money, absolutely biggest advice to follow regardless of how much you get paid. Spend frugally, do you really need that $1k phone or is a $300 go…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:43 PM
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Is it a “beauty standard” or just a fashion trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:23 PM
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Is it a “beauty standard” or just a fashion trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:23 PM
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Correct. She is obese. Are you saying she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:25 PM
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I noticed often people on here will say “Who says looks don’t matter/aren’t important, people here say it is all the time”. I’m like, yes, people here say it all the time, but if you step outside of this place then you’ll see tons of people who repeat the same useless advice thinking they know the secret cheat code to dating and it’s something dumb like “uughhh, have you tried showing and deodorant?!?” Recently was browsing a post on unpopularopinion that was something like “Starting the gym for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:31 PM
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Yes, on several occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:07 AM
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Based piracy enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:07 AM
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That’s mostly just it, politeness, shows respect, patience, common decency towards people, willingness to help out, never rude/mean, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:10 PM
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It feels good to know your partner could have chose anybody, but chose specifically you. Rather than dating you because you’re the only one who said yes. However I would never claim this is evidence of being faithful. It’s just evidence that they prefer you over all other options at this moment in time. They could be the biggest cheaters in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:00 PM
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It’s not a catch 22, it’s a very very simple answer to a very very simple scenario. If you suddenly don’t like a person because you found out they are Jewish, that is antisemitism. There is no catch 22 here. You’re vastly over complicating the question to avoid admitting that is it just full stop racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:44 PM
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I have no proof. But if I were to bet my entire net worth on it. I would triple down on the idea that the vast majority of the cause of racial preferences in dating is rooted and sprung from racism of some sort. Rather than any inherent biological component.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:41 PM
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It’s not homophobic because it’s literally not homophobic, we don’t have a x-phobia word for a guy who doesn’t like women who gives blowjobs, besides maybe a ‘prude’. if men has a choice Then they would prefer to date 10/10 women, in this instance it’s an actual preference, not a hard requirement. “No I would never date a bi man” vs “I prefer a virgin but I’m not against dating a non virgin”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:30 PM
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I never said it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:49 PM
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This is where we fundamentally disagree. Nobody is born unable to be attracted to the entirety of a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:25 PM
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Unless that dude was a religious virgin, the vast majority of people would think a dude was weird and would shame him if he didn’t date woman because she did a blow job once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:21 PM
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just any penis We’re not talking about ‘just any’ person. We’re talking about an entire group of people who all share a trait in common, regardless of wether it’s the colour of their skin or their sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:19 PM
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“What, next time I’ll be the racist for not wanting to kiss a black women as a white man? Get a grip.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:58 PM
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Because you’re objectively treating them differently to other people. Yes, if you see an entire race of people and think “ew never” regardless of anything else they offer, that is racist. Yes I am transphobic. I’ve always held this opinion and will die on this hill, but If you are objectively treating somebody differently purely because of some trait like them not having white skin, then that does make you XYZ phobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:55 PM
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Nah, I know overweight women who are anemic, it’s can partly be caused by genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:18 PM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:16 PM
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Movies and TV shows: Montage of the main character training hard, pushing himself to his absolute limit, never giving up, and getting stronger from it. Me: Montage of me training hard, pushing myself to my absolute limit, never giving up, and end up with a list of injuries because pushing yourself to the limit is stupid and don’t believe the lies movies tell you. Train moderately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:39 PM
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Because homophobia. No, it really is that simple. These women find it inherently disgusting to think that their man has been sucking another man’s dick. The reason you couldn’t get a straight answer from women is because the answer is that they are simply homophobic, but they don’t want to be labelled as homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:33 PM
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the reason why men here are told to be happy alone is because being in a relationship won’t solve your problems, It literally did solve all my problems. When I was 26, I had access to food and water, I owned a home, owned a car, had a decent career, regularly worked out, I ate good food, I had plenty of friends and multiple hobbies both creative and active. Literally the only problem I had was being very lonely, being hit with rejection after rejection, being 26 yet never having had met any woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:59 AM
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CMV: The TrueRateMe sub only exists so men can call 10/10 women mid. Just browsing it then and men will post their pictures and receive 0 comments after an entire day, then a clearly attractive woman will post herself and it'll have 50 comments saying 5/10, 6/10 maximum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:14 PM
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There are a lot of lonely men who are putting in effort to be their best selves, just as there are a lot of lonely men who aren’t. You can’t lump them all into one group and make claims like “these men choose to be pathetic” even though there are plenty of lonely men who do work on themselves and are genuinely good people, but just struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:51 PM
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You’re not supposed to type in your husband’s specific details, you’re supposed to type in stats of what kind of man you’re willing to date. If you were only willing to date above average height Asian men, then you’re going to struggle dating because you’ve effectively reduced your dating range from 64.4% of the population (aka all non married men) to 0.51% of the entire population (aka only taller Asian men). If you were to break up with your BF right now, then claim the only men you want to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:35 PM
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A ton of men are struggling to even get a first date, they can’t even get a single like on online dating. what is this “step up to be good men” nonsense lol. That’s not why these lonely men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:24 PM
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Check his profile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:29 AM
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Women are wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:22 AM
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The biggest and most obvious differences is older people have assets they want to conserve (thus vote for policies that keep their assets expensive), younger people don’t and thus want to start gaining assets (thus vote for policies that make assets cheaper to afford). If you own a house or multiple houses, you don’t want the government to make your house cheaper (and thus lose money), so you vote for policies that help keep your house expensive. Younger people don’t own a house, so they vote fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:02 PM
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On average, you’re right, there are more right wing parties in power today than 10 years ago. But it’s also true that the older you get, the more right wing you become. You’re just doing exactly what your parents did, and their parents. As you get older you become more right wing on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:25 PM
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It is okay because he broke the law. All you have to do is not break the law, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:08 PM
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Right wing governments are always going to exist and have power somewhere. Especially considering the older generations votes while the younger generations don’t. That doesn’t mean society as a whole is moving right wing, for those countries it could very simply mean the left wing parties there are unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:23 PM
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You haven’t really said anything that goes against what the EU has always stood for. EU has never been anti-military, and the right wing politician in Romania was banned for having foreign connections with EU enemies who were helping him win elections. What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:21 PM
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We haven’t been shifting more and more right, Gen Z is barely slightly more right wing than previous generations. We’re gathering more money for the military because we don’t want Russia to have more power, and now that US is becoming an unreliable ally we have to arm ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:16 PM
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Marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:59 PM
1

I’m a Soyjack > NPC > Chad. I have no idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:59 PM
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Advanced tea for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:53 PM
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You can do pushups on your knees. Tricep dips or bench dips from a chair/couch, crunches, sit ups, ‘superman’, side planks, and if you have access to a bar, pull ups/chin ups
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:40 PM
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Tell the man you want to sleep with how you prefer sex. Vanilla, gentle, kind, romantic. If you’re with a good dude, he’ll listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:30 PM
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Nerd/Bro, Lifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:28 PM
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Congratulations 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:43 PM
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Get your test levels checked out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:54 PM
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Flowers are a bad gift if he doesn’t have a vase to put them in, chocolate is always a good gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:09 PM
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Time to get yourself in the gym i reckon 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:35 PM
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Astronaut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:18 PM
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That is a normal bodybuilding diet. I don’t know anyone who boils their chicken or eats raw eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:10 PM
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Embrace your muscles, they are your friends 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:05 PM
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If you’re doing bodybuilding, then it’s recommended to eat 1.8g per kg of bodyweight worth of protein, or 0.8g per lbs of bodyweight, every day. So if you weigh 100kg/220lbs, that’s 176g of protein every day. That’s quite a lot, I also do bodybuilding and unless half of my meals is just chicken and salmon, it’s hard to hit. Of course, if you don’t exercise (which the vast majority of people don’t), then you only really need 40g-50g of protein a day, which most non vegan people will manage to eat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:41 PM
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I have a tough time believing low fat dairy products casually contain 20+ grams of protein. You have to intentionally add protein into these yogurts to have macros that high. I’ll keep my eye out next time I’m at a shop, but for now I have my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:25 PM
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Have you seen this study before? TL:DR, when women are hooked up to a (fake) lie detector machine, their n count increases compared to when they answer the question on an anonymous questionnaire or in person interview. Women do indeed lie about their count, even in anonymous questionnaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:58 PM
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Let me rephrase, which direction, on average, do you think it’s being skewed towards, are people claiming they sleep with more people than they do, or less people than they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:22 PM
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I mean, you said they lie, what do you think, do you believe most people skew the answer higher or lower than what is accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:21 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:07 PM
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Men lie up. Women lie down. Overall it even outs, creating an accurate survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:06 PM
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Some do, some don’t. Personally, I don’t, having 1 FWB is already fairly time consuming. I have no interest in perusing a second woman to sleep with unless she was an extremely easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:50 PM
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Yes, you’re alone on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:21 PM
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You grab and squeeze the sides of her neck, not the front.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:23 PM
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I don’t see how the order changes anything. Chemistry first, standards second. Or standards first, chemistry second. Either way, people have to pass through both gates. How does it change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:48 AM
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every man Nope, some men just got bad rolls and will never be attractive to many women. There really is a limit to what short, ugly, and/or disabled men can accomplish. Do you think if men, collectively improved themselves… that every man could be physically desirable to many women? Nope, if every man got their act together, standards for men would just get higher. As a 5’7 foreign man, I’m only successful with women because most men are lazy, fat, unkempt, plain, which makes me look like a much…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:26 PM
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Physically? 60%. Mentally/personality? 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:18 PM
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Or this is what happens when she craves attention to the point her BF’s opinions don’t matter to her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:17 PM
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Was you trying to prove a point? Yes, more men kill women than women kill men, thus we can conclude that, on average, men are the more dangerous gender. So… why can’t we use that same logic for divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:24 PM
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The most incredibly average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:15 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:55 PM
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Nah, hang around with a ‘chad’ for a while and you’ll take this back. I know this autistic Chad, 6,4, blond hair blue eyes, sharp jaw, but autistic. Had several women wanting to sleep/date him despite not even trying. Went to a wedding with him at one point and he had 2 women physically trying to pull him out of his seat just to dance with him, despite sitting at a table with 3 other dudes who they mostly ignored. As well as a few more stories. This dude just cemented how much looks matter to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:18 PM
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Nope, you have to hold onto your n-count comments until the next n-count thread pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:10 PM
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We also have no idea how they got together in the first place or what they looked like back then. I know one couple who’s an ugly fat dude and pretty thin woman. Anybody could point at them and go “See looks don’t matter”. Meanwhile back in reality, they’ve been together for 15 years, back when they were in school, he wasn’t fat and ugly back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:10 PM
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Yes and yes. Because a bikini pic or topless pic on insta doesn’t mean you’re unable to have serious long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:43 PM
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I’m in work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:34 AM
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Reminds me of a quote, something like “pretend to be idiots, and you’ll slowly invite actual idiots to join you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:23 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:49 PM
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That is why, hot face and hot body makes you more horny, which makes the sex more enjoyable compared to, say, an average or below average person who’s ‘good’ at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:47 PM
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Hot face + Hot body = more horny = more enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:38 PM
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are the least trust worthy Nah, your physical appearance doesn’t change how trustworthy you are. I just don’t hit on them because simply put, they’re out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:07 PM
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Every single man that is like this gets laid. No exceptions. Every single one of them. Maybe it kills attraction for you specifically, but every single guy like this I know have or are regularly getting laid. No, it is not true, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:05 PM
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Yup, while she has muscle, she also looks to be around 30% - 35% bf so she's carry both fat and muscle. (For comparison that's similar to a muscular man being 20% - 25% bf)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:29 AM
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Literally none of that entire comment existed when I read it. You can't post a comment, edit it minutes later, then claim I can't read because I didn't read your edited comment that didn't exist. Anyway "Provide a study that definitively concludes "men aren't hot enough" is the main reason for pairing rates being what they are" - Why does online dating or speed dating studies not fulfil this requirement? The studies show 'Men aren't hot enough' is the exact reason why men are unable to find matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:23 AM
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"I am once again asking for studies" "Sure, which study would you like?" "I can't be bothered to read" Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:59 AM
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We have a billion studies that show attractiveness is a benefit in almost all aspects of life. Including kids more likely to get their homework done if their teacher is physically attractive. Maybe some jealous insecure people will hate on an attractive people, but the vast majority of the time halo effect takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:49 AM
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I'm 5'7 and 160lbs, I 100% believe her without a shadow of a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:45 AM
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I know of several, I can't be bothered try to search for every single one and linking them. So just tell me which ones interest you and I'll look for those for you. I have countless online dating studies which pretty much show the most attractive men are the ones getting the vast majority of the matches. I have 2 separate speed dating studies that show looks was the only factor in a successful pairing, how personality played no part. I have one study that shows women lack interest in men with 'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:43 AM
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If she's tall then it's possible, like 5'10 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:44 PM
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Nah it's legit, she's just hiding her weight. Super black dress means you can't see any depth, arms behind body, can't see thighs/knees, and her face has been cut off so you can't see her chubby face. Likely wearing shapewear to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:38 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:57 PM
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Just get a sugar daddy at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:38 PM
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Please quote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:28 PM
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I'm just gonna copy and paste what I said before he mentioned nothing about high n count women looking for low n count ltr. If I misread something that reference this, please quote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:18 PM
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Interesting, it's almost like the word "Specifically" completely changes the context of the entire sentence. Almost no high n count women are looking for specifically low n count men. High n count women are looking for LTR men, many of whom are low n count men. They're not specifically looking for low n count men (Hence why there's almost no high n count women who are specifically looking for low n count men), but many of these women do end up dating low n count men anyway simply because the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:10 PM
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Please quote where I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:41 PM
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“They have zero interest in” Who said they have zero interest in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:55 PM
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I just reread his comment and he mentioned nothing about high n count women looking for low n count ltr. If I misread something that reference this, please quote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:22 PM
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So why are dudes obsessing over almost none Nobody is obsessing over 'high n count women who are specifically looking for low n count LTR'. Nobody is even talking about this very specific subgroup of women. You just randomly start talking about them then claimed men are obsessing over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:12 PM
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I literally answered your question, they’re not looking for specifically low n count. Aka the answer is almost none.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:36 PM
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I’d probably stop calling them friends at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:22 PM
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I don’t recall anybody saying Covid wasn’t airborne. Also the asteroid changes just dropped from 3% chance back down to 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:21 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:20 PM
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They’re not looking for specifically low n LTR, but LTR yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:16 PM
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Going to the movies has to be the dumbest first date idea ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:05 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:46 PM
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One man says x "Men say x" many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:12 PM
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Like, 20% of people give or take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:51 AM
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Co-dependency on what, my past? Like I said, I'm currently single and happy because my past experiences have given me confidence. That's not co-dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:07 PM
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I feel like an absolute Redditor when it comes to sports. I am a absolute turbo autistic when it comes to supporting sport clubs, I just don't really understand why people support teams and don't think I ever will. I love playing football, I enjoy watching football, I enjoy playing Fifa, but I don't understand watching a game and supporting one team over the other, then placing your emotions and feelings on the outcome of those games. I say this as someone who was a supporter, but after growing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:41 PM
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Again you’re making comparisons that aren’t equal. Protecting an defenceless child is not the same as protecting a healthy fully grown adult woman. Try to break up a street fight Again, not the same thing, joining in on a fight 2v1 or trying to stop two people from fighting is not the same thing as being the one and only to step up to a potential fight to protect their partner. The fact you keep constantly having to change the situation to try and prove your point is in of itself proof that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:10 PM
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Based and Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:23 PM
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A man protecting their partner from an actual physical attack is not the same thing as a woman being a nurse. You have completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:58 PM
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I’ve always rejected this idea. But to add to this, I kinda also reject the “Love is not going to fix your issues” part too. As that’s heavily dependent on what issues that person has. For me personally, getting into my first relationship at 26 years old basically cured my low self esteem issues. I don’t think most people realise just how lonely and even scary it is to go your entire life with constant rejection and live with the idea that nobody will ever love you (and thus thinking something m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:49 PM
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Stop talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:55 PM
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Woman feel good —> woman want more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:54 PM
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It’s masculine because they’re traits that are mostly limited to what we see men do and rarely see women do. For example, a couple is out in the woods and a wild boar attacks, instinctively the man stands in front of the woman to protect her. Very rarely would you see the woman standing in front of the man to protect him. This would be a positive masculine trait. A woman can have this trait, but it’s very rare, so we associate it with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:51 PM
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If I say something extremely racist with no evidence, it’ll be censored for obvious reasons. That doesn’t mean the extremely racist thing I said was the truth, it was just racist. TRP has similar issues but with sexism. Keep in mind the actual TRP subreddit’s main advice includes “Treat women like children because they are basically children” and “buying a dog training book is the best way to train women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:47 PM
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Nothing screams improvements like removing features from the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:33 PM
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I'm not saying dude wasn't a creepy autist, I'm just saying the quote "He came into my work" sounds so much worse than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:35 PM
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Be proud of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:27 AM
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She says “I served him coffee”, he’s at a coffee shop, some people do spend hours there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:59 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:32 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:03 AM
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And that‘s just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:19 PM
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In that case, I'm a proud fatphobe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:56 PM
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Yes, my past 2 girlfriends wore clothes like this majority of the time. Yes I'm attracted to these kinds of women. The kind of clothes you wear hint at the type of person you are. And on average I'm attracted to the type of women who dress modestly over those who don't. I'm confused as to why this is so unbelievable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:33 PM
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Easy to overeat when restaurants overload their food with oil and butter. Most people don't pay attention to stuff like this until after they gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:59 PM
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Even religious people who voted to ban abortion have aborted. Getting paid $1,000,000 just guarantees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:51 PM
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I think I understand, help with the distinction here. Mate guarding is biologically ingrained into our genes. It's something we do regardless of culture. This is biology. The act of buying a diamond ring to give to your partner, then celebrating it with a wedding, is cultural, this would not exist again without that culture. So it's cultural. If this is true. I would still claim tribal affiliation is biological and ingrained in our genes. I truly believe we are hardwired to like people similar t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:49 PM
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Why do you separate culture and biology like they're two entirely distinct things? Culture is also derived from biology. For example, what is the point of weddings and marriages? It's humans version of mate guarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:39 PM
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Everybody smelled like shit back then, our sense of smell gets used to stuff we regularly smell, you ever gone to a house that smelt like shit and the owner doesn't realise because they're living in it? Now imagine growing up in a cave with that smell around 24/7. You would never have known it "smelled" because that was the normal smell. The reason we don't enjoy that smell is simply because there was no evolutionary need to evolve to enjoy that smell. Whether you enjoyed that smell or not would…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:36 PM
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Tribal affiliation, tribalism or in-group favouritism. Aka people like people similar to themselves. If you like tattoos and piercings, and you see someone with tattoos and piercings, it's an indication that they have similar values/beliefs to yourself and you'll get along with them. Nobody is sexually attracted to tattoos or piercings, they're attracted to the kind of people who choose to get tattoos and piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:21 PM
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Man, now you’re just straight up insulting women who dress like that. Shameful behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:47 PM
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Every aspect of sexual attraction originates from biology, if it exists, there's likely a biological reason for its existence. In the modern world, there is no logical reason to prefer tall men over short men, in the same way there's no logical reason to prefer pretty people over ugly people. We just prefer those things because our brains are hard wired to find people who are most likely to survive and have resources to be attractive, and find those who are less likely to survive and have resour…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:41 PM
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I mean, I do prefer the women in my porn videos to be naked. In the same way I prefer my partner to be naked in bed. I don't see how that's relevant to what clothes we choose to wear when we walk outside? If I meet with a date at a restaurant, I'm not jerking off in the bathroom or sleeping with her in bed, I'm on a date getting to know her, having fun, and eating some food.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:32 PM
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Not for Redpill men, showing your feelings is universally agreed to be a bad thing to do. Being angry here doesn't make you look masculine, it makes you look like a big baby that gets his feelings hurt over dumb stuff. Masculine for Redpill men is more about being Alpha, stoic, and not letting dumb stuff like this upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:27 PM
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Personally I don't. I'd rather date someone who knew this was a bad thing to say, rather than someone who says those things and I need to play some social skills minigame to keep the relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:24 PM
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Water played a part, but arguably the least important part, I think he focused too much on water. Sunscreen, skincare, healthier food, and less smoking played a much bigger role. Then you've got clothing/hairstyles which make people look older simply because we associate those things with older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:22 PM
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Nah, there's a few ways to pass shit tests, getting angry is absolutely not one of those ways. You can ignore her statement entirely, you can double down and say something dumb like "My leg lengthening surgery is next week", turn it into a joke, etc. Getting angry proves she hit a nerve and hurt your feelings. You lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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I'm a bit confused sorry, are you comparing porn to what men look for in a long term relationships? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:02 PM
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The algorithm just notices when you watch/interact with stuff and keeps showing you videos of that. If you randomly find 1 video of a woman going "imagine being a man who's 5'10 or shorter teehee" and spend 10 minutes making/replying to comments on it, TikTok is just going to keep sending you those types of videos. Heightism exists, but it's far less prevalent and more invisible than racism or sexism. People aren't actively aggressive towards short people, they're just more ignored/passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:58 PM
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They're just hating for the fun of it. If a woman like that actually flirted with them, they'd be on their best behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:50 PM
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It's been mostly women for me. For example, I'll say some generic statement like "all men like boobs" then get bombarded with "BuT wHaT AbOuT GaY MeN?!?". Then I need to edit my comment being very specific like "In the majority of cases, most men like boobs". I shouldn't need to do that but I have to otherwise people get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:33 PM
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Millions of people insult millions of people every day and police don't come at their doors. There's like 4 or less examples of when police take it too far, like that Politian being called a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 PM
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Yup, depends on the man and his jaw. Beards are a man's natural makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:50 PM
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You don't just casually have 2 hookups and 2 FWB in 2 years without being promiscuous. Whereas the first woman only has sex within a relationship that tends to last at least over 2 years on average. Answer: B.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 PM
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You say afraid of free speech like I'm dying to say stuff but can't out of fear. In reality it just means I'm not allowed to hate or incite violence on people for their sex/race/sexuality/religion etc, which I don't do anyway so I genuinely don't care that I can't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:36 PM
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Most men aren't I will agree, but claiming no men don't is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:11 PM
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I prefer modest clothing and I never picture this. Modest to me doesn't mean a table cloth lol. These are examples of modest, let me know if you disagree because I am genuinely curious to see if we have different definitions of modest. Example 1 Example 2 Example 3 Example 4 Example 5 Example 6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:19 PM
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You’re trolling right? This wasn’t a serious reply… right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 AM
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Lol, there’s a difference between simply reflecting on the past to learn from it. And making a Reddit post on /r/offmychest about how you’re still lusting over a guy 5 years ago and how, and I quote, “The sex was GOOOOOOOOOOD”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:46 PM
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Bruh it’s the men that ask the women out, men will always be the ones paying if this was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:42 PM
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It’s the “it’s been 5 years” part that the redpill part of this. After 5 years she still can’t stop thinking and lusting about this one dude. She’s been Alpha-Widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:41 PM
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5/10 Ambivert, I need a mix of being alone and being with people. No social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:58 PM
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Looks are very much objective culturally, but subjective individually. People in general will lean towards certain types of people other others, while people individually will find different ‘groups’ of people more attractive than others. Henry Canvil and Megan Fox are objectively attractive people, even if individual people don’t think so. Countless 100’s of millions of people will say they’re physically attractive. Shane MacGowan and Susan Boyle are objectively ugly people, even if individual …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:18 PM
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Let me rephrase, I mean to say they ‘fit a niche’. As in tattoos look good to a small niche group of people. For majority of people they shrug look neither good nor bad. They just are. For some people, it’s good (these people are the niche it fits) For some people, it’s bad. Tattoos themselves are very common place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:42 PM
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It’s a niche, women who like tattoos are going to respond well to them, women who don’t like tattoos are not going to respond well to them. But my answer is No. Nobody becomes objectively more attractive because they have a tattoo of a dragon on their arm. He’s just fits more of a niche now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:11 PM
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Fuck how did I miss that. I saw his quote “I’m 6 foot 6, 275 pounds” and my brain just ignored the extra 6 at the end. Either way it still means his BMI is 31.8, still obese, which is my main point. A flabby body can still go very very far (he’s literally a male model with tons of female fans) if it comes with a good face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:44 PM
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Who said I’m surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:08 PM
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Hey, 1 more thing we can agree on. If he had a decent wage but only worked 24 hours, then you could argue, but a 35 year old working basically minimum wage 24 hours a week? Imagine if you wanted to do… well… almost anything ever. Go out to each, sports, outings, holidays, etc. you couldn’t because he spends all his money on rent. I also wouldn’t date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:32 PM
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It’s always the piercings on the face, they look awful in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:14 PM
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/r/karma4mekarma4u
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:08 PM
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/r/karma4karma
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:07 PM
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About 75% of Swedish men in the top 1% of income earners are married to a woman outside the top 10%. For women, it’s the opposite, with about 75% in the top 1% married to a man also in the top 10%. - Study
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:06 PM
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Constructed how? In nature, women go after the men with the most resources for an easier life, a greater guarantee that their offspring’s will grow up and be healthy. That’s completely 100% biology and evolution at play. In modern day, women go after men with the most resources. Literally nothing has changed and still follows basic biological and evolutionary strategies. Just that before recourses was sources of food/water/shelter, today it’s money (which gives you better quality food/shelter as…
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/25 02:59 PM
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When a woman is trapped on an island alone with only 1 man for years and they get along, eventually she’ll want to sleep with him due to the simple fact that he’s the only man around and she’s horny. She’ll probably start humping him too even if he can’t ’get it up’. It’s not like there’s any other man around for stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:49 PM
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Depends on your definition of virgin, does a woman lose her virginity if she’s fingered? If not, are lesbian who haven’t used toys yet also virgins even if they’ve slept with several women? Do they have body counts of 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:45 PM
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You stop caring about what other people think and other bullshit the more you grow older. This happens to both men and women. You’re not getting any younger and you don’t want to live with regrets, so you just say fuck it and start asking more people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:52 PM
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I was going to write a serious reply, then I realised his book is upside down. I’ve been bamboozled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:39 PM
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In the vast majority of situations, shaved bald head looks much better than having a balding head. Almost nobody is shaving their heads when they have a head full of hair. Everyone knows how bad balding is, which is precisely why they highly recommend just shaving it all off to minimise the issues you’re going to have while balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:15 AM
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He weighs 275lbs at 6ft 6.6ft, he has a BMI of 37.4 31.8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:31 AM
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Zach Miko
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:27 AM
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There’s literally male models who are exactly like that and have thousands upon thousands of women following them and they’re just obese handsome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:53 AM
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Most consistently single men have this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:58 AM
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This is when I stopped caring about “texting rules”, because if you actually like someone, you wouldn’t judge them for texting 3 messages in a row, texting too quickly/slowly, texting during work hours, texting more/less than you did, etc. All of these rules fly out the window when you’re texting someone you actually like and want to spend time with. Just text how you want to text. The only ‘rule’ I follow is that I make sure to text in a way that makes it easier for her to text back. Aka no dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:03 PM
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You could say this about literally anything. It’s like saying why do people rant on /r/rant? Because people just want to rant and it feels good to rant. There is no deeper meaning beyond that. Also, therapy is expensive, it’s no surprise people don’t want to spend money they don’t have on things they probably don’t need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:42 PM
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There’s no grand conspiracy. People like to vent and get stuff off their chest. The reason they argue is because other people are going “No you’re wrong”, even though psychologists themselves claim it’s a need. Your anecdotal evidence is just that, anecdotal. Just because you personally are able to be fulfilled and happy life without ever having any friends doesn’t mean the vast majority of people can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:16 PM
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Sorry, you don’t need friends, they’re not invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:02 AM
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Just look into the stats, people are far more lonely and single now than they were 15 years ago. That’s just a fact. Singleness has increased, marriage rates are down, a larger and larger portion of people are having less sex, etc. If you can’t get a gf now, odds are you probably could have 15 years ago. If you were a young male adult 15 years ago, the odds are you being single/alone for at least a year was like 1/10, these days it’s 3/10. That’s just the facts. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:58 AM
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Stating a fact doesn’t need to come with an “end goal”. If I say “friends are a need”, I’m not trying to secretly manipulate society into giving me friends. I’m just saying that having friends is a human need. That’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:34 AM
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It originated from the 1990’s, Chicago Illinois, Chad was a derogatory term for young successful white man. A definition got posted onto urban dictionary in 2006 where Chad meant a guy who goes to bars to pick up chicks, followed by another definition in 2013 of “Chad Thundercock” who’s the typical male alpha bro archetype. Some people think it came from 4Chan’s r9k board but it’s hard to figure out which came first, the urban dictionary definition or the memes on r9k. The name Stacy likely orig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:26 AM
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Damn, nice counter argument, you sure showed me, I admit defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:54 AM
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It would, but most men aren’t doing this so it’s not really an issue for below average men to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:15 AM
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This is like when a homeless person rejects someone giving them gloop, then saying "Well I guess you're not that hungry then are ya"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:41 PM
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Hot Take: An incel who takes care of their health and fitness should be able to reject a morbidly obese woman they have nothing in common with and still be considered an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:07 PM
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I should be allowed to say 1.4 + 1.59 is basically 3, it's not technically or literally 3, but it might as well equal 3, without someone jumping and going "ErM TeChNiCaLlY". What is she saying? She's saying if someone is struggling to date women, their looks isn't the issue, it's their personality. What does that mean to an outsider who's reading in trying to figure out why they can't date, they'll essentially learn from her that looks are almost never the issue, if you want to improve your succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:04 PM
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Bro, this is the second time I’ve heard of a pedo who participated in inceltears, this guy was a mod to boot, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:35 PM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:30 PM
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I would agree, most people don’t claim “Looks don’t matter”, because quite frankly it’s a clearly idiotic statement. Which is why my comment focused on how people don’t say looks matter, even when deliberately and clearly asked “what do women find attractive in men”. However, some people will say “Looks don’t matter… as much as other people claim” which is kind of a way to say looks don’t matter. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/T6C5lgOZ3v
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:21 PM
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Q4A: Have you ever known a woman who tried to enter a relationship with a man who clearly stated he was only looking for something casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:25 PM
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That's not the definition, that's an example (and it doesn't even work as an example either). The definition of Strawman Fallacy is "An informal fallacy of refuting an argument different from the one actually under discussion. while not recognizing or acknowledging the distinction". You listed a bunch of things about how people wouldn't date someone without the same common interests, common values, enjoy their company more than just niceness, etc. My argument was: Even if you are good, share the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:55 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:17 PM
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What's the definition of strawman fallacy Lillth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:56 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:55 PM
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So uh... That's that then? Just say I'm lying and go about your day? Alright, suit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:49 PM
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What's a strawman fallacy Lillth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:29 PM
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No, I gave one generalized imaginary scenario that could have 10000's of different variables applied to it. You wanted to get into the nitty gritty details of everything in this generalised scenario, her history, her past relationships, her relationship success, who he is, what traits he has, etc. There's was really no point in answering any of these questions because it's a made up scenario that could have 1000 different answers. Lets take an actual real world scenario I do have real world exam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:28 PM
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>Guys thinking something really stupid does not make it a strawman. You could have just said you don't know what a strawman fallacy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:12 PM
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I only invented one scenario, one where a high n count single woman likes a guy who doesn't like high n count men. You then proceed to go on a rant about sexless losers, daydreaming about hot girls getting rejected, winners and losers? What? The hell are you going on about? How did this go from "People will date people with red flags" to whatever it is you're talking about there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:52 PM
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Strawman fallacy. Focus on the actual argument I presented. Also I stand by my statement, nobody thinks being nice, and that's it full stop, is enough to attract women. Basic stuff such as common interests and rapport is also seen as equally important. Plus r/niceguys isn't even about nice guys, even if we assume men believe being being nice is the only thing that matters, r/niceguys doesn't prove this is the case simply because the men on that subreddit aren't even nice, breaking the only rule …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:47 PM
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Who says it's been working out great? For all we know, the reason she's got a high n count is because she's been dating a lot of men it hasn't gone great with. We're talking about an imaginary situation so getting caught in the variables of this make believe situation is a waste of time. My point is people will do dumb things for sex or relationships. I've met a lot of women who slept with men who straight up admitted beforehand that they don't want a relationship, just for her to try and turn i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:29 PM
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Dating is mostly about feelings and emotions, and you're trying to argue against that with facts and logic. Logically, you're right, it doesn't make sense. But dating isn't about logic, it's about what makes you feel good. Why do so many people 'accidently' get pregnant despite not wanting a kid, because sex feels good and condoms feel bad, countless people never make logical choices when it comes to dating and relationships, this is just one example of many where emotions take over logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:12 PM
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Point is you posted an argument then assumed you had already won before anybody has had any actual time to make any counter arguments. It's like playing Chess then declaring yourself the winner after 5 seconds because your opponent hasn't made a move yet. Chill, learn patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:59 PM
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People are constantly asking for her "routine" even though she doesn't have one, and she believes it. She's been a dancer her entire life and weighs like 115lbs. So she's built good core muscles and has a low enough bf% for her abs to show, but to her she hasn't done any special "routine" that people keep asking her about, then they call her a liar because they don't believe her, they think she's doing some special ab workout routine and lying about it, but she's not. I can see why she's annoyed…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:49 PM
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But she’s literally getting all those things from guy right now who don’t care. I assumed she was single in this context, something like this; She's currently single, and found this perfect guy she really likes, there was an immediate spark, but she found out that he doesn't like women who "sleep around". She has a history of sleeping around, but she also really likes this guy, so she'll keep trying to date him and pretend there's no issue, and if the topic comes up she can just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:38 PM
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Attractive, athletic, tall, rich, charismatic, charming, funny, motivated, passionate, confident, honest, smart, mature, they have the "spark", etc. Could be literally anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:28 PM
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>Then they the fuck are they commenting? The ones who were on reddit, refreshed the front page, saw your post, read your post, and write a comment within that 25 minute gap are going to be the ones who didn't put any effort into their comment beyond making a quick/witty comment. >If someone needs 25 minutes Nobody is refreshing reddit every second to see your post go up the exact moment you put it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:16 PM
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Mother's day is a nice outing to a restaurant, nothing more. Planning should include booking a restaurant, buying a mothers day card, and getting 1-2 small presents. If you have kids, pick up a small present/card with your kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:06 PM
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Your post was 25 minutes old, chill. Barely anybody has read it, never mind had enough time to write up a counter-argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:00 PM
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Would you want to be with someone you have nothing in common with? Would you want to be with someone you have different values to you? Would you honestly even want to be friends with someone whose sole contribution to the friendship is being nice? Not fun, just nice No. there is still more to relationships than just being nice and romantic gestures Nobody is literally thinking "Just be nice" is all there is to it and that's that, of course you guys do have to have stuff in common with each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:59 PM
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Most guys of all heights had atleast 5 sex partners. Cool… I never claimed they couldn’t? My claim was that the men in this subreddit who are struggling with dating women are more likely to be below average and thus care more about their looks. What was your link supposed to prove, that short men aren’t virgins? explain this Two obese disabled people fall in love and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:00 PM
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Most men are white 5’9 or taller men with average or better looks. The guys in this subreddit who are struggling to date women are more likely to be below average, hence why people in this subreddit obsess over looks more than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:42 AM
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Hahahahaha So, wait, a woman saying “good men are sexy” does not actually mean “good men are sexy” but instead, actually means “attractive men are sexy”. But it’s okay, because she’s not lying because it’s men that just didn’t understand the nuance. This is just something men should have known. That’s your argument? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:35 AM
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Without more info, this could easily be explained by women simply getting pregnant with men older than 24.
/r/BlackPillScience06/02/25 11:24 AM
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High n count women will like men even if they know that man will judge them for their high n count. These women will simply lie about it to him and hope he never finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:19 AM
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Few people actually liked Kamala, she was unpopular as vice president and that didn’t change just because she ran for president. People just voted her because she wasn’t Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:00 AM
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“I barely ever eat!” Says the obese person who’s having their third snack of sweets of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:56 AM
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This is the picture - https://imgur.com/k62cNtZ They’re looking at the camera in disgust. Kinda like “ew, who invited you?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:52 AM
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She didn’t realise that half of the victims of romance scams are women and they actually get scammed out of more money than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:49 AM
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I agree with everyone else, he looks better now, but all it would take is her to lose weight and that would change. Yes, looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:48 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, women don't magically become attracted to men just because they have a bit of money. Being a millionaire doesn't suddenly mean you'll get attention from women from pubs/clubs or higher match rate on tinder, women at the library don't suddenly go from rejecting you to wanting to date you because a number in your bank account is bigger. etc. It doesn't change much besides the fact you have more money to spend on enjoying your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:35 PM
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Yup, at the end of the day, you come home to a cold empty house with nobody to talk to. Keep in mind, your life is good, better than most, it's just missing that one ingredient finalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:37 PM
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I never liked Keir and I didn't even vote for him, but even I would be annoyed that after 14 years of constant shuffling of bad PM's from the Tories, the Labour party ends up doing the exact same thing. God I miss Corbyn, my baby <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:30 PM
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There's quite a few layers to the intelligence debate. The most attractive (or sexually successful) IQ to have is exactly 100, go lower or higher and you'll have less success. Makes sense when you think about it, most people have an IQ of 100, and most people will date people similar to themselves. High or Low IQ means there's simply less people like you to attract and date. However, in terms of marriage, the higher IQ you have, the less likely you are to be divorced. People with master degrees …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:38 PM
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Roll my eyes, ignore any 'advice' she gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:30 PM
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26 year olds are zoomers my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:28 PM
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-Leanmaxxing Some men just have chubby faces even at 12% bf, don’t worry too much about it if that happens to you. Some people don’t end up with a lean face until 8%. Also train neck for neck gains. -Fasionmaxxing 2k should be than enough for an entire wardrobes worth of fashionable clothes. My favourite sets of clothes cost $250 maximum. Plus $200 worth of jewellery. I’d say avoid custom tailored stuff unless you can do it yourself, or you genuinely don’t mind spending that extra money for it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:13 PM
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Yes, went on date, enjoyed ourselves, made out, we made plans for the next date. She cancels the second date on the day, thought something just popped up, we changed dates and she agreed. Cancels date again on the day, tell her to let me know when she’s free, she never messages me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 PM
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It’s literally split down the middle, 50% prefer no chest hair, 50% prefer chest hair. I don’t know how many see it as a dealbreaker though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:53 PM
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Depends how much of a ‘leg up’ it gives and how much i’m unattracted to them. There are situations where I would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:48 PM
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Nah, not a fan of tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:43 PM
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Make sure you’re not filtering by “Top” comments, I made that mistake. 29 BMI is my limit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:08 PM
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I’ve been around since /r/incels and /r/braincels days. makes it likely you’ve learnt from some YouTube grifter I have literally the same thoughts about you. The fact you think it’s about genetic determinism makes me think it’s likely you’ve been visiting places like /r/inceltears and the likes, and getting your information from them, rather than seeing where it came from. Genetics plays a large role in looks so it’s a big part of it, because of course it does, but it doesn’t claim it’s the only…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:51 PM
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You, specifically you, would not date a man that does have a specific type of behaviour, the thing to keep in mind is there’s 1000’s of women out there who would. If an unattractive with a bad personality focused on improving his personality, he just turns into an unattractive guy with a good personality. I know countless unattractive men with good personalities who are constantly struggling with women. If an unattractive guy with a bad personality improved his looks, he turns into an attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:44 PM
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This was a joke, I’m not struggling with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:06 PM
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Ooh, I understand what you’re saying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:48 PM
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Bluepill in this context would be the idea that personality and looks don’t. Yet the research shows the opposite of that. Which would mean bluepill is not what research shows us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:55 AM
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Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:43 AM
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You went on to describe how studies show looks matter most. How does the bluepill come into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:43 AM
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Bluepill is what research shows us Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:24 AM
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He takes care of himself, showers, knows hygiene, smart, knows the difference between your and you’re, their and they’re, knows how to work and get a promotion, emotionally intelligent and kind Guys I just found out I’m a 9/10 dude, why aren’t I drowning in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:15 AM
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Redpill = Game/Looks/Wealth/Status Bluepill = Rejection of the Red Pill Blackpill = Looks >>> Wealth/Status/Game
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:53 AM
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Bro, you’re Blackpilled and you don’t even realise it. No, Blackpill is not “waaa if you’re not Chad it’s over”, that’s incel nonsense. Blackpill is “the philosophy that argues that physical attractiveness is the most critical factor in determining men’s dating success. A man’s money, status, and social skills are argued to be other factors of secondary importance”. Half of all Blackpillers are men who are self improving and getting laid. Myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:48 AM
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You know when people buy a bouquet of flowers for their dates and surprise them at the start of a first or second date? That’s always been a weird concept for me. Now for the next 4+ hours of this date, you have to carry the flowers everywhere. Which means putting it down on the cafe chair/floor, carrying it around with you everywhere at the museum, etc, and now when she goes home you just have to hope she even has somewhere to put the flowers and it’s not just sitting in a pint glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:07 PM
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Notice how none of your examples included a subscription for monthly flowers? Because that’s the problem here, not Netflix or food or even subscriptions. But specifically subscriptions for flowers. Flowers are a lovely gift because someone had to actually go out of their way to look at a bunch of flowers, think of which flowers are best for their partner and got specifically those ones. It really is the thought that counts. By turning it into an automated delivery, it ruins the present. You’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:56 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:50 PM
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155lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:37 AM
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I weigh myself at least once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:36 AM
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Smoking - dealbreaker always. Drinking - Fine during social events, dealbreaker if she’s drinking at home. Weed - Fine during social events, dealbreaker if smoking at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:35 AM
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You gave me no context to this. I’m looking at just what you’ve sent me. We see a man get given a phone number by some woman and that causes his wife to work on their relationship. Dread game is when you intentionally work on and get attention from women in front of your partner for the sole purpose of making your current partner jealous and worried. Which would be manipulation. There was no context given as to if this was intentional or not on his part, from just reading solely what you’ve give…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:18 PM
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I’m a bit confused by why you posted this? He never called her ugly, he never judged her attractiveness, never mentions anything about porn, never mentions how she or her mum aged poorly, never talks about the attractiveness of other women or how they’re so much better than his wife, he never judged her attractiveness in relation to his friend’s wives, etc. What you just sent me has nothing in common with your post. This is just a story about a guy who got a phone number from women so his wife s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:34 PM
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Yes, imagine if a man was talking about attractive cheerleaders and talks about how his wife is ugly in comparison, uses only fans, talks about how poorly her mum aged and she wishes she doesn’t look like her mum, and has a list of all their friends wives and have ranked them based on attractiveness, and claimed she stays humble because she’s in the middle. That’s bad, that’s awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:30 PM
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Zak Efron is 5’8, he’s the closest we have to a short Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:19 AM
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😡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:18 AM
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I don’t think it breaks any rules, I just don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:50 PM
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I reported this comment. Mods please remove ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:57 PM
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Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:11 PM
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I’d rather just make friends/partners who are fine with me being happy than to show no emotion my entire life. If someone finds it weird that I’m smiling then they can do one as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 PM
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I asked if people thought men couldn’t show emotions. I personally believe they can show almost all emotions, I’m curious to see if my personal beliefs on the subject is similar with other people’s beliefs on the subject. Or if people genuinely thought men were not allowed to show emotions, in which case I would be surprised and question people further as to why they believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:49 PM
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I was that guy. Lol no they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:26 PM
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We’re going into cultural stuff now. For starters, being very direct about sex is still seen as obscene, it lacks decency. It’s why some people prefer the term “Friends with benefits” instead of the quicker and easier term fuck buddies. Some women will avoid any kind of tags that make them look like a slut. The quote you used before was “Well I just want to fuck you” is obscene and suggest you only care about fucking her, nothing else, it suggests you don’t care about her, you only want to fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:23 PM
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Nah. Now I’m imagining a bunch of lads watching a football game and just staring blankly at the screen when their favourite team scores because they can’t express happiness in front of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:05 PM
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You can apply this logic to anything you say, how you say things is faaaaaar more important than what it is you’re actually saying. And that applies to literally every conversation you have. Like comparing “I recommend you chew some gum” to “your breath fucking stinks like ass”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:03 PM
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“Men can’t express emotions except for anger” I’ve heard this countless times now and I thought nothing off it, just shrugged and thought yes, they can’t be sad and stuff. But now I’m hearing people extrapolate it further to say men can’t express happiness or affection, and now I’m confused and wondering if people are literally thinking men genuinely cannot express any emotion except for anger. Men are allowed to express happiness, excitement, surprise, disgust, confusion, love, awe, anger, disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:48 PM
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That doesn’t answer my question. Before things go further you stop her and say “Just want to let you know, I’m not looking for anything serious”. How do you believe she would react, and how will you turn into the bad guy because of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:46 PM
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Being upfront doesn’t make you a creep, I never once seen a man be seen as the bad guy for being honest about just looking for something casual. Most women either don’t care or just say they’re looking for something serious and stop perusing him. Let me ask you a question, let’s you’re getting along with a woman, you’re at a party, you’re both a big tipsy, you’re vibing, kissing, but before things go further you stop her and say “Just want to let you know, I’m not looking for anything serious”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:38 PM
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I’m 99.9% of these situations, it’s because her standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:26 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying. If you know she wants a relationship and you never state you don’t, but as still ‘dating’ her in order to sleep with her, you are the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:17 PM
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Still 1000x better than pretending you want a relationship, sleeping with her, stringing her along, then dumping/ghosting her after you’ve had enough. Disrespectful to some people maybe, but at least you’re honest with your intentions and aren’t wasting people’s times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:44 PM
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Be upfront, women will be far more appreciative when they know you’re not wasting their time. You don’t need to be obscene, just a simple “I’m not looking for anything serious” is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:21 PM
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Based and correct. Get those muscles working 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:14 PM
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Why betray Duo like this?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:09 PM
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Men who just want sex are not going to go on date after date after date after date with a girl he doesn’t care about just for sex, while also getting some side action. That sounds like an unfathomable amount of effort for something that’s not even guaranteed, especially for someone who’s already getting side action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:03 PM
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Reddit wide ban? Probably not. Banned from the subreddit? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:14 AM
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Nah, if a guy “only wants sex” and she’s not offering sex, he’s not going to wait around, he’s going to find sex elsewhere. He might wait around for a few weeks, maximum. But that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:11 AM
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This isn’t the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:03 AM
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This is off topic but I never understood the whole “men can’t be happy” shtick. Men are allowed to be happy, smile, laugh, etc, I’ve never understood people when they brought this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:01 AM
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Muslim country
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:43 AM
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Since when did 5’8/5’9 mean short? Heightflation is real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:50 PM
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She’s saying don’t expect special treatment from women if you’re not a special person. Aka you’re likely not going to break a woman’s dating rules just for you if you’re just some regular guy, but she’s also saying don’t get annoyed at women if they do break those rules for ‘special’ guys, I.E attractive, rich, successful, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:21 PM
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It’s called endorphins and dopamine, and it’s the pleasure chemicals that’s released during exercise, everyone experiences it. The thing is, these feel good chemicals are only noticeable for people who are already used to exercise. If you never exercise and you first start out, your stress hormones go through the roof as your body is being put to its limits for the first time in a long time, and that often far overpowers any feel good chemicals like endorphins. Meanwhile if you’re already decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:56 AM
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You didn’t really give an alternative solution? It’s easy to say “these things are bad” but you’re not offering anything else. If you want to date women but can’t, then follow redpill stuff, you become fit, healthy, got your shit together, and become successful with women, then what’s actually wrong with that? How does this make men weaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:15 PM
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Then yes A easily. No question about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:42 PM
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A. Question, would I still be able to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:08 PM
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Eeh, I’m living the bachelor’s life for a while. I’m in no rush to find a partner right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:56 PM
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Love is like magic, you think it’s just a beautiful emotion we feel when we meet someone we like and is unexplainable, you meet someone and it just ‘clicks’ as they say, and the magic takes over. In reality, magic doesn’t exist, humans are biological creatures evolved through evolution/survival of the fittest, and all these emotions can be boiled down into an actual science, and the deeper you go, the more you understand that there’s nothing magical about anything and literally everything can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:42 PM
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BioWare’s director who was in charge of DragonnAge Veilguard is gone, rumor has it that BioWare Edmonton is getting shut down. If true, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:24 PM
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Drink some coffee, do some work, go the gym, paint some warhammer 40k mini’s, play some video games, eat some chicken, go to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:38 PM
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I don’t, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:36 PM
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How do you guys see how much uproar incels, Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, and the likes have caused and how popular those things have gotten, precisely because men feel like they’re judged harshly for who they are, and think “Nah men aren’t judged as harshly as women”. Women have nothing even comparably close to these things. There’s no conglomerate of women gathering around discussing how harshly they’re judged and what they should do about it. Besides maybe the fat acceptance movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:16 PM
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You can learn, it's called masking. It's when you basically pretend to be normal so people think you're normal, and it works. Funny and humour are skills you can learn, at the end of the day, things are funny because, when stripped to it's core, it's just the concept of people expecting something and being given something else that's still consistent and satisfying. You can learn this and use it to make people laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:50 PM
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You're right, she's obese. I think people often forget that 40% of americans are obese. People's ideas of obese is grosely misaligned because they talk with obese people everyday thinking that's what normal everyday people look like. and that Obese must be limited to absolutely massive people, it's not. I'm going to send you a bunch of pictures so you understand what obese actually looks like. These are all 30+ BMI and are considered Obese by BMI standards. Image 1, Video, Video, Video, Image, V…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:35 PM
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The thing is, I’m fine with people using women as their reason for starting to go the gym. The benefits you get from the gym aren’t obvious until after you’ve already been to the gym for some time, get your diet sorted, and start seeing some progress, at which point that’s when people start liking the gym and start enjoying it properly. Until they hit that point, the gym really is just the place where you go to beat yourself up then feel sore the next day, where’s the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:34 PM
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Patrick T. Brown, co director of the Climate and Energy team at the Breakthrough Institute, has gone on record to state that clearing brush — and thus eliminating fuel — can reduce the intensity of wildfires in the Los Angeles Basin even during extreme weather, although it’s not likely to have prevented the kind of destruction Pacific Palisades experienced. Source The other things, fire department and water reservoirs, would help reduce the overall damage of the fires, but still they would not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:07 PM
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I'm still small Those muscles say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:53 PM
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According to BBC, women are victims of romance scams 63% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:47 PM
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Why do people not believe in an obvious fact that 99.9% of studies on the subject prove is happening, because some guys want to protect some fish? I don't follow the logic. Also how exactly do you prevent massive fires in dry areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:44 PM
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Dude can just download Grindr immediately have 100's of dudes wanting to bang him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:40 PM
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Did I say that? I don't recall, can you quote where I said this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:35 PM
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Who’s getting upset? OP asked why people compare relationships to the past, my answer is because it can predict the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:45 AM
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Stats show 12% of women cheat, just because I personally am not friends with women who cheat, or friends with men who have dated women who cheat, doesn't mean they don't exist and aren't a problem for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:24 AM
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Nah, but you can meet women through friends of friends and those friends can definitely be prone to gossip, especially if they care about you and want to warn you before you try dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:22 AM
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I don't think I know any women who have cheated on their partners, never mind women who freely admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:20 AM
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True. If no one tells you then how will you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:02 AM
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Stuff like this can come up naturally through conversation, either through talking with her or through talking with mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:57 PM
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They have less pressure to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:49 PM
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Looking at the past is a good way to predict the future. If she's cheated on 100% of all her relationships, it doesn't matter how "great" she is in her current relationships, it'll give us the idea that she's just going to cheat in her current relationship to, and you can avoid this by just not dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:47 PM
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Don't diss a woman when she's telling the truth, for telling the truth. That's what we want more of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:11 PM
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Someone said something like “mods should ban people bragging about their relationships and having sex”. And that those people are “Bragging about it to losers to feel good about themselves”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:19 PM
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Is it? Then it really shouldn’t be this hard for you to give me some examples on how and why women react differently based on confidence and what are those actual differences. Why are you avoiding answering this question if it’s such a tangible concept? Confidence isn’t tangible because it’s a state of mind, it doesn’t effect reality, it effects your actions, the actions are the tangible aspects of confidence, but not confidence itself. I can say looks is a very objective and tangible aspect bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:42 PM
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These kind of posts absolutely make me cringe to hell and back. My man is living in one of the best countries in the world in objectively one of the best generations in human history and is living better than the vast majority of kings did. He’s in an insulated house with AC, eating a whole fresh chicken raised on a nearby farm with spices from all over the world that he ordered from his universal computer that has access to the entire knowledge of humanity, that arrived right at his door 20 min…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:52 PM
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That didn’t answer any of my questions. How does a man changing where he gets his validation from radically make women go from “Ew no” to “Yes here’s my number”? Anything that’s actually tangible to the real world. What exactly are the things that changes upon meeting and talking to women where the effects of “worry less about others’ validation and focus on your own validation.” come into play? And how does that make her go from thinking “Ew I don’t like this guy 😕” to “Ooh I like this guy ☺️”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:48 PM
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I can’t emphasis enough just how little I have actually changed personality wise, I am the exact same person I was before changing my looks. I’m still the nerdy kid who continues to talk to women like they’re people, like I always have done. What has completely changed is how women treat me now, going from constantly rejected/ignored/platonic for countless years to success after success, with the only variable that’s obviously different being my looks. Let me ask you, “growing up” and “confidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:24 PM
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Even to this day, when someone on places like AskMen ask how to attract women, and people recommend the gym, almost always there's someone replying "Yes! Go the gym because that makes you confident and confidence attract women" lol, some people will absolutely refuse to admit that maybe women do, in fact, like muscles just because they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:58 PM
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Imagine thinking the world is just the way it was, people being uncaring/rude was the norm and this was normal for everyone... so you thought. Then you lose weight, turns out everyone is able to be pleasant and friendly this entire time. You go to the store and people smile while talking to you, wtf, just a few months ago you would've avoided me and now you're being super friendly for some reason. You realize the world is actually a nicer place than you thought, it's just that you were FAT, UGLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:42 PM
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Obsessing over my looks was the only thing that turned me from a forever alone virgin to a guy who can now easily attract and date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:34 PM
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We have enough flat earthers as it is, please don’t give these people a bigger ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:51 PM
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I’ve always disliked the PUA stuff and eventually thought it was all just a bunch of mumbo jumbo to give men a reason to actually talk to women and hold a conversation with them. But there is 1 advice I do like and I’ve made women smile with, tell the attractive person they’re a genius, tell the genius person they’re attractive. The idea is the attractive person is constantly told they’re attractive, a genius is constantly told they’re a genius, them being called that is basically just met with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:42 PM
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• Those bullies will grow up to be drunk losers while you'll be rich and successful. • (Person gets rejected) You dodged a bullet!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:03 PM
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4 times a month can be normal depending on kids/scheduling/stress/no time/mismatched libidos, etc. 4 times a year is what I would consider dead bedroom, that's a sign that someone just doesn't want to or never feels the need to sleep with the other anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:20 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:24 AM
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I got fit, healthy, and laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:57 AM
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Ooh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:31 AM
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That’s literally a feature on WhatsApp, Messenger, Text Message, Discord, Instagram, Teams, Even Reddit DM’s. What did you send it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:11 AM
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Hold down the message. Delete message for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:04 AM
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As someone who is in the nerdy scene, it’s a double edged sword. Nerdy women especially are some of the most openly kinky people around, but often times aren’t the most dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:01 AM
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As long as the question is related to how attractive they objectively look to society/average person. And less so about their own personal opinions on how attractive they are. “Are they an objectively attractive person?” And “Do you think they are attractive” can have two entirely different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:52 AM
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They were basically explaining how they thought you were saying promiscuous women are looser than virgin women, then went on to explain how more sex doesn’t lead to a looser vagina and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:32 PM
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If i got a blowjob as a virgin i wouldn’t claim I lost my virginity. I don’t think Oral counts personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:14 PM
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I just assumed he meant blown out as in very loose. Guess we won’t know until he replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:32 PM
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Because then that would mean their doctors took their anal virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:23 PM
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He never said anything about sexual experiences. Some women are tighter than others, that’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:21 PM
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I don’t think this ever did anything for me, even with this feature on, my first pic was always my first pic, it never changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:02 AM
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So when she’s not happy and horny, what’s it called?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:39 PM
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When’s she’s clearly happy and horny to sleep with you. When you go to the bedroom and she’s already naked waiting for you, when you’re feeling each other up and start taking clothes off, etc. You know, when she’s obviously into it and wants to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:03 PM
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This is basically the "She asked for it" argument. lol. Enthusiastic consent is absolutely the standard, I've never slept with a woman who only sortof said yes or only said yes for one reason or another. I've only ever slept with someone because she genuinely wanted to have sex and was excited for it, because that's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:58 PM
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That's just it, by all legal definitions of the word, it is not rape, I can't call it rape, and you cannot convict someone for it. But in my opinion it is morally wrong and unjustifiable, even if it's not considered rape. I went to an extreme situation to make a point, but it doesn't need to be that extreme, my point is yes isn't always yes. Another example of this is "The Implication"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:55 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re making a joke or being serious. Just make a new account if and when your current one is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:58 PM
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No, both men and women wear jewellery, it’s neither masculine or feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:52 PM
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Nah I disagree. I go by a philosophy, if it's not a "fuck yes", then it's a no. I remember reading a story about some PUA guy who had a foreign women over from abroad, and she was staying with him. One night she just wanted to sleep and he kept pestering her for sex, over, over, over, and over again. He wrote how he asked her 40 times, she said no 40 times because she wasn't in the mood and just wanted to sleep. She realised he was not going to give up, and said yes reluctantly. What else could …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:41 PM
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I highly disagree, to me, plain looking is attractive and would actually make you above average, rather than average. Like so - https://theonlinephotographer.typepad.com/the_online_photographer/2013/09/averaged-faces-of-various-nationalities.html The "average person" is overweight, so they don't tend to look 'plain', but rather they look chubby. So in my opinion, I would definitely claim the average person does not have a plain face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:33 PM
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That’s a fairly decent question and depends on individual people’s expectations on what “average” is, if only 20% of people are attractive, then you could say 20% of people are unattractive and the remaining 60% fall into average. Or you could claim only 20% of people are average, and 40% of below average and 40% are above average. There’s a lot you can talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:14 PM
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"Age most attracted to" does not mean ages outside of that are unattractive, it just means men of all ages find young women to be physically most attractive. If I find black hair most attractive, it doesn't mean I find red heads unattractive. To top it all off, your link literally goes against your own argument, had you actually read it you would have seen the following. "But there's another layer to this data. Although men at every age seem to be attracted to very young women, they most often m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:51 PM
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Please don't tell me you're assuming most of these men are trying to date 18-25 women regardless of their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:34 PM
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/r/hapas would likely disagree with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:48 PM
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OKCupid study is the biggest one, it includes all women in all age groups who used the website. You got Tinder stats which show 53% of men swipe right on at least 50% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:46 PM
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How so? Passport bro works for white people because Asian women abroad see you and automatically assume you're rich (for her standards) and can get her a ticket to the western world, thus they want to date you. If you're an Asian guy in an Asian country, nobody assumes anything of you, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:33 PM
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Step 1. Boil pasta for 10 minutes, drain water, mix with Tuna + Mayo. Step 2. Eat it. It's literally that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:30 PM
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Reminds me of that TedTalk from a model who tried to tell people how "looks aren't everything". Meanwhile her attractiveness is literally what made her a multi-millionaire, yet she's standing on stage trying to convince people it's not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:28 PM
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Makes sense, Creatine doesn't make you feel anything, it's not a stimulus, it's just a supplement. Its job is to increase draw more water into your muscle cells and increase water retention, which means your muscles are fuller and are able to lift heavier, making you anywhere from 0% - 10% stronger and helps your recover after training. There's nothing to "feel", you just go the gym and are now 5% stronger than you were before, which essentially means your deadlift goes from 100kg to 105kg. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:09 PM
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Exactly. Most men find most women in the USA to be fat and unattractive. No, not exactly, because nobody said this. YOU believe most men find most women in the US to be unattractive. Pretty much all studies done on this subject does not come to this conclusion, most men find most women to be either average or attractive, rating around 40% of women as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:52 PM
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Unless you've been diagnosed with deficiencies or are losing weight, multivitamins are a waste of money and do nothing. I just take Vitamin D for the winter and Creatine for muscle growth/recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:41 PM
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What do you mean taught and men find? Assuming we're talking about USA, most women are fat, 65% - 70% of women are overweight or obese, this is just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:23 PM
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It's hard to see but I'd assume so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:20 PM
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It really isn’t. I’ve only met two men who’ve outright admitted they want a virgin woman, both of them were sluts. None of my virgins friends have claimed they would only date a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:40 PM
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Poor people have the most amount of sex, you can’t blame that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:37 PM
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Yes. They could look better with effort. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:15 PM
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I never implied that at all. They asked why these certain people don’t look better, so I explained how putting effort into your looks is hard. It’s really not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:01 PM
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I never said everybody can become attractive through self improvement. I never even used the word attractive or referenced it. I’m saying people don’t self improve because it’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:39 PM
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Based and R9K pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:16 PM
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>grab another apple But why? Why after tasting that apple did you not come to the conclusion that maybe you simply don't like apples, why grab a different apple? Because you know what apples taste like based on previous experiences, and you know that specific apple didn't taste right compared to apples you had in the past, so you grabbed another apple. You literally compared apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:13 PM
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Don't know what else to add really. If I eat an apple and it taste worse than apples I've had in the past, I'm automatically going to compare, it's not even a conscious decision. I'll immediately go "This isn't like the other apples I've had". But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/a2z836umksbe1.png?width=757&format=png&auto=webp&s=86374d6ade182729702e76e9cb8e2e6b0c705b21 Funny AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:53 PM
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He’s trying his best okay 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:31 PM
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I mean... yes? Even with women, her being hookup material is also much easier than her being wife material. I don't see why this is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:24 PM
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Worked first try for me. https://preview.redd.it/223qvup4fsbe1.png?width=835&format=png&auto=webp&s=33b1da75d59abc3689e337ff5717b3b7833e4536
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:21 PM
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Lol, he claims to be based then says stuff like this. "We actually care about the person, not just the person's utility to us." heh, sure mate. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:08 PM
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At the end of the day, it's hard work, and from my experience, less than 20% of people will actually work hard on improving themselves. The vast majority of people are like New Years Resolutioners, they say they're going to fix their life, work on improving themselves, quit smoking, quit alcohol, go the gym, then after 2 weeks give up and go back to their normal bad habits. They don't look better for the simple fact that doing so is hard work and they don't have the willpower to continue doing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/9gz74pdcasbe1.png?width=1342&format=png&auto=webp&s=c06103f7524af7683955ac12e621a1e8558d37d9
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:55 PM
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I felt the original didn't quite explain the scenario so I made changes. https://preview.redd.it/ejs74eb88sbe1.png?width=1342&format=png&auto=webp&s=74f991a2b49f554ea5437ba652ff4668892c7e26
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:43 PM
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Every single ‘marginally assholish bad boy’ I’ve ever met greatly care about other people’s opinions, I think this is where we highly disagree on the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:20 PM
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I guess it depends if you think your definition of Alpha is correct, which some would debate. According to the Rationalwiki entry: Alpha "An alpha (or alpha male) is a high-status male who gets all the sex he desires, because his controlling and socially-dominant personality is so alluring to females; alternately, an alpha may refer to a male's tall and muscular body type that all females (without exception) are irresistibly attracted to. Alphas sit at the top of the sexual ladder, shitting down…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:00 PM
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I agree, this is my issue with this graph, it makes it seem like each obstacle is as equally as difficult to get over as the next, at which point it doesn’t really matter what order it goes in, all it changes is the “maybe hook up” part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:44 PM
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Why are dudes so insecure Small dicks, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, could be anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:28 PM
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If they’re good in bed then you won’t compare. If they’re bad in bed then you’ll absolutely compare. Imagine being with a guy who did everything for you, then you break up, and you start dating a guy who does only half the things the other guy did, you’re going to compare and think “Nah f this, I’m finding a guy who can do everything like my ex did”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:26 PM
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You are: “Female”. You like: “Dad Bods”, “Poor Men Teehee”. lol, it’s not that smart but it’s got the spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:17 PM
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The best way I know to describe it is, if being "Husband Material" is your best trait, it's an insult, because it means out of everything, your ability to be mature, responsible, provide a house, clean up, and raise kids is apparently your biggest assets you bring to the relationship. However, if she's with you because she genuinely finds you sexy, attractive, fun, good in bed, THEN then finds out you're also "Husband material" on-top of that, it's a compliment. Aka "husband material" should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:56 PM
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You never want a woman to date you because you're "Husband material". You want her to date you because she find you sexy and attractive, the fact you can also be "husband material" should always be the 'bonus', never the main attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:52 PM
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Nah, it's homophobia. Plain and Simple. Women are not attracted to men who they know have had other men shove their penis down their ass. Harsh but true. If STD was the reason, women would simply ask them to get tested, if it comes back clean it should be all good right? No, because STD's are not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:48 PM
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Being in the top 20% doesn't automatically mean you're attractive to all women, it means you've passed the threshold where women, in general, are far more likely to find you attractive and finding women to date in general is far easier. You'll still meet plenty of women who don't find you attractive because you're not "type". You'll find yourself attracting a specific group of women who see you as their "type". For example, if you look like a innocent monogamous smart "professor" that's never tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:45 PM
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Wrong? Sounds like you’re on the right track to betterment to me, keep at it. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:37 PM
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Nah, depends on a few factors. With glasses I look like this. <image> Without glasses I look like a normal/handsome dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:30 PM
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Nah, almost all studies on the subject have shown piracy basically doesn't reduce income. The people who pirate never intended on buying it. Makes sense, why do people pirate? Because they don't want to spend money. Had piracy not been an option they wouldn't start buying things, they would do something else with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:31 PM
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If a man masturbates is he a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:26 PM
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Of course. Think about it, every time you swiped right on someone, and didn’t get a match, that’s likely because she saw your profile, looked at you, looked at who you are, and decided “Nah”. You’re basically getting rejected by 100’s of women in one go. Then you finally get a notification from tinder saying “Amy has matched with you!”, you finally think someone actually likes you, so you spent time trying to think of a good first message to send that’s related to her profile, you send her a mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:20 PM
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It’s why after this I want to do a slow bulk, 250 calorie surplus, get stronger but stay lean at the same time for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:02 PM
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Nah, no specific time frame, I’m planning to hit 11-12% bf before going on another slow bulk. I’m technically overweight by BMI standards but around 14% bf right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:51 PM
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I've put 1600 calories in my calorie tracking app (500-600 calorie deficit) every day. But realistically it's more like 1700.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:07 PM
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I hate cutting, I feel weaker, I’m losing strength, I’m hungry, and I’m looking skinnier in clothes. But hey, at least I look good naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:55 PM
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In before she starts recommending a threesome with another man and she already has someone in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:56 PM
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$127,750 for anyone wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:55 PM
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The biggest thing was him joining Trumps rally’s back in October, since then he’s done everything possible to support Trump and join his team. He now leads a department called the Department of Government Efficiency (or DOGE for short) whose aim is to make the government smaller and make it more efficient. But besides that, he’s always meddled with politics, he’s just more obvious these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:44 PM
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Twitter recently posted Stop using Twitter and you’ll be 10x happier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:35 PM
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Definitely take it with a grain of salt, but you can’t deny just how much o1 and then o3 has changed the game for them, even if it’s not coming 2025, then it could be 2026, 2027, or 2028. It’s potentially much closer than we thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:30 PM
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"I infiltrated an incel group AMA!" "Do they call themselves incels?" "No, they called themselves MGTOWs or redpilled" So she didn't infiltrate an incel group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:33 AM
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Travelling to Spain this year, can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:29 AM
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Bruh, I'm a 5'7 middle eastern dude in a white majority country. I've done almost everything possible to looksmax from exercise to grooming to fashion. I've essentially maxxed out my looks. >it's doable by mostly anyone with some discipline Please, enlighten me, how can I get all the traits of a "Chad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:15 AM
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You’re vastly overestimating the social skills required to work in IT and run a marathon. You also definitely do not need to talk to people at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:07 PM
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I get this, it's relaxing to chill with lesbian or asexual women. I don't need to worry about wooing her, I don't need to worry about her trying to woo me and me needing to turn her down. She doesn't need to worry about me wooing her, she doesn't need to worry about falling for me. We can literally just be best buds without any sexual or romantic tensions involved on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:23 PM
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It was, you make it sound like this sort of information was somehow incredibly rare or only available to the wealthy. They had people who's jobs included preparing these types of elixirs, so even if a woman didn't know how to make it themselves, they would have some family/neighbours/friends to get the information from, and if none of them knew, then they could always travel to practitioners or temple healers who knew how to and get the ingredients/concoction/recipe from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:18 PM
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Most recipes is lost to history, but we know a bit of some civilisations. The Babylonian and Assyrian Medical Texts include preparing saffron, asafoetida, verbascum, and lotus (aswell as a few more herbs) together in some way. Eqyptians used acacia, colocynth, dates, triturate. Greeks used roots of almonds, seeds of cumin, hartwort, lybian leaves, and wine. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:09 PM
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Wikipedia - History of Abortion Abortion in Antiquity CNN - Abortion in Ancient History Abortion in old Christianity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:53 PM
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Nah, our culture and society is just so incredibly different today than it ever has been in the past. The whoring was mostly limited to prostitutes and a minority of women, most societies were very strict on monogamy and most women tended to only sleep with their partners while heavily shaming those who didn't. It was common for all women to get abortions, besides in Christianity countries, there was no stigma against abortions, and even in Christian countries, abortion was allowed anytime befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:47 PM
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I never said abortion is a contraceptive. You asked how women could be hoes in the past without contraceptives, they had abortions. I don't know why you're arguing so hard against this, it was very common practise back in ancient times. There wasn't any "access" to abortions, people just did home remedies, which worked, but was much more dangerous for the woman than modern day abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:07 PM
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I'm not sure how 1 is relevant to the other, Most mundane people had access to abortion. Abortions aren't that complicated, there's tons of methods to do it, strenuous labor, climbing, paddling, weightlifting, diving, injesting certain herbs, fasting, bloodlettings, pouring hot water onto the abdomen, etc. What has this got to do with AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:51 PM
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We as in humankind. Most civilisations could preform abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:08 PM
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Abortions, we’ve always had ways to do abortions even 5000+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:34 PM
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Me gusta español, yo aprendiendo el idioma. Also wait, you’re telling me the random texts on here are from actual humans and aren’t just bots for my entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:37 PM
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Name 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:27 PM
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A logical fallacy is trying to use a type of invalid argument without evidence to support them. Slippery slope is exactly that. Whether they ended up being right or wrong in the end is irrelevant. It's about whether the argument itself is flawed or not. For example, one Slippery Slope fallacy in history was people saying "If we free slaves, then they'll eventually be elected to public office and start becoming governors!". The fact it became true is completely irrelevant to whether or not they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:46 PM
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A broken clock is right twice a day. Just because slippery slope has examples of actually happening, doesn't mean the slippery slope argument is a logical argument you should give any credit. Some things will naturally lead to other things. Some things will not lead to other things, it depends on the context, you can't just say slippery slope unless you actually have some evidence to suggest it'll happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:54 PM
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as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:55 AM
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women face just as much rejection as men. Lmao most women don't even ask men out. Nevermind being rejected by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:40 AM
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This is literally just another word for Status, which is 1 of the 4 main building blocks of Redpill, along with Looks, Wealth, and Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:31 PM
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Trust me, the moment he puts on clothes and isn’t “pumped” he’s going to go back to looking fairly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:36 PM
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Owch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:34 PM
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Nah. What are they going to do with it, train an AI? Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:24 PM
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True, but Tom’s been training since he was a teenager, he was already fairly muscular in his early 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:03 PM
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It does, and Tom’s been training since he was a teenager, he’s 28 now. More than enough time to pick up that mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:02 PM
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As someone who’s into fitness, I’m like 99% sure Tom’s not using steroids. This is peak natty physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:48 PM
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🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:30 PM
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Thank you, badass action hero it is 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:25 PM
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hmm https://preview.redd.it/tlktr3mrzlae1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb7d9a8dfba98fe5a9535d7b8293253f3801b54f
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:40 PM
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You're delusional, I would date her and I have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:40 PM
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Most attractive programmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:34 PM
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When you start genuinely getting into fitness and health, you start to realise just how… unhealthy and delusional the majority of people are. Take for example all the “I’m only 30 and my knees and back hurt” you see everywhere. People think this is normal, and in a way it is, people have ruined their bodies without even realising it and think that because everyone else feels the same way, that’s just a natural side effect of aging. It’s not, it’s a side effect of an unhealthy lifestyle. I’ve lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:37 PM
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It’s a math problem, how could you possibly make it philosophical?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:34 PM
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It’s easier when you think about 100 doors. You have 100 doors, you choose 1 door. The host removes 97 doors leaving only 3 doors left, do you stay with the first door you chose or swap to a different door? You would swap, because statistically the odds of you picking the correct door the first time around is just not in your favour. Same can be applied to only 3 doors and removing one, the fact he will never remove the correct door means swapping always leads to a greater chance of picking the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:03 PM
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I’m kinda like this, I do care about people and their lives, but I genuinely do not give a shit about talking about their lives with someone else, wether it’s a secret or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:58 PM
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Same, I’ve yet to bump into a woman that was anti-condom. This hasn’t screwed me yet and the day it does, I’m not really going to care because I ain’t risking an STD/pregnancy just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:10 PM
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Meanwhile some of the most deranged unhinged men I know are getting laid regularly. Had those same "off putting" men you mentioned been more attractive, their behaviours would instead have been seen as quirky and they would be dating, that's basically my argument here. There are men that do have truly weird and bizzar behaviour and it does cause them a huge amount of issues, but they're a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:12 PM
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what?? How did me saying many normal men with normal lives struggle to date turn into you going on a sarcastic rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:44 PM
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lost 130lbs Yup, That'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:29 PM
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Looks is the most important step. Before anything even attempts to begin, looks is the first step through the door. Other stuff follows it. From my experience, if we completely ignore looks for the moment like it doesn't even exist, and purely focus on what the men who get laid are doing, you can get a girlfriend so long as you can... hold a conversation, and maybe not be autistic. That's literally all it is, you can be the dumbest dude or the smartest dude, the funniest dude or the the driest d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:21 PM
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I'm not buying it. If I'm happy without a car, I don't choose or even attempt to buy a car. If I'm happy with my job, I don't choose to go to more job interviews to try and get a new job. If I'm happy with the way I look I don't force myself to change my appearance. If I'm happy with an aspect of my life, I don't purposely put myself in situations that make me uncomfortable for the purpose of changing that specific aspect I'm apparently already happy with. That's mad. People work on the stuff th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:46 PM
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So which is it, constantly and consistently try to talk to people over and over again to get over your fear or rejection and meet new people to make friends/dates, or for people to not be a tool/instrument anymore? I mean, first things first, what exactly is the definition of “Be happy alone” in this context? Because in my mind, someone who’s happy alone is not spending their free time trying to get used to being rejected by people in order to make friends. So before you reply to my first paragr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:07 PM
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I haven’t seen the full video yet, but it doesn’t sound like he’s saying “enjoy being alone” full stop. He’s saying “If you want to make friends, you have to first enjoy being alone because it helps you avoid being needy and people don’t like needy people.” He’s not saying enjoying being alone is the cure to loneliness, he’s saying it’s the path to obtaining friends and dates. Which doesn’t really go against people’s ideas here of “men are so lonely and women can fix that”. His second advice is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:38 PM
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Success in what way, being sexually attractive and wanted by women, or women wanting to date you because you’re rich and can give them a fun life? Women wouldn’t exactly fall head over heals for Bill Gates. He’s not magically sexually attractive because he’s rich, he’d attract gold diggers but they wouldn’t be sexually attracted to him. They’re not getting wet and horny for him. They’re not imagining sleeping with him. Meanwhile when you’re a 6’4 Greek god, you know women are falling over their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:03 AM
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Combination of popularity, social standing, and respect among their peers/society. For example, a professor and an oil rig worker may earn the same amount of money, but people and society respect the professor far more, so he has a higher status. Basically, if you were given a CV of someone and had to guess how ‘respected’ that person was, that would be their status. Like if you were talking to a guy and he said he’s a pilot, or you were talking to a guy and he says he’s a dishwasher, the one yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:07 PM
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Q4W, I’ve heard a few times on here that some women don’t like the smell of male cologne and prefer men to not have it. I’ve always just assumed cologne was always better than no cologne. As far as you’re aware, what are women’s general opinions on men’s cologne, good, bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:33 PM
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It’s comments like these that really out the people who made them. You clearly do not talk to gay men. Yes, they talk about bad dick, all the time. Same type of deal when men say “I’ve never heard of gay men complain about men, women must be the problem”, like bro, when was the last time you actually spoke to a gay man about anything sex related?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:27 PM
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I’d buy her as a bangmaid. I want to say no, I wouldn’t date her, but it depends on how realistic it is. Even the idea of dating what is essentially a robot makes me cringe, but if It genuinely does look and act like a normal human and you couldn’t tell from the outside, then it’s tough to say. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:05 AM
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Sounds like he’s started dating someone else and it’s going well for him. Don’t be surprised if he comes back 1-2 weeks later like “Sorry been busy”. Aka his dates didn’t go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:21 PM
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Deal breaker. But honestly I wouldn’t have even bothered going that far, the moment i notice a pretty girl I don’t know try to follow me on insta, I insta block and report that profile. No random attractive women actually trying to talk to me on insta lmao. It’s a scammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:36 AM
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Alright so you have some resemblance of a monkey brain. Now imagine you walk into the gym, and it’s full of very attractive men, their muscular arms are on full display exactly as you like them, they’re just everywhere, you sit on a bench and there’s a muscular arm to the left and right of you. You move to the treadmill area and there’s more muscular arms. However, you’re not allowed to look, you’re not even allowed to glance. Their muscular arms are right next to you all the time but it’s compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:36 AM
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I thought Percy Jackson was the name of the author, never knew it was the name of the series.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:32 AM
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Are you a demisexual or something, have you never been physically attracted to a guy, saw his ass and just had the urge to slap it? Women have this urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:30 AM
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Sexy woman wearing leggings doing squats to the left of me. Sexy woman wearing leggings doing stretches to the right of me. Sexy woman wearing leggings doing bent over rows in front of me. Here I am, stuck in the middle of them, staring at the floor or the ceiling. I saw a woman wearing baggy joggers once, I was kinda proud of her ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:05 PM
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Stacy doesn’t mean an attractive girl. It’s a name of a particular stereotype of women, a combination of rich, blond, dumb, attractive woman who wears heavy makeup, likes shopping, Instagram, and buys expensive clothes/jewellery/bags. She is promiscuous and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:31 PM
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Unattractive men critiquing other unattractive men’s profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:26 PM
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Neckbeards do go too far, a lot, like saying Ciri is ugly and they don’t want to play as a woman (Yawn) but some of their criticisms do stem from an actual issue some of these games have, usually from the writing and presentation. As an example, I present Baldurs Gate 3 as my argument. Baldurs Gate 3 is extremely LGBT friendly and almost nobody cares. There’s gay relationships everywhere, everybody is pansexual, you can play as a trans man/woman, you could play as a man and gale would hit on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:51 PM
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I’d still love him, but yes I would be ashamed and embarrassed, regardless of man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:22 PM
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Damn, even 25 books is still really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:20 PM
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The redpill community are the ones who choose to upvote and comment on the posts. These are the types of post red pillers want to see, hence why they became some of the most upvoted posts in the history of the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:10 PM
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Agreed, stories fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:01 PM
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I mean just take one look at the subreddit itself. The majority of posts are about how to pick up chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:57 PM
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Women know this too, tell two different men to tell women they’re a virgin and watch their reaction. “Don’t worry, you’ll find someone!” “What really?!? How?!?” Can you figure out which one is replying to the tall handsome guy and the short balding guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:21 PM
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Virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:04 PM
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Still in work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:42 PM
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Gyms themselves don’t smell, I’ve never walked into an empty gym and thought it stunk. The people at the gym however…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:42 PM
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I just noticed, you mentioned you weigh 215 and current bench is 225. Assuming no steroids is involved it's quite a jump. Definitely possible if your gym routine, diet, and sleep is on point all year around. You got any plans for a cut/bulk cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:06 PM
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Christ those are some good lifting numbers, good luck my man. May the gains be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:06 PM
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The answer is you shouldn’t. You should not be putting time and effort into trying to date dudes who are specifically trying to not date women like you. That’s not going to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:03 PM
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But like I said, why would you want to date a man who’s specifically and intentionally filtering your age out? He can’t filter your age out in real life, true, but if you knew the man you were talking to was specifically trying to filter out women your age from his app, why would you want to date that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:51 PM
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How come? Assuming you've moved out of your parents house, your rent is just going to a landlords pocket, effectively going in the bin, if you get a mortgage at least your money is being invested into property, so in the future you'll have that extra money to use to be able to buy a different house with your LTR or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:49 PM
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Kinda, women simply don’t want to date around someone who’s always eating healthy, no alcohol, exercises daily, etc, because it makes them feel bad that they’re not doing that themselves. I should also add, when women say “a man with muscles” it means something different from when a man says it. Women think muscles and think of The Rock, Bodybuilders on stage, Ronnie Coleman, etc. they’re not thinking of Chris Evans or Ryan Gosling, men women love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 PM
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Exactly, they’ll be so beyond anything we can comprehend that if they were here and they didn’t want us to know, we wouldn’t know. They wouldn’t be slowly flying above a city in their slow bright blinking ships that for some reason abide by FAA legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:52 PM
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Most women in the western world are overweight or obese. Keep this in mind when women claim they don’t like men with muscles. The men with muscles likely don’t like those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:39 PM
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I hate it. I hate it I hate it I hate it. Bunch of morons thinking they’re geniuses for knowing aliens are visiting us and are talking to the government. I don’t mind people being stupid, but it’s when they’re stupid and proclaim to know more about the subject than actual aviation experts or nasa scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:21 PM
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No, even psychopaths still feel emotions, just to a lesser degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:10 PM
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If a 45 year old dude is filtering 40 year old women out, did you even want to date him in the first place? This means when meeting men on dating apps, you’ll automagically be matching with men who are not filtering you out, which is what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:00 PM
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I asked for a source of research that proved childless single women are happier than married women. You gave me what is essentially a bunch of quotes from therapists and relationship experts saying why they think some childfree women are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:19 PM
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This doesn’t argue that childfree women are happier than married women. It argues that childfree women can be just as happy or happier than married women. In the same way if I say “Men are stronger than women” and you argue “Women can be stronger than men, sometimes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:59 PM
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I could link 5 sources that show married women are happier than single women, but I genuinely cannot be bothered to put in the effort just for you to ignore it and say that’s wrong, especially after the fact I just spend my time and energy debunking your original source and you just argued back saying “We know that ain’t true” Give me one single source that’s not from Paul Dolan that says single women are happy. Just one, one single piece of research that concludes single women are happier than …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:47 PM
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50k followers and YouTube go hand in hand. Why is one considered brainrot F and the other a cool A?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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Only if he’s average/unattractive. Attractive men get compliments all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:29 PM
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There’s a stat going around where 50% - 70% of women have a plan B ready if their current relationship fails. She sees other men, you just gotta get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:25 PM
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There's nothing that indicates it's from 2024. The meta data of that website says it was published 28th May 2019. The link it takes you to says 2019. <image> >I’ll never understand why you guys go out your way to try “prove” this wrong, even if the study is inaccurate, we all know it’s true Because it's wrong? Lmao. Every study done on the subject has shown married women are happier. You can't just make things up and claim it's fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:44 PM
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Paul Dolan himself has gone on record to state he made a mistake and his work is inaccurate. His work, the study, is inaccurate, it's wrong, the researcher himself said that. Just because some blog/website didn't tell you this doesn't mean his work is suddenly accurate and correct. Your link is also from 2019/2021, his is from 2023, his is more up to date. It's literally not an opinion, his work is Objectively wrong by all accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:35 PM
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Nope, Not a single has claimed single childfree women been ranked as the happiest. There's been 1 single study that concluded single childless women were happier than married women, the infamous Paul Dolan study, the media quickly took it and ran with it and spread it everyone, now everyone thinks it's true. It was debunked since the Paul made some grave errors in his research. when corrected for those errors, married women were happier than single women. Every other study done on the subject ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:34 PM
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I go to coffee shops regularly. Never once spoken to anybody, never once has anybody spoke to me. I didn’t think this was a thing people actually suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:58 PM
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There’s a big difference between “You don’t need makeup” and “I prefer no makeup”. A lot of women don’t need makeup to be pretty, but makeup is always going to improve their appearance regardless of whether or not they ‘need’ it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:47 PM
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It was a few years ago but this was the picture that women was calling a ‘dadbod’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:27 PM
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In the same way men think a woman with no makeup is literally a woman with no makeup. In reality, women will point to a muscular man who packed on a few extra pounds and say “I love dad bods”, when it’s actually just a muscular dude. Men will point at a woman with makeup and say “I love women without makeup”, when she’s wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:23 PM
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It was originally the body of a typical dad, overweight, bit of a belly, cuddly like a teddy bear. Over the years it’s slowly turned into a muscular man who’s put on an extra 10lbs, where people like Jason Mamoa and Zak Efron are now considered to have dadbods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:18 PM
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Women saying they like ‘dad bods’ is the same as men saying they like women with no makeup. Neither knows what they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:07 PM
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What personality traits do you find attractive in a man that most men seem to be missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:19 PM
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They’re all equally ‘important’, but the threshold to pass them isn’t the same. Looks is important and hard to jump over. You could do everything possible to work on your looks and still fail. Personality is equally ‘important’ but is easier to jump over. For most women, as long as you’re a decent person with good humor that’s like 90% of personality taken care off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:07 PM
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I wasn’t able to go today because it’s too cold It’s literally winter, it’s not going to get warmer. Are you really going to skip out on exercise just because you were cold? Your cavemen ancestors fighting off storms are embarrassed by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:01 PM
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Pretty useful info to know, if you’re an unattractive person and want to be successful at dating, you’ll want to prioritise working on the more important stuff first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:56 PM
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I literally could not care less about this story and I have no idea why everyone else cares so much. A porn star sleeps with a lot of men? Whoopdie fucking do la. That’s literally her job, porn stars do that every day, often with multiple men, suddenly it’s a big news story everyone needs to study because she did a 100 men in 1 day challenge. What’s the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:47 PM
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Well yes, the hard part is being attractive and finding a partner. Attraction only seems complicated and complex simply because most people don’t even attempt to pass the first step and struggle to do the second. Something being hard doesn’t make it complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:50 PM
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Attraction is very straightforward and it pains me watching people try to overcomplicate it. Get an attractive single woman, get an attractive single man, have them share the same values and hobbies, put them in a room together. Oh look they’re dating now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:32 PM
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Still in work homie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:21 PM
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thug like behaviour Good for short term relationships, bad for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:20 PM
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Because they didn’t expect it from you, they expect it from your brother. If you’ve never sworn in your entire life, and one day you swore, people will take what you said far more seriously. But if you swear every other sentence, nobody cares if you swear again. In this instance, your brother shouting and slamming doors is an every day occurrence, it’s hard to be mad at someone 24/7, especially if you’ve tried to be mad in the past and nothing changed. They don’t want you to act like him and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:18 PM
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The first sentence makes it sound like attraction is a complex process of multiple factors that are hard to define. Meanwhile in reality most women will just not date a guy if they’re short. Attraction really isn’t all that complicated or confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:14 PM
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She got annoyed at both the toxic positivity and the toxic negativity in this sub so she made a comment to tell people she’s leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:00 AM
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Not much, just acknowledge looks are the main factor in attraction, if men in the future asks why they’re unsuccessful while they have normal social skills, then just tell them it’s likely because they look bad and need to fix their entire appearance. Too many times men will post to places like dating_advice or somewhere else and asking for help as he’s been forever single and he’s lonely, and it’ll be some skinny short dude with poor facial hair and in boring baggy clothes, like the opposite of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:38 PM
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It was a Japanese superstition that sexual arousal would result in more nosebleeds. Anime ran with it and use it as a way to tell the viewers “This guy is horny”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:27 PM
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Not much, just acknowledge looks are the main factor in attraction, if men in the future asks why they’re unsuccessful while they have normal social skills, then just tell them it’s likely because they look bad and need to fix their entire appearance. Too many times men will post to places like dating_advice or somewhere else and asking for help as he’s been forever single and he’s lonely, and it’ll be some skinny short dude with poor facial hair and in boring baggy clothes, like the opposite of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:23 PM
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I don’t know how else to prove to you that people generally don’t think looks are important without linking you to a bunch of places that show people don’t mention the importance of looks. This is going to be a stupid metaphor but it would be the same as me asking how to boil potatoes and you replying “The oven isn’t important”. Like, if I’m asking for something, you aren’t going to reply with the stuff a list of stuff that isn’t important. You’re going to give me the stuff that is important, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:10 PM
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Yes, but femcels from the femcels subreddits were women who chose to be single forever because their standards were too high and thought every man who wasn’t their standard were dumb, ugly, and dangerous people. You can’t just call random women you don’t like femcels, it’s as dumb as when people call random married men they don’t like incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:47 PM
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I’m at work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:56 PM
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femcel She literally had a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:56 PM
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I’ve mentioned this study quite a bit, it also aligns my own experiences. If a girl likes you, she’ll laugh at your dumbest jokes no matter how stupid they are. She’ll even sometimes laugh at things you wasn’t trying to make a joke about, she just thought you were making a joke and that’s enough to make her laugh. Being funny isn’t what makes you attractive, being attractive is what makes you funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:54 PM
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>I myself am a pretty visual man so I would say attraction is slightly more important than personality, but this isn't true for everyone This is true for the vast majority of people, men and women. Of course both are important to individual people, but generally across all people if you have bad looks and a good personality, you'll struggle to date. If you have good looks and a bad personality, you'll still find plenty of people to date, you'll just be dating other people with bad personalities.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:22 PM
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Slim fit. Modern looks too baggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:15 PM
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Why are you pretending people haven't been going on and on about how looks aren't important? I can recall like 10+ times I've debated with people on this very subreddit about that exact topic. Reddit thread - 447 comments, maybe 10 of them mention something looks related And when you google "How to attract women" you get these articles. What attracts women to men sexually, The hard truths and facts - 20 points of text after text, with only one of them, point 16, relating to something looks based…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:11 PM
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Why are you pretending people haven't been going on and on about how looks aren't important? I can recall like 10+ times I've debated with people on this very subreddit about that exact topic. And rather than repeat the same talking points I've discussed 10 times before that I'm just going to use links from my previous comments. Reddit thread - 447 comments, maybe 10 of them mention something looks related
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:01 PM
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All the women are going to convince her he’s a terrible person and they should break up, and he’s going to be like “You’re breaking up with me because you chose to attack a drunk dude and I didn’t join in? lol”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:51 PM
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I think so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:18 PM
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Mostly related to anything **Negative**, I've discussed this with mods in the past and from what I gathered, what Blackpillers think "Black Pill" is, and what the mods think it is, are two entirely different thing. You're allowed to talk about Looks, how important you think it is/isn't, how genetics play a factor in it, I'm free to say "Black Pill is a philosophy that argues Looks is the most significant factor in dating", I'm free to say "A 6'2 muscular handsome man will have a much easier time…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:01 PM
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Christ, I'm glad I haven't met any of these women, don't think I could deal listening to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:57 PM
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I don't think she's leaving details out, she's just exaggerating details. Upon a first read you'd think the guy is a creep trying to join the women in her uber, but read the text again very closely, what did the drunk guy actually do, start to finish, from his perspective. He was drunk, spoke to a woman, the woman walked away. He saw an uber (likely assumed it was his) and tried to get in. At this point in time the uber was empty, he was trying to enter an empty uber. Suddenly he has a woman pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:49 PM
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It's his car, he has to handle it. You can't just enter a random Uber because the destination is already set on the app, and the driver isn't going to do the trip if it's not for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:43 PM
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Most women have never been in a physical fight before, stories like these kinda show the consequences of that. They believe they can manhandle a drunk man and nothing bad will ever happen, and in most situations they’re right, because most men won’t hit a woman even if that woman is hitting them. The moment another man gets involved however, things can escalate very quickly, men who don’t hit women don’t have the same restraint for other men, and men understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:33 PM
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I do have to ask, what did the drunk guy do that made him a pretty despicable creep? Look at what he does. He’s drunk, he spoke to a woman, the woman walked away. He sees an Uber and tries to get in it, the woman at the time was not in the Uber, he was getting into an empty Uber, but before he could he had a woman behind him screaming at him and dragging him saying it’s not his Uber. She goes in to get bartenders, and we don’t hear what happens after that, so it’s possible he just got out the Ub…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:25 PM
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Notice his actions, not what OP described. What exactly did he do? He was drunk, walked up to a woman and spoke to her, she walked away. He saw an Uber and got in it. (The woman was not in an Uber). Then suddenly he had a woman pulling him and screaming at him. Notice how she got bartenders to help, but never actually mentioned anything about the bartenders pulling the drunk guy out or anything? He probably got out the Uber after the driver told him he’s in the wrong cab. The drunk guy didn’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:18 PM
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Not necessarily, sometimes they weren’t cute, just tall and strong, other times your friend gets attention and you assume it’s because he’s a funny person, not because he’s cute. You see girls liking the bully and you assume it’s probably because he’s the ‘bad boy’. I was also called cute myself but didn’t get any of that kind of attention so to me it mustn’t have been just looks, but now looking back I know it’s because I wasn’t ‘attractive’ cute, I was lil baby cute. Then you hear women talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:16 PM
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Never been given flowers, I would love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:24 PM
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That looks tasty, yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:24 PM
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Nice 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:12 PM
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Those videos were old, but I also randomly found them from a 7 year old Reddit thread, I’m sure I could find much more if I looked into it. The UN Woman stuff is was from their “LGBTIQ+ Communities and the anti-rights pushback” article, where they paired up “Men’s rights” with anti-gender and gender critical groups saying these groups threaten LGBT. Feminism is about women having rights/chances equal to men, very few feminists care about focusing on fixing specific issues men have. In which case…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:10 PM
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You think left woman is more attractive than right woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:40 PM
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That is also true, women spend more on shopping with their own money than men do with their own money. Men are more likely to save up and/or invest their money compared to women who are more likely to spend it shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:38 PM
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We won’t really know what happens until they plan and go on a second date. I’ve also had two first dates that also seemingly “went well”, only to never go on a second date. As well as plenty of my friends, it’s normal for a first date to appear to go well only to get ghosted afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:31 PM
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Sharper more defined jawline, bigger lips, ‘downward’ nose, shorter hair. Keep in mind he’s not saying she’s ugly, she clearly isn’t, but the woman on the right is objectively more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:24 PM
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Yes. Men make the money, their wives go to the shop to spend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:21 PM
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The entire Men's Rights Activist is entirely about that. They bring up a whole host of men's issues, and the media labels them anti-feminist and misogynist because they had the audacity to tell people they're focusing on men's issues, not women's. Just look at their Wikipedia article, literally the second paragraph describes how it's actually secretly a backlash of feminism and they advocate for violence against women. When you look into these claims of violence, turns out the entire thing came …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:49 PM
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The ones who freely post pictures of themselves on the internet know they're not that bad looking, hence why they're posting pictures of themselves on the internet for everyone to see, they're fishing for compliments. If a guy knows he's ugly, he's not going to post pictures of his face online for everyone to criticise and make fun off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:03 PM
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>He doesn't seem to have a shit personality.... He shot and killed a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:09 AM
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I agreed with that thread, I even upvoted it at the time. But I wouldn't say it's because men's view of women has changed or their standards have changed, but more so because men are more desperate than women. So men are fine with their partners not conforming to some gender roles just to keep them happy, even if they would prefer their partner to conform to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:05 AM
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I genuinely have no clue what you were trying to tell me here or what it was I said that was wrong. It sounds like you disagree with me then wrote a comment about everything I agree with. Obviously physically attractive people are lusted over I agree Of course of he were sexually unattractive, people wouldn't be talking about how hot he is I agree There's nothing "blackpilling" about the idea that women are aroused by sexually attractive men, and anyone who wasn't raised in a dark cave their who…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:59 PM
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Far less people would be simping, but some people would still be simping. Take a look at, well, any handsome serial killer. Hell, google Jeremy Meeks, dude almost murdered a child and he ended up getting bailed out by women and became a model who married a billionaire's daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:30 PM
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I promise you, if luigi turned out to be a fat balding dude, he would not be receiving these horny messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:14 PM
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Some people on this subreddit still for some wild reason: "Looks don't matter! If you're struggling to date it's because of your bad personality." Reddit for the past week: "OMG Luigi's so fucking hot please rawdog me 😍😍😍"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:42 PM
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I also like attention. In no situation would I ever crave attention from an ugly obese woman to the point I attempt things to get her attention, I just shrug my shoulders and move on with my life. Like what 99% of women would do to an ugly dudes who don't care about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:37 PM
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What do you mean, what would I be spouting if I were alive before emancipation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:17 PM
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I wouldn't say men have changed their views on women all that much, men still vastly prefer healthy youthful feminine women with smooth skin and a "banging body" who are compassionate, kind, empathetic, and trusting. This hasn't really changed all that much throughout the years. In what ways do you think it's changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:05 PM
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>if women really can’t change the way they view men because they’re just so tied to their biology because men were able to change their views on women’s gender roles Can you rephrase this please? I'm a bit lost on what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:29 PM
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I’m talking in generalisation and you’re replying in individuals. Yes there’s going to be some women dating depressed men, that In no way indicates women on average don’t mind dating depressed men. You can also find ‘many’ women dating 5’4 men, that doesn’t mean there isn’t an obvious preference for taller men. In the same way there’s an obvious preference for stable and mentally healthy men. we’ve been to space And ravens enjoy shitting on the cars of the people they hate, that doesn’t mean rav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:56 PM
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Emotional men I mean like depressed sad men in particular. humans are not bound by evolution I find it so baffling when people say stuff like this. Why do you think 70% of the population is fat? Because your body craves extra food to store away for a rainy day, despite the fact we consciously know we won’t be running out of food anytime soon. That’s just one example of 100’s I could list to explain how you’re acting in evolutions wishes. women like strong men??? Source?!? I don’t even know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:25 PM
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Mostly I just mean no girlfriend/wife/children. I have plenty of material possessions but I can always just buy them again. I can see how someone who does have a wife and kids may not want to push the red button because it would mean their kids would vanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:15 PM
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First things first what’s your definition of masculine man? Because right off the bat it sounds like your idea of a masculine man is entirely different from mine. Someone can be emotionally intelligent and doesn’t care about gender norms, but is still masculine. He can still wear a pink shirt and drink girlie drinks from a straw. A masculine man to me is someone who’s brave, hard working, self reliant, self sufficient, mature, rational, confident, competitive, dependable, a provider, in control,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:13 PM
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Red easily, I have no real attachments right now, I get to live an extra 20 years, not only can I fix my mistakes I made in life, I can also help fix and save the lives of people I know/used to know. Money isn't an issue since I can just buy bitcoin early.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:27 PM
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Even the comments are starting to sound like generic Facebook comments. Post: “This 6 year old survived cancer”. Comment: “This is beautiful” - 30,000 upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:33 PM
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Is it, or is a large part of that a subconscious expectation from evolution and biology? Do you genuinely believe the reason women don’t want to deal with emotional men is because of patriarchy, and that by dismantling it, women will start to take depressed men more seriously? In my opinion, men are disposable because sperm is plentiful, it’s an evolutionary trait. Women like strong rigid men because they’re more likely to survive and reproduce, not because patriarchy. Even the most leftist prog…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:59 PM
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Congratulations 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:41 PM
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men benefit from deconstructing patriarchy How?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:29 PM
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Not really, if I’m sitting alone at home all day, I’m not going to dress up for myself. If I never went out again I would never dress up again, I have zero interest in fashion or dressing up beyond when it’s in and for the presence of other people. I dress up for other people, which makes them happy, which makes me happy. The dressing up part isn’t what makes me happy, it’s the other people enjoying my company that makes me happy. It’s like saying people work in charities for themselves, yes wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:11 PM
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Now we’re talking about different things. Enjoying attention from ugly people is a vastly different thing from going crazy because an ugly person isn’t giving you attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:08 PM
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Why does it have to be one extreme or the other? Most men just want to date a normal woman. One of the only standards these men have is for her to not be obese. Not obese does not equal a Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:16 PM
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Yes, but I only felt pleasure at looking at myself well dressed because I know that’s exactly what society expects a successful well dressed man to look like. In which case I’m not really doing it for myself, I’m doing it so other people will look at me and think “what a well dressed handsome man”, which in turn makes me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:02 PM
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Why did this question make you so angry to the point you’re calling people sad for asking it? It’s a perfectly valid and curious psychology question with answers that tie back to social conditioning and conforming to societies expectations. Plenty of other women in this comment section answered the question without any issue, yet you’re here saying people have sad lives. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:00 PM
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This literally never happens. Women do not give a flying fuck if an ugly man isn’t giving them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:54 AM
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Everyone’s palms are lighter than the rest of their body. Your palms have an extra layer of skin to protect them, extra layer of skin means it needs less melanin to protect itself from the sun, less melanin means lighter skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:20 PM
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Basically just this. It’s when a woman married someone she’s not really into, at least not in the way she was with her ex’s or FwB. She picked him because he’s the safe stable who’ll raise good kids compared to her more exciting but unpredictable Ex’s. The kind of relationship where she used to have high libido in the past but nowadays it’s “not today I have a headache” and eventually fades into a sexless relationship where she ‘loves’ her husband but is just never in the mood anymore for some r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:47 PM
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Eeh, that’s because they can’t make love with those chat bots. Must be hard being in love with words of a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:37 PM
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In the future they’ll have AI sex bots so it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:11 AM
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You could use this for literally any standard you have. I don’t care about looks, but being ugly is a dealbreaker. I don’t care about how much you make, but below $40k is a dealbreaker. I don’t care what job you have, but if you work in a retail/factory/cleaner etc then it’s not happening. It’s dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:40 PM
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I’ve been thinking this. Imagine nobody knowing who you were, then someone killed you, and suddenly everybody hates you and sympathises with the murderer. You had to have been a horrible person for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:26 PM
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Fashion is a multiplier to your existing attractiveness. If you’re not attractive then it’s not going to do anything. 0.2 x 4 = 0.8 If you’re attractive then it’s going to further boost your attraction. 3.4 x 4 = 13.6 Like the other guy said, if you don’t look good in a plain black T-Shirt, then you’re not going to look much better all dressed up. 4chan’s /fa/ (fashion) meet-up comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:44 PM
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I could list like 50 things. Two of them being having someone who helps with the cooking and cleaning. What kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:28 PM
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I don’t mean literally the same amount of attention in terms of volume, of course he would have pissed off half the country so that’s half the attention, I mean in terms of how much enthusiasm women have shown in regards to how much want to fuck him. Tom might have attracted some low quality crazy women that really hated Trump, but I’d say that’s about it. Nobody else would be saying much in terms of being attracted to him. Luigi being hot is the reason he’s getting this kind of attention, why e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:36 PM
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If the dude who shot trump actually killed him, do you genuinely believe he would be receiving the same kind of attention Luigi is receiving? https://preview.redd.it/de86vayt6f6e1.jpeg?width=1100&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3f3f41f8d9d32960107b63a467b36739cb35a91f
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:31 PM
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I just googled Selena's networth is $1.3 billion. I've been living under a rock for the past 10 years, how?!? I only know her from the Wizards of Waverley Place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:28 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:24 PM
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I'm confused by what you're trying to say. >Stop talking about going to the gym all the time. If that's what attracted women the most, we wouldn't work as much. What has working got to do with going the gym? People work because they need money to live their life. People go the gym to look and feel better. These two things are entirely unrelated and there's nothing stopping you from doing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:39 PM
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Oxford's definition of interesting is "arousing curiosity or interest; holding or catching the attention." Cambridge's definition of interesting is "Someone or something that is interesting keeps your attention because he, she, or it is unusual, exciting" Being entertaining makes you interesting, it catches and holds people's attention and interest. >I think a lot of those people can be very interesting, but being social, charming, and charismatic is a whole different issue. Anyone can be intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:33 PM
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When I say geek/nerd, I was referring more to the 'smart' guy, the university student who got a masters/PhD in school and went on to develop a good career, he's educated, established career, well read, instrumentalist, multi-lingual, political, I know plenty of men who fit this description but have little to no luck attracting women. I was most definitely not talking about the nerd sitting at home playing league of legends all day. You would be right, that guy is typically not interesting. My ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:16 PM
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I appreciate the high amount of effort you’ve put into this, but I disagree with about half of it. Some of the most interesting people at a party who regularly got attention from women have had most of the traits in your bad list, lazy, uneducated, unemployed, never reads, watches slop, can’t play an instrument, can’t make art, speaks one language poorly, no political opinions, etc. Being an interesting person has almost nothing to do with majority of your ‘interesting’ traits, if that were the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:04 AM
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Yes, sounds like she still loves him. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:40 PM
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Feign ignorance, never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:36 PM
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or watched on the internet You make it sound like the internet isn’t literally the collective knowledge of all of humankind. “You do realise people are just repeating what they read in a text book right?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:20 PM
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Educated people tend to earn more money, and want to spend their free time enjoying their extra money, more holidays, more luxuries, etc. as well as having a bigger focus on developing their career. Being smarter means they’re more picky on who they date/have kids with, and they’ll take more precautions when it comes to sex, buy and use protection more often, buy and take plan B, etc. Overall it means less kids on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:56 PM
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The question boils down to what is the cause and effect. Sure, you noticed men who are indifferent have more success, but that doesn’t automatically mean indifference is the cause of success, it’s the effect of their success. Indifference doesn’t turn into success, success turns into indifference. If you’re successful in dating to the point you feel indifferent to it, then what made you attractive wasn’t the indifference, it was everything else, and all of that led to your indifference to dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:46 PM
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It isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:22 PM
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That’s a myth. Baldness is inherited from both parents. The myth started when studies were released about how balding is caused by a gene in the X chromosome, but that’s just 1 gene out of the potential 63 genes that can cause baldness. 62 of which could come from the dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:19 PM
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Also a dude, my friend group all hug each other when we say hello/goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:13 AM
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Of course women have it worse, but it’s not exactly a paradise for men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:12 AM
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Keep in mind he was chronically ill and his injury is likely going to put him in a wheelchair for life. He already feared he wouldn’t finish school because of the brain fog he was having from his injury, nevermind becoming a politician or developing new AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:59 AM
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Considering my entire family escaped and were accepted as refugees in another country, ya pretty bad. As an example, when the regime first came into power, learning and teaching Kung Fu was illegal. Obviously it’s not that bad now, but it’s still pretty bad and simple things are illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:38 PM
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she walked around naked too much I’m sorry, how is that an ick?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:42 PM
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Because it appears to be the most accurate of the lot, Bluepill is useless and Redpill focuses too much time and energy on game and is far too pseudo intellect for me. The simple idea that people do indeed like and want to date attractive people really shouldn't be as controversial as it is. I started out making fun of redpill even through they had some truth to it. So I probably started out purple, but quickly turned black when that idea started taking off. Makes sense and has a ton of evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:30 PM
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Relationships should be peaceful, if it’s not then you either have children or something is very very wrong. If I’m with a woman and I don’t feel at peace, that is a red flag. This should not be controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:54 PM
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Hairline easily. I can just shave it and go bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:35 PM
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That’s like, 50% of all women who watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:34 PM
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Now that’s funny lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:02 PM
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Lesbian porn just objectively has attractive women in it. Not your everyday woman. Why they watch it is a different question, but long story short it’s usually because lesbian porn actually has women who are enjoying themselves compared to straight porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:53 PM
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I haven’t seen this, 100% of all lesbians couples I know are perfectly looks matched, I’ve never seen a mix of ugly/cute or even mid/cute. Women might claim most women are attractive, but do they actually want to date and sleep with them is an entirely different question with an entirely different answer. Yo top it all off, lesbians have the lowest rates of sex, lower than straight and gay people. So while they claim most women are cute and attractive compared to men, they’re not really sleeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:39 PM
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What number would you start to consider to be hoe behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:27 PM
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Try it, talk as if you're a scientist trying to write a paper on the causes of human attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:26 PM
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You're doing the same thing, I asked for some examples twice and you offered nothing, you're just throwing out words. I can't explain if you're right or wrong without knowing what you're talking about. It would be like me saying "the way red pill men describe women’s attraction, is as if the women were dogs. Its not as if they say “women are like dogs”, they just talk about women as if they act like dogs". Then I proceed to not give any examples as to what I just said, you just gotta believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:24 PM
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It gets triggered when you use the word incels and wants absolutely nothing to do with them and refuses to even engage in the conversation properly without bringing up confidence and social skills. However, if you word your prompt with scientific jargon and paste in some abstracts from studies that show physical attractiveness is the biggest drive in initiating attraction, then it'll agree with everything you say. I copy/pasted some studies and asked for it's opinion, it agreed and continued to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:16 PM
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You’re basically just saying random things now and claiming them as fact without even attempting to describe what you mean. I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say women act like men or women turn into men or anything to suggest women’s sexualities are the same as men or anything even close to that. You have to give some examples. Black pillers tend to prove that looks don’t matter everyday, at least the way black pillers think they do. As much as black pillers say women prove black pill by exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:53 PM
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That’s even darker than red It’s not that dark and scary. Most people are misinformed on what the Blackpill is. It literally just means when it comes to dating, looks are the most important aspect, followed by money, status, and social skills. Because I believe this, I regularly workout, eat healthy, take care of my appearance, dress to impress, etc. Blackpill has nothing to do with how to treat women or if you should hate/love them. Compared to redpill which tries to teach people to treat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:34 PM
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It’s not just a popular word that randomly got trendy, it became popular for a reason. There are reasons why these words became popular. Calling men gay became trendy because it was an attack on either their masculinity or their lack of sexuality towards women/a specific woman. Men could use it to make fun of other men, women could use it to explain why a man didn’t like her and insult him for that. ‘Bitch’ is a very old word that’s managed to stick around to the point it’s now used for both neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:08 PM
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I also don’t hate women, you seem to have prejudged me. Redpill is just a set of philosophies that try to describe what women like in men and set to be like those men. Blackpill just means looks matter far more than people think. There are also plenty of men hating feminists out there, just as much as there are women hating red/black pillers. Just as much as there are feminists who don’t hate men, and red/black pillers who don’t hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:56 PM
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Going through 7 people in 4 years is hoe behaviour. The average Lifetime Sexual Partners is 7. Nevermind 7 in 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:51 PM
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Women love to call men they hate incels, it’s an insult used against a lot of men they don’t like, including men who are clearly married with kids. Women could have called these misogynist, sexist, bigot, or 100’s of other different insults, why incel? Because incel implies they can’t attract women and are virgins. That is exactly what makes this insult more attractive to use compared to just calling a man sexist. Call a man sexist and he’s just a guy that thinks differently of women, call a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:30 PM
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I have no idea what you meant by half of that. looks don’t actually matter like black pill thinks they do, We have a shitload of evidence to show it does matter. Also black and pill both top from the bottom, where the ugliest/most oppressed is the most moral/enlightened. I have no idea what this means. try and hamfist studies into their beliefs. Bluepill has 0 studies for their beliefs. This is solely a Blackpill thing. Black and blue pill both think the genders sexualities are the same What? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:18 PM
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Blackpiller here; I didn’t, I just thought if I was a friendly decent person then I would find a woman who liked me for who I was. Fast forward the most agonising late teens/early 20 dating attempts and by the time I was 21 that’s when I started caring and focusing on what women find attractive in men. Overall I believe it’s made me a better healthier more successful person overall. I exercise almost every day, eat healthier foods, dress to impress, etc. Feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:53 PM
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For facial hair: 60% prefer beards, 40% prefer clean shaven. For body hair: 9% of women prefer no chest hair, the rest either don’t care or prefer chest hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:36 PM
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I understand what you mean, The RedPill is first and foremost a philosophy, it’s a lifestyle choice, it’s not an ideology with political goals However, there’s an entire award winning political documentary literally called “The Red Pill” which got quite popular and introduced the masses to the concept of the redpill through the men’s rights activists, so it’s easy to see why people would think it’s closely linked to an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:19 PM
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Blackpill is just redpill but with more emphasis on Looks and far less emphasis on game. Redpill: Game > Looks = Status = Wealth Blackpill: Looks >>> Status = Wealth > Game. Bluepill: Personality >>> Anything else In what way is Blackpill closer to bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:06 PM
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Your first example is a woman going on a date with a man she’s never met 1 on 1 before. Your second example is a man who’s been with her wife/girlfriend for years, possibly even gotten married, and had a child together. Very very different situations that are not comparable at all. It would be comparable if the man had a one night stand with a woman and asked for a DNA test. Or if a wife brought pepper spray in case her husband randomly snaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:43 PM
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Hoeflation means men have to pay an ever growing price for worse quality women. Men expect the bare minimum from women because of hoeflation. These two statements directly support each other, not contradict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:39 PM
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Because men are already struggling with dating as is, giving them suggestions that makes dating even harder for them is going to be received poorly. That’s fine, then stop complaining when things don’t go your way Dating is like job interviews, you got to create a CV, write a cover letter, apply online, hope you get an interview, go to the interview, move to the next round, go to the second interview, etc. it’s very one sided and if you make a single mistake you’re out. Your suggestion of “well …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:25 PM
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“Relative to their taller counterparts”
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 06:15 PM
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How does that disprove the study? “Short men are on average fatter and dumber than taller men” You: “That’s BS because I’m average height and smart” what?!? You could have an IQ of 250 and be the most muscular man in the world. The average IQ will still be 100 and the average westerner will still be fat.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 06:11 PM
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Yes. But the study isn’t saying “short men date fat women”. It’s saying “Short men date fatter, dumber, poorer women compared to their taller counterparts”. Which is an entirely different claim.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 04:21 PM
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I mean, most people in America are fat so, yes, technically speaking most short people do date fat chicks.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 03:43 PM
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It did, but at the exact same time it also pointed out how short men themselves were also dumb, fat, and poor relative to their taller counterparts.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 10:56 AM
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I’m more than willing to change my mind on this if you can show even a single example of an upvoted post/comment related to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:05 PM
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Eeh False equivalence. When men are complaining about shitty women dating loser men, they’re almost always talking about women deciding to date a clearly abusive toxic dude. The actual equivalent here would be women dating a kind, caring, compassionate, masculine, muscular, easy to get along with 8/10 man who’s also jobless and messy. Which I’d be willing to bet most terpers would not give a shit about in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:47 PM
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An abusive toxic person who puts others down and blame their problems on everyone else, addicted to drugs/alcohol/smoking, obese, has mental health issues and not getting help for it, etc. Simply being jobless and having no motivation doesn't scream "loser" to me, it's more of a cry for help, especially when OP adds all of the other positive traits such as "kind hearted, feminine, cooperative, in amazing shape (works out?), easy to get along with". I had a male friend of mine in a similar situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:02 PM
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Because she's kind hearted, feminine, cooperative, in shape, easy to get along with, low n count, 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:44 PM
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Give her a chance? Sure, if there’s potential to fix her. However, if I’ve tried to fix her and nothing changes, then I would likely break up with her. So yes, I’d give her a chance, but no I wouldn’t stay with her if it keeps up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:20 PM
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Try not to be shocked while having a bad poker face, and start trying to get hints at how rich she actually is. Then be the best boyfriend she's ever had because if she's a millionaire I don't wanna miss out. If she's not actually rich and just spent what was basically her life savings on a bag, I'd try to educate her on finance and investments, if she cares more about vanity items then she's for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:00 PM
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Was thinking the same thing. If he’s claiming he can do 100lbs per dumbbell for dumbbell chest press for 20+ slow concentric reps. Then fuck me he’s stronger than literally everybody I personally know. If he meant to say 50lbs per dumbbell, so 100lbs in total, then it’s a decent lift, not worth hoping on roids, still plenty of progress to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:52 PM
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I have nothing to go off here beyond that you weigh 190lbs and have higher than 13% bf. But basically in my opinion, I don't think anybody who hasn't at least made it to 3/4th's their natty potential should even consider hopping on a cycle. Because if you can't make good gains while being natty, risking your health for a cycle that you can't maximize the benefit from is a dumb idea. If I have either your; Height, Weight, and estimated BF%, Or Weight and your lifting numbers (weight + reps) Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:06 PM
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First things first, how much progress have you actually made? Because if the reason your stagnating is because you’re not training hard enough, often enough, or have a bad diet, then steroids isn’t fixing that. You’ll make gains but quickly lose them when you hop off the cycle. What’s your weight, and how much do you bench, deadlift, squat?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:34 PM
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This, people really don’t want to admit that, yes, women are just as shallow as men when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:06 PM
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I’m making a point that in my experience, confidence clearly wasn’t the reason she and other women were into me. Confidence doesn’t make women slip into your DM’s or try to forcefully make out with you after you’ve already told her you’re taken. That’s just not what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:41 AM
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Aah yes, that's what made that woman sexually assault me, it was my confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:26 AM
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Ask any fat person who lost weight, they'll all tell you how people started being so much nicer. Confidence has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:15 AM
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Well first things first, this assumes women mean all men, as a collective group, should self improve, in which case you would be right, that doesn't work. >If all men suddenly improved That will never happen, so it's not even something to bother discussing, so you as an individual should self improve so you can attempt to become that top 20% while everyone else stays weak, poor, and fat. >Men are already improving but women don't like it HEAVILY disagree with this, men are not already self impro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:12 AM
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I still find it funny that to this day, some people will still convince themselves that if a guy improves his appearance to make himself look attractive, the reason he started seeing success in dating is because of his newfound confidence, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:52 PM
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Age divided by 2 + 7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:48 PM
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Eeh, agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:26 PM
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I'm just saying don't tell the men you want to fuck "you're like a brother to me" because you'll be sending the wrong message.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:14 PM
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I assume OP wanted men to be aware of their attraction to their male friends. There’s no reason to hide your lack of attraction. This is a response to OP’s third point. Being friends first gives you an opportunity to demonstrate you are safe and trustworthy. A good foundation upon which a romantic connection can be built. Nothing says safe like, ”You’re like a brother to me” The idea here is the woman will feel safe with the man before they become romantically involved. The issue here is in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:59 PM
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Nothing says safe like “You’re like a brother to me” I really hope you haven’t been telling men this, this is an awful thing to say to a man, they’re going to think this is your way of hinting that you don’t like them and see them more as a brother rather than a romantic sexual interest you wish to kiss and fuck. Just say “I feel very safe with you”, that’ll get your message across sooooo much better than calling him your brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:40 PM
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Good deal doesn’t equal most, most just means more than 50%. And I definitely believe more than 50% of healthy weight women look attractive facially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:51 PM
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Young people voting Exit Poll Breakdown Young male votes were evenly split when taking into account PoC. While 63% of young white men voted trump, the vast majority of PoC men voted Harris, evening it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:40 PM
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Yes, that’s pretty substantial by any metric or statistic you use. Especially when we’re talking about a group of 75,700,000 people. 5% of that is 3,785,000 men. Imagine putting 54 football stadiums next to each other and filling all of them with men, that’s how many men that is. For comparison, Harris lost the election with 48.4% of the votes to Trump’s 50%, a 1.6% difference, that 1.6% difference was enough for this to be the worst election for the democrats in 20 years, that 1.6% was consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:24 PM
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Young people voting Exit Poll Breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:30 PM
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50-50 men and women If we’re going there, 55% of men voted for Trump. 60% of white men voted for Trump. In the under 30 category, 63% of white men aged 18-29 voted Trump. Either way it was not 50-50 like you are pretending. Pretty huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:02 PM
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I’m keeping this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:53 PM
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Agree. The logical answer is to disagree, but there’s still a lot we don’t understand about the universe and it’s believed our brains work at the quantum level where physics isn’t as simple as rock hit rock to move rock. ‘Randomness’ also comes into play so it’s not as deterministic as it first seems. Then there’s consciousness, if the brain was truly deterministic then what exactly is the purpose of sapience and consciousness? Why are we ‘here’ and not just biological robots that are pretending…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:53 PM
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I’ve seen comments like these on Twitter, but never in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:36 PM
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What world are you living in? I find most women are attractive at a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:34 PM
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Flowers aren’t going to hurt you my man, sit next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:20 PM
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It basically fixed my life, I started focusing on self improvement after looking into the manosphere and reading redpill/incel stuff. It did kinda ruin the perception of relationships, but all that meant is my idea of relationships was unrealistic to begin with. Nothing ‘triggered’ me into it, I just started browsing one day and stuff started making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:19 PM
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This is why I only linked to 1 example instead of hundreds I could have linked, because I knew it didn't matter what evidence I could possibly give you, you would reject it then start talking about sexless scrooges. The exact second I showed even the tiniest bit of evidence that promotes what I described, you got your list of insults book out and started using it. What could I have possibly presented that would convince you? When presented with evidence why not say "You're mistaken because x, y,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:33 PM
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Lmao, yes, it was my confidence that had a woman sexually assault me. Of course, how did I not realise that. I’m telling you now, my personality did not change, I still am the same old nerdy anime watching video game playing programmer I was years ago, what changed was how people treated me. Ask any fat person who lost weight and they’ll all say the same thing, the moment they lost the weight suddenly people were nicer to them and wanted to talk to them. People who put on weight noticed they sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:27 PM
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At the end of the day, debating is a social skill you need to practice to be good at, and those who study STEM typically aren’t the socially skillful bunch. Collage doesn’t teach social skills, it teaches the subject they’re taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:54 PM
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Gaining knowledge and creating papers and projects with said knowledge (Which is what collage teaches) is an entirely different skill to debating. Someone who's good at debating with manipulative statistics and lying will always win a debate against someone who's awful at debating but knows all the facts. Just look at politians vs scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:57 PM
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Red pill = Spinning plates (aka have multiple casual relationships/Friends with benefits) MGTOW = Avoid women completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:53 PM
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Hanging Leg Raises and Ab Crunches are your new friends. 3 Sets to failure twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:39 PM
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Because it's a choice for her and she can't fathom the possibility that men don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:28 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:04 PM
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How old we talking here? 60 year olds can still have good bodies if they take care of themselves. The issue is most people do not take care of themselves. For example, 50% of Americans after leaving school will never exercise again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:04 PM
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He bought a gun and lied saying he wasn't addicted to drugs when he was (illegal). He was also supposed to pay $1.4m in tax between 2016-2019 which he didn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:59 PM
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I went through my "atheist phase" when I was teenager where I would tell people how silly it was to believe in a god. But nowadays I kind envy these people. To believe there's an afterlife after you die where you get too see everybody again and live in a paradise, I don't want to take that away from people, so if they say they believe in x, y, and z then I'm not going to deny them that beauty. However, if they dismiss evolution or the big bang theory then I'm getting my boxing gloves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:42 PM
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Nobody’s talking about not getting laid. It’s not mentioned anywhere in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 PM
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There's a whole list of psychology and social science papers there for you to read that supports the idea that there's an empathy gap. And your argument is "Well vast majority of guys have never been homeless or raped". Lmao. Talk about lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:24 PM
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Luckily your ideal body can be achieved within 3 years at the gym. Work hard and you'll get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:16 PM
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At the exact same time, students are more like to work hard, more likely to study, and more likely to do their homework when their teachers was more attractive. Classrooms with attractive teachers also 'expected' their classroom to get higher marks than the average classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:06 PM
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A lot of the time women on "My 600lbs life" tend to have boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:56 PM
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>what if an unattractive overweight woman also wants to be found desirable Lose weight, get fit, make yourself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:55 PM
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Incels on the Wikipedia is still labelled as "mostly white men", despite the fact it was likely the most diverse group of men in all of reddit, making up 50% PoC when the website itself is like 20% PoC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:50 PM
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Sorry for the late reply man, just saw this. Back in his younger years I'd say he was a 6/10, these days as an old dude, probably 4/10, he's put a bit of weight on and has a double chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:38 PM
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>the median woman would have a higher match number than the median man after adjusting for the gender ratio I don't know if you're conveniently ignoring information to support your claim, or you're just ignorant. You're forgetting a VERY important tidbit; Men swipe 34 times per day and swipes right on 46% of women. Women only swipe 12 times a day, and swipe right on 8% of men. Women have a 25% success rate on their right swipes Men have a 3.2% success rate on their right swipes. The reason women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:28 PM
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The stereotypes people have are based on the actual few people who they know exist, but the reason they're talked about so much is because their existence completely goes against some arguments people here have. If you just have a tall handsome guy who's also nice and kind, there's nothing controversial about him, he doesn't break any rules. You would expect this guy to have a girlfriend and most of the time he does. If you have an shy ugly nerd but he's also an asshole nobody likes, again there…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:19 PM
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My dating life flipped upside down and went from imposible to get dates to easy to get dates just by changing my appearance, including changing my face (growing/grooming beard, fixing teeth, skincare routine, swapping my glasses for contacts lenses, the right haircut). As well as other stuff like putting on muscle and replacing my wardrobe. My personality and ‘rizz’ didn’t change, I was the exact same person, what changed was how people started viewing me. Suddenly I wasn’t the skinny nerdy base…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:43 PM
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”vibe is just code for appearance”. ”No, vibe is vibe, how you carry yourself, how you’re dressed, how you walk, it can be displayed without ever opening your mouth” So… appearance then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:38 PM
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Everyone cares about looks equally. The biggest difference is men will find 50% of women attractive while women will only find 20% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:27 PM
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Do teenaged girls act rational?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:43 PM
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T makes you confident, not delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:42 PM
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Men ‘overestimate their attractiveness’ because women vote 80% of men as unattractive. If you’re a man and you believe yourself to be more attractive than 70% of other men, you’d rate yourself a 7/10 and be ‘overestimating’ because women will still rate you as a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:36 PM
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Students worked harder when their teachers are attractive and (presumably) get higher grades - https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.1059631/full
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:04 PM
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Here’s a translation guide for you between truerateme and normal people ratings. 5/10 = 5/10 5.5/10 = 6.5/10 6/10 = 8/10 7/10 = 10/10 Nobody gets higher than a 7/10 on those subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:23 AM
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Your skull doesn’t change shape after you’re already fully grown. If mewing does work, it’s only for kids/teenagers growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:18 AM
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Vin Diesel is also a Hollywood multimillionaire. Like I said, very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:00 AM
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I really don’t see this at all. I don’t really know what else to add to this conversation, almost all the couples I personally know in real life are looksmatched, besides one couple that’s an average dude dating an obese woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:57 PM
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For starters, men are typically attracted to women and women are typically attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:11 PM
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This hurt to read… oof…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:08 PM
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Yes, majority of couples match with someone of similar attractiveness. People dating outside of their league does happen, but it’s very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:41 PM
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Then it’s personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:33 PM
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you don’t have to debate me You tagged the post “Debate”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:05 PM
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Without some examples of exactly what these people are saying, this is less of a debate and more of “I think struggling people have bad opinions”. I can’t exactly debate with you why you are right or wrong without knowing what views you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:36 PM
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I believe most people tend to date and marry people of equal attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:12 PM
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Yes. I’d only start being concerned for her if it’s been over a year since she gave birth and she’s lost all desire to stay healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:11 PM
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13/15. Was just missing 3+ sexual encounters and somebody to talk to about problems in life. 28M
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:44 PM
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Depends on your chin/jaw. Got a good jaw? Shortly trimmed, Bad jaw? Hide it under a full beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:40 PM
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Where do I sign up? I’m up for this. The issue here isn’t that men wouldn’t do this (they would), the problem here is that the vast majority of women tend to not want this type of relationship at all. This is supposed to be some sort of gotcha like “See, it sounds bad doesn’t it men” but in actuality quite a lot of men would like this. Have all their bills paid and you just need to take care of the kids, clean the house, stay healthy? Great. 😊 Edit: I like how the argument against this is basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:25 PM
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<image> Nah. I prefer 2018 miss universe, Miss Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:04 PM
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Nice counter argument, man you sure showed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:57 PM
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“Looks don’t matter it’s your personality” “As someone who improved my looks and became attractive, I can say looks matter, dating is easy now” “Look outside!!” “I looked outside and see ugly men are single” “No not like that look at random people” “How does that prove anything” “Omg excuses excuses complain complain no action stay inside and complain” I literally just told you that dating is easy for me, I’m literally telling you how improving my appearance made me more attractive to women, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:35 PM
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Nope. Btw if you find a tall women with a hobbit fetish, let me know <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:43 PM
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Which is why I said it's like the Bible, you pick and choose the stuff you like and ignore the rest, nothing you linked to is based on any actual scientific elements like you claimed earlier. You talked big game about how it's about the truth and what is proven, science, psychology, and how I need to educate myself, then proceed to give me links from the side bar that's essentially just the rambling essays that some random dudes wrote. I also love how the link you gave "Relationships, the Red Pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:20 PM
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I don't know where you looked literally the redpill side bar Understand that she is a child and to treat her like one Teasing your bitches Managing your bitches Women are Teenagers that stop maturing at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:04 PM
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That was an experience, 10/10, 5 stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:53 PM
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That’s redpill, that’s on the redpill side bar. I literally went onto the redpill subreddit to find things in the side bar that you guys talk about so I could reference it for my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:43 PM
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An actual Q&A session Journalist: “What would you be if you weren’t a footballer?” Peter Crouch: “A virgin”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:40 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:47 PM
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I could do that and give you my findings but I know you’ll just go “noo selection bias” or something dumb and just ignore what I find. Plus… what is looking at couples in person going to do? Am I just suppose to walk around until I see a short fat 25 year old with a girlfriend, what am I supposed to do with that information, how does that prove or disprove anything we spoke about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:46 PM
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please educate yourself, the red pill is about the truth, female nature, fields of science Bahahaha Your pill has almost nothing to do with finding the truth or science, it’s a bunch of text written by PUA’s and one bachelor of psychology then stapled together into what we now know is The Red Pill. There was no scientist method involved, no studies done, little to no actual evidence of the things they mention, it’s the ramblings of random people in the manosphere. The only thing I can remember t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:37 PM
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That’s literally all the people I know outside personally. You can’t just look at a random fat guy outside with a wife and kids and think “He’s fat and he’s married so looks don’t matter” because we have 0 context about how they got together in the first place. Plenty of people start off attractive and then let themselves go after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:30 AM
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Bruh, you make it sound like men will suddenly magically become more successful if they suddenly try to attract less women. Where’s the logic behind that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:39 AM
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look outside, look at real people I scrolled through my Facebook friends list and see the same pattern. Men who are a combination of short, fat, bald, foreign dudes are very likely to be single while the men with a combination of tall, muscular, head full of hair, white dudes are getting laid or have a loving relationship. Even my own anecdotal evidence, when I was skinny with bad style, I was practically invisible and women did not care for me. After becoming muscular with good style my dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:37 AM
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Men be swiping right on all women hoping for a single match while women will be like “Ermm, stop trying to date supermodels” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:42 AM
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You didn’t really say anything that goes against looks mattering, just that a boring/bad personality will ruin your chances. If you’re a decent person and can speak to women, that’s like 99% of your personality sorted, if you can’t attract women despite being a decent person that can talk to women then it’s very very very likely that your personality is not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:23 AM
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Don’t need to look 10 years ago, look at any OLD app today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:06 PM
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Everyone has different ideas of how to attract women, even without knowing about the pills a lot of people know muscles and money attract women, that doesn’t make these people redpill. The whole premise of bluepill redpill is a reference to the Matrix, he’s given the option to pick the bluepill and go back to living the fake world, or take the redpill and see the world for what it truly is. To take the bluepill is to know the redpill exists and reject it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:24 PM
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The Redpill sidebar and handbook are pretty much what the Redpill is. Following most of it would make you redpilled. To take the handbook and rip out 9/10 of the pages means you didn’t actually take the red pill, you just dipped your toes in and left with some useful advice. If the only thing you took from it is “Get jacked and get money”, you’re not redpilled. You’re purple pilled at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:15 PM
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For me, working out to get dates was met with getting dates. I went from incel to a dating spree. Surprisingly enough, being fit and healthy is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:11 PM
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Bluepill is just the rejection of the redpill. It’s not the opposite of the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:06 PM
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We’re just supposed to believe the titles of YouTube videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:57 PM
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I mean, the PUA stuff is like the entire point of the red pill. Without the PUA Redpill basically just becomes “If you want to attract women, you need to be successful”. Which I don’t think anybody disagrees with, including bluepillers. Bluepillers hate redpillers not because they don’t want people to make money or go the gym, but because the redpill teaches men to treat women like children, to spin plates, to pass shit tests and neg them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:56 PM
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3-6 months is very long. 1 Month hit's the sweet spot for just long enough to scare away the men who just want sex, but not long enough to make the men you're dating think you don't like or aren't interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:12 PM
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If a man is willing to break up an entire potential long term relationship with a girl who he connects with and has a lot in common with, all because he hasn't had sex within the first 3-4 weeks of dating a girl, he's very likely not worth dating long term anyway. "Why did you break up with her? You said you had a connection and she was everything you was looking for" "She didn't let me sleep with her after 3 weeks" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:50 PM
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This is true, if the guy himself is bad in bed then even she won’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:36 PM
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You’re changing the context, he’s not talking about casually sleeping with women you’ve already pre-established is purely casual. But instead dating women then sleeping with them, then men deciding whether or not they want to continue dating her based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:00 PM
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She’s hinting at red flags. He started having feelings for her, we have no conclusion to this so we can only imagine he asked her out and she rejected him. So after the rejection he distancing himself from her for obvious reasons. Then… something happened between her and this women, and now he’s friends with this woman and not her. It doesn’t sound like he didn’t stick up for her, it sounds like this other woman pointed out something correct that she didn’t like and he was on her side, and now s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:15 PM
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I hate autocorrect and my inability to double check my spellings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:40 PM
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You can’t talk about looks unless it’s in the context of other things like self improvement, gym, skincare, etc. Against the rules. I don’t understand it either but the mods have a chain around our necks and will choke us if we talk about the oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:38 PM
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Oats + Fruit for breakfast every day. Go to in person classes and hangs out with friends weekly, video games are life. 3/4, Good Morning Leosandlattes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:21 PM
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Yup, banned on that subreddit for being in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:10 PM
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Nothing will kill off your natural production of testosterone more than taking steroids, fake or real ones lmao. You dun goofed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:51 PM
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That makes it a good essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:32 PM
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Lower serotonin specifically, which will then lower your testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:32 PM
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Which is irrelevant to the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:00 PM
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That’s not self victimising, that’s just a fact. I have an OLD profile that gets no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:47 PM
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When did I self victimise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:19 PM
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You’re missing quite a lot of context about my life in particular. I’ve been single for 3 months, I’m not exactly putting a lot of effort into trying to meet women IRL asap and jumping into another relationship immediately, not unless I just so happen to bump into someone I want to date. Plus I have family stuff going on at the moment which takes priority. I have a hinge profile that I filled out and use but it’s deader than the Sahara desert. You’re offering suggestions to someone who’s not loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:51 PM
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Yes, any or all of them. We’re kinda getting off topic here and I’m not sure why you’re asking this, are you looking for advice on how to meet men who are looking for a serious long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:17 PM
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Ok, good, he leaves and you can move onto someone who’s serious fairly quickly. Rather than wasting months on end with a guy who wants nothing long term with you but is only with you because he’s having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 PM
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I’m not exactly meeting a lot of single women in my age group every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:26 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking? Platonic love = emotional bond based on friendship, trust, mutual understanding, you enjoy being around them. Romantic love = platonic love but with added physical attraction, sexual desires, and a desire for an intimate partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:46 AM
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We don’t have enough info, OP just said he keeps meeting women who complain about how they can’t find a man who wants something long term. why don’t you do IRL I do, I just haven’t met anyone I’m interested in recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:43 AM
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I never said I don’t or can’t meet women IRL. I do. I’m pointing out /u/mylastbestchance’s flaw that the reason these women can’t seem to find men who want long term relationships is NOT because men only want casual flings. There’s a ton of men on these sites who are clearly looking for something long term. The simple answer is the women who can’t find serious guys are simply not picking serious guys. They’re choosing to be with the men who don’t want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:37 AM
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“Ugly men say they want short term relationships” and “women are chasing chads” can both be true at the same time. There’s also a very very very simply solution to this, don’t match with those absolutely uggo men who are just looking for short term fun. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:09 AM
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Hello, I’m someone who has long term relationship with detailed bio and so on. No, I get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:08 AM
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You’re not Chad. You’re not Alpha. We all have to play with the cards we’re dealt with. Some can dress like a maid and get laid. Others have to put more effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:53 PM
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Wait a while before sleeping with men, if he’s only after casual sex then he’s not going to keep going on dates after a month of waiting. Only someone desperate or looking for a serious relationship would wait. Have actual conversations about expectations, are the men also looking for a serious long term relationship or are they just “seeing where it goes”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:15 PM
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Because they’re all after the same top 20% of men who have easy access to women and the men don’t want to commit either because these women aren’t good enough to commit with or because the men have access to a lot of women that they enjoy the bachelor life more than being in a relationship. Edit: you’d think listening to some women in this thread that all a man would have to do to get a relationship with a woman is to just want a relationship, since it seems like all men just want casual sex whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:08 PM
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Source 1: The study that claimed 6x that got retracted went from 32% down to 6%, in other words 1.125x more - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0022146515595817 Source 2: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ this source claims 20% increase. So from a quick glace 1.3x was a bit high, closer to 1.16x
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:18 PM
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The existence of UFO’s does not mean the existence of aliens. Obama has stated several times he’s seen videos of stuff he can’t explain, that doesn’t mean he’s seeing videos of aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:35 PM
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small minority of women Enough women to the point these women’s comments get upvoted enough for men to constantly see this mindset and start believing women in general are having trouble finding commitment with men they want to commit to, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:55 PM
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black pilled majority of them support Trump, Andrew Tate, red pill coaches You clearly wasn’t black pilled then or knew any of them, they hate these grifters, at most they just find them funny because they make women angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:51 PM
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I never said there wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:38 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/whrBK0QYWW
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:23 PM
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That’s not what I said or claimed. My claim is “Women tell us that men just want sex and won’t commit (in general)”. That doesn’t mean I think men are having mountains of casual sexual and women can’t find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:15 PM
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Your anecdotal evidence is irrelevant when we’re discussing generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:00 PM
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Both can be true. Woman say men just want sex and won’t commit, men will use it as an insult towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:30 PM
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Because it’s women that are constantly telling us how sex is easy but commitment is hard. How all men just want sex but none of them want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:20 PM
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“I wanted Prince Charming but got two abusive relationships who didn’t deserve me, so now I’m sleeping around no strings attached and I’m going on dates with men I don’t like and scaring them away” Man she sounds like a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:19 PM
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Well no. The original myth was “Men are 6 times more likely to get a divorce after their partners cancer diagnosis”. This was wrong, this was a myth from faulty numbers being calculated. The general “men are more likely to leave their sick partners” is on average true. Men are more likely to leave their sick partners than women. Just not 6x the amount like the original study claimed, more like 30% increase chance or 1.3x.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 PM
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Congratulations 🥳 If you start eating at maintenance weight, you’ll notice you’ll put on an extra 1-2lbs, don’t worry about it, this is just water weight being added back to your body that you lost from being on a diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:56 PM
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Did you send those x pictures through one of those self destruct messages and he screenshotted it? If so… oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:37 PM
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My ex did that to me and I thought it was cute. NTA. Definitely a red herring, would be weird to destroy an otherwise good relationship because of a few screenshots from R rated video calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:10 PM
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I did a lot of research into this before I ended up cancelling my appointment. First things first, LASIK is a cosmetic surgery, and as such has no legal protections like other types of surgeries. They are not doctors, they are not ran by the healthcare industry, they are a for profit organisation looking for your money, and with that out of the way. The “LASIK is 99% effective and has a 96% satisfactory rate” studies are paid for by the LASIK companies and the survey is taken almost directly aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:32 PM
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Understood, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:57 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:36 PM
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I’ve been having this conversation for years with the mods, my definition of Blackpill and the mods definition of Blackpill are essentially two entirely different things and they will never budge on it. Their definition is all about defeatism, nihilism, how it promotes deadend thinking where you can’t do anything and just rot in your room. Mine is about self improvement, being the best of yourself, putting a solid effort into your appearance to improve your life in more ways than one. Eat health…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:43 PM
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Blackpill just means looks matter far more than people think. There’s a whole website of blackpillers that’s just dedicated to looksmaxxing that’s more popular than the incel websites. It’s not defeatist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:45 PM
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Come on man, you know people on askmen would not be able to get away with some of the stuff women on TwoX post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:24 AM
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he subscribes to antisemitic conspiracy theories That’s a weird way to say he denies the holocaust ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:31 PM
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No one, but that’s not his point. A lot of people assume dadbod = chubby guy, in reality it means muscular dude with 20% bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:28 PM
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Watching the 4b movement complain about how their Wikipedia page is being filled with fake information about their movement to discredit them. I’m getting a sense or euphoria seeing it happen from the opposite side for once 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:01 PM
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Google the word assumption and a few examples of “under the assumption”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:21 AM
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This is all under the assumption of the sentence you quoted, it’s easy for “anyone willing to put in the work”. If you are a person willing to put in the work, then doing those things requires just following a simple step by step guide. If you are not willing to put in the work then of course it’s going to be hard for them. I’m not denying that actually doing those things for years on end is hard. I’m saying under the assumption that we’re talking about someone who is indeed willing to put in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:03 AM
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There’s a ton of reasons why people don’t do it, but none of them is because it’s a hard thing to do, the biggest reason people don’t do it is because they want to spend that money on other things. Let’s use another example. Assuming you’re not an alcoholic, not drinking alcohol is easy thing to do, it’s healthy, you can save a ton of money, you don’t get a hangover, a bunch of other benefits. All you need to do is not put it in your mouth. Yet 2 billion people globally drink it. It’s not becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:08 PM
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Good face + average body
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:12 PM
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This, who cares about average penis size if you never use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 10:04 PM
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Is investing a bit of money into stocks every month for 35 years hard or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:54 PM
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Yes I agree, which is why I used it as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:49 PM
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“Anyone willing to put in the work” is the big caveat here. The actual step by step process to getting big is very very straight forward. Go gym, follow routine for 1 hour, go home, eat this much food and this much protein, sleep 8 hours, repeat for 2-5 years. Actually going out and doing all of that every day for 5 years straight is hard for a lot of people, hence why I added the sentence “willing to put in the work”. Compared to say, being a millionaire, which has no easy to follow step by ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:56 PM
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It’s pretty easy to larp as a dude, most people automatically assume you’re a dude unless stated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:27 PM
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I hate being paraded around like a zoo animal for companies to feel good about themselves and how not racist they are for hiring me because of the immutable traits I was born with. I hate how my mate missed out on a chance to work at BBC because they rejected him for being a white man, and it was perfectly legal because of the equality act.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:50 PM
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Moot point. Take a random selection of 1 in 3 women and you’ll find a lot of high quality women in that selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:40 PM
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We have very different definitions of ‘losing’. No one person can attract everybody. It’s just not possible. And that genuinely does not matter. If he can attract 1 in 3 women then that to me is the definition of winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:23 PM
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As a minority. Yes it’s racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:10 PM
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The difference is for every girl who says “He’s hot until he opened his mouth” there’s a girl who’s saying “he’s hot and funny”. He’s still getting laid. And if he wasn’t hot, he would neither be “Hot until he opened his mouth” nor “hot and funny”. He would just be that guy she met once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:09 PM
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Clothes and grooming are a part of looks. So I’m going to just assume Bill is styling similar to Allen for this example. I know an Allen IRL, and his girlfriend isn’t anything special, they’re looksmatched. This Allen would pull girls that are also outgoing and adventurous. Bill will meet less women and have less choices, but he could pull a similar looking girl if he tried but because of his lifestyle he will meet less women in general and will probably settle with a 3 or 4/10. It’s rare to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:01 PM
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I think the difference is when you try to ship that raw milk out across the country and it’s been sitting in bottles for days. What’s the longest you go before throwing out raw milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:51 PM
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6’ is the perfect female height. As a 5’7 guy I will not explain myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:56 PM
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Tom Holland, Danial Radcliff, Zac Efron before 2017, Ryan Gosling in crazy stupid love, Robert Patterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:02 PM
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I realise the vast majority of them are roided. But it’s kinda a moot point, we’re talking about the most attractive physiques being achievable natty, my point is you can each peak attractiveness natty, the fact Henry Canvil is on the juice isn’t really relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:34 PM
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I mean, you’re almost there already, less than half a plate to go. I genuinely wholeheartedly believe most natty men could hit 3 plates for 1 rep if they really went for it while having 15% bf, it just requires strict schedule and dieting. That’s currently what I’m striving for so I’m going on a bulk for winter. But anyway we’re getting off topic. My point is the most attractive muscular physique a man can get for women is easily achievable natty, and the more muscular you get past that point, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 PM
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Do I just not exist?!? If you have the muscle, then all you need to do is cut the fat and you’re at 12%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:16 PM
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2.5 plates is easily achievable natty to anyone willing to put the work in. It could take 5+ years but exercise is a lifelong commitment anyway so there’s no rush. Steroids get you there faster, but come with a bunch of consequences. It’s genuinely not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:07 PM
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Well this is assuming you can bench 2.5 plates and are down to 12% body fat. You don’t need steroids to be lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:51 PM
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The future is here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:26 PM
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Having sex with a man. Vast majority of women will not even consider dating you if they knew you slept with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:23 PM
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White women were already shitting on non white men, the only difference is they’re not as subtle about it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:21 PM
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Nah, you don’t need steroids to maximise your attractiveness with muscles, most women aren’t into the whole roided look compared to just having a decent set of muscles. Steroids will help you get there faster, but add in all the negative side effects and it’s just not worth it. Unless you want to compete in some sport or bodybuilding, it’s just not worth it. If you can already bench 2.5 plates, then steroids isn’t going to make women fall for you anymore than they were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:20 PM
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Evolution and biology. Think back to tribal times. Women are generally the weaker slower gender, and as such as far more vulnerable to being attacked by animals and other people. They’re also the ones who get pregnant, and as such become even weaker, slower, and generally far more vulnerable than they even were before. The only solution to this is to have someone there who’ll take care and protect her while she’s in this vulnerable state. Men are faster, stronger, and do not get pregnant, and as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:56 PM
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The vast majority of people do not care about the fact she’s a woman or could become the first female president.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:50 PM
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When you say “off your body” what exactly do you mean? I like my mates gym progress pictures, doesn’t mean I want to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:47 PM
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Both can be true at the same time. Normal guys can have creepy behaviour. I don’t know anybody who would deny this. At the same time ugly guys can do all the right things and still be labeled creepy. There’s no contradiction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:41 PM
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There’s also like 20 million more people who can vote because the population has increased than 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:39 PM
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Like the other guy said, almost all conservative subreddits got banned so the conservatives left. Including /r/donaldtrump and /r/the_donald I remember I used to browse a subreddit called /r/chadright, it was a self improvement sub filled with Chad memes that leaned socially right, as a leftist myself I still loved it. It got banned for advocating Nazism and violence against minorities? As a minority myself I saw none of that, It was simply got banned because it was right wing. Tons of these kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:30 PM
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Probably stuff like “gym” “fitness” “hiking” “gymnastics”, any sort of activity that is heavily biased towards fit and healthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:14 PM
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When you say ‘dating apps’, what one are you using? Tinder and Bumble? Yes they’re going to be full of dudes who want something casual. They’re the most casual dating apps on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:38 PM
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The closest you’ll find is the removing of all diversity related stuff, which would in a way help straight white men get jobs. Beyond that, nothing really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:36 PM
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Immigration Wants to start the largest mass deportation program in US history. To remove all undocumented and illegal migrants from the country. And limiting migration in general. Abortion He’s not going to touch Roe v Wade, he’s leaving abortion rights to the state. Taxes Scrapping any taxes for the rich the dems tried to put in place, and scrapping the inflation reduction act. Tips, social security, and overtime wages will not be taxed. Tariffs Tariffs of 10% ~ 20% on foreign goods, possibly e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:32 PM
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While you can grow your shoulders, the actual maximum width you could achieve is mostly down to your genetics. You either have broad shoulders or you don’t. You can train your back though and have a muscular back, that just requires training.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:18 AM
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This is one of those things I facepalm at. Most men who say this don’t know what no makeup actually looks like. They see the difference between a woman wearing heavy makeup vs natural makeup and think “See, no makeup up looks good!”. What they actually mean is “I don’t like women with heavy makeup”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:03 PM
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Trump, 78 years old, too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:35 PM
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And young men were brainwashed by the right wing which caused Trump to win lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:38 PM
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A strong innate desire to have casual hookups with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:16 PM
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Usually I just keep to myself at the gym, and these two teenagers were going on about girls and stuff, I mostly just ignored it. That was until I randomly heard one of them say “The worst part about it is she has a body count of 4”. Lmao I wasn’t expecting to hear that. Woke me right up and I just started eavesdropping into their conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:37 PM
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Thought the same thing, left work at 5:30 and thinking it’s literally pitch black outside. Daylight savings needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:18 PM
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I don’t know what you want from me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:29 PM
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”Can I see?” shows you ”You can’t trust the internet” ”You can try it yourself for free” ”No I won’t” Lmao I don’t know what you want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:11 PM
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It also costs absolutely nothing but your own time to test it out for yourself. Download tinder, upload a topless ripped body photo and start swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:00 PM
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Are you suggesting OP just… went on the internet and lied? Don’t be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:57 PM
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I have no idea what you said. Him having a nice face is irrelevant, in the comments he mentioned how in the picture of just his body he didn’t have a picture of his face, yet got 3x the matches his normal profile got. His normal profile with his face got 3 times less likes than the profile of just his torso and no face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 PM
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Here’s one - https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/LgBcB7BChA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:11 PM
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Saasass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:10 PM
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It’s extra evidence that adds to their theory. In the same way a scientist would find predictors killing pray and adds that evidence to their theory of evolution. The fact that it’s sad that an animal got killed in the process (or in this case, a man is slowly losing his marriage) isn’t really relevant. Evidence is evidence regardless of how sad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:10 PM
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a couple of bad experiences Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:45 PM
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It’s a win for the Redpill men. Another example about how opening up to women backfires hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:44 PM
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To start off, weighing 600lbs is far more effort than not weighing 600lbs. In more ways than one. If you don’t have much of an appetite then you’re not going to put on weight, effort has nothing to do with it. could he improve himself Specifically in terms of facial aesthetics I genuinely don’t know what he could do to improve it. Pretty much the perfect face. In terms of developing muscles and changing personality, yes he could easily improve in those areas. But he doesn’t really have the drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:54 PM
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You’re writing far too much and saying nothing at the same time, just focus on the point at hand. In order for a man to be desired or wanted, a man will inevitably need to put forth effort And I just gave you an example of a man who doesn’t. So no it’s not ‘inevitable’. That’s all my point was about. Of course I understand putting in effort into these different traits makes you more attractive, and I say this as an ambitious muscular low bf% man myself. I was focusing your idea that men need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:28 PM
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You’re writing far too much and saying nothing at the same time, just focus on the point at hand. a man will inevitably need to put forth effort And I just gave you an example of a man who doesn’t. So no it’s not ‘inevitable’. That’s all my point was about. Of course I understand putting in effort into these different traits makes you more attractive, I say this as an ambitious muscular low bf% man. I was focusing your idea that men need to put in effort, that’s all my focus was about, and I’m u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:26 PM
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Pretty much. It’s why in the live action remake they made her into an inventor because they didn’t want to glorify her being a NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:13 PM
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It’s actually extremely relevant considering what you’ve been saying, i quote “A males genetic potential can only be achieved through willpower/effort/energy and that is the formula to being desirable/aesthetically pleasing/attractive as a male*” “This inherently proves that women see and rate and desire men for the effort and will power and energy expended far more than just genetics While genetics can negatively impact your success. Having good genetics in of itself will not positively impact …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:53 PM
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I mean, I literally know a tall male model looking dude who does nothing except work then goes home to play video games. Sure if he weighed 600lbs he wouldn’t look like a male model, but he’s not exactly using any effort/energy/will power to not be 600lbs, he just eats when he’s hungry and doesn’t when he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:27 PM
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This is going to sound weird to say, but I’ve been personally aquatinted with a couple. He was the opposite of what you described, a loser with no charisma and no confidence, he had plenty of red flags but from the few times I met him I never pictured him as a physical abuser type. Regardless she was physically assaulted by this guy. The same night it happened she immediately left, called the police, and pressed charges on him, turns out he also beat his other ex girlfriends and they all came fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:20 PM
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No. Do you think the multimillionaire greatest person of (game) of all time could be a virgin in any game? He’s never had a girlfriend but that doesn’t mean he hasn’t had side action.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:57 PM
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Because he has a six pack and doesn’t get laid, I would assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:40 PM
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Yup, we have stats for percentage of men who get sex regularly and it’s not terrible, 70% of young men are having sex on at least a monthly basis despite over half of them being single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:32 PM
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Here’s one - https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/C8erI89JwP There’s not much to “read up” on per say, it wasn’t a full scientific experiment, it would just be a bunch of men posting ripped body tinder profiles with tons of matches. Most came from the looksmaxxing forums which I can’t link to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:51 AM
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You don’t. I’ve seen multiple tinder experiments done where men just but their ripped body in their tinder profile (no face) and still got matches. There’s a fetish for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:07 AM
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What they say is irrelevant to what the women believe. They already said he was a millionaire which indirectly meant by dating him you never need to work another day in your life, but they still wasn’t interested in the slightest, they didn’t hesitate to say no because he’s short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 PM
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This isn’t Blackpill, some girls cheating on their partners has literally nothing to do with Blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:46 PM
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The majority of the reason is simply women who are 29 and younger are dating 30+ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:44 PM
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Do you truly believe they would have picked the short guy if they said “he’s altruistic and caring and volunteers at the local orphanage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:32 PM
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No word of a lie, you literally described me except with straight hair. I have literally been called a professor by women at a party once when I wore my black turtleneck and glasses. My type is smart, fit, stays active, ‘girly’, bit nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:00 PM
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I don’t care how or where Flat earthers got their views from, but I will argue that their views are flawed. I don’t care that they got it from the internet, but I will tell them that whatever it was that gave them that view is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:37 PM
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What? I literally do not care where you formed your opinions from, you are completely irrelevant to my point. Your example of talking to men and them replying “ya they’re weirdos” and using that as some sort of proof is flawed, as I’m trying to tell that me, as well as several male friends I personally know, have been the man in that exact same conversation and replied in the exact same way while secretly having the opposite opinions. You cannot use what men have personally told you as proof tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:00 PM
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You being opinionated means nothing. If men have opinions they don’t want to share, they just won’t share them, they’ll either just nod and agree with you, or disagree but share a much milder opinion than the one he actually believes in. Who said it’s just the one thing? He could have given you a whole host of lies, that’s my point, I’m close friends with multiple women and are friends with a bunch more. Not a single one of them would have ever believed I posted, and in a way still post in incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:36 PM
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the guys I know IRL never say bad things I could literally be your friend IRL and you would never know because I don’t walk around talking about this kind of stuff. As a short dude who is also sexually successful, I’ve also had these exact same conversations in real life with other women and have responded the exact same way. Meanwhile in reality I’m a blackpiller who regularly visits these types of places with those types of talking points. Fun fact, what those guys said is literally what redpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:18 PM
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I mean, she’s not wrong, most men don’t have the discipline to work out and stick to it. That’s just a fact and why most men are overweight/obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:36 PM
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You can take Lilith’s entire post and use it against women’s profiles too, Lilith is complaining about how men don’t show off their hobbies/interests, don’t make it funny, have empty profiles that don’t tell us anything. That’s my point, women have the exact same issues with their profiles, women aren’t magically any better in this regard. They aren’t taking better selfies, and no, selfies aren’t only meant to just show off your face, you can have selfies where you’re on the edge and something i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:31 PM
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No, the vast majority of these selfies is just her face with little or nothing going on with her or the background. If anything interesting was happening in the selfie I would have mentioned it (like a selfie overlooking a city or a selfie of her and her friends playing a sport).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:01 PM
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Average looking dudes can fix this by working out and having a body that makes this work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:57 PM
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They absolutely do not, I’ll open Hinge now and tell you exactly what I find. • Picture of two people walking at a distance, don’t know which one she is or their faces, picture of her far away in some ruins, selfie, selfie, selfie, picture of her and some guy • picture of 3 girls in an elevator (again I don’t know which one she is), mirror selfie, picture in front of white wall, mirror selfie, selfie with cat • Selfie, picture of her in front of big city, selfie, a video of a concert? Selfie, se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:53 PM
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You hear a lot of women here saying “Ew we don’t want to see your half naked gym pic” meanwhile the guys will say “When I put my half naked gym pic I started getting a ton of matches”. Women really don’t know what other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:42 PM
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I recommend watching Dr. Mike’s recent video on the subject - https://youtu.be/AJcc2xFRm74, while the video as a whole is about ‘roid rage’, he goes into depth about the ways it effects your mental status, including as you mentioned an increase in confidence like your Ego’s been set to 11/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:13 AM
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The reason I say this is because it’s recommended to get close to your natty limit first before even considering going on gear. You’re still young, you’re barely reached halfway to your natty limit, you’ve got high test, I just don’t understand why you would want to do permanent damage to your body now just for the sake of faster progress when you haven’t even seen what your own natural body is capable of. And i’m also completely unsure about what you mean by mental benefits, steroids has a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:56 AM
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Ya I know women like this, she wasn’t actually into you, but was afraid of being “single” and alone. So she’d rather string along anybody rather than deal with the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:59 AM
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Most men don’t struggle (seeing as 65% - 70% of young men 18-25 are having sex at least once a month). But that doesn’t mean they’re getting in and out of relationships and dates left and right. Those are two different statements. Most young men are not currently struggling. True, most young men are having sex. That does not mean they are jumping in and out of relationships and getting dates left and right. It could take several months to a year for a young man to find a new partner after a brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:57 AM
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There was no actual lie detector, it had nothing to do with the results, they literally just hooked her up to one and she verbally said a different number out of fear of being caught in a lie. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jfikn8/womens_reported_sexual_partner_count_dramatically/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:47 AM
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We have multiple studies that show everyone lies about their body count. Women will reduce their numbers while men will increase it. There’s even studies where women will actually increase their body count after being hooked up to a lie detector/polygraph. Indicating that they weren’t being completely truthful to the researches beforehand when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:27 AM
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You start using the app, and the first time you use it, you use it seriously, you look at all her pictures, read the bios, and based on that figure out if she seems like a good fit, is so, swipe right, if not, swipe left. You do this for the first couple of days, but you quickly realise nothing is happening, you’re getting no matches, you’re not even getting likes, and using this app is taking up a bit of time, so you start swiping faster, you just look at her pictures and decide based on that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:21 AM
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I’m with the other dude. I’m blackpilled, I’ve had multiple relationships and slept with multiple women. It’s just an idea on how heterosexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:09 AM
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I hope that’s KG you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:00 AM
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How would the invaders be able to conquer when their own country is also in shambles?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:30 PM
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>Gym and getting in shape was about physical capability first, as it was pro-masculinity. It’s also a metric of character. The looks stuff came after I don't buy it, there are many many many other ways achieve those things, regular sports like football, american football, basketball, rugby, baseball, other exercises like running/jogging, boxing, mma, etc. Plenty of ways to get fit, healthy, and strong. If it was just about that physical capability, pro-masculinity, and metric of character, any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:45 PM
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You can have that dumb stuff banned (woe is me, Chad doesn’t need to… Chad gets away with it, dancing monkey, cucked, etc). The thing I’m always confused about on this sub is that you can’t talk about the importance of looks, especially considering it’s one of the 4 fundamentals of Redpil (Looks, Wealth, Status, Game). Even in The Redpill Handbook, going to the gym and getting in shape is literally the first thing on the list of priorities a man should focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:05 AM
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There’s a gay man with an n count of 200 skewing the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:37 PM
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I doubt it, maybe it’s just because I’m in a liberal city with little religious influence in the UK, but the vast vast majority of women I both know and have dated are the type to sleep with their guy within a few weeks. The only two women I know who didn’t do this was an Iranian woman and a ‘demisexual’ who only felt comfortable kissing someone after several dates. Literally everybody else one night stands or after a few weeks of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:23 PM
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Yes. It’s just a tooth and she’ll likely get it fixed in the near future, so now she’s a 9 without a missing tooth and you’re banging her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:21 PM
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Have a browse of the tinder weekly thread on /r/tinder, you’ll find countless profiles of men with decent pics and decent bios struggling to find any matches. It’s easy to think men aren’t try when you’re browsing Tinder and seeing 100’s of men with bland boring profiles, but even the decent profiles with decent bios will get 0 matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:57 PM
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my main issue with online dating is that I have to swipe left on people based on their profile Man i’m sorry, I misunderstood you this entire time. That is a big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:37 PM
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Either it’s an issue or it isn’t an issue. If you’ve never matched with these men then how is it an issue? How did it become your main issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:06 PM
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Don’t match with them then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:56 PM
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I think men and women in this thread have a very different definition of “safe option” What women hear: Loyal, honest, caring, cooks, cleans, has a good job, nice house, never worry about being cheated on, he’s safe ☺️ What men hear: She only wants his money, she wouldn’t have even cared about him if he didn’t have a good job and a nice house. She wouldn’t have even looked at him when they were 21 and in uni, but now that he actually has stuff she wants him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:19 PM
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As someone who was considered “extremely gifted”, “genius”, and is probably autistic although never diagnosed, I’ll try to answer. For some context I was also disruptive at his age but mellowed out after a few years but can’t guarantee that of your kid. First things first, his social skills is going to be the most important thing he needs to develop, get him into any social club outside of school, preferably some sort of sport for the exercise, football, basketball, jujitsu, anywhere that’ll get…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:43 PM
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Porn is cheating if your partner thinks porn is cheating. If you can’t both agree that porn isn’t cheating then the relationship won’t work. You have to think from the perspective of someone who doesn’t watch porn. If kissing another girl is considered cheating, then how is watching that same girl get fucked in the ass as you masturbate over her not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:50 PM
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Prostitutes are illegal in many countries. Also prostitutes are just luxury masturbation. It doesn’t solve a lack of intimacy and feeling of being wanted and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:22 PM
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That didn’t answer my question. How many people have successfully sued paramedics for doing CPR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:48 PM
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Sex is a natural part of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:47 PM
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Prostitutes are illegal in many countries. Also prostitutes is just luxury masturbation. It doesn’t solve a lack of intimacy and feeling of being wanted and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:42 PM
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sued paramedics for doing CPR And how many of these were successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:37 PM
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I’ll start taking these kind of hot takes more seriously when governments aren’t spending actual trillions of dollars on the military per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:35 PM
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incredibly rare Come to the uk, they’re in the vast majority of men’s toilets at bars/clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:11 PM
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I mean, the post literally says you can only choose two, and I can point towards 1000’s of rich men who are ugly. Being rich doesn’t automatically mean they’ll put effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:19 PM
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So your comment is about 0.0001% of men? I have no idea what JDBF even is, I googled it and it came up with a framework for programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:17 PM
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he looks less like a douche You basically did the meme but in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:47 PM
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Then my original comment stands, I understood your point and your point is flawed. Men in general are not excluding women because they’re a feminist or because they’ve had casual sex or they’re career oriented or post wall or high n count etc. If you’re a career driven unfeminine feminist who’s had plenty of casual sex and a high n count and has been alpha widowed, there’s still millions upon millions upon millions of men who’ll date you, it’s literally a none issue. Individual men on an individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:11 PM
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What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:02 PM
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The hurricane being an inside job by the dems is the absolute dumbest thing I have ever heard. It’s obviously just bots trying to create engagement for the sake of engagement and people are falling for it hook line and sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:56 PM
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That account Posts in Polyamory, met her ‘soulmate’, suddenly has low libedo after being with them, oof
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:33 PM
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That’s not a brag, that’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:30 PM
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In general, if you’re a woman and want to date, not being fat is the biggest advantage you could have going for you compared to the average woman, who is fat. Almost everything else on your list (besides single mom) doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:38 AM
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Skibbidi Gyat FR they/them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:12 AM
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There’s no strict definition of pink pill and there never has been, it’s only concrete definition is that it’s not blue pill and may reject blue pill. But it absolutely was created and adopted by femcels first way back during the incels/femcels subreddits era, and slowly spread out from there. People have their own different headcanons of what pink pill means but it essentially doesn’t mean anything beyond women wanted a pill for themselves and they like pink girly things so pink pill. If there …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:37 PM
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I know a few that have admitted to dating old men if they were millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:13 PM
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Absolute echo chamber of a subreddit. We barely have any context as to what happened. And people are telling her that she should be mad at her husband because his friends didn’t have a conversation with her. If everybody is struggling to talk to her (yet has no issue talking to the other married woman at the table) isn’t that a sign that she might be doing something wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:10 PM
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Kinda, it’s the femcels option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:59 PM
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Pink Pill is opposition to the blue pill and against generic blue pill platitudes like “just be yourself” and “it’ll happen before you know it”, usually adopted and used by femcels. But beyond that has no strict definition and women who like the colour pink will use it because, pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:16 PM
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I don’t believe it does but I’ll regurgitate what I’ve heard others try to claim. The biggest one is the dismantling of gender norms and the patriarchy. This idea we have that men need to be the breadwinners of the relationship and men need to be strong tough one that carries the relationship. By dismantling the gender norms men will no longer feel the need to ‘man up’, can cry, and can be their true selves without judgement. In reality even feminists also want masculine men so none of that real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:29 PM
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The hardest part of online dating is getting matches in the first place and setting up dates. None of his points really address this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:50 PM
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Access to sex and intimacy is better than no access to sex and intimacy. To many men a bad relationship is better than no relationship. So this these men, dating > relationship > single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:32 PM
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Benefits include: Intimacy, sex, little to no commitment to her specifically. Hassles include: Monogamy, inability to date other people, being ‘serious’ with someone you don’t feel serious with, she’s more likely to fall in love which makes breaking up even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:30 PM
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“you can’t have those things without hugs and kisses, so it’s hugs and kisses”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:05 PM
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The difference is while you are respected more now, you’re probably also not seen as nice as you were when you were younger because now you’ve got the balls to stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:19 PM
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Honestly I’m not entirely sure what you’re trying to say. My point is you can’t be seen as kind while also be seen as assertive, confident, and authoritative at the same time. Either you’re kind and keep your opinions to yourself (and thus are seen as timid / yes man), or you’re confident, assertive, and let people know you disagree with their steadfast values, in which case you wouldn’t be seen as kind and gentle. How often do you see kind politicians, politicians have to be argumentative and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:16 PM
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I mean, did you not play any sports with your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:51 PM
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For the very simple fact that those men think they’ll have more in common with their son than their daughters, and will enjoy their company more. A masculine man who loves sports will try and raise their son to love sports so they can watch and play sports together and do other masculine stuff. He may also think his daughter won’t like sports or the other masculine stuff and thus won’t have as much in common with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:36 PM
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“So you don’t care if 10 years olds are forced to give birth?!?” The kind, thoughtful, generous man: “I don’t want to engage in this conversation”. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:22 PM
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Greedy parasites? No. Superficial, materialistic, and hedonistic, yes. Not just in humans but the vast majority of animals on the planet. Sperm is plentiful, eggs and pregnancy are limited, so evolutionary and biologically speaking you’ll want to want to mate with a high value partner who has plenty of resources so your offspring has the highest chances of reaching to adulthood and reproduce themselves. The most common mating strategy in all of the animal kingdom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:21 PM
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Because in some sense they’re both the same thing. If someone has a controversial world view completely contradictory to your own and you protest against it, how can you be seen as thoughtful, kind, and courteous to that person? Take abortion for example, two people debating about abortion to each other won’t likely ever see each other as kind and thoughtful, hell they may even see each other as evil. What would a kind, thoughtful, and courteous person say? They could probably only stay kind and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:52 PM
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That didn’t really answer anything. So you didn’t know this guy, you talked to him without meeting him, you liked his personality, you met him, he asked you out, you started dating, then you found him cuter after dating. What has any of this got to do with OP’s topic about how nice guys can’t get girlfriends because of their bad personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:07 PM
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OP is describing ‘nice guys’ who is met with “I don’t want to ruin our friendship” when asking women out. You’re talking about how your cute boyfriend asked you out, got into a relationship, and became cuter once you got to know his personality. I don’t understand what your argument is here? What do your boyfriend and OP’s nice guy have in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:36 PM
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You said he was cute and you started dating him before he started showing off his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:34 AM
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Cheap rent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:40 PM
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That was just an extreme example. The vast majority of women will not need to go less than 1200 calories in order to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:51 PM
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True, but this isn’t gender specific, even I have those moments, the answer is to reduce calories further. BMR calculators are only an estimation and can vary from person to person by hundreds of calories in either direction. It could claim your BMR is 1600 calories but in actuality it could be 1400 calories and thus you need to reduce your intake further.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:18 PM
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Proportionally it’s the same. If you’re comparing yourself to a 250lbs man who’s losing 8lbs a month, then yes at a glance it seems like he’s losing more weight since he lost 50lbs in 6 months. But proportionally it would be the same as a woman starting out at 137lbs and dropping to 110lbs after 6 months losing only 27lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:11 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:29 PM
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Nothing changes. You find your daily calorie maintenance and then eat below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:28 PM
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Real life conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:03 PM
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Nothing makes me lose respect in a woman more than when she blames her entire gender for her inability to lose weight. Some woman will say how she wants to lose weight, and I’ll teach her about calories in calories out and how I keep track of my calories every day to either lose or gain weight and how I can teach her to do the same, only to be met with “It’s not that simple it’s different for women!!” 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:32 PM
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7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:12 PM
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The other guy answered it perfectly and I agree, it’s hard to not feel ashamed of even liking women when you liking women is constantly making women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:01 PM
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That’s not normal, there’s a reason people differentiate “making love” and “fucking”, they’re different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:57 PM
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Hahahaha, man thinks his genetics is king when he’s as light as a feather and floats like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:53 PM
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why are they too vocal about it online Because they can’t be in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:01 AM
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