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| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Exercising is healthy, and it's also enjoyable. That's why everyone should do it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 06:01 PM |
| 3 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Some girls just like good looking men. But truth is that most girls will feel attracted to men who know their shit. You might not believe it but it's the truth. It is difficult to accept it, because otherwise you could accept being rejected because it depends on something you don't control so you are not responsible of that. The truth is that to become the most attractive man in the room you don't need to do exercise. It helps, I'm not saying otherwise, but you don't need it. Really. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 09:58 PM |
| 5 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...But that is the whole point... because when a girl rejects you just 10 seconds (sometimes 1 second) after she meets you, she cannot be rejecting you because she doesn't know you at all. This PUA stuff lets both of us (girl and guy) to have a chance of actually getting to know each other. But of course just as if you don't know anything she will reject the interaction (not you), if you know what you are doing she will probably accept the interaction. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [fr] my very first attempt for a cold approachOh no, they are told they are gorgeous, multiple times. It's just that those who do are normally "players". | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 04:39 PM |
| 2 | She never texts me first but when I text her, she texts back right away. What does this mean?Text her, she answers, then call her and meet. It's much better in person than through text, but it's also better for her to hear your voice than just read your text. Subcommunication is the key. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 08:18 PM |
| 30 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveExactly, they do like doctors or whatever, but that is not important. OP is a girl and as such she has a bias. For example, when girls say that they reaally want a guy who understands them and that treats them well, what she is actually meaning is that she wants the guy that she already thinks it's hot (but for other completely unrelated reasons) to speak to her and take care of her etc... It doesn't tell us at all how to become attractive, it tells us the way she wants attractive men to treat h… | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 05:27 PM |
| 12 | What does it mean if a girl asks to come with her on a girls' night?Flirt. A lot. But with other women apart from her and her friends. Then she'll try to seduce you. It's a difficult task but if you do this she'll go crazy all over you. | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 04:38 PM |
| 4 | I just really prefer being alone - and it's an issueThe thing is, many people are not that interesting. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all?I have a friend with a terrible stutter. He's got a hot and intelligent girlfriend, I'm actually quite jealous at him! Just don't pay any attention to your stutter at all! | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 10:48 PM |
| 6 | Don't let the game define youThat mindset is going to make you fail. You basically are saying that you can only do something if you don't know how it internally works, if you only know it by instinct. That's not true, actually. It's false for rocket science, it's false for pickup stuff. Sure, you need to test things in field, you need to learn in field, and you don't actually think of any theory while in field, but after that, you can analize things and learn and so on, of course you can. | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 07:15 PM |
| 3 | How I get 3 to 5 girls numbers every dayYou should get more than one number (if you can) anyway. It makes you more relaxed, as then you enter an abundace mentality, knowing that if your interaction with her sucks, you still have other girls to play with. | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 07:31 AM |
| 5 | get out there, be awesomeWatch the blueprint decoded and rsdnation stuff. Looks don't matter at all, it's ALL in your head. Okay, maybe 2% of the women would never do you, but the rest? yeah, because LOOKS DON'T MATTER. Watch this: http://vimeo.com/70654723 http://vimeo.com/51343151 http://vimeo.com/51391104 http://www.youtube.com/user/julienfreetour http://www.youtube.com/user/RSDTyler | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Girls are actually nicer than they look.She's just saying that your words, your actions and body language should point to the same direction. That's not being sketchy! | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 08:17 AM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Exactly. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 06:25 AM |
| 2 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!It's a shit test. She's trying to know if you are "one of those" guys that think she is the price. Or maybe she just wants a drink. The thing is, if she really likes you, she will not find it a problem if, as publichumiliation said, you answer "Fine, but first round's on you." Actually, she will find that attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 05:47 AM |
| 13 | [FR] How I busted my way out of the friendzoneShe's actually not much of a douchebag, she's just human. You can fight it, for sure, but it's human nature. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 05:24 PM |
| 1 | A Rant on OneitusWell, there's some truth to that, but I see it in other way, sex with her is not important for me, it's just some kind of intimacy. I'm open to that if it feels right in that moment but we already are intimate friends. She's just a close friend, almost family. And that's the thing, lovers, girlfriends can come and go but I know her (and her brother, and parents) since we were born and we'll always be friends. Moreover, my mother and his father were together for 7 years and they still are good fr… | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 05:42 PM |
| 2 | A Rant on OneitusThe thing is, I had a very bad oneitus. I still feel something for her, because well she's a childhood friend. But I've found I really do not want to fuck her, I'm actually fine with her as a friend. So now I don't care if I said this or that or if I could have done or said this or that. And yeah I still find her attractive, and yeah I wouldn't even mind if we eventually had a fling but guess what, I actually do not trust her as a girlfriend, I trust her as a friend (which incidentally happens t… | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson's "Models" most important points condensed into an 11 page PDF.1: I don't know. If you really think they don't like you (from their response), move on. You are not giving them any power at all because, just like them, there are tons of chicks out there so yeah you may like her, but you can move to the next one. Stop scarce mentality, just because you communicated to her that you fancy her you haven't given away any power at all. 2: They are people, treat them as you'd like to be treated. 3: I don't have any idea. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 10:51 PM |
| 3 | For The Noobs: Realize That You Are Surrounded By GirlsBut I AM an engineer. FML | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 08:20 AM |
| 2 | For The Noobs: Realize That You Are Surrounded By GirlsEvery second person you see is a girl, literally. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 10:27 PM |
| 10 | How do you seduce a woman who focuses solely on appearance?You don't wanna seduce shallow girls, at least I know I don't. Looks ain't everything. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Which is a better way of greeting a girl you have met before? A kiss on the cheek or a hug?Spain: kiss in the cheeks. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a friend devalues you?Question: is she attractive? If she is, shut her mouth up and kiss her with the tongue with no warnings. If you are willing to lose her as a friend and she is attractive, who cares what would be her reaction? It shouldn't even matter to you if she has a boyfriend or not, just shut her up by kissing her. Really. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Furious oneitisAnd if it doesn't work at least you fucked her best friend. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Furious oneitisIf she says yes, that's okay but remember that YOU are the price. If she says no then you should tell her that therefore she must be your wing-woman (perhaps then you'll cure your one-itis by fucking her best friend). | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Furious oneitisI'm lost. Did you ask her out? If the answer is no, ask her out. If the answer is yes and she didn't quite agree move on, there are literally thousands of millions of girls! | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 07:36 AM |
| 2 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonCome on guys, give this post some love! | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Recommended reading regarding inner game?I'm no expert, but FWIK (from what I know) inner game is developed when you are proud of yourself. That is, when you are comfortable in your own skin, when you feel good about yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you caneasily stop caring about what people might think about you because well, you see, you KNOW who you are! For me, inner game is developed when I develop myself in the areas I want with the persistence and effort I wanna do. That means, for me, studying hard my uni classes, … | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Why I find this scene a little ridiculous at times.Excuse me, did you say misunderestimate? That's not a word. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?I would never ever reach out to shake her hand. I'm in Spain, here whenever you meet a woman you both kiss in the cheek. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Opening groups with a compliance testOkay. But I don't smoke. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 04:20 PM |
| 23 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...And she's feeling thirsty! | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 03:48 PM |
| 25 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...Because she's ready. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 03:36 PM |
| 2 | What I learned from losing my HB9I actually learned how much women like sex with my first date. That hasn't changed since, girls looove sex. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Gimme a kiss/ Woody Allen. Anyone tried this before the first date? How did it go?Sure, it COULD work. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Let me tell you guys a story...No one commented on this but I think that's a good tactic. Although there are other tactics that are as successful. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How to be a good wingwoman?Don't listen to this guy and have sex with me instead! | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 06:22 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who say "to get a girl all you have to do is make them laugh", you're full of shit and I hate you!Perhaps it's too late. You should not care (yeah I know it's difficult). The best thing you can do is move on to the next girl. You could even use her as a wingwoman. Or you could just seduce another woman and invite her to events where your friend is there too: that would show her that you have more value than she thought, although it will be too late FOR HER (remember: move on). | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 06:19 PM |
| 81 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)"don't be afraid to be self-entertained and have fun. Pickup should be hilarious to you" YEAH. That's it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Men/Women of Seddit, I had oneitis relapse, I forgot about abundance, and I got played for a fool, /startrantWell it looks like you are right. Go fishing again, each woman is different, many of them are delicious and emotionally available. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What to do about an annoying friend that ruins game.Stop going with him. Aaand, if someone else does that and you think that someone else isn't doing it to bother you (it's just an error), you can do many things: It's a good opportunity to get physical with the girl. Put your arm around the girl at the same time you say something like "sorry this girl is busy bro". You can get comical, try "seducing" your friend in front of her. That means you don't give a fuck, that's good. She will be perplexed and she will be asking herself whether you are gay… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 12:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm Hilarious to the girls I've consciously made a decision not to pursue, boring to the ones I'm consciously trying to pursue (IMO) - how do I act the same every time?Well, you shouldn't be outcome dependent with any girl at all. You migh like to hook up, but you are there to have fun. Self amusement, that's what you need. Does the girl like you? no? well I'm having fun and there's tons of fish so no prob. Does she like you? yeah? well of course she likes you, you are amazing, just don't get too excited or else you'll become outcome dependent next time (by trying to get the same result as with this particular fish). | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 12:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: At a stoplight, get the girl's phone number in the car next to me..."Most of the time it's just a confidence booster (even if she says no, who cares, you worked up the confidence to do it, it's a win in your books)"· Exactly. I'm having to have fun (or at least trying to), I'm not just trying to fuck her and I do not care about the outcome. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:24 AM |
| 2 | My Biggest Mental Block for Talking to/Approaching WomenSo true. When you approach a woman, you should give no fucks to what she might be thinking, or what is her situation. She might be receptive, or she might have been told just a second ago that her whole family has been murdered. The second guessing is the feminine role. You just assume that whatever you'll do or say will work. If it doesn't work you should not care at all because you are enjoying YOURSELF, and if it works you should not get too excited because otherwise you will get outcome depe… | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with people who don't like you but are a part of your daily lifeThat's being passive. Don't have any filters at all, say what you like to say. I'd rather agree and amplify. That also can mean get a little physical. And who cares about the result. The thing is your mind and your actions should be aligned in every moment. Don't worry if you haven't done this before, every new day is like starting from time cero. And who cares what people think, fuck that shit. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 07:21 AM |
| 2 | At what point is it reasonable to give up?As someone said, pickup is being social at it's maximum. Perhaps you should ALSO try being social at different levels: What do you like to do? Do you like hiking? Perhaps politics? Reading? Physics? Programming? Traveling? Languages? Get into an association that does something of that thing you like and you will meet people there and start being a little more social. And for the love of the FSM, you might be ackward as fuck when talking to women but you must enjoy yourself, self amusement is ver… | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 07:13 AM |
| 5 | I'm going to a huge college house party tomorrow. Give me everything you can arm me with, Seddit.You may offer alcohol, but you don't really want to get successful drunk. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've made a lot of progress and yet, none at all.You need to let go. Do it for fun, amuse yourself, don't let you get down when someone turns you down, and DON'T get excited just because you hooked up a set. Be independent of outcome, whether the outcome is bad OR GOOD. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 05:06 PM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Perhaps you try too hard? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Upcoming AMA with Julien from RSD, April 4th at 9pm ET!Okay, I'm interested! This is not exactly a question about dating but it's about social dynamics. I have an lifelong (girl) friend of mine that I am attracted to. About 3 years ago she showed she also liked me but I never did the move because of self-steem issues and simply because back then I had no clue about women. Since then, well, we are okay but every now and then I cannot stop thinking about that and look kind of sad when I see her (because thinking about what happened 3 years ago!). I'm … | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 08:16 PM |
| 10 | FREE FLIRTING PDF - everybody should read it just to know more.Yeah fuck the rules. I RULE. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 07:59 PM |
| 4 | HB8 ditches me. I bang her HB7 co-worker.You asshole fucker. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 09:00 AM |
| -1 | A little something I use on female friends and ex's. Might work for you.Actually, I think this is a great idea and I use that sort of thing all the time. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Pick Up Line Insanity, on r/videos right now. Skip to 2:23 for something awesome.If he goes for a kiss and she turns her head and he gets included on a sex offenders list... then I claim she is stupid and US is doomed. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 02:14 PM |
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