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I’m definitely overweight, I work out a lot and have good mobility but unfortunately that mobility includes my hand shovelling food into my mouth!!!!!!!! So I’m healthy but chubs. The same as my husband - we’re good. I’m also nearly 40 and have grown 3 strapping lads, if I see chubby women who haven’t even had children yet I do worry for them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 08:56 PM
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How would he feel being a house husband? How would you feel? Because for you guys to have a family, that’s looking like your most immediate option or put the child in childcare. Does his job offer future big bucks? If so I’d have him persevere and consider childcare but if not, then have him at home and you work and climb the ladder. You mentioned moving to a LCOL area - great idea
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 04:03 PM
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Tell me more about the fine and your reaction to it please.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 10:29 PM
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It is humiliating, the way the comment ‘slipped out’ means it’s so accurate too, he sees himself as lowering his (looks not character) standards to marry a good woman. It’s so hurtful and I can’t see anyway she can shield from his truth. However I do believe he likely loves her and their life, just that he had to drop his (previous) standards to get the lovely woman who is his wife. Hurts because as much as we want to be loved for our hearts, we want our men to desire us as animals. I think thei…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 09:49 PM
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Then perhaps this man wasn’t always a nice Christian man and used to be a bit of a dog. When it comes to marriage and kids he wanted something different, and good for him. Plenty of women operate like this. He leveraged his looks or money or status for a good hearted woman - he didn’t have enough leverage to get a knock out beautiful and good hearted Christian woman (because gold dust). He’s a HVM alright, no doubt. He just settled and that’s more than ok, I bet he’s really happy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 09:42 PM
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Is your husband conventionally attractive or does he earn a lot of money? If so that means he’s a HVM and likely if you’re not beautiful then he chose your because you’re an awesome woman and have good Christmas values. Which hurts so much because no one wants to feel like the logical choice. I think pretending he didn’t mean it is making this worse for you because deep down there’s some truth to his words. Face them dead on. He likely dated attractive women who would not have made a good mother…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 08:19 PM
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Life is hard for an ugly woman the way it’s hard on an unsuccessful unambitious man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:38 PM
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And she’s got a daughter - so she’s a lanky single mum too. Tall men also tend to like petite women so…she’s at the bottom of the pile but she’s got the most demands - tale as old as time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 07:07 PM
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Yes yes YES! I’ve been collecting non-insecure women mates all my life, something about my fairly pretty face and very positive personality really pisses them off. I’ve noticed the fatter and older I’ve gotten, the more friends I make. Glad you can see the female nature at one of its worse, we women are great but also have our blind spots.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 01:27 PM
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I am just here to say I have 3 young sons who I am unashamedly bringing up as masculine as possible. The U.K. is becoming very ‘woke’ so we just work around that BS narrative at home with logic and of course, setting an example. I know on a primitive level, women prefer masculine men and I want grandchildren haha!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 12:50 PM
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U.K. woman here. What ways are you linked besides sharing your daughter (who looks after her and what age is she)? I ask because when you start dating again she will turn nuclear and you should buffer yourself from anything she could damage. After the clean break she can’t start claiming money again can she? I would avoid any chats with her unless they’re recorded and filed away. Keep her sweet but don’t be her emotional tampon or let her bring you into her life. She will lash out and the way sh…
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:51 AM
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Perhaps she can’t land a man with the potential she wants, she is pressuring her boyfriend into being that man instead. She may have aimed high but those chips settle eventually. If I was OP I would ask myself if this man has the potential to step up and be the man (we all want) as he grows, or if she should capitalise on her youth and get someone else - but then that’s a risk too. It’s basically baby with a low value man, low value man who may step up, or lose baby and low value man for the ris…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 08:06 PM
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Seems like he is happy if you went to nun mode as he does not want to be intimate with you. So to threaten this for a reaction from him is unlikely to yield a positive outcome. Why are you guys disconnected in your opinion? You sound like you’re a great mum and housekeeper. Have you kept your figure in check?
/r/RedPillWives01/01/22 12:41 PM
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I may be wrong but perhaps he is wondering when you’re definitely not fertile so that he does not get baby trapped? It’s just a thought
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 12:19 PM
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I was 28 when I met him, he was 32, the only reason he had not been snapped up was his work prospects - he got dates but women of his age wanted someone with a job which was fair enough. I hadn’t met someone as pure and kind and manly as him so was willing to ride it out. I earned a lot myself so I didn’t need his money, I knew we could have a family and he look after them. Not ideal but I was prepared for that. We dated a few months maybe 6 when I asked him directly if he had a job would we be …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 07:31 AM
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I thought he sorted himself out for me, turns out he did it for himself, he just needed someone in his corner. Remember I said the character traits are priceless? Thats what made me stay. London was full of men with money but men like him? Rare. Super handsome, super manly and loyal etc etc. I think some men with just the money and the charms, they’d drop you yes. But as someone else pointed out in this thread, it’s not just money and height that make men HV in my opinion. It’s the ability to pr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 06:49 PM
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HVM wife here. He is now a high earner in technology/banking, 6 figures, 6' 1", stoic and loving to his small circle. Does not seek external validation type. I met him online dating...when he was long-term unemployed with 0 prospects but he was a grafter and intelligent. He was the biggest risk I ever took. I only wanted him to get a job; he was such a catch without any earnings. He has surpassed my expectations. I feel like I got him at a heavy discount. If he was the man he is now, he would be…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 10:16 AM
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I am a woman and I love this sub. I’ve learnt some uncomfortable truths about our nature and all that you say is correct. I have a husband who I make all the efforts I can to keep happy. What I’ve learnt is it’s kind of easy to keep a husband happy - don’t get fat, be a happy person and don’t undermine him. We have 3 sons together so I am learning about the women (or men - who knows!) they’ll be bringing home one day. I am dreading it. I’ll be teaching them about getting baby trapped etc etc as …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 05:38 PM
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Your story resonates with me the most. I have the same mum I think, I have been angry and then want a relationship (it never works out) and have realised the same as you - you have to leave her to be happy. I was messed up a lot of my 20s and missed out on a stable relationship with a good man. When I cut her out and aimed to find a husband, I found one and I made him and our family my priority (along with my happiness too). She has 3 grandsons she will not have a relationship with and I know sh…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 01:33 AM
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This is BRILLIANT. It is exactly how I met my husband in 2012, before Tinder. Exactly how!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 12:56 PM
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Have you been on /r/raisedbynarcissists? Because my mum is a narcissist and there are some crossovers with your mum.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 11:26 PM
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Brilliant observations! I think my husband has a pair too, lots of love from sexier than Emilia Clarke LOL
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 08:35 AM
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I fucking hate these selfish women. I am a mum to sons and the relationship they have with their father, my husband, is so important and indeed how I am with him too. I get that life happens and sometimes things don't work out but for the good of my boys, if that ever happened I know the best thing for them to make them 'men' and not just average, under confident wimps is to have a solid father. They're my life's best work and I cannot give them what their father can and to underestimate that is…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 10:18 PM
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Shit test. If you do sleep with another woman I assume she will branch swing, she has many other options, same as you if she slept with someone else. This way she gets to be 'cool girl' and if you fail the test and shag someone else, why would a quality female stay?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:02 PM
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Hello! I have a small son and am pregnant with my next son too so I anticipate buying them a copy each when they are older. Thank you for putting into words what they need to know about relationships and The Way Things Are, not how you want them to be.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 07:46 AM
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Any woman I know who hated turning 30 didn't have their shit together, we can admit it ladies we're a little smug. Your 30s are awesome when you're secure (touch wood, can't go taking our family and health for granted now). Still young and have beauty on our side, usually a career and have cut the fat from our toxic friends due to wisdom gained through experience. Oh yes I love my 30s. Welcome.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/17 03:57 PM
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I would be the same if I had a business. This firm is a FTSE 100 huge thing and my boss's wife did it (ex employee) it's not something I'd do to a smaller firm. I always wanted children so my whole career and firm I chose has been with this in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 05:53 AM
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Hiya, in the UK and specifically in my firm we get full time pay for 6 months and then £500 for months 7, 8 and 9. Not shabby. I had my first and took a year off and went back to work pregnant (he's in daycare). I plan to have all my babies (please God 3+) on my firm's money and then after we have had our 3rd or 4th, drop out all together and raise them until school and then get a nice £40k a year job 9-5 faffing about in an office once they are at school. We live off my husbands salary and use …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 03:25 PM
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Funny how she mentions this now you're doing well. Make her question WHY she wants independence, she knew the deal when you guys set up your firm and had 1 baby and then another. From a female perspective with I like to think a dormant hamster, she's acting like a brat. However, she has a reasonable amount of power that disgusts me if she mentions it. If she left you, she'd have your money, children and maybe the house. I have to mention in her defense, its lonely and repetitive being a stay a h…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 06:01 PM
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HUMBLEBRAG
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 04:08 PM
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Agree totally. I am now the mum of a little boy and I'd like to add you your list "angry at being told you can have it all" as its more a matter of making it work not like its some Bohemian easy dream. If we have a daughter I'll try and impart some of this on her. The thing that will bring you the most joy, ahead of career etc long term is a romantic relationship with a good, solid man. That's the main focus alongside education etc you have a dual strategy but focus on vetting and meeting a nice…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 08:21 PM
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You're looking for a homely girl with a bit of edge, not a wanker Harrords girl (due that's why that didn't work out so its irrelevant). The sexy leggy blondes you're after...EVERYONE'S AFTER THEM. They're top dollar! They wouldn't date an unsure of himself arty man on £34k a year living in a house share who's mayyyyybe going to be successful. Women tend to like security with just the right amount of 'feels' ie excitement. You lack the former massively. The feels get you the shags but you won't …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:27 PM
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Sounds to me like you don't know if you're coming or going, you aren't ready for a girl as you are so unsettled in what career you want and location AND money. I stand by it that you're blaming not having a relationship/being able to meet a nice girl amongst 8m of us but I think the harder and harrowing thing to accept is that you're no longer a cool 20s guy, you're approaching Grown Man age and you may have to start over for a good quality woman to take you on ie earn more money to provide. Don…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:43 PM
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Congrats! How did you manage to leave? Build up the career here and do same job in t'country or will you start over? Londoner moving to the suburbs next year
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:47 PM
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London is lonely. People mostly leave and on £34k a year, you won't be making roots here ie buying a house and raising a family. You say its the woman situation that's getting your goat but I suggest it could be the general wankeryness of London town in 2017. Like people say, noone can stay and I've been here 10 years and made 0 friends organically. Women will come. ONS are obviously making you feel empty and that's OK, means you need substance of friendships/relationships. Don't idealise Europe…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:46 PM
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They will fuck you but they will never date you
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 08:55 PM
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Yep! Exactly! Most women as they age loose those traits, you're spot on love!
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 01:24 PM
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Precisely. There are a lot of women ignorant to the marketplace, fair enough she's married, but if she ever wasn't and she had to meet someone new, she would turn to hate her BIL for basically being a man who knows his worth. Something women don't. They often think too much of themselves!!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 01:15 PM
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Woman here: she also mentioned that these women are low leveled jobs - since when have men cared for a woman's job. They care about how attractive they are. And they are not insecure or being taking advantage of, Christ it's enough to make me want to scream at her! He's happy and shagging women and he's in the angry phase which I hope will pass. The sky is the limit dude! Don't blame him at all, he's just discovered the rules of the marketplace and he's playing his hand!!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 01:05 PM
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I'm convinced that husbands don't leave their aging wives for their wrinkles or (a few) extra pounds. Its the personality that can develop that is unattractive; nagging, being unhappy, laziness, a darkness and an unwillingness to be a friend or listen or 'look up to' her man as she's taking him as part of the furniture now. Miserable cow that is ultimately less attractive too but the catalyst is the personality and not being who he married. Then there's a 25 year old woman who's got a lighter, b…
/r/RedPillWives01/11/16 12:43 PM
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What are you having?
/r/RedPillWives27/10/16 10:16 PM
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Women in their 30s and into their 40s are still absolutely beautiful, however there's always someone younger slimmer and hotter with less demands and the darkness and desperation and therefore timeline demands a woman of that age have. From what my friends are saying, the men know the tables have turned and they are in no rush. Sometimes they miss a good thing because they just want to fuck around. Men that want a solid relationship that don't want to fuck around usually can take their pick. Why…
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 08:06 PM
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Hey well MY experience is different (I have always been 'wife' material and boys and men close to my age found that too scary so I was single all of my 20s and sadly at my most beautiful. Such a waste). I came into my own at 27 though as suddenly the looks brain combo was the dream. I also knew when I met a good man that wanted a relationship, to not fuck it up. I very easily remembered and even now to this day remember how it was to be alone. As far as my friends go, they just think their looks…
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 07:04 PM
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Oh its no laughing matter at all. Its so hard watching my friends make this mistake time and again
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 06:08 PM
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Brita filter or beta filter? ;)
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 02:23 PM
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4 months ago I had a c section and by now my body is mainly back to normal except my stomach. I've hired a personal trainer that I see 3 mornings a week and am watching my diet. I am bad at discipline so must stay the course as results will not happen overnight and also you can't target weight loss from one area. On a positive note its slowly working.
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 04:01 PM
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My husband said in his wedding speech to me that he's marrying me due to my long natural nails. CRYING HERE GIRLS!
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 03:01 PM
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http://www.snopes.com/love/dating/golddigger.asp this made me think of you. You don't come across as a feminine kind person you come across as someone who thinks she's a special snowflake with your checklist of physical traits and interests. Also, frankly, you're hardly splitting the atom by being healthy and a singing teacher. I'm surprised you've not met a man in 4 years that earns more and is more intelligent. I'm a true masculine type personality and yet I am extremely sweet as true vulnerab…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:47 PM
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Agreed. It doesn't mean you're insecure, most men that are 'alpha' are not insecure, they simply find slags repulsive. Women (hamster) trying to spin their shortcomings onto men for not wanting them [the shortcomings].
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 05:25 PM
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Do you know what I mean?! So YOU'RE insecure/the one with the problem if little princess shag-a-lot is the town's bike!! I dug deep and found only one sensible comment: Asking how many lovers you've had is a legitimate question. There are many reasons why it might be asked, but a critical one is that the asker will want to know whether or not your relationship stands a chance of long-term success. If he knows that you've had quite a few sexual partners, he will thereby know that trying to start …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 05:18 PM
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Hey, you sound hot! In short I think if a man wants to have children (biological) then your infertility is a straight up incompatibility. However... Do you want children at all? He may have children from a previous relationship, you may adopt. Are you open to these? Not all men want more or any children so I guess it depends on the man and your dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 07:51 AM
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She had the gumption to loose weight and sort her life out and also to get surgery - she knows how the SMP works and she knows her value. If being shunned for being fat didn't teach her she's worthless to men, being slim will ram it home that slim/healthy = prerequisite for men worth a damn. She's not an idiot I'd say. She's aware of the system. This will come down to her morals and if she really does love this chap and want to set up home with him. Looks = power for women so let's just hope it …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 07:02 AM
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Could go either way. She could relish in her new found attractiveness and swing from your buddy or she could stay with him loyally. Just give it time I say, most crazy comes out in the wash eventually.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 06:49 AM
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Hi all, I'm from London and I'm a wife, a 'career woman' and a mum - also friend and sister etc. Learning at age 32 who to give to and who doesn't warrant it ie husband is my number 1 and the rest is a juggle. I'm great at humour and getting shit done, I'm a good first mate. I'm on here for the laughs. This sub taught me a lot and I keep coming back as I can't voice my true relationship goals in such blunt words as I can on here. Wondering if any Londoners or UK lasses out there...
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 10:10 PM
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I'm disgusted and increasingly not surprised. Just letting you know some women find this abhorrent too.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 08:47 AM
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If it was a woman pulling lots of hot men in her 30's they'd be all "you go girl". Cringe. Good luck to the man. He does not look sad, miserable or unhappy to me. The woman at the Daily Fail just hates that he's out there going for women that attractive which I can only assume she isn't and therefore its telling her a truth women don't want to hear; given a choice, men don't want dried up older women. Its not creepy, in the same way she will no doubt find a 6 pack hot - attraction is non negotia…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:08 PM
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Woman here. I asked my husband this (1 year married) and he replied that he didn't need me. I then asked (hamster being controlled as much as possible) "is it more that you want me and your life is better with me in it" and he said yes. I have to agree with him! I also don't actually need him but my gosh am I a better woman for him in my life.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:43 AM
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I think her reasons for marrying him are logical - let's be frank - they are mostly financial. Security of a house (financial), she has the emotional security if she stays being his girlfriend. If they break up, she'll meet someone else and she knows this. Women get a lot more emotional benefits from female friends unlike men. I think men like the emotional side of a relationship more than we realise. She has a 'catch' and she is I am sure a lovely girl but she needs him more than he needs her. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 11:48 AM
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EXACTLY!!!!! Finally you boys have worked it out!!!!!!! Yes that many explanation marks were neccessary!
/r/seduction08/11/11 11:22 PM
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Be kind in your behaviour and actions. Live a good life that makes you happy. So simple but true - be a happy in yourself and genuinely kind person it's so good it's worth repeating! Men read this and take it in, there's no short cuts, it's harder than it sounds but these men are so sparse please do it! Girls too actually. As a woman this post is one of my fave's on here as it's the only one that's not manipulitive but bettering you lot.
/r/seduction08/11/11 11:14 PM
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Also age matters, the older you are without your life in order means the less your game will count.
/r/seduction07/11/11 11:40 PM
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Frankly a hot woman who is smart and nice and is secure/assured enough to know she wants an equal from a partner will defo want a guy who has his life in order, she'll at best flirt with a loser with good game. If she's hot n has issues/bit crazy/dumb she'll accept any crap and believe any game as she's game to be played. I swear to you all, I'm speaking as a woman who has the lot - no chance. But if it's just hot you're after, you'll be ok. I like men that are attractive and work out, work a jo…
/r/seduction07/11/11 11:37 PM
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I use a G1 iPhone in bed, at middnight, this guy was going round in circles so I felt compelled to chip in. I know reddit thankyouverymuch! No need to be so accutely patronising ESP when I've already said sorry for being sleepy! As for my other posts, I'm immature at times but when it comes to serious matters, I am straight up honest. I think if I were seducing a guy I'd like to hear advice from a guy, assuming that us women know better than them would get my back up. I'm not entirely sure why b…
/r/seduction25/10/11 06:30 AM
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I apologise, I tend to browse reddit in bed and I got emotionally involved in the guys plight so woke up enough to type, but with no elloquance or grammar as I wasn't really able to type as fast as my thoughts while sleepy. I think I may be doing it again, forgive me?
/r/seduction24/10/11 11:05 PM
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As a hot girl (I'm not a 10 though but I used to be when I lived in a small town) I'm telling you she's interested...but not necc. to romance yet. No one ESP someone hot works on a one egg basis, she's aware these meat heads all break on her (she'll love the breaking!) and she's blates to me backburnering you, she wants to keep you around but is she investing in you? Nope. I say echo her attention to you and don't lay yourself out as a mug but then don't dry up. If she comes to you to hang out b…
/r/seduction23/10/11 10:52 PM
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this works as a woman too as long as you're nice when you are approached. it also helps as a woman as you're more approachable, not all snooty looking with perfect hair, just jeans and a top (and six layers of clothes as i am in london).
/r/seduction23/10/11 09:33 PM
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