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My side effect is that I'm horny all the time. I haven't felt like this in ages.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:20 AM
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Eyes up, shoulders back. That's like 80% of it right there. Watch other people. You'll notice strong and weak body language. Adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:09 PM
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Eye contact. If you make eye contact with everyone you pass you'll notice that very few people will actually make eye contact with you.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:51 PM
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You can't "just have confidence". It has to be grown like a tree. But first, you need a small seed of confidence to plant. I built mine by walking around campus and looking people in the eye. If they look at you then you give them a nod as they pass by. After a while you'll realize that almost no one will look YOU in the eye. It started to feel a bit like a superpower. I used to look down and not make eye contact due to self-image issues but not anymore. Small things like this build confidence.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 04:46 PM
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Incels are victims of self limiting beliefs. No girls will fuck them because they won't improve themselves or learn game. They feel like they should be able sit in Mom's basement all day playing WoW and girls will line up to fuck them. Instead they feel like women are victimizing them by withholding sex. Like, they've done everything right so how come they aren't getting laid? It must be some far-reaching female conspiracy. They are worthless and should be ignored.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:03 PM
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Welcome! I'm 55 and have a 20 year old and a 16 year old at home. It's not too late. I started reading TRP a few years ago when people were slamming it. There's wisdom here if you let go of some preconceptions.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:56 AM
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This is what I say. Let's meet and see what happens. Expectations are stupid.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 10:28 PM
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Only three times as often? That number seems low.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 11:29 PM
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They want "tingles". That's it. They don't exactly know what gives them tingles but they try to quantify it. TRP quantifies it just fine. Lift, dress well, work on your personality, have boundaries, don't be a doormat, etc. Do not listen to women about this. Social status is important to them and they would lose some status if they said "I want a 6'2" rich guy who's jacked and has a big dick."
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:39 PM
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Flip the script. Mark is a love slut. Just giving it away here and there to anyone. This makes him unworthy of sex. Sluts (women) give away sex to anyone and everyone and are unworthy of love.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 08:33 PM
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Pick a thing you're anxious about and then go do that thing until you run out of fucks. I used to avoid eye contact. I vowed to have eye contact with anyone I passed. Turns out only about 5% of people will look at you. Now, I'll eye contact you to the death. I used to be afraid to be the center of attention. I took acting classes and did shows. I left all my fucks on the stage. After beating my anxiety for those two things I was no longer anxious about anything else. The two biggest anxieties in…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:50 PM
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You can use her pussy/mouth to orgasm but she can't use your mouth/fingers/cock? Your role is almost always active and hers is passive. She gets fucked and you do the fucking. So make her cum you selfish twat.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:06 PM
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Best advice: Be different. Don't do "blah blah blah, I like movies blah blah netflix blah blah" It's bullshit. Tell a story about what's it like to be with you. Place her in a steamy romance novel starring you and her. Make sure you can follow through on your promises. If you promise steamy romance, or action, or adventure, you gotta deliver.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:57 PM
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The focus needs to change to being inward instead of outward. Do you wanna flirt with the girl? JUST FUCKING DO IT! If she blows you off then who gives a shit? Do it because it's fun, not because you'll get laid. That's what I mean by inward. Ask yourself "Is this going to please me?" or "Do I think this is funny?". If yes, then do it. Entertain yourself. If you focus on external/outward validation then you'll be constantly rejected. You simply cannot fail if you're doing things to please yourse…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:24 PM
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I recall a movie that had something similar, maybe Goodfellas. The guy said you open a woman's door to get in the car then go around and get in yourself. If she popped the door for you before you got there then she's a keeper.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 06:57 PM
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Muthafuckin' plants muthafuckin' die muthafucka! How do I keep them plants from fuckin' dying bitch?
/r/seduction28/02/15 11:35 PM
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I think most of the readers were 40 year old lonely single women who read the books instead of binge watching Netflix for a few nights. The feminist outrage for this book is insane. It's fantasy and it wasn't called "How To Be A Real Woman".
/r/seduction12/02/15 04:25 PM
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The message should be short and sweet. Three to four lines max. Comment on something in her profile. If there's nothing there say she looked fun/interesting/something in one of her pictures. Find something witty to say that says you're different. Example: I'm a Packers fan. I see a girl wearing a Bears jersey in one of her pics. I ask "Do you know how the Bears can beat the Packers?" then I said "Me neither" in the same message like a riddle. Example 2: I spot a girl checking out my profile mult…
/r/seduction31/05/14 07:02 PM
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I don't think nexting them that quick is optimal. I ran 2-3 messages back and forth like that with one girl: question, answer only. I flat out asked if she was interested and she said yes so I got her #. I only asked because I was nexting a lot who didn't ask questions. Some women are bad at online dating. Don't give up so quick. if she had no interest she wouldn't reply.
/r/seduction31/05/14 06:56 PM
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Try /r/depression.
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:12 AM
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Pros: You snagged your one-itis Cons: She's still your one-itis
/r/seduction07/04/14 12:52 AM
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Yes, a much better way to put it.
/r/seduction22/03/14 09:43 PM
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Be honest. Tell them exactly what your intentions are. If you sense they are going along with it until you "come around" then break it off. You can't keep them in a zone you want them in. They're people and they want things too so let them choose.
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:32 PM
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The eye contact thing is solid. Part of doing it is realizing that very few people are looking back because they're all looking at the ground. A few people will look up and then look away which makes you feel powerful. Get a book on body language and practice good body language. Going to the gym and lifting heavy things works too.
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:35 PM
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Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Have a one on one with the person. Honestly listen to their ideas. Offer honest criticism and maybe even implement one or two of their suggestions. Maybe even put him in charge of implementing one of his suggestions and then he'll be on your team instead of his own.
/r/seduction07/02/14 03:34 AM
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You probably don't have to change much. Have you expressed your interest in any women you're "just friends" with? That may be all it takes to turn an interesting girl into a girlfriend.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:26 PM
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/r/fitness Getting fit helps with confidence. Even if you don't lose your gut you'll feel better. /r/malefashionadvice Dressing well helps with confidence. A good pair of shoes will impress a woman before you even open your mouth.
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:10 AM
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I learned simply. Put on a dance song, nail your feet to the floor, then move your body to the beat. Once you've got the hang of that you can move your heels up and down in time with the beat. Do it one foot at a time. Look! You're dancing. If you wanna get fancy and you have an Xbox you can buy Dance Central which will teach you a lot of moves. Take a Zumba class. You dance in a group facing the instructor so no one is looking at you. You'll learn some moves and I guarantee there's hot girls th…
/r/seduction13/12/13 11:20 PM
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When you're done read Mark Manson's Models. The Game was seduction is 2005. Models is the 2013 version. New and improved.
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:32 AM
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You're used to a certain kind of feedback from your behavior. When the behavior changes the feedback will change. You may have to try saying no a few different ways or saying it the same way until it feels right. What your friends think doesn't matter. This has to be paramount in your mind. You do what you think is best and are willing to deal with the consequences.
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:30 AM
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It's one step at a time. The "nice guy" attitude is ingrained and it got there slowly one habit at a time. It will take time to remove the habits you don't want. To do that you have to pay attention to what you're doing and saying then recognize when you do/say something unwanted. With a specific example in mind you can then coach yourself to do it "this" way instead of "that" way. Example: Your oneitis, who gets you to do stuff for her but never reciprocates, ask you to do something and you say…
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:00 AM
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This is the first step in the transition from "nice guy" to man. Your rewards come from yourself instead of from others.
/r/seduction02/12/13 08:40 PM
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Is the Dicarlo escalation ladder still appropriate? Probably a good read either way.
/r/seduction29/11/13 11:00 PM
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Don Draper is exceptionally good looking and knows it. All he has to do is go for it. Roger Sterling is good looking and rich and gives no fucks. I think the giving no fucks is his best asset. I have no fucking idea how Pete Campbell scores with anyone yet he does anyway.
/r/seduction24/11/13 01:52 AM
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Online I usually go for the phone number within 2-3 messages. If the conversation goes on too long you just end up looking like a "nice guy" who won't advance things. If she's replying then she's interested. If she's interested she wants to meet If she wants to meet she wants you to ask for her #
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:41 PM
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If you have AA then this is a great place to start. Just go to the mall and look people in the eye as you walk by. When you realize how few people do it it adds to your confidence level. It's like "Hey, all these people are afraid to look me in the eye." You start to feel a little more powerful. If someone does look you in the eye, give them a smile or a nod and hold eye contact until they pass. Guess what? Nobody died. Instead you added an ability that most people don't have.
/r/seduction08/09/13 03:16 PM
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I think that falls under the category of congruence. You're words, actions and body language are in sync AND you're unafraid of how she will react.
/r/seduction07/07/13 03:32 AM
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Just keep at it. I'm partway through Models and it's awesome so far. Pick one thing and stick to it until you've completely internalized it.
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:10 PM
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We men have an advantage that women never have: We can become more attractive without great physical changes. A plain looking woman pretty much lost the genetic lottery and is kinda fucked. Men of average or worse looks can dress better, act better, and become more generally awesome and attractive. That's amazing! If every lonely guy gets out there and works on himself a little bit every day for a year will see his life change. Not just with women, overall. If you squander this opportunity it's …
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:23 PM
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Eye contact: Once you're willing to make eye contact you'll ralize how many people don't want to. Body language: Read a book. Pay attention to yours first so you "send" the message you want. External body language affects you internally so striking a confident pose makes you confident. Talk to 5 strangers a day: This is like day 2 of Rules of the Game. Just say something relevant to random stranger in the checkout line or whatever. "Hey, pretty hot today" "What's the deal with all them Kardashia…
/r/seduction25/05/13 04:05 PM
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"Very well, where do I begin? My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My mother was a fifteen year old French prostitute named Chloe with webbed feet. My father would womanize, he would drink, he would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Some times he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy, the sort of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament. My childhood was t…
/r/seduction12/05/13 03:20 AM
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I had the impression that he did care was worried about the outcome of his actions. But yeah, if he's doing what he wants to do then he's good.
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:07 AM
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Thank you. It probably needed to be in there at least once more. Tits.
/r/seduction20/04/13 11:15 PM
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Be a fucking man and look at the tits. Admire the tits. Appreciate the tits. If she gets pissed that you liked to look at the tits then tell her to STFU. You're a man and you like tits. No apologies. Shit tests are to see if you're a pussy. By not looking at the tits you failed. You wondered what she would think. It was about her and not about you and what you want. You, I assume, want to look at the tits. So look at the tits. Seduction talks a lot about congruity. It congruous for a man to look…
/r/seduction20/04/13 08:03 PM
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"Who would you rather be, you or me?"
/r/seduction20/04/13 01:00 AM
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If being well read and having a nice coat givex you confidence then they'll fuck you. It's indirect rather than direct. I don't think any of us want to be the "idiot who gets laid".
/r/TheRedPill07/04/13 02:56 AM
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His GF is gonna dump him because he isn't assertive and won't even ask permission for the stuff she really wants. How can she say yes when he won't ask?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 01:57 AM
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Oh, those guys are too old. In online dating, women in their 40's are looking for men +-3 to 5 years. It's extremely narrow minded. A man 10 to 20 years older than them will cherish them like a 40 year-old dude would cherish his twenty-ish girlfriend. Additionally, their incredibly high standards and entitlement mentality make them wonder where all the good men have gone but they're rejecting them left and right for Seinfeldian reasons. They're using the same filters they had when they were hot …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 12:48 AM
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"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." Ghandi
/r/TheRedPill31/03/13 02:24 AM
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Penis in Vagina was my guess.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 11:13 PM
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Because it's blue pill to keep it to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 05:06 AM
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"Reasoning with the bitch is not gonna work. You have to hit her."
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 11:58 PM
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Man, feminism is ironic. The whole "you have to love me for who I am even though I have a big ass and an entitled attitude" is the product of their own programming. I'm in my late 40's and this is common amongst women my age. They are fat, they wear sweat pants to the store and no makeup yet they feel entitled to Brad Pitt because they (allegedly) have great personalities. They have lists of qualities that they must have in a man a mile long and won't back down on any of it and then bitch that t…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/13 06:22 AM
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Any decent looking chick gets hundreds of messages. At some point they give up on it or have an enormous filter. "Nope, too short, too tall, too broke, shitty car." whatever. A club might be 50/50 men and women. Online dating is like 90/10. How do you stand out? It's way harder than real life.
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:56 AM
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I agree that those words can be used to attempt to reframe what they mean. "Real men do x." "If you were chivalrous you'd be like y." "The honorable thing would be to do whatever." Being a man means you define what these mean to you. Integrity is sticking by them through thick and thin. Integrity is the mortar that holds everything together.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 05:14 AM
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This is a terrific piece of insight. Women do think that things happen on impulse because for them it does. For us men, everything is a decision. Do I kiss her? Do I grab her boob? etc. For them there is zero romance in a decision. I had a woman ask me why I kissed her on the first date. I said because I wanted to. She had a hard time wrapping her mind around the idea that I made a decision. She asked "When do you know it's ok to grab the boob?" I said I don't "know" I have to try and see what h…
/r/seduction16/09/12 04:42 AM
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Blondes. Take a brunette HB6 and give her a dye job and she's an HB8. Fit chicks too. /r/hardbodies fit.
/r/seduction05/08/12 01:03 AM
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Not romance novels. Those are written exclusively for women and those guys are usually alpha. Teen romance like Twilight has more beta type behavior because teen girls aren't ready for bodice-ripper novels.
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:05 PM
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Because women agree with it intellectually and emotionally but not sexually. They see it on the screen and think it's sweet and say awwwwww but when it comes down to it they won't fuck that guy because there's no attraction. I think the lesson that's missed is that the friend-zoned guy gets out of the zone by doing something masculine. Like George McFly in Back to the Future punches out Biff. We remember the sweetness and beta-ness and forget the alpha moment when it all changed.
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:00 PM
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I've consumed a lot of PUA/Self Help content and 7 Habits has a lot of worthy advice. I found a lot of concepts preached by inner game gurus in this book. They are taught from a different perspective but they're there. Getting those concepts confirmed by multiple sources just reinforces that those concepts are ones that should be learned.
/r/seduction22/07/12 06:07 PM
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Only focus on the now. Don't talk to the girl so she'll have sex with you or give you her number, talk to the girl to talk to the girl. If you do that you always have success because that's all you set out to do. Even if she tells you to fuck off you still talked to the girl.
/r/seduction26/06/12 05:45 AM
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I started going to the gym regularly. I am getting "strong like bull". It feels good. I'm expanding my social circle. I've had dates that gave me LJBF and I stayed friends. Having female friends is good. I'm working on approaching. I haven't done it. I've bantered in line at the store, etc. but no approaches to someone I'm actually interested in.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:24 AM
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I think it's worth a try. I think we make assumptions about what another person would like based on what we would like and that's an obstacle. If we haven't had success with women by doing what we've done then we have to do something different.
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:29 AM
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It doesn't "just happen". Attraction is created and action is taken. Next time just watch how he is and take notes. He makes it look easy because he doesn't give a fuck.
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:03 AM
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Holy shit! Acting alpha makes you more alpha. I'm gonna power pose every chance I get.
/r/seduction25/02/12 03:07 AM
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TO WIN YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO LOSE!!! I learned that shit the hard way.
/r/seduction20/02/12 07:16 AM
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I started with Rules of The Game. Day 1 is start conversations with 5 people. I tried it and found many people were either shy or appreciative of the conversation and none were hostile. The shy people were like me, hard to get to open up and looking at me as maybe higher value because I initiated. I think the mindset of shy people is based in low self esteem. They don't talk to anybody or even want to be talked to because they feel unworthy and don't have anything to offer. This leads to not ini…
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:21 AM
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Good job. Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid Passivity is death. Go after what you want and live with the consequences.
/r/seduction14/01/12 12:54 AM
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Avast blocked a threat from this site. Avoid.
/r/seduction01/01/12 11:02 PM
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I guess women with low self esteem need their own site.
/r/seduction27/05/11 05:30 PM
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Alpha - Does what he wants and is OK with it. Leader. Provides value. Beta - Not sure what to do so he follows path of least resistance. Wants validation from other people. Follower. Takes value or trades for value.
/r/seduction27/04/11 03:52 AM
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Alpha - Does what he wants and is OK with it. Leader. Provides value. Beta - Not sure what to do so he follows path of least resistance. Wants validation from other people. Follower. Takes value or trades for value.
/r/seduction27/04/11 03:52 AM
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If the question is "Should I or shouldn't I?" then the answer is "I should". If you want to know if you should call or text? Do whatever the fuck you want. Do everything on your terms.
/r/seduction30/03/11 03:31 AM
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Enlist him as your wing-of-the-moment.
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:03 PM
0

The Mens Rights movement cannot degenerate into an "LOOK AT ME! OMG I'M OFFENDED!" like Al Sharpton, some Muslims, feminists etc. Reactionary rhetoric eventually just becomes noise. Plus it makes men look like a buncha pussies. I'll bet you're a female troll.
/r/MensRights11/03/11 09:09 PM
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Your message to them should mention something in their profile you like. Make a joke about it. Riff on it. It shows you read their profile and aren't just messaging them because of their looks. Promise something in your profile. Make them imagine how cool it would be to hang out with you. Your profile is a 30 second commercial about you, make them click Buy Now!
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:36 AM
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What do you have to lose? If you take action, something could happen. If you don't, nothing will happen.
/r/seduction13/02/11 10:34 PM
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Read "The Game". Now.
/r/seduction29/01/11 07:46 AM
1

This should be required watching. Talk about setting a frame...
/r/seduction10/01/11 08:32 PM
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