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Haha oh man I love you. You write like you have Tourettes but you're never totally wrong... It's like reading an angry red pill Tao Te Ching. Upvote.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 05:40 AM
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Ha well if it read like good fiction it would probably be fiction :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 10:26 PM
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I'm not even gonna tell you why that last line is so funny to me lol
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 10:22 PM
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She also has student loan debt up to $65K and now tells me she only wants to pay minimum payments until the day she dies---she feels she has no obligation to pay it back because it's federal and will just "go away" ---no matter how much I try to tell her how wrong that is. That's actually correct if you're in an income-based/contingent plan. It's forgiven after 25 years (as long as your payments are made on time and don't reset the clock constantly). You'll owe taxes on the forgiven amount, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 08:57 PM
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I'm gonna be reading more of your guys' shit now just so you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 08:50 PM
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Haha well I thank you for the contribution, late or not. I will be sure to let you know when/if that occurs. It's funny, she didn't want the hooker to start, and she didn't want a random girl at the bar either, she actually wanted the girl I cheated with in the first place, but that girl refused (apparently she's fine fucking me when she knows it would hurt my wife but not when my wife insists it would help her). When she refused, my wife immediately went to her best non-married friend (the girl…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 05:50 PM
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I didn't see the post you're referring to so I can't opine. When I first showed up here though I was slaughtered. I quickly learned why though: guys were just shit testing me to gauge my frame so they knew how to engage me/help me in the future, and they were giving me tough love because they now know the value of that personally. I find myself insulting the shit out of people now with my other accounts in other subs for the same purpose, only to turn around and let them know it's actually becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:46 PM
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Admittedly there isn't much to learn from this. A bit maybe, like: I did basically let the wife run the show that night. Probably not a good idea to let that continue moving forward. But mostly it was just a field report that many had requested due to my last post, which I think had a bit more in it that could be learned from. My wife is unique. Or maybe she's not and my game is unique and this is the end result--I don't know. You can make your own judgments. Hopefully my next FR will have more …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:37 PM
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Yeah, it's a good point. For my first time out I really did kind of just sit back and see what she'd do and how she was feeling. I'll be taking the lead again next time but you're not wrong here. Truth be told it was just the very first time and I wanted to be extra sensitive to her. I notice that in the beginning of something brand new they are very wishy washy. It helps if when they start to resist you simply say "it's cool. whatever you're comfortable with for now." They usually then relax an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 03:48 PM
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I won't tell you where I'm from, but I nearly called bullshit on the hooker for it as well. I'll just say that due to the social dynamics where I live, these bitches can afford to get away with pulling this kind of stuff. I too have a lot of experience with both.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 03:44 PM
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I know you mean well, no worries. But no man gets to touch my wife. She knows that's a deal breaker on my side. If it comes to that it will be over. It's the same rule we've always had. Men and women aren't the same and we both know that. I give her what she needs. She's just realized she hasn't been giving me what I need. I know it feels lopsided to most here, but I actually see this as a balancing out. She knows she's always free to leave, but she never does. She also knows I won't/don't hesit…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 04:37 AM
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Your brother has my sympathy.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 03:18 AM
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Appreciate the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 03:07 AM
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Good cautionary tale. I'll consider its implications carefully as it applies to this situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 08:26 PM
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BTW, have you ever heard of discretion ? Dick Dude, I know. So fucking stupid of me. It worked out though. I would say the current situation is preferable to the previous one. At least so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/18 04:47 PM
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You got me. Man I hate that. Accuse someone of DEERing and they immediately start to DEER. Fuck :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 11:13 PM
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Fear is a liar, my friend. Come to the light.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:20 PM
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She always could. We've had an agreement for a while. She just never knew I'd be fine with including her. I'm actually crazy psyched about it :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:19 PM
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Lol you must not be familiar with my other stuff :)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:17 PM
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Um....why is this guy here? Do we let vaginas like this in now? Are you gonna read me Bible verses too?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:17 PM
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I never made an excuse. I'm not sure what you're seeing because no defense was ever made in my behalf. I simply said I wouldn't go to counseling but if it would help YOU, I'd be happy to show you I'm sorry in some other way, and gave some examples. To me, DEERing and bribing come from a place of weakness that says "I'll do anything stay with you." Strength says "Well, I am willing to do this and this if you need me to, but this and that, no I won't." You'll get it sometime.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:11 PM
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I do. And my wife offers me more than I can say. I just like sexual novelty, and she understands that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:08 PM
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That's what she wanted to do last night. She says that's her worst fear--that I'll fuck someone and fall in love with them. So she wants to actually watch me do it and see that I still just want to be with her afterwards. Is that fucking crazy? Maybe. But it actually makes sense to me. I watched this scary movie once that scared the shit out of me. So the next day I watched the scenes that disturbed me like 15 times until I was numb to it and no longer cared. Sometimes crazy backwards sounding s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:07 PM
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I'm good man. But I appreciate the concern. I know why so many guys here are flipping their shit at this post, but the right guys aren't, and that says a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:05 PM
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Yeah I think you're missing what is being defended and explained. I never defended my actions. And I only elucidated what I was and was not willing to do. As for bribing, I don't see it like that. It was a negotiation. She wanted me to go to counseling. I said I wouldn't do that. I then told her what I would do but made it clear that if that wasn't enough, meh. Anyway, you can think what you will of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:04 PM
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Haha favorite comment today
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 10:02 PM
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So even after DEER'ing to her with excuses and bribes Are you sure you know what DEERing is? And are you sure you know what bribing is? (because you can't DEER with a bribe, that doesn't even make sense)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 04:12 PM
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That's...actually quite fascinating.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 09:14 PM
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Using the court example, an attorney You need to stop using the court example. Remember, in a court of law you are supplicating to the judge and/or the jury. You're in a position of weakness, you own that, and from that position, you attempt to persuade. What you're saying is to not be like the attorney, but like the judge, when it comes to your wife and kids. Wrong. A judge doesn't do that for the benefit of the plaintiff/defendant/attorneys, he does that for the benefit of future judges--his c…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/17 02:41 AM
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DEER on, Jesus boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 10:12 PM
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cool bro
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 03:24 AM
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The way he explained it sounded plenty like DEERing to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 02:45 AM
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Ah yes. Spirit of the word and all that ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 02:31 AM
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He explains himself You were doing great before that. That is literally DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 10:58 PM
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Agree 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 11:31 PM
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Hahaha actually pull out the computer right there on the bed and go to a porn site and whip it out. That'll teach her lol
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 09:17 PM
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I don't normally reply to women but I like your reply so I will (then hopefully the mods will delete your comment and send you on your way, bitch ;) No but actually feng shui is a big part of why I do it too. The mob boss example was actually what I thought of after I had the feng shui idea already. It's the same principle as having your house facing the valley, its back to a hillside, with neighboring houses on either side. That's a tactical and psychological position of strength (imagine armie…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 09:04 PM
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White knight nothing, bitch. You're literally telling the man something he just admitted to figuring out. It's an unnecessary reply. It's like someone saying "Holy shit, you guys weren't kidding about this lifting thing. I've been doing it lately and the results have been awesome. My dad never taught to me lift properly so I didn't see the value until I came on this site but now I see the value." And your dumbass comes along and says "pussy! lifting is awesome! don't make excuses! own your shit!…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 09:37 PM
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why..
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 09:33 PM
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I see nothing wrong with identifying why you didn't know about something in the past. You can only do something once you know about it. He's here. Apparently he's reading or at least paying attention. He's recognizing there are things he hasn't been doing right and he's fixing them. He's not trying to skirt responsibility. He's actually actively seeking out how to be more responsible. You're criticizing him for literally nothing. It's like you just wanted to beat your chest and cuss a few times …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 06:39 PM
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Secondly, stop crying about your father never teaching you things. There is a trend on here for men to bitch and moan about "Daddy not doing what he was supposed to". Guess what, you father was probably a bloop like you so he wouldn't have been able to teach you anyway. Both Daddy and hiding behind "perfectionism" are excuses to why you don't do shit. This post is literally blah blah blah, Daddy, wha, wha, I didn't do shit around the house until now and my wife noticed I wasn't as faggoty as bef…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 06:23 PM
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my wife was able to quit working did...did you want her to?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 06:16 PM
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i outrank her with looks that sucks
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 06:14 PM
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Oh Jesus, really?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 08:39 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by that? Because that sounds an awful lot like simply going with the flow, and I have a hard time seeing how any leader would do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 06:23 PM
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Cool. Hack or no, anybody complaining is missing the forest for the trees. They're either too stupid to see the point, or they're ignoring it so they have something to argue about.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 08:34 PM
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behaving in a dignified manner gets you what you want more than behaving like King Shit, far beyond the thing or issue you're addressing. Did someone suggest acting like King Shit in this example? Here's how I do it: "Actually, could we sit at that one? I like the lighting better/it has a better view of the game/etc" it's the furthest thing from King Shit. It's a very simple request, but it does knowingly interrupt a system and thus, requires a certain stomach for inconveniencing others. But it …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 07:43 PM
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If "actually could we have that one, it has a better view of the game, or better lighting" is that big of deal to you, you have bigger problems to worry about. You think I'm going to go in hours beforehand and scout out a place to find the table I want? Jesus, talk about overkill.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:22 PM
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HE. Not me. That guy did that and it got me curious about it. It's not a hack. It's not a playbook. It's one thing one guy did that got me thinking about how I lead, and I tried that one thing to see how it played out. It played out well, so I started looking for other ways to lead. This is not a hard idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:20 PM
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Are you going to throw a temper tantrum right there? See this is what's so stupid about the criticism you're levying against my "ask for a different table" post. Nobody is throwing a tantrum in that situation. It's simply asserting yourself by saying "actually could we take that one instead?" Like I said, they may have preselected my table according to some system they have so I know my making that request may inconvenience them, but it's hardly throwing a tantrum. And when my wife picks the wro…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:18 PM
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My takeaway from this was that to be a leader you need to know what you actually want. That's the only point of the post. The seating thing, as I thought I made clear but apparently didn't, was not important to me at the time. I had to force myself to make it just slightly important enough to me to actually do something that I knew would make others uncomfortable, but would push me into the frame of a leader in that particular situation. It then helped me see there were lots of other situations …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:05 PM
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I think the idea of using this as a "hack" to appear more alpha is what doesn't sit well "sit well" nice one ;) No, I see that, but it's actually pretty stupid because it's not a hack. It's just an example. We have lots of ways we could lead if we chose to. The restaurant example was just one thing that opened my eyes to the myriad ways we could, and in my opinion should, do that. Be a follower if you want. Fall into other people's frame if you want. If what you want that night is to simply rela…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:01 PM
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lol have an upvote
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 11:05 PM
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So you’re going to make a scene because your wife didn’t read your mind and select the chair that you had preselected in your mind. *edit - If "actually could we have that one right there?" is "making a scene" then yes. My 3 year old does that We can learn a lot from our 3 year olds.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 09:16 PM
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I would move.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 08:54 PM
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ah
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 04:49 PM
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Ah. Well then never mind. Good man.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 04:01 AM
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Perfectly put.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 02:04 AM
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Time to start mixing the beta back in (cheers, 88will88). Bull fucking shit. You're staying with that cunt? Look, I'm all about OYS. But when your wife steps out on you, it's not OYS to say "Oh well, that was my fault because I wasn't perfect in every single way." OYS is then to say "Ok, I blew it, and she cheated. The marriage is done. The only thing left for me to do to salvage my masculinity and regain her respect is to demote her. I'll do better in the next LTR--assuming I even want one." Ki…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 01:54 AM
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and that he has subsequently collapsed into a mush of supplication and bluepillness to try to get her back? That's all I read in that too.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 01:50 AM
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ok..
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 09:48 PM
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I'm... not sure what to make of all that.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 09:05 PM
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Well, obviously you aren't looking for advice so I won't offer any but I'd be curious to hear what that is, personally. Others might as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 08:37 PM
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You mean this? I've gone back to teasing the shit out of her about withdrawing attention from me when she comes by. Or something else?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 08:22 PM
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Whether she does, or you just perceive that she does, getting back to the basics of adding to the pipeline is, I think, your solution. I'm in sales. Sometimes it's tempting to get excited about a particular prospect, maybe it's a Fortune 500 company or some other brand name I know everybody has heard of. But if I stop prospecting and turn all my attention and energy toward that deal I swear they can sense it, and it pushes them away. It's the same with women. So many men's problems with their wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 08:07 PM
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perceived. that's the important bit. What's the difference? Can you fool yourself into thinking you have abundance when you don't? I know it's possible, but as I said, it's easier to have an abundance mentality when you actually have something in abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 07:56 PM
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Oneitis is oneitis and the cause is always the same, whether it's your wife, your LTR, or a plate: over-investment due to lack of additional prospects. You should always be adding to the pool, and allowing others to drop out. It's the easiest way to stay aloof and in control emotionally. Hard to have an abundance mentality without actual abundance. Get back out there and build that pipeline.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 07:44 PM
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Hence "akin." It has the same effect whether with your mate or your money. It's like skiing. Try not to fall, rather than attack the mountain, and you're 10x more likely to end up on your ass. Self-fulfilling prophecy. What the wicked fear will come about.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 03:55 PM
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It's not a shit test. It's not an anything test. She's basically asking you if she can get a really expensive haircut. The fact that you care is the problem here. You're in a scarcity mindset and you're doing something akin to mate-guarding. You're trying to dumb down your wife's looks so she doesn't leave you. She won't leave you because her SMV goes up relative to yours (not that it will at that age anyway), she'll leave you because she can smell your vagina.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/17 08:54 AM
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Turns out that ring doesn't work like a set of fake tits....How's your pre-selection, how are your options? You do have options, right? Oh, wait, you're a real man! You honour your vows, you aren't a sleazeball, you [insert pejorative morality here]! How's that working out for you? That made me warm inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 10:42 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 10:17 PM
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This conversation shows a severe ignorance of Christianity based on modern day stereotypes. I think you're listening to what blue pill pastors say rather than what the Bible actually says. No true scotsman is the religionist's favorite fallacy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 08:23 PM
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I've encouraged her by inviting her. I would never advise this.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 04:54 PM
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tl;dr: this guy found an asian chick in asia and now has it all figured out. We're misogynists and he's the Buddha of "quality" pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 08:02 AM
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"get fucking jacked, and work on yourself without telling your wife what you are doing. Give her dread by being the best damn man you can be." That's the same thing. But when your focus is on doing it for your wife, your energy betrays you. You're faking it, and she can sense that. If you think "I'm going to get pussy one way or another, from her, or from other younger, hotter girls" you'll still "get fucking jacked, and work on yourself" and you'll automatically be feeding her dread, but you wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 11:11 PM
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Don't chase your wife. You should be too busy being shady to be worrying about signs your wife is being shady. She should be too busy investigating your possible philandering to be getting involved in her own. Just get out of the house and go get some other ass to focus on. Then your wife will shape up and be the woman she's meant to be. *edit - focus on the top of the funnel and closing will take care of itself.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 08:24 PM
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I think they're giving too much importance to "lift" and not enough to "dgaf." Personally, I see lifting as just one of many things a man can do to recapture his masculinity if he's lost it. It's basically a sport. A man can play a lot of other sports and get the same general effect. MMA, teams sports, etc. It doesn't have to be "lift." I like to lift, and I have been doing it 6 days a week since I was 16, and I look good, but honestly there's a part of me that asks "why the fuck don't I just do…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 04:53 PM
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Tell me you've started dating other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 04:42 PM
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Yes. You don’t think it’s a bit disappointing to see that someone so well-regarded in TRP subs doesn’t follow the most basic aspect of TRP? No.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 05:59 AM
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Are people really complaining about his physique?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 03:50 PM
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There won't be a better reply than this. That's good shit right there. Favorite part? Betas should not exist in the natural world. Technology created them.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/17 04:02 AM
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The entire issue is no one can discuss ideas here A strawman for a strawman, I see.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 07:56 PM
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DEERing every reply. Also "me, me, me, me" throughout the main post. Feels like bragging. I'm still working on it but that guy really highlighted what I think I was doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 04:31 PM
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Nicely played. Also, I think I'm understanding what I did wrong when I first started posting here. It's taken a little while for me to put my finger on it, but u/stacysmomlovesme has really illuminated something for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 04:22 AM
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PS my wife doesn't go through my phone because it's MY phone There it is. I make it clear she doesn't want to find what's on my phone, and to help her out, I lock it with a 6 number passcode. She knows what I'm doing, she just thinks it's worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 04:21 AM
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I suggested they change the name to r/religiousRP, but honestly, that's giving it too much credit. Might just want to change it to r/christianity.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 03:50 PM
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She fucked the mailman today.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 02:04 AM
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To me that's RedPill. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 03:25 AM
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Would it be a bad idea to tell her what your wife understands if she doesn’t see it that way. I don't know. Maybe not. Letting her know that if she leaves she’s just going to find another guy who’s going to do the same thing. At least I’m being honest about it. Well not really HONEST. It's true, but you're coming from a place of manipulation, not honesty. Which is fine, but don't sooth yourself with "I'm just being honest." Also tell her I won’t do it often and use protection and not embarrass h…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 09:12 PM
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Women are always sexually submissive when they're trying to rope you in. Your side thingy, unless you don't have kids yet, is just a side thingy. Don't let yourself get oneitis for her. If you leave your wife for her and you two end up together, her flaws won't take long to manifest. If your wife is a good wife, like you say she is, then stick with her and just keep doing what you're doing (but not necessarily with this specific plate. I recommend dumping her and adding 2-3 more to the kitty). I…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 04:38 PM
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I disagree with u/Triadis3 in that you're helping her out. I also disagree. Way before I found TRP/MRP I had actually figured this one out on my own. When I pick up the house (I'm like 10x faster at it than my wife) and she says "thank you." I've straight up said "Um, it's my house. I didn't do that for you." It helped me avoid what I've now come to know are covert contracts. I could sense those a long time ago and I found this was a great way to beat them. I don't accept thank you's for handlin…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:03 PM
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Nah. Honestly, if I wasn't there with my wife, I would have made friends with them and had them join our group. They seemed pretty cool and would have only boosted my status that night. I was actually trying to do that anyway--I thought it was my strongest option. But it scared them off, and I thought that was quite telling about their intentions.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 07:40 PM
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with that comment if you don't look exactly like mr. miagi i'll be sorely disappointed
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 07:18 PM
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Maybe you're teaching, but you're just not skilled, and you should try communicating a little better? The guy is asking for help.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 06:57 PM
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Actually I thought it was appropriate for the setting. It wasn't like a nice sit-down restaurant or anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 06:56 PM
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That's true, I guess it does. If you knew what I majored in I think you'd be even more disappointed in me.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 06:55 PM
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If you want two in the kitty, well, girls man, they want to know they have a chance at locking you down. That's their fantasy. Bagging a high value male. So what are you going to say? They're probably going to ask if you're happily married. If it's a comfort test, I say, "Look, there's no sob story. I got in a serious relationship very young, before I knew myself, and then got married. I have kids now, so things are complicated. The judicial system isn't exactly built in my favor, and it's very …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 04:23 PM
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I think the difference is you entered marriage knowing this about yourself, and it is what you wanted. Yeah that's probably true. You have spoken before that you like the dual strategy, and even promote it. Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 04:12 PM
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I would bet so. The longest I ever saw someone else was 3 months. When they come to realize that they aren't going to get the time/commitment/resources they think they deserve for putting out, they usually give up. You might have a clinger on your hands.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 04:07 PM
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Funny. For me, I want it more with my wife after I've had a side dish. The hornier I get, the more I want strange. After I've had it, I feel this rush of love and appreciation for my wife for being who she is, and I immediately come home and escalate. Nothing makes the main course like a little spumoni beforehand.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:58 PM
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Awesome breakdown in those links. Great stuff. Biggest takeaway for me: treating women as equals, not as incapable children, actually repositions your relationship with them as entirely sexual, which actually makes the man and the woman much happier. In other words, only do for your wife what she absolutely can't reasonably do for herself. Don't solve her problems. Don't get up and get her a coke so she doesn't have to. Don't clean or change diapers so she doesn't have to. Let her take care of h…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 08:36 PM
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Have you considered becoming a junior high school teacher? ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 07:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 04:27 PM
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Don't be dishonest with yourself. Do not run away from what you are doing. This will make you feel bad. And feeling bad, guilt, will fuck you up. Yeah you're just moralized the debate. This is clearly a moral issue to you. Do you need to get your dick wet, because it hasn't seen the inside of a vagina for a decade? - You are not ready. Do you want variety but are getting consistent good sex in your life? - Create your slut. Are you just done with her , but are staying for what ever reason you ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 04:17 PM
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Probably. I know I've been DEERing all over the place the last few days (just learned what that was) so I probably have some other communication mistakes I'm making as well. Guess I don't know the sidebar as well as I thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 01:33 PM
1

You know you guys removed it, right? Nobody who didn't read my post in the first 15 minutes has any context for what you're even talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 09:11 PM
0

Nah I'm good, bro. I think I get this place now. Ya'll do your thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 09:06 PM
1

Yeah, apparently. Good reply anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:39 PM
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you aren't a masculine man who is owning his life based on what? You're defensive and needy When? Here in these threads? Or in my examples? I'm happy to take criticism when it's specific. But this place seems built on name calling and platitudes. I'm all ears to hear you, man. I'm just not going to read between the lines. Be specific. So you get your dick wet once in a while-- eventually it's going to blow up on you because you don't take responsibility for anything What are you talking about he…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:36 PM
1

Which part do you disagree with exactly? Do you think we should try to stop our wives from going on a GNO if they want to go? Or do you think the reverse psychology I suggested wouldn't work? I mean, obviously I don't support being a cuckold. This approach is meant as a deterrent to that while avoiding coming off as needy or weak--which is what we know mate-guarding portrays. I know Rollo suggests letting them go. What do you suggest?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:02 PM
1

Well I do now ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 06:58 PM
0

Great reply (and not just cause you agreed with me. good contribution all around)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 12:11 AM
2

That's a great story. Good example of why women should be sexually faithful. Trying to draw conclusions from that as a man though, I wouldn't. Now, personally, I try to steer clear of married women. Cheating is fun, but the risk of an angry husband finding out is a bit too high, even for me. I don't like that. And it's a good chance any married woman I would want to sleep with, I'm already friends with her husband. I may not take marital vows very seriously, but I'm down with the bro code. I'm s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 12:10 AM
1

You need to stop telling me that I'm looking for something other than what I've explicitly stated. I'm not looking for a non-monogamous relationship. I'm not interested in being open with the girl about it. Cheating is fucking fun. It is fun in and of itself. It's like staying up late as a kid when you know you're not supposed to, and then jumping into bed when you hear dad coming upstairs. Breaking rules itself is a rush. Cheating is a rush. If it's an agreed upon arrangement it's simply not as…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 12:04 AM
1

So, your chances of you hitting on your wife's friends, and her not telling someone (her husband or her friends) about it if she doesn't strongly reciprocate and is willing to have the same risks if she is also in a relationship? How much would you trust a woman to keep her mouth shut? I account for this. First, I don't advocate hitting on them. And if you're the kind of man who would be considered "creepy" by women, no I don't recommend the advice I gave. I do recommend it for men like me, as w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:50 PM
2

If you like both. Do both. Not lie about one and do the other. Yeah see, if you can find a way to do both without lying about one, you have my blessing. It's weak. I'm fine with that. Are we done?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:37 PM
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Yes the sex is pornstar, but not any better (and usually worse) than the pornstar sex with my wife. Well duh. Honestly, it's hard to get hotter than my wife. But that's not why I do it. I am willing to go a full two steps lower than her just for the sake of the variety, personally. A girl doesn't have to be on par with my wife, she just has be solid and NOT MY WIFE. That's plenty for me. Quality of girls you pull as a married man usually end up on the bar-slut end of the spectrum I mean, from a …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:29 PM
2

That's what I was thinking you were autistic. Haha exactly what I was thinking about you, but was too polite to actually say. Ask them if they cheat. Most of them don't. Do they want to? Fuck yea. But they don't. I could not give two shits if they do or not. I don't care how experienced they are on this board, this is my actual life experience I'm speaking from. I'll spell it out for you again: I. Like. Both. Being in an LTR. And. Dating. I. Like. Them. Both. So. I. Have. Both. So you can just d…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:20 PM
1

And by the sounds of it. It's be single. But it's not. It's to be married and be single. That's what I want. I'm starting to wonder if I'm dealing with someone with a disorder. It's like you can't possibly fathom that a man would want more than one thing at the same time. This is what I hear from you "Being a man, being a good captain, means choosing between cake and ice cream. No self respecting captain would have cake AND ice cream! It's ludicrous!" It's about owning your shit. Not lying. I do…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:08 PM
1

Being alpha is doing whatever the fuck you want to do and not apologizing for being what you are. At some point, someone told you that you would grow up and date girls and find a special one and get married and live happily ever after. If the red pill has not disavowed you of that idea yet, I'm not sure what you're posting here for. If you're just here to post your baseless, Disney channel dogma, I think you can just save it. Fact is, guys like both LTRs and the dating life. And they don't have …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 10:01 PM
1

Neat. Some of us like chocolate cake AND ice cream. I see that's a hard concept for you. But I think you're an outlier. Your replies are super aggressive too. It makes me question your angle.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:41 PM
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I agree. I think they can too. And I don't think this information puts them at a great risk. If they're in a shaky spot with their wives, I doubt they'll be brave enough to venture out in this way. Again, the key is holding frame. If you're a guy who melts and folds every time your wife throws a tantrum, cheating will likely get you dumped, because it's all about how you react to her reaction. When she hears you cheated, she will be thrown off, because if she hasn't been that into you lately it …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:38 PM
1

Haha you're good, bro :)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:34 PM
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Did I mention how hot the sex is? Lol. I'm so confused by this. I dare say my affairs HAVE been porn-like. I'm super curious what your experience was now.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:19 PM
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Most men don't have anything like what it takes to cheat on their wives and handle the fallout, even if they don't get caught - the feelz, the drama, the inevitable end to the affair, dealing with not one but TWO women shit testing them, etc. Those men should probably not have gotten married then, because their marriages will soon end anyway. Men with no game, no frame, no backbone, and no balls, don't stay married for long. Not unless she gets crazy fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:18 PM
2

A lot of the guys here, their wives would LOVE to be able to toss their bitch asses to the curb, get 50%, and get to be the victim are you fucking kidding me it's like their version of a wet fucking dream. They already can do that without you cheating. Women do it every day. They themselves branch swing when it's convenient, and then when they end it, the man never even knowing about the branch she swung to, she claims he was "emotionally abusive or detached" "they just grew in opposite directio…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:17 PM
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You want both? No. Yes. Any honest man will admit as much. If you want a LTR then be mature enough to be in one if not then you want to be single. Said every mother ever. If you're going to cheat you don't want to be in a committed relationship. Demonstrably false. You want your cake and eat it too then you say lie about it? How is that owning your shit. You will learn with age that honesty is only your friend sometimes. At other times only the dishonest get what they want. You can stroke your e…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:13 PM
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I will get permission from my guy Are we still letting women post here? Obviously she's going to disagree with me. My assumptions about women offend her. What good is a red pill site if we have to placate the feelings of women? How honest can we really be with each other? Guys, girls give shit advice. Your mom did, your sister did, your wife and girlfriends do, none of them want to believe the truth about themselves and so nothing they say has any value to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:10 PM
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Well I'm not too concerned. If they fuck up their lives they were probably on that path already anyway. They'll get divorced, they'll move on, they'll meet someone new, and hopefully they'll be smarter the next time because of some things they read here.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:05 PM
1

The affairs always end That's the beautiful part. You're already in an LTR. One of those is plenty.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:03 PM
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That's why we have posters like you. To remind these losers of their limitations. I don't necessarily disagree with you that this would be very bad advice for a lot of the men here, but I don't feel my message needs to be 100% applicable to every poster in order to post. Take what you can from the red pill, and leave what you don't feel comfortable with/aren't ready for yet. I think we can trust people to do that themselves. These aren't children.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 08:59 PM
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I love when guys hear something they wouldn't be comfortable doing and then respond by labeling it "beta." Friend, you will always want to be in an LTR when you are single, and you will always want to act single when you are in an LTR. It's not beta, it's your sexual duality. What's beta, in my opinion, is denying yourself either of the things that your biology clearly craves. Or rather, it would be beta if your reasons were rooted in fear or in some silly romantic notion you got from Disney mov…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 08:56 PM
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I'm a little confused. Why are you talking about older, married women? I guess I just assumed the girls would be single. They are for me anyway. None of this "you look great for an old bitch" stuff :) No, but for older married women I think you are giving great advice. It's actually quite solid stuff you suggest there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 08:50 PM
1

The only reason why a wife with children should work is to reduce alimony/spousal support payments in the event of divorce. The only reason? I disagree. I think that's a great reason, but I think there are other great reasons as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 05:43 PM
1

That's a totally fair reply. I don't really disagree with any of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 05:38 PM
2

Beautiful stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:47 PM
1

alright
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:46 PM
1

Haha well, he's 4. And he seems pretty excited about what he did that day whenever we pick him up so...I don't know what to tell you there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:44 PM
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Had she been a stay at home mom she probably would have cheated with multiple neighbors too. Keeping a wife at home doesn't protect you from cheating.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:43 PM
1

No that's totally fair. Like I said in reply to some other posters, if it doesn't make financial sense, it's definitely something to consider when deciding whether to do it or not. But the other benefits remain present either way, so it still might make sense for you to do even if financially speaking it's a cost rather than a gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:41 PM
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I appreciate the effort on that post. The cross-out schtick was cute. The thing is "everyone is different and everyone has a different answer to their problem" isn't really solid TRP. Is it AWALT (all women are like that) or is it SWALT (some women are like that)? Human beings across the board, are remarkably similar in their motivations and their desires. While some men are uncomfortable say...approaching women, for example, it would be disingenuous and harmful to let them know that "Oh, that's…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:39 PM
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Sounds like you might be projecting some personal issues from your mom about why your wife should work. Yeah that's a weird thing to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 03:33 PM
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Neither am I, friend. But it's the internet so...meh.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 11:25 PM
2

Did you mean to use the word "forcibly?" If you're worried about your wife being around men with money, maybe you need some extra time at the gym, or at the office, I don't know. But if keeping your wife at home is stemming from an insecurity you have, and you're essentially mate-guarding, you're already fucked. That energy will drive her to another cock faster than you can blink.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 11:21 PM
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Hahaha great response
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 11:19 PM
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*Edit: Your analysis also ignores cost of multiple kids, Studies show a 3 year gap between children is best. Unless you're an idiot popping them out every year, you should be able to afford it in most areas. Even if you have 12 children, if you keep them 3 years apart, the greatest number of your kids that will be in daycare at any given time will be 2 (by the time they're 6 they're in public school). and plenty of research showing kids that have lots of time with mom turn out better. I'm not go…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 11:17 PM
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apt name.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 10:58 PM
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There's nothing happening in an office with men and women that isn't happening in a neighborhood full of bored stay at home moms.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:43 PM
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Anyway I don't post very much only when the subject hits close to home Exactly why I'm so excited. I just love it when I say something that hits close to home for a female and she pipes up and gets the white knight cavalry on her side sans rationality. Women shouldn't be allowed in a red pill space unless it's specifically designed for them. It defeats the whole fucking point. Thanks for the welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:34 PM
-2

Oh Jesus. Yeah I'm just gonna love it here.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:28 PM
-2

Neat. (Don't women have their own red pill forum?)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:05 PM
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Which is why I made the distinction between christianity and what's actually in the bible in my post. I'm with you on Proverbs 31. I tend to think it perfectly describes my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:04 PM
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Hard not to be happy when you're hopped up on Xanax. If there is a SAHM in my neighborhood who is happier than my wife I would like to meet her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 09:02 PM
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You'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 08:05 PM
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Oh I'll be sure to write to each of you individually then. The strength of the red pill is actually in the generalities. If you're an outlier and a post doesn't apply to you because of something unique about you, that's fine. But I think it's perfectly appropriate for posters to generalize.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 06:49 PM
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That would definitely be something to consider, yes. That said, the other benefits may still apply even if financially it's not quite the boon that it would be in my area.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 06:47 PM
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but I would rather have a football coach or Electrical Engineer spend time with my future son instead of him being stuck in a house with a soap opera watching man hating woman that will make them all betabuxs. Agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 06:43 PM
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None of that is lost on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 04:45 AM
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"See guys?! See?! Did JUST what he said I would do. I said he would disagree with me and he DID! HA!" Man. Really?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:41 AM
1

Permanent. I asked. The most controversial thing about my posts over there, from what I can tell (which will also be the case here) is that I advocate cheating as a way to actually strengthen your marriage/LTR. But...that wasn't what he cited. He said I advocated for marriage itself (debatable, since I advocate for a faithless marriage) and he said that I was bro-knighting, which according to any definition I could find, I have never done, and he didn't bother looking up a single example where I…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:39 AM
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"Handle criticism" you mean I continue to disagree until I see a good point made that sways me? Oh, my reply had too much snark for you? Oh man, I better let everyone's opinions, which are always totally valid, just wash over me, no matter how piss and shit-filled they are. Just weird things to say. If you got something you disagree with me on, explain why. I always explain why I say what I say to anyone who asks, and I'm quite cordial with those who don't start name-calling first. But keep poli…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:36 AM
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What I've read here so far from these men is that they are here because they believe in the institution of marriage and they are looking for answers about why their marriages are failing Absolutely. They want to be better men. Also true. Personally I don't think many of them will agree with your childish advocacy of playing the field while married or in a committed relationship. Which I stated was my suspicion in my post. You come across as a hardened beta who is sex-deprived and angry so you'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:33 AM
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That's a more measured response, thanks. I've already made clear that I've lurked plenty. I know it's a different vibe. That's literally all I'm saying in this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:28 AM
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Most of your replies are dripping in this weird better than attitude, and instead of having reasonable conversations you start to take moral high ground and just imply you are still right without continuing the discussion in a reasonable way. Yeah, I probably disagreed with you once, and you didn't like that, and now you're tone policing me. I would have banned you too I have no doubt about that. You've already shown you can't handle conversing with someone who doesn't roll over and agree with y…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:26 AM
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Quality? Look at the top ten posts on this sub right now. The only ones I see that have good content are the top post on texting, and the one on the taming of the Shrew (an excellent post, actually). The rest....I mean...really? *edit - ok I do like the single dad vs single mom statistics one. That was pretty good too. But 3/10 isn't super great.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 02:10 AM
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The general tone here is that this sub is amoral. "Cheating" is neither encouraged nor discouraged. I encourage it. It will be interesting to see the reaction to that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 01:45 AM
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You just posted the thing in AskMRP about the weekday "almost 3some" and your wife disrespecting you right? No. At least I don't think I've even been to AskMRP. Ever. Almost threesome? Wife disrespecting me? You need to read the side bar and just observe here for at least a month. No more posts. I can just tell you're not ready for this sub yet. I can't tell, are you a mod? Because if thems the rules, fine. Otherwise, go fuck yourself. I'll post what I want. I know your sidebar. I know your post…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 01:39 AM
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I've been reading here for a while. I'm not here to join the echo chamber. It's boring to hear the same stuff over and over. If I don't have something that I think will push people out of their comfort zone, it isn't any fun to say. That makes some people, I think, think I must be trolling them, initially. But I'm happy to elucidate any idea that seems dim or unclear to anybody's satisfaction. It just appears to me that the guys on here, for the most part anyway, are sold on the traditional roma…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 01:14 AM
1

Perhaps. But I don't think I would feel as close to my wife's family, or she to mine, as I do being married to her. Those are nice things. There are other nice things. Not necessarily things that would sway you, but they're nice. And to me, they're worth it. The threat of divorce and divorce rape just isn't enough to keep me from it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:20 AM
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I don't know what to say, man. If the reasons I listed aren't compelling to you, but they are to me, then I guess we're at an impasse and need nothing more to say than "to each his own."
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:18 AM
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Again, I don't totally disagree. But it's kind of a chicken and the egg thing most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:16 AM
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Well be sure to call and let me know when one of my answers pleases thee, sir! lol, you kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:30 PM
-1

When what they're saying doesn't make sense, and I still want to talk to them, it's the only choice I have. I'm not going to argue with nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:25 PM
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If you're married and have kids but all you want to do is chase pussy you're a piece of shit. Oh. Ok. I'm glad the morality police showed up. It was getting to be too much fun in here. If you're gonna do that don't fucking have kids, neither marry. Nah, I'm good. Already did. Glad I did. f you want to spin plates just do it, stop being a child who thinks you can always get it both ways. You can't. Which is half the fun. You people make me laugh. You denigrate marriage while you pedestalize it at…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:23 PM
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if you can mold into every group you enter and dominate the conversation, you are guaranteed to pick up at least one girl. See, but there was your key.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:18 PM
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Sure. It's one of depth and community. The closeness you feel to her family. The closeness she feels to yours. The respect it gives you from your peers. The confidence it inspires in employers. The attractiveness in creates for you with other girls. The stability it provides your children. And that's just off the top of my head since you don't really want to know.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:18 PM
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I've never been seriously injured or lost half my income by skiiing, and I've been doing it since I was five. Weird, it's almost like experience in a particular area gives you the confidence and ability to navigate it without injury. What a novel concept? And I know people who have died skiing. Fuck half their income brochacho. Dead. And yet, you ski. I would hate analogies too if they showed me my thinking was flawed. Marriage is awesome. Now, when I say marriage, I think I might mean something…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:13 PM
1

the majority of us Good thing you found the red pill then. Once you've got your shit figured out, my advice to get married (and to cheat) might become more appealing to you. I wouldn't have a rookie start at middle linebacker week 1 either.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 09:08 PM
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I'm sure it didn't. It did for me and it has for several of my friends. I have my theories as to why.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:56 PM
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I like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 08:54 PM
1

Haha I've done that. I advocated cheating on wives and girlfriends as a means of stabilizing and enhancing those relationships. People were not fond of it :)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:52 PM
1

No, I've seen them. I just don't find them very useful. I just think people should shun low-status behaviors and adopt high-status ones. It's simpler, and it's easier to track progress.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:49 PM
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You are succumbing to a classic feminist shaming tactic You mean I'm making use of one. Fair enough. But it works. It got you all riled up an emotional, didn't it? ;) and then trying to perpetuate it by accusing others of cowardice. I think you mean "and then tried to bolster your bad decision to get married by accusing others who don't do it of cowardice." And yes, that is my argument. As you beautifully illustrate with this... It is a bad business and life decision. You could say the same abou…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:45 PM
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Where is this definition coming from? If we get into too many personality profiles rather than seeking to adopt high status behaviors and rid ourselves of low status ones, I'm afraid we've crept over into pop psychology and won't make much progress. I would focus on the behaviors my friend. Don't feel limited by some personality profile that kinda sounds like you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:38 PM
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Ok, I'll accept that. However... I am however a lone wolf. I stick to my group. ...those sound like different things to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:28 PM
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You can absolutely be married, have kids, and spin plates. Absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:23 PM
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she wasn't going to get anything too big out of it since she's still working as well Which is why it cracks me up that so many guys on here think that wives should be stay at home moms. So retarded. Gotta be the fact that so many are religious and assume everything their religion supports is automatically red pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:19 PM
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Not saying you're not telling the truth, but in blockchan's defense, your second comment does sound more applicable to your first comment than it does to mine. Can you explain what you meant?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:15 PM
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Gonna have to disagree. Fear of divorce rape is not a good reason not to get married. You can worship the dollar to that degree if you want, but I would get married again in a heartbeat. Has been absolutely worth it and if she leaves me and takes half my stuff so be it. I'm a capable man and can basically pull money out of my ass. The value that woman adds to my life is easily worth half my money. The problem, as I see it, is that fear itself. It's part of what drives men down into beta-hood. Th…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:57 PM
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Confidence is the #1 thing women are drawn to. The only thing you wrote that I'm not sure I agree with. I would say that SOCIAL STATUS (SMV) is the #1 thing they look for. Confidence (in the form of body language/eye contact/verbal skills/etc), reputation, good looks, friends, talents, money, career, education, fame, etc. all contribute to your perceived SMV, but I'm not sure one of those can be labeled as #1. SMV is what women have a nose for, and all those things are simply parts of it. It's t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:47 PM
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When discussing sexual strategy with a friend he said, "you sound like the guys on the red pill on reddit." So I came, and he was right.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 09:35 PM
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I literally lie to make sure my wife can still be happy while I go out and to the things that make me happy so I don't end up resenting her. I actually feel quite noble about that. A selfish bastard tells his wife/girlfriend he cheated just to unload his own guilt. I'd rather carry the cross of the lie than hurt that girl. But I have wants and needs too. One of those is to continue enjoying her company and body. And the other is to continue to enjoy the company and bodies of other women. The bes…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 06:23 PM
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Haha I LOVE THIS POST. I agree with everything in this. People don't have a right to know something about you just because they have the nerve to ask. Lying is your prerogative. Honest people are taken advantage of constantly. Religion beats you over the head with the importance of honesty so they can control you. Same was true of your parents. Be a man unto yourself. Keep your own secrets. Don't give anyone else power over you by caving to the shit-test they call "honesty."
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 06:18 PM
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Do you not consider it fearful to not tell your wife because you're worried she might leave you if you say you're sleeping with other people? I think it WAS fearful before she knew. Now she knows. See further explanation below. Why have you not opened up the marriage? Well, in a sense we have opened up the marriage. At this point my wife has established a loose don't ask don't tell policy with my cheating. I do her the courtesy of trying to hide it, and of keeping it on the DL so friends and nei…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:34 PM
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Because for whatever reason, it's not happening at home. Well that's simply not true. Had your post read I fucked up this potential plate, without acting like you only fucked it up because of a lack of abundance Do you take my abundance explanation personally? Were you hoping to diagnose a problem for me that, more than likely, you don't even understand because you're not married and the lifestyle I've just described is foreign to you. I'm not here telling you how good looking I am. I simply rep…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:29 PM
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Haha thanks Mother Theresa. Man, some of you.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 03:25 PM
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But the point still steams to stand doesn't it....how many other dudes did she enter her number into that night because they were leaving and in a hurry....who knows, you really want to think that this girl was itching to jump your dick....was she, who knows, the simple fact remain that it might have been she wanted somebody's dick and not particularly just yours....she still was not waiting anxiously by her phone for the one mega married dude that she gave her number to the night before. She li…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:16 AM
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Wow, man. That's deep. This sub is getting super deep. And it's "heed" not "head."
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:09 AM
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unless you're horribly dissatisfied sexually See this is where I know I'm talking to a kid who has never been married. Look, my wife is BANGIN (I know, I know I can't prove it so believe me or not I don't care), but there is no woman on earth, no matter how beautiful, now matter how horny, no matter how sexually talented, who could satisfy me long term all by themselves. Think of it like this: you fucking LOVE chocolate ice cream. It's, without a doubt, your favorite dessert. But you have recept…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:11 AM
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Nah, I just don't get it. Why get married if you're continuing to fuck other women? "But why male models?" (Pause) "Are...are you kiddin? I literally just told you."
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:07 AM
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if every time you become single I'm married so this doesn't happen often. I go out 3-4 times a month so it's a bit harder to round up the numbers. I know it can be done though. I've done it before, but it's been a while and I'm a little rusty.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 09:50 PM
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Part of your post is bragging about being so attractive and awesome with girls that it was only being a bit too keen that fucked things up (something you don't actually know for sure), and you want us to believe that you're attractive and could easily fuck hot women (despite being married) if only you were just a little less keen in your texting... And that's the problem. You need us to believe this about you, so that you can believe it about yourself. Holy shit, dude. Whatever you say.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:35 PM
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Yeah you're kind of expanding the scope a bit too much though to the point of becoming a bit more philosophical than I think this post warrants. You're not wrong, you're just...trying too hard on this one, I think.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:15 PM
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It's funny, that scene from Tommy Boy comes to mind. "I love my pet. I pet. I stroke it. And then I SMASH IT!!!!" That's how I feel when I only have one girl or one sales deal in my pipeline. Look, I know you've got this whole philosophy of how to be a loser but feel like a winner, but I'm just saying it's a lot easier to feel like a winner when you really are one, then the feedback loop is awesome, and life is on easy mode. It's not really that debatable, unless you just REALLY want to get into…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:13 PM
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You said "made off with", as if you stole some prize. I'm fine with bragging, and had you said "banged her in the toilets" then fine. But you talked up how you got their numbers while wearing rings. A number is meaningless dude.... as you found out. Only virgins are impressed with phone numbers. My problem is that you're simply harping on a point I already made myself in my post. Do you also stop reading a book after the first chapter to write suggestions to the author? You clearly started readi…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:09 PM
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That is actually a good enough reason all by itself. I've come to realize though, from being both single and dating and from being in LTRs, that I always miss the opposite lifestyle before too long. We have a dualistic nature, sexually speaking. We want familiarity and the comfort that comes with it and we want the variety and the excitement it brings. At some point I finally accepted this and stopped buying into the idea that one should only get married when they got all that variety stuff that…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 05:09 PM
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Haha, you need to read my post history. I'm not worried about Divorce Rape, friend. First, my wife has a job and makes great money. That's a huge mitigator and why I always recommend demanding your wife work. Second, it is my experience that cheating on your wife is actually a good practice if you want the marriage to last long term. It's all about energy, like anything else. The need for abundance doesn't stop once you get married. The value of options (plates, if you will) doesn't go away. The…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 04:56 PM
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Her phone number is not a prize. Getting a number is not an achievement and nothing to brag about. That's not bragging. It's part of the story. Yeah, this was caused by scarcity and ego investment. Gee, I wish I already said that in my post... OP - You know what to do. Get more options. Haha, yeah. That was the whole argument of my post. This wasn't an advice seeking post, man :)
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 04:51 PM
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Hm. I actually don't agree with that statement at all. It seems a little nonsensical to me, because I've known guys who seemed to not have anything to be confident about, and yet they came off crazy confident, and then the assumption is they must be confidence about SOMETHING, and women treat them as if they do. That said, I no longer like the title of my post. It should read "Abundance Mentality is easier when you have actual abundance."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:45 PM
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The reason TRP says keep text to just logistics is because most guys don't know how to text for shit and end up saying something stupid to fuck things up for themselves. Yes, I think my experience was clearly an example of that. Personally, I'm not against a short conversation via text to warm her up before setting up logistics. But when you're just sitting there having an actual conversation and don't even bother setting anything up, you're not thinking about it the right way. High value guys d…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:37 PM
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If you believe the abundance is there, you have actual abundance. It's kind of hard to believe you have a big group of women at your beck and call when you know you don't have a big group of women at your beck and call. Again, I admit that having unfounded confidence isn't impossible, just that it's easier when it's built on an actual reality about your life at the time.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:34 PM
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Don't wait 3 days to text her, full up your calender with important mission driven events that cause you to not text her for 3 days. I haven't read Black Dragon so I'm not sure. But it's not open. I just cheat.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:32 PM
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Meh. I've nailed plenty of girls in that scenario. The night she gave me her number she invited me to her hotel room for her birthday part for two days later. I think it was more about the fact that she entered her number in my phone quickly because I was leaving and then I forgot to send the text with my name so she had my number too. I was the only one with the other person's number when the conversation began. I think you're reading too much into that. Normally I would say you're right, but y…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 03:31 PM
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Looks matter for guys, but it is FAR LESS important then character and behavior attributes Character? No. Behavior? Yes. Looks-wise you only need to cross a minimum threshold IF you have confidence/swagger. Just cross that minimum threshold and your game can do its thing. But the better you look, it's true, the less game you need. And you are also correct that nobody should be accepting defeat here because they don't look like a male model. Are male models living on easy street in Pussyville? Ye…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 04:31 AM
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I was unaware that most guys here were 5'4. Honestly if I was that tall I would seriously consider limb lengthening surgery. Being that short, in my opinion, is basically a disability.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:05 PM
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Being good looking is literally social status, people think they are separate. Good insight. Social status can be built and communicated in a variety of ways. Being super good looking is one of those ways. But lets be careful and not imply that it's the ONLY way. Because it's not.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:36 PM
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This actually should give guys here a lot of hope. There are no good options for increasing your height once you're an adult. But plastic surgery has been around for a long time, is plenty affordable, and is constantly getting better. If you really do have a face for radio, head over a to a plastic surgeon and just ask him straight up what 2 or 3 things you could do that would make the biggest difference. Then do it. When you compare the cost of reconstructing your face to building an adonis bod…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:33 PM
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Great post. So guys, the obvious question then is: how does one cut through all that noise, stand out, and get that pussy?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:25 PM
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Yeah what the fuck. It was actually well thought out and well written and the repetition was a brilliant touch to drive home a very important reality.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:14 PM
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Fucked a 40 year old milf last night Stopped reading there. If the girl is over 29 I don't want to hear your story.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:10 PM
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Correct. In my experience, the best practice is to stare, don't smile, and when she makes REAL eye contact (i.e. she stares for longer than a second or two back), wink. Then look away. God I love the wink.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 05:06 PM
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Haha ok then. You go walk that dog, homie.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:55 PM
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Really? Cause that's literally one night at a bar/club and POOF, you've got at least one, if not several more dating/plate options. Maybe it's too much investment if you have social anxiety and are afraid of meeting people, but otherwise it's a piece of cake.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:03 PM
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Right but keep in mind that they don't just calculate her earnings, but also consider her earning potential. So if she does get an advanced degree before her actual income reflects it, if it's anticipated that it will increase because of it, they may take that into account. Besides, if she uses the degree to get a good job post divorce you'll also owe less. There just really isn't much of a downside to having your wife work. 70/30 may not be perfect, but it's a lot better than 100/0.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:02 PM
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Anyway, like I said, I don't think either of us is going to convince the other that their way is the best. Probably not, but I thought it was fruitful nonetheless. You brought up some good points.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:33 PM
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Correct. They will calculate her earning potential. If she has it, you'll owe her less.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:19 PM
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"Its not like it takes all day babe" That's something I love about my wife. We always like to laugh at the stay at home moms in their sweats at the park who are staring at their phones while their kids play on the slide or swim in the pool, we say "Look at that. Someone doing the world's hardest job. What a warrior." She's literally a babysitter and a housekeeper and is worth $15K/year. My wife makes over $50K. And that's just the monetary benefit to not being a moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:17 PM
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Just checked, there was a study about breast milk study carried out by a medical school (Rutgers). Yeah I just looked it up too. Article on WebMD says it loses a tiny bit of antioxidants but is still better than formula. Not exactly a huge difference and certainly not worth employing the stay at home mom model when you consider all its other shortcomings. Good food is important, but it doesn't have to be perfect. I think you're making a bigger deal out of that than it deserves. There is also com…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:01 PM
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There's research out there that kids who were kept at home have fewer behavior problems than kids who were in daycare And there are studies that show the opposite. But lets take your studies as the definitive word on this for now. There's actually a simple reason for that and it has nothing to do with daycare being a worse option than a stay at home mom, but the demographics of most of the kids who attend daycare vs those who don't. At our daycare for example, the vast majority of kids come from…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:36 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:19 PM
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BUt yo if you need to make friends with some dudes Weird thing to say, man. There's no need involved. It's simply the fastest way to build social proof and comfort with a new group without being frozen out. Guys cock block if you're good looking and you're talking to the girls in their group but not with them, but if you start by walking up and starting a conversation with the guys, you're in automatically with almost no effort. When the girls see you talking to their guy friends/boyfriends/husb…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:13 PM
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I can't stand video games. I always end up with the new system every few years because I think THIS is the system that I'm gonna get into, but then I never touch the thing. But Angry Birds on my phone when taking a shit? Fun as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:07 PM
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Don't mistake this for me saying give up easily I'm simply saying OP went through all that self improvement only to go back to the same girl. Is that something we should encourage? No that's a great point. I'm gonna have to agree with you on that.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:03 PM
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Well put.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:02 PM
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See that's the home schooling argument, which I already disagree with. Preschool age kids literally just need to be kept from killing themselves, it's not like they're at daycare learning political philosophies that I need to protect them from or something. They're learning their ABC's, the words to Disney theme songs, and how to share with friends. Raising kids isn't rocket science.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:01 PM
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Mother nature didn't design anything. The human beings on this planet aren't here because mother nature took care of them, but because our ancestors learned to survive in spite of her. We've been developing better and better systems throughout our entire existence. We invented breast pumps. We invented economies. Babies don't need their mothers present in order to get the advantages that come from having a mother, and the only reason I can think of that someone would think otherwise is a religio…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 01:58 PM
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LOL it really is. I prefer instagram and angry birds, personally, but I won't judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:50 AM
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And yet...you typed up that novel?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:29 AM
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What the fuck kinda post was this?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:28 AM
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We took him into daycare when he was 6 weeks old. We sent him with my wife's breastmilk every day for the first year or so, and by federal regulations they had to have 1 "teacher" for every 3 children in the infant stage, so they get plenty of attention and care. They mostly eat, sleep, and shit at that age anyway, and there's plenty of time for mama cuddles and skin on skin time and all that other shit after we both got home from work. I'm telling you, it's a great setup and I would recommend i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:23 AM
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Disagree. Friend game is the tits. Treat women exactly the same way you treat men. Easiest way to get in with a girl is to make friends with the guys around her, then make friends with her, then exchange phone numbers with her under the guise of that friendship, then invite her to do something with just you via text, then meet up alone and initiate kino, then take off her clothes and put her hand on your dick.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 11:37 PM
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I cannot disagree with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:31 PM
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I cannot disagree with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:31 PM
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You can't get cucked nonsexually.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:30 PM
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Again...what??? The answer isn't "learn to sing." Is this real life?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:30 PM
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what the fuck havent I done. I can squat 240 now for fucks sake. LOL...what? Is that what you've been getting from this sub? That if you can squat a lot you're golden? Tell me that's not what you've gotten from this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:29 PM
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what the fuck havent I done. I can squat 240 now for fucks sake. LOL...what? Is that what you've been getting from this sub? That if you can squat a lot you're golden? Tell me that's not what you've gotten from this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:29 PM
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Yeah I thought the subtext here was more about using clothes shopping to get you laid, but I get ya.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:22 PM
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Love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 11:21 PM
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That must be hard ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 08:59 PM
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Step 1: Go to an expensive and popular clothing store Step 2: Ask most attractive young girl there for assistance picking out things she thinks are in style Step 3: Buy the clothes and get her phone number Step 4: Take your new clothes to a tailor and get them all tapered to your exact shape Step 5: Take out young attractive girl in your new clothes and fuck her Step 6: Come home and fuck your wife (wife sex is best right after strange sex) Redpillrobby's fashion course. Free of charge.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 08:27 PM
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Do I like the condescending tone they have toward their "inferior" sisters? Not really. I do. I agree with them entirely. Women SHOULD get real jobs. Leave the daily babysitting to daycare and housecleaning to maids. Better care for the kids, way more income, less stress for both parents, and less risk from alimony in divorce. That's our setup and I would never change it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 08:18 PM
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I think feminists feel really powerful using the arsenal of terms and labels their feminists professors have armed them with, even if those terms and labels don't actually apply. When you disagree with them, they have a toolkit of terms and labels for you too that are designed to shame and silence you. But don't back down or apologize and once you get through their initial barrage they usually back down quite quickly and become more compliant. Kind of a good time to fuck them, actually.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:01 PM
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Well, your communication style is part of what establishes your SMV. Remember, a girl doesn't KNOW what your SMV is. She's piecing it together. This guy actually already did something very high value: he forgot about her and stood her up and then waited a long time to reply when she complained about it. That probably doesn't happen to her a lot and it creates a TON of intrigue ("what was he doing that was so important? how busy has he been that he took that long to reply? how many girls is he en…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 07:52 PM
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Haha you're still in, bro. Here is your text reply: "something came up. come to my place tonight at 10:15. wear black heels" If she protests in any way, don't reply. Just wait. She'll show up with those black heels.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:10 PM
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What should COULD have done is irrelevant here. He took risks, for sure, but women detect when a man is taking a risk, and that they don't care they're taking a risk, and the respond by keeping the game going. What he did worked. I'm impressed how he found ways to apply Greene's principles, and you should be too. You honestly should be taking notes.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:05 PM
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The chase itself is rewarding. The hotter the girl, the wider the moat and higher the wall is to get to her. If you're good with 5's and 6's then just walk around to all the girls with muffin tops and offer them dick. No effort required. But if you want some high quality ass, a little strategy goes a long way, and it's immensely rewarding. Stop acting like all pussy is created equal.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:02 PM
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Haha well cheating isn't a "quality" it's a tactic. I don't know why I feel like I'm trying to convince you of this. You do what makes you happy, bro.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 04:08 PM
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I literally just laid out in great detail how it's better. And "raised" really? That's the emotional term you chose for daytime babysitting? My kid sees my wife and I every day, in the morning before "school" and from 4pm until he goes to bed between 9 and 10, and we spend all day together on Saturday and Sunday. If you needed more time than that with your mom and dad growing up, something was wrong with you. This hyper-conservative irrational child rearing doctrine that is so prevalent with the…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:29 AM
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if you're lucky, her ending the relationship is all she does. Then I must be a leprechaun. Better advice would be to not enter LTRs. For a lot of guys here, I would have to agree.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:25 AM
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Haha, careful when you say that. I'm also the guy who advocates cheating on that awesome wife ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:28 PM
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I'm an atheist Yeah everybody who sounds like a Christian on here is an atheist these days. Go figure. It works out in terms of my personal relationships (friends, family ect) and my professional ones too. I'm going to adjust that statement for you. "It works with people who keep their word in return." You should know by now, from this sub, that women only keep their word as far as it is convenient for them. You know this about women. You know, when you commit to someone, whether by giving her g…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:24 PM
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But you are religious, correct? Also, again, why not? Why is "keeping your word" so important to you? Where did you get that?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:08 PM
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In divorce court? No. Before divorce court? Yes. Yeah I'm not sure where you're getting that I think cheating will help you in court. I mean, it's no-fault divorce now, so it won't really hurt either, but I'm not sure why you said this at all. The value is found in the fact that it proves to your wife/LTR that other women still want you, and that if she leaves you, your life will go on just fine without her, complete with a pool of pussy to swim in. This literally makes her take a psychological …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:02 PM
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Think about who you are talking to on this sub... Haha well...yeah that's probably your strongest point. I'll give you that. Perhaps this is advanced game and not appropriate for everybody. I don't know. I'll think about it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:56 PM
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It is wasn't because of how they handled the after-talk....it was that they stuck their dick in the secretary, waitress or barista. I'm just gonna have to disagree with you. You didn't offer anything that suggested otherwise. Also, did you just say "snod off"? I love your little island :)
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:07 PM
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Did you bother reading what you just wrote before you hit send? That last line is brutal to read. Man you must be making your life must suck. It's like a brain twister. And yeah, in the words of Dr. House (I loved that show). "Everybody lies." Get over yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:53 PM
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Stop giving shit advice from your low status hoe experience.... Haha, low status hoe? Yeah...I'd say that's just about how people depict my wife and the women I cheat on her with. Also...stripper? Why would I fuck a stripper? Also, send me any and all cases you covered at your large law firm, I'll call those men up and ask them just three questions about what they did when their wives found out they cheated, and I guarantee your clerk-ass that I can tell you exactly what they're going to say, an…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:46 PM
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He's a liar if you will. Yes, and what's wrong with being a liar? Your religious teachings on the matter aside. Here you are, preaching at me like a Christian missionary. I couldn't give two shits about your respect, I care about fucking your girl. Your need to keep your word won't protect you there, buddy. I think this is the wrong sub for you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:35 PM
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Your reputation with whom? With women? Because it certainly won't hurt you with women. When women hear you're a scumbag, they get intrigued, not turned off. I think you've created a world in your mind that doesn't exist. Also, you're clearly romanticizing LTRs and marriage to the point that you actually have oneitis for the idea itself. Nothing is truly sacred. If you want to go through life "keeping your word" about everything because it gives you a religious hard on, be my guest.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:32 PM
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Yeah, me, my friends, and a handful of posters on this sub who have experience in this area will have to disagree with you on that. If you don't have experience in this area, you really shouldn't opine. And if you do, and she left you, I'm sure I could tell you why. And it wasn't because you cheated, but more than likely, because of how you handled her finding out. But if marriage scares you, or actually, if divorce rape scares you, I don't suggest you get married. That which you fear and defend…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:30 PM
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His "word" is the only true thing of value a man has in life Says who? Your religion? This sounds like morality-based concern trolling to me. An attempt to emotionally manipulate men into doing something that's agains their interests by making an emotional appeal to a religious ideal. Do we still allow that here?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:15 PM
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you being anxious of rejection leads you to get rejected. Correct. And being afraid of divorce rape, and thus doing everything your wife asks and giving her complete control of your sex life by not cheating, leads to divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:58 PM
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He was no longer valuable to anyone but her and what good is that? Another reason I advocate for cheating on wives/girlfriends. Hard to argue no other girl wants you when other girls are fucking you. Switch on their competitive drive and reap the benefits.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:51 PM
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This is correct. It's not about who she is, it's about how you hold yourself and what you demand and what you're willing to walk away from. AWALT, so be the man that takes advantage of that. Even in an LTR/marriage.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:40 PM
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Good for you, but don't stop spinning those plates. Or at least still pick them up every once in a while. LTRs last a lot longer, and both parties are a lot happier, when the man still acts like a man (and that means spinning plates/cheating). Good luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:38 PM
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Yes but see your wife is in an actual career, seems driven by a purpose and seems successful. Yes but my encouragement had a lot to do with that. When we first met she worked in fast food/retail. And yes, most guys will end up with women with shit jobs (if they have a job), but if you encourage them to keep that job, and to seek promotions and education, that income goes up substantially over time, as it did with my wife. Honestly, if she earned just $1 more than it would cost me to pay someone …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:31 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and dissent with the posters on here (most of whom I can only assume are religious) who say a woman's place is in the home when in an LTR/marriage. I think the stay at home mom model is complete shit, and is part of what makes marriage suck so bad, for both men and women. I have always encouraged my wife, since we were first dating, to work. It's simple math really. If she stays at home to babysit our kids and clean our house and cook me dinner when I get home, the opportunity…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:54 PM
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And it says in the sidebar that once you're in an LTR, to stop behaving the way you were behaving when she fell for you? If the sidebar says that, the sidebar needs updating. Spinning plates is TRP 101. Its value doesn't disappear the moment you get into an LTR. Connect the dots, kiddo. Must you be directed in all things?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:28 PM
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THANK. GOD. SOMEONE. ELSE. SAID. IT. Don't live in fear of someone taking your money. The same principles we use to attract and keep women apply to attracting and keeping money too. If you need it too much, if you aren't willing to walk away from it, through divorce or whatever, then and only then do you become a slave. Getting married doesn't make you a slave. Being afraid of divorce rape does. And that doctrine is the soup de jour on this forum. It's bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:44 AM
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Honor your fucking commitment and don't cheat on your wife. Idiot. Go read Love's Labour's Lost by Shakespeare and then come back here and try spouting that horse shit again, Jesus Freak. Fucking Christians everywhere today (and thus comes the obligatory reply "Nuh uh! I'm an atheist! I've heard of Hitchens! So I'm totally credible!") Jesus Freaks. Jesus Freaks everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:42 AM
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Alpha males fuck anything and everything they want. Don't set up a facade that you're a cheater when you're not. Be a cheater. The energy then flows naturally and all her mate guarding systems switch on and you're on easy street. The happiest guys I know (myself being one of them) are married guys who cheat. And the happiest women I know (my wife being one of them) are married to men who cheat. Men cheating is a win-win for everybody.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:40 AM
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Don't. Ever. Use TRP lingo with your wife. Jesus Christ, man. Of course he needs to work out, but this is time sensitive. He needs to get out there and score some strange NOW. And the next time I see someone tell someone to use dread game without admitting that REAL dread involves FUCKING OTHER GIRLS I'm gonna lose it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:38 AM
1

Haha, because TRP hasn't been completely inundated with basement dwelling losers who have never seen a real pussy in their lives, right? Should you lift and work on yourself? No shit, Sherlock. But should you fuck other bitches STAT??? Yes. Ghost your wife a couple nights a week and fuck anything you can. Fuck her friends. Fuck her sister. Fuck, fuck, fuck. I'm from the church of fuck. And fuck is the way, the truth, and the life. All hail fuck. Also, fuck kidbagz' weak-ass feel-good mom advice.…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:36 AM
1

Before you go get a side fling in the hopes your wife will "love you more" you should aim to become a better person/man foe yourself, not to please anyone else. What the fuck kind of bullshit-feel-good-shit-your-mom-would-probably-tell-you advice is that? You want him to hug a tree too? Yes, OP. Fuck other bitches. It will make you happier because you crave the variety and it will make your wife more into you because she craves exactly the kind of man who would do that. Fuck this guy and his fee…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:33 AM
1

Fuck this guy. Cheating doesn't just save marriages, it builds them. Right from the start, 1 month into my marriage I cheated and got caught...it's been all uphill from there, and I've never stopped. Oh but you keep talking, your take is clearly well thought out practical wisdom. By all means. Teach us master.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:31 AM
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I would definately be flirting and dating on the side, getting your MOJO back so to speak and keep it (ie your mojo) "lying around like a loaded gun" on the kitchen table. Just have no fear of walking away or getting caught, no apologies...just take care of your responsibilities. Wow. Where the fuck were you in my thread from two days ago? It's like...jeez, this red pill stuff really DOES work on marriage (just don't call it "cheating" because the concern trolls will lose their fucking shit on y…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:29 AM
1

She literally looks down on me unless she thinks I'm sleeping with other women or some other chick shows interest in me. Then it's a 180 degree turn where I'm getting nice dinners, back rubs, and bjs. Ha! Did you come here just to vindicate my other post??? I love it!!!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:26 AM
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I agree. I just don't use the word. Because I'm male.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:00 AM
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Well, I appreciate the effort. And as for the land whale I married, well...if you say so. As for me giving my power over to her to some degree I can't say I disagree with that either. But you see, I don't really regret getting married. Partially because obviously i have a taste for land whales, but secondly, because unlike most of your friends here will never come to realize because they are in fact ugly losers and they won't ever date or marry a...land whale like my wife (I so like that term), …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:53 AM
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Well I majored in English, so I think I spent plenty of time doing that activity earlier in my life already. That said, anyone who has dedicated just a little time to reading actual books would have received the same headache I did when reading your reply. A man would do well to learn to spell. It can only increase his credibility, both professionally, and when conversing with strangers online.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:34 AM
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Whether something is or is not creepy is not the question I'm posing. But whether a man should use the word, when other words are available to him that don't make him sound like a homosexual who has been watching too much Oprah. The word itself is fine, I just don't think it's a word that behooves men to make use of.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 03:31 AM
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Did you seriously just spell "vocabulary" wrong while trying to make a point about vocabulary? Jesus, man. Read a book.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:38 PM
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In the words of a excellent and truthful female comedian, Iliza, "All guys are creepy when they're ugly. Nothing a hot guy does is creepy. It's just plain old flirting." I personally try to avoid using the term. I think it makes me sound like a gay guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:37 PM
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Yes. And as I've said in my post, I don't recommend marriage, and I found the red pill after already being married, so I'm not sure what point you think you're making. MY point, is simply that in any long term relationship, whether a girlfriend or a wife, cheating (often referred to as plate spinning) is a great way to have an LTR while avoiding oneitis. It's actually literally not new AT ALL. it's TRP 101 directly from the sidebar. Your little sensitivities are just triggered by the word "cheat…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:34 PM
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Fair enough. Jesus though...56? I just can't bring myself to fuck anything over 30 yet.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:31 PM
5

Oh yes. Very nice. Also good. Maybe better.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 08:29 PM
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It's a bitch term used to shame men by feminists. It's not a word men should use about other men.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:45 PM
2

I find that reading slightly more difficult literature in the morning centers my mind in much the same way meditation does, but it seems to have the added benefit of making words form more clearly in my head and more easily roll off my tongue throughout the day.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:44 PM
1

Age of these girls? They sound older.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:40 PM
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If you're a man using "creepy" on this sub you shouldn't be allowed to post. He was being colorful. Also, his script is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:37 PM
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everything you'd imagine a unicorn to be. When I read comments like this I automatically think "Didn't read the sidebar." Unicorns don't exist--that's the point of the term. If she's an HB9 or 10, just say that.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:34 PM
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Don't tell her you know. Tell her you met someone else and don't have feelings for her anymore. A woman, whether she has cheated or not, can't stand that kind of rejection and it sends your social value through the moon when you do that. Say you're breaking up with her because she cheated, and it could go in too many directions. She could weaken your frame by accusing you of stalking/spying, claim that's the reason she cheated, and slew of other possibilities. The best way to break up when you f…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:31 PM
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I like all the LOL's you use, you alpha man. Such a tiny dicked bitch.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:25 PM
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Which part do you believe I misunderstood? Holding frame? Keeping options open? My guess is you're a religious bitch who is still uncomfortable with the word "cheat." Keep beating off to Jesus dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:33 AM
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Who the fuck are you? I like how twats like you come on and say "see other losers who can't get laid agree with me and disagree with you so you must be wrong!" And yeah, bitch, you really should read the fucking sidebar. It's basic theory. Fucking basic.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:32 AM
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I got downvoted into the pavement because my audience was a bunch of single pussies who have never gotten laid in their lives. Also, I'm guessing you are also Christian. And yeah, God doesn't exist and you're an idiot for thinking otherwise. Twat.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:31 AM
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I think you meant this reply for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:04 PM
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No, it's about Christians having a hard time with RP's lack of Christian morality (thus why half the sub lost their minds when I suggested cheating as a good strategy in both LTRs and marriages--the old Christian knee-jerk). Also that being Christian is objectively stupid. And no shit my bias is showing, I used to be Christian.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:02 PM
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Yeah I'm still not quite getting it. Anyway, if he got angry in front of her, I disagree that it was a good/effective thing. In my experience getting angry is a failure of a shit test and results in an increased frequency of shit tests (which means you're moving in the wrong direction). The passing of shit tests leads to less frequent shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:57 PM
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Yeah. That's why the bible is such shit. You can make it mean whatever you want it to mean. But if you believe in God, you are wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:49 AM
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Oh that's ok. I don't care what you think. That line has gotten me laid by flakes more than a few times. I don't need it much now, but when my game was in its early stages, this saved me many times. If your game is so tight and your options so plentiful your 9's and 10's that aren't giving you enough time can easily be tossed to the side, then good for you. The reason the line works isn't because of disqualifying yourself, it's because you disqualified her by virtue of your new taken status. It'…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:56 AM
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You'll forgive me but your post doesn't make it clear how you think we disagree. I'm not sure how to respond to you until I know that.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 01:54 AM
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"The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun. Is there any thing whereof it may be said, See, this is new? it hath been already of old time, which was before us. There is no remembrance of former things; neither shall there be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that shall come after." Ecclesiastes 1: 9-11 One of the few truly brilliant passages in the Bible (outside of Ecclesia…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:32 PM
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I disagree. He should send this text "hey I'm kinda with someone now--still down to hang but just as friends. cool" I should honestly send a bill to everyone in this sub for giving away that line.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:26 PM
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Fuck it. They're all weird as fuck and impossible to please. Doesn't matter what you do, you'll never win. Women are pretty simple, homie.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:17 PM
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Go find the 25 year old version, you pussy.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:16 PM
5

I know I don't agree with this. Your take is correct. OP is reveling in his weakness.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:15 PM
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Because Christians follow Christian morality for the sake of Christian morality (so do Muslims, Jews, Mormons, etc). They don't stop and ask why something is moral or immoral. They stop at "God said so." They often go "Oh well God said not to murder and he's clearly right about that, so I guess I should always tell the truth even if that means telling the Nazis who just knocked at my door that 'Yes, Her Schmidt, I do have the Jewish neighbors hiding in the basement. I cannot tell a lie!'" Fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:11 PM
1

I'll take that as a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:06 PM
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He's religious. Anybody who still believes in God is gonna have a hard time with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:41 PM
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That's my take. Except I love to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 03:41 PM
1

I use this tactic, and it works, but I think you've overthought why it works.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/17 09:48 PM
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You are correct. "emotional affair" fucking hogwash. Just keep that pussy clean for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/17 06:44 PM
1

Good points. I find one of the best ways to mate-guard without mate-guarding is to actually INVITE the infidelity, verbally. If you think she's going somewhere inappropriate, just tell her to have a good time and suck a lot of dick. Something clicks in the female brain when you actually PUSH her to, with your words, to do something she knows you don't want her to do. It freaks her the fuck out. It makes her think that, if she goes, that's what YOU plan to do (not suck dick, obviously, but fuck a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 06:30 PM
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You're responding to someone who is assuming that women are polygamous, not hypergamous. Now, granted, it's possible that your wife has found men she thought had better genes/etc than you and fucked them, but keep in mind the risk, the cost, if you are, yourself, exceptionally high on the SMV totem pole, is exceptionally high for her. My guess is she would have to come into fairly regular contact with such guys, or one such guy, many many times before getting up the guts and working out the logi…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:13 AM
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No my childhood was fantastic. They bickered sometimes and that was never fun, but that can be said of most people whose parents stayed together. But I got twice the holidays and birthdays and twice the friends. It really wasn't bad at all. I then went on to college and graduated with a 3.5 GPA and have a wonderful career and a wife most guys would murder a small village for. If you're that convinced that divorce is the worst thing in the world, I'm gonna guess that you're Christian or Mormon. I…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:05 AM
1

So you get all your sexual needs met from one girl? Kudos to you, bro. I mean, I doubt you're REALLY a man if that's the case. It goes against your ENTIRE nature. But if you're happy, I'm happy :)
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:01 AM
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The question isn't with the woman, it's with you. Can you pull it off. Can you maintain your frame. Can you keep ENOUGH of it on the DL so she doesn't feel she has no other choice but to leave. It's all on you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:59 AM
1

Holy shit. I...I just...no. No, I cannot.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:59 AM
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I didn't see many people agreeing with Galileo either. You can bang that drum all you want, kiddo.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:58 AM
2

Oh man. Pure gold. Man after my own heart.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:57 AM
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Meh, my opinion is if I am not happy with her/the situation I am in then I am hitting the door, not telling her to. Totally agree. But I'm not saying "if you're not happy with the situations, cheat" I'm saying if you like the situation and you want it to continue (i.e. not have her grow bored with you) cheat.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:29 PM
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how would you feel if your dad cheated on your mom? My dad did cheat on my mom, and it would have been fine, had he taken the advice I laid out here. My dad's problem wasn't that he cheated, but how he reacted to being found out. How he reacted to my mom freaking out. He could have handled that much better. Stronger. And if he had, she never would have left. Hell, she spent the next ten years obsessed with him. He could probably have had her back at any time but he decided she was crazy. And tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:13 PM
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Spin plates in lieu of LTRs and marriage; not in addition to. That's simply not true. As for "inviting divorce rape" you are already inviting it the moment you get married. I am espousing HOLDING FRAME in the face of divorce rape. If you think that's a bad idea, you don't understand TRP, psychology, or women, and you need to get your ass back to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:09 PM
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No, some of you DO know what you're talking about. Just not the ones disagreeing with me. If you are disagreeing with me you either, A: have never been married, or B: are/have been married but have never done what I'm espousing. The guys who have and have done this, are agreeing with me. If you fall into category A or B, you shouldn't be talking. "this community" doesn't just up and decide a poster is wrong and that poster has to just deal with it. If what I say is unpopular with the new rank an…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:07 PM
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Great reply. I agree, there's no point in trying to get caught, or in not trying not to. My wife knows what I'm up to. She doesn't say she loves it, but her behavior does. In 8 years, I've only been really caught twice. THAT'S where the shit test comes in, and THAT'S what I'm talking about. I'm not advocating getting caught, I'm saying getting caught doesn't have to be the worst thing in the world, because if you handle it properly, you will come out of it just fine and not only will she not lea…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:04 PM
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Yeah. That's me. And common sense has done the folks in this sub a lot of good. "Yeah guys, just be nice to girls, then they'll be nice back, and suck your dick. Plus, Jesus and Santa are real."
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:20 PM
1

Well, yeah. I mean...you want both. So have both. Your woman may get mad about it, but that's social conditioning. Her baser instincts will take over when she realizes you don't care if she leaves because you can clearly replace her anytime you want, her competitiveness with the other woman kicks in, and she starts fucking you like a porn star.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:00 PM
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Why on earth would you "invite the divorce rape" and potentially lose half your shit? Well, first, you invited divorce rape the moment you got married. That was your real mistake in all of this (I'm married, I know). The question then, if you made that mistake is "How can you make the best of it, and how can you minimize your chances of getting divorced at all?" So, first off, if you made that mistake, I would suggest making your wife get a job. I know a lot of you guys are convinced that women …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:58 PM
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You should rephrase that but I think I catch what you're saying. I can't speak for all men, but if AWALT, then I kinda think AMALT. And in my experience, and with the men I've come to know over the years, there is a definite craving for a real relationship. I've heard people here say that men are the true romantics. I think there's good evidence for that. But mainly, it's super tiresome to go out every single night looking for something new. Being totally single is exhausting. But when you have …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:50 PM
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I've said to my buddies that it's like this: We want to buy a house, but we also want to travel. Society tells us we have to choose between those. But if you just stay in your house all day you get bored. And if you just travel all the time you get tired. You need both. You don't necessarily need MARRIAGE (I probably would have avoided that if I had found TRP sooner), but you DO need an LTR. You crave that familiarity. That bond. That growth. That depth. And even though you have some of that wit…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:36 PM
3

If you can't spin the plates, at least pick them up once in a while. As a married man, you go crazy if you don't. And you become dependent on your wife for sex, and she can sense that, and uses it to destroy you. Fuck other girls once in a while though, and you bypass most of that. And, if she digs and happens to learn the truth, how you respond is key. And if you respond right, don't ever worry about a dead bedroom, friend. That will not be a problem for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:28 PM
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No, you should do it because you're a man, and men are polygamous. And women are hypergamous. And for a man to be happy he must be polygamous (it's worse than that though. Our sexual duality demands both familiarity and variety--hence our desire for steady relationships AND one-night flings), and for a woman to be happy she must be convinced she is with her very best option. And the very best option for a woman is chad. And chad is stud with lots of options and does what he wants. You should che…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:25 PM
2

And frankly dangerous if you are married for most men. Marriage is inherently dangerous. If you got involved in it, cheating and holding frame is your best bet to keep it going and avoid getting divorce raped. What's the other option? "Yes dear?" Fidelity? Become captain apology? Becoming the very thing that she hates? Isn't that what every single guy here who got divorced raped did? Isn't that what every guy who made his way here in the first place did, which is why they're here? They played it…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:20 PM
0

Holy shit, does MRP still exist? I honest to God haven't been able to locate it. Maybe I just don't know the URL. Seriously, if I can stay the hell away from THIS sub, and only talk to married guys, I would highly prefer that. I don't give two shits what single guys think of my theory. *edit - and...I googled "married red pill" and up it came. I perused it for a bit though and...now I'm not so sure that's the group I want to hang with. I'm not sure what I see there really qualifies as red pill. …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:17 PM
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Well I'm afraid I've skipped the adultery sub (that's how you spell it, by the way). Also yes, I'm married. And my experience in this area is the only reason I'm posting this. You can believe that or not. It makes no difference.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:11 PM
2

Just keep going man, your shit is GREAT :)
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:01 PM
-3

I love this guy. I think I'd like to keep him around now. You hear that everyone? His girl is more red pill than me! And, he used the word "triggered!" Even better! I love it! Keep talking!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:58 PM
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Ok so...because she cheated on him for you...you feel safe? Wow, man. I just...I can't with you. You are literally a caricature of the people who find themselves here, but 6 months earlier. Give me your girl's phone number. I bet you $50 I'll convince her to fuck me by the end of the week.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:57 PM
1

I am literally laughing at everything in this comment. What, you JUST now got that I was comparing you to a wizard of oz character? Specifically the little girl? LOL
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:54 PM
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Wait, YOU agree with Throwaway!??? No! I never would have guess that the two vaginas in this sub agree with each other. Never, not ever. Please, pray tell, I want to hear more of this glorious relationship and this glorious woman you've found that doesn't apply to anything on TRP. Please friend, impart to us of your happy wisdom that none of us have ever experienced before ever. Fuck dude, how are you even still allowed to post?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:51 PM
1

Keep clicking those heels together, Dorothy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:47 PM
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Nonmonogamous relationships usually thrive best in a don't ask, don't tell environment. If it gets in her face, it breaks the spell. Totally agree. Don't think I suggested throwing it in her face. I certainly didn't mean to anyway. But they sneak and they spy and when your little ruse is discovered, calmly explaining that you understand if she wants to leave she can, that you won't make it hard for her, but that obviously those other girls are just there for sexual reasons and that you only actu…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:46 PM
2

Divorce is simply breaking up. Thinking of it differently is probably a result of societal conditioning. If you were dumb enough to get married (like I was), I'm giving you the best roadmap to make sure it works. And surprise, it's the same roadmap that helps any LTR work, as described in the sidebar. Act like a man, pass your shit tests, dgaf. If you haven't read the sidebar I don't blame you for not getting it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:42 PM
4

"I found the one! I found the one! Aunty Em, I found the one! She'll do stuff I like in bed, Aunty Em!" All you need now is a tiny dog and some red slippers.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:40 PM
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Everything you say screams oneitis. If all you get from TRP is "use dread sometimes" you are in for a rude awakening. "I've found someone! I've found someone!" Fuck, dude. Just listen to your fucking self.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:24 PM
2

You should never trust a woman to be faithful to you. Your best bet of getting her to be faithful to you is being unfaithful to her. Cheat and don't fret when she finds out, and you greatly up your chances of her not putting out for other guys. *Oh I will add: if she already puts off slut red flags for you though, I don't see the point of wasting my time. You can whip a slut into shape by cheating on her mercilessly, but it takes time for her to slow that boat down to a stop and I'd rather not b…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:13 PM
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It also works for married women when they threaten to dump you for cheating. Act like that's just fine with you, and they go nowhere. Not even with all the money they could get by leaving. If you don't care, it takes all the fun out of it for them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:10 PM
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Literally everything you just said is wrong. You really need to stop posting and go read the sidebar. Plate spinning is never meant to stop. You are never meant to "fall in love with the one." That is literally oneitis. Read your post, man. It's littered with contradiction. *Also, to answer your question about how a man can "fall in love with the one" while porking other women. I'm very, very in love with my wife. The porking other women thing help me continue to behave and put off the energy it…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:02 PM
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You clearly don't belong here. If you're against spinning plates, you haven't read the sidebar (or you don't understand it). Please don't post anymore.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:47 PM
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Invite the divorce rape. Throw it on the table. Don't run from it. That gives her power. You make it clear "hey no biggie babe. If you wanna go, go. It won't be so bad. We'll divvy up half the assets, you'll get some cash for a few years, if it were me I would do it." But again, they never take the offer. They always figure you have something up your sleeve, and they can't leave a man with that much confidence, because that's exactly what they yearn for in a man.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:44 PM
-3

The only troll here is you, friend. Go read the side bar. Spinning plates is TRP gospel for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:40 PM
4

You don't know. And it's not healthier or safer. Your dread doesn't mean shit if there's not actual cheating to back it up. You turn into the boy who cried wolf.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:39 PM
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It's all in how you respond to her response. If you melt into a sniveling worm, apologizing, promising never to do it again, agreeing to counseling, etc. You're fucked. Don't do that, act totally fine with her leaving, and she'll go put on your favorite lipstick and panties. It's just plain true.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:38 PM
3

There are too many posters on here who use this formula: 1. claim they fuck tons of bitches, 2. give shitty advice, 3. say "bitch" and "fuck" 50 times during their shitty advice in an attempt to mask the stench of the shit. This is one of those posters.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 04:36 AM
2

I honestly don't know why I still come here. This must be the 1,000th post on "shower and dress nice" that I've seen on here. The fuck, guys? Is this really the advice you need? Jesus fucking christ.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 08:44 AM
3

I simply have zero interest in sex robots. If I'm not convincing a real woman to have sex with me, it's just interactive porn--and that just doesn't give me the same pleasure. It's the thrill of the hunt that gets me, not the eating itself.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 05:43 AM
1

I think that's a healthy assumption to make.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:17 PM
1

Yeah you're still missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:54 PM
2

"It's time to go monk for a while." I will never understand why people do this.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:34 PM
1

There's no such thing as fair. If you ask a girl if she'd like the opportunity to be ONE of the girls who dates Brad Pitt she wouldn't hesitate to take a tiny piece of that pie and not ask anything in return. Be that guy and they'll just be glad they've been invited.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:33 PM
1

You wouldn't. What's your point?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:32 PM
2

You should try having sex with the girl at the beginning of the date instead. It really lightens the mood for the rest of the night and often results in a second round later.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 07:20 PM
6

The solution to that is simple: don't be nice. Actually be an asshole. Then she won't go anywhere and she'll tell everyone you're a God.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 07:18 PM
3

I think you make a mistake when you tell a girl you are non-monogomous and that it's ok if she is too. It's not ok for her to be non-monogomous. She's a woman. No good woman sleeps with multiple men at once. A good man does though. My message to plates is this "I am a real man. I sleep with as many women as I want and it's none of your business. Take it or leave it. As for you, if I ever find out you've let another man touch you, we're done." That double standard shit actually works for me. It's…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 07:14 PM
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It's not about her, it's about you. You can marry anyone you like and keep her regardless of race or status if you stay motivated in life, never stop improving, use space and dread as needed, take ample time for yourself, and never stop gaming other women. All this strategizing on TRP on how to find the right kind of girl is nauseating. It's not her, it's you.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:36 PM
3

This simply isn't true. Your car analogy doesn't work because a car's features are fixed, a man's features are not. They are in flux. A woman's interest doesn't just fluctuate based on what else is available to her, but to how the man she's with currently compares to the man he was when she first fell for him. If that man has improved himself since they first met, she'll take note of that, and it serves as a defense against competition. Sure, you can't negotiate attraction, but you can create it…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:29 PM
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Porn as #1 above regular old tv watching? BULLSHIT. I would bet $1,000,000 nobody here watches porn more than they watch regular tv. In fact, especially because of all the religious guys on this sub, I'm willing to bet that total time spent watching porn is in the MINUTES per day range, where as video game and tv watching is in the HOURS per day range. I'm gonna take a shot in the dark though and say that OP is religious, and that's why he ranks porn as such a damn big problem, when it's not.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 09:06 PM
1

I liked the last two paragraphs. Everything else was all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 09:47 PM
0

The advice to not get married isn't necessarily bad advice. It's the advice to NEVER get married. That is just silly chicken shit. If you internalize the red pill you most certainly can and should get married. You will love it. Not monogamy, no you must never fall into that trap, but marriage. No, you shouldn't ever let your wife sleep with another man, that's a big no no for her, but cheating is exactly what she hopes and expects a man like you to do. And once you get to a place where she knows…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 09:15 PM
1

Says "Trump Rules" when Trump is married. Jesus, you people.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:59 PM
1

Oh boy. I...I don't know what to say to you kids sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:55 PM
1

Are we...bringing Bill Gates into this discussion? One of the 5 richest guys on earth? You're gonna...you're gonna try to make a point with this?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 08:51 PM
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The reward = social credibility in business, social proof for sex life. It's actually pretty fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:04 AM
4

Right. Look there is NO DOUBT that being THAT SHORT in THIS SOCIETY is a disadvantage. But the EXTENT of that disadvantage is largely due to your attitude and your approach to life. We all have disadvantages. Some are bigger than others. But people can and do succeed in spite of those disadvantages every single day. And so excuses are pointless.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:26 PM
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You think this because you're short. Really poor people tend to think all their problems are due to lack of money. There's always something. Look, modern science hasn't given us much to improve our height after we reach about 19-23 (before then just fucking take HGH and you'll grow like a weed). Basically you have lift insoles, elevator shoes, and a really expensive bone-lengthening surgery if it's really that big of a deal to you. But dude, you have other stuff you could work on that would help…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:08 PM
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Wow. A third of your post talks about how important screening is and then when you get to the part where you're going to give your screening method you just talk about direct opening and kino escalation...was this meant to be a joke? SCREENING, my friend, is just another word for QUALIFYING, where you get the woman to sell you on her rather than the other way around by saying and asking things that imply you are selective, and therefor high value. Not a direct opener, kino, and bouncing to a new…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:01 PM
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Definitely. I wouldn't add prostitutes to that number count though. Unless your lack of confidence is just because you literally don't know how sex is done, in which case, a few hours of porn should clarify that for you and it will cost you a whole lot less.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:32 PM
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Whoa there. Don't take that idea too far. Masculinity manifests in many forms. Looks are just one form. The other two are behavior and social proof. Go and build all three. None should be left out. *Also, the confidence you get is not always due to other people treating you better, because you might not look any different to them. Take my best friend, for example. He to this day says he can't see any difference. But I could, and that made me feel more confident and my results followed that confi…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:06 PM
1

I had braces and then invisalign with whitener when I was 15. Huge difference. I broke my nose at 13 and finally had it fixed as an adult. Huge difference. Like huge fucking difference. And nobody notices. Like it doesn't look weird. It's the opposite of weird. I just look good and people compliment me. I still look like me, but better. That's all. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:59 PM
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As for your escort question...I wouldn't recommend that. Just get out there and start hitting on girls. Start with some uglier/fatter ones and work your way up. That's a holistic approach I can get behind. But I'm gonna give you some advice if you really do think you're ugly (first of all, you're 6'1" so that's great): Go to a plastic surgeon and ask him/her what 1 or 2 surgeries he/she thinks would make the biggest improvement for you. Seriously. Just google it and find the closest board certif…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:45 PM
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Great post. Short but solid.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:36 PM
2

Yeah you just tell your new boss you can't start until whatever date you want to vacation for. Now your vacation will be spent worrying about that job. Live and learn though.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:07 AM
3

Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:37 PM
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I think you misunderstand AWALT. You admit right in your post that despite getting your PhD, getting a good job, and getting in better shape, you still had oneitis. Your status is not determined situationally, it's energetic. It's how you feel about yourself and how your words and actions reflect that. Almost all women will cheat on the wrong man, almost no women will cheat on the right one. This is what AWALT means.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:11 PM
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I'm glad you said that. That's actually a really good qualifying question to build up your status in a woman's eyes when you first meet her. "So do you earn your own living like a grownup or do you just sort of leach off your parents/bf/husband for survival?" Qualifying questions are questions that clearly have a right and a wrong answer, and you are looking for the right answers. Low status men don't ask those kinds of questions. They have no hoops for women to jump through other than "be prett…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:50 PM
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I can probably count on one hand the number of attractive guys who were genuinely socially awkward. This is my experience as well. Also, these buddies of yours who do great with women despite having little game, I'm guessing they didn't show up to these places where they did so well with girls ALONE. I tell you, I don't think we talk about the power of a posse enough on this sub. The difference in the way women look at you if you walk into a bar/club alone, with a friend, with a small group of f…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:41 PM
1

But please admit this much: I'm a super good-looking guy at a bar/club, but I appear to be there by myself and I'm not talking to anybody. Pretty girl comes up to me and I'm boring as shit and I come off a little nervous. You really think I'm taking her home tonight? I hope you agree that the answer to that is no. And this I know, unfortunately, from very personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 06:15 PM
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I'm gonna have to agree with you. My argument was a bit too simplistic. Ugly guys can in fact do well with women, but you're right: as I think about the guys I know who have, they have had a solid combination of both game and social proof (both high status indicators).
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 06:08 PM
1

Oh well feel free to correct me I don't mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:31 PM
2

So you stopped at the title. That makes more sense. As for "should actions be comparable." I've already agreed with that. You're making less and less of a point as you go, and are aligning yourself more and more with what I actually wrote in my post. Can you read the whole post before commenting next time?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:12 PM
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Well, I told a story in another thread about my sister, an Angelina Jolie lookalike who married a restaurant manager (of a chain restaurant--he does not make good money by any stretch) who was massively overweight, had a high voice and talked with a lisp, who we all joked was a different species than her, who had the nerve to call her a 7 to her face which then made her obsessed with him enough to let him impregnate and marry her, but a simple google search will reveal more than a fair sample of…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:10 PM
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A better looking man will outdo a better player 9/10 times, so long as they both have the absolute fundamentals. Those being the ability to escalate and isolate. I'm not terribly opposed to this point, because it's much closer to my original point. You've totally backed off and come closer to the truth of the matter. But it's still written oddly. I mean which is it? Is the other guy the better player or isn't he? Because if the good looking guy has solid fundamentals and demonstrates the ability…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:58 PM
1

Yes. No supplicative up-tones at the end of words and sentences. Use your big boy voice when you're in public, boys.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:27 PM
2

Again, you're proving my point. Using nearly no words at all is extremely confident. Just throwing out "oh I've totally lost confidence but I still pull 10s" I'm not very liable to believe you, sir. You're clearly very confident in your looks and you clearly have zero fear when approaching women to the point that you don't even feel it's necessary to speak. Your confidence is staggering. If it gets knocked down a peg or two because of pot and tonsillitis (I'm actually laughing out loud at that r…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:22 PM
2

Your sneaky suspicion is correct. Texting should mainly be for logistics.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:08 AM
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Granted, authenticity is easier to pull off than phony disagreement, but I doubt it takes much effort to notice where you disagree with a feminist english major or a socialist swedish girl. Authenticity is easy unless you're so nervous of screwing things up and you're so sex-hungry you just agree with everything they say. The trick is realizing that authenticity, that having your own opinions and not being afraid to share them with women and tell them they're wrong about something actually helps…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:05 AM
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Thank you. I hope everyone pays attention to the part where, despite being a 6'4" athlete you had beta behaviors that turned girls off to you. Some don't want to hear/believe that. No question your height/looks/status as an athlete gave you an advantage, but it's an advantage you realized you could squander through weak, needy, beta behavior. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:02 AM
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Well not only that but it's game 101 to disagree with women. Low status guys agree with everything in a hopes of establishing rapport but it's the opposite approach that works.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:56 AM
2

Oh dude, check out my other posts in this thread I lay out my whole day game process in detail.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:51 AM
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You basically just described me as well, and yet nothing you just said negates anything I just said (although you tried with the "absolute BS" part). The fact that it's easier for you is irrelevant to the point I made, and the examples you just provided don't support your argument. In each example it sounded like you used high-status/high-confidence behavior and that it paid off. The fact you brought up politics with someone you slept with isn't proof to the contrary. And neither is the fact tha…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:46 AM
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No, someone else already made those points and really they're good points. I think with regards to insults, there's no need. Not from a high status man. And there are probably better ways to deal with violent people, but I think the overarching theme is don't bend to someone else's will just because they're a jerk. If you're worried about your teeth, learn to protect your teeth. Like I said before, frame doesn't get sucked into immaturity by babies (insults?) and it doesn't shy away from bullies…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:17 AM
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No you bet man. So I love Chateau Heartiste (from the sidebar). Not sure if you've read his stuff but he's all about cocky jerk-boy sexually charged comments. He sees that as the way to portray confidence. I tried this a lot after reading him, even just taking quite a few of his lines verbatim, but it was just very hit or miss for me. Sometimes it doesn't hurt me and sometimes it does, but I can't really think of a time where I thought it was the reason the interaction went well. However, when I…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:09 AM
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If frame were defined as an inner state of mind, you wouldn't have to insult people back, or fight someone who merely wants to fight because it doesn't matter what other people think or want. It's one thing not to do it because you have a better way available to you, it's another not to do it because you're scared. A strong frame neither gets sucked in by babies, nor pushed around by bullies. Perhaps the insult part applies to the first part and you're right that getting sucked into insulting is…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:39 PM
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Here is a strong "frame": If someone wants to disagree with you that doesn't scare you. You will consider their argument and determine whether or not it has validity for yourself and you will communicate what you've determined once you've had time to consider it. If someone wants to insult you. That doesn't scare you. You're perfectly comfortable insulting them back, or making them feel stupid for insulting you. If someone wants to fight you, you're down to fight. If you lose you won't think any…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:09 PM
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Your frame is what you believe about yourself and how that belief affects your words and actions. A strong frame is demonstrated by the inability of other people to make you doubt that belief and to make your words and behavior fall in line with their take on you instead of your own take on you. And that take you have about yourself is relentlessly positive. In a sense, it's a delusion that actually bends reality to its will. I'll give you an example: My sophomore year in high school I knew this…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:47 PM
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Measurement forces you to go about your life CONSCIOUSLY. I don't know about measuring everything you have on your list there but I can definitely say it's difficult to improve at anything without measurement. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:16 PM
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Well, How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie isn't a bad place to start. I knew a very successful man who made that part of his own personal canon. He read it every day religiously, like scripture (actually in addition to his Scriptures). It's not perfect, but it's a really good start.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:15 PM
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Well I won't argue with you. Obviously it worked out so no need to harp on it. But from my experience there are better, less risky ways that yield more consistent and powerful outcomes. I'll just leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:36 PM
1

Pretty much. Just deep dive her conversationally, start and escalate the kino, and overcome last-minute resistance like normal.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:13 PM
2

Yeah like I said, it doesn't always hurt you, but it's not really helping you. And the case you just showed actually proved that point quite well. You did other things to establish frame there and DESPITE being a bit more direct than you needed to be sexually speaking it turned out ok. But why fight the uphill battle at all? I just think establishing a cool, non-needy, high-status frame just based on the things you talk about and the questions you ask, without acting the least bit concerned abou…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:53 PM
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I'm not necessarily saying you're wrong, but I think it's helpful to distinguish between real tools and things people just happen to do which don't always ruin their chances, but really don't contribute significantly to a high status frame. I think overt sexual conversation and innuendo falls under the latter.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:30 PM
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"So in conclusion, stop looking for self improvement and start looking for constructive hobbies that absorb you. Your retention rate for these activities will be much higher." That's good stuff right there.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:51 PM
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That one is brilliant. It's a bit more like a neg though. A double sided compliment is a compliment plus a suggestion. "You look great but if you died your hair completely blonde instead of doing streaks you'd be a knockout." You put yourself into the position of an advisor, almost. It's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:47 PM
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Well first and foremost it's knowing what to say and what not to say. I find that to be the biggest single contributer to calm confidence. But calm confidence is really what you're going for.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:35 PM
3

Thank you for this. It saved me the time.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:09 PM
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Absolutely. That style isn't exclusive to successful CEOs, it just happens to be the communication style I've seen them use--which can absolutely be mimicked.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:21 PM
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Great post. I was about to create a similar post today but I'll just piggy back on yours. I will add to this: WHEN TEXTING, despite the popular jerk-boy advice folks like Chateau Heartiste and others deliver, I find that heavy sexual innuendo and overt discussions about sex, blow jobs, etc are not best practice. Not when you consider the principle we're discussing here and not in my practice in the real world. I see sexual innuendo and sexual talk in general as SOMETHING YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH, b…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:33 PM
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Yeah here's a basic script/outline/blueprint: First, your approach is determined by the situation/location. This situation/location assumed by this approach is a bar or nightclub. Walk up and simply say "Hi, what's your name?" She will probably be with friends. If so, say "are these your friends?" Then shake each of their hands and do your best to memorize their names too. Repeat them back as they say them. Then go back through one by one to make sure you got it. Then come back to your target. S…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:54 PM
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I like it. It's a bit specific so I wouldn't personally use it but I definitely like it. I love that you opened up with a two-sided compliment. So much better than negging in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:42 PM
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It basically guarantees you look busy and don't look eager. You can get away with a shorter time frame, but why risk it?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:39 PM
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That's probably stuff you've already read on here a thousand times, but i'm happy to give you my favorite version. If you established high status when you got the number in the first place, whether at night or during the day, immediately after the number just shoot her this text: "Hey (her name) was nice meeting you at (location) today/tonight. Talk to you soon. -(your name)." This way she knows for sure who this is, and you've activated push/pull by seemingly starting a conversation, but then e…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:59 PM
1

No. Obsessing over it and using it in capital letters usually does though.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:24 PM
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Yeah I love what the "pitch" does to establish myself as interesting and choosy. What did you usually do at that point instead?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:21 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you there. Not on alpha fux beta bux---that's real, but you've misunderstood it. Alpha fux doesn't mean "good looking fux" it means "high status fux." Rich (the example you brought up) does not equal high status. Good looking does not equal high status. Rich and/or good looking only signal the likelihood of high status, but if you don't behave like a high status man then you will still betray that frame and girls will instantly lose interest. Money and looks ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:18 PM
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Sorry about that phone thing bro, but coffee is for closers only.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:52 AM
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"Ok" then keep on going. Definitely the best response to last minute resistance. If she persists, you say "yeah, totally" then pull away and then start up again like you just can't help it. Rinse and repeat as needed. Works every time.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:44 AM
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Yeah approach anxiety is USUALLY because you're kinda unsure about what to say in that particular instance. If you have an approach you feel good about, practice it until it's nails and then it will come like second nature to you. Approach anxiety will completely disappear when you know you know what to say and that you know what you say usually works.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:41 AM
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Ouch. I don't like that advice.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:37 AM
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She will if you speak like someone with status.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:36 AM
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Yes and I believe that is great advice in situations/environments where they are already receiving a lot of attention/validation. During the day at grocery stores, malls, on the street, between classes at school, at coffee shops, basically anywhere except the gym (treat the gym differently) they aren't getting constant validation so it's fine. Guys are too scared to be direct in the daylight. So when you are, you stand out as someone who's confident. Here's what I say "Hey this is totally random…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:24 AM
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No that's my opening line at night. During the day I just straight up tell them they look beautiful today.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:25 AM
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Plus you can be direct and not have it kill your chances--it's one of the few situations where being direct actually sets you apart and increases your status, whereas in situations where everyone else is complimenting them doing so makes you look like a weak tool. Fucking love day game.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:41 AM
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I don't really have enough information from what you just said to suggest anything. I can say that the 2/3 rule is great. It sounds like from what you said that you care more than she does though, generally. Is she really a plate or is just the one girl you're chasing right now?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:10 AM
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I would be careful with the "relate" part. Finding things in common isn't your goal. Getting her to reveal her passions and insecurities and weaknesses is. Every time she answers a question and reveals something personal about herself, dig into that. Ask questions about that and keep her going. It's not commonality that will get you somewhere, and high status men aren't needy and don't care what you have in common, it's getting her to FEEL EXPOSED. Getting her to feel like she maybe she shared t…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 04:19 PM
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I like that last line. I think that's what's important to realize. Averages are only helpful to a degree in this stuff, because the majority of people don't ever develop solid social skills. If you develop solid social skills the averages don't apply to you nearly as much.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 07:25 AM
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Make the girl at/above your standards work for it and you'll be on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 07:24 AM
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Well I'm sorry to hear that your friend never learned how to do it right, but his failure is not a result of an immutable law that others in his predicament can't mitigate with better knowledge. Because many many many do.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 06:25 AM
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Well, I sell software not pickup coaching, but I do have several friends who would vouch for my advice. And I didn't say short guys could get 7's, I said he could get 10's. Because short guys do. But I will part ways with most TRP posters who say the way to do that is by dressing well, lifting, and learning a bunch of great stand up comedy. I'm on another thread making it clear that I don't think that stuff matters much. If you're tall, or good looking, or really well-dressed, or rich, or famous…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 06:20 AM
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Haha well there you go, my friend. If a woman has no other information other than his looks/height and she is looking at getting SET UP with him, of course she'll say no. This is what I'm talking about. One thing isn't working for you (or a friend) and you make a terribly inaccurate generalization about it. Your short friends won't get anywhere with anyone being set up. They need to begin the interaction themselves and come off strong. You should at least know that much, my man.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:47 AM
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Your comment should honestly be deleted.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:34 AM
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I live in the USA and this simply isn't true. The only black group in the USA that does consistently well with the hb8s and hb9s-10s are famous athletes. Now let me be clear: the black, non-athletes have nothing REAL standing in front of them except some basic assumptions that women make about them, and their own hesitation stemming from the fact that women are making those assumptions. A black, non-famous, non-athlete can do just as well as anybody if they have solid, high status game. Nothing …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:25 AM
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I am agreeing with you and you are really kind of throwing a tantrum. I completely agree that it is significantly harder for shorter men. They have a much, much harder time even getting an audience with beautiful women. Also, when you are short, your confidence probably won't center on a constantly reaffirming attribute, so it will have to be forcibly conjured. But it CAN be conjured. The fact that it's HARD is irrelevant. You're a man. Doing hard things is your birthright. I can tell I've hit a…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:18 AM
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That "highly negative effect" is just like anything else, bro. It's a weakness, yes. But it's only a weakness in that women use shortcuts initially when deciding who is worth their time. But I'm telling you, even at 5'7", if you don't seem to KNOW you're only 5'7" and you carry yourself like you don't know and you still ask the kinds of questions and say the kinds of things a high status man asks and says, the outcome can be the same. You are the one hamstering with this post, not OP.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:08 AM
3

God a lot of you are still religious, huh.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 02:32 AM
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You'll need to be more specific when you say "that." I'm not sure what you're referring to exactly.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 02:28 AM
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It's all in the questions you ask. Ask questions that make her think. Ask questions someone who is nervous wouldn't ask. Ask about her childhood. Her dreams. Her passions. Just asking in the first place implies your status so she'll be more tempted to answer honestly. When she opens up to you she'll feel exposed. Then she'll feel stupid for giving up such personal things so readily. Then she'll ask you similar questions but you won't open up nearly as much. You'll answer her questions, but coldl…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 09:52 PM
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You are absolutely right, for the most part. But I'm telling you, lock down your social game, know how to create instant, deep connections with any man or woman anytime, and even Barbara Bush would take your black or brown or yellow ass home to daddy. In fact, she would adore the apparent contradiction.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 09:47 PM
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I think what happens is we got some really young guys on here who use a lot of bravado and cussing and some of us actually think they sound confident and must know what they're talking about, but they're spouting bullshit. Social confidence can be built into a rock solid tank capable of toppling any pussy no matter what you look like. Any argument that you're simply not tall enough, or your dick isn't big enough, or your face doesn't look enough like Brad Pitt or your skin is too dark, is simply…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 09:44 PM
1

I think you're arguing with yourself. I am good looking and I have admitted that my looks are an initial advantage. But even as a good looking guy I have failed the congruence tests women have put me through on plenty of occasions, and they've gone home with worse-looking men. And those worse-looking men (some much worse-looking) have accomplished this via the high status behavior which I failed to demonstrate. This IS the cold, hard, unvarnished truth. *edit - also, did you just use the word "p…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 08:56 PM
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Haha well cross that bridge when you actually come to it. Until then, live like you're gonna live forever.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:13 PM
6

You don't need to be good looking. You just need to act like you think you are. People accept you at your own self-appraisal.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:11 PM
9

High status behavior can overcome any initial assumptions that exist due to the color of your skin. I won't deny that being black or brown puts you at an initial disadvantage with white girls (unless you're an NBA player) but there's no question it can be overcome. Learn to walk and talk like a high status man and you'll end up in the same place as all high status men, the color of your skin notwithstanding.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:48 PM
2

I don't disagree with you there. But again, I said add it to the list. If you don't know how to acquire pussy, it will haunt you. Your awesome career notwithstanding. It's a simple skill. Add it to the list and you'll have a better life.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:38 PM
4

If sex with beautiful women isn't at least one of your goals, you're probably lying to yourself. I suggest you add it to your list.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:21 PM
2

Um. Unless you have a 12-incher (which if you do, you should literally open with that), I wouldn't rely on that bulge.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:14 PM
3

This is correct. For men, sex with beautiful women is the goal. We use status to acquire that. For women, commitment from a high status man is the goal. They use their beauty and sex to acquire it. Nothing will give you problems with women faster than assuming they want the same things that you do and for the same reasons. They don't.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:11 PM
3

I wouldn't give this advice. I don't see where it gets you. The advice I would give is to appear choosy. Ask questions and make statements that suggest you have the pick of the litter and that being pretty simply isn't enough--she also has to be interesting somehow. Rejecting a 10 might feel ok, but convincing a 10 that you're a 10 and then fucking her feels infinitely better.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:58 PM
1

No I don't think I'm arguing that at all, son. I make very clear that his money and fame are huge advantages, but if I lined up all the boyfriends of all the Victoria Secret models I think you'd be very surprised. What I'm saying is that the Founder of Snapchat more than likely has a frame/personality/level of confidence/game that is congruent with his assumed status. If the guy was a sniveling worm with no confidence, despite his money and fame, she wouldn't be into him. That's simple truth rig…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 04:50 PM
4

Initially, yes. But once an actual interaction with a woman begins, or even the moments leading up to that interaction (like the initial eye contact and the time it takes to actually approach, etc) then those physical qualities are drastically mitigated. Also, dick size? I mean...bro. You gotta get her into bed first before dick size comes into play. You don't walk around with your cock showing, do you? But if you think you have a big cock and that matters and it helps you be more confident, the…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:45 AM
3

Oh and example #2. I'm the younger brother of this Angelina Jolie doppelganger. I've been told that my face is "the perfect face." The amount of attention I get from girls INITIALLY is pretty awesome. The fuck me eyes I've gotten when walking into a club or a party ever since I was like 13 has been substantial. But I have blown so many opportunities with beautiful girls in my lifetime I've completely lost count. The number of times I've let myself get in my own head and hesitated and I've watche…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:38 AM
2

I really don't know what to say to you if you honestly think that. I can only assume you're either in high school or have only been in college a year or two. It's the only explanation I can come up with to explain it. I'll give you a small example from my own life. My big sister was a model when I was younger. Most people immediately think Angelina Jolie--it's her most commonly cited doppelganger (we're a pretty good looking family generally but she's always been the most striking). Anyway so wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:32 AM
1

Depression is a mental disease and the germ that causes it is an idea. When you can pinpoint what that idea is, and then become convinced of the falseness of that idea, depression can be cured almost instantly. In the meantime, exercise certainly helps.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 07:39 PM
-3

Shit post. Shouldn't be this high.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 05:18 AM
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