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Often times the pulling away part relates to anxiety moreso than disinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:49 PM
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This awful post implies that women actively look out for their own best interest when picking men, except there is no shortage of women constantly complaining about how awful their exes are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:31 AM
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The take away should be to stop using dating apps, but you buffoons keep using them because you're too chicken shit to approach women in person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:34 PM
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I've found that women tend to respond better to "you're cute" rather than "you're hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:11 PM
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Well yeah, that's the point OP is making: stop chasing female validation so hard and your life will improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:17 PM
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The wall just means a loss of attractiveness with age, so yes it's real. Based on what I've seen, mid 30s is when it usually happens. At that point, the aging becomes harder to disguise with makeup and there is more anxiety, and more plastic surgery appointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:10 AM
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It's actually women who treat men as possessions. Men don't tend to care how their peers feel about their romantic partners. Women do though, because they simply see men as a way to boost their own social standing among their peers. That's why pre-selection is much more common among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:11 PM
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So you're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:17 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:13 PM
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How often do your friends make comments that may not be flattering to themselves? If it's never, then their opinions don't matter in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:07 PM
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But like I said, my own observation reinforces it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:02 PM
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I said she was honest because there wasn't a need for her to prove anything in that context. You think she's lying because it's not what you want to hear. And she was also honest because my own observations back up that assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:59 PM
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Because she wasn't trying to prove a point. She just made a matter of fact statement while casually speaking to me so there was no reason to question her motives. There IS a reason to question the motives of women on this sub, who from what I've seen, will often resort to lying to make themselves look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:55 PM
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Because my female friend was honest. She said something that was not flattering to her own gender. That's different than someone denying something that may not be flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:48 PM
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Maybe your friends still view you as a man. Not saying you are, but maybe that's how they secretly view you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:44 PM
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For one, a female friend told me, and she's over 30. Then I've seen women behaving like this myself, which confirmed what I heard before. Saying this is high school behaviour is just a way for women to avoid accountability, which is what they often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:39 PM
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That's my point-that despite the surface level support they give to each other, behind the scenes there's a lot of jealousy and bitterness. Women are actually very competitive with each other. It's just that most men don't know this because it's well hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:29 PM
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A popular narrative is that women are better at supporting each other than men are at supporting each other. But like I said, it's a mirage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:22 PM
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Then you're in denial. Women often talk about how much they support each other. Also, women may not like sex, but they do want validation from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:19 PM
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It's not a conspiracy. Let me give you an example. On this sub, women love to say that there's a sisterhood where they protect each other. I know from observations in REAL LIFE that this isn't necessarily true. I have seen that women can be ruthless and very competitive with each other, especially in regards to men and attracting them. There's a lot of jealousy and pettiness going on behind the scenes. So you see a sentiment online, and you see one in real life, and it doesn't match up. But if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:51 PM
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You see, this is how women want men to keep them compliant. If you keep thinking not all women are like this, you will stay stuck and you will never improve because you keep thinking that you can't generalize behaviour and so you never learn. This is how women want it because they maintain leverage. It's actually funny because there are parallels here and the Matrix and the pill analogies. You keep thinking to yourself you can't generalize women, so you maintain that picture you have of them. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:44 PM
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Haha you're just pissed because OP revealed a secret that women love to conceal from men: that they don't like sex and they just treat it as a carrot on a stick to get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:24 PM
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Straight from the horse's mouth. This is proof women don't like sex. They just see it as a means to an end to get what they want out of a relationship. It's less enjoyment for them and more about treating it as a carrot on a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:51 PM
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I've noticed a lot of male simps use the just world fallacy. When a man talks about his dating failures, one thing I've noticed is that men tend to jump all over him and criticize every wrong move he made. I think this is rooted in insecurity. These men want to believe that a man failing in dating is his own fault, and that something can't happen to them personally because they would do everything right. They don't want to believe that they can be the victim of failure as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:54 PM
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Going clubbing is a major sign of promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:39 PM
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"Can women trust if they talk about how dominance and controlled displays of aggression turn them on, that men won't run with that and insist "women love violence and being abused?"" You often can't get one without the other. You want aggression without him turning that on you? That's delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:30 PM
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I'm just sharing my experience with women because most guys on this sub don't interact with them enough to know this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:40 PM
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If you don't think women intentionally string men along to boost their own egos, then you are deep in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:36 PM
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Those could be interpreted as platonic. You have to realize this is very intentional. Women behave in a way where there's a lot of gray area, so they have room to either string along a man she's not attracted to in order to get attention and boost her own ego, or to signal to a man she's interested in him. She could do both these things by acting the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:33 PM
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"obvious to anyone who has social skills" is just putting the burden on the man to excuse a woman's refusal to properly communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:31 PM
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What if the guy she's interested doesn't pick it up and an ugly man does?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:27 PM
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She'd be pissed because she doesn't want the ugly man to pick up her handkerchief. She'd be cursing him in her head to put the handkerchief back down lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:25 PM
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I've found that if a woman is outgoing and extroverted around everyone but shy around you, then that's a major sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:21 PM
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If the wrong guy picks up the handerchief she'd be like "can't something fall out of my pocket without a man trying to bang me!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:19 PM
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They are unreliable. Like one of the most common signs of interest is playing with her hair. But I've seen women playing with their hair in many contexts: when she's with a guy, when she's with a girl, when she's by herself. These sorts of little ticky tacky behaviours mean nothing. There's also her touching you. That's often considered an obvious sign of interest. But that just tells you that she's more touchy feely than normal. Some women are like that. The women who've touched me in the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:13 PM
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More like 2 decades (yes I'm old).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:14 AM
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Is it even a myth at this point? The first thing women and their simps talk about when the topic of niceness comes up is that these guys are not actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:02 AM
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The doom is them aging, which is something women hate. 85% of plastic surgery patients are women. Aging is their biggest concern and it they're in shambles by their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:58 PM
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"I believe approaching someone is an inherently submissive thing to do, and women generally don’t like submissive men." This is not how women think. They actually think the opposite: that the man not approaching is a scared little bitch who probably wants to have it easy by taking the female role in the relationship while she has to be more masculine. It's a HUGE turn off for them for men to expect them to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:02 PM
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One issue not talked about often, is how men who are actually confident actually benefit from men who are too scared to approach women. So these confident men want other men not to approach, since it means they have a better chance of monopolizing the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:58 PM
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One thing you got right is that women using men for validation is VERY common. For some reason, there appears to be this idea that if a woman is uninterested, then she will show it through obvious disinterest. This is FALSE. Many women will in fact give breadcrumbs to a guy just to boost her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:49 PM
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It's hilarious how women can't seem to reconcile claiming they're strong independent women and also claiming that they're helpless delicate little flowers who are easily manipulated when they get abused by their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:49 PM
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29000 women signed a petition to free Cameron Herron after he ran over a woman and her child. Only because he's attractive. Women are notorious for this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:02 PM
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It's true. You're just in denial. That's why so many women in marriages are content to just let their husbands rot. If they're horny they just pull out their favourite toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:55 PM
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Shannon Sharpe got duped because he's addicted to the snow bunnies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:36 AM
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Women don't like sex. They just see it as a means to an end to get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:31 AM
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They don't want the marriage, the want the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:05 PM
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They're not saying you can't ask them out, but you can't come across as throwing shit at a wall and hoping something sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:10 PM
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Stop trying to gain empathy from them. They're like the conservatives they complain about. They only care if it's something that personally affects them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:58 PM
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When women complain about the "mental load" of doing chores, it's just a fancy term to justify nagging. That's the problem with people nowadays, inventing fancy terms for mundane things-like "gaslighting" or "narcissism" or "fat shaming".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:56 PM
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Exactly. I actually laugh at how men make these "Question for women" posts, unless they're trying to make a rhetorical point. If they're genuinely trying to understand women better, they're wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:16 AM
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"Slut" and "I'm hyper-focused on one guy" are incompatible. The only conclusion you can draw is she is being dishonest, which most of the answers in this thread are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:13 AM
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I'm just roasting her for being dishonest. She self-identifies as a slut but she presents herself as virginal to make herself look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:59 AM
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These new-age terms don't work on me. I don't feel the least bit bad about what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:57 AM
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It's almost as if you want to brag to yourself about being a slut but you don't want others to draw the same conclusions. Like I said, there's a huge mis-match.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:26 AM
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"Power dynamics" is another fancy term for women to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:07 AM
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Calling yourself a slut by your flair and acting like head nun of the convent in the comments lmao. Pick a lane and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:04 AM
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Shannon Sharpe loved the snow bunnies. He played in the snow for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:01 AM
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Don't believe these lying women lol. They absolutely keep rosters and treat multiple men as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:55 AM
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Cold hard fact: "That creepy guy" is usually more successful than the anxiety-ridden people-pleaser man who's always mindful of respecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:16 AM
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"The divorce came out of nowhere" has less to do with men being oblivious and more to do with women having terrible communication skills. Rather than talk about her issues, she sulks silently and then ends the relationship and makes it look like the man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:03 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, it's not hard to keep your thoughts to yourself. You seem to view people as this cartoon villain that spazzes out and blurts out stuff against his own will. Stop being so terminally online and get back to the real world for gods sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:00 AM
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What man would say these things to a woman he's trying to date? Sounds like you're just too terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:05 AM
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This is why you don't listen to women for advice. Many women do in fact want to be chased so they will play hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:50 AM
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No, I'm speaking based on my personal experiences. You're trying to judge right or wrong based on what you read on the internet lmao get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:01 AM
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No, I'm the correct one. If you can't see that, then you're too desperate for online pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:53 AM
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Exactly, that's why IOIs are not useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:30 AM
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Dude shut the fuck up. Stop being a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:28 AM
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What did this "friendliness" or "politeness" entail? Because most men don't read anything if you say hello to them. Sometimes to a woman, they don't want to admit to malicious intentions so they tell themselves they were just being themselves and it's the men's fault for misreading the situation. The pull to feel pretty is strong so they can't resist leading the man on, even when subconsciously they know it's a terrible thing to do to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:43 PM
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"IOIs" are often nonsense. Like let's take a look at some. For example: playing with her hair. Pure nonsense. I've seen women play with her hair in many contexts. When she's with a man. When she's with a woman. When she's by herself. Most often, these little fidgety behaviours that tend to make up the basis of IOIs don't mean anything. Another IOI is physical touch. Again, means nothing. This is more of an indication of someone's personality more than anything. Some people are just naturally mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:35 PM
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So you don't think women who lead men on exist in this world? I get why you would try to deny it because admitting it would be admitting that you want male validation, and women often tells themselves and everyone else that they don't need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:23 PM
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Facts? What facts? You intentionally obfuscate them by blurring the line between flirting and friendliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:18 PM
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This is the type of dynamic I'm talking about. How men are told they are wrong and delusional. But I always advise men to trust their gut regarding these things. If an interaction feels real and the connection feels real and they still get rejected and their gut tells them they just got played, then it's likely that's exactly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:14 PM
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A woman leading a man on to boost her own ego is very common. A man only has to try approaching women a few times and he will quickly realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:01 PM
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Your yourself said that one woman's flirting is another woman's friendliness, so by your own admission it's not as easy as you make it seem. But don't bother explaining, because I know the real reason for this dynamic. It's because this sort of plausible deniability gives women freedom in several ways. It gives her the freedom to lead a man on to boost her own ego and it lays the responsibility squarely at the man's feet when he realizes he got played. It also allows her to avoid rejection in ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:44 PM
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And you expect men to be able to decipher this rather than take responsibility and communicate better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:36 PM
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These women made a choice to keep their name. So if they resent it, it's their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:13 PM
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Yes but will he be forced to have a different name than his children if you do have some? That sounds like a recipe for disaster and that resentment is going to come out in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:55 AM
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So he has to live having a different name than his kids just to make you happy. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:43 AM
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Then good luck finding a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:38 PM
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Because that's how it's done. I can't think of a single child that took the mother's last name. Don't be selfish. If you want to keep your last name, accept they your name will be different than your children's. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:28 AM
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A woman can do whatever she wants with her surname. But any children should take the name of the husband. Whether the woman wants to have a different surname than her kids is up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:59 PM
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The fundamental issue is that women do not want to admit they want male validation. That's why they will be in deep denial about things like makeup, push-up bras, high heels, wigs, fake eyelashes, and all these other things to do to appear attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:51 PM
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Go ahead and live in your fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:06 AM
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Yes, that's the truth. When a guy has a female friend, he is working his way up to eventually fucking her. You think he's going to say "hey bro, enjoy fucking this guy that I've been trying to fuck".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:55 PM
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Would you say the same to women? Because that's how they date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:54 PM
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Except I'm well liked by my female coworkers. It sounds like you're the one being indoctrinated-by feminism and you've learned to treat yourself as a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:53 PM
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Lol stop overestimating women. They don't have superpowers. They have no idea what you're thinking. And I don't consume any online. My opinions were formed based on my personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:00 AM
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It's not so simple because most women are like this. The majority of them, I've found, are interested in validation of a man's love rather than the man's love itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:40 AM
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Then you might as well accuse women of cheating and lacking morality because they do this all the time. It's actually central to their dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:11 AM
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You don't call someone from the bench by fucking her behind your girlfriend's back. You just keep talking to her, keep that connection alive. Don't put your eggs in one basket. That's a loser's mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:04 AM
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Basically do what women do all the time. Have a back-up plan. You see all this orbiters who are hanging around her? Those are the guys who are on the bench. When her main star fails, she calls the next one up from the bench. As a man, you need to do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:43 AM
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I already mentioned this to the other poster. Casting a wide net means protecting yourself by giving yourself options in case your attempt with one person fails. Not casting a wide net means you're hung up on one person, and it gives her all the power in the dynamic and often leads you to her playing you for a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:20 AM
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Casting a wide net means you still have options when one inevitably fails. If you focus on one girl and you realize she was just using you to boost her ego, then you can quickly get rid of her and move on to the next girl. Dating to find one person means you get hung up on one person and it means you give the other person all the power and you're reduced to being a pathetic simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:18 AM
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No, the point of dating is to cast a wide net. You say it's to narrow it down because you're a woman who can download a dating app for a buffet of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:57 AM
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u said date the women who like d and d. i said it's not so simple. and focusing on women who like d and d is limiting yourself to a tiny pool of women. this thread is full of terrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:45 AM
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Simps are in wide abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:43 AM
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Please learn to live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:42 AM
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I lovve how delusional women like you think dating is going to the dating store and picking up a boyfriend/girlfriend. Goes to show how out of touch you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:42 AM
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Lol in what world would a man want a male friend to date one of his female friends???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:19 PM
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Women don't care about your hobbies. In fact, having hobbies could be detrimental if they cause her to think you're a loser, like playing Dungeons and Dragons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:53 PM
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Gen Z is fucked because of insane anxiety levels. The males are beta and too afraid to approach. And a lot of the females are too scared to get into relationships, so many engage in avoidant push-pull behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:34 AM
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That's not necessarily true. A lot of men who consume red pill content are the types to stay in their mom's basement. Their only interaction with women tends to be through dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:59 PM
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Men who are against age gap relationships tend to be male pick me's. By voicing their opposition to these types of relationships, they are signalling to women that they are one of the "good guys". It's basically their strategy to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:58 PM
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Bad people getting their comeuppance is what the just world fallacy they are referring to. It's nothing more than wishful thinking that has no basis for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:17 AM
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Women giving themselves superpowers (in this case having some magical incel radar) is nothing more than narcissism. No, you can't detect a person's misogyny. It's just fantasy. You're actually as clueless as everyone else around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:14 AM
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This is just the facade. What women want men to see. In reality, women hate each other and are very jealous and petty with one another, especially when men aren't looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:42 PM
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Don't put this back on me. The fact that you're so defensive tells me that you're guilty of this behaviour yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:02 PM
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Men: stop being such pussies and expecting women to do what you're supposed to do as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:01 AM
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There's a reason why the #1 demographic for prostitutes are married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:50 PM
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That's only on the exterior. Behind the scenes, women hate each other and are very jealous and petty of one another, especially when men aren't watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:08 PM
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What a load of shit lol. Women absolutely live for male validation. Whether it's from men they want to bang or from orbiters that they don't want. I've seen myself women work extremely hard to cultivate an army of orbiters that can make her feel pretty at all times. Oftentimes, men thinking they get positive signals from women is in reality a woman trying to bait him into telling her that he wants her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:43 PM
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So you're admitting the 80/20 rule is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:09 PM
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Oftentimes, you don't need a label. Like you see a delicious box of donuts and you buy it and then act surprised when you're in poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:00 PM
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Ah, how terrifying. Man: "Would you like to get a coffee sometime?" Bear: "Roooaaaarrrr" [rips your head off]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:00 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:50 PM
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No, most reasonable people would assume I'm right and laugh at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:48 PM
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No they don't. You need to take the same advice you give men here, "touch grass". Even if you were to talk to female coworkers about this man vs. bear issue, they'd probably look at you funny and assume that you're not very bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:45 PM
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I get the feeling you may think you're making a valid point, but people reading this conversation will know right away that feminists can't be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:38 PM
3

Looks like the problem here is you're content to live in your own universe and not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:32 PM
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Death here is not like going to sleep and not waking up. Being eaten alive by a bear is probably the worst feeling a person can experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:28 PM
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You are so delusional. Take a look at some video of how grizzly bears eat salmon (hint: it's not a pleasant death at all for those poor fish).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:25 PM
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No, if they are hungry they will tear a person to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:15 PM
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I think your problem is the same as other women: you subscribe to the just world fallacy. In your mind, a hateful incel will get punished and be treated as a pariah in his life because of his hatefulness. When in reality most of these guys have the common sense to hide their feelings in public. For example: I trash women on this sub but if you told people who know me, they wouldn't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:43 PM
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Lmao you are so intellectually dishonest. Have you considered that maybe that's because most people don't ever encounter bears at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:40 PM
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It's all narcissism from women. They like to fancy themselves as wise and like to give themselves superpowers so they pretend that they're able to probe your mind to know the truth. In short, they are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:14 PM
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This whole man vs. bear rhetoric is actually grossly insensitive to actual bear attack victims. Can you imagine someone getting mauled to death by a grizzly bear and some fat feminist minimizing it by saying a man is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:56 PM
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You're delusional and you're talking big online. If you encountered an actual grizzly bear in the woods, you'd shit your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:53 PM
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Your gaslighting tactics won't work on me. If you're trying to deny women try to cultivate options or attention/validation by stringing men along, then you're incredibly dishonest. This is exactly what women do. Play the plausible deniability game and then gaslight when the man gets upset at her games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:01 AM
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Women want attention and validation. Sex is just currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:30 PM
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Women won't like this advice because if men listened to it, they'd get fewer free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:48 PM
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It's very difficult to tell, and that's by design. Women do this because they love the attention and validation they get from these men so they manipulate men into thinking they're interesting in him. It's amazing people don't talk about this more. Instead the prevailing narrative is that men manipulate women by faking friendships to get sex. From what I've seen, women manipulating men by tricking him into thinking she likes him is more common than men tricking women into friendships to get sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:55 PM
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You're in denial. Face it, despite putting up the facade that there's solidarity, you remain very bitter and jealous of your female counterparts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:44 AM
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This can be true depending on how much you're willing to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:13 PM
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"No means no" Sorry but to a lot of women, that's not true. Some do want you to chase and push through their refusals to test if you're a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:00 PM
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It's not so much social skills that women want, it's charisma. And charisma is much more difficult to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:56 PM
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a man CAN be both, but the delusion is expecting it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:24 AM
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Funny how social skills are so important for men, where it becomes a make or break situation. But women are able to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please, where they are coddled for saying the absolute most asinine things like choosing a bear over a man because how scared they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:52 PM
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Lol of course those two situations are linked. You think you can get female attention by pretending they don't exist? A lot of lonely men are lonely precisely because they don't interact with women and spend all their time playing video games in their mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:58 PM
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Women like to give off the impression that there's some sort of sisterhood where they stick up for each other, but in reality behind the scenes they hate each other and are very competitive with each other when men aren't looking. I have female friends who have told me this. So a woman will get very angry if there is the sense there is another woman in the picture. Believe me I am around women a lot and you definitely get the sense that is the case. A lot of red pill talking points are made up B…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:50 PM
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No they are not. They want to know they are the only one you want. If they get the sense that's not the case, they get pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:44 PM
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My point is if you have options, it's better that the girl not know about them because she'll end up jealous and pissed and it won't end well. The point of having options is to cross any girl off the list if it doesn't work out with her and move on to the next one on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:02 AM
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From what I've seen, women will get jealous and upset if they get the sense another woman is in the picture so rubbing it in her face that you have a bunch of other girls will backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:53 PM
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In yesterday's post, you said women show those signals by "giving the eyes". It's intentionally vague so that you can deny you were ever interested if the guy you like goes "ugh, she likes me? Yuck". lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:33 AM
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No shit of course it's not confusing for you because men actually have to approach and make their interest known. Women don't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:16 AM
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I have heard women admit that they're outgoing with guys they're not attracted to and aloof with guys they do like. That's because they're more scared of rejection than men so they act confidently around guys they don't like since they don't feel like they have anything to lose. So this idea that they'll throw themselves at a man they like is untrue. If anything, you getting this feeling from a girl probably means she's not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:06 AM
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I wouldn't want a whore anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:09 PM
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Keep telling yourself this. Besides, "gaze nicely" is extremely vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:06 PM
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Yes a whore would give out vibes that they want your cock when you are speaking to them. Regular women don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:53 PM
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Women are more likely to quickly look away if you catch them looking. A woman who doesn't look away tends to be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:40 PM
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Here are some signs They treat you differently than others of the same gender. It could be that they are nicer to you compared to others. Or it can be that they intentionally don't speak to you and act scared of you even when they are typically extroverted. Their tone of voice sounds different. It may have a higher pitch than usual when speaking to you, most often due to anxiety of being around you. They give you many compliments. One compliment doesn't mean much, but a lot do. They remember lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:31 PM
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Women are fundamentally conservative. When in a position of privilege, they have the same "fuck you I got mine" attitude of the conservatives they claim to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:01 AM
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It's not called quitting life. It's called choosing not to play a rigged game. So in the end it's people like you that lose, perpetually running on the hamster wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:37 AM
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Solving, according to who? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:37 AM
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Attitudes like yours is why so many men nowadays are suffering a mental health crisis. They are expected to tailor their lives to what is socially acceptable and then being miserable when they don't live up to it. What you want men to do is only going to lead to misery for them going forward because life is not some fairy tale. You expecting them to follow that same life script of marriage and kids is only going to result in undesirable outcomes like settling. Believe me, I have seen this with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:11 PM
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Why do you expect answers to everything? While we're at it, who was Jack the Ripper? Who killed JonBenet Ramsay? What happened to D.B. Cooper? You want answers, then get on it, smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:07 PM
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When you're this picky, it's you who will be sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:41 AM
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It means you're not looking at the bigger picture while focusing on irrelevant details. Here's the point you love to ignore: women complains about something bad when "bad" is simply not perfect. Hence the champagne analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:26 AM
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Quoting every single sentence of my post to nitpick every little detail is a sign you've lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:20 AM
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No, you're just nitpicking it because you don't like what the analogy is showing. Women can't order the champagne because they're not good enough for it, but still moan about being served Coca Cola. Also, I think the analogy still works. Women buying stuff out of their price range. It's still accurate to the modern dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:07 AM
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What good is complaining if you can't afford the champagne?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:01 AM
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Men did not create the environment of women using them for a free meal. The $5 coffee date is in response to these exploitative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:57 AM
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Maybe it does. Perhaps a more accurate analogy is that women are at a restaurant complaining about being served Coca Cola when they want the most expensive champagne on the menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:41 AM
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The point is you're a spoiled brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:39 AM
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Most are, very few aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:14 PM
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Yes often, because there are always going to be outliers in life. And yes, not everything is as bad as donuts. There are also soda drinks, cupcakes, potato chips, candy, chocolate. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:32 PM
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Yes, that's the point you're ignoring. Often times, a bad partner is there in plain sight. You don't need to probe deeply to find one. So the label analogy is a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:02 PM
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Exactly, you just played yourself. Items that are discounted at the grocery store are perfectly edible and often times taste good. But you, a woman, views a discounted item as low status, so it's you who looks like a fool. You'd rather pay full price for something that won't taste any better lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:42 PM
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That's also not what we're discussing. You're trying to change the subject because you look bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:26 PM
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Dating apps are where society confines the undesirables so they don't bother women in real life. So of course it'll end up looking like a dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:11 PM
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Yes, women are drawn to bad guys in the dating pool. That's because they foolishly mistake their bad traits for confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:08 PM
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Oh I don't know, the guys who have nasty tempers and treat others like shit and yet you think he'll treat you differently? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:03 PM
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Do you really need to look at a label to know that a package of donuts may not be healthy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:53 PM
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There are starving children in Africa. So if there is healthy food and you don't want to eat it, that's just a poor reflection on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:38 PM
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If women are insistent on using the swamp analogy, I say this: as a woman, the men you attract are a reflection of you. If you're stuck in a swamp, that's because you're a swamp dweller yourself. You can't be in a lush rainforest because you simply don't belong there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:17 PM
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Women aren't looking for "healthy food" considering the toxic men they date. It's more like they're looking for brand name products that are expensive as hell rather than the ones on discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:04 PM
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Taking your ball and going home is not the bad idea you say it is. Maturing is realizing that sometimes the path you created for yourself isn't working, which is why you will need to create a new one. That is a much better path than stubbornly staying on the same path and screaming into the void when it inevitably fails. One of the best pieces of advice for those who fail at things like dating is to find other means of fulfillment in life, and not listen to NPCs like yourself that deride men int…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:33 AM
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"whining about it and expecting people to feel sorry for you" is exactly why so many dupes go into therapy. For many of them, they are not looking for solutions, rather they want someone to vent to. That explains why some people are in therapy for years on end. But thinking that therapy will cure whatever ails you is delusional beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:28 AM
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The fact that you seem to think there is some stigma against rejection, hence you mocking my username, should tell anyone struggling that you are a terrible source for advice. The fact of the matter is, nothing helps success more than prior failure. You are clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:58 PM
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Right, because someone doodling in a notepad can heal you from being bullied in middle school. What kind of world do we live in where people think this shit works? And yes, I did try therapy so I am giving you FIRST HAND INFORMATION that it sucks, not like you who probably read on the internet that it's a good thing and then mindlessly spreading this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:57 PM
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You expect me to read all that shit? No thank you. I already know it's a bunch of nonsense rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:05 AM
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Therapy is one of the biggest scams out there. It's treated like this life-changing thing, yet you constantly hear stories of people who've been in therapy for years. That alone tells you it doesn't work. But go ahead, pay 200 bucks to sit around and answer questions while a scammer doodles in a notepad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:04 AM
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One thing I've noticed is that women love to curate their personal lives online. You see this all over places like Instagram. Even here, women love to give the illusion that their lives are perfect to hide how miserable they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:52 AM
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Spoken like someone who has no idea of how people work. There's a reason we hear the same "a leopard never changes its spots". People are who they are. If you try to be something else entirely, that requires you to put on a mask. And when the mask slips, simps like you would accuse such a man of being a phony putting on an act to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:50 AM
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Once again you contradict yourself. You try to give a playbook of how women behave and then you accuse me of looking for a playbook of how women behave. Or is it only a problem when women look bad? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:48 AM
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You seem to be in denial about how human beings work. Some are more naturally aggressive, others more naturally passive. Anyone with a basic understanding of human dynamics should know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:08 AM
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No, your idea of dating for men is woefully naive. It's not an "easy fix". Understanding women is hard. Like Al Bundy said "Don't bother understanding women. Women understand women and they hate each other".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:06 AM
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you: "beta males don't exist" also you: lists a bunch of traits known to be associated with beta males and says these traits are why men don't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:45 AM
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If they can tell you what they're doing wrong, then that is valuable. More valuable than some pretty boy telling you to be a gentleman and give her flowers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:43 AM
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Unattractive, with the implications that these actions are weak, making them "weak men". Just admit you're wrong already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:21 PM
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The average incel has never tried. So of course they wouldn't be able to tell you anything. I'm talking about the failures that actually put themselves out there, not ones who stay in their parents basement playing video games. The fact that you don't seem to know this tells me you are speaking from a place of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:20 PM
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They want men capable of being dangerous to others but gentle with her. Like people who get pitbulls thinking that nothing bad can happen to them. It's pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:03 PM
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You mock attempts to be a "real man" yet you list a bunch of things that you feel are unmanly and likely to result in failure at getting a girl. Good job contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:01 PM
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Failures can tell you what you're doing wrong, someone who doesn't fail can't. Believe me, I've failed a lot and I can identity the typical internet advice that's nothing but baloney.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:59 PM
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You deny the concept of beta but attempt to articulate its features without giving it a name lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:41 AM
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Good job completely missing the point-the point being the struggles causes you to probe deeper for insight. Success doesn't mean insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:40 AM
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Aren't you the guy who likes using sports analogies? Because in sports, the best coaches tend to be the ones who were terrible as players. The best players often make terrible coaches. The reason is obvious-struggling forces you to actually learn, rather than relying on your god-given talents. Same with dating. The guy who has failed repeatedly would probably give you better insight on what works and what doesn't compared to the pretty boy who got by on his looks. So nice job, sports fanatic hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:48 AM
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Lol pretty much every point you listed falls under "being a beta male"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:49 AM
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I've always maintained that the best teacher is experience. You learn through trial and error, not reading stuff online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:17 PM
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This humble bragging is so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:13 AM
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Typical woman post-saying she has it all. Quit dreaming. This isn't some fan-fiction site.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:12 AM
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Actual successful men who give honest advice would just tell you that it comes down to looks and sometimes luck. Going to the gym is dishonest advice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:12 PM
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In sports the best coaches are former players who sucked. The former players who were good tend to make terrible coaches. That's because struggling forces you to learn more rather than relying on your natural talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:01 PM
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How many times does this need to be said? There is no gym for your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:52 PM
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In most cases yes, but a mean-looking attractive woman who looks like she would brutally reject a guy would get approached less than a cute girl with a friendly disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:41 PM
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Look at your flair "hypersexual turbo slut". It doesn't sound like you've gotten anymore mature with age lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:14 AM
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Reasons men prefer younger women. Younger women look better. This is pretty obvious, isn't it? Younger women are more likely to be available. I don't know how many people criticizing men for wanting a young woman realize how hard it is to find an older woman in her 30s or above who is single, attractive, and childless. Like finding a needle in a haystack. You're much more likely to find someone in her 20s who fits these criteria. A man dating a woman his age starts to become impractical as he ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 PM
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This undermines your whole point. Asian women complain about fetishization yet everyone knows Asian women would run over their own mothers to get a white guy. Asian women fetishize white men more than the other way around. So saying it comes "straight from the horse's mouth" isn't the least bit credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:00 PM
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Most men nowadays have princess syndrome. They want to be the female in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:54 PM
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It's like the old saying, women wait at the finish line to see who the winner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:55 PM
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You're talking in circles bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:49 PM
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Why don't you tell this to women? Women are the ones who constantly throw a fit whenever a man they deem below them makes a move on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:26 AM
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It's not a minority of women who use men. Based on my own experience, a majority of women will string a guy along for validation and an ego boost. I guess the allure of feeling attractive is worth it to hurt a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:28 PM
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They use men for many things: attention, gifts, money, favours. Unfortunately it's hard to spot as many women are very good at putting on an act and you often don't realize it until it's too late. By that point, you've already gotten played.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:02 PM
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Nurses are the biggest thots of any profession
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:01 PM
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Women ARE a monolith, at least moreso compared to men. I mean, I've made posts here before, and when it's directed at women, reading the responses is like scrolling down and reading the same comment over and over again. You constantly get cases where women just read the top voted comment and repeat it almost verbatim while acting like they thought of it themselves. The fact of the matter is, women tend to have a strong follow the herd mentality. Very rarely will they stick their necks out when g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:56 PM
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You women are full of shit. If you really liked a guy and wanted no one else, you wouldn't make the first move on him either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:51 PM
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Hahahahahaha I'm not going to read all that shit. But it's obvious that I must have struck a nerve to cause you to write a whole ass essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:54 AM
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You didn't just seriously suggest that you need the same social skills as a woman compared to a men when dating, did you? Wow way to make a fool of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:51 AM
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Dude read your own posts for gods sake. You're telling men they need to make all these precise moves-know what to do, when to do it, how to do it, whom to do it to. You're saying that as a man you need to perform this extremely intricate dance, where one misstep will destroy your chances, yet you frame this as a common sense skill that people just naturally acquire. And those who do not possess this skill are blamed for being incompetent and deserving of failure. Please reflect on how utterly de…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:18 AM
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You neglected the part where women will string a guy along looking for things like validation, gifts, favours, etc. This is not an insignificant number of women who do this. So all these steps you listed becomes moot when she sees you as someone to exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:12 PM
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Someone's salty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:12 AM
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You won't. If were you able to, you would have done so by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:05 AM
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I figured you wouln'dt be able to give me an answer and I was right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:47 AM
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More like they throw your number in the trash when you're not looking hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:41 AM
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Women make terrible leaders. Look at how every time a criminal gets an absolute joke of a sentence, the presiding judge is usually female. Their "rehabilitation" nonsense allows criminals to get back on the streets, putting the public in danger. That's poor ass leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:29 AM
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I know more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:24 AM
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So you don't have an answer, just like I predicted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:24 AM
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What kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:43 PM
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Women hardly ever text first. Even if she likes a guy, she'll expect to be pampered by him so she will want him to text first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:43 PM
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You're showing me a parade of thots? Those girls are for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:41 PM
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I have tried. Have you looked at the link I posted? It's based on my personal experiences. I suggest you read it if you want to get better with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:37 PM
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The talking points like how you need to understand social cues to know when to make a move. It's vague nonsense promoted by woman and their simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:33 PM
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The only person posting based on reality is me. You're regurgitating popular online talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:28 PM
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Nah it's prety obvious your opinions were gathered by reading this sub lol. Remember, women are pathological liars. They will say whatever makes them look good in the moment even if what they say contradicts each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:21 PM
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I'm not lying. You're the one who's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:18 PM
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Why is that better? You're basically broadcasting to her that you're too much of a pussy looooolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:13 PM
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Pretty girls love attention. You must not get out much lol. I mean have you not ever seen an attractive woman go "Ugh I feel soooooo ugly today" as a blatant means for fishing for compliments? As far as real signs go I actually made a post about it a few months back. https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/18rpmsa/signs_a_girl_is_interested_in_you/ This is from what I've observed in real life by my actual experiences, not the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:10 PM
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Hahahahahahaha you read too many online dating guides. You do realize a lot of times those signs are faked by women looking for attention right? And a lot of times it's just plain wrong. Like the one about her touching her hair. Women touch their hair all the time. They touch them when they're with a guy, with a girl, by themselves. And touching? The only times I've been touched were by married women. You're talking out of your ass here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:53 PM
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I bet if I asked you what these "cues" are specifically you'd be hemming and hawing not giving me a solid answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:54 AM
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When you think about it, are these "amazing" feats really that amazing? I remember hearing about all these records being set by female swimmers at the olympics. Except if you were to look at their record setting times and compare them to the men in the same competition, you'd realize the record setting female swimmer would have finished dead last if she swam against men. And not by a little either. Oftentimes, by about 15 seconds at least. Can you imagine being the best in your own competition b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:09 AM
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Sluts think slut shaming is wrong. Fatties think fat shaming is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:06 AM
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I bet you wouldn't be able to explicitly tell me what these "social cues" are. Because you yourself don't know, admit it. And I don't need to listen to sexless losers. My knowledge has been gained through my own experiences of trial and error. I don't need to read up on red pill guides because I know it's all wrong anyways. Much of the stuff you read about dating is nothing but bs. For instance, I'm sure you've read online about this idea that if you ask a girl out, anything other than an enthus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:03 AM
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If you claim to never have to read a woman's mind in order to date, then you're a liar. Having to read a woman's mind is inevitable because women are not willing to be direct communicators since direct communication places a greater burden on themselves. Direct communication means accountability. They operate mostly in the plausible deniability zone. Anyone who's been around women for a lengthy period of time would know this all too well. So yes you do end up having to read her mind and the apol…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:09 PM
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I'm not saying social skills are unnecessary. I'm saying you're a hypocrite. When men complain about having to read women's mind, that's valid becaues you DO. Then the apologists say that's not the case, you just need "social skills", which is a way to place the blame back on the guy. "You see, you failed not because you're not a mind reader, but because you lacked the necessary skills to accomplish what you wanted."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:00 PM
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People who play video games are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:52 PM
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"understanding social skills" is you giving terrible advice and blaming it on the guy receiving it when it doesn't work since you're placing the burden on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:51 PM
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Of course it is. It's pretty obvious when men out number women 10 to 1 on dating apps. You can guess what a shit show that becomes when you see the gender numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:18 AM
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Apps are trash. If you are lucky enough to get a date, it's going to be someone either far below your league or someone looking to get a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:11 AM
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Directly asking a woman out quickly doesn't work. For women, the stage before dating is the talking stage. If you want to date her, you've got to inhabit this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:06 AM
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In my case I already had her number for a non-dating reason. It's best to ask for her number without coming on too strong. Like just asking her if she wants to exchange numbers to chat, without making it clear you're looking to get a date out of it. Basically get her number the same way you'd get a number from a guy friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:50 AM
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It doesn't sound natural when you're pitching a date to her and sliding her your number. It's more natural when you text her by making up a reason to do so. And later asking her out on a date where it can be interpreted as a date or just something else and then build from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:42 AM
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My approach is working well so far. She's way younger than me though, and according to the internet, I'm a predator for trying to date her, which goes to show how useless much of the dating advice you get online is. Your approach doesn't sound natural enough. I've learned that any transition from talking to dating needs to come across naturally, or else she won't go for it. Your approach sounds like you're trying to sell her something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:32 AM
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That approach is so cringe. You sound like a used car salesman lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:26 AM
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Always funny when I see people say "read the room". To me that says you expect others to know the answer to a question you yourself can't answer. A lot easier to pass the buck to someone else and disguise it as wise advice lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:48 AM
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This is why a lot of internet dating advice is nonsense. You're constantly taught that the faintest hint of disinterest, and her not immediately wanting to jump on your cock means you should leave her alone, when in reality a lot of women love playing hard to get and making the man win her over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:56 PM
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Whether or not they're afraid of men being violent, it's still cowardly behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:53 PM
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Stop caring about what women think. It makes you look like a weak sissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:20 AM
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If you're a picky eater then don't complain when you become malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:57 AM
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No, you have the same answer because you can't think for yourself and so you copy the opinions of others and pass it off as yoru own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:20 PM
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You know a topic has women stumped when they all give the same reply. They don't know how to answer so they copy everyone else's response. In this case it's the bullshit "It never occurred to me to" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:10 PM
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One side gets ghosted. The other side gets shamed, called ugly, creepy, gets his reputation ruined, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:03 PM
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Ok if men go by Fifty Shades of Grey to get an idea of what women like, then their view of women goes down the drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:50 AM
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Look at dogshit novels like Fifty Shades of Grey. No wonder women have a poor reputation if you're telling us to look at romantic fiction aimed at women to get a feel for what they are like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:38 AM
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Men would be wise to avoid dating nurses. A high percentage of them are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:15 AM
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It makes me wonder if you actually had any success by being blunt upfront or if this is just stuff you read online that guys say is effective. In my experience, being this upfront means you're just seen as being desperate and moving too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:40 AM
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What squeezing do they have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:52 PM
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"You're unconsciously letting out clues about yourself all the time. We all are." Another woman thinking a woman's intuition is a superpower. Just stop it. It's delusional as fuck. I say bad things about women on this sub but women at work like me. Stop thinking you can sniff out bad people even though so many women end up getting their ass beaten by their partners. The reality is that you're clueless about the people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:09 PM
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Most women don't want to date at all. So their mindset isn't, "I want a guy and you're not it". It's more "I don't want a guy and you're not good enough to change my mind".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:57 PM
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You just inadvertently admitted that women are privileged because they can fake how attractive they are and get away with it in a way a man can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:19 PM
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That's a blatant lie women tell to themselves to pretend they aren't seeking approval from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:08 PM
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What's funny is that a femcel probably wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:37 PM
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Another example of a woman lying to make herself look good. In this case she's calling herself a natural beauty without outright saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:36 PM
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What he means is your attitude of "eww get away from me subhuman" towards a socially awkward man is not very tolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:09 PM
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That's the hypocrisy over this whole mental health thing. People advocate for it and talk about its importance, but they also embolden trans people to continue being mentally ill rather than give them the help that they need. It's like they have no idea what their priorities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:58 PM
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Don't get fat with somebody. That just builds up resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:45 AM
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You see this on reddit. The guy who assures women he's not interested in much younger women when he says that he could never relate to a woman much younger than he. He's signalling that he's one of the good guys (and quietly begging to get laid).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:44 AM
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She could either be playing hard to get or leading you on for attention. That's why so called "signals" good or bad are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:01 PM
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Funny how you insisted that cheating would be obvious to a woman, yet here is a post asking women what the signs of cheating are, and the whole thread is a ghost town lmao. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1o7xmss/what_are_the_signs_of_a_cheater/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:50 PM
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"Obvious" to a woman is her staring at you and waiting for you to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:48 PM
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I had an argument with a woman who said cheaters always get caught, and yet here is a post asking for signs of cheating and there are hardly any replies lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:00 AM
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Wishful thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:16 PM
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And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:12 PM
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Once again a woman thinks a woman's intuition is a superpower. Stop living in fantasyland
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:20 PM
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Those are just the stories you hear about, you're forgetting about the ones you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:20 PM
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Prostitutes use protection. And no sane man is going to spend money on a prostitute where there's a paper trail. You are a typical woman that believes in just world fallacy, where all wrongdoing gets punished. Stop being so childish and naive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:07 PM
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How is he going to get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:08 PM
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Joke's on the wife, the husband is going to see prostitutes behind her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:12 PM
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Makes me laugh when women claim to withhold sex over their husband's lack of contribution to the household, because it means they admitted to prostituting themselves to get what they want. But when I bring it up, they deny up and down that that's what they do, even though it clearly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:52 PM
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Why do you guys keep making these posts? Don't you know that by complaining about this, you're outing yourself as having a tiny pecker?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:58 PM
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Nah you're being sneaky. You're not trying to learn, you're trying to prove a point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:29 AM
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Are you implying I didn't try? I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:34 AM
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You did get information from me. It's just not what you wanted to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:17 PM
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All men fail. That's the price of dating. You sound salty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:16 PM
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Yes. I only want to date beautiful and young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:45 PM
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Then refer back to my previous post. Maybe it's due to bad luck. Maybe I don't want to date ugly women. What's the matter, explanation not satisfactory to you and you want me to tell you what you want to hear? Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:30 PM
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No, you're talking out of your ass. You have no reason to believe something, but you believe it's true regardless. This is logic that's typical of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:07 PM
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You don't know but you're sure that it must be something lmao. Typical woman logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:23 AM
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Something wrong? But you can't tell me what. So you're talking out of yoru ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:06 AM
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I don't know, maybe it's bad luck. Maybe I don't like dating ugly chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:40 AM
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It's not about how he treats women, it's the way around. That woman was stringing him along for an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:00 PM
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I don't know why so many guys think going to the gym will do anything. Unless you're always walking around with your shirt off, no one cares. and it matters less if that ripped body is holding up an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:49 PM
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I don't know. You tell me. You seem so sure that there's something wrong with those who've never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:45 PM
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It is not a red flag. I've never been in a relationship and there's nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with YOU for not wanting a guy like that. The problem isn't the guy, the problem is you want to date winners and you view inexperienced men as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:14 AM
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It's actually better for her to think you suck at relationships than her knowing you're inexperienced. The latter is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:01 AM
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When they say they do it for themselves, it's to feel good about themselves for being attractive (to men). So yes, it really is doing it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:52 PM
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I don't struggle with social skills though. Women in my day to day life like talking to me. I'm not some socially ostracized loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:38 AM
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Instead of berating me for lacking empathy, why don't you berate women for having piss poor communication skills and expecting men to always know how she's feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:33 AM
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It's been a learning process for me to unlearn a lot of the garbage I read in these spheres. One of them is reading body language. It's a fool's errand. Like I already said. Good body language could mean she doesn't like you at all. Poor body language could mean she's waiting for you to ravage her pussy. I mean, you've seen women on the internet even admitting this. I've seen women say they purposely avoid men they're attracted to and do everything in their power to conceal their attraction. So,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:28 AM
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The point is that a compliment means nothing. And a lot of these rules you promote mean nothing. The problem with the dating world is a lot of men try to treat these things like a mathematical equation. That's why they're completely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:16 AM
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This is another example of why this type of advice is designed to undermine men's chances so that women benefit from having fewer ugly men approach them. But think of the most successful men. Who are they? Chad? No, it's the guy who doesn't give a shit about body language or trying to decipher a woman's Morse Code. He's interested, so he pursues, and in the end he's the most successful. So sorry, but I have to make it clear to any guy reading your post to disregard your dogshit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:14 AM
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shows how little you know. A female coworker did compliment my haircut (and a bunch of other things). Guess what, she had already previously rejected my advances and ended up marrying some short ugly man. I've learned to disregard a lot of these rules promoted by people in these corners of the internet and I'm a lot better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:07 AM
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These little signs you're talking about mean nothing. I made another post in this thread addressing exactly that. And yes, it is mind reading. You're just trying to dress it up as something else so women don't look unreasonable expecting men to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:03 AM
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Women are terrible at reading men. They start thinking a guy is into them if he compliments her haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:52 AM
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Yes I'm telling you exactly that. There are times where a girl looks really interested but it turns out she has a boyfriend. Then there are times where a girl looks like she wants nothing to do with you but secretly has an obsessive crush on you. "Reading social cues" is terrible advice that's dressed up to say that you need to read a woman's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:32 AM
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Massive beta male energy in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:46 AM
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All the social skills in the world aren't going to allow you to read someone's mind. Calling it "social skills" instead of "mind reading" just puts the burden on the man and lets women off the hook. That's why you male feminists make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:43 AM
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Yes, she was playing him. In case you didn't know, or didn't want to admit, women tend to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:28 PM
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"She back tracked because you embarrassed her, she didn’t want to have sex straight away so you humiliated her" He didn't humiliate her. She was playing him from the start, stringing him along so she could feel young and pretty again (he mentioned that she's 40).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:27 AM
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Nice fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:24 AM
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No, I can tell you just watch too many porno movies and thinks that is real life. It isn't. Stop living in dreamland.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:19 AM
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Lmao what a delusional post. Real life is not some porno movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:07 AM
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Women call it "preferences" when a more accurate term would be "requirements"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:14 AM
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One of the funniest things I've seen on the internet is Justin Bieber posting a pic of Gollum with the ring in response to Selena Gomez's engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:03 PM
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A key that can open many locks is a master key. A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:58 PM
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Women are far more likely to lead men on than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:13 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. Maybe one day he'll commit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:52 PM
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"Fuckboys aren’t usually misogynistic." Pure ignorance. A fuckboy's whole thing is that they want to bang women without committing to a relationship. Seeing women as nothing but a cum dumpster and not a human is fundamentally misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:19 PM
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No the problem is women. They are notorious for being poor communicators and expecting people to read their minds. That's why the dating scene is such a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:08 PM
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You seem to have misunderstand my point. I'm not saying don't try so you don't make women uncomfortable. I'm saying keep trying while not caring that you might make women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:50 PM
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In my experience, women don't play cupid with their male besties. This is nothing but a male fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:48 PM
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You may not be gay but they sure think of you in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:40 AM
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I would actually they're behind confident and persistent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:59 AM
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The harsh reality you need to accept is that the pushy and insistent men are the most successful at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:05 PM
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The problem is that some women like to be chased, so initially you're not quite sure if she means it when she turns down your advances or she wants you to ramp up your attempts at getting her. And you won't know unless you do try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:29 PM
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Many of those relationships are from previous eras, from when before smart phones and social media were a thing. Younger men are lonely at far greater rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:02 PM
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Most women are delusional. Why do you think so many men have given up? A lot of men probably get to the point where they decide to lower their standards, only to get rejected anyway. That's probably where many of them reach their breaking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:58 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what you see women on this sub saying. "I'm gonna get what I want or I don't anything at all". Doesn't mean the 3 doesn't have a "10 or bust" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:54 PM
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That has nothing to do with being a provider and protector. It has everything to do with her ego. She wants a 10 but she wants to feel like she deserves a 10 too, so she doesn't want to to reminded that she's actually a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:45 PM
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Being at a loss for words means you don't know how to attack the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:43 PM
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So you're "besties" with a lot of women and you admit to coming across as feminine? You're the gay bestie dude lmao. You're the one who they come to talk about their makeup routine or what shoes to buy hahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:42 PM
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What OP means by making women uncomfortable is ignoring all those anxieties that men often have about coming across as a creep and approaching her. The most successful men don't give a shit about being called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:36 PM
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Saying "nuh uh" instead of using an actual argument makes it obvious you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:28 PM
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I think what OP is getting at is that you have to be better than her without forcing her to acknowledge it. Essentially, allow her to live in fantasy land that she's as every bit as good as the guy she is with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:27 AM
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Coming from someone who probably spends all day in his mom's basement. Why do women react to Henry Cavill the way they do? Because he's a unicorn. It doesn't make sense that women would view plenty of other guys this way if they see someone like him every time they step out of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:26 PM
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Yeah and you just gotta keep scratching off those lotto tickets until you hit the jackpot. Lol your advice is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:17 PM
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By definition, those types are very rare, so why get butthurt over it? Crying over not being the top 2% man that gets this type of reaction from women is pretty silly, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:05 PM
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True. A lot of guys here are delusional. They want to be the unicorn that women immediately want, even though by definition those guys are very rare. It's like getting pissy that you didn't win the lottery or aren't 7 feet tall so you can play in the NBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:03 PM
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I think her age and your own interactions with her would provide a lot of context as to why she behaves the way she does. Are you the simping type? Do you get overly excited over any sort of female attention? Given that she's 40, I see her as a passed her prime woman who misses the attention she used to get from men that now she only gets in fleeting moments. If you're the type of guy that gets hearts in his eyes over any woman giving him attention, then I think it's likely she was using you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:55 PM
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No I haven't, because you don't need to be successful at dating to post in this topic. The fact that you think so means you're desperate to discredit me because you're upset about being defeated here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:19 AM
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Because the topic is not how to pull a woman, it's how ridiculous it is for men to do all this work to pull woman. You're trying and failing to discredit me because I've been ripping you apart all over this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:16 AM
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They should listen to me because of the topic at hand, which is how ridiculous it is to expect men to figure out a woman's signals, because at the end of the day these signals mean nothing. Someone like me would know this, Chad would know jack shit about this topic. So hopefully know I've educated you adequately lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:06 AM
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That's the flaw in your arguing, appeals to authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:01 AM
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A lot of the best coaches and gm's failed as players. So try again. No, I've never had a successful relationship. But that's not required for me to know about how ridiculous it is that men have to figure out a woman's morse code. You're trying to misdirect. And fundamentally your logic is absurd. A person who's succeeded would be less reliant on signals anyways. So you're better off asking someone who would NEED to figure out these female signals. So once again your logic has crumbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:53 AM
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Funny you mention Michael Jordan. He was a great player but a lousy general manager. Which proves my point. His natural talent allowed him to succeed as a player, but he was dog shit at team building because he was never forced to truly learn the game. Thank you for walking into that one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:48 AM
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Who knows more, somone who's struggled or someone who's succeeded? The person who's struggled. Because they're forced to figure things out. You wouldn't know because you've never tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:41 AM
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The fact that I've been rejected means I've tried. You haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:15 AM
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You're not successful though. I figured out pretty early that you're lying. You probably can't talk to women without having a panic attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:11 AM
1

I don't suck at interacting with women. That's how I know about this stuff and how you're full of shit. Your dating advice isn't worth the gum on my shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:08 AM
1

It is, your denials just show how deep in blue pill delusion you are. Women's signs are meant to be incomprehensible. Every time you receive these so-called IOIs, there's always some gray area. And that's by design, whether it's to avoid rejection or to get an ego boost from a guy she's not attracted to. If IOIs were supposed to be full-proof, she'd just do away with the signals and ask the man out herself, which she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:01 AM
0

I expected you to admit that yo're full of shit. You're advising men to decipher a woman's morse code and then shaming them if they can't do it. That's dating in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:55 AM
2

You're in denial of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:53 AM
1

Exactly what I thought. Couldn't give me an answer which proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:25 PM
1

Yeah, tell people to "read the room" and when it turns out to be useless, tell them they did it wrong but you didn't since you're the expert. No, the fact that you think "reading the room" is valid advice tells me you don't actually interact with women bceause that's not how they operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:18 PM
5

What you wrote is very vague, which goes to show women's M.O. Always act in ways in which they can hide behind plausible deniability. Essentially your advice is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:14 PM
3

No it doesn't. She can show all that and still reject you. I've experienced myself. You probably haven't because you probably don't interact with women and just read garbage dating advice online lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:11 PM
4

Ok, how praytell do I "read social cues"? Let's say for example that I want to date you (I'll just ignore the possibility that you're fat and ugly lol). What are the things that you'll show? Because I've been touched by women and knew it meant nothing bcause they were married and I've seen girls playing with their hair in front of me and I knew it meant nothing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:08 PM
5

Problem is most women won't make that offer to men because they're mindful not to come across as a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:06 PM
7

Reading social cues is just a way to tell men they have to read women's minds without making women look unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:03 PM
1

Don't read advice on the internet. You read garbage like how she likes you if she touches her hair. And if people repeat it often enough, everyone becomes convinced it's true, no matter how stupid it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:02 PM
1

They don't. I've made posts directed at women and men. When it's men replying, you get more varied responses. At the very least, it's not apparent that men read the top comment and just copy it and make it sound like they thought of it themselves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:14 AM
0

True, a lot of men here don't realize how beta they come across when they beg people to feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:09 PM
1

Men who are reserved and conflict averse exist and so do confident, aggressive men. Anyone who denies this is kidding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:52 PM
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The attraction is based on their hatred for weakness. They view asshole behaviour as a sign of strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:55 PM
0

Women don't date me because their standards are through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:04 AM
1

Ghosting a sign of a shitty person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:03 AM
-1

I love how you try to rationalize your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:20 AM
-4

Women always tell on themselves with comments like these. You're essentially admitting that you prostitute yourself for your husband to do housework. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:01 PM
3

This is what I've always thought. Women don't like the act of sex itself. They only have sex because they see it as a means to an end to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:59 PM
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Ah typical woman's circular logic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:36 PM
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At some point you realize that endlessly running on the hamster wheel isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:56 PM
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I'm not trying to prove her point wrong. I'm saying women are a hivemind despite their insistence that they are not. They don't have a mind of their own even though they like to think of themselves as independent. How can you think they are independent thinkers when you read any random post on this sub and scroll down and see basically the same comment posted over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:51 PM
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Callling out women's bullshit makes me unsuccesful with women? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:50 PM
1

Look at all that straw grasping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:01 AM
2

You're just making up your own definition of boat anchor to suit you loll. Boat anchor means you're holding someone down and preventing them from progressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:24 AM
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No, it just means you're a boat anchor and men want no part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:53 AM
-2

Then enjoy your cats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:40 PM
-1

Women, particular older women, treat their baggage/trauma like a badge of honour. They think this allows them to be more wise about how the world works. They don't seem to realize it makes them a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:00 PM
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The only time I think trying to date a coworker might be inappropriate is if you're a supervisor trying to date one of your underlings. Otherwise I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:19 AM
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Quite a few of my coworkers are married to someone they met at work. Again, you sound like you're terminally online and just regurgitate crap you read online without actually seeing it play out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:00 AM
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It makes me wonder if people just regurgitate stuff they read online rather than actually putting it into practice in real life. I mean have you ever heard of someone who met their partner through a hobby group? Because I haven't. Usually, it's through school, work, mutual friends, etc. If you think about it, hobby groups are a terrible place to date. If you join a group, usually the members already have a familiarity with each other and there are dynamics within the group going on. How do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:53 AM
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Funny how pretty much every response from women in this thread is a variation of this one because they're desperate to derail any legitimate point against them. They don't even have a mind of their own to think of their own excuse so they copy someone else's lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:31 PM
0

She's stringing the guy along. Not hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:53 PM
1

You have your usual meltdowns and then claim you don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:06 AM
0

It's not irrelevant. You're just attempting to derail because my assessment of you is more correct than you'd care to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:00 AM
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He's talking about an innocent misunderstanding. I'm saying that's not the case when it comes to women. It's very intentional. And they hide behind the "You misunderstood my kindness for more because you're so desperate" schtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:56 AM
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How, you talk about mistaking basic courtesy for romantic interest? That's the point of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:44 AM
-12

This is part of the games women play. Flirt with a guy to feed your ego while you have him eating out of the palm of your hand. And then when he makes a move, you go oops, you misunderstand my kindness for interest. Then when he's not around you laugh to yourself that you played another hapless sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:30 AM
14

This right there tells you why women give terrible dating advice-because they believe in this just world fallacy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:13 PM
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The advice women give is aimed for the benefit of women, not men. Like when they tell you to not approach at the gym, at work, at the grocery store, etc. it's because they want the average man to not bother them. Or when they tell you to be nice, because they want to be treated nice by the average man, rather than the guy they would ultimately date. When they tell you this stuff, it's for their benefit, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:04 PM
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Yep. You can't win. You get criticized for being soft for not approaching if she likes you and criticized for being delusional for approaching w hen she doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:53 PM
1

Most women don't use dating apps. You guys are so terminally online lool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:15 PM
1

I have plenty of experiences where it looked like a girl was interested but I ended up getting turned down. When it happens, your gut will tell you that you got played.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:14 PM
1

Ever seen the guys who orbit around pretty girls? Plenty of them are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:13 PM
8

Also society perpetuates the idea that you're a pathetic virgin loser if you can't attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:37 PM
1

It's not a pattern you've noticed because you're not accustomed to talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:19 PM
4

You're talking out of your ass. Does specifically seeking me out to chat with me or inviting me to outings outside of work sound like repulsion to you? I think you're just in denial about how likely women will use you for their own gain. You desperately want to believe a woman showing interest is genuine so you can bang her. Sorry but that's not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:09 PM
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I've learned that women have a sixth sense for when a guy is interested in them. And they take advantage of it whether they find a guy attractive or not. If they don't, then they attempt to extract resources from these men, like attention, gifts, favours, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:49 PM
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It happens quite often at work. I get plenty of attention from female coworkers. But you quickly find out most of them just want attention and want to feel pretty. Why do you think they allow orbiters to hang around them all the time? Because they want men to want to bang them without actually banging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:32 PM
5

Older women want to feel wanted just as much as younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:26 PM
5

Female attention isn't often "real". Often, it's just them wanting attention without having any interest in dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:03 PM
4

This is hilarious. Complaining about how bad women have it for being unattractive, but making sure to mention your husband and children so people don't assume that's you. Show some dignity and admit you're unattractive for god's sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:14 PM
2

Or don't date women who nag?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:57 PM
0

Because Sydney Sweeney is a butterface. Her career is done as soon as those knockers start sagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:49 PM
1

That depends on why you're a virgin. Is it because you're picky? Not good. Is it because you're ugly? Also not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:12 AM
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Lol says the virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:12 AM
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My username was also autogenerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:57 PM
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Yes it does. You are in denial. Take a look at those celebrity with/without makeup pics. The difference is very jarring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:56 PM
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So you mock my username despite being a virgin? Either you're a liar or a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:52 PM
1

"Not a whole crazy lot happened in-between." Sounds like you have selective memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:51 PM
0

My username indicates nothing except my username. You're probably just salty since I accurately described you in my previous posts about traveling lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:49 PM
2

I doubt it. Unless hanging out with your friends at a nightclub while she gets banged by a guy in the bathroom counts as helping a man get a girlfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:47 PM
0

They sleep with the top 10% around the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:46 PM
1

You're an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:45 PM
1

You call yourself cute? So you're a narcissist on top of all the other red flags I saw in your post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:44 PM
1

"Boring" to a walking red flag. I missed out on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:44 PM
1

But you like guys with that type of personality. Guys who get drunk and have a low opinion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:37 AM
0

So you just like rowdy frat boys. Most guys would be dodging a bullet. Good thing they are "boring".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:30 AM
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I'm not boring and I am like the "boring guy" in your story. You just come across as childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:27 AM
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You are proof that men should not listen to women about dating advice. I bet you yourself would dump a man who was a virgin. You also do not teach a prostitute to verbally teach you how to have sex. You would know that on your own through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:16 AM
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Looking at your post history, you seem to love sex, so you directly proved my point lmao. Talk about shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:53 AM
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You'd be sabotaging yourself by being inexperienced in bed and making it obvious to her that you're a virgin. That is far worse than paying for sex, because if you pay for it you obviously wouldn't tell your future girlfriend unless you are mindblowingly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:26 AM
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Whenever I see travel stories on Instagram, it's almost always from a thot who's barely wearing any clothes. It's very rarely the unassuming nice girl. So based on what I've seen, the type of girl who loves to travel is the type of girl who has seen miles and miles of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:03 AM
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You said it's a win win. How is being a whore a win win?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:25 AM
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If you ever plan on dating, then at some point it's best to get a hooker. You'd be sabotaging any future relationship by being a virgin. She WILL leave you if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:19 AM
-2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:11 AM
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Traveling is a sign of promiscuity. To me it's a red flag that this is a whore who gets her back blown out all over the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:15 PM
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It's actually not true that escorts don't care about how you look. I've had escorts that acted like a nun around me, saying she doesn't do this or that, and then I read up on her reviews and they talk about how she's a nympho into all sorts of freaky shit. They definitely have differing standards depending on how attractive the guy is. Even with hookers, Chad wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:07 AM
2

Ruling out different avenues to meet women just because you said so is objectively harmful to a man's chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 AM
0

The biggest mistake a man can make is listen to your rules about where they can approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 AM
1

And yet giving a man a fake phone number is perfectly okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:38 PM
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No, it's because there's no social stigma surrounding lonely women. There is for lonely men. Lonely men are labelled as losers for not being able to attract women. Women are celebrated for not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:37 PM
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Women are utterly incapable of self-reflection. Look at the thread asking women why they think they are single. In the responses, you'll see a lot of man blaming rather than admitting they're single because they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:08 PM
6

Women are cowards and they expect men to shoulder the burden of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:40 AM
2

Typical woman. When the man is hot: "Why didn't he make a move? I was practically throwing myself at him" When the man is ugly: "Ew, I was just being nice. Stop thinking kindness is a reason to try to bang me"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:16 AM
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I'm not lonely per se. I get to talk to women at work and I hang out with a few of them. It's just that I haven't been able to bang any.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:02 AM
0

The majority of women are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:18 AM
2

I actually think this behaviour is more common amongst women. Women are often competitive with each other even if they don't verbalize it. They also seem to have an innate understanding of where they stand in the pecking order, so this results in a lot of jealousy and resentment. I've had female friends that have admitted as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:02 PM
0

Not a single response admitting they're single because they're ugly. Women really are massive narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:14 AM
1

I may be the only guy here to say not much. I've asked out a few women, and in most cases they seem surprised, as if it's something they're not used to. I think certain women belong to the whore category where they end up with a lot of men, and the other women end up on the opposite end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:56 PM
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The reason they called you out of character is that you did a complete 180. You went from simp to male slut. That's too jarring of a change so of course they would find your behaviour bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:27 PM
1

Why do you get sexually aroused by being jack hammered by Chad over getting fucked gently by a Billy beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:15 PM
1

Gay men are full of STIs. Why would I do that to myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:13 PM
1

How is the pain of getting dick in your pussy dependant on the attractiveness of the man? It's dependent on the shape of the penis and how hard he bangs you. Lol you're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:11 PM
1

If getting dicked is painful, then why do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:09 PM
1

Women are Bernie Sanders in the streets, Donald Trump in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:08 PM
0

Stop with the woe is me attitude. It's a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:07 PM
1

I don't want to fuck men because getting fucked in the ass is not pleasurable. That's common sense. Maybe you should start fucking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:05 PM
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When I say compromise, I don't mean compromise on getting a less attractive person, I mean the ability to compromise, which encompasses many things and can affect how dateable she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:26 AM
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If therapy truly works, let me ask you, why are there so many people who are on therapy for years on end? Wouldn't at some point, they would be good enough that they wouldn't need it anymore? Why are they not better that they have to keep being on it? The answer is that therapy is in fact a scam. I'm amazed that it isn't treated like the snake oil that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:40 AM
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Therapy is one of the biggest scams I've ever seen and it blows my mind how so many idiots support it. Take it from somebody that tried therapy, you're flushing your money down the toilet. You spend 50 minutes answering questions and then you're about $200 poorer. Can't believe there are so many suckers out there who would believe anything just because people repeat that shit over and over on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:47 AM
1

You know, this conversation has given me an epiphany. It has made me realize that no matter how much talk about progressiveness or left wing politics women talk about, they are conservative at heart. For all the talk about refusing to date Trump supporters, it really amounts to nothing because of the hypocrisy. Women are only progressive in so far as they are in a disadvantaged position in society. But think about it, what areas are they privileged? In dating of course. And this conversation in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:38 AM
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Exactly. On this sub I read a lot of nonsense from women about how great their lives are, and how perfect their boyfriend/husbands are. It's like they're trying to convince themselves more than others lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:32 AM
3

You wouldn't date any of these men. So you view them as losers without calling them by that name.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:24 AM
2

I'm not so much giving you advice as I am scolding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:12 PM
2

I don't need your permission for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:10 PM
1

What I'm saying is that a lack of flexibility is not a good thing. It's a sign that you are unable to compromise and thus hold a lot of baggage for anyone who might consider dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:08 PM
3

Sure you can fuck whomever you want but don't you realize that this is a an indication for why the dating market is such a dumpster fire nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:59 PM
1

It is problematic. That's why men have preferences and women have requirements. And with your mindset, it's an indication that you're inflexible and unreasonable. So any failure in a relationship will likely be your fault. So you can say that it SHOULD BE a requirement that your attraction be nuanced. Nuance is a GOOD thing. The problem appears to be that you think your "my way or bust" mindset is a good thing. You think it means that you know what you want and it makes you a boss babe when it j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:47 PM
1

You just admitted women lack any sense of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:54 AM
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These posts from women never cease to crack me up. It's always them depicting them having it all. In your case, it's the perfect husband. But oh wait, he wasn't always like that so it's also a rags to riches story on top of that lmao. Quit with the fantasies. It's embarrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:49 AM
2

To women, a guy is either a 1, 5 or 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:06 AM
0

Typical woman post, the "I got it all" post. Save your fantasies lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:31 AM
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You're just copying the other posts here. The real reason is because you're scared to do it. You're telling me that if you saw a hot guy who didn't approach you, you'd be okay because a bunch of less attractive guys might do it? Lol you're fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:53 PM
1

Nice fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:28 AM
0

I have to admit you are right. A lot of men nowadays are pussies. Wanting women to approach them, wanting the woman to pay for dinner. It's like they want to take on the role of the woman and the women to be the man. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:28 AM
0

A lot of the people I know through work met their partners at work. It makes me wonder if people like you have first hand experience to know that dating coworkers is a bad idea or whether you just mindlessly repeat stuff you read on the internet. I suspect it's the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:21 AM
1

Women don't approach because they're cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:30 AM
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For women yes, not men. For men, they have to market themselves, otherwise there's no market at all for them. Also, Tinder is a terrible way to determine your market value because of the massive gender disparity. Terrible post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:46 PM
2

You're not supposed to confess your feelings. You're supposed to ask her out on a date in the most casual way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:44 PM
1

The reason I'm "salty" is that I suspect this perfect man doesn't even exist. He's a figment of your imagination. I also don't buy that you have peace of mind unless you find exactly what you're looking for. First of all, it sounds mighty convenient that this worked out exactly as you planned. Pardon me for being skeptical. I also told you that a man not meeting every single point in your admittedly extensive list does not mean your life will be worse. Second, imagine that after such an exhausti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:44 AM
1

There's a reason why I called your list arbitrary. Since it doesn't guarantee a life of happiness. If you think it does, then once again you are delusional. That's why I told you to look at men as normal human beings with flaws, not as some quest to find the perfect human. You said you have self awareness but the truth is you have none. Because if you did you'd know that trying to find someone so perfect you'll live happily ever after is a fool's errand. That's why I gave the example about his g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:25 AM
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Reasons why men are interested in younger women Younger women look better. This is pretty obvious, isn't it? Younger women are more likely to be available. I don't know how many people criticizing men for wanting a young woman realize how hard it is to find an older woman in her 30s or above who is single, attractive, and childless. Like finding a needle in a haystack. You're much more likely to find someone in her 20s who fits these criteria. A man dating a woman his age starts to become imprac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:17 AM
1

You need perspective. Congratulations, you found a man who ticked off every box in your arbitrary list. He's an atheist just like you. But oh wait, he's also a gambling addict who blew your life savings. Good thing you picked him over the guy who goes to church but wouldn't have left you broke. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:01 AM
1

It's called compromise. Ever heard of it? Maybe instead of seeing men like boxes to be checked off, you should ask yourself: Do I like being around this person? Yes? No? It's a form of self sabotage to turn down so many opportunities to make yourself happy because of all these self imposed rules you set.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:47 AM
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Hahahahahahaha this is like a variation of those "my dad is cooler than your dad" comments from children. Proof that women never grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:57 PM
1

It could be any number of those things you listed. That's my point. If you meet someone who seems like a great person but doesn't check off one of those boxes and you turn him down for that reason, then it's a sign that you suffer from mental illness and you will be destined to be a cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:52 PM
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A person who does not check off a box is not a "burden". It actually makes you sound like a burden when you speak like this. You sound like you have princess syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:05 AM
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Thinking a guy not checking off every box would be making your life worse is a sign of delusion. These are people, not boxes to be checked. People are flawed. Your whole outlook is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:30 AM
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Refusing a guy because he doesn't check off every box in a long ass list is senseless. I don't believe for a second you are happy because this sounds like a very unfulfilling existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:14 AM
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The fact that you think having reasonable standards is making your life worse is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:35 AM
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The difference is, men's are reasonable. You yourself gave a huge laundry list of things you're looking for, so you just hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:49 AM
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They do. Men like me have experienced nothing but rejection with no success. You can't say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:47 PM
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A self imposed struggle is not a real struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:39 PM
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It's only hard because you have that huge laundry list. You made it hard for yourself. And even then you managed to find someone who fulfilled all those criteria. Quite the contrast to a man who has far more reasonable standards and still gets nobody don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:27 PM
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You undermine your whole point by adding that you found that man you were looking for. Suddenly it's not as hard as you say. You just wanted to brag. So you wanted to have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:14 PM
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Claims finding a man she wants is hard, and then admits she found that man so that people don't think it's because she's ugly. The jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:09 PM
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No, it is. People in my life have no idea I've never had a girlfriend. Many assume I'm dating someone. If I told them I've never had a girlfriend, only then do I become undateable. It's obvious many women have a "If no one wants you, why should I" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:01 PM
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18
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:24 AM
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I literally have people assume I'm still in college. Sorry to burst your bubble grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:15 AM
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If by lack of interest, you mean a lack of interest from men, then yeah I'd believe it. It's like closing up a business where no one's showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:00 PM
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A popular excuse from women who do these things for validation from others but don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:59 PM
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Reasons why men are interested in younger women Younger women look better. This is pretty obvious, isn't it? Younger women are more likely to be available. I don't know how many people criticizing men for wanting a young woman realize how hard it is to find an older woman in her 30s or above who is single, attractive, and childless. Like finding a needle in a haystack. You're much more likely to find someone in her 20s who fits these criteria. A man dating a woman his age starts to become imprac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:53 PM
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Lonely men have a lifetime experience of not trying and getting nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:44 PM
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Women simultaneously want to be seen as equals to men but also whine about "power dynamics" and treated themselves as helpless whenever it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:43 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:14 PM
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Women use makeup and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:52 PM
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The guys who make these threads tell on themselves that they have small peckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:50 PM
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The only person flinging insults here is you, and that's because you know how right I am and you can't handle it. And funny how you felt so sorry for yourself and had a little pity party about how your male friends abandoned you. Maybe they abondoned you since they didn't like feeling deceived just so you can feel pretty at their expense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:17 AM
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I know how triggered they get when they refer to my username. So I was indeed right that you were leading them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:01 AM
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Typical woman. Making it look like the man's fault. Listen, if it was an isolated incident with one guy, I'd believe you, but the fact that this happened with multiple male friends makes it pretty clear to me that you were leading them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:38 AM
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There's more to this world than dating apps. Most sensible guys gave up on dating apps a long time ago. So yes you are indeed terminally online. That happens when you view the online world as more applicable to life than the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:19 PM
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How am I going to use AI to make myself more attractive when I go to work? Lol dude take this as a sign that you're too terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:12 PM
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Ugly in comparison to women who paint their face to hide away the ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:09 PM
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Out of all the simps on this sub, you probably take the cake. And it still amazes me how people can make comments about how women are naturally more attractive than men, considering there's something called MAKEUP. Men don't have the luxury of putting on a whole different face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:59 PM
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Don't be manipulative. I know what you were fishing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:44 PM
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You asked a leading question. You were hoping that the men reading this post would say "gosh darnit, she's right. I should stop being upset about mediocre women wanting to date a unicorn and turning me down".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:34 PM
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Now you're just in denial since you got proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:22 PM
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You made this post implying it's unrealistic for women to change their preferences from pressure from men. I gave you an example of many guys who did change their preferences due to pressure from women. You see endless amounts of whining and shaming language towards men who want younger women: creeps, ugly, loser, manipulative, etc. And sadly men fall for it, since you see so much virtue signalling on this topic: about how men would never loook at a women more than 5 years younger than him becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:01 PM
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Pretty hypocritical to make this post since older women absolutely shame men for wanting younger women. And sadly many men indeed cave and changed their preferences in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:43 AM
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Yes, and it was a terrible waste of time to read. Yeah, go ahead and call yourself masculine while wanting to adopt female gender roles. Think about how masculine you are when you bitch about not splitting the bill if you are able to get a date or about how lonely you are because women don't ask you out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:50 PM
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This is such a terrible post from someone blatantly trying to suck his own dick. American men are most masculine? We're in a culture right now where men practically act like women, whining about not splitting the bill, whining about how they have to approach and wishing women would do it for them. Does that sound masculine at all to you? American men nowadays are pining for a society where they can take on more of a feminine role and asking women to be more like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:26 AM
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Your yourself said you give fake phone numbers to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:20 AM
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Women are followers by nature, not leaders, hence the attraction to confident, assertive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:19 AM
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Maybe with desperate men, but not at all with women since dating apps are a giant sausage fest. It's just that they're brought up so much because so many men nowadays are so scared of women that dating apps are their only frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:49 AM
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And what if he tests the number in front of you? What are you going to do, piss your pants? Loll
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:48 AM
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How is that pathetic? I've had friends test out the number in front of me when I gave my number. But if you don't exhibit shithead behaviour like giving out fake numbers, you'd have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:10 PM
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Men won't get fake phone numbers when they test out the number in front of the girl. That would teach her a lesson to not do it in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:56 PM
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This is why men should always test the number, to avoid getting played like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:20 AM
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Prime example of why dating advice from women is trash. OF COURSE she would want the girl to have the ball in her court, bcause it benefits women. That's what female dating advice is, getting crap into guys heads that benefit women and does nothing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:24 AM
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The age 25 thing is a myth that bitter women peddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:17 AM
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Don't demand anything out of a man that you cannot provide to a man yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:48 AM
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If you bust out a long ass checklist and reject a man for not checking off every single box, then you'd rightly be accused of being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:40 AM
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The average woman marries at an age far younger than your grandma currently is, so that proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:35 AM
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It means I am right when I say there is no stigma surrounding women being single. You talk about your grandma and not yourself, implying there is no such stigma surrounding your relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:31 AM
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Women can't expect a man to make more money than her, with the implication that he be a provider, and then demand him do housework on top of that. If you got the provider, then he's done his part. So stop complaining and scrub those dishes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:30 AM
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Calling me an incel is proof that there is a stigma surrounding single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:23 AM
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No, women don't face pressure. This isn't 1955 and you're not living in Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:22 AM
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You talk about the problems your grandma faced, not you, so that's you admitting that I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:21 AM
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So you view sex as a reward system like giving a treat to a dog for doing a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:20 AM
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Women on this sub have been saying men should be comfortable being single like women are. Now you're saying you feel pressure to date. More proof women have no real opinions except saying whatever makes them look good in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:01 AM
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You're are so out of touch it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:59 AM
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Um no, absolutely not. That's why women on this sub brag about finding peace in their singledom. And yet you bring up the circumstances women faced in 1955 lol. Men though absolutely face pressure. That's why virgin as a term is used as an insult exclusively against men. It's also why women refuse to date men who've never been in relationship while men have no such concerns about inexperienced women. So that is the biggest motivations, otherwise why deal with the constant nagging in your life? l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:57 AM
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Yes a lot of men are doing it because of peer pressure. Something that women don't have to face. If they did, then there would be mass female suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:44 AM
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People call men who can't get a date "incel" and "haha loser virgin". And you think there's no stigma? You're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:39 AM
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Women admit they refuse to sleep with their husbands if they don't do housework. If women can turn off their sex drive like a tap, then it's reasonable to assume women don't even like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:29 AM
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Would you want a genie to grant you a wish that you would never get any male attention whatsoever? Of course not. If that's what the world became, there would be mass female suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:21 AM
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None of what you stated are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:11 AM
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You're drawing the wrong conclusions. Men want women more than women want men because there is no stigma about women who stay single (unless if they live in some 3rd world country). Women who are single are seen as strong and independent women who know what they want in life. But men who are single are considered pathetic losers. That's why there are so many desperate men looking for girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:09 AM
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I meant men your age. The implication is that you're also old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:54 AM
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You're lying. Unless you're exceptionally attractive male, women will not approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:54 AM
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Yes you are a liar considering you invented a virgin husband lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:09 PM
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Yes you do. And therein lies the problem. You're talking bullshit to make yourself look good. I'm just asking you to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:04 PM
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Just admit what OP is asking. Say "Yes I think undesirable men are losers and I would never date one". Then I will be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:00 PM
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NOthing I said was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:55 PM
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We need to face facts here. Many women (not all) are compulsive liars and will say anything that will make them look good even though it's blatant bullshit. Please own up to this. I would respect you if you admitted you're full of shit instead of saying what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:54 PM
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Not if the exact reason you dont want to sleep with him is that you think he's a loser. You're just trying to rationalize this since I caught you being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:52 PM
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Men don't have that option if they want to date "big dog". They have to stick their neck and and deal with any potential fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:51 PM
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Stop trying to rationalize your own hypocrisy. It sounds like you're trying to convince yourself more than me. And if you're wondering, I can see right through it and don't believe what you say for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:50 PM
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"My point still stands. You absolutely have the freedom as a man to date a way younger woman. Everyone else has the freedom to call you a creep because of it. If you think being seen as a lecherous old creep is worth it to score some fresh young snapper, go for it." Only weak men are affected by shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:50 AM
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"You can have whatever preferences you want, but, people are still gonna clown on you if you do something goofy like being an old ass man dating a teenager." Nah more like get high fives. The shaming comes from older women and their simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:49 AM
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They're not being preyed upon? they are adults who are capable of making their own decisions. I'm sure they wouldn't like it if some know it all tried to second guess their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:43 AM
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Using the slippery slope argument? Nice try grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:40 AM
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Exception when it proves you wrong? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:39 AM
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"power dynamic". What power does an older man have over a younger woman? Bill Belichicks' girlfriend practically leads him around on a leash. The fact that you think women inherently have less power ironically makes you look misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:35 AM
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You got caught lying and now you've invented the virgin husband to look less bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:33 AM
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Hilarious shaming tactic trying to get older men to date you, otherwise they are childish lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:30 AM
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The criticism and judgement is only due to you being salty about aging and getting less attention than you used to in your youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:28 AM
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Those are male pick mes who say that. Those men are the lowest of the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:26 AM
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Funny how women simultaneously believe young women are being manipulated into dating older men but also they don't want older men anyways. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:25 AM
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How convenient that your husband was a virgin when you start to look like a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:37 AM
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You think I'm going to believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:15 AM
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It is accurate judging by your flair "promiscuous woman". Thanks for proving me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:13 AM
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What a load of shit. No one cares. No one you know in real life has a clue that you post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:11 PM
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No but the reason why you refuse to date an undesirable man is that you view him as pathetic for being unable to attract women. So when you refuse to date someone for that exact reason, then yes that's why you refuse to date him. It's not like refusing to date a man because he doesn't enjoying basket weaving like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:09 PM
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Tattoos and piercings are indicative of a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:07 PM
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There have been moments where a woman will talk about how attractive she is, and then surprise surprise, will refuse to show a photo of herself to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:06 PM
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I view any woman with tattoos and piercings to be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:05 PM
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I don't like your answer because it is predictably how women on this sub respond. They give responses not based on truth but based on what makes them look good. You said you don't view undesirable men as losers despite knowing full well you'd never date one. Ergo, you DO view them as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:02 PM
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Typical feminist fallacy. You criticize them and they bring out the strawman arguments that you're trying to put them in your basement dungeon to be your sex slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:57 PM
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Not wanting to sleep with a man BECAUSE he's a loser means you think he's a loser. It's you that can't grasp something so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:53 PM
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I didn't say I consider them losers, I said YOU consider them losers and would never in a million years sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:52 PM
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Stop trying to rationalize your way out of this. You got caught lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:51 PM
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No shit. You don't want to have sex with him precisely because you think he is a loser. That's the exact reason so of course you'd need to have sex with him to not think he is a loser. I love how you think this is some gotcha lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:00 AM
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Women on this sub have been asked if they would date a virgin and the answer is a resounding no. The obvious take away is that women don't want to date men that other women don't want because they view unwanted men as being losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:38 AM
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I feel that way when I see ugly children. Then I would be put off by having any children of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:30 AM
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But the REASON you don't want to date that person is that you view him as a loser. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:29 AM
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All these women predictably saying no, yet would never touch one of these men with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:43 AM
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And yet there is a 2% chance you would ever date one of these men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:42 AM
1

Stare intently at her boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:56 PM
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Fine go ahead and try this strategy with a female friend and tell me how well it works for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:24 PM
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Funny because women insist they only do makeup for themselves, and not to be attractive. Goes to show they only say whatever makes them look good at any given moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:13 AM
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Compliments can absolutely be seen as signals. Recently I decided to compliment a woman on the dress she was wearing because I was curious about her reaction. She seemed to be taken aback by it, so that shows me even women don't view compliments as innocent and devoid of meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:34 AM
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He would just find the guy bothersome. He wouldn't leave his woman over it. Now, if you went up to a woman and said "Haha, wow you're dating HIM???". I'm sure that would bother the woman a lot and there's a non zero chance she will think twice about the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:16 AM
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It's intentional so you don't have to experience rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:32 AM
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Yes, I've come to realize that the gray area between nice and flirty is intentional. Women use plausible deniability to place the burden of dating on men so they don't have to bear the brunt of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:09 AM
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Yes, no shit my user name was inspired by rejection. That's how I know you're full of shit. You may be able to fool the basement dwellers who never talk to women, but you can't fool me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:58 AM
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Nonsense, I literally work with people who met their partners at work. You are ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:43 AM
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Yes, it's up to men to be able to tell the difference. They have to decipher the Morse Code you spew out and figure out what it all means, and if they get it wrong, they get bashed for being a delusional idiot who wants to bang innocent girls who were just trying to be nice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:37 AM
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No there isn't. You love this system because you get to criticize men no matter what they do. You like him and he doesn't make a move? Then he's an oblivious idiot for not picking up on your signals. You don't like him and he makes a move? He's a delusional idiot for thinking he had a chance when you were just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:07 AM
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You've asked guys out? I doubt it. And there's a very fine line between being nice and flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:19 PM
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Yes it is, if it was meant to be obvious, you would do away with that nonsense and ask him out. Think about it, you really like a guy and you want to make it obvious to him so that he will date you, why leave it all up to chance that he picks up on those signals? The reason is you're scared of rejection, so flirting is a way to play it safe. Don't try to pass your bullshit on me. It won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:08 PM
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The problem is women operate under plausible deniability. I've seen this over and over again. They "flirt" but in a way that remains ambiguous. This way they can tell themselves that the hottie should have approached her since she did everything to throw herself at him. Or if he ends up going "ewww why would I date you?" she can say she was just being nice and she can say he was reading into things that were not there. In the same way, you are criticizing OP for misreading signals by saying she …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:01 PM
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I think you're confusing who's giving the "just be confident" advice. It's mostly men who are saying this. Women couldn't care less about whether ugly men succeed at dating or not. They just want those guys to go away and die and let all the hotties approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:55 PM
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There are many girls who like to flirt with guys but have no interest in dating them. They mostly do it because they love the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:52 PM
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That just makes it clear to her that you're manipulative. She wont want to date you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah I'm sure threatening to terminate a friendship unless she puts out will make her horny for you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:10 AM
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How many growers do you think there are? I'm just telling you to stop crying over having a small dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:58 AM
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Unfortunately modern women have been conditioned to believe men are bad people with bad intentions, so that simply being asked out on a date is viewed as an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:09 PM
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You can guess the sex based on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:54 PM
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So a man is supposed to decipher the Morse Code you call "flirting" so he can kiss you before ever going on a single date with you, all while risking a slap in the face and being creepshamed. Brilliant strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:53 PM
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The answer to your question: yes, they do flirt with guys they're not interested in. I've seen it myself. They often do it because they love the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:51 PM
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You're basically giving her an ultimatum so you can fuck her. You really think that's going to go over well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:50 PM
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Like I said before, flirting is built on plausible deniability. It allows her to say "I wasn't flirting, I was just being friendly" whenever it's convenient for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:00 PM
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So a guy is just supposed to read your mind and then risk a sexual assault charge or getting slapped in the face to go for a kiss? hahahahahahahahaha please don't give any more advice to men. I hope a guy reading this exchange doesn't get any stupid ideas from your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:36 AM
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I just wanted to set you straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:11 AM
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I don't have a problem I'm just saying you're full of shit when you say flirting makes it obvious to a guy that you're interested even though you only flirt with him because it gives you plausible deniability to avoid rejection. If you wanted to make it obvious, you wouldn't flirt, you'd ask him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:54 AM
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Dumping your feelings onto someone becaues you couldn't hold it in anymore is beta. Saying you're in love with her and hoping she feels the same comes across as too needy and that scares away a lot of girls. What you need to do is ask her out on a date in the most casual way possible. Of course that's not easy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:53 AM
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Flirting is built upon plausible deniability. So no, he will not know unless you tell him, which you won't, since you're too scared of rejection so you continue to play these childish games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:38 AM
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Confessions NEVER work. In the end it makes you look like a weak beta sissy and she will stop talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:19 AM
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Wow that's terrible. Proof women should not be giving dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:12 AM
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A lot of men here are too porn brained. I used to go to art school and I saw quite a few naked people in some of those classes and many of the male models had small dicks. So relax and stop being so insecure and making these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:47 AM
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There are plenty of male pick mes. I've seen plenty of try to make a good impression on women by saying they'd never date younger women because of nonsensical reasons like having nothing in common with them. As if age has anything to do with having anything in common with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:42 AM
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No they don't. Otherwise you wouldn't see so many attractive women getting plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:07 AM
1

Dating is tough for anyone who's currently single. I'm an older millennial and women in my age group are mostly taken. So if you're someone who wants some nice Gen Z pussy, then you're going to have a tough go of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:47 AM
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I'm almost 40 and I am good friends with an 18 year old. With any luck, I will be dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:06 PM
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I always see someone as desperate when they reference my user name. I never said gay men want to fuck me. I said I don't want to fuck gay men. Maybe you're the one with mashed potato brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:31 AM
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Men string women along just like women do to men. Congratulations you got a taste of your own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:18 AM
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You're probably just a gay man with low self esteem. Sorry but I'm not interested in fucking men or talking about fashion with my female friends lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:15 AM
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Fuck no. I don't want to be prancing around like a fairy. And I wouldn't want to have a sore ass every day from having sex. And I will never understand how anyone (man or woman) would find sucking a dick to be appealing. It's gross. Being gay doesn't sound very appealing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:43 AM
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Women are status obsessed and an iphone is a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:21 AM
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Many men are slobs. But women are slobs too. I've had jobs cleaning bathrooms and women are NASTY.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:04 PM
1

Looking at your responses it sounds like you're exactly the type of guy who loses control of his emotions that women end up hating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:28 PM
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Probably because what you're picturing in your head is a strong, calm and composed man telling you exactly what's on his mind. If you get a blubbering crying mess, you end up hating it because you care more about masculinity that you'd care to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:05 PM
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I get what you're saying but you went too far to the other extreme. Good looking people can absolutely be terrible people. A lot of it has to do with having everything handed to them in life, being spoiled, having to face very little adversity, not being humbled by life. This can lead to very entitled attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:03 PM
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You women need to be realistic. Not everyone can be attractive. But you can have value if you have other uses like being able to to take care of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:00 PM
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But you forgot to address the next point-that for sex it's the exact opposite. They want to be inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:56 PM
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Men's conditions are a lot more flexible. You're lying to yourself if you think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:56 PM
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Women are the ones who want to be subordinate to men when it comes to dating. Don't get angry at me about it, get angry at them (you).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:55 PM
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If it's your home, then you can complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:06 AM
1

Women do this all the time when they shit test men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:01 AM
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I'm saying that if it is his home, then you can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:57 AM
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Ok, then it's a condition. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:56 AM
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If it's his home and he doesn't mind it a little messy that it's not up to you to complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:50 AM
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Demand meaning "If you want to date me, you must do X,Y,Z" You are intentionally misdirecting my point because you know I am right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:49 AM
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You are arguing semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:39 AM
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So you're saying you only find men attractive when they do stuff for your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:35 AM
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I say "demand" meaning a condition that he has to meet in order for her to consider dating him. You are also missing the point. The point is they don't want equality from the men they date. The opposite in fact. She will only date a man she feels inferior to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:34 AM
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They demand rights from men they are not attracted to. But sexually, they DEMAND that a man be superior to her in every way. He has to be taller, make more money, be able to stand up to her bullshit, confidently abuse her in the bedroom, otherwise she'll dismiss him as a beta male loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:22 AM
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No you'd be rewarding yourself, but you also implied that women don't like sex since they can turn off their desires like a tap lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:00 AM
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Yes if you don't feel like doing any. Whoever owns the home sets the rules and the other person has to abide by them if they want to live in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:58 AM
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You're basically using sex as a reward system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:57 AM
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What if he owns the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:53 AM
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If women can go on a sex strike, that just proves they don't like sex to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:53 AM
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He doesn't need to if he has leverage in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:48 AM
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No surprise. It's like how women will reject you but will try to cockblock you if you try to date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:14 AM
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Ok then you commit eugenics without intending to. Is that better? Think of it like this Woman A: "I want a 6ft tall man, but plenty of women don't" Woman B: "I want a 6ft tall man, but plenty of women don't" Woman C: "I want a 6ft tall man, but plenty of women don't" That is how you get eugenics. And if you think an equal number of men demand large breasted women compared to women who demand tall men, then you are once again lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:18 AM
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Yes the bigger picture results in eugenics, but the problem is you can't see beyond your own selfish desires. And the men who demand that a woman have natural DD cup is far smaller than the women who want a 6ft man. It's a false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:07 AM
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That's just you thinking about your own selfish needs without thinking about the bigger picture. That doesn't mean eugenics doesn't result from that bigger picture. Also plenty of men date flat chested women. So again you're wrong. I actually know some woman with natural doubole D knockers is pretty rare. Most men are realistic. It's women who think they can land a unicorn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:47 AM
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If you had a sensible argument, you would be calm and composed. Resorting to insults indicate someone who's flustered and upset and doesn't have a logical response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:45 AM
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You said eugenics is selective breeding to manipulate the gene pool, which is what women do when they select men for height, race, and other physical characteristics. And men don't practice eugenics. Men don't have a problem dating some 4'11 woman that might result in a dimunitive child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:28 AM
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exactly, you just described how women select men based on your own definition. Good job on the self own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:05 AM
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You do not have to commit literal atrocities to practice eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:12 AM
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I know I'm right when people resort to insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:10 AM
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Height requirements, race requirements, earnings requirements. Tell me what men require for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:09 AM
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There's a difference between a preference and a requirement. Men have preferences. Women have requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:19 PM
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When women readily admit they select for the very best for the benefit of their future offspring, is the eugenics argument really that off base?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:15 PM
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There is no gym for your face
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:27 AM
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I'm not. You're very weird you: "you're so worried" me: "huh, no I'm not" you: "yes you are" me: "you know me better than I know myself?" you: "I do" me: "..."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:10 AM
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Again, wanting to bang 18 year old girls is not "shitty". What's shitty is your judgemental attitude and trying to shove your morals down people's throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:42 AM
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My post history suggests nothing except me giving my opinions. If anything, women hating age gap relationships and you saying "yes m'lady, I will never do such a thing" is what makes you worried. You're a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:43 PM
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I'm not trying to "convince". I'm trying to give my perspective that's outside the narrative about how you're an evil creep for wanting to date a younger woman. So again, you're the one who's worried because your opinions are based on what will make women happy (women who don't actually give a crap about you)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:35 PM
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Yeah, me saying it is okay doesn't mean I'm worried about it. If I was "worried" then I would be like a lot of the scared little bitches who let online strangers opinions dictate their actions. You're probably one of those people lol. If anything, you're the one who's worried. I'm not the one trying to gain women's favour by being blue pil, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:13 PM
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Maybe you come across as an orbiter. Don't be an orbiter to women. They will look down on you and use you every opportunity they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:53 PM
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Talking about it means I'm worried about it? No, I talk about it because it's relevant to my personal life. You talked about it so that means you're worried about it? Either you are or you're just saying it because you're a male feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:30 PM
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I think there's a difference between being friendly with a woman and being her "bestie". I think you fall into the latter category with your female friends where they treat you like one of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:00 PM
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I'm not worried about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:58 PM
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I love how you tried to virtue signal about how height doesn't matter and your latest post is you using a grinning emoji to describe your 6 ft tall hustand hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:53 PM
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You completely dodged my point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:50 PM
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Hilarious how you mention another person and not yourself, quite clearly because you would never be caught dead with a short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:37 AM
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No, again it is just a rationalization for your refusal to date a low status man. That is a typical female dating strategy. Blame your shallowness on a perceived fault of a man so you look justified in not dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:00 PM
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What's interesting about this sort of strong denial is how firmly indoctrinated people are with stuff they read on the internet. That's the thing I noticed. People read stuff online and they won't budge from these beliefs, even denying other people's first hand experiences. Maybe try reflecting on how truly brainwashed you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:42 AM
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No, they don't actually dress up nice for speed dating. The most common complaint about speed dating from women who attend them is that most of the male participants look like your average basement dwelling Redditor. Maybe I wouldn't call your friends liars, but I would maybe call you a liar for implying that they exist. I told you my experiences and you're trying to tell me I'm wrong, which makes me think you have an agenda. And of course, you're blue pill, so you seem to have a vested interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:04 AM
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Yeah, you're going off reports. I'm going off my own personal experiences and common sense (can you explain to me why men would swarm dating apps but avoid speed dating?). Next time don't believe shit you read on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:50 AM
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Fine, if you don't believe me why don't you go to a speed dating event yourself and see what it looks like (hint: a lot of weiner).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:44 AM
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Being so concerned about what women want is beta male behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:30 AM
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There is nothing unethical about dating a younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:24 AM
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If 30+ year old men are really that undesirable to young women, then why all the angst over how manipulative these guys are to younger women and how good they apparently are at brainwashing younger women into entering relationships with them? Because I've read many stupid posts about how women's brains aren't fully developed until they're 25 years old so they need to be protected from these evil creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:55 AM
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Driving a car is not a sign of competence. That's just a rationalization from women for not wanting a low status man. You don't need to drive a car since there's this thing called a bus. Perhaps you've heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:38 AM
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Super attractive people actually tend to get less attention because they seem less approachable. It's the people who are seen as attractive but attainable who get the most attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:02 PM
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That would make no sense. There are so many desperate men who leave no stone unturned to get pussy. If there is a chance, you can bet a bunch of horny guys will take it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:19 PM
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They did that the one time I tried speed dating. They postponed the event. Turns out a lot of people experienced the same thing. I ended up demanding my money back for that shit they pulled. If they have to manipulate things to even out the genders then it's a lost cause from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:38 PM
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Speed dating, like pretty much every solution for lonely men, are massive sausage fests. I tried it once and they cancelled the event, presumably because they they couldn't find enough women for all the desperate horny men they had. That's probably why your event takes place once a month, because it takes forever to gather enough women for it not to look like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:53 PM
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Women are status obsessed and a car is a status symbol. That's the reason why they refuse to date men without a car. But they will blame the man and make it look like it's his fault for her not wanting to date him by saying he's deficient in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:29 AM
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On one hand, what you are saying is true since women don't like interactions to feel forced. One the other hand, what you are saying is stupid, because plenty of lonely guys have tried the "not trying" thing for most of their lives, and that has gotten them nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:38 AM
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You were used. You just retroactively said you wanted it to avoid being hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:55 AM
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When you're infatuated with someone, you tend to overlook their faults. Only after the fact do you realize her interests are shallow and vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:50 AM
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It's perfectly reasonable to be angry that you got rejected by someone who was just using you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:39 AM
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Women's interests usually come down to using Instagram non stop. Who should men care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:21 AM
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Yes, I already explained it. You're basically saying men should be cold approaching women, when anyone with any common sense knows that stuff doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:17 AM
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"It really bugs me that men are so self-important that they cannot conceive that a woman's preferences are equally important as a man's. " What kind of logic is this??? If a man doesn't feel that a woman's preferences matter, then he'd be telling her to date him, rather than asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:16 AM
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How do you know she has other preferences unless you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:15 AM
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You know how to give advice without any practicality in real life. Immediately making your interest known is basically cold approaching, and women say how much they hate cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:03 AM
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You may "prefer" it but you'd probably just reject him anyways and think he's weird for trying to date you while you barely know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:52 AM
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Exactly. OP is full of shit. Women have a sixth sense for when men like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:36 AM
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If they were honest early on, you'd probably think he's a creep for coming on too strong and trying to get his dick wet rather than getting to know you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:07 PM
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Women stare at attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:22 PM
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If women could easily get what they want from a dating app, how come so many of them hate using them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:38 AM
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that's something I don't ever see. You're too indoctrinated by dating apps where guys swipe on every girl since they don't get matches lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:03 PM
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I've written about this topic in the past, and it's so obvious that guys who say this stuff are basically virtue signalling. They're trying to signal to women that they're one of the "good guys" so women will fuck them. It's so pathetic. In reality, if you're an older guy without much dating experience, the last person you would want is a woman your age who likely has way more dating experience and more worldly experience too given this type of man likely spends most of his time at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:52 PM
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This is just false. When I think of guys hanging on following women around like a sad little puppy, whether at school or work, it's always the pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:50 PM
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Not to mention women can fraud their way into attractiveness thru makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:20 AM
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You hear that? Mod thinks you're out of line just like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:03 AM
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I'm supposed to think some internet badass can get plenty of women? You're attacking who you yourself are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:40 PM
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I see you're in denial once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:31 PM
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If you try too hard to insult me, then it just comes across as trying to impress women, in which case you insult yourself for coming across as a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:30 PM
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Don't you want to prove me wrong? If you were attractive, believe me, there would be a ton of simps here attacking me for daring to put down a queen like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:12 PM
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Not a 10 confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:10 PM
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It's been half an hour and I've already seen 3 comments mocking my user name. So it's very clear but once again you're probably going to be in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:05 PM
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You male feminists make me laugh, always allowing yourselves to be used as pawns to make women look good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:54 PM
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You're a 10? Prove it. Post your pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:46 PM
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Because dating apps are like casinos. People keep losing money on them but there's always suckers to give them money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:35 PM
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I don't know of a single man who's had success on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:51 PM
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There are a lot of manosphere talking points that are blatantly not based on the real world. When there is someone who insists even butt ugly women have an army of orbiters desperately in love with them and who would date them at a moment's notice, then it's clear that's something they heard online rather than something they actually saw in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:45 AM
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No. Men get no success from it and women don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:29 AM
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Unless the advice is "be less ugly" then any sort of feedback given will not make a lick of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:21 AM
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Dating apps are a total sausage fest. They simply exist to funnel the undesirables to a place where they can waste their own time and not bother women. They are not a real option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:16 AM
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For a lot of guys, work is the only way to meet women. Unless you want to join a lot of clubs you don't actually give a shit about to get laid, in which case they will probably know the reason you're there since you don't show genuine interest in the club, only the potential pussy that can be had there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:14 AM
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In fairness, women count down the days too. I hear a lot women apply to work at a strip club on their 18th birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:01 AM
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People will still try to police your dating choices. Check my post history and see my dealings with the ravenous psychopaths who seemed to take it personally and were foaming at the mouth and attackign me when I mentioned possibly dating my 18 year old friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:17 PM
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It seems a lot men's opinions strictly adhere to incel talking points. I can try to talk about how some women are just nasty and undesirable that no men would want such horrible people but I will get replies from men that won't budge from those incel opinions, so they'll tell me how even the ugliest of women will have a huge group of orbiters begging her to allow him to date her. They are so set in their beliefs no matter how delusional, that it's kind of disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:15 PM
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I can relate to the grooming accusations. I had to deal with a few nutjobs who actually took it personally and were losing their minds when I mentioned my close friendship with an 18 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:09 PM
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I'm perfectly well adjusted. You on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:53 PM
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The age of consent where I live is 16. I could have fucked her the day I met her. No grooming necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:08 AM
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How am I hurting little girls? The "girl" in this story is 18. You see, I'm clearly explaining why you're illogical and this is mostly because it's obvious how you were diddled by a family member when you were a child and now you're taking it out on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:57 PM
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I just think you have a lot of unresolved trauma. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:52 AM
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She's not a "child". And mentioning my actions before she reached the "age of consent" is funny because it's actually 16 where I live. So it looks like the law actually thinks you're a nutjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:28 PM
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Sexual abuse? She's 18 and can make her own decisions. I'm sure she'd love to know that some online psychopath thinks she's too stupid to make her own decisions and got brainwashed. I think you're the deplorable one. Trying to run people's lives. Thinking you know better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:24 PM
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How am I a groomer? Can you point to specific actions I mentioned in this thread that makes me one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:15 PM
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Um no that's not how it works. And it's pretty obvious you have a few screws loose based on your responses. Maybe you got abused by a loved one in your youth and you're lashing out at me for this reason but just know that none of what you are saying makes any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:10 PM
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Is she 16 now or 18? Do you think she stays the same age forever? How do you feel if people treated you like you were 16 your entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:57 PM
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I think caring so much makes it look like you have a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:52 AM
1

Are these children in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:50 AM
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I'm a predator for being attracted to an 18 year old? Apparently someone who's 18 is a child and being attracted to someone this age makes you a pedophile? The problem here isn't me. The problem is that you're nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:23 PM
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"literal child". I think the problem here is that you're just hysterical. Calm your ass down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:57 PM
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It's not up to you to decide what's appropriate. She's an adult. Either you think women are capable like men are and can take care of themselves or they're helpless little creatures. You can't have it both ways. Edit: This person replied and then put me on ignore so I couldn't rip her ignorant points apart. A pure cowardly move
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:24 PM
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So it's worse that I didn't wait rather than did? Make up your mind. It's like you're looking for a reason to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:22 PM
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Women look down on men who get fucked in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:31 AM
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I didn't "wait" until she turned 18. You're making a lot of assumptions. I don't care for your moral grandstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:21 AM
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Tell me what's so inappropriate about an adult women who chooses who she wants to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:20 AM
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Correction: every bitter older woman and male feminist feels the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:12 PM
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I always get accused of making revenge fantasies when I write unflattering opinions about women. That's women's way of dismissing what I say by accusing me of being angry and making things up. But it's like the boy who cried wolf. Say it too much and it loses all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:01 PM
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No one asked you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:57 PM
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Because she wants me more than I want her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:56 PM
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How am I a groomer? What if I told you she's the groomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:51 PM
1

It's very easy to moralize from your computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:50 PM
1

38
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:48 PM
1

No, we shared mutual friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:48 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:48 PM
1

It's usually the pretty girls who have an army of orbiters following their every move. This is something I've seen first hand in school/work. The ugly ones aren't the ones with a legion of male admirers ready to sweep her off her feet a moment's notice. Let's be realistic here and not give in to hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:19 AM
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That's you jumping to conclusions. You seem to have some real hangups. This topic has you very obsessive. I suggest you seek counselling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:52 AM
1

What's wrong with finding an 18 year old attractive? You seem obsessive, controlling and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:44 AM
1

Hoping is courting? You're grasping at straws here dude. Ironically acting like you know better than her means you're exhibiting very controlling behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:39 AM
0

This girl is probably more attractive than your gf (if she actually exists lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:27 AM
0

I'm not trying to court her. And who are you to judge who's too old for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:23 AM
1

No, I didn't plan on it this way. I never envisioned her being so attached to me. That's the way the cookie crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:17 AM
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I kind of feel like you'd change your tune if some attractive 18 year old came into your life. You probably feel the way you do because you spend all your time playing video games in your mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:45 AM
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I didn't plan it. It just worked out this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:42 AM
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You are way off. You don't know either of us but this topic has you so triggered you make up fantasies in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:41 AM
0

Nothing wrong with dating 18 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:39 AM
1

I'm the former. I still get mistaken for a college student
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:35 AM
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Yes I met her when she was 16
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:34 AM
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"Hilariously, here at 40 I have realized age is pretty arbitrary." Don't let the women who rage about age gap relationships read this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:46 PM
1

I can manage platonic relationships. I am good friends with a girl who recently turned 18. We became good friends after I gave her advice on navigating high school and college. Although hopefully it can transition into a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:29 PM
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They are not as happy as they let on. If someone constantly feels the need to tell everyone they are happy, then it usually means they are overcompensating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:02 PM
1

That's exactly what I was saying. So thank you for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:01 PM
2

But most men won't succeed. But yes they are usually interested in the pretty girls. I've seen it in school and in work. It's usually the pretty ones who have an army of orbiters around them at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:00 PM
5

This sub is hilarious. "I got my feelings hurt, therefore this is a revenge fantasy."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:59 PM
2

True, it feels like all the women on this sub put up a huge facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:58 PM
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Yeah, but those aren't the men you want, so they might as well not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:46 AM
-4

Sure, if you like scoring dick with men who "fork the corpses"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:45 AM
1

Nice fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:16 AM
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I doubt it since your views stem from dating apps, which to me indicates a limited perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:36 AM
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This just goes to show how women lack empathy. Men would be flattered that an ugly women were interested in him even if he doesn't want to date her but women are more cruel in their treatment of ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:47 AM
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You're thinking of conventionally attractive women. It's actually clear that your opinions are from garbage you read online, rather than seeing them in the real world. I mean, when I think of a women who has a bunch of orbiters thirsting after them, they're always conventionally attractive. You're not going to see some gargoyle with a legion of male admirers. So please stop being a hypocrite. It's YOU who doesn't understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:34 AM
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You're thinking of conventionally attractive women. Most women are not that. You seem like the type that think all women fart rainbows or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:43 AM
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Ironically it's you who falls back on incel talking points since your main reference point are dating apps. Most incel arguments about women having too many options are from observing what women do on dating apps, which you're referencing. I'm actually pushing back against the idea that even bottom of the barrel women have men lusting after them. I'm the one being realistic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:53 AM
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Stop referencing dating apps. Most women don't even use dating apps seeing how big of a sausage fest they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:39 AM
1

The happiness isn't really single vs crappy relationship. It's single vs the lack of a great relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:30 AM
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Go and loook at the gif I posted. That sums up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:26 AM
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When men acknowledge women don't want them since there's something wrong with them, that's the honest part. Women saying they're happy being single unless they find a great guy, yet the great guy never shows up, so how happy are they really? Who's really being honest here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:21 AM
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Who's truly happy knowing that they won't get into a relationship unless they meet a great guy and that great guy never shows up at her door?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:17 AM
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I'm not projecting at all. My post is about FA men being more honest about their predicament, which I am one. I am speaking from EXPERIENCE, so there's no projection here. You thinking so is part of your victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:16 AM
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You need to read my post again. I addressed this part. Women say they are happy being single. But my point is, are they really though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:14 AM
5

Men reject undesirable women too by not pursuing a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:11 AM
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I've seen this response many times. And oftentimes it's said in anger. So your response is a classic case of sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:09 AM
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Yes they do want to be in a great relationship. But they don't have the bargaining power to attain it. So they will have to settle for the dregs who do want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:05 AM
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A lot of the women posting here are femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:55 AM
2

I addressed this. You want to be in a great relationship. Unfortunately the men who can give this to you don't think you make the cut. That's my main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:54 AM
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Nah, you're just trying to take a shot at me. At least admit that's what you're trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:53 AM
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Yawn. Referring to my username is low hanging fruit. It's like the go to insult I've seen from people on this sub who are offended about what I write.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:45 AM
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Yes this part is true. A lot of men they think every woman has a long line of orbiters begging for their chance. It's completely detached from reality. To me this points to the idea that if you repeat something enough, then people will believe it to be true. So yes, they are brainwashed and it's obvious they don't actually talk and interact with women, they just read dumb internet opinions that even bottom of the barrel women have men begging them for a chance and they accept that as reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:44 AM
2

Not true. From what I've seen, women tend to fixate on one particular guy and will obsess over him. That's why women can come across as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:41 PM
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I don't believe that narrative. From what I've seen, women tend to fixate on one particular guy. That's why they can come across as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:39 PM
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You're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:27 PM
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Instead of copying other people's posts, maybe you can try forming your own opinion? Because it appears to me that one buffoon misread my OP and now eveyrone is just copying that post and acting as if they thought of it themselves. You don't need to ask me what I mean, when it's supposed to be very clear if you read my post instead of just copying the opinions of what another person ignorantly wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:01 PM
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Only a small minority of men can get that type of reaction from women you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:57 PM
1

Learn how to read for fuck sakes. Especially the edit in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:43 PM
1

I love how you project your own inadequacies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:07 AM
0

It means that many men will take advantage of convenient pussy if it becomes available.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:47 AM
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No, you are simply denying reality. Men don't like male feminists more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:46 AM
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Oftentimes men date women out of convenience. I'm surprised you don't know this. And you might not know, but sometimes he could let it slip. That's why you have Reddit posts about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:14 AM
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I think it goes back to desperation for validation. Society tells men they are losers if they can't get a girlfriend so they desperately try to get a girlfriend. Society tells men they are less than a man if they have a small dick. So they spend a lot of time with measuring tape staring at their dick and crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:11 AM
2

As for the second part, what I'm wondering is if he's dating you despite loving someone else more. What if that woman suddenly became available. Would it upset you if his eyes started wandering? Or another scenario may be, what if he's having sex with you but mistakingly utters the other woman's name while he orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:56 AM
3

Old men don't like old women anymore than fat women like fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:31 AM
1

Old men don't like old women anymore than fat women like fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:28 AM
1

No, this is what EVERYONE argues. Even men think male feminists are manipulative horny toads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:25 AM
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Yes, but the fact that you wildly misinterpreted the post and thought I meant being upset about not being someone's first boyhood crush despite that making no sense in context leads me to believe you are unable to form your own opinions, but instead just copy what others are saying. This appears to be a common way that women act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:20 AM
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Calling me stupid when you interpret first choice as first relationship. I mean why would you think this given the context of the post? Do you understand what context means? Why would I ask anyone would they be upset that they at 30+ weren't someone's first boyhood crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:04 AM
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This sounds phony to me. You're more likely to try to steal the man for yourself rather than supportively let her steal him from you. Quit with these fairy tales!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:01 AM
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What if the girl he wanted all along suddenly gave him a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:58 AM
0

This is female pandering nonsense. How many grandmas are you attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:55 AM
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Of course not. He could have liked someone first and then later met someone he liked better. This is common sense! Why else do you think people cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:53 AM
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I'm not attracted to women my age. It's mostly because I look young for my age so I think it would be better to date someone who doesn't look too old for me despite us being from the same age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:52 AM
2

It means he's dating you but he wishes he was dating someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:47 AM
1

Yes. You insult incels despite being one as a way to distance yourself from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:44 AM
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I'm convinced most of you don't have your own opinions, instead you just copy the responses. Why else would you all interpret not being the first choice as not being his first crush when these are clearly two different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:41 AM
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First choice doesn't mean first crush. It means that someone is dating you despite wishing he was dating someone else. How is it that you cannot interpret something so simple???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:40 AM
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Ah the classic "I was just joking" argument after you look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:33 AM
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I never said everything is settling. You're inventing arguments now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:29 AM
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I asked women if the topic made them insecure. You thinking it means I'm insecure is a huge leap in logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:09 AM
1

I have a feeling you'd be more upset than you're letting on in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:58 AM
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You have no evidence for that to be the case. You just pulled that out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:57 AM
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Nah it's more because you're trying so hard to deny something, which leads me to belive you're hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:54 AM
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Ok let's say there's a guy who's a total simp for a girl, except the girl is already in a relationship so the guy dates you instead. Then that girl he likes is now single. How do you feel about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:53 AM
2

That doesn't sound childish to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:31 AM
2

Yes, but it's part of stuff you might want to know about them, not just their "values" as you say. Don't tell me you only care about what their view on feminism is lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:30 AM
2

What nonsense. Do people not want to know about non-values like what their hobbies are or what they like to do for fun or what their favourite movie is or what music they listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:28 AM
2

Childish? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:26 AM
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You don't want to get to know the man you're dating better? Sounds shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:24 AM
1

Are you calling women childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:23 AM
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This isn't high school. And this is another thing I've noticed from women. When I ask certain questions about their behaviour, I've seen a pattern of dismissing it as something only a 16 year old would be concerned about if it looks like something they don't want to admit to. This is a form of gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:19 AM
2

Good. Hopefully you'll delete your account out of embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:13 AM
2

It could be for the same reasons that you see from the many posts on Reddit on this topic. Oftentimes, it looks like the person just lets it slip that they prefer somebody else. Trying so actively hard to deny it makes it sound like you're in denial of certain things in your own life. That's something I've learned in my time here. When people aggressively deny certain things, it ends up looking very fishy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:11 AM
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I've decided to call these things out rather than letting it fester so people can get a clearer picture of what this sub is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:09 AM
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Didn't care to know? or didn't want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:08 AM
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Dishonest answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:07 AM
2

I mean what if his real 2nd choice was a non-celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:06 AM
0

What if his third choice after Denise Richards is the secretary at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:58 PM
5

Many people have types. Have you never asked a guy what his type is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:56 PM
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Yeah you just outed yourself as a nutjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:55 PM
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I think you're just insecure over whether you're his first choice so you pretend it's impossible to know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:54 PM
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You randomly accuse men on Reddit of being rapists. You clearly have few screws loose. Probably a man traumatized over being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:52 PM
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Is it really that hard to recognize? Maybe he picked another girl over her and come back to her when that relationship fizzled. Maybe his new girlfriend looks nothing like his previous ones. Maybe he still stalks his ex. Doesn't take a genius to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:50 PM
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Childish? That's rich, coming from someone who makes rambling incoherent posts all over Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:44 PM
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How is it that men can more easily recognize settling but you can't? Maybe because you're in denial about your own relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:44 PM
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It does mean something. It means you give validity to their arguments by using it yourself. So you undermined yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:50 PM
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I've already won the debate. You claim to hate feminists but you use their arguments. That means you destroyed your own argument for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:39 PM
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You got triggered hard. Look at how defensive you got. And you have no arguments. Your arguments are just copying feminist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:48 PM
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Of course it does. You can't be against feminism and copy their talking points. Copying their talking points implies you think their opinions are valid. That makes you a male feminist. Also how am I making a fool of myself calling you an incel? That's exactly what you are. You act like a feminist to get laid since you are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:58 AM
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You copy feminist talking points. That makes you a male feminist. The type that wants to get on their good side for sex and fails at it. You are a feminist who pretends to be a bad boy. You put on so many personas you probably lose track of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:46 AM
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You are a simp. You talk about revenge fantasies, which is a common feminist trope. Your denials are weak as hell. Why else would you have a post history begging for young women but now do a 180 and act like a feminist man who thinks older men don't stand a chance? Because you are a simp. Now you call yourself amoral. You are now playing the bad boy stereotype. Again hoping to get laid since you see the bad boys get laid. But unfortunately for you, it's a failed strategy. You don't have the natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:26 AM
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You have no arguments of substance. You have a history of being a simp. You talk about revenge fantasies but you think if you act like a good boy simp it means your fantasies of fucking young women will come true. No, it will not come true. You will stay a virgin for the rest of your life. You are a classic "nice guy" thinking that standing up for women on this sub will get you laid. So stop deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:09 AM
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Hilarious coming from a guy who's a 40 year old virgin who has a history of lying about having 20 something year old girlfriends. You are like a parody. Stop spewing out numbers when you have no idea what you are talking about. Your fantasies are beyond sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:00 AM
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Leaving no stone unturned by trying literally every place to get laid. That sounds like someone who's not getting what he's looking for haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:29 AM
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So you go to clubs too in addition to apps. Your desperation is hilarious. And yet, despite all the venues, you are still trying. A real Chad would have quickly found what he was looking for. So don't knock me for getting rejected when you've been getting rejected left and right. Maybe you should acknowledge that you're not as attractive as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:16 AM
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You are not "Chadlier". You, being bald and having no chin, are bottom of the barrel. Moreover, you evidently use multiple dating apps. That to me indicates a level of desperation. If you really were desirable, would you need to go to all these lengths to find a girl? So please, I don't need your "advice" Mr. No Hair and No Chin Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:49 AM
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I just couldn't believe the audacity you had. To Call yourself a Chad Insult another person's looks and desirability all despite being bald and having a recessed chin. It's actually hilarious if you think about it. I actually think this points to having extremely low self esteem that you have a self image that is not you and to insult someone who's probably more attractive than you are lmao. I kind of feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:32 AM
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There's a search bar. Use it. Don't make me guide you through everything. Are you 5 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:56 AM
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I'm just trying to figure out what your angle is here. Are you trying to troll me by playing dumb? If that's the case, you're only making yourself look ridiculous. Like a child trying to upset her parents by drinking toilet water. "Btw, my partner is over 10 years younger than me ..." So you're a hypocrite, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:55 AM
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Go ahead. Stick your head in the sand. Doesn't mean it doesn't exist. The world doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:34 AM
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Like I said to another poster, I don't know why you're so fervently denying it. Are you somehow denying your own rage at the content of this thread? Is that your way of suppressing it so I don't know? If that's the case, mission failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:34 AM
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I don't give a shit what flair I use. I just picked one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:20 AM
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Over the course of my life, 5 or 6. Over the past year, 0
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:19 AM
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Did you not read my prevoius post? The purpose was informative. To add insight. It was not to beg a bunch of angry women who hate men to let me date younger woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 AM
1

There's nothing defensive about it. Why would you think I need your permissoin to do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:29 AM
1

Well that's encouraging. There was once a girl that did that to me. Hopefully that means she wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:20 AM
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There was nothing angry in my original post. You thinking so is clearly a case of you projecting how furious you are about it. Thanks for tipping your hand that you are indeed raging here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:01 AM
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Grow thicker skin-hilarious coming from someone throwing a temper tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:32 AM
1

Well you're clearly in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:00 PM
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Funny, there are people who insist there is no negativity in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:53 PM
1

Younger women don't tend to have a long ass checklist for men that older women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:52 PM
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I mean there are people calling me an undateable loser based on my posts on another sub. Last time I checked, personal insults were against the rules. Then you have a female mod coming in and saying "Nope, this is perfectly acceptable". You have a female mod allowing hate rather than doing her job as a moderator, so I think the hostility is pretty clear, whether you want to stick your head in the sand or not. If this isn't a sign of being terribly triggered and wanting to lash out at me, I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:52 PM
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We have multiple users digging through my post history to insult me rather than debate any of the points I made. If you don't see it, it's because you don't want to admit that they, or you, are very triggered by the subject matter of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:49 PM
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Nah, you clearly are. And the fact that you don't bother to try to debunk my arguments make your motivations very obvious. You are clearly very triggered. You don't debate my points because you have no answer for them and you would rather throw a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:48 PM
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I already stated my motivations. If you don't believe them, even though it's pretty straightforward and you prefer to twist yourself out of shape to come to the conclusion you want to from the start, then that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:46 PM
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You don't get to judge who's qualified just because the issue upsets you. Notice how you never bothered to try to debunk every point I made in the post and instead resorted to insulting me. So if you're talking about qualifications, you're not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:08 PM
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It's more likely that they're enraged individuals. Do you try to psychoanalyze everyone here for every thread they make? Why here? Why me? The reason I made this post was simple. I wanted to clear up some (intentionally made) misconceptions about these types of relationships. Trying to make this about my personal life is actually more indicative of a person being bitter about the topic at hand. It's become clear to me that aging is a sore spot for many women, and the end result are personal atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:03 PM
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These passive aggressive insults are just sad. Calling yourself Chad just makes it more juvenile. So while we're playing psychologist, may I suggest that calling yourself a Chad is some sort of wish fufillment? I don't think I'm the one trying to convince others that I'm something I'm not here. Edit: So you call yourself a Chad despite posting on a hairloss sub and having jaw surgery. You can't make this shit up LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:30 AM
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In this thread. The hostility is palpable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:21 AM
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Have you not heard these common talking about points about age gap relationships about the men being manipulative creeps and the women being delicate flowers in need of protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:17 AM
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The answer is obvious. They are against it because aging is a sore spot for women. The personal attacks against me from women in this post makes it abundantly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:15 AM
0

Just goes to show the extreme hangups people have with anything sexual-related that people are losing their minds over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:07 AM
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Looks like the women are out with their pitchforks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:59 AM
2

This is a debate sub is it not? Pretty weird and creepy that you would ask some random dude dating a younger woman about this topic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:55 AM
1

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Comparing men who are attracted to younger women to pedophiles. Very insidious and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:43 AM
1

The point of this post was to clear up the blatant lies that women give for why men are attracted to younger women. So it looks like you are upset that I debunked these lies that you attribute to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:36 AM
1

I don't smell
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:23 AM
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I can assure you I do not need approval from the femcels on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:23 AM
1

I think the real reason is that you don't want men dating younger women because means fewer men for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:17 AM
2

Now you're projecting your rage onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:16 AM
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It doesn't bother me too much. I made a post to discuss this topic. Then a bunch of furious women started resorting to personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:15 AM
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If these relationships are so rare, why do they upset you so much that you attack these men and call them manipulative creeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:12 AM
2

You don't know what he's thinking. He's not verbalizing how he truly feels in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:10 AM
1

What does me being lonely have to do with anything? You're just enraged and resorting to personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:07 AM
1

That just makes it more awkward in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:06 AM
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Women care a lot. They make false narratives about how men who date younger women are manipulative predators. If they didn't care, they wouldn't want to attack men who have these preferences. And look at the angry responses I'm getting. A lot of women care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:05 AM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:03 AM
1

But women do have sausage boobs at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:01 AM
1

This topic has been discussed at length. I didn't bring it up out of nowhere. You're clearly in your feelings right now so let's not act like this is a pointless topic only I want to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:01 AM
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That's false. They are done because men don't want them. And the abundance of dick come from those you don't want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:59 AM
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I can see I struck a nerve with a lot of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:57 AM
1

True but women become old quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:56 AM
3

Men say the same about old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:53 AM
1

Blatantly false narrative you're trying to push
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:51 AM
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Bitter much? And me aging like fine wine is in fact true. Did you read the post? I look way younger than my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:51 AM
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Then why do women bitch so much about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:42 AM
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Thank you for being one of the few honest responses in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:14 AM
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Women do compete for men, but it's usually not in view of men. Women competing with each other is more like unspoken hostility rather than upfront confrontation that you usually see from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:56 PM
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You could always tell who's the honest ones in the comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:53 PM
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Dishonest response. Women are actually known to be extremely competitive and catty with each other, doesn't matter what age they are. I have had women tell me this in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:25 AM
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These comments are hilarious but not surprising. If makeup didn't make that much of a difference, then literally every single woman wouldn't be wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:41 AM
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Women are every bit as competitive as men are. Women are especially filled with rage when they try to get a guy and a more attractive woman comes into the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:36 PM
2

I have witnessed a cold approach maybe 2 or 3 times in my life. It was never successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:29 PM
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Pretty hypocritical to demand that men have confidence when women as a whole are extremely unconfident and neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:16 AM
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Yes, it's true. Don't believe women who say otherwise. They clearly have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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Exactly. She's a narcissist who thinks too highly of herself. The point of this post was to try to get into the dark recesses of the female mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:46 AM
1

I doubt telling your wife you want to fuck another woman would make her feel any better. Like how do you expect the conversationt to go? "Oh, fair enough, best of luck to you with this new woman" Hahahahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:10 PM
1

This is just so ridiculous. So a guy can want to have sex with another woman over his wife, but if he breaks up with his wife, then it's all okay. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:14 AM
2

Decentering is another way of saying "don't put pussy on a pedestal".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:54 PM
1

Sounds like a double standard. So men ignore warning signs but women are always blindsided by mistreatment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:47 AM
1

Who cares? Either way the guy wants to have sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:46 AM
1

How do you know the guy doesn't vocalize the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:45 AM
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No, pussies are the ones who are afraid of women and alphas treat them as normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:53 PM
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The context of cheating is no different than what the OP was talking about. It's about one person ignoring cracks in the relationship but in my example the genders are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:03 PM
2

No? How about yes? A prostitute's largest revenue stream is through married men. Mostly because they haven't slept with their wives in months/years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:57 PM
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Cheating doesn't come out of nowhere either. Usually it's the result of a frigid wife/dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:48 PM
1

Right because you as a beta male have no motivation to lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:41 AM
0

Yeah ladies man here tries to get laid thru dating apps because you're scared of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:47 AM
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I think the disconnect is that men view "approaching" as making your feelings clear and asking the person out. A woman's version of approaching is looking at a guy and hoping he notices her so he can do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:47 PM
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I think fewer men would have "beef" with women making choices if they weren't known for making terrible decisions over and over again without learning a thing. Like dating a total piece of shit and learning nothing and then dating another piece of shit and then having their friends/simps etc. try to comfort them only for them to keep making those mistakes until everyone just gives up and accepts that they're a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:35 PM
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You can get a woman who objects to being approached anywhere. I've personally witnessed women get stuck up and weirded out being approached by men at a nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:31 PM
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In my experience, girls don't really gossip because they are just as afraid of coming as off the stuck up meanie bitch. And waiting for choosing signals would be a mistake. Many women can like a guy without giving any signals whatsoever because they tend to be nervous and insecure around guys they like and what may come across as choosing signals is just her being herself around a guy she doesn't find attractive because she feels no reason to be insecure around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:13 PM
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Following these stupid rules is how men end up alone. And it's why women should not be giving dating advice because any advice a woman gives is geared to a woman's benefit, and not the man's. Men should be approaching whenever they feel like it so long as they can accept what results from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:08 PM
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You can approach whenever you want. Only pussies follow these rules. That's why these types of men all cram into dating apps and turn them into unusable sausage fests. And ironically they turn off women by turning into agreeable beta bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:00 PM
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Man, every time I read garbage on this sub about "biological imperative" and "spreading your seed" I can't help but think how delulu so many people are. Most people are not slaves to their base instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:24 AM
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No it isn't. Like I said, according to many escorts, their largest clientele are married men. So it's not just a few oddballs who do that. And apparently they're also known to service celebrities and politicians. Paying for a hooker is very normalized. A guy who hasn't gotten laid in 40 years is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:53 AM
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Ok if that's the case, how would you feel about that? Would it upset you? Would you feel that you failed as a parent? Would you still want a relationship with him despite him thinking of you as lesser due to your gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:14 PM
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Yes what if he hates women and beats the shit out of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:10 PM
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So you don't care? What if he goes to jail for beating his girlfriend senseless because she didn't make him a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:02 PM
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Married men pay for hookers all the time. They're actually the largest demographic that pays for sex. This sort of thing is more common than you think. However, a 40 year old virgin is much more rare and as such you would be seen as more pathetic than a guy who has sex with a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:55 PM
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Nothing weird about it. You see over and over on this sub and in any female space that women constantly lie to make themselves look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:50 PM
2

You want what's best for you, and that's a child with good genetics. You want him to be tall and attractive not because you give a crap about him, but because you give a crap about yourself. However, you know you can't say that so you pretend you want to be a good mom lmao. Let's be honest, you'd still pick tall and handsome even if he grows up to be a serial killer and rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:46 PM
2

And if he doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:44 PM
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This post is a perfect example of why women are full of shit. You frame it in an altruistic manner where you want what's best for your son. When in reality you want a strong and handsome son because you want your offspring to have top tier genetics so you can have something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:43 PM
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The first option. I don't want my daughter to be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:45 AM
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So you're scared that it will make you a loser to pay for sex? You'd be no less a loser for being a 40 year old virgin. At least if you paid for sex you'd have the necessary experience rather than looking like a fool in front of a woman who actually wants to have sex with you, after which she realizes that you're an old ass virgin, and she'd no longer want to have sex with you. Just let go of your pride and pay for it so you no longer have it hanging over your head and no longer have to think ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:07 PM
1

You left out the last part: hoping he asks you out because you're too scared to do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:14 AM
0

Why do women keep regurgitating this talking point? No, standing around and trying to get a guy's attention so that he could approach you is not what men mean when they say you should start approaching lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:02 PM
1

You're speaking to a non-existent audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:54 AM
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I'll take that as you admitting you were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:51 AM
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I'm not lashing out over bitterness of my love life. I'm just dunking on you for being a simp. Yes, you did give a fuck about my success or failure. That is obvious and it's pointless to deny it just because you look ridiculous. Women don't approach in the sense that their "approach" doesn't directly lead to success or failure. So it can't be an approach anymore than if I creeped on a girl by looking up her dress. Also asking me if I get approached. Based on your dumb definition of what a woman'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:36 AM
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Funny coming from a guy who's first post to me was "username checks out". Now you're saying my success or failure is irrelevant to you. Once again, you're full of shit. And what gave you any idea that I'm a dancing monkey? It's you that seems to have a simp mentality on this sub, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:21 AM
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I have been approached. I just wasn't interested. But those times are very rare. The fact that you seem to be implying that this is commonplace ironically makes it obvious you've never been approached and you're trying to project some sort of fantasy onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:54 AM
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I love how you think you're so clever by saying "username checks out". It's low hanging fruit. If women did "approach" they wouldn't need to depend on a guy to read "social cues". She would be the one to just directly express interest herself. The fact that they don't, and the burden lies on the man, makes you full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:49 AM
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No they don't. A woman's idea of "approaching" is looking at a guy and trying to goad him into taking on the risk of rejection. Women are cowards and pretend they aren't. That's why they like to pretend they approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:47 AM
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That's a cowardly way to approach. If you're not sticking your neck out and risking embarrassment, then it's not a real appraoch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:36 AM
1

If it didn't make enough of a difference, then literally every woman you see outside wouldn't be wearing it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:10 AM
0

These are the words of a massive horndog that will fuck anything that moves. If makeup didn't make you attrative, then so many women wouldn't be wearing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:22 AM
1

Men: "choose better" Women: Chooses the 6'4 asshole over the 6'0 asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:06 PM
1

When men say choose better, they don't mean choosing the men you already wanted but couldn't have lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:01 PM
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Got banned on r/theredpill The mod there is such a pussy bitch. Bans me and then responds so I couldn't give a response in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:02 AM
1

Just be a celebrity bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:00 AM
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That's rich, coming from the guy who locked my thread and said I gave bad advice. You wondered where I got my ideas from. How about from women themselves??? https://www.instagram.com/hoperyk/reels/ Scroll down to the video with 39 million views. Now stop abusing your mod powers and admit you were wrong!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 02:53 AM
1

The point is sometimes they're interested when you think they aren't, and aren't when you think they are. It's you who needs to think with logic.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 04:46 AM
1

"If she's not showing interest, I'm not interested." Your ignorance is astounding. Don't you think women think this way as well? Then why did you say women always show interest if she likes you if you yourself dont act this way?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 03:36 AM
1

Yeah, a lot of women love the attention they get from men, even if they're not attracted to those guys.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 01:20 AM
1

That would require an actual interaction with the person to have any idea. And even then there is a lot of ambiguity. So the point is you can draw the wrong conclusions by looking for interest. Like I said, the person showing you lots of interest could be a case where they feel comfortable enough around you since they don't feel self-conscious since they're not attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 12:48 AM
1

Do you always show interest in girls that you like? Or have there been cases where you silently pined for them from afar? If yes, then shut the hell up.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/25 12:03 AM
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That's not blackpill. The whole point of blackpill is that the deck is stacked against you and that there is no point in trying. If you're still trying, then that's firmlly anti blackpill.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/25 08:20 PM
1

The harsh reality is that not everybody gets what they want in life
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 11:07 PM
2

No, she should be cooking. That's her job as a woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 03:23 AM
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The thought of a man getting fucked in the ass lowers his SMV big time in a woman's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:59 AM
1

Begging for relationships like this is beta male behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:04 PM
1

What type of rock do you live under where you think grown women don't play mind games? You just inadvertently admitted women are basically children in adult bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:17 AM
-1

Sounds like you're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:59 AM
1

Yes and adults act like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:55 AM
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Except it's not teenage girls making videos about this topic on the internet. You just read other comments on here saying it's teenage girls who act like this and you copied their comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:52 AM
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It's an Asian woman and a white man. Asian women can't tell the difference between a 3/10 white guy and a 7/10 white guy. They just care that he's white because they hate themselves and wish they were born white. Also a lot of guys don't get obvious interest because women are shy and hate rejection. I made a thread about this. Often times, a girl ignoring a guy is a sign she likes him because she's scared of making a bad impression and her being extra flirty is just her being herself because she…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:41 AM
1

You probably still do this but you don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:37 AM
1

It's not teenage behaviour. I've seen videos from adult women who talk about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:36 AM
1

Why would you see it? The whole point is that they try to hide this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:38 AM
3

Relax. An 18 year old is generally going to be more attractive than a 35 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:28 AM
1

True, but I don't know why it's framed as a good thing. The last thing most people want is to take an extra job just for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:03 PM
1

You would only be getting "the best" if you exercised good judgement in choosing men. If you did, there wouldn't so many woman crying about how the bar is in hell for men after they beat you, cheat on you, leave you when you have a child lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:32 PM
1

I love how you tried to flex on men but you inadvertently proved their claims correct about how hypergamous women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:26 PM
4

If there is one thing women hate more than anything else, it's weak men. Don't EVER show weakness in front of a woman are your chances are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:01 PM
5

Exactly. Women are funny. They give one word answers and then say that there was no chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:56 AM
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I'm not an average man. The average man does better with women than I do. And even I have some semblance of standards. And yes, the shameless guys who openly hit on young women tend to be old men. My female friends have said it and I've witnessed it on occasion. In any case, some Christian Grey looking guy isn't the one doing the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:15 AM
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