sedawkgrep Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Telling men "it's okay to cry" is just another way to tell men "man up" Ok and they can go fuck themselves because we don’t need to invest anything in people like that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/20 03:05 PM
2	Telling men "it's okay to cry" is just another way to tell men "man up" Agreed 100%	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/08/20 02:08 AM
1	Telling men "it's okay to cry" is just another way to tell men "man up" If your internal dialog is telling you these responses, then maybe you need to cry a little bit and just feel ok about it. There isn't anybody out there actually telling you that you can't do these things. It's in your mind that you'll suffer some consequences if you do. And maybe you will. But ultimately repressed emotions are bad and we can all agree on that. So can we just take one step forward without also taking one back?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/08/20 02:07 AM
1	Sexual harassment - even when the harassed woman doesn't see it that way Im no fan of of Trump but its a serious issue. It is a serious issue. But its importance compared to about 50 other national and global issues really does make this one seem quite small. Not unimportant, but not as big as many, many others.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 07:33 PM
1	Sexual harassment - even when the harassed woman doesn't see it that way Nobody with a working head on their shoulders would let that specific criteria be the basis upon which they choose between these two.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 07:10 PM
6	A misandrist ad for Virginia Slims cigarettes. Thoughts? The irony here is that this was undoubtedly created by men. I'm guessing this ad is from the 60's or maybe early 70's - if there were women in the advertising fields then, there weren't many of them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/20 05:40 PM
-4	George Orwell on the unique troubles of low status men Hold on a sec. How many times do we see posts/stories/movies/etc. of the worthless, jobless, deadbeat dude being taken care of by a girlfriend with a heart of gold? It's a cliche because it's so common, and guys who aren't in that space bemoan the character of that guy as not being worth her attention. And then this is posted attempting to prove the exact opposite idea.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/06/20 08:25 PM
0	PUA's Sorry I was wrong. I just have 49 years of experience telling me otherwise.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/06/20 03:10 PM
0	PUA's My intuition is telling me that you’re hanging onto this notion of difference because - If you are lacking some skill, then it’s not an endemic failure of your personality or some personal shortcoming. It’s some external thing that you can get which fills in the gap. However if there really is no special skill, then that means you have nothing external to blame. And it comes back to just you. I’m not trying to be a dick about it. Here’s my practical advice - get out and do a lot of social things…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/20 09:57 PM
1	PUA's My whole point is that you're making it a discrete thing and I'm telling you it's not. Meeting women, establishing a rapport, and getting to a point where romantic potential is realized, is not some one-off skill.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/20 07:15 PM
0	PUA's Good human communication is not the same as being able to approach women romantically. We're going to have to just disagree on this.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/20 05:36 PM
2	PUA's Nobody needs advice on how to be insincere or inauthentic. You're going to end up unhappy one way or another if you depend on that to get what you want, no matter what it is. So if you found a PUA who helped you be more comfortable with yourself and how to communicate and connect authentically and on even terms with a woman, that would be ideal. But IMO that's just good human communication. I sympathize with young men especially right now. The world is loaded with conflicting opinions and is inc…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/20 05:22 PM
1	How to have a non-toxic gender discussion? NVC is useful for any time you're communicating. Full stop.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/20 04:51 PM
1	Biden nominated judges and attorney general will probably take away the presumption of innocence in rape cases. As always, innocent black men will suffer the most You have sources for all of this, right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/20 02:17 PM
1	The framework of "toxic masculinity" identifies symptoms but will never be able to offer solutions. This means it amounts to no more than the nagging of men. Here I will offer a superior framework of masculinity which includes solutions. The first part of this reads like a partial borrowing from the book King Warrior Magician Lover. I'm not finished with it yet, but it explains a developed/mature and undeveloped/immature version of each which is helpful in identifying behavior and aspiring to something more.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/05/20 06:00 AM
2	We will be instituting a rule against "low effort" Posts. But I would like some community feedback on exactly how that would look. Thanks for the callout. I'm going to resub for the time being and see where this goes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/20 07:54 PM
1	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text Because I honestly feel like people being upset by blatant unchallenged misandry is reasonable. There are a couple ways one can react - blame outward and hate the external, and stay focused on that, or turn inward and accept (or ignore) what's going on and just ask how can you better yourself and those you know. Not every post and reply is the former, but it predominantly is. There's a grain of truth to the notion of "man up", and it's contained in the serenity prayer: God, grant me the serenity…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/20 04:37 PM
1	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text Misandrists within the movement being given power and influence has actively harmed men and will continue to do so if left unchecked. Exactly what "checking" do you think is happening here? Simply pointing out misandry/misandrists is like saying the sky is blue. Yeah...so? Do you really think that these examples are news to anyone? Add new, relevant items to a sticky post on that subject if you want to keep a tally. Otherwise just.let.it.go. At the end of the day, about 80% of what is posted her…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/20 08:18 AM
1	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text Seriously? How about enforcing rules 1, 2, 6, and 8. Also having a low or zero tolerance for low-grade and inflammatory posts. The main page right now has the following stories/links which are not men-positive but actually women/feminism/social-negative : Covid Politico image Neither gender is oppressed 1992 TV interview I'm a girl what's your superpower Amber Heard / image Gynocentrism / war This thread TERFs / transgenders Pinkpill feminist brigaders trans == men equality image female prison s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/20 10:18 PM
-2	Dear feminists, please stop using TERFs as a scapegoat for everything that’s wrong with your movement while not actually doing anything to fight them. Sincerely, a trans woman. The place would be 95% better if you’d just enforce the goddamn sub rules. Edit - sorry I assumed you were one of the mods.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/20 04:40 AM
-1	Dear feminists, please stop using TERFs as a scapegoat for everything that’s wrong with your movement while not actually doing anything to fight them. Sincerely, a trans woman. I sent a pleading message to the mods to either step up and force adherence to the sub rules, or make me a mod so I can do it. It was ignored by them all. It's clear they DGAF at best, or support at worst, this type of behavior. (Despite the sub rules...) I ended up unsubscribing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/20 10:41 PM
2	Aren't you all tired of the obsession to put women in stem sigh Ok. So we're supposed to assume that girls get pushed into STEM, make it all the way through school, through college, hit the workforce, and by then they will still be less qualified than their male counterparts? You're worrying about shit that will hit 10+ years from now. Sorry can't really get on board with that too much, since people can still choose to do what they want, and those who are unsuited or unqualified generally find themselves looking for alternative jobs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/20 09:58 PM
0	Aren't you all tired of the obsession to put women in stem Um...This has exactly what to do with men / mens rights? See rule #1 on the side bar. Seriously stop complaining. We have enough of our own shit to worry about without concerning ourselves with what women are or aren't focusing on.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/20 09:20 PM
1	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text I disagree completely. As we reckon now and in the future with both male and female issues, the advocates for each side need to be aware and vigilant. It's going to be a LONG time before there is no such thing - if ever.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/20 07:43 PM
2	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text Dude really? Like you can’t think of one thing that feminism has done that’s a net positive to the world through the enablement of women? Google it. Feminism, when it comes to women’s equality has done a LOT of good things. Just so we’re all clear - I would prefer the term feminism to stay solely on women’s rights and causes. We have our own and I don’t want that term diluting or distorting that, nor should woman want it either.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/20 05:36 PM
1	Gender-based subs are coming under fire in r/againsthatesubs but it doesn’t mean we are next. Keep it classy! And enjoy some of the rad-fem propagandizing subs being called out. Links in free text Dude - can we make this more of a pro-men sub without the tearing down of anything/anyone? I just joined because I thought this sub might be above the hate/ridicule/etc. garbage that other subs seem to thrive on. I don't care what drama is happening in other subs. At all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/04/20 02:41 PM
1	That quote is fucking real Yeah she was incredibly loathsome as a candidate - so much so that Trump was preferred by so many. Someone with his baggage and zero political experience. I even voted for her but only because I was afraid of what the alternative would be...and it's been much worse to boot. Anyhow... 2016 was a total shitshow.	/r/MensRights	23/08/18 06:43 PM
–	Feminist explains in detail why "all penis-in-vagina sex is always rape". Yes, they really believe that Shitty flamebait title. Yes, they really believe that No, the blogger and some of her posters believe that. Not every feminist on the planet. Stop with the radical feminist hate, and focus on men's issues. (The blogger identifiers herself as radfem) Oh wait, that's right. This is r/mensrights.	/r/MensRights	18/03/18 05:26 PM
2	Feminist campaigns against reality If what you’re saying is true, then it has nothing to do with men’s rights, and thus doesn’t belong on this sub.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 03:55 PM
11	Feminist campaigns against reality Agreed. This post is feminist hate. Upvoted.	/r/MensRights	01/03/18 03:54 PM
1	Thought of the day: “Mankind” is discriminatory because it isn’t gender neutral, but “feminism” represents equality for both genders? We have a word already. Egalitarianism.	/r/MensRights	05/02/18 04:17 PM
1	It's Not Feminism That We Should Fight. It's Liberalism That We Should Destroy, Because Liberalism is Foundation of Gynocentrism. Nonsense. Correlation != causation. I am a very liberal MRA supporting egalitarian. If you really believe this, then you should write an essay and supply an argument as to why this is the case, and provide proof of causation. And why we should throw the baby out with the bath water.	/r/MensRights	19/01/18 06:31 PM
4	Janice Fiamengo on the Mob Justice of #MeToo" Great post. Would love to see more content like this and less of the cherry picked social media junk that drives division between men and women.	/r/MensRights	14/01/18 03:01 PM
3	Everyone likes to argue that sexism against men does not exist. I'm a woman and even I know that's not true, considering people say stuff like this. It just hit me that maybe we're arguing different points. If feminists want to say the right to vote is STILL an issue, then hey have at it. That's a pretty stupid thing for them to argue unless they're trying to make a point that it should've happened earlier. Regardless it's kind of moot. We need to be looking at now and at the future more than why something wasn't fixed earlier than it was. IMHO.	/r/MensRights	11/12/17 09:32 PM
1	Everyone likes to argue that sexism against men does not exist. I'm a woman and even I know that's not true, considering people say stuff like this. No, because the right to vote was a victory, and is no longer an issue. Men are still in trenches fighting in wars. Just use: Vietnam, where men were drafted and died by the thousands. Iraq / Afghanistan where men were sent to die for spurious reasons. But hey, if you want to use trench warfare as some kind of point in arguing things with feminists, knock yourself out. I just think that there are far, far more contemporary examples which will be more impactful to your point.	/r/MensRights	11/12/17 09:29 PM
1	Everyone likes to argue that sexism against men does not exist. I'm a woman and even I know that's not true, considering people say stuff like this. You could just as easily have said Vietnam or Afghanistan. At some point you'll lose your target audience by referencing something that feels almost victorian in its antiquity.	/r/MensRights	11/12/17 09:04 PM
1	Everyone likes to argue that sexism against men does not exist. I'm a woman and even I know that's not true, considering people say stuff like this. I don’t disagree but we can’t throw out 100-year old examples for stuff like this.	/r/MensRights	11/12/17 07:33 PM
2	Literally Hitler... I hear and fully understand your point. But if you're going to call it feminism, then it ought to be about its namesake (the feminine), not be all-inclusive. As I said, we have a word for that already.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 10:56 PM
9	Literally Hitler... Well a lot of this depends on what they call themselves.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 08:26 PM
1	Literally Hitler... You are a moron. http://www.dictionary.com/browse/mutilate verb (used with object), mutilated, mutilating. to injure, disfigure, or make imperfect by removing or irreparably damaging parts	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 06:19 PM
1	Literally Hitler... I honestly wonder if this isn't one of the non-political areas where Russian meddling is being done as part of that whole "disrupt society" plan. You can only get so much mileage out of politics...but you can extend your audience by making it about feminism and mens rights, and creating more division there.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 06:12 PM
1	Literally Hitler... I believe that the only thing wrong with it is its consistency. Core feminism espouses equality among everyone. But a lot of more extreme feminists (like the feminist-hating people here) seem to feel that that shouldn't include men, thus diluting the meaning. That, and the term feminism is by its nature sexist. We already have a term for equality: egalitarianism.	/r/MensRights	13/11/17 06:03 PM
-8	Woman kills husband: "I wanted him dead, and now he's gone and I'm fine with it," gets 16 months. Did you guys even read the article Of course not. This is r/mensrights - where hating women is du jour and facts/circumstances don't really matter. Another shitpost here in a long, long string of shitposts.	/r/MensRights	10/11/17 03:26 AM
1	Former U.S. President George Bush summarizes in one sentence the feminist perspective towards men and and towards themselves. The point is to stop the circle of escalation. To stop it, you have to actually stop escalating yourself. Step back, be calm, collected, and stick to understanding their problems and explaining ours. Not pointing fingers and criticizing. That's how we got to where we are politically, etc.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 09:18 PM
1	Former U.S. President George Bush summarizes in one sentence the feminist perspective towards men and and towards themselves. Nonsense. That idea just leads to escalation, which creates a further divide. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 03:04 PM
1	Former U.S. President George Bush summarizes in one sentence the feminist perspective towards men and and towards themselves. This sub is about 90% shitposts.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 03:41 AM
1	Former U.S. President George Bush summarizes in one sentence the feminist perspective towards men and and towards themselves. This post is an example of the point it's trying to make.	/r/MensRights	30/10/17 02:27 AM
10	Even Game of Thrones is not immune to this bullshit And don't forget Theon getting his penis cut off, Varys being a eunuch, and of course the most noble of them all, Eddard Stark getting his head chopped off. I'm not sure one side gets to complain about being mistreated vs. the other in this show.	/r/MensRights	16/08/17 03:40 PM
1	Apparently pointing out female privilege is not welcome outside of /r/mensrights Source? Curious because I don't know what you mean by this.	/r/MensRights	24/07/17 10:34 PM
2	Huffpost is pure feminist cancer. Yes, but we need to fight OUR fight. We can point out the hypocrisy, etc., but for the most part society will see through this type of BS.	/r/MensRights	03/06/17 01:50 PM
–	Huffpost is pure feminist cancer. We're not all like this. I posted a similar comment.	/r/MensRights	03/06/17 02:31 AM
–	Huffpost is pure feminist cancer. This post and most of these comments are a cancer to this sub. Women, even feminists, aren't our enemies; the system is the problem. And yes I know that this clip is gross misrepresentation. But saying: "feminist cancer" Fortunately, the world's meltiest snowflakes can always marry-up and spread some of that burden onto their oppressors. shill out 120 grand for a PhD in 18th century lesbian poetry. Which is why they still marry up so men can pay their debts off and they don't have to worry about…	/r/MensRights	03/06/17 02:26 AM
1	Seduction, distilled. Here is a Marlon Brando clip from the 50's that displays ultimate manliness. I still can't get a grip on the WTF he became later in life.	/r/seduction	15/08/10 06:59 PM