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DISCUSSIONsharontravels/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 12:01 PM
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FIELD REPORTsharontravels/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 07:52 AM
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Sorry for all the typos. It should be "security blanket" Indeed the true nature of "friendship".
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:13 PM
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Putting children at the center of the universe is always a bad idea.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 02:59 AM
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My SO and I had an argument about this early on in the relationship. He believed men and women could be just friends, I told him no. He was always used by women as a person to vent too. Secretly, he probably wanted to date all his women friends. But was rejected by them. After we walked about it, he saw what I was talking about. Not surprisingly since we got together, he hasn't been very close to those women friends. Also not surprising some of those women were not friendly with me because I had…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 11:35 PM
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This is actually something my SO and I are still figuring out. I have a very high sex drive. Honestly it would be 2x a day, maybe more. My SO is a good man, but the sex is not good. When I met him he was a virgin and knew NOTHING about a woman's body. I knew it would be work, but 3 years later he still hasn't been able to make me climax. A big factor is his weight. He can't do a lot of things. I love this man, but part of me is really disappointed. Recently, we had a serious discussion about it,…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 04:32 PM
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Could be true, but honestly stamina comes from how active you are. Also, mental health is a big factor. It's always a good idea to have kids before 30 years old.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 04:05 PM
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September Goals Lose 8lbs - I'm going to continue to do exactly what my Personal Trainer tells me to do. I'm sticking to the menu, training two times a week, and walking an hour each day. Korean Skincare plan - I was doing a 8 step skincare plan, but I got sick and stopped doing it. I'm going to go back to doing it. Wear makeup daily - Again, I got sick and stopped doing it. I'm trying to figure out a makeup look that works for me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 03:40 PM
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I did not do any of my goals. But the good news is that I'm taking losing weight seriously. I had my Personal Trainer make me a menu plan for the week, I do training with her twice a week, and I walk an hour each day. So far I've been seeing results.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 03:36 PM
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Totally agree. It's not just feminism, but the media in general. They are constantly portraying the mother as being tired, sloppy, and having crazy kids. And the father as being lazy, stupid, and doesn't provide any help. I think parenthood is a beautiful thing. It makes me happy when I see parents who enjoy being parents.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 02:59 PM
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So when we talk about Alpha male in this subreddit, this is what we're talking about. I guess that's where I'm confused because this is exactly what I don't want.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 01:55 AM
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I told my boyfriend from the beginning that I wanted to have a child and be a SAHM. He agreed as his mother was like that. I work with kids and see the ill effects of having two working parents. I want to be there for my child. My boyfriend and I agreed we would have 1 child.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 03:37 PM
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I totally agree that actions speak louder than words. But it sounds like his words were true, but she refused to listen. What I have found in my life, is that men are honest. They don't sugar coat things, they say what they mean. This post has actually made me a little confused about what characteristics are of an Alpha Male. The constant changing of careers, being unemployed, and not paying rent kind of indicate that he's not truly an Alpha. Or am I wrong? I found this post about the characteri…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 03:29 PM
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I didn't start dating till my second year in college, and I dove right into the first relationship. Which was a big mistake and nearly ruined my life. That said, couple things I wish I had worked on when I was younger. -Being comfortable around boys and men, and learning to speak to them. I didn't have a father figure growing up and my mom made me really afraid of boys. I was also super shy. - Not going out with someone just because they like you and don't give people a chance. I had a lot of fr…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 12:28 AM
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It's 100 times worse in Korea. My students feel absolutely no responsibility. Their mother's do everything for them, even the girls, but the boys definitely are babied more. Everything we learned as Korean American's no longer really exist in Korea. I was taught Han too, respect your elders, and family comes first. Korea is different. The family unit is destroyed. Families don't live together. Father's often live in the city while their family lives in the suburbs. Children don't come home till …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 03:10 PM
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Yeah I have heard about sexless marriages in Japan. I think every culture has two sides. Thanks for sharing the other side.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:47 PM
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The end of September is good. The weather should be okay and you miss the crazy traveling during Korean Thanksgiving.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 03:52 PM
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My viewpoint on plastic surgery has changed a lot since I was younger. I used to be absolutely against it, but living in South Korea (#1 in Plastic Surgery) and having family members that have done it, I am no longer. RPW is about raising your SMV and RMV. There are some people who feel like they need plastic surgery in order to raise their SMV. I don't see anything wrong with that. I think the problem is when people put all their eggs into the plastic surgery basket. I know people who thought p…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:27 AM
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I think the government really needs to do something about that. I can't imagine surviving in Japan without a full salary.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:16 AM
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Thank you for sharing that. I would interested to hear more about what you observed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:15 AM
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It manifests badly. If the woman is too aggressive the marriage falls apart. But, Korean men (for the most part) are not any better. Korean boys are babied and never learn how to take care of a family. They expect everyone to take care of them. It's a big problem in the Korean Culture, the lazy Korean Man and the Aggressive Korean Woman. Again, this is not everyone, but it is a lot of people.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:12 AM
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100% agree. If the government really cares about family they need to implement a structure that supports that. I think it's completely absurd that a household cannot survive on a single income any more. This is a worldwide crisis where work has become more important than family.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:05 AM
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Totally agree. I think the Japanese take their time speaking. They think about what they are going to say and don't feel the need to ramble. There's comfortable silence.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 07:02 AM
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I'm wondering that too. Japan is pretty expensive and I'm wondering if that might have influence.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 03:27 PM
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I really do think it does. The stereotype is true about "aggressive Korean woman". Korean people are just angry in general. People walk around ready to fight. I'm Korean American and was always taught that woman rule the household. Koreans have a really bad temper. Of course it's not everyone, but it's a lot of people. That's something I've been working on fixing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 03:18 PM
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I definitely felt that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 03:13 PM
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I think having men in charge of departments works out so much better. I can only speak for the jobs I've had, but I hated every single job that had a woman manager or CEO, or a beta male that was trying to be alpha.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 03:11 PM
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I've learned the sun is the devil living in South Korea. Sun does a lot of damage to skin. I will say that the Japanese seemed to age better than Koreans. I think it has a lot to do with maintaining weight. I've noticed that Ajummas in South Korea seem to be heavier than what they were when they were younger. The Japanese older women seemed to maintain their weight well into old age.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 03:03 PM
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The fashion in Japan was amazing. I just loved all the clothes. I agree that the American environment is very masculine. But from my experience, I had better interactions with male coworkers when there were fewer females. The competition was never with men, but women. Actually, I had a lot of male mentors that really encouraged me and helped me to advance where women always kept me back. When I worked for an insurance company, I was in a department with 3 other men and I was the only female. The…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 02:30 PM
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Wow I'm glad you're okay. Congratulations on the birth of your son. Bravo to dad.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 02:04 PM
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I had to leave Korean and re-enter with my American Passport. It's a long story, but I was a dual citizen for 3 months and now I'm not. So I decided to go to Japan and have a mini vacation.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 02:02 PM
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I also saw more places selling clothes than personal care products including makeup. Like in South Korea, which is where I currently live, you will pass at least 5 makeup or skincare store in a shopping area. But in Japan I really didn't see many places. It was mostly food and clothes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 12:32 PM
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Again Tokyo might be different from Fukuoka. The advertising that I saw was non-sexual. All the women seemed more like mother's in advertisement. They weren't the typical sexy girl. Honestly, I really didn't see that much advertisement that featured people. It was mostly just words.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 12:30 PM
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100% agree that we make our own happiness. We couldn't control what our families did when we were under their care, but we can control our decisions as adults. We are the gate keepers of how much drama we are willing to bring into our life.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 11:36 AM
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Follow your captain.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 11:32 AM
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I can tell you 100% that suicide affects so many more people than you think. I had a co-worker that committed suicide and I still think about her. I felt so helpless and went through a period of what could have done to help. Please know that people might not say they care, but they care. I'm sorry for the loss of your mother at a young age. I know your mom would have been so proud of what you've accomplished in your life. Honestly, I think if you gained more confidence you would see more men are…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 02:10 PM
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1) How you did on last week's challenge I have been making a lot of effort to send sweet text messages. I'm still trying to change how I communicate with my SO. I'm trying to be more honest without nagging, or coming off as a mean bitch. I'm actually practicing in learning to make my voice more gentle and calm. I also started noticing, I'm a real bitch. If someone does the slightest thing that I don't like, I'll give them the stink eye and in my head I'm bitching them out. I don't want to be lik…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 03:07 PM
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I would bring your problem to your captain. You want to do it in person and not make him defensive.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 04:28 AM
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In the beginning of my relationship, I was super clingy and would actually start crying if my SO left. He would invite me to do things with him, but I didn't want to do them. He, understandably, started getting very frustrated and angry. One day, it sort of clicked in my head what I was doing. I started to see that I was being really selfish and insecure. So whenever he went out with his friends or went to see a scary movie (I get bad nightmares, so I can't watch them), I would make plans to do …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/16 04:20 AM
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Couple things I'll point out. As women, we need to be very careful who we intend to be in a relationship with. We want to be with someone who will be a great husband and father. Who is able to persevere through difficult times. There seems to be a heavy emphasis on marriage. Your captain just told you the boats sinking and you're asking him when is the next cocktail party. Now you have 2 choices, either be a good first mate and listen to your captain or abandon ship. Men need to feel secure. The…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 12:12 PM
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I know people who found their SO online, but it never worked for me. It just felt like a job because I had to swift through hundreds of messages. I met my SO at a film festival we were both volunteering at. Right away I knew he was a good guy. I really liked his approach. I was attracted to his confidence and smile. Also the same guys are on the paid and free accounts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 11:47 AM
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I'm also on my weight loss journey again. I actually made the investment and got a personal trainer. I'm 29 years old and I've done this so many times on my own and it doesn't work. I see my personal trainer twice a week. I workout everyday and have to report to my personal trainer daily about my food. This is what's working for me. I made my health and fitness my priority.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 11:34 AM
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Sorry I was traveling and am able to answer now. Honestly no matter what anyone writes on here, we all don't know you and can't really say what you should do. Only you can really decide if this is someone you're going to marry. When we date someone, we are committing to the fact that we want to marry this person. During the dating period, we need to think is this someone who is going to be a good husband and father. A quality that an alpha man posses is that when things are going wrong, they are…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 11:07 AM
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Learn to do your own taxes and manage your finances. It's not hard and adds value into the relationship. Spend time with children either volunteering, tutoring, or part time job. My time working with kids has been so valuable. I know what kids want and need. Learn to cook. Have a signature dish. My signature dish is banana bread. My SO and his friends rave about my banana bread. Learn to give a proper massage. I learned from giving my mom massages because she has a bad back. But there are online…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 02:42 PM
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So true and so sad. As women we need to raise each other up not tear each other down.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:11 AM
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For sure, I think a lot of girls are riding the CC, but not everyone. People have this really messed up notion that college is about partying, getting wasted, and having lots of sex. But, college is the bridge from adolescent to adulthood. It really boils down to why would anyone spend thousands of dollars to be wasted, when you can do that without student loan debt. If I could do college over, I would have joined more clubs, done student government, traveled, done more research projects, and ov…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:03 AM
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You have to really ask yourself if you really want to be with this man, or is this emotional attachment? It really depends on the guy whether a fling can turn into a thing. I would say most of the time it just doesn't work. I had a guy roommate before who met this girl online. He really wanted to be in a relationship. We actually had a big debate a few months before about sex on the first date. I said it just doesn't work out, he disagreed. Anyway, he goes on this date which he was super excited…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 04:54 AM
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I would strongly urge you to start seeking out other friends. Join clubs and activities that you're interested in. College is the time to really figure out what you want in life, which values you will hold, and what long term friends you will have. Not every girl in college is interested in being slutty. I actually always had a good group in high school and college that were interested in the long term goal of being married. If I hadn't been so insecure I would have ended up like them right now,…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 04:36 AM
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I totally agree improve SMV other ways. Be an amazing mother.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 02:08 PM
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That's a possibility. We are taking things slow. I've been trying to be conscious of the negative messages in my head and the lies I've been told. Here are a couple thoughts that made me want to break up with him: I could do better and I've always thought that during the relationship Truth: I've dated other men and have never been treated as well as I am. This man cares so much about me despite my past and current faults. The sex is horrible Truth: The biggest problem is that I keep comparing it…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 02:11 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. If you'd made it obvious, then it's in his hands to take the lead to ask you out.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 10:56 AM
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Thank you for sharing, so proud of you for making the changes and living a life of happiness. I'm also a former promiscuous woman/ feminist. I also go through many issues because of my past, but I am making the changes for the future.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 06:45 AM
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Is this guy really Alpha/ Dominant? I'm thinking he's more Beta. He got defensive and hung up, which is what a child would do. Then made an excuse by saying there's no spark. Also Alpha men are not vague, they tell you the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 03:59 PM
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I actually have been very conscious of how much I swear. I didn't think I was doing it a lot, but every now and then when something goes wrong I'll let out a curse. I'm trying to be more conscious of it and eliminating those words from my vocabulary. I also realized how much of a drama queen I am. Every little thing that goes wrong, I start freaking out. I either get angry or start crying. But a good step in the right direction. The other day, my USB went missing with all my files. I went into p…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 09:51 AM
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Awesome thanks for making that clarification.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 05:01 AM
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I'm in. Congratulations on the baby. Something important to keep in mind if you are going to vent to someone else about your SO, think about how telling that person will negatively affect the image of your SO? I've done this in past and had people turn against my SO, just something to keep in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/16 02:05 AM
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This is really well written and I am thankful that every woman is welcomed. A big part of why my life became a mess was because I didn't have any female role models. The great part of this community is the fact there are ROLE MODELS.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 02:03 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 01:52 PM
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I'm new and I already started on my goal, which is to get back down to 160. Ashamed to say I let myself go for a long time. I hired a personal trainer and have been working out everyday. Goal 1: lose 2lbs a week, 8lbs a month Goal 2: See a dermatologist and get the sunspots and freckles removed. Goal 3: study Korean 1 hour each day
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 09:17 AM
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Just joined RPW. I found TRP and agreed with some of the posts and was really happy to see that there was a RPW. This came in the right time in my life. I'm 29 years old, moved to Korea to become an English Teacher, broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I actually decided that I wanted to be the best possible me. I hired a personal trainer, and have already lost 10lbs. I've neglected my skin for so long and have been working on repairing it. Finally traveling, which is what I always wanted. And…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 06:25 PM
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Like everyone is saying, so many factors and questions need to be asked. But in the end you have to do what feels right. Personally, I would not date someone with a child. I want to build a life together, not build my life around someone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 05:08 PM
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I recently moved to Korea and have become focused on taking care of my skin. So my daily routine is very skincare focused. I always try to present myself in the best way. I like to keep my makeup simple and elegant, as well as my clothes. Here's my routine: In the morning, I do not wash my face with soap only water. Next, I put on Toner, Serum, Eye cream, Moisturizer, and sunblock. I let that settle for a few minutes. Then, I put on Urban Decay Primer, Loreal Super Liner eyeliner, Blush, darken …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 04:52 PM
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I feel like women could also benefit from this advice. I know I have.
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