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Am I really that bad? Is having no one who cares about me really all my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:12 AM
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So you're just a cunt on purpose then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:29 AM
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Just one of many things we don't agree on. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:03 AM
2

Bite your tongue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:38 AM
2

Overthinking shit is kinda my brand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:24 AM
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Lol, I'm not trying to be contrarian. I just am who I am. Sex isn't really worth having for me unless it's with someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:22 AM
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Sex without an emotion connection isn't really all that interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:18 AM
1

Neither. The average Japanese woman doesn't even speak english and the average American woman is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:07 AM
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Why do women always gotta try to ruin a man's happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:03 AM
1

Respect. You've always been a man of culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:49 AM
1

The original Xbox had sex appeal, I can't even explain why. I was always jealous of friends that had one when I had a PS2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:42 AM
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Why's that posted to r shortguys? Is he even short?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:33 AM
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Finally got a positive message back from a guy selling something I really want on facebook marketplace, and the feeling was better than any text back I've ever gotten from a woman I liked. Material possessions > women. At least they won't cheat on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:29 AM
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How do you judge your testosterone levels? Are you getting blood work done weekly, or are you judging based on how you feel? Without blood work, the only difference I notice is based on how horny I am, and the only thing that seems to have a noticeable impact on that is how hard/often I'm working out and how stressed I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:18 AM
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When me fuck pussy pussy turn red
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:49 AM
1

I love your happy cows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:31 AM
1

She posted a snarky reply to me too. Pay her no mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:28 AM
1

I've always thought of Aussies as Britain's version of American southerners, so I could see it working. Especially if he's a Queenslander.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:27 AM
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I strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:14 AM
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I was just thinking the other day how I've really never heard of a Dale except Dale Earnhardt and Dale Gribble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:46 AM
1

Don't get that reference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:40 AM
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I like Eleanor for a girl. Gonna keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:16 AM
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Not tall, not particularly handsome. The usual. I've never had enough options to have a target market tbh. Not overweight, kind, more introverted than extroverted, adventurous, smart, supportive, loyal, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:13 PM
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I mean you never want to display unattractive behavior, and acting desperate is one of the top unattractive behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:33 PM
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Definitely coming off desperate. You should've left it at "just lmk if you are free." If she never does, you were never gonna see her again either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:21 PM
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If she asked you out and expects you to pay, you lose absolutely nothing by refusing to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:10 PM
3

Sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:56 PM
1

When she knows I like a snack or beverage and stocks it at her place for me. I've never had anyone do it for me, but I've heard women say they'll leave little romantic notes for their SOs to find. That sounds nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:42 PM
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Russian girl with a upper middle class+ Chinese guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:31 PM
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Because I don't meet womens true preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:27 PM
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Looks-wise he's a very conventionally attractive guy, so he probably wants a very conventionally attractive woman. I don't think most of the personality/lifestyle stuff is all that unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:08 PM
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She's 30, but looks 12
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:51 PM
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Because I want someone to actually be happy to be with me, not like they were compelled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:48 PM
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The hell is a sleeper build?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:36 PM
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No that's the other one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:14 PM
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ambitious, hopefully working in a field where he can tackle large-scale issues not a doomer, believes we can solve big problems and wants to be part of the solution Examples of some of these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:04 PM
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They may reflect women’s true preferences when free from societal pressure, That's the real black pill for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:49 PM
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At least you mentioned looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:05 AM
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Idk how you can hang around here and think it isn't. The second you can no longer provide, women are sprinting for the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:59 AM
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Got me a little choked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:44 AM
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You're open to non-morbidly obese women? I remember you from when you were "Red," and this is the first time I've seen you express that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:17 AM
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That's a nice thought
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:12 AM
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I don't think the world ever picked me up in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:02 AM
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>Lips that aren't too thin or too full
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:49 AM
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You're a funny guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:43 AM
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Any door dash drivers in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:42 AM
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Damn, that's deep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:41 AM
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You're gay? That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:40 AM
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It's crazy the shit women disqualify a dude for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:31 AM
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I'm proud of the fact that I write like a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:27 AM
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Yeah but most women are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:18 AM
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I think you're the first woman on here I mostly clear the bar for on one of these lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:03 AM
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Whatever dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:58 AM
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Was him not wanting to cook not meant to be taken literally or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:38 AM
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Shows how little these lists actually matter in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:34 AM
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1/3 but I'm willing to pretend to be British/Australian/Kiwi for the right woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:31 AM
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Where would I do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:45 PM
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I don't think the fact that they exist means there are many
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:34 PM
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If she's not a ho, she's ho-curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:41 PM
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Do all women consider themselves whores? Are men just buying sex from women no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:23 PM
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etc The devil is in the details
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:12 PM
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You don't think highly charismatic people are rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:08 PM
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Not trying to fix a toxic partner is much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:07 PM
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It's so rare that it's not worth mentioning for the purposes of most discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:46 PM
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All of what you said is true, but it's also a gendered thing. "His money is OUR money, my money is my money" is very common thought process among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:41 PM
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If you're finding it so difficult to resolve conflicts in a relationship that you need help from a professional, the relationship isn't meant to be. It's a sign of fundamental incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:38 PM
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If you're going to couples therapy before you even get married, you don't really love or like each other that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:24 PM
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In the most extreme of cases, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:04 PM
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Lack of level 99 charisma I'm guessing. Sounds like he's kind of a con artist slimeball type.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:59 PM
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Rare PPD women W
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:21 PM
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Could be worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:57 AM
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What song is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:27 AM
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Don't you weight like 130 lbs though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:48 AM
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He was a US Navy SEAL sniper who claimed to have killed many terrorists in the middle east as well as many looters during Katrina from the top of the Superdome. They made a movie about him. Guy was a clown who liked to tell tall tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:33 AM
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You've never heard of American hero Chris Kyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:27 AM
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How well do you interact with women in general? Do they tend to like you non-romantically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:53 AM
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Idk man, I just feel like you have to be one of those mental cels. If I've ever been able to get laid, so can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:34 AM
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I don't believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:24 AM
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No, it just seemed like the appropriate thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:23 AM
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Do your friends notice when they're getting checked out? Do they have success with strange women while out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:20 AM
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You went full bridezilla, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:17 AM
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I would literally have no problems at that height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:15 AM
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It's all a big nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:14 AM
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Probably around your height give or take an inch. A few inches taller than me, anyways. You probably just aren't seeing the IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:12 AM
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Soup is not a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:01 AM
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I think so. I've seen morbidly obese tall dudes with normal BMI women. Height literally trumps everything else, and you choose to troll the rest of us by squandering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:00 AM
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That'd be someone else having a billion dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:55 AM
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I want a billion dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:45 AM
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It's 5 o clock somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:12 PM
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Listening to audiobooks is not a hobby but reading is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:31 AM
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You also said you wished he was taller and had broader shoulders. Past tense. Meaning at the time you wished those things, not after he did some horrible shit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:18 AM
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You don't think it's deceptive to be in a romantic relationship with someone you don't really want to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:11 AM
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I don't consider anything done passively to be a hobby. Studying music might be a hobby, but just listening to it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:07 AM
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Managers want to squeeze the most productivity out of the people below them in order to impress the person above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:01 AM
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Since you didn't actually address what I said, I'm gonna assume you don't actually have anything to say that refutes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:53 AM
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This oughta be good, what does it have to do with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:49 AM
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Not really. Do you think women ever prefer a man with wrinkles? A man who's bald(ing)? You're lying if you say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:45 AM
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Seems like it bothered you though Face it, basically no one here is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:42 AM
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So your argument is that women don't all grow up to become pedophiles? How convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:37 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:00 AM
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Womens preferences don't change
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:44 AM
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Huh, I'm a white guy and Asian women are my worst demographic by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:54 AM
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What's retroactive jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:49 AM
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Lol, except for my boomer father, the most extreme racial views I've heard in my life have been from non-whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:14 AM
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Yeah Idk, even still, I find even otherwise good people do bad things sometimes/have their moments of weakness. It'd be enough for me to not want to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:51 AM
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I'd tell you I'm surprised anyone would be okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:17 AM
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Everyone gets a chance to not be old, and most of the guys here are young. Of course they don't want to date someone old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:14 AM
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It's definitely as bad as being pissed by someone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:11 AM
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I've been told the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:10 AM
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Then your experience is just highly unusual. Women tend to take not going for a kiss by date 2 as a sign he's not that into her, or he's too timid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:08 AM
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Didn't y'all start dating in like high school or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:02 AM
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Why would you try to summon his annoying ass like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:14 PM
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I'm really sorry this is happening to your mom. They don't make em any lower than those guys. Is it feasible for her to move?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:29 PM
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That you have low standards for women and high standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:02 PM
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She is better looking than him by quite a bit, but he's not a 2 (2 is basically deformed) and she's not an 8. Again, overrating the woman and underrating the man, as I predicted. I'm not understanding what struggling with dating has to do with this conversation. You'll have to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:02 PM
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Thank you for proving my point for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:44 PM
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But they could indicate that you smell bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:38 PM
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I'm not into this aesthetic since I'm not a weeb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:36 PM
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Maybe you smell like flowers. At least it's not a fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:32 PM
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I bet you think the woman is more attractive in most couples you see. Women are extremely generous when rating other women and extremely harsh when rating men. Women will look at a woman who's 300 lbs and call her beautiful because she dresses nicely and has a nice haircut. At the same time, they will hyperfocus on any flaw a man has to call him ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:31 PM
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The reason this pairing is so remarkable is because it's an example of something that is unheard of. It's not the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:13 PM
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What do you think this proves?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:50 PM
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Hey intern, go fetch my coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:30 PM
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You could ask this of about 75% of reddit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:04 PM
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People at the highest levels of everything have been cheating to get ahead since time immemorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:55 AM
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What is the point if you can't make a positive contribution to the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:30 AM
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I'm too old for this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:23 AM
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Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:11 AM
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Q4A: You ever feel guilty about putting negative energy out into the world, even if you believe you're mostly speaking the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:08 AM
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The Balkans isn't the west, nor is it most of the world. It universally makes a man less attractive to in the west, and it's a dealbreaker for a lot of women. There's a reason when women want to insult a man, they choose to attack his hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:04 AM
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They can, they just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:56 AM
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Anyone who's worth a shit gets locked down by 30. This is a especially true for women since they tend to marry a few years older. Don't blame the messenger. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:45 AM
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So not relationship material either? Cool cool cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:36 AM
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Why would anyone want to be in a committed relationship with someone who clearly doesn't value them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:28 AM
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Or he's desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:19 AM
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That's pretty high, even for an old broad like you, but the fact that you're just now getting married now is the bigger red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:16 AM
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Define promiscuous. What's you're body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:10 AM
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I speak the only language that really matters though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:43 AM
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Are you trying to fix it or leaving? If I had a shit load of other options? Probably. Isn't that what most women would do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:00 PM
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Fuck no. I just want a normal monogamous relationship. I do envy the fact that they seem genuinely happy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:15 AM
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Haha, I've played OOTP (similar game for baseball). I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:36 AM
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Soccer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:18 AM
1

Well I'll be dipped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:21 AM
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I don't think "a few hours a week" and "moderation" implies gaming would be anything close to his entire personality, or something he does over spending time with you (unless you expect him to spend every minute of his free time with you I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:08 AM
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So you just didn't really read what I said then, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:02 AM
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You would've rejected him if you knew he played video games occasionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:54 PM
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Everyone has their own personal red flags though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:50 PM
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CMV: If a woman gets the ick from you playing video games in moderation*, she was only looking at you as beta bux. She's only interested in what you can provide her, and doing something unproductive with your time doesn't benefit her. Even if she doesn't find it to be an attractive hobby, women have been undeterred by things that are far worse. *Moderation means a few hours a week
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:41 PM
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She rates herself a 7 btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:25 PM
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Me, but to the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:20 PM
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Perhaps there is hope for me after all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:12 PM
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I would've assumed that's what you were into tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:01 PM
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Men aren't the ones saying they find most women unattractive. It's women saying they find most men unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:52 PM
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Most women are “very mid” to most men. You're definitely projecting here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:32 PM
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I'm not surprised she was a jerk in other ways, because hard graders are usually jerks, but I don't have a problem with hard grading in and of itself. In the end I felt like I got more out of those classes than the ones with professors that were more forgiving. I don't like the professors that find students to pick on, though. That's not their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:17 PM
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People also judge how confident you are by how you carry yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:10 PM
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That doesn't seem totally unreasonable to me. Being unsure of what you're saying means you hadn't really mastered whatever you were required to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:00 PM
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You and Jaded are the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:41 PM
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Because this sub is a cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:58 PM
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I don't think it helps anyone to have preconceived notions about individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:09 PM
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I pointed you out pretty quick, did I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:44 PM
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Throat cancer or something maybe? You should say something. It might save his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:37 PM
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Why would you assume that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:33 PM
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Woman rejected me and started pursuing me hard months later. I was pretty reluctant at first to even talk to her because I thought she was just looking for attention, but she kept at it. I can't really say for sure what her mindset was. I know she was pining for another guy (she's actually ended up marrying him) right before we started talking. Our second date was me taking his ticket to a concert they were supposed to go together. I think she just wanted to be in a relationship for reasons that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:15 PM
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It's much easier to like your partner when you're attracted to them. Women aren't attracted to men who aren't conventionally beautiful while men are, so women are actually the ones who don't like their partner most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:59 PM
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You're so full of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:49 AM
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Lol, look at this shit https://preview.redd.it/yddup2a5qoqd1.png?width=1588&format=png&auto=webp&s=1bec1dc16ac60a5dd929877fc0c4f447a495905a
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:30 AM
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I thought you don't believe in levels and looksmatches?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:07 AM
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God made man. Samuel Colt made them equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:47 AM
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Poor guy, he sounds lonely. I think he'd probably get the wrong idea if you accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:18 AM
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Have you really been that nice to him/done anything over the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:09 AM
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Damn, you were so close to your provider husband. Such a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:06 AM
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Is that all it'd really take?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:59 AM
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Will you marry me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:54 AM
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He's saying that just because a woman has sex with you, that doesn't prove she finds you physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 AM
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or find them attractive enough to fuck due to higher male sex drive, but don’t really find them beautiful. Do women find men who aren't conventionally beautiful "beautiful?" I kinda doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:34 AM
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Is he conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:27 AM
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That's just not been my experience in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:28 AM
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Most of the women in that thread just sound absolutely miserable to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:14 AM
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You didn't think settling was bad before? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:51 AM
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How are you agreeing with males?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:10 AM
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Lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:40 PM
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From who?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:32 PM
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To couples over like 19 who hold hands everywhere in public like you're still teenagers: Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:39 PM
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It's recently been brought to my attention that n-counts are pretty evenly distributed, meaning even most Chads aren't out there trying to sleep with as many women as possible. That makes me think most men actually do prefer to be with one woman. I mean, I get more attention from women when I'm in relationship than I do when I'm single, and I never found it hard to turn those other women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:26 PM
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Nope Nope Nope And he gets to his feet at a count of 9 Good morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:12 PM
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I didn’t find out I didn’t like them until after I was dating them. I may have not been excited to date them when I first was meeting them, but after experiencing their personality that’s when I decided I didn’t like them. You went into it knowing you didn't like them. Their personalities weren't going to change that. But also, thanks for confirming why we shouldn’t date below our league like people tell us to for your soft fragile egos. How exactly did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:09 PM
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The moment you f*ckers start putting boundaries and not letting this type of behavior progress is the moment this nonsense will stop. If men collectively did this, sure. That'll never happen, though. If an average individual man tries to do this, she'll just dump him and find another average guy who will worship her because those guys are a dime-a-dozen. I know this from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:54 PM
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Wanting sex in a romantic relationship =/= only wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:48 PM
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and we made the mistake of giving men below our league a chance because that’s what they cry about and want. This whole post is projection. You're the one dating men you don't actually genuinely like. Look at how you talk about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:46 PM
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Not being a pushover is more about being comfortable telling people no than it is being difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:52 PM
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Hearing damage is just about the least of his problems with parents like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:21 AM
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Ah, that explains the sudden love for Hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:02 AM
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I'd rather give you meth just to see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:52 AM
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French people despite every body I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:03 AM
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Q4W: Is this normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:51 AM
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You're still alive, so it's not too late. Sorry for kinda being a dick to you at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:33 AM
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If you're feeling that way, you should talk to someone man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:24 AM
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You're planning to be a famous musician who dies of a drug overdose?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:17 AM
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Late 20s to late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:13 AM
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What? I thought you were old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:49 AM
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I have a pretty irrational fear of being accused of/sent to prison for a crime I didn't commit. I think about that entirely too much. Ending up a quadriplegic or otherwise being significantly disabled is a big one too. Really any situation where I can't take of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:47 AM
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You grew up wherever you grew up and nobody there is good enough for you either. Why would it be any different in a small town?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:38 AM
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Why would you stay with a partner who resents you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:08 AM
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You strike me as the type to leave that small town because none of the guys there suited you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:05 AM
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Maybe that happens and maybe it doesn't. Either way, I couldn't live with myself if I was a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:04 PM
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Aren't they implied to be a loved one who deserves to be protected if they're your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:27 PM
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I probably don't have a gf in the first place if I have "important gaming sessions."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:14 PM
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Why do so many dudes are here reject their role as men? You're supposed to be driven to protect loved ones who are weaker than you. Hell, you're supposed to have your male loved ones backs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:12 PM
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These kids today smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:32 PM
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Q4A: What color crayon do you guys think tastes the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:18 PM
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Lol, sure. It's been fun going back and for with you tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:29 AM
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Artsy women 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:27 AM
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You're on a tear tonight. How many drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:16 AM
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Thanks ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:09 AM
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You're lying or ignorant to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:00 AM
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You think the amount of lifetime sexual partners is evenly distributed men of all attractiveness levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:56 AM
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I don't care whether you were. just talking about me or not, sweetheart. You were still talking about me. I never suggested they were. I suggested that some men here refuse to acknowledge the reality of women's attraction vs men's attraction. Lol Women view men as a whole package. They care about who the man is as a person. Men view women based on just appearance only. Nothing else matters (according to the experts here). How is this not saying women are more virtuous in what they deem attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:54 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:46 AM
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Oh no, I'm sorry you misunderstood me. There are a bevy of physical traits that matter just as much to women. Height, weight, frame, hairstyle, etc are all factors as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:45 AM
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Both men and women happily date murderers if they visually appealing enough. Women are not more virtuous than men when it comes to what sparks attraction for them Also just @ me next time babe. No need to take subliminal shots like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:42 AM
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Did I say it was the only factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:35 AM
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I think your anxiety about interacting with them is unfounded. They're really quite nice on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:33 AM
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Do you consider yourself demisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:25 AM
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Glad to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:16 AM
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Because you don't like his face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:10 AM
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I didn't assume you were overweight. I only asked in the first place because you seemed offended I brought up fat people as an example of conventionally unattractive people who tend to end up together. I don't give a shit if you do make assumptions about me. In fact, it'd be fun to hear what your assumptions about me are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:10 AM
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Do you not have much experience interacting with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:07 AM
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Yikes. Even more sad you weren't able to pull a man you're physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:02 AM
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If she was drunk, it probably doesn't end up going anywhere anyways, so you probably didn't miss out on much. To be good at flirting, or ready to flirt when a woman flirts with you, you need to be doing it all the time. Wittiness is a muscle that needs to be worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:56 AM
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Aaah, now I remember we already had this discussion a couple days ago. I definitely don't believe you're new to this cess pool. Thanks for finally sharing your definition. So, are you overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:43 AM
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Idk I'm just saying ridiculous shit in response to ridiculous shit. I know I've seen "stats" that kind of back it up, but they're pretty dubious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:40 AM
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Yes, everyone has a 5 day old account. It's part of growing up. Pardon me for being late to the reddit train. Dawg, you're on PPD. You ain't new. All this back and forth and you still haven't been able to define what you think it is. Is a size 10 fat? Is a size L fat? Is 150 lbs overweight? Is 200 lbs overweight? Idk. It's a BMI over 25 (unless you're a body builder on steroids).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:18 AM
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I suppose that's true. I think there's an objective definition though, and mutual romantic gestures aren't simping. Simping is inherently one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:15 AM
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With no respect, what kind of weird deflection is this? Because I don't know what YOU mean by fat, I must be "overweight"? You can't define what fat means to you, instead, I must be fat? 🙄 Lmao, my bad. I didn't notice your account was only 5 days old until now. You're either trolling or from another planet to not know what "fat" or "overweight" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:06 AM
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A valet did that to my car once. His BO was so pungent, even having the thing professionally detailed couldn't get rid of it. I couldn't even sell it at a steep discount. I ended up having to leave it in a bad neighborhood with the keys in it so someone would steal it and I could collect on the insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:02 AM
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The overwhelming majority of women fantasize about being gangbanged. Blame the people creating the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:56 AM
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it’s a running joke. So you don't actually see him as a simp then? Glad we could work that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:48 AM
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I have no idea what you mean by fat. With all due respect, are you overweight yourself? Well, that sucks for you. What a sad and limiting belief. Eh, it sucks, but it's better than being in a relationship with a woman who isn't physically attracted to you. No. The reason is they are wanting to stay single. That's literally not what they say. I'm not with my partner because of his face. You should tell him that, I'm sure he'd love to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:46 AM
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No. I'm kinda into chicks who lift, but she's too lean. Also, her face/hairstyle is pretty similar to my mom's when she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:34 AM
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Ah, so you think "fat people" have just paired up other "fat people" they they can't stand and aren't attracted too, just so they don't have to be alone? They are living together, getting married, having kids with people they don't like or are attracted to? That's makes no sense. Do you think what's considered fat is a social construct or something? Why the quotes? No, I don't think women are physically attracted to their partners most of the time. As women gain more agency they're choosing to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:29 AM
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That's not simping, and you know that. That's why you didn't want your bf to see you call him a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:47 AM
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You don't recognize what's conventionally attractive or unattractive? For example, why do fat people mostly date other fat people? That's not because fat people only find other fat people attractive, it's because they've got no other options. Trust me, I wish things were the way you're saying they are. I don't see it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:46 AM
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Then why are most couples looksmatched? Why are couples where one is ugly and the other hot exceedingly rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:31 AM
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I don't think you actually believe that. Simps are usually clingy, obsessive pushovers. I doubt you find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:17 AM
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He's definitely a simp. I don't see how it reflects on her unless she asked/demanded him to doordash her shit. Desperate men really fuck it up for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:00 AM
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Don't be too intimidated to say hi next time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:24 AM
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Why would I when you're the one claiming there* is a cost associated with body count for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:22 AM
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No, I like what I like on all types of women. For example, I can be attracted to tall women, but only if they still have a slight frame. A lot of tall women are proportionally more broad, which I don't find appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:05 AM
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If a tree falls in the forest... You're either incapable of acknowledging you made a bad argument, or you don't want to admit women do actually care what men think about their n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:40 PM
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I don't see how that's relevant. What is the "cost" if women don't care what men think about their n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:17 PM
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And I'm saying women don't actually seem to care about the "risks" associated with a rising n-count based on their actions and what they say. You can't have it both ways. Try to keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:09 PM
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Those encounters are definitely not almost entirely based on looks or anything. Looks have a strong influence over how much a woman likes a guy's personality and how comfortable she feels going home with him. Halo effect, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:06 PM
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Doesn’t matter how he looks if his personality is repellent. Right, because people who have casual sex are taking the time to learn about each other's values. Those encounters are definitely not almost entirely based on looks or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:59 PM
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Do you honestly believe n-count is stopping any woman who wants to be promiscuous from being promiscuous? The general consensus is that most women aren't interested in casual sex in the first place. Is that untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:56 PM
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Women say they don't feel shame for having a high body count because the men they really want don't care, so what difference does it make if men they don't care about shame them? Also women are just as guilty for praising men for being sexually successful and shaming the ones who aren't. Source: This subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:52 PM
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You can just say you're okay with abortions at any time for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:39 PM
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I don't think any man is attracted to a woman because she can't regulate her emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:25 PM
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I just feel like you're coming at it from a place of thinking she's better than you, when in reality it could be the other way around. There's no reason to be nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:18 PM
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which means doctors will be unwilling to risk this and women will die. I don't see why. Whether something was medically necessary or not seems pretty cut and dried to me. that is what is already happening in states that have outlawed abortion. I'm not arguing for outlawing abortion. I'm arguing in favor of outlawing some abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:12 PM
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What do I care if you think I'm making a good or bad argument? Do I have a snowball's chance in hell of changing your mind? I'd be stupid to think I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:00 PM
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Saying abortion should be a decision that rests solely between a woman and her doctor heavily implies they're not in favor of any restrictions of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:56 PM
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I'm not saying they should need government approval beforehand,. Government moves far too slow for emergency situations. I'm saying there should be consequences after the fact for the doctor and the mother if the abortion was found to be medically unnecessary. That's what I mean by restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:52 PM
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I thought the "latinx" thing was (rightfully) dead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:36 PM
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I wouldn't be that nervous about impressing a woman who needs to be set up like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:34 PM
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There should be as many obstacles as possible toward getting voluntary third trimester abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:31 PM
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I'm not against medically necessary abortions to protect the life of the mother. I'm not even against all voluntary abortions. I'm against no restrictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:30 PM
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Lady, I hate your guts. I genuinely couldn't care less about your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:26 PM
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I view voluntary third trimester abortions as murder. I think murder is bad and should be illegal. That's what it means to me. Anyone who threatens to kills themselves should be involuntarily committed to a mental institution so they can't harm themselves or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:20 PM
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Why does it have to be all doctors? As long as some would, it should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:13 PM
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No one drives an 11 year old Chevy Cruze (or 9 year old Mazda3) because they like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:10 PM
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I don't care how rare they are or aren't. I care that they're illegal unless not medically necessary. Pro-choice organizations and people are often not in favor of any restrictions whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:08 PM
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Did I say that? The important part is what I highlighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:07 PM
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How is what I personally think relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:07 PM
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She should put the child up or adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:06 PM
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He sounds too old to be that poor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:42 PM
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There are plenty of scumbag doctors out there who will do whatever you pay them to do. I don't think most sound of mind pregnant women are waiting until the 3rd trimester for abortions, it's much more likely that a fetal defect is discovered coupled with added risk for the mother. Then no one should have any problem outlawing third trimester abortions that aren't medically necessary. Instead, pro-choice organizations push for zero restrictions. Today, NARAL Pro-Choice America released a new nati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:37 PM
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Yes, with restrictions. I'm not entirely unsympathetic towards the position women are in when it comes to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:32 PM
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Today, NARAL Pro-Choice America released a new nationwide survey conducted by Change Research from April 28-May 2 that found that an overwhelming majority of voters reject the argument that banning abortion at 15 weeks is a “compromise” on abortion rights. Instead, they believe decisions about abortion should be between patients and doctors—rejecting restrictions on abortion care. https://reproductivefreedomforall.org/news/new-polling-from-naral-pro-choice-america-shows-that-voters-reject-idea-o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:31 PM
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I'm not trying to have that argument, you are. I'm simply arguing there should be restrictions on abortion. I don't give the slightest bit of a fuck that you don't like biology. Have your tubes tied if you're so mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:10 PM
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They're arguing in favor the decision being solely in the hands of the pregnant mother, not healthcare professionals. If she wants medical professional to go in and rip that viable fetus out of her limb by limb, that should be totally legal. I'd be fine with the taxpayers covering the medical expenses for those babies. The government's gonna end up responsible for them anyways given the mother is clearly unfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:08 PM
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You know it too given the fact that you need to build a strawman to try to justify yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:00 PM
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Third Trimester (Weeks 27–40): After the point of fetal viability (around 24–28 weeks), states were allowed to ban or heavily restrict abortions, except when the procedure was necessary to protect the life or health of the mother. And most people who are pro choice think there should be no restrictions. The woman I replied to is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:57 PM
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You're sick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:55 PM
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they can birth the fetus and if the fetus can survive on its own, great. In America, most people who are pro-choice argue you should be able to kill the fetus no matter how viable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:51 PM
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Women don't drag things out? Women are famous for mentally breaking up with a guy, but staying in that relationship and going through the motions until they can line up their next thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:47 PM
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You're the one who made the claim, so it seems you'd be the one to provide insight on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:37 PM
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How can they be likable if women only like 1% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:32 PM
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I know, men want a relationship with a woman who actually likes them. What a bunch of assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:23 PM
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You literally said the other day women only want tall and attractive ("1% of men"). Who's obsessed with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:06 PM
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It's interesting you put "unattractive" in quotes for women and not for men. That reads to me like there is less subjectivity in what makes a man unattractive than there is what makes a woman unattractive, which I would agree with. Also there just aren't enough unattractive women to go around for all the unattractive men. Men find a much larger portion of the female population at least somewhat attractive, so even an "unattractive" woman still gets to be picky. Being awkward and anxious as a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:04 PM
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You don't really have anything to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:22 PM
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Having a rebound isn't the same as monkey branching. I think you know that, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:35 AM
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Other than the cost of living, what makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:30 AM
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Idk, those types have been here as long as I've been here. I do feel like the female population here currently is overall less likable than it was at one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:53 AM
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Most people or most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:38 AM
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I know I'm not anyone's dream guy, but I don't want it thrown in my face that I wasn't her first choice, ya know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:24 AM
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Love the idea that I took 15 years years off my ex's life given she probably took twice that off mine. Fuck that bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:24 AM
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Good question actually. I suppose it's just a level of insecurity even I'm not at. I don't really get why women get insecure about what porn a dude watches, either. Then again, I don't have the attachment to porn some guys seem to. Honestly, if I'm in a relationship with a woman, I'm not comparing her to any other women at all, let alone women I don't and never will know personally. My standards aren't influenced by women I haven't seen in real life either. I suppose if I felt neglected in some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:14 AM
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I was ready to fight, I am always ready when I had a bit to drink 🤣 Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:25 PM
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I didn't need to watch that video to know I have no interest in ever visiting India
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:23 PM
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I don't expect any secrets I share with a woman to stay secret in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:53 PM
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None of this has anything to do with the obesity epidemic or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:49 PM
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He's just busting balls though!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:10 AM
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Sucks to suck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:08 AM
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Yeah, what a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:54 AM
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Can't say you don't deserve to view yourself negatively since you do nothing but spread negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:39 AM
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The last part is probably for the best. I'd rather die lonely than be the guy she's "giving a chance." And it genuinely fucking kills me that that's probably all I've ever been or ever will be in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:34 AM
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ITT: Women claim their standards aren't too high and then shit on basically every man they've ever dated or even just encountered in one way or another. It's honestly depressing. If you're not Chad, women genuinely seem to look down on you no matter what. Even if they claim they like you, they still look down on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:05 AM
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Listen to her, she knows everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:40 AM
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I'm glad your happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:22 AM
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Homie is being such a simp for his girl. No offense brother, but you shouldn't be talking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:18 AM
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I appreciate you asking, but we don't know each other that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:11 AM
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Why don't you stick to what you know, and leave your opinions... wherever the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:09 AM
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There's a version of this song I like better that I can't find right now. It's one that doesn't sound like it was recorded in someone's garage. edit: Pretty sure it's the Grey Daze version, and it still kinda sounds like it was recorded in someone's garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:58 AM
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I wish I had someone who liked/loved me enough to pretend to care about my first world problems right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:49 AM
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I lift and don't have body dysmorphia. If anything I feel like I'm bigger than I actually am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:02 AM
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I like cars, but not because I care what anyone else thinks about them. It's just fun to drive a fast car.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:00 AM
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I wouldn't give myself no chance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:41 PM
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I've been asked about my dick size on dating apps several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:27 PM
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You've used reddit for dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:21 PM
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I'm okay with some crimes having permanent consequences. Victims of sex crimes have to live with the memory of it for life, so I don't see anything wrong with the offender having to live with the consequences for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:41 PM
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That said, I'm opposed to the sex offender registry in general. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:54 PM
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I've never even come close to caring about what other people think about me having or not having kids. I'd only ever have kids because I think it'd be fulfilling and because I think I could raise them to have a life worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:43 AM
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Your roommate is the exact position I don't want to be in. I'm too embarrassed to be gross like that in front of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:39 AM
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Can't relate. Nothing I did in high school or college academically ended up really mattering. I was a terrible student in HS and an exceptional one in college. No one who matters has ever cared about either. High school was also pretty fun for me socially. I'm the total opposite when it comes to medical stuff. I have major white coat anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:19 AM
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I'm glad you're having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:41 AM
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School stress seems kinda laughable once you get into the real world, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:39 AM
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So you think I'm young then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:07 AM
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like 18-20 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:02 AM
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Lol, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:49 AM
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Got her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:45 AM
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What's your friend's username?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:44 AM
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Riiiight. Your account is two days old and you just happened to end up on PPD despite being totally naive to the subject otherwise. Suuuuuuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:37 AM
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Hey, I won't call you specifically a liar, but I don't think you represent most women. I've almost never had a woman ask about my finger or oral skills. I've been asked a bunch about my height and dick size, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:33 AM
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I reject both diagnoses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:10 AM
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FUCK being unable to enjoy anything else because you're stressed out about one thing. What mental illness is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:55 AM
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I was always under the impression a man shouldn't feel insecure about a woman's sex toys. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:42 AM
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I got a text today that he supports legalized weed in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:22 AM
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Why do you care about women who are signaling they aren't into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:07 AM
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Because when it comes to just sex, women vet for looks over anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:45 AM
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Idk, her fanbase is pretty cultish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:09 AM
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Ex gf's dorm had a flood and the school put everyone affected up in a hotel. I though that's how it always worked since you're paying them for housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:24 PM
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The school didn't put everyone in the dorms up in a hotel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:15 PM
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Unforced error
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:18 PM
1

Who was saying they couldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:50 PM
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The latter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:27 PM
1

That didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:36 AM
1

Why do you care about their opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:30 AM
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Christ, you're still on about the beef jerky? I was just teasing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:18 AM
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I just believe you either like someone or you don't. When you do, you don't really need to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:09 AM
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I mean, even if you were to change your mind at this point I don't think that'd be a win for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:54 AM
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Poor guy's still holding out hope you'll change your mind, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:26 AM
2

It's okay to admit when you're wrong man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:25 AM
5

Why are women so forgiving towards other women when it comes to looks and so harsh on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:20 AM
2

Yes, it is. Part of being good at sex is being intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:16 AM
2

Would you rather her start sucking your dick when you wanted unprompted, or would you rather tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:06 AM
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Seems unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:02 AM
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Fwiw, I can see why they don't like saying anything. Men get offended when their skills in bed are called into question. I'm willing to take direction, but it's absolutely a bit of a blow to my ego when I hear it. I can definitely see some men not taking it so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:00 AM
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Women have a harder time reaching orgasm, but it's not the reason they're more selective about the men they hook up with. Orgasmless sex with a hot guy is superior to orgasms from an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:55 AM
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If you were actually a clever troll, you'd have a better comeback than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:40 AM
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On a large enough scale, having kids absolutely isn't meaningful. Humanity as a whole is less than insignificant on a universal scale, let alone your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:33 AM
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I don't think most people are trying to maximize their number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:25 AM
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You don't actually believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:20 AM
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Entirely depends on his standards. If they're low enough and he's really trying, a new one every couple months is probably realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:57 AM
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The most troubling thing is how many people knew and didn't say shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:27 AM
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I saw a 6'10''+ guy in real life a couple months ago. Easily the tallest person I've ever seen. It's gotta be weird to stick out like that basically everywhere you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:19 AM
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Ah, so you consider yourself demisexual then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:13 AM
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Is he your first/only? If not, did you feel that way about your exes at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:01 AM
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You honestly believe your partner is the most attractive person in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:20 AM
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Then that's most couples because I doubt most people are with the person of their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:10 AM
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If you don't wanna jump your partner's bones every time you see them... wyd lol. If only women were willing to talk plainly about this instead of mostly just denying women get into relationships with men they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:34 PM
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Yeah that's tough if that's basically all you're doing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:06 PM
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If it's once a day or less I feel like you're just ungrateful. 2x a day or more and even I'll agree that can be hard to sustain for a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:56 PM
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Women do the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:45 PM
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I feel like they start subtle and get more aggressive if they really want a guy. That's pretty much the only reason I have any dating history at all. If it's happened to me several times as a mid dude, I can only imagine what women are usually like with someone who's actually good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:27 PM
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Put a towel down
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:55 PM
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What kind of job do you have that you suddenly need to read the NFL rulebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:48 PM
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I think women have been better friends to me average than men have. I feel like I've been able to count on and trust women I was not all that close friends with more than I was men I wasn't all that close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:40 PM
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Women do go after what they want sexually and romantically in their own way, if not aggressively. The guys who women make put in a disproportionate amount of effort aren't what women really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:27 PM
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If you look at her post history, she has at least one kid, so it's just another case of a woman who doesn't know what being truly unwanted is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:03 PM
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I usually go to bed fantasizing about a woman being in love with me, hoping that'll transition into a good dream. Last night I had a dream about the head of my penis falling off, so obviously things are going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:41 AM
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Big clit energy obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:09 AM
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Fwiw, even women who don't have a strong feelings for a man seem to like doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:26 AM
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And eating all the beef jerky
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:06 AM
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What is the best sub/place to post your picture and get an honest rating. No, I'm not gonna post here, and truerateme is too autistic for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:25 AM
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Time for FunEducation1435
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:59 AM
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Lmao, I'm saying. Also why would men who don't want to pay in particular be offended by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:21 AM
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Are you a gay man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:12 AM
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I never understood dudes who cared who their mom was banging. That doesn't impact me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:08 AM
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I like mowing my lawn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:04 AM
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Of course, but I think I'd still be disappointed if I encountered who didn't enjoy receiving. Why do you enjoy giving oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:56 AM
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AMALT/AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:18 AM
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It feels good to receive and I like being able to give pleasure in a variety of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:05 AM
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Would you be disappointed if a guy you otherwise really liked wasn't into receiving oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:04 AM
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I'd be more likely to be attracted to her if she wasn't fat and did less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:09 AM
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Why does this feel like a trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:02 AM
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If it's not inferior, why do women prefer men who elicit spontaneous desire from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:12 PM
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If it even exists, which you're not really sure it does, it's safe to say it's inferior the way women are attracted to attractive men. Would you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:44 PM
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I don't think that applies to most people. Most people just want to love and be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:33 PM
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That's a really transactional, and frankly, dystopian way of looking at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:01 PM
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Well that's depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:19 PM
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What the hell does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:17 PM
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No, it just means women dated me despite finding me physically unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:46 AM
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I've had several relationships. Just being able to get any old relationship doesn't actually mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:35 AM
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Do you think average people find other average people attractive? The rest of you post seems to imply only (conventionally) attractive people are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:32 AM
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I didn't ask for your help, nor did you offer any. Saying "just pretend it's not real bro" isn't helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:23 AM
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Yeah man, all women on the internet are trolls. Got it. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:17 AM
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Whatever man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:10 AM
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Oh yeah, why are you black pilled then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:07 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep better at night man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:37 AM
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Women definitely try to claim they find conventionally unattractive men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:35 AM
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What life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:03 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:58 AM
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Imagine being so lazy that you'd even question whether this is worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:47 AM
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More like they passed the conventionally attractive check. Why are you evading?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:44 AM
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he must be cute You know god damn well this is the only part I cared about, lol. Otherwise your standards would be extremely low, and you wouldn't be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:36 AM
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Your mistake is assuming women operate the same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:34 AM
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Hmm, what are your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:23 AM
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So I've got nothing at all going for me then, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:15 AM
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Honestly I've forgotten what point you're trying to make at this point, assuming you're trying to make one at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:12 AM
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Idk, an awful lot of women seem to have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:04 AM
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Ah, another category where I'm unremarkable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:01 AM
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Yep, you're definitely fucking with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:58 AM
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Nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:53 AM
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Don't women generally believe men would prefer not to commit given the option?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:53 AM
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You honestly can't see how only liking some conventionally attractive men doesn't make your tastes unconventional? Idk what to tell you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:50 AM
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Stay ugly and don't try to trick them into sex with a man with bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:48 AM
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idk, i don't see many men admitting the shit y'all say gets to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:38 AM
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Idk, it might've just been me posting the same shit across several accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:34 AM
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What does it matter? Women have made it known I should feel insecure about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:31 AM
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When they talk about what they're attracted to/what they find unattractive. In all honesty, it's not just here, it's everywhere on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:16 AM
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Women on here have truly shattered any hope or self-esteem I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:09 AM
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Are you trolling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:08 AM
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Again, just because you're only attracted to some conventionally attractive men doesn't mean you taste in men is unconventional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:03 AM
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Fair enough. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:58 AM
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So you'd agree women's taste in men isn't varied all that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:57 AM
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We could've saved each other some time if you just said that in the first place. Thanks for admitting it, though. Why do you think women date men they're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:41 AM
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So your tastes aren't actually at all unconventional. Glad we could clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:39 AM
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You don't know, or the answer you'd give makes you feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:31 AM
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Wow, one guy you named is short by an inch according to American standards. You've totally got me there. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:30 AM
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Of course you do, because it's convenient for your argument, and because you have a low body count. Not volunteering every single detail about your life is not lying. And even when asked, women created the standard that lying about sexual history is fair game. Her sexual history is none of anyone else's business, but a guy needs to confess his (or lack thereof) or else he's acting deplorable? Gimme a fuckin break.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:29 AM
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If one woman will fuck them, others will as well. If not, why would they fuck up their only chance at ever getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:21 AM
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They won't answer, and you seem comfortable speaking for all women, so I'm asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:20 AM
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Dude, they're Hollywood actors. Tons of women rave about Cillian Murphy. None of them are short, fat, bald, or possess any other universally unattractive traits. Most of them are tall. Call them "Jewish looking" all you want, they're still all easily in the top 20% as far what women look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:19 AM
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Then why do so many claim they're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 AM
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Women have no compunction about lying about their sexual history, and they certainly aren't volunteering it. Why should virgin men be held to a higher standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:13 AM
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Why should virgin men care about how well they perform the first time? There's very little upside to volunteering the information that they're a virgin, and tons of downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:11 AM
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It’s so odd to me when men say “she says she wants a nice guy but I’m nice!” She wants a guy who she’s attracted to who treats her well. Except for the endless supply of women who try to claim a guy's personality is what made them find the guy physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:07 AM
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This is hilarious. Women think their taste is unconventional because they like a subset of already conventionally attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:04 AM
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Women want a good looking man who is nice, with a great personality, tall and charming. This is like a 1% man so we have to make do with what’s available. Finally a woman who admits it most men are being settled for and that women don't have wildly varied tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:00 AM
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Why do you think the average poster here has an above average level of intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:27 AM
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weird swagger like I am supposed to be impressed you are from New York. Very real. Even the the people that move there start acting like that within six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:03 AM
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men from New York Lol why, you from Boston or something? I'm not from NY, so I'm not personally offended, I'm just curious how all men from a whole state/large city got themselves disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:21 AM
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I think women consider these men they didn't want anyways giving up to be a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:03 PM
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I don't agree that men enter relationships with women they're not attracted to. Settling for men and settling for women is fundamentally different. Men generally find wide swaths of the female population attractive, while women often talk about how they only find a small percentage of the male population attractive. I also basically never see men virtue signaling about not being shallow. Certainly nowhere near the level at which women do. So there's really not much hypocrisy, you just didn't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:56 PM
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Actually one of my worst fears is that a woman pretends to like me but is really settling for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:49 PM
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Whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:35 PM
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Do you have a TBI or something? I didn't the start the thread dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:52 AM
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Women are mostly here to try to prove the men here wrong. They have no problem lying to do it. It's a debate sub. The objective isn't to be honest, it's to try to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:46 AM
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😂 You know you're losing an argument when you start making shit up about the other person to try to insult them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:44 AM
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People lie? On the internet? No fuckin way dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:36 AM
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OLD absolutely does not show you the same profiles over and over again. I'll acknowledge the apps show users the top ranked profiles at first, but that doesn't last. Even women who've swiped through thousands of profiles usually have an extremely low right swipe rate. The average woman on Tinder swipes right on just 7% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:35 AM
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We're arguing about whether women always enter relationships with men they're physically attracted to. Try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:30 AM
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Most polls are based on a hundreds of people in a world of billions. You don't think 27% of a population is enough to get an idea of what women prefer on average? Do you think the only accurate polls are the non-existent ones that sample every single person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:26 AM
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27% of women have been at one point or another. Is that not a large enough sample size for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:58 AM
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Women don't seem all that interested in finding those other guys they supposedly find good looking. Instead they all just chase the same guys to the point they need facebook groups for every city to see just how many other women are talking to the same guy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:30 AM
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I don’t know why people are teasing Yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:14 AM
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Women don't feel like they're using these men. I'm sure you've heard/seen women say they realized looks "aren't that important" as they got older and "matured." Women don't feel like they're using these men men they don't find physically attractive when they give them a chance, they feel noble for pretending not to be shallow. They feel these men they're not physically attracted should be grateful they're being given a chance at all. I also find it interesting you just happened to dated conventi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:02 AM
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There sure seems to be one. I see women defending other random women way more than I see men defending other men. Women definitely don't believe my negative stories about women. Hell, in just the last six hours or so I've been accused of being a basement dweller who has no actual experience with women at least twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:41 AM
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They really don't
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:19 AM
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Not expressing disbelief or skepticism whenever a man tells a story that paints a woman in a negative light would be a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:15 AM
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The majority of people? Maybe not. The majority of single people (skews young) absolutely are. You're living in a fantasy world bc it's convenient for your 'poor me' narrative Nope. Dating is low priority for me right now and will be for the foreseeable future. The last thing I'm looking for is for anyone to feel bad for me. I've shared no personal tales of woe here. I'm just here to call a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:50 AM
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27% of American women have at least tried OLD. When you take out partnered/older women, that's a hell of a lot. It's certainly a large enough sample size to draw conclusions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:43 AM
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I have dated guys I didn’t find very physically attractive For the ladies in the back who insist this doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:17 AM
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Most relationships start online these days. I know this is a tough concept for the old folks among to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:14 AM
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Sometimes I think this being a debate sub makes all discussions here useless. People will say whatever bullshit they have to just to try to win an argument. Even most women say their looks standards are higher for casual sex than they are relationships. In fact, when they say it, they usually act like you're a moron for needing to be told that in plain english. I was going to ask you why women are willing to lower their looks standards (men I'm calling unremarkable) for a relationship, but I see…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:47 AM
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Do you agree women's physical standards are generally higher for men they're just looking to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:36 AM
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If most women are happy single, why are so many partnered with unremarkable men? Guys they wouldn't have given a second look to before they were looking to settle down? Friends do no check the same boxes a relationship does. Only someone being disingenuous would try to argue otherwise. One typically does not have children with their friends, or share income with their friends, or go home on a daily basis to a friend, or bring a friend to a family gathering. Most people agree spending most nights…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:15 AM
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Idk why women on this sub insist all women are happy single. Like women don't get lonely, or that women don't feel social pressure to find a relationship. If relationships aren't that valuable, why do women generally value them more than casual sex? Why wouldn't most women just stay single and have a hot guy as a FWB to fill their sexual needs if they're so happy being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:52 AM
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Most men aren't looking to make new friends after a certain age. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's an uphill battle for sure. Women are much more open to making new friends at all ages (the reason you find women to be more friendly), but women also have a looser definition of what they consider a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:41 AM
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I think most partnered women are trading physical attraction for the other benefits that come with a relationship. There simply aren't enough attractive men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:33 AM
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That's not the point. I was just using it as an example of women dating men they're not attracted to for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:33 AM
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I bet it's at least partially because of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:17 AM
7

So most women are attracted to the same guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:58 AM
14

How do you think those profiles became the best ranked in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:53 AM
9

OLD proves that to be false. If women weren't mostly attracted to the same men, likes and matches would be more evenly distributed. Instead a small minority of men are wildly successful and the majority get few likes/matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:48 PM
-8

Similar reasons hot young women date rich old men: Resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:39 PM
0

Getting fat off beef jerky is almost impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:33 PM
1

Thank God
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:17 PM
1

I'm really just a dog at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:13 PM
1

Why, you looking to take her place?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:11 PM
2

I'm not advocating for steroid use, but that's clearly plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:09 PM
1

Why are you repeating yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:01 PM
0

Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:43 PM
1

Not for an engagement ring they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:24 PM
1

Honestly would be a dealbreaker for me. I just couldn't have sex only with condoms for years. It's almost worse than having no sex because it feels like a tease.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:23 PM
3

Men who are seen as "husband material" have to work hard to win and keep a woman's affection. The guys women have raw desire for just have to exist. Actually, in the latter situation, she's actually the one working to win and keep his affection. How are men supposed to not get offended when they find out their partner desired some abuser and/or deadbeat more than the man she chose to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:19 PM
1

When the rubber meets the road, women are willing to trade great sex for an otherwise good relationship. Women think this sacrifice is actually a compliment to husband material guy. Men are offended because they feel like the love of their life doesn't really desire them, which she doesn't. She just desires what he can do for her. Husband material guy has to work hard to get and keep a woman's affection. The guy women have raw desire for just has to exist. She'll actually be the one working hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:02 PM
1

You're exceedingly abnormal and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:26 PM
1

I believe smoking does not affect the physical attractiveness of a male. You got ADD or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:57 PM
2

I smoked until I was 27 and never dated another smoker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:42 PM
1

Who said he was rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:17 PM
1

He'll be lucky to get half of the cost of the ring back reselling it if he's lucky. The depreciation on engagement rings is horrendous. Most girls in the US want you to spend $10k minimum. Either way, my point stands. You want more commitment from him than you're willing to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:08 PM
1

What do you think an engagement ring costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:52 PM
1

Because you're asking him to make a 5 figure financial commitment that you yourself are not making. You want him to demonstrate he's serious about you while maintaining the ability to walk away at any time without losing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:47 PM
1

Not a fan of that. I'd feel like she was expecting me to commit more to her than she is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:43 PM
1

Why not? I think you have to do it or you won't know what your marriage is actually going to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:37 PM
1

I wouldn't do it before we'd been together 2+ years and lived together for at least a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:31 PM
1

Nah, I'm likely damned if I do damned if I don't in this situation. She's either gonna end up leaving me for one of her new, better options, or she'll just gain the weight back (statistically extremely likely).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:35 PM
2

Because usually whatever you had to say on the phone could've been said in text, and I didn't have to stop doing whatever else I was doing for a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:32 PM
1

If most women are thots, most men have to settle for thots or being single for life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:22 AM
3

That's not what I got from this. None of them really express disgust toward the chad who's being a dick. One of them actually seems to like him quite a bit, it just wouldn't be virtuous if she admitted it in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:03 AM
1

I mean at 22 I would be like BITCH BE FR you’re so desperate but ME at 18….i just literally had no idea anyone could or would do that to me to THAT extent. I can say from experience that it's not your fault someone betrayed you. I've spent years dwelling on how I could've and should've seen it coming, and all that's done is made me unable to trust anyone. Have you been able to move past it, or are you stuck on it like I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:50 AM
1

It's not that he thought he wasn't good enough, it's that he knew the relationship wouldn't work long term and she didn't. He still wishes they could be friends, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:16 AM
1

I didn't really have any feelings about you one way or the other until you replied to me. What did this guy do that was so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:05 AM
1

Idk, what you said seemed really mean to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:45 AM
1

It's not that he thought he wasn't good enough for her, he just thought they were better off as friends because a relationship between them would never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:42 AM
2

See you in Vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:33 AM
1

What you and him had meant nothing to you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:24 AM
1

Bath salts? Tranq?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:21 AM
1

Sounds like he dodged a bullet tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:16 AM
1

Why are you painting him like he's this terrible guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:59 AM
1

Lol so that's one vote no
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:43 AM
3

Q4W: You dated a guy a few years ago for a few months that you had am unusually strong connection with, but he broke up with you because he couldn't give you what you wanted. Fast forward to today: He still can't give you want, but he still thinks about you often and misses you terribly. It'd just be picking at scabs for him to reach out, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:40 AM
1

I've always thought it was feminine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:00 AM
5

She's not that into him. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:25 PM
1

Makes you think it's a beta bux situation and his gf doesn't really care about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:21 PM
2

You know you're too addicted to this site when you're watching tiktoks people read posts from this site verbatim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:52 PM
1

That's how it's perceived by a lot of women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:44 PM
5

Just because she wanted to date a fatty, doesn't mean he did. I guess it's "unfair," but since when do we give a shit about what's fair when it comes to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:50 PM
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"You lost him 3 blocks ago" is objectively funny. I want to be friends with that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:12 AM
1

No offense, but you don't seem very bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:48 AM
6

I really don’t see what difference it makes, honestly. Color me shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:31 AM
10

What do you mean? Usually when men complain about being single, they're told it's their fault. When women complain about being single, men are usually blamed as well. You don't think that's toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:47 AM
2

Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:28 AM
1

Awww, he looks like a good boy. I'm glad you could give him a good home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:27 AM
5

Getting cheated on broke me emotionally, but I'm in better shape physically than like 90% of men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:20 AM
1

The best gift for a frugal person is something they wouldn't buy for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:38 AM
1

I use most drug store brands for skincare and I look 5+ years younger than I am. I probably spend $150 per quarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:29 AM
1

I know a good amount of guys who make more in OT than they do in their first 40 hours. They'd love that. Problem is, they're already guys who are voting Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:58 AM
5

If she's letting herself get strung along by chad, she prioritizes looks and doesn't see the less genetically gifted guy who would marry her as a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:30 AM
5

The only reason women put up with being forever girlfriends is because they lack a better option. The only reason men have forever girlfriends is because they lack a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:10 AM
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I think I'll stop at the cigar store on my way home
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:13 PM
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His name was Robert Paulson
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:09 PM
3

My shoulders are too broad for that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:25 PM
1

Fuck no. From Woodrow Wilson onward I can, but I probably can't name 5 presidents between ~1820 and 1912.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:24 PM
2

No, she was just called out for fishing for compliments when she called herself a 2 and she clearly wasn't. She was just average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:26 AM
1

I have one but I'm on the ios 18 beta
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:45 AM
3

How does he know she's talking about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:59 AM
1

I think it's a safe bet most are planned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:29 AM
1

I saw a woman with an unhealthy (>21 BMI) that I thought was attractive today. Is something wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:24 PM
3

Of course that's real. Any sane person would think that has to be fake, but he really did tweet that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:52 AM
1

What if they get a little shy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:59 AM
3

that's weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:55 AM
1

People don't normally have more resources than they know what to do with. Once you reach that point, the only thing to aspire to is more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:31 AM
1

I've only ever been told to download it by women 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:24 AM
2

How the hell did you, of all people, get banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:22 AM
1

You're thinking too small. These people are past profit and loss statements. At this point, the game is about how much power you have relative to your peers and how you're about to exert it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:21 AM
1

Them too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:17 AM
2

The ultra wealthy/elites. Do you think Bezos bought WaPo because he thought it'd be a profitable business? Same goes for Elon and Twitter. Controlling the narrative is imperative to them maintaining their status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:17 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/3y72a9pvt3od1.png?width=2202&format=png&auto=webp&s=8c2a98ef5141b3ded387dd9966509c7146b44c7a There's no amount of voting that will make the culture war go away. The people pushing it aren't elected. It started because the elites found the Occupy Wall Street movement threatening (Occupy happened in 2011).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:07 AM
1

As any man dating a third worlder should
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:46 AM
1

Does he know you're only with him so you can CCWmaxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:09 AM
1

From your lips to God's ears. We would definitely be friends in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:06 AM
1

Should I be passport bro'ing to Canada? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:02 AM
2

Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:00 AM
1

That's by design, we can't give the peasants the power to rise up on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:54 AM
1

Are you a man or a woman? I can never tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:48 AM
2

She won't be able to meaningfully affect my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:47 AM
1

Eh, y'all seem to basically argue about the same shit we do except Canada is further to the left on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:46 AM
2

American elections are the illusion of choice. Neither of these two clowns on TV right now are gonna make any meaningful changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:36 AM
2

If it wasn't for those meddling kids, you'd probably be watching the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:30 AM
1

Even Canadians know they're our vassal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:28 AM
2

It's a disaster for Trump, but I think it's too early for it to really matter. The election will be a toss up again by election day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:23 AM
2

I don't think she's doing all that well, Trump's just doing really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:00 AM
2

It ain't tall
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Nope. I've been to a hypnotist and it didn't work on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:24 AM
2

#StopAsianHate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:39 PM
1

More than likely you'll always be chasing how you look with a pump. The day you started lifting is the day you became forever small.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:28 PM
8

Every post she makes is a troll post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:36 PM
3

Sounds like you're not showermaxxing bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:40 PM
2

Learn how to make small talk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:13 PM
1

I think some people just aren't wired for monogamy. Just like an open relationship would be deeply unsatisfying for me, there are many who seem to feel the same way about monogamy, and I think that's always been true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:12 PM
1

Meh, it's not like they're getting a degree that's worth anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:31 PM
2

Monogamy doesn't mean you cease to have eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:30 PM
1

Yellow flag. I didn't have a perfect childhood myself and hate being judged for it, so I won't judge her until I have more information.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:15 PM
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