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Sure, you can still increase that sexual tension while making out, as long as you are escalating towards sex
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 09:15 PM
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Sometimes if you make out with a girl at the venue you meet her, it defuses all of that sexual tension and leaves her with no reason to want to fuck. You've already given her max validation by making out with her and defused any mystery of will-you-won't-you/do you like her/what are you gonna be like when you're intimate... it's all out there and known, so the curiosity for her is over, and she can go home and sleep instead.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 03:31 PM
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We are actually currently in the middle of an ice age (quaternary glaciation) which has lasted for tens of thousands of years; an ice age is basically defined by there being constant ice sheets in both the north and south hemispheres (the north and south poles are covered in ice year-round)
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 08:41 PM
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What's your name?
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:13 PM
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Start taking baby steps. Know your own limits and don't let yourself get ahead of your skis.
/r/seduction28/03/19 08:43 PM
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lol
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:49 PM
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Maybe you're just not being interesting enough.
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:45 PM
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If you haven't established enough rapport after what OP described as an "instadate" then you're doing it all wrong. If you're still trying to establish rapport over text after the first date, then I assure you you're paddling the wrong way. Just set up a second date already.
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:57 AM
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Stop worrying about how long to reply, and start worrying about what you're actually communicating. Quit being a pussy bitch and set up the logistics for your next date already. Have you learned nothing here?
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:05 PM
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Oof sounds awkward... that's okay, good beginnings. You have to consider that a girl in that kind of situation is feeling just as awkward, if not more so, than you are. Consider if you were in her position what the other person might say to make you feel more comfortable. Just keep making small talk, assure her subtly that you're not crazy and are just being social/friendly, make her feel flattered, and so on...
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:04 PM
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Ok, I'm gonna give you a good pickup line - you may think it's a little weird at first, maybe even too crazy for her to handle, but TRUST ME IT WORKS. Ready? Okay, here it is: "Hey, what's your name?"
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:00 PM
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You wanna fuck with her head a little bit? Just tell her you had a think about what she said, and you're totally okay with it - in fact you agree with it - in fact you think it's a positive thing and you're excited to tell your friends about it. Offer to bring back any items she left are your place at her earliest possible convenience.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:58 PM
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Lol I read the title expecting it to be about a girl who texted you that, asking her to calm her down, or something like that. That's something a girl would say. I didn't even realize til like 3/4 way through reading that you were asking reddit to calm yourself down. Silly boy.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:54 PM
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Hmm good point, that is another way to read it.... guess it depends on the context of how OP's relationship with her is.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:12 AM
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I never do more than twice. If she's busy the first time, fine, maybe she's busy. Second time I'll make more of a direct command to go somewhere specific on my own terms, but with a more flexible time/date. If she still objects, then she's just not into you.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:03 AM
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She texted you an emotional complaint about her boyfriend and how she's feeling (feeling like drinking) Sounds like you're her friend, mate.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:56 AM
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Yes obviously you fucked up. She gave you every opportunity to take her home, make out with her, or at least to get her damn number. A big part of game is learning to recognize opportunities and signals like this.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:55 AM
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Not a pickup line genius, a general approach to picking up women.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:53 AM
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Search reddit for "monk mode" tl;dr: take a period of time where you don't focus on women, and instead focus on yourself. Improve yourself relentlessly until you reach a point at which you are truly desirable to women and to yourself.
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:50 AM
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You only are if you think you are. Who else is gonna think so? Some anon on reddit who's never met you?
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:49 AM
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Ok dude honestly, you're at a disadvantage. I'm sure you know this. Because women, biologically, are looking for a fit mate to reproduce with, and when they see you in a wheelchair their first instinct is gonna be "uh oh this guy is disabled, he will give me disabled children" So the best thing you can do is to impress upon her that 1) it isn't something that will be passed genetically and 2) it doesn't prevent you from leading a fun life and 3) won't impact her ability to have fun and social st…
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:46 AM
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Ok then. Ten out of ten post, great quality content. Much upvoted.
/r/seduction12/03/19 09:24 PM
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I think perhaps you would have an easier time dating chinese immigrant women rather than chinese-american women. They would be impressed by your knowledge of her shared culture plus your exotic american nature.
/r/seduction12/03/19 09:23 PM
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I don't doubt that that happened to you, and it sounds like it seriously sucks. I can't comment though without knowing more of the context/story.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:48 AM
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You people are scared shitless. If an approach doesn't go well, you simply get a "lol no thanks" not a harassment accusation. Attractive women are ACTUALLY harassed so many times during the day that they have to ignore them out of sheer volume. If they complained about every man who hollered at them on the street, they'd never have time to do anything else. But when a decently dressed man politely tries to start a conversation with them with a compliment, it's likely the nicest stranger-interact…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:56 AM
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You should ask your friends for advice, not an anonymous message board dedicated to helping men learn how to get laid. Your fellow female peers are a thousand times more socially advanced than even the smoothest male Lothario. You, um... you do have friends, don't you?
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:05 PM
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Take a step back and examine your game, try to understand what are your weak points. Read up more on the date phase of game and just hammer out what's gonna work for you. We learn game mostly through trial and error, but if you're hitting up against the same wall over and over you have to take the time to take a step back and reassess.
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:03 PM
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No, you are wrong. Please read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:52 AM
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Keep her guessing if you like her for long enough and you'll find yourself squarely in the friend zone. Be an alpha masculine man with frame and she will be guessing with herself whether she likes YOU.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:55 PM
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Yes, a shit test is simply a test of your frame. By being honest and open and accepting about your own intentions, you are showing her a rock solid frame.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:46 PM
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There are some mothers who see their sons convicted of heinous crimes - murder, terrorism, fraud, whatever - and still love their son and stand by him, either justifying his actions or holding out that he is innocent. Then there are other mothers who will forget their children exist for another dick, or another hit of that H, or a better career, you name it.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:09 PM
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It's both a shit test and an earnest question. No point in hiding your intentions. Just go with "because I think you're cute and I want to get to know you better"
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:03 PM
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There's social proof and then there's preselection. You can pass off the fatties as social proof
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:01 PM
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This. I read a genius comment on /trp once who said he intentionally leaves a petite size pair of panties in a conspicuous place in his apartment every time he has a new girl over.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:00 PM
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Try this useful and informative article I found about getting more dreads: https://www.wikihow.com/Give-Yourself-Dreadlocks
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:59 PM
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Not really a question... You already know what you need to do, so do it.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:21 PM
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Poor guy. She's confused at herself, why she is so unattracted to a man who is "such a nice guy" and on paper seems like a perfect catch. She's wondering, "so why do I get dry every time I think about having sex with him? Is it my past emotional traumas? It must be, I guess there's just something wrong with me." as she drives herself over to Chad's house for a second night stand.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:13 PM
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I feel ya dude. It's tough to go through every time, but try to treat this entire experience as an important lesson, and it will shape your life as a man in a positive way.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:31 PM
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So she was up at 4 am. There's one of two possibilities: 1. She was up crying about me. 2. She was getting fucked by a guy or several that she already had lined up. Or she got up to take a piss and checked her phone. Believe me, buddy, she isn't thinking of you right now as much as you're thinking of her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:41 PM
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I disagree on the point that a direct approach forces her to make a decision based on your looks. A direct approach, to the girl, is all about her. Someone has popped into HER life and complimented HER looks or otherwise expressed desire in HER. Her reaction is entirely based on how this makes her feel. Naturally she will feel good about this if you are at least attractive, and bad about it if you are very ugly, but she is not taking the moment to judge you or even consider you as a prospect. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 03:39 AM
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Thing is, it literally doesn't matter one bit what you say in an approach, as long as you say it with the right attitude. You could say "hey do I smell like tuna?" "huh?" "never mind, I just wanted to talk to you. my name's jim."
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:14 PM
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"I'm going out with friends" can mean one of four things when it comes from a woman: It could mean she's going out with her friends for fun and chatting. It could mean she's going out with her friends to meet guys. It could mean she's going out on a date with a guy. It could mean she doesn't like you and is trying to avoid you.
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:07 PM
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All IOI's are subtle. The light brush of the elbow as she walks by, the subtle preening of her own hair that briefly flashes you a bit more of the skin on her neck, the turning of her feet towards you.... If you get any IOI that isn't subtle, you might have a prostitute on your hands. e.g. "hey handsome, wanna have some fun?"
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:05 PM
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Lol, dude... girls make eye contact with any dude they deem moderately attractive throughout the day. It doesn't mean they have a crush on all of them. She certainly didn't even remember doing it with you. And even if she did, by calling it out you've only embarrassed her. Subtlety, man. You've got lots, lots more to learn, but props for at least approaching.
/r/seduction08/02/19 10:00 PM
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Too late, dummy. Women are fickle as fuck. If you blow it with one, you better forget about her and find another one (there are lots more to choose from, trust me). Also, you should have learned another important lesson here which you neglected to include in your post: don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:58 PM
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You feel like girls at the clubs/bars are too fake, too obnoxious. Going out at night to drink in loud venues isn't really your thing, anyway. You wish you could just talk to that cute, quiet-looking girl sipping her coffee in the window of that cafe this morning. But she seemed busy... she's reading something on her phone and it looked like it's important. She would be mad if you interrupted her....... Right?
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:52 PM
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A girl who is that open with her sexuality generally won't lie about her N count - she either won't volunteer it, or will tell you she can't remember/can't count that high. For this type of chick who is open and unashamed about her sexual nature, just wear a condom.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 04:28 PM
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Simple TRP rule of thumb is: always take her N count and multiply by 3. If she says she's a virgin just add 3.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 04:26 PM
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Breakup sex. Never worth it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 10:43 PM
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Then reinforce good behavior while punishing bad. Show her that you appreciate her fit surfer bod, but withdraw affection if she loses interest in maintaining it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 11:06 PM
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Literally, she is banging the surfing instructor. Women do not just suddenly take an interest in a new physical hobby without you. It has absolutely nothing to do with your moderate influx of money, she's doing what any woman does - pursuing her own fleeting desires. This is hypergamy. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 08:42 PM
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The word is contentment. Come on guys.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 08:48 PM
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Bitches get super self-conscious about this shit. Do whatever you can to reassure her that you aren't bothered by it and neither should she be; overcome her self-conscious worries by distracting her with raw sexual passion.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:16 PM
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Some chicks are just rude.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 05:13 PM
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It's because in the online sexual market place, women are in higher demand. So a woman can log on and instantly get 5 dates. The dating sites cater to this by making it easy for women to receive validation in a safe and easy way, while stringing along men making them think it's easier to get a date than it really is. Dating sites like tinder push really hard to get men to pay a premium for "extra" features, when in reality the sites are basically useless without them.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:16 PM
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Online dating is not designed to get men lots of dates, it's designed to get women lots of dates and to get men to pay lots of money for the promise of a few good dates.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:29 PM
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It's called shit tests bro, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:27 PM
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If someone says that to your girl, you take a step back and quietly watch her response. If she responds positively to him, you next her on the spot. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 09:11 PM
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This is literally the definition of pseudoscience. Mixing real scientific principles with made up bullshit that people want to hear and presenting it as science.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 06:47 AM
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No, if someone is your type doesn't mean you are her type. However, if you are extra-attracted to a girl, the girl can sense that and will respond more positively than normal. Also, "races" absolutely do exist, dunno what feel-good media you've been smoking.
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:14 PM
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She thinks since you didn't provide any other conversation in the first text, you were only texting her so she has your number and not (as you were) just saying hello to begin a new conversation. This is 100% perfectly fine, and you can play it one of two ways: ignore her for another day or two as if that's all you were doing, then start a text convo/ask her out later on - or just bounce off her text into a conversation now if you want to.
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:13 PM
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(2. You just don't have game good enough to pull them away from their superior SO's. Most absolutely are willing to jump ship for an alpha with really good game, I have seen this first and second hand multiple times. (7. They're just reflecting YOUR own insecurities approaching in a high pressure situation. If you are nervous, she will seem nervous. If you are cool and confident despite the crush of strangers watching, she will seem perfectly receptive. (10. Why are you attracted to masculine wo…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/18 11:34 PM
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Body language & verbal escalation to start
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:04 PM
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The former, I have never heard anything along the lines of the latter. Women will feign attraction to a betabux to get what they want, which is easier for them when they are fulfilling their AF needs at the same time with someone else.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:01 PM
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This is neither a question nor is it interesting.... You get an F, please see me after class.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:59 PM
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Okay... and? There are lots of really high quality men in the world, and even more really low quality ones. What are you gonna do when one of the high quality ones swoops in and takes the girl you're with? (answer: go get a different girl who hasn't been scooped up by a higher quality man recently)
/r/seduction17/10/18 08:59 PM
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Motivation is temporary and fleeting. Self improvement, self discipline, and knowledge last a lifetime.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:15 PM
1

She might be interested in more of a gang-bang scenario than a one-on-one boyfriend-interview style date.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:14 PM
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Now you know how she feels.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:12 PM
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What is confusing you here.... a girl put HERSELF on the line by giving you her number and asking you to come hang out with her. You'd be spitting in her face by declining that offer. Just fuckin' tell her you've got some time to study tonight and she should grab her books and come over to your dorm. P.S. have condoms ready
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:56 PM
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If you think a lot of guys are better than you, then you ought to improve yourself. Be the better guy who can take a girl away from the beta boys. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:54 PM
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Step 1: Be attractive. If you can master these one easy step, you'll be well on your way to mastering seduction.
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:53 PM
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Totally.... but y'know, the only thing that makes this form of seduction possible is our realization that the fairy-tale of a perfect fulfilling monogamous relationship is not feasible. Girls are susceptible to the first handsome guy who walks up to her on the street or at a coffee shop or while she's with her friends... And so many of them are willing to cheat on their boyfriends too. So I think most of us here are here because we'd rather be the guy those girls jump into bed with, rather than …
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:52 PM
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Cool, you met an anonymous stranger on an internet forum and (assuming she is really a female) you would like to pursue dating her. That's exactly what this forum is for, lucky you! Obviously your best strategy here is to send her a big bunch of flowers - women love flowers - and make sure you tell her you love her every day.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 06:00 PM
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Sometimes it's hard to see the trees for the forest. If you have been playing the role of a beta male husband for the last 8 years, it's safe to assume that close to 100% of what your wife says to you these days is some form of shit test. Start implementing the redpill lifestyle I'm sure you've read about in the sidebar and elsewhere, and rather than noticing shit tests, you will start to notice moments of respect.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 05:58 PM
1

Stop using weed as a scapegoat for all your problems. You are socially anxious AND you smoke weed, you are not socially anxious BECAUSE of it.
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:49 PM
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Thrill of the conquest, pleasures of an emotional connection
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:47 PM
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Totally. It allows for deeper introspection if you are willing to face yourself honestly. Has been a tremendous tool in my trp journey
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:31 PM
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Then use it as a tool for examining those anxieties and insecurities, don't shy away from them out of fear.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:06 PM
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Weed won't hurt you, your inner anxieties will.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:37 PM
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Be dominant, be a leader.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:35 PM
1

Two things: draw the conversation on for as long as possible, using as much that you've learned here as possible; and always be closing. Get that fucking number, even if your dying bluepill instincts are screaming that it will be awkward to ask or that she won't want to give it to you.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:34 PM
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By valuing your own time more than giving her a timely reply. If you are counting how many hours you should wait between texts, you're doing it wrong. Fix your mindset - her texts are irrelevant, if she texts you while you're busy, you won't think twice about it even if you see it until you're done doing your thing. Or if you're not busy and you're playing some jagoff game on your phone, you can switch to her text and reply immediately without opining over the exact wording of your text, and the…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:33 PM
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You really should not be asking for specific lifting advice in this subreddit. The extent of TRP's stance on lifting is: do it, do it hard, and do it regularly. If you want to turn it into a hobby and learn all the ins and outs, you best head to one of the many bodybuilding forums/subreddits.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:30 PM
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She is trying to lock down your commitment. The more you give in to the individual little things like this, the closer you inch toward giving your commitment without even realizing it. Guard it for your own sake. You can lie to her if you want, but never lie to yourself. And keep your guard up.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:29 PM
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Listen, she is not looking at your, or waiting for you to look at her - she is waiting for any guy to look at her. When you get an IOI from a girl, it's not because she's attracted to you necessarily, it's because she's in a receptive/horny mood and you aren't below her threshold of unattractiveness.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:27 PM
0

Have you looked at the state of reddit these days?
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:52 PM
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I know it's a project that has been under development for years, for, I thought, a noble purpose. Now you're telling me it was for profit? This doesn't sit well. TRP has, in my mind, always been a great open community for all to participate. I thought TRP.red was a sort of basement-project fallback in case the inevitable happened to the subreddit. I totally respect you and the others for putting in your time, effort, skills, and knowledge into building such a website. But that's all I'll ever pa…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 09:02 PM
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Money for TRP wisdom? Donator-only sections? How long til a full pay-wall?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 06:51 PM
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You people are f***ing pathetic, I'm sorry but what the f*** has this subreddit even become?
/r/seduction01/10/18 03:42 PM
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Jesus.... Freedom of speech is dying.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 09:28 PM
1

Sorry, what did they do to Ruby and Python exactly? I'm out of the loop.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 08:52 PM
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That "ideological bullshit" is the only thing that has kept ANY software free and open-source over the decades. Without torvalds's drive to push for humanity's NEED for open-source software, "freemium" wouldn't even be a word because every free software product would in essence be freemium - that is, not really free. If it wasn't for Torvalds's maddening push for these types of ideals against all logical and capital resistance, they would have succumbed to the corporate model ages ago.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 08:50 PM
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That's no way to live...
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:40 PM
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Your looks really only count twice in an interaction - the first initial split second where she sees you and her first impression is formed, and later on where she asks herself seriously "is this guy someone I want to fuck/date/see?" The first you can get over easily by being charming, interesting, witty, or generally having good game. The second is simply a balance of all that in her mind compared to any of your negative traits including looks. Also keep in mind that most women have absolutely …
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:34 PM
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While these posts have a nice message that many of us probably find agreeable, I would argue that they are not TRP-relevant nor do they contribute much at all to this community.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 06:33 PM
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The guys dating or banging these women are the types of guys you see as alphas. You think some nerdy comp Sci kid is going to have any chance with some bar club girl? But these are the types of girls who have a "boyfriend" who she met in class waiting for them back home, whom they told they were going out on a girls' night to a wholesome dinner at Dennys. The bf they can show to their parents and on facebook, while exploring their sexual madness in private.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:04 PM
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genderfluid 8 year-olds Can you imagine what life must be like for these kids even by the time they hit their late teens? Desperately confused, depressed, wondering why everything in their life doesn't feel like it fits right.... I dunno man, something has gone fundamentally wrong and it's not going to end well.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:01 PM
0

Why are you posting a video of a violent crime? Three men violently sexually assaulting and robbing those two innocent girls? That is fucking sick. This is a subreddit for seducing and meeting women, not for assaulting them you sicko.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:21 PM
0

If she has nice tits, it's always worth making a move.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:20 PM
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If you're a few months in and you're not already comfortable texting her whatever the fuck you want, then I guarantee you already fucked up a few months back.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:17 PM
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That's a shame for you, because you won't learn anything from it.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:54 PM
2

Small talk by text is only going to kill any momentum you had built in person. Don't text unless it's going to A) give her tingles B) make her think about you or C) get you closer to a date logistically. If you can't fulfill any of these, then simply don't text. If she's not responding positively to being asked out for a date, then consider her not interested and move on. Don't try to be overly-cautious just because you "like her", you will just come off as needy and/or beta. You can go radio-si…
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:00 AM
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Rule #1 of text game is to only text for logistics, although a little bit of banter to maintain rapport is ok. If you are busy now, it's perfectly ok to keep her waiting and wondering if you're going to ask her out again. Otherwise just figure out the logistics and tell her you want to see her. If you've been texting a while already, it'll be a bit tricky for you to ask her out without coming off as needy this time.
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:57 PM
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Your problem may lie earlier in the process than you think. You say you've got approaching nailed down, but maybe the way in which you're approaching is causing girls to flake. For instance, if you are coming on too direct or too cockyfunny, you may get a strong initial positive reaction from the girl because you're feeding her ego and surprising her with humor or cockiness or whatever it is, but when she goes home and turns on her feeble little rational brain she thinks "that was fun but it's p…
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:16 PM
1

Yeah but what are you gonna do about it? You see some guy making a total fool of himself on the street, and for some reason it really pisses you off, you're fuming inside and you hate this man, but what do you do? Nothing, you stay silent, you walk to wherever you're going, then you go home and forget about him and jerk off.
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:08 PM
1

Do you realize how nuts it is that you're talking about "sweetness" on this subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 01:42 AM
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As far as I'm concerned, women don't need to even have a reason to "cheat". They just do it if they feel like. They have every opportunity in the world to meet new men, and in a society with no consequences and no morality, who's to blame them? The best you can do is turn this reality to your advantage (TRP)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:05 PM
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Just don't get married then. There's no need for it, and you would only stand to lose money in the deal, as the above posters are trying to convey.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:03 PM
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until she gets sick of how you treat her This is your bluepill brainwashing struggling to remain relevant in your brain. Drop that shit, it will hold you back with women for the rest of your life until you recognize that the shit you read here is actually true, and not some misogynistic fantasy written by basement-dwelling women-haters. You clued into one thing though - treating a woman poorly and being an asshole is not how you act alpha. Women are creatures of emotion and there is no one butto…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:02 PM
2

Lol cheers mate; I don't think OP appreciated it too much.
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:39 PM
9

Ask her what kind of underwear she's wearing, and then tell her you can smell them over the phone. Girls love stuff like that. Oh and also use lots of ultimatums - tell her if she doesn't have sex with you by the end of the week you're going to "make her pay" but be vague about what making her pay means because as you know girls love mystery. Also how long is too long to spend on the first phone call? You should aim to talk for somewhere between 2 and 6 hours. Girls hate weak beta males who are …
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:12 PM
7

I have a feeling you don't actually know the man in person. But, uh, hey, don't let that stop you from making wild assumptions about his personality.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 07:46 PM
0

I'm surprised this even has to be said on this subreddit, especially after a post as long and misguided as this one, but the most attractive odor to a woman is the natural musk of a man. You know that smell after you've been working hard and are sweaty and your manly pheromones are squeezing out all over your face - NOT the smell of being stuck in a crowded hot train for 2 hours and you've sweated through your shirt that you spilled onion sauce on, but the natural manly scent that we all secrete…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:44 PM
1

This is exactly the type of garbage i've come to expect from this subreddit.
/r/seduction12/07/18 09:13 PM
2

Some girls will be so caught off guard by a phone call that they'll get internally pissed about it. Texting is super easy for them, they stick any new guys they meet in their little messaging app and keep them neatly filed there until they decide when it's time to fuck one of them. If you call her, it can put you in the same category as a telemarketer who is calling her in the middle of dinner just to be a pest. So what I do is, if I feel like the girl is not being sufficiently responsive by tex…
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:05 PM
1

If I see a cute girl can I bring it up casually and get sympathy points or is that just going to be a turn off? It's fine if you mention it in a "this is such a tragic funny story that just happened to me", that'll get you a giggle and some sympathy points. But if you say it in a whiny "why does this shit always befall me" way, you are digging your own cum.
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:59 PM
19

Hmm, that's an interesting question.... I think you are onto something. A man who is redpilled would not allow himself to be divorce raped, and a properly redpilled man's woman would never even want to divorce him - it would be his own choice.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:28 AM
1

Figure out your own personal next step. What is the next thing you need to improve about yourself in order to reach your ultimate goal of sex?
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:04 PM
1

It's your hair.
/r/seduction21/05/18 09:33 PM
2

No, you just look like a tinder tool.
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:29 PM
1

Don't be such a bitch, just go meet her and touch her thigh.
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:46 PM
2

Easy. Spend 3 weeks meeting other girls. If you still even remember this chick by the time she comes back, and isn't just another random number in your phone to you, then hit her up then.
/r/seduction10/05/18 09:52 PM
2

No. Some of the core advice may be the same across the board here, but the attitude behind it varies wildly. It all comes down to your view towards women, how you treat them, and how you interact with them. And the correct ways to frame this are often not discussed on this particular subreddit.
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:56 PM
3

How should you act? You should act like she isn't that interested in you and it would be a miracle if she keeps any date she set for a month in the future.
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:29 PM
1

I heard from a last-generation pro PUA that he estimates a 9/11 flake ratio, i.e. if he gets 11 numbers, 9 of them will flake or be uninterested after a date, and he bangs about 2/11.
/r/seduction12/04/18 09:20 PM
2

Going out solo is PUA hard-mode, but if you can master it you'll be unstoppable.
/r/seduction12/04/18 09:18 PM
1

I agree, but to be fair, like any of the individual aspects talked about on TRP, lifting can be foregone if you have strong advantages in several other categories. For example - if you are short, it doesn't make a difference if you have good style and big muscles and status. Likewise, if you don't have muscle, you can make up for it by being tall and having status. That being said, if you are healthy and have all your limbs, then there is no fucking excuse not to lift - it's something that adds …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:52 PM
24

Yes that feeling goes away. Somewhere in the sidebar it talks about the different phases of TRP. First you are reluctant to fully believe it, then you are angry/depressed, then you accept it...
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:31 AM
12

This is written like a dear-penthouse
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 02:40 AM
2

Who cares man, no one vagina is any more valuable than the next. See if you can stack them, instead of trying to pick one over the other - get both of them to fuck you simultaneously.
/r/seduction05/04/18 10:00 PM
27

Nope. Feels. A dangerous badboy with big muscles who rides a motorcycle but is poor and doesn't even belong to any social circle because he simply doesn't give a fuck can steal away a woman married to a high status billionaire in an instant. The only thing a woman ever reacts to is how she feels at any moment. What are her emotions telling her. She is not thinking to the future in the sense of 'how can this man improve my life' she is thinking 'i feel good with this guy right now'.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 09:21 PM
0

There are a million and a half reasons that could cause women to lose interest in the middle of your interaction with them, it's impossible to know what it was exactly. We can examine our behavior to see if there was any glaring reason that might have caused it, but otherwise it's impossible to know and a waste of time to focus on it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 02:58 AM
1

This is The Red Pill. DO NOT MARRY. I thought we established this years ago. DO NOT subject yourself to the perils of marriage, there is NO BENEFIT for men. The only exception is if you really want to have kids and maintain a stable family, but even then consider if it's really worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 03:37 PM
2

Wtf, don't think this way. The way women operate is they are attracted to any man who makes them feel the right way. It doesn't matter if it's their peer sitting next to them in class or the older guy sitting next to them in starbucks. If you game her right, you get the same results.
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:39 PM
1

Oh son of a bitch, you're right. It's funny, when I first started coming here, pickup/seddit was about helping socially inept men learn how to interact with women from scratch and get laid. This was a community 100% comprised of males, and the odd lesbian wondering if the same tactics would work with lesbian women as well as straight women (spoiler: they do). So I just assume when I see a question here that it was written by a man. It hasn't sunk in yet that this subreddit specifically has basic…
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:51 PM
7

I'd say don't read too much into the direction she looks, rather the expression on her face. If she looks away like she didn't even notice you, bad sign. If she makes a face like she's annoyed with you or the world, or anything else, bad sign. But if she looks away and looks embarrassed or surprised or smiles, GOOD SIGN.
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:55 PM
2

I think what I want from all this is sexual independence. Never again to worry about "that girl" because she's my only option. To have as many options as I can at any time, and most importantly, the knowledge that I can always get more options. Coming from a place of severe scarcity early in my adulthood, it feels tremendously liberating to now be in a place of real abundance.
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:28 PM
2

Sometimes it's a shit test, sometimes they are just stringing you along because they have someone they like better in mind and they're waiting to see if he comes through first otherwise you're their second choice, and sometimes they're just keeping you around for validation hoping you'll latch on as an orbiter but never pursue sex with you. Whatever the case is, don't waste too much time. Apply your game, do be persistent, but don't be needy and don't devote too much of your time/mental effort t…
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:19 PM
0

u/sorry_mommy's complete guide to gaming women: Step 1: Just say Hi That's all you need to know, now get out there and start implementing these simple step in your day to day life!
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:06 PM
7

Don't. Whether you're online dating or daygaming or nightgame, one thing is key: play it cool. Act like you're just being casual, hanging out with the girl, seeing if you like her, but not pressuring her into anything serious. The second she gets wind that you're taking things more serious than she is is the second she feels overwhelmed and bails. You can absolutely have this aim in mind, but don't let her know it. Just quietly vet her to yourself, and gradually work her up to serious. Any way,y…
/r/seduction12/03/18 03:01 PM
13

Lol, don't do it. I literally did this recently, and of course by the third time she starts dumping her feelings on me, to the point where it became absolutely untenable. Just made things between us that much worse.
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:58 PM
1

It's totally fine, it's how every youtube daygamer does it, and clearly it works. I heard a saying, though, that going direct in this way will work on the girls who would have talked to you anyway if you went indirect, but it might scare some off, whereas going indirect will work on the girls who would have also been receptive to direct game but will also work on girls who would be scared off by direct game. I think RooshV said this.
/r/seduction02/03/18 08:11 PM
2

Seriously, what do you think?
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:50 PM
2

Nah that's too forward. She has to have plausible deniability, so you have to ask her out for something. I'd say ask her out for drinks, or another simple casual activity, and either way you'll want to kino escalate as soon as possible and rapidly, and cap the night by "spontaneously" inviting her back to your place for either more drinks or some other activity you happen to talk about that night that you can only show her at your home. I dunno what you did for the first date and I don't have ti…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:38 PM
2

If I get to the point where I would call out a girl on something suspicious even if I don't have absolute evidence, it's only during the breakup conversation. You're right, OP, you can't accuse a girl of anything like this and expect her to apologize and show you you were mistaken. You only call her out if you're sick of her doing it and no longer want to see her. Because when you call her out, basically one of two things is gonna happen: she will actually have an amazingly good explanation for …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:07 PM
4

God damn, girls are so... grr.. anyway, the cheek is nothing to be surprised by the first time you go for a kiss. It doesn't mean she's not into you, or even that you won't get to kiss her that same night if you calibrate and persist. You didn't push for it on the first date, so she's basically reaching out to you for a couple reasons - to validate that you actually do like her (by asking her on a second date) and to show you that she is into you (because she realizes rebuffing your kiss probabl…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:03 PM
18

You're basically right. The way to talk to women is emotionally. It doesn't matter if you're telling her about your 6-month trip to 27 different non-bordering countries, or you're telling her about how you bought a hat last night. If you talk to her using the same passion and emotion in your storytelling, that's all that matters. Now certainly it's a lot easier to speak with passion about that cool trip you took where you had mind-blowing life experiences than it is to talk about your hat, but t…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 03:36 PM
5

Easiest time of year? I think not! Girls will couple up just so they don't feel alone, even if they aren't very attracted. And the ones who are still alone will be at home stewing in self-pity and eating candy, waiting for the day to end so they can go back to their usual insipid bullshit.
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:10 PM
5

More reps with less weight = bigger muscles. More weight with fewer reps = stronger muscles.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 04:31 PM
1

Learn about daygame.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:56 PM
4

Always be escalating. Escalate with your words, and escalate kino.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:50 PM
1

Well to be fair, never say you've "ruined" it because that implies there's no way to come back from it. Women are fickle, and yeah odds are high you've blown your chances with this particular woman, but if you play it like you don't care then the cards may land that she comes back to you later on. Anyway, don't force yourself never to love again. You will wind up bitter and sad. Just be careful with your feelings and your actions in the future.
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:05 PM
2

Look, fall in love if you want, just don't call attention to it. Girls can only fall in love if it happens naturally. The second you talk about it or put a label on it, they get repulsed.
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:17 PM
1

When I first started getting heavily into daygame I said "I don't need to write field reports or take notes like all those attention-seeking chumps" Then about 2 days later I started taking notes. It makes a difference. Because when you're doing multiple approaches per day, you WILL forget some of them. Even if I approach just 4 girls in a day, odds are I'm going to forget 2 of them by the time I get home. I dunno what it is, but the ones that don't go anywhere just slip out of your mind - but t…
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:16 PM
0

You're a woman, right?
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:46 PM
0

Oh dear, I read your post totally backwards. Not used to women posting in here.
/r/seduction02/02/18 10:34 PM
-2

Just go out and buy a sexy lacy pair of panties in the smallest size available (or confiscate one from a plate) and leave those in a conspicuously inconspicuous place.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 04:04 PM
1

It's all part of the game, man. You win some, you lose some. In fact you lose way more than you win. But all it takes is one or two wins for you to start feeling on top of the world, and you get to decide where you want to go from there.
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:59 PM
1

Dunno wtf about number 3, but the rest it sounds like you were getting AMOG'd
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:58 PM
8

Bootcamps are bullshit. I always read testimonials about how they were great in the moment, you get a pro encouraging you to finally do an approach, telling you just what to say, and you feel like you're finally gonna make it, then 1 or 2 weeks later when that high wears off you stop approaching and fall right back into your old habits, get depressed, and it's a negative feedback loop. Don't pay a PUA dude a thousand bucks for one weekend of motivation. Motivation comes within. Find it in yourse…
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:56 PM
2

You're right, you understand that your audience's opinions do not matter. They will forget about you in 5 minutes and go on with their lives, oblivious to your existence. But the girl won't. Just keep reminding yourself of this. Force that mindset upon your subconscious until it is second nature.
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:53 PM
3

Just do what the other commenter said. You don't have to go through the whole drama of "breaking up" with her, just tell her, look, I'm not getting that vibe from your, if you're still into me I'll be here but I'm not gonna sit around waiting for you.
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:47 PM
-5

You just said that about yourself. Good work.
/r/seduction26/01/18 03:10 PM
-3

What does it tell you about yourself that I thought you were a woman from reading your post?
/r/seduction26/01/18 03:08 PM
1

Well, how did it go?
/r/seduction25/01/18 08:40 PM
1

That's the spirit!
/r/seduction24/01/18 11:12 PM
-6

Christ man, just use a dating app.
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:41 PM
1

Mate, don't overthink it. If you see her, just tell yourself "this is it", swallow your pride, swing those balls low, walk over to her with a spring in your step, and squeak out that word "Hey"
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:36 PM
3

Just go with it. Information is power in dating, and you have an advantage with her you wouldn't normally get. Accept that it's part of her personality,a nd if it gets to be too much just move on.
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:43 PM
1

Yep. The original days of the PUA community online was just guys going out and trying things, and reporting back what works and what didn't. Then other guys would read it, try the things that they said worked and either confirm it or make adjustments. FR's are probably the best resource we get here.
/r/seduction24/01/18 08:20 PM
1

her type is rare It really isn't... Not sure how familiar you are with this subreddit in general, but we call that type of "rare" girl a unicorn, because they don't exist. Each girl is just like the next. Sure they have unique personalities and unique traits, but none so drastically unique that you can never find another girl who you like just as much. As for your idea, no. No need to split it into two interactions. Go tell her the thing, and if she reacts well just try to carry on a nice conver…
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:00 PM
2

It absolutely works. I remember the first girl I pulled after I started learning this stuff years ago, and as I was pulling off her dress I distinctly remember what was running through my mind "omg it actually works, it's all true, every bit of it." Been a lifelong believer of this stuff ever since. That being said, there is a ton of garbage information around. You have to use your own common sense and intellect to weed out the crap advice, and take everything else with a grain of salt. Also, yo…
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:31 PM
1

PUA is just a tool set. The knowledge and principles are contained within TRP, but PUA is the tool set to practice the things you've learned in terms of attracting women. Do not discount PUA, especially if you've already internalized TRP. It's a means to an end.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:10 PM
7

I know the mods like to push askseddit, but honestly it's kind of dead over there. And there's not so much content on here that we can't handle answering a few noobie questions from time to time.
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:02 PM
3

Ok, do not fixate on any one particular girl. The whole concept of game is that you can use it on any girl at any time, but it does not guarantee that any particular girl will be receptive. Use the game you've learned to open the girl you like one time. If she rejects you, know that you can move on to another girl in 5 minutes if you want to. Just don't put all your eggs in one basket. If you don't know how to open a girl in general, you'll need to read up on the sidebar.
/r/seduction24/01/18 04:00 PM
1

Mate, the best hunters don't live among the deer and try to learn what they like best. They observe them from afar, and discuss hunting strategies with other hunters and read online reddit posts and youtube videos with hunting tips, before putting what they've learned into practice and adjusting their strategy based on their results.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:45 PM
1

Ok, so you're a hunter, you're out hunting deer. You put your rifle down and sidle up to a big group of deer and you say "tell me what do you guys like best about being hunted? How can I shoot you better?" What are they gonna say? "Oh, I love it when the hunter makes lots of noise and rustles all the bushes before he shoots me. I don't like being surprised. It really makes me respect him more." Another one says "I like it when he comes and asks permission to shoot me first, maybe stroke my fur a…
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:43 PM
2

Look, first of all you should never take dating advice from women. It's like asking a deer how to hunt it. Secondly, read the fucking side bar. Everything you're asking to know is literally the foundation of this very subreddit.
/r/seduction23/01/18 04:12 PM
1

How does that have a single remote thing to do with what I said?
/r/seduction21/01/18 02:01 AM
1

yep I'd call that an exception. You generally need to give them a reason to come back to your place. Like at the end of the date, "btw I've got that dvd/drink/meal/toy/whatever we were just talking about at home, want to come see/eat/hear/etc it?" Gives them that plausible deniability they can use to tell their girlfriends later "omg i thought we were just going to go play tony hawk pro skater 2 at his place but before i knew it he was flossing his teeth with my pubes!" you know how it goes
/r/seduction18/01/18 09:29 PM
-2

What are you, OP? Wtf am I arguing with you for?
/r/seduction18/01/18 09:27 PM
-5

Because his friends set him up with 1 particular girl, it's the only girl in entire dating realm atm, so he's propping her up as "it's this or nothing". Your friends setting you up on a blind date should just be like "one more option" in your sphere of dating. "Ok I got 2 girls from starbucks last week, 1 from the street, 1 from that bar we went to, and that 1 my friends want to set me up with" is the ideal mindset. I'm not saying he shouldn't go out with her, but the fact that he's already tota…
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:02 PM
1

I'd say never get married until you feel like giving up on life/game. You know, when you get really old you get tired... at some point you may think "alright this is gonna be the last relationship for the foreseeable future" and try to lock her down, but know full well that game still applies to her from other men.
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:00 PM
1

No no no no. Didn't you ever hear that texting is only for logistics?? You can't physically escalate over the phone so why fucking bother. You can't look into her eyes and smirk, you can't pause seductively in your conversation and look her up and down. Fuck it, arrange your next date and then ghost her texts until like 12 hours before the date.
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:54 PM
3

Yeah, don't ever offer to help a girl with her problems. It just wastes your time, and you are not adding value to yourself. If a woman is telling you about her problems, she is just venting. It's how women communicate. Just sit there and "hear and understand" her. Agree with what she says but offer no input. Then change the subject before you lose your mind - women's troubles are so fucking trivial.
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:52 PM
13

NO. Wtf are you thinking? They will only come to your place "in the moment" you know. You CAN NOT even for a second allow her to think that you have some "plan" to bring her home and/or fuck her. That will scare her the fuck off. Has to seem totally spontaneous.
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:50 PM
18

Emotion. Women thrive on emotions. If you can make her feel something, anything other than boredom or apathy, she will naturally feel drawn to you. There used to be a saying around here that "the worst thing a girl can feel about you is nothing". The worst thing you can do during an approach is let her forget about you later. Even if you make a woman feel mad or angry or upset, in her brain it's almost the same as if she felt happy or excited or whatever. Every emotion in a woman feeds those sam…
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:49 PM
5

confidence doesnt come from nothing. There has to be something going on with you that inspires this confidence. I have to disagree. I have practiced and experienced the effects of "fake it 'til you make it". Coming from a place of zero self-confidence in my early red-pill days, I put that concept into action, and several years later I'm here to tell you that it fucking worked. I studied TRP and learned the behaviors of a successful "alpha" man, and I simply emulated them as closely and as freque…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 04:40 PM
1

Honestly, that's just the narrative that the rest of Reddit puts forward. They hate TRP because maybe it is a little misogynistic, but mainly because it's flies against most of Reddit's liberal opinions. I think you, as anyone, would be well served not to pass judgement until trying to understand it, especially as someone who is trying to learn PUA - I guarantee TRP is an excellent supplement to that endeavor. As for you getting banned there for a simple post, yeah the mods are stupid assholes, …
/r/seduction17/01/18 11:58 PM
1

Yep, I know that feeling all too well myself. All I can say is just don't give up, and push yourself each day.
/r/seduction17/01/18 11:56 PM
1

for some reason She's a woman.
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:31 AM
1

They say that action begets motivation, meaning if you are searching for motivation to do this thing you're struggling to do, you're never going to find it. But if you make one approach, it's going to absolutely make you want to do more and more based on that feeling of success. It's like when you have a big project you really don't want to start. You put it off and put it off, but eventually you start it and suddenly you feel like you don't want to stop working for 1 second until it's done.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:43 PM
3

This is a good post. No one's really upvoted it, so I'm just gonna leave this here to encourage you OP, keep up everything you said.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:41 PM
1

In defense of the other poster, TRP is not the belief that all women are evil or do the same bad things a woman who burned you did; it's that they are all CAPABLE of those things, given the right circumstances. It is a manner of navigating relationships which protects you from these things, shows you what to expect when things can (and often do) go horribly wrong, and on top of that, how to find and maintain an actual good relationship.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:34 PM
1

Wtf do you mean "too much" dude, you need to go read their sidebar at least once in your life. I've been saying for years now that PUA and TRP are not diametrically opposed, they actually go hand-in-hand beautifully if you understand them.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:31 PM
1

I think because there have been some red flags in your interaction. Of course girls want a guy who won't put her on a pedestal and make her the most important thing in their lives, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, they don't want someone so busy/self-involved that they will totally ignore her. You may have tripped her radar in that regard. You no-contacted when your phone died, and you re-scheduled multiple times after that. You probably made her think "oh this guy isn't interested after…
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:19 PM
1

I disagree with the other commenter. I think she's become stand-offish because of whatever circumstances, but she'd probably still be open to you in the future. The way you'll have to play it is not like you're trying to pick up where you left off, but kind of make a brand new invitation to go out. Like as if you're in the process of making your own plans and want to see if she wants to come along - that you'll schedule her in if she wants, but she's otherwise not the most important thing.
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:58 PM
1

From a logistical standpoint, the number IS the point of the approach. You are approaching a girl with the ultimate goal of either getting a girlfriend or having some sex or something in between. If you approach a girl who might be a great match with you, but you don't exchange any method of communication, then what's the point?? Practice?? Well practice getting the number next time!
/r/seduction16/01/18 04:58 AM
7

Yeah I really don't know what it is, but something has changed in online dating marketplace. Maybe all of those dating apps switching over to forced facebook login made the girls realize "why don't we skip the middleman and just meet guys on facebook"
/r/seduction15/01/18 11:07 PM
1

Nah, it doesn't matter. Just don't act all self conscious about it like "oh uh i don't have one yet, is that okay?" Own it. "No, I don't believe in that stuff and my life is better than others' because of it. I'll just text you." It has never once been a problem for me. The only problem is that it cuts down on your opportunities to meet women online, but that's a very low yield pursuit anyway. Once you have met her irl, 99.99% of them will not reject you for not having social media shit.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:33 PM
1

You just have to acknowledge that her opinion is valid. If you make a woman feel like you're not taking her opinion seriously, well that's all she's got in this world. Tease her all you want, but when she says "i think we should put this HERE instead of THERE" you say "that's a good idea, thanks for the input!" Make her feel like a valued team member when it counts, and every other bit of teasing will come off as fun banter as long as it isn't about her valuable opinions.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:28 PM
29

Online dating has become absolutely useless. Out of all the dozens of dating sites, a few years ago there were a handful that were decent. Now 100% of them are trash. I don't know what happened, but as someone who used to have great luck with them just 2 years ago, something has seriously changed, and it ain't my profiles. If you don't already have a big presence on facebook and instagram, then I got bad news for you in terms of online dating.
/r/seduction15/01/18 10:22 PM
1

Look, everyone starts TRP from a different place in life. Clearly OP had just ended a relationship for one of the first times in a TRP manner, and was able to easily pick up another plate. He's noticing that he's at a point in his life for the first time where he is feeling in control of everything, including relationships.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:00 PM
1

OP, you need to spend a long long time reading TRP and readjusting. So yes, follow the other comments and get rid of this girl ASAP. But after that, I want you to spend time reflecting on the relationship and on yourself. Take a good long time to really understand what you read here. Wait until the pains from that relationship wear off. You won't be ready to be in a relationship again for quite a while, but when you finally do you're going to find it a refreshing change - you'll find that you ha…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:43 PM
2

Dunno why this was downvoted. Just tag it as a field report - you're a noob, but you learned a lesson, and you're trying to relay that lesson here. Keep it up, OP.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:07 PM
1

Totally, totally wrong. People who think that shit matters think so out of self-esteem problems. Can't you think of one guy you know who is fat or old or ugly but still slays way more pussy than you do? I think we all know a guy like that, and it's not 'cause he has some secret power, he just has good natural game/confidence.
/r/seduction29/12/17 07:15 PM
2

You have the right attitude here. It doesn't fucking matter. The same way it doesn't matter if you are fat or ugly or bald or poor or black. If you approach a hot woman with confidence and have good game, literally nothing else in the world matters. She's gonna judge her entire perception of you based on that first interaction - she's not making a checklist to see if she'll continue going out with you, she's just basing it on feels. Social proof is a good way to attract a woman off the bat, but …
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:37 PM
5

Dude, come on... She friendzoned you because you were needy and submissive. She uses you because you allow yourself to be used. You offer to help her, you agree to be her friend in a town where she has no friends... If you want to have sex with her, you have exactly one option: Next time she calls you up to fix something, you show up having suddenly transformed into a man. Pretend like the thing she wants you to fix doesn't exist, and focus only on her as if she is a woman and you are a man. Tel…
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:10 PM
3

Wow, you got friendzoned by a single mom? You are not doing this right. Your idea is good though, risk it all to either win or get blown out and get the hell out of there. Don't waste your time on some fuckin' used up skank with a kid. 3 billion nearly-identical fish in the sea.
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:04 PM
1

Ok, You should always be escalating. From the moment you first see her, you hug her. From there, you subtly touch her hand, her arm, her back, her knee, etc. More and more until eventually your entire naked bodies are touching. Escalation is a game of two steps forward, one step back. If she pulls away, you pull back too. Dial back your escalation, and then start again. If you go for the first hug and she backs away, you're in for a bad time.. but let's say you start light kino, you hug her, tou…
/r/seduction27/12/17 07:02 PM
13

Ok, I've been learning both PUA and TRP for several years now, and let me tell you, they absolutely go hand-in-hand. I think if you learn only PUA without TRP, you wind up like a needy chump like OP describes - you're desperate to find any woman at any cost, and when you get her you have no clue what to do with her, wind up losing her quickly, and wind up more depressed and lonely. On the other hand, if you only learn TRP, there's very little information here on actually seducing women - you'd b…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:51 PM
1

Don't talk about red pill. This used to be one of the core rules here, not for some edgy fight club reason, but for the reason that people who aren't already into it will literally fight you if you try to teach them about it. This always happens - if you know a man, maybe he's your family or your best friend, who desperately needs red pill knowledge in his life, if you try to teach him he will be so against what you're telling him he'll argue to defend his programming. A man has to find TRP on h…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:44 PM
1

Yeah, if this happens, you can be pretty damn sure that she wants something from you much different than you think. That, or she's psychotic. It's a damn shame that in our society if a woman approaches a man she must be crazy, but that's the way it is. 99.9% of normal women are sitting there quietly trying to look pretty and hoping the coolest man in the room will come talk to them.
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:57 PM
1

Now she says she cannot live one day without me, she tells all the time how much she loves me, how much she's lucky to have me etc. You're gonna have some god damn trouble when the day comes to next her. Or did you not get that far in the handbook?... You need to have your exit strategy ready to go at any single day, mate. Pray you won't need to use it for a long time, but be absolutely certain that you will need to use it one day.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:35 PM
6

Don't think so. Natural chads wind up some of the most bluepill adults. They crush plenty of pussy throughout their adolescence into early adulthood, but they usually wind up getting locked down early in marriage and wind up deeply unhappy because they haven't learned the long-term dynamics between men and women, or they coast past their grace period and find themselves unskilled and pointless, and lazily settle into loserdom.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 04:31 PM
3

it makes people not want to push your around I find this part to be false. Seems the more muscular I get, the more male strangers want to challenge me for dominance. Minor, subtle things, but it feels like people are more interested in picking a fight with me since I gained muscle, just to establish dominance.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:17 PM
6

Don't bother, next her.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:52 AM
12

They can sense how needy you are. And if you're on tinder and a guy you're needy by default.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:52 AM
7

It's not failure, it's rejection, and it's crucial to get rejected in order to learn how to not get rejected. Some people will even tell you to go out and get yourself rejected on purpose, just to see what it feels like and to understand how girls react.
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:21 AM
1

Just tell her you have something worth stealing, she'll find a way to come over.
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:14 AM
1

I think uglier girls are more susceptible to dread game.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:27 PM
21

I bet you a good number of those OP is talking about are males doing this. Beta men are such suckers.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:25 PM
10

I had a really hot lead recently, caught her at the grocery store, had great bants, got her number with ease, took her out on a lunch date and she dropped "my ex gave me this bag, he liked to give me gifts" - big uh-oh. Tried to get her out on a friday night date, and she was dropping "are you gonna buy me this, buy me that?" I teased her about it, told her maybe if she's a good girl I'll pay for dinner. She didn't like that. Ghosted me. I think I had pretty good game all throughout, but despite…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:24 PM
1

Girls can tell when you're nervous. The first girl I pulled after a daygame numberclose told me on the date "you looked so nervous, but I'm glad you talked to me"
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:07 PM
1

Because when you're starting out, you should feel proud of any self improvements you're making in the field. But once you have improved, you're allowed to feel proud of how much you've achieved. It's natural. Don't fixate on banging a big number of chicks - it will be counterproductive to focus on that. But once you've done it (and you will get there) be proud of it anyway.
/r/seduction27/10/17 02:42 PM
0

You think that because you've been reading the truth. Women are hypergamous, they will branch-swing. It's a fact of life. You can't really avoid it. Just remember, she isn't yours, it's just your turn with her. It's your prerogative to leave her before you think she gets to the point she'll want to start looking for someone else. Always leave 'em wanting more ;)
/r/seduction27/10/17 02:40 PM
1

It will change your entire perspective on life, but it probably isn't for you specifically in terms of implementation.
/r/seduction27/10/17 02:39 PM
14

Congrats, you actually found a girl who tells the truth. Assume all girls are talking to multiple guys all the time.
/r/seduction26/10/17 08:46 PM
1

Your facial expression makes a difference. Pay attention to it. Smile more.
/r/seduction26/10/17 03:25 PM
2

Haven't met one yet.
/r/seduction26/10/17 03:04 PM
0

"Just be yourself :) anything is possible, you just have to believe :)"
/r/seduction20/10/17 03:03 PM
2

What the fuck are you talking about.......
/r/seduction18/10/17 07:57 PM
2

Wait, what? Are you a woman? Or do you just not realize that men and women are different? Like why the fuck are you even posting this?
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:54 PM
1

The only reason I wouldn't do that myself is because it's too generic. You could say that to literally any girl, and girls don't like that. But if you're trying to overcome AA and practice direct approaches, then there's nothing inherently wrong with it.
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:43 PM
2

Sounds like your plan is pretty good. Most important thing you can do now is not to make her feel weird or judged. Don't bring up the threesome, don't let her think you have any sexual intent on your mind. For her, it has to "just happen". Let her see you get a little intimate with your wife, right, then kinda allow her to join in. If you can, sit down on a couch or something between her and your wife. Kiss your wife a few times, but go further, touch her leg, caress her, etc... Make sure your h…
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:41 PM
3

When you approach, you feel this intense thrill. Like the PUA's say, the anxiety itself never goes away, but seeking that thrill is what keeps me coming back for more.
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:37 PM
1

Don't do it in a supplicating way, but as an opener it's a fine way to express your interest/intent.
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:32 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CT_azfNVxF0 This is relevant. Just have balls, man. There is no reason not to approach on a train or anywhere public. Be aware that SHE will feel a bit nervous about being on display and being judged by others too, so calibrate for that, but she will also feel more comfortable that you won't do anything crazy because there are people around. Just be casual and subdued, but have balls.
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:20 PM
1

Nope. Once you burn your relationship with a woman there is no way to recover. A good sexy relationship is one that blooms from the beginning up until the moment you're at. Not one that wilts and dies, then you try to prop back up again with new tools. Trust me, she will never view you in the same light again, and you will constantly be paranoid about the same. Use what you've learned and applied to a new girl. Abundance mentality, bro.
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:18 PM
3

Frankly, mate, the reason it's wrong is because it's too narrowminded considering the way women actually think. Whether you are negative or positive with them, they are excited at the fact that you are talking to them. As long as you aren't telling them you're gonna fuck their mother, it doesn't matter if you're negative. They're feeling the same excitement that some cute stranger had the balls to talk to her, and she will remember it all day. So they are two strategies that men give themselves …
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:12 PM
1

Sounds like you started off pretty well, but it went downhill from there. When you get good at seduction game, you can keep any conversation going indefinitely. It's good to allow for lulls in the conversation, pretend to be doing something more important on your phone for a while, or whatever. But it sounds like you started to feel awkward about these lulls, and got self conscious about it. You definitely would have needed to have more confidence/dominance in those situations where you accident…
/r/seduction17/10/17 08:06 PM
1

Planning for a threesome is logistically very difficult. Unless it "just happens" like another poster said, you generally need to plan for it from the very beginning. You need to cultivate that kind of mindset with the girls. Not only do you have to date both girls, you will have to date them with each other. Essentially cause them to be dating each other, with you. They have to be comfortable with each other, like each other, like you, AND be comfortable with the fact that each other likes you …
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:00 PM
7

I disagree, because the current political landscape is completely transitory, whereas the nature of women is permanent. The reason women never spoke up about it in the past (and we've had sexual harassment laws for a long time) is because many of them enjoy it, or the subconsciously accept it as part of the male-female dynamic. Weinstein is a big deal for now, but this is a flame that will burn out quick and we'll be back to normal.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 06:13 AM
2

This is technically good, but if I didn't know better I'd think it sounds like you were making excuses before you could find that "perfect opener". Sometimes those come up, sometimes they never do. Most of the guys here are gonna take that advice and apply it to their daygame. They'll go to the store, see a cute chick shopping for pencils and think "she's cute but I'd have nothing to say to her. I'll see her again anyway, shopping for pencils takes forever plus she'll be back to pick up an erase…
/r/seduction13/10/17 07:52 PM
1

Yeah, treat that first interaction as if it's a first date, but shorter. You both wanna know what each other's deal is, whether they're crazy, whether you will enjoy each others company... Make her want to come back for more.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:11 AM
1

Man, don't even worry about it. Send them a casual-as-fuck message "hey, been curious about you lately.. wanna go out for a drink friday?" and if they don't reply assume they are not interested at all. If they reply yes, or yes but have to reschedule or something, then they are interested and it's yours to fuck up.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:09 AM
2

You gotta read all the material in TRP and in r/seduction if you have time. No way I can teach you that shit in a single comment if you have no groundwork on the subject.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:35 AM
14

Fucking use it. Don't be ashamed and don't try to change it. Take that sexual drive and use it to push yourself to walk up to every sexy woman you see. Look right in her eye and give her that look that shows you'd rip her clothes off right there if there weren't a dozen people around. Use that desire to feel her bare skin by touching her in socially acceptable ways - show you're not afraid to lay your warm fingers on her bare skin. This will scare the piss out of some of the more shy/conservativ…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:43 PM
1

Could you be more specific about one of these interactions? I suspect essentially it boils down to you're not building enough attraction before asking them out. Going up to a girl and saying hi, asking her name, asking what she does, making eye contact, and then asking her out is not enough. You have to converse with her, get to know her, and most importantly make her feel like you two connect. Start that little spark in her brain that tells her "maaaybe he and i can have a life together". If yo…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:40 PM
5

Hey, welcome to the human condition! Can I get you a coffee or something? Just do whatever you enjoy. Having fun banging chicks? Keep doing it. Really want to be rich and live the high life? Go make money. Want to be famous? Figure out what you're good at and do it forever.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:36 PM
9

Try to be as thorough as possible since this is a very confusing subject DO. NOT. FIXATE. ON. ONE. SINGLE. GIRL.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:34 PM
4

Don't. Don't ever fixate on any specific girl(s). Seduction game is about being able to attract any arbitrary girl, and move on quickly to the next if she's not interested. Using these skills you may have a 10% chance with any given girl, but when you meet a girl who you really vibe with then the sky's the limit. But when you try to apply these skills to one specific girl, that same 10% limit applies. Perhaps there's a 10% chance she's gonna be really into you and what you're doing with her, but…
/r/seduction12/10/17 09:30 PM
13

This. That shit was so stupid. It's his own personal favorite foods that he found in the grocery store after a quick 15 minute googling of "healthy foods to eat before working out" and found a buzzfeed gallery full of buzzwords. But he likes it and he's getting fit at the gym, so therefore he's presenting it as gospel.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:24 PM
1

Studying THIS subreddit some 3 years ago or so. I poured over the info here (and in TRP) for hours, days, months worth of reading... Studied everything I could. It changed my life. Completely different.
/r/seduction12/10/17 09:01 PM
2

Well, getting back into pickup after a failed LTR is a hell of a lot easier than starting from zero. You know already that you have the capacity to be successful with women. You just have to fix your mindset. Just put yourself out there and start at the beginning. Don't kick yourself if things go slowly, but just start making that progress happen. Go out right now, sit in a public spot on a bench, and just sit there until you make eye contact with a cute girl passing by. Repeat until you find th…
/r/seduction12/10/17 07:41 PM
1

Agree with the other comment, that's a stupid chump way to open. If you've read this subreddit you'd have a thousand better ideas. Hey, what are you doing? >Hey, where are your friends? >Hey, where did you get that dress it looks ugly. >Hey, what's that drink it looks alarmingly sweet. >Hey.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:25 PM
3

Dude, you can tell when someone with a beard smiles. Don't pretend you can't.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:10 PM
2

Seems a lot of people in this thread think that smiling means showing your teeth. It doesn't.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:09 PM
19

Interesting... why do you think that is?
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:52 PM
48

Yes. You can convey a lot through your smile. A big smile tells her "hey I'm happy, are you happy?" and she may still smile back. Same with a smirk, that tells her "hey I think you're cute and I'm feeling flirty, how about you"...
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:23 PM
4

I notice a shitload more eyecontact from women on the street if I happen to be smiling. If I've just read something funny, or just come away from an interaction with someone that left me smiling, then for as long as I have that genuine smile on my face I see a lot more cute women looking in my direction and flashing me a smile too. It's infectious and it's good, if it's genuine I think.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:53 PM
1

This is essentially just another argument for "NAWALT". But we've been over this time and time again, and it's simply not the case. You're right that AWALT doesn't mean all women will cheat or all women will hurt you, etc. But it does mean that all women are capable of responding in the same ways to certain situations. If you act beta and needy, you can be pretty sure that ALL women would eventually leave you or hurt you. Certain things are true about all women - ALL women will shit test you at …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:41 PM
2

Going back to a girl after you break up is like backsliding on an addiction... You need the willpower not to see her. If you want to text her for her birthday, do so, but only if you are prepared to deal with the emotions that ensue. She might reply coldly like "why do you care", or she might return to begging to get back together, who knows... Either way you need to be confident that you can stay strong and not let those emotions overwhelm you or drive you back together with her.
/r/seduction09/10/17 04:11 PM
0

If you really can't stand shit tests, you better consider homosexuality, because it is literally part of every female human's psychology. It's just the way they subconsciously screen for a potential mate's viability. But seriously, what you need to do is learn to not let them bother you. Even if you don't know the best way to handle shit tests, as long as you don't let them bother you the woman will pick up on this and will cut it out. Girl: "ehhh, OP, you don't really like me you just want to g…
/r/seduction09/10/17 02:52 PM
2

This. Do whatever you want. If you feel like you need to text her again, do it. The fact that you're asking means you already know not to overdo it.
/r/seduction09/10/17 02:13 PM
1

Then how would you read this subreddit? Or any of the actually useful advice on the internet? I mean yeah, you could read dating tips from huffington post blog, and wikihow, and enjoy easy-to-digest terms like "just be yourself" and "your potential courtship partner", but how would you ever learn to fuck a hot woman?
/r/seduction09/10/17 02:12 PM
45

Nope. Counter intuitively, the more attractive you are the more nervous women are of approaching you. The same way you'd be more nervous about approaching a 10/10 than a chubby, even though you want them more. Girls will never approach you unless you are doing something extraordinary, i.e. rock star, famous celebrity, etc. The rest of us have to make the first move every time.
/r/seduction04/10/17 06:49 PM
33

Then you're not trying hard enough. You have to actually get out there and approach women. They will not come to you.
/r/seduction04/10/17 06:28 PM
1

This subreddit, about 2-3 years ago.
/r/seduction04/10/17 03:13 PM
-6

Literally anything, use your imagination. Damn.
/r/seduction03/10/17 02:13 PM
1

I'd say not even that. You can be average or even below average, sometimes you just have to be there.
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:06 PM
1

Fuck, dude, are you new? She's made you her beta orbiter.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:58 PM
1

When you are interacting with a girl who you just met, or are on a date with, kino is done in glancing blows - you touch her hand then remove it, touch her back then change the subject, you may even kiss her but then you're done kissing her. When you are alone together, the kino just doesn't stop. You touch her hand, you keep it there. You put your arm over her shoulder, you leave it there. You get close to her leg-to-leg and you stay there. Eventually this builds and builds until your entire bo…
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:55 PM
2

So you said you know what you have to do, you're just not doing it. You know you have to just do it. It's kind of like jumping off a cliff, except the bottom is full of soft tits. You know you'll be fine and you just might get some action, but you can't stand at the edge thinking about it. Just jump off.
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:48 PM
1

Look up dread game. (pro level only)
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:25 PM
2

It feels fucking amazing. I still remember the first time I was able to approach a girl during the day after studying PUA stuff for way too long. I think back to that feeling often when I go out to game, and I think "that's what I want again, that feeling". It was an intense rush. Terror like I'd never felt, but immediately after the interaction was over I knew I wanted more of it. After that terrifying approach, the first in my life, I immediately went and did 3 more. I was pumped, I craved tha…
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:23 PM
1

I disagree with some of the others. I think it does go away over time, once you become more confident and comfortable with your own self and your social skills. Keep pushing yourself to do it, push past your comfort zone, and continue improving yourself and your confidence. You will get there.
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:21 PM
2

Oh well, sorry buddy. Thanks for the update. It wouldn't hurt to ask her out once more, I think (just in case she just doesn't want to go running but might agree to dinner and movie or something) but odds are she isn't into you. Plenty o' girls to game.
/r/seduction21/09/17 07:19 PM
1

Yeah, mainly the users are split into two groups - just for sex, and looking for love. And it all hinges on that one question, 'which is more important in your life right now, sex or love". If you choose sex or both, you get lumped in with a hundred thousand other males who complain about how they can't get laid on OKC, because the majority of women on there choose "love", i.e. they're looking for a relationship. Beyond that, you just have to think about how women are answering questions.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:32 PM
8

OKC is scummy as fuck. Delete your account, change your IP, clear your cache, and then start all over with a brand new account on a new email address. Give them no indication that you are the same user, or they will treat you like an old user who never could get laid.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:41 PM
1

It's partly a shit test. Women aren't going to give up the men in her life for any boyfriend, whether they are fuckbuddies or orbiters or fratbros or coworkers or whatever. It's a shit test to see if you become jealous or insecure at the mention of another potentially competing man, because if you get jealous when she mentions them once you will definitely get jealous if you ever met them or saw her getting texts from them. So if you reacted with insecurity she'd write you off asap.
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:22 PM
3

Oh I see, you just had oneitis for her. Still, if she knew you liked her the neg is still a bad plan. Show her your qualities she's been missing out on - demonstrate high value. But if she didn't know, then she probably barely knows you exist, in which case you can game her like you would a total stranger (where slight negging may often be appropriate).
/r/seduction15/09/17 07:02 PM
1

Yep, but society doesn't allow for that. Society dictates that there is a fine line between creepy guy harassing a girl and cute guy chatting up a girl. And the same rules dictate that women absolutely cannot approach a man in 95% of circumstances without seeming crazy.
/r/seduction15/09/17 07:00 PM
3

Ok dude, this was hard to read, but if you are at the beginning of your journey all you need is more practice and experience. So here's the thing, women want romantic encounters to be spontaneous. "It just happened!" is their favorite catchphrase in the world. The first two or three times you bumped into her, she was probably creaming her pants at the idea of you coming over to her and sparking off years of romance together. But after a while, she probably started wondering why she kept seeing y…
/r/seduction15/09/17 06:58 PM
-1

Read TRP.
/r/seduction15/09/17 06:52 PM
6

or does it come off as being jealous. It definitely would. The best way to flirt with an ex, I would think, is to seem like you don't think about her at all. I think most guys' instinct would be to try to act like they are better off without her, but this is so typical most women will see right through it. What you ought to do is treat her like some girl you just met. Be cool and fun and aloof and flirty, and pretend you know nothing about her. Show her from scratch that you're a cool fun guy Bu…
/r/seduction15/09/17 06:50 PM
1

She's coming on to you strong, which in my experience is a big red flag for possible crazy-girl syndrome. If you want to fuck her, you definitely could, but you might get intentionally caught up in her bf drama for a while.
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:23 PM
1

Bullshit, OP isn't gonna get fired if he dates a coworker.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:40 PM
8

Expert mode - invite them all to the same place and make them compete over YOU. Huge social proof. Best case scenario - night ends with a three, four, or even fivesome.
/r/seduction14/09/17 08:37 PM
3

Yes, you shared time alone together to get to know each other and build rapport. That's a date. If you ask her out again, make it subtle but clear in your message that you want to date her, not just hang out and continue your conversation. Something like "hey I'd like to see you again, maybe we can [do that thing we talked about briefly]". See you again signals dating.
/r/seduction14/09/17 07:02 PM
4

Since you didn't do any kino, you should probably move faster than slower. She won't be waiting around desperate for the next time she gets to see you, so ride out that positive vibe while it lasts. Go for like 3-4 days after, for the next one. But make sure you escalate QUICKLY this time. Another night of platonic nice conversation and you're toast. If you ask her out again, she will be wondering "gee I wonder why he wants to see me so soon... I will go with him to find out." So if you quickly …
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:03 PM
2

I was looking into this recently. Didn't read it, but it sounds like it is not PUA-related, just general vagaries about how one might get into a romantic target's mind, written by a flowery author and not a PUA.
/r/seduction14/09/17 02:59 PM
1

I think it was downvoted because it seemed like he was saying 'hi' is his entire opener, dismissing the entire concept of openers in general. As we all know, 'hi' is not an adequate opener to hook a woman's attention. I'm assuming he just meant it was how he began any opener, but it did sound like it was his entire opener every time.
/r/seduction14/09/17 02:58 PM
4

You should invite her to a really nice restaurant and ask her to marry you. Girls love grand romantic gestures.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:15 PM
2

1 text - "let me know when you're free" and ignore her until she offers up a date.
/r/seduction13/09/17 03:15 PM
2

If you're banging gross bar sluts, just assume they are diseased and wrap up everything. If you are pursuing nice professional girls, they will take offense if you treat them like they are dirty.
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:59 PM
14

Yes, 100%. Game is not for getting that one girl you're in love with, it's for getting girls in general.
/r/seduction12/09/17 08:22 PM
10

Sounds like your first time on this subreddit. I'd suggest you read the sidebar first.
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:43 PM
18

That's not gonna work unless you're using Tinder. Assume attraction. If she's engaging with you and responding to your sexual vibe, assume she'll be down to fuck later. You can't just filter women like an amazon search, this is the whole reason we have Game.
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:11 PM
3

The opportunity to approach a given girl is often so short. Situation can change so fast, if you don't act immediately it may slip through your fingers. Just yesterday I saw a set to approach, I was planning my route to walk up to her, turned around to approach from the opposite direction, and in that time she just backed up and left the venue. Missed my chance by seconds. This is why the 3 second rule is key, if you don't act immediately the set may just vanish, let alone you may lose confidenc…
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:08 PM
40

I don't want to say "I want to fuck you" right to her face. You don't have to. As soon as you say "so... want to head back to my place?" she knows exactly what you want to happen. If she agrees she wants it too, and the situation is yours to fuck up. Now here's what's key: you have to give her some plausible reason for coming back to your place, however flimsy it may seem. "to check out my DVD collection, to see my pet, to have a cup of coffee, to help paint my walls" whatever. Any little detail…
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:05 PM
2

God, some of these girls seem borderline retarded. Anyway, never take dating advice from a woman. Don't ask a rabbit how to catch it.
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:01 PM
1

RPW and TRP do not go hand in hand. I asked this question over there once. Basically RPW advocates that women look out for their own self interests, which are not in the interest of us men. They are very interested in landing a good stable man to have babies with.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:10 PM
1

Do whatever you gotta do. Whatever is best for your life. But yes, if you have a girlfriend expect her to dump or cheat on you almost immediately after you become unemployed. Otherwise it makes no difference in pickup, just spin a tale about your aspirations or lie about being employed.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:55 PM
1

It was very gradual. I began reading PUA stuff and eventually moved on to TRP. I knew from the outset that I wanted to go out and meet women, which is why I looked up PUA stuff in the first place. But actually gathering the skills, confidence, etc to actually do it was a long slow process.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:50 PM
21

Look, game is game. It works on any woman, rich or poor, shy or bitchy, hot or ugly. If you hold frame it's possible for you to get any class of girl. However, it sounds like you are fixated on one specific girl. That will be your downfall. Game is about being able to get any type of girl you like, not any one specific girl. If one thing in her life makes her unavailable to you, any amount of pro alpha game will be futile.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:49 PM
5

If she's with a man and she says it, it means she doesn't like the man. Sexual satisfaction is a reflection of her emotions toward her partner. But if you're just trying to pick her up, I don't know. Just take it as a signal of the fact that she is thinking ABOUT sex and use it as an opportunity to make the conversation more sexual. Ask her about masturbation, about her previous encounters, etc. Then you can slip in an offer to try it out with you. Or, yeah, treat it like a shit test similar to …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:46 PM
1

How did it go?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:38 PM
1

That's awesome.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:23 PM
2

Maybe so, but how does one deal with that? Either way, the "dude" was just an example for the sake of the post, it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman or a group or a family or an old person or a kid. If there's anyone else around, I feel like I can't make a move.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:54 PM
4

Fucking do it. That's a once in a lifetime opportunity that will give you a good story (even if you only tell it to yourself) for the rest of your life. DO IT MAN.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:47 PM
-1

Are you stupid? The job of a hooters waitress is to flirt with you to get big tips and keep you coming back. Haven't you watched South Park? OP is literally Butters.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:28 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction06/09/17 03:27 PM
1

Yeah man, I share those nuggets here from time to time. There is still plenty of good advice on this subreddit, it's just way more diluted than it once was. The sidebar content is mostly a holdover from the good old days, so yes it's good info, but some if it is fairly outdated, and it's sad to see it stagnating. My problem with this subreddit in recent years is that it has become more about inner-game, that is, self improvement emotionally. That's a key part of PUA, but it's just one part of it…
/r/seduction05/09/17 02:36 PM
1

The Red-Pillers retain some of the real applicable knowledge but a large percentage of them hold a lot of anger and resentment towards women. I think The Redpill and Seddit/PUA have gone hand-in-hand since the dawn of time. PUA covers the how-to of attracting and beginning to date women, but TRP covers why it works, and how to act far beyond that - in a relationship and in the rest of your life as a dominant sexual male. While there may be anger and resentment towards women on both sides, it's n…
/r/seduction05/09/17 02:33 PM
94

If a girl says "we're not having sex tonight" it means she's thinking about sex with you in some form. If she says it's not a date, she's thinking about dating you. Just go with it.
/r/seduction01/09/17 04:33 PM
4

Dude I agree, it seems like the PUA movement has totally dried up in the last couple of years. This subreddit used to be full of good advice and real field reports of people putting their lessons into action. But now it's just noob questions and spam links. All the other sources seem to have dried up too. The best PUA's on youtube have all but vanished (many have begun serious careers, but have not been replaced by any serious new guys). Dunno what happened. The things I learned in the glory day…
/r/seduction01/09/17 04:31 PM
8

Yeah, I mean most of what people do with smartphones is a dopamine trip - checking social media, playing games, etc. Having just a simple phone for communication purposes would be most redpill. But come on, it's a multimedia device that connects you to the entire internet, in your pocket. No one here is gonna give that up.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:09 PM
27

Oh yeah Android is much better, so you can send all of your data to Google (it's actually in their privacy policy that they can use any of your data at any time for any purpose. Really bad.) so they can parse the data of you reading TRP, understand the reasons behind your being here, and turn it into a marketing gimmick to sell you clothes. OP, better offer an alternative course of action rather than just "don't buy apple". There are alternatives to the two phone OS's out there, they just suck.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:15 PM
2

You may be coming off as incongruent. People can pick up on that, and it's confusing. If you are feeling one way but forcing yourself to act another. You should focus less on forcing your actions/behaviors a certain way, and focus more on changing your attitude itself. Don't just mimic the posture and voice of confidence, make yourself FEEL confident and those behaviors will follow.
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:20 PM
1

I told her I wanted to kiss her I asked her if she was attracted to me I asked her again No idea what I did wrong here. You sure about that?
/r/seduction31/08/17 03:04 PM
1

This can be boiled down to two things: Make the conversation sexual, or at least about dating, and begin light kino. Don't go spilling your guts like a beta "y'know i k-k-kinda l-like you"
/r/seduction30/08/17 09:04 PM
2

Yeah dude, the general rule is to always wait longer to reply to hers than she does to yours, and to always write fewer lines of text overtime than she does. There are exceptions of course, but try to keep these rules in mind day to day.
/r/seduction30/08/17 09:01 PM
3

You know that feeling you get when you text a girl, and you have to wait for her to text you back? The goal is to give HER that feeling, but stronger. Make her wait on the edge of HER seat for YOUR response. Text her a question, then ignore her answer for several hours. Or tell her "oh, guess what!" and then leave it for a long time. Better yet, make her think you're about to say something about herself (that's what she's really interested in anyway). Be like, "you know that thing you did the ot…
/r/seduction30/08/17 08:51 PM
1

What's this "an out" concept? Can you explain? May need to employ it myself in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 09:49 PM
2

Nah I'm saying present it as an option to live spontaneously with you. If she likes you she will comply. If she's boring she will say "oh but i really wanted a free movie ticket"
/r/seduction02/08/17 07:34 PM
5

Don't overload the date. The point of a date is that she can get out of there quick if she isn't happy. If you do 6 different things you're gonna be there all day and she may feel trapped. Also she's gonna be like "offroading? i thought we were going to a movie wtf". Don't overload shit. You should can the movie date, but don't tell her ahead of time. Meet her outside the theater and play the spontaneous cool dude card - tell her "hey I just found this cool sports bar, i feel like a beer, want t…
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:06 PM
3

Better get used to it. Literally every part of a relationship with a woman is about escalation. First you meet, then escalate to touching, then to kissing, then to sex, then to higher intimacy, to meet her friends, to meet her parents, then she still expects escalation which is up to you to produce - escalate to living together, escalate to marriage, escalate to kids, escalate to build a home together, escalate to shared cemetery plots, etc. It never stops.
/r/seduction01/08/17 03:42 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BvNtGlBVihg
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 04:17 PM
16

You in the wrong hood now, n***a
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 06:23 PM
2

Yes, that's something we all wrestle with. I'm of the opinion that it's okay to let it happen, as long as you're aware of the consequences and prepared to cut it off at a moment's notice, and face the pain that follows. I think it's a normal human part of life to enjoy those emotions, but as logical and knowledgeable men we need to be aware of the reality of it. Love is a chemical reaction in the brain with clear evolutionary advantages, nothing magical and nothing "special". Others here will te…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:04 PM
9

What should I do if I think about girls 24/7 You should meet girls and have sex with them. It means you're a heterosexual young male.
/r/seduction21/07/17 03:12 PM
1

So, since you're new to TRP, I'll mention a few of the basics with you here. But if you understand and agree with the things you've been reading here, you're gonna need to go a lot deeper. Definitely read every link in the sidebar, and browse the subreddit by top all time, etc. So anyway, look, at TRP we understand certain truths about women, about their nature, and about how we as men relate to them. But at its core, TRP is about self improvement. You need to be able to improve your self-confid…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:56 PM
2

You know what the mainstream relationship advice would tell you: time heals all wounds, you made the right choice it wasn't the right relationship for you and her, etc etc. What TRP will tell you: get abundance. Go out right now and talk to 5 different girls you think are cute. You won't be thinking about your ex once you start daydreaming about that cutie who gave you her number at Starbucks rubbing her tight yoga butt all over your lap.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:36 PM
-1

I guess you're having a bad day. Reported you to the mods.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:31 PM
1

I made a post in MRP once, asking if they would even advocate marriage, knowing what they know. And most of them, having discovered TRP/MRP after already marrying as a bluepiller, said basically the same thing. They love their wife and don't regret marriage, yet they would never recommend it to any man, and they would not do it again given the choice to do it over.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:23 PM
-6

You don't get it. You can be redpilled or "alpha" 99% of the time, but every time you show your weakness to a woman she remembers that the most. And she doesn't even consciously realize it, but it disgusts her. It lowers your value every time, and every amount of redpill behavior won't raise it back up.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:18 PM
2

I think it makes a difference if you store your clothes in a drawer vs hanging in a closet. Also helps if you fold them properly. Otherwise I don't see the point either.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 07:12 PM
1

The kids issue is a ticking time-bomb, don't delude yourself. This. Thought the same thing when I read OP's post. I think deciding whether you want kids down the road in the future is very difficult to make. I think with enough reassuring that you may want kids down the line, women are able to delay their baby fever. But it never goes away. But how do you decide whether you're just not ready yet, or you never want them?...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:57 PM
1

This. Every time the Doctor regenerates he seems to remark, with some disappointment, "still not a girl..." It's part of the Dr Who universe/lore, and it's been a long time coming, and I think it should be fun to watch as long as the writing remains good.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:21 PM
5

Disagree with most of the premise of this. Sounds like it was written by someone who's never actually done daygame. Maybe OP is super attractive and gets IOIs all over the place. The rest of us have to create attraction. The things you read about daygame absolutely work in a lot of ways, and confirm a lot of our redpill and seddit principles. If you've actually done daygame as it's usually instructed, you'd know this.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:30 PM
0

Title was unintentionally misleading. I meant should we (redpilled single men) consider marriage..
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 03:27 PM
0

They say that an LTR is TRP on hard mode, whereas marriage is TRP game over. But I agree with you that redpill knowledge can probably make a marriage work, but that doesn't mean it's wise to get married in the first place if you already are aware of the potential dynamics.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 03:26 PM
0

I'm not really trying to get advice for myself or my own situation, just general info on the topic. I'm pretty sure for my own situation marriage is not the right choice, I just want to be well informed for the future, and I'm sure others in many different but similar situations have the same question.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 02:51 PM
0

This is my favorite comment here. It pretty much sums up all of the contradictions and confusing advice and paradoxes in everything I've been reading on the topic. Life is contradictory and paradoxical, but this comment is clear about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 02:49 PM
1

Oh right on, thanks for the friendly note. Will probably post over there in the near future.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 02:04 PM
4

I mean, I can do all that while single.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 06:30 AM
1

No. If she is attracted to you, she will have been wondering all that time "why hasn't he texted me yet?" which is exactly the state you want her in. When you finally do, she may play hard to get, but you will play harder to get. Abundance mentality. If she thinks you could go line up another date with some other girl if she says no, then she'll jump on the opportunity to lock you down.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 09:24 PM
1

There absolutely is text game, and it's easy. You've probably read that you should only use texting for logistics. Absolutely true. Never get into any deep conversation over text, never express feelings, or use up any story that might be great on a date. Plan the logistics, and if she tries to spark a conversation just reply with witty vagaries.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:57 PM
1

she interrupted me and told me that I'm a friendly person and that she can tell I'm a nice guy. That was a shit test. Women know being a nice friendly guy is an insult just as much as you do. You shouldn't have taken that as her losing sexual interest in you, you should have taken it as a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:55 PM
1

He used to be good, but something happened. Now every video he makes comes off as desperate and sad. Used to be one of my favorite youtube PUAs for a brief time.
/r/seduction07/06/17 04:26 PM
3

Posture. Muscular frame. Stature/height (buy manlet-enhancing shoes if this is an issue). Confident gait. Clothes that exude confidence.
/r/seduction07/06/17 03:30 PM
2

Women communicate in emotions. Don't tell her the interesting details of your story, tell her how it made you feel. Make her feel how you felt. Describe the feelings.
/r/seduction07/06/17 03:29 PM
6

Because she's playing games with you, and someone who does that is not worth your time. In the 24 hours you were sitting drooling by your phone waiting for her to reply you could have met 10 higher quality girls. If she isn't in your frame, you next her. If she comes back into your frame later, you can reconsider.
/r/seduction07/06/17 03:25 PM
20

Needy as fuck.
/r/seduction07/06/17 02:58 PM
1

Next her.
/r/seduction07/06/17 02:58 PM
1

A woman making the move in an interaction is different than her cold approaching you, which is what I was referring to. A bold woman who is willing to ask you out first is certainly ok, even a turn on. But a woman walking up to you on the street and overtly flirting with you is really disconcerting.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:39 AM
1

I've had guys approach me too, more than a few, (it's easy to show them subtly that you're not gay and they quickly turn it into a brush off) but even that feels more normal than when a woman does it to a man.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 06:38 PM
2

I only had one woman approach me, after pursuing TRP, and it really really turned me off. I was thinking "what's wrong with her?" Just the act of approaching makes her seem desperate and weird.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 03:57 PM
6

I dunno, I think OP may be on to something. The very hot girls are often intimidating to men, and like you they will simply avoid them because they assume they already have 50 better options. Of course it all depends on where you are, and other factors. In a big city, men are bolder, and even the lowly street bum will hit on every passing woman. Even so, they learn to ignore the hundreds of men hitting on them, and wind up going out with friend-approved beaus who tend to be beta pieces of shit. …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 03:52 PM
1

You won't fill that empty gaping hole in your soul with puss'.
/r/seduction26/05/17 03:45 PM
1

The best thing to do is to cultivate your abundance mentality, trust me. I'm not saying go sleep with a bunch of chicks, I just mean you need to really convince yourself that you can get a new girl whenever you decide to. So that in those dark moments when it hits you "oh no, i'm alone, i'll always be alone, i ruined my one great chance" your brain will slap you and say "no dude, you can get a new girlfriend tomorrow if you wanted to".
/r/seduction26/05/17 03:43 PM
1

I've been watching a lot of this guy's infields, and he's actually pretty smooth most of the time. He's able to approach any girl very casually with situational openers that work every time. And it's kind of his schtick to make sure that they will actually text him back, he asks that a lot - he must have dealt with a lot of flakes. But I agree, this video reeks of desperation. They are normally better.
/r/seduction26/05/17 03:40 PM
2

If she's on a dating site and she's talking to you, it means she's interested in you and single. It's so fucking simple.
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:32 PM
1

God, this place has changed.
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:24 PM
1

Just sounds like you failed a shit test. You put her off for a week before, so she was doing the same to you, but she didn't really want to. All you had to say was "that's cool, bring your friend!" Women value your social cognizance more than your muscles or your charm.
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:16 PM
2

Sexual tension. You need to focus on increasing it. Glance at her breasts and let her see you doing it. Feel that desire in your loins and let her see it in your eyes. Sexual escalation.
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:06 AM
2

Another thing you can do is just assume a positive answer. Like if you ask her out via text and she doesn't reply for hours, just be like "aright I'm gonna pick you up at X o clock, wear your short dress". It forces her to reply without making you seem needy or anxious. If anything you come off as more alpha.
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:03 AM
3

It's very important to note that you need to have some surface reason for inviting her back. She needs to have that plausible deniability. My current LTR, when I first invited her back, she knew exactly what I wanted to do after our already make-out heavy date. I simply said "so... want to come over tonight?" And I was totally flabbergasted when she said "Why?". I said "uh, oh, well, to see my guitar and stuff." And she said Ok. Then to this day, like a year later, she says "I remember the first…
/r/seduction15/05/17 12:58 AM
1

Oh absolutely, of course. Just be aware of the social context so as not to make them uncomfortable, i.e. don't go up to a girl in a coffee shop and tell her you want to fill her up with your hot foam... at least not right away.
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:23 PM
1

Incredible, it's like he's never even heard the word "abundance". What has happened to this subreddit?
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:00 PM
1

Cold turns women off. Just go to the gym instead, you'll be in a better position for later.
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:34 PM
1

Hair loss does not affect game. If you don't act self-conscious about it, and keep it groomed like everything else, then girls don't even notice it.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:11 PM
6

ABUNDANCE MENTALITY
/r/seduction26/11/16 04:05 PM
5

Idiot, yes it does. "X has stopped sharing their location" in iMessage. Idiot.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:59 PM
3

Nah, it's not like that. Basically I believe that the emotions derived from an LTR, when handled with caution, can be quite enjoyable. But I have no illusions that an "LTR" is anything more than just an extended plate.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 01:43 PM
5

Even as a RP man, I believe there is more to life and relationships than just sex with as many plates as possible. However, your alpha friends are not aware of all the risks and pitfall of committing to just one woman. These are logical factoids you learn from reading TRP, whereas natural alphas miss out on a lot of these informational nuances.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:14 PM
12

To anyone who is reading this and is feeling discouraged because your poundings are not that good, you CAN get better with practice. TRP is about bettering yourself, and one thing you should be working on is bending puss. Designate your next plate as sex practice - for one thing it takes off the pressure of performing well since you know you will be deplating her as soon as she realizes you are an amateur cock.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 01:59 PM
1

That's the thing, we've all been in the same situation. That's why we're here. You have a lot to learn, but the key is to start action now.
/r/seduction23/09/16 03:31 PM
0

You should, uh... read more of this subreddit. Spend a few months absorbing every detail like I have, then you might have a better clue.
/r/seduction23/09/16 01:26 PM
-3

When you "transition" genders, you don't become a woman. You become a man who looks more like a woman than most men. You're not a woman, you still don't understand what it's like to be a woman in this society. To be born a woman, to grow up as a woman, to be biologically a woman. All of your perceptions of femininity are your own. They are your own opinions of how women are; based on your observations and based on the messages you have been fed by the media and by women.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:25 PM
15

You seem to be missing the point that unicorns don't exist. This post turns into an instructional guide about how to weed out the "crazy" women, as if they are different from regular women. And how to find your unicorn. WTF are you talking about, there's no such thing as unicorns! That's why we call them unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:57 PM
1

It's called a conversation. Just maintain frame.
/r/seduction20/09/16 04:09 PM
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