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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding You don't believe promiscuous women can do monogamy? But when I said the comments argued against pair bonding you said they and you were arguing against the OP post. But what I am saying is that you don't have to deny pair bonding to counter the post. So this makes me question your motives	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:52 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread But did you eat grass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Which one in particular posts you think are insane	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:42 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding That doesn't sound like a pair bonding to me. I found a definition of pair bonding from a quick Google search "In summary, pair bonding is best defined as a selective and enduring relationship between two non-kin adults that often coincides with a monogamous mating system and a pair-living social organization. "https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/biochemistry-genetics-and-molecular-biology/pair-bonding#:~:text=In%20summary%2C%20pair%20bonding%20is,Behavior%20(Second%20Edition)%2C%202019 I actua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:31 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding Yes but the thing is you are projecting your beliefs around sex and relationship to be how humans are supposed to be. To me it feels like you women have an agenda? You could have just said promiscuous women get married and never cheat end of story. But no you have to debunk pair bonding, judge people for valuing sex as only as romantic activity, etc... all this makes me question your intentions here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:25 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding But y'all not correcting it you are instead projecting your personal beliefs. You want to be promiscuous and poly than fine but why is your lifestyle and beliefs about sex the only correct one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:18 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Red Pill men, what are your opinions on the book Sex and Dawn and articles that tend to romantize female promiscuouity and paternal uncertainty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:06 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding So do you want humans to go back to promiscuouity and abolish paternal certainty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:02 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding The women and sex positive men in the comment sections are so weird. While I don't believe promiscuouity taints a women. I don't care for moralistic arguments such as these. But it's silly how these people go to the extra mile and claim that humans don't pair bond and trying to say humans should devalue sex. They also say women should lie about their body count too. Is this all these people can do? Why can't they just some men don't want to date promiscuous women and some men only sex as a roman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 07:01 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding If sex were to be davlued like you want it to be then we would not be monogamous	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:53 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding Then what's the problem of men not wanting to date promiscuous women? Why deny pair bonding and devalue sex to argue against. Why go the extra mile?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:52 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding I don't support the idea that promiscuous women are tainted either but to reduce monogamy as a choice is stupid. How humans mate is dependent on sociological and environmental factors. With that being said pair bonding is not dependent on woo-woo chemicals. They did experiment on Lemurs and Voles where they shut off the oxytocin and found out they still pair bonded. Humans can mate for life but we need to believe we can. If you encourage hook up culture and promiscuouity then of course you will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:51 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding It's not obsession to defend ones preference. When men mock women's preferences doesn't that sort of pressure women to date men outside of their preferences which only causes distress	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:45 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding But if sex is just an activity why make that sort of promise in the first place? Why do people restrict their sexual behavior with only each other is sex is meaningless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:42 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding It's not a separate issue but how did the agreement of not having sex with others come to be if sex is not valuable	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:33 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding How is rejecting someone shaming them	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:32 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding Do you really have to argue against pair bonding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:28 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding There is something wrong though, we don't conform to their societal standards of dating and sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:27 PM
–	Male aversion to "sluts" has nothing to do with controlling female sexuality. It's pragmatic aversion of women who have a low admission cost for their intimacy and pair bonding If sex is just an activity then what's wrong with cheating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 06:08 PM
–	What are some green flags/turn on/ weird things you find attractive about women? Generally what makes a woman attractive to me is if I can see myself in her. She would have similar interests as me, share same values as me, and is not afraid of being weird. Empathy is also an important trait that I find as a green flag	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 04:53 PM
1	It is normal for adults to learn about real life through fiction? I am just making a joke lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 11:32 PM
1	It is normal for adults to learn about real life through fiction? Yeah of course it's a bad word	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:32 PM
3	It is normal for adults to learn about real life through fiction? I am not trying to argue I am just pointing how aggressively you responded which shows you have strong feelings about this topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 05:13 PM
3	It is normal for adults to learn about real life through fiction? Someone sounds aggressive today	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 03:46 PM
1	The Wall ain't real at all, and I say That as a woman who wishes It were the case I was going to say I agree from title alone but then your post just doesn't do it for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 07:55 AM
1	Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases? Does this kind of thing happen with friends with benefit relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:51 PM
5	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt Finally someone who knows what I am talking about. They want to change our society into those ones because they believe paternal uncertainty is a sign of women liberation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 02:57 AM
12	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt If women valued paternity certainty the same way men do them there wouldn't be need for paternity testing. But lately women have become either apathetic to the idea or out right want to abolish it. I have read articles about tribal societies and the author often romanticizes their cultural norm of not knowing the biological father. I have talked people who worship books like sex at dawn and belief monogamy will go extinct in post patriarchal society. I think with all this in mind it's valid to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 11:19 PM
0	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt Tbh no 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 10:03 PM
1	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt Ever heard of false negatives	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:38 PM
2	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt Yeah his example falls flat so hard that it isn't even funny. Maybe a little	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:37 PM
21	Do women confirm to hive mind thinking? I think hive mind is a buzzword that is overused. Humans are social animals we will confirm to one ideology over the other as we have shared experiences .	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:48 PM
2	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. As a man I can offer you my perspective on the matter. I am not really redpill or hard core tradcon but I suppose I have traditional romantic values so I can maybe offer a slightly different perspective. Yes I do want to feel important and valued in a relationship as a man but I also believe women also have this same feeling. We both want to feel important to each other. We don't want single women to feel miserable but we ought to expect them to feel somewhat lonely without a romantic partner. L…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 08:20 PM
2	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries The issue is with other women who post trap pics while being in a relationship where they would not be comfortable with their men following thirst traps online	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 06:16 PM
2	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries That's the root of the argument though if you guys don't like your men following women posting thirst traps than you shouldn't be posting thirst traps yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:43 PM
5	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries I doubt that since women do post thirst trap pics and it's becoming normalized. In that case y'all should be ok with us men following other women posting thirst traps online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:25 PM
5	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries Not all cases are unwanted there are women desperate for male attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:14 PM
1	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries JDwhiz responded to you perfectly	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 05:30 AM
39	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries We are talking about mens prefrence, boundaries, or insecurities. But I think it's worth exploring why women feel the need to seek male validation in a monogamous relationship? What are the cultural factors influencing these behavior and attitude in women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:41 PM
3	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries Wait what is wrong with talking about standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:37 PM
4	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries But it's important to ask why does she need to do that to feel sexy why does she need the sexual attention of horny men on Internet to feel sexy when she already has a boyfriend? But ignoring the question for now, men are called insecure for wanting to break up with these women or not wanting to date these women. But I agree with you that boundaries need to be communicated and we should not control the behaviors of others	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:26 PM
6	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries This the best answer here so far I agree with 100%. Like if you don't like partner posting thirst pics then break up with her and find a more compatible partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:16 PM
6	Women criticise men for having reasonable boundaries You are expecting jellyfish to solve math problems it just won't happen here	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:14 PM
1	Men and women have different ideas of traditional I am pretty sure trad women do have kinks not sure where OP got their idea from	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 07:30 PM
1	Men and women have different ideas of traditional I can speak for all traditional men and women but when I say traditional I guess I mean it differently than most. If I were to give my ideology a name it would be something like principally romantic. I am ok with egalitarian relationship model where I would also take part in domestic labor. But I would want a wife who doesn't have sex outside a serious romantic relationship like me. I would want my partner to be traditionally feminine like wearing skirts and heels. Also we should both want to ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 07:28 PM
1	Men and women have different ideas of traditional That's why we should be more specific than traditions	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 06:39 PM
3	So should 20-25 year olds be trying to only date 35+ men? People regardless of gender or sexual orientation should stick to someone closer to their age	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:26 PM
6	Would you like women settle for you or even be forced to be with you? Do you even care about love? I am principally romantic so I would prefer love than settling or forcing woman to love. But I do have a love potion I bought from a Wizard though	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:21 PM
2	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? Its good you have optimism as bunch of people are unfortunately pessemistic. But you are right though the world will indeed change for the better. We might not live to see it but we will live to see the process of it at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 05:06 PM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? I appreciate this long written response as it shows you are thinking deeply about this topic. As much as I don't like social pressures that go against my value I don't look at this from a liberal perspective which focuses on free choice without judgment. I look at it from a sociological perspective in which capitalism must be taken into account to explain current dating phenomena. The traditional romantic courting culture was never fully actualizes in the past as people claim. Yes women were exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 06:37 AM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? One I am not basing my perception of women from the Internet. The person who called the women a Taliban member was a man. Two I am against social pressures to confirm into liberal dating norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 03:26 AM
0	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? People do base their ideas on social and peer pressure but I think from your condescending response you benefit from such pressure and want to maintain such pressure in society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 03:01 AM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? Yeah that's my personal impression at least in online spaces. When young couples post in relationship advice the first thing people comment saying the problem is that you are young so break and enjoy life over silly little problem. There was a post here asking women what would their ideal dating life be like and when women said their ideal would be marry her highschool sweet and love together forever she was called a Taliban. There as been reports of men experienceing post coital dysphoria which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 02:31 AM
0	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? People are pressured to follow the liberal path of romantic relationship. A women was called a Taliban by a purplepill user here for wanting to marry highschool sweetheart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 02:23 AM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? I am not repulsed by 30 year old women, I am not sure why men say shit like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 02:21 AM
-2	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? Why do men want to settle down quicker as opposed to women? Settle down do you mean with kids or just be in a serious relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:31 AM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? I don't prefer staying home per say I just prefer activities that isn't drinking, partying, clubbing, casual dating, and the like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:30 AM
1	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" I understand that what you mean as I wanted to be wild life biologist but ended up working in med tech instead. I was utterly heartbroken and felt I lost my identity as animal lover. But the Pixar movie SOUL had a deep message about career and purpose. I think we need to change society to make socially needed labor more manageable and pleasant	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:28 AM
-6	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? What if people don't want to be single and enjoy their current relationship. Do they need to break up so they can just feel single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:25 AM
2	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" Are you saying you were just adding to the list of what OP posted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:24 AM
2	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? What are homebodies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:22 AM
-2	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" I don't care about most women or what ever since people say contradictory things about that all the time I hear other women say most girls have casual sex so deal with it. But I criticize hook up culture from a sociological perspective instead of a moral and psychological perspective that most red pillers do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:21 AM
1	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? I am going to go off tangent and talk about the comment section here for a second. I think the people here are biased liberals who project their social narrative of lost 20 year olds needing social variety and find their place in life before partaking in relationship. Nothing immoral about this but projecting this as how everyone is and how things should be is incorrect. As I mentioned earlier my friends defy this narrative. I think people should have the freedom to follow other narratives than …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:15 AM
3	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? This is one the best response here. My friend who was lost in freshmen year of college met his serious gf in the first three weeks of college in 2018 and still are together. Not to mention she took on a difficult major while he is on gradechool doing intense work. My other friend already knew what he wanted to do after graduation and took the steps to reach that goal but also got into his first romantic relationship around 2020 and they are still together. I genuinely think they are going to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:12 AM
7	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? My counter arguments is that not everyone wants to have fun like you said. Not everyone finds dating fun. Some people find relationships more fun than dating. Some people don't like clubbing, traveling, and partying. Why aren't we talked about in these kinds of discussions	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:08 AM
2	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? Yeah sure some people but not everyone is like that and that should be ok. Not everyone is this lost soul looking to find their identity or calling. We are social animals at the end of the they, we don't need to be alone if we don't. I have always lived with either parents or friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:04 AM
3	The whole women want to use their 20s to concentrate on their careers seems like an excuse? Spoken like a genuine liberal	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:00 AM
2	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" You take up a job to contribute to society and we often need to take jobs society needs over our preferences. It's good to find job that we have some interest in I don't think I would be contributing to society as astronomer compared to software engineer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:57 AM
0	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" It depends what we define traditional, when I use that word I mean women who don't engage in hook up culture and living hedonistic life style. No hedonism and asceticism are not the only way to live life, eudaimonia exists. I am not sure I actually want to call myself traditional I wish there was an ideology that captures my belief. I am going off tangents but the kind of women I want would have a job is what I am saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:54 AM
1	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" I won't use the word low value women but rather compatible instead. Some of the traits I agree while others I don't	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:49 AM
6	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" The fashion industry is shit though	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:47 AM
0	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" A traditional women has all those traits and then some	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:46 AM
-2	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" It's just that we don't want to date who do not have, same values as us. Yes I admit that I don't like career minded but that's because I am not career minded myself. I believe our hobbies and interpersonal relationships define us not our work. So I do expect her to have a job but I want her do have passionate hobbies. I don't like liberalism because I think it looks at the world incorrectly and comes up with wrong conclusions. I would hope my partner would be educated on somethings and maybe te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:44 AM
3	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" I share the same sentiment as you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:26 AM
0	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" I disagree	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:07 AM
3	List of behavior and visual cues that red pillers use to identify a "low value woman" What do you mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 12:07 AM
2	The Bottom Line Yeah I see your point know and I agree self awareness is important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 08:46 PM
6	What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here? You are the only one saying this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 08:44 PM
1	What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here? Bro welcome to reddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 08:43 PM
2	The Bottom Line What do you mean by self awareness here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 08:41 PM
2	Prostitution should be legalized. I wholeheartedly agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 06:59 PM
1	Is this insecure behaviour...a scenario.... You might have done something to trigger him though. People don't get angry for no reason at all. It might have triggered a trauma or something similar. People have right to feel angry. The anger is not what disturbs it's the behavior. They can either raise their voice and act violent or communicate that you made them angry and they need break. You may not intentionally made them angry but it still triggered emotions with them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 03:54 PM
3	AF: BB is still the ruling principle I think that's more applicable to sex positive women than women in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:42 AM
3	Why are so many women like this? Because having the same values regarding to sex is important to sexuality. If I am with someone who has engaged in hook up culture and separates sex from love that would make me sad because I value sex to be exclusively romantic like kissing is. The other aspect is that hook up culture narrative contradicts traditional romantic courtship culture narrative which I grew attach to when growing up. So if I am dating a women who had casual sex it feels like I dating the grave of tradition courtship c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:03 AM
0	Why are so many women like this? What I mean is I dont what are these subset of women and what are they exactly spitting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 11:00 PM
2	Do a subset of individuals "ruin" things for women as a whole? What if the gender was referred, would you say the same thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 10:54 PM
2	Why are so many women like this? I think OP is talking about women like you in his post if I am being honest. If you don't care about a partner's sexual past then you do you but I don't think it's fair of you to judge other person standards and preferences	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 10:27 PM
0	Why are so many women like this? What do you mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 10:24 PM
3	Do a subset of individuals "ruin" things for women as a whole? There are some situations where we should not support a man like when he cheated on his wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 10:13 PM
11	Q4men: how old are you, and what is the oldest age of woman you are willing to marry? I am 24 so I guess the oldest age of women I would want to marry is like 28 or 29. I generally don't want to have huge age gap between us honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 05:36 PM
1	Q4men: how old are you, and what is the oldest age of woman you are willing to marry? I hope things workout well for you two	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 05:35 PM
1	The one factor that ruins many marriages that we're apparently not allowed to discuss: children I do think we need to talk about child rearing as that is an important aspect of life in these subs. We ought to focus on how we can make child rearing easier. It takes a village to raise a child	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 04:55 PM
2	The one factor that ruins many marriages that we're apparently not allowed to discuss: children Even though in this sub I make it seem sex positivity my main enemy, my real enemy is nihlism .	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 04:53 PM
3	The one factor that ruins many marriages that we're apparently not allowed to discuss: children Preach	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 04:51 PM
1	Is this insecure behaviour...a scenario.... Exactly but people seem to equate insecurities with maladaptive behaviors which if true then everyone will have maladaptive behaviors that actively harms the well being of others. Instead of stigmatizing insecurities and suppressing our negative emotions we ought to show empathy and compassion to others and learn to regulate and process our uncomfortable emotions	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 04:29 PM
4	Is this insecure behaviour...a scenario.... You have the best opinion here than most women I talked to on this sub. The stigmatation of insecurities in both male and female is terrible and causes more harm than good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 03:42 AM
1	Gender roles are fine, but it doesn't mean its entirely set in stone It's just people are scared that outliers mean the end of norms. It doesn't help there are theories out there that maintain that social norms will disappear all together. Mainly postmodern and queer theory have this idea. We just have to educate people that outliers doesn't actually disapprove social norms. But all together we need to look at things from a sociological perspective as opposed to individualistic perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 12:08 AM
3	Gender roles are fine, but it doesn't mean its entirely set in stone Exactly so women entering in the work force won't make them gender fluid or masculine. Only propaganda does this not equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/23 12:01 AM
0	Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other? Who says they will vote, I personally won't vote	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 11:31 PM
1	Women will always have an advantage in hookup culture and it’s completely fair. Wdym?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 08:08 PM
2	Women will always have an advantage in hookup culture and it’s completely fair. Why not just abolish hook up culture all together	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 05:11 PM
3	Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other? This well said, I noticed people on reddit are grouping anyone that seems right leaning as full blown right wingers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 05:06 PM
4	Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other? Not all conservatives are fighting against abortions, some do support it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 04:54 PM
3	Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other? You make some valid points too	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 04:53 PM
5	Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other? There was an AITAH post about women being mad at her BF for voting Republican. But the issue is that the comments made the bf like some evil dude for just voting as they believe one person voting is going to change something. As if the vote represented their entire political view	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 04:47 PM
4	Are women actually jealous of their taken guy friends or happy for them much more often? Lmao I needed to hear this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 06:12 AM
104	Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.? I think the pick me girl since women get more matches and dates than guys I think	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 04:17 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread People on reddit are brain dead ngl	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 03:26 AM
2	Q4M: What are some feminist views you hold? Yeah I would consider myself as a feminist but not as liberal feminist	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 02:03 AM
4	Q4M: What are some feminist views you hold? I have this same opinion, I support most tenents of feminism from liberation from patriarchical violence to having ability to enter the work force. But I am against sex positive liberal feminism though	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 06:24 PM
3	Q4M: What are some feminist views you hold? They are the worst kind lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 06:09 PM
2	Would an older man lacking experience be a deal-breaker for you? Yeah OP you want to avoid women like her, kindness and softness from a romantic partner is important so as loyalty. Remember cheating girls will take advantage of your lack of experience, you will be a target for them so do your best to avoid them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 03:50 AM
11	If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life? I was ready for commitment when I was in my early 20's and still am right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 02:03 AM
1	Romance is just sex + friendship. Most of the people don't really have a good definition of romance that distiguishes it from friendship	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:20 PM
3	Romance is just sex + friendship. I have a question for you then. How can a fling be considered a romantic relationship compared to a long term romantic relationship. Life long relationships tend to have deeper connections and intimacy compared to either a fling or friends with benefits yet flings are considered romantic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:19 PM
3	Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options? I understand and I do not mean to diss women who do sex work but I wouldn't be comfortable dating them for the reasons I mentioned and more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 05:51 AM
1	Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options? Liberalism isn't progressive values it's a specific way to look at the world through metaphysical lense. It's not just mental toll but also physiological toll as well from STD. There is so much danger for doing sex work	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 03:57 AM
4	Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options? That's why I loath sex positivity and liberals because they ignore social consequences of choice and the social conditions in which those choices are made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 02:17 AM
4	Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options? Yeah I wouldn't date a sex worker not because I think she is impure but because she literally has to separate sex from love which could affect our sex and romantic life. Not to mention the dangers involved with sex work could also affect me like STD or hyper aggressive Johns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 02:11 AM
–	A traditionally-minded woman is more likely to be called a "golddigger" Independent has a point though	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 01:28 AM
3	What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer? I can give my personal opinion. They kind of women we tend to avoid or talk about are the sex positive women. The alternative women we prefer is really just a women who isn't sex positive. I don't mind egalitarian relationship personally it's really just the ideology of sex that's important when it comes to romantic relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 05:51 PM
–	The biggest flaw in these discussions is that all of us participants walked different paths in life since childhood, yet we judge and debate each other like if we were from the same walk I don't buy the whole it's both nature and nurture argument, I believe it's a cop out from exploring sociological factors. I believe nurture has bigger influence on shaping human behavior. Even in animals external factors seems to have greater influence on their behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 05:03 PM
–	The biggest flaw in these discussions is that all of us participants walked different paths in life since childhood, yet we judge and debate each other like if we were from the same walk Only when specific to their cause they acknowledge societal forces. But it comes to things such as mental health and hook up culture they think it's genetics and symptom of free choice alone. Trust me I tried engaging in good faith discussions with them around these topics and just refuse to understand the content of my argument I am presenting	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 03:48 PM
14	Women cannot understand how men can feel horny for women they don't even like If one can regulate ones emotions than one can regulate sex drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 11:23 PM
6	Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now. Why are always blaming technology for social problems. Yes technology is part of the problem but not the whole thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 10:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You applied this phenomena to dating specifically, but I think it's worth looking into solutions as it does affect more than dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 10:12 PM
2	Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not. OP this is the problem with this sub is that it doesn't really understand the problem of modern relationships. Hook up culture is what is influencing the behaviors and attitudes of both men and women. I agree some men here do want to hook up with women but are jealous of those who do but there are men like me here who are critical of hook up culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 06:49 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I actually have existential OCD thoughts about the phenomena you are discussing here actually. I am scared eventually we will run out of conversation topics permanently. When that happens do we stop talking to each other. This goes beyond conversation topics to story ideas for movies, shows, and games. Eventually we will run out of ideas permanently. I am pretty sure my existential thoughts come from this phenomena you are talking about need for constant distraction. I noticed when I play games …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 05:37 PM
1	The biggest flaw in these discussions is that all of us participants walked different paths in life since childhood, yet we judge and debate each other like if we were from the same walk OP what is the point of pointing to the truth here when people in this subreddit refuse to acknowledge it. The liberals here are idealistic they refuse to believe human behavior is heavily shaped by environment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 04:43 PM