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spacelord777/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 10:26 PM
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spacelord777/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 12:49 AM
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This is something that drives me crazy on here. People giving a FR on how they met a girl on Tinder and...(drumroll) she turned out to be a dumb slut. "AWALT!" sigh I'd love to see more posts on self-improvement, lifting, frame, etc., and less of these so-called FR.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 04:07 AM
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I am so jaded if I don't bang within 3 dates I pretty much next it. Which is why you are skipping those women who are looking for commitment. If this is your goal, then fine. But if you want something more from a girl you are shooting yourself in the foot here.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:58 AM
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AWALT is a risk mitigation term, not a literal statement of fact. Indeed. And yes, there is a way of understanding the suicide story as a case of general female tendencies pushed to an extreme. But I honestly think some guys don't know the difference.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:56 AM
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Look for girls in unlikely places. All the girls I met that I had an actual relationship with (as opposed to simply screwing) I met in random places rather than where you are supposed to hook up. I never really made "friends" with girls. Rather they typically ended up chasing me. I didn't so much plan it. My wife was just a girl that I was screwing, then who I liked to hang with, then who hung out so much she moved in, etc... Remember that, to a certain extent, your beliefs will shape your reali…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:53 AM
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Believe me, I know AWALT very well. I don't think I found a good one. I think I control my environment. My wife is like the rest of them.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:45 AM
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Agree so much with this. I don't spend as much time on TRP anymore because of all the circlejerking. It has gotten ridiculous. There was a post not long ago about how some woman encouraged her boyfriend to commit suicide. And everyone in the comments kept saying "AWALT." Really? That is some hardcore delusion right there. Another reason I don't say much anymore is because I am actually married. I have been for 10 years and I am totally happy in my marriage--it is a very RedPill marriage. But no …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 08:58 PM
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It's all about dread brother. I was in a similar situation as you. Do you lift? When I started lifting and upping dread, the wife's legs snapped open.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 05:43 AM
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Yeah, I find Athol's ideas on this a bit iffy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 05:41 AM
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I like how she keeps asking what she could do with a guy other than fuck him. She is truly so shallow she can think of no other human interaction than fucking.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 05:27 AM
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A woman posted about how to land herself a nice beta provider after almost three decades of riding the cock carousel. Here are her stats: 36 years old Wow. She really did start young.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 05:19 AM
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Most around here are only redpill in a very tiny area bud.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:31 PM
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But men are the risk taking sex, eh? So fuck it!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:41 PM
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Hitting kids doesn't make you a man. Dealing with and correcting bad behavior does. I agree with this. And clearly there is a difference between swatting a kid on his butt and child abuse. I notice you use the word "beat." I have never "beaten" my kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 06:28 PM
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I've seen lots of kids who aren't spanked. I'll pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 06:10 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree here. I've punished my boys for disrespecting adults. A kid who calls his mother stupid is acting like a punk. That behavior needs to be squashed. Smacking your kid for acting like a punk is precisely how you turn him into a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 06:11 AM
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You hang out with a strange group of guys who plop their dick into each other's water glasses, if this is something you always heard.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 08:02 AM
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Why don't you google up the people who have died from doing this because...they starved to death?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:03 AM
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Can confirm. College girls are generally the shittiest females around.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 01:56 PM
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I know the ask the of them well enough to tells out her just being an entitled bitch or anything like that. Her parents raised her better. What? In general, I think not. Generally girls who want to be friends want something (which you seem to be providing). And in my experience a female is useless in providing anything to a man in a friendship situation.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:10 AM
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I don’t think I realized how long this model’s arm was until I tried to duplicate this this pose, and my own arm got stuck halfway through boob town. The fattie didn't even realize that the model's arms weren't long, it's just that she herself was too fat to fit her arm around herself. Heh.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:06 AM
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"The ability to play chess is the sign of a gentleman. The ability to play chess well is the sign of a wasted life." - Paul Morphy I used to be an avid chess player until I could destroy everyone I knew. One day I was agonizing over a particular chess position from a previous game for like 3 hours and then was like..."wtf am I doing?"
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:57 AM
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Don't define yourself by the media you consume. Yes. While I've always played games, both electronic and tabletop, I've never much cared for "gamer" culture. In the same way the "420" crowd always got on my nerves when I was younger.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:46 AM
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Spent a lot of my time as a hardcore gamer as well. I still play some games, but mostly because its the only social activity I can do with my friends who now live very far away. I didn't so much quit games but rather got busy with self-improvement to the point where I don't have time for games. Plus I find myself more genuinely interested in reading something for a project or hobby than playing a game most times.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:39 AM
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I always order for my wife. I know what she likes better than she does, and she prefers me to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 05:26 AM
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Agree entirely. A man who is not interested in being with a girl unless she is putting out is obviously not really interested in her, just interested in getting laid. Yes, men do know the difference.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 09:46 PM
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People who are strong and independent don't go around saying they are strong and independent, because it is already obvious. It's the equivalent of someone going around saying they are really smart or really tall. The girl I married is educated and yet completely submissive and dependent. I, on the other hand, am independent rather than interdependent. What this means for me is that I don't actually need her. In life I start walking; she follows. tldr: women are like pizza--nice to have but not …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:33 PM
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Because I am a man and acted on my polygamy instinct. I was raised RP by my dad, so...N/A She was my wife's best friend. I didn't. I told her I was going to do it, and that I did it. Pretty awesome. This one is hard. On one hand it created a lot of bullshit in my relationship, especially when the mistress started trying to become the wife. Also wife cheated on me for payback, which sucked. But for a short space of time there (6 mo.) I felt like a demi-god. Looking back I guess I'd say the experi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 12:15 AM
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True. It's hard to tell with Byron. He had some romantic ideas about war. It's entirely possible that went he actually hit battlefield reality that he would have changed his mind, much as many Europeans did after WWI.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:05 AM
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^ This exactly. RP is here to support guys in positive ways, not to stick a hand up a man's ass and use him as a puppet.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 06:17 PM
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That wasn't cheesy at all. That was a pretty awesome tale!
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:20 AM
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Are you referring to the novel by Lermontov? Russian Lit is a whole different beast, and the culture was quite different than Western Europe. I haven't read much though (including the one you mentioned), just a bit of Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:16 AM
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True enough. The Greeks still built a statue to him though, honoring him as a war hero. I guess I just give him credit for his intentions.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:12 AM
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I imagine not. Roofing is brutal, especially in the South or Midwest. I helped a friend out once and that was enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:10 AM
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I'm not saying a coed workplace is bad. It is bad. I worked construction for years just to get away from working with women.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:41 PM
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I had a friend suffering from depression. Was a bit awkward. I told him to stop being a pussy and go lift. Turned out exercise helped him quite a bit! So sometimes we can be dicks while still being helpful I guess.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:39 PM
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As a man who teaches literature, I just want to point out that the men who wrote most of the literature in the 19th century were as far from Alpha as you can get. While I enjoy the Romantics...Blake, Keats, Shelley...these weren't really manly men. Byron is a bit more complex. He was bi-sexual and effeminate in some ways, but then again he died on the battlefield and wrote Don Juan.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:37 PM
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It's interesting, isn't it? Because I'm RedPill and I am pretty hard Right. I think at some point the circle closes...
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:01 PM
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This exactly. I have a couple of uncles are are full on Alpha. They are muscular badasses who screw women and fight. And both of them have spent most of their adult life in prison. There is no place for full-on alpha males in western society. Special Forces might come closest.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:53 AM
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I homeschool mine so its easy. My boys are in soccer, wrestling and boy scouts. They also regularly fight and wrestle with each other and shoot toy guns at each other while I drink a beer and laugh. The wife tries to be "safety queen," but I make her back off. The upshot? My boys are very well-behaved little gentlemen when the situation calls for it. The rest of the time they are like Lord of the Flies in the backyard.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:08 PM
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Well, on one level, what does it matter if the situation is identical? Either way it would be "marriage," whatever label you apply to it. But on the other hand, I am religious and so getting married is part of my beliefs.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 11:11 PM
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I agree with everything you said. However, I don't think that much of it really fits into much of TRP. But that's okay. I am more of a traditionalist than RP anyway. As I just commented in another post, yes I would choose to get married again. And I think you and I both know that what you are calling "Family Alpha" would, in a better time, simply be called "Being a man."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 06:36 AM
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Yes, without question. I am much happier as a married man. And I have control of my marriage and I think the chance of us getting divorced very small. But even if we do end up getting divorced, I would still say yes, for many reasons. The number one reason is my kids. Becoming a father has made me a better man and just feels right. I love being with my children and doing things with them. I like shaping them to one day be good men. And my wife is fully on board. Another reason is that while slee…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 06:33 AM
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Haha...thanks. And you are right about complacency! It's good to constantly realize how much more we could improve upon, whether it be strength, knowledge, self-control, or whatever.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 06:38 PM
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True. But seeing as I'm already married with 3 kids, I'm not sure that really applies to me so much. I'm already neck deep in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 05:28 AM
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Oh absolutely, if you are moderately attractive. The girls are in awe of male professors. To them there is a lot of power and prestige. I know a few guys in their 30s and 40s who get a lot of tail, and some of the guys in their 50s do too. But there are of course career risks that go along with all that.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:26 AM
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TRP feels like a miracle. I feel the same. Going to the gym is building dread in her. This is good. You already see her stepping up her game to match you and try to keep you. I wouldn't worry about it. A little panic in the wife is always a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 01:26 AM
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That's just women dude. My wife's the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 01:20 AM
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Dude, your sex upped from once a month to 1-2 times a week. Stop worrying about what she thinks and feels. You wanted more sex and got it. Now get your mind off your wife's vagina and go lift and do other awesome shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 01:18 AM
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Relevant (and funny): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6xXEaWz5Iw
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 02:42 AM
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I'm actually a little suspicious that this would work. I guess it depends on what the problem is. You could just buy him MMSLP for a present, saying it was recommended as a good man's book, and play stupid as to the contents.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 04:56 PM
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I've had to do the same. In fact, making excuses about my career is what got me out of shape in the first place. Now, lifting is very high priority. And once I did that I found I DID have time after all, and it was bullshit stuff that ended up getting dropped instead of lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 06:52 PM
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This right here. This is what RP is all about to me. Move the focus inward. True amused mastery is not feigned, because you really don't give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 06:50 PM
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That is actually really funny. I had something somewhat similar happen lately, although I didn't use any terms. My wife knows that I've been reading stuff and acting a little different. I was on the computer and she came in and bitched about something at me. I looked up and laughed at her and went back to what I was doing on the computer (not sure what that would be called, but I wasn't going to engage with the bitching). She stood there and stared at me for a minute, and then said, "what, is th…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 06:43 PM
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If you know a girl is wearing a girdle and a bra that pushes up her breasts it doesn't make her any less attractive. Thanks for the reply. Good ideas as always, BluepillProfessor. My wife is pretty RP and my interest in TRP is mostly because it aligns with the dynamics of my marriage already, but things can always be better, yes? I think that last point you made is really good, and really hits the core of my question. It made me think of being in a strip club. You know the girl rubbing her ass o…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 06:33 PM
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Father of 3 here. I was always there during my wife's labor. I never spent the night there or sat endlessly around the hospital though. I went and got shit done. Like going shopping to make sure there was plenty of easy food for the wife, going to work, taking care of the younger ones (for #3) and so on. You are a man, not a nanny. I went to see my wife on the following day, stayed for several hours, and then left again. Let's be honest here. Giving birth is some rough business. But afterwards, …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 04:34 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I'm with you and I don't really care what she thinks. I was just considering whether RP methods and things like Sex God Method were more affective the less she knew.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 01:08 AM
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Thanks. I am in the Scenario 1 as well. My marriage is rock solid and I am clearly in the lead, but I like to maximize the potential of all things. My sex life isn't bad, but who doesn't want more?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 01:06 AM
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Haha...that's where I originally saw it. Should have known you also subbed there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 03:02 AM
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r/fitness has a lot of great resources in their sidebar, with many different programs depending upon your goals. I often point people to their starting page because it is accurate and straight to the point: http://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/wiki/getting_started
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 03:01 AM
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brevity. n. "The soul of wit"
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:08 PM
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I teach college and all of my freshman girls have read it. Most of them think it is rather goofy though.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:05 PM
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It's also because women naturally always aim upward and men aim downward.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:59 PM
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There is a lot of hate. But notice that it almost always is coming from those new to RP. Those who swallowed the pill some time ago are pretty mellow by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:51 PM
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That's never occurred to me before. I feel like my brain just cracked open. You have thrust a knife into a hitherto unseen cultural nerve I think.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:15 PM
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He's also said he's not a Feminist, but he thinks that men and women are almost exactly the same except for different genitals. This is some seriously warped thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 08:58 PM
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Relevant: https://spacelordsrants.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/food.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 08:56 PM
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Ah, awesome. We should get that link in the sidebar. Thanks bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 04:34 AM
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Is there a more affordable way to get it? Amazon seems to only have 1 copy and it is $150.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 01:51 AM
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My wife made me my favorite dinner: steak, shrimp, and salad. It was pretty damn good. And the promise of dessert after the kids are in bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 04:00 AM
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I detect a gamer. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 07:46 PM
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In fact, it's arguably against their interests to do so because they have created tens of thousands of men who might create more competition in the world than would otherwise exist. At potential harm to them, they have done what the lower TRPers consider a fantastic service and they have done so seemingly altruistically. I was responding to the above. I meant to say I don't think it is against their interest, as it won't limit them and being a teacher advances a man as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 11:39 PM
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For me TBP is just links to 'lol look at this TRP idiot with his silly post'. This seems about right. TRP is about a philosophy and TBP is about spewing bile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 11:36 PM
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I was RP before I ever found the reddit, have been since manhood. I like TRP because I've found people I agree with, because I support the ideas there, and because I like to help other men who have been shit on by feminists and feminist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 11:27 PM
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I don't agree that there's a conflict between being a proper male and helping others through the reddit. A strong man takes action and makes a mark for himself. A strong man leads. Those who are passing out advice on TRP are taking action and leading. They aren't harming themselves at all. Women vastly outnumber the number of alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 11:23 PM
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Already married, but believe me I think about it a lot. And I work at a party campus, so the girls all walk around half naked. The upshot is that I have constant dread game without doing anything. The wife is terrified I am going to bang my students.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:16 PM
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Glad to hear there is still some sanity somewhere in Western Civilization.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:13 PM
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Well, that's modern society. Think instead of the Roman Empire, where men banded together and perfected war to crush the shit out of people. Bands of men will always beat random nomads.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:53 AM
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Seen that happen once. Didn't work out. Turns out the dept head was best buddies with the prof. There's no such thing as free expression in 99% of higher education.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:12 AM
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Can confirm (I teach college). When students question feminism the results range from being accused of hate speech to the professor simply trashing that person's grade. Obviously that isn't the case in my classes though!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:46 AM
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While I agree with the gist of your position, I am a RP guy who teaches College English. I have to keep my head down most of the time, but when teaching I like to wake students up via Socratic questioning.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:43 AM
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That thing about testing...kinda funny and sad at the same time. Yes, it really depends on the state you live in. Some states are really horrible towards homeschoolers. Luckily I am in a state where I have no restrictions, so I never have to deal with the government at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 08:36 PM
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Nice list. Any idea on getting a reasonably priced copy of the Sex God Method? Seems only one copy on Amazon and its $140.
/r/RedPillBooks10/02/15 07:48 AM
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I homeschool but my 3 kids are exposed to other people through sports (wrestling and soccer), church, boyscouts, as well as various meetups that the other homeschoolers around here do, like everyone meeting at the park and letting the kids play, etc. The media makes a big deal about the socialization of homeschooled kids, but I can tell you it is a bunch of bullshit, unless you live in the middle of the desert or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 06:49 AM
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That's what I do. Eliminates a whole bunch of feminist bullshit. My 8-year-old has a very natural way of looking at men and women, modeled on how his mom and I behave.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 06:46 AM
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Yeah, if one of my boys said that I would smack him in the mouth. It strikes me as trashy when I hear little kids cussing, and assume they have shitty parents. Generally this turns out to be true.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 06:41 AM
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My boy is a Cubscout, and you have to check out the local troop. Some really suck, are run by women, etc. His is pretty good. I also have my boy (he's 8) in wrestling, and that really teaches him to man up.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 06:40 AM
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She better move fast because she is about to hit the Wall.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 12:36 AM
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Just wanted to say this is a great answer.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 12:32 AM
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That's a fair enough response.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 09:29 PM
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The list is pretty good, except for #5. A man shouldn't need validation or compliments for what he does. He should simply act according to his purpose and goals. A compliment for a man is fine, but the idea that real man "needs" these compliments is misguided.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 02:49 AM
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Don't worry too much. My wife was the same and I had to teach her how to cook (I worked for years in a kitchen). Now she is an amazing cook! A lot of women have to play catch up (as do men who weren't taught how to fix things, etc.) As long as we get there, all is good.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 02:04 AM
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I prefer women with makeup, especially some eyeliner.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:47 AM
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People. PEOPLE should have their own hobbies and do their own thing even in a marriage. Couldn't agree more. A wife needs development and interests too.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 10:01 PM
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Every summer I take my whole family backpacking out into the woods. I catch fish that we eat. I get my two older boys (8 and 5) gathering firewood. The wife gets to clean camp and such. Its a nice reminder to the woman that in the natural world (read: real world), she desperately needs me. The boys love it, of course. And it is very satisfying to go and literally kill something for dinner. Normally I suffer from insomnia. When backpacking I sleep like a baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:58 PM
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you can spot a RP guy in church if you look. He's the one that can make his wife stop talking and walk out the door with him with a look, not the guy standing by the door holding his wife's purse and looking exasperated! Love this, so true. Seen both a number of times.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:52 PM
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I agree with the comment above: Unicorns aren't extinct. They are a myth. My wife is who I made her to be. You may be right about the general state of things, however. If I were currently single and desirous of a wife, I wouldn't be afraid to mold myself a new one. Just have to find some decent clay. In my experience the women in the city are the worst and filled with the most garbage. Concerning the term "Alpha." TBH, I have called myself such for a very long time, before ever seeing how it is …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:34 PM
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I am a scholar who is very interested in the interaction and role of the sexes. Besides living the principles I believe in, I am constantly reading and writing about the subject. I found RP in simply reading on the subject of modern marriage and how men should behave. Sort of a random, but excellent find. Also, since few people I know agree with my outlook, it is always nice to find some other folks who aren't insane. It was a long process, probably over 2 years really. I always went pretty "alp…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:21 PM
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One area that I've recently focused more attention on is physical development. I'd let that slide a bit in favor of spending more time pushing my career. But lately I have been easing off work and spending more time lifting. I think it is easy to get overfocused on one area of development and letting others slide. My motivation is pride I suppose. When I see a man stronger than me I don't like it. So I lift more. I am competitive and like the feeling of being better than other men. And I like th…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:12 PM
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Just so. While again I think there are some things we could learn from our grandfathers (like self-reliance, knowing how to fix things, stoicism) the 1950s are indeed a time too much either romanticized about or vilified. There was good and bad, like all ages. I certainly don't base my current lifestyle on any notion of that era.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:02 PM
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Conflating the children born in my marriage with welfare babies born to sluts who are on the cock carousel is apples and oranges. I do think you need to be aware of what you are getting into. But you don't need to be "perfect." No one is perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 08:59 PM
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I imagine this will help alleviate the stress she's feeling from constantly managing the kids. What else do you do to ensure your wife doesn't get burnt out from homemaking? In the situation we are in now it is a bit tough. We have 3 kids, ages 8, 5, and 2 (all boys). For my career we moved away from our family so my wife is stuck with the kids a lot. I don't really trust babysitters either. One thing I do a lot is take the older two boys off and do things with them (something I like anyway). Li…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 08:48 PM
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Our situations are somewhat similar. My wife is also a SAHM; she also homeschools the kids. That alone can make women act stressed. In terms of responsibility, both of you have to take it. But if you give her your word that you will be true, what else could you give her in terms of a guarantee? While you may not need to be as blunt as I put it, it basically comes down to this: There is nothing you can ultimately do to make her let go of the past. She has to make that decision for the sake of the…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 06:45 PM
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Well, as I explained in the post I recently started, I've just recently discovered RP, but I have been living by the majority of these principles for a long time. She needs to understand that by digging in the past she is destroying the marriage. She needs to absolutely decide if she wants the marriage or not. If she does, she needs to stop destroying it. It can be hard for her to understand that her activity is destructive... Although some on here might scoff at this...it can be helpful to take…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 06:11 PM
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Completely agree. I only have 3 kids but my wife stays at home and we homeschool them. And we budget all our money. Most BS I don't need: brand new cars, Iphones, etc. People think they have to have so much money because they are brainwashed by modern advertising and feminist culture.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:59 AM
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I have no idea what this is all about. I have 3 kids and life is fine. Only people who are unbalanced anyway meltdown because of children. Problem is too many men want to be man-boys.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:54 AM
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Ah...yeah. We don't live like puritans or Amish people, heh. My boys and I play video games together, or the wife and I drink whiskey and watch Breaking Bad, and so on. I mean, we're pretty normal people. I go to church and try to be a decent human but that doesn't mean I have a stick up my ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:45 AM
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Well it feels pretty good. I have plenty of time and space to work on my personal development; I waste no time dealing with meals, cleaning, etc; I have a satisfying sex life without wasting time chasing women. I think that our grandparents' generation had a lot of things right.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 02:13 AM
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I am INTJ as well. First time I've "met" another. For you first point, I mean "alpha" or RP or whatever...they are all just terms. The point is that I do honestly believe I am living in a natural state of marriage and it is a happy one. Concerning church. I don't follow all of your terms. Not sure what you mean by "part of The Cathedral," "tradcons," or "unicorn community." I'm a bit new to RP stuff and they seem to have more acronyms than the army... Anyway, I am Orthodox Christian, and there r…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 01:27 AM
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Well the whole story is messy. I cheated on her, she found out and cheated on me in revenge. Lots of drama exploded. But basically I ended up saying, "either we are going to move forward and be together or not, and that means no more cheating." A year later we were married. That was 9 years ago and yes we are still together, very happily. For us it was that critical moment. We both admitted that we fucked up but that we loved each other and wanted to be together. We went on some adventures toget…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 01:18 AM
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Cheating on a woman can screw up a girl's brain for awhile--I know, I did it myself. While you are certainly approaching it correctly, it will just take time. Hell, even as a man, getting cheated on can take a long time to resolve mentally/emotionally. But the fact that you two are still together says a great deal.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 11:57 PM
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