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| 1 | How to not be boring in my conversations?From experience of doing both, if you are in a foreign country or have something exotic about you and have tons of matches left and right you can go for the kill right away. You just want to meet DTF girls in these situations anyway. If you don't have as much abundance it makes sense to be a little more patient. Being very direct with girls doesn't impress them, it scares them. But sometimes you want to scare those off the fence if you are looking to get laid ASAP. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How to not be boring in my conversations?What do you have to gain from being sexual in your messages? What is the upside vs downside risk? The upside is that you might be seen as a sexual man, the downside is that she knows when you meet her you'll try to sleep with her, which ruins any kind of mystery or anticipation. I've done the sexual thing in the past, and while it's hot for her in the moment it would be very awkward for a normal girl to meet up with someone when it's so explicitly about sex. I would just keep doing what you are … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | How to not be boring in my conversations?I'm gonna take a different route and say that this was totally fine and that you are being unnecessarily hard on yourself. The only change I'd make is to keep the chat going and don't push for the date so early on. Take a few days at the minimum of consistent talking, or more usually a week or two. Women don't lose interest if they are still replying and talking to you, they lose interest when you escalate when she's not ready, which is why I think she flaked on you in this situation. The reason… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with "rude" flirting by women?Some women are submissive and some aren't, you will find them with enough time. If you want to have sex you want her to feel relaxed and comfortable around you, not subservient. It also seems you feel a bit insecure when women tease you, which I'm also assuming applies to men as well. Honestly it seems like you're more interested in proving something to yourself here than actually getting laid. Those observations aside, when anyone makes a rude remark towards you it's a test, and not a personal … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | i need to escalate but can't figure out how.Sounds like you are doing everything right and that this girl is a little shy. Keep making small moves like hugging her, being more flirtatious, touching her hands etc. The rest will take care of herself. The important part is that she feels comfortable and relaxed around you. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:39 AM |
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