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12

Never want kids and don’t care much for marriage/weddings so easily the first option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:43 PM
1

What is left wing in the US then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:19 AM
-2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:34 PM
1

I think they will find fun elsewhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:04 PM
3

Men have bodily autonomy. Women do not in countries or states with abortion bans. You are owed nothing because it is not your autonomy being violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:23 PM
2

I just can’t w the period blood
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:17 AM
1

Things that never happened for $500
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:48 AM
1

Idar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:13 AM
1

Also a good way to go to jail:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:00 AM
6

Sounds like your life is just fine then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:41 AM
5

Ok then be single forever 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:35 AM
9

Go find yourself a man then bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:23 AM
9

Have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:10 AM
7

Dumbass post. 1 in every 6 women have experienced sexual assault and 1 in every 10 rape victims are men. You are not at fault for being a victim of sexual assault or rape, and opinions like yours are the reason that such crimes go so under reported, for men and women. Shame on you. Do us a favor and delete this post, it’s embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:06 AM
3

“So much for equality” Some issues aren’t equal..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:39 PM
16

Getting laid isn’t really equal to her issue of being SA’ed so there is not much equality there. That was her point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:32 PM
6

I could pee standing up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:27 PM
1

It’s just a saying it’s not meant to be taken literally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:24 PM
1

isn’t that the same as big dick energy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:02 AM
3

me and my childfree bf in a long term relationship: 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:59 AM
2

Usually i don’t give a person an ounce of attention if I want nothing to do with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:34 PM
3

Why do you touch her then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:15 PM
2

This here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:40 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:56 PM
2

https://adoptioncouncil.org/publications/adoption-advocate-no-96/ The law cannot make up for the lack of accountability in people in all cases. Even should there be a national registry, which I totally support, the law cannot force you to register, a man has to decide that on his own free will. The reality is that these are a fraction of cases. Most men do not want to pay child support, which is why only around 45% of parents receive their payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:19 AM
2

Yes, when you abandon or adopt out a child you neither parties pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:06 AM
3

While it varies by jurisdiction, men who want to gain custody of their child have resources available to them for those situations. Specifically, unmarried men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:04 AM
6

Rape is absolutely a violation of a person’s bodily autonomy. I don’t think anyone who is raped should be at all responsible for a child, man or woman. A woman has as much reproductive rights as far as her body enables her too. Her body carries and births a child, therefore she is the one who can solely choose whether or not she wants to do that. A man’s bodily autonomy ends when he has sex, because after that, the rest of the reproductive burden falls on the woman. So it’s your responsibility t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:46 AM
2

Abortion is a measure to protect the bodily integrity of women and to uphold current medical ethics. For that reason alone, it is justified. If a man is raped, I don’t think he should have to pay child support. Same with women. The autonomy is not BS. Abortion bans absolutely violate and control the bodies of all women of childbearing age. No one is entitled to your body, not even a fetus. To force a woman through unwanted pregnancy, childbirth or c section is an unspeakable cruelty. The law is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:32 AM
4

Abortion is the right of the mother solely based on bodily autonomy and the fact that she is entitled to make her own decisions regarding her health. Any reason “why” she gets an abortion is not important, as no matter what, she is still entitled to choose whether or not she carries out a pregnancy. Child support begins at birth. It has absolutely nothing to do with abortion or pregnancy at all. There is a resource for father’s called the Putative Father Registry that law enforcement will check …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:08 PM
4

You have complete bodily autonomy. Women do not, under abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:43 PM
4

It is discriminatory because it discriminates against a certain sex. No, paper abortions are not the same thing. Both parents are on the hook for the care of their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:37 PM
4

It generally depends on the jurisdiction but a mother cannot put a child up for adoption without the father’s consent. He has rights to his own child, and in such case a mother would likely pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:12 PM
1

What did I say about me? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:57 PM
3

I am not disclosing that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:36 PM
2

Foreign language is insane wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:28 PM
1

I truly don’t care if random men open up to me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:11 PM
1

No I just like jinx from league of legends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:31 PM
1

Well, it’s a lack of proper parenting and influence of the people (friend group) around you. It just seems extremely privileged, bordering on laughable, that in a world where people experience far far worse, some people’s more impressionable experiences with the opposite sex have to do with a bad look or bribery for homework in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:18 PM
1

Just making things up again, I see. Men and women are bullies alike. It’s high school. Most of them grow out of it. You can’t change kids being immature, it’s a part of growing up. The vast majority of people have negative experiences in high school with other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:05 PM
1

Uhh, you and lots of the comments here clearly care about high school mean girls. No idea what ur talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:54 PM
1

I’m sure you’ll outgrow high school one day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:49 PM
2

Your comments just give me that impression
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:45 PM
2

You’re def a guy pretending to be a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:42 PM
1

Whatever u say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:38 PM
1

You could be a fictional writer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:26 PM
1

Damn I might as well go murder dogs and cats now too since they’re the same to you 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:21 PM
1

Uh huh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:18 PM
1

Thx for the concession 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:13 PM
1

Most bad behavior by kids isn’t a negative character trait, it’s just a sign of their maturity. Put them in a classroom with 30 other kids their age and obviously there is going to be cliques, mean girls, bullies, etc. A little boy murdering dogs is not comparable to someone “shutting you down” in high school or using you for homework. Don’t be obtuse. Immaturity doesn’t mean you are mentally ill. Murdering animals likely comes from a mental illness. You are projecting. You’ve called me multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:06 PM
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Kids are immature and mean in high school. That is a given. You don’t act the same way you did when you were 16 and neither do I. I don’t think people’s actions when they are literally children are representative of their adult character. Judge them by their actions as an adult, not the “hypothetical mean girl will abuse men in the future” Lose the projection. I don’t care what you think about me, I’ve said none of those things, you’re just making shit up in your head because you are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:51 PM
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Yeah I don’t think will smith or jonny depp are here I’m laughing because it’s high school, the fuck do you expect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:40 PM
3

Not without the father’s consent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
5

I am all for societal safety nets to help those struggling, but it is delusional to think that the government will fund millions of children’s basic needs when we already have an overcrowded foster care system. Nor should they have too. It is the mother and father’s responsibility to financially provide for their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:57 PM
10

How do you expect millions of children to be cared for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:53 PM
12

No, she cannot. Child support begins after birth. An abortion is her right because it is her body and health. Abolishing child support laws would lead to a collapse in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:50 PM
7

I’m aware. My comment wasn’t really pertaining to whether or not sexual assault crimes are proven in court, but the fact that they occur as a whole and the effect they have on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:47 PM
20

A woman cannot relinquish her financial obligations towards her child either, without the father’s consent. Are you saying we should abolish child support for both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:30 PM
7

The legal system is not perfect and not every crime makes it to a 911 call or a police report for a vast variety of reasons. Sexual assault is a complex issue involving a usually traumatic experience and little to no proof it occurred. Not to mention the shame, disgust, insecurities and guilt that many of the victims face. For what it’s worth, my dad was an attorney for over 30 years and worked for an organization in my state that dealt only in sexual assault and rape cases. I think it’s extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:28 PM
18

It is illegal for women too. Child support laws are not discriminatory by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:19 PM
13

Yes, you are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Lol Just because a crime wasn’t reported or a person wasn’t found guilty of a crime doesn’t mean it didn’t occur. I had 3 men break into my house when I was 11 year old. While I was home and sleeping with my mom. They were never caught. Did the events not happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:18 PM
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It still happens, whether reported or not. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:14 PM
24

Key word you said here is “been proven of” a SA crime. The vast majority of sexual assault crimes and rapes go unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:12 PM
21

What bodily autonomy belonging to a man is being violated by a woman having an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:07 PM
19

My dad taught me this from a young age and he still tells me this in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:06 PM
9

Can you give an example? I’m interning at a family law firm, so I’d love to know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:01 PM
1

Good for him. I smell envy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:58 PM
4

Fuck yeah I’d take that deal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:42 PM
14

I would happily give you my ability to get pregnant if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:22 PM
17

Men can’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:17 PM
8

Abortion laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:09 PM
7

Almost every comment here is about high school experiences 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:56 AM
2

Yeah I don’t even have 5k photos on my phone. How tf do you get 9k of someone sleeping. Shit is weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:13 AM
3

9k photos of you sleeping!!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:07 AM
1

Bruh that’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:50 AM
1

Don’t worry I took first from you 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:11 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/8j6ru28obomd1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=77da44d57b069ac1863fb4100281942614b60484 Daily unhinged political texts I receive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:52 PM
2

Buying super expensive things you don’t need
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:03 PM
-1

Such facts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:02 PM
2

I hope so, but bad parents exist now, so I wouldn’t be surprised if everything he said was true or at least semi-true. Some ppl are very stuck in their own mindsets 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:01 PM
1

I don’t like floral scents even on women bc they make me sneeze. So I wouldn’t like it if that’s what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:58 PM
0

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/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:40 PM
1

Yeah, some ppl really should not reproduce. The whole conversation made me feel so bad for his daughters, if he ever has them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:37 PM
2

I just had a guy who identified as red pill say being a lawyer or a doctor makes you masculine and he wouldn’t let his daughter go to college 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:30 PM
2

Jesus that’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:28 PM
5

Literally how insecure or little do you value yourself to do all of that in a relationship for reals I just want an equal, 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:26 PM
1

This gotta be troll 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:43 PM
1

Who makes you pay for soap bruh it’s in every public toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:36 PM
2

Just use soap or hand sanitizer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:17 PM
2

Brother ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:01 PM
2

Hahahhaa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:42 PM
2

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:35 PM
2

U don’t wash your hands with soap after using the restroom? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:32 PM
1

First world problems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:31 PM
1

Number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:54 PM
1

So first I’m laughing at your story and now I’m laughing in contempt of men? Make up your mind lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:45 PM
1

I already told you what I laughed at, lose the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:22 PM
1

Sounds like projection, I already said women who attempt murder should go to jail, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:42 PM
2

The kardashians? Photoshopped? No way 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:19 PM
1

I’m laughing at the line of questioning. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:18 PM
2

That’s even worse that it migrated down her thigh 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:12 PM
1

Insane reach Yes I think women should go to jail for attempted murder. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:09 PM
1

The second one’s surgeon should be fired god damn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:07 PM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:04 PM
0

lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:56 PM
0

?? That’s what his source says
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:54 PM
2

There is nothing wrong with getting her number, why would any person miss out on an opportunity with someone over an uninterested date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:07 AM
2

I just experienced this also like 30 mins ago and I take allergy pills every day :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:05 AM
5

I’m sure you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:48 AM
6

Ways to go no contact with your child 101
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:44 AM
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I think I will pass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:37 AM
3

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:32 AM
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So where’s the redeeming qualities? Or do you think women are truly so shallow that 6’9 will win them over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:31 AM
-3

Sounds like more women need to be judges
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:20 AM
-7

So do you have an answer or no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:13 AM
-2

What crimes are men being jailed for that women aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:18 PM
6

The male anger here, yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:50 PM
2

I’m like room temperature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:32 PM
1

People will say whatever they want to fit their narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:31 PM
3

I agree, and that “certain degree” is very important. Your job is to be a parent, not a “leader”, and to nurture your child and guide them to make good decisions for themselves and their future. Forbidding your child from going to an Ivy League school, which is a MASSIVE accomplishment, and telling them you will take them out of the will if they do is controlling and financially manipulative. Simply because.. it’s a mixed gender college, like most colleges? You’d throw away your child’s achievem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:57 PM
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Because there is a difference between the two. Controlling your child to bend to your will and manipulating them financially is not leadership in any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:49 PM
5

Leadership sounds more like a manipulative dictatorship in your case
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:41 PM
7

That seems very controlling and manipulative, lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:33 PM
5

She takes out loans, like a lot of ppl do.. what now?*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:27 PM
3

Maybe you should remember that next time you wanna use hateful unhinged language towards people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:20 PM
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Only the short-sighted ones apply such hateful traits to an entire gender because of their personal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:18 PM
6

What if she got accepted into an Ivy League like Harvard or something similar and wanted to complete her studies there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:16 PM
2

Skincare/workout/haircare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:14 PM
1

42 and US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:12 PM
5

Ding ding ding 🛎️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:08 PM
8

Ok but what if she wants a career where college education is required.. what if she has a passion for a certain job that she needs a degree for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:05 PM
8

Whatever you gotta do to cope 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:04 PM
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If calling an entire sex vindictive, useless, and parasitic is polite to you.. you might be further down the rabbit hole than you think friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:04 PM
14

I’m sure you and them have plenty in common 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:01 PM
8

U shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:59 PM
16

The I hate women circlejerk is real here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:55 PM
10

Most sane ppd commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:55 PM
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What if she doesn’t want to be totally dependent on someone and wants to have a career of her own? You can totally be feminine and be a lawyer or a doctor lmao. There’s nothing wrong with not being totally feminine either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:51 PM
10

What if she wants to be a doctor/lawyer, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:43 PM
2

No never
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:03 PM
3

The fuck? No one deserves to be treated poorly by their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:59 PM
4

He sounds like such a dickhead it makes me wonder if the story is true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:57 PM
5

Bro you’re on ppd chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:09 PM
1

Friendly fire
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:38 PM
2

Sounds like u all have something in common
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:34 PM
1

See ya on Megan’s list
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:18 AM
3

That’s a whole ass child
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:12 AM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:04 AM
6

Yes I judge people who cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:37 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:35 AM
0

Stop focusing on it so much. The more you focus on your perceived flaws the more miserable you will feel abt yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:02 PM
1

You literally just proved her point without realizing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:56 PM
1

Lol you’re good no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:16 PM
1

I’ve never called myself a feminist? Why are you okay with a woman proposing but not taking up the traditional woman’s role in a marriage/wedding? That’s pretty telling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:44 PM
1

Probably just some crazy person. Either way it’s entertaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:58 PM
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<image> The one I got yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:18 PM
1

Ya im gonna have to disagree that people who think like that text message are better than the alternative 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:16 PM
2

The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:57 PM
0

Still unhinged af
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:55 PM
2

Ya I think it has to be satire but idk bc the area code is from Alabama and they’re a super conservative state
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:52 PM
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They’ve got to be dumb as shit because texts like this would turn people against Trump rather than gain a vote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:49 PM
0

I feel like it has to be satire lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:37 PM
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<image> Daily unhinged political texts I receive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:29 PM
1

My sister is 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:17 PM
1

It is absolutely not arbitrary at all. What an invalidating, ignorant response. We have an entire branch of medicine dedicated to pregnancy and childbirth because of the dangers and risks that come with it. Is that just an arbitrary field of medicine, too? Women have to provide for their children too. Child support laws do not discriminate by gender. She only gets to choose if the pregnancy continues or not because it occurs in her body only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:17 PM
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5’8 so one inch taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:14 PM
2

Is he gonna take my last name and his family will pay for the entire wedding then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:13 PM
2

No, because yall will do anything to excuse why you can’t be a decent person towards a woman here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:40 PM
2

I don’t think most people behave like the commenters here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:34 PM
0

Therapy is helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:33 PM
1

It’s an I hate women circlejerk for some ppl here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:26 PM
0

So you’ll take her last name?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:23 PM
2

Yeah I’d be dead before I do this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:23 PM
1

God damn the bar is really in hell when it comes to ppl here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:19 PM
2

Bruh that’s too much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:17 PM
6

It’s a red flag but I wouldn’t end it unless it was accompanied by other negative things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:16 PM
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A fetus is in a woman’s uterus until it is born. That is a fact. It is her body and her organs to do as she wishes, whether that means carrying the pregnancy to term or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:56 PM
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I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:18 AM
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It’s not “some reason”, it is the fact that her body is entirely hers and she gets to make her own decisions regarding it. A man does not lay claim to her body just because he impregnated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:58 AM
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Not without the other parent’s consent can one parent put a child up for adoption. It requires both mother and father to agree. It varies by state, but after surrendering a child to a safe haven a parent typically has 3 months to reclaim their rights to their child. There is a resource called the putative father registry that exists only for father’s to reclaim their rights to their child should the mother give it up without his knowledge or consent. And yes, women can abort because the pregnanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:42 AM
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Shut up weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:04 AM
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Weeding a garden together is so fucking weird to me lmao A zoo sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:35 AM
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Women can’t abandon their child either. Child support laws apply to women as well, it’s just less likely a woman is abandoning the kid and the father wants to keep it - they’d just have an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:00 AM
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This some brainrot yapping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:59 AM
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Bro do you have to get up from the toilet and go to the kitchen to get a knife or do you just bring one into the bathroom with you prepared
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:56 PM
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Me either. I unsubscribe/end all political texts and emails too, idk how they got my number. This was just unhinged. It’s the crazy religious right that says this type of intolerant shit, and I think JD Vance is worse than Trump in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:53 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ic9tudkb63md1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=58c2096356284ed4dc19243071f56dbec6790e24 A literal text message I got today lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:44 PM
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It’s been normalized for decades. I don’t think you really see stuff like that outside of school/college unless you have really shitty friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:11 PM
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The worst of all of this is that you hate pickles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:43 PM
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Whatever you say lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:34 PM
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Gender stereotypes that men should be tough and strong, emotionally and physically Anyone who mocks or laughs at someone for being insecure is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:30 PM
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Uh huh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 PM
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I literally just said you do you and no one’s forcing you do date, that makes me a hoe? ⁉️ wut
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:25 PM
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Uh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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Then hookup with ppl you find online or at bars, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:46 PM
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Then just have fwb, no one is forcing you to date. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:43 PM
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I’ve ran so many 5ks, this is totally understandable if you’re trying to beat your PB. Plus, 5ks are like 25 mins, it’s not like I’d be on my own for too long. As long as I was getting the help I need then I’m totally fine with him finishing the race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:40 PM
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I’m in a long term relationship so this hasn’t once crossed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:37 PM
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I thought it was implied if there are no children then both partners are working
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:52 PM
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We’re both childfree and live lavishly, travel, eat great food, drink, what more can I ask for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:05 PM
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😭😭 what on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:03 PM
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Believe it or not, women can do more than cook or birth babies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:14 PM
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Neither of us cook. If he wants food I think he can manage making a sandwhich by himself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:01 PM
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Why would i
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:32 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:49 AM
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Nah sounds like we can’t be trusted to do anything so I think you should pay my bills and take care of the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:35 AM
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Sounds like men should be providing and doing the childcare then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:11 AM
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You literally could not waterboard this info out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:28 AM
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Ok if it’s not work her husband can come home and take over then. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:20 AM
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My hair and highlights every 4-5 months is 140$ and takes about 1hr 30 min 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:55 PM
1

Have you tried just regular birth control with estrogen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:00 PM
1

My bf likes roses
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:58 PM
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Well, insecurity is a bitch man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:48 PM
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You should explain that to your dates then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:19 PM
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Huh?? I’ve literally never had sex for an hour or more straight. I don’t think that’s a common expectation at all, I just think it’s a question better asked to men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:18 PM
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Yes, but the point is that you pick a bear bc you aren’t willing to take the gamble that you might be with a bad man. That doesn’t mean all men you’re pulling from are bad, just some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:15 PM
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Yeah this isn’t really an issue women can speak on too much because, well,.. we don’t have dicks lol I think communication is key here. If this happened to me my initial thought would be he wasn’t attracted to me enough if I wasn’t told otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:09 PM
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It’s ok not to fit the gender stereotype. I’m a woman and I wear baggy sweatshirts and leggings all the time, hate dresses and play video games or gym in all my free time. I don’t even want a wedding honestly and that’s what lots of women look forward to. I hate kids as well. Not exactly the “feminine role” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:45 PM
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How dare you listen to silly woman words 😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:34 PM
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Okay then think what you want idc 🤷🏼‍♀️ Point being women are taught to be wary of strange men because of the high rate of sexual assault that happens to them, perpetrated by men. It’s not made up out of nowhere. And it doesn’t mean all men are like that, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:32 PM
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This sounds like a question you should ask men bc idk if that’s even normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:26 PM
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The fact that this is a question is sexist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:11 PM
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Uhh no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:05 PM
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It’s a sexist issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:03 PM
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I agree. The men are trash and dumb sayings like that are just hateful and certainly not a way to convey whatever point you’re trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:40 PM
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I think most men know that when women say they are afraid of men, walking home at night, the bear vs man shit, they’re not talking about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:39 PM
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It’s mostly politicians with no medical training that base their decision making on the Bible. Religion should always be separate from the state
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:34 PM
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Agreed. As long as abortion is legal I could care less what other people do or declining birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:18 PM
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My mom who had me at 42: 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:14 PM
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Ironic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:01 PM
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My bad I misunderstood, I didn’t know you were talking about the ultra rich. I mean yeah, I guess you can be addicted to increasing your wealth and power especially if you’re already near the top, it’s been that way since the dawn of time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:00 PM
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Idk what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:58 PM
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Dang, you must know all women on earth better than they know themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:55 PM
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U actually think all women only value men by how many women he has? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:44 PM
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What if I don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:31 PM
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But how
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:26 PM
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What if I don’t identify as one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:18 PM
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I’m finishing a law degree but I’m interning as a paralegal for a family law firm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:57 PM
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Idk, my bf makes well over 6 figures and we have a friend who is pushing a 200k salary as well. Both of them are tell me they hate it and don’t wanna do it anymore. I think it’s a minority of people who actually crave more work or enjoy their jobs. But kudos to them. Couldn’t be me at all lol I just wanna win the lottery and go travel and eat good food
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:19 PM
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Skincare routine and super light makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:32 AM
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It’s pretty bad. Idk if I wanna know what full rogue is if it’s worse than that guys viewpoints..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:30 AM
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But I can’t cook and don’t want kids. I just do work, video games, gym and walk my dog 🥲 I wanna win the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:29 AM
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That seems unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:24 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:24 AM
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I don’t wanna do work anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:22 AM
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You should prob include edit it to say “that’s true from what I’ve seen on these threads here” to make it more accurate other than not including that part Also, I thought it was pretty obvious you were being sarcastic, since “men bad, woman bad” aren’t sentences and with the emoji’s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:18 AM
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Yes the fact that men are indeed bad who are arguing against my point are bad and stupid on those threads lmao I didn’t say this one man. I said multiple men on this sub in the threads in my comments. Look at my original comment. in this sub ??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:12 AM
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You too bestie Edit: oh no he blocked me.. could that be.. emotions? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:09 AM
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“That’s true from what I’ve seen on multiple threads here” Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:07 AM
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If you say so king
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:06 AM
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I literally specifically said the men on this thread arguing AGAINST it are not decent people. What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:04 AM
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😭 yeah bro you won so hard. Good job 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:02 AM
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Yes they are bad. If you see multiple women saying that they wouldn’t dial 911 you can say they’re bad too and I’ll agree with you. But that’s not the case in the threads on here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:01 AM
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Yet you’re responding to me It’s a debate sub. None of this makes a difference in the real world. Next?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:00 AM
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Yes the men on these threads, like I said, are bad and stupid who are arguing against it. Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:57 AM
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What truth? I never said you’re forced to call 911. I said it makes you an asshole if you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:56 AM
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Where did I say all men are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:56 AM
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Men don’t lie? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:52 AM
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Whatever helps u sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:51 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen those social experiments. I’m just surprised to see people making an argument that proves they’re an asshole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:51 AM
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I mean, they were complete strangers before that happened, since we hadn’t really interacted with them before Calling 911 achieves more than doing nothing. Especially if the assault is ongoing or they need medical help. Where I live they would be there within minutes for an assault or robbery
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:48 AM
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If you’re okay with that then I feel sorry for you 🤷🏼‍♀️ hope you never find yourself in distress and are ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:38 AM
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Ok and that makes you an asshole, simple as that No idea what you’re ranting about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:33 AM
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That is terrible I live in a small town and something like that would never ever happen. When I was a kid my house was broken into by 3 people while my mom and I were asleep and for the next month our neighbors offered help, to walk me to school, offered their security camera footage, etc. I literally cannot imagine seeing someone get a gun pointed at them or beat up and just continuing on with my day. I’d feel so guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:19 AM
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That’s true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:13 AM
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No shit it’s optional, but turning a blind eye makes you an asshole. It’s the bare minimum to be a decent human being
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:12 AM
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yeah that’s really fucking sad. Maybe people thought they were just roughhousing as friends or something? Idk, there is really no excuse for that. People are assholes and I think it’s worse in big cities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:11 AM
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I’m surprised to see people arguing against doing the bare minimum for a stranger in need. I don’t think most people are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:07 AM
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lol yeah I’m just being dramatic. I think most people would help someone out in public, even a stranger But it really is sad. Pathetic, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:01 AM
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Yeah they did, multiple times, say they are not obligated to call 911. I had a guy even respond to me and say because women don’t have sex with suicidal men or let them experience romantic love then he’s not obligated to call 911. So yeah those men are bad and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:43 AM
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That’s true from what I’ve seen on the multiple threads. Not seen a single woman say they wouldn’t call 911
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:35 AM
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Strangers? That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:28 AM
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I just think anyone who watches something like that happen and doesn’t help is a fucking asshole. Like would you watch a dog being kicked and punched? A baby being tossed out of a stroller? No.. so why not just go to a safe space call 911 if you see someone in distress?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:10 AM
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The amount of men arguing against doing something as simple as calling 911 if you see someone being assaulted in public on this sub is making me lose hope in society. Just be a decent person and do the bare minimum for a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:03 AM
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Literally all you have to do is go to a safe space and call 911. Doing nothing is not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:01 AM
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Umm because you said men are more likely to be assaulted or murdered. Those are violent crimes. Your source is very outdated, it was from 2008-2012. Only 1.07% of victims of violent crime were male in the year of 2022. 53% of women were victims of sexual assault. It’s not comparable. Sexual assault happens more often than violent crime. And women are the weaker sex, men being the main perpetrators. What’s your point? Walking alone at night is far more dangerous for a woman than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:00 AM
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If I saw a person being assaulted in public I would call 911. It’s v simple
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:45 AM
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Ok then you’re a pos if you turn a blind eye when you could do the bare minimum and call 911
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:21 AM
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I also think women should call 911 for a man being mugged or assaulted in public
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:12 AM
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Yeah I mean there’s always gonna be bad apples but I’d say most well-adjusted women would want to get to know a man pretty well before wanting to get pregnant with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:49 AM
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Most of the time. I think money only really matters if you want kids. If a woman wants kids she’s gonna need to be with someone who can support them financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:37 AM
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Literally just call 911 for them instead of turning a blind eye. That’s all is asked of you. You don’t need to throw yourself in front of a bullet or knife for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:32 AM
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I asked that man to do the bare minimum and call 911 if he sees a person being assaulted or mugged in public. He said he is not obligated and feels the same way about women refusing to fuck suicidal men because they lack sex. It is exactly how she made it sound. You can go read it all if you want. There is no defending that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:24 AM
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On this sub. Yes. Hence why you have ppl arguing against it, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:39 PM
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I think you’ll be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:36 PM
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Dw I don’t think you’ll have to deal with a pregnant woman anytime soon 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:32 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:29 PM
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Was this my conversation??? Because I physically cringed when he said that 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:16 PM
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My bf and I shit on each other jokingly but I couldn’t imagine being dead serious and compare him as a goblin to a man in a past relationship. The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:13 PM
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Some are, yes. It affects your mental state. Some people have full on psychosis or bipolar behavior. Others don’t at all. I thought this was common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:07 PM
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Is this some kind of fetish or
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:05 PM
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I don’t. People who are dickheads are a massive turnoff. Would never date an asshole no matter how good looking he is. You can be confident without being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:02 PM
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This is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:00 PM
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Don’t even engage with it. He thinks being intimate with random suicidal dudes is the same as dialing 911. Bro is terminal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:20 PM
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Dam that’s rough for him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:06 PM
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How many women are in your room that you’re decorating for? Lol. Mine is just things I like looking at I have a bunch of autographed vinyls/CDs, paintings of my dog, stuffed animals and a giant Jinx statue from league of legends in mine. Pretty sure the average guy would be a lil cringed out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:43 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/423245/us-violent-crime-victims-by-gender/ Not true at all. In fact, they are pretty close in recent years. You admit it yourself, men in general are more violent. Women are the weaker sex, physically, and cannot protect a man like a man could protect her. Violent crimes aside, a woman is far more likely to be a victim of sexual assault, and sexual assault happens more often than murders. I don’t really care what you believe I would or wouldn’t do. What I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:59 PM
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It’s not outdated at all. If you’re in a relationship you’re held to a higher standard to a partner’s safety than helping a random person in public. Men are physically stronger than women and women are more likely to be sexually harassed alone than with a man. A woman cannot protect a man in the same sense that he can protect her. It’s not rocket science. I don’t care what women would disagree with me. I’ve been in a relationship for 8 years, I would literally take a bullet for his safety if I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:17 PM
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Again, you’re a piece of shit if you don’t do the bare minimum of calling 911 to help a person in public. Gender doesn’t matter. You’ve somehow twisted that into women fucking suicidal men and women expecting men to die for them. When all I’ve said is to call 911. Mental gymnastics must be hard If the shoe fits, then, yeah I guess I’m name calling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:12 PM
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Feel sad for you and your partner if you’re in a relationship then. It’s not a give or take transaction. You do it because you love them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:06 PM
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No one said it was a crime You’re a piece of shit if you turn a blind eye and don’t do the bare minimum of calling 911 for someone being attacked in public. I don’t care if you’re a man or a woman. Not reading the rest of your brainrot tangent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:03 PM
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My post is about not turning a blind eye on a stranger in public being assaulted and doing the bare minimum to call the police for them. Your response is for women to fuck suicidal men and because they don’t they are radicalized Get help. Or better yet, get off the internet for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:57 PM
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Oh god please stop posting. Absolute brainrot type of response
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:54 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty bad to think someone is obligated to have sex or reproduce for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:51 PM
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No, men aren’t starting to hate women. You hate women so much that you couldn’t even dial 911 for them if they’re in danger. Then you turn around and bitch about women. Cognitive dissonance is real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:49 PM
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That’s sad. Most decent people in real life have a set of morals that means they help other people in danger. Help can come in the form of calling the police for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:48 PM
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Read my comment, your response, and if you can’t figure out why you haven’t had romantic love then you’re a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:42 PM
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In America they would respond quickly to someone being assaulted, especially with knives. Police, ambulance, the whole thing would be there in minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:41 PM
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It’s different when it’s a loved one vs a stranger. I agree with those women. You have an obligation to your partner just as they have an obligation to you. That’s what being in a relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:39 PM
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No one has to put themselves in danger to save someone else, especially a stranger. I’d think you’re a pos if you don’t call 911 and report someone being beat up or mugged though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:11 AM
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Yeah idk hygiene is a dealbreaker for me so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:54 AM
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Just wash your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:38 AM
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Because literally no one is saying women don’t cheat, have stds, or have unresolved issues lmao. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:23 AM
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Same. I like freedom, literally and financially
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:28 AM
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Literally who is saying women can’t do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:27 PM
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Slay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:23 PM
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So true king
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:11 PM
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Whatever you say bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:51 PM
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If my bf was cheated on in the past my feelings would be hurt but I wouldn’t divorce him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:23 PM
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What if they just unalive themselves from the bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:22 PM
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Significant medical event that is life altering (pregnancy) = a bitch on hormones, comparable to constant nagging to you Yeah, you’re not worth debating with those viewpoints. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:08 PM
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You responded to a comment I made about this sub blaming women Never been on redditwiki or aitah, I can’t tell you the general consensus on sexism there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:05 PM
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Bruh what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:03 PM
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Oh no, a random dude on reddit thinks I’m a POS. What ever will I do 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:02 PM
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Saying “as obnoxiously or unreasonably” as they desire does not reflect the scenario OP posted in his link My point is that a person going through a significant medical event shouldn’t be held to the same standards as their partner who is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:59 PM
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Nice strawman. Try to respond in good faith or don’t respond at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:57 PM
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I said this sub. You know, the one we are talking on right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:55 PM
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I hope you have more compassion for your partner if they ever find themselves in a vulnerable state
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:52 PM
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Better get the textbook out of all the comparable mental illnesses to pregnancy and take their rights away too then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:51 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 PM
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It matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 PM
2

Thread=sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:49 PM
1

I quite literally just explained what it means to me and what I would do in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:37 PM
1

I answerd your question. Sorry you didn’t like the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:35 PM
1

In a one off incident more grace to me would mean reassuring them and getting them some form of help so they aren’t suffering with as much mental distress. But then again, I actually love my boyfriend and would do my best to understand his reasons before I leave him. Crazy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:32 PM
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I’m being intentionally vague because I dont speak for that man in his relationship. He can do what he wants. All I have is my opinion. Which is that he should be more understanding towards his partner’s situation and not have a divorce over a one off incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:23 PM
1

I already told you I think a pregnant woman should be afforded more grace than a non pregnant person if it’s a one off incident. That is leeway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:20 PM
1

Uh yeah, that’s why pregnant people still go to jail if they commit a crime lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:18 PM
1

Yes I did. I said I cannot tell you what leeway is because I don’t know their relationship. You’re likely to have more leeway if it’s a one off incident during pregnancy than if this is a repeated behavior. I don’t know their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:17 PM
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You edited your comment because that question was not there when I responded. Don’t act dumb. Yes. I think men should be able to request paternity tests in certain situations and his partner be understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 PM
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Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:12 PM
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I can’t tell you what leeway is because I don’t know their relationship. If it was a one-off incident during pregnancy, you’re more likely to think her reasoning (hormones) is truthful and to be more understanding of her situation. If she’s hinted at it in the past or they’ve had issues with trust, you’re more likely to think she might just be truly insecure and accusatory. I don’t think it’s fair to hold two partners to the same standard when one is going through a significant medical event and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:10 PM
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No, men who are mentally ill who commit crimes are sent to prison. And if you are mentally ill enough, it actually is a defense. Accusing someone of cheating isn’t a crime. If she assaulted him or committed a violent act, she would be charged too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:02 PM
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Not sure how that’s relevant to my comment. My point was that if you have a partner who was experiencing a chemical imbalance that caused depression or other mental disorders, you’d likely grant them more leeway in that situation than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:55 PM
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I don’t set boundaries for other peoples relationships. My point was that a pregnant woman should be offered more leeway than a non pregnant woman, for obvious reasons. You can do whatever you want with your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 PM
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From the post I read, it didn’t sound like he pointed anything out to her. Just up and left her off what we are assuming to be a one-off incident during pregnancy. No one is expected to tolerate abuse. But to break up a marriage with a pregnant wife solely on the premise of her wanting to look through his phone seems excessive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:37 PM
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I don’t. That’s why I said it makes you wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:33 PM
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The actions (if caused by pregnancy) are a temporary condition. He’s entirely able to do whatever he wants. Anyone can. My point was that because of the situation, she should be offered more grace than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:31 PM
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If a man had a chemical imbalance that led to depression or other severe mental disorders, why would you not think that is a reasonable excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:25 PM
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Idk, everything on this sub seems to be the woman’s fault according to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:24 PM
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Reasons are absolutely important. You should offer grace to people in different situations. And I believe this for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:22 PM
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You have a very skewed view on women. None of those events are nearly as intimate or life altering as pregnancy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:19 PM
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Ya but that’s your choice for yourself. I can’t imagine asking the person I love to undergo literal surgery for my own selfish wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:17 PM
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I can when there’s a genuine reason (pregnancy) why that suspicion would be falsely placed. Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:16 PM
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And you truly think a sympathetic pregnancy is completely comparable to a real pregnancy? Of course we are. But pregnancy is a life altering event that can completely change your moods. Some women have a mental breakdown or postpartum depression, others just crave weird foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:14 PM
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You don’t think she deserves any grace for dealing with pregnancy hormones? He’s entitled to do whatever he wants. Sounds like a bad marriage anyways if he’s willing to abandon his pregnant wife. If this had happened and the wife wasn’t pregnant I’d say it’s totally justified, but that makes me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:05 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️ and we like tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:47 PM
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Never known a man not to like a tall woman. Would a man not date a model?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:05 PM
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Only if we can get rid of the short genes too 🧬
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:57 PM
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I don’t think the woman’s gonna be the one having trouble finding a man in this scenario lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:37 AM
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I mean ppl hookup a lot so idk how accurate that is lol. I still wouldn’t want a man who doesn’t share similar values as me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:36 AM
2

And if you finally get a girl see how fast she runs when you ask her to get a boob job for you. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:35 AM
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Ew I literally could not imagine asking my bf to get literal surgery because I want it. The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:32 AM
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It makes me giggle tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:24 AM
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Bro is down horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:12 PM
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Yes. My feelings would be so hurt I’d question the legitimacy of our relationship. If we can’t trust each other, it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:10 PM
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If you think it’s worth sacrificing a marriage for, then that’s your marriage to sacrifice. I’d consent to the test but end the relationship the same day. I won’t be with someone who can’t trust me, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:19 PM
2

For real. I’m just a woman. Female woman sounds stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:07 PM
1

Like globally or just in the US? Cus most of the ppl in the US are overweight/obese lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:05 PM
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Yah. I don’t have casual sex so I’d like someone who preferably is the same or close in morals regarding intimacy. I think most ppl want someone who is similar in viewpoints/morals to them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 AM
1

Own a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:22 AM
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This should be for everyone I hate screaming kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:19 AM
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This is just sexism facilitated by an airline. If you have a problem with a person, ask for your seat to be moved. Most airlines can accommodate reasonable requests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:29 AM
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No, my bf has always dressed nice and is well-kept
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:24 AM
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Definitely more men on here than women. It’s Reddit. Ive been disgusted by some of the misogynistic takes I’ve seen from ppl here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:21 AM
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If it’s not mandated, why would the hospital be asking me if not because the husband requested one? Paternity testing isn’t requested unless the father wants one. If the test is optional and my husband asks for one, or requests the hospital ask for one, the relationship is over. If the hospital just randomly asked for a paternity test without there being a mandate or because of the husband, yes they’d be accusing me of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:04 AM
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I don’t think it should be mandated, that’s my stance. It should be optional. And I would consent to the optional choice of a paternity test but also would end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:56 AM
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No, it should be optional, not mandatory. Most couples are not raising another man’s child. If it were me, I’d consent to the test but also end the relationship the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:53 AM
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Legally, child support laws do not discriminate. Women have to pay child support just as men are obligated do in the eyes of the law. And yes, that could happen, but that would be illegal if the father is fit to parent. In the same sense, a man could never sign a birth certificate, deny knowing the mother or vanish after the pregnancy starts and will likely get out of child support, which is also illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:53 PM
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Women can have abortions (in most places) yes, because we are entitled to our own bodies. Women can’t abandon a child without the father’s consent. If she drops it off at a safe spot and the father is identified, she will be on the hook for child support and he will likely be granted custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:29 PM
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Dunno where you got that from. No romantic love is unconditional. Everyone would leave their partner for some reason or another
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:16 PM
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Physical attractiveness is the same whether altered by choice or by accident. I would still love my bf if he got plastic surgery even if it’s not ideal to me If you’re insecure or uncomfortable about something, there’s nothing wrong with changing it if it makes your life better. Your partner should understand this if it’s a reasonable expectation and is important to you. It’s rly not about your partner’s wishes at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:08 PM
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Not troll at all. I’ve been with my man for almost 8 years, I’d love him even if he got hit by a train and lost his limbs. Sorry u haven’t experienced that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:57 PM
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Criticism and being a dickhead are very different. Men made it into gendered bs by being sexist in games, even if you’re playing well. I know this because I’m a woman and have heard it happen in my games to other women. Like I said you can say whatever you want but don’t be surprised when people treat you poorly in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:51 PM
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Well, I don’t grief, but I also don’t shit talk my teammates cus I’m trying to win. If you treat someone poorly expect to be treated poorly back. For some ppl that means trolling in response. All you can do is report and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:10 PM
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I don’t know that game. I don’t play dota but I’ve played league for over a decade and recently got into FPS games in the last couple of years. Men, being the majority and more prone to anger, are far more toxic and troll in comp matches. Not talking little kids, probably teens/young adults or maybe even grown adults. There is no comparison. Women are far more docile when it comes to gaming. Ask any random dude in a match
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:02 PM
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If you think men don’t troll games or disconnect bc a teammate pissed them off you clearly haven’t played enough comp matches. Shit is toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:53 PM
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You act like men don’t grief after being shit talked either. Women just do the same. Equality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 PM
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Because love goes beyond physical attraction. If he’s no longer attracted to me because of a procedure it sounds like the relationship was pretty superficial to start out with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:40 PM
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As they should 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:37 PM
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We’re given freedom of choice because pregnancy occurs solely in a woman’s body and has serious health-negative consequences. Both parents are responsible for the child after birth. The mother cannot abandon the child anymore than the father can without paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:30 PM
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You’re wrong. Both parents are on the hook for child support. If the mother births and does not want to keep the baby, but the father does, she is legally responsible for providing child support to the father. Both parents are responsible for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:26 PM
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I don’t think any romantic love is unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:13 AM
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Yeah, if it was really important to me he should understand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:05 AM
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I don’t care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:50 AM
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I do what makes me feel good abt myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:49 AM
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Initially? Insulted a lil I won’t lie. But if my husband loves me I would know it would likely be out of good intention and because I complained about my appearance before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:49 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:43 AM
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I’d believe it, I see a surprising number of women playing Val and there’s probably many more that don’t talk much like me so you’d never know. But as you know it’s still a heavily male dominated hobby so anyone who doesn’t fit into that is an easy target. It really shouldn’t be expected behavior. I’ve never been the first one to talk, ever, and even if I play well I get shit on simply for being a woman. That’s the sexist shit I’m talking about, because if I was carrying as a man no one would op…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:47 AM
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You know they only dodge because they don’t want to play with a woman bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:43 AM
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No bro, in Val I have to turn my username off and I rarely talk for this reason. It’s really bad. People do not simp. The majority is sexist jokes. And I have never experienced sexism in any aspect of my life except for video games. Like I will top frag and I had 2 guys look up my user and see I was q’ed with someone and start telling me I’m a fat whore, I should be washing dishes, I need to find a new guy to boost me (while I’m literally team mvp) and add me after game to try and harass me on d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:52 AM
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Ya. They’ve gotten a lot more strict even by hiding usernames in champ select. But I played a lot in 2014-2019 and you could say pretty much anything but the N word and get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah, guys get mad at each other, that’s obvious. But guys will dodge a game the second they hear a woman talk, call her a dishwasher, whore, make me a sandwhich, etc. Even if you’ve done nothing wrong or played well, simply for being a woman. I’ve never hear the same caliber of sexist jokes to men by either gender. I play Val, PUBG, and overwatch when it was popular. I won’t even touch CS or COD for this reason. It’s unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:38 AM
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I’ve played league of legends for over a decade, it’s absolutely terrible. The difference is there isn’t voice chat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 AM
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Yeah, it’s not even women either. Guys do this to each other, women are just an easier target. FPS games are the worst imo when it comes to toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:27 AM
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How down bad are you to think this is true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 AM
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Bruh any competitive or ranked game is like that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:21 AM
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My bf and I spend the majority of our free time playing video games together. I hear lots of girls on voice chat in the games we play too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:22 AM
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If you look more fit and well-kept it absolutely makes you more approachable. Personality absolutely matters. No one wants to hang out with a dickhead, or an incel in the original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:41 PM
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Personality, keeping yourself in shape and groomed yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:41 PM
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If it was my child I would do anything to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:37 PM
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Pickles are soooo good what
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:37 PM
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I don’t see society self destructing at all. In fact I think most people would agree that women are happier to have choices than not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:56 PM
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I paid over 10k for a breast reduction to get small boobs so.. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:22 AM
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Actually, yeah they do. Lmao. Anyone can say no to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:07 AM
1

Just get a dog and go to the dog park
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:26 AM
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Yogurt when it has the liquid on top cus it hasn’t been stirred properly yet seriously makes me gag
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:20 AM
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Compensation through money is really all you can offer (can you reverse it??) and a lengthy jail sentence for the accuser
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:06 AM
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Thx for the assessment but you don’t know me. I’ve seen some pretty vile things said about women and I don’t think badly of men so it’s pretty disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:04 AM
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lol not at all I’m his GF not his mom, he can do whatever he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:03 AM
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Yeah I don’t think any random man on the street would fuck any random woman Maybe at a bar, or club where people go to hookup but I think most guys have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:20 PM
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Tell that to the republicans in the US 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:13 PM
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Introverted people can be pretty much all of those things with people they are comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:01 PM
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Men have standards. You make it seem like they’re sexually driven animals with little to no thoughts. Kinda rude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:59 PM
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Ah yes, I’m sure “female nature and hypergamy” is the root of all evil in society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:55 PM
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Introverted is ideal to me, I’m introverted so we can just stay home together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:34 PM
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Dang I thought it was legal most places lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:29 PM
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😢😢😢😓😓
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:08 PM
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Dare I say I am shocked a man wants to control women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:04 PM
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Where r the bitches to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:02 PM
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Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:02 PM
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Bruh the child???????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:00 PM
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Pepper spray works just fine dw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:59 PM
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For real. The amount of hate towards women on this sub genuinely concerns me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:58 PM
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It’s almost like when women are given choices we choose not to have kids and be financially dependent on our husbands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:38 PM
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My boyfriend is my best friend. It’s not a requirement but we get along so well that it works out that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:05 PM
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I think only men who make enough money to support 2 people would care for a long term relationship Anyone who wants to live together and not be a stay at home parent should be contributing so one party isn’t carrying all the financial burden
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:00 PM
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Okay I might be dumb but I always thought dark meant skin color in that saying 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:52 PM
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Also the fact that one income usually can’t sustain two people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:50 PM
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I think it’s just neutral so long as we can live comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:47 PM
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I see posts like this and wonder how many relationships y’all have been in. This is a terrible, terrible mental
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:11 AM
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Ya I’ve never done any weightlifting or strength training, I just run, so I never expected to have any type of muscle definition lol I’ve no idea what my body fat percentage is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:41 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:35 PM
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Maybe for men but even at my skinniest I never had any muscle definition in my stomach lol, and I’m a long distance runner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:54 PM
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This isn’t true for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:46 PM
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No, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:45 PM
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I don’t really want that, I’d rather it be equal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:40 PM
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We probably wouldn’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:39 PM
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I’d rather the men only looking for sex filter themselves out anyways so sounds like a W to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:38 PM
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I don’t. I could care less about a 6 pack I just prefer someone who is relatively in shape/fit. Dad bods aren’t attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:28 PM
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Option 1 I’m introverted too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:00 AM
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Looks good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:23 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:03 AM
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Figured that was the ulterior motive lols
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:38 AM
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You sure it’s not just bc you wanna have more women to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:22 AM
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We have power. Why do you think we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:20 AM
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I got a breast reduction when I was 21, best decision ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:16 AM
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Lols no that wasn’t even an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:42 AM
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10/10 response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:38 AM
3

How does more women benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:34 AM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:30 AM
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At least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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Pro woman when it benefits them, for sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:06 PM
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It’s up to the couple. You can’t really say every woman who is neutral should do something any time the man wants. Sex isn’t really comparable to clothing shopping.. it’s intimate and comes with risks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:42 PM
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50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:27 PM
2

Marrying a literal child is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:55 PM
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My bf and I met playing video games lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:51 PM
1

So u don’t get an std or have a kid accidentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:48 PM
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No bc that wouldn’t be my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:51 AM
2

Why are preferences shallow? You like the look of younger women and I like the look of taller men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:29 AM
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Most men are taller than most women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:23 AM
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Well most rapes or sexual assaults go unreported so People who lie should be charged as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:47 PM
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Nah I’d walk out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:42 PM
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I agree but not nearly as much as a child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:12 AM
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It’s a lot harder to raise a human than a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:32 PM
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They shouldn’t smell or yap if you’re a responsible owner. I’d pick my dog over a kid any day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:30 PM
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So true king those hot men and parties totally make me never want to have kids 🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:24 PM
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Money and time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:19 PM
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Nah, my dad told me never to take my eyes off my drink or leave it alone and I’ll continue to listen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:12 PM
1

Typically using someone means to befriend them and dump them right after because you don’t care for the friendship. Don’t be obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:22 PM
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You’re not a genuine person if you abuse a persons friendship or befriend them with ulterior motives. If that doesn’t bother you then you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:27 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:25 AM
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It’s wrong if you befriend someone just to use them to get to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:13 AM
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Men to do what? It’s women that put other women down for men that are called pick me’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:13 AM
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It definitely happens. People use others to get what they want. Idk why you think that wouldn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:37 AM
1

Unfortunately true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:32 AM
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Yeah why not I’d rather government spend money to help people here in the country that need it rather than on military or to Ukraine or the Middle East. The money we’ve spent overseas could have changed so many lives here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:24 AM
1

Depends how fat. Some ppl can lose a ton of weight and still have big tits regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:21 PM
4

This does not happen to most people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:55 AM
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Taller
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:55 PM
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I wear hoodies and leggings everyday and he can pry them off of my cold dead body
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:03 AM
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Some things should be kept as thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:50 PM
1

I’ve been with my bf for almost 8 years I’m going down with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:36 PM
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My boyfriend and one of my guy friends that I’ve known since kindergarten
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:26 PM
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Call the police
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:37 PM
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No and I’d be mad at him for asking such a stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:36 PM
1

I saw BP Lisa irl and I thought she looked just like she did on cam. I think camera angles do make a difference tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:32 AM
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Nobody likes braces regardless of age but your teeth health comes first. I had braces for almost 5 years but now my teeth are perfectly straight. It is worth it and only temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:40 PM
1

I’m a runner too and I only do long distance. I literally hate my life during the run but only do it for the benefits/feeling good afterwards. That’s kind of what I meant Don’t you find running on a treadmill insanely boring? I can’t stand it without a show or a podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:12 PM
2

That’s crazy Australian accents are insanely attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:10 PM
1

But do you actually enjoy lifting in the moment or just the benefits afterwards? Like staying fit/building muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:06 PM
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Ya I’m a long distance runner and I do not like running. I just like feeling the “runners high” afterwards and obviously staying in shape But during the actual run I’m usually hating my life and trying to find an entertaining podcast to distract me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:04 PM
3

Charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:01 PM
1

Does anyone actually like the exercises you can do in a gym though? I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:58 PM
1

Ya I’m biased though because I don’t really like piercings at all even on myself or other women lol. But to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:14 PM
1

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:13 PM
3

I saw a tiktok of a girl saying anyone who’s birthdate starts with a 1 is ancient 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:12 PM
1

Rings are more attractive or literally any other type of jewelry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:11 PM
2

:-(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:08 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with that it just wouldn’t be my type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:04 PM
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I prefer less body hair on a man but like I’m not gonna tell him to shave it. Grizzly look is not for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:30 PM
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No one in real life cares at all if they are anyone worth talking to. I wouldn’t worry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:29 PM
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Bro most girls are not gonna send nudes to random dudes on video games that they hardly know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:46 PM
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True that has yet to happen 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:17 PM
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U act like we don’t get called dishwashers and fat whores all the time on video games 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:54 PM
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Like I said it’s a nice thing to do but it’s not expected. Just like a man should not expect a woman to provide male condoms. It’s literally the bare minimum for him to provide and wear a condom during a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:31 AM
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That would be really nice but it’s not something I’d ever expect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:20 AM
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Condoms are a male contraceptive. I don’t expect any man to provide my birth control or buy a plan b, just as he should not expect me to have male condoms on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:33 AM
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The fuck? This is like basic consent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:13 AM
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Why is it the woman’s responsibility to provide his protection especially in a casual hookup? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:12 AM
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That depends on the preferences of the people having sex. I think it’s unreasonable to have one person using 2 forms of contraception while the other has none. If she isn’t on BC then it’s not an unreasonable ask
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:01 PM
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True, but it’s one that applies exclusively to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:58 PM
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That’s so strange to me but I live in the US. They don’t have any form of contraception other than BC? No IUD, arm implant, shot, or anything..? If they’re not doing their part for protection, then it’s fair game. But I take BC so I would definitely walk out if a man refused that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:27 PM
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If your partner is already using birth control/IUD/shots etc it’s unreasonable to also ask them to also use a female condom. You’re responsible for your own protection as is your partner. Also, finding a woman who is on birth control isn’t uncommon. I literally don’t know anyone who doesn’t take it unless they want kids. I imagine anyone who’s down for casual hookups would be using BC if they don’t want to get pregnant. I would walk out if a man asked me to also use a female condom on top of bir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:18 PM
2

It’s not even white tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:38 PM
1

I have literally found over hundreds of hours of playing Val that grown men are way more insulting than children. The younger kids who play are usually nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:36 PM
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Try being a woman in a Val lobby. The amount of times I’ve been called a dishwasher or a whore by grown men is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:33 PM
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For me personally? Not what people say but how they look. I have always compared myself to models or super attractive girls since I hit puberty, even if in the back of my head I know most of the photos are heavily touched up or edited
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:29 AM
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Yeah but there’s a certain level of using the internet for information vs it becoming a detriment to your life Social media especially
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:13 AM
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Most ppl who aren’t on the internet a lot are probably happier
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:05 AM
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But it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:03 AM
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Insane take lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:48 PM
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Hey they’re not called a man’s best friend for no reason But for real it’s a lot easier to deal with shit if you have something else to care about. Whether it’s a person or a pet or what. Dogs just love unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:17 AM
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Those 22 bmi girls better shape up huh 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:13 AM
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Just get a dog bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:10 AM
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Would you think it’s fair to say all men are misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:00 AM
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I mean abuse and manipulation does go hand in hand tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:47 AM
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Stranger danger is real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:36 AM
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Natural unless he has a moral dilemma with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:33 AM
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Does the wife’s father not typically pay for the entire wedding? That’s always what’s gone on in my family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:28 AM
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A few days? I would be inhaling the entire kitchen tonight on 800 cals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:26 AM
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That’s true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:46 PM
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I meant that they aren’t stupid in the sense that they think they won’t be judged for being a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:08 PM
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I think this is only true bc you’re a guy, I think attractive men are way more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:02 PM
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Accept it but never wear it except for special occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:01 PM
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Like I said, better to let the true colors show early 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:03 PM
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An attitude like men have to talk to us like children because we’re neurotic? Yikes bro. Better to let the true colors show early
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:00 PM
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Same like I want to be left alone while grocery shopping so I assume other people do too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:57 PM
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Cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:53 PM
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Sorry but this simply isn’t true. You always assume a level of danger when meeting a stranger, especially one who has a physical advantage over you. They don’t have to rape you to make you uncomfortable or uneasy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:46 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 PM
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Forsure. It’s a lot easier to go up to a man at a bar than someone walking down the street. I think even men can say the same thing about women. It doesn’t mean you can’t seek a relationship anywhere else, I just think places where people get together to talk and hangout are easier. It doesn’t have to be one extreme or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 PM
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Clubs are a social thing where a lot of people drink and hookup. Grocery stores aren’t social. Girls definitely approach men they find attractive in a social setting lol, I’ve seen it personally and done it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:27 PM
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Its traditional gender roles lol, men were supposed to court the woman. we’re moving away from it but it won’t go away overnight I’ve def seen a lot of girls approach men at clubs tho and we now have apps like Bumble where the woman messages first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:21 PM
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Lols GL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:08 PM
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U should read your first comment to her and see what happens, I dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:03 PM
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“Why don’t women like me”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:00 PM
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Well you’re entitled to your opinion just as much as they’re entitled to try and change it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:00 PM
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True you know us women and our hysteria 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:58 PM
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It was a sarcastic comment if you couldn’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:50 PM
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I am a woman and responded to a comment about women? You’re nuts if you think that when we have religious fucks in power trying to deny reproductive rights to women all over the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:46 PM
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I don’t think people think others should be sex workers. They just want it to be de-stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:36 PM
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I’m not 100 years old or married so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:35 PM
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I think the word responsibility is more fitting. Both partners have a responsibility towards each others wellbeing and safety, because that is what is (or should be for most) being in a relationship entails. It’s a little different when you have a teacher/student where it’s uneven from the getgo. Both parties in a marriage are of age and adults capable of making their own decisions with each other in mind. Also, Vi ditched powder which made her go crazy and turn into Jinx and then blow up the Pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:17 PM
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Sex workers aren’t stupid. They know people will judge them. It will always be that way because it’s a taboo line of work. What’s ur point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:06 PM
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?? What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:02 PM
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I mean if what you said was true then voluntary plastic surgery wouldn’t exist. You will be hard pressed to find any lawyer to take your case if you signed a contract, which everybody does before surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:59 PM
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God forbid we are allowed to work and not be totally dependent on our husbands right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:04 PM
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No I already said it’s not wrong to curtail a bad decision. I just don’t think it’s a matter of authority in what is meant to be a partnership. If her girlfriend tells her she doesn’t want to go because she doesn’t want them to get hurt, and the wife listens, does that mean that the friend has authority over the wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:55 AM
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No, nobody gets the final say because one partner is has no more control than the other (or shouldn’t be, at least) unless by physical force (which is abuse). Why is it her decision is respecting his “authority”? What if it’s just respecting the logic that she doesn’t want to get kidnapped or hurt? I’m sure most people would be more convinced by the notion of being harmed rather than the “authority” of their husband alone. I’m sure if the wife was there with a girlfriend and was told the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:46 AM
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No, I would argue if a man used his physical strength to try and stop his wife from doing something (like your scenario) then that would be abuse rather than authority. He has no greater responsibility over her decisions. Her decisions are hers, and his are his. His wife respecting his decision not to dance on a beach is a matter of respect, not because she is second to him and his wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:30 AM
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It’s both parties job to keep each other safe. The only difference is that men are stronger physically. It is not wrong to keep your wife out trouble, nor would it be wrong as a wife to curtail a bad decision a husband might make. Does not mean one has authority over the other. It means they both respect each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:18 AM
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Against authority? Meaning the man is the authority and she is second to him? Lmao bro, we all know what he meant by it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:13 AM
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GL sueing someone who signed a legally binding consent form. I don’t even know how you would begin to even sue them.. for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:34 AM
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Submissive is icky unless you’re religious.. or kinky I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:32 AM
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Lol no worries you’re good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:29 AM
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I just said I don’t have a problem with what you are saying, you are arguing against nothing my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:25 AM
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My gripe isn’t with your views then, my gripe is with people who think they can tell you what you can and can’t do I can’t speak on your last comment, I’ve never talked to a girl about how many people she’s had sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:21 AM
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Yeah, I could care less what other people think about my choices as long as I am able to freely make them. Part of life is growing and making mistakes/learning from them. This goes for everyone. Let people reap the rewards or consequences of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:18 AM
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It’s a two way street. And no offense submissive is an odd term at least to me to use unless you’re religious or something. I don’t submit to a man, we are 50/50 and equal partners. And we won’t always agree on things but part of a relationship is compromise and trust. I agree with the being healthy thing tho. But peoples bodies inevitably change over time. But yes both partners should be in shape if not for each other than at least for their own health.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:14 AM
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Ok but women and men can still choose to do whatever they want regarding their sex life even if you think it’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:07 AM
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How does this mean they don’t want a secure or happy relationship? Some people can’t help that they are single and yeah if someone cheats on you of course you’d leave them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:13 PM
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lol this couldn’t be further from the truth. Most people just want a secure and happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:34 PM
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Dude you need to change your perspective on women to one that isn’t chronically online. Alpha seed made me physically revolt I’m not even trying to be a dick but this sounds so unhealthy. Please go out and get to know people. There are plenty of nice people in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:33 AM
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? What do you mean. Idk how girls r struggling the most. I’m sure it goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:09 AM
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Lol I’ve never even thought of it, I feel like it would be super expensive though like IVF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:07 AM
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Do you mean generally like friends or like a romantic partner? Because if I like someone I’d definitely treat them differently than a friend, and if they liked me back hopefully they would too. I don’t think women expect their friends to treat them better than they do themselves. If a woman has a problem with how a guy is treating her, even if he treats other guys that way, hopefully he would respect that boundary if it’s reasonable which goes back to basic decency and respect for people you car…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:05 AM
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If we just listened to what we learned in kindergarten, “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” this world would be a kinder place for most Of course there will be differences because men and women are different, but everyone should afford each other basic decency and respect if that is what they want in return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah I’m not mad about it because there’s so many birth controls and luckily I am fortunate enough to have access to any one I wanted pretty much. I’ve always kept my mind open to the idea of having kids. I’ve been with the same man for almost 8 years so naturally that question has come up. I swear I’ve even tried to convince myself I might want kids but I know deep down that I really don’t. Makes me feel like there is something wrong with me when people ask, lol! Whereas my sister who is in her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:19 AM
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I feel the same way. Other than having a dog to keep me company 🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:08 AM
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Ya, I’m almost 25 and I have been denied 3 times even though my insurance covers it in full. Granted I haven’t been aggressively pushing it because I am not eager to have surgery, I still explained my feelings and was only offered birth control. I get it but it’s still frustrating since I have known since I was a child myself that I don’t want kids, and my thoughts havent wavered since, which is exactly what I said but sadly fell on deaf ears. But I understand because I am probably a small minor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:57 AM
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Yeah I guess so. I just mean if someone feels very strongly about it then it doesn’t make sense to get into a relationship with someone who feels the opposite of you about a big decision But I guess this is age related too. Someone who is 35 is a lot less likely to change their mind then an 18 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:40 AM
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Ya I can see that for sure. I’ve always had the understanding if you truly love someone that you will get through any problems/compromise to find a solution. But it’s just impossible to compromise on such a big deal as a child but if one party feels strongly about not having a child, and the other really wants one, or changes their mind like you said, to me like.. that’s a massive problem. One party would always be unhappy and may resent the other in the future. It would be divorce-worthy for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:23 AM
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Isn’t this like one thing a couple should most definitely agree on, though? You can compromise through a lot of relationship issues, but you can’t really with a kid, you either have it or you don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:10 AM
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Yeah, I don’t blame them, especially since the majority of people do end up having or wanting kids. And because we have so many contraceptives available, I can understand not wanting to take a riskier and more permanent option. Age 21 is when my insurance would cover it in full, so I thought I would give it a try I had surgery to remove a large cyst, and it was laparoscopic. During the consultation, I literally said to the doctor, ‘hey while you’re in there, do you think you could tie my tubes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:05 AM
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Yeah. Mostly age and due to the fact I have no kids already. Granted, I’m not aggressively trying to go under the knife voluntarily, but I have seen 3 different doctors who have basically denied my request and offered me a plethora of birth controls. I think it is mostly fear of regret in the future Which i get, and I trust their medical opinion, but it’s still a lil frustrating lol especially since I’m almost halfway thru my 20s now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:48 AM
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Hahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:29 AM
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Never want kids, I’m 24 and have been trying since I was 21 to have my tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:29 AM
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The male body provides all of the superior functionality. What are women not inferior in, other than creating babies, which offsets it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:27 AM
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So women are inferior in all aspects except for making babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:23 AM
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Correct me then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:20 AM
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You don’t ascribe to them, yet when I use the antonym’s of the words you specifically use, it’s suddenly an issue? Why do you think I asked you: “if men are superior in functionality, are women not inferior in functionality?” - in all things, per your own words, except for the function to make babies? That is what you said Hence to my leading question which logically follows, are women only good for making babies? Or if I say they are “mostly” only good for making babies, is it more palatable? F…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:17 AM
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I did read it, that’s where my question came from. Btw, I am on the reddit app, so I cannot see edited comments anyways. Edits don’t even show as edited if you have done it within three minutes of posting it. I just know you edited not just one, but multiple comments because I went back and re-read them to make my quote that I am asking for clarification of. Whether the multiple comments show it or not. I don’t need to admit to any falsehoods that you are stating. You are not entitled to that. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:03 AM
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I can’t go back and read what you wrote since it’s edited, so I will ask for clarity (again) Are you implying that women’s inferior functions to male superior functions are only made up by the fact that we can have babies? Implying that other than creating a baby, we are inferior to men in everything else? I do not know how to word it to ask my question more clearly. If you don’t know, try to answer the question above without deflecting. Let me know what I’m missing without attacking me personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:43 PM
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No, actually, you said babymaking is the only thing that makes up for the “male superior functionality.” Implying that women, other than babymaking, are inferior to men in everything else. Am I missing something? I did notice you went back and edited your comments though. How adorable lols I guess it’s a lot easier to flex and brag about your sex than face the real implications & meanings behind them. I can understand that Chill w the personal attacks though. You don’t know me. And there’s a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:33 PM
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If men are superior in functionality, are women not inferior in functionality to them? Or did you mean something else that I’m missing? Again, another personal attack. You don’t know me bro. Ad homs only reflect on your character…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:16 PM
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The only credit you’ve given women throughout our whole discourse is that “our ability to have babies makes up for our inferior functionality.” The only person making personal attacks is you. Re read your last comment alone if that confuses you. I’ve nothing to be ashamed about. I treat people just how I want to be treated. The fact that your arguments are the same ones that were used by those who oppose suffrage just disappoint me, rightfully so, and you’ve made it very clear that you want peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:11 PM
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What are you talking about lol, everything you’ve said has been rinsed and repeated to enforce the idea that women are only good for babymaking and men should be the head of the house & provider, you get the jist The same arguments and similar have been said to fight against basic rights for women. It’s not new, and it disappoints me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:57 PM
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Me personally? I think inflation, national debt, the housing crisis are all the biggest problems we face right now. A close next would be gun violence and lack of accessible healthcare for those in poverty I think to implement ‘traditional’ values in society while also respecting individual choice would mean that we would have to make the world a friendlier place to raise children. I’m a big abortion advocate, but I think the vast majority of people want children but either have them in poverty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:51 PM
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Ya we know, men good women bad, we’re only good for making babies.. been there heard that one before 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:42 PM
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I wasn’t talking about now, I meant in the past which is what I thought OP was referring to when he meant societal norms and tradition. It was traditional for women not do these things and to be homemakers. You are right now that very little people think that way. I agree with your last paragraph. I just want each individual to have autonomy and make their own choices even if they aren’t always the best choices, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:35 PM
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Your implications in your comments reflect the idea you believe women are inferior. But you really are being derogatory, how is it crying to point out reality!!?! Men did wonderful things and so did women. Saying men dominate women is again, implicating you believe we are inferior. Should I crawl on my hands and knees and kiss your shoes for treating me so nicely like a human being, too? Lols
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:33 PM
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We know. Women are certainly capable in other ways. Your comment does not reflect that. You know that I don’t know what I said gave you the impression I can’t handle the truth, I said men are the physically stronger sex. You’re just going on a tangent about how men built the world, men accomplished history, men dominated women… then, insert surprise pikachu face when you’re coming off just a tad bit like a sexist 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:27 PM
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please. you and I both know the backhanded shit behind your comment. Don’t be purposely obtuse Yes, men are the physically stronger sex. We get it. Doesn’t mean you have to be derogatory towards the other sex. If it were the other way around it would still be sexist buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:16 PM
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“You’re not as good as me but we can fine something easy to make you useful” sums up what you just said. Most people find that rude/disrespectful Just treat people with respect, it’s not hard. Couldn’t imagine saying derogatory stuff like you said about the entire male sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:07 PM
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Bro isn’t even hiding the misogyny, god dam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:57 PM
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Tragic 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:45 PM
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If you’re gonna spam under every comment, at least don’t hide behind an alt account tough guy 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:42 PM
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You said being liberated from societal norms and traditions has spoiled women.. how else are we suppose to interpret that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:35 PM
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Thx for proving my point. I’m sure you’ve been drafted lols
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:30 PM
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Missed the point entirely. I mean that women here are treated as individual people and not the property of their husbands or fathers, as in other third world countries. Yes, women and men have different physical abilities, and you are complaining about women having privileges in the same comment of yours that says “I’ve never heard any man say that” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:29 PM
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To spread the word of god, duh /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:07 PM
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😭😭 and the same man will turn around and say how western women are too privileged because we are actually treated as people and not their husband’s property
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:30 PM
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No. I like being able to vote, work, and live freely as an individual I think some people who still enjoy the traditional lifestyle, or religious folk, will blame society as a whole for its differences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:23 PM
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They should be shamed for doing that while in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:04 AM
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I’m 5’7 and would prefer someone to be 5’9 or above My sister is 6’1 so that’s more of an issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:46 PM
1

Bro I love my dog so much when he dies or I have to put him down I will def need therapy. Have you ever had a pet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:49 AM
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Taller than me and will run/hike with me and also likes dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:45 AM
1

This is literally exactly how I feel. Like how do I fix the problem if I have no idea where it’s coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:42 AM
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Lol i guess i would really call them unhealthy tho since their weight isn’t causing them negative effects. Probably just unfit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:35 AM
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I have never seen a bag of milk irl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:15 AM
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I thought up to 25 bmi was healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:23 AM
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That’s called cheating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:21 AM
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I don’t think this is unpopular. You can sleep with whoever you want. Same with women. What’s the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:16 AM
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You literally just said “men” fuck hookers with or without their wives permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:47 AM
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Abortion is not murder. That is an objective fact. Even in pro-life states throughout the US, not one has convicted a woman or a doctor with murder for an abortion. They aren’t even convicted with something lesser such as involuntary manslaughter or even negligence. Paper abortion is just removing yourself from paying child support before you give birth. Same thing, different wording. Children have needs to be met and they are entitled to be taken care of (unless of course both parents agree to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:12 AM
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Because we are human and we aren’t perfect. Do you judge disabled people in wheelchairs why their body doesn’t work, or cancer patients? Have some compassion. You’ll feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:34 AM
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No, abortion is not murder, and child support laws apply to both genders in the US - not just men. Both biological parents are subject to taking care of their child’s needs. Not to mention those are entirely separate issues. I am a citizen just like any other person who was born here or came here legally. Wanting to hold some people to a higher regard, legally, than others is divisive and wrong. There is no “fundamental duty” to have kids in the United States. Inequality has proven through histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:32 AM
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Bro this country already wants to take abortion access away and now we have assholes soon to be in the White House saying childless people shouldn’t be held to the same standard as parents. Not to mention the Republican’s constantly shooting down bills that would protect contraceptive access. It’s so exhausting. My partner and I are happily childfree and want to stay that way. All I want is to be treated equally and more importantly, to be left alone regarding my reproductive decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:10 AM
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Probably not since men aren’t looked at to be a “caregiver” in the same way that women are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:56 AM
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Play video games!! If you’re interested, of course. I’ve made so many friends playing video games. We’ve even traveled to meet up with each other. There are discord servers for like every game too where you can vc with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:36 PM
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seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:33 PM
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First of all, I am against the draft as a whole, but let’s not pretend like it’s a pressing issue in today’s society. No person has been drafted in 50 years, whereas thousands of pregnancies and hundreds of abortions happen daily. There is also an extensive list of disqualifications, whereas for women experiencing unwanted pregnancy in a pro-life state the only exceptions are if she was raped or her life was threatened. They are not even comparable. Abortion is far more of a pressing issue right…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:07 AM
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I could care less about people selling themselves for sex. I care about someone I committed myself to not upholding their end of the relationship, whether it be a prostitute or not. No man going behind their wives back for sex is worthy of calling themself a husband. And vice versa. You are so wrong. It is not about someone making a better “mate” (???) than them, it’s about the principle. You committed yourself to a singular person and now you are turning back on your commitment. If your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:44 AM
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It was also common throughout history to enslave people based on race or class, oppress women and burn them at the stake, use inhumane and cruel torture methods, etc. Should we start doing all of those things too, or should we learn from it? Your viewpoint is incredibly sad and gives me the impression you are not well-adjusted. Most people in long term relationships take a vow to commit to a singular person because they love them. Honorable men and women can control their emotions regarding sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:28 AM
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Yes, we have a right to choose because pregnancy occurs in the woman’s body. A man cannot make choices about a woman’s body just as a woman cannot make choices about a man’s body. Yes, women have more of a right to their own body than anyone else does. Every individual person should have this right. What can be done legally about this is having unrestricted access to reproductive care and abortion. Not the opposite, which is on par with cruel and inhumane treatment and treats women as second cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:13 AM
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Because forcing women to undergo gestation and pregnancy or c-section by threat of law is inhumane and cruel. No offense but I’d take writing a child support check any day over having my vagina or my stomach ripped open. Men have more reproductive rights than women and that’s partially nature’s fault for putting the reproductive burden on women. But abortion bans further exasperate that inequality. Btw - child support doesn’t discriminate based on gender. Both biological parents are subject to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:39 AM
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It does but abortion is still banned in many states and republican’s consistently shoot down bills that would ensure access to contraception. Birth control pills are usually the first line of treatment for many issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:26 AM
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Yeah I’m sure fucking hookers is totally a healthy choice and definitely won’t have any negative consequences to a long term relationship 👍🏻 you’ve figured it out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:48 AM
2

Insanely tough read. Dear god
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:44 AM
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This has gotta be rage bait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:26 AM
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Okay, I can agree with all of this. My point was just that it’s sometimes hard to determine who is or isn’t going to end up leaving you, especially when emotions are involved such as being infatuated or in love with someone. There are signs, yes, but sometimes there isn’t. Say if one partner cheated or found someone new and decided to ditch their spouse who they had kids with after being married for awhile. I just think it’s unfair to always blame the person for not choosing correctly rather tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:54 PM
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And the man who left? He takes no blame in your eyes, only the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:41 PM
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The system is there to help people. The government has a responsibility to help its citizens. What’s so wrong with that? People who are rich and live comfortable or even lavish lifestyles divorce or end up leaving their partner after having kids. I’d hardly call them a deadbeat. What then? Or does this only apply to those who ‘leech off the system’?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:40 PM
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So it’s women’s fault for picking a man who left her rather than the man’s fault for leaving? Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:31 PM
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The reason court’s tend to be biased towards women sometimes is because of the traditional idea that women were the homemakers and caregivers and men were the providers. I reject this entirely and especially now that both men and women are working and both genders are doing more equally-shared jobs it’s safe to say we are moving further and further away from this idea (which is good) I’m sorry to hear about your situation. If you can afford a lawyer you might be able to make your situation more …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:12 PM
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I can’t really speak on your own experience, but generally the custody is determined by the court to be whatever is in the child’s best interest. The support payments are also determined to be in the child’s best interest and to uphold the same quality of lifestyle in both households. It is less about the parents and mainly about the child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:57 PM
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What do you mean? Even if the custody is 50/50 and the mother makes more money, she will pay child support to the father. It applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:51 PM
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The government has an interest in society and maintaining that those who are most vulnerable (children) are taken care of until they are of age Not sure why you’re making this about women and jumping to conclusions. Everyone needs help raising a child. Even parents who are together struggle to financially make ends meet. And it’s unfair for one parent to leave and leave the other in crisis when they are both responsible for the child’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:30 PM
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Child support isn’t about the woman though or what is fair and what isn’t. It’s about what is fair to the child and the child’s specific needs at certain stages of life. You’re going to be mandated by the government simply for being a biological parent regardless if you’re with the other parent or not If you make more money, you’ll be paying support, and vice versa. Child support applies to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:06 PM
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That’s a good question. I would say it’s expected in a lot of cases especially after marriage. Kids are a massive commitment so it’s kind of sad to think a person would have them only because it’s the “normal” thing to do that their stage of life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:03 PM
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Why would you want kids but not want to pay to take care of their needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:56 PM
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I think it depends on the person. I think the majority of people, men and women, want kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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gladly!! 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:50 PM
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😬 sorry you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:03 PM
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No one in real life gets that assumption because a person has not been in a relationship before bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:53 AM
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Nathan bc he seems kind and is also athletic. I enjoy exercising and hiking so I think our lifestyles would work out No to Michael because he’s an asshole and has children with other women No to Luke because his personality doesn’t seem attractive to me. I’d prefer someone taller and more active. Dog is a plus tho:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:49 AM
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I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:43 AM
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I’m not ok with any of the options it just said to pick the most unappealing one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:25 AM
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Yeah. Being overweight isn’t really an issue for me at all. Like I don’t care about 20-30 lbs. making an effort to be healthier makes a difference too. It’s being “quite” overweight that is most unappealing. And I think anyone can say they want to feel attracted to their partner lol And bad hygiene.. just ew. Speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:20 AM
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Bad hygiene is the worst but being quite overweight is a close second for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:21 AM
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