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12

Never want kids and don’t care much for marriage/weddings so easily the first option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:43 PM
-2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:34 PM
6

Sounds like your life is just fine then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:41 AM
5

Ok then be single forever 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:35 AM
9

Go find yourself a man then bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:23 AM
9

Have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:10 AM
7

Dumbass post. 1 in every 6 women have experienced sexual assault and 1 in every 10 rape victims are men. You are not at fault for being a victim of sexual assault or rape, and opinions like yours are the reason that such crimes go so under reported, for men and women. Shame on you. Do us a favor and delete this post, it’s embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:06 AM
3

“So much for equality” Some issues aren’t equal..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:39 PM
16

Getting laid isn’t really equal to her issue of being SA’ed so there is not much equality there. That was her point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:32 PM
6

I could pee standing up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:27 PM
3

me and my childfree bf in a long term relationship: 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:59 AM
2

This here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:56 PM
2

https://adoptioncouncil.org/publications/adoption-advocate-no-96/ The law cannot make up for the lack of accountability in people in all cases. Even should there be a national registry, which I totally support, the law cannot force you to register, a man has to decide that on his own free will. The reality is that these are a fraction of cases. Most men do not want to pay child support, which is why only around 45% of parents receive their payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:19 AM
2

Yes, when you abandon or adopt out a child you neither parties pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:06 AM
3

While it varies by jurisdiction, men who want to gain custody of their child have resources available to them for those situations. Specifically, unmarried men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:04 AM
6

Rape is absolutely a violation of a person’s bodily autonomy. I don’t think anyone who is raped should be at all responsible for a child, man or woman. A woman has as much reproductive rights as far as her body enables her too. Her body carries and births a child, therefore she is the one who can solely choose whether or not she wants to do that. A man’s bodily autonomy ends when he has sex, because after that, the rest of the reproductive burden falls on the woman. So it’s your responsibility t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:46 AM
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Abortion is a measure to protect the bodily integrity of women and to uphold current medical ethics. For that reason alone, it is justified. If a man is raped, I don’t think he should have to pay child support. Same with women. The autonomy is not BS. Abortion bans absolutely violate and control the bodies of all women of childbearing age. No one is entitled to your body, not even a fetus. To force a woman through unwanted pregnancy, childbirth or c section is an unspeakable cruelty. The law is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:32 AM
4

Abortion is the right of the mother solely based on bodily autonomy and the fact that she is entitled to make her own decisions regarding her health. Any reason “why” she gets an abortion is not important, as no matter what, she is still entitled to choose whether or not she carries out a pregnancy. Child support begins at birth. It has absolutely nothing to do with abortion or pregnancy at all. There is a resource for father’s called the Putative Father Registry that law enforcement will check …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:08 PM
4

You have complete bodily autonomy. Women do not, under abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:43 PM
4

It is discriminatory because it discriminates against a certain sex. No, paper abortions are not the same thing. Both parents are on the hook for the care of their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:37 PM
4

It generally depends on the jurisdiction but a mother cannot put a child up for adoption without the father’s consent. He has rights to his own child, and in such case a mother would likely pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:12 PM
1

What did I say about me? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:57 PM
3

I am not disclosing that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:36 PM
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Foreign language is insane wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:28 PM
1

I truly don’t care if random men open up to me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:11 PM
1

Most bad behavior by kids isn’t a negative character trait, it’s just a sign of their maturity. Put them in a classroom with 30 other kids their age and obviously there is going to be cliques, mean girls, bullies, etc. A little boy murdering dogs is not comparable to someone “shutting you down” in high school or using you for homework. Don’t be obtuse. Immaturity doesn’t mean you are mentally ill. Murdering animals likely comes from a mental illness. You are projecting. You’ve called me multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:06 PM
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Kids are immature and mean in high school. That is a given. You don’t act the same way you did when you were 16 and neither do I. I don’t think people’s actions when they are literally children are representative of their adult character. Judge them by their actions as an adult, not the “hypothetical mean girl will abuse men in the future” Lose the projection. I don’t care what you think about me, I’ve said none of those things, you’re just making shit up in your head because you are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:51 PM
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Yeah I don’t think will smith or jonny depp are here I’m laughing because it’s high school, the fuck do you expect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:40 PM
3

Not without the father’s consent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
10

How do you expect millions of children to be cared for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:53 PM
12

No, she cannot. Child support begins after birth. An abortion is her right because it is her body and health. Abolishing child support laws would lead to a collapse in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:50 PM
7

I’m aware. My comment wasn’t really pertaining to whether or not sexual assault crimes are proven in court, but the fact that they occur as a whole and the effect they have on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:47 PM
20

A woman cannot relinquish her financial obligations towards her child either, without the father’s consent. Are you saying we should abolish child support for both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:30 PM
18

It is illegal for women too. Child support laws are not discriminatory by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:19 PM
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Yes, you are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. Lol Just because a crime wasn’t reported or a person wasn’t found guilty of a crime doesn’t mean it didn’t occur. I had 3 men break into my house when I was 11 year old. While I was home and sleeping with my mom. They were never caught. Did the events not happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:18 PM
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It still happens, whether reported or not. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:14 PM
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Key word you said here is “been proven of” a SA crime. The vast majority of sexual assault crimes and rapes go unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:12 PM
21

What bodily autonomy belonging to a man is being violated by a woman having an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:07 PM
19

My dad taught me this from a young age and he still tells me this in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:06 PM
9

Can you give an example? I’m interning at a family law firm, so I’d love to know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:01 PM
4

Fuck yeah I’d take that deal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:42 PM
14

I would happily give you my ability to get pregnant if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:22 PM
17

Men can’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:17 PM
8

Abortion laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:09 PM
7

Almost every comment here is about high school experiences 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:56 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:04 PM
0

lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:56 PM
0

?? That’s what his source says
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:54 PM
5

I’m sure you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:48 AM
6

Ways to go no contact with your child 101
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:44 AM
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I think I will pass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:37 AM
3

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:32 AM
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So where’s the redeeming qualities? Or do you think women are truly so shallow that 6’9 will win them over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:31 AM
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Sounds like more women need to be judges
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:20 AM
-7

So do you have an answer or no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:13 AM
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What crimes are men being jailed for that women aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:18 PM
6

The male anger here, yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:50 PM
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I’m like room temperature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:32 PM
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People will say whatever they want to fit their narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:31 PM
5

She takes out loans, like a lot of ppl do.. what now?*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:27 PM
6

What if she got accepted into an Ivy League like Harvard or something similar and wanted to complete her studies there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:16 PM
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Skincare/workout/haircare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:14 PM
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42 and US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:12 PM
5

Ding ding ding 🛎️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:08 PM
8

Ok but what if she wants a career where college education is required.. what if she has a passion for a certain job that she needs a degree for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:05 PM
8

Whatever you gotta do to cope 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:04 PM
14

I’m sure you and them have plenty in common 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:01 PM
8

U shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:59 PM
16

The I hate women circlejerk is real here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:55 PM
10

Most sane ppd commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:55 PM
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What if she doesn’t want to be totally dependent on someone and wants to have a career of her own? You can totally be feminine and be a lawyer or a doctor lmao. There’s nothing wrong with not being totally feminine either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:51 PM
10

What if she wants to be a doctor/lawyer, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:43 PM
5

Bro you’re on ppd chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:09 PM
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Yes I judge people who cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:37 AM
1

You literally just proved her point without realizing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:56 PM
2

The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:57 PM
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My sister is 6’2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:17 PM
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5’8 so one inch taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:14 PM
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Is he gonna take my last name and his family will pay for the entire wedding then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:13 PM
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No, because yall will do anything to excuse why you can’t be a decent person towards a woman here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:40 PM
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I don’t think most people behave like the commenters here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:34 PM
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Therapy is helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:33 PM
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It’s an I hate women circlejerk for some ppl here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:26 PM
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So you’ll take her last name?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:23 PM
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Yeah I’d be dead before I do this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:23 PM
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God damn the bar is really in hell when it comes to ppl here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:19 PM
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Bruh that’s too much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:17 PM
6

It’s a red flag but I wouldn’t end it unless it was accompanied by other negative things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:16 PM
0

I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:18 AM
3

Weeding a garden together is so fucking weird to me lmao A zoo sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:35 AM
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It’s been normalized for decades. I don’t think you really see stuff like that outside of school/college unless you have really shitty friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:12 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:11 PM
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The worst of all of this is that you hate pickles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:43 PM
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Whatever you say lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:34 PM
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Gender stereotypes that men should be tough and strong, emotionally and physically Anyone who mocks or laughs at someone for being insecure is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:30 PM
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Uh huh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:28 PM
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I literally just said you do you and no one’s forcing you do date, that makes me a hoe? ⁉️ wut
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:25 PM
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Uh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:57 PM
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Then hookup with ppl you find online or at bars, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:46 PM
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Then just have fwb, no one is forcing you to date. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:43 PM
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I’ve ran so many 5ks, this is totally understandable if you’re trying to beat your PB. Plus, 5ks are like 25 mins, it’s not like I’d be on my own for too long. As long as I was getting the help I need then I’m totally fine with him finishing the race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:40 PM
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I’m in a long term relationship so this hasn’t once crossed my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:37 PM
3

Sounds like men should be providing and doing the childcare then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:11 AM
4

Ok if it’s not work her husband can come home and take over then. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:20 AM
2

Well, insecurity is a bitch man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:48 PM
1

You should explain that to your dates then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:19 PM
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Huh?? I’ve literally never had sex for an hour or more straight. I don’t think that’s a common expectation at all, I just think it’s a question better asked to men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:18 PM
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Yes, but the point is that you pick a bear bc you aren’t willing to take the gamble that you might be with a bad man. That doesn’t mean all men you’re pulling from are bad, just some.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:15 PM
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Yeah this isn’t really an issue women can speak on too much because, well,.. we don’t have dicks lol I think communication is key here. If this happened to me my initial thought would be he wasn’t attracted to me enough if I wasn’t told otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:09 PM
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It’s ok not to fit the gender stereotype. I’m a woman and I wear baggy sweatshirts and leggings all the time, hate dresses and play video games or gym in all my free time. I don’t even want a wedding honestly and that’s what lots of women look forward to. I hate kids as well. Not exactly the “feminine role” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:45 PM
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How dare you listen to silly woman words 😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:34 PM
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Okay then think what you want idc 🤷🏼‍♀️ Point being women are taught to be wary of strange men because of the high rate of sexual assault that happens to them, perpetrated by men. It’s not made up out of nowhere. And it doesn’t mean all men are like that, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:32 PM
0

This sounds like a question you should ask men bc idk if that’s even normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:26 PM
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The fact that this is a question is sexist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:11 PM
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Uhh no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:05 PM
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It’s a sexist issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:03 PM
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I agree. The men are trash and dumb sayings like that are just hateful and certainly not a way to convey whatever point you’re trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:40 PM
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I think most men know that when women say they are afraid of men, walking home at night, the bear vs man shit, they’re not talking about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:39 PM
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It’s mostly politicians with no medical training that base their decision making on the Bible. Religion should always be separate from the state
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:34 PM
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Agreed. As long as abortion is legal I could care less what other people do or declining birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:18 PM
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My mom who had me at 42: 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:14 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:01 PM
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Dang, you must know all women on earth better than they know themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:55 PM
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U actually think all women only value men by how many women he has? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:44 PM
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What if I don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:31 PM
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But how
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:26 PM
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What if I don’t identify as one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:18 PM
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If I saw a person being assaulted in public I would call 911. It’s v simple
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:45 AM
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Yeah I mean there’s always gonna be bad apples but I’d say most well-adjusted women would want to get to know a man pretty well before wanting to get pregnant with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:49 AM
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Most of the time. I think money only really matters if you want kids. If a woman wants kids she’s gonna need to be with someone who can support them financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:37 AM
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Literally just call 911 for them instead of turning a blind eye. That’s all is asked of you. You don’t need to throw yourself in front of a bullet or knife for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:32 AM
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I asked that man to do the bare minimum and call 911 if he sees a person being assaulted or mugged in public. He said he is not obligated and feels the same way about women refusing to fuck suicidal men because they lack sex. It is exactly how she made it sound. You can go read it all if you want. There is no defending that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:24 AM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:29 PM
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Was this my conversation??? Because I physically cringed when he said that 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:16 PM
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Some are, yes. It affects your mental state. Some people have full on psychosis or bipolar behavior. Others don’t at all. I thought this was common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:07 PM
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Is this some kind of fetish or
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:05 PM
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I don’t. People who are dickheads are a massive turnoff. Would never date an asshole no matter how good looking he is. You can be confident without being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:02 PM
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This is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:00 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/423245/us-violent-crime-victims-by-gender/ Not true at all. In fact, they are pretty close in recent years. You admit it yourself, men in general are more violent. Women are the weaker sex, physically, and cannot protect a man like a man could protect her. Violent crimes aside, a woman is far more likely to be a victim of sexual assault, and sexual assault happens more often than murders. I don’t really care what you believe I would or wouldn’t do. What I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:59 PM
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It’s not outdated at all. If you’re in a relationship you’re held to a higher standard to a partner’s safety than helping a random person in public. Men are physically stronger than women and women are more likely to be sexually harassed alone than with a man. A woman cannot protect a man in the same sense that he can protect her. It’s not rocket science. I don’t care what women would disagree with me. I’ve been in a relationship for 8 years, I would literally take a bullet for his safety if I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:17 PM
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Feel sad for you and your partner if you’re in a relationship then. It’s not a give or take transaction. You do it because you love them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:06 PM
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My post is about not turning a blind eye on a stranger in public being assaulted and doing the bare minimum to call the police for them. Your response is for women to fuck suicidal men and because they don’t they are radicalized Get help. Or better yet, get off the internet for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:57 PM
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Oh god please stop posting. Absolute brainrot type of response
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:54 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty bad to think someone is obligated to have sex or reproduce for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:51 PM
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No, men aren’t starting to hate women. You hate women so much that you couldn’t even dial 911 for them if they’re in danger. Then you turn around and bitch about women. Cognitive dissonance is real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:49 PM
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That’s sad. Most decent people in real life have a set of morals that means they help other people in danger. Help can come in the form of calling the police for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:48 PM
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Read my comment, your response, and if you can’t figure out why you haven’t had romantic love then you’re a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:42 PM
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In America they would respond quickly to someone being assaulted, especially with knives. Police, ambulance, the whole thing would be there in minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:41 PM
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It’s different when it’s a loved one vs a stranger. I agree with those women. You have an obligation to your partner just as they have an obligation to you. That’s what being in a relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:39 PM
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No one has to put themselves in danger to save someone else, especially a stranger. I’d think you’re a pos if you don’t call 911 and report someone being beat up or mugged though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:11 AM
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Because literally no one is saying women don’t cheat, have stds, or have unresolved issues lmao. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:23 AM
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Same. I like freedom, literally and financially
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:28 AM
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Literally who is saying women can’t do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:27 PM
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Whatever you say bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:51 PM
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Significant medical event that is life altering (pregnancy) = a bitch on hormones, comparable to constant nagging to you Yeah, you’re not worth debating with those viewpoints. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:08 PM
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You responded to a comment I made about this sub blaming women Never been on redditwiki or aitah, I can’t tell you the general consensus on sexism there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:05 PM
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Bruh what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:03 PM
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Oh no, a random dude on reddit thinks I’m a POS. What ever will I do 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:02 PM
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Saying “as obnoxiously or unreasonably” as they desire does not reflect the scenario OP posted in his link My point is that a person going through a significant medical event shouldn’t be held to the same standards as their partner who is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:59 PM
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Nice strawman. Try to respond in good faith or don’t respond at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:57 PM
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I said this sub. You know, the one we are talking on right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:55 PM
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I hope you have more compassion for your partner if they ever find themselves in a vulnerable state
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:52 PM
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Better get the textbook out of all the comparable mental illnesses to pregnancy and take their rights away too then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:51 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 PM
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It matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 PM
2

Thread=sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:49 PM
2

You edited your comment because that question was not there when I responded. Don’t act dumb. Yes. I think men should be able to request paternity tests in certain situations and his partner be understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 PM
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Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:12 PM
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I can’t tell you what leeway is because I don’t know their relationship. If it was a one-off incident during pregnancy, you’re more likely to think her reasoning (hormones) is truthful and to be more understanding of her situation. If she’s hinted at it in the past or they’ve had issues with trust, you’re more likely to think she might just be truly insecure and accusatory. I don’t think it’s fair to hold two partners to the same standard when one is going through a significant medical event and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:10 PM
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Not sure how that’s relevant to my comment. My point was that if you have a partner who was experiencing a chemical imbalance that caused depression or other mental disorders, you’d likely grant them more leeway in that situation than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:55 PM
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I don’t set boundaries for other peoples relationships. My point was that a pregnant woman should be offered more leeway than a non pregnant woman, for obvious reasons. You can do whatever you want with your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 PM
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From the post I read, it didn’t sound like he pointed anything out to her. Just up and left her off what we are assuming to be a one-off incident during pregnancy. No one is expected to tolerate abuse. But to break up a marriage with a pregnant wife solely on the premise of her wanting to look through his phone seems excessive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:37 PM
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I don’t. That’s why I said it makes you wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:33 PM
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The actions (if caused by pregnancy) are a temporary condition. He’s entirely able to do whatever he wants. Anyone can. My point was that because of the situation, she should be offered more grace than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:31 PM
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If a man had a chemical imbalance that led to depression or other severe mental disorders, why would you not think that is a reasonable excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:25 PM
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Idk, everything on this sub seems to be the woman’s fault according to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:24 PM
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Reasons are absolutely important. You should offer grace to people in different situations. And I believe this for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:22 PM
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You have a very skewed view on women. None of those events are nearly as intimate or life altering as pregnancy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:19 PM
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I can when there’s a genuine reason (pregnancy) why that suspicion would be falsely placed. Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:16 PM
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And you truly think a sympathetic pregnancy is completely comparable to a real pregnancy? Of course we are. But pregnancy is a life altering event that can completely change your moods. Some women have a mental breakdown or postpartum depression, others just crave weird foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:14 PM
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You don’t think she deserves any grace for dealing with pregnancy hormones? He’s entitled to do whatever he wants. Sounds like a bad marriage anyways if he’s willing to abandon his pregnant wife. If this had happened and the wife wasn’t pregnant I’d say it’s totally justified, but that makes me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:05 PM
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I mean ppl hookup a lot so idk how accurate that is lol. I still wouldn’t want a man who doesn’t share similar values as me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:36 AM
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It makes me giggle tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:24 AM
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Bro is down horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:12 PM
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Yes. My feelings would be so hurt I’d question the legitimacy of our relationship. If we can’t trust each other, it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:10 PM
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If you think it’s worth sacrificing a marriage for, then that’s your marriage to sacrifice. I’d consent to the test but end the relationship the same day. I won’t be with someone who can’t trust me, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:19 PM
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Yah. I don’t have casual sex so I’d like someone who preferably is the same or close in morals regarding intimacy. I think most ppl want someone who is similar in viewpoints/morals to them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 AM
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This should be for everyone I hate screaming kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:19 AM
10

This is just sexism facilitated by an airline. If you have a problem with a person, ask for your seat to be moved. Most airlines can accommodate reasonable requests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:29 AM
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If it’s not mandated, why would the hospital be asking me if not because the husband requested one? Paternity testing isn’t requested unless the father wants one. If the test is optional and my husband asks for one, or requests the hospital ask for one, the relationship is over. If the hospital just randomly asked for a paternity test without there being a mandate or because of the husband, yes they’d be accusing me of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:04 AM
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I don’t think it should be mandated, that’s my stance. It should be optional. And I would consent to the optional choice of a paternity test but also would end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:56 AM
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No, it should be optional, not mandatory. Most couples are not raising another man’s child. If it were me, I’d consent to the test but also end the relationship the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:53 AM
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Legally, child support laws do not discriminate. Women have to pay child support just as men are obligated do in the eyes of the law. And yes, that could happen, but that would be illegal if the father is fit to parent. In the same sense, a man could never sign a birth certificate, deny knowing the mother or vanish after the pregnancy starts and will likely get out of child support, which is also illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:53 PM
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Women can have abortions (in most places) yes, because we are entitled to our own bodies. Women can’t abandon a child without the father’s consent. If she drops it off at a safe spot and the father is identified, she will be on the hook for child support and he will likely be granted custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:29 PM
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I don’t know that game. I don’t play dota but I’ve played league for over a decade and recently got into FPS games in the last couple of years. Men, being the majority and more prone to anger, are far more toxic and troll in comp matches. Not talking little kids, probably teens/young adults or maybe even grown adults. There is no comparison. Women are far more docile when it comes to gaming. Ask any random dude in a match
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:02 PM
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If you think men don’t troll games or disconnect bc a teammate pissed them off you clearly haven’t played enough comp matches. Shit is toxic af
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:53 PM
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You act like men don’t grief after being shit talked either. Women just do the same. Equality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:47 PM
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As they should 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:37 PM
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We’re given freedom of choice because pregnancy occurs solely in a woman’s body and has serious health-negative consequences. Both parents are responsible for the child after birth. The mother cannot abandon the child anymore than the father can without paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:30 PM
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You’re wrong. Both parents are on the hook for child support. If the mother births and does not want to keep the baby, but the father does, she is legally responsible for providing child support to the father. Both parents are responsible for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:26 PM
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I don’t care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:50 AM
1

Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:43 AM
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I’d believe it, I see a surprising number of women playing Val and there’s probably many more that don’t talk much like me so you’d never know. But as you know it’s still a heavily male dominated hobby so anyone who doesn’t fit into that is an easy target. It really shouldn’t be expected behavior. I’ve never been the first one to talk, ever, and even if I play well I get shit on simply for being a woman. That’s the sexist shit I’m talking about, because if I was carrying as a man no one would op…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:47 AM
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You know they only dodge because they don’t want to play with a woman bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:43 AM
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No bro, in Val I have to turn my username off and I rarely talk for this reason. It’s really bad. People do not simp. The majority is sexist jokes. And I have never experienced sexism in any aspect of my life except for video games. Like I will top frag and I had 2 guys look up my user and see I was q’ed with someone and start telling me I’m a fat whore, I should be washing dishes, I need to find a new guy to boost me (while I’m literally team mvp) and add me after game to try and harass me on d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:52 AM
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Ya. They’ve gotten a lot more strict even by hiding usernames in champ select. But I played a lot in 2014-2019 and you could say pretty much anything but the N word and get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah, guys get mad at each other, that’s obvious. But guys will dodge a game the second they hear a woman talk, call her a dishwasher, whore, make me a sandwhich, etc. Even if you’ve done nothing wrong or played well, simply for being a woman. I’ve never hear the same caliber of sexist jokes to men by either gender. I play Val, PUBG, and overwatch when it was popular. I won’t even touch CS or COD for this reason. It’s unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:38 AM
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I’ve played league of legends for over a decade, it’s absolutely terrible. The difference is there isn’t voice chat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:36 AM
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Yeah, it’s not even women either. Guys do this to each other, women are just an easier target. FPS games are the worst imo when it comes to toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:27 AM
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How down bad are you to think this is true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:23 AM
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Bruh any competitive or ranked game is like that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:21 AM
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My bf and I spend the majority of our free time playing video games together. I hear lots of girls on voice chat in the games we play too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:22 AM
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Personality, keeping yourself in shape and groomed yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:41 PM
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If it was my child I would do anything to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:37 PM
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Pickles are soooo good what
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:37 PM
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Actually, yeah they do. Lmao. Anyone can say no to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:07 AM
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Just get a dog and go to the dog park
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:26 AM
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Compensation through money is really all you can offer (can you reverse it??) and a lengthy jail sentence for the accuser
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:06 AM
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Thx for the assessment but you don’t know me. I’ve seen some pretty vile things said about women and I don’t think badly of men so it’s pretty disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:04 AM
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lol not at all I’m his GF not his mom, he can do whatever he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:03 AM
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Yeah I don’t think any random man on the street would fuck any random woman Maybe at a bar, or club where people go to hookup but I think most guys have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:20 PM
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Tell that to the republicans in the US 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:13 PM
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Introverted people can be pretty much all of those things with people they are comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:01 PM
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Men have standards. You make it seem like they’re sexually driven animals with little to no thoughts. Kinda rude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:59 PM
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Ah yes, I’m sure “female nature and hypergamy” is the root of all evil in society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:55 PM
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Introverted is ideal to me, I’m introverted so we can just stay home together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:34 PM
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Dang I thought it was legal most places lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:29 PM
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😢😢😢😓😓
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:08 PM
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Dare I say I am shocked a man wants to control women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:04 PM
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Where r the bitches to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:02 PM
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Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:02 PM
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Bruh the child???????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:00 PM
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Pepper spray works just fine dw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:59 PM
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For real. The amount of hate towards women on this sub genuinely concerns me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:58 PM
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My boyfriend is my best friend. It’s not a requirement but we get along so well that it works out that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:05 PM
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I think only men who make enough money to support 2 people would care for a long term relationship Anyone who wants to live together and not be a stay at home parent should be contributing so one party isn’t carrying all the financial burden
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:00 PM
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Okay I might be dumb but I always thought dark meant skin color in that saying 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:52 PM
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Also the fact that one income usually can’t sustain two people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:50 PM
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I think it’s just neutral so long as we can live comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:47 PM
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I see posts like this and wonder how many relationships y’all have been in. This is a terrible, terrible mental
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:11 AM
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Ya I’ve never done any weightlifting or strength training, I just run, so I never expected to have any type of muscle definition lol I’ve no idea what my body fat percentage is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:41 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:35 PM
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Maybe for men but even at my skinniest I never had any muscle definition in my stomach lol, and I’m a long distance runner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:54 PM
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This isn’t true for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:46 PM
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No, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:45 PM
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We probably wouldn’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:39 PM
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I’d rather the men only looking for sex filter themselves out anyways so sounds like a W to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:38 PM
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I don’t. I could care less about a 6 pack I just prefer someone who is relatively in shape/fit. Dad bods aren’t attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:28 PM
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Option 1 I’m introverted too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:00 AM
3

How does more women benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:34 AM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:30 AM
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At least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:20 PM
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Pro woman when it benefits them, for sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:06 PM
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It’s up to the couple. You can’t really say every woman who is neutral should do something any time the man wants. Sex isn’t really comparable to clothing shopping.. it’s intimate and comes with risks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:42 PM
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50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:27 PM
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So u don’t get an std or have a kid accidentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:48 PM
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No bc that wouldn’t be my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:51 AM
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I agree but not nearly as much as a child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:12 AM
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It’s a lot harder to raise a human than a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:32 PM
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They shouldn’t smell or yap if you’re a responsible owner. I’d pick my dog over a kid any day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:30 PM
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So true king those hot men and parties totally make me never want to have kids 🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:24 PM
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Money and time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:19 PM
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Nah, my dad told me never to take my eyes off my drink or leave it alone and I’ll continue to listen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:12 PM
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Typically using someone means to befriend them and dump them right after because you don’t care for the friendship. Don’t be obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:22 PM
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You’re not a genuine person if you abuse a persons friendship or befriend them with ulterior motives. If that doesn’t bother you then you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:27 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:25 AM
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It’s wrong if you befriend someone just to use them to get to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:13 AM
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Men to do what? It’s women that put other women down for men that are called pick me’s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:13 AM
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It definitely happens. People use others to get what they want. Idk why you think that wouldn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:37 AM
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Unfortunately true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:32 AM
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Yeah why not I’d rather government spend money to help people here in the country that need it rather than on military or to Ukraine or the Middle East. The money we’ve spent overseas could have changed so many lives here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:24 AM
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Depends how fat. Some ppl can lose a ton of weight and still have big tits regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:21 PM
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Some things should be kept as thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:50 PM
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My boyfriend and one of my guy friends that I’ve known since kindergarten
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:26 PM
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Call the police
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:37 PM
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No and I’d be mad at him for asking such a stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:36 PM
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Nobody likes braces regardless of age but your teeth health comes first. I had braces for almost 5 years but now my teeth are perfectly straight. It is worth it and only temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:40 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with that it just wouldn’t be my type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:04 PM
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I prefer less body hair on a man but like I’m not gonna tell him to shave it. Grizzly look is not for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:30 PM
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Bro most girls are not gonna send nudes to random dudes on video games that they hardly know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:46 PM
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True that has yet to happen 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:17 PM
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U act like we don’t get called dishwashers and fat whores all the time on video games 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:54 PM
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Like I said it’s a nice thing to do but it’s not expected. Just like a man should not expect a woman to provide male condoms. It’s literally the bare minimum for him to provide and wear a condom during a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:31 AM
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That would be really nice but it’s not something I’d ever expect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:20 AM
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Condoms are a male contraceptive. I don’t expect any man to provide my birth control or buy a plan b, just as he should not expect me to have male condoms on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:33 AM
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The fuck? This is like basic consent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:13 AM
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Why is it the woman’s responsibility to provide his protection especially in a casual hookup? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:12 AM
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That depends on the preferences of the people having sex. I think it’s unreasonable to have one person using 2 forms of contraception while the other has none. If she isn’t on BC then it’s not an unreasonable ask
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:01 PM
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True, but it’s one that applies exclusively to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:58 PM
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That’s so strange to me but I live in the US. They don’t have any form of contraception other than BC? No IUD, arm implant, shot, or anything..? If they’re not doing their part for protection, then it’s fair game. But I take BC so I would definitely walk out if a man refused that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:27 PM
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If your partner is already using birth control/IUD/shots etc it’s unreasonable to also ask them to also use a female condom. You’re responsible for your own protection as is your partner. Also, finding a woman who is on birth control isn’t uncommon. I literally don’t know anyone who doesn’t take it unless they want kids. I imagine anyone who’s down for casual hookups would be using BC if they don’t want to get pregnant. I would walk out if a man asked me to also use a female condom on top of bir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:18 PM
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Insane take lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:48 PM
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Would you think it’s fair to say all men are misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:00 AM
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I mean abuse and manipulation does go hand in hand tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:47 AM
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Stranger danger is real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:36 AM
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That’s true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:46 PM
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I meant that they aren’t stupid in the sense that they think they won’t be judged for being a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:08 PM
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I think this is only true bc you’re a guy, I think attractive men are way more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:02 PM
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Accept it but never wear it except for special occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:01 PM
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Same like I want to be left alone while grocery shopping so I assume other people do too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:57 PM
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Sorry but this simply isn’t true. You always assume a level of danger when meeting a stranger, especially one who has a physical advantage over you. They don’t have to rape you to make you uncomfortable or uneasy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:46 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 PM
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Forsure. It’s a lot easier to go up to a man at a bar than someone walking down the street. I think even men can say the same thing about women. It doesn’t mean you can’t seek a relationship anywhere else, I just think places where people get together to talk and hangout are easier. It doesn’t have to be one extreme or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:32 PM
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Clubs are a social thing where a lot of people drink and hookup. Grocery stores aren’t social. Girls definitely approach men they find attractive in a social setting lol, I’ve seen it personally and done it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:27 PM
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Its traditional gender roles lol, men were supposed to court the woman. we’re moving away from it but it won’t go away overnight I’ve def seen a lot of girls approach men at clubs tho and we now have apps like Bumble where the woman messages first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:21 PM
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Well you’re entitled to your opinion just as much as they’re entitled to try and change it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:00 PM
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It was a sarcastic comment if you couldn’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:50 PM
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I am a woman and responded to a comment about women? You’re nuts if you think that when we have religious fucks in power trying to deny reproductive rights to women all over the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:46 PM
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I don’t think people think others should be sex workers. They just want it to be de-stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:36 PM
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I’m not 100 years old or married so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:35 PM
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Sex workers aren’t stupid. They know people will judge them. It will always be that way because it’s a taboo line of work. What’s ur point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:06 PM
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?? What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:02 PM
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I mean if what you said was true then voluntary plastic surgery wouldn’t exist. You will be hard pressed to find any lawyer to take your case if you signed a contract, which everybody does before surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:59 PM
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God forbid we are allowed to work and not be totally dependent on our husbands right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:04 PM
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It’s both parties job to keep each other safe. The only difference is that men are stronger physically. It is not wrong to keep your wife out trouble, nor would it be wrong as a wife to curtail a bad decision a husband might make. Does not mean one has authority over the other. It means they both respect each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:18 AM
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Against authority? Meaning the man is the authority and she is second to him? Lmao bro, we all know what he meant by it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:13 AM
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GL sueing someone who signed a legally binding consent form. I don’t even know how you would begin to even sue them.. for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:34 AM
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Submissive is icky unless you’re religious.. or kinky I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:32 AM
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I just said I don’t have a problem with what you are saying, you are arguing against nothing my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:25 AM
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My gripe isn’t with your views then, my gripe is with people who think they can tell you what you can and can’t do I can’t speak on your last comment, I’ve never talked to a girl about how many people she’s had sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:21 AM
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Yeah, I could care less what other people think about my choices as long as I am able to freely make them. Part of life is growing and making mistakes/learning from them. This goes for everyone. Let people reap the rewards or consequences of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:18 AM
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It’s a two way street. And no offense submissive is an odd term at least to me to use unless you’re religious or something. I don’t submit to a man, we are 50/50 and equal partners. And we won’t always agree on things but part of a relationship is compromise and trust. I agree with the being healthy thing tho. But peoples bodies inevitably change over time. But yes both partners should be in shape if not for each other than at least for their own health.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:14 AM
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Ok but women and men can still choose to do whatever they want regarding their sex life even if you think it’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:07 AM
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How does this mean they don’t want a secure or happy relationship? Some people can’t help that they are single and yeah if someone cheats on you of course you’d leave them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:13 PM
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lol this couldn’t be further from the truth. Most people just want a secure and happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:34 PM
3

Dude you need to change your perspective on women to one that isn’t chronically online. Alpha seed made me physically revolt I’m not even trying to be a dick but this sounds so unhealthy. Please go out and get to know people. There are plenty of nice people in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:33 AM
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Lol I’ve never even thought of it, I feel like it would be super expensive though like IVF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:07 AM
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Do you mean generally like friends or like a romantic partner? Because if I like someone I’d definitely treat them differently than a friend, and if they liked me back hopefully they would too. I don’t think women expect their friends to treat them better than they do themselves. If a woman has a problem with how a guy is treating her, even if he treats other guys that way, hopefully he would respect that boundary if it’s reasonable which goes back to basic decency and respect for people you car…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:05 AM
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If we just listened to what we learned in kindergarten, “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” this world would be a kinder place for most Of course there will be differences because men and women are different, but everyone should afford each other basic decency and respect if that is what they want in return
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:42 AM
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I feel the same way. Other than having a dog to keep me company 🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:08 AM
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Ya, I’m almost 25 and I have been denied 3 times even though my insurance covers it in full. Granted I haven’t been aggressively pushing it because I am not eager to have surgery, I still explained my feelings and was only offered birth control. I get it but it’s still frustrating since I have known since I was a child myself that I don’t want kids, and my thoughts havent wavered since, which is exactly what I said but sadly fell on deaf ears. But I understand because I am probably a small minor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:57 AM
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Yeah I guess so. I just mean if someone feels very strongly about it then it doesn’t make sense to get into a relationship with someone who feels the opposite of you about a big decision But I guess this is age related too. Someone who is 35 is a lot less likely to change their mind then an 18 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:40 AM
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Ya I can see that for sure. I’ve always had the understanding if you truly love someone that you will get through any problems/compromise to find a solution. But it’s just impossible to compromise on such a big deal as a child but if one party feels strongly about not having a child, and the other really wants one, or changes their mind like you said, to me like.. that’s a massive problem. One party would always be unhappy and may resent the other in the future. It would be divorce-worthy for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:23 AM
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Isn’t this like one thing a couple should most definitely agree on, though? You can compromise through a lot of relationship issues, but you can’t really with a kid, you either have it or you don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:10 AM
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Yeah, I don’t blame them, especially since the majority of people do end up having or wanting kids. And because we have so many contraceptives available, I can understand not wanting to take a riskier and more permanent option. Age 21 is when my insurance would cover it in full, so I thought I would give it a try I had surgery to remove a large cyst, and it was laparoscopic. During the consultation, I literally said to the doctor, ‘hey while you’re in there, do you think you could tie my tubes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:05 AM
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Yeah. Mostly age and due to the fact I have no kids already. Granted, I’m not aggressively trying to go under the knife voluntarily, but I have seen 3 different doctors who have basically denied my request and offered me a plethora of birth controls. I think it is mostly fear of regret in the future Which i get, and I trust their medical opinion, but it’s still a lil frustrating lol especially since I’m almost halfway thru my 20s now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:48 AM
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Never want kids, I’m 24 and have been trying since I was 21 to have my tubes tied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:29 AM
5

Me personally? I think inflation, national debt, the housing crisis are all the biggest problems we face right now. A close next would be gun violence and lack of accessible healthcare for those in poverty I think to implement ‘traditional’ values in society while also respecting individual choice would mean that we would have to make the world a friendlier place to raise children. I’m a big abortion advocate, but I think the vast majority of people want children but either have them in poverty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:51 PM
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I wasn’t talking about now, I meant in the past which is what I thought OP was referring to when he meant societal norms and tradition. It was traditional for women not do these things and to be homemakers. You are right now that very little people think that way. I agree with your last paragraph. I just want each individual to have autonomy and make their own choices even if they aren’t always the best choices, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:35 PM
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Bro isn’t even hiding the misogyny, god dam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:57 PM
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Tragic 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:45 PM
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If you’re gonna spam under every comment, at least don’t hide behind an alt account tough guy 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:42 PM
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You said being liberated from societal norms and traditions has spoiled women.. how else are we suppose to interpret that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:35 PM
7

Thx for proving my point. I’m sure you’ve been drafted lols
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:30 PM
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Missed the point entirely. I mean that women here are treated as individual people and not the property of their husbands or fathers, as in other third world countries. Yes, women and men have different physical abilities, and you are complaining about women having privileges in the same comment of yours that says “I’ve never heard any man say that” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:29 PM
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To spread the word of god, duh /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:07 PM
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😭😭 and the same man will turn around and say how western women are too privileged because we are actually treated as people and not their husband’s property
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:30 PM
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No. I like being able to vote, work, and live freely as an individual I think some people who still enjoy the traditional lifestyle, or religious folk, will blame society as a whole for its differences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:23 PM
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I’m 5’7 and would prefer someone to be 5’9 or above My sister is 6’1 so that’s more of an issue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:46 PM
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I don’t think this is unpopular. You can sleep with whoever you want. Same with women. What’s the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:16 AM
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You literally just said “men” fuck hookers with or without their wives permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:47 AM
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Abortion is not murder. That is an objective fact. Even in pro-life states throughout the US, not one has convicted a woman or a doctor with murder for an abortion. They aren’t even convicted with something lesser such as involuntary manslaughter or even negligence. Paper abortion is just removing yourself from paying child support before you give birth. Same thing, different wording. Children have needs to be met and they are entitled to be taken care of (unless of course both parents agree to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:12 AM
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Because we are human and we aren’t perfect. Do you judge disabled people in wheelchairs why their body doesn’t work, or cancer patients? Have some compassion. You’ll feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:34 AM
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No, abortion is not murder, and child support laws apply to both genders in the US - not just men. Both biological parents are subject to taking care of their child’s needs. Not to mention those are entirely separate issues. I am a citizen just like any other person who was born here or came here legally. Wanting to hold some people to a higher regard, legally, than others is divisive and wrong. There is no “fundamental duty” to have kids in the United States. Inequality has proven through histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:32 AM
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Bro this country already wants to take abortion access away and now we have assholes soon to be in the White House saying childless people shouldn’t be held to the same standard as parents. Not to mention the Republican’s constantly shooting down bills that would protect contraceptive access. It’s so exhausting. My partner and I are happily childfree and want to stay that way. All I want is to be treated equally and more importantly, to be left alone regarding my reproductive decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:10 AM
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Probably not since men aren’t looked at to be a “caregiver” in the same way that women are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:56 AM
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Play video games!! If you’re interested, of course. I’ve made so many friends playing video games. We’ve even traveled to meet up with each other. There are discord servers for like every game too where you can vc with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:36 PM
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I could care less about people selling themselves for sex. I care about someone I committed myself to not upholding their end of the relationship, whether it be a prostitute or not. No man going behind their wives back for sex is worthy of calling themself a husband. And vice versa. You are so wrong. It is not about someone making a better “mate” (???) than them, it’s about the principle. You committed yourself to a singular person and now you are turning back on your commitment. If your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:44 AM
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It was also common throughout history to enslave people based on race or class, oppress women and burn them at the stake, use inhumane and cruel torture methods, etc. Should we start doing all of those things too, or should we learn from it? Your viewpoint is incredibly sad and gives me the impression you are not well-adjusted. Most people in long term relationships take a vow to commit to a singular person because they love them. Honorable men and women can control their emotions regarding sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:28 AM
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Yes, we have a right to choose because pregnancy occurs in the woman’s body. A man cannot make choices about a woman’s body just as a woman cannot make choices about a man’s body. Yes, women have more of a right to their own body than anyone else does. Every individual person should have this right. What can be done legally about this is having unrestricted access to reproductive care and abortion. Not the opposite, which is on par with cruel and inhumane treatment and treats women as second cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:13 AM
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Because forcing women to undergo gestation and pregnancy or c-section by threat of law is inhumane and cruel. No offense but I’d take writing a child support check any day over having my vagina or my stomach ripped open. Men have more reproductive rights than women and that’s partially nature’s fault for putting the reproductive burden on women. But abortion bans further exasperate that inequality. Btw - child support doesn’t discriminate based on gender. Both biological parents are subject to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:39 AM
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It does but abortion is still banned in many states and republican’s consistently shoot down bills that would ensure access to contraception. Birth control pills are usually the first line of treatment for many issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:26 AM
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Yeah I’m sure fucking hookers is totally a healthy choice and definitely won’t have any negative consequences to a long term relationship 👍🏻 you’ve figured it out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:48 AM
2

Insanely tough read. Dear god
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:44 AM
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This has gotta be rage bait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:26 AM
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And the man who left? He takes no blame in your eyes, only the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:41 PM
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The system is there to help people. The government has a responsibility to help its citizens. What’s so wrong with that? People who are rich and live comfortable or even lavish lifestyles divorce or end up leaving their partner after having kids. I’d hardly call them a deadbeat. What then? Or does this only apply to those who ‘leech off the system’?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:40 PM
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So it’s women’s fault for picking a man who left her rather than the man’s fault for leaving? Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:31 PM
3

I can’t really speak on your own experience, but generally the custody is determined by the court to be whatever is in the child’s best interest. The support payments are also determined to be in the child’s best interest and to uphold the same quality of lifestyle in both households. It is less about the parents and mainly about the child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:57 PM
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What do you mean? Even if the custody is 50/50 and the mother makes more money, she will pay child support to the father. It applies to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:51 PM
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The government has an interest in society and maintaining that those who are most vulnerable (children) are taken care of until they are of age Not sure why you’re making this about women and jumping to conclusions. Everyone needs help raising a child. Even parents who are together struggle to financially make ends meet. And it’s unfair for one parent to leave and leave the other in crisis when they are both responsible for the child’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:30 PM
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Child support isn’t about the woman though or what is fair and what isn’t. It’s about what is fair to the child and the child’s specific needs at certain stages of life. You’re going to be mandated by the government simply for being a biological parent regardless if you’re with the other parent or not If you make more money, you’ll be paying support, and vice versa. Child support applies to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:06 PM
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That’s a good question. I would say it’s expected in a lot of cases especially after marriage. Kids are a massive commitment so it’s kind of sad to think a person would have them only because it’s the “normal” thing to do that their stage of life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:03 PM
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Why would you want kids but not want to pay to take care of their needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:56 PM
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I think it depends on the person. I think the majority of people, men and women, want kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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gladly!! 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:50 PM
5

😬 sorry you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:03 PM
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No one in real life gets that assumption because a person has not been in a relationship before bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:53 AM
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Nathan bc he seems kind and is also athletic. I enjoy exercising and hiking so I think our lifestyles would work out No to Michael because he’s an asshole and has children with other women No to Luke because his personality doesn’t seem attractive to me. I’d prefer someone taller and more active. Dog is a plus tho:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:49 AM
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I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:43 AM
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I’m not ok with any of the options it just said to pick the most unappealing one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:25 AM
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Yeah. Being overweight isn’t really an issue for me at all. Like I don’t care about 20-30 lbs. making an effort to be healthier makes a difference too. It’s being “quite” overweight that is most unappealing. And I think anyone can say they want to feel attracted to their partner lol And bad hygiene.. just ew. Speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:20 AM
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Bad hygiene is the worst but being quite overweight is a close second for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:21 AM
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