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Question for Menstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:50 PM
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strongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:07 PM
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strongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 10:25 PM
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Discussionstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:13 PM
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Question for Womenstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:07 PM
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Discussionstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 03:43 PM
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strongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:51 PM
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Question for RedPillstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:56 PM
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Discussionstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:22 PM
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Discussionstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 06:18 PM
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CMVstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 11:50 PM
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strongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:13 PM
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CMVstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:52 AM
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CMVstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:13 PM
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Question for RedPillstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:14 PM
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Discussionstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:28 PM
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CMVstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:17 PM
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Question for BluePillstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:44 PM
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CMVstrongalfalfa/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:16 PM
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The bluepill advice is that you have to communicate clearly with her that your needs aren't being met. You need to express what they are, why they aren't being met, and why you can't continue this relationship if you don't have your needs met. BP doesn't say stay in unhappy relationships. It has a problem with trp because it sees men deliberately taking steps to be more manipulative. If you're unhappy, do the grown-up thing and just leave. I think you should try to compromise and patch up the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 02:20 PM
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Not the OP but I think what he/she was getting at is how progressives and conservatives clash over this issue. I think that while progressives probably have no issue with childfree couples, I think some religious conservatives, which some of TRP are, would have a problem. So I guess it relates based on the whole TBP is more progressive than TRP. That said, my two cents is that some people, mostly the religious conservatives, become upset with childfree people because these religious people think…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 02:32 AM
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I agree. I think this is the most accurate analysis of the of the study. It's important to realize that there are distinct differences like the article said, but we are all still humans and we have the same brain. It's why I can't take red pill seriously when they say females have inferior brains. I mean just read the article, it says it right there: "there's no such thing as a distinctly "male" or "female" brain."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 02:17 AM
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I just want to thank you for fighting for those victims. They really need a voice and it's unfortunate that in our society people tend to forget that it is difficult for victims of DV to get the representation that they need. Keep it up :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:04 PM
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Now that is trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:56 PM
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Thats a very good philosophical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:26 PM
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The fact that you didn't know that, despite being pretty strongly SJW is one reason some people are accusing you of being a troll. I did not realize until today that there is a difference. And for the record, in my school newspaper there was a column written by someone who I know is in my gender studies class. She used the words "colored people." Not "people of color." She used those words and no one was mad at her. This is the first I am hearing of there being a difference between those two phr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:18 PM
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..... Is it too mcuh to ask to simply be polite to one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:15 PM
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Why does that matter? I have said it before in the past, but I feel like if I share now you guys are going to use it to insult me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:14 PM
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WTf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 11:14 PM
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that is so alien to my experience as a gen x woman, i have to imagine that like the rest of the weirdnes on reddit, this is occuring among asians What in the hell does race have to do with discussions about periods on TwoXChromsomes. This is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:56 PM
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What are you talking about? I genuinely don't understand how cracker is supposed to be a racist insult? What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:51 PM
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lol true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:50 PM
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A cracker? How is that racist? It's weird. If a white person were to call a black person a cookie that wouldn't be interpreted as racist, that would simply be interpreted as weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:48 PM
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Get good grades, learn a skill, make some money, stay off drugs = live a happy life. Too many black people refuse to do these things and instead do the exact opposite, then bitch about persecution. Some of us are just tired of hearing it. I agree with this but not because they do it on purpose. I think the broken families are a cause of this, and that's where we need to step in to help them. I don't think blacks consciously try to do the exact opposite, I think they try, fail because of society,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:47 PM
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No need to be insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:45 PM
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Yeah I'm just finding out this stuff today. I honestly thought it meant the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:45 PM
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Black on black crime, while a problem, is a separate issue altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:45 PM
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Well, for one thing, you know very well that "people of color" is currently considered to be a politically correct term for minorities by the people who advocate such things, and "colored people" is a term that was used exclusively by racists in the 40s and 50s to enforce Jim Crow I honestly didn't know this. I thought they meant the same thing in the 50s, a racist term, and today, a term for minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:44 PM
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What is the difference? I know people of color is used more but I thought there isn't much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:43 PM
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This is a fair response, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:42 PM
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I wouldn't know. I don't keep up with African politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 10:42 PM
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You're very supportive, thanks ProtoPill :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:21 PM
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lol I'm a woman and I have a very healthy and active sex life, but thank you for the concern :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:14 PM
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I'm really sad you see it that way. I am not interested in "scoring points" at all, I really want to help minorities overcome injustices, and I know that there are many others like me. But to be fair, I think you're right, there are some bad apples among us, and I really wish that would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:14 PM
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I am definitely not a redpiller. I identify as a strong independent feminist blue pill woman, but because that sounds trollish for whatever reason, I like to call myself a blue pill feminist woman. And yes I fight for social justice for all, including COLORED people. Jesus. So much backlash in this thread. Colored includes blacks, hispanics, etc while blacks just includes blacks. There is a reason why person of color is the more appropriate term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:12 PM
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Ok, fine, I agree with you, but I odn't understand why it's ok for Jon to say "colored" to Jon's audience whereas outside of his audience you can't. It seems weird. How come you cna say one thing one place and not at another place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:08 PM
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Well I've been taking some breaks from ppd and mostly just watching netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:07 PM
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The mods already talked to you about this, I'm surprised you aren't listening to them. If all you're going to do is attack me, don't post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:06 PM
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So in your opinion what did I say wrong? The reverse racism bit? How come when that's published in my school newspaper, word for word, people agree, but when I say it in an online forum I'm called a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:04 PM
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I'm white too. Why is SJW "toxic?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:03 PM
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Colored sounds outdated and is reminiscent of the civil rights era. So Jon gets to use it but normal people can't. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:03 PM
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Don't post if you have nothing to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:02 PM
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I don't get it. Someone in my school newspaper said the exact same words and everyone agrees with her, it got published for god sake, but I say the same exact words and you people think I'm being offensive. Jon Stewart used the word colored and he gets cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:02 PM
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A version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 09:00 PM
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What is RaHoWa? And what is your point about white power?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:26 PM
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Be a great guy outside of the bedroom, excite her emotionally , and she will love sex with you. So much this. People forget or overlook the emotional aspect. Be a nice supportive man, it will help her get in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:20 PM
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Also Jon uses the term POC and receives applause. How come when I say "colored people" PPD laughs and calls me a troll. I think you guys are making yourselves look like idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 08:18 PM
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No, it's not. There is a huge difference between what I said and what you said. I seriously hope that your relationship with your daughter is healthy, for your daughter's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 04:52 PM
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If her sexual fantasies make you uncomfortable, you should say "Honey I'm your mother and I'll always be here for you, and you should never feel shy about talking about sex with me, but it makes me uncomfortable to hear about your sex fantasies in graphic detail. Please leave that kind of talk for your girlfriends." That is so much better than "that's nice dear, go find a girlfriend not me." The first comment makes it clear that you still care for her and don't want her to feel uncomfortable aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:51 PM
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What are you talking about? Mother daughter relationships in which the mother talked to her daughter about sex have always been aroudn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:39 PM
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No its not but if you shut her down when she first comes to you about having a threesome, she'll feel that you're being prudish and WON'T come to you about the things that could endanger her life. It's an issue about trust, openness, and sex positivity. If you show that you aren't open and sex positive, she won't feel like she can trust you with intimate details about herself. This is so important in a mother-daughter relationship, I can't believe you're not seeing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:31 PM
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I seriously don't understand why you think this is funny. Suppose that your daughter is in an abusive relationship. Do you not want her to tell you? Do you not want to be able to help her? What if she has a yeast infection and doesn't know what it is? What if instead of spending money to go to the doctor, she wants to first talk to her mom about it, who may know more about what's going on down there? Will you tell her at that point, "that's nice dear go talk to your girlfriends." I don't underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 02:27 PM
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I strongly disagree, this is not a sex-positive message at all. You should be totally comfortable talking to your daughter about sex and teaching her about how to empower herself through it. Also, i fyou shut her down like this, imagine the consequences. She'll never feel comfortable talking to you about sex again. Let's say she gets in an abusive relationship. Do you not want her to tell you about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 05:10 AM
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Why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 04:46 AM
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I think the idea that most men that go on TRP are "alpha bucks" material is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 07:38 PM
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no.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 05:03 PM
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According to rp, alpha bucks is like the male unicorn. How can you say that so many people including yourself are alpha bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 05:02 PM
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So you think Whites are treated the same as Blacks in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 11:23 PM
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Did you miss the part where I said that you can't say let's just kill anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 11:23 PM
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She is right that a privileged person cannot be abused. White privilege is a real thing. There are some ridiculous ideas out there, like reverse racism (the concept that colored people can be racist against Whites). Absolute rubbish. But that doesn't mean you go out and say let's kill all white men. That's not right. At least don't make it a public comment ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:40 PM
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This statement is obviously unacceptable. You can't just make a statement publicly about killing a group of people. I do understand where she's coming from with white privilege and all but you can't just say let's kill everyone. That's no better than Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 02:21 PM
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Sigh not all women are like this. Of course I like it when a hot guy flirts with me but I'm not going to want to punch a "beta" as you put it if he compliments me. I do appreciate compliments from men, even those I have no plans to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:42 PM
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So basically, you're saying bring the back the patriarchy in full force. I don't get it, do you not want women to have any type of freedoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 02:23 PM
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That just sounds really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 05:42 PM
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... what? OH YOU mean the flat is owned by his parents. Well if he is able to afford rent, that is a sign of independence, which is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 01:13 AM
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Definitely for the men, which is hwy women should not do this. Don't listen to HSW she's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:17 PM
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that they need to lower their standards . No thank you. I want to date a real man, not some boy who lives in his mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 02:16 PM
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Patriarchy itself is not oppression. Patriarchy is a type of society in which men are dominant. The consequences of patriarchy, e.g. women not voting, are oppression. Hope this clarifies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 11:42 PM
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Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:57 PM
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So ... what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:46 PM
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If you are a girl, you get your mothers name. Or we empower women and give them free choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:45 PM
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It is so patriarchally oppressive that women are expected to take a man's last name. Ok, no. This has got to stop. You can't just label everything as oppression because then the word oppression becomes meaningless. Keep the husband's last name was tradition. A patriarchal tradition. Am I excusing it? Of course not. The patriarchy, instilled and enforced by men, is what caused women to be forced into giving up their maiden name. It wasn't so much oppression as it was the culture. The real oppress…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:44 PM
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What are your thoughts on women keeping their last name when getting married? Is it a red flag if she does? Is it a sign of liberation? It is a sign that we have made progress thanks to feminism. The fact that women are allowed to make this decision speaks volumes about how much progress society has made. The fact that so many people struggle to comprehend that a woman may want to keep her own surname instead of taking her husbands speaks volumes about how much further we need to progress as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:41 PM
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Actually, that isn't oppression. Now you've got to be trolling. I don't think it was done intentionally. It just shows how prevalent patriarchal thinking is. I am guilty of it as well. I didn't realize that the AC was set to make it better for men! I thought the AC wasn't that big of an issue until the study was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 06:01 PM
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I don't think it is trolling to post a scientific study, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 02:32 PM
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Yes exactly, I am glad to see this. What RP doesn't realize is that whether or not they believe the wage gap exists or not, women have a harder time in the workplace. Their is ingrained sexism present because of the belief that men should be in the workforce and not women. Not everyone shares this view, but this patriarchal sexist view is still there. The most recent example of this was the AC fiasco. AC is set so that men are the most comfortable. Why can't we have set so that it accommodates w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 12:38 PM
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Why don't you let /u/vinegarbubblegum answer the question? She is an adult woman perfectly capable of understanding and answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:37 PM
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You would have been banned because everyone think you're a troll. Because I make it a point that I am proud of being a feminist woman, apparently. I didn't delete your comment. It's still up. HAH. You can't fool me. I know that whenever the comment comes up in green, it means a mod has just removed your comment. Funny, but I actually know how reddit works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:35 PM
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Off topic, but do you believe that feminism is one of the best things to have happened in the 21st century? I'm trying to prove to /u/hyperrreal that I am not the only one that thinks this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:32 PM
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I would have banned forever ago because I identify as a strong indepedent feminist blue pill woman? Tumblr was right then. Reddit really is misogynistic. Feminism is one of the best things to have happened in the 21st century. I stand by my belief, and maybe some other BPW won't say it because they don't want to be called trolls, but I promise you so many women on this sub agree with me. You're being unfair because you deleted my comment when I didn't even break a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:31 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:04 PM
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??? What is wrong with me sharing my opinion? I didn't insult anyone, I wasn't "shitposting," or anything else. Seriously what is wrong? I DO agree with the OP, that is misogynistic, and this isn't a CMV so I don't see how I'm breaking any rules. You were on thin ice. Because I wanted a flair that you wouldn't give me. That has nothing to do with finding that quote misogynistic. I seriously don't see why I'm at fault here. You're treating me unfairly because you don't like me. That's not fair. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:04 PM
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Because RPM are trying to abuse women and act rapey, whereas RPW are the victims of the misogynistic ideas of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 04:50 PM
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Maybe they should try counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 08:58 PM
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I think you're just being pessimistic. Don't let what you read online color your views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 08:57 PM
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Probably. It's why we need men to step up to the plate. Everyone wins if they just get over their fears of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 08:39 PM
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I think a lot of women will be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:44 PM
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I'm not a troll. But I think I'll take a break from PPD to better understand why I come across as a caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:59 PM
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OMG I LOVE THIS BOT <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:13 PM
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nubile and untarnished. Whatyearisit.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:12 PM
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I don't know, something that doesn't make them sound like a commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:59 PM
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The difference is that the patriarchy and men have marginalized women's voices and opinions for the greater part of history. The opposite isn't true. That's why you can't discount feminists with the excuse that they're biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:28 PM
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I agree men's issues exist. I don't know if I should take it as seriously as MRAs say I should. I don't trust them because they are biased. I am going to focus on women's issues. That is what I am fighting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:26 PM
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Yes I am a woman but their writing does affect me. It comes across as hurtful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:15 PM
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I mean... why do you want to focus on all the bad things?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:14 PM
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Their accurate writing seems to have a lot of unnecessary negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:44 PM
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Wtf is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 05:43 PM
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Really? Do you have experiences? Examples? I'm not trying to attack you. This whole racial aspect of dating is something I've never analyzed and I'm really learning a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 04:02 PM
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The only Indian guy I ever dated I dropped like a penny in a wishing well because of his personality, not because he was Indian. He kept trying to woo me by talking about how much money he had and all the expensive stuff he had. I don't care that you have a BMW or a nice TV or a nice computer. Ugh good for you sister. That is such a turn off. White guys do it too, it's not an Indian problem. I'm glad you made that distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 04:00 PM
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OMG please do an AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:58 PM
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(Besides, I needed to ride and suck the cock carousel. Practice makes perfect.) Preach. I guess with me I haven't really found many Indian guys attractive. I think I'll start paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:57 PM
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WTF. 16 is very young to be "prime." She hasn't even fully deveoped into an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:55 PM
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I'm a white girl, and I haven't found many Indian men attractive. Am I at fault? Do you hate me just because of that? Is my behavior unusual or completely normal? Look I know a lot of people, including yourself, believe that I'm trolling but I'm not. I want to understand the other perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:55 PM
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According to Indian men, Indian women are sleeping with white guys. Who should Indian men go for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:36 PM
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I can understand. I'm white as well, and honestly I've never really found that many Indian guys attractive. I never realized this was like a big deal. They are much more outwardly sexist. I agree with this. Indian men, this isn't the 15th century. Once you modernize we'll be more receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:34 PM
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Pretty obvious how the media screws us. Raj from Big Bang, Abed from community. We don't exactly get the cool, suave, star athlete supermodel characters in TV and Movies. Actually I rarely watch TV so I didn't know this. I'll make an effort to pay attention in the future. and do creepy shit to get with girls. I agree with this. I've experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 03:05 PM
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Are you so completely unself aware that you can't see why people persist in thinking youre a troll? I think people think I'm a troll because they can't handle the fact that I'm blue pill, feminist, and an independent woman and that I am PROUD to call myself that. I admit that I do not understand all of this gender dyanamics stuff, which is why I post threads like the one I posted just an hour ago. I think that if you see my early threads, like this and this people got their knickers in a bunch b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:44 PM
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Ah, of course. The go to excuse from EVERYONE. I'm a troll. Yes, I'm a troll for being a blue pill woman. I'm a troll because I believe that TRP has misogyny. I'm a troll because I go on tumblr. I'm a troll because of xyz. You guys will always give that excuse instead of coming up with an argument to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:36 PM
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I'm not assuming white women treat Indian men worse. IME, that's not true. But I'm not an Indian guy, so I don't know what it's like on the opposite end, hence the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:34 PM
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You say its more difficult. Do you think tht's more of cultural thing, or is it just a bias by White women? How does the media screw you? the absurd amount of horniness and thirst of 99% of indian guys. Indian guys are more horny than White guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:33 PM
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But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:32 PM
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Also, it totally sucks that white women treat you as lower SMV than a guy who would be in your league were you both the same race. Where are people getting this? Serious question, I'm trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:31 PM
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How does this answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:31 PM
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Ok, so let me ask you, who isn't even an mod and can't even speak officially for the subreddit, who is purely speculating, why did I get banned according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:30 PM
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First of all, how would you even know? You're not a mod. Second of all, I was. You can read my comment history if you want. It's been a while, but I remember it clearly. There was some discussion going on about male suicide, and I asked how it is my fault if I choose to work a job and men commit suicide because they can't handle that fact. Yeah, it may not have been super nice and demure which is what rPW wants, but it was an honest sentiment, and it got me banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 02:00 PM
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A hardcore show? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:48 PM
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How am I patronizing? I really do want to understand RPW. There's a reason I wanted to participate on it. I believed in the message that it's important to be a good girlfriend and I was excited to find a community that talks about that. I still believe that. It's just there are some things I can't get behind about it, like how I was banned for saying I want to work a job (which doesn't even make sense because some of the rpw mods admit to having jobs so like wtf.) I think the TRP subreddit dehum…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:47 PM
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I don't understand your comment. Are you saying they wouldn't want to share their opinions because the RP ideology prohibits women from doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:06 AM
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Now all I need is for /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin to tell me where I can get my alpha fucks too ;). I'm sure she must have some experience, she does NOT seem like a sweet innocent girl at all hehe.......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 08:55 PM
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Why not? I want to hear their opinions on a lot of topics. I think they offer an opinion that you can't get anywhere else. It's very hard to find women willing to accept a ideology that almost dehumanizes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 08:37 PM
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Encourage more RPW to post here. They're just so shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:27 PM
5

Which ones? I need to know where to go to get my free beta bucks ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 04:16 PM
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Serious question, do you feel like white girls give Indian guys a hard time? You seem really open to supporting interracial relationships. I respect that. A common complaint that TRPers make is that (liberal) white women say that they are in support of interracial dating and marriage but in reality despise dating or marrying anyone outside their own race. Do you think there is any truth to what TRP says. You say you've dated Indian men, but can you say the same of your white girl friends? Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:46 PM
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I question how accurate this is if you're bsing your own assumptions based on your own experiences. You could have confirmation bias. That said, my advice for you is to be happy. At the end of the day, that's what matters. I can understand that you may not want to be second best, but you need to question is it better for you to not accept the woman for who she is and be alone or accept her and get past your insecurites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:14 PM
1

Of course <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 04:46 PM
1

We normally don't allow calling out of other individual members of the sub, What are the exceptions? I'm not asking because I plan on doing this, I just want to know when this would ever be okay. It seems like it shouldn't be okay at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 04:25 AM
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A lot of times. And I've followed up a lot as well ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 10:17 PM
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I don't think TRP is good sex education for boys. There are problems with sex education in America, particularly the push from the right for abstinence-only education, but replacing that with a misogynistic worldview is not the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 12:21 AM
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"Females" Really? Why can't you just say women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 06:01 PM
1

Look I think he's stupid but now you're just giving them ammunition by making us look stupid my posting low-effort comments like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:51 PM
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I agree completely. I think the mods need to take some swift action. /u/cuittler I saw you commenting down elsewhere in this thread. Do you have some concrete ideas on reducing RP participation? It's getting out of hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:21 AM
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There is no difference... I mean I guess if you really wanted to you could say that women could be sexist to men but I hightly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:06 AM
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He wasn't being genuine when he was being open and honest. He was tricking her into believing that later on she could get a relationship with him. Guys do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 09:16 PM
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Ok I read that, and I can totally understand the outrage. That isn't advice on being nice to your man. That is advice about how to drop what your doing and act like a subservient maid for him. It's dehumanizing and even misogynistic towards women. They are not just nice things to do for your man. It is old fashioned advice that involves putting a woman down and making her feel unimportant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 06:24 PM
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Which threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 06:22 PM
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Victims?? Honey no, modern day women are empowered by feminism. HUUUUUGEEEE difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 12:40 AM
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I am apologetic to women, yes, because she is being deceived. I'm not being accusatory toward men. Reading PPD and TRP has opened my eyes that this is what men are like. Tumblr is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 08:43 PM
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But they are making their own decisions thinking those men are genuine, when in fact they are using PUA/TRP to deceive those women. That's why it's not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 08:43 PM
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But see, where did that idea come from? Was it truly an organic idea, or did it come across because of how society forced her to worry about how she would be viewed amongst her peers? This is why we need feminism. To teach women that it's ok to make their own decisions and that they are not at fault for manipulative men who are able to coerce and seduce women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:58 PM
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Definitely apologetic. I've been in that girls shoes. Too many times. I wish I was more mature and realized how vicious and evil men can be when it comes to manipulating women for sex like that. I wish I had seen the red flags. I wish I had been able to recognize that he wasn't even that hot anyways. But you know, it's not really our faults. We're so convinced by the media that it's ok to sexually explore ourselves with gusy on campus that whatever consequences there are to it aren't really real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:40 PM
1

Exactly! So many generalizations in this thread. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 01:16 PM
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Having lots of sex = / = hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 02:36 AM
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I am definitely blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 12:26 AM
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You know what, this is a good thing. It means women are free to make their own choices about sex and explore their sexuality the way they want. This is important. If TRP men are upset about this or insecure about it, it doesn't change the fact that it's a good thing for women to have freedom of their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 08:20 PM
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This is wrong advice imo. What if she doesn't want to dye her hair? Who does he think he is demanding that she change her appearance for him? This is unhealthy in a relationship. As a blonde, I would never dye my hair to look like a brunette if a SO asked me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 04:07 PM
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What are you basing this off of? I am promiscuous and I enjoy it. Are you speaking from your own experience? If so, can you describe it more? I really think this difference between us is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 03:47 AM
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You are twisting my words. I said it would have been nice if she helped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 09:53 PM
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I think it would have been nice if the woman helped out the man in the above situation, but I agree that it would be creepy and weird as fuck if a man asked to drink out of a garden hose. I also believe that people do have a moral duty to help others. It is a moral thing to do. Also I'm pretty sure that there is some kind of law that says people can't just walk away from the scene of a murder or rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 09:15 PM
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??? What are you talking about? I'm completely serious. What is wrong with asking men and women to help women that are victim of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 08:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 04:50 PM
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Yes of course he's overreacting. Think about how the woman feels. She sees a strange man asking to take a drink of water out of a hose. Of course it's weird as fuck and creepy. Just because YOU acted creepy doesn't mean tht you get to bring "justice" to all women by not helping a woman when she's being raped. Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 04:26 PM
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Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 03:55 PM
1

Lol yeah. No shorties for us, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 04:29 PM
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A quick browse through my mail shows me that I sent you one message asking if wingnut hates me. That's it. That's the only talks I've had with you. WTf are you smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 01:55 AM
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I haven't sent you 100s of PMs. What the heck are you talking about? I've sent you like 1 or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 01:17 AM
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No I'm not. I'm sick and tired of people thinking I'm a troll. That's bad enough. But please don't insult me by saying I'm a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 11:56 PM
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I'm not saying we should be trying to jail innocent men, I'm saying that it may happen along the way. It's no different than saying innocent women may get raped walking alone at night because of the rape culture we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 08:30 PM
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Of course! I think it's really great when a man shows that he can be emotional. Why do you think in female erotica and romance novels the hero almost always has some "dark past"and he gets "healed" by the woman after opening up? It's pretty hot. If women don't care about men's feelings why is this so common in romance novels that target the female audience ? Women do care about men's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 08:11 PM
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Yes of course. We need to as a society show the world that we do not tolerate rape culture. It doesn't matter if you were raped yesterday or 10 years ago, you should report him and put that man in jail. Even if you were not sure you were raped, report it anyway. It's a bummer that some innocent men get locked away but it's a price we need to pay to end rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 07:22 PM
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I see. It just seems like a weird flair. Don't know why you'd pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 07:12 PM
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Full of misogyny. Also I don't understand what your flair means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 05:12 PM
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Marriage is a patriarchal constraint that is used to bound a woman's sexuality. It always has been. That's why allowing her to explore her sexuality is a pro-feminist action. However, given that most men cheat, the reverse scenario wouldn't be feminist at all. Chances are in the reverse he is tricking her into being able to sleep around with whoever he wants, whereas when she gets to do it she really is being open to a feminist marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 04:33 PM
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This is an amazing story to read. Yes, this is what a true male feminist looks like. Bravo to him. He is allowing his wife to explore her sexuality free of all patriarchal constraints. This man has my gratitude. If you were okay with the above exchange, now pretend everything above was written from the point of view of a wife whose husband came home one day, admitted to kissing another woman, and then was allowed to have sex with other women while the wife took care of the kids at home. The wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:55 PM
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Oh wow I'm so sorry you had to go through that girl. Hugs <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:05 PM
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No wonder he's your ex xD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:02 PM
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ROFL No. No shorties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:01 PM
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The law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:00 PM
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No, I'm not. I've been here for 6 months and this is not my first thread. I'm completely serious when I think TRP needs to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 10:00 PM
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I think some of them had bad experiences and are blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:54 PM
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Not just me, most normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:53 PM
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No, but promoting misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:52 PM
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I did think long and hard. Red pill should not exist. It is even worse than men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:51 PM
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Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:50 PM
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Free speech is good so long as it isn't unfettered free speech that is threatening to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:50 PM
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I don't see how banning it would make it more prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:49 PM
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TRP isn't, they encourage their userbase to be manipulative and possibly commit hate crimes which is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 08:49 PM
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We shouldn't sweep them under the rug, we should destroy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:47 PM
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People should go to jail for hate crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:46 PM
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I hope so. These ideas are dangerous and shouldn't exist. This isn't the 1800s anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:46 PM
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Yes, I think such hateful and misogynistic ideas should have no place in a civilized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:27 PM
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Oh didn't see that. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 04:07 PM
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ROFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 03:55 PM
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Given 1 and 2 and 3, 3 being the most unlikely to occur if I had met him, I would tell him to grow up and man up. Women are allowed to make their own decisions and that if women rejected him the problem wasn't women, but with him. He should be mature and not whine about the fact that women don't find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:19 AM
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What the heck is otaku?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 10:31 PM
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Don't be a creep, treat me as a person, not a sex object, just be yourself, and look presentable i.e. attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 04:17 PM
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No I don't. Why can't you just be nice to me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 09:03 PM
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Stop being so mean to me >_>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 04:31 PM
0

You've got to be trolling with that kind of a username.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 03:55 PM
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We are entitled to pursuing our own careers, marrying in our own timeline if we choose, and having kids if we choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/15 03:34 AM
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meanie :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:39 PM
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WHAT. I was sure that you're a man. Edit: New question then, any reason why you've never tried being with a woman ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:32 PM
1

........... Ok. So how many women have you slept with? Are you ashamed to say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:09 PM
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Well considering your RP and most RPers spin plates I'm going to have a guess a lot. Probably like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:00 PM
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Rofl why should we care about you. I'm sorry, but I'm going to date who I want and it's not my fault you don't know how to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 10:21 PM
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Lol okay.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 10:12 PM
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Fine, maybe I've had emotional responses, what's wrong with that? My feelings are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 09:34 PM
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Uh what lol. You're admitting to being a creeper? Didn't think I'd see a terp do that but alright!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 09:33 PM
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When have I not disagreed with red pill? I've stated many times how I think it's immoral and shouldn't be used. I think it's toxic and a bad for both men and women. Just because some things are correct about it doesn't mean people should join the cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 07:38 PM
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lol but you don't even know me xD. How do you know I'm cute? Plus, I think it would be kinda weird sitting on a man's lap as a young woman. Creeper much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 07:38 PM
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I'm not asking for anyone to protect me. I'm not asking for people to feel bad for me. I'm just making it known that I vocally disagree with a lot of red pill. I think RP isn't this binary thing that's either wrong or right. There are some things rp gets right. There are a lot of things rpw gets right. There are a lot of things rp gets wrong, and some things rpw get wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:42 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:41 PM
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Including me? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:30 PM
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Not a very rp thing to do ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:00 PM
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Rofl what. I'm bluepill. I don't manipulate people with emotions, that's what terpers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:00 PM
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Just because people do something doesn't mean it's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:09 AM
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If you're not going to share with us, why did you bother dropping an obvious teaser meant to grab our attention. Are you attention-whoring, because if so, that isn't very red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:09 AM
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There is no set definition. There are many types. Financial, emotional, physical manipulations are all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:24 AM
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I think that's pretty stupid imo you should tell them it was 16 months ago and ask for a 2nd chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:23 AM
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No , but violence is a good way of keeping women in line NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:20 AM
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WTF so you think it's manly if guy beats his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:20 AM
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IMO Beating women is just as bad as raping them, dread game, murder, etc. Any form of manipulation or violence against women should be outlawed against women. That said, I don't see why they'd censor beating women and nothing else. My point still stands. /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin's story doesn't make sense ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:17 AM
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Why do you bother browsing TRP. It's kinda useless imo. Just laugh at it from tbp lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:14 AM
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They are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:13 AM
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I can't reddit anymore. I'm having to fight tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:13 AM
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OMG WHO CARES. How can you justify the existence of that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:12 AM
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/u/Atlas_B_Shruggin story doesn't make much sense. If an adored icon (an EC or mod?) is talking about beating women, then of course TRP endorses it. Which doesn't make sense if TRP is talking about banning it. Something doesn't add up. Either the story is false or beating women is allowed on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:11 AM
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??? What are you talking about? And if what you're saying is true, why would you get banned from the irc for saying the truth? So many questions...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:09 AM
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So you think it should be okay to beat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:07 AM
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Woah. I'm really interested in now. Was your thinking "bluepill"? So what's your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:05 AM
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So you agree that short and ugly men are unattractive. Good. The wording implied that personality was everything and looks was an afterthought. Just checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 06:35 PM
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Women are going to be attracted to a great personality almost regardless of looks. As a woman, I disagree. Looks matter. No short or ugly men. Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 04:20 PM
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Exactly. Good distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 10:39 PM
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Make up is not the same as faking your entire personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 09:24 PM
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Yes I'd feel manipulated and naturally attractive guys are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:12 PM
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But that isn't the question I asked. I wanted to know quick and long-term things men can do to make themselves more attractive. I swear you guys are getting mad that the answers in this thread don't answer this question of yours that you want answered that I never asked in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 02:55 AM
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For someone who bleeds logic, you're not making much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 02:46 AM
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Uh what. I'm a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 02:14 AM
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Sure :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 01:18 PM
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This thread is about both. That's why I mentioned long-term things. Look man here's my advice to you. It's ok to be a bit beta. I've analzyed my past relationships, and I think the key is that as a man you should be alpha. Alpha traits are good: muscular, confident, and honestly being kind of a dick is good. It spices things up and doesn't make you seem boring. But beta traits are good too. What I listed is good. Don't get hung up on AF/BB and try to be some amazing alpha male. Just be a normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:57 AM
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Like... being attracted to non-sexual aspects of a partner. Like he's a good cook. Your best friend. Cares for you. Knows how to treat you right. Answers your ntexts the next morning (really, it's not hard guys). I guess things that make you think "this is a good man" but isn't necessarily sexual. I'm not a man so I don't know what it's like for you but not everything i see in a man is sexual. Plus I'm bisexual so it's the same for women too. I can notice their physical features tht are attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:34 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:32 AM
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Not necessarily. Maybe if you're a woman you'd understand, I'm guessing you're a man since you're thinking about it sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:27 AM
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So the solution is for women to marry guys they don't like? Were you an omega growing up? Is that why you feel sympathy for them? I mean even trp hates on omegas and betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:26 AM
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I think she wants a virgin man who has his shit together and is attractive. I think they're out there but rarer. Probably the shy types. In any case, her preference is allowed. It's valid. No need to suggest she pair up with omegas LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:16 AM
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lol It doesn't make me wet, but it just boosts their attractiveness to see them being able to cook well. Wait are you a man or a woman, you never told me. If you're a man you may have trouble understanding, but it's really sexy to women (I'm generalizing but bear with me here) when you see man do something, anything really, really really well. Like if he's out at the gym lifting weights assuredly. In this case, cooking with focus and just being sure of himself and confident, that's adds to the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 03:09 AM
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She definitely seems to have a fetish for virgin gusy, but that's okay. I'd date a virgin so long as he was honest about it and didn't lie about who he is. The key is communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 12:03 AM
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Ahhhh that makes a lot more sense. I think you're missing out tbh but I honestly do respect your decision. I think there are like minded men out there, but it's going to be hard. Don't date a virgin neckbeard lonely guy who isn't even attractive just because he's a virgin. My 2 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 11:26 PM
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Just curious are you a virgin too? Or do you just have a kink for virgin guys? Not judging, I really find this cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 11:08 PM
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Oh lol. Well, Im still sorry that that happend to you. Don't get too hung up I'm sure that you'r enot ugly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:42 PM
1

Thankfully I have not had the misfortune of being negged, but I know someone who has. If possible, I'd like /u/happilysinglewoman to chime in because I know she's had to experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:36 PM
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I highly doubt that, give /u/cvcv1991 the benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:22 PM
1

Yea hdefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:18 PM
2

I didn't specify sexual attraction. I just said attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:18 PM
1

That isn't real feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:13 PM
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Interesing. I'm totally okay with having preferences, to each her own, but I find it interesting that you specifically want virgin men instead of low-parter count men. I'd love for you to explain this to me a bit more because it fascinates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:12 PM
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lol did a terper tell you that? I promise you being able to have good and polite conversations is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:12 PM
1

Must be attractive, have money, and a good personality. Attractive: should be a no-brainer. I'm really thankful I found rpw because of this. I had a history of dating guys that I wasn't really feeling it for, but one thing I learned from rpw is that you should only be with a guy if you're really attracted to him. I know I've angered the community, but I just want to say thank you to them for this. Ever since I've made a strict rule to only date men 6' or taller that are musuclar (my type of guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:11 PM
7

I have experience finding myself attracted to men that are good cooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:06 PM
1

Ashamed to admit it but this is good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:05 PM
5

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:05 PM
1

I think girls should give video games a chance. I think it's a good way to bond with men since a lot of them play video games. That's not to say that you should go and date the nerds. I would never get with a man whose entire life is video games but it can be fun to play with your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:04 PM
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I think if you try explaining this to them they'll start hamstering LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:01 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:00 PM
1

stay a virgin wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 10:00 PM
5

Completely agree about interrupting! I had a BF who once did that and it was so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 09:59 PM
6

did you read the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 09:05 PM
2

Don't feel bad, it's bad that you got cheated on. I'm glad you got the help you needed :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:48 PM
4

Very good list. Men pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:47 PM
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things trp gets right: going to the gym. muscular guys are hawt. things trp doesn't get right: everything else. work from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:46 PM
2

You tried to burn down an ex's house? How badly did he treat you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:36 PM
2

Plastic surgery??? Why and why is it a good idea to hog attention. Agree with other bullets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:35 PM
6

Definitely good advice. A man who knows how to cook well is definitely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:33 PM
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I'm opening this up to get other people's thoughts. Besides, if I post what I say, trp is just going to accuse me of being a brainless person and downvote me and move on. I want to try and actually help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:32 PM
3

Wtf. Of course negging is a thing. There are BP women who have been negged and hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:32 PM
3

This is exactly the type of comment I didn't want. Cut the snark. There is misogyny in trp, you can't deny it. Do you have any constructive advice for men that does not involve "negging" or manipulation? Because as a feminist, I support self-improvement for men, REAL self-improvement, not this bullshit of learning to how be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:18 PM
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I know I said women but I'm ok with men commenting, I want this to be gender inclusive. I just don't want a bunch of terps coming in here and mansplaining about how all non-trp advice is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:14 PM
3

Having a past that's... Rather full of interesting experiences and horrible decisions, I know that it's within a man's rights to not want to commit to someone like me, and that doesn't necessarily make him an asshole. This screams internalized misogyny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 08:00 PM
0

It's easier to sexually connect with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 06:25 PM
3

Honestly I think they're good people and I think there are a lot of good things about the community. I wanted to a be a member but like my first comment, in which I said I wanted to work and have a job, got me banned. So I can't support them fully. My problem with them is their hypocrisy. They say that they don't want to be a safe space for women, and then they ban men. They say that you shouldn't sleep around, but I've heard through the grapevine that some of the regulars there have slutty past…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 04:25 PM
2

Its not a lifestyle, its a mindset towards one's spouse and relationship. Wait what. This doesn't make sense. I thought the mindset toward's one spouse and relationship that you're describing is that of a feminine, traditional lifestyle. but it's not a moral system full of "shoulds". Is this the whole sexual strategy is amoral bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 04:15 PM
2

Why not? Isn't this like the rpw ideology of how people should live their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 01:29 PM
1

Gym: $100 Hair: $1600 Makeup: $400 (I'm a makeup addict) Brazilians: $400 Manicures and Pedicures: $700 Clothing: $700 Shoes: $800 Total: I really don't want to know lol I'm scared because I think I spent too much >.< Edit: Education expenses were not included. In that case add $40k to mine because a woman's status matters too. Of course definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 01:14 PM
0

TRP is the best anti-rape site I have ever seen. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 03:47 AM
2

When do women falsely accuse for material gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 12:20 AM
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I want honestly to sit them down and teach them that they're not entitled to sex and they need to treat women equally but I know they won't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:38 PM
1

1) Not okay. Come on, a serial cheater? You can't change that. 2) I think former criminals should have a chance at leading normal lives but you need to be honest with people. Not ok. 3) Hmm. I did a lot of thinking about this one. Ok 4) Ok. LGBTQ need assistance still, sadly. 5) Not ok. He needs to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 02:04 AM
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Wow I had no idea you were so religious. I mean, a lot of people on reddit are atheist and BP seems to be pretty progressive. Anyhow I respect your decision. Just make sure this is what you want and that you're not forced into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 08:27 PM
2

You seem in tune with your sexuality, which is good. Why are you waiting until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 07:28 PM
2

What no way. You come across as pretty sexual. Why not? Are you waiting till marriage or something? Genuinely curious, I mean, you seem really sex-positive and accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 01:23 AM
1

Are you really a 36 year old virgin? Why have you not had sex yet? I mean, there's nothing wrong, but it IS unusual... Are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 01:09 AM
1

part of being sex-positive means that you stop holding on to antiquated beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 12:49 AM
2

wtf are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:35 PM
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Lying about sex isn't a big deal. Honestly men need to get over their virgin fetish. Like grow up this is 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 08:38 PM
1

NO. No no no no no. Jesus christ what is this. The 1500s. "Control women" REALLY? Come on, even the rpw's can't get behind this. We should be able to have freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 04:35 PM
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I'm not triggered by this discussion, but I think having trigger warnings is respectful that all people should do. I was very hurt when /u/lamiaqueen made fun of me for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 04:23 PM
-5

And what is wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:20 PM
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And you guys think I'm the troll, REALLY? I thought she was serious and I don't hate her for it, but you guys are defending her actions. Meanwhile I've always maintained my innocence because I'M NOT A TROLL and you guys always downvote me and harass me. What a great community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:30 PM
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But the thing is there are plenty of nice women out there. They are invisible to terpers because they are chasing after the hot women. Hot women go after hot guys. You just have to deal with it. And I honestly don't buy this whole 80/20 idea, that most men get no sex. It seems like bullshit. Plenty of people at college have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:18 PM
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You need to work on not coming across as so angry. I was just trying to cheer you up. Guess terpers have no desire to be treated like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 04:13 AM
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I just want to say I disagree with what you're saying but I'm sorry that you're getting downvoted. I've been downvoted before and it really hurt my feelings because I wasn't trying to be rude or offensive. Maybe you can learn from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 03:11 AM
2

I'm really happy to see this. Finally proof of real progress for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 02:59 AM
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This is a really good response to the OP with a minor change. Now , if some couples are happy being unequal , good for them , it's none of our business . It is our business. Women in third world countries are oppressed and not given autonomy. We should try to help them. If only after achieving equality they want to be treated inferiorly then all we can do is sigh and abandon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 04:45 PM
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I think that TRP believes that there is such a thing as equality, but doesn't want it. I think a lot of RP males genuinely believing that a dominant male and a submissive woman is the only way for their to be a healthy relationship, and that is where I think the problem arises. Here's the thing. You said that "there is no 'equal' relationship dynamic." Is this what RPers want? Yes. No one's arguing that. Even if this is true (which it isn't), it doesn't mean you can't strive to achieve equality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 04:34 PM
-1

Definitely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 01:39 PM
-2

Explain how it is political movement. Feminists want ethics in gaming journalism, to end rape culture, and fight for equal pay. These are social issues, not political ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 09:51 PM
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So, given that RPers believed that "feminism has infected the government," do you believe that it is a problem that has interesected the government? Or do you believe that it's a social movement that doesn't have a political agenda, which it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 08:59 PM
1

Do you stream leagueoflegends as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 08:11 PM
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See I don't view it as that. I don't think it's them viewing women as precious and protecting them from male gaze. I think they want those women to not explore their own beauty by having freedom to decide what to wear. I bet if you ask any RPW they'd agree that it would be oppressive for them to not be able to choose what to wear. Hell half of that sub is all about buying skirts and dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 02:43 AM
1

That is twisted logic imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 01:58 AM
1

It is very misogynistic. Women are forced to cover up in black overalls. They can't drive in Saudi Arabia. Girls are married off at age 14. How do you not see misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 11:58 PM
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Suffragist leaders fought and died for our rights to get educated and be able to get a job. Do you really now want to explore these avenues?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:01 PM
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Drunk women are more than held accountable; they are SHAMED for their actions, which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 01:44 AM
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I'm confused. You say you're RP, but then you post these comments, and you make fun of RP. This entire thread is basically a circlejerk. Are you sure you're not BP? There's nothing wrong with that. It's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 10:30 PM
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No I didn't. And /u/beautiful_red isn't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 08:43 PM
0

A red pill one is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 06:57 PM
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Or that we were scouring the interwebs to find a place where we could get all misogynisty and angry and stroke the justice boner? This is pretty accurate imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 04:53 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 05:00 AM
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Doesn't matter. If in your head you think of someone as lesser, that shows you are prejudiced against that person. In this case, it would be misogyny, even if she was MORE attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 10:18 PM
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Let's break this down. If you think you're the prize, then you think that she isn't. That is, you think she is lesser than you because nothing can be greater than the prize. Thinking of a woman as lesser is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 02:20 PM
-1

Yes of course wtf how is htis even a question. If you saw a murder happening, should you try stopping it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 04:12 AM
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I hate RP opinions and it's heavily upvoted. Meanwhile I post that I think there should be enough homeless shelters for all men and women, and I get downvoted. This is one big rp circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 12:09 AM
1

Ok fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 09:19 PM
1

I agree. Everyone seems to hate me, but even in my posts I write my own analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 09:18 PM
1

Do you have any examples of these guys being constructive? I find this hard to believe considering the drama on mrp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 08:19 PM
-1

And you're saying you don't want to exclude these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 04:38 PM
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Can you name any men that participate in RPW that you actually are happy to see their particiatpion? Like men who don't give "bad advice" or "come from mrp" or whatever other excuses you use? I have difficulty believing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 03:51 PM
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rps has said that he created it and then "handed it off" to the women. He doesn't moderate it. Your point is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 03:35 PM
-2

Is this supposed to be hamstering? Excluding people == safe space end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 12:34 PM
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Go back to circlejerking over how crazy I am on the IRC. I'm sure that's all you've done lately instead of bothering to talk about self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:55 PM
-2

I need medication for pointing out hypocrisy. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:37 PM
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If reddit was a safe space as TRP believes then rpw wouldn't need to have a mod post about how they don't want mrp commenting. The fact that wingnut made a post shows her hypocrisy. She doesn't believe reddit to be a safe space, which is true, it's not, there is rampant misogyny, and that she believes rpw needs to be made into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 08:35 PM
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I didn't say men's clubs are not ok. I said women's clubs are needed. Two different things. But yes please call me a sexist, you're the one that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 08:33 PM
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So it just so happens that most people who post bad content are men? Specifically, men from the MRP sub? Specifically, men from the MRP sub that RPW would dislike because MRP mods have been banning RPW? Yea...... sure.......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:46 PM
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And RPW say they agree with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:46 PM
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They don't say they want female safe spaces, their actions show that they want female safe spaces. Isn't this like the motto of trp? Don't listen to what women say, watch what they do? WELL THEN RPW, I'm watching what you do! Just like you told me to! And the results are very telling!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:45 PM
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First, this has nothing to do with askwomen. They are a separate sub that functions differently. Second, if you read the linked thread, and the thread on MRP about this, the rpw are targeting male posters because they want rpw to have mainly women speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:44 PM
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From the sidebar: This is a spot for like-minded Women to objectively and realistically discuss sexual strategy from an anti-feminist, non-feminist, traditionalist and/or evolutionary psychology perspective. Our focus is on long-term goals that bring long-term happiness. We agree with /r/TheRedPill in it's description of male and female nature and seek to apply it to our lives. This feminized culture has told men and women over and over how to find happiness, and we're learning the hard way that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:39 PM
-3

This whole thread with 900+ upvotes goes on and on about how much trp hates safe spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:31 PM
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Cool, so explain how rpw is not an anti-feminist safe space? You guys don't like trigger warnings, fine, but don't pretend that the mods don't get together and chat on the IRC and collectively decide to censor/remove posts they don't like. Or, sometimes they all decide on responding to a post in a certain way so that they set a narrative. I've been PMing quite a few people and learning more and more about the hypocrisy of rpw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:28 PM
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The biggest thing I don't get is how rp does shit like this, I point it out, and then I get downvoted and called a troll. Like wtf. Am I supposed to show cognitive dissonance to be taken seriously? Is that how reddit works? If so, it explains why I suck at it. Tumblr makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:25 PM
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Female safe space is a place where women can talk in the presence of other women. By banning men who post on mrp, that's exactly what they are making it, a female safe space. If rpw want to call other rpw cunts, more power to them, and I don't exactly disagree with it, but tht doesn't mean that it is not a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:21 PM
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One of TRPs tenets is that there shouldn't be female safe spaces and rpw say that they agree with TRP. Are you saying you read wingnut's post and then think to yourself that she isn't being hypocrtical at all? I suggest you talk to her, but I guess that won't help since you're more likely to agree with her and call me a troll anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:19 PM
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TRP and RPW keep going on and on about how there's no need for female safe spaces, "the entire world" is a female safe space, and other bullshit like that. And then rpw mods do a 180 and ask for a safe space. What a joke. AND SOMEHOW everyone thinks I'm the troll. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:16 PM
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Terpers should be okay with this since they go on and on about how sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 06:26 PM
1

WEll sorry but I'd rather give more room to a nursing mother than to a man who wants to make his junk feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 02:13 PM
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That is something I do not support. Women need safe spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 01:08 AM
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It's not about pay. It's about the fact that for a long time STEM was considered a boy's club (and still is) and that we should be inclusive and accepting of both men and women in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:59 AM
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I find this hard to believe, but if it's true, then you're right that shouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:32 AM
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So then why didn't he say that instead. I am of the position we should have enough homeless shelters for everyone and people be treated equally under the law. edit People are downvoting this. You think we should NOT have enough homeless shelters? You think people should NOT be treated equally? What is wrong with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:25 AM
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How is this a poe's law comment? What's so wrong with asking men to NOT take up large amounts of space and instead allow other people to sit down?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:24 AM
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Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:02 AM
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More women attend college than men You're right, so you'd think that more of them get STEM jobs, but the opposite is true, indicating that there must be some foul play. Nothing prevents women from majoring in electrical engineering or going computer science. And here's where you are wrong. There is prevelant sexism in silicon valley. Here's a good article that talks about it: http://www.newsweek.com/2015/02/06/what-silicon-valley-thinks-women-302821.html . If you paid attention to the Pao lawsui…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:02 AM
-6

Please, manspreading and microagressions are real things. I'd rather have a man's ball's feel uncomfortable for 10 mins on the train than a pregnant woman forcing to stand during that duration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:59 PM
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Unless I'm mistaken, you have to do something bad to get into prison. So I'm not exactly about to say that men are disadvantaged in that regard. If more men are murderers, more of them land up in prison. QED With regards to homeless, I agree that it's an issue for both women and men, but I don't understand how it's more of a disadvantage for men. When you analyze homelessness, you have to consider why they became homeless. If the men got fired from their jobs and couldn't support themselves, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:58 PM
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I think both are patriarchies, just different flavors. In SA oppression of women is overt, while in the USA there is less of it and it's covered up and sweetened to make people not realize that it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:45 PM
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Look at the gender gap in STEM jobs. Is that not indicative of an advantage men have? What about the fact that men are valued for their accomplishments, while women are objectified constantly (I'm referring to Jon Stewarts bit on Caitlyn Jenner coming out).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:45 PM
-2

What advantages do men have and why does it not give them privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:43 PM
1

That would be amazing but sadly there are some people who oppose TRP that STILL don't identify as a feminist sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:15 PM
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I just picked a few examples. There are more that trp says you shouldn't do that he's complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 09:35 PM
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Yeah okay but its terpers who say that things like #18, #19, and #22 are beta and are not sexually attractive to women. You can't have it both ways. You can't complain that you're not allowed to do these things and then say that we shouldn't be doing them in the first place because it isn't what women find attractive. You're trying to have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 08:38 PM
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Ok that was very long and I didn't have time to go through all of it. Despite people getting mad at me in my thread about it, I do not think Paul is definitely a rapist who should die in hell. I said we simply don't know. That said, coming to your article, I think what you're doing is taking an exmaple--one in which we don't know with certainy if rape occurred or not--and using that to say that look we should be trivializing the importance of campus rapes. Towards the end of the post you bold a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 04:28 AM
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I never said that Paul was guilty. Ctrl F my comments. I NEVER said that. I just said we don't know with 100% certainty what happened, and people are downvoting me for that. Yes, the texts are damning. Yeah, she may not have been raped. But we don't know anything with 100% certainty. Is that so hard to accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:22 AM
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Don't bother, they just want to circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 11:06 PM
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I think you're being too nice, tbh. It seems like they enjoy circlejerking about how inferior bpw are for not accepting their ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 07:09 PM
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My point is we shouldn't try to deliberately trigger people, but I guess no one cares anymore considering how much the rpw circlejerk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:56 PM
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Mods I know you told me not to use flairs but I only want BP women to answer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:44 PM
-4

Exactly my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:31 PM
-2

Ugh fine. I'll delete my comments. I was actually concerned I had triggered her, but now re-reading this I realize you were all just making fun of me. All you guys do is circlejerk upvoting each other and downvoting me. You guys don't even care about having a normal conversation .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:28 PM
-4

I'm making these posts to gain perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:52 PM
-3

Sulkowicz harassed him for years? I thought they were in a relationship before he was accused of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:52 PM
-1

That's very sweet of you. Good to know that you disprove the sexist TRP belief that all women are only after men's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:43 PM
-2

Do you really think if a rapist walks free he'll stop raping? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:42 PM
-12

Ok having your own opinion is fine but there's no reason to slut shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:44 PM
-6

That may very well be true. We simply don't know what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:35 PM
-2

How does the t-word appropriate PTSD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:34 PM
-7

Can you just minimize the comment thread? I edited that for /u/LamiaQueen because that was in response to her but as a third party I think you really should ignore that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:30 PM
0

....... Well, here's someting else you can look at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internalized_sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:28 PM
-4

Well I'm not. I've been asking people why they think I am one, and pretty much no one tells me why. The mods of ppd told me a while back "they know it when they see it," and thankfully one rpw was nice enough to explain that I'm "borderline poe" but I don't quite understand what that means. Look, if you don't want to take me seriously like a lot of other people then okay fine but I really want to try to get to know people and discuss these things. PPD has some very interesting dialogue that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:25 PM
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Not necessarily. Like, I don't think Paul should be imprisoned if there isn't evidence. But at the same time, just because there's no evidence doesn't mean Emma isn't a victim. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:24 PM
0

How in the hell is internalized misogyny funny? This is a great article from tumblr that explains what it is: http://ladiesappreciationlife.tumblr.com/whatis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:22 PM
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Yeah we don't know 100% but I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:21 PM
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Just realized I forgot to post my response. While it is true that Paul was cleared of wrongdoing, and that the texts look bad, the simple fact is we don't know 100% for sure what happened. She could have been a victim of a horrible, horrible crime that no woman, regardless of age, sexual orientation, race, socioeconomic class, or pill color should experience. I sincerely hope that /r/RedPillWomen can agree with /r/TheBluePill on that or otherwise I think I need to post a whole new thread. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:18 PM
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How am I victimizing everything? You say you're bluepill. Can you honestly read TRP and think to yourself that none of them hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:13 PM
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I agree that the texts don't help her case but she could have very well been raped. The truth is we don't know what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:13 PM
-7

I can't agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:12 PM
-2

Okay. Do you think that your opinion may be formed in part due to internalized misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:12 PM
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I'm a woman. I'm not trolling. I'm interested in his gender to see if he's a man who believes that or a woman who believes that. Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:11 PM
-2

Why is is a troll comment to say that if a rapist is set free he will go on to rape some more? You do realize that most rapes are committed by just a few serial rapists right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:10 PM
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I'm not a troll. Misogyny is very real, especially in TRP, and we need trigger warnings so that people don't have to relive past experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:10 PM
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Well, I'm wondering why that's so personal for /u/LamiaQueen . It seems I struck a nerve and I didn't mean to. She's free to share though. Getting things off your chest is a really healthy way to deal with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:02 PM
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I like the sound of this but the problem is that even if someone is cleared of wrongdoing, we don't know for sure if he did commit a crime or not, like in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:02 PM
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Holy shit really. Letting a rapist go free is MUCH worse. That man can go on to commit more and more rapes. If an innocent is imprisoned, he has a lwayer and can argue in court for his release. Meanwhile the rapist keeps perpetuating rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 04:01 PM
-10

IIRC the police cleared the guy from any wrongdoing right? How do we not know that there was no evidence instead of him not actually being the perpetrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 03:57 PM
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I agree that this is a wtich hunt, but if we don't take the side of the accuser, what's the alternative? We risk letting actual rapists walk if we don't believe the accuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 03:56 PM
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Why do you think she lied about it? There's nothing wrong if a girl likes anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 03:56 PM
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How are you certain that she was never raped? The facts show that we can't really prove what happened that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 03:55 PM
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I find it hard to believe that "the best men," like congressmen, CEOs, and others are getting harems. Most people in upper-class society are married. You say it isn't legal, so that implies that they are married but have mistresses on the side. Do you think their wives know this and are okay with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 02:57 PM
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Yes of course I just don't understand what you meant by this comment. I'd like you to explain. People always keep accusing me of being some idiotic troll and I'm not. I want to actually participate in these discussions and understand the comments so I'm asking about it. If you don't want to bother explaining that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 02:56 PM
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Why do you say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 06:02 AM
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Are you a man or a woman? You say this as if the best men today are getting harems, but polygamy is not legal in most parts of the world. Also, you're implying that every man wants harems of "the best women." Do you not think that maybe there are some men that only want monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:50 AM
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getting the bitter without the sweet What do you mean by this? I re-read it a couple of times and I don't understand still.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 05:40 AM
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Why do people believe they have no skills with sleeping with women? Personally I think computer programmers are hot. It's really cool to see people code. Maybe it's cuz idk how to do lol and the results always amaze me haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 10:40 PM
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This is a discussion for women. Please leave. I posted a thread for men. Feel free to participate there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 07:40 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 07:24 PM
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Can you give some summary or analysis? Don't have time to watch the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 12:48 PM
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/u/Scallopkid and /u/fleetingwish THIS is what I mean by healthy discussion among women across pills. If you really don't want to participate that's fine, but since you kept pestering me I ought to show you that it's this right here what I was hoping to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 12:45 PM
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I don't think you would be suggesting that she try men if she had said that she was gay. I absolutely would. I think our society is heteronormative and doesn't encourage people to try different things. I think there is nothing with wrong with trying new things, and if you read the comments, after I asked some people if they've tried experimenting, some have told me that they did and it didn't go so well. I'm not telling those people that they have to be bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 12:41 PM
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It's an important distinction because free of men we don't feel pressured to act a certain way or talk in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:53 AM
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I tried explaining that sharing with not just me but other women as well can encourage you to broaden your perspectives. I'm sorry if you can't see it, plenty of other women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:52 AM
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It has to do with how this thread is a thread full of women's responses to the OP? I think I'm confused. What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:31 AM
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And that's okay if you're private about. It's just that I feel it's an opportunity to grow and empower yourself by sharing, as many other women did. If you don't want to that's okay I'm not going to force you. I'm not a man that's going about trying to pressure or coerce women. I stand AGAINST that so if you don't want to then don't. But I'm saying that it can be very rewarding so you should really think about it before making a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:27 AM
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Right. There are women in the rest of this sub too. That's exactly my point...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:26 AM
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Honestly yeah. I want to be able to look up to him in heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:25 AM
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I like to think of empowerment as allowing women the power to act in a way they choose without fear of shame from a predominantly patriarchal society. I'm sorry that you've been conditioned to dislike the word, empowerment is a very empowering word in of itself. So like, with respect to this thread, if you're not comfortable sharing, that's TOTALLY okay. This is meant to be a safe and healthy discussion. There is no need to feel pressured. I just think it's really empowering for women to break o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:35 AM
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Regarding the second question: do you not feel that the act of bonding with the other person is empowering yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:14 AM
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I have learned that tumblr was right. There IS a lot of misogyny hidden and that cis-gendered white men are the biggest contributors of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 11:50 PM
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It isn't being sexually explicit that's good, it's being unafraid to talk about sex and sexually explicitly in the presence of other women that's a noble endeavor. This isn't the 1950s and we should celebrate that. Instead of remaining hush hush about sex, we should be open about it, especially sister to sister. You say you're not afraid, but that you don't see the benefit. Here's my suggestion, read the other responses. Read the fantasies other women have shared, what they do to spice it up, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 11:39 PM
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That's kind of late for a first time imo. Do you think it was worth it or that you missed out a lot? I fully support you branching out I strongly suggest you read this thread and the thread for women to get ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:55 PM
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That's totally okay, there is not need to feel pressured. That said, can I ask why you're shy about it? What prevents you from being open?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:54 PM
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Why is my comment history cartoonishly over the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:54 PM
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If you're not comfortable being sexually explicit on an online forum in the presence of other women, explain why. If you are, answer the questions so we can have a healthy discussion :D You should come out of your shell! Look at all the other women who have. Isn't that a form of inspiration?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:53 PM
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I don't think you've tried BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 10:52 PM
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This mentality really fascinates me. Many other women in this thread are comfortable discussing their sexualities with other women, but then you say that that is too personal for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 07:22 PM
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Tell all the women who replied in my earlier thread that I'm a troll. Go on, I won't stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 07:21 PM
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I'm really sorry you felt disempowered in your first sexual experience. Your first sexual experience should really be empowering. In any case, I hope you're more in touch with your sexuality now. And definitely try BDSM. It's very fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:08 PM
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I guess I just have trouble understanding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:06 PM
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Ever thought about experimenting, or did it never cross your mind. Why were they miserable? I edited the question about patriarchy to better apply to men. Anything specific? Okay that is really triggering to some people who might be reading. Please be mindful. That doesn't seem very sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:39 PM
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Experimented before? I edited this so you may want to take a look. Ah okay I understand. Btw if you're wife isn't comfortable here, she's encouraged to post in the thread for women. Wow. I guess you're not going to experiment then. Okay I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:37 PM
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Have you ever experimented? Why don't you like the word empower. As funny as it sounds, the word empower is a very empowering word.I need to edit the question. Doesn't apply to men. I originally wrote it for women. Sorry. Let me edit it. Lol Uh.... okay....o_o.... You should talk to other men about this as the discussion grows and develop some!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:35 PM
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AMAA
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:19 PM
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I just realized. A lot of these are RP males. I don't know that many BP male users to tag :/. So if you're a BP male PLEASE join in. Don't feel left out. This is meant to be all inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:19 PM
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I don't want to throw away what I have on the off chance that it might be better. I totally understand and respect that. It's good to hear women speaking out against this hypergamy bullshit that rp men spread, saying that we'll get up and leave for something better. I'm really happy for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:17 PM
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LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED (male edition) /u/wazzup987 /u/gaylubeoil /u/archwinger /u/whisper /u/thegreasypole /u/aerobus /u/cxj /u/exit_sandman /u/redpillwatchtower /u/ecoast_man Again, sorry if you didn't want to be here, but I really wanted to kickstart this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:12 PM
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That's totally okay. You seem pretty in tune with yourself, so I won't recommend you experiment :p This seems concerning to me. Do you think you are missing out on sexual growth by not being with other men? And I'm very sorry about your upbringing Oh my god I'm so sorry that happened to you. Yes, please, experience sex in all of it's glory. Do some bondage, it's great. Fair enough. Cool cool. I encourage you read other comments. I've gotten some ideas from other ladies and a couple have gotten i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:04 PM
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Wow I never really thought about poop like that. I dunno if that makes me more comfortable lol, but this is what I was talking about in the OP! If you never responded I wouldn't have ever opened my mind like this. Regarding rape, I think you should clarify between rape and ravishment. Rape is non consent, ravishment is consensual nonconsent. Huge difference. If you're into rape rape, that's totally okay, but just know it's different than ravishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:01 PM
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The question was directed toward /u/HappilySingleWoman . For the record, I think their are plenty of people out there who believe they are straight but could be bi simply because they haven't tried it, which is why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:58 PM
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Maybe it is just that there are fewer RPW than BPW here? I don't think so. You also equate not wanting to talk about something with being uncomfortable. It is just not sexy or feminine to talk in public about how you take dick in your ass. RPW care about being sexy and feminine, so they don't talk about it. And this is what I want to know. I understand why in public they wouldn't talk about that, but online? anonymously? in the presence of other women? In what I'm trying to make a safe space? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:57 PM
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Who is homini and HHL? Why should I have tagged them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:56 PM
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I was specifically referencing how women like myself have ravishment fantasies and then terpers go on to write about how women want to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:55 PM
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Keep searching! Don't live life without experiencing the things you want to experience. What I mean is not are you better at having sex, but have you become more in touch with your sexuality. Were you able to distance yourself from the notion that you don't have autonomous control of your body (because the patriarchy teaches us otherwise) and enjoy sex fully? I'm going to try the T-shirts and skirts things. Sounds hot. Never really thought it through as much as you did but yeah I agree, a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:54 PM
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You say mostly. Have you tried sex with girls? Or have you not tried it but think you may be interested? Aw that's such a sweet story. I hope you two stay together :) That's totally okay! In fact, I think it's really good of you to come out of your shell and answer the other questions. Things like this are really beneficial for women because it encourages them to be honest and talk about these things with other women. You're ready when you're ready, don't sweat it. Fair enough. Interesting fanta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:51 PM
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I think men should get more help. Isn't that exactly what I said? And women are the primary victims of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:47 PM
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Uh... no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:46 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:46 PM
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Wow. I really think that it is very mature of you to internalize the concept that you are in control of your body in middle school, given the kind of society we've grown up in. More power to you. We aren't that adventurous because my SO likes fairly vanilla sex. I am okay with this. In high school we were fairly exhibitionist but now that we're parents I don't think it appropriate for us to do anymore. I see where you're coming from, but I think it's also important to realize that just because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:46 PM
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I usually just lurk here, but since you specifically called out RPW then I will answer :) Thank you! You should set a good example for the others to follow. -I'm straight, no real feelings about it, it's just how I am! Sometime I will look at subreddits like gonewild or hardbodies, which if you saw in my browsing history could give another impression but I just use it for comparison to myself. Ever thought about experimenting? -I had my first experiences my senior year of high school with my fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:43 PM
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I fixed it now pls go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:21 AM
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I don't see why you can't be RP and a feminist if you'd like. Just like any major religion, you gotta pick the parts you want to keep, and toss the rest. I made a post about this a while back: http://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2ux439/is_it_possible_to_be_a_feminist_and_still_want_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 04:20 AM
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If this is true you need to add a trigger warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:45 AM
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Serious musts for a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:39 AM
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I agree and I'm hoping that this thread will help people who are uncomfortable discussing it become more comfortable. There's no reason to be shy. Women should be comfortable having these talks with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:35 AM
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I just realized I didn't respond to you! Sorry :O Good to know. Happy for you. Feisty ;) That's definitely not a bad thing. Fair point. Okay I need to hear more about this. What fantasies are impracticable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:34 AM
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i'm getting better, though i still have some remaining discomfort/shyness about it. sex was a pretty taboo subject in my household growing up, and my parents sort of raised me to think it was something i shouldn't do, or talk about. i also dated someone briefly who was pretty pushy about it, so it sort of turned into a situation where even hinting at anything sexual probably meant i was going to be pushed into some act i didn't want to be a part of, or punished if i resisted. i'm with someone i …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:32 AM
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I choose not to identify with any sexuality. Names put us in two many boxes. This is a great point and I'm glad you brought it up. While it is nice to have a naming scheme to help differentiate, it is important to realize that names constrain us to a limited number of sexual orientations that we perceive as normal. Fantastic point. Every sexual experience is an opportunity for growth. Very healthy attitude. Agree completely. BDSM, whipping, cutting, defecation. I'm very open. Fisting. This is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 03:28 AM
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Oh ... oh man... I'll be in my bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:24 AM
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Can't believe I missed this. Must be 6' tall. Must be muscular. Must make decent money. Six figures preferred. Into kinky sex (BDSM)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:24 AM
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Come on now RPW no need to be shy....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 02:21 AM
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Of course my sexual experiences in high school and college helped me grow sexually, I was never a one night stand person though, but I'd get freaky with my boyfriends. I don't really think about the empowerment of it- I love sex, I like to orgasm, I enjoy having sex and I feel sexy as hell doing it the way I like to do it. Very refreshing to see this kind of openness :) I like sub/dom roles, I like to go both ways, though I'm typically the submissive. Choking, slapping, blind folds, dirty talk e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:37 AM
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I've had painful experiences with it. It just doesn't feel good to me, and I'm always worried I'm gonna poop on accident. Also, I've had one too many guys tell me that the reason they like anal is because of the power dynamic and that it feels like a conquest, that they know the girls don't like it. No thanks. Yeah like this just gives me a "run far away" vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:33 AM
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Bi. Very comfortable with my sexuality. Very happy to hear. Yes. Every experience was a learning experience, learning how to please myself, how to please others, what to look for in a partner, reconciling what I thought I wanted with what actually made me happy. All the men (and women, with maybe one or two exceptions) I've been involved with have been lovely, it wasn't until I started using Reddit that I learned there are guys out there with very strong opinions against things that I've never c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:20 AM
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I'm straight. Have you ever thought about experimenting? Too many to write. My fantasies change a lot, too. Depends on my mood and the day, and the partner, as said. But you can say my favorites are tying up and teasing, and I mean hours edging a man until he's begging to cum. I like tickling (yep), I really like oral and all things wet&messy, I looooove having my nipples stimulated the proper way, and I love vibrators. Oh wow so you're an S. Being an M, I have to wonder what the other side of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:18 AM
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This thread serves two purposes: 1) If a person is uncomfortable being sexually open, it helps others understand why and it helps the uncomfortable person develop an open mindset to be more open. 2) The people who are sexually open are able to learn from other people's views on sex. I think that one problem with society is the notion of sex being something that shouldn't be openly talked about, and I thought that it's such a good common ground RP and BP women can find by talking about it in a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 01:15 AM
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I agree with paternity being a problem, but I think you're exaggerating all the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:22 AM
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That's very heart-warming to hear :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:21 AM
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I am bi and very comfortable with my sexuality. Same here sister. fistbump I was 24 when I had sex for the first time, with a good friend for whom it was also his first time. I grew up in a religion that taught that any sexual experience for a woman outside marriage made her used and lowered her value. That definitely played into why I waited so long before I has sex. I spent time working out what my issues with sex were before I had sex for the first time and it was great! I think though that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:15 AM
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Straight. Have you ever experimented? How do you know for sure you're straight? Yes and no. I know I'm attracted to men but I also have a pretty low sex drive in general That's totally okay and there's no shame in that. Don't feel bad at all. I suppose. That's good to hear! People are free to do what they want with their bodies, but there are consequences of course :P Agreed. You should be smart about your choices. I think that goes for all pills and all genders, including those who decide to no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:09 AM
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I sleep with who I want. I have the power to do that. They aren't "jerk alphas" that TRP believes are the only people that are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:06 AM
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I can see why RP thinks that, but I disagree. I think that it "hurt" men by leveling the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:05 AM
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I'm sorry if you didn't want to be notified. I'll edit out your names if you want. I just wanted to get people's attention because I really want to get a healthy discussion going here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:03 AM
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Come on girls no need to be shy. Let's chat! /u/tempesttcup /u/azombiekitten /u/happilysinglewoman /u/pandorarosie /u/misspearl /u/wingnut /u/phantomdream09 /u/polyhooly /u/BakerOfPie /u/gridrexx /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin /u/thechemist158 /u/susandeath /u/fuschia19 LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 12:03 AM
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I am comfortable. I guess bisexual is a bit of a simplification, because I cannot handle a relationship with a woman, but having sex with them is fun. I'm in touch and comfortable with my sexuality. I became sexually active in highschool. TBH, in retrospect, I should have waited a bit longer, but on the flip side, I'm glad I didn't wait so that I could really understand the kind of happiness sex brings. But like I also said, I wasn't emotionally prepared to understand the hurt it brings. In summ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:58 PM
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Feminism has HELPED women not HURT men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:52 PM
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I remember those comments. You're not understanding me. I'm saying that a man crying isn't attractive, but it's a healthy part of a relationship for a man to be in touch with his emotions, as a woman should be with hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:52 PM
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Why would they not be loyal to their children? I thought TRP says women are loyal to children and not their men? Regardless, as a woman, surely you must agree you are loyal? You said in the other comment you're not single. You're loyal to your partner aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:39 PM
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No of course not. This is the kind of misogyny present in TRP. Ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:38 PM
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I'd rather not answer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:31 PM
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Dunno what my max is :x I spend one hour on the treadmill 3 times a week and take a jog in the park on the other days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:31 PM
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Just googled it. Looks yummy! Going to have to try it sometime :D!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:30 PM
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I guess what I want is that for women to receive help like they do AND for men to receive help. That's the kind of equality I believe in. Why can't they both be preferred?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:29 PM
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I know it's hypocritical. That's why I feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 09:12 PM
2

What do you do in your free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 09:09 PM
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I don't bench press. I mostly do yoga and cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:59 PM
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Well, and I feel guilty for admitting this, but like I'm not going to complain if women get extra help...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:58 PM
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I don't think it's wrong but I do find it odd. I think women should be treated equally, not preferentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:39 PM
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That's not fully true. I browse tumblr and yes parts of reddit, including PPD at times are triggerring but honestly it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:13 PM
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The cake is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:12 PM
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All life is sacred.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:08 PM
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How do you feel about the terper logic of 30+ women being "post wall" and unable to find happiness? Pro tip: don't let it get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:08 PM
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Honestly I'm really happy for you! I hope everything goes well xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:07 PM
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Slightly offensive...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:06 PM
2

What's your favorite food?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:06 PM
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AMA :D No personal q's D: Well in any case, you seem like a really cool guy based on some of your comments. I don't really agree with you a lot, but I find you interesting so here goes: 0) Are you a man or a woman? 1) Vanilla or Chocolate? 2) dunno if this is too personal, but straight or gay? 3) single or not? 4) feminist or not? (I guess not based on your comments :/) 5) Political views?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 07:00 PM
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OMG YAY! Blue Pill, 20, strong independent feminist woman, currently in college. AMA!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 06:57 PM
1

Wow. Do you believe TRP has misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 06:56 PM
1

BOT WARS COMMENCE!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:29 AM
1

Why? It's okay if you don't like them, but why the derogatory label "slut."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:27 AM
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Yes. This isn't the 1600s people. We aren't supposed to remain precious virgins for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:26 AM
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They're misogynists, we're not. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 04:24 AM
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Maybe, I don't know. It was a while back. I want to say yes, but I was tipsy at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:10 AM
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I answered this. I was happy that night, but I felt like shit that I was deceived. This isn't hard people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:14 PM
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I see. You're the first person that actually explained this to me so thanks. I'm not sure I agree with all of it but at least it's out there now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:49 PM
1

Caring Knows how to lead Supportive Makes me feel at ease Appreciative Communicates Loving Rational Fun Healthy attitude toward sex (isn't intimidated by high counts) Into kinky sex Doesn't have to be wealthy, but can't be poor Trustworthy Believes in Feminism Rejects TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:48 PM
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Help me understand how lying about his education, his job, who he works for, where he lives, etc, is societal expectation and not malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:43 PM
1

Plenty of OPs reply to their posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:30 PM
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You've never heard a woman claim to be a low partner count woman to get a guy she knows wouldn't want her otherwise? I commented on this elsewhere. Yes it happens but in this case it's because of societal expectations for women that should be done away with. Please..........if you haven't seen malicious intent in women, it's because you're willfully ignoring it. I'm not arguing that women are fairytale creatures. We have flaws. But I don't think I'm willfully ignoring anything. I think men act m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:27 PM
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This is circlejerking. I never said that. I agree women can do wrong, which is why I said neither sex should lie. I'm just saying that in MY experiences I've seen men lie with malicious intent more often than women. I see terpers go on and on about spermjacking, but I've never met a guy IRL who was a victim of it or a woman who tried to do it. But I've met several men IRL who've acted rapey at parties and hung around drunk girls too much, or spread all kinds of false rumors about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:25 PM
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I know but I felt bad about being deceived. If you were deceived you're saying you wouldn't feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:23 PM
-1

I'm not going to sleep with a man just for his money. Let's say though that some woman is interested in starting a family with a guy. He says he makes 200k but really makes 20k. Wouldn't you feel deceived?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:21 PM
-2

Exactly. See, makeup is trivial. But deceiving someone regarding how much money you make? Not at all the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 06:22 PM
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lol you post grammatically incorrect sentences. Of course I can't understand your meaning. And of course your response is that you're feeding a troll. Go ahead and don't take me seriously. Observers will be able to tell who here makes sense and who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 06:02 PM
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I you're a woman who cannot understand that Still doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:45 PM
-1

ROFL why would I sleep with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:44 PM
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He shouldn't have deceived me. Why can't people just be nice to one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:44 PM
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It wasn't life altering and I'm over it. I'm bringing it up because it's relevant to the article at hand. Jesus you guys are making a bigger deal about it than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:43 PM
-1

I agree. We need to make transexuals comfortable with being open about who they are. It's time to stop being transphobic and instead be accepting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:51 PM
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I you're a wan who cannot understand that, you probably need some kind of counselling. Well, I certainly can't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:51 PM
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Yeah I got sex but I felt like shit afterwards because I was deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:39 PM
-1

Okay. What help do I need? What self-awareness do I need to develop?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:34 PM
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There is no way this would pass. Prisons are already filled to the brim at a point that they're letting felony drug users out on misdemeanor chargers now. This is the one issue that I agree with and it's hard for me to figure out how to solve this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:34 PM
-1

This has nothing to do with scumbag stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:09 PM
-2

I wasn't trying to date him though. I wanted casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:09 PM
-2

You know what, if you really think I'm a troll then more power for you. You and your partner here aren't adding anything to the discussion other than being rude and hurtful so I'm not about to take anything you say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:08 PM
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What is this current sentiment you're talking about? Why does everyone immediately think I'm a troll? Everyone says this and NO ONE ever specifies why. Tell me, what is about my views that irks people so much to say "troll."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:07 PM
-3

When did I say women don't play games? I've done it, and a lot of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:49 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:48 PM
-1

I've seen more men lie about their profession than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:48 PM
-2

How the hell is any of this a fantasy? This is something I hope no one goes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:48 PM
-5

No need to act catty. We females women should be able to show the men how to conduct ourselves ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:53 PM
-3

I think men and women should be able to enjoy their own sexuality the way they want it without getting deceived in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:52 PM
-5

The problem isn't that we had sex, it's that he lied about who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:50 PM
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Read my other comments. She shouldn't be jailed, and if a man lied about his count, he shouldn't be jailed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:41 PM
-4

No of course not wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:37 PM
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I commented on this elsewhere, but I'll quickly restate it here. Basically, I don't think either sex should lie, and if they do, I don't think either should be jailed. But I see men lie with malicious intent i.e. to deceive women. I don't see women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:36 PM
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Can you guys please tone down the misogyny? I want to have a conversation, but there's no reason to be so rude and hurtful. I don't think you should be in jail for cheating, lying about your sexual history, or applying make up. Honestly, people shouldn't lie about the first two, and the red pillers saying that women who apply make up to lie are delusional. You're misinterpreting something. Men and women can tell lies that are not meant to be malicious, but generally speaking it's the men who do …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:34 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what I feel is wrong with this comment but there's just something I don't like about this. I just don't think people should be jailed for cheating. Think how many people would go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:30 PM
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Make up isn't lying with the intention to deceive. Make up is something women do to look better, like dressing better. Men can do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:28 PM
-6

Honestly that was mildly traumatic for me to recount and I hope you know how rude and hurtful you are being. Both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:00 PM
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No, I really don't think you should jail a woman for cheating. Or a man for that matter. Cheating is bad yes but jail is too harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:59 AM
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Yeah someone else clarified and now I understand his comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:58 AM
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Ok, now I understand what you were saying. I agree that men and women both shouldn't lie to each other, and a woman shouldn't lie about being on the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:58 AM
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You know, the girl who says "I've only slept with 3 guys" ... Wedding March.... "Ooooh, you found my diary. Yeah, I guess it could have been 23 guys". Do those ladies get a perp walk too ? Afterall, sex was a verbal agreement based on lies. Honestly I don't think men and women should lie. I think you're right that it is a problem that women lie about their counts, I've done it too, but understand that it's not because we're trying to deceive (like a lot of men are), it's because there is this pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:48 AM
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Are all you going to do is insult me or are you going to add the discussion. If anything you're a troll. I'm sharing some really hurtful experiences of mine, and all you're doing is laughing it off as troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:21 AM
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1) I think this is amazing! 2) Yes. This is honestly really personal for me. I remember one time at my freshman year I was at a frat party with my sorority sisters, and there was this really cute guy. 6' 1", blond, pretty sexy beard, the whole package really. I was eyeing him as I was drinking, and he made eye contact with me. I thought he was going to approach me, so I pretended to look away and be busy. But after about ten minutes of talking with some random guy who was soooo boring, I began t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:14 AM
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Why is it the best years of my life that I spent with others? Women are too young from 18-25. We haven't fully matured. Once we grow a bit older, then we enter the best years of our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:42 AM
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I do but not all women do. NAWALT. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:39 AM
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Trp are fooling themselves that women have sex with men out of their league in their 20s in then settle for a less attractive guy. It's just that women reach the age they are ready to settle down. Exactly this. Not to come across the wrong way, but in a way women are immature. We need to travel, experience the worlds for ourselves, sexually as well, so that we can mature. Glad you like Sherly's advice. She's been a real inspiration for me. I hope you and your husband are well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:56 AM
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I see... I'll respect your opinion but I really think you should try it once. It's really empowering imo. You don't want to be 50 years old and feel left out :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:46 AM
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Lots of women don't have casual sex, myself included. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:18 AM
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Sigh this isn't true. Look, SOME women sleep around when they're young. SOME do it when they're old. SOME don't at all. Some settle early, some old, some don't settle down. I've said it time and again: women are unique. There is no AWALT. NAWALT. I think sleeping around isn't so bad. I believe that is important that men are women are comfortable with their sexualities. I think it's been really empowering for me to have been able to experience the college life because it's helped me explore my se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:17 AM
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I still think it's silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:10 AM
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I'm egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:02 AM
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A generalization is bad because it distracts from the (correct) notion that women are unique. It's kind of like stereotyping in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 09:14 PM
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Because it is very unhealthy and generalizes all women. Women are unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 08:58 PM
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That's not manipulation, that's coercion, which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 08:58 PM
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Because there's nothing malciious about it which I think is a part of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 02:50 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 01:55 AM
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It has nothing to do with attractiveness it has to do with consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 04:02 PM
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lol why do you type weird. "lyfting." the heck is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:11 PM
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I don't understand and instead of explaining I got insulted. So I won't bother asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:07 PM
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Thanks <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:07 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 03:01 AM
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No personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 03:00 AM
-2

Male CEOs vastly out number female CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 02:59 AM
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I think its inhumane. The outside influence of not wanting to take a life is the self-control I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 02:58 AM
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....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 02:57 AM
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I think "using her for sex" is when men promise a relationship but deceive women and only use them for sex. When women have casual sex they know what they want and they aren't pretending to be in a relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:56 AM
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Yes. Patriarchy isn't jsut the treatment of molesters. You have to consider everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:55 AM
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I think its very good that trp is being criticized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:55 AM
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I think you are conflating rape and ravishment. One is a crime and is a harrowing experience, and another is a perfectly valid sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:54 AM
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I see. So I don't understand who is showing favoritism to who.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:53 AM
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What the hell am I deflecting? I've been answering yours and other people's comments. I can't keep up with everyone. Lots of comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:52 AM
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Right and that happens by them exploring their sexuality on their own. It's self-taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:51 AM
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I would if I were supportive of the death penalty. I dont know why this causes confusion. It's like I would eat the cake if I were not on a diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:51 AM
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I can't change people's opinions of me. I'm not a troll and I never was. I'm just trying to learn from PPD without getting too emotionally distraught.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:50 AM
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which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:49 AM
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Define cronyism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:48 AM
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What he did was a horrific crime that deserves a harsh punishment. The death penalty is a harsh punishment. But I don't support the death penalty. Hence, no death penalty. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:48 AM
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She and her sister were laughing off the claims that she was abused. If the sister, the person accused of being abused, is laughing about the whole thing, do you really think she was molested?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:47 AM
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It's an example of patriarchy because instead of a strong backlash and strong punishment people are coming out in support of this guy. How are you not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:45 AM
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Right but because I don't support it I'm not going to.If I did support it I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:44 AM
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Oh my god really? If you read the excerpt she found out that her sister stuffed some stuff up her vag and she just pointed that out to her mother. Both her and her sister are totally fine about it. It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:44 AM
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I think it is illogical and hurtful for you to say tht because I want the perpetrator to be punished you are abandoning feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:20 AM
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No. Like I said earlier I don't support death penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:19 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:15 AM
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You're weird. I never said that at all and I never changed the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:14 AM
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this. On mobile will look at it later. I disagree with your premise first of all, and second of all, I'm not going to tell these girls they are scarred, but I do think they are. They need to be taught how to enjoy sex, not taught that they are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:13 AM
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When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:12 AM
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What about my views bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:12 AM
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The link here is that you have a prominent male figure defending another prominent male figure for engaging in abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:09 AM
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What do you mean? It's pretty clear here. He admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:09 AM
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First of all, I take SJW as a compliment because I do believe in social justice. That said, why should we forgive him? What he did was despicable. I would give him the death penalty, but honestly I don't support him so I can't. Life in prison. He robbed the girls of their innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:08 AM
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I don't think women molest kids as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:07 AM
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Honestly I don't want an argument but I feel you didn't understand my initial comments and I didn't want to spend a lot of time writing out a long comment and restarting that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:07 AM
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Before or after a trial? If he goes to prison what good will that do anyone? Doesn't matter. Justice. How is my worldview damaging???? All I'm saying is that they shouldn't have been molested wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:06 AM
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I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:00 AM
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omg do you have any idea how scarred these girls are going to be? It's so important for them to discover sex and sexuality on their own so they can have a healthy attitude towards it but instead they were robbed by ths perpetrator. The guy is being criminally investigated, what more do you want? He should be in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 12:00 AM
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It's the existence of a society in which men are given preferential treatment in many if not all aspects of life, men's opinions are taken more seriously than women's, and that men are generally respected more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 11:59 PM
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Well yeah, I think we all should treat each other better and have a positive outlook. I don't really have much to say about the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 11:45 PM
2

It's just really depressing to see many people to have such low views of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 01:16 PM
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I'm not making trolling posts but I don't think that RP works. I look to past sexual experiences and I can't really see RP as having worked. I am beginning to feel saddened after reading PPD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 02:36 AM
1

Can I ask what your opinion of this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 05:44 PM
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I'm not pretending that guys don't lust after young women, but I disagree that there is this "wall" after which women suddenly become unattractive. I don't think their SMV declines far below their peak like you say. I think that men and women can both remain SMV if they have hobbies, interests, and are unique individuals with likable attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 05:43 PM
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Okay. So what? That doesn't necessarily imply that there is this "wall" once they hit that means they're going to become unattractive overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 04:07 PM
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Like I said, this issue I'm torn about and not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 04:04 PM
0

Everyone's looks declines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 04:03 PM
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How are my views RP? Mods said the same thing and I disagreed. I hate RP. The only part of RP I kinda liked was RPW and then they banned me when I said I wanted to work as well as my husband. Ok, so let me ask you this then. If the nice guy who is kind and caring doesn't deserve sex, but you are willing to freely give sex to the mean asshole, what incentive do the kind and caring guys have to not just be mean assholes and get more sex? In your model you've outlined, there is nothing good in it f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 01:22 AM
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That's what I just said. I don't know what to pick. Maybe it has to do with how I was raised. I never really understood the importance and joys of feminism and equality until highschool and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 10:06 PM
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I am bluepill. Mods flair banned me but I'm allowed to cmoment. I'm not a troll. Everyone keeps saying I'm a cariacture of TRP but I disagree. I am unique, just like everyone else here is. I just happen to align with BP rather than RP, and I strongly disbelieve a lot of what RP says. Yes, I like validation. I'll admit that, but that doesn't mean I would/wouldn't fuck them. Sex depends on attraction. There have been some mean guys that I just felt a spark with, and there have been a few kind men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 10:04 PM
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lol what does any of this have to do with slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 10:01 PM
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No I'm not. This issue in particular I'm kind of at an impasse. I've thought about this and I'm really just stuck and not sure which way to lean. I do believe in equality, and I believe that as a society, women are able to work (which is a GOOD thing) and therefore they are able to support themselves. But I also feel that in marriage men should be supporting the wife. Example: if she loses her job, she should be able to rely on him. So like I guess what I'm saying is that to me I feel as if it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 10:00 PM
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Give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 09:59 PM
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Nope. Plenty of women over 25/20/30/whatever number terps decide have meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 09:58 PM
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You're sick. As a woman, this really hurts me and really is triggering to many readers. Do you understand the implications of what you're saying? You're basically saying that once a woman gets married, she has to always have sex with that man. Can't you see how misogynistic that is? You're basically saying that the woman's body is his property.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 07:14 PM
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Honestly this is one issue I'm torn about and don't really know what to think. On one hand, I think because woman have achieved equality, they shouldn't need alimony. It's possible for women to work, we have a very egalitarian society. But on the other hand, I can't help but feel like it's men's duty to provide for their wives. There are some elements of traditionalism that shouldn't be done away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 07:12 PM
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No of course not. It's really good that we've made major strides and are accepting of all genders (male, female, queer, nonbinary, etc). Also, I think it's really good that men and women are encouraged to explore their sexualities, women are told its okay to work, men are told its okay to stay at home and raise the kids, or do a mix of both. Equality is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 06:59 PM
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This is not acceptable. You can't demand women to have sex with men. They have to willingly consent. Honestly this, this right here, is why TRP is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 06:57 PM
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I'm really sorry that you feel bad about this. No man or woman should be disrespected because of their sexual experience/lack of experience. There's nothing wrong with virgin men, promisucous men, promiscuous women, or virgin women. Just don't have an entitled mindset and you'll be fine. Being a virgin doesn't mean that you "deserve" to have sex anymore than the guy with the 50 partners. At the end of the day, sex is an act committed by two consenting parties. That said, I don't hate you. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 06:55 PM
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You're being really hurtful and rude for no reason. You really should be ashamed. Oh wait, RP teaches people to hurt women's feelings. Carry on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:33 PM
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How does the first half contradict the second half? All I'm saying is that it's good that there are caring men but being caring doesn't mean you're entitled to sex. Seems clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:32 PM
1

Please, men cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:31 PM
-1

Sigh you missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:30 PM
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NO I'm not. I talked to the mods about this a while back. I'm not a troll and I'm sick of people accusing me of being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:28 PM
2

omg no. Why don't you see the man is at fault. He's going after married women ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:28 PM
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I don't think there is any wall. I think its some construct TRP creates to convince men they have it better than the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:48 AM
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OMG THANK YOU! I think it's really rude when TRP says this. As a woman, I have respect for all individuals. Each person is unique and deserves to be treated with respect, and that goes for "beta" men as well. In fact, I think beta men get treated the best. They are always caring about us, and are genuinely nice and they don't act mysterious and assholeish. It's very comforting to know that you can rely on these men. It's really a great feeling knowing that people care about you like this and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:45 AM
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Oh my god that's not the same. Height is just.... like something that just MAKES men attractive. Ask any woman this. But less experience? How does that make you more attractive? Having life experiences is important! It helps you grow as a person which is very empowering especially if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 12:39 AM
-1

TRP teaches men to manipulate women. TRP also advocates this amoral bs that it's okay to sleep with married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 12:37 AM
-2

So you admit all men are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 12:36 AM
-1

Why not? Are you intimidated by the fact that they are wise (due to their years)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:13 PM
-1

How are young women more attractive? Don't you want women with more life experiencE?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:10 PM
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Honestly I think it's because they are not mature. They have some weird fixation/fetish about youth and its really disempowering for many women out there. Men need to grow up and accept that women age as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:10 PM
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You say this as if the feminist definition of rape is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:08 PM
-4

I think it's very telling that you are shifting the focus from the wife who is being manipulated to the husband of the wife. You're forgetting who the real victims are here: it's the women having the affair with the man. The man needs to not behave in an immoral fashion and attract/seduce the wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:05 PM
1

I think it's absolutely despicable. Do these people have no morals? It's not fair for him to tempt the wife and seduce her into an affair. Men need to realize that its not right for them to sleep with married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 07:03 PM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 08:52 PM
1

I think if porn did not exist the SMP would be in a much worse state. Porn is really empowering, especially for women. It allows women to explore their sexuality free of patriarchal restraints such as exuding a virginal behavior. It's allowed men and women both to be more open about their sexual kinks and people embrace their sexualities with a healthy attitude now. I think the guys who find porn more enjoyable than sex are losers though. I mean, really? Faking it is better than the real thing? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:56 PM
-2

Exactly. It's very important that men continue to act like men. I mean, I'm really progressive and find it empowering if a woman wants to propose to her SO but like it's really important that men understand the importance of making a woman feel all fuzzy inside by proposing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:53 PM
2

That is sexist. You can't say fat looks worse on someone. It's either bad on both or not. You're treating the genders very uneqaully.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:51 PM
1

I don't understand. Can you explain? I'm a millennial. I don't feel afraid of other millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:50 PM
1

So what you're pretty much saying is that men don't want to man up and put in the work to take women out on dates and act like a gentleman and instead are content dwelling in their mom's basements watching porn. Are women are supposed to feel bad about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:49 PM
0

The reason men are not honest about this is that women, by and large, seem to value the emotional/companionship/social/whatever aspects of the relationship more than sex. You don't?????? I mean sex is nice but really, you don't care for these??? Sex is that much more important?? As a woman, I find this hard to believe. "what do you value most about our relationship/relationships in general?" So what you're saying is that the honest answer from men would be sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:47 PM
1

TRP totally doesn't have misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:45 PM
-4

So you agree that women are unique, and that AWALT isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:19 AM
2

I think it's very hurtful that you say that women trample dreams and ambition. So what, girlfriends and wives don't help inspire men to follow through on their passions? They're just completely useless people that care about their looks? Maybe women actually care about looking good which is why we spend time in front of th emirror. Most guys I see look like they dont event ry to look good. During the Aurora colorado shooting it was all men who sacrificed themselves for their girlfriends, not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:11 AM
0

Can you explain? What are men not honest about? What can't we handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:00 AM
1

So what, you're saying that ALL women aren't going to have sex with their husbands? Even if that's true, why is it wrong? Isn't she allowed to say no if she doesn't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:59 AM
0

No, this is not manipulation. This is make up. Manipulation is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:57 AM
2

HOw are men different?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:57 AM
0

What is high value for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:56 AM
1

Women do have an idea what they want. They're not one homogenous gropu that is unable to think for themselves. I know that I want a tall attractive man. Some other women may also want this. Men think they know what women want but I doubt it. They're not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 01:17 PM
3

Not my problem. Poeple need to get over their race insecurities. Some women are not going to find men of their race attractive and men need to just grow up and realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 01:16 PM
0

I think PPD is not a good place for BP to come because it validates TRP and makes light of their unhealthy, abusive relationship tactics. That said I come here because the discussion is fun and something you don't see elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 01:13 PM
0

Honestly I don't know of any in-depth guides for men. I've never really paid attention to any of this until I happened to stumble upon TRP and PPD. I think the advice of staying healthy by eating right and working out is good. I think that being confident and dominant is good for men and can be incredibly sexy. But I really hate to see people on TRP buy into all the misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 05:36 AM
-1

WTF how is that equality? Women are not suited for the army.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 11:07 PM
0

He needs to treat women with respect. Women are not sextoys whose bodies you are entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 03:03 AM
-1

Yes definitely. They are the most misogynistic group I have ever seen. They literally encourage men to rape women. In addition, they have successfully controlled and brainwashed other women into believing that they are inferior and that their only duty is to be sexually submissive to their alpha male boyfriends. It is a sick philosophy. It is completely anti-feminist, and does not support the idea that women and men are equal at all, which in my opinion makes it dangerous. It should be banned fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 03:01 AM
1

No of course not I don't want to look like a slut. Even if I had testosterone, I don't think I would be that forward. It's not my personality. Cat-calling is bad and shouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 03:26 AM
1

You're not being an actual friend because your lying about your intentions because you want to get sex from her. And, no - AMALT. Guess I was right then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 12:49 PM
2

So what I'm getting from this is ... men aren't actually friends with women. They're lying and being deceitful toward the women in their lives. But of course, NAMALT? Did I get this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 01:01 AM
2

I don't understand your comment and kind of disagree with it. I think he tried, but didn't know the proper way of trying, and failed, and because he was messed up in the head, went on a misogynist rampage. I don't know much about him and I'm not qualified to speak about it, but I think, strictly physically speaking, he looked nice. Like he said in one of those creepy as fuck videos, he did dress nice and have a nice looking car. And he wasn't an ugly scrawny midget. But he was so fucked up in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:18 PM
1

In many cases, but we all have physical standards. Most of us, regardless of gender, are attracted primarily to physical features. Personality becomes really important when you think about long-term relationships, but it plays second fiddle for those that engage in flings. There's nothing wrong with that. Hmm, I guess I get what you're saying, but I don't think it's true in all cases. I mean, if I want a fling, yes of course looks matter. But I would not sleep with a guy who acts like a total do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 11:16 PM
2

That's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:32 PM
10

Definitely not. Elliot Rodgers looked kind of nice, physically, but his attitude in his videos made him creepy as hell. Add to that the mass murder he committed, and yeah he was a total creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:31 PM
2

Example 2, an unattractive man. He messages some flirty phrases to an attractive women on a dating website. The women responds negatively. She calls him creepy, but why? Because he's breaking social conventions/norms. Attractive people are supposed to flirt with attractive people. Unattractive people are supposed to flirt with unattractive people. When the unattractive man flirts with the attractive women, it makes some women uncomfortable. A woman might think, "does this guy not understand soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 10:29 PM
2

I don't understand what you mean by your question. I have sex with men I find attractive. I'm not a whore who's going to have sex with anything fuckable. I think smiling men are attractive because it makes me feel like they are approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 04:01 PM
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I find this study interesting because I, as a woman, have always considered smiling men to be attractive. They seem more at ease and approachable. I feel like it's important that women know that you're not mysterious/difficult/a threat if you're a man. We women want to feel safe/accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 01:00 AM
6

Can you please post a short summary/analysis of the video? It's very frustrating to see you post video links without any context. I mean... if you're not gonna put effort into a discussion ... why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 12:56 AM
2

LOL this seems hilarious. I'll definitely watch!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 12:39 AM
0

So one man's experiences mean that women aren't oppressed. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/15 03:11 AM
-1

It's not that men get special treatment. It's that people subconsciously treat them as better. They look at men when they think about who they are going to promote to leadership/management positions. They trust men when it comes to important jobs. By default, it seems the superiors I have worked with don't want to give women a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:11 PM
0

The same goes for women. Yet many of them will scream "oppression!" at even the slightest provocation. Ok like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:09 PM
-2

You have to define oppression. If you mean are they prevented from voting, then no. If you mean they encounter sexism in the workplace and have to fear rape in the streets, then yes. I do believe though women are second-class citizens in our society. There are so many privileges men have that they do not realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 05:10 AM
1

Oh please. No sex drive would want to make someone die at 35. That simply can't be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:18 AM
1

What the heck is dissonance reduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:16 AM
0

She's this old white conservative lady who thinks all young women should get married early. Uh, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:16 AM
1

It is not necessarily but it could be. Not all men and women are the same. They are unique. Not all marriages are the same. They are also unique. It really depends on the situation, you can't just say yes or no. What if the marriage is polyamorous? IN that, case it could be wrong, selfish, AND cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 03:15 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 07:26 PM
2

I think she is. Despite what TRP says, I don't think partner count is a big deal. It's 2015 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:17 AM
2

I don't think women are worse than men, I think they are on average equally good. And I just want to say that I don't think those articles should be used as sources for anything. The first seems really sexist. I mean, choosing to not hire women is a crime I think. It's encouraging patriarchal oppression of women. As for the second, I think she just got unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:16 AM
1

Companionship, support, sex, and additional money from another income.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:14 AM
3

I'm at a loss for words. I can't imagine what those women are going through. I think it is incredibly demeaning for them to have to feel the need to adhere to society's expectations like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:37 AM
1

What? This cannot be true. I have a hard time believing women do this. Do you have any proof? Now to answer your question. I believe a woman has a right to make decisions with her own body. If she wants to get surgery, for any part of her body, not necessarily the hymen, she has that right, because it's her body. So no, I don't think it's wrong. What a loaded, ridiculous question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 04:06 AM
0

I think you can get the same advice from TBP too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 08:58 PM
-1

I'm really confused by this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 08:25 PM
3

I'm confused by this statement. I don't want to care for a ONS. He's a ONS. I want to care for and have a fulfilling relationship with a stable partner. What's wrong with treating him differently than I treated my ONS. Like, physical attraction isn't everything. It's important, but there's more to in a relationship. It's not just about lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 03:43 AM
1

He has a point though. You haven't really challenged his view. I don't like this guy he seems rapey but I have to admit in this conversation he's correct. He's already said that he agrees he may have done a good job and you're still going on about that. I think he gets it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 11:29 PM
6

Omg I really want to share. Ok, 2 > 3 > 1 but this is tough. Okay so first he has to be good-looking. Like 6 ft tall and must be fit. I mean, I'm not trying to discriminate, but in my experience these men are the best. I feel at ease with them, I feel like I'm really safe with them, and I feel like they can make me feel like a woman. He needs to have a good job as well though. I don't need him to be a millionaire (it can't hurt though ;) but he should make enough money to support both of us. Fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 05:06 AM
18

What consequences? The consequence that you can't be with a man that isn't liberally minded? I'll take it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:58 AM
1

I really do want to hear these people's opinions. No one is honest in real life. It's kind of like a breath of fresh air, except the air is full of toxic, misogynistic gas that make you cough a lot. It's almost like a drug--can't get enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:55 AM
1

Commitment from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:54 AM
0

err... thanks? I don't know what a shitpost is :c
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:52 AM
-2

Actually that was a joke. Guess I shouldn't try to be funny because EVERYONE accuses me of trolling. sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:52 AM
1

Marriage. Marriage is awesome. But I guess men disagree with me :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:51 AM
1

Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:50 AM
-2

I've already said I'm going to ignore comments like these and not take you people seriously. I'm not going to engage this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:49 AM
-2

Men aren't stopping me but they aren't stepping up which makes it harder :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:48 AM
1

Why must you ahve such a negative view?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:48 AM
-1

I guess what I'm saying is that for those that want marriage we should help and encourage them to get married instead of making it difficult. Men and women. Equality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:18 AM
0

Do you have a source on this? Never heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:17 AM
1

Aww. Cute :) I love cookies! But I can't marry it. It's not tall enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:16 AM
-6

Why marry you, when your friends, coworkers, and daughters are willing to fuck me without marrying them? Are you really only after sex? Do you not want any other benefits (like the emotional ones) of being with a woman? No cuddles? No going out on trips? No taking a dance class together, traveling together, cooking for her + her cooking for you, etc. Like, there is plenty more to a relationship than sex. That's what I was getting at. Re-reading your response it seems like you only want sex and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:15 AM
0

Firstly, I haven't seen a source. Secondly, if it's true, it makes it seem like all the blame is on women. What about the women who divorced men who cheated? Or men who abused their wives? Sometimes divorce is the correct option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:12 AM
-5

I don't think it's an issue of being out of my league or out of another woman's league. I think there are some really good men out there, but for a combination of reasons they don't want to get married, and I want to know how we as a society, men and women, can help make these men get married again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:11 AM
-4

Men don't get any comfort and security???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:10 AM
-1

Well if men want to ... I'm not going to stop them :/. But I can't help but feel that's different. Marriage has been a cornerstone of society for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:10 AM
0

Wow, rude much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:27 AM
0

I think physical attraction definitely matters but I find it surprising and kind of sexist that a lot of men are saying they don't care about how unique women can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:27 AM
-1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:26 AM
-2

so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:25 AM
1

Comfort and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:25 AM
-5

There are no good men to marry, but that's tomorrow's topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:25 AM
-7

I actually think women should be more assertive! But men should step up to the plate also.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:25 AM
-3

Well you have to compete to get in the NFL. How can women help?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:24 AM
-5

Nothing wrong with chivalry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:24 AM
-5

Comfort and security?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 04:23 AM
-4

I'd disagree. Many women want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:32 AM
-1

But a 15 year old marriage is different than a 15 year old LTR. There's something special about husband/wife that you don't get by being bf/gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:19 AM
2

Would you do it without the associated status and titles (husband, wife, married)? I guess this. I'd want the whole experience including the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:18 AM
-3

It's like a sign of the ultimate commitment. It means a man isn't afraid to show the world that he is yours and you are his :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:17 AM
-2

But a lot of women want to get married. Shouldn't we try making that a reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:46 PM
-5

What post? For some responses, I really didn't have much to say :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:45 PM
-4

Men have too high standards? I think you may be on to something. This was a joek guys i'm not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:45 PM
-4

I guess it's ok for you to do what you want but I don't see why you have to be so mean about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:44 PM
-10

Sigh I'm not trolling, but I've given up on trying to convince people. Some people will believe me, others won't. Men stepping up means they pop the question. They aren't afraid to show commitment to that special someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:02 PM
-5

I don't agree with all of this, and I find the links depressing. The dontmarry page is exactly the opposite of what I think men should be doing. Regarding the PDF, I don't think any man should go through that. Have an upvote for effort <3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:01 PM
-2

I do agree that more women should initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:00 PM
-4

Men are no longer viewed as providers and heads of families anymore. Look at sitcoms commercials, and media today. White married men are portrayed as dumb, goofy, doofus idiots who would be completely lost in the world if not for their smart, mature wives. Men in marriages are no longer respected. I'm going to have to look into this. Yes. Absolutely it is. Statistically, women bring 72% of all divorces. I literally have a better chance of betting half my money on "red" on a roulette table than I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:00 PM
-8

Did you see my linked comment? Variety in your life, a woman with a unique identity, hobbies, etc. Do these things not interest you? What about a woman who has that and will have sex? You know, women like sex too ;) Why should I be the one who gets fucked when I can keep my money to myself now and fuck them later on for free? This seems like you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:58 PM
-1

Ok, I'm really trying to understand the other side of this. If good men aren't marriage minded, then how do you marry a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:57 PM
1

So if I'm reading this right ... women are the problem, not men? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:56 PM
1

What are you not buying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:36 PM
5

Well, we don't want to be slutty on the first date. We have to make a good impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:19 PM
0

Ok let's take this discussion elsewhere. I posted a thread about this! I look forward to seeing you there :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:18 PM
0

Dunno what this has to do with scotsmen, but what I mean by that is women and men both have to "grow up." For women, growing up could be shopping less extravagantly. For men, it means committing to one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:07 PM
0

By far female victims are treated worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:07 PM
-1

I agree. Feminism has changed, and for the better. Now many goals of feminism are more than equal rights--getting women into STEM, ending rape culture, and closing the wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:05 PM
1

Holy shit this is misogyny. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:04 PM
0

-Sexual variety Real men should have no problem with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:03 PM
0

Not all women are "selfish, control-freak, narcissistic princess."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:02 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:02 PM
1

If anything, it's gotten harder because women are expected to raise children and help bring in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 02:16 PM
1

Being a SAHM mom is a full-time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 02:00 PM
-1

So you need to me more than a unique and interesting person with varied interests in order to qualify for a relationship with a man? What kind of person are you that you can have such high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:35 PM
0

Wasn't there that sexodus article a while back?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:34 PM
0

Well, we should accept men for who they are too, but it's different if the man is a deadbeat and lazy. You just can't have a successful relationship with lazy unmotivated people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:33 PM
0

What's wrong with my logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:33 PM
2

No but see women ARE stepping up to take on STEM jobs and CEO positions but sexism in the workforce is holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:32 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:31 PM
1

Not lazy and deadbeats? They raise kids. SAHDs aren't lazy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:31 PM
-1

I give up. I'm not a troll and I don't know how to convince you. I'm just going to ignore people who think I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:30 PM
-2

So basically you are saying women can't be unique because AWALT. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:04 AM
1

Well men's perspectives do matter but it doesn't change the fact that a lot of men today are becoming lazy and deadbeats. More men live with their parents, play video games all day, and don't have good careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:04 AM
3

So you don't care if a woman is smart? College-educated? Has a job? Has hobbies? Plays tennis? Likes to watch movies? Travels? Enjoys going to the beach? NONE of these things interest you? Only sex??? Maybe you attract a certain type of woman based on your own personality. Did you ever think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:38 AM
-5

omg for the last time im not a troll. Jesus why won't any of you believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:37 AM
0

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:36 AM
-1

This is slightly misogynistic. Women are more than just their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:36 AM
1

I don't think it's dishonest, in fact I think the opposite. A man being honest with his emotions is good; it is healthy for the relationship, even if it's a ONS. Sure, for a ONS, there may not be time for a heart-to-heart ;) , but it can't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:27 AM
1

But the biggest one is that men aren't stepping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:25 AM
-11

Well men ARE becoming lazy and deadbeats. Marriage rates are plummetting, and we need men to step up. Women have done so much to advance their status. They now have jobs, careers, education. They are no longer confined to the home and are allowed to do what they want. Since women are people with varied interests, different women do different things, and thus we are unique and not all the same. Men need to recognize that women are indeed unique and they should accept us for who we are and step up…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:21 AM
0

lol what the heck is "pull their weight in conversations"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:20 AM
0

Excuse me? "Really high-value?" Wtf does that even mean. As a woman, I think there are plenty of good women to get married to. It's men that aren't stepping up. I'm educated, have a job, and have a loving boyfriend. I'm independent, ambitious, and a proud feminist. I have hobbies. I can socialize with others and have a good friend circle. There are plenty of marriage women. I and others have varied interests and are all unique in our own ways. It's men who don't want to step up to the plate. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:20 AM
12

One with honesty, openness, and equality. One in which a man isn't afraid to show his vulnerable side to a woman. One in which a man is honest about his intentions and goals, instead of being manipulative and deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:16 AM
1

Well I think in a relationship it's important to show your vulnerable side to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 03:13 AM
1

I think it's great advice! I think men should be more expressive with their partners!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 09:20 PM
1

Sigh. People like you are why we need feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 09:54 PM
0

Should have said shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 09:53 PM
1

Yes. We need it to combat sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 06:36 PM
-1

It's not the easiest thing in the world. Women face sexism daily (watch the video of the woman walking for 10 hours in NYC). Then, there are a bunch of stereotypes you're supposed to adhere to. Women are expected to be feminine and graceful but at the same time need to be strong and independent. We need equality in the workplace but get paid less (wage gap). We need representation in the government, but women are the most underrepresented in Congress. Then we need to adhere to a specific body ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 06:35 PM
-1

We're not weak. That doesn't mean we should all treat each other kindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 06:30 PM
-1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 06:30 PM
-4

We need safe spaces because of the sexism and misogyny present in the rest of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 09:12 PM
1

Omg quickmeme? Get with the times!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:57 PM
2

OH MY GOD I need to see that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:56 PM
4

Does it matter? Shouldn't we campaign against any form of misogyny, regardless of whether it's TRP or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:56 PM
1

Thank you. We are not going to ruin TRPers lives. They already do that to us by encouraging manipulation of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:55 PM
1

Yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 01:50 PM
1

Ok. I really don't know why everyone thinks I'm trolling. I'm not. If you don't have a suggestion for what I should do please don't tell me that what I do currently is bad. It's better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:29 PM
1

Well what would you do if you were me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 08:03 PM
2

How is that misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 08:03 PM
1

... But you're supposed to teach your children to not steal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 08:02 PM
-1

Well like we spend time together. We go on dates, go out to eat, he takes me shopping, we watch movies... Just normal gf/bf stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:57 AM
0

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:56 AM
0

I've never heard of those people ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:09 AM
-2

How so? Is it because I'm feminist and don't like the misogyny present in TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:08 AM
1

I'm sorry that you feel you've been manipulated like that. I think relationships like that are not healthy, regardless of the gender of the person feeling as if they are manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:08 AM
-1

What are you talking about? And for the last time I'm not a troll oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:07 AM
-2

I think you're making a sexist generalization by saying all women lost attraction to you when you opened up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:03 AM
-2

It's possible to be supportive and weather the crying without being attracted to it. I'm not attracted to my BF crying, but it is a part of the relationship I have to endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:02 AM
0

What purpose? Who is Essex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:00 AM
0

Both suffering is bad, but in this particular example it was a man with a huge insecurity and a woman with a legitimate fear. They both needed help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:59 PM
-1

Oh my god why does everyone think this. What have I done wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:59 PM
1

It's not the same. The baby grows inside the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:58 PM
-1

Well ... I'm his girlfriend! So that's how I'm there for him. It's really awkward and creepy when other guys cry in front of me. I just wish like I wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:56 PM
0

Why won't you take me seirously?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:55 PM
-2

I don't know. Just being there for him I guess. And yeah I've cried in his arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:54 PM
-3

What's so funny? Supporting a man is part of a healthy relationship. That doesn't mean I'm attracted to a crying baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:51 PM
-1

Why are you so rude to me? I don't like your comments but I thoughtfully explain why I think your thoughts are harmful, meanwhile you only lob insults at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:46 PM
-2

You're sick. Do you know what this comment is doing? It's a statement on the status of women today in society. By responding to Archwinger's comment, you are decrying the feminist belief in equality and stating that you acknowledge female subservience. You are effectively championing for women to return to a state of subjugation beneath males. You're sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:43 PM
1

But always be vigilant, because we're coming for your friends, your family, and everyone you hold dear. Thank God the world has an Internet force to fight us. Oh my god you are just scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:42 PM
-1

Ugh you are so rude. Yes women fantasize about things but I want to support my partner and I would hope he realized that. You're making sweeping sexist generalizations by saying that we fantasize about men crying in front of us. Crying is such a turn off. We want to support them like they support us. That's what a relationship is. That doesn't mean we want to watch them act like a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:39 PM
1

Her body her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:37 PM
2

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:31 PM
-6

I agree the woman's death was a lot more tragic. She was fearful of growing old and alone, a legitimate fear. But the guy was just insecure and didn't even want to try finding a partner to settle down with. He was right when he said he was helping natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:29 PM
2

Strong confident men are sexy, but not all women are attracted to them. Some women I know like shy guys. Not all women want to be submissive. I want to be an equal in my relationship. Cockyness isn't attractive. It makes the man look like a douche. Women are logical too. Nice guys don't finish last. It's just that they think they are entitled to sex and they are not, which is why they think they are "finishing last."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:26 PM
-1

Oh my god this is so sexist that I had to comment. Have you never relied on a woman for support before? Men should display their emotions to their partners so that they can support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:24 PM
1

Aw thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:23 PM
1

Well I don't know how to prove it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:23 PM
1

Most men aren't doing the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:22 PM
-2

That's different though. We live in a rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:38 PM
1

Oh my god I'm not a troll. Why does everyone think that? Have you never seen a strong independent woman before ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:37 PM
1

I'm not a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:37 PM
1

What irresponsible actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:37 PM
0

Because it's his kid. If he won't give his time, he should give his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 03:22 AM
0

That's the thing, we might. If men stopped believing in feminism they could subjugate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 03:21 AM
0

NAWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 03:20 AM
-1

whore outfit Oh my god you've got to be kidding me. Do you realize how offensive this is. No, it's not her fault she got raped. Women should be able to wear whatever they want and NOT be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:18 PM
0

Mmm that's attractive but not if its misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:14 PM
3

What are you talking about? I'd never be with a man who doesn't support equality for all races and genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:13 PM
-6

You're sick. That is totally different. In your example, you're basically asking for someone to rob you. Women never 'ask' to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:12 PM
-1

Because those have not been.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:12 PM
2

Oh my god. So if a woman doesn't have "proof" that she was raped, then no rape happened? Do you realize what you're saying???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:09 PM
-2

I think you need to add a trigger warning to your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:09 PM
-1

If you are a woman and you put yourself in a dangerous situation, and you are too scared/stupid/tired/unsure/etc to say no, then you are to blame, at least partially This is victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:08 PM
-4

Agreed. It is one scary sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:07 PM
0

Exactly. This is why people like /u/Bakerofpie should be more supportive of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:02 PM
0

What are you talking about? I believe in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:01 PM
1

Since when do women act verbally violent to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 09:00 PM
0

So should men. I don't know why they should slave for 18+ years for a kid they didn't want or won't have equal access to. It's his duty to help raise his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:59 PM
-1

I never said this. Check my comment history. This has been doctored. I've never even posted on TRP before and I'm banned from that subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 08:58 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 03:58 AM
0

But you can be happy while being a feminist. Why won't you see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 03:58 AM
8

I'm not dictating anything, I know rpw won't listen. But I can't help but feel they should be feminists. Feminism does need power because misogynistic men seek to undermine it. We need to teach feminism in a university so that people know how important it is for women to be treated equally. Name one fucking right that men have that a woman doesn't have. I'll save you the time, there are none. Women even have rights that men don't have. Know what they're called? Reproductive rights. Women get 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 07:12 PM
9

Fine. But then why, when women say they don't want to be feminists, do feminists go out of their way to SHAME women who don't identify as feminists? Because women should be feminists. If women start to say no to feminism, the movement will lose its power, and that's bad. We need to constantly fight for equal rights and equal treatment. We need to fight to bring down the patriarchy. We need to make sure that we are paid equal amounts for equal work. These are social issues people like you would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 06:45 PM
0

I think violence against women, including verbal violence, shouldn't be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:53 PM
12

It's certainly better than saying things that are scary and rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:42 PM
8

I'm shocked that you're defending them. These comments are scary and rapey. If that doesn't convince you nothing will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:30 PM
1

What is your definition of 'third-wave feminism.'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:15 PM
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I just can't take a woman who says that she doesn't want equal rights and equal treatment under the law seriously. Women shouldn't be ashamed of being feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:15 PM
12

http://imgur.com/a/bGiiW#5lh6Mu1 http://imgur.com/a/bGiiW#FboxXRw http://imgur.com/a/bGiiW#9fTqYzk http://imgur.com/a/SLSyy#4aAYea2 http://imgur.com/a/SLSyy#Y6EpU0t Need I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:00 PM
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It seems scarier, especially after my talk with the RPW mods. I knew TRP was bad, but when I found out that there were women who ardently believed in it I cried. I just wish they can see that there is so much good in feminism but they loathe it. TRP is scary because it teaches men how to abuse women. It's a support group for rapists and abusers, and it has convinced some women (rpw) that what those men do are okay and that those women should be accepting of it. I really don't know why a woman wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 04:39 PM
-1

The beliefs that women are equal people. They deserve equal treatment, equal protection under the law, equal pay for equal work, and overall, just plain equality. You guys keep bringing up a lot of things that are bad, but you're not understanding feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 02:37 PM
1

Why would I give control to my SO? Why can't we be equals in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 11:28 PM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 11:28 PM
1

Feminism is the belief that women deserve equal rights and equal treatment under the law. I don't know why so many people don't see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 11:27 PM
-1

I get that you hate feminism but some people, like me, believe in it and do want equality for all thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 11:26 PM
1

I'm a feminist and I'm not angry with you, but I think you aren't being fair. There is misogyny out there and people with certain privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 11:24 PM
5

I will be honest, this is the first time I've seen such dislike towards feminism by so many people, including a group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 02:40 AM
2

I have a hard time accepting that. I've never had a bad experience with feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 02:39 AM
1

Don't know him/her either. I'm just going with what people's flairs say, I just foudn this sub recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 10:17 PM
0

Every group has extremists. Democrats have extremists that believe the rich should be taxed at 90%. Do all democrats believe the same? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 10:16 PM
0

who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 04:59 PM
-1

It is. There are some extremists, but Islam as a whole is about love and peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 04:59 PM
2

Okay. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 12:05 AM
-8

It's what we call a myth. We call it a myth because it doesn't exist. Google "wage gap myth" and you'll get a lot of results from reputable sources on this. I'm going to do this when I have the time. Meaningless buzzword. Doesn't exist in the first world outside of Tumblr. You haven't head of the 1 in 4 statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:12 PM
-8

Why do you feel the need to harass me? I was upset that I got banned and reached out to you, but I've been courteous. I haven't insulted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:11 PM
-1

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:04 PM
-8

You suggested those weren't the jobs I wanted, suggesting that what I want doesn't matter. I don't want to be a victim and complain, but I can't help but feel as if I'm a victim of a bunch of sexist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:04 PM
-3

The one thing I will apologize for is posting on tbp because I guess that is an official 'rule' I broke on rpw, but I'm not going to apologize for my beliefs. I didn't do anything wrong by voicing disagreement. I expressed how I felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:01 PM
-13

Oh come on. We've made great progress but there are still ways to go. What about the wage gap? Women in STEM? Rape culture, especially on college campuses. You cannot possibly believe women have all the privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 11:00 PM
1

Are you implying that women who seek happiness CAN do it at the expense of men? If so, that's a crazy sexist double-standard. I think they can, but I think they shouldn't. But I think I have a different definition. If women go to college and get degrees and get jobs, it's not "at the expense of men," it's equality. Women have a right to pursue careers too. If you assert that you don't care about male suicide on a forum that largely doesn't like to antagonize men, and try to start a debate on a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:59 PM
-3

I didn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:56 PM
-1

I didn't say what they believed in was wrong. I voiced my disagreement. I thought of something different than others, and I posted that in a comment. I thought that would be okay, but I learned that it wasn't. I just feel upset about it because I feel like they're censoring me. I don't want to pick a fight but I am shocked at how much they hate feminism. I didn't see any of that hate when I first stumbled on rpw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:32 PM
1

what? I have no idea what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:30 PM
-4

What is "negging?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:27 PM
1

What is "brigade city?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:27 PM
-8

You're right that I posted on tbp but I can't help but feel that you're using that as an excuse. You banned me before I could even reply to some of those comments on that thraed effectively censoring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:26 PM
-2

It's interesting because when I first stumbled on rpw it felt like a really happy community, but now that I've seen their beliefs it's just scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:24 PM
-2

I'm just shocked that a group of women out there really don't see the good in feminism and think I'm evil for focusing on my happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:21 PM
-2

I was actually kind of happy with RPW at first glance because it seemed refreshing. I like the idea of finding ways to make your SO happy because doing so makes me happy. But I find one comment that I don't like, voice my disagreement, and get banned. Of course, you say I got banned for being on tbp. Although that's true I think you wouldn't have banned me if I never made that comment and instead kept my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:19 PM
-8

I'm not asking men to kill themselves but if they are weak and commit suicide how is that my fault. I just want to live a normal life with all the privileges that men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:17 PM
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I am certain the City would hire her to be a garbage collector, or she could get her plumbers license or HVAC certification. OHHHH, those weren't the jobs she wanted, were they? So now you're saying I can't even choose which jobs I want to work? Do you even care about women's happiness??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:16 PM
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Make a comment "It's not my fault if some women commit suicide because they can't handle a dominant man. Is it wrong for men to place their own happiness over weak-willed women who kill themselves because they can't handle a relationship with a real man?" Record the time as t0. This is not hte same though. Men should seek happiness but they shouldn't do it at the expense of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:13 PM
-4

I think this is is insulting. If it weren't for feminism women wouldn't have many of the freedoms they have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:12 PM
1

Never seen that username before, not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:20 PM
-3

So you agree that your sub censors others?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:19 PM
7

wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:19 PM
8

I don't think there is such a thing as fat entitlement. People are allowed to be attracted to what they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:05 PM
1

I'm sorry but a man can't be abused like a woman can. Some women out there are not nice and those men should man up and leave those relationships. Men are by far the biggest perpetrators of bause and I think it's sick that you think those insults exist because men get "abused". Women get insulted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 12:40 AM
1

I would never date a misogynist, and neither would any of my friends. How do you know that my positions are of the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 12:29 AM
0

My point is I think terpers lie to themselves. Being themselves, aka being misogynists, won't get you laid. I'll admit, confidence is a turn on for me. Seeing a guy act cocky can be arousing, but if a man is not a feminist I can't see a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 05:51 AM
-1

You know it's true ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 02:13 AM
1

You can't just say 'rape' or 'not rape.' All of them could be rape depending on the context. 4 might be rape, but definitely a no-no. I would go to the police if someone did that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 01:06 AM
0

So then terpers can't be themselves, which means they won't get relationships! And since we already know how insecure they are, they're not getting laid either!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 01:04 AM
0

Being yourself is good, as long as you consider "yourself" someone who is able to put your relationship first, avoid being a jerk to your SO, and keep up with your appearance and/or attitude in a way that will keep attraction strong. So is it good for terpers to be themselves? I'm myself all the time, and it's not hard for me to get down and dirty ;) I think if terpers go to bars and start talking about how they don't believe in marital rape not many women will want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 01:03 AM
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