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| -4 | Women can't even take a fraction of the snark they have for men collectively.Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/26 03:52 AM |
| 5 | The sexual revolution didn't liberate women; it just turned female intimacy into a cheap, free commodity for men.The “cultural outcome” lmao. What culture? The one you specifically agree with? The one that may have all sorts of hidden or only recently brought to light downsides for those who are now allegedly being “empowered” with ideas you don’t personally agree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The Idea That "Men Should Pay For Dates Because Men Tend to Do Less Housework" Is You Admitting You Treat Men Like a MonolithOf course it’s intentional framing - I added that piece already with my prior comment. I wouldn’t argue what you are essentially arguing however - that it’s some sort of type of propaganda. I don’t think the point is as simple as hey women are just as valuable as men are if you put monetary value to the work they do in the house just look at dollars and cents if you outsource it, I think the monetary expense of outsourcing it all is certainly relevant to the picture but it’s not the entirety of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 03:20 AM |
| 3 | What do you do for a living?lol the issue there is not being the breadwinner omg. It’s those expectations that they also play housewife/SAHP role on top of working fulltime. Like THIS should be the real common sense yo. You have it essentially, backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 01:17 AM |
| -1 | The Idea That "Men Should Pay For Dates Because Men Tend to Do Less Housework" Is You Admitting You Treat Men Like a MonolithBecause it is indeed unpaid? Just facts. Acknowledging it is in fact, labor, is only half the story. Adding that it’s also unpaid - also objectively true - adds to the connotation of the term. Which is to name a concept where women’s labor is undervalued and under-appreciated, at least as compared to men, and yet also expected as part of women’s role as wife, mother, woman, whathaveyou. And “introducing the concept of money to something no reasonable person would ever equate it with” - I’m assum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/26 12:29 AM |
| -1 | The Idea That "Men Should Pay For Dates Because Men Tend to Do Less Housework" Is You Admitting You Treat Men Like a MonolithI mean that’s a strange argument probably formulated in some knee jerk way to not only justify the stated reason (men paying for dates), but also to highlight the common circumstance of the “raw deal” so to speak that many women do experience. It’s a flimsy argument, nonetheless, and likely just a cheap attempt to highlight the broader issue here. As to your follow up - framing it as if it’s not “labor” is taking the objective reality out of what it actually is. “Unpaid labor” is a more objectiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:39 PM |
| 0 | The Idea That "Men Should Pay For Dates Because Men Tend to Do Less Housework" Is You Admitting You Treat Men Like a MonolithWhat. First off - who in their right mind is saying paying for dates during the dating period at all is equivalent to a potential lifetime or even just a few years of doing more housework? Whomever is saying that has the whole premise wrong to begin with. Those are not and will never be equivalent like effort or financial value wise except maybe in a very small minority of cases. Secondly - you don’t actually think women who insist the man pays for dates in early dating are legitimately thinking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 11:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm tired of the lying and the Gaslighting. Women approaching men has MORE advantages then if a guy approaches women.lol “lazy” aka they just don’t care enough 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ This isn’t a job or like actual responsibility. It’s pure choice based on what motivates you. “Lazy” is so funny it’s not they are lazy, they just care less than you. You also don’t know what gaslight means. It’s gross how often that word is thrown around for literally anything some man around here things is “women lying”. Like no. Grow up. No one is psychologically abusing you because of internet arguments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/26 01:20 AM |
| 7 | CMV: The non-red pills have the more inconsistent and incoherent views of gender because they don't understand the difference between positive rights and negative rightsNo, not strictly. Positive means the government has to give it to you. Negative means the government can’t take it away because it’s innate most of the time - meaning you are born with it, Lockean concepts of natural rights here. Frankly not a lot of positive rights even exist. Easiest and most obvious example is Gideon v wainwright - now firmly embedded in 6th amendment jurisprudence. You conflating personal decisions like will my GF fuck me and can I break up with her for not doing so has fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:22 AM |
| 7 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.You can continue to argue against whatever fictional PPD person you’d like making arguments not here if that pleases you 👍🏻. It’s certainly not me. Good effort to avoid the actual question and intent of this post though. Which is why is it controversial to expect such men to inform their future partners of this beforehand. Herculean ducking efforts there, though a bit obvious, unfortunately for you I know bait when I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:51 AM |
| 5 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.wtf are you talking about - there’s not a single person arguing here from what I can see that is like against the ability of men to seek paternity testing. The OP and issue is exactly what I just stated - arguing men should inform their future partners before pregnancy that they will insist on this rather than spring it on an unsuspecting already pregnant and now presumably confused and hurt partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:41 AM |
| 6 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Establishing LEGAL paternity versus a discreet cheek swab sent away to a lab for dna results from a kit you can buy at Walgreens are two separate things. You also can’t establish LEGAL paternity in the US with such kits. However you now have a dna test presumably valid not like dna testing is particularly difficult labwork, for your own purposes. Then the next step is legally validating it through a testing process that the courts deem admissible for actual legal paternity proceedings. That’s fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:37 AM |
| 6 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.But no one is arguing men getting or seeking paternity test, aka a “protection”, shouldn’t exist. There’s laws permitting those tests to be done - btw. Nothing saying it’s illegal for men to get in most places. OP is arguing he should inform his future partners of his decision on such a future occurrence so she can make her own informed decision on engaging in that relationship. Why is this controversial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:25 AM |
| 6 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.That’s a ridiculous comparison. Women already know not to do that that’s like me saying oh teach men not to be deadbeat fathers - we all know they know what they are supposed to do. Bad actors are bad actors. That’s not equivalent at all to expecting a man to inform his future partner that hey no matter what - regardless of any real basis set in reality - I’m gonna need you to agree to a paternity test in the event of a pregnancy during our monogamous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:16 AM |
| 3 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.That’s exactly the same thing. It’s asinine to pretend otherwise. Oh I need you to take annual std test or something similar isn’t any less about “piece of mind” STDs can seriously fuck you up. Of course it’s accusing someone of cheating as well when it’s asking for a paternity test out of the blue for no apparent reason. Like think about for two seconds and pretend that’s not accusing someone of cheating lol. “We are monogamous/married/whathaveyou now you’re pregnant but I’m gonna need a patern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:13 AM |
| 3 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.No lol. Esp not later stages. Do you know much pregnancy fucks with your body, sleep, weight, literally so many things that do the opposite of making you horny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 02:00 AM |
| 4 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Telling women to do what exactly? What is the equivalent of a man informing a woman before sex that he’d want a paternity test if there’s ever a pregnancy to asking or telling a woman something before sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:57 AM |
| 5 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.No, although it’s dependent on state law and you’re kinda speaking of the opposite scenario. There are like I think like a very small number of states in which bio dad is really screwed in that scenario tbh. But in most, bio dad must petition for legal paternity (within the SOL - those time limits do differ state by state). Husbands status as presumed father isn’t dependent upon him even signing something - the fact he’s married to mother when a child is born during the marriage is the salient f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:50 AM |
| 6 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.It doesn’t “count” for child support whatsoever nor does it effect custody you just generally have to establish paternity through the courts because you won’t be subject to “presumed fatherhood” statutes - that is, assuming you’re not already subject to one from a different context (like marriage). Biological fathers ALWAYS have legal rights to their biological children they just might have to go through the legal step of establishing paternity first. These are innate rights - constitutionally b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?What in the hell. “The reason is women can’t land a joke too scared and are boring can’t carry a conversation”. Lol. You aren’t spending enough time with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:19 AM |
| 0 | A large number of people in this sub resort to bulverism when arguing.It’s also reasonable to question someone’s credibility on a given topic or particular opinion or at least weigh that when considering their argument. Which can be done reasonably but folks will scream ad hom at just about anything. Idk if that’s considered formal or informal or whatever but I see it overused a lot, even when questioning credibility or motivation is very much valid to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:54 PM |
| – | CMV: On Reddit, posts asking for emotional support get significantly more replies when they appear to be from women than from menExample 2 is not really akin to example 1, which is clearly more explicitly seeking emotional support than example 2. Also though I have not seen these posts, what sub were they posted on? This one? Don’t you think the specific subreddits you are apparently using to come to this conclusion are relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 7 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantThis is so obtuse to even be ironic. “Men don’t know” 😂 yes they do. Men who are essentially, children, aren’t lumped into the general “men” in my book at least when I generalize men. Particularly the ones who you are die hard trying to defend as if they “don’t know”. Gender roles lol even the few you picked out for men are *laughable* I I will repeat utterly *laughable* compared to what historically has been delegated as gender roles for women. Ohhhh you paid for a few dates and mow the lawn on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:33 AM |
| 8 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantYeah that’s super convenient. Let me just discount all the shit men do because I could argue they are “biologically more fit” or some other bullshit that makes zero sense. Of course breastfeeding is still labor. So it is for a man doing manual domestic labor even if his “significant biological differences” make it a lot more easier and efficient for him to do them compared to a women. Get outta here with that bullshit. PS she specifically said the issue would be *if* she was still expected to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 7 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantNah. I can’t even believe yall say this shit outloud sometimes. It’s 2026, men fucking know they should help with the house and kids equally or at an arrangement that is mutually agreeable to both parties- particularly when both are working full time. This isn’t all on women to “communicate” while he sticks his fingers in his metaphorical ears like a child. Grow up. Pay for first date, make first move, “protect” (who the fuck is spending daily hours each day “protecting”), heavy lifting” (tf doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:55 AM |
| 8 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantBut women aren’t by and large complaining they today suffer those injustices. They may point them out to show the systemic nature of such and how it may lead to lesser yet more current inequalities, but at least I’ve never seen a modern woman complaining she can’t succeed at all etc, because of legally permissible discrimination against women that hasn’t existed in 50+ years… The point is this shit doesn’t happen in a vacuum and you can’t just erase said prejudice that has persisted *systemicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:46 AM |
| 2 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantYOU are the one over simplifying it lol. First of all there are all sorts of studies and data on this issue, and the majority at least that I’ve been privy to show when counting both paid and unpaid work - women are doing more. Idc if it’s 30 min a day that shit adds up long term. Many of the same data sets show men have much more free time than women. Maybe it’s cuz they sleep less, maybe it’s because total work usually adds up more for women, maybe it’s both. Nevertheless, there’s plenty of da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:40 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.I have real clients. You’re not one of them. Figure it out yourself. Have fun with the law firm advertisements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:50 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.No of course there’s an advantage, you’re just still being an idiot. And it’s not my job to teach you shit especially when you’re SO confident you know all the things. Hint: you do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:35 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.No. Doesn’t work like that. Also I am by no means an MRA just because I agree with joint custody 50/50 default custodianship statutes. Nor have I only represented men. You need to stop educating yourself through YouTube. Edit: also that is in no way a compliment. Not to me nor Danika Patrick. You’re trolling with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:17 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.Yeah I think that women might actually be better than men on average at* some* legal roles Gee, thank you for your expert opinion in that respect. Thank god for this, the bars who license me, in fact all state bars everywhere, are just eager for your opinions on what some roles women might be better at legally on average. Please write them. so that would be a hot reverse traditionalist fanatsy: being a stay-at-home to a female breadwinner who is a literal mens rights activist, being hot in the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.My source for both is being a former practitioner. Have you repped many men during a divorce? lol I have. Nevertheless **I am glad** to see things gradually changing. However, it will be gradual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.This is not how this works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:23 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.Maybe you should explain what the alleged social media trend entails here because I’ve not seen that so unfamiliar with what it even is attempting to convey. Sole custody is not easy to get in the US - in any state. If that’s what you mean by “full custody” I can’t really tell. I also can’t say sole custody in the US is one to one what sole custody is in Belgium. With family law shit you need to be more specific. If you mean primary custody or what’s more formally called primary residential cust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:15 AM |
| 15 | Why are there so many career driven woman that still expect a very wealthy man to provide for their lifestyle with no sacrifice whatsoever?No. Y’all are basing this off of social media not real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:45 AM |
| 16 | Universal compulsory heterosexuality ("comphet") is now considered a black pill subject and is not allowed on this sub.WHAT? WHAT IS COMPHET omg they’ve gotten fucking crazier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:30 AM |
| 3 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsGreat. I’m not trying to date you trust me you’re safe bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 4 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsI’ve been here a gazillion times longer than you. I know what I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:49 AM |
| 10 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsYeah yall see what you want to see, read into what you want, etc. you’re being so obtuse I’m sure all you see is literally up your own asshole. I can’t explain it any better - this isn’t reality. Idc how many TikTok’s you’ve perused with women “smelling misogyny”. Point being “women” aren’t doing that. Yet here - men (not men everywhere btw, but men here) like to argue otherwise. Yall are so fucking backwards in any event - regardless - if you blame women for the poor behavior of men - under the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:43 AM |
| 1 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsYou are def not wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:45 AM |
| 11 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsNo. Because men feel the need to constantly blame women for “choosing wrong” and all the ills that men apparently feel in dating - the “good guys” etc., suffer because women all “choose wrong”. And only choose asshole who abuse them, allegedly. This is what’s repeatedly here as naseum by men on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:44 AM |
| 7 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsYou’re not wrong but it’s overly hyped as some sort of trump card for men (because they don’t even understand what a prenup is). Anyone with legit assets going into a marriage should get one, anyone with legit earning potential comparative to their spouse should consider it if they have concerns AND ANYONE who is the lesser earning spouse considering quitting their job to raise kids etc, should ALSO consider it with their own attorney/doing it right, etc, because it’s there to PROTECT YOU TOO. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:34 AM |
| 17 | If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity testsRight, OP’s point is that only women apparently are expected to always pick up on it. Frankly only men on this sub ever argue that if a man did wrong to a woman (like in any metric) it’s “her fault for choosing wrong” and “she missed red flags I wouldn’t have”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:28 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?It’s not about “treatment” they aren’t “treated poorly”, it’s about education. That choice is objectively bad for those who choose it if the relationship doesn’t work out and/or behind close doors a lot of the time even if it doesn’t result in divorce. Those girls should absolutely be informed of the legal and factual reality of what could occur beforehand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:08 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?Did you read the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:59 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?Stats probably would already show that if you didn’t do many controls because the stats would be skewed to upper class folks already since only upperclass folks have the opportunity to do that as it is. If that’s the case it wouldnt show much of anything of value other than woohoo rich more privileged people have better lived and outcomes as if that’s a revelation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:58 AM |
| – | Are men justified in hating women?No. It is not. Hating women is centuries old. New platforms for manifesting it does not equal new phenomenon or ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:44 AM |
| – | Long-term relationship success is almost always driven by maintaining polarity, not "compatbility"Thats very sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themDude you are very determined to completely missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?Sure the vast majority of the compensable porn market means nothing about men in a general sense. Men are just left behind and completely ignored. Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?That IS porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:22 AM |
| 7 | The Debate Around "Toxic Masculinity" is Trapping Men Between Two Unhealthy ChoicesThis is well thought out, well written and generally a good topic here. What I will add as a millennial who grew up in the 90s early oughts - “you go girl” - rhetoric as well as a still young-ish woman during the me too movement: Toxic masculinity from what I gleaned was always about so called masculine traits that hurt everyone - mostly men as the primary victims - and were nevertheless socially enforced. So, self-sufficiency/stubborn individualism like never asking for help, seeing a doctor, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?Jesus Christ this isn’t hard. The available porn is what men consume and what makes money. That’s it, there’s nothing else to the “quality”. If it didn’t make money they wouldn’t produce it. There’s no large group of men holding all the moneybags demanding higher quality porn for you because that’s you and some other small number of men with less or no moneybags “Men will put up with” you mean “what men will pay for”. I’m sure if you individually paid more you could find the higher quality or mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:59 AM |
| – | Long-term relationship success is almost always driven by maintaining polarity, not "compatbility"You’re treating them as if they are mutually exclusive. Which they aren’t. You’re also not just saying that. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:50 AM |
| – | Long-term relationship success is almost always driven by maintaining polarity, not "compatbility"Compatibility is about learning to work together as a team and compromise (so both of you are a priority in the marriage/family), not becoming mini twins to one another. Nevertheless your post isn’t wrong - I think you’re just using a weird, not normal idea of what people mean when they say compatibility is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythIdc if you think that’s the case 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythYeah you could, doesn’t make it relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythYou could say anything you want, doesn’t make it apt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythYeah ok, believe that if you want if it makes you feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythI never said any of that. Don’t put words in my mouth. But your idea that I’m some sad lonely 30+ woman desperate for marriage isn’t a thing. Of course married men can be misogynistic but that’s completely besides the point. You seem determined to go on irrelevant tangents. I’ve never once mentioned anyone whatsoever about men sucking or being horrible or getting some comeuppance or anything remotely that could be considered a revenge fantasy - that’s all you babes. I will not stand by 1% versus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythYeah ok, I’ve been married for over a decade (and I got married two years before age 30 lol) so that’s a big miss, nevertheless it’s not the point and you’re losing focus. There’s no 10% of men having a “glow up” compared to women after they age. 25-30 is a little young for these numbers though regardless. 25 is like peak for MOST folks not a minority. 30 isn’t far off. Drop off occurs moreso 35-40ish, and then it’s mostly men and women at the same rate maybe men able to carry on a bit longer, v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythI replied to you because you seemed determined to defend the “virtually none” versus “a minority of men”. You’re 1% versus 10% is frankly just wrong. It’s silly revenge fantasy male BS. You playing into ad homs is just like icing on the cake substantiating how you’re not being objective here. It’s not a primary focus for my argument (clearly). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythIt’s not 1% versus 10% lol. It’s more equal. And yes you did, regardless if so and so “did it first”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythNo - the other comment said “virtually none” versus “a minority of men” - it’s both a minority. Like a small minority for both - barely any men will age better than women and those that do also have to work for it. That’s facts. Regardless of whomever is jumping to ad homs “it says more about you” like stupid petty bullshit that’s besides the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythIt’s not though. And the tiny amount of men who might age better than the smaller tiny amount of women isn’t worth talking about. Small minority of either gender. Men holding onto that as some sort of trump card is dumb and doesn’t move the needle. Most of yall won’t be that, neither will most women like like accept that, maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather have primary custody or 50/50 and pay child support?Are you serious? That’s an insane illogical analysis. “I picked wrong for a wife therefore it’s a guarantee she’s the reason for the divorce and also therefore my kids automatically should be with me most of the time because there’s a ‘serious chance’ she’s not a good mother.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 12:55 AM |
| -6 | Why do men accuse women of having high standards, then the same men proceed to shame women for marrying guys they aren't attracted to?No. Jesus Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:51 AM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.So if I said “saying most men who want to use women for sex is equivalent to saying most men have penises” you’d be like sure 👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 11:14 PM |
| – | What Are Women Doing to These Birds? Has the Gender War Gone Too Far?All drugs ultimately approved in the US anyway are gonna start with animal trials before they move to human clinical trials. That was even a requirement at least up until recently (I think they’ve eased it now, but practically speaking, that’s still what almost every drug company is gonna start with) Also I think the bio mechanism for the now marketed GLP-1’s came from some sort of research on Gila monsters, I don’t think they did clinical testing on lizards probably used rodents or rabbits or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:15 AM |
| – | What Are Women Doing to These Birds? Has the Gender War Gone Too Far?Yea I’m guessing some sort of smell/hormones or idk maybe something specific to the way women look like long hair or something that’s far less common in men for something that has absolutely nothing really to do with gender. Assuming it’s not just a fluke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:35 AM |
| 29 | What Are Women Doing to These Birds? Has the Gender War Gone Too Far?This isn’t the “gender war” it’s simply an environmental observational study wherein the researchers are specifically stating they have no clue why the results are what they are. There is no real takeaway here but by and large tons of science is similarly not groundbreaking or has no real big takeaway. Often it simply leads to more questions. There are plenty of studies that seem silly on their face but might lay the groundwork for something bigger and more groundbreaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 11:14 PM |
| 0 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseLiterally LITERALLY red pill from its inception touted itself as a necessary evil responding to feminism. This wasn’t a grifter thing. This goes back even to the main three heralded as red pill founders. This type of shit was on the sidebar 16 years ago when I started delving into it. Red pill has never been “just people sharing opinions about what they believe is the most important factor when it comes to attracting women.” Y’all take every opportunity to try and pretend it’s always and forever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsNo. It’s not a red herring at all. I’m not even sure you know what that means. This person is specifically talking about manospherian responses, she’s not saying it’s men in general. Second, manosphere constantly states it’s a needed response to “feminism” while ignoring the need for feminism itself. The fuck you think feminism was a response to? Things going well for women? Y’all love to ignore this point as if you have the high ground because “it’s just a response”. As if the things you aren’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Yeah sure 👍🏻 arguing with me over and over again about how it actually works IRL today in practice really proving that for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Sure let’s pretend we were talking about theoretical “visions” you had. 👍🏻 Great job with all the downvotes btw - such confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Sure 👍🏻 imma let you figure this out now for yourself. I’m done trying to teach an ignorant ass about shit they are so utterly desperately wrong about. Ps any lawyer - I mean the DUMBEST lawyer in existence who passed the bar by .01% would agree your incoherent comment about what “proving it” means is legally ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.You’re a stubborn idiot. If you were actually interested in learning - particularly after I already told you that I support 50/50 default custody laws - I could have told you specifically why that benefits men, IRL. Instead you wanna argue with me over and over about shit you don’t understand. Continue to be so stupidly confident in shit you don’t understand. If you actually cared - about men - you might actually learn something. But let’s not pretend that’s what happening here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Oh honey. Not only are you conflating the criminal and civil burden of proof, you aren’t even addressing admissibility of evidence. Evidentiary standards for admissibility and burden of proof to prevail may be related, but they are not the same thing. You absolutely do not need to meet a BOP of “beyond a reasonable doubt” to prevail in civil court. Also you’re incoherent here. BARD and POTE are two different burdens of proof. The fuck does “Just saying it means preponderance of evidence” mean af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Omg. No one is arguing it would not be a statute. Almost all family law is in a statutory code - in every single state, that’s irrelevant whether the default is 50/50 or PRC with visitation. Those are all statutory. All of it - 50/50 or PRC is a default presumption. BY STATUTE. There is not a single custody statute - 50/50 default or otherwise - that eliminates the possibility of negotiation or court intervention if someone disagrees. ALL of them require both parties to agree if the default resi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.I hope if you ever need it - you hire counsel. You’re not educated enough to go it alone here. Which is most people btw. Hopefully you never need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Sure I do, because I am exactly that. And sure you did, despite the fact you aren’t recognizing that you did - unless you misstated yourself. “Because then it” (ie a 50/50 default standard) “requires a parent to actually prove” (what do you think “proving” means, legally if you’re not referring to evidence and the standards of admitting said evidence?) “someone is abusive instead of just saying it” (arguing “just saying it” is something applicable in states that do not have a 50/50 default stand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 12 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.More than she does? Why is that even relevant? Why you giving credit to someone based on having a dick without any other context other than “he may financially support a woman doing all the primary work/volunteering”? As far as you know he doesn’t give a fuck or even have a clue what volunteer efforts she engages in. You’re bending over backwards here to dismiss the efforts this person is stating women make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.lol so only non capitalist men factor into your whole “men care about peoples equality while women only care about women’s equality” argument? Is that what you’re saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:27 AM |
| 10 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.No, wrong again. But happy to see your responses in real time meanwhile you’re ignoring mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Yeah again, wrong. The evidentiary standards don’t change whether you’re in a 50/50 default state or just one with primary residential custodianship and visitation to the other parent. Still waiting to hear what grand expertise you bring here. Maybe try actually reading a statute or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.This isn’t how it works - even in 50/50 default states. Which I am all for - I agree with 50/50 default. But it doesn’t mean what you think it does, apparently. You are the one who needs to educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Correct, both parties must opt in to begin with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 8 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.I used to practice family law - as a lawyer. I repped plenty of men. Though im not in family law practice anymore (thank god) I also still have a lot of day to day friends who are. I’m not ignorant on this topic. When I say step by step I mean there’s a bunch of steps that occur well before you get to a contested custody battle before a judge, first and foremost just being negotiations between the two lawyers. Before contested petitions and motion practice is engaged in. I’ve represented men who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.Well that’s not exactly accurate. It’s not like it costs “tens of thousands of dollars” to ask for more custody, regardless of who is seeking it. Custody during a divorce or just a custody proceeding alone is a step by step process that is by and large far less expensive and involved than a full blown custody battle at court with a a trial where a judge decides. Most states have required mediation even before it gets there. And most cases won’t even get to required mediation because that’s only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:37 AM |
| 14 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.What was his point even - women who do such volunteer work only count if it’s 100% on their dime on top of full time work? Or what - it’s not really women doing it if they have a husband providing for them as if those women were forced to choose that type of volunteer work by men? What an obnoxious detour that was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Men not caring enough about men's issues is not the problem. The problem is that women only ever think about women's issues.You’re talking about two separate things - first. “Men’s issues” are not the same as “everyone’s issues” for which men (and women for that matter) by and large are not advocating for some carve out or special focus on a gender - aka “poor people” or “children killed by wars.” Similarly “women’s issues” are also distinct from those “everyone issues” too. Most women advocating for something like helping the poor or preventing child death are not specifying they only care about women. That’s the fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.Not really. I don’t see how it’s central to feminist ideology to make broad sweeping generalizations, whereas it’s definitely central - like it’s a foundation - for red pill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?No it isn’t. There is no “simple” argument to “all victims are responsible whether through ignorance or solution.” And your “reasoning” isn’t reasoning nor was it what I argued against to begin with. If you cannot see this than I too cannot help you further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.This is why people like you are impossible. I never said a single thing about women never being bad, or men always being worse. I also not once brought up domestic violence. YOU made claims about women MOSTLY doing x behavior. I said actually I think men engage in behavior that is analogous just in a different form. You lost your mind and insisted no no no, men couldn’t possibly do that more, and when they do, there’s excuses for it. It’s not the same thing blah blah blah. NOW you’re bringing up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:02 AM |
| 3 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?You’re - yet again - not simplifying anything here, you’re changing it entirely. This weird teacher process you’re also attempting to employ is also not working for me. I don’t need you to break down some step by step process you think I’m not understanding in your argument - I’m neither interested nor do I have the time for however the fuck long that may take. If that’s what it takes to explain yourself - maybe you’re not articulating accurately to begin with. Rather than assuming your audience… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?You’re not simplifying the premise - you’re changing it. I’m the one who pointed out to begin with the flaw here - the argument that makes them responsible. This whole house of cards you’re building is based on the initial idea that victims are somehow responsible for abuse or allowing it if that’s more palatable to you, in so many words. You chose to claim the premise behind supporting that is “all victims are responsible” - be it “ignorance” or “solutions”. And you claimed (boldly I might add)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Men present a false narrative in datingYou right, particularly second graf. I’m not even disagreeing there’s a misandrist caricature here - 💯. That being said, more outlandish than anything early terps could ever imagine?? Are you unfamiliar with the doctrine’s most well known founders back in that era? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Yeah - still laughable. “Many fucking marriages” comment regardless. Zero possibility that women are as controlling of their male partners as men are of their female partners. Zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.Negging isn’t genuine or supplying empathy wtf there’s no definition or use I’ve ever seen where your “maybe he was genuinely trying to acknowledge how hard cancer can be” justification fits in there whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.lol ok if that’s what you want to believe - there is no way women REMOTELY engage in controlling behavior like this as much as men. You don’t see the corollary to what you all call “shit tests” ok just call it abusive then I guess. I disagree - it’s boundary testing and seeing how much you can test and the other person will tolerate. It’s not exactly the same but premise and purpose can be similar. Absolutely zero possibility women do this anywhere near as much as men. Like that’s incredibly lau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Negging and shit-testing are the same thing.It’s def done to women just takes on a bit of a different form - it’s men seeing how much they can control her. What she wears, who she sees, she has male friends? Gotta check that, she’s going to girls night out?, a man is speaking to her, dare even flirting with her? Gotta check her on all that. Escalate escalate escalate depending on the man. That’s how men shit test. Let’s see how much control she will tolerate. They may not even care that much, it’s a test designed to see how far they can g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:11 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?No. Your premise is first of all wrong to begin with. At least the one you started with - which was yes children are responsible for their ignorance. Now it’s objectively they aren’t. 🤷♀️ Secondly, no. You argue based upon some sort of mechanical thought process you’ve decided makes sense in your head, but you completely fail to factor in humans and how they behave. “Sufficiently self aware” and “first thing they will try to do is resolve the issue” are not objective metrics at all. At least in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:01 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?But children aren’t “responsible” for ignorance. That implies they had reason to not be ignorant or had means to not be ignorant to begin with. Which they most often don’t, because duh. Objectively your argument makes no sense. And it’s not that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?lol that’s a nice little fiction you’ve invented there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?How are you this obtuse? Do you think I’m arguing with him about substance? Are you incapable of seeing there’s other reasons to call someone out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 02:42 AM |
| 7 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Dude how can you get your analogies so fucking wrong while also spouting “same logic same logic!” That’s so fundamentally different it’s not even funny. First of all the person presumptively causing harm in that scenario (ie the driver) isn’t doing anything intentional, breaking any laws or rules, and is likely not even suspecting someone to wonder out in the street. They are at all akin to the abuser you’re apparently analogizing them too. Secondly, the person wondering out in the street is bre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.But that’s the whole basis of red pill ideology. Pretty hard to argue against generalizing large groups of people in general when your whole ideology and rhetoric is based on doing just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.No - premarital property isn’t community or equitable property subject to splitting upon divorce UNLESS you commingle it. To be extra careful, men with premarital property or women for that matter literally anyone can get a prenup. Which can ALSO cover property earned during the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.What? You don’t have to be married to raise your kid or even stay with its mother? Custody isn’t dependent upon marriage at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:52 AM |
| 9 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?Of course there is, Jesus Christ. “No logical reason” do yall hear yourselves? The logic has to do with harming versus being harmed - one is more culpable than the other. The premise being - harming others is obviously more problematic and violative of other innocent humans than tolerating harm inflicted BY others to oneself. You’re the one not being logical. Possibly analogy might be drunk who decides to drive (ie creates risk of harm to others) versus drunk who just sits a home but is slowly k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?So guess you agree Mr meme is using a logical way to argue? Lol, do you work for him? Why you trying to make an argument he allegedly made more palatable? You’re not supporting his method of presenting arguments at all - which is what I was contesting to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 06:00 AM |
| 0 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?No I’ve directly attacked his typical method of arguing. It’s the same approach and position over and over again. And it’s bad. And 100% pure bias. You wanna defend a meme and some dude’s outrage as a “quantifiable metric” go ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships: Most people against them are being disingenuousBut they aren’t really attracted like true physical attraction, that’s just what most old dudes tell themselves if and when they land such a younger woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 02:31 AM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerlol right on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 11:43 PM |
| 2 | There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men.Honey pregnancy and/or birth alone outweighs all of these alleged cons that men have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?Wooo so scared, big man with his block. Fucking stick with it for once. 👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 05:35 AM |
| 2 | What comes to your mind when you hear of a straight guy with many female friends but is still a virgin?What is your relationship like with these women you are so frequently with? Are you like flirty with them or as others have said, might you be coming off as the safe gay guy friend? Very hard to tell from your OP how you may be coming off so that could be false as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:50 AM |
| 2 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?All you do is look for reasons to argue against women and insist men are hapless victims of women. You don’t seem capable of making actual legitimate arguments that have any real teeth or value. Here you are with a fucking meme. You’re a fucking problem, probably more for yourself than anyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Many men are building OnlyFans empires for free while the creators never acknowledge them.Jesus Christ should I charge for every piece of advice I give to male colleagues? I don’t. And you’re talking about random unsolicited advice from online anonymous sources? Are you joking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Reminder on what the blue pill is, since some of y'all have misconceptionsRed pilllers are obviously not the correct folks to speak to on the subject so like, if you’re gonna participate here you should probably accept the definitions we’ve all accepted and get over it. You don’t get to define it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 04:21 AM |
| – | Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women?I mean you nailed it with circa 2016 - everything shifted with maga movement - at least from what I saw. Red pill became more and more aligned with “conservative/trump/tradcon” and here’s where we are today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?In the real world “most men” are not capable of doing this, let alone trying to or hoping to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Women have an unarguable backup option that men do not have - thereby definitionally have an easier lifeThis is so reductionist it’s absurd. Women have easier LIVES as in all the things involved with living as in LIVES ….because there is a larger market for female sex workers hence they always have this “backup option”? Meanwhile men are “starving in the street” because there is less of a market for them to be sex workers? Is this genuinely your logic here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:57 AM |
| -1 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.You literally just ignored everything he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 03:48 AM |
| 14 | Would you be fine with not getting the "full Girlfriend treatment"?The best comparison I always think of is did he ask her to be exclusive/girlfriend +boyfriend/ask her to move in ON THE EXACT SAME TIMEFRAME AS EVERY PRIOR GIRLFRIEND? If not, under their logic the new GF is second best, he desires her less, she’s getting shitty second class treatment. Like y’all 🤦♀️ think about it for 2 seconds and then realize how petty and illogical that would be. Then think about it for two more seconds and realize it’s the same damn premise y’all arguing about “if she does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Women are the safest gender(USA)If you can’t support your initial premise that YOU wrote in a DEBATE sub and need to bring up a bunch of maybe tangentially related- maybe not- shit. That is on YOU I never deviated from the premise. You now have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Women are the safest gender(USA)Hun you can’t just randomly target shit but even brought up before and expect that means the whole argument we were having just goes out the door. Either I gave you a valid reason to think more critically or not. You’re raising entirely different premises here, it’s random. The only one I’ve even had time to read and can personally speak to is boys getting charged with child porn where girls sent nudes - let me tell you - I’ve represented both boys and girls for that activity. It’s ridiculous ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Women are the safest gender(USA)I haven’t. I would absolutely include say a female gang member engaging in gang violence voluntarily similar to a man similarly situated. She doesn’t get a pass for being female. Same as I would a male victim of college sexual assault being taken advantage of as a similarly situated woman. He isn’t less of a victim because, male. No one is applying some sort of one-sided gender dependent nuance here, you are making that up. The facts and circumstances aka the nuance matters most, not the gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Women are the safest gender(USA)Depends on what you mean by the “law” - if you mean purely from a legislative standpoint, sure. But that’s a little naive right? If you mean more broadly taking into account not just written legislation but prosecutors, judges and juries aka HUMANS advocating and charged with applying the law, no you’re wrong. As I said - you’re not applying nuance here for your main argument. CLEARLY such nuance hasn’t like completely missed you, hence your frat party hypothetical, you just don’t like nuance (h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Women are the safest gender(USA)Oh it’s definitely nuanced in the eyes of the law, let alone at trial where juries decide, are you joking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Women are the safest gender(USA)I’m saying it’s more nuanced than what you’re making it out to be. It’s not 1 to 1, which is what your whole argument is built off of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Women are the safest gender(USA)You’re conflating these things. That was my point - they aren’t the same. You’re acting like going to frat house party in college is like akin to voluntarily joining a violent gang - it’s not and I assume you’re smart enough to understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:26 PM |
| 19 | Women are the safest gender(USA)You’re conflating dangers inflicted by potential unforeseen third parties to dangers you did to yourself. It’s not the same thing. You could say those women may be naive maybe, but it’s not the same thing as someone like choosing to engage in reckless activity itself that knowingly endangers them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:20 PM |
| 17 | Women are the safest gender(USA)She’s talking about getting treatment for illness or disease, like cancer, heart disease, etc. Things that have much better long term prognoses with early diagnosis, monitoring, and intervention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenBut you want her with this part time job or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 02:32 AM |
| 9 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenOk, you own land, which you put in your parents name, but also there’s a trust for like what, rent payments or something like that which are earned from that land or? I’m just trying to figure out how you’re the breadwinner. Do you work/have like a day to day job or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Men should date conservative women instead of wasting their time online arguing with self-proclaimed liberal womenSo like you’re not actually earning? Confused. You have a trust fund from your parents with a monthly allotment or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soNothing you’ve asserted is backed by any logic to begin with, as I’ve already said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soOk, believe that if you’d like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soThat you wish to ignore the entire argument and any logic therein is entirely on you. But stay dumb all you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soYeah keep digging your hole. Nothing about this supports the idea women are more violent than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soIt’s not an accurate use of words because you found some Latin historical root that isn’t relevant to what literally anybody - scientifically or otherwise - uses today. That’s YOU using disingenuous bad logic for a claim you have nothing else to support with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soYeah a stupid argument based on definitions?, not a clinical, or even legislative based one, mind you. No we going back to etymologic history here lol Still ignoring the rest of my comment. Still not applying logic. But yeah go ahead and stick with the whole well the Latin root of the modern day word child is convincing while literally no one using their brain is buying it. “The most accurate denotation”. Lol ok. You’re so far off from making an actual point here you should just stop digging you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:29 AM |
| – | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soNo, the English/latin history of the word fetus does not - by any means - justify your argument that legally procured abortion is in fact violent and should be included in violence statistics which are clearly using a different definition of what violence even is. Not only did you not address most of my comment whatsoever but you’re attempting to to use some sort of pseudo intellectual etymologic rabbit hole to avoid doing so. What you aren’t doing is applying logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:06 PM |
| – | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soJesus Christ you know damn well violence data isn’t defining violence as legally procured abortions - for good reason. Are you also including American footballers in your whole violence argument or folks who decide to end life support as violence? Are you including the death penalty in your whole perspective on violence rates? Come on man. Nobody cares where you particularly (or religiously) fall on the basic boring abortion argument - claiming it needs to be counted as gendered “violence” in da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 10:33 PM |
| – | Women are more violent than we think. And men less soYou are using it to argue against a statistic about men and violence. You are clearly arguing abortion is a type of violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 09:24 PM |
| 16 | Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are?Nobody is “washing dishes twice” unnecessarily. Y’all twist yourself in knots to make justifications for why common and regular complaints you see about men’s effort in domestic labor that BOTH are responsible for - mainstream ones I might add - are just figments of women’s imagination or due to things like “her unrealistic standards.” Why is it so impossible for y’all to believe any of it? That maybe MEN - a LOT of them are NOT pulling their weight or sharing in the domestic responsibilities in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 01:14 AM |
| 0 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderI love it when a man pretends he’s “all men” or somehow the designated spokesperson. You’re so full of shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:15 PM |
| 0 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderNo it fucking isn’t y’all are so delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:54 PM |
| -4 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderYou understand you’re not actually arguing at this point right? Not by any means anything logical or coherent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderJesus Christ is the only reciprocity you care about financial cost? How can you be this obtuse? You’re really gonna throw proposing in there? As if that isnt culturally ingrained IN ALL OF US more than any of the other “romantic efforts” to be more burdensome on men that you’re pointing to? Let me tell you one that costs way more than your 5k average engagement ring - child birth. Fuck even birth control in general adds up - usually on the woman. But sure you wanna throw low hanging fruit like p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 04:12 AM |
| 4 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderThis isn’t the life of most men what are you talking about? Most men aren’t doing all this shit with zero reciprocity. Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:34 AM |
| 10 | Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibilityWomen obv vet for physical attraction - hence the mountains, leagues of complaints from men screaming “it’s not fair!!”. That some may have said other things are more or just as important does not they aren’t vetting for it. Today’s women by and large ARE dating men they are physically attracted too. Secondly you are ignoring my second question - HOW are you expecting or arguing they should vet for “relationship history” - also WHY is that the second most important thing outside of physical attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:02 AM |
| 11 | Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibilityWomen obv vet for physical attractiveness - I have no idea why you think women aren’t vetting for that - are there questions or certain points they are supposed to making on dating profiles that you are saying NEGATE women vetting for this? How you supposed to do this but for swilling right on his picture or meeting IRL and taking it from there? Second - relationship history? What does this even mean? Are you expecting women to like submit a questionnaire or out of the gate ask like hey are you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibilitySo how are you supposed to screen for that in early dating? Like so confused here. Shared hobbies, politics apparently don’t matter, metrics that might give some insight into certain shared values like income, whatever you mean by “status” and “social proof” also don’t matter - so what does? How are women supposed to be vetting for compatibility early on then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Feminists use gaslighting.Are you using some different username? I didn’t ask YOU that whatsoever. You don’t have a fucking clue what you are talking about and that’s weird af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Feminists use gaslighting.I didn’t ask you a fucking question are you losing your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:58 AM |
| 5 | Feminists use gaslighting.How the fuck would you even know one way or the other? You wanna call me an asshole for SUPPORTING shared parenting laws? Are you so stupid you can’t even read what’s in writing here? No You come out with this entirely irrelevant comment calling me an asshole - what is wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Feminists use gaslighting.Yes, absolutely. But there’s various levels of custody and what it might mean to seek it - it’s not as simple as “gets custody” or “doesn’t get custody”Hence my comments. Seeking clarity because his commentary was vague if you know anything about what “custody” might mean or what extents (or money/effort) might be to seek it. Y’all go practice family law for a bit and get back to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:41 AM |
| 6 | Feminists use gaslighting.I don’t know the ins and outs of the florida law I will choose Kentucky if I had to pick one - but I’d really like to know more about all these abuse of discretion appeals you’re apparently writing before you continue to lecture me on what I need to do to combat some fictional cabal of “feminist overlords”. I already told you I’m a feminist - you want me to fight myself? On legislation I already told you I agree with in principle and main intent/substance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Feminists use gaslighting.What appeals are you writing that are all an abuse of discretion standard? Good lord. In actual state court of appeals or are you talking some sort of admin law? I can’t tell you how many appeals I have written myself - actual appeals not some ALJ thing - and only the evidentiary decision ones are abuse of discretion. I’ve even written a family court appeal - and it wasn’t abuse of discretion either. Not saying that wouldn’t be the norm there but you need to be more specific - are you writing a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:55 AM |
| 7 | Feminists use gaslighting.Wrong. That’s not how it works even in states with a rebuttable presumption of 50/50 residential time - sure it easier to get 50/50 - it’s not guaranteed just like it’s never been guaranteed to be less than that before those laws took place. But again - you’re the expert right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:41 AM |
| 9 | Feminists use gaslighting.You need to be even able to define what getting custody means before you make arguments like this. It’s foolish. I’ve helped more men get custodial rights for their kids than you ever will in your lifetime, but sure, what do I know right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Feminists use gaslighting.Here is a fact - most men aren’t spending thousands in family court to “get custody” that’s something you made up or read somewhere and ran with it like it’s absolute truth. All the while you continue to not define what you even mean by “get custody” so I can’t even tell if we are arguing about the same thing here - you need to educate yourself more on this topic if you’re gonna make a whole debate post about it, particularly if you’re gonna dig your heels in on it. Idc what you’ve read about fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Feminists use gaslighting.No. You don’t understand what you’re talking about here. You’re conflating less common circumstances with the far more common ones and pretending that’s gods law on the matter. It’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Feminists use gaslighting.I mean at least one of those I can say with more experiences than most - ie men getting custody when they seek it - is currently and historically true at least for any generation of folk on this sub, although you haven’t defined what “get custody” means so that could change if we aren’t on the same page here. I think it’s just more relevant to look at facts and data points though - and the only alleged tactic you’ve identified in that domain is “rewriting history” using one super famous one off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:00 AM |
| 10 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealAre you dying alone yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 01:43 AM |
| 20 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealY’all only see sex as a reward and use random stats to say See!! You only “reward” men who are bad”!! It’s a completely disingenuous argument that’s repeated over and over and over Dating/sex first of all isn’t a “reward” good boys are entitled to. Second of all all y’all’s stats on this are just take face value to mean one thing and one thing only - that bad boys are rewarded and good boys are punished. It’s an insane use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 01:34 AM |
| 20 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead.You can’t link some 13 min video none of us wants to watch while making many of your arguments some sort of rebuttal to said video that none of us are watching. We aren’t angry at this YouTube post like you are nor are at least a lot of us willing to wade through this YouTube post that clearly angered you Your whole post reads like a 13 year old wrote it, sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 05:03 AM |
| 7 | Blue Pillers here are probably more misogynistic then the Red Pillers.The facts are it’s NOT normal or typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?Who is saying the employer foots the medical bill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 03:20 AM |
| 4 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.Right, happy for you and congrats on beating cancer man that’s truly amazing. That being said, you’re not really addressing my argument here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 08:59 PM |
| 3 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.It literally takes time, effort, organization and planning. You seem perturbed at the terminology but are you genuinely denying this exists as a concept? As a single parent this isn’t exactly as applicable to you, but imagine if you were with the other parent as a single family unit and you’re both supposed to be splitting these tasks and responsibilities equitably yet you’re doing 90% of it while your partner only ever does 10%. In such a scenario - you don’t see how that would be frustrating? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 08:35 PM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementNo. One persons argument about one example from their life is not convincing as some one quick to go to fallacy fallacy! As you are, you should know that. “A few situations I’ve encountered” isn’t the argument. YOU are the one being disingenuous if you think the main premise is some sort of oh here and there random choice circumstances this is a valid thing. Be real here. Second, no, it’s not my job to support your claim that I’m strawmanning with a bunch of arguments you’ve allegedly seen that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:49 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementWhat use of it then? What use of it are you supporting? I’ve not seen one that isn’t some illogical bullshit excuse subtly disguised to do the inevitable blaming of “women bad” which is routinely what happens here in this sub. Would you like me to invent an argument I haven’t seen here so you can pretend I’m strawmanning? Because you have made clear you aren’t interested in putting forth your own opinion. Therefore you’re arguing I’m strawmanning an opinion I’m saying I’ve yet to see, that you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:22 AM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.It’s like you ignored everything this person said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:06 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementYeah of course you would say that. Make an actual fucking argument instead of attempting to support ones you haven’t made that I’m critiquing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:00 AM |
| 1 | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementYou can’t just roll with “you just hate men” because I’m calling out men’s asinine illogical criticisms on this sub. What sort of argument or premise are you even starting with here but for - I don’t like you, I don’t like what you’re saying, it’s not what im saying and I’m a man, therefore you hate men? I don’t give a flying fuck about your one friend wanting to date men only from Australia or South Africa. Literally that’s meaningless and not giving any credence to your ultimate argument whats… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:21 AM |
| 3 | How Can We Hold Space for Male Victims of Violence While Acknowledging Women’s Safety Concerns in Dating?What an incredibly ignorant thing to say. You’re being dismissive - exactly what OP is saying isn’t helpful (and they are right) while also lumping in men’s safety relative to women as equivalent to men’s safety relative to men (also a point you’ve glossed over made by the OP) You don’t get to ignore all those points with “well some women date men I don’t agree with therefore they get what the deserve and it’s the same as violence to men from other men” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:43 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementNo it isn’t. That’s just your assumption not her experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:33 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementIt doesn’t matter. If you’ve only had sex on your timetable ie what you are comfortable with you will be accused of “withholding sex intentionally” by men on this sub. The whole idea that maybe you want to actually get to know someone and develop feelings and attraction is literally alien when faced with me here who deem that a “punishment because you’re withholding sex.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:30 AM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statement“Choose better” is a tagline for when men on this sub want to backseat quarterback any particular woman’s choice in any particular man. There is no criteria or process, it’s just whatever that particular critical commentator decides to make at the time. It applies to literally any and all circumstances where a relationship didn’t work out - doesn’t matter if he cheated - choose better, doesn’t matter if he was violent - choose better, doesn’t matter if xyz - the point is, men here will use that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:25 AM |
| 0 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?Adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:42 PM |
| 1 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:36 PM |
| -1 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?Yeah that’s not a good excuse for being an asshole of a person, like in life, generally. Aka being a red piller | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:56 AM |
| -1 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?ARPALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s keeping the red pill alive?ARPALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:53 AM |
| 7 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.But that’s not a covert contract, you’re misusing that term. You being pressured from some social or online presence to do something is NOT a covert contract. I might as well say my tiny titted ass is being pressured through a covert contract to get a boob job. But I mean that’s nuts man. My husband isn’t doing that. Y’all need to be specific when you use terms and not just wildly apply it to anything that might seem remotely relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:42 AM |
| 10 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.Dude did you read some of his follow up comments? He literally admitted he thinks that paying for a date is an expectation she should put out. I applaud you for your effort but I think you’re getting a little deeper than OP here. He’s been pretty clear these expectations means men should get sex. Again, he is the one trying to enforce covert contracts here. That being said, YOUR premise is not wrong. But I’m struggling to see what feminists are specifically trying to enforce here? Who mainstream… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:37 AM |
| 6 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.Omg suggesting if you do x or y you might be more attractive to the opposite sex in some broad context is not a covert contract, Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:29 AM |
| 7 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.Hun you’re the one who needs to reread it… he’s literally saying if women ARENT meeting these expectations of sex then they need to like make it clearer or somehow feminists need to make it some platform. The WHOLE PREMISE is based upon expectations men hold he’s saying women need to address, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:15 AM |
| 5 | If you want kids, why?So no that wasn’t actually a factor for me at the time I decided to have/had kids. But I understand it. My H and I were both 30s for first child and he was 39 at second so like - feel you on wanting to enjoy your 30s but like you can only delay for so long ya know? I was 33 and 37 for my kids and my H is about 3 years older so I mean men have a little longer longevity here but not like so much before it’s either a weird situation or an unlikely one to expect. I absolutely do not recommend having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 05:12 AM |
| 9 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.That’s not what’s being said. A man for example saying at the end of the date hey here’s your half is a ok. A man picking up the tab saying lovely date hope to see you again a ok. A man expecting him picking up the tab means he’s gonna get laid is the definition of a covert contract. Similar thing with his “chore play” example. That women/feminists are telling you these things do NOT mean you should expect sex is in fact an example of them trying to dismantle these covert contracts that men expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 04:37 AM |
| 25 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.This person has absolutely illustrated in a very direct manner how they are correct - the examples you pose are you pushing covert contracts onto others and not vice versa. As for red pill dogma, sure not manipulative at all - dread game, treat her as interchangeable, treat her like a teenager, “promote” her with the level of commitment you give, AWALT, etc. sure not manipulative at all. Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:08 AM |
| 15 | Sex is good for men and women to doWhat studies and how are you defining “hedonistic” I feel like that’s a pretty amorphous term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:12 AM |
| 34 | If you want kids, why?So I have two young kids. If you want some cookie cutter-expected-of-mom’s answer bullshit like “the joy of children” or “I was born to be a mom” I’m not the person you are looking for. I’m an older millennial (so not Gen Z or younger) so while I didn’t necessarily grow up in the exact current cultural zeitgeist surrounding children, it was definitely still a decision for me at the time I decided to have them and not some sort of huge social/religious pressure cooker choice. I was also in my 30s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)So by your own admission it’s fuckall either way then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:15 AM |
| 14 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)There’s a lot more disadvantages objectively in the US to having a kid as a woman than advantages, like come on. Being a mother in the us is not some privileged position. Y’all all say shit like this having no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessWhat two “glaring examples from this decade indicate that feminists do not believe in bodily autonomy at least inasmuch as you are comparing that to abortion jurisprudence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:40 AM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadYeah typical whiny pants response from you. If you can’t even follow a central basic premise of YOUR OWN POST that’s a you thing. You can go with your pearl clutching outrage that someone isn’t daring to be as nice to you as youd wish they would be because you made a dumbass premise to begin with and now can’t defend it or you could actually defend your premise here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 06:52 AM |
| 3 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadIt’s not asymmetrical if THEY ARENT REJECTING YOU. What?? You literally spent half your post talking about the hardship and emotional labor men go through being rejected YET your premise is those women who ARE with them aka DIDNT reject them are supposed to be like oh wow look at all this emotional labor he’s done. With putting himself out there, and being rejected, …. By other women? You’re also grossly misrepresenting the majority voice of complaint for womens emotional labor if you’re boiling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 06:43 AM |
| -1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadSo women are supposed to do like what? Make up for all this “emotional labor” their man allegedly has done before she was even involved and even after this particular woman has NOT rejected said man? I for one do not count every single time I’ve had to put any effort into anything - emotional or not- that might be pleasing or helpful to the guy I’m with as some sort of tally with an expectation he must make up for it in some way, lest it’s some great cosmic unfairness to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 06:27 AM |
| 5 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Yeah dude anyone can. The point is whether it’s a realistic thing to make yourself worried about. Christ y’all are so single minded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:11 AM |
| 0 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?This is not relating to ops argument at all. But ok go off with your tangent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:42 AM |
| 6 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I wouldnt go so far as to say stupid but I would put that in the “him” category of creating insecurities for himself. If your woman is treating you good, you’re satisfied sexually and you feel genuinely loved and that she’s attracted to you (aka the sex aspect again), who cares about whatever narratives you could make up in your head about Superman? Why dwell on that it’s just gonna create resentment that frankly probably isn’t fair to put on her. Like how dare folks have dated others before the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | People say “demisexual” when they’re really describing the normal sexuality of a typical femaleSame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:35 AM |
| 4 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?It doesn’t make “men” insecure. It makes some men insecure. Downvotes aside, I don’t understand why guys on here that promote this narrative don’t understand they are likely in the minority of men in general. And I never said I didn’t get it - I get it. From that man’s perspective of course it’s creating insecurities. That doesn’t make them realistic. And fair enough - we all have insecurities that logically aren’t sound god knows I do. The difference is I recognize this is a me issue - not some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:40 AM |
| 4 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Well OP does, clearly. I’m not sure how youd know according to your own logic whether it’s a or b though unless you’re thinking about her past possible partners or she like, tells you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I’m not being obtuse at all. If you think this topic hasn’t been posted over and over again ad nauseam for the years I’ve been here you’d be mistaken. I myself even posted a counter years ago! Nevertheless your OP doesn’t talk about some specific proof someone has akin to “would go down now won’t with you” which is also an odd example not aligned with most men’s arguments on this very topic. Your post is far more general and leaves open plenty of random ideas men might have - potentially fabrica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:11 AM |
| – | Women’s Preferences Should Be Questioned as well as everything else they do.Questioned by who? What does that mean or look like - “questioned”? Are you saying folks should be interrogated, berated, or like just challenged? And if so on what grounds? You don’t like what they are doing, you think it’s unfair, you have some broader mission and think it’s harmful to said person with these alleged preferences, etc? Your examples may be example of preferences but idk they are fair to call “women’s preferences” as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:38 AM |
| 14 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Better question might be - what are healthy ways to de-program (certain) men from neurotically obsessing over non-existent comparisons they believe their current partner is making of them to prior sex partners. Because this op seems fairly simple but it’s actually more complex. You’re not tying this whole thing into simply “ways to believably show men you are in fact attracted to them” - you’re basing it on past likely unknown men to said man with this concern. And you also mean sex, like it’s a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:27 AM |
| 12 | Women do not deserve betterWomen are not “largely attracted” to “outright evil men” wth. That’s also not why “nice guys” became a pejorative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:23 AM |
| -4 | Woman only punch down with insults directed at height, virginity, etc.I mean this is a narrative. One you’ve clearly spent time on and thought into. But it’s very much overthinking things. Anonymous folks on the internet always gonna go for generalized insecurities - that’s why men go for “you’re a slut/whore” or “you must be a dog/fat” or various other insulting things in the direction of women’s appearances. Your examples of common anonymous insults against men aren’t any different than that. Nobody trying to enact real change here. It’s dopamine rush doing anon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:15 AM |
| 11 | Trying to pretend like you can vet someones character on a first date is very ignorantWho TF is asking on a first date for you to suck dick under the table omg I hope you walked right tf out. That’s insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Trying to pretend like you can vet someones character on a first date is very ignorantI mean “you absolutely can” while you’re arguing all of these caveats lol. Which aren’t even wrong per se but even your argument here is muddying your initial statement (“absolutely can”) because it’s dependent upon relativity, personal experience, foresight and ability to read others. If you mean “yes it’s possible for some people sometimes” gotcha, agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?Oh I definitely answered your questions just I guess not in the way you like. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?If that’s what your obtuse bubble allows you to believe - I am happy to live in la la land | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?That’s a fucking you thing man? That’s not a me thing that’s not an every person thing and you taking it out on all of us isn’t the solution. Have you ever even thought maybe it’s not the sex that was the problem? Jesus Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?You people and your invented fucking problems. I might as well lament the difficulty in learning how to suck dick well. You’re literally making some sort of victimhood argument here for women getting to know a dude before fucking him - oh the horror for that man. How oppressed and put upon he is. Is that really really what you want to be arguing here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Understand fucking what? Y’all don’t want build a connection with women before sex because….its more pressure to perform? Are you fucking kidding me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?You don’t get to speak for OP or clarify his or her argument - which frankly isn’t about what men want at all. I am the one who brought up the analogous logic in arguments I’ve seen made by red pillers and the timeline in which women have sex. Op didn’t even bring that up. I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?I’m not taking a side whatsoever. I’m saying ops logic is akin to another. I’m not saying I agree with said logic - no matter whether it’s op’s or red piller’s. And no - neither you nor the comment I initially responded to addressed this. I’m not missing anything - it’s just flying on by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?WHAT omg. I can’t speak for your OWN experiences I can only speak to MINE. And mine are that yes sex where the tension, the crush, the lust has built is more intense and more meaningful. That doesn’t mean I have in any way shape or form said but oh if you don’t perfectly fuck me the very first time see ya to the curb you go. WHO IS SAYING THAT BESIDES YOU? Almost all the time sex gets better the more times you’re with someone and the more effort they put into understanding you and your body. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:22 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, when having sex with a guy for the first time, is there an ideal size that you're hoping for when you take off his pants?Normal basically. Nothing abnormal in either direction is ideal. Had one BF with a very curved one. That was a bit of a surprise but maybe I just haven’t been with enough dudes. Got over that quickly. Still a normal dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?The fuck does that have to do with immediately discarding a man if the sex isn’t perfect on day one? Again, WHO said anything about doing anything of the sort? Not I. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?No you’re missing the point. Op is saying well if you ain’t rolling out the red carpet for every girl you’re into especially since you say the ones you really like are less work, then you are treating them “worse”. This is the same logic red pillers etc use when claiming women who have ever had sex on a shorter timeline are giving “worse” treatment. You’re completely glossing over the whole comparison here and jumping into something tangentially - but not the point - related | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?What? Who said that? Who is always having perfect sex the first time with anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Touché I didn’t realize how creative you are. Extra points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Random generator omg that’s even better. You literally had a random name generator spit that out and you were like cool - solid name, sticking with this. I’m actually really fascinated with how desperate you are to have the last word here. And frankly wondering how far you will go. Or how long it will take me until I get bored. Surprised that hasn’t happened yet tbh, you are certainly something special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?WILD take, I’m sure, but if you don’t want your very own self-chosen username used in a tongue in cheek manner on a debate sub maybe….don’t make it your username? I have very many weird feelings. Weird weird feelings for sure. None of them about you nor touched upon in this conversation with you this evening. Genuinely though. I’m sorry for upsetting you and I do hope you stay warm and have a good night. wherever you may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?You are being obtuse. I’m sorry. But you are. I’m not afraid of “taking accountability” but I’m not going to like defend shit I never even said. You are really, REALLY reading into things here. Maybe you should take accountability for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:32 AM |
| 7 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Well my point is it’s the same logic - logic that when a woman uses it related to sex gets absolutely dismissed and ignored and attacked by all manner of things by red pill men on this sub. So that’s a little rich is all, at least if you are said men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?I mean again if you want to read into the word “personalize” so be it. Like it’s just a word. That doesn’t necessarily mean ohhhh you’re attacking me I’m so offended. Literally you started talking about your own personal preferences here - that’s personalizing!!! As for the rest of this rant like I’m gonna go live my life now and forget about this in 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Frankly I just don’t have the patience for people here who act obtuse. Yes, you are reading into it. No, I never took anything as a personal attack nor have been offended. That being said, you seemed to want to talk about things on a more personal level from the get go. So I thought why not? Again, following your lead. Not sure why that’s such an instigating thing for you here, again wasn’t assuming anything you said to me was an actual attack on my own personal self. Nevertheless this is a deba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?You’re reading into things that aren’t there on my end. Only thing left to say I guess is I think you’re username is apt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Personal doesn’t automatically mean “personal attack” it just means personal to you and me. lol. Your very first comment to me seemed like you were talking more personal - especially when you said ~me personally I find that a turn off~. But I never said nor reacted as if you were making a personal attack so that comment to me about taking something you said as a personal attack came out of left field. I have no idea where you’re getting the idea there’s some arbitrary reason here - I’ve consiste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Who took anything as a personal attack lol? I just responded in kind. I can’t speak for you but IME as a woman, men who genuinely are into you aren’t all caught up with x number of dates first date third date whathaveyou. Like they just enjoy spending time getting to know you. It’s natural. And so is the physical intimacy when you’re both comfortable enough. It’s about building a connection. Not whatever you seem to be talking about. But if that’s not important to some men like so be it. Never d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?I mean you seemed to want to personalize this so? Just following your lead there. If it feels like it’s pulling teeth to get to know someone before sex like that’s probably someone who isn’t right for you ya know? Or her for that matter. All the guys I dated actually enjoyed spending time with me and I with them. Without needing immediate sex on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:03 AM |
| 8 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?Well we weren’t talking about me (or you personally for that matter) but if we were I can tell you without a doubt I only ever had sex on a timeline I felt comfortable with, after getting to know a guy and developing intense attraction, trust and mutual fondness (which isn’t a game, if that’s what you’re calling it). Still effort I suppose maybe just not the effort guys who are itchy about sex want I guess. Worked out wonderfully for me. Never “lost” a man I actually liked. Also like it’s fun … … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:56 AM |
| 17 | Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse?I mean this is the same logic for not sleeping with dudes super quickly when you want to see if they actually like you cuz you like them too. Yet red pillers largely tend to argue that’s “worse treatment” in all variety of metaphors and language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?You never asked me - you just keep insisting it’s something it’s not. At the very least you keep insisting something I disagree with. Confidence, drive, work ethic, independence, ability to achieve leadership and power. These are all factors like ambition that very well could lead to more money. Doesn’t mean it’s the money and lifestyle that may come along with having these traits that is what is genuinely attractive. And yeah that’s what I mean by conflating things. You’re divorcing the outcome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?No that’s not why women are attracted to ambitious men. You’re conflating a lot of things that may be appealing to women to have in a partner or might correlate to traits that inspire genuine attraction but aren’t necessarily the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?It’s not though. Passport bros etc just tell themselves it is lol. It’s not actual attraction it’s attraction to money, better lifestyle, etc. nothing wrong with that per se I would assume most guys know deep down it’s not as genuine as they like to believe, but it just isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?Yea again, not related to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?No, it’s supposed to be based on attraction. You’re talking about circumstances and environment again. That’s the wrong use of that word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?Hypergamy isn’t supposed to be based more on circumstances and less on choice so disagree. You’re not following the definition here. I never even remotely said anything from which you could claim I’m saying heterosexual women just loose attraction to all men if they become educated and independent enough what a reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:46 PM |
| 9 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?It’s because they are safer, more educated and generally have more opportunities to be more independent. It’s not “hypergamy” it’s just having more options - be it man/partner or no man/partner - due to an ability to be a more independent person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?You’ve now managed to detract an OP asking men about why they would be insecure about women outperforming them in some form or fashion into some meh hypergamy women are evil it’s all about finances post. Congrats I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?It’s 2026. If you’re drawing from some relic of the past that’s on you. Society and women et large aren’t all demanding men to be better than women in all the ways. it’s no longer some huge social expectation that men must always be better and women can’t be better at anything where the hell are you coming from that in today’s society women can’t be considered better than men in anything at all let alone individual men versus individual women and this is some big hinderance to men?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?The fact that you’re reading so god damned much into it like it’s not hard? It’s not abstract? I ain’t getting existential here man. If you’re a man who is one of the many who thinks this shit is unfair to put on men like just don’t be insecure about women earning more, succeeding more, being “better” etc. and vice versa for men who are the opposite. Like it’s not that deep. You’re going on about grass is green fuck your feelings nonsense. what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?The fuck are you talking about? Jesus this isn’t even a difficult concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?It certainly is though if you harbor those beliefs yourself while expecting women to not uphold them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 06:12 AM |
| 4 | Can the average man tolerate a woman being better at something than he is?Fair explanation but we also hear so much about how the provider role being an expectation of men, a requirement, etc isn’t fair or equal, is outdated and women who believe that are assholes. So like pick a lane I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:23 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsMen already use women for sex and have been for centuries and have been promoting and encouraging that amongst themselves so miss me with that logic. Y’all ain’t trying to level the playing field - you were just as much a part of creating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:12 AM |
| 23 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?Abortion rights have never rested on some right to “consent to parenthood” that wasn’t the basis of roe or Casey. And the reverse is also not the basis of Dobbs. Also it’s a little weird to divorce it entirely from the whole pregnancy/gestation/birth aspect and just neatly pin this whole premise to the side. Lastly I for one would be down for LPS but only if it meant pre sex contracts. Otherwise you’re putting the entire responsibility of an unwanted pregnancy on women and there’s also various p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopaths😂 good try dumbass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsAbsolutely not. Don’t make claims you can’t back up. Coward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsNo. Link me where I said “I hate men”. Do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsWhere have I posted anywhere on this thread “I hate men” the fuck are you on about?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsYeah. ok. I wrote that. Verbatim 🫡 And you over here telling me I’m the one who can’t read. Ok chief 👌🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:16 AM |
| 2 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsBlah blah blah. Emotional nonsense. You aren’t helping men, I doubt you can even help yourself. You certainly aren’t speaking for men. And you shouldn’t purport to. You are not representative of men if you think validation is somehow a problem worth trying to justify with an alleged solution of using others. And if you so much had read ops comments on the subject of sex work - youd realize you aren’t speaking for him either. And if you had the emotional intelligence of more than a pea youd proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsYeah dude I know. Might be more palatable coming from a blue pilled female lawyer feminist idk 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:23 AM |
| 5 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsYou don’t need to explain anything to me - I get it. Youre trying to much more then explain it - you’re trying to justify it - this childish alleged “problem” - as somehow being paramount to the welfare of others. It doesn’t need explanation - it needs justification if that’s what you’re saying makes using and hurting others ok. Justification you won’t and can’t provide. Because any attempt to do so is just ludicrous. lol “validation” get the fuck out of here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:21 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsI’m not crucifying him I’m crucifying the mindset YOU are arguing here. Again. That of an entitled petulant child. Omg I’m a fully formed adult male who can’t feel attractive unless I lie to hot women to get casual sex. Boo fucking hoo. Grow up. You are not “men” he is not “men” don’t presume to speak for “how men think”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:10 AM |
| 4 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsI can only read what you wrote my dude. YOU are the one suggesting the real “problem” here isn’t the lack of sex - it’s validation. To which I will repeat. GROW THE FUCK UP. That’s not an excuse. I don’t give a shit what he wrote I’m responding to YOU and what YOU wrote. I don’t care what you believe you understand about “men’s heads” it’s completely irrelevant. Either you understand what it means to think like an adult or you continue with such a petulant entitled child mindset. Your choice dud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:05 AM |
| 3 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsOmg. You can’t run around acting like using and manipulating people is a real solution to your “problem” of lack of sex meanwhile being like wahhhh lack of sex isn’t actually the problem. Grow the fuck up. Dude is almost 40. You ain’t making some worthwhile valuable connection with some chick you have to lie to get into bed with anymore than a sex worker you have to pay. The lack of validation is now the problem??? If you are an adult male and can’t feel “validated” without manipulating others i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:55 AM |
| 3 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsIn what countries is that meeting the elements for rape by deception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:47 AM |
| – | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsHe’s right tho, it’s not rape at least in the US and I take issue with y’all throwing that term around willy nilly so loosely. You aren’t a rape victim because a dude lied to you to get into your pants, no matter how awful that may be you’re not a rape victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 9 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsIf your “problem” involves resorting to using and exploiting people as the solution then YOU are in fact the real problem like duh. He could just pay for sex, damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 7 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsThese are just facts yo. Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:00 AM |
| 6 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsSo is men leading women on for sex “already happening and for a long time now” like you think this is some epiphany strategy you got here no man has ever thought of or engaged in? 🤦♀️ Im not complaining about anything - I’m pointing out this cuts both ways. Hence saying “this cuts both ways”. You wanna promote men doing this like on some grand scale - go ahead but don’t expect women to not engage in a counter effort just like I described. You reap what you sow etc. or is that also a little bit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:42 PM |
| 21 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsThey Patrick Bateman wannabes without understanding the irony there 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 6 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsI mean sure it might work if he can sleep at night but this also cuts both ways - you want women promoting women to use men for resources and favors and leading them on to do so to extract what they can from men and don’t worry about whatever hearts get broken in the process? No sex or any physical intimacy required. Just lead men on with abandon to get yours? Cuz that’s also a strategy that could work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.Ok chief you tell ‘em 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.What the fuck are you talking about? Who is talking about you? YOU maybe? I said nothing about you whatsoever. Who brought up men not having friends? YOU. In fact I’ve repeatedly said why are we bringing outliers in here. You seem to want to take this in a very specific direction - unrelated to what my actual point was to begin with and frankly, not a topic I’m interested in engaging in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.Who cares? The vast majority of men are NOT in that situation let alone even tangentially related to the topic at hand. For those men, they have many other issues to tackle before they should even remotely expect or anticipate stranger women approach them for dates. Like step one would be just leaving the house. Why does every thread here have to devolve into some incel topic jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.Why are you making this about incels? No one is talking about socially shut in incel outlier men here from what I can tell. Most men have friends or an ability to get more should they so choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.Ok that’s not even really what this post seems to be about but sure I’m sure you’ve seen comments like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.That sounds like a problem you should probably work on before you’re lamenting online about stranger women not approaching you for dates. Most men aren’t in that situation anyways. Otherwise you could always try apps - also not the type of “approaching” OP is targeting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.friends, acquaintances, school, etc I can’t speak for you but as someone who is well over age 25 I still have countless ways of meeting new people. I didn’t realize I was required to write each and every one of them out here to just make the point plain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Alot of women gaslight men forreasons they don't make the first move.This post is confusing to me because you’re limiting this whole concept of approaching to like cold approaching it seems? Like being approached by a stranger? I had zero interest in doing that and it was always awkward when someone did that to me so, no. I don’t know where you’re getting some sort of premise here that women by and large even want men to be doing that. Meeting through friends, acquaintances, school etc is far more the reality for a lot of us and still involves a level of “approac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 01:24 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Ohhhhhhh ok We found the only one here who knows successful men guys. 👆 He has a team y’all. A team! A team of ambiguously defined, allegedly successful men who are apparently representative of “successful men” everywhere. Oh they also won’t date me of course. Cuz he knows. He and his team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:21 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Doubt, but how is anyone even supposed to respond to something as ambiguous as that? What are you even basing this on? What you’ve read online? That’s not how it works irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:11 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Nobody is specifically worrying about you - you’re over here speaking as if this is some common thing for men everywhere and of course the norm for those men who women actually want to even date. It’s crazy 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 03:04 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?Ok well how many high demand men have rejected you for your body count? How are you even remotely representative of men? 5 people like Jesus yku genuinely believe that by and large the dudes women want most are worried about a women who has slept with 5 people let alone holding ideas like “wow damaged goods” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:58 AM |
| – | If RP denigrates women for sleeping with men, why should women choose ANY man?lol 5 people y’all are so not representative of “men” here. Let alone the ones actually in high demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers.What? Who are you even talking about? Everyone working a low paying shit job had “chances” - at what? Why are you automatically pretending folks like this had all these amazing opportunities and possibilities in life that they just squandered away due to whatever moral culpability you’re assigning? Hmm ok like maybe meet some ppl in the real world. Shit job or not they aren’t all junkie thrill seekers who wasted their life’s potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:23 AM |
| 7 | Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers.Ok yeah you have a delusional view here - folks working shitty low paying jobs living paycheck to paycheck are not all junkies and wannabe “SoundCloud rappers”??? How do y’all come up with this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers.OMG the Uber Eats hypo 👌🏻😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers.Oh god now they all junkies? Soooo judgmental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers.Who is the YOU here? Of course you don’t have time to find new hobbies. I don’t even see how youd have time to date or even meet new people? Most people - even young people in school with part time jobs are not spending 14-16 hours a day either in school, studying or working. I get the lacking disposable income part - I think many folks can empathize with broke kid in school. We just had like house parties and cheap beer. Do med school students not have parties or get togethers? That’s how i soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Fisher's principle will soon be false for humansWhat does that even mean in a mutual trade with men of different skill sets where you aren’t relying on men to provide/protect like she was saying? You are arguing your tax burden makes you equivalent to those men doing the hard labor? So your reliance on bigger and stronger men who make your life easier and safer and provide the goods you want to buy is somehow different from women in the same boat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:49 AM |
| 3 | The Manosphere Preys on Immaturity, Not Misogyny or EntitlementOmg no. The fuck. Read some books read some history jesus lord. Birth control - birth control for women had your Margaret Sanger feminists make an argument that women should be able to enjoy and have sex recreationally - like men - instead of just for making babies. It was a direct assault to Catholicism’s take on the matter of when sex should be had - and particularly when women should have it. If that’s what you mean by “entitlement to sex” than fine - that’s a weird fucking way of phrasing it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:05 AM |
| 3 | The Manosphere Preys on Immaturity, Not Misogyny or EntitlementNobody fucking says prostate cancer is funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Omg you are so obtuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'I doubt you’ve ever actually looked at a woman in a “top position”. On paper or IRL for that matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Oh yes those folks - totally granting their potential investors into the inner circle of the shitty ways in which the business is run including which employees have zero merit, are overpaid, and how often that happens. Sure. 👍🏻 💯 What you’re really saying is you just believe you have some superability to tell if and when this happens. To normal people that would just come off as being a judgy bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:28 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Oh damn we bringing in men’s dating preferences and AOC into this now for no apparent reason whatsoever? You going levels and levels into the void. My man here got layers of asininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Yeah ok 👌🏻. Now I don’t even believe you invest in shit, let alone own some companies. No business minded person is going hmm where’s the metric on dick riders I really need to see and understand that before investing. Nor are most investors getting some sort of grunt worker level insight to where theyd even witness it firsthand or become apart of the rumor mill for that particular company like are you just running around trying to dive into dead end startups with 20 employees tops? Literally de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:09 AM |
| 3 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Who is “we”? You aren’t “men” - please. “I’ve written a lot about it already” to whom? Where? Why would that be relevant and why should I care - are you purporting to be some sort of expert on the subject by stating that? I don’t know you and you don’t know me. Tf I’m supposed to believe you for some abundance of written works you allegedly have that no one, let alone myself, has ever heard of 😂 You can think whatever you want about me I literally don’t give a shit. Go ahead believe whatever non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:03 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Ok Mr gossipy man. I don’t agree and I def don’t agree you’re vetting investments on this basis. But go ahead I guess if you’re all about whatever gossip is floating around and that moves you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:56 AM |
| 3 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Oh I’m trying to gain something now. lol that’s rich. It’s not common at all that women just never work hard and “get things” you are full of shit. Idc what you subscribe to “most men” that isn’t true either. Literally nothing you’ve even argued makes sense. Honestly you just seem like you’re making things up for the hell of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:55 AM |
| 4 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Oh! A text! How convincing 🙄 I wasn’t aware that “women” not having to “work hard” for “things” suddenly is gods law because of a text you received in 2003 or whatever from some chick you knew in college who blew a guy for a cheap deal on a POS car. You’re missing the point entirely, regardless. By that logic the fact I got a free pretzel once from a guy at a mall when I was 15 means women just don’t “work hard” to “get things” Sure as shit didn’t work hard to get that pretzel. Guess that proof … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:23 AM |
| 3 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'No you don’t. You don’t “notice” this. What are you even talking about? You’re killing me over here with this idea that somehow you are auditing potential investment opportunities by how many potential women are out there riding dick to climb the ladder in that company. No you aren’t. The whole idea of that is just ludicrous on its face. Who is feeding you information about corporate dick coasting women at the companies you allegedly seek to invest in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:18 AM |
| 3 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'No it’s fucking not. I’ve lived in college towns too. We are now boiling this whole thing down to - in college towns some co-Ed girls can get a beater for a cheaper price by providing sex to some old guys? Y’all literally need to read what you write sometimes Christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:07 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Girl please. You cannot make some sort of claim that “women” have this ability/privilege when you know it’s bullshit. Like literally come on. Are you an adult who understands reality and the claim you are even making? You absolutely are making it some sort of typical near-universal “privilege” by including it in your list of privileges that “women” have. It’s a wild clam. That’s entirely unrealistic. At least if you live in the real world or have any experience with being employed or employing o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:43 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Girl acting like it’s just a thing available to all women with all jobs everywhere is complete nonsense. Hence my comment. HENCE MY COMMENT YOU BARELY ADDRESSED. I too know women who have fucked for job privileges or opportunities. Probably more numbers than you have. Nevertheless this not BY ANY MEANS some common/universal “privilege” like 🤦♀️. The fact you even include this very specific and mostly unrealistic scenario in your comment about “women” having things “easy” is just beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'How is anyone supposed to take y’all seriously when you say dumb shit like this? Women do not “work hard” to “get things” and if they say they do it’s “self delusion”. wtf are you even referring to? What “things” and what “hard work” is allegedly being claimed to have been done to achieve them that isn’t “hard work” at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:41 AM |
| 0 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Ok Mr living under a rock. I’ll just pretend to ignore the however many hundreds of laws - state and federal - that have been enacted in the past decade or even earlier specifically to address the sexual abuse and assault of children, MANY of which were specifically enacted due to the outcry of offenders and their crimes coming to light where the offenders were more more prone to victimize boys (hello Boy Scouts, hello clergy). I can’t think of a SINGLE such law that is only for female victims o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:31 AM |
| 4 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'What is this nonsense I’ve seen twice now about women being allegedly privileged because they “can” fuck their way up in a job. Do y’all not see how unrealistic that is for the VAST majority of female employees? Are y’all so naive to actually believe this or you just subtly making the argument that women only move up because they exchange it for sexual favors? Who I mean who can honestly say women like WOMEN as a group are doing this let alone have some big privilege over men premised on the ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?It’s not a matter of politeness. It’s a matter of just making sense and using logic. Which you failed to do. Then you deleted your thread. But yeah for future reference I would hope if you’re gonna post a bunch of nonsense that people can’t understand and isnt logical, I would hope you would learn a little. Fingers crossed. A condescending prick attitude of course doesn’t help. Do you need help in learning basic adult skills too?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?Yeah or just delete it because you realized it’s stupid. Maybe cool it with the condescending prick attitude next time you post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:21 AM |
| 0 | The Phrase "Women And Children"lol real talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?It’s possible…that I asked you a question to clarify….and you responded this way…and here we are. The fuck just make a point then if it’s gonna be this hard to get anything from you whatsoever. YOU wrote an OP inviting women to answer how bout you make it make sense Jesus god it’s not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:08 AM |
| 2 | If you want to sleep with a woman you are attracted to you might have to do things to woo herThe “bulk of women” are decidedly already with men around their same match or otherwise equally mediocre. Y’all miss miss middle, northern and southern America altogether. Y’all focus on stupid shit you see online that isn’t indicative of the average couple, who is statistically overweight not rich and mediocre as you say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?Are you kidding? Literally in your OP: I always wondered if maybe it's a situation like with peacocks and peahens, and we're just another species where one gender is way more aesthetically pleasing than the other. If you are unable to explain or clarify this statement, which is literally a whole 50% of your OP, I'm not sure what you want me to do here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?What do you mean what? That’s a straightforward question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves?Are you arguing men are “way more aesthetically pleasing” than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:51 AM |
| 10 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.There’s a lot of top 1% posters who have a red pill flair like you want all their names too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:36 AM |
| 15 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Well obv that doesn’t appear to be a problem for him. Seems to have plenty of female options he’s happy with regardless 🤷♀️ Clearly your def of “good partner” might not match his and hey - that’s ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Nobody literally said one time men must marry sluts. Like that’s such an obvious strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?No they don’t. There’s no study or data that confirms or suggests women should be judged and shamed for sleeping around and men should be heralded. You are literally making that up. My appeal? What does that even mean? What am I appealing to? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Why is slut shaming wrong?No, it’s not black and white and flawed thinking Yes it is. Absolutely. Your appeal to historical norms isn't a great argument not to mention history doesn't support that view anyways. You haven't provided a lick of reasoning for why men like you - in exclusion to a vast majority of things - think that "an incredible amount of charismas and/or high level of social skill" is something that needs to be given this deference of merit VERSUS the folks who don't necessarily have that should be being j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Like how can you not see it? Ability to get sex is not something to either applaud or shame? It's meaningless and assigning some sort of accolades to it for one gender while simultaneously saying it should be judged, and actively shamed in the other gender is just...stupid? When do we automatically assign some sort of easy = bad (and should be shamed) and hard = good (and should be lauded) merit in any event? The whole premise isn't accurate - for multiple reasons. You are assigning automatic me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:21 AM |
| 5 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?Red flag doesn’t have to be moral failure. Depression is an illness - that doesn’t mean it isn’t incredibly difficult to deal with if you’re the partner of someone who suffers from. I also have experience here - it’s completely devastating at times to the fall out partner. Substance abuse/addiction is often similar - also a mental illness, but certainly you could agree that if you were aware of that it might be a red flag before committing yourself to that person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?It’s absolutely is based on the parameters y’all have set up here: sex and body counts should be applauded in men because it’s hard to obtain whereas for women it isn’t, let’s add the full argument here that not only should it not be applauded in women it should be shamed cuz it’s so easy for them. But where it’s also easy to obtain for men it’s still laudable and shouldn’t be shamed because there are less of those men?? This isn’t logic, it’s ad hoc reasoning because y’all can’t be consistent. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?That’s on you man, I could say exactly the same to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:48 AM |
| 6 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I mean they care less, it’s less of a flag for whatever be it sex or a relationship or dating whatever. They aren’t hung up on it and concerned about it in general. They like a girl they like a girl and that certainly overrides whatever minimal qualms that exist because she’s slept with a handful of people or more than anticipated I’m not talking about religious dudes or cultural outliers of course. Modern western attractive successful men that live today in the culture we are now moreso accusto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Well in my experience attractive men are actually less likely to give a shit barring extreme scenarios because they don’t covet sex and form all these weird, potentially trauma-based ideas around it like lesser attractive men are more prone to do. They are more likely to be carefree about sex - no matter which gender is having it - and less likely to have strange ingrained biases about people who have some numbers under their belt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Why is slut shaming wrong?You’re right - she probably has. And then probably left and never gave a single second thought about them or whatever unstated judgment they may or may not possess towards her 🤷♀️ Her point still stands though. By and large views like this are outdated, conservative, premised in some sort of religion holdover beliefs, and more likely than not held more often by certain groups that she decidedly isn’t interested in fucking (ie religious, non western, virgins, or trad minded red pilled type men).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 26 | Why is slut shaming wrong?What’s always funny to me is how this same view that gets repeated over and over again in manosphere circles including this one I always initially attribute to just young naive people thinking. The ridiculous idea that women should be shamed for sleeping around while men should be admired and applauded because it’s “easier for women and harder for men”. It’s such black and white unrealistic thinking that I’ll admit has some surface level logical appeal if you don’t think about it for longer than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:08 AM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.But there’s plenty of traditionally “masculine” hobbies that have nothing to do with making money. I guess you could say things like fishing and working out are in some way “productive” but like financially. Then of course you have others like playing sports or more widespread - watching them which isn’t “productive” at all. I’ve never heard anything remotely bordering on he must only spend time with friends who can help boost his career. That’s pretty outlandish but just also doesn’t strike me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:31 PM |
| 7 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.Lmao I’m no biologist but reading that I was like uhhhhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:19 PM |
| 10 | Many women see men as just a means to an end.Honey the work of going through pregnancy, birth and raising kids for 18+ years let alone more than one kid is not in any way worth it for the sole reason of having some access to some man’s probably middle of the road salary. Like think about this premise for more than 10 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:14 PM |
| 21 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?Since you insist on being dense, no you idiot. Hence your whole op being fanfiction. You wouldn’t know what women are attracted to if it bit you in the ass, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 20 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?Your whole op is incel fanfiction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:13 AM |
| 21 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?This isn’t a thing. Y’all are way more obsessed with “super hot super tall” giant dicked men than we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:02 AM |
| 11 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicThere’s nothing to rebut when you just make shit up over and over again. This whole thread you created and you act like a toddler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 02:04 AM |
| 8 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicWhat is wrong with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 02:01 AM |
| 14 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicGood for you? You’re clearly perturbed by the reverse though so great job there 👍🏻 people really gonna rally behind your message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:42 AM |
| 13 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicIt’s not illegal in the US to have gendered spaces. It’s just in a weird gray area sort of. Nevertheless with the “literally all” here you are again with the hyperbole. Men aren’t lonely or creepy or have zero responsibility for any of society’s problems because women threw a fit over a few things that included some male only spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:39 AM |
| 8 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicOf course pedos don’t only target boys what is even the point of bringing that up? The Boy Scouts being “ruined” and having the reputation it does today, isn’t just because girls elbowed their way in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:30 AM |
| 34 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?No? This is how men think. This is like some sort of weird porn scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:27 AM |
| 28 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicThis op makes like zero sense. How you jump from one group originally intended for elderly men in one region in the UK to women need to accepting men being creeps and going further right politically to “everything wrong in society is women’s fault” is beyond me. You just might admit to being a little bit hyperbolic here? Maybe? You may very well have a point that male spaces aren’t the same, are being forced to be more inclusive etc. but this article, and the conclusions you’re drawing are not h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:16 AM |
| 15 | CMV: It's women fault men are in a lonliness epidemicYeah I’m sure all the rampant child sex abuse that’s taken place over decades that’s only recently come to light had nothing to do with the demise of the Boy Scouts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 0 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingSooo people who make arguments about how miserable and awful and undateable liberal women are must also be extremists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:08 AM |
| 12 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingWhy are white women the only relevant women here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:00 AM |
| -1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingNot really this is just modern day “why feminists make terrible partners/mothers/wives” etc. stereotypical conservatives etc have been saying similar shit for years. It’s nothing new just flipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingIf that’s really what you want to take away from this sure. Myopic thinking wins again I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingI never said it’s not in the bible. I’m not disagreeing with that. Once again missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingFair point then, I guess in my world (weirdly enough, mostly lawyers) we are your run of the mill not radical liberals/democrats, just trying to live our lives within our morals doing what we believe is right for our kids etc while still trying to retire one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingI’m not interested in the scripture. You can’t tell me the examples I gave aren’t in the scripture either - despite the fact you think that since you haven’t been able to rebut that in 13+ years that’s supposed to mean it’s a shit argument. That’s not the point. It hypocrisy plain and simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingMost liberals are also not some caricature my dude - it’s not conservative versus dyed hair keffiyeh wearing antifa member/free love polycule yo. It’s just normal people on the other side too not the most radical stereotype you can come up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingOh was the bible only invented in 2012? Or just your version of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingThe bible also says you can’t mix fabrics or trim your beard. Or eat pork or shellfish. Or if your eye causes you to sin you must gouge it out. Y’all don’t follow any of that shit get real. “But it’s all from the bible” no it’s not. Only the hatred you care about with a flimsy biblical justification. Not all the other mountains of things y’all do and choose to ignore that otherwise is or isn’t against the bible - like I said. Contextualists are almost always hypocritical. “Oh that part wasn’t me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingBullshit. You don’t get to paint a whole religion as broad as Christianity with your hatred brush | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingThat’s literally all Christians I hate to break it to you. Y’all ALL interpret it differently, pick and choose what is important, what should or should not be take seriously or literal, etc. Come on like seriously. At least the Christians who aim to live by the message without believing in some sort of literal text are like normal regular good people. The literalists are always ginormous hypocrites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingWhat a dumb myopic view. “There’s only one way to be Christian and you must believe exactly what I believe”. lol ok. I’m not even religious but even I know that this is dumb. There’s like wayyyy too many denominations even for you to ignore here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareBingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareThat’s not how it works in CA or anywhere really. Just because state statutes give courts discretion to award lifetime alimony once certain elements are met doesn’t mean it’s automatic or common. Most of time lifetime alimony awards - in the states that even allow it anymore - are limited to rare circumstances where the partner awarded is permanently disabled or too old to work etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:25 PM |
| 3 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedSo it’s essentially, meaningless. Lawyers aren’t gonna take that claim (if it’s even allowed for them to be in small claims court in WA, I have no idea) even as a niche practice. Can’t imagine that’s a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:06 AM |
| 11 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThat’s already a crime in many states if it negligently infects the unknowing spouse and a civil tort in like all of them I think. It’s called negligent infliction of an infectious disease, civilly, at least. Generally, criminally there needs to be knowledge however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedIt’s a 5k cap in WA? So like small claims? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:38 AM |
| – | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThese laws aren’t archaic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:37 AM |
| 6 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedWhat do you mean by “illegal”? Stealthing isn’t a crime or considered rape in any state in the US, but there’s been a few states (like three) to legislatively carve it out for civil liability. I think like a few countries may have criminalized it but not the US Also making it something you can sue for does not mean it’s necessarily “punitive” damages. Punitives are a specific type of damages in civil cases in the US depending on case type, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 20 | Where do women want to be hit on?Companies aren’t segregating women and men. What. Also you aren’t “inundated” with stories of men ending up in prison for saying hi to a woman. What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceGirl please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceOk a stupid one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceYou’re not saying that though - maybe you were - but not when you’re like oh the Clinton’s and Obama’s and Bidens! You know at that point you just come off as a fucking shill. Your last comment - fair. But the previous one has totally undermined you. And no one who isn’t like omg team a or team b is gonna take you seriously when you comment drivel like that. It sounded like a bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceOmg no you didn’t! You said the exact opposite then you doubled down and a) admitted you didn’t know anything about the political history of its invention and b) said it’s just technology sure it had political implications but wasn’t any different than penicillin. Most people not understanding the social or political implications of the pill literally dude. You’re arguing with me about shit you admitted you aren’t educated on now you’re like well I was arguing something different the whole time!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:06 AM |
| 3 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceWhat does that have anything to do whatsoever with some sort of vague amorphous conservative movement against women that is already taking place? Why can’t y’all think a little. Nothing OP has said negates women’s fear - whether you think it’s irrational or not - of individual strange men. These are not mutual exclusive or hypocritical things “lol” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:51 AM |
| 4 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceWhat? What does this have to do with divorcing your political party from what it’s chosen representatives do IRlL? You are the one arguing no fair no fair they don’t actually represent conservatives!! Now you’re going on about the Clinton’s and Obama’s?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:21 AM |
| 6 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceOmg this isn’t about you or your time or whether it would eventually be invented one day or not. You said it’s not political. Very few “tech” is somehow itself political, whatever you mean by that. The nuclear bomb is technology. You gonna say that too is non-political? Outside the box thinking here man. Just little abstraction is needed, not even a lot. The pill and how it came about had DEEP political implications, was DEEPLY influenced by them and so and so forth. I’d say compared to many inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:16 AM |
| 2 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceHave you read anything about the history of it? eugenics, the Catholic Church, feminism. There’s three things heavily tied to how it came about or almost didn’t that are politically tied to its existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceThe politicians are nevertheless still representative of the party and movement. If you think your average gung ho conservative is Mr family values - politician or not. Yeah…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:07 AM |
| 4 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceIf you think the invention of the pill was non political you are kidding yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:05 AM |
| 8 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceWhat does that even mean? What rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 3 | (CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual MarketplaceThere’s already a far right/socially conservative resurgence soooo like, are we supposed to be scared or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).Yeah and women can’t abandon either if dad wants the kid. Neither can if grandparents want it! Almost like that whole process is intended for truly abandoned children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:51 AM |
| -2 | Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation).Men can utilize safe haven laws too though….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?No, certain married men sure, just like certain married women. Not married men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:28 AM |
| 9 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Dude no you’re just wrong. Like nuts level kool aid drinking wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:47 AM |
| 10 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Very few men are having hookups with hundreds of women, A. B yeah we have stats on that too, sex is consistently and statistically better, more frequent, and more adventurous within relationships. Most married men are married because of their money??? Are you joking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:29 AM |
| 15 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?No. Y’all can’t just make shit up because idiot manospherians say so. There’s no data whatsoever to support that regular dudes in marriages or relationships never get laid. In fact, married or partnered men consistently have more sex than single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Extroverted people - men and women - are almost always going to be “preferred” by how you’re describing it over shy lonely introverts because they meet more folks, they put themselves out there more often, there’s a wider and larger number of people exposed to them. Your example of one is just that: an example of one. I could tell you how I married a super introvert over all the extroverted men who pursued me and guess what? Also an example of one. Doesn’t mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?I get you’re trying to be open minded here but you know the men on here - all of them - aren’t somehow not seeing or experiencing average regular every day perfectly decent men who are in relationships, have hook ups etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:36 AM |
| 10 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?If that’s all you know it’s all you know. You can’t pretend exposure doesn’t play a role here. You think all those, apparently, baddies you’re over here arguing are somehow in high demand are around or being pursued by a lot of shy, asocial men with poor social skills? You think those guys are just killing it in the hood amongst criminals only the girls are ignoring them? You can’t just make these comparisons in a vacuum. Setting aside the culture you’re even specifically talking about (actual s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?No. Regular men have gfs, hook ups ect too. They aren’t all ignored until they’re 40. Hell demographics and logistics should at minimum make you question the idea that only shit men get laid Not to mention like actual stats on who is having sex, in relationships, married etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 19 | Why do women say men are single because they are bad/misogynistic. But tons of bad and misogynistic men have tons of women?Tons of all types of men get women. Nice guys, family guys etc do too. Y’all just ignore the average couples because it doesn’t fit your narrative. And the you use 1 famous celebrity as your example of why that’s wrong…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?None of the friends you even have now will likely matter that much to you in 10 years even IF you even make the effort to maintain those relationships. This post comes off as like a super young person concern. Also no random is trying to jump you dude what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?As you age this nonsense about men and women and platonic friendships lessens. Like. It becomes as easy albeit not exactly the same as any other friendship. The need to worry about his sexual or romantic feelings, gone. You grown, probably married or paired up. Him too. It’s no longer a question for either of us like oh actual friends who just enjoy that level of the relationship and aren’t pining for or expecting more totally on the table! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?You should speak for yourself. I have a TON of male friends. Who love to hang out, talk, call me on the phone, etc. Just because you haven’t figured out that women aren’t your matchmakers, bodyguards, or interested in hearing misogynist rants about their own gender doesn’t mean men are you. (They aren’t) Also can’t hold a conversation or are just annoying? That’s a YOU issue. edit: it's really telling how many women have a problem with physically defending a friend but they wouldn't hesitate to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.Oh it def is. And it’s illegal. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t a thing that happens regularly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:17 PM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyBut voting rights as written into actual constitutional text are not written as “privileges” either - they are written similarly to all the other rights we all recognize and enjoy. None of it matters that it wasn’t written into the “original constitution” because that wasn’t about individual liberties to begin with. Whatever the concern about only enumerated rights being recognized like we have the 9th and 10th for that. Obv still a source of contention and a contexualist clearly gonna have word… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 05:39 AM |
| 3 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.Breastfeeding does not make women have less merit or be less reliable workwise. The fuck are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 5 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.My husband got more pat leave than I got mat leave - because he's in tech. And I so applaud them for that even though obv I was a bit jealous. So many companies, firms, whathaveyou promote themselves as "family friendly" so like ..... do that? I've had two kids in the time I've worked for this firm, not 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:34 AM |
| 11 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.I love this. Unfortunately in a lot of professional (private) companies (mine included) it's an unspoken rule you cannot talk about salary. What we need is THIS plus better employment protections for EVERYONE. also unions, fucking unions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:20 AM |
| 3 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.If your business cannot compete, make money, etc., because you need to give certain people - and not all of them all at once! - 6+ weeks of paid leave to have a baby, YOU are the one failing. This says nothing of the employee who needs the leave's merit or reliability.... It's not like it's typically some suprise thing that cannot be planned for. Unless you are some tiny business with very few - which of course, exempts you from a lot of legal restrictions anyway (at least federally), you have z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:58 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyWhat do you mean the "original constitution" here? You're weaving it into some sort of "rights versus privileges" argument here but I'm not following. The "original constitution" - at least as I'm familiar with it - was basically and primarily a framework for government. Different branches of gov, checks and balances & associated roles/power, supremacy clause, etc etc. Very little had anything to do with individual "rights". The Bill of Rights wasn't even ratified until several years later. Yet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:27 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyFair. The things I’m pointing to are arguably not even capitalistic in nature. True capitalism would mean we’d just let those companies fail or go bankrupt (no Texas two step bullshit) into oblivion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 02:03 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyThe flip side is we end up subsidizing a lot of shit that is caused by them too though - whether unlivable wages for their workforce or bailouts or paying for the costs of their negligence to injured individuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 01:41 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyDocs prescribe antidepressants off label for a number of non mental health related issues too. Lots of chronic pain conditions, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"No dear I’m not a psychiatrist I haven’t studied this shit I’ve just been privy to her behavior. You’re the one that brought up sociopaths I thought it was interesting and relevant to my own recent experiences, hence my comment. Which again, NO that’s the whole point. You’re using people like Bundy actual fucking sociopaths to make your point. They ARENT easy to detect that’s the whole point. They ARENT your run of the mill abuser/misogynist whathaveyou. It’s NOT a good comparison to make. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"The sociopath is a woman. You’re not explaining how whatever it is you’re labeling as the “creep detector/misogyny detector” is anything different from just intuition that someone’s a bad guy. Maybe it’s wrong maybe it’s right clearly not a science here. But it’s not based on some oh all attractive guys get a pass and all ugly guys get labeled thing either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"Yeah I mean you are saying they can’t pick up on abusers dude. You’re just using more language. Nevertheless it was the fact you specifically said sociopaths that triggered my interested because of recent experiences I personally have experienced so frankly my rebuttal comment is kinda only tangentially related to that overarching point as it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Nothing is actually *that* hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument"Actual sociopaths are incredibly rare and not people most people would have actually experience in vetting. It’s not a fair comparison to say oh well women didn’t pick up on sociopathy so clearly they can pick up on your run of the mill asshole or abuser. This whole topic frankly is wrought with a bunch of variables and what ifs I’m not surprised folks tell op they can’t really fully explain it or they don’t want to take the time to because it’s complicated and nuanced etc. Myself I’ve only met … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Is it all you know how to do - suck your own dick? Is that literally all you have? It seems to be the only way you argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Bitch I don’t even practice whatever area of business you happen to be in that you think apparently runs the world and everybody else cares about. Nobody knows who you are dude. And more importantly, nobody cares. You can continue on with this whole omg I build all these things I’m so independent I’m the second coming of Jesus bit or you could actually learn something. You aren’t special. You aren’t amazingly brilliant. You aren’t making the world go around. Neither are your fellow male compatri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:14 AM |
| – | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Speak for yourself. Are you in law or accounting? The fuck do you know? Here’s what I know: you’re a hypocrite who has decided you can judge what others do in highly skilled professions without actually knowing anything. Someone who nevertheless is beholden to processes and policies and does NOT make all his work decisions on his own yet thinks this a big difference between men and women. You’re a hypocrite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".You just told me legal doesn’t even think for themselves. Make up your mind. Edit: lol “strategy sessions” meanwhile everyone else is just “not free”. You are such a hypocrite my dude. You ain’t independent, you are the one lying to yourself not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:15 AM |
| 8 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".So you had to have multiple executive meetings plus whatever it entailed to have individual staffers write history the way that fit your narrative PLUS daddy lawyer needed to sign off before you could make those decisions - however illegal they might be? So independent. Much autonomous decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:30 AM |
| 7 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Where are you getting your claims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Hall pass monitors in my office don’t ya know 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 9 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".You’re conveniently ignoring a lot of the points that person made about military/law enforcement jobs. I guess the ways their freedom is restricted doesn’t count or something. Almost any professional job expects employees of either gender to handle their own shit. Not every job - and certainly not every job a woman works - requires layers of approval and discussion for every decision let alone most of them. It would be completely inefficient if that was the case. I’m in law. I’ve worked for mult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Where are these numbers you speak of? Law enforcement + active military service has to outnumber HR personnel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:55 AM |
| 13 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Respond to that comment then about all the men who choose very hierarchal jobs that require a lot of submission and adherence to policy like military or police. Hell even most stem jobs - also male dominated - are just as beholden to corporate policy as HR jobs. Your average man out here ain’t a ceo or doing some wild Wild West cowboy shit is he Meanwhile women have made a lot of strides in terms of yes getting those higher level jobs that actually may provide more autonomy and income (see med s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:50 AM |
| 8 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".How many kids you got and who stayed home with them when they were young? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:40 AM |
| 11 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Why are you assuming boss is an asshole? My boss isn’t an asshole. And I’m also the boss of many under me. AFAIK they do not think I’m an asshole. Thats also frankly a weird thing to proposition - the benefits of making my own money, also money for my family!, and gaining experience and competency in a marketable field so I can essentially choose any future employer are not wildly contingent upon whether my boss is an asshole or not. They don’t turn into disadvantages just because boss is a dick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:25 AM |
| 11 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Your whole writing exercise over here is not at all solely focused on “why do women choose certain jobs”. Yes you’ve devoted a part to that sure. Certainly A topic raised in your post but not THE topic. Nor does everyone necessarily agree with the positions you’ve even taken with respect to that. You do rely on a lot of assumptions there. “Least free jobs ever in existence” like do you actually believe that. Also I was commenting to other dudes comment. Of which my comment directly responds to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:17 AM |
| 14 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Ok that’s def a worthwhile conversation, but it’s besides the point of the one we were already having It’s also a little rose colored glasses here my dude. Retire by 45? In this economy? And you’re also trying to make this a woman thing? Like do you even know how men spend their money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:05 AM |
| 18 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".My husband does work. what world you living in here where a dual income household is just like a passing suggestion and not a near necessary reality in this economy. Of course my job gives me independence. Slave to the job market? Even phrasing it so biasedly sounds like a lot more options than slave to my husband. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned over the past five or so years - as you gain experience and competency in your career, you naturally will have MORE leverage in the market. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 19 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Yo you are missing the point. The VAST majority of people - male or female - would agree that working sucks and if we are suspending reality where you do NOT have to work and still can get everything you want, MOST people would retire, work less, quit whatever mundane job they have to pursue something more aligned with a hobby or passion (without needing it to financially sustain them). Etc. This is not some woman specific thing. However, based on real world realities, women, like men, would rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:41 AM |
| 11 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".No it doesn’t, people say that when choosing options based in reality, not like hey in unlimited money land where I have everything I can dream of and I don’t NEED to work yeah I still wanna work full time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:30 AM |
| 22 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Do you mean everyone? Everyone would prefer to do that if it was an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:15 AM |
| 23 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Also “woke when she wished” 😳 Homie has no children let alone children he was the primary caregiver for if he thinks this is a thing that happens with children. Maybe when they become mini adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:26 AM |
| 8 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Ah ok fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".What’s the 2025 fantasy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 34 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Setting aside the hyperbolic prose and metaphors here, I do have some news. You can work and also have kids. Many, many, many women do it. As do many men. Wild, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:18 AM |
| 18 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".A job provides financial stability and independence that is YOURS. You’re not dependent on his job, his ability to maintain said job, and his control of the household funds. A job is replaceable. You’re not happy? Go get another one. You’re not going to feel as trapped by a shitty job versus a shitty spouse you and possibly your children are solely financially reliant upon, especially if you’ve spent years at home rather than developing a compensable skill set. A job you leave every day and then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment?can you answer a single q tho. or provide any answer to the ones I proposed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment?omg what. Manufacturers of drugs changing the def of cruel and unusual punishment - what? Judges changing the definition of cruel and unusual punishment? who do you think provided any definition to the 8th amendment?? Legislatures? No, it likely wouldn't survive today, if challenged, and shouldn't pass now. But technically the jurisprudence and precedent still exists. It has not been overruled. Love how you think I haven't thought about it for three seconds. What exactly do you think I'm proposi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menARPALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:14 AM |
| 0 | What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment?It def passed legal muster in the US. Sterilization was not an unheard of "treatment" back in nazi era days when eugenics was a predominate theory (even in the states). Buck v. Bell hasn't even technically been overruled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menred pillers are misogynists so should be avoided at all costs. It's literally central to the dogma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 3 | What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment?Chemical castration as a punishment to sex offenders has generally been voluntary in more modern times. But yeah, def a push historically, idk how many were actually affected, I think at some point in time some states had it like a requirement for parole whathaveyou, but it wasn't surgical castration, it was chemical. The idea is pedophiles cannot be rehabilitated, it's a psychological pathology...... Surgical castration legally speaking has a dark past related to eugenics in the era of nazis, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment?Violates 8th amendment unless voluntary i guess. This has never been some sort of standardized law historically from my understanding. You know what has though? Capital punishment. In what 2010ish that was outlawed via SCOTUS precedence. States now are trying to bring that back though. It's SCOTUS precedence CURRENTLY however that you cannot be sentenced to death for even child rape (must involve death) unless the current SCOTUS undoes this like they did in Dobbs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:00 AM |
| 9 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlyeah I know. I responded to your comment. Obv. Like. You're not really arguing anything here other than yeah men are actually worthless but for money. No?? That's not true at all even if some men like somehow convince themselves of this. I know FIRSTHAND men can be very significant caregivers FROM infancy. There is not woohoo magic "biology" holding them back, just intent and motivation. Get with the times dude. Millenials+ are not abiding with this boomer logic of men only good for money can't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menred pill is not a movement anyone should be proud of being associated with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlOk but you said men don't care when they are infants. Like do you have any idea how much that throws me off if that's not what you apparently mean? What a bizarre thing to say of fathers if you were actually intending some other thing. You then threw in that this was biological? You also tried to throw in some sort of idk personal attack "I don't believe you actually care to understand" as if I don't understand. I have two kids. With an active husband. Who, i guess surprisingly to you, cared abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menNo. Those men have a higher chance of being red pillers, as one example, so no they aren't safer. In fact they might actually be more of a risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:26 AM |
| – | Question for women: Do you think it’s reasonable for a man to stick strictly to dating apps when looking for a potential partner nowadays?Well it's not your post is it? You policing this man for what he can and cannot ask women? You determining alone what is or is not "mentally healthy" for fellow men now? Maybe other men are not you. Like wow just a thought. God other people even exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:21 AM |
| 7 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlBrainwashed? Your argument is that men who contribute substantially in taking care of their children during infancy is the result of brainwashing? Besides breastfeeding, what biological reasons exist that stop fathers from taking care of infants in terms of similar effort to moms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:13 AM |
| -2 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menMen who actually hate women run the gammit. Attractive to not attractive. There's a lot of rhetoric on this sub that assumes or outright suggests women would be better off going for unattractive men if they don't want to be abused. The truth is like that's not the best vetting mechanism for abuse. Unattrative men are not necessarily less abusive. It's never a great idea to suggest women should specifically go for men they aren't attracted to regardless so it's a bit of a like what do you want he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlWhat do you mean you can just ignore infancy when it comes to childcare? I don't even remotely understand how you're justifying that with some sort of argument about single mothers "ignoring the children eventually become adults" what are you talking about? Also I never said fathers weren't important or interchangeable with mothers - which is what your links are speaking of. I said it's not that disparate, let alone disparate because of biological means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 8 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlI’m not arguing it’s one to one. Similarly I would not argue US conscription is one to one to Ukraine (obv it isn’t, yet I guess to you it is, in the US it’s far more theoretical and I know you know that, you’ve already acknowledged as such). I’m just surmising maybe there’s a parallel. I don’t live in Ukraine so won’t even pretend to know what that shit is like. But I do live in the US where conscription is theoretically possible in the future but unlikely to ever actually happen again. And abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlOmg are you kidding. You can’t “care” about raising children and ignore the whole children start out as infants bit. wtf. That’s not consistent. ?? There’s zero biological reasons why men would not contribute to child care of infants. Breast feeding is not the ONLY thing that takes place when caring for infants damn. “Playing” doesn’t come until later my dude. And frankly mens interactions with children isn’t necessarily let alone biologically vastly different than women’s. Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlBanning abortion kinda achieves that in some respect no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlI mean most men statistically speaking will have a kid eventually in their lifetime. Who are these men you think would make awesome attentive contributing fathers that are apparently not “chosen”?? You do realize that many women ARE with men who have “character values and stability” at least when it comes to participating in raising children, correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlI’ve never seen a conservative use falling birth rates as some sort of argument against abortion…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menPlenty of people do…do y’all believe abusers somehow are 100% successfully keeping every relationship they’ve ever been in or tried to get in? Do you think currently “lonely men” have necessarily never been in a relationship? Do you not believe amongst the gazillions of people out there that there might be folks with better intuition here over others and that’s maybe maybe something related? No one is applying this concept to only “lonely men” that’s y’all doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely menIt’s not “lonely men” per se, it’s men like red pillers/classic incels and the like who are in fact misogynists. People who internalize that type of thinking may present red flags for it, so to speak. Which doesn’t negate that it can still be hidden or disguised, or that some women are naive/blind to it. But it’s not just linked to oh “lonely men” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Question for women: Do you think it’s reasonable for a man to stick strictly to dating apps when looking for a potential partner nowadays?This post is literally asking women alone to do just that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationNo it isn’t. Oh I know girls who have found a hot teacher hot is NOT similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationSetting aside the fact that ok maybe that’s your experience but it’s not mine (and I moved a lot too), that’s not even remotely the same thing as what you’re trying to compare it to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 5 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationNo...... maybe in law school, but we were all 21+ then. That's also NOT THE SAME THING. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:35 AM |
| 4 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationWhat is Chat GPT telling you about these cites it's giving you???: 827 F.2d 684 is an 11th circuit case from 1987 captioned: Smith v. Board of School Commissioners of Mobile County. It is about textbooks and the establishment clause. 72 F.3d 1421 IS a 9th circuit case from 1995, but it is titled: US v. Blackman, and it involves whether attorneys are excempt from IRS reporting requirements where they receive legal fees in excess of 10k on the basis of atty-client privilege. 947 F.2d 919 is an 11t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:34 AM |
| 5 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI find it incredibly hard to believe you have experienced anything remotely similar wrt women and male rapists/statutory rapists. "Oh wish it was me" "oh how lucky" referring to the victim. Who even are these "hot male sex offenders" you apparently are talking to a lot of girls about?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:42 AM |
| 6 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationWho is saying this then for all to hear if they “keep it quiet” who are they speaking to?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:31 AM |
| 4 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationYou made claims that I asked you to at least tell me where those ideas come from. Either support your own words or don’t. Like you could just discuss in good faith or you could continue with whatever this mr aggressive man routine it is that you apparently think is effective. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:32 AM |
| 7 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationWhat are you basing this on? We have rape shield laws specifically because defendants so often tried to introduce evidence of an alleged victims promiscuity as a way to shift blame or discredit the claims of assault/rape. Including how they dressed/flirted/dated and the like. This statement exists nowhere in legal history - is that your position and if so where is your source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:27 AM |
| 6 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationShit like that is a reason rape shield laws even exist though. If it’s just a figment of imagination we wouldn’t need to legislate against its introduction in criminal court. That being said I hope these types of questions and the entire line of thinking itself has gone down in more modern times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationFalsely reporting an incident is a separate crime from perjury though, and would be more applicable in the case of a false accusation of sexual assault. That being said, it too would have distinct elements that must be met including by and large that it be made to police or the like (in order words, just posting something on social media or calling an employer likely wouldn’t qualify). The standard of proof (BARD) wouldn’t be “lower” but the elements might be less burdensome to meet than perjury… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:24 PM |
| – | How do I attract younger women as I age?Meh you can’t really. Just gotta shoot your shot when the opportunity arises I guess and understand there’s gonna be a lot of rejection. Women that young aren’t generally attracted to men your age or older. There are women who are into older men but a lot of them might actually be more interested because they assume older men are more financially stable or will be willing to spend more money on them. Maybe there’s some app or something that’s designed for younger women seeking older men idk. See… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfyou’re making a lot of presumptions in order to convince yourself that safe haven isn’t ever an option that men have when it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfA woman can’t do it unilaterally either unless dad has also abandoned the kid. If he doesn’t know the child exists she can. That’s really the only substantial difference here and it exists obv due to biological differences not because the law discriminates. My point is and has always been that it’s still not only available to women. It’s not a frequently used or necessarily an easy option for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfYeah it’s really only possible if the other parent has abandoned the child yes. It’s not used very often for obvious reasons. But that doesn’t mean it’s only available to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfYes I literally said this above. Ie it is available to men too or whomever has legal custody. That doesn’t mean a bio dad CLAIMING the child is like nah go away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfDude yes it is. Having to establish paternity may be the additional step but that’s a logical requirement and also not something that always even happens when people decide things out of court Biological fathers have innate legal rights just by being biological fathers. Proving paternity may be a requirement that isn’t imposed on mothers but that’s for obvious reasons not to shit on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceNo, you are wrong. I’ve read caselaw. I’ve done the research. I also understand general principles of contract law, which you do not. It does NOT work that way. NO contract is “bulletproof” that’s never been a thing. Nevertheless prenups are routinely UPHELD not judicially found invalid. Again, assuming they were properly executed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceNo this is not how it works, generally speaking. Duress is not an easy standard to meet in most jurisdictions and judges do not just throw whole contracts out because “unfair”. Laws don’t work this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorcePrenups are normally upheld if they are done correctly. Prenups are not just “thrown out” because a woman is requesting it and it’s in “today’s time”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfThis isn’t how it works. Biological fathers absolutely could prevent a mother from safe haven surrender. They also don’t just forgo custody altogether - there may be a secondary step if it’s contested because it’s not the same as giving birth, but that doesn’t mean they have no rights automatically bestowed upon them as a parent. Your more problematic situation is where he doesn’t know about a kid that’s his. Which wouldn’t put him on the hook for child support regardless so probably not a conce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfNo I don’t. I also recognize that wasn’t the basis for holding abortion rights constitutionally protected to begin with. Women have never had that as some right either. So while I do believe sex itself isn’t some consent to becoming a parent I also recognize it’s a distinct possibility - regardless of individual consent. This isn’t even as simple as you apparently want it to be in terms of the discourse. It’s not a legal right for anyone nor has it ever been so THAT basis isn’t going to get you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfIncome is always relevant here. You’re talking about theoretical LPS, ie the relinquishment of financial contribution aka child support. If the mother has a good income it also means less contribution mandated by father at least by law. So it’s always relevant. That’s not the same thing as saying legally children must always have two financial contributors or wherever it is you are going with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfOk fair. I thought this whole thing might have something to do with actual legal rights (or what they were anyway). If that’s a no to you ok. Seems a bit hard to draw some sort of distinct line tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfWho told you accrued child support only goes to the past three years? I also don’t understand what I’m assuming your argument to be regarding child support amount - these are legislative calculations not negotiations between mom and dad if it goes to court and/or the admin system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfYou’re not wrong that that’s a reality and a reason why women get abortions but it’s never been the premise for why abortion was a legal right to begin with. Which doesn’t even exist anymore but still. There’s never been a constitutionally recognized right to opt out of parental responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfMen can utilize safe surrender too - it’s anonymous and not gender specific in most jurisdictions. It’s just not viable when one parent wants the kid. There’s ultimately no abortion equivalent available to men because obviously they can’t get pregnant so the factors are not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfFairness would mean presex waivers that both parties agree to. Not last minute opting out by men after the deep is done. Or restraining orders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:48 AM |
| -1 | Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalfThis is not exactly accurate. If a woman abandons a kid and dad or some other legal guardian steps up - she’s on the hook for child support assuming someone files for it. Adoption is of course a different matter but that also cuts off dad’s rights and obligations so no child support for him either. In the scenario she keeps the child on her own - and she qualifies - yes she can get government benefits, same as a single dad or grandparent in that same scenario. It’s not only available to impoveri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:13 AM |
| 6 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceYou are right unless he heavily commingled and can’t trace it back. Premarital assets are not marital assets subject to equitable/community splitting. Assuming this is US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:37 AM |
| 5 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Oh! A video 🙄 You’re not shamed for being single. Go be single. Enjoy your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:17 AM |
| 9 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.If you were all that in the know, you’d recognize that the men who are higher in demand by women are not big time red pill/manospherian types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Men aren’t shamed simply for being single. You’re a bit dramatic here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesOf course men want that too. What do you even mean? Men have pursued money and power from the dawn of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesWait how does so much of the gendered hate occur because both men and women are pursuing higher powered more lucrative careers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesGreat. Don’t marry if you don’t want. It would also be great if there wasn’t a ton of misinformation about divorce law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Nobody cares about men who do their own thing and don’t pursue women who aren’t like raising a fuss about it though. Like what is this shaming you are even speaking of? Also there’s never been some dominant narrative that men are only or more dangerous when single. That’s something you’re inventing. Again, while nobody is specifically claiming oh relationships are the issue here that doesn’t mean there isn’t talk about DV within relationships or various support avenues for those who might or do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:59 AM |
| 8 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.I’m not sure what you’re really wanting here. You think it’s unfair that people warn that incels can be violent while partnered men are also statistically more violent towards their partners, I guess. These are completely different scenarios and different warnings needed. Women ARE also informed that there are resources, you’re not alone, you can leave, etc, when it’s DV. The message is different - not non existent. No one is gonna be like hey women it’s relationships with men that are the real … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:31 AM |
| 16 | Women associating the male loneliness epidemic with violence is just a smoke screen, and tactic use to shame men back into adhering to traditional masculinity.Economically viable men are not eschewing women tho, or marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesGet it girl good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI know more single male lawyers and I have a very large network so 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesSo don’t trust red pillers to give you any realistic perspective on divorce - 9.9/10 times they are wrong on top of being dramatic. That being said - if you do choose to believe them. Don’t marry a low income low potential spouse or a SAHM, get a prenup, or just don’t get married at all. Like these are all options and don’t require eschewing long term relationships altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:30 AM |
| -2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI mean I also did that as a millennial woman. Believing this is how it works as a young person in my chosen career. I can’t say it didn’t pay off though. Still sucked ass though at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYou can try and balance it - I know I did. Generally speaking you won’t have the same level of responsibility in your 20s when you get older - might as well live it up while also pushing hard to achieve future career goals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI’m a female lawyer and most of my female peers are married or paired up and not single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:16 AM |
| 14 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.That dude made an argument tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:40 AM |
| 13 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Do you think that if the women who have a greater threshold for a man’s desirability to make them want casual sex, were more open/forthcoming/honest about it, that it would help to recalibrate young men’s standards and boy’s future expectations of what they are likely to experience in sex and dating? What? What does this mean? What are you proposing that apparently is envisioned for boys and young men here? Perhaps fewer men will choose to pursue life paths (try hard during K-12 education, socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Is Working a Blue Collar Job a Death Sentence for Male Datinf?You’re in a particular type of blue collar job that is higher level. Not everyone understands that. My husband used to be in one too - as an air traffic controller. This is still blue collar but highly specialized and requires a lot of skill. You’re definitely in a sweet spot career wise and I think you should be proud of your accomplishments and career. As a woman in a high powered white collar profession - there’s plenty of us with men like that. I def don’t think you’re in some sort of dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:33 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menWhy are you the most obtuse person here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 02:43 AM |
| – | Where does this idea that looks don't matter really come from?Dude you are the one here muddling meanings. “Evoking raw sexual attraction” is not the same thing as “being open to the idea of getting sexually closer to you, however small that might be.” Yet those were your words. If you aren’t even open to the idea that maybe women experience genuine sexual attraction in a way that may not be identical to your experience and you’re chopping that up to “women don’t speak right about it” like ok. Do you I guess. But it’s ignorant and close minded to assume th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:41 AM |
| 5 | How do you reconcile the extreme selectivity that women have with their assertion that "most people end up in relationships"?Women are definitely more selective than men but that doesn’t mean they are so selective that the majority of men will never be in a relationship. Also one woman’s selectivity isn’t every woman’s and demographics are pertinent here. Relationships generally speaking will be based on who you are exposed to — not some ginormous consortium of all the men most of whom you will never even meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:06 AM |
| 1 | is there a solution to this duality?It frankly doesn’t seem like anyone likes dating apps lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:01 AM |
| 4 | is there a solution to this duality?You don’t have to do things like drugs or alcohol my dude - but this is how young people naturally socialize and meet new people. This is how people get broad friend groups and acquaintances which is how many relationships develop in a more organic way. Fuck meet some like minded people and do a game night or something. Super fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:00 AM |
| – | Where does this idea that looks don't matter really come from?Men insist looks are paramount because they don’t or often refuse to at least attempt to try and understand how female sexuality works. Looks have never literally “not mattered” but the idea they are all that matter or the primary trigger for female sexual attraction is also false. Extremely good looking people are always going to be a bit of an outlier - you’re going to more naturally open the door so to speak for potential romantic interest to more people. The men who have non-physical qualiti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | is there a solution to this duality?Yo why aren’t you going to clubs/parties/bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Men being sexual predators, ladies men, and losers is all a part of the same source. And society perpetuates this.Regardless of what some sources state often loudly, this is still the most effective way that men meet women and develop romantic relationships of all varieties. It’s also the process wherein women generally speaking will be more likely to be receptive and open once some sort of familiarity is established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:39 AM |
| 2 | is there a solution to this duality?Ok not sure I’m really following you, but generally speaking the way to get more female friends (or friends in general) is you’re gonna have to start with being acquaintances first. These days with online dating many people skip that part entirely, but it doesn’t appear many men actually like the process or feel that’s a successful way to achieve their romantic goals so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Men being sexual predators, ladies men, and losers is all a part of the same source. And society perpetuates this.Ok, I can see how young men in particular could be confronted with seemingly contradicting messaging when it comes to women sex and dating. But I also think generally speaking the best advice would be to stop thinking so much and being neurotic about it and just apply the age old concepts of being kind, honest and doing what is right. Your life isn’t going to be ruined because of one bad approach that maybe wasn’t done in the appropriate setting in hindsight. But you probably will regret living … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | is there a solution to this duality?You have zero women in your friend group? I want to be clear tho - when I think of “cold approaches” I’m envisioning something random and out of place - hitting on someone walking on the street, working out, shopping, etc. not like approaching a stranger you want to meet for possible romantic interest in a more appropriate setting for that type of thing like a bar, party, a more social situation where it’s expected that strangers will be meetings and interacting on a more personal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Men being sexual predators, ladies men, and losers is all a part of the same source. And society perpetuates this.Yeah this phenomena of “society” somewhere providing the mixed messages where you’re damned if you do damned if you don’t - for whatever the choice may be - is just what you get with a multitude of opinions and experiences and just the complex and often contradictory nature of human beings. I feel like we all experience this - in the various roles we play throughout our lives be it man/woman, child/adult, mother/father, husband/wife, liberal/conservative, etc etc. like there may be some stream o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitOf course he did. Youd need to be deliberately obtuse to not understand that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 02:47 PM |
| 3 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menNo. I’m not paying literally anything at all to access a wapo article about a study I think I’ve already found that doesn’t support your claims. What? God at least get a free chat gpt or Claude account if you’re going to rely on AI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitThis isn’t even what AWALT means as a red pill theory, at least as originally conceptualized. But alas ARPALT most of yall just parrot whatever dogma that espouses anger and bitterness towards women as a whole. Y’all don’t even read the original scripture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the bait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:23 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menThat is a wapo link behind a paywall I can’t access. But considering the article date is late 2019, I’m guessing it’s based on the 2019 Dutch study. Which again, did not study the genders of the rescued or the rescuers. Hence it does not provide support for your claim that men are constantly stepping in to rescue strange women which you ultimately alluded was 90% statistically. I’m just trying to determine the validity of your argument dude, I don’t really care if you happen to be correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:11 AM |
| -1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menGod knows I would lose horribly because I know there’s plenty of women who have been assaulted way worse than me. I’d definitely lose the “competition” you are thinking of many times over. Nevertheless I have my own experiences, and in my life it happened a lot more than that. It’s not ok regardless, as I thought I made clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:02 AM |
| 5 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitNo - that wasn’t your argument. Don’t pretend it was masquerading as the genders equally need each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitBoth genders need each other and it’s asinine to pretend men are so much more important to a functioning society than women, which is the only take away from comments like his. Not only is it not accurate and completely ignorant of reality, it is a blatant attempt to convince women that men are a) superior and b) we somehow owe them with some sort of unspoken rule we must be grateful to random men everywhere - most of whom have had nothing to do with modern life changing inventions or have done … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitThis is not well explained, written or elaborated on at all. WHAT are women complaining about that men are just freely handing over? WHAT circumstances is this phenomena occurring in relation to? WHAT is it that men are giving to these unidentified women where we have zero context whatsoever? WHAT exactly are women complaining about that apparently gets men to kowtow and “bend over backwards” I’d love to know so I could try that out. Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:37 AM |
| – | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menYeah you’re going to have to be more specific and provide some actual sources dude. 90% is a significant stat to just say yo take my word for it. And the one study I can find that has that stat did not break down either the intervenor/rescuer nor the victim by gender. Or what sort of type of intervention was taken and what was more effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:31 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menYou are right. Only opinion that realistically matters tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menIt’s far more common these days that where both parties are getting accused of DV and the cops are called that BOTH get arrested. Whether both get prosecuted is a different story, different entity vetting, different albeit often overlapping set of relevant evidence. I have zero idea how to respond to your argument about how it’s all for naught when cops are not involved. No one is getting arrested then? Unless perhaps someone makes a report to law enforcement after the fact and it gets investiga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:57 AM |
| – | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menIf you are speaking of the 2019 Dutch study in regards to your 90% statistic - it did not say all the interveners were men, it did not break that down by gender. There’s also conflicting data on public interventions at least in the us and it’s just not frankly a well studied phenomenon. Where are you getting your 90% stat though if not the Dutch study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menOmg. Like shit I’m so sorry that happened to you I guess I just grew up in a time when that seems low af. I don’t even think I could try and count the number of times some dude - stranger, acquaintance or alleged friend - slapped my ass. Well beyond 4 times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:36 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menShe literally said it was assault tho, but was trying to explain why it may be downplayed as such. Which doesn’t seem inaccurate to me? It doesn’t make it right morally or legally, but possibly is one explanation for why it’s not taken as seriously, generally speaking. I don’t understand the problem with pointing out a likely realistic view while also agreeing that it’s assault?? I also don’t understand with frankly anyone taking the view that it’s abnormal or not natural to see differences in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:33 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menI mean a light slap by a woman probably also doesn’t register on the spectrum of provocation versus legal assault to many people - men included. Hell I’ve seen women do that to flirt, rarely at least. That doesn’t mean it isn’t assault. If you’re going off the idea that cultural and social expectations are more relevant here - of course female “technical” violence against men will be downplayed and dismissed, especially if you’re looking to historical norms (as would real violence against women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menIntent versus damage are not mutually exclusive… if you shoot someone in the face but didn’t “intend” to shoot them there - the damage is still based on an intended act. Even if you didn’t intend to shoot them in their body at all but did - in the face - if you were negligent and should face serious consequences. Similarly, if you’re a man punching a woman in the face and causing severe damage you can presume the damage incurred is more intentional than some twig of a women who slaps a man once.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:55 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menIt’s still also technically assault if it’s intentional - similar to a light or normal slap albeit probably more vague - but I think that’s his point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:46 AM |
| 12 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menThat’s her point - it’s a cultural and gender bias. It’s a statistical and biological fact that men in general just with the bodies they are born with can inflict more physical harm - particularly against smaller people be it smaller men, women or children. It’s also a statistical fact that men are more physically violent. That doesn’t mean violence inflicted on men by women is trivial or incapable of serious damage or even death, and should be taken less seriously. It’s a stereotype and probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:43 AM |
| 3 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menIt’s much more common these days that both parties get charged and/or that a woman accused of being the aggressor gets charged. The days where it’s automatically assumed it’s on the man and he default get arrested are probably not completely gone, but it’s not the norm anymore. The bias is not 100% gone and maybe it never will be. But it’s been heavily chipped away at least if you’re looking at more modern trends in arrests and investigations and taking things more seriously. So, progress? Which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:29 AM |
| 2 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menYeah true, but the fact you’re referencing a video where she did get arrested shows progress. These days, it’s much more common for both parties to get arrested for alleged reciprocal DV or where it’s just unknown, or for women to get charged and arrested when she’s alleged to be the aggressor. This system isn’t perfect, and it’s never been, but it’s progress where men aren’t just default assumed to be the violent party and women are subject to criminal charges too in this respect. Side note and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:41 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Unfortunate ugly women by and large also don’t want nor find it some blessing to be able to have random casual sex with strangers. The fact you cannot even fathom that this is not some magical gift that women should feel grateful and humble to have speaks volumes to your solipsism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:40 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Digging your heels in doesn’t make it true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:26 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?And my point is that men don’t understand that it’s not a privilege to women just because you might find it to be one as a man, men don’t get to dictate that for women, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:59 AM |
| 8 | Whereas male attraction is largely amoral, women’s attraction seems actively immoral and sex itself is therefore bad for either genderAre you kidding? Confidence is not a “scare resource” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:42 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Just because a man considers it to be so doesn’t mean it is either. It’s almost like that’s the whole point of the comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:22 AM |
| 19 | Whereas male attraction is largely amoral, women’s attraction seems actively immoral and sex itself is therefore bad for either genderYou can’t just declare confidence and having a dominant personality is evil and build your whole claim on such a flawed obviously questionable premise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:14 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?This is irrelevant in this context - op is asking about something that men don’t understand that could potentially make dating better if they did. This is one of those things - men do not understand why casual sex is not the prize to women. YOU don’t get to say well too bad men’s perspective here is all that matters. Let alone continue with some argument that only that perspective is valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:10 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Fair - but when it’s based upon not having multiple random strange women not immediately jumping upon your dick the instant they first meet you - your perspective is off. Like way off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 12:21 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?I mean the older you get as a man the more likely you will ALSO come with serious baggage and the other issues you are also identifying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 12:18 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Most women simply do not want let alone covet or prioritize cheap meaningless casual sex from strangers or relative ones. Whereas some men - many who are vocal here - seem to believe that’s the end all be all literally if that’s not easily accessible to them no woman can ever be attracted to them period. You’re right that there will not be a mutual meeting of the minds here in this respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 12:16 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?We wouldn’t even know if you aren’t advertising that. This stems from sort of the same kindof idea - women are not running around thinking about men’s sex lives. That’s far more of a man thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 12:05 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?The ability to get casual sex is not a huge prize to women and you’re not going to convince women you’re so oppressed and they are so privileged and entitled because they can generally get dick with little effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.No, I have quite literally tried to explain to you that legally, no, that does not mean "only 6 states do fathers have the same legal access to their own children as mothers do." If you do not understand what gender neutral laws mean, I suggest you read some. Re: discrimination. Way to apple and oranges shit. You are not being illegally discriminated against because there are custody laws that give more residential time to the primary caretaker given a) this is gender neutral - precedence expres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:01 AM |
| 1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.No? This was never some sort of primary objective or motive here. It was a reaction and backlash to the historical FACT that law enforcement very commonly treated sexual assault reports with immediate, unwarranted suspicion and incredulity of the victim, rather than actually taking it seriously and investigating. Your use of 'many women' is telling - who are these 'many women' and how 'many' are we talking? You can't say well I saw 3 women online saying it LITERALLY means we should just convict … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 05:08 AM |
| 3 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.It was a reaction to the very real phenomenom of the victims of sexual assault not being taken seriously. Like come on - yes it very much was a much more common "norm" for these claims to be not taken serious or brushed under the rug. "Boys will be boys" "what was she wearing" "she asked for it" "she was a slut" etc. Like you cannot pretend you haven't heard of these phrases either which demonstrate the very common views and/or rhetoric surrounding sexual assault and how it's historically been v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Yeah it's not just because women "date up or at a similar level" my dude. I mean think about what modern alimony laws actually aim to do. A little more critically for a minute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Yo I am not the reason "why this topic is not being researched" nor am I "hell bent" on mischaracterizing anything - holy hyperbole dude. You are not being unfairly criticized because I said, think, and STILL DO think, that you are diminishing men's voluntarily chosen role in not seeking more custody of their children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:24 AM |
| 9 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Your overarching message has merit here, but you are doing yourself a disservice with your lack of objectivity. First of all - every state has a presumption of legal joint custody - that just doesn't always mean 50/50 residential custody. It's now up to 5 states, however, that DO presume 50/50 physical custody, with another 20ish in the works legislatively. Secondly, your sentence "men do not have the same right to have access to their kids as mothers do" is not accurate. Men have the same right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Y’all I don’t even disagree that there’s still family court bias against dads especially with respect to custody battles and especially in red conservative states. While I may not always agree with the crazy claims made by men here about it or the extent they claim exists - I have seen it I have litigated against it, first hand. That being said, please stop using lawyer blog posts that don’t even source their claims where they are clearly trying to get your business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.I mean you appear to be just hand waving it away - I don’t even disagree that there are other factors, as I expressly said, I just don’t think it’s honest to ignore that one, whcih IME is a rather big one. If I’m wrong and you ARE presuming that is a decent sized reason why men have less custody feel free to clarify that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.But there are not laws or regulations that FORCE men into dangerous jobs and specifically keep women out. I don't understand what "legal protections" you claim in your OP somehow "shield" women from these jobs. I also don't understand where you're claiming in the same way we need to advocate for "shared risk", which I assume means you want to advocate that more women take the dangerous jobs and less men. How does that make any sense at all? The answer there is better safety standards and more co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Yo this is not how it works. Every states has temporary orders in place specifically to address what happens during divorce proceedings. This includes temporary custody orders. While it is 100% TRUE that judges (and state law) favors not disrupting the status quo for children, particularly young children, this is exactly WHY lawyers will advise both men and women contemplating or seeking a divorce to understand their decisions - like who moves out and who the kids primarily reside with - could i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:24 AM |
| 9 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Family courts follow state legislation that lays out the criteria for who qualifies as the "caregiver" -- this isn't something that judges just willy nilly declare without any legal justification or backing. See, for example, W.V. Code §48-1-210. (Note that WV has since enacted legislatively a presumption of 50/50 residential custodianship, as have many other states). Additionally - you know who the most biased judges tend to be towards fathers and in favor of mothers in family courts? Old white… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:09 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?One piece of contention - I hate when antidepressant rates are used as some definitive proof of women being unhappy - while I’m sure usage for depression has risen, along with mental health awareness, diagnosis and treatment itself, antidepressants are prescribed off label for a variety of different issues that have nothing to do with “women being sad”. Y’all never actually examine the data points you believe are somehow hook line and sinker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:49 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menYo did you read this post? Im fucking with him. Obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:04 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menGreat, still, most men are still fat, not rich and have poor bone structure so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:39 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menMost men are fat, not rich, and have poor bone structure too my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:25 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menYessss tall over all the things only 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:20 AM |
| – | Womens' actions have repeatedly revealed their claim of living in constant fear of danger at the hands of men is likely just another smokescreen and deception/manipulation tacticNo young high school girl in your middle class upbringing is intentionally trying to date felons or “older guys in the drug trade”, let alone a slew of girls enough to create some pattern. You are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?No? Everyone is fucked up - there’s no human biologic “pair bond” mechanism that specifically and scientifically gets fucked around with, with any of this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 04:24 AM |
| 7 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?No y’all are crazy. The fuck science exists to say men masturbating means they can’t “pair bond” There’s not scientific data on this at all. We aren’t prairie voles. Men being fucked up or having fucked up expectations, sure, I assume that could happen. Men “not being able to pair bond” no - what the hell does that even mean. Men needing to get over some porn addiction doesn’t mean they are ruined for life. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Why are you automatically discounting it? What is so brilliant about the Kornich study? Why are you using that as the benchmark? If your answer is: because them Kornich study is fully publically published and I can read the methodology, that's a far cry from: this is the best study out there. So what is it? If that's the ONLY reason, just tell me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Nope, I'd still like to know, BEFORE I post it, what your assumptions are and why you ASSUME the study based on outdated NSFH data 20+ years ago is automatically superior. Please just answer the question. If you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Why are you assuming the methodology is so superior you can just ignore the data from a much more recent study? I went ahead and downloaded it - so happy to copy it if need be, but interested in knowing why you just assume things that don’t jive with what you want are automatically wrong, even when you’re relying on 20+ year old data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.If you think men work and earn money strictly for meeting and retaining a female partner you’re either extremely young, naive or just some sort of shut in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.There’s no free full source that I can find - if you have a pubmed subscription go for it, send me whatever you find. What data are you relying on for your proof that men who do chores have the least amount of sex and why do you assume that survey data is somehow better than the more recent data we have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.It’s all survey data - including whatever outdated data you may be relying on (if you are relying on data at all). You’re providing a cop out response when faced with someone more recent that contradicts whatever it is you’re basing your beliefs on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:06 AM |
| 7 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Sharing domestic work does not make women lose attraction. Modern women leave men for not pulling their weight domestically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:04 AM |
| 9 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Most woman are doing that anyway?? You’re still not explaining how it’s harmful for a man to do both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.No they don’t. Unless you’re basing your claim on outdated data. Egalitarian relationships have greater sex now. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jomf.12313 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Ok but that doesn’t explain why you can’t both provide financially and domestically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.This isn’t indicative of reality. I say this as a woman who “provides”. In modern times most couples can’t do the whole SAHP thing, so the expectation is that both share the load - domestically and financially. This is more than reasonable yet most of the arguments on here are premised on some opposite set up where it’s normal one person is a sole provider and the other just stays at home - this isn’t normal. In the rarer situations where there is a SAHP and a sole provider. It’s also not unreas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:22 AM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingNo they don’t. How many men have you dated in more modern times who have remotely told you they wish they could pay for everything while you stay home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 03:10 AM |
| – | We should start telling people when they are younger you aren't guaranteed a relationshipMost people aren’t seriously dating let alone having sex before high school wth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:15 AM |
| – | We should start telling people when they are younger you aren't guaranteed a relationship7th/8th grade what?? That’s early as shit, wayyy too early to believe oh if you’re not getting romantic attention just fuck it completely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:11 AM |
| -1 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewardsIt is though nobody is rallying behind oh jealousy being toxic is such an issue we need to eradicate for men anywhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?Yuck. Not attractive to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:54 AM |
| -1 | Men have been gaslit into believing all jealousy is toxic, and women are reaping the rewardsNobody who matters is paying attention to these kinds of esoteric complaints made by men here on this sub…. Y’all aren’t gonna have any influence whatsoever on this topic by complaining about it here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, be honest, have you ever tolerated a man's obvious red flags jus because he was handsome?No but I’ve also never dated like super handsome men in the conventional sense of what you are imagining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.I mean I was a young 20s girl over a decade ago and not finding men that much older attractive at all definitely was a thing. Having experienced it myself, I think it’s just those guys don’t do much attraction wise when you’re that young as a woman. I certainly wasn’t thinking about marriage at that age - just guys I liked who I thought were cute and thought we could have a fun time with getting to know each other for possibly something long term. At that age it’s pretty much only your peers may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 11:16 PM |
| 13 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.It’s more so that young 20s girls aren’t attracted to men that are like 7+ years older than them. Like they even LOOK old by and large to that demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themDo you think those rare types of people don’t already get publically shamed?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:06 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to them*jury. Jury would convict or hold liable - assuming defense didn’t opt for a bench trial. Civil burden of proof is called a “preponderance of the evidence” and 50.1 gets you over that threshold. But yes - cases that don’t meet the high standard for beyond a reasonable doubt (I’d say much higher than 95%) should not meet the level to convict (same standard applicable for sexual assault too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:14 AM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themDefamation isn’t typically a crime - it’s a civil cause of action - so you could hit someone with a verdict possibly even a large judgment but unless they have the assets (current or future) to pay it’s kinda a lost cause. Reputational damage otherwise isn’t a crime that I can think of unless maybe you have some sort of fraud claim (which criminal fraud is also not the same as civil fraud) so it’s not gonna come with the same penalties. That being said, falsely reporting an incident (like a crim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Most people don’t have remotely that level of insight before approaching someone they’ve never even met before…. If you were at least speaking about relative acquaintances that would make a bit more sense because at least those folks have met and seen each other interact with others etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedYeah the data is abundantly clear that women fair worse financially then men post divorce. But let’s just assume - for “reasons” that divorced women are statistically happier than divorced men (by a large margin) because of some alleged financial windfall we both know they don’t get. Let’s pretend that men being married or not alone has no bearing on men’s happiness or vice versa…. …that truly only makes sense if you are determined to see things through a biased lens based on preconceived notion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedThe OP is based on Griddy’s comment in another thread where she lays out the data I think. Nevertheless, your suggestion that alimony is some big factor at play doesn’t really make sense where the vast majority of divorces don’t involve alimony at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedIt seems deliberately misguided to hand wave away marriage itself as a factor in men’s happiness where married men are at the tippy top of the happiness scale and divorced men are at the very bottom if you’re comparing to single/widowed/married/divorced men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedOk but the fact the data says divorced men are at the end of the happiness scale kinda negates whatever leg up they may have had to begin with - those men were married once too. They also have the upbringing and qualities you’re alleging are what make them happy instead of marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:24 PM |
| 7 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?You are the one arguing that women getting jobs like that are doing it to compete with men then throwing around words like indoctrination. Come on man. Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendI mean yeah same with being able to find a BF as woman. That being said celebrity examples are never great to extrapolate to the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 8 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?lol y’all are the ones worrying about another gender “competing”. Women aren’t by and large getting higher paying more prestigious jobs to “compete with men” they are trying to make bank and earn a living. Hardly something to snub your nose about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?Fucking reality dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:41 AM |
| 6 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?Being a teacher doesn’t mitigate financial risk - teachers make shit pay what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:40 AM |
| -1 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneYeah cuz uglies never get relationships at all let alone with fellow uglies /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:20 AM |
| 9 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.No you aren’t. You’re making all sorts of assumptions about this persons mother actually being the problem - “good thing she’s not burdening someone else”, “punching well above her weight class”, “looking down” on him, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.Wow for someone who is all up in arms all over this thread with people who are making personal assumptions about you, you sure don’t have any issue whatsoever making all kinds of personal assumptions about this commenter’s mom…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:08 PM |
| 10 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeI find that really hard to believe do you have a link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 04:10 AM |
| 2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThis is like what red pill is on paper - it sounds good I suppose but end of the day it’s just a bunch of mouth words. Real life doesn’t work like this, real attraction doesn’t work like this. Most women are not engaging in the behaviors the red pill loves to ascribe to them - those are caricatures you’re talking about, not real people. If you have to be all clinical about because um red pillers love to assume their dogma is based in “science” at least look up assortive mating and read a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 8 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeBeautifully put So many people here just read like soooo young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Come on man. It’s not a difficult concept at all. You can be used or taken advantage of with respect to all sorts of things including sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Of course you can get used for sex. 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.No, it looks like most men are partnered. Again, regular every day men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.More recent. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/01/08/share-of-us-adults-living-without-a-romantic-partner-has-ticked-down-in-recent-years/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.They aren’t. There’s some outdated data from like Covid but most men are partnered or married. Regular men Repeat the majority of men - regular men are partnered or married. In fact rates are up (slightly but still) from pre Covid. For partnerships for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Nah - this idea that great kind attractive boyfriends who want to commit don’t exist or are “extremely rare” is a myth. Y’all are so hard on regular men these are regular men out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.You can’t compare getting used for sex versus used for a free foodie date because obviously getting used to sex is worse….. Clearly that’s what you meant to say. Like how could you actually say some cash wasted is worse than that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:35 AM |
| 5 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Please link your source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Few women want that sort of set up intentionally. Why do that when we can get what we want in the same man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:58 AM |
| 4 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerAmbitious, hard working, more neurotic. Versus type b which is chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:37 AM |
| 6 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerWhat does that even mean? Only conservatives are real men or some dumb similar shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.Why aren’t men spending more time raising children then? If you think women are doing it wrong or whatever - why aren’t you here pushing men to be better more involved fathers?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itPeople using sperm donations are going to be more well off - it’s the class/wealth disparity issue that drives the negatives associated with single parenthood outcomes - not the fact it’s a single parent alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?IME it’s moreso dudes who have visceral reactions and are certainly more likely to make comments when this kind of thing happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem.There is Supreme Court precedent directly holding that there is a right to use contraceptives. It’s not about the government “providing access” - access exists so long as there’s supply and demand and someone willing to sell it. But the government cannot ban contraceptives under scotus precedent assuming post Dobbs it survives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 01:05 AM |
| 12 | Most women are too timid to find the right guy they'd actually love and respectYou can’t expect anyone - man or woman - to just hang around workplaces where random single potential partners might be. That’s incredibly bizarre. Let alone people working trades or at schools like wth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:36 PM |
| 8 | Male lonliness is self inflictedWhat an ignorant thing to say - that women “don’t ever” experience loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.Most men don’t abandon their children though. So by your logic using present versus absent fatherhood alone as the metric, women aren’t prioritizing “the superficial” in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.Precisely. The whole dads only truly need to start active involvement being 13+ is absolutely bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Men contribute very little to their kids life besides the economic contributions.That’s a shit ton of time (in fact like the most demanding part of the whole timeline) of parenting you’re just dismissing….. Fathers can and should be just as actively involved in the lives of their babies, toddlers, young kids and preteens as you’re suggesting they be in the lives of teenagers and beyond. Fathers can and should share the load in near equal responsibility and effort as mothers throughout the life of their children. (Exceptions of course where father is sole provider and has a S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 07:31 PM |
| 5 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Yeah same thing is available to attractive women, probably moreso than attractive men, but it’s still unhealthy for the same reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 10:01 PM |
| 11 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Nobody should be anybody’s “maid” or having to constantly cater/grovel to their partner at their own expense. That’s incredibly unhealthy and not gonna end up satisfying to probably either party. Trust me that shit will get old. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, effort and reciprocity not this bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsYou are making some inaccurate assumptions here. Of course we are doing lots of activities with the kids that don’t involve sitting around the house. But it’s mainly on weekends. By the time work is done and kids are home it’s 5 pm. We eat at 6, then kids usually go outside with dad for a bit in the yard then bathtime/30 min of screen time then bedtime. Lights out 8:30. Weekends are a different story where there’s more time for lengthy activities and excursions outside of our neighborhood. Which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsMy kids are 6 and 3. They aren’t running around without a parent. We both work full time. I don’t know where you have all this free “me” time but I certainly don’t. Maybe I will when my kids are teens but I mean that’s a long ways away. Until then, yeah there’s plenty to be done on a daily basis that doesn’t mean one is “obsessed” with doing chores unnecessarily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsNo it isn’t. It’s true if you’re an adult with a household to run. I too cook with a sou vide sometimes - or I’ll braise - both methods that take a while but are easy to prep and just walk away from as they cook. That doesn’t mean I’m just like wow multiple hours of free/me time. We hire a house cleaner to do the main cleaning, and we hire a lawn person. Clearly we aren’t “obsessed” with chores. There’s still plenty of daily shit to be done. You probably don’t have children. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 12:30 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsAh. Gotcha. It’s pretty uncommon here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 12:47 PM |
| 5 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsThat’s not the point at all - follow the logic. More efficiency = higher expectations for more being done. That’s it. You can do laundry in a washer/dryer rather than hand washing everything and hanging it out on a line? Great, now you have time for xyz. You got so hung up on analogizing it to an employment situation you’re failing to follow the logic. Instead you’re derailing to some weird fact pattern that definitely doesn’t apply to most women (let alone me) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:14 AM |
| 13 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsWho in their 30s isn’t working full time? Where are all these 30 something part time workers being provided for by hubby? I certainly didn’t know many, and still don’t know many now as I’m approaching 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:05 AM |
| 9 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsThis is silly. More efficient tech just means more work and productivity expected. The expectations for “running a household” aren’t equivalent for what they were when the caretaker had no tech to efficiently do things - they are much higher now. Not to mention higher parenting standards. It’s the same with work - say you find some great super efficient thing that lessens your workload dramatically - do you think people are like great take a load off enjoy that free time? No. They just pile on m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:04 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationships“Society” doesn’t expect that anymore. Certain people do, sure, but I mean you can break that down in terms of conservatism versus progressives, religious versus non religious, trad versus non trad, mostly. Most modern progressive thinking people aren’t believing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Most men have more to loose from socialismI regret a lot of things, but not in particular talking to you. I’m not such a poor sport about it, nor does it bother me that much when you’re being obnoxious. But do you dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Most men have more to loose from socialismIs it stealing or not? Like the fuck? It’s not a particularly hard question to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Most men have more to loose from socialismOk but you didn’t answer my question - is it stealing when corporations do it or just poor people? Because it’s also not capitalist to rig the system in favor of the elites and to constantly find ways to keep corporations afloat even when they are in trouble if we are boiling this down to “stealing”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Most men have more to loose from socialismIn America they do - constantly. But few who are adamantly against so called socialism even recognize it as the same damn thing. So it’s frustrating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Most men have more to loose from socialismHow do you feel about all the breaks and bailouts that like corporations get? Obv I can’t speak for other countries but here in America that shit is rampant - in so so many various forms. From literal bailouts to tax loopholes to bullshit bankruptcies so big corporations don’t have to pay people they’ve intentionally or negligently harmed. Is that also stealing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.What would those degrees be IYO? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sThe majority of men do not need to do super dangerous things - period - even if it’s not white collar. Every woman - white collar or below - still faces dangers and health concerns with pregnancy and child birth. It’s not a 1 to 1 comparison like you’re trying to make it out to be. Men’s health issues regarding jobs is a definite thing - which I’m all down for addressing, I’m a god damned personal injury attorney. Y’all’s issue in many states is due to stupid tort deform wrt workers comp. But I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sI’m on salary. I work many weeks over 40 hours and still get paid the same. That’s how salary works…. Nevertheless most full time people work 40 hours a week so you’re a little off base here. Not really the point here tho. Even when I’m working fucking 80+ hours I’m not gonna be like oh I expect my also full time working partner to do everything. Like what a dick move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sBut you’re doing sex based comparisons right now. In that very comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sIt is not “quintessential” to being male, let alone being a male with a family, nor is it as expected as a man as having children as a woman (which is also dangerous). You can choose to do many many other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sMeanwhile there are plenty of us workhouse mothers. Like keep up? This is the new norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:33 AM |
| -29 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’slol Ok. Most households aren’t like this a). B) the fuck are you making that you deserve all this without any reciprocity when it comes to domestic work? 40 hours a week? Get over yourself. Taking care of the kids and the house is 24/7. Your 100k paycheck for 40 hours a week is fucking peanuts so stop. Y’all need to premise this shit with real numbers and real hours before you start pretending “oh wifey at home does nothing taking care of our 2.5 kids and all the chores meanwhile I work 40 hours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Why do women do this?No this isn’t court - again. Nobody is applying the standards you apparently assume need to exist. They don’t exist here. You can either except that or keep fighting over something stupid as shit. People make judgments all the time that aren’t subject to some legal standard of proof. Clearly - you have too - so insisting that someone needs to default “men good woman bad” isn’t a great mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Why do women do this?This isn’t court - there’s no standard of proof here it’s gonna be based on feelings to some extent - same with men who believe they’ve been led on or used. I’m not assuming anything by default. But I’m not naive enough to believe this phenomena of men leading women on to get laid just barely ever happens. Of course it does. Probably more than just men “changing their minds.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:31 PM |
| 10 | Why do women do this?Yeah I’m not talking about that. Just like I’m not talking about women going on a date and not feeling it and it ultimately going nowhere. Men leading women on to get laid is a real thing - and is often intentional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 12:39 PM |
| 11 | Why do women do this?I didn’t miss it. I just don’t see men on here claiming men who are alleged victims of foodie calls should know better, etc, the way I see comments like yours claiming women should know better about being used for sex. And it’s hypocritical. My whole point is, again, leading people (men or women) on is wrong. For whatever gain you’re looking for. If you can agree with that right on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:43 AM |
| 13 | Why do women do this?Y’all literally talk about how foodie dates are so wrong and fraudulent and deceitful but here you are defending men leading women on to get sex with the same logic? Leading someone on is wrong. Period. Regardless of whether it’s sex or a free fancy meal or whatever. It’s wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 02:46 AM |
| 3 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessYou were tho. You’re taking about legal rights and responsibilities so ya know, maybe understand the laws you’re speaking to? I understand you thought it was something other than what it actually is. And I don’t blame you whatsoever. Everyone does that. Not something to feel bad about. But I’m telling you it’s more complicated than that and it’s not just “who gets to decide to be a parent”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themYou made no point other than “you’re wrong”. Either answer my question or don’t. Explain your commentary or don’t. I don’t really give a fuck either way dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do I rarely find men to desire to be stay at home fathers for the purpose of raising their children?No? What? A sahd is married not divorced most often. There’s not custody order. What?9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesNobody wants that sort of control. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:48 AM |
| 3 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessOf course it does - I’m not blind to the realistic effects of abortion outside of the legal justification. But you argued what the “principle” was and that’s not it. Even if we take that principle as being tantamount you cannot fairly say a man and a woman bear the same burden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:44 AM |
| 11 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesBasically forcing women to have children - regardless of whether some man is required to support her and said children- is NOT helping women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themOk so ugly or unattractive men are just as likely to be shitheads yes or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:27 AM |
| 6 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessSafe haven is a talking point men use for this type of argument but they ignore the actual law and the actual reality which is that it’s very infrequently used in the us. Nevertheless if you are going to bring it up then I am going to bring up the fact that in most states, it’s rarely used and also gender neutral. So fight that or don’t - up to you. I don’t give a shit what “paralegal” course work you’ve done. Read. The. Cases. Roe, Casey, Dobbs. If you wanna start somewhere. Given your extensiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:26 AM |
| 8 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessThen con law giving women the right to abortion wasn’t premised on “the fundamental life choice of deciding whether or not to become a parent”. That’s not the basis of the right (which is now overturned) to begin with. Also men have safe haven rights too?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themI mean you can narrow your commentary down to meaningless but you said what you said. That’s how it reads 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 10 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessBodily autonomy. Read the opinion. And Casey too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 3 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessYour bodily autonomy is being affected if your BODY is being infringed upon or regulated - not just your paycheck. Nobody is saying, for example, you can’t get a vasectomy or use birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:09 AM |
| 3 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessNo. Men do not have any “bodily autonomy” rights wrt abortion because duh it’s not their bodies. As for “in the eyes of the law” - that was about bodily autonomy and “marital privacy” - so yeah women. The folks who get pregnant. Yall need to read the actual opinions here. Roe, Casey, Dobbs. Starter pack please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:07 AM |
| 12 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessNo. That’s not what abortion rights were grounded in. Roe was not about hey let’s give women an out to be mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:03 AM |
| 6 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessMake it something that men have to obtain before sex. Get agreement (in writing) from her before sex (and burden is on the man to get the agreement). Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:00 AM |
| 6 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessWell that’s not true at all. Impoverished single dads have the same options for welfare that impoverished single moms have - there are just far less of them. It’s not gender specific but it IS kid dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:55 AM |
| 4 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessBecause that’s insane?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:53 AM |
| 7 | The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not lessYou are comparing two different things. Roe v wade was not about avoiding paying for children. The holding was not related to the financial cost of having to support a child. So these things are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:51 AM |
| 4 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themUgly/unattractive men are not exempt from being assholes. Your commentary here seems to imply only attractive guys are jerks while the lesser attractive men are more the good guys. If that’s what you believe, it’s not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’No of course that’s not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellOh Christ kill me another child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellSo low level nurse nobody should get alimony after two years because anyone can become a low level nurse within two years? Is that what you are arguing? How much does a 2 year no bachelors nurse even get paid on average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellNo that is false but I would need a venue to specifically see if it’s publicly available to non VA attorneys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellWhat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellIf you’ve already had a 4 year bachelors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellMaybe but do you think that’s a legit comment? Like all people seeking alimony just nursing degree that shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellI’ll have better luck than you probably but I need at least a name and city and state. Which again you could pm me I’m not gonna post your buddy’s info in main subreddit but frankly there’s no way I believe your synopsis. There’s either more too it he didn’t tell you/you are leaving out, or he’s lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellThat insane. First of all I think nursing school requires a 4 year degree first you can’t just say it’s 2 years total and call it a day - there is now bachelors required? There’s no residency type period? Second you can’t just uniformity base ALL alimony in what it could possibly take to undergo some sort of low level nursing degree like what??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellOk. Crazy busy. But making bank. How are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellNone of that has to do with whether you are using ipso facto or axiomatically incorrectly. Of course I impute my opinion. On many occasions. But not when I’m using terms that mean different things? The terms you are using are like similar to if 1+1=2 than 2+0=2, not “alimony is immoral”. That’s inherently not an objective logical conclusion it’s your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellThen send me the case number/name/and jurisdiction. I don’t care what you think you’ve seen plus what your buddy told you. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellI don’t care. Case number and jurisdiction or he’s lying. You’re the one who suggested you were right because you saw a court order. Ok? Prove it. They are public mostly. Can’t imagine why an alimony order would be sealed in whatever jx yall are in so? Prove it. Send it to me privately idc. Otherwise to me, a practitioner, he’s a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellYes you are. Same as when you used axiomatically. That’s not the right use of those words. You’re trying to impute opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellYeah ok send me the case number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellMany verbal contracts ARE enforceable. Statute of frauds doesn’t apply to everything. No. Marriage is not a contact PERIOD. Anymore than youd say employment law is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellYeah he’s lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellWhy are you using ipso facto wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellNo. You can’t just be like oh vows are also a contract when you’re speaking about a specific legal term. No. Vows are not a contract. You can’t just mix the two. Vows are a promise with no legal validity or enforcement mechanism whatsoever (outside of maybe those rare occasions that account for annulments I guess) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellWhich most women do? And those who don’t are usually doing so with agreement from the husband and/or wife? So what’s the fucking problem here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellDivorce law is legislative. So state by state (although most follow some version of the uniform recommendations). Family law isn’t based off contract law, it’s based in equity. The state legislators you vote for decide how divorce works in terms of things like child support, alimony factors, equitable versus community property states. Judges look to whatever factors the legislation provides when they have discretion and then base it on equity. It’s completely different than contract law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellNo it’s not. It’s a status recognized by the government that conveys rights and obligations. You can analogize it to employment law better than contract law. If you want contract law in marriage - get a prenup. Bo that’s what generally applies (less legislation specific to prenups). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellNo they wouldn’t. Marriage laws are not contract law. PRENUPS are. But not standard marriage laws. Contract law does not penalize breach when it’s in the best interest of the breacher. They are not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellFlorida only had that for so long because so many older folks retire there. Lifelong alimony makes complete sense for old folks divorcing where wife cannot work or has very few working years left and hubby has his pension whathaveyou even in his twilight years. Lifelong alimony was already rarely granted in modern times except for old or disabled women. None of the people who complain about lifelong alimony really understand this. (I know you already know this) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Y’all don’t date men. The amount of men who throw a fit if you try and pay… And then turn around and make it like you owe them something like they know what they are doing and it’s gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 11:37 PM |
| – | Would you get pregnant to save humanity from low birthrates?Nobody gets pregnant to “save humanity from low birth rates” that’s not even like a fair question (yes I know red pillers still pose it but the whole concept is just asinine) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you women ever confuse an attractive guy that is just being nice to you as him flirting with you? Then it turns out not to be the case and he was just genuinely being nice and polite with no romantic intentions?Almost all men (except close friends and like co workers/bosses) flirt with me and most mean nothing actually serious. Like I’ve just learned to live with it, it’s how most of my male peers operate in front of pretty women. No big deal at all they are perfectly decent men for the most part just having a little fun. Genuinely nice and polite and actually not intending anything. *I am not talking about like random men on the street/waiters/service workers and the like, but like men who socialize w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 09:51 PM |
| 16 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreGirl this is not the one…. She’s not even speaking about like being harassed it’s just..you shouldn’t be able to look at women for “free” because it’s hot out and they might be dressed for hot weather. Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:51 AM |
| 3 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.Mr I allegedly have figured out how not to pay taxes - if true you are getting your own form of welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:44 AM |
| 3 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.There’s no way you’re just avoiding paying taxes altogether unless you’re completely under the table. In which case you’re probably making a shit income as it is so who cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:39 AM |
| 2 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.You’re not going to starve in jail because our tax dollars pay for that. That’s not a “blue pill thing” republicans aren’t all like hey let’s throw people in jail and then not feed them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:35 AM |
| 3 | If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds.How are you avoiding child support exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Is sex a need? Depends on how you define needThe premise is on whether it’s a “need” and OP keeps going off of what will expand your lifespan. Whether it’s some sort of “biological imperative” is irrelevant. Your apparent evo psych lecture notwithstanding. Nobody cares. You’re not following the prompt so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingSo you’ve dated a lot of men then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:48 AM |
| – | According to statistics, men are more prone to schizophrenia, especially during their teenage years to mid 20s. How would this affect the dating market, in your opinion?I can’t imagine it would affect the whole market very much. It’s a tiny percentage of people either men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Is sex a need? Depends on how you define needSo? That’s not the premise of this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Is sex a need? Depends on how you define needBecause you’re comparing it to having homes and health insurance. If you weren’t hellbent on doing that, youd probably have less people jumping on the whole well don’t expect this to be provided to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingNobody cares about you salivating over a celebrity sports star’s wife. Gross and not making your point whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingNo they aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingBecause you’re bitching about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingNo, that’s red pill dogma. It’s wrong. Like meet actual people. Chronically online red pill men who buy into the religion are just sad. So maybe don’t do that. High value women with high value men are not wilting flowers bending the knee left and right to their main. That’s not how that works. They aren’t per se stay at home moms and the men aren’t per se sole bread winners. This is 2025. Not 1950, grandpa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingCan you answer anything or respond to anything stated in the first comment I made? Otherwise stfu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingWho cares what you think? You have no idea whatsoever about what high value men or high value women might be. You have not answered my question to begin with so don’t act all high and mighty that I’m not answering yours. You reap what you sow, dear. Go home grandpa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingObviously no one you’ve encountered. Why on earth do you expect a high value women to be running around making sure the man is like fully taken care of like a child? High value in demand women don’t need to do that, and aren’t doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingSo you’re dead too? As well as a worthless man who can’t cook? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingI mean if you can’t even cook you’re kindof worthless as a man these days like learn some shit. Cooking is fun as shit. Grow up, dude. It’s frankly pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingSo you’ve been programmed to be a worthless dick? In other words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingA man not also pulling his weight to show he’s a good husband especially if he isn’t showing 50/50 isn’t worth a damn. I don’t care that you asked her out and paid for the first few dates that’s so trivial long term. Why would a high value woman ever commit to a man who is just expecting all the work without any reciprocity? What a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingYou’ve definitely never dated a man to think it’s that’s fucking easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingSo are you the cook in your household? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingWhy would a woman with options need to do that tho? Like why is it this constant power pull can’t they both put the effort in? Can’t he also show that he’s also trying his best to earn her commitment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingYeah? What’s wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingOf course they are. still. Don’t be so naive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingThen you fucking cook. Christ. Who cares why she doesn’t like doing it. You DO IT then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:28 AM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeWho says an assertive man is threatening? There’s no way you believe being assertive is judged more harshly in men versus women. Like that’s delusional even in 2025z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Having kids has no benefits to womenI don’t know who all agrees that pregnancy is such a “beautiful experience.” Pregnancy is the fucking worst. So is childbirth. It sucks. It’s just worth it for the outcome. Romanticizing it, however, at least in my experience, is probably a lot easier for a man to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.No he’s saying women exaggerate then somehow backing that up with a claim that men have it just as bad. Like yo, there’s no logic there. Women aren’t exaggerating anything just because you think men are subject to a similar threat. Obvious is obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 9 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.OP is making a fuss about it for men….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:42 AM |
| 9 | Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety.No one is saying men can’t feel unsafe walking home at night or in shady areas too. Your whole premise that women “exaggerate safety concerns” is belied by the text of your post which has nothing to do with women “exaggerating” and everything to do with “but men too”. You’re literally not even arguing women exaggerate…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.Yeah because it’s not something you can clearly define with “step by step examples” like that may be hard to swallow but it the truth. Confidence isn’t a science. It’s not describable the way you seem to require. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist or isn’t attractive. It’s kindof beautiful that way. Like I’ve also had men say being “intriguing” is attractive in women. Also vague, also not something you can write a script for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.I mean if you want to ignore female attraction go ahead??? Pretend it’s 100% looks like what do I care. Have fun believing that fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:24 AM |
| 2 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.The only way to describe it is to act more confident. I cannot give you a “step by step example” that’s now how being confident works, sorry. There are dudes you wouldn’t have even noticed but for their confidence and charisma but like there’s not a “step by step” guide for becoming one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:18 AM |
| 2 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.No, I am not automatically attracted to a man “2 points above me” whatever that means #1. Personality and behavior is relevant to (my) attraction to men 100% of the time. I have only ever dated guys that people have told me are “below me” at least physically. (Not that I think that’s the case). But no I cannot give some sort of step by step guide to what confidence looks like or how it translates to being attractive, I doubt anyone could truly do that honestly. I also never said anything is 100%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.Confidence probably isn’t going to help like the completely not going to ever happen guy who unfortunately looks like a toad, but it’s absolutely attractive for the maybe just never really thought about it guy who is just not really on the radar. Women’s attraction is kind of fickle, but at least for me confidence is super attractive (and not just for already super hot guys but not for already completely ugly men). Like most men are not either super physically beautiful or super physically ugly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:54 AM |
| 3 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.You can also ask women - many of which have tried to do a polite rejection only to be met with aggression, interrogation, and venom. Like I think I can safely say most women have experienced some shape or form of the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:48 AM |
| 0 | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.What is the alleged insecurity regarding women liking tall men? Like what is the logic behind a women preferring a tall man? That she’s too big or something? I personally prefer tall guys because I think it’s more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Would you be better than women at vetting guys?Most women are not reliant on public benefits…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesHow is taxing the rich at higher rates than poorer people not akin to slavery? Is that really what you’re asking me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:18 AM |
| 12 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesNo it isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 11 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesWell you can complain about unrealistic beauty standards outside of specifically whining about guys not wanting to date fat girls, one. But fair, we can equate those women to the dudes all pissed that women prefer tall men, I guess. I don’t think the crux of the “liberal woman’s” platform is somehow let’s get all these men to date women they aren’t attracted to in the name of “equality”. Either way, dating is and always will be discriminatory. Because frankly ideally it’s based on choice and leg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 04:10 AM |
| 13 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesOk woah woah woah you are all over the place. First of all, there is no group, and I mean NO group, that has tried harder historically and present day to regulate or “ban” porn than conservatives. As to the rest (most of which I’ve never even heard of), I have yet to hear some large screeching of allegedly liberal women that believe and outcry that dating somehow is like illegal discrimination and should be regulated like we (attempt) to do so constitutionally when it comes to jobs, housing, edu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:58 AM |
| 35 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesHow dare you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:51 AM |
| 8 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesIt’s absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:49 AM |
| 10 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesOf course it’s discriminatory. Dating is and will always be discriminatory. Who is arguing otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 12 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesWhile slavery is still legal in one specific form in the US, higher taxes on the top 10% ain’t it (nor “akin” to it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.No you are wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:52 AM |
| 8 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.No that’s not what that means dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:15 AM |
| 3 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.No that doesn’t mean there’s genuine attraction. Like that’s the opposite of proof here dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.No. And stop following me around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:46 AM |
| 2 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.No they can’t. You are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Nobody is admitting that by saying not all options are attractive. 80/20 is not and has never been real, no matter what fucked up interpretation is you are working with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.What? No it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysYou may be. But you’re ignoring my point altogether. Not surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysAre you fucking kidding me? None of what you’ve linked is directly correlated to your claims at all, a. B, the fuck are you saying child sexual abuse that occurs within religious sects is somehow affecting far less cases. You have zero idea what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Yeah. Feel you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysNo we don’t know that. At all. What we do know is the church seems to harbor an awful lot of child sex abusers. And cover it up. Like bravo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysMaybe the church should address the rampant child sex abuse that goes on within its own ranks before blaming the lgbtq community for all the gay kids… Just a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 01:35 AM |
| 7 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Like only one of these is an actual “bargaining chip/leverage” and if the other person doesn’t give a shit, it’s not leverage at all. This seems like wishful thinking. Bad options (or as we are really speaking to, unattractive options) are, at the end of the day, bar options. Finding some silver lining here or there doesn’t mean those bad options are gonna be some sort of actual valuable leverage to get you good options (aka dating options you are actually attracted to) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 01:24 AM |
| 6 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Not following you dear what’s the third rail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.You’re responding to an unempathetic comment regarding men on this sub tho. As if empathy should be expected here. It’s not. It never has been. This is PPD. Also I don’t know where you get this wild assumption about men in therapy - but I’m open to hearing more - has that in fact been something studied? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 7 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.This is a terrible comparison. You’re missing the point altogether. A woman with options of only men she’s not attracted to is not the “rich person” in your analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Within that comparison is straight men not finding gay men who would otherwise be into them as valid options tho. And it’s not just about appearance I don’t know who said that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:35 AM |
| 0 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Nobody should be expecting any sort of therapy or real life support here on PPD. This is not the place. And you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:33 AM |
| 5 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Women also can’t choose to be attracted to men they aren’t attracted to. Like duh that’s the whole point of the analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalitiesFucking men and sportsball like for real women are supposedly superficial in their hobbies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalitiesFuck me as a young woman just starting my career like that’s all I had - career. No time for hobbies. As a younger woman before I started my career sure I had hobbies but they were more social. Like playing pool. Because I had time and that shit is fun as shit when you’re good at it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalitieslol “most men” do these things are you nuts? Most men’s hobbies are like fishing, sports, cars or drinking. Literally fuck off with your whole men are so much more enlightened with their hobbies bullshit. You are so biased. Sorry we don’t care about your in depth knowledge of D&D or magic the gathering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 0 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.All of that is irrelevant regarding commenting on parenthood etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:49 AM |
| 0 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.None of y’all should be allowed to speak until you have kids. Maybe even make it two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Are you kidding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 12:53 AM |
| 3 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Um no the fuck are you on about. I will never accept that. Mother of two btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyNobody here is calling that “empowered” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:10 AM |
| – | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyThat’s not a “classic saying” Lol it’s just red pill religious bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:09 AM |
| – | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyThis is a completely delusional take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:07 AM |
| -2 | Would You Feel Insecure if Every Guy You Met Had 50x More Options Than You?What makes you think the men we meet don’t have much interest let alone a similar measure of interest we do? What are you supposed to do even if faced with your weird hypothetical? Like get mad? Do what? Cry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:53 AM |
| 10 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?Lol really? It’s gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Women should approach moreAre you daft? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 02:48 AM |
| 10 | Women should approach moreMen who aren’t going to approach, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Women should approach moreMost people aren’t claiming that period. You’re also missing the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Women should approach moreNot really tho what are you missing out on? Men who aren’t interested? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 01:00 AM |
| 9 | Women should approach moreBut she said she doesn’t do that so who cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 17 | Women should approach moreThey do but that means getting to know someone first. Women aren’t going to by and large just approach random stranger men on the off chance their personalities are attractive. Like that’s not how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 13 | Women should approach moreWomen already do approach when they want to. Y’all just aren’t happy because it’s not enough men or whatever. Women DO approach. But on their terms so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himThe women sleeping with incarcerated men aren’t the women y’all are trying to sleep with/date. Just saying. That’s not to say that autistic software engineers are all getting with supermodel model citizen women either but those are really the extreme ends. Normal average men tend to get with normal average women, even if they aren’t pulling a bunch of lower class women fucking around with known criminals and drug dealers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of a guy making you wait for sex?A month or two does not a monk or nun make. Way to exaggerate. If you’re unable to wait 30-60 days to get to know someone, it’s not like sexual compatibility isn’t important it’s like sexual compatibility with a stranger is ALL that is important. Christ. PS most women would probably have better sex and therefore sexual compatibility with a dude they’ve connected with, so 30-60 days of dating, however tortured you may be, may equal better results. That is, if it’s better sex you’re seeking rather… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 01:06 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of a guy making you wait for sex?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Men want women to work for them for freeI can only speak from my own experience here. I’m a trial attorney and seeing how you went to law school I assume you understand that’s a demanding job. I def will take the job. lol. I would never want to be a homemaker with kiddos. Young kids are VERY demanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Men want women to work for them for freeIt’s a ton harder with kids. Husband and I have two young ones and both work full time. If he didn’t share in the domestic work at neat equal levels I’d lose my mind lol. Hoping it will get more manageable as they get older 🤞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Men want women to work for them for freeWhy does it matter one way or the other if she wanted to be a homemaker rather than having a career? The homemaking labor has already occurred? And let’s not pretend men in these types of marriages did not also want their partner to be a homemaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Men want women to work for them for freeThat is not how divorce works. You only get half of the marital assets. If dude could trace the majority of the funding for the house to his premarital property (extremely likely in the strange hypothetical you posed). She’s not getting anywhere near that for a three month marriage. And 50/50 is only guaranteed in community property states. Most states are equitable property states and weird circumstances like the one you’ve suggested could very easily come into play to change the split. But I m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money?wtf are you even on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 03:28 AM |
| -1 | QFW When you hear people make jokes or belittle men for "compensating", having "small dick energy", or otherwise belittle people with smaller dicks, do you speak up?I’ve never heard any woman speak of these things irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 12:03 AM |
| 3 | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.No they are just lazy and fine to keep with the status quo. They aren’t “fulfilling duties” like what are you on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameLower class/uneducated people have more sex so I’m not sure that argument tracks. Also men do care about women’s jobs/careers. Maybe not as much as the reverse but I hate these absolute “men don’t care at all” statements like no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 04:10 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?Good, smart. Don’t respond if you’re not wanting to get into politics but given that you are (apparently) conservative, I’m wondering how you feel about all those so called “states rights” republicans trying to go wayyyyy beyond that wrt abortion. (Again, if this is icky conversation please ignore me) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameOmg are you arguing that men not raping women left and right is some sort of amazing proof of how self disciplined men are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?So like you’re pro choice then I assume? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:40 AM |
| 14 | Assuming you'll never enter a romantic relationship should be the default rather than a "worst case" outcome.I mean I’m with you with the whole don’t make it your primary purpose/life mission thing. But Romantic connections are not rare at all. Most people will have some level of success here. Yes people complain about their SOs but that’s also just a part of being human. Maybe it’s just me but I’m firmly in the “romantic love exists and is achievable for most” camp. That’s what I’ve experienced and seen so. Whether it’s maintainable I guess is a more nuanced question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:38 AM |
| 9 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?No. You’re missing the whole point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 02:59 AM |
| 12 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?No that literally IS the point. Looks aren’t the end all be all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | There is no real evidence that women were more sexually repressed than men, even in the past.Your literal first graf defeats your whole argument. ??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?No it’s not. Because men still appreciate that and will still often fuck those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:53 AM |
| 18 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?But it’s not uncommon. I too would never feel visceral lust based off looks alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:52 AM |
| 4 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.No they aren’t describing the “full role” for females. They aren’t even describing child birth or child rearing. For one. Secondly, you’re not accurately describing the male role either. Most men aren’t making all the money that’s just reality. Whereas far more women are doing the bulk of what she is describing even in 2025. So. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:39 AM |
| 6 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Wanting a confident man while also believing women can and should be confident and be in leadership roles (and jobs) isn’t hypocritical in the slightest. So agreed there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:21 AM |
| 4 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Very few men make “all the money” these days and it doesn’t matter she’s still expected to do more childcare/domestic work even IF she makes more like there are stats on this. So candidly you are the one leaving shit out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.You can’t unravel the two tho. Men bear more burden during dating sure. But it’s largely benign. Women bear FAR more during marriage typically speaking so like the men can shut up IMO. Omg you had to ask her on a date and pay for a dinner at chilis like chill tf out. Go birth a few kids and be the default parent then tell me how it’s sooo much harder on men in heterosexual relationships. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.This is retarded. A lot of that is just cultural tradition. Like expecting women to bear your children and care for them predominantly and learn to cook are also expected gender roles yet no one is like wow all these backwards men where are you supporting surrogates and private chefs come on. MEN ALSO support gender roles if not MORESO even when they claim not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:12 AM |
| 3 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.That is not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:03 AM |
| 2 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Girl I am blue pill and I’ve been here a long time. I’m against red pill. This wasn’t a red pill/blue pill thing in my mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:01 AM |
| 2 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.No there’s no grand cohort of women claiming to be experts at male dating apps. It’s not peculiar at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 03:11 AM |
| 4 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.I’m not even talking about men I’m just talking about life lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 03:09 AM |
| 4 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Do you realize what an esoteric and random business model it is that you’re peddling that somehow you’re expecting women to flock to? It’s bizarre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:31 AM |
| 4 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Idk what that even means but I think you’re reading too much into these comments. Putting your best face forward and not immediately declaring and showcasing all your flaws isnt some sort of bait and switch it’s just human nature. It’s perfectly normal and you’re making it out like folks are just frauds and liars when that’s not the case. You’ve literally never tried to make a good first impression ever like you’re sooooo confident you’ve never ever once tried to impress anyone I find that hard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.You seem to think successful women are somehow suddenly interested in men’s success in dating apps and how to commoditize that. Which is a weird fucking assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:17 AM |
| 5 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.This is silly. Of course you have. You’ve literally never tried to “put your best face forward” or make a good impression? You’re consistently showing everyone from meeting #1 all your good qualities PLUS your bad ones. I think you’re being too black and white here. No one is “pretending to be someone else” just because they present their best qualities first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:51 AM |
| 4 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Boss babe/independent high earning woman doesn’t have to mean “equal overlap” in those professions. Like what are you talking about here. Of course there are many such professions where women are breaking into them but they are still male dominated like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:49 AM |
| 7 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Way to ignore the point you can’t even support your own premise nor any facet of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:46 AM |
| 5 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Independent high earning women are like c suite or doctors or lawyers they aren’t by and large content creators, porn stars or at all concerned with fucking men’s success in dating apps or making money off that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 3 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.Who is even trying this? Some tiny percentage of the population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.“Ad hominem” “Gaslighting” yawn like support your argument or don’t. Yeah your post came off as bitter and your entire premise is asinine. Like I’m sorry but grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 16 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeBut this is purely focusing on the physical. Modern life (including modern power dynamics) isn’t focused on this. Femininity/masculinity to far beyond just “who is bigger/stronger and could overpower the other in a physical altercation” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 01:21 AM |
| 16 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.This whole post is just bitter. Like your whole premise that women have terrible personalities because they aren’t randomly commoditizing ghost writing dating profiles for men on dating apps is asinine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 12:32 AM |
| 7 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.Who gives a shit? It’s a cultural tradition that couples are free to ignore all they want. Like I got married at a chapel in Vegas - not traditional. Plenty of people just go to the courthouse. You’re free to be as non traditional as you like but bitching about culturally traditional norms surrounding marriage seems silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?Do you invite them out? I mean im not one to ever let a man have leverage against me lol but I mean first date seems pretty normal to either split or man who asked pays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:44 AM |
| 6 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?I mean I started my career during the tail end of the recession too haha so I def didn’t start out at six figures. But I appreciate the response. I respect it. I think expecting some young 20 something fresh out of college or grad school to come into a six figure job might be tiny bit delusional (like we all have to work our way up). But I make a lot more than you tho it took me a longgg time to get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The expectation for men to pursue, initiate, or "lead" is born out of misogynyI hate this stupid argument that crops up time and time again. Omg y’all have to approach and daresay maybe pay for a date or two. The absolute horror. Long term we are the ones who bear children. You’re dating, fine. Maybe it works out maybe it doesn’t. Long term women bear FAR more burden than you ever will so literally stop whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?What personality traits can you cite the studies/science please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:29 AM |
| 4 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?Being a self proclaimed “contrarian” doesn’t make you any less a “normie” you understand that right? Like who are the “normies” here compared to you? Contrarian by and large just means disagreeable asshole which doesn’t make you less “normie”, assuming that’s the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:26 AM |
| 4 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?Your comment makes it seem like you’re adverse to paying for any dates whatsoever. If that’s true may I ask why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:21 AM |
| 10 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?Curious about the six figure preference. That typically gets crucified when it’s a woman’s preference. So just wondering your take on how you came to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.That’s dumb. Engagement rings are basically a cultural norm. So is the dad giving his daughter away at the wedding. That doesn’t mean you signed up for some stereotypical 1950s marriage. (Also you do h need to spend tons of money or get some sort of “extravagant” ring for most women these days. In fact lots of women are opting for non traditional rings as it is) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselvesNo? Like y’all need to come visit the real world sometime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:11 AM |
| 6 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?No my H is a software developer who is 100% remote. I’m an attorney who WFH 3x a week. Sounds like she is playfully jealous, and rightfully so. WFH is infinitely better than office 5x a week. She’s not doubting your manhood ffs. Go kill it on your couch. You earned it. It doesn’t make you less masculine christ. Millennials on upward recognize the grind ain’t worth it unless they make it worth it. Plus everyone by this point should know tech is by and large WFH and can still make bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselvesModern eugenics at least in the US is about trying to keep lower class people from populating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:29 AM |
| 3 | The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselvesThis is asinine. What are you talking about? Women only date men who already own, are you joking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:23 AM |
| 4 | The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselvesAnd the “elites” are corporate interests. It’s fucking awful. Right now there’s a huge fight to make ALL pesticide manufacturers immune from fucking lawsuits. While also being barely regulated. It’s disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:22 AM |
| 10 | Is a man acting "masculine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by him? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act masculine arousing, so long as he looks hot?I like traditional masculinity to a point but if it goes over the line yuck city yuck yuck yuck. That Mayer be vague, happy to elaborate more if it would help. Idk if it’s a “prerequisite” for most women though I think there’s plenty of women who very much like more “feminine” men (and I had a BF like that once who I very much loved so even someone like me can be swayed) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesYou’re not wrong. It’s the same for women too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:57 AM |
| 3 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropI’m not sure what this garbled half attempt at poetry may be, but it’s not an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.No dear this is incorrect. You’re not even making sense here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 4 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropBy and large most men aren’t intentionally going into physically demanding or dangerous fields specifically to provide for kids. Whereas woman obviously are taking physical risks if they intentionally get pregnant. So it’s not the same. And it never will be. The comparison is apples to oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 02:20 AM |
| 3 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.Yeah if they aren’t red pillers they might be more reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 01:07 AM |
| 3 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.No it doesnt. A presumptive father will not be held liable for discreetly doing an at home paternity test without mom’s consent. A test done “at the hospital” if you’re talking about before birth clearly will need the mom’s consent that’s not the same thing. You realize after birth you’re at the hospital for like a day in normal non nicu births. Most men aren’t going to swab kids - nor would they have much opportunity to do so - during the melee that is the day or so right after birth when mom a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 01:06 AM |
| 5 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropWell your whole argument about men making this huge sacrifice and it being akin to childbirth is illogical then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 01:02 AM |
| 2 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropI don’t need to “tell myself anything” I know better. A fucking patient of yours telling some story is meaningless come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.Right and in every other instance when the women are disfavored red pillers are all for it being not unfair/the woman’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropIt’s all that and more. It’s the extracurriculars, it’s the playdates, it’s the constant “parent lunches” and school holidays with gift bags for the whole class, graduations etc. it’s the parent guilt because you’re expected to entertain and educate and stimulate your children 24/7. Like it’s exhausting and I’m only like half assing it myself. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropMine is but I still feel lucky. Majority of my age similar married peer women with children still do the lions share of the child care/rearing even when they work just as much and even when they are the breadwinners. I’m early millennial tho so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:46 PM |
| 9 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropThis is not the same. Men aren’t by and large choosing to go into highly risky jobs because they have kids or kids on the way. There are valid reasons to discuss the phenomenon of why men choose riskier and more physical jobs than women but let’s be honest. A lot of those men had those jobs before they had kids and before they were even married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropGirl my H got more paternity leave than I got maternity leave. Which I applaud but wtf my industry is so backwards some time (he is in tech which is far more progressive). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropThe standards for raising children have grown immensely. At least that’s what I think is also a factor here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:35 PM |
| 3 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropAlso, pregnancy and birth sucks ass. Just adding my two cents. lol (and I have two as well not having any more) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:33 PM |
| 8 | What is men role in the worldwide birthrate dropThis is not normal most men are not “financially ruined” by divorce and most men who don’t fight for more custody do so because it’s a choice they made IME. Granted, I’m only one lawyer who litigated divorces for a short period of time but I’d say I have enough experience to say your claims are suspect af. For one, like almost all stats I’ve seen show women take a deeper cut financially post divorce. It’s a multi factorial thing but is mostly due to the man being more of the moneymaker during th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist?Is only fans like always live or is it videos they make where you’re not watching them (and jerking off to them) live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:15 PM |
| 7 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.Red pill doesn’t give a shit about equality and sex differences when it’s something that doesn’t favor men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:09 PM |
| 3 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.I mean we don’t use it all that frequently but say my H loses his phone or I simply want to know if he decided to wfh or go into the office on any particular day I mean that’s what we use it for. Completely logical reasons that have nothing to do with like constant tracking for infidelity lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:55 PM |
| 7 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.If you have any sort of legal custody ie you’re the presumptive father you absolutely can dna test your own child privately without consent from the mother. That’s legal. Now you can’t just be some random person off the street or be like a friend of a friend and not have the parents consent. A man who believes and who has been told by the mother he is the father and who is helping raise that kid can absolutely dna test his own alleged child without her knowledge. OTOH if it’s like those situatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:40 PM |
| 5 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.Are you talking about linking your phone up with location on with your partner’s phone and vice versa? Because yes there def is. I have like my mom, my sister, my husband and my child’s AirTag (that is stitched into his backpack) all available to locate on my iPhone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:29 PM |
| 7 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.Yeah but did you share your location specifically to assuage her fears that you were cheating (without any reason to suspect you were)? Because there’s plenty of logical reasons for enabling location sharing on you and your partners devices other than to monitor them for possible infidelity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is in the state it is today due to Women’s romantic interest and attention now essentially becoming the most dominant if not only currency (in The West)You fell into a trap like it was obvious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 01:49 AM |
| 14 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testLiterally lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 12:41 PM |
| 4 | The "No True Good Guy" FallacyY’all always stereotype women based on the most rachet behavior ever so yeah, it’s inaccurate. Either that or some very sort instagram model type behavior that only exists for a small minority of women. Y’all don’t seem to understand or even recognize normal women. Every woman is a single mom trying to baby trap a man or commit paternity fraud. Or has an OF account and exists off of the likes they receive in social media DMs. Or cheats perpetually while dating bad boy criminals etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Raising children an unpaid job!Oh shit right sorry well here’s hoping you find something similar! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Raising children an unpaid job!Happy for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Raising children an unpaid job!Well I’m also including being a SAHP of my two kids (both under six) no thank you. I’m one of those ppl who thinks that’s hard and prefers having a full time job despite having a “hard” job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Raising children an unpaid job!My daycare is so cheap I’m so lucky haha but I mean even if it was 550 a week or more my job would still be worth a lot more. Plus benefits come with jobs. Like insurance alone is super helpful. (Obv that depends on the job) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Raising children an unpaid job!Oh yes that’s true but idk why anyone would do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Raising children an unpaid job!I would never wanna do childcare 24/7 it is very hard lol. I don’t have a physically demanding job but it’s still “hard” and demanding so idk that this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 08:21 PM |
| 20 | Why wouldn't you date a police officer/cop?I dated a cop once when I was younger and in law school. He was the sweetest. But I did hear some stories about how that department behaved which like was clearly unconstitutional. I don’t think I would date another cop, that whole authority thing I think fucks with their heads a lot of the time. Plus I think a lot of them we wouldn’t vibe politically. I’m super big into due process and rights for the accused and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Raising children an unpaid job!Um ok but you built your whole argument based off this woman living a lavish lifestyle and using that to say she is “paid” but then when someone making low six figures points out hey this setup wouldn’t be worth it unless he provided something similar to my exact real life job compensation would plus retirement you’re like hey you are irrelevant. I mean that’s what I’m trying to point out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Raising children an unpaid job!Well not necessarily. We can’t assume all SAHPs would not have well earning careers but for their decision to give that up to be a full time parent. It very well could be the case that person could have earned more than the cost of daycare, etc, worked on saving for retirement etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Raising children an unpaid job!But she’d be making money too, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Raising children an unpaid job!This isn’t the point at all. The point is comparing such a situation to one with a decently paying job it is clear the SAHP gets the shorter end of the stick. If a family agrees one partner should be a SAHP like good for them that’s great and all but whomever agrees to do that needs to understand what they are possibly giving up, particularly if things go wrong in the relationship or there’s unexpected factors. No more career, no more career development, less control, no retirement, less opportu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Raising children an unpaid job!But your whole hypothetical is built on some upper class family apparently who can afford a lot of luxuries. Like you can’t use rich people to make your main argument then immediately say no one can use a person making six figures in their own argument (besides 142k isn’t even rich, your hypothetical family makes a lot more than that). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 06:01 PM |
| – | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?But who cares about what men allegedly think are high value men? like why would women care about that at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipIt’s annoying when ignorant men come spouting off shit they know nothing about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipLiterally fuck off that’s so ignorant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipAh yes if you wanna pretend you haven’t been arguing standard of living isn’t what is mostly important and I haven’t been pointing out no, it’s just one factor in a list of them, that’s fine, but we both know that’s a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipLink the statute you think means only income disparity matters or “lifestyle” with respect to spousal support awards. Idc who you trust or not you’re directly arguing you’re a better source on this. You aren’t. So put up or shut up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipDear I guarantee I have more experience than your one case. I litigated these. As a lawyer. For both sides depending on the case. Yes it’s more of a child support factor, generally speaking. I’ve litigated those too. I can’t stress enough AGAIN to read the damn statutes. You apparently are adamantly against doing that. You cannot “assure me” of anything. Because you are wrong. Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipSo do I, I’ve literally litigated it. I’m not sure what you mean about “combining income” of course joint income versus separate income is considered. But that’s also more of a child support factor (again, legislation). It’s not typically a factor in alimony statutes. Something like the standard of living is. I mean I can’t stress this enough AGAIN this is all laid il out IN statutory law. Usually it is one factor. And there’s not usually some mandate oh these factors mean more than others (alth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipBecause you said it’s the standard. It’s not. It’s one factor. Not sure why that’s confusing I thought I was perfectly clear. It’s not the “major” factor read the legislation. Again, read it. Any of them. One of them? Try? Maybe listen to folks who have more experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipNot with current laws, that is the point. Lol. Like you're arguing against yourself at this point. It's also a voluntary risk by MEN to allow their wives to be SAHPs. like duh. Also, according to your logic, an "artificial risk". I mean clearly those women also don't need to let men ride their coattails by doing all the domestic shit and getting nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipObv, but like all of them. I've reviewed alimony statutes in a number of states, they are ALL laundry lists of considerations for the judge. Go find me one that isn't? I've litigated this before, I'm not a complete neophyte. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipWell I wasn't expecting this. I appreciate your openess and honesty. To be fair and frankly candid, yes, kids are a burden. But a welcome one. And not where we treat them like one. But no joke, yes they are a burden. They are a complete lifestyle change like nothing has ever changed your life. But at least for my family, they are very wanted additions who are loved, doted on, and probably spoiled. Still, a TON of work. Maybe you would be more suited to that. I, for one, am not. I am through and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipAnd men have an inherent interest in agreeing to or even convincing their wives to give up career opportunities so they can raise the children and maintain the house. Like. Also a voluntary choice. Whcih all breadwinner men these days know come with the potential of temporary alimony in the event of divorce. Like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipIm not sure what you think that is supposed to mean let alone how that’s supposed to be some sort of dig. You obv dont understand my career or industry but that’s ok, I didn’t expect you to. Grow up. Maybe actually try your hand at some of the things you’re so ready to dismiss as “easy” then maybe we can talk. Until then you’re just ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipYou do not know what you are talking about with 1-2 6+ kids you handled for a couple months tops. Obv not living with you. So literally NO. “Do y’all actually like your kids” shut the fuck up you ignorant shit. You’re speaking from ignorance. I hope you can take a moment and grow the fuck up. I can almost guarantee you I have a more stressful demanding job than you do yet I wouldn’t trade it in to be a full time household/kid caretaker. Because I actually know wtf I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipIt’s like one factor in a laundry list of factors that is often the only factor any manospherian man focuses on when making these arguments. Y’all need to actually read the legislation y’all are criticizing. It’s not just this one thing about “lifestyle” so I mean educate yourselves accordingly please for the love of god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipOf course SAHPs devote themselves to domestic labor. The fact tech makes it easier these days just means the expectations/standards/level of work are increased. Like I’m a full time working parent. There’s still a lot of domestic work I do…..do y’all who say shit like this even have kids or a household? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Financial specifics are the only codified, legal obligations that come with marriage. This weakens the other commitments of a partnershipIs this a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Feminism's claims are inherently unfalsifiableA lot of these theories “remove agency” from the actors including those that claim men have certain expectations like ones you’ve identified (expectations to work labor intensive or dangerous jobs, toxic masculinity) like a lot of these movements are specifically focused on trying to remove social stigma or stimulate self awareness to rid individuals of such “social” expectations so I’m not sure where you’re getting that’s only women. I’m not saying I agree with all of that but I mean men’s move… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Right? Both of these groups of men are just like not people I really think about regularly let alone find the time to either love or hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut?So idc if my partner watches porn (assuming it doesn’t become a problem/isn’t borderline cheating like cam girls or interacting with actual live women online), but I’d imagine the visual nature of watching a different actual living woman/man fucking and getting off to that is different than just reading about it and imaging things for a lot of people. I’m sure there are actually plenty of men who take issue if their woman watches porn too tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.You made a claim and apparently can’t defend it so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:06 AM |
| 2 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.Obviously men judge women by how they look though like your original comment is kinda dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.Yeah ok so just perpetuating the childish immature petty bullshit I guess. By hey you do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:48 AM |
| 2 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.Nobody cares about you specifically. This is what you are promoting for all either own it or don’t. It’s petty and childish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:03 AM |
| 3 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.No this is your logic that you promoted. Back peddle much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.I’ll tell you what, when I was young multiple boys called me flat chested made fun of me whathaveyou. Guess under your logic I have permission to attack random men as having small dicks, being whales etc whatever. Your logic. (But sooooo stupid) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.Why would you take out some nonsense perpetuated by a few people on an entire gender. Are you 12 years old? Like grow tf up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:21 AM |
| -1 | It's not misogyny just because you don't relate to the complaintYou are the last person to defend generalized negative statements about a whole gender. Your whole Reddit career is all about defending these when the focus is on men. So | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | The Venn Diagram of men who complain about small penis shaming and the men who complain about Bella Ramsey is a circle.This is so petty and immature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantY’all aren’t a cult, agreed, but a red piller that isn’t dogmatic as hell who doesn’t treat it like religion is far and few between so. Your outrage is a bit misplaced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantFor the love of Christ. If your message is only successful because it relies on bias and hatred maybe your audience needs something more than fuel on the fire. You aren’t as dumb as you act here. I know that. So stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:42 AM |
| 6 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantWho cares? Why would you even take the chance? The whole thing is premised upon misogyny. Like why would you expect anything but that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantYou’re missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantIf it’s only “heard” due to specifically denigrating 50% of the population I mean that should tell you something…. Ps plenty of men don’t need it so that should also tell you something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantThat’s not the point. The dogma in general is misogynistic. Like that’s a central point it couldn’t exist without that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?Women in relationships are still with men they desire. Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantIdk that’s not the question, but it’s not TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:04 AM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantYes because those men are interested in hearing messages specifically about how women are awful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantYou’re not wrong, but TRP wasn’t ever meant to help perpetually “loser” men like lost causes it was meant for your average frustrated chump. Not the bottomest bottom of the barrel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:55 AM |
| 9 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantThat’s not an “aspect” of TRP it’s a central premise. You can’t have TRP without misogyny period | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. RavikantLike barely any red pillers actually think this way, most are very dogmatic. TRP doesn’t “work” through philosophy anyway. It might somehow be justified but that isn’t how terps describe it working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes?I would need to read the complaint. This is buzbee’s case though so it’s partly for publicity. She will most likely get paid though. Esp if there was already a multi seven figure presuit offer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsThis can’t work for people who need college and even higher education for their chosen careers though. Which obv isn’t everyone but not everyone can do blue collar jobs or be some self-made uneducated successful person. Also having kids young would have probably even set you back more so…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:51 PM |
| 3 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsWe do have social obligations, but not those that require us pumping out baby after baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsThis is such a complicated issue you can’t just ignore economic factors and also cultural ones like the focus on education before families, emphasis on birth control, less influence of Catholic Church, etc. I agree that men don’t want to have kids early like maybe they did decades ago but there’s so many cultural factors that go into how that occurred and you’re just glossing over them all with the whole “men just want sex not relationships” thing. Yes indeed this is also a cultural factor but j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Most men who date a younger woman are not doing it for nefarious reasonsThis is a bizarre comment full of assumptions to his comments to you. Like wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?Wanting to be a primary provider versus “a woman will lose respect for you the MINUTE you start making one dollar less than her” are two very different things you’re trying to conflate here. Backtracking your argument into some barely recognizable ghost of your original claim isn’t the win you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?Your comment isn’t a “General rule” and everyone else a “tiny minority”. So yeah it’s still delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?When you’re generalizing that broadly and being that hyperbolic about it yes that’s delusional. Absolutely. And if you want to base it off your own personal experiences then by that logic my marriage should have failed by now too, but it hasn’t. People who believe TRP as gospel obv are deluding themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:27 PM |
| 5 | You are not a victim just because nobody wants to date you. Loneliness and sexlessness is just an unfortunate by product of free will, which proceeds all other rights in datingWait where is this new narrative coming from? I haven’t seen that yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?That’s delusional. That shit doesn’t happen by and large IRL red pill propaganda isn’t actually real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive?That’s kinda sad I mean honestly. What a weird “preference” as you’re phrasing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends"This is pure projection but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 12:48 AM |
| -1 | Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends"You identifying what “the problem is” directly contradicts your first point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends"Like when you get older and are all partnered up this is soooo less an issue. When I was young this was like everything. I was never just a “friend” to boys I was always a romantic prospect to them. Not now thankfully | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 12:41 AM |
| 23 | Women, why do you scream so much when something bad happens?A shooting?? And you don’t expect ppl to scream? That seems entirely appropriate omg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.You don’t know what to agree with or disagree with tbh. You need to pick with a position instead of waffling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 03:34 AM |
| 4 | It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit".No that’s insane. That won’t happen Jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.And I’m not even disagreeing with that. Obviously. But you’re acting like this is just most often and I disagree so live with that or what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.lol ok no, men aren’t perpetually victims of women here, sorry. Whether or not your “version” supports that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:15 AM |
| -2 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.And I’ve had it happen at least twice as much as you. I’m not dismissing you at all I’m saying don’t argue or act like that’s the norm. It’s not. But that’s what you’re supporting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:58 AM |
| 4 | It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit".Obviously it matters if it’s illegal you can’t say that’s irrelevant because “laws can change” like wtf. That specific law isn’t about to change anytime soon my friend. All your other argument is kinda blather like no. I mean you’re mostly just wrong outside of maybe teachers being role models which isn’t good enough to justify what you’re proposing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:56 AM |
| 3 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.But y’all are wrong. There’s plenty of men who use that term when no woman has actually done anything except maybe dare give them the same attention as an actual friend. So just be aware of that I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:43 AM |
| 19 | It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit".This is illegal but also like your justification is laughable. Everyone knows most coaching “teachers” are shit. Your example of why this “teacher” was better is equally laughable. Did you learn more? Get better test scores, get any scholarships etc from this one male teacher?? Teachers aren’t there to teach you “masculinity” male or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 4 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.That’s the point tho - it’s not just one or the other. That’s the whole reason I added my experience. Trying to frame it it as wholly “women taking advantage of men” thing is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:30 AM |
| 4 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Well obviously, but if you’re going to phrase it such a way as “men are always victims and women are perpetrators” obviously that’s wrong. Like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:28 AM |
| 5 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Story time: multiple men I grew up with got close to me trying to date me. I never treated like them anything but a true friend. I had at least one guy decide my friendship with him was all bullshit and I was “leading him on” by daring to just hang out with him. I never used him for anything he was just a friend we’d all hang out with/apart of the friend group. That didn’t stop him from the bullshit accusations. I guarantee he’s not the only man who’s done this and I’m not the only woman to expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:21 AM |
| 11 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Yes but this is an inflated example which isn’t the norm. It might be what the guy thinks ie projects but normally “friendzone”’is more a guy with unrequited feelings who just believes continually being nice and offering favors or whathaveyou should curry romantic favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have optionsThis works both ways that’s what you’re ignoring. A high demand confident man js probably going to end up with a high demand confident woman. Y’all never factor in the woman when you make these musings. Most ppl end up with similar situated ppl. It’s not just desperate low value women bagging hot guys hoping for a call | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Men not going to collegeWhy doesn’t it matter? “Some people” is not all people. Why is it such a sticking point when people have such a standard? It’s not like it’s crazy rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Men not going to collegeThis is stupid though and not accurate. I’m not gonna say men are outright lying but they aren’t being honest with themselves with this bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Men not going to collegeWomen don’t want this by and large when they can be with a man they are attracted to, work and he still has a decent job. Would you be with a partner you aren’t attracted to just because they could pay for your lifestyle 100%? Women aren’t choosing this in mass numbers these days (because they don’t have to) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Men not going to collegeWhat the ever loving bullshit is this? College aged women’s “male peers” aren’t subsidizing all their living expenses what are you talking about. I’ve paid taxes since getting my first job at age 15, are college educated men supposed to be bowing down to me all grateful and shit because according to you I “subsidized” their college careers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Men not going to collegePreach. But we won’t get there anytime soon I fear. And college debt is fucking real too. I feel swindled honestly for all the debt I went into for law school. Thankfully able to pay it off now but it’s been a long road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:07 AM |
| 17 | Men not going to collegeI think it’s more like a presumption based on correlation. I don’t think anyone thinks they are “exclusively linked”. It’s also kindof a class dog whistle tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:05 AM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Oh so also under “edgy 13 year old” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 12:32 AM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Why because it might have your picture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 11:49 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.No one is saying that what a disingenuous comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 10:02 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Of course it’s discrimination it’s just not illegal discrimination. Most states are at will and you can be fired for virtually anything save a reason covered by a protected class. Even then the federal protections only extend to businesses of certain sizes I can’t remember how many employees atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 09:23 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.You’re talking about free speech as some sort of concept but not about what it means legally. One can be very pro free speech in terms of what that means legally but still agree it’s ok for private employers to fire people for their speech and this isn’t ideologically inconsistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 09:09 PM |
| – | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Political beliefs are not a protected class covered by federal law like race, gender, etc. However there are a few states which do specifically protect against discrimination in employment on the basis of political affiliation and activities. These states are more liberal though like CA and NY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.No, once again that is false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.This is false. 80% of men are not single and celibate. Why are you lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.Who cares about sympathy that’s not going to do anything to satisfy these men. They still won’t get pussy get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.Men did not “heroically sacrifice” their earning potential and buying power wtf are you talking about like what made up history is this even? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.That’s silly, you can want a man with a decent income who still isn’t a “provider”. That’s actually smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.It is true. Not sure why you believe attraction has to always encompass some Utilitarian logical “reason” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenNo, have you ever even debated this guy before? He definitely meant it more literally than just what you’re describing. Y’all can’t completely water down the whole red pill concept of “wife goggles” into just “he stays because he loves her and she was loyal” lol. It’s meaningless at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.The reason is “I think taller looks better” lol. And frankly I think that’s the more common “reason” then whatever its is you’re trying to sell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.Attraction doesn’t always “make sense” dear. Idk I just think height is attractive in men. It’s not like the end all be all or the only thing I find attractive. I also prefer skinnier guys (not muscular) and facial hair. There’s no real logic to this it’s just things I personally find more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.I prefer tall guys but it’s because I think they are more attractive. I think this is probably more common then “I want a tall guy for protection” like just being tall doesn’t magically mean he’s more capable to protect you anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:19 PM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenThe idea of “wife goggles” where married men perpetually see their aging loyal wives as “when they were in their prime.” Obv I don’t disagree that looks decline with age or that there are people who stick with their aging partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't want to face the truth.I think when this happens it’s more often happening to young men who aren’t quite fully matured, more often than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't want to face the truth.I feel like this is a very young person take. Once you grow up it will not feel or seem this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenYou don’t have “first hand experience” of a phenomenon that’s been made up in red pill communities, has no scientific backing, and is based on your word alone. You’re not an authority on literally anything concerning this concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:19 AM |
| 3 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenNo you haven’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 8 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenThis is so stupid and delusional like how y’all buy into this i have no idea. It’s just a fact men (and less so women) are more attracted to youth. Like sure married men aren’t just gonna always ditch their “post wall” wife but let’s not pretend they forever “see her as she was in her prime” that just fucking dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 11:43 PM |
| 34 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceEvery family needs to make the decision to have kids when it’s best for them. Having kids while younger also has its downsides. I agree that would not be great advice for women who are already 35, but in general advising women they don’t need to rush to have kids in their 20s is perfectly fine advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Male desperation is what reinforces and in many cases, creates female delusion in the dating worldYes but demand and whatever value it brings isn’t always about what’s healthy and “good” either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 09:30 PM |
| – | Instead of Telling Men the Lie That Most Women Don’t Want Good Men, We Should Be Honest: Most Women Don’t Deserve Them.Absolutely few men would pick the average women over the hot woman given the option. Let’s be real here jesus. Your premise is flawed in multiple respects this is just one of them. Your comment about who women give their “prime” to frankly tells me all I need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Fair. Can’t blame you for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 08:04 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry.Y’all are literally doing it to each other at this point - exactly what OP is describing. Like y’all both participating. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.This depends on the study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?You are so delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?No it’s not that’s not an apt analogy at all. I likely have a broader (and more objective) range of experience than your average person. I repped both men and women going through divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 05:13 PM |
| – | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?I used to practice family law. It’s not uncommon at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?That isn’t now nor ever was a legal right for anyone. It was a result sure, but that’s not the legal right that was protected constitutionally. I guess you could argue there was dicta that supported that as a right but the jurisprudence lingered on bodily autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?Pre-Dobbs it was not double homicide until viability. Post Dobbs who knows probably very dependent on state law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?They all have the legal right to raise the kid aka to co parent barring extreme circumstances where it’s cut off from them. Anyway it’s not just unwilling fathers who complain about child support - fathers who wanted the kids do too. Obv not all of them but your comment pretends this isn’t true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:38 PM |
| 10 | gender pay gap, and societal pressure in gender rolesOf course society pressures men/women differently this is just reality. But if you think there’s no pressure on women socially to support themselves or get higher careers you and I grew up very differently. And I’m much older than you For women it goes both ways - do it or don’t do it be some sort of dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:53 AM |
| 11 | Can you be an Alpha male without being attractive to women?None of those people are attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | People on this sub don't understand what being in your Prime or the Wall actually meansNo I think men in general do care to some extent and manospherians are outliers like with most things. Women also date me on their level for the same reason ie proximity and frequency yet red pillers go on and on and on about hypergamy, it’s not somehow different. If you’re genuinely asking about why men would be interested in women with high level degrees/jobs like same reason men would be duh. It’s not that difficult to see why even those WOMEN might be more high demand. But if you’re insisten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:45 AM |
| 2 | People on this sub don't understand what being in your Prime or the Wall actually meansIt’s red pill dogma so I suppose some guys here just buy into it even if they can’t see their own bias to it 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:36 AM |
| 9 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityHow do you know what women do in therapy or what they are allegedly seeking regarding therapy? Like what are your credentials to draw these conclusions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:28 PM |
| 10 | People on this sub don't understand what being in your Prime or the Wall actually meansI will never understand the idea that men in general just don’t care about women’s careers/status. Men in general date within their own level. I think it’s like manospherian men who genuinely “don’t care” and project that on other men. My own experience also corroborates this. Men “in general” seem to care at least a little bit. I think women are more appealing to men “in general” if they are higher status/higher educated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.This is childish. You can’t just loosely ascribe everything “good” in life to the perceived ability to get relationships and then make blanket conclusions that “women have it better in life” which is essentially what you’re doing. Like grow up the world doesn’t work this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 01:28 AM |
| 0 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSOk that doesn’t negate what I said though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSEvery state is a bit different and I’m not here to do some 50-stare survey but I’m not aware of any state that doesn’t make you assign child support to the state where you’re getting a variety of state benefits like monetary assistance, public housing, food stamps, Medicaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 08:33 PM |
| 13 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSThis is not how that works. If you collect child support and are on state welfare the state will take a good portion of the child support to reimburse itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSOf course he was talking about efforts to make sex based discrimination in employment illegal, what else do you think he meant there about attempts to get government involved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 6 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSIt’s obv not irrelevant. Certain things have constitutional protection (and for good reason) while others do not (for also good reason). Equating the two without recognizing this important distinction is a flawed analogy. In any event I wasn’t trying to provide some sort of direct “dispute” of his claim just adding more context from my own perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 02:22 PM |
| 4 | If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes?Yes but most couples are dating for years before actual marriage. I didn’t get married until 28 but started dating my husband when I was 19. Most people of my generation are delaying marriage but that doesn’t mean they aren’t meeting/dating their ultimate spouse when they are much younger. O think there’s been studies on this showing average length of time dating before marriage is about 4 years (I could be misremembering). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSWe all discriminate when dating. Employers also discriminate when choosing their employees it’s just some forms are constitutionally barred (such as sex). Of course that goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 01:16 PM |
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