sugar_cane_avenger Archive

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1	I need help deprogramming Most of the problem with red pill people is laziness to be as frank as possible. Ambition and achievement should color your 20s and 30s, but it is overtaken with overanalyzing little things and fantasy scenarios, confidence is destroyed from not making more money with age, etc. Take a job preferably IN PERSON (young men seem to become self destructive when they're in the house too much). Reach out to family, watch your nieces and nephews, truly grow into a well rounded person with developed soci…	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/25 12:22 PM
56	I feel like women aren't interested in relationships and are just as happy as single It's not that women are told they don't NEED a relationship, it's that they can't find what they want. Men can be extremely draining, and yes, financial compensation helps with most work. Men are raised to require a lot of work! And they want it free. I've been married 10 yrs and I'd be a widow the rest of my life at 40 if something happened to my man, because I know my husband is an extremely rare find. It wouldn't be because "I don't need a man" it's because the men out there contribute relati…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/25 02:12 PM
1	How to stop obsessing about power in relationships? Honestly? Go get some power at work. Compete in the workforce WITH OTHER MEN, earn money, become more influential and better at communication. Be the guy who pulled himself up. There's a reason why women would rather share elite men than get our very own hobo, and it's not only because men with too much free time are self-destructive. But weak men love to take their weakness and low social and financial position out on women. We aren't putting up with that without financial compensation. And eve…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/25 02:04 PM
3	Celebrities disprove the red pill ideology Red pill tends to make stuff up then attack people for not fitting that bubble. They also typically speak for men they'll never understand; men who consider them weak losers and degenerates by any metric who will reject them for job interviews, opportunities, and who wouldn't want their daughters around them. Most of red pill is about making the bottom 30% of men feel they're on par with the rest of society and have stuff in common with the fully functioning male population. Truth is, there was …	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/25 09:27 AM
1	The whole Incel and Redpill contradiction What kind of logic is that? Did it get better the last 4 years?	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/25 06:42 AM
1	What do you guys think about Sadia Khan? Correct, and I agree. Remember also that when men get to choose partners which only happens when women are deprived of resources, they choose weak, small, fragile, doll-like, innocent/dumb/naive, fragile, poverty, etc., weakening their sons genetically. Boys also get 50% of mom's DNA. Women select men based on perceived strength and filter out/share those that don't have those traits. Women select based on wealth or resources, intelligence, military prowess, height, nutrition, and letting bloodl…	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/24 03:51 PM
3	Are most people just not attracted to people they date in a physical sense? We were discussing whether or not women settle for the average man. The average man has an average penis, the wording was sloppy I was more referring to an average stroke and technique as a lover. I mentioned 10 other "average" criteria. I'm not saying anything is wrong with being average. Just don't expect King Tut treatment within a marriage. Go in anticipating the same average enthusiasm from a partner. Unfortunately, we don't get a parade for being the bare minimum.	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/24 04:21 AM
5	Are most people just not attracted to people they date in a physical sense? I mainly mentioned the average penis thing because it's talked about a lot in the red pill community as a character trait. Average means just that, average. It doesn't entitle them to a hot young wife, a servant, etc	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/24 03:38 AM
2	Are most people just not attracted to people they date in a physical sense? MOST? Absolutely not. SOME women realize that being a wife to a guy who is average, AND has an average penis, AND has poor household and body hygiene, AND a mediocre salary, AND expects her to entertain a miserable mother in law, AND has to be forced to help with the kids, AND demands his 12 pumps before bed.. is quite a lot. And they feel they settled for marriage to that person when they could have been alone	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/24 12:59 AM
9	Are most people just not attracted to people they date in a physical sense? I think there's politically correct answers for things and real answers for things. The answer is that it is complicated. For example, many women are convinced to go for personality because going to looks are shallow. 5 yrs into the marriage when one of you stinks up the bathroom to hell or when you become middle-aged and beyond, attraction and sexual skills are essential. Men who are worried about women not being attracted to them are constantly trying to get women they're attracted to. Which d…	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/24 05:37 AM
3	What do you guys think about Sadia Khan? Dating in your league doesn't matter--the so-called "dating market" isn't equally split like a night at the prom in 1952. Many people have left the market altogether, usually women, who decided peace and a salary is better than a mediocre or dysfunctional offer from men. It's not that women don't need men. It's that the average woman doesn't need the average man as much as he needs her, and there's little reward for her in choosing him. And that's fine because she's not shooting up schools or da…	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/24 05:08 AM
1	Do women in traditionalist countries have better morals than western women? No, it was a combo of kids, hookers, and women with low morals using soldiers as a come-up. Women that are 'coy virgins' for every western man that shows up.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/24 04:59 AM
1	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way Incels talk about Tyrone's being alphas all the time. I hate that people jump on here and play dumb	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/24 04:56 AM
5	What do you guys think about Sadia Khan? I like her, but my feedback for her, considering that I'm also a right winger, is what I have for most of the women in this space (like Candace Owens). It's really easy to look pretty, be soft spoken, traditional etc., when your partner is earning 500k a year. A man offering 50k a year and one offering 500k offer different benefits as spouses. When your husband can say "quit your job and pursue passions like politics, interior design influencer, or overseeing the remodeling of our ski chalet", y…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/24 08:55 PM
14	Spotted both a 6’2ish hot “Chad” and a model-looking “Stacey” at my gym just now… Their complaints are always that women way hotter than them don't want them, while they project hypergamy unto women	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/24 04:00 AM
11	Spotted both a 6’2ish hot “Chad” and a model-looking “Stacey” at my gym just now… And? This is the scarcity mindset delusional men have, because they base their worth not on finding the "one", but on running through different types of women throughout their lives. You want some women for sex, some options as wives, and some options as mistresses in case 1 and 2 scenarios don't work. So you feel you need 10+ fantasy options for your identity as a male, whereas the average woman seeks 1 fantasy partner.	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/24 03:57 AM
8	Is it really true that attractive men often have sex with different partners? Even if that's true, it's certainly better to have sex with attractive men who've been with different partners than unattractive or average "nice guys" who feel bitter that they're not cute enough to practice the degeneracy they want. The ones angrily masturbating to revenge porn and red pill scenarios especially.	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/24 11:16 PM
1	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong Break up with her so she can find someone deserving who hasn't been watching porn. More and more women are waking up to relationships with previous porn addicts not being worth dealing with erectile dysfunction and being blamed for not being hot enough (when their context is porn). She deserves a better boyfriend.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 11:34 AM
3	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way Well...yeah, The problem with many red pillers is, whether you like it or not, there are always less young women than old women. Societies are rapidly aging and women between 18-25 are only about 6% of the female population in the US. That doesn't include incels other preferences, low body count, no male friends, light or fair skinned, wanting to split bills and be submissive; child free. For reference, at any given point millionaires are about 9% of the population. Yet they talk about women wan…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 06:41 PM
0	I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynistic No that's not what it means. For most of human history, a substantial amount of men died in war, working dangerous jobs, etc. There will be more women willing to share Jason Momoa, even if he had 100 women and kept them in their own home and sent a check in the mail, there'd be a thousand women auditioning for that. The opposite isn't true. Men wouldn't sign up for such an arrangement with Margo Robbie. Women prefer auditioning or being alone over getting their own incel.	/r/ExRedPill	25/04/24 04:39 AM
112	A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are women Part of the issue is that your own brethren don't believe in helping others. It's said in red pill spaces all the time. Coaching boys to do anything productive is stepdad simping, women "waste money" to get degrees in fields like psychology, counseling, and teaching, which is why so many men won't seek out therapy. And your connections with other men are rather superficial, leading to men using their girlfriend and wives as shrinks. Perhaps the reason there isn't a lot of men here, is that many …	/r/ExRedPill	24/04/24 03:40 AM
18	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. You cannot cure degeneracy with the body of another. More extreme examples include in the congo when men sought out virgins because they believed it would cure them of AIDS. The obsession with using virgins and other women to fulfill some flaw proves women aren't people in your view. Women who have casual sex are people, virgins are people, etc. Not tools you "need" or can use to fulfill or prove something else.	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/24 03:44 AM
1	My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants. I hear you but worth has to be based on something outside of yourself for most people, because most people aren't comfortable living a life without objective measures of worth. It feels more objective to base worth on things you've personally done, than on things like race, gender, class, or what others have historically achieved. Usually underachievers become race supremacists, incels, etc	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/24 07:06 PM
10	My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants. Maybe base your worth on something other than conquering women. How about achievements?. Your friend is wasting time that could be spent working on his career. That is what will lead you to plenty of women as you get older, and a sustained amount no matter your age. And if your friends get on you for not talking about your conquests, it looks better if it's because you're highly focused and ambitious than if you were sitting around pouting and watching porn	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/24 10:03 AM
0	I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynistic Except data points to quite a lot of men being lonely and unable to have sex, and being angry with women and the modern world because they feel they're owed sex. Married men and single men.	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/24 09:57 AM
3	So how many men are actually having casual sex? Have casual sex or have had it at some point in the past? A lot of men in the bottom 20% like to believe they're in some camp with 80% of men but they're not. They are just at the bottom. Men in the middle typically had a few relationships before marriage, and a few one night stands, perhaps if they got lucky. Within that 80%, there's even quite a lot who lose their virginity around prom night or college to someone their own age. If women were having sex with 20% of men exclusively, we'd see a l…	/r/ExRedPill	16/04/24 08:29 PM
4	What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid? That height and money matter to women. Or potecting and providing. Nobody should be telling women they don't deserve something that is biological because men are getting shorter and broker relative to women. How men are raised, they often are extremely difficult to be around if they don't bring provision to the table.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 12:16 PM
1	I have been at least 3 years completely healed from the red pill but i got played soo hard that now i cant stop thinking that maybe they were right. The vast majority of red pill cope is that men want sex, kids, marriage etc but are too lazy to audition and sustain it the healthy way. Going after a friend just furthers evidence of laziness and so does online dating. Are you an interesting person? While you feel entitled to someone physically attractive, are you successful? Why do women owe you making your life easier while you do nothing but exist and wouldn't make their lives easier? It's all about what you're owed and not what you yourself…	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/24 06:08 PM
1	Do women in traditionalist countries have better morals than western women? Soldiers spread syphilis and gonorrhea to their virgin-before-marriage wives from Vietnam and Korea during war, so I'm guessing not. Men that travel to the third world where women might give up the goods for a bag of rice are delusional. We are all only submissive if a man has is FINANCIALLY high status. They are going somewhere where their pennies can be seen as high status. And then finding out submissiveness and voices drop 10 octaves when his bank account dries up	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/24 05:22 AM
2	Is escortmaxxing a good way to deal with emotional pain, have fun, and be adventurous in life whenever I’m feeling lonely, will it ruin my chances of finding a long term relationship, and will bragging about it on social media make the women who know me jealous? I'm conflicted. On one hand, it can take the pressure off. So long as you're also focusing on boosting your career and I mean hard-core ambition. If I were you, I'd take a trip to the Netherlands or some place where prostitution is not super seedy and illegal. I lived in Holland 8 yrs and the sex workers in the various red light districts get tested. Because it's essentially a vacation experience, it will dissuade you from becoming addicted, and you have to promise yourself you will only do that…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/24 06:20 AM
4	Shorter guys who are successful? Holding an extremist position is often self-sabotage. Obviously your dad and your grandad passed down short genes, and women have less of a bio incentive than people claim. But the extremist position is "most women prefer tall men, therefore I don't stand a chance". It's the new risk-averse, socially awkward type the internet produces. If things are harder for you, you don't take as many chances as men for a thousand years prior, and very few chances results in less opportunity, enforcing negati…	/r/ExRedPill	27/12/23 07:39 PM
15	No eggs??? Their whole premise is the idea that women lose value very early. It's their revenge fantasy/wishful thinking about women having very little value that's easily taken away. The truth is that Western populations have been aging. Women between the ages of 18-25 or are far rarer than the male population in demand for them. Even if women were interested in middle-aged underachievers or young incels, there's simply not enough of them in the population. 6% of US females to be precise. There's somethin…	/r/ExRedPill	24/12/23 12:03 AM
1	Why do tiktoks of women hating short guys get millions of likes? I'm a 6'1 female. Men always preferred my shorter friends when we went out. If I didn't move to the Netherlands and meet my 6'3 dutch husband, I'd probably still be single. Men even told me that I was smokin but they wanted someone petite they could "throw around in bed". Short men are also mean when I'm in public by myself. Either claiming I'm lying about my height because they're 6 feet, so I must AT LEAST be 6'5, or trying to impress their girlfriends by being mean. Even my husband has been s…	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/23 07:11 AM
14	Why do tiktoks of women hating short guys get millions of likes? Men have been running around the internet saying anybody but a teenager hit the wall, that everybody but 1% of women are "mid", that petite women are the best etc., so to me it makes complete sense that women would double down on shallow preferences. That and men claiming romance, love, and well-thought out dates are simping + claiming all men are the same. So you might as well hold out for your top physical or financial preferences. Especially given that marriage signifantly doubles a woman's w…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/23 10:44 PM
3	The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship? Yes, I think it's true for a large percentage of women, but not all. But I don't think those things are extremely unachievable. 6 inches is still average, 6 feet is only slightly above average, and 6 figures is not really the flex it was 20 yrs ago (and many men will reach that by 40), especially in major cities.	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/23 07:43 AM
4	I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind. I am not understanding your question in relation to what I said. Women are absolutely hypergamous, but not in the copey way men online think. It boils down to, does this person make my life easier? Or are they a burden? Be the best partner that you can. Focus on your career now instead of internet forums. Make more money, develop a personality/humor, be romantic, develop emotional intelligence, and be prepared to help the mother of your children when you see she's struggling. If you choose to be…	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/23 03:04 PM
3	I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind. If you're that worried, date someone that you are in their top 20%	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/23 02:33 PM
1	What's the reason red pillers love to hate on women over 30, Obese women, single religious women, Single moms, and effeminate men? That's not true. It seems like you're more invested in the idea that everyone wants white women than understanding my point. First, all men will take what they can get. And black women aren't interested in them. They only like Asian women if they think the woman is interested. They can't afford to be picky, but they want to convince everyone they are. So they talk about body count, virginity, "mid", WOC, etc to convince themselves that they're picky instead of undesirable to ANY women. Being rac…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/23 09:28 PM
1	What's the reason red pillers love to hate on women over 30, Obese women, single religious women, Single moms, and effeminate men? Obese women -- the more obese women, the more competition there is for skinny women they are attracted to. The obesity epidemic turned a skinny 3 into a 7 because of the rarity of thinness (according to them). So they have even less of a chance of getting laid. When there were many white women in the 1950s, all marrying around the same age, all thin and average or pretty according to them, they had a chance. Single moms: both leave more men in the dating market and should be punished for not pro…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/23 02:27 PM
1	What's the reason red pillers love to hate on women over 30, Obese women, single religious women, Single moms, and effeminate men? Please don't lump black women in with sex workers and other choices. They hate black women because black women have been with black guys (who they believe have bigger penises and are "tyrones") and they hate white women who've been with black men for the same reason. Men at the bottom of the totem pole are usually there for a reason. They typically are shorter, have smaller penises on average, and other issues. They need to pretend to be picky, and are also resentful of black women, the original…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/23 01:56 PM