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Sciencetext-redacted/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:00 PM
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I think most average ppl are drawn to other average ppl. Ppl tend to date in their own worlds. Most average women Ik date average men. Cuz most ppl are average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:19 PM
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No idea tbh, I have never been in a position where I am like, actively trying to find sex. Been in a ltr since I was 18 and before that guys weren't into me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:26 PM
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bothered
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:51 PM
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idk lots of ppl will dislike it whether it's for women or men. Personally speaking I am have a "anything goes" mindset as long as it's fiction. Idc what gender it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:41 PM
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as someone who has worked in customer service for a long time, I don't think it's bad as long as you're not pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:12 PM
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probably so they don't have to waste their time on ppl who don't want a serious relationship. My very first relationship with my husband I told at the very beginning I only date for marriage so he could drop me if he wasn't prepared for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:49 AM
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the turned stones being mostly food delivery services lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:54 AM
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he's onto us!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:40 PM
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furst
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:17 PM
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I don't think I am jealous of men's dating life at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:17 PM
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stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about! this was one of my dad's favourite lines lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:42 PM
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depends how big the packs are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:26 PM
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Call him out on bs and interrogate him 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:24 PM
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No unfortunately I had to actually study 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:23 PM
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I just left my job recently, but for like two full years after the name change they still hadn't changed it completely in their system.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:28 PM
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maybe it depends on where you live or family culture, but I have been to at least 4 bachelorette parties including my own, and none had strippers. I have never met anyone irl who has been to a bachelorette party that had strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:06 PM
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garage is full unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:30 AM
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Idk if hail rlly happens outside of summer, but yea we love Canada lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:29 AM
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weather alert for baseball or larger sized hail in my area. Rip my car 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:59 PM
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I want a cattttt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:21 PM
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nuh uh, it's all about that bass <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:04 PM
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I think I wouldn't be an incel. If I were born male in my exact same family living in the exact same place I do, I think I would probably be fine dating-wise. Dating wouldn't rlly be my primary concern. I wouldn't be happier in general tho. I don't think I could handle being a male. I don't think I could live up to traditional gender roles. I wouldn't want the pressure of needing to be the breadwinner, working my whole life. Leading my family in the way a man should. I couldn't do what my husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:51 PM
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I love fanfiction communities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:57 PM
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I treat male friends different because I am attracted to men and men are mostly attracted to women. The line between emotional closeness and romance is a thin one so I try to stay far away from it in respect to my husband. Additionally I have always felt myself more naturally relaxed in the company of women. I am shy and awkward in general and it just seems to be worse with men. I don't often have emotionally deep conversations with friends at all, but especially not with male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:23 PM
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Idk, assuming the close friend or sister of the bride actually knows and cares about the bride's preferences on this matter (if they are a friend close enough to be in their bridal party), suddenly dying their hair neon green or smthn the night before the wedding seems a little like a pointed action imo. The story the prompted this thought was a bride's sister showing up day of the wedding with brand new bright purple hair she had gotten dyed the night before. The bride was upset and honestly I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:17 PM
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at the same time it would be hilarious to claim its just something something, like "gun guys just want to look at there guns and dont shoot them" "car guys have just the fantasy of driving a car and rather drive bus" and "people who watch cook stuff on youtube actally dont want to cook" I enjoy action movies, therefore I want to commit acts of violence. I enjoy slasher movies, therefore I want to murder ppl. I am an avid dark romance reader, and when I say dark, I mean actually dark. Not 50 shad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:09 AM
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I think it's valid to kick someone out of your bridal party if they make a huge physical appearance change (tattoo/dying hair) immediately before the wedding day ngl. Personally I didn't care about pics and stuff and I don't think I would care that much if someone in my party made a change like that. But Ik some women who have envisioned their wedding for ages and have specific aesthetics in mind, and I think if you're a bridesmaid or moh you should at least be considerate enough to discuss with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:56 PM
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I think they are. I think women tend to be better at/more experienced with recognizing what they are feeling and why. This is just based on personal experience with various men and women I know. And maybe it's a little old fashioned but I do kind of believe that the whole "women are feelers" and "men are thinkers" is true (to an extent). Probably depends on how one defines emotional intelligence also ig. Some ppl might have different views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:48 AM
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idk what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:39 PM
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I love being able to call my man my husband 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:13 PM
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Pretty much everyone is insecure about smthn, so ig no one is sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:28 PM
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Idk she seems sweet, just insecure. Very understandable feelings tbh, I feel similarly with my husband sometimes cuz he's just such a sweetheart. It's like your insecurities mix with your admiration for this person you love so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:46 PM
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give him a kith 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:42 PM
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I don't talk to new ppl for the most part. As far as old friends go I just talk about life mostly. I have 2 friends and I see them maybe once every few weeks, so usually I can chat about what I/we did while we weren't seeing each other. or like just anything at all. I have wildly different interests than almost everyone I am friends with, including my own husband. I have never found it to be too detrimental to making conversation and enjoying each other's company.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:02 PM
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6'4"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:56 PM
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Been good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:39 AM
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More guests = more presents 🎁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:56 AM
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hard to tell from the outside how "fair" things really are at home. It could be a variety of things from either person involved that may be causing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:59 PM
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Tbh I know plenty of single women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:35 PM
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0/4 (unless you count not dating before 18)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:34 PM
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I can't get the video to play for me, but I don't rlly like public proposals usually and I would prefer not to be the one proposing. But as long as they're happy, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:23 PM
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been busy all day no time for naps unfortunately 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:33 AM
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I married my hs sweetheart. I had a massive crush on him in hs, and he didn't seem interested in the most part or I had thought so. After we graduated we did a movie night with a couple close friends and I made a move and ig he was into me. He said he knew I liked him before he just wasn't ready to date at that time. Anyways we dated for about 4 years before getting married, have been married for 2 years now. From the very first couple times we interacted in a explicitly romantic context I told …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:54 AM
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been up since 2 am and it's almost 8pm. running on maybe 4 hours of sleep if that. I used to be good at this stuff Ig I am getting old fr 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:48 AM
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tbh I found this conversation difficult to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:35 AM
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There are often red flags. Passion and love blind ppl often. Tho tbh I have encountered situations where men have hid these behaviours very well. Mega regret encouraging my friend to get with a guy I'd known for years and thought was good only for him to end up abusing her. rip
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:32 AM
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I haven't seen a butterfly in a hot minute tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:29 AM
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I have only experienced one dick so not exactly speaking from experience, but I would assume if I couldn't feel it going in or smthn like that, it wouldn't be my preference. Realistically, basically everything "matters" to an extent. In dating and relationships it's extremely rare if not impossible to find someone who meets every preference. We prioritize and we compromise. There may be some women who find size to be a very important factor and some who don't care at all. same goes for basically…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:26 AM
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I guess so. I personally have never cared but I don't have a full college degree myself, just a 2 year program
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:58 AM
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I think there can sometimes be more stress when it comes to self-employed ppl. Insurance, benefits, pension plan etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:39 AM
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Something a lot of men say is that men who get hookups get sex for free, meanwhile men who can only get sex in a relationship have to give up a lot in terms of time, effort, emotional availability, etc etc. I guess this is valid if the only goal of the guy is to have sex. Usually that doesn't make for a great relationship anyways, but yea if the whole relationship is just a means to an end (that end being sex) then it would probably feel to them that guys who get hookups are getting sex free whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:34 AM
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This just isn't true. My dad worked 10 hours, 4 days a week, 3 day weekends every weekend my whole life. Cleared 200k easy. Also trades aren't necessarily low skill, they're very specialized at what they do. Blue collar work varies a ton in terms of hours and pay and even physical exertion depending on where one chooses to work. I agree tho that driving trains tends to be one of the tougher trades in terms of hours, but this stereotype that all trades that pay well have sucky hours isn't necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:17 AM
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The main issue especially working on trains is the hours and scheduling. It can be grueling when trying to start a family, although not all trades are like that. But keep in mind that adds intense strain. Other than that, maybe it depends where you live? Most guys where I live are blue collar and women here definitely don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:11 AM
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I wouldn't marry him tbh. Like I feel like that would be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:00 PM
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I don't think my husband would feel this way and I don't think I would marry a man with such clear mental issues. But yea he's my husband I would make him stay with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:58 PM
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I would rather he stay with me cuz that's what he promised to do. But clearly in this case he has a mental illness so I would try to get him medical help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:56 PM
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Well I would be extremely upset with my husband if he did that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:53 PM
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many will change their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:51 PM
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I mean sex is great but I wouldn't leave my husband if he wasn't physically capable of sex anymore. He's my life partner and my primary/only emotional support person. I didn't marry him so we could fuck all the time even though I certainly enjoy that. I want to grow old with him and spend as much time as I can with him as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:44 PM
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I feel like sex is under the intimacy umbrella but that intimacy is broader and encompasses more than just sex. It could also be my personality, I genuinely cannot separate sex and love/emotional closeness. Ppl who partake in casual sex might view it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:41 PM
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I'm such a sucker for sweethearts I can't relate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:37 PM
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yes probably
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:08 AM
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I already had thanksgiving 🇨🇦
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:35 AM
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I mean I'm not trying to say 54 grams of sugar is the healthy but I do eat sugary stuff often enough to know it doesn't cause this lol. I know how my body responds to caffeine and generally avoid it for this exact reason. I think my brain was focused too much on the yummy chocolate peppermint yum part and less on the coffee aspect of mochas tho kek
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:03 PM
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at work so can't do too much but am for sure guzzling water rn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:37 PM
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Somehow it didn't occur to me that a large peppermint mocha would have substantial amounts of caffeine in it. I can feel my heart beating out of my chest rn and my hands look like I have tremor 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:11 PM
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I didn't say that you said that. 🙄 what is the purpose of debating a point I never even brought up then? Sounds like an employee and less like a wife. But that's just my opinion. I mean I think I would probably grow frustrated with my husband if I worked full time to maintain our home and family and he just hung out with his friends all day. Like if I were to agree to a SAHH/D set up I would obviously expect my husband to contribute to the home in lieu of not contributing financially. The romanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:02 PM
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I don't think it's fair to say that because someone has a job they aren't capable of cooking dinner. when did I say this? I said it's reasonable for a man to expect his wife to cook meals as part of home duties. I didn't say men are incapable of cooking meals. Men are also capable of living by themselves and maintaining a home without a wife, but the main purpose of a wife staying at home is to ease the burden of maintaining a home such as cooking meals. Presumably the SAHW/SAHM has made breakfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:38 PM
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men with fulltime jobs also have friends and hobbies but they don't get to maintain those during working hours. Extra curricular activities not necessary for the function of the home are also generally considered leisure activities unless they are paid. I understand SAHW/M have lives outside of being a mom or taking care of the home and they also can be more flexible with when and how they spend their liesure hours. But a working man is contributing a full 8 hours of his time everyday (if not mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:02 PM
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What are they so busy doing that they don't have time to cook a meal? Not hating, genuinely curious. I have a sister who is a SAHM with a toddler and an infant and she still cooks supper everyday and maintains an orderly home. My mom also did the same. Obv if the man wants to cook that's no problem either, but I understand why a man who works all time with his wife SAH would prefer cooking be one of her duties and I think that's a perfectly reasonable expectation. And yes obv everyone has their …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:48 PM
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I mean usually the cooking is part of the "inside work". I agree it's more nuanced when children are small, and need 24/7 care and supervision, but even then usually a simple meal is not that intensive and is usually considered part of home duties. If there are no kids in the picture I can't really see a valid reason for cooking to not be one of the SAH duties regularly. Obv it's up to each couple how they want to divide work, but maintaining a home these days as a SAHW (no small children or chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:38 PM
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I think most humans desire companionship. I have very vocally feminist friends who still very clearly desire a life partner and pursue that for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:35 PM
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I think this is referring to a SAHM/W situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:33 PM
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I'm assuming this is a situation where the wife is SAH and he's working full time. In which case I agree. Although I don't think take out once in a while is atrocious even with a SAHW/M.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:32 PM
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It's sorta fruity ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:24 PM
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it doesn't get better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:52 PM
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I mean already often walk around shirtless in the summer so idk how u can get more revealing than that. I've never seen a woman walk around without a shirt in regular public areas. Ultimately I don't rlly care how ppl dress as long as their bits are covered. I'm not gonna say anything if a guy wants to wear a spandex skintight bodysuit with cutouts or smthn else weird, I just will think it's weird and not very attractive to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:34 PM
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well if someone is a talker and the other is a listener it can make for good compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:39 AM
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I'm usually good with cakes but I tried a new recipe this time and it was a total failure fr 😅 My sister is making a pumpkin cheesecake for thanksgiving tmrw anyways which is his actual birthday so I think we'll use that instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:45 PM
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Tried baking a birthday cake for my husband and it was a huge flop 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:33 PM
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I mean tbf even if it's not the daughters fault if they had a shit father ppl with trauma obv come with more to deal with than those that don't. It's fair to say ppl who have a healthy family dynamic might be easier to start a new family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:34 PM
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depends on the person. But yea my husband is my best friend anyways and I would give up all my friends to keep him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:32 PM
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Scenario A. My family are my besties anyways and I am a diehard romantic so I wouldn't want to lose the chance to have a romantic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:28 PM
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I pretty much did pick my own ring. I thought I would be less picky but then when we went to look at rings together I fell in love with one and we just went with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:32 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:01 AM
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I'm not gonna read into it too much if it's just a generally pleasant person I'm familiar but not close with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:40 AM
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I think some guys are obvious bad choices but many are non obvious bad choices. I felt horrible after a friend of mine revealed to me her bf was abusive cuz I'd known the guy prior to her meeting him and had talked him up to her. I didn't exactly set them up but I thought he was a good match cuz I'd known him for a long time, attended school with him since kindergarten, worked with him for a while at our local grocery etc. He was very kind, always made a point to say hi and ask about how I'm doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:33 AM
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bit too much for me tbh(referring to visible muscle, mainly the abs). She's obv gorg, but she's not my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:19 PM
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my husband gave me a kiss this morning before he left
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:01 PM
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nothing crazy, customer service, book keeping, admin stuff, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:35 PM
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writing cover letters is such a pain uggh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:42 PM
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Sometimes I feel like my life is a story/play and someone just rlly wanted to fuck up the script and ruin the vibe all of a sudden and now it's like a 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:14 PM
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I still work at this company rn so not a good idea 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:46 PM
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ik I shouldn't expect anything, but I was an internal applicant and I knew the ppl hiring. It's also a position that I know will not come up again for likely years from now so I basically can just give up on that dream. I fit literally every part of the job posting including the "nice-to-have" section which had some very specific requirements. I even got messaged by the one other employee who works there prior to my interview telling me she hoped I got the job and she felt I was best fit for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:30 PM
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Well, I'm pretty certain I likely lost the position to another woman. It was an internal posting and I basically matched the posting requirements perfectly. Frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:13 PM
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It's over, applied for a job and got rejected 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:01 PM
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smarter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:18 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/e2n6wvnblwqe1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=485a9a81f4b9675fd31dbbc1168eba09c15e0fe7
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:25 PM
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I remember losing a stuffie goldfish keychain behind some furniture object and reaching for it. I remember playing with my pony toys while my older siblings were at school. I remember running around looking for spare change at the bowling alley to use in the gumball machines. I remember getting scared at night and my brother letting me share his bed to comfort me. I'm starting to remember a lot of stuff now but idk exactly when they all took place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:11 PM
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Why'd you offer to pay if you were just gonna bitch about it after 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:26 PM
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I don't rlly see how being interested in a specific aspect of history as a hobby is a bad or inferior. I do get bothered when ppl get snobbish about things that ppl are passionate about or enjoy on a casual level. It gives, "Oh you like ___ ? Name every ____ ." lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:24 PM
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I don't think being into war stuff is anymore weird than being rlly into ancient greece or smthn. I find war stuff cool tbh, especially medieval warfare tactics, weaponry, armour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:14 PM
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If the porta potty isn't there yet I'd hold it lmao 😂 But yea it's a sucky job, my husband only did it for a half year before going to school
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:00 PM
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My husband did rigs for a bit we also live in Alberta. Probably depends on company and location but I don't think they were shitting in bags lmao. But yea it's not an environmental fit for women. pissing outdoors aside, those kinds of men are not the kind women generally want to be around day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:35 PM
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green flag, I'd stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:41 PM
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anime son. I was on Japanese class throughout high school and knew some pretty chill albeit awkward weeb guys. Kpop girls lean on the insufferable side tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:42 AM
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My SIL proclaimed herself to hate videogames when she started dating my brother, but I got her hooked on the Animal Crossing New Leaf when it came out and she took over my island 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:27 PM
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OLD sounds like hell, I'm glad I married my highschool sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:40 PM
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Sometimes I find spontaneous plans work better. Inviting ppl last minute leaves less room for ppl to ghost or be like "I'll get back to you" and if they're busy or don't wanna come, so be it. I think it's cool to do things on your own too tho, I am not that kinda person lol. I never go anywhere alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:27 PM
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you think I can keep track of all that in my head 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:19 PM
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seems like I average around 4 hrs a day. I usually use it right when waking up and right before falling asleep. I use it at work the most (bad ik), on the toilet sometimes, at home I don't use as often cuz I have better things to do same as on the weekends. I mainly use it during free time if I'm waiting on someone for smthn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:23 PM
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he looks like this kid from high school I really disliked so I can't give an unbiased opinion on this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:45 PM
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I had to replace the battery on mine recently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:58 AM
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I wouldn't date a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:58 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:56 AM
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he didn't want to go to a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:25 PM
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my dad got rlly pissed at me for that once 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:24 PM
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uhm 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:24 PM
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maybe the boy then 🤔 tbh tho I'd prob prefer a non verbal companion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:23 PM
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still cute, but he's not pink and 💖💖💖
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:06 PM
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still cute, but he's not pink and 💖💖💖
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:06 PM
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fiction. Fantasy is more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:03 PM
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open accounts, process credit applications, investments, general advice, mortgage renewals, etc. My role isn't specialized for one thing so we do pretty much everything. If it's out of my wheelhouse I refer to specialists. I'm technically in a sales role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:02 PM
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based on the pictures I would go with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:00 PM
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I'm primarily an advisor, I just help out on the counter here and there. I enjoy the teller work, all kinds of crazy folks out there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:57 PM
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this one is objectively cuter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:57 PM
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Can it talk to me? Or is it just cute and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:57 PM
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i remember my dad spanking me so hard I could see the red imprint of a hand on my ass 💀 TBF I didn't get spanked often and it was always with the forewarning of "If you keep doing that, you're gonna get spanked" lol. I don't remember my mom doing it as much her go-to was always "I'm gonna tell dad when he gets home" and we'd all be like "noooooo!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:56 PM
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how I feel about my appearance is almost entirely tied to where I am in my cycle kek
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:50 PM
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whats a yeye boy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:49 PM
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Lol had a client come in ask me to print off a year worth of bank statements for her taxes because she could only access them month by month through online banking. Was gonna be like 33 pages and so I wasn't about to waive fee, told her it was gonna be 10 dollars or she could get them online for free. She tried to fight me bout it then basically said she'll just come back when I'm not here to get one of the other tellers to do it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:48 PM
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I'm aware of my financial situation already 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:00 PM
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I feel like it'd be hard to prove that a God doesn't exist, but if it were proven to me somehow, I would probably change a lot. I mean my whole worldview would be shattered and I'd prob get very depressed and not want to participate in life anymore (I'm hanging on by a thread here fr 😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:49 PM
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It'd work on me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:45 PM
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yea def, some of my colleagues are super chatty and I just can't relate. I'm also just weird about small talk tho cuz my husband has commented that I never ask him about his day. I make an active effort to do it more now, but I think I genuinely just operate thinking if something significant happened he would tell me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:45 PM
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I was never told I need to do more small talk but I def feel the pressure lol. I do feel rude cuz I often just don't think to ask ppl about how their day is going or whatever else. I'm not necessarily scared to ask lots of the time, I just don't think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:37 PM
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5 now 😊👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:35 PM
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that's crazy low tbh 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:12 PM
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I miss my family so much, I want nothing more than to move back 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:24 PM
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Applying for a job finna move back home 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:59 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:27 PM
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I find most ppl can tell when I'm joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:05 PM
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my friends back then were all gay so I don't think that was their reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:25 PM
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I've still never been to a skate park tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:22 PM
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when I was younger I asked my mom if she could let me hang out with my friends at a skatepark, she said no cuz she thought it was sketch and didn't rlly like my friends. It turned into like the biggest argument I've ever had with her and she almost banned me from going to the library on Thursday nights 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:12 PM
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big guys. Like stocky, mass. Obv muscle is attractive but I prefer bulk to a guy being shredded. Even overweight guys too as long as they are also strong. for faces generally I find myself draw to wide squarish/roundish faces. I'm not a fan of long faces generally speaking. I also much prefer dark hair, dark eyes, shorter hair styles. Facial hair is nice but no big beards. My husband is exactly my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:22 PM
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thanks 😊👍 Idk why this day exists but I'll take any excuse to treat myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:33 PM
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me too 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:14 PM
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I haven't planned that far ahead 🫠 I have left over egg salad I made yesterday so maybe just a sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:43 PM
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I'm married. I was last single when I was 18 years old in 2020. longest single period was age 0-18
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:43 PM
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could you have not picked a non murderer example? 😭 I wasn't sure if we were just talking physical type or personality too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:29 PM
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is this the vanlife chick who he murdered and then killed himself? How is he your type???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:22 PM
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Home maintenance/renovations, car maintenance, yardwork, physical hobbies/hobbies that involve working with hands like wood working as an example. I'm not specifically talking about extreme physical exertion although that can be hot, but just typical "man" shit. Even little things like if someone's moving, all the guys getting together to help move heavy stuff lol. Pleases the Lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:18 PM
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men working on cars confirmed also very hot (imo). Ik online women hate "mansplaining" and maybe if I was more knowledgeable about cars and shit I would hate it too, but I genuinely like when I guy is explaining his "guy shit" to me. I mean obv I can't guarantee she was interested cuz I'm only one girl, but I wouldn't completely dismiss the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:10 PM
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wdym that's how my husband dresses lol 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:04 PM
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Interesting. Where I grew up and plan to settle down most guys work blue collar and most women are married to blue collar men so ig it's what I'm used to. I honestly think I would probably have more disconnect with guys who are more corporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:59 PM
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That's fair. Or work that has more of a balance and flexibility instead of just hard labor all day every day until retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:57 PM
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Fair enough. I'm not icked out by office work or anything and obv it's practical often both money wise and physical health wise. I just do think there's something undeniably attractive about a guy doing physical labour kek. Once they're older it does make sense to move into less physically taxing work tho. Also tbh there is a bit of an ick factor if a guy has never done any kind of physical labour before whether or not as part of his actual job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:47 PM
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In my humble opinion men working with their hands/bodies is hotter than office work (even if it makes more money). Not enough to where a guy not doing blue collar more laborious work is a deal breaker, but still. The escalators in the building I work at are constantly out of order and we've often got maintenance guys in the building and I find myself wanting to purposely walk by on my breaks to sneak a peek at them lol. And I work in a giant office building where I'm passing by white collar guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:27 PM
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I'm an evangelical Christian. The church I attend and grew up in is Pentecostal, I also attend a baptist church sometimes. I also attended a Charismatic Bible college for a year so those are my main influences. I don't consider myself confined to a single denomination fully although I believe many denominations and churches have good practices and traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:59 PM
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My brother just got a fancy new leather jacket for his birthday and it's inspired me. I want to buy my husband a fancy leather jacket. Also a nice watch and gold earrings. So expensive tho 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:52 PM
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Well we're married so if he's willing to stay with me I would honor our marriage and stay with him (whilst also constantly praying for him and his faith to be restored lol). Biblically speaking you shouldn't marry a non-Christian, but if he leaves the faith post-marriage or you converted to Christianity post-marriage and he didn't follow with you, you should honor the marriage. At least that's what I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:45 PM
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Is he converting just cuz he wants to get with me or does he genuinely believe? Also ideally he would be taking the role as the spiritual leader of the household so I would be a bit apprehensive if his faith foundation is shaky. If he had a genuine conversion (not just because he wanted us together) I would be okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:33 PM
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Ehh, not particularly. I am religious tho and want to be a SAHM, so I expect a man who's as religious (even better if more) and who is willing to provide for the family once kids are in the picture. I'm pretty flexible on a lot of things but religion is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:24 PM
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I've never heard of this or really seen this happening. But I'm young also so maybe a lot of my male peers still have their "lights off" so to say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:56 PM
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It could also be influence from older men. It's not Jamaica but I have family friends who the father grew up in El Salvador. They would always do a huge quinceanera for the girls, but I remember asking once what they do when the boys turn 15. The dad made a joke saying they take them to the brothel 💀 So I've always wondered in cultures like that if young boys are often caught up in more adult activities by the older men they are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:41 PM
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sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:52 PM
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Ngl since I started working my "big girl" job I've had two female managers and they've both been uber sweet and both have said they view me as a sort of daughter (I'm close in age to their daughters). Men I've worked with have been fine too tbh. There are things I hate about my job and company but the ppl I work with day-to-day have been great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:39 PM
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lol this whole post sounds like a cartoon. But as for the question, I've never personally known a genuine thug or criminal. At least that I know of or has actually been convicted with anything. I wouldn't be interested in a guy who was actively mean to others or going out of his way to engage in dangerous and violent behavior. I already get mad enough when my husband speeds too much so...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:32 PM
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Happened upon it randomly during a purge and found it entertaining. Here I am around 4 yrs later 👁️👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:51 AM
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Burning every single question into your brain is a lot of work though and part of why so many ppl who take that approach struggle with and hate math. Obv practice is important in math, but if you're just relying on pure memorization without really understanding what you're doing, you're gonna burn yourself on memorization. Not to mention when they throw you a curve ball on an exam with something not specifically covered in the text it causes students relying solely on memorization to sometimes b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:43 AM
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math isn't really pure memory. I didn't rely as much on memorizing formulas as I did understanding the how and the why of what I was doing. I never particularly struggled in math but I found kids who had the kind of plug in and compute mentality about it tended to struggle more. You can memorize a formula all you want but if you don't really understand it you'll fail when it comes to actually applying the mathematics in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:31 AM
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how do you divide one dick among 5 girls fr tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:28 AM
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I feel like a lot of other classes you can mostly bs your wya through but math you have to genuinely understand. I never struggled particularly with any classes tho but this is just the impression I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:11 AM
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ahem... violent content 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:45 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/8ll0uraan5ne1.jpeg?width=782&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6949843bb545a09c09443b5c920e23aa7a2f3217 no idea about ring terminology, just picked what I found pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:36 PM
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kind of all over the place. I'm not rlly a super fan of anyone here but I've liked music for m artists in each quadrant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:30 PM
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idk what a snark sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:10 PM
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the lip bite lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:07 PM
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I'm a closet type mf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:49 AM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:18 AM
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It's a super popular tourist destination. Also Canada in general is expensive. I love Banff and live close but even still it's quite pricey for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:32 PM
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As a Canadian, I'm gonna k*// m***/f
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:26 PM
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Don’t you got any male coworkers that you’re friendly with? Like you enjoy messing around with them, talking with them etc, occasionally go out for a drink or something but just don’t see it going further than that? friendly with? sure Never gone for drinks with a male coworker and would never consider them a real friend. At my old job I had one coworker I got along really well with but I could have totally seen myself going for him in a romantic way if I had been single and that was an option. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:16 PM
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not rn 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:46 PM
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I feel like if I found a man enjoyable enough to consider a good friend I would also find them enjoyable enough to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:45 PM
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link broken
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:34 PM
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kind of cute ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:01 PM
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ngl I kinda admire ppl who ask dumb questions cuz I feel like I waste so much time fumbling around with shit instead of asking because I'm too scared of looking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:59 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:04 PM
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I wish I was unemployed so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:52 PM
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doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:47 PM
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pedro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:18 PM
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Christian??? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:30 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:28 PM
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gratz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:06 AM
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ru pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:05 AM
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find a nice rich man and marry him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:20 PM
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I wanna quit my job and have babies frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:15 PM
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my husband recently got a buzz and he looks sooooo good. I will always be partial to a buzz cut 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:50 PM
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parmesan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:25 PM
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why is marriages a "?" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:49 PM
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I don't think all Canadian schools, but the one I went to as a kid had a ski unit up until they changed the program (the year I was supposed to get to do it). They'd bus everyone out to the hills for skiing, it was pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:23 PM
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My dad took me skiing once cuz he wanted me to see what it was like (all my siblings got a downhill ski unit in school but they skipped it with my year) and we just rented stuff. I don't think I'd be buying anything without trying a few more times tbh. I am great as ice skating and I did note similarities, but I was too scared to go on any tougher runs even after. a full day skiing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:54 PM
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Lake Louise/Banff Sunshine is better than most of the American ones out west + exchange rate abuse makes ski food almost seem reasonably priced that's pretty local for me, maybe I should try skiing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:45 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:40 PM
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My dad is so great with little ones and it's probably something I should have realized since he had 4 kids of his own and was a stellar dad. But with both my sisters having babies recently it's so sweet to see how he helps out with them lol. I'm still definitely ginna be waiting on the whole baby making business for later, but I'm glad to know my future kids will have a fantastic grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:35 PM
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ngl I genuinely sorta feel similar about travelling (not that it's feminine, but sorta look down on it) mainly because I my gut views it sort of as frivolous spending and that it signifies a lack of contentment/always wanting more. I actively try to stop myself from thinking that though because I realize just because I don't see the value in it doesn't mean others can't get great value from travelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:32 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:54 PM
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tbh I'm not as much into meta stuff and most of my pulls are for design/characterization appeal or if I really like the gameplay in the trial (wasn't a fan of Mavuika so I didn't pull for her). I do have Furina, Nahida, Xilonen. I have C0 Wriothesly (hoping to get another constellation and possibly gis weapon in upcoming banner) and I fond he can be quite strong. Not rlly sure what characters are widely considered strong tbh, I'm more of a casual player
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:47 AM
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Wriothesly. I want at least one constellation for him. I also just pulled Sigewinne yesterday cuz I'm obsessed with her design (so cute!). Unfortunately I hadn't been playing for a hot minute so I don't have a lot of wishes saved up at the moment so mm😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:32 AM
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Not my style of game. My friend made me play with her once yrs ago and it was a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:26 AM
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I'm so fucked, I just got out of the genshin grind and now they're rerunning one of my favourite characters soon. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:24 AM
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I buy them all the time but tbh I never actually counted how many were in each sleeve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:23 AM
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why not 8?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:16 AM
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This pisses me off, also him charging y'all for the late fee when he's the one who didn't bother paying is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:23 AM
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I'm not much of a drinker generally so I don't have a particular
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:35 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:19 AM
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drink forth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:52 PM
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I'll let it slide, I'll just drink sparkling water and watch tv tonight instead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:48 PM
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at work still also the hubby disapproves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:45 PM
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I wanna drink
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:43 PM
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I think my mom had the better homes one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:42 PM
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Back when I was hardcore crushing on my now husband I was putting a lot of pressure on myself to be cool and chill and funny, but not cringe or whatever. Idk if I was notably different cuz I never rlly texted friends much to begine with, but I definitely put more effort in. We mostly sent memes and stuff. I have pretty bad social anxiety and it was even worse back then so I think I was just hyper focusing on not saying anything to embarrass myself (likely embarrassing myself in the process)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:26 PM
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I'm so fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:20 PM
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I don't mind baldness that much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:19 PM
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boutta crash out fr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:19 PM
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older is definitely more my type but I'm not rlly a fan of his styling usually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:14 PM
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Bananas are yum
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:56 PM
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I hardly remember details of my dreams but I mostly think they're first person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:47 PM
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yes way 😂. Cringeness isn't as much of a thing in LTR I've found tho. As in worrying if your partner will be cringing at what you say or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:41 PM
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sorta. I have friends but I don't rlly send them stuff or text at all other than for planning and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:39 PM
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It's videogame terminology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:36 PM
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Wherever my husband is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:34 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/epxxdbti0xle1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=61ca6613e260ced462744e3de54cddc3b11cc852 Husband is having a bit of a morning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:30 PM
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I married to their close friend so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:10 AM
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0%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:37 AM
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idk probably horny enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:36 AM
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what does she mean "his ear" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:36 AM
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tbh I read a lot of stuff but I've never had this problem. I mostly read toxic romances tho so I would never actually want that for myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:14 AM
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I don't rlly think it matters what I look like, I don't feel like my takes are invalidated by my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:10 AM
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sexual thoughts and feelings probably started around 10-11. I started reading smut fics at around 12 which kind of helped put intox perspective a lot of the stuff I knew I was into but didn't really understand. Similar to what another user talked about with non-sexual kinks I also had a fascination with imagining or playing out hostage situations, kidnapping, "torture", etc. from very very young. I would make up storylines in my head or with my toys that would involve some pretty freaky stuff, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:33 PM
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this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:23 PM
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I feel like a shoulder touch is pretty inoffensive as a way to get someone's attention. I can def relate to the panic feel of someone suddenly touching you but if I realized they were just trying to get my attention it's not rlly a biggie (assuming a light tap on the shoulder or side of arm). Hugs or like full hand contact is 😬 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:22 PM
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tbh I find comments about physical appearance especially tends to go too far unless the other person has made it pretty clear they're okay with it. Depending on the group vibe sometimes ppl can be pretty brutal in good fun, but I feel like usually the group as a collective can tell if someone's taking it too far. I had one guy friend make fun of me for an aspect of my appearance that I'm actually really insecure about and I remember I kinda just awkward laughed it off but felt awful. At least he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:19 PM
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I feel like this just sounds like casual friend teasing tbh. It's okay to not like that but you should communicate with them that you don't like them. If they continue to do so then they're being disrespectful. Granted you're the one experiencing this and I'm not, so you would have more insight into their tone and the social norms of the friend group. But guys in my friend group have teased me about all sorts of stuff, my hobbies and interests, my appearance, other aspects of my personality, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:14 PM
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Probably my dad at this point since my mom's no longer with us kek. But fr I felt both my parents loved me the most anyone could ever love anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:25 PM
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what women logic are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:03 AM
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it's just a lil guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:54 PM
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probably Becky, but she was very fun to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:08 PM
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I like being woken up to sex tbh, but it's totally valid for it to be violating if they do it without prior consent or in this case explicit refusal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:50 PM
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kinda guy to be like "just sign here" right before he puts it in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:28 PM
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I'm not confident in myself but I'm for sure confident in my man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:22 PM
1

this kinda thing has never bothered me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:20 PM
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I went to high school with a chick who looked exactly like this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:14 PM
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lookswise? idk what u look like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:13 PM
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whenever I see these types of vids I wonder how one person amasses so many friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:06 PM
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I would be icked out. I also wouldn't want to have sex with a man who didn't trust me enough to not accuse him as a rapist. I also do agree with other posters that it's pretty sus and maybe indicative of ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:51 AM
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I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:19 PM
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tbh that was one of the better responses of his imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:44 PM
1

okay I would disapprove
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:30 PM
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Same reasons and usually I'm not into blondes but his isn't atrocious imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:30 PM
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Stephen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:28 PM
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like she is currently a prostitute/escort? how much is he paying for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:27 PM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:25 PM
1

define whore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:25 PM
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cuz it's borrrring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:22 PM
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ehh, I've seen so many different users over the yrs, hard to say. Gimp girl was just a very memorable one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:12 PM
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gimp girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:11 PM
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You just have to plan your trips more. Recently have been thinking about doing something similar to this later in life, but it definitely has a variety of pros and cons. I have a place I know I would go, but being so far away from a lot of stuff is intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:09 PM
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Hook-up material doesn't exist to me since I don't hook-up. In an imaginary world where I'd be willing to have somewhat casual sex, I don't think I'd actually do it with anyone I couldn't see myself possibly entertaining a dating relationship with. Then again, if the guy is okay with casual sex, he's probably not the type I'd date. Back at the original conundrum. I can't separate sex and romance/dating/relationships/marriage enough to truly think of a guy who's solely hook-up material. Main thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:32 AM
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ppd obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:03 AM
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not everyone 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:45 PM
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tbh I was working late night at the grocery till one evening and a customer showed me some of his pokemon cards (I know nothing about pokemon but they were sparkly) and it was kinda endearing tbh. Also early in our relationship my husband walked me through some of his minecraft builds which was kind of cool. I was already really into him at that point given we were dating, but the minecraft thing was a nice touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:23 PM
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I noticed that too after a bit lmao, it looks so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:18 PM
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ehh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:13 PM
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amen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:13 PM
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he's attractive physically but the posts and account are cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:12 PM
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oh lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:11 PM
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It's not rlly impossible for shorter guy to have a 6" dick. But it's weird they'd tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:09 PM
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Some women have low self worth. Sometimes the really bad shit doesn't come out till they're already committed to one another which then becomes less of a "next" and more of a "my life has become super intertwined with this guy and breaking that off is hard". Some women are naive, insecure, lonely, don't have good support systems, etc. Sometimes they get together young before real world responsibilities set in. I do think ppl need to take reasonable accountability for their bad choice in partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:04 PM
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I could probably tell if I felt it but I would rlly be able to tell you exactly how many inches the whole thing is without a clear point of reference. And visually unless I got a side by side with a length I do know, I'm not good at estimating length. Like I have experienced one dick in my life and I've not exactly measured my husband's penis, so I don't rlly know exactly how long is what I'm used to. An inch bigger or smaller I think I would be able to feel at least tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:33 PM
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I forget
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:29 PM
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no, but I do think a lot of motivation in going to nightclubs can be getting attention from the opposite sex. Not necessarily for everyone, but I think that's pretty common. I don't think the end goal is necessarily a hook-up tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:29 PM
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Kid too slow frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:24 PM
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I got invited to the club once by a friend and so I asked my husband if I should go and he said he didn't like the idea. So I asked him if he could come with, but he wasn't into that idea either 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:12 PM
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oh, I thought it was just caz the he kept walking too far in front of the kid 😂 I don't keep up with politics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:59 PM
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he's trying to appeal to all the "I can fix him" ladies kek
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:51 PM
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torn to shreds for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:50 PM
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Back in high school I used to have a thing for bad boys and it was mostly the guys who partied, skipped out on class, drank, smoked, etc. Prior to us getting together my husband went to parties and drank a lot and smoked weed. That was "bad" enough for me who was basically a teacher's pet. (we started dating at the end of high school) Often times those character traits you described can coincide with a "bad boy". But lots of guys can have those traits and not be a "bad boy" "Exciting" and "direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:47 PM
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I never played league and I understood it. I think the second season wasn't as good as the first tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:00 PM
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maybe arrogance. Hard to pinpoint the worst one but I find it pretty eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:58 PM
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me and my husband stopped at McDonald's for the first time in a long time recently and I was floored by the prices
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:57 PM
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It's unethical to lie about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:27 AM
2

I got lost fr and ended up on the looks discussion post by accident 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:26 AM
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when I was a teen working at grocery store a guy forgot his wallet and left his cart by the tills while he ran home to grab his wallet. Me and the other girls on shift looked in his cart and it had magnums in it and we were def giggling over that for a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 AM
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Maybe we should avoid mocking ppl's genitals altogether. Anyone with me? ... Just me? okay 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:18 AM
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I could def see it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:16 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:07 PM
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I didn't mention height?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:01 PM
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Yes, I said I agree for myself. But I know lots of women don't think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:37 PM
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well if I'm not attracted to them I wouldn't be with them romantically. So I guess forever alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:27 PM
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men can decide to keep up the search or choose to end it once they find someone their satisfied with so it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:23 PM
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You're extremely lucky if you found someone who checks everything you want. Vast majority ppl find someone they're truly happy with but still have to compromise on some things, or have some things that don't necessarily line up with 100% of their stated preferences. I adore my husband and I absolutely don't have any regrets choosing him as my partner, but we still have things about each other that can cause minor annoyances or aren't a perfect ideal. Most ppl recognize that in the long run that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:22 PM
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someone that isn't as attractive as I want assuming I still find them attractive. As long as he passes the threshold nothing really matters. I'll likely still be just as into him sexually and romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:18 PM
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Well you settled down with him. At some point you decided he's who you want to be with and ended the search. That's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:17 PM
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I agree with this for myself, but Ik not all women think like this. If I truly just wanted a hook-up my standards would be way lower because all I'm looking for is a fuck, not a lifetime together. I don't need a 10/10 prince charming if I'm just looking to get myself off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:15 PM
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settled. Everyone eventually settles for someone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:12 PM
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<image> oop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:12 PM
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idk, most ppl don't use that word where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:05 PM
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I get it, It's a wonder I'm not an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:25 AM
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I don't have much advice cuz my husband has babyface and I adore it. Ik not what you wanna hear, but ultimately there are some things that can be worked on and some things that can't, so better to spend more worry energy on things that can be changed. I have one friend with pretty clear baby face and no facial hair and he just got jacked and worked for him, although it's not the easiest option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:24 AM
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Generally darker colours, but not usually straight up black. I'm not super in tune with the colour/season type stuff, but generally strong colours suit me well or "jewel" tones. That being said I don't enjoy clothes shopping so the majority of my closet is very old clothes ppl have handed off to me over the years. So I've not curated my closet much but I do have a few go-to's if I wanna try to dress up a bit. The other huge difference is types of clothes. I haven't worn a dress or skirt in proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:17 AM
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I've had my fair share of fictional crushes but this stuff weirds me out fr tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:09 AM
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this is like the polar opposite of my closet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:05 AM
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I think lots of single women buy themselves flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:01 AM
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Whether I view it differently than a woman using it, honestly yea probably. I can't say I have a logical or fair way to justify it but in my mind, woman using sex toys generally = sexy, and men using sex toys generally = pathetic. It's not fair, and ultimately it's of little consequence given I've personally never owned nor used a sex toy and neither has my husband. But where the idea of sex toys for me(specifically vibrators and such, I have no interest in dildos) interests me to some degree, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:51 AM
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I don't think I'd truly be okay with it irl, I'd prob get pissed and jealous and it'd be a miserable time. In my fantasies tho it could be a pretty sexy idea. I agree it's inherently cucked tho. Obv, cuz ur man is being sexual with another woman. I think I find the hot aspect of it being my husband having many women pleasuring him and being into him, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/sj20ban445ke1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3026e842791097b5850d43e1cdf75a408c4bfd2e
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:36 PM
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well it's time to try something new 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:31 PM
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have you tried guzzling cum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:29 PM
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it only matters for brand new accounts. Zero or low karma can limit how often you post/comment and some subs block comments/posts from low karma individuals. after a certain point it just becomes funny numbers for a lizard brains
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:39 PM
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I have a cousin who was a game dev for yrs and then eventually had like a mental breakdown basically and is now a heavy duty mechanic lol. He says the physical work helps keep him sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:37 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:30 PM
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very sweet of her but damn that would be expensive 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:29 PM
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It definitely does not kek
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:25 PM
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probably not. Not usually into blondes and also he's. a geeky characature so... Then again, love is a strange thing so never say never 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:24 PM
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I'm no cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:22 PM
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are you sure you read my comment right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:43 AM
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Most guys rejected for looks and height don't even make it to the bedroom. Most guys who make it to the bedroom have built up some emotional connection/rapport with the person it's a lot less likely for it to end the relationship. For casual it obv may matter more, I don't do casual and frankly don't care about a man's ability to get sex with randos. Not to mention if casual is the goal it doesn't even matter if she's not into you after the initial hookup. Believe me, if women are willing to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:43 AM
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tbh yea. Most women can easily find a man even with smaller tits or ass. Women who get worked up over it is usually due to personal insecurities or perceptions of what they think men want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:39 AM
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But you've said it's the most important physical deal breaker. Again I've not known any women irl to end something or not start something over penis size (I'm not saying it never happens, but I'm just saying it's not common) I have for sure known women rejecting men for looks and/or height tho. If penis size were that important it would be more common than looks and height
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:37 AM
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ik what he meant (although I still think it's a bit of an extreme take). I just think it's a funny response since it's quite nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:35 AM
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against tos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:34 AM
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most guys have enough down there to be good enough. I've never known a women irl who ended something over too small dick. I could see it happening if he had a micropeen, but micropeen isn't common Also guy you were responding to said looks/height/charisma piques interest more than dick (given women can't see dick off the get-go) and you seemed to think he was foolish for thinking that. Which implies you think women can somehow see the dick prior to the pants coming off and that it's the main poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:33 AM
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interesting, might just be a default she uses for referring to ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:30 AM
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Do you believe women have x-ray vision? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:29 AM
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is she older than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:28 AM
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oop 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:04 AM
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idk, cheat on me ig
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:56 AM
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Probably do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:54 AM
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her tits look bout ready to slip out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:50 AM
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I think sadist would be worse cuz assume you want to take part in it with a consenting partner, being a sadist puts you in a very precarious position. Assume she says she's fully consenting and so you do some kinky shit together. What happens if she decides she wasn't as into it as she thought she was, but she's still got all the physical evidence of what you did together. I feel like that could potentially be pretty messy legally if she decides she wants to fuck with u
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:08 AM
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Happy Belated Birthday, sorry it's not been great for you this year. I had a bit of a weird birthday yesterday too tbh. But yea I think it's common for ppl with birthdays near holidays to grow some kind of disdain for the holiday, but for whatever reason it did the opposite for me. Valentine's and B-day just ended up being an excuse to have an extra big party/celebration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:59 AM
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You don't have to sacrifice anything for a woman. You can choose to do nothing for Valentine's if you want, but she's free to prefer someone who doesn't bitch about treating her for a day. Also what about taking your girl on a date sacrifices your values? Is dating or treating your partner against your values? Valentine's day is generally just a date and a gift usually. Most ppl do that shit regularly with their partner without needing a holiday to mandate it, the day is again just an excuse to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:56 AM
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It's not government mandated that you roll out the red carpet for your girl. I do think most ppl would weirded out that you're so against doing a lil smthn extra for a partner for... no particular reason? Most ppl in fresh relationships don't expect anything crazy, it's just an excuse to do smthn sweet for each other. I didn't hesitate to treat my husband on our first Valentine's day. I used it as an excuse to make him feel extra special for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:48 AM
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It's not really mandated, it's not even a real holiday. I love Valentine's day but I also have a lot of positive associations with it, even from before I had a partner. My birthday is the day before Valentine's day so I was always having Valentine's themed birthdays and I loved the card exchanges when I was in grade school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:35 AM
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It's a warhammer mini for one of his armies. It's his main obsession lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:33 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/7ow15pjm67je1.jpeg?width=669&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12fda4b9b172c8f35659c450ae021646891b89e3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:29 AM
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tbh I don't understand this mindset. I have never done casual sex but I feel like if I did looks would matter less. Why would I care what some guy I'm gonna fuck once in my life looks like as opposed to a man I'm gonna be seeing everyday for the rest of my life. If just sex is what I want, it's more about it feeling good than my hookup looking good. Again I don't do hook-ups but it just seems like a mix-up of priorities imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:28 AM
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That's cuz I'm not gonna get my husband flowers and heart shaped chocolates for Valentine's day lol. I got his gift at the game store
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:24 AM
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probably, depends on the person probably. I got my husband a Warhammer mini and marshmallow bananas (one of his favourite treats)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:12 PM
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Idk I got a hubby who I find extremely attractive and also loves and prioritizes me, so idk if it's that deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:52 PM
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hard to rate myself, I enjoy socializing and can't be alone for long without going crazy but I have horrible social anxiety and struggle to make new friends. As a result I mostly just hang out with family and existing close friends at my or their homes when I can. Usually I say I am introverted, because most of my time is spent at home not socially interacting, but I also feel depressed without good ppl interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:15 PM
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probably not especially if he requested me not to. I don't think my husband has ever shared something quite like that tho. He's shared personal stuff of course, but nothing like SA. Plus I don't talk about personal stuff for the sake of talking about it, it's pretty much only when relevant and it feels like a valuable contribution. Also I don't share this stuff with my "girlfriends" I pretty much only get into deeper conversations where sensitive stuff comes up with my bestie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:07 PM
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I talk to my bestie about my husband but usually not in a way that's "shit talking" or would be disrespectful. I don't share every embarrassing details, and usually if I do share tmi stuff about out relationship it's not part of a gossip sesh or to be mean. If I ever share more sensitive info it's usually because I'm concerned about smthn or we're relating and supporting each other using our lived experiences. I think in general most women don't want to shit talk their partners. If anything they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:28 AM
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fwiw I didn't notice until you commented on it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:23 AM
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Well I'm not a blonde woman anyways, maybe you should ask blondes what they think. Also I have and do find other ethnicities attractive, again my husband is only 50% white. I just think it's kinda obv when majority of the ppl around you are white, the ones who are above average will likely more often be white. idk what ethnicity you are, but I work in customer service in a very diverse area and I regularly find ppl of many different ethnicities attractive. I see like hundred of ppl every week fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:48 AM
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I wouldn't say my preference is white white, but generally men I have been most attracted to have fairish skin (like tan), and mostly Euro features (I think, I'm not the best with knowing this stuff). I have crushed on/been attracted to men of varying other ethnicities before as well. I think white is just more in my comfort zone cuz I mostly grew up around white ppl. I don't rlly think it's much deeper than that. Like even these days since I've moved somewhere with much more diversity I can tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:39 AM
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Probably could vary based on the situation, but with my husband it's never caused me to lose respect for him. I've seen him cry many times (albeit not as much as he's seen me cry). Aside from just crying, him being able to communicate what he's feeling and what's on his mind is hugely helpful for problem solving and conflict resolution. I think for some women who lose respect over that it's just them being toxic and petty. In some cases also women want to view their partner as a solid rock to le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:16 AM
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idk my husband got me living flowers once and I let them die, it was too much responsibility. I don't rlly like flowers as gift in general tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:06 PM
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bringing up the emotional ramifications of the other persons actions relating to their shared children is a valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:14 PM
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I can't remember last Valentine's day. Since my birthday is the day before it usually all blends into a party/date for me. I do usually get him a gift tho. My husband isn't very sentimental and doesn't care for that kind of stuff, but I enjoy treating him. It's hard when there's overlap with my birthday tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:41 PM
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sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:35 PM
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ime it got exhausting trying to defend men or advocate for them when all that would end up thrown back in my face. When I tried to empathize with and care about men's issues, I never felt that energy being returned by them and it didn't feel like it was making a difference. It's also hard to continue to want to empathize with guys who constantly belittle your experiences and talk shit about you because of your gender. I've stopped trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:04 PM
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well tbf she said unattractive men have shit personalities 🤭 But yea, seems kinda unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:51 PM
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yea guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:48 PM
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Maybe so, but my wallet doesn't love it and now average men can't make enough money for a family rip
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:46 PM
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your final resting place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:44 PM
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Most pickmes don't stay pickmes if they spend enough time on here (speaking from experience 💀)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:44 PM
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I don't wanna work or have a career 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:43 PM
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sadge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:03 PM
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well you are significantly younger and apparently you even appear younger than your actual age, so he does and is the type to do that. Also Idk the age of his friend but I assume to much older ppl who aren't in that life stage, being able to tell apart late-teens and early twenties to mid twenties would be ome more difficult, so if the friend is also an older man it would make sense he wouldn't be able to guess your age as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:49 PM
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well tbh after hearing your guy is old af it makes more sense he'd think that. If your husband is the type to go after very young women, who's to say even younger than you is out of the question. I still feel like the conversation is just being jokey tho since ur husband literally referred to you as "aging out" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:26 PM
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are you sure it wasn't a joke, the whole convo sounds jokey. It just seems like a nice way to say you're looking good and young
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:21 PM
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I mean if we were able to go libe ina. hippie nudist colony maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:18 AM
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uhhh, this one is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:55 AM
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not that I know of
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:51 AM
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Imo it totally depends on the couple. My ring was 3k and the wedding band 1k. I feel like that was pretty reasonable given our life stage and I absolutely adore my rings. I don't like big diamonds our gaudy jewelry. I do like that my rings still feel valuable and required some degree of sacrifice from my partner as I personally feel it's meaningful. I think if you know your partner well, you'll know how much they would expect or if they even care about the dollar value. If you guys aren't aligne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:43 AM
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man a
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:16 PM
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definitely man A
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:07 PM
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lowkey yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:43 PM
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literally lol, it says authorities are worried she's a danger to herself without anyone to supervise her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:33 PM
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drive, walk or bus. Biking isn't very feasible year round where I live and I'm wary of bike theft. I enjoy biking just for the sake of it but I don't rlly rely on it for transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:04 PM
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he seems fun no lie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:08 PM
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when men reject me cuz my dick too small 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:22 PM
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I don't rlly care about that. I desire sex way more than my husband so I am used to frequently putting my needs aside to not pressure him. I would get bothered by him seeking other means for sexual satisfaction when I'm there and willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:12 PM
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Idk lana del ray's music so idk of there's like a connotation to being into it or not. I'm not a huge fan of any kind of extreme celebrity stanning, but if he just rlly enjoys the music ig that's fine. I don't see a reason to police his music tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:51 AM
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5'7" my husband is 6'3"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:42 AM
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I partake in both tbh, but moreso smut. Personally I find I engage in smut very differently than I do porn. For one I don't usually read smut oneshots (short stories solely for the purpose of a sex scene). I usually read full stories that include smut scenes. If I'm not into the plot, characters, narrative, I'm likely not into the smut that much either. I like books and stories with steamy scenes with a lot of emotional weight. When I watch porn usually I just want a quick fix and it kinda feels…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:31 AM
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I mostly watch long content tbh, but I don't think it helps with the adhd shit cuz I just multi-task while having it on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:53 PM
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I will survive. It's not what I typically listen to but it sure is fun to sing along to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:28 PM
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I think it's best for animal ppl and allergy ppl to not mix. I'd be willing to give up a pet for the right guy tbh, especially if it's allergy problems. But vast majority of ppl would not so it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:51 PM
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I would be very confused because I've known him since we were 14 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:49 PM
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maybe if I was single and we really hit it off. Long distance would maybe deter me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:17 AM
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I didn't realize this was Zuck at first so I thought a husband sculpted it for his wife or smthn which would be cute (although interesting artistic choices). Honestly tho, I wonder how gift giving works when married to a billionaire. Like, it being expensive doesn't matter at that point cuz it's like a drop in the bucket. I suppose I would like meaningful gifts, but a giant statue of myself would feel a bit gaudy and would probably put me off more than anything. Maybe she's rlly into that shit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:29 PM
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I honestly couldn't see myself wearing smthn revealing enough to warrant a husband comment (also I don't have enough friends to go for brunch with). So idk, assuming this us something I am comfortable wearing, I would be pretty shocked my husband would be uncomfortable with it. But I also don't care that much and could probably wear something different if he genuinely has a problem with it. I'll just save it for a night out with him instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:24 PM
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A
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:09 PM
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top right is probably the best although the weird expressions ick me a lil. Bottom left looks nice expression wise and features but he looks like a teen. They all look like teens... How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:07 PM
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It's okay if he wants to be submissive sometimes, I'm okay with flexing in that way. I'm switchy but I lean to sub, so if he can flex for me in the same way it should all be good. Sex is a two way street
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:02 PM
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Assuming they've both changed from who they were previously to a person I would want to date now, either would be fine. I might lean towards incel given a guy being an incel doesn't necessarily mean they've done anything I morally disagree with. The problem I have with some incels is more their mindset, not necessarily just being unable to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:46 PM
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nothing say "I love you" like a guy saying he's "okay with" fucking you cuz he's "board"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:40 PM
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It's stupid expensive there, but in most cities it's quite high, especially combined with work being hard to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:26 PM
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adopt or foster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:13 AM
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thanks 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:10 AM
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I'm lucky I even have a job. I see posts on my subreddit of ppl sending hundreds of applications with hardly any response. Employers are get upwards of hundred applications per day for jobs. Rent is stupid expensive, so it everything else. It doesn't look like things will get better any time soon either, if anything it will get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:07 AM
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I'm honestly so depressed living here rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:25 AM
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going viral in high school is like a horror story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:04 AM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:57 AM
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Not every private detail, but with my closest friend we do discuss sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:54 AM
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I think for a true friendship that goes both ways (I can count on them, and they can count on me) I prefer ppl with similar values. That way I can trust them to hold me accountable and encourage me in the lifestyle we both want. But I have a lot of friend who I have vast ideological and lifestyle differences with, I feel I tend to approach those friendships differently. Sometimes it's solely for hanging out, sometimes it's just that I want them to know I will be there to support them if they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:24 PM
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these are children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:40 PM
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Sorry, I see where the confusion is. The hook up is describing the cheating, not the conception of the child
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:40 AM
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No I didn't 😭 Please reread. I said your spouse cheated on you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:39 AM
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uhhh, did you read the scenario. These children are planned and you're with your wife. Like they are still your children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:37 AM
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oh wow, that's awful 😅 Please don't ever have children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:34 AM
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I thought my mum was pretty good 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:24 AM
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I don't think it's fair to frame it as some sort of a vengeance or punishment and I have never liked games parents play with their kids. Yea that's fair. I don't necessarily mean bringing it up to make them look bad purposely, but just to help the child better understand the situation and to be honest. But yea, it's probably a play by ear kind of situation if anything. I do think at least once they're adults and they are looking for the full story, I would probably tell them. Me and my husband j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:25 AM
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I like cigarettes over cigars and vapes. I also wouldn't necessarily say vaping is tamer than cigarettes. Like ig so in terms of ling damage and stuff, but I found vaping to be way more easily accessible, which made it much worse for me. Not to mention you can get them in yum flavours. It kind of awful tbh. I'm not rlly a cigar person, but I have a friend who started on them and then moved on to a smoking pipe. I have smoked them on occasion, but it's more about flavour and the experience than i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:09 AM
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Yea once their in the midst of their teen urs it makes sense . Why should I be punished for my partner's crime? Well tbf, I'd see it more of a consequence of their poor decision. It's mainly just out of concern of how it would affect the kids ig, but how ppl handle that stuff is up them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:05 AM
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is this a witch thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:02 AM
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Happy New Year's to all the ppl in my time zone 🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:01 AM
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Even for young children? And assume in this scenario, aside from the hook-up, she actually is a very good mom to the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:56 AM
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Two answers for my scenario have been flops so far 😭 Okay, so I basically am just looking to see how and when ppl would decide to disclose to their children details about their partner concerning a relationship breakdown that paints the ex in a bad light. Cheating is the easiest and most common scenario for this kinda thing. This was prompted by a post I saw about a man who divorced his wife over her cheating and about a yr later started seeing other women for hook-ups and eventually to start da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:55 AM
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Why not though? Because then I don't have a scenario 😤 Okay, so just a scenario where you divorce your wife due to infidelity. I just wanted it to be a scenario where it's not horrible enough to not be able to have a decent co parenting relationship or smthn like that. The main thing is you're divorced and it's basically entirely her fault. The kids share time with both parents tho and it's up to you on whether they should know all the details right away or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:47 AM
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Q4A: Your spouse cheats on you and you decide to divorce. You have a child/children together who are still dependent on you. It was a one time hook-up and your spouse acts extremely remorseful over their actions (although that doesn't change your mind). You two do you best to handle the divorce proceedings amicably and try to keep a relatively healthy co-parenting relationship for the sake of the kids. Would you or at what age would you tell your children about the reason for the divorce and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:41 AM
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currently I live about a 2 hr drive from most of my family. But our plan is to move back to my home town soon cuz I miss my family too much. I do drive home like once or twice a month already, but I am missing my family like 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:10 AM
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you get used to the sounds of your home.Growing up my oldest sister would often be playing piano in the home to the point where it kind of just became white noise or easy to ignore. I rarely had friends over as a kid, but I remember one time I did, they were woken up by her playing piano earlyish in the morning and had to come and like shake me awake since I just slept through it all lol. I think when ppl have kids in the house making a ruckus all the time it's similar to that where it kinda jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:24 AM
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I am usually down to suck dick any time, but I'm usually pretty horny even while menstruating (especially if I just did oral on him) so I still like to be on the receiving end of intimacy in some less messy ways while on my period, usually just hands or smthn. I'd be open to period sex as long as the mess is contained, but I've never actually asked my husband if he'd be down with that. I get the vibes he's not so interested so I've never brought it up and usually just stick with what we've been …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:14 AM
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I have never heard of this before and had to google. I still don't fully get it tbh, but ig you learn smthn new every day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:06 AM
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I didn't know Zendaya was tall tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:02 AM
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I don't rlly think sleeping around as a goal is great for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:00 AM
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fan works are so so cool, man. Damn I'm such a dweeb but it's cool to see my favourite things recreated and expanded upon by such talented ppl. Obviously also a lot of appreciation for the original artists and authors, etc., but I find fandoms and the way ppl interact with the art to be awesome as well (although I can acknowledge fandoms have their toxic sides)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:35 AM
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I get excited for Valentine's cuz my B-day is the day before so it's just a big party
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:23 AM
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Ig someone doesn't like being cared about 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:21 AM
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That's cool. Tbh I've never seen anyone replay games near as much as my bro. He was replaying his favourite game the other day and I asked him how many times he's played it through and he said "idk, probably 20" 💀 That being said iirc it's not a terribly long game. Idk how long it takes for a regular playthrough of Pokemon Yellow. I was never super into pokemon other than X/Y (solely due to cute outfits too)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:40 AM
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yea ig so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:37 AM
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I never rlly thought about what the penis is ngl. Penises are strange and alien like tbh 👽👾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:35 AM
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No, you think your husband is certain because you're certain. I spend my time on PPD, I have had this conversation pre-marriage with him lol. He does trust me and he thought it was strange I even brought it up lol. Believe it or not, a lot of guys do not get paternity tests when they have a baby with their wife because they trust their wives have been faithful. There are red flags in every relationship that's being overlooked. If you'd end a relationship as soon as you encounter a red flag, your…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:49 PM
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Jimmy will become his own man 😤 Only he can choose what kind of husbando he wants to be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:39 PM
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little Jimmy's gonna be a star 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:34 PM
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how long have we been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:31 PM
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me and the hubby have already picked out names :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:30 PM
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my whole family was sick basically. I'm paying the price now, but to me Christmas with family is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:31 PM
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Why don't you just go now while you're unattached? And while I agree there is a certain freedom that comes with being single, as someone who's married their first romantic relationship and hasn't been single since high school, I feel like it's so fun and exciting to experience those things with the person closest to you. If you do find someone truly special, you'll likely want to share those experiences with them. But if that's not the case for you, I would just go now while you're single. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:13 PM
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rad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:55 PM
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what happens if I eat both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 PM
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daily thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:53 PM
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Trust is something you earn, it's not a default. He shouldn't blindly trust you and you shouldn't blindly trust him, that's just stupid. What do you think I've been doing the past 5 years bruv. I don't blindly trust him and he doesn't blindly trust me. I've known him almost 9 yrs at this point, and we've been thru a ton of shit together. Of course I trust him. I know he trusts me as well. This whole situation is hypothetical, my actual husband wouldn't ask me for a paternity test lol. Because he…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:39 AM
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yea, if all you care about is what you look like, that makes sense since it seems to be common among women. I've never hooked up and never would, but personally I don't rlly understand why hook-up material needs to be better looking. I feel like if all I wanted was sex it would matter even less what he looks like, since its just for fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:41 AM
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The only possible reason for the baby to not be his is if I cheated on him. So even if I did nothing to rouse his suspicions, he's evidently still suspicious of me. It absolutely is about me, who else would it be about? Your husband has had experience with false paternities, fraudulent or not, and doesn't want to fall in that pit. If he has genuine trauma about this and it was an absolute requirement for any child he has, I would like to know that before marrying him and before him impregnating …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:59 AM
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I'd take the old man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:26 PM
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He absolutely does, but ik those guys had their own shit to sort through as well. I don't wish them bad, they were just immature teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:33 PM
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Well I wouldn't say my crushes explicitly said they weren't interested in me. But one of them acknowledged he knew I had a crush on him and laughed in my face. The other one found out I had a crush from one of my friends telling me and he proceeded to tease and mock me for the rest of the yr about it. This was all in high school tho of course since after graduating I started dating my now husband and obv have not had any other crushes since.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:27 PM
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stories and videos show who has seen them I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:20 PM
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what's defined as a pseudo rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:16 PM
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yea, the fact that for the vast majority of rape fantasies, women don't genuinely want to be raped and in addition, the "rape" they fantasize about is hardly what real rape is like at all is a factor. I think the percentage of women who genuinely fantasize about real rape scenarios is small, and those who genuinely desire to be raped/put themselves in situations to make it happen are a very slim minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:40 PM
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wow 50-60. Last time I checked I think the main reported stat was like 1/3. I would keep in mind the way being victimized can affect sexuality too tho. Some portion of that percentage might not be ppl with a natural inclination, and may be formed due to unfortunate experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:14 PM
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The characters were probably a furry awakening moment for a lot ppl who have that interest tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:10 PM
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Sonic fans become menaces' when they grow up. I'm very offended 😭 Some ppl just appreciate the games and shit yanno, we don't all make ot weirdly sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:03 PM
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Tbh I'm not 100% sure how I feel about that. Like it's obviously kink content, so I do feel ot should be posted on an adult website, but nothing is explicit either so it's hard to make that argument. I don't like those kinds of videos because it can be exposed to anyone who happens to find it without them willingly consenting to see it. At least on an adult website ppl can choose to witness it. I would also feel uncomfortable if someone was walking their girlfriend at the park like a dog, even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 PM
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I don't make a habit of shaming ppl as long as the kinks are done in private and everyone is consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 PM
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I feel like my answer is implied lmao If their husband is not abusive and shows no indication of being abusive, I don't think it's good unless they're both doing it for emergency reasons lol. A go-bag for the sole reason of distrusting a person (assuming they have given no reason to distrust them) communicates that you don't trust them to not abuse you. If someone is at the point where they feel the need to keep a go-bag, they should probably just "go".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:47 PM
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If you asked for a maternity test, would you be accusing the hospital of having switched your baby? Sure, that's the only conceivable reason for asking for one. People have no issue with women have go-bags hidden from their husbands in case they turn abusive. You're assuming I have no problem with this. Your husband would be doing this for his own protection. My husband can do whatever he likes. But the fact of the matter is, I'm not a cheater. I know that the baby is his. As long as he believes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:08 PM
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So did he abandon the old chick due to mental health issues? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:42 AM
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That's still not biblical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:33 AM
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My sisters are both married to carpenters, although more the construction kind rather than the wood art kind. Technically one of them isn't explicitly a carpenter, he just does odd construction jobs, carpentry inclusive. I don't think either of them particularly struggled to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:09 AM
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I agree that paternity fraud is a horrible thing to do. But that's different from refusing a paternity test. If my husband wants a paternity test, I can't really stop him. I have every right to feel hurt by that decision tho if he had no real reason to suspect me of cheating. Asking for a paternity test, especially with no forewarning or reason for suspicion, is a baseless accusation of cheating. So the consequences will be the same as if he straight-up accused me of sleeping with another man (b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:53 AM
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Nahh, I've just put off buying them, I doubt I'll be able to get a good sale
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:43 AM
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I bought those for my husband, I still have to buy a couple more to finish it off tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:31 AM
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I don't know. I know Charisma is huge in terms of dating. It can carry you a long way if you're lacking in other areas, I've seen it before. But yea it's intangible, hard to define, and an even harder skill to build. I think a lot of the ppl who rlly use charisma as a major strength tend to be naturally charismatic as part of their personality. I'm also very not charismatic and have other social issues, so I have no clue how ppl develop those skills lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:16 AM
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I might check it out but webtoon is a shit app and I hate the daily pass stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:01 AM
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The manwha?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:50 AM
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I was gonna drive back into town to celebrate with my fam but I got sick yesterday and I don't know if I'll feel better in time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:49 AM
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I'm more of a manga girlie tbh. I like the anime mostly due to nostalgia and attachment to the story and characters, I don't think the anime was executed very well in comparison to what's in the manga which is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:50 AM
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Shhhhhh, you'll be okay. We can't all have good taste. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:35 AM
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Fair, I think I'm gonna get back into and catch up with One Piece
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:17 AM
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That empty feeling you get after finishing a rlly good story 🥺 So good but now what do I do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:11 AM
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they seem happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:15 PM
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bro wants to get shot up by ur boy toy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:11 PM
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A lot of it is just what kind of earings you choose. I used to rarely wear earings, but I found a pair of my mom's simple gold mini hoops and I really like them. They don't catch much cuz it's just a circle, and because it's gold my skin doesn't react either. I now wear them pretty much every day even tho I used to basically never wear jewelry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:03 PM
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I have my ear lobes pierced. My husband took me to get them done for my 19th birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:56 PM
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ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:43 PM
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I wouldn't last at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:35 PM
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TruckerGary84 been through it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:15 PM
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I prefer honesty. I'm usually the first to criticize my own cooking or baking if it sucks anyways. If I'm genuinely unsure how I did, it's nice to hear some constructive criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:06 PM
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I think the main problem is whether he's trying to find employment again, not necessarily whether he's fired in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:58 PM
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This is an ideal body type tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:33 PM
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he looks muscular to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:32 PM
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I like dancing. I've never been to a concert tho. My dad was against dancing when I was growing up for religious reasons so I wasn't allowed to go to dancing events. But in highschool I joined a jazz band and we had a swing dance we played the music at along with 2 other high schools. So my dad couldn't force me not to go, plus I think he was more okay since it was mostly jazz instrumental music. I danced like crazy at those dances lol, it's so much fun. Even tho I'm really not good at dancing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:30 PM
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Ohhh, underwear was more normal. Usually it meant we were being too loud at night and my dad was upset since he had to get out of bed to tell us to be quiet. My mom usually wore a robe or nightie at least tho. Fully naked tho? no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:24 PM
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what does this mean? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:14 PM
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Slept in. Feeling sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:09 PM
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I think you're kind of exaggerating what "upset" means lol. It just means unhappy. It's not some deep depression. I don't see how it's unhealthy to be upset by someone doing something that's rude and inconsiderate 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:59 AM
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Media is great, I'm passionate about all kinds of works of media. It's okay to ve upset by things that take away from that enjoyment. Fiction is an amazing thing and it brings me a lot enjoyment. Just because you don't care about it doesn't mean other ppl shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:40 AM
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why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:34 AM
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Idk I think I get too invested in these things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:34 AM
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I agree that knowing how something ends shouldn't ruin a work if it's good, but that doesn't mean witnessing the reveal for the first time isn't exciting, fun or special. Ppl are allowed to care if other ppl are taking away from that, especially if the media is fresh. It's kind of a jerk move to knowingly post a spoiler to a large audience for a brand new episode. Ppl have every right to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:31 AM
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I don't think I would look like that if I'm born into the same family, but I'd probably date within the church
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:27 AM
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I think most of the existing fanbase probably aren't that type tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:25 AM
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tfw when you type out a multi-paragraph comment with a lot of thoughts on a topic and then you realize "Why do I even bother 🤡"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:51 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:05 PM
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because it's unhinged. Y'all are brain rotten
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:57 PM
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I feel so desensitized to this shit. I long for the days when I would actually find these statements shocking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:55 PM
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I was never a hoe but that's a funny meme lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:51 PM
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oh she's very pretty. Although I do find older black and white photos to be more flattering on average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:48 PM
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I don't have one rlly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:34 PM
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not rlly me type at all but he looks like a fine young lad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:11 PM
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I didn't reduce, I just said it's my favourite lol. I don't think my husband minds lol. He's joked before and said my boobs are 50% of why he married me and my ass is the other 50% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:07 PM
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whatever my husband has lol. I've only tried one and it's 😌🤌 Neither me nor him has actually measured tho, I think it's larger than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:05 PM
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Damn objectify much?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:03 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:03 PM
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dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:57 PM
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chug chug chug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:45 PM
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I think maybe your husband was just a jerk. Not all men are lazy dbags
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:23 PM
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My dad was incredibly happy with his marriage and had no regrets, so I don't think stupid internet labels matter to him. My mom was also incredibly happy with her marriage. I remember her telling me how lucky she felt and to try to find someone like my dad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:16 PM
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My dad was reminiscing about my mom since it would have been her birthday yesterday. She spent quite a few years dating this other guy prior to dating my dad and she always said she probably would have married him if he wasn't so stubborn about stupid things (he didn't want to own a tv was the main thing she couldn't get over). My dad was saying he was glad the ex wasted all those yrs cuz it meant she was single by the time he wanted to start pursuing her lol. He said he kinda owed her ex for ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:01 PM
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I know that, this seems like a weird one to do it with tbh. I feel like it's a very obvious NTA either way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:45 PM
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I saw a post that is almost the exact same word for word, but OP was straight cisgender woman and her partner came out as MTF. NTA is my judgement regardless of the authenticity of this story tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:37 PM
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well tbf, I could see some incentive for not wanting paternity test if you're a sperm donor. That being said, I thought they could only "match" to another sample for paternity tests. Can it be used to find a sperm donor too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:14 PM
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I think I saw one, but I can't remember what their alignment was
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:11 PM
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not to the same extent as PewDiePie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:04 PM
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working rn and then I will drive back home to hang out with my fam this weekend. I've been driving more in the last couple weeks than I have in months lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:57 PM
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ehh in this case lowkey think both noses are kind of meh. Although the right is an improvement it's almost uncanny to me somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:56 PM
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I feel like his life is significantly easier than even most handsome and tall men. Some ppl just hit the jackpot of life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:55 PM
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is that PewDiePie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:47 PM
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My friend had a similar but opposite problem. Her bf has chronic depression and they've been together 6 yrs at this point. She's always been extremely supportive and generally the mental/emotional pillar in the relationship. This yr tho she moved away for college and has kind of a shitty living situation (she's been crashing on our couch) and her school is overwhelming and it's just a lot of shit going on. She's been more emotionally draining in the relationship due to this but it so rarely happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:38 PM
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Male country singing kinda sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:19 PM
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I think ppl tend to associate married with older, so I get that often now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:59 PM
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I feel like YouTubers or Influencers who look like this are almost always married tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:54 PM
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maybe but it's valid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:42 PM
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I do feel like sometimes just letting oneself age is better than these plastic looks. Especially when it's so overdone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:29 PM
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I do that too. I was watching home videos the other day from the yr when I first got my favourite stuffie and I would carry him around everywhere (I was 4 then, now 22). He looked so new and shiny. Nowadays he looks so worn out the difference is kind of nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:28 PM
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is it bigger than your leg?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:24 PM
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I don't know yet, I still have quite a bit of time. I also don't have a huge budget and my husband doesn't have a watch yet. Ik he's not that particular about things. My brother showed him his watch recently tho and it seemed to pique my husband's interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:23 PM
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yea it does sound uncomfy tbh. Me and my husband have a height difference that's not nearly that extreme (ours is 8 inches), but even then hugging can be awkward at times due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:20 PM
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Watches are nice, I plan on getting one for my husband for our anniversary this year
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:19 PM
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yea you get used to it pretty quick. My dad forced me behind the wheel as soon as he could, so I've been driving since I was 16. I still don't like going to new places, especially in the big city. But when I'm just driving on my home turf or highways, I find it can actually be pretty relaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:18 PM
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Tbf it's possible she didn't consciously seek it out kek
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:14 PM
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I hate when I type a rlly long and in depth reply and then when I click post the comment is deleted 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:13 PM
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well, let me tell you I live in a city of 4,000 people and it's the biggest city within an hour drive I don't think that qualifies as a city lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:06 PM
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✨youngest✨ 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:02 PM
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I hate my job. I dread every day of work, and I feel drained and stressed 24/7. I moved away from my home town In September and I miss my family. They are truly my closest friends and it's hard to not be able to just visit my sister for an evening after work a couple nights a week. Having time off is time to not only rest, but allows me to have a nice visit with my family. That being said, Holidays specifically are a bit different. I find Holidays like Christmas to be busy up my life even more, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:08 AM
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That was a bit of a roller coaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:39 PM
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Tbh I probably wouldn't even if I could (and whether it would even become valuable or not is questionable anyways) so I will probably take it out for display
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:04 AM
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I got a funko poo for Christmas. I don't collect them or anything, but ik they are collectables. This is the first one I've gotten and idk at this point if I plan on getting more or not. I don't know if I should take it out of it's box or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:51 AM
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I'm not a man, but I don't feel like step-grandson doesn't rlly need money from step-grandma at all, let alone money to match the actual granddaughter. It's nice she gave him 50, but that's not rlly her grandson. She didn't marry the dad and that little boy likely already has two sets of grandparents. The grandchildren aren't equal and grandma isn't required to view this little boy the same as her actual granddaughter imo. Maybe my opinion would change depending on the particular circumstances (…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:46 AM
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I have hundreds of hours in Rune Factory 4
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:37 AM
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My brother saw the gift I had for him in my closet before Christmas. I bought it like half a yr ago for hum. He spoiled it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:27 PM
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Merry Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:10 PM
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didn't think I'd like Christmas/country music but this kinda slaps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:55 AM
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Zelda music in general is based. I never actually played the older games personally, but I was super into the music and fandom. Oot has some great tracks and I love the various orchestral arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:50 AM
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Luigi's eyebrows kinda look like those fake stock on ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:08 AM
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I don't support murder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:52 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/37apn2c83x8e1.jpeg?width=365&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f0ededfe25644f2eff0be600dfc652740c776877
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:51 AM
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gotta get that bag first. Babies while my hubby is still in school would be a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:48 AM
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mine: https://preview.redd.it/yb4cgffj2x8e1.jpeg?width=403&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=953de99b10d09bd320d300d394235fc0e513382b (I have this poster in my old room btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:47 AM
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man this shit is so weird tbh. Like he's murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:44 AM
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two new babies in the family in the last 3 months. Much cute, much fun walking them around to put them to sleep 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:42 AM
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I had a friend who did cleaning as a job and she said they would go to this one guy's house weekly for cleaning and without fail he would have like 3 empty bottles of lube lying around every week. Ppl who have to work in other ppl's homes regularly are probably used to strange shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:52 PM
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a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:47 PM
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none is better than an inspiring influencer. I don't care at all, my husband barely uses social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:41 PM
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me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:59 PM
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I had a friend like that, his parents were both quite short but he was like over 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:45 PM
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yea, my dad is 6' and my bro is 6'2". My husband is 6'3" last we checked and his mom and aunts on that side are all very tall. He also has a cousin who's like 6'6" or smthn nutty. Me and my sisters and my mom are all around 5'7". So I have a feeling that we'll have tall kids lol. The only wild card is my husband's dad since he was adopted. He'd more average height for a guy I would say, but he looks short compared to my husband lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:38 PM
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better marry tall. I think my kids will probably be tall, likely the guys moreso than the girls tho. Me and my hubby have pretty good tall genes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:32 PM
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absolute unit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:29 PM
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I don't think I'm disgusted by it necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:15 PM
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I didn't restrict myself back when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:08 PM
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I don't ship them but also Mihawk has reason to be arrogant/prideful. But I also feel like he would take criticism if it was legitimate. What I hate the most is guys who are prideful/act like know-it-alls even tho it's completely unfounded. I especially hate when they are so obviously wrong and everyone is telling them they're wrong, but they're too stubborn to own up to their mistakes and accept the criticism. It's so ick 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:05 PM
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Interesting, I picked A for the exact but opposite reason. Both are bad, but unfounded arrogance and pride really icks me out. My sister's husband sounds a lot like Guy A and man he drives me up the wall. It comes across as so childish
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:57 PM
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aggh these are both pretty bad, probably guy A tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:52 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:28 PM
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wdym going out? Like with a different stranger every week? I mean it honestly depends on the friend. I have some friends with very different lifestyles and I try to hold back. If this behaviour seems to be causing some kind of distress for her I might address it. Otherwise, it's not rlly my business if she's enjoying herself. For my best friend who shares my religious beliefs I would probably be a lot more vocal about my opinions tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:13 PM
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I mean if they're doing something that is legitimately dangerous that's a different story, but I also don't know how I would know about that unless they told me about it. And like, I don't usually get that detailed with friends about sex stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:07 PM
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idc what ppl wanna do in the bedroom as long as they don't involve me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:03 PM
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I love my family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:49 PM
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Best and only 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:19 PM
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Oftentimes it's depression or other mental shit. Or if the relationship isn't great in other ways it can cause a disinterest in sex. Being tired from work. Having an affair. Porn addiction. There are plenty of reasons for a man to not want to have sex with their wife, most of the reasons women generally have, men can experience as well. Some of the reasons are shitty person reason (affair) and some of these are "life is shit" reasons (depression or stress). I'm much higher libido than my husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:57 PM
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Perhaps the women here share the same men.. uhm, yea... that seems like a reasonable guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:57 AM
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I'm pretty sure a lot of the women here are married or in long term relationships, so I don't see how it's that crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:38 AM
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yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:31 AM
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Well we're married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:30 AM
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Did he get down on one knee to give it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:01 AM
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I used to bake brownies to give to my crush in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:58 PM
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green beans is the casserole tho 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:37 PM
1

yummnnm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:29 PM
1

yummy yummy 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:28 PM
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Yea idk, we only started adding it to the roster when My BIL married my sister. Honestly I'm not a huge fan, it is very similar to those weird fruit salads. My family loves it tho. And like, we're "Ukrianian" but actual Ukrianians from Ukriane are so distantly related to us at this point it's rlly not a core part of our identity. I think I'm like 4th or 5th generation immigrant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:01 PM
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I plan on 4 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:57 PM
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It's not a midwestern dish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:54 PM
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I asked my family and they said the wheat salad is a Ukrainian dish, but I checked and while Ukrainians do have a wheat salad dish, it's seems to be very different from what we make lmao (obviously what we have is modernized and simpler to make but it's different beyond just that). The recipe we have is from my BIL's family and they are also Ukrainian tho. Culture is weird tho so I think our recipe is just a product of cultures merging and changing overtime. Our families have been in Canada a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:53 PM
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I don't think you need to be that rich to afford a SAHM. Like there is definitely a level of income in between "absolutely needs a second source of income" and "can afford hired help". Not to mention childcare cam be stupid expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:47 PM
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It honestly tastes more like a dessert (I'm not a huge fan tbh but most of my family members really like it.) It's kind of like a fruit salad but with wheat berries. It's my brother and his wife who makie it usually but I think it's like cream cheese, cool whip, crushed canned pineapple, mixed with wheat berries. Maybe some other ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:44 PM
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Also, uhhh, I feel like being able to afford human staff is quite a jump from your average SAHM household. Like, that's a completely different financial situation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:36 PM
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No I whistle all the time. e Actually I'm Canadian tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:31 PM
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I feel like 2010 to 2020 isn't all that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:30 PM
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I feel like ppl didn't rlly appreciate my Christmas meal so I'm posting my Thanksgiving meal this yr. It's most of the same stuff but it's laid out better <image> This one has Wheat salad and is missing the Perishke (rip) from last Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:29 PM
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My oldest sister was born in 1995 and I turned 18 in 2020. My mom never rlly worked after her firstborn except for a part time research job for a couple yrs in my late teens. She didn't get the job cuz my family needed it or my dad wanted her to, it was just that the opportunity fell into her lap and she wasn't that busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:25 PM
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Why is every other factor more important than sex? I never said that? I just think that there should be some things or at least things that are equally important. I made that pretty clear. The problem is that my brain will always keep thinking about how women exist who have had better sex with their abusive exes than with their current loving partner, and maybe this might be the case for my situation. And this thought will make me feel inadequate. Yes and this is weird and problematic. Get help.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:22 PM
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I had a SAHM even when me and all my siblings were going to school. She undoubtedly lived a very nice life, but it was also nice to have a mom who was always accessible. Plus she was super involved and when we weren't at school she was always driving us to games, practice, music lessons, rehearsals etc. Once we were older and could drive ourselves obviously thing would be easier but by the time I (the youngest) could drive myself, she had spent 23 years being an amazing and very present mom, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:13 PM
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I'm getting a headache from this bs. Lust isn't solely tied to sexual performance for one. Also why is sex so much more important than every single other factor? It's weird. If you have good sex and she strongly desires to have sex for you, and you have a good relationship, what's the big problem? It's neurotic to worry this much about previous partners assuming your current relationship meets your standards. Why does it have a comparison? Personally I would never be interested in a man who's co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:59 PM
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Not much to understand, it was just to make life a little easier for everyone on Christmas. It was a good time 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:52 PM
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😋😋😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:50 PM
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sure but there's too many dishes lol. A dishwasher can only fit so much including the dishes and pots and pans used for cooking and serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:49 PM
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damn 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:48 PM
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I have a big family and we didn't want to do dishes that yr 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:48 PM
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It's delishhh 😋😋😋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:45 PM
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He's left now but my break is over 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:45 PM
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It's Christmas, don't talk to me about BMI!!! 🤬🤬🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:44 PM
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obsessing over being the best sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:44 PM
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<image> my Christmas meal last yr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:43 PM
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I'd roast 10 yo you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:39 PM
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I'm so frustrated. We get a half hour lunch break but our lunch room is a tiny little kitchenette with one small table and two chairs. My colleague has been sitting there for like over an hr at this point and my lunch is now over (he's supposed to go before me). I wanted to munch on the Christmas chocolates over my lunch break but it's so awkward to sit there when someone is in there already 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:39 PM
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That is not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:33 PM
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you hurt youself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:31 PM
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bad 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:31 PM
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It's not normal and it's a problem. You're going to drive yourself crazy this way and I don't think such things should be normalized or accepted. You're absolutely allowed to want it, but it's still dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:29 PM
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I don't rlly know what you mean. I work full time. The problem isn't how much work tho, it's the work itself. I'm very not suited to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:28 PM
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It's a no then. I thought it was like frozen soup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:27 PM
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they absolutely are. Popular opinion have changed, they're just judged more positively now by the majority of the population (assuming you live in America or other similarly cultured places)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:26 PM
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well no matter what you do it will be judged
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:22 PM
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Are we supposed to eat it frozen?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:21 PM
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what is that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:20 PM
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If you don't want ppl to judge you, why do you repeatedly put this stuff out their to be judged?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:19 PM
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banking advisor
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:18 PM
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I was gonna make gingerbreads and shortbreads after work today, but there is so much other stuff stressing me out I think I will just stick to shortbreads and maybe something else a bit less intensive than gingerbread cookies. My husband is so sweet and helpful running around doing a lot of the shopping today and he's told me we'll take some time to relax tonight while wrapping presents together 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:18 PM
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It's a free country, no one is stopping you. We're also not obligated to care tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:16 PM
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I love starting fires
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:14 PM
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I'm working. I need to quit this job fr 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:11 PM
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Is this just a skit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:10 PM
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yes that's honestly very surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:07 PM
2

oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:04 PM
1

Everyone who plays sims lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:49 PM
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I want one now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:46 PM
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I remember when I worked in grocery I saw the manager of the nearby DQ (we share a parking lot) buy an outrageous amount of bananas. I knew it was for their banana splits but he used his personal membership number instead of the DQ one 🫢 (membership at the grocery store you earn back money on expenses, so he was personally earning back money on DQ business expenses lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:34 PM
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yea I'm not sure. My church is about 50 ppl ish. Any new person is usually talked to by someone unless they rush out the door before anyone has the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:36 PM
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if you go to a smaller church, odds are, someone will talk to you. Way mor likely to be a sweet older woman than a hot young chick tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:23 PM
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I think the problem is mainly due to reddits dumb blocking system. I've been blocked on here and it's so damn annoying to have half of conversations unviewable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:17 PM
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cute haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:35 PM
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I was buying the last few stocking stuffer gifts for my siblings, plus some stuff for my husband. Got one of my sisters reading socks and got my brother a Waluigi amiibo kek. Also got my BIL MTG boosters and my other BIL socks (ik that sounds boring but trust me he will be thrilled. The stuff for my other sister and SIL were from amazon (book light and Christmas ornament). My husbands gonna go out and get some quality chocolates and yummies for my Dad tmrw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:30 AM
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had a busy day last minute Christmas shopping. Gotta prep for another busy day tomorrow but I enjoyed some quality time with my hubby this afternoon and late evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:25 AM
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It's not rude or difficult to not give out a number, you don't even have to be in a relationship lol. What no one did was questioning why the OP chose him. Was him being a creep irrelevant because that he was tall and handsome? Did she approach him too? Are they actually dating or is he just masturbating in to her? I don't think anyone brought it up because there's no context to his behaviour prior to this situation. They're judging his behaviour in this situation, not making fanfic about the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:21 AM
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I have been replaying ace attorney series recently. I've also been on a genshin grind. Enjoy some Zelda games, Rune Factory, animal crossing, some other more niche ones. I like solo games
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:42 AM
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I don't like those games
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:14 AM
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hanging out with teenagers is underrated. I had so much fun when I was in college working at a grocery store and since I worked nights, most of my team was teen girls. Chatting about their school and boy drama and wild high school shit was so much fun lol. I did have one of them invite me to drink and smoke weed with them and I had to be like "Uhh, I don't think that's a good idea, maybe hit me up when you're not underage 💀"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:13 AM
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Very good news!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:05 PM
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sure, for some women. But if he's already attractive enough I believe a lot of women would overlook it or not ve too bothered. If it's a hot geek, I also think some women can find it endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:14 PM
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Lol this makes me think of my brother. He's very traditionally attractive and gets lots of female attention, but his room was all geek stuff. He had a full wall of videogame character posters he drew himself, metal models of various geek things he put together himself, rubiks cube collections. He kept his multiple game systems throughout the house tho and he has videogame figure collection on the tv stand in the basement. His now wife doesn't like the video gaming all that much (although I event…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:48 PM
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gonna take him to game shop today and he's gonna pick out WarHammer for himself, plus a nice hoodie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:43 PM
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I'd read all his books
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:17 PM
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I'd be maybe a bit icked. But like I would also be very surprised with my own abilities 🦵😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:40 PM
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Agree with all of those except picky eaters cuz I'm also a picky eater (as long as he's not whiney about it tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:35 PM
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probably easier to find a woman who actually prefers a smaller penis than to find a woman who prefers a shorter man. doubt tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:14 PM
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I'm more thinking in terms of just plain body and sexual insecurity. With breast size or ass size, there is almost always reliably a large population of men who have an active preference for whatever isn't traditionally popular. While there are men who can prefer small tits, I don't think there are women who legitimately prefer small dicks unless it's like a kink thing (rare kink anyways). While I totally believe there are a lot of women who don't rlly care or are just happy with any dick, I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:34 AM
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Very early in my relationship with my husband I slipped out a "when we get married..." or smthn like that rather than "if" and I felt a bit awkward. I don't think my now husband noticed or if he did, I don't think he cared since we were rlly intense from the get-go. Ik I would probably just feel happy if he had viewed me as a future wife. I even liked when he referred to me as wife jokingly to buddies or whatever. Other then feeling embarrassed over being too presumptuous that marriage is a for-…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:14 AM
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I don't think it's purely love. i feel like pure love is like back rubs moreso. I like sucking dick and will sooner do that than rub his back for an extended period of time unprompted lol. But my man does melt for back rubs I think even moreso than a dick sucking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:09 AM
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men should learn how to wield their swords skillfully in sex lmfao, I love this phrasing. Tbh tho, I feel bad for men on the dick thing. I feel there really isn't an equivalency female body insecurity that really captures what it would feel like for a man to have dick insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:07 AM
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Me and my husband talked about marriage a lot pre-marriage, why would it be taboo or awkward? Unless you mean like very early relationship or smthn. I feel like marriage is a very natural thing to come up in long term relationship. Although personally I talked about marriage and husband expectations from the very start with my man before getting in too deep. I think it's a bit of a waste i vesting in a person who's not compatible for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:04 AM
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I'd be very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:42 AM
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my dad paid for my lunch and my brother paid for my dinner today 💁‍♀️✨✨✨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:47 AM
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I'd say they get better each movie tbh, me and my bro both thought the 3rd was the best. Although we're also both huge sonic fans, him especially, so we get a lot of the references and easter eggs. But my husband was not a sonic kid and he still really enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:46 AM
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sonic 3 was great, would watch again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:41 AM
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I love pancakes 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:47 PM
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Superman should be the sort of character who always wants to do the right thing. I don't think that means he has to be flawless or surface level tho. Pitting "good" characters against moral dilemmas or forcing them to come to terms with the nuances of good vs evil and justice is good for drama. But ultimately even if there are times the character is forced to question morality or what's right, a character like Superman should always come out the other side as a hero who hold strong to his core v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:22 AM
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I say wear whatever you want. But also on the plus side of it being nightmare before Christmas themed it will be season appropriate October through December
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:24 AM
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I feel like I should leave work 10 minutes early today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:18 AM
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Yea I feel like it's toxic feminism and this chick is radicalized. Again I think it sounds just as dumb coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:34 PM
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cuz piv is the best lol. Most women ik feel this way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:17 PM
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A lot of my sex drive comes from just the desire to be close and intimate with my husband, not necessarily needing a sexual release. I can't really relate to a man needing sex so bad due to pure horniness (wanting casual sex, or being willing to pay for sex), but I can relate to the emotional weight of the lack of intimacy. I can't speak for all women, but I think a lot of women are more sexually motivated by emotions, how a man makes them feel, intimacy, etc. rather than just the physical feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:16 PM
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I mean I think women view orgasms differently than men tho. I think men often view orgasms as the "goal" of sex so they immediately think PIV must not be enjoyable if the woman can't orgasm from it. Like there is way more to sex than just orgasms although orgasms def are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:04 PM
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I've never framed that? I really enjoy PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:57 PM
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yea fr, if he can afford to smoke weed and game on his ass all day he can afford health insurance for me to do the same lol. We in this together 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:51 PM
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I have a giant shelf full of books but I end up reading fanfic every day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:08 PM
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I think my husband is objectively more attractive then me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:07 PM
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The reason I wont have sex is because I don’t want a man to have power over me and I just lay there and take it just to please him (I just found out women don’t even enjoy PIV or sex and most are faking it, and it seems from my friends and most women that pretty much all men are selfish and don’t care if you orgasm or enjoy it. I’m not doing something I wont enjoy.) A lot of talk for a virgin. Tbh she sounds just as radicalized as some of the men in these spaces and it sounds just as dumb coming…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:05 PM
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Yea!!! 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:53 PM
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no this: <image> 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:43 PM
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Why is she still working lol. We retiring together mf 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:13 PM
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I really like the Hunger Games. Reread them somewhat recently and forgot that they are actually quite good. I think all the hype and the movies and whatnot kinda got in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:45 PM
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fax
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:29 PM
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It is a ford! I told him not to buy it too 😤 It's something to do with ignition cylinder??? I am not a car person at all. I think they need to replace it and/or re key it. I have no idea tbh. He had to call multiple shops before finding one that can take us in today. Tho I did call mg family and my dad might be able to pick us up to drive us into hometown for the weekend and then I can borrow one of his vehicles. So I may yet still be there for Christmas 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:28 PM
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fr I'll have to do better next time 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:22 PM
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FML. Car broke down yesterday and apparently it could be fixed at the earliest on Monday, but possibly later (including after Christmas). So I can't go home to see sonic with my bro, but I also might not even be able to go home for Christmas 😭😭😭 Plus I came in to work today despite still feeling kind of sick after calling in the last two days. Immediately my manager tells me I'm getting shipped off to a different branch cuz they need more bodies and I have to uber there and now getting home afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:11 PM
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I'm not that picky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:42 AM
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I can be pretty switchy, but being submissive comes way more naturally and is more often my preference. Having some variety can be quite fun tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:41 AM
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Car not working. Was gonna drive home this weekend to see the sonic movie with my brother but might not be able to 😭 I hope we can get it working before Christmas at least
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:58 AM
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is this a repost?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:53 AM
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If I were single again it would woo me. It doesn't take much to woo me tho and I don't think flowers are required (also not a detriment tho, I would still find it very sweet). But I also haven't been single since the first guy who showed interest in me so... I think it's totally possible for a young woman to be wooed by that, but those kinds of young women are generally snatched up pretty quickly because they're "easy" for lack of a better term. Or if they're not snatched up already, they're pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:01 PM
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I'm a unique individual 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:53 PM
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I peg him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:50 PM
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oop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:42 AM
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sex > sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:03 AM
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Me and my partner are both Christians, I haven't had to deal with such a shift yet and I hope I never have to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:02 AM
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ei you being a Christian and they became atheist rather quickly My worst nightmare, luckily I haven't had to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:00 AM
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slap a pair of sunglasses on that and you're golden 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:56 AM
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I'd rather he just wake me up tbh. I like to feel included 🥺👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:44 AM
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queen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:24 AM
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What advice would you rather? There's no way know if it's looks, personality, money, etc. All I as a woman can say is if a person has a dogshit personality I'm going to be disgusted with them, and that even if ppl think they hide it well, they often can't. I can't say with 100% certainty that the sole reason is the dogshit personality (and generally ppl don't face repeated rejection again and again for one singular reason anyways), but I can say that it doesn't help. Obviously I'm not gonna know…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:22 AM
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I think my parents gave me some genuinely good dating advice that I flat put ignored yet things still turned out alright for me. I think it's good to hear advice, but everyone's lives and situations are so unique there's no one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:01 AM
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thought you had a stalker fr 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:44 AM
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yes lmao 😂😂😂 I thought I was being so obvious too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:34 AM
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lmao it's Mythic 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:28 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:27 AM
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Luigi is a very cool character and underrated imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:26 AM
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gorg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:23 AM
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I like that one. I love Christmas songs!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:23 AM
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Dw, in my story the guy is hot and dreamy although rough rugged with a hardened heart. He falls for her given time tho and they both fall in love forrealz ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:09 PM
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👹
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:03 PM
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My favourite romance growing up was about a guy who basically forced main character to marry him because he wanted inheritance money that required he be married. Wifey eventually learns to love and forgive him for this and they live happily ever after and there's also environmentalist messages because. I read that book like 4 times (I wanna read it again lowkey but I lent it to my sister)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:52 PM
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Just here for the tea 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:49 PM
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Sometimes when I'm on a date with my husband I wonder if ppl look or listen in and make assumptions. Like we often talk about very strange things to the point where my husband asks me to lower my voice sometimes (I'm usually the one saying weird shit tbh), or he'll drone on about his games in details that go beyond me. Or we'll sometimes be looking at our phones or just rlly quiet if we don't have much to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:50 PM
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not that unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:46 PM
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I've never been hit on by a guy, but I did have a homeless guy ask me to buy him smthn and I said sorry I can't today (he wanted to stand in line with me at the cafe and order him something since I don't have cash on me, and I was very uncomfortable with that idea plus I didn't have time). He got rlly mad and yelled loudly that I'm selfish 😩 Feels bad man but also made me even less inclined to help him out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:44 PM
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I would be upset. i don't rlly think I would be dating this guy in the first place cuz he sounds unenthusiastic about me, but if I was, it would be over as soon as he said "I have more important things to spend my time and money on". Like ahem, pray tell what? It's not even about money necessarily. I don't require my partner to take me on fancy dates all the time or spend a ton of money, but I do want my partner to be enthusiastic in his own way. In this example he didn't even want to text me or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:23 PM
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kek not remotely. But barefoot yes ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:07 AM
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no lol, no one does that here. I go barefoot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:50 AM
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Yup that's the one lol. He looks sooo good in it, you won't regret it. My man loves his
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:49 AM
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Last yr I bought him a nice Carhartt one, it fits him rlly well and I plan on getting another or two in different colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:45 AM
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that's what dm's and group chats are for kek
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:40 AM
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cute but I don't wear slippers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:38 AM
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I can't pull it off cuz it made me wanna barf, so don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:29 AM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:27 AM
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I wish I had extra time off work. My schedule is packed and when I am off work I like to be with my hubby. Makes it hard to ship for him when I can't stand being apart from him tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:16 AM
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eughgh 🤮🤮🤮 I can be pretty messy, but I'm not gross iykyk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:03 AM
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I'm getting my hubby nice hoodie and a watch. I got my brother a Sonic themed dice game. I got my SIL a winnie the pooh Christmas ornament. Man Christmas is so close I still gotta buy some shit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:00 AM
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had a smoke with a friend, just a cigarette, for the first time in a very long time. Man I felt like barfing, idk how I did this before 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:58 AM
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They do if they're allowed concubines. It's the price we have to pay for Chad 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:59 PM
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Bottom two rows, leaning darker. I love brown eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:54 PM
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My husband is a nice ALPHA MALE
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:53 PM
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I was ready 😂 I was honestly just kind of curious to hear if they had any thoughts on it, but it seems they mostly didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:58 PM
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going home for the weekend and visiting with my fam has made me realize how brain rotted I am kek. I asked them if they'd heard all the buzz about the CEO shooting and my SIL was like "well yea, I heard that it happened" and then the conversation moved on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:53 PM
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I'd stay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:50 PM
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yea looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:54 PM
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I think he just enjoys milk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:24 AM
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My husband goes through milk like a madman. He eats cereal and regularly drinks glasses of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:22 AM
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tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:05 AM
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I haven't had a good friend who's single in a while tbh. Even my one nutty radical feminist friend has found someone to settle down with in the last year and a half or so. And my other high school friend who dated like half the class back then has only had two long term relationships since high school from what ik of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:27 AM
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My mom's best friend was like that, 58 now and still never had a relationship or dated anyone. My mom tried to teach her to flirt once too she told me haha. She never said she was opposed to dating or relationships or having a family as a whole, but she had different priorities and said it would take a very incredible guy to sway her. She never met anyone she felt it was worth it for tho, so she continued being single and seems very happy and content with her life. Me and my sibling always viewe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:22 AM
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I have a fairly unique first name and my maiden name is extremely unique (I'm fairly certain we rely on my brother having sons to keep it existing on planet earth), but since marrying my husband my new last name is incredibly common. The change def feels weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:01 AM
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I met my new nephew today, so vibey 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:58 AM
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I'm not a fan of long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:57 AM
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Because I refuse to be like these people in relationships who are on this sub for reasons unknown to me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:56 AM
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I want one of those giant blanket hoodie things so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:26 AM
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If you can think of it, someone somewhere probably has a kink for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:25 AM
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It'll take to long to list it all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:11 AM
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If I never ended up with my husband this would be me in 10 yrs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:10 AM
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Best dad ever. I've been home like 30 mins and he's already dissected my laptop and ordered a new part set to arrive tmrw 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:56 PM
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when we were kids my brother made a holiday craft in school that was just a small school photo cut out of him with sparkly pipe cleaner wings and halo. After he hit his growth spurt and was tall enough, one year he attached the ornament to the star on the top of our tree. Years later we're all adults and the ornament is still up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:04 PM
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😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:30 PM
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I think it's only on the web version
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:55 PM
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when me and my sister used to share a bunk bed we would sometimes play with shadow puppets on the wall lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:49 PM
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green
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:20 PM
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I'd rather he bring stability than excitement. Although I would enjoy a suprise or well planned date here and there, not rlly for the excitement, but just to know that he's thinking of me and I'm important to him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:15 PM
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But I don't rlly believe that I would marry someone who has nothing spectacular about them. Almost everyone is spectacular in some way if you know them really well. I don't crave excitement either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:12 PM
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I always wanted to be an architect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:07 PM
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no 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:03 PM
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all of them throughout the night lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:00 AM
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My sister's hands are abnormally small and she has her bachelor's of music in piano, idk how she did it 😂 Her hands are like child sized but she's a piano prodigy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:11 AM
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the rich emu
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:09 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:25 PM
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Well if he asked me out I would have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:17 PM
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Yea it sounds like he has absolutely zero negatives. I probably would have given him a chance a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:13 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:12 PM
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But his slimers are superb!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:12 PM
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the tectonic lifeform obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:11 PM
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I wouldn't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:08 PM
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mine are okay but I'm going outside in like an hr so it won't be for long
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:03 PM
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If a tree falls on the woods and no one hears it...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:03 PM
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I think I have pleasantly warm hands and feet thank you very much 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:00 PM
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You're getting colder 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:56 PM
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good guess, I'm actually talking about [redacted] myself in the [redacted]
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:52 PM
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for me it's usually like church ladies or siblings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:50 PM
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What if I just [redacted] my [redacted] off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:48 PM
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being buried alive sounds horrifying tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:45 PM
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knowing myself I probably stay eternal virgin cuz family duty and I'm a pussy 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:32 PM
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$600k/month which is ridiculous. she earned $100k from that night alone 👀 I'm starting to see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:53 PM
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I don't have male friends that match that description and I don't think I ever will
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:26 PM
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Yea but I don't wanna go around causing problems
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:25 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:18 PM
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My way of dealing with conflict thus far has been just not bringing anything up that bothers me 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:17 PM
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yea it was mostly a joke qualifier lol, I'm assuming you'd just chat with them about it (like a normal person would 😮‍💨)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:11 PM
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But then they'll know 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:10 PM
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They're also one of your partner's closest friends. The concern is moreso "rocking the boat" interpersonal relationships wise, not doing anything drastic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:09 PM
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financial reasons, and instead of just romantic partner, it's your spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:58 PM
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It's not a pattern with them, in the past you have often split with them but sometimes volunteer to pay for them. If it's not split, you generally are the one paying, but usually just because you want to, not because they ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:55 PM
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2nd non-specific Situation: You live with a roommate (non-couch crasher, this one has their own room and pays rent). They're a long time close friend of your romantic partner who also lives with you. You're friendly with them but you obviously aren't as close with them as your partner is. Things have been alright, but this roommate can sometimes be uptight and passive aggressive, and there has been some tension over things like dishes, cleanliness, sharing kitchen utensils, tools, etc. But it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:54 PM
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I gave up on art dreams like 4 yrs ago rip
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:33 PM
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What would make a difference for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:33 PM
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yea I'm too lazy for that probably. I can only draw if I'm really engaged and drawing life is usually boring. Rlly gotta get in the mood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:30 PM
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I feel like I can draw heads well and bodies well, but heads on bodies is tough 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:27 PM
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why don't you just reveal everything atp lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:26 PM
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Non-specific Situation: About a month or two ago, you order in food from a nice restaurant for you and your best friend who has been crashing on you couch for the past 4 months due to shitty life circumstances (You're okay with this you're just helping them out, and it is for sure only temporary). Your best friend volunteers to pay since they're grateful you've been providing a place to stay and wants to treat you. But since you have the app for ordering you put it on your card, they say they'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:20 PM
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Is it after a first date? Tbh my only dating experience has been with my husband whom I was friends with for years and by the time anything romantic started happening I was crushing hard. So with him I would not miss texts like that (or at least not for too long, I maybe got nervous and put off replying a bit near the beginning) cuz I was head over heels. But if it had been a first date just getting to know someone, I don't know if I'd have that same enthusiasm unless it went superbly well. So y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:35 PM
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To me ick is just that eugh feeling you get when someone does smthn cringe, annoying, off-putting, or that just rlly turns me off. Imo it doesn't have to be specific to average guys or even potential partners in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:58 PM
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Idk, sometimes I see the notification or open it up, and think "Ah I'll respond to that once I'm finished xyz" and then I just forget until they double text and then I feel bad and panic text back. Or it also commonly happens when I'm anxious or unsure of how to respond (happens to me often) so I keep putting it off until they double text and then I feel bad and panic text back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:56 PM
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Yea, I mean if they were "attractive" and icked me out or was just an awful person, I may still be able to recognize them as "attractive", but I wouldn't be attracted to them anymore. But yea if I was already on the fence about them obviously it's be easier to ick me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:49 PM
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It's called the ick. And yes I have experienced it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:40 PM
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Tbh I can't remember if you were around back then or not anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:35 PM
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What was your previous name? 🤫🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:31 PM
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Idk, the crowd here has changed so much since the last time I was active under a different name, I'm still feeling ppl out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:30 PM
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Definitely not Sarai lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:28 PM
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😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:26 PM
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wtf bruh 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:40 AM
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good job, I always get my brother to do that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:23 AM
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lmfao (👀)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:08 AM
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Pls stop being the way you are dammit 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:03 AM
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does she not edit them after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:00 AM
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mine isn't a mac, it's a gaming laptop
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:39 PM
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I don't think that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:36 PM
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I don't even know for sure what's wrong with it. I think it's the charging port but it could be that I got a dud new charging cord in the mail that's already failing on me. It could also be something completely different. I don't want to order a part that ends up not even solving the problem. I'm not rlly a fixer, at most I'll get my dad to look at it this weekend. I also don't want to invest too much into it if it doesn't have much life left in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:33 PM
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ah I see. Still crazy. Tho I guess me and hubby have cineclub membership so everything's cheaper. Me, my husband, my brother and his wife are going to watch the new sonic movie on opening night at the fancy recliner theatre and since we had so many tickets saved up it was only 25 total for all 4 of us. Saved my brother and his wife a lot of money since they has initially booked for just them and it was mega expensive. It's out of town tho so it'll be like a 2 hr drive to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:26 PM
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Yea I got my laptop when I started college in 2020. I thought it was in pretty good condition tho as the only thing that's given me trouble before was the charging cord which I replaced recently. Now I think it's the charging port that's broken but idk if it's worth it to get it fixed or just replaced. I had some rlly good sims 4 playthroughs going on it tho 🥲 i feel like laptops should last longer than like 4 yrs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:21 PM
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I'm in Canada, why are those tickets so expensive???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:17 PM
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my laptop broke yesterday and I almost did cry tbh 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:16 PM
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It's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure my husband just went for dinner and played cards for his bachelor party
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:19 PM
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Idk man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:18 PM
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If you're a literal murderer, yes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:08 PM
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Then be someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:05 PM
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I use both based on how I'm feeling. Centimeters are easy for maths purposes, but inches are easier for eyeballing things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:04 PM
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I wrote like a long paragraph worth of rambling in response to this and I think ultimately thinking about this I've decided I just have a few screws loose
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:00 PM
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poor sexy Luigi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:49 PM
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Are you saying men wouldn't prefer a 10/10 in every category as opposed to someone more flawed? Men wouldn't prefer a beautiful, hot woman with a perfect personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:48 PM
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But at their worst they're all potential deal breakers is the thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:46 PM
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who wouldn't want that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:44 PM
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I feel like I'm really being my best weirdo self putting so much mental effort in understanding these attractiveness factor rankings. I try to put them in order but I feel like I'm torn between what is a dealbreaker and what is just a strong preference or heightens attractiveness. And for every dealbreaker I'm like "Well I could maybe deal with it if blah blah blah". Hypotheticals suck cuz the possibilities are endless. Like what if he was a literal midget but he was super charming and perfect i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:44 PM
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I didn't say she had normal standards, I was just saying the point of the list is to prioritize what you want in a partner. Some ppl want the best in every category lol (whether it's realistic or not). Wanting a bigger dick just means she cares more about him having her preferred dick size than her preferred height size
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:35 PM
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Also I want to note the list isn't saying height doesn't matter, it's just saying other things matter more to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:28 PM
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women shorter than 5'0" isn't that unusual tho... Like what I'm saying is height only rlly would become a significant factor for me if he's abnormally short. like abnormally. I've been attracted to men who would widely be considered short by most ppl before tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:25 PM
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5'7", I have found men my height and short attractive before tho. I'm also not that great at judging/estimating height. I just couldn't rlly imagine being ina. relationship with a child sized person lol, but ig life is strange
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:22 PM
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I felt like I couldn't answer because the order of importance changes depending on whether I'm considering it's capacity to be a deal breaker, or if I'm thinking of what heightens attractiveness the most. For example a guy with a face that's super my type is gonna do more for attraction than a a guy with a less handsome face who's my preferred height. But if a man is literally a midget that might be a deal breaker. I don't rlly know what my height cut off would be tho tbh, I don't think 5'9".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 08:19 PM
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I really need a break 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:11 PM
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work, maybe cry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:09 PM
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It's all about high scores and competing with yourself or others. You can't get that kind of playstyle with very longform story games, and arcade style games have gone out of style. Actually, on the topic of Luigi Mangione.... Luigi's Mansion, the original gamecube game, actually is very similar in game style to arcade games with its short run time and a focus on high scores. It has very good replayability due to that and it's a big reason why a lot of ppl who really resonated with the first gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:20 PM
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I might give it a try sometime if I find the time. I love emotional shows
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:37 AM
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I'm not a steven universe fan and have never actually watched the show, but man, some of the music is beautiful. The type that just compels one to sing along. Makes me wanna watch the show but I don't think I can commit to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:00 AM
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Thankss!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:03 AM
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It's okay, I forgive you. Thanks for wishing me happy cake day!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:39 AM
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trying to boot up my old chromebook but it's not starting either 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:23 AM
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Thank you, but you also told me to stop 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:23 AM
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nah I just mean, from shy person experience, we don't necessarily loosen up. For me it's only if alcohol is involved usually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:22 AM
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shy people usually losen up by the end of the night ehhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:19 AM
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Fr, so depressing 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:13 AM
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My laptop is broken 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:08 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:49 AM
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I wore my pajama pants to pick up food at boston pizza today so... I am that girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:19 AM
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oh thanks, I didn't even realize my account was a December baby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:11 AM
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man that's fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:05 AM
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And one day we'll realize, deep inside we we've been the Luigi all along
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:44 PM
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they already exist mr.leg spreader
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:43 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:35 PM
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Q4M If you had to choose between a woman with no legs or no arms, who would you choose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:32 PM
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took a photo with Santa today 🎄🎁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:27 PM
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women over thirty are just happy to be acknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:13 PM
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They should get Luigi to play the part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:41 PM
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uhm uhmm 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:44 PM
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maybe she was talking about their size
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:39 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:33 PM
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I'd tell the truth "Yes. I fucking love this guy on there called Think_Day_290 no this tho 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:33 PM
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my dad got a double decker grave and his name is on the stone already, so I don't think a second marriage would make a difference in where we bury him. Also typically if they had children together, it would be the children who decide rather than the brother I would think (Assuming old enough to have adult children). I feel like a sibling deciding would only be in the case where every other adult immediate family member is deceased or unwilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:11 PM
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If it looks nice on her, maybe. But tbh I don't rlly interact unprompted with ppl I don't know very well and her dating my ex so soon after break-up might make things feel awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:08 PM
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Sounds like a net positive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:36 PM
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Idc I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:33 PM
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I think it is mandatory, but it's bs. I usually don't take my breaks anyways cuz it's so damn busy. They tend to be more hassle cuz we're trying to organize around when ppl are gone, and I'm just supposed to magically fit them in between back to back appointments. 90% of the time I miss my breaks anyways. Having an organized hour I can just leave the branch and unwind is so much better imo. All of my coworkers don't want to lose hour lunch either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:53 PM
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I'd rather an hour lunch tbh. Also we asked if we could just smush our two breaks together and add to lunch hour, meaning skipping breaks and just one long lunch but HR said no apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:46 PM
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Tbh I'm not exactly sure how it's calculated. But they've changed our start time from 8:30 to 9:00 and so they've cut off half our lunch in exchange. Basically the entire staff would rather come in early than lose half our lunch but who gives a shit eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:38 PM
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like hentai but manga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:36 PM
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they're cutting our lunches from one hour to half an hr 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:32 PM
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hentai and anime are basically the same thing 🥱 Also it's not hentai, it's doujins, and also I rarely do that, I mostly goon to fanfic smut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:31 PM
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Sure but that's not rlly related to Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:25 PM
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men and their funny numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:18 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with the other stuff tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:04 PM
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I'm saying if fertility was a deal breaker he should have added that in. "Until death or infertility do we part" kek. If it's that important to him it's absolutely something he should have mentioned or had her test for pre-marriage. You don't know your partner has cancer until they have cancer, you don't know if they'll become disabled, or other shit like that. That doesn't make it not shitty to leave the person you promised you'd be there for through thick and thin as soon as things aren't idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:03 PM
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he def seems above average to me. He's not rlly my type, but I could def see women day-to-day being into him without the whole shooter thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:56 PM
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I wouldn't say every single aspect. I like their anime and videogames tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:51 PM
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I'd give him the finest mud and water him every day ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:36 PM
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He should have put that in his wedding vows then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:35 PM
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Go ahead, don't be shy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:24 PM
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Exactly. Women are assholes too when they divorce for shitty reasons and fuck over their (ex) spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:19 PM
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Absolutely. The only things ending my marriage is abuse, infidelity, or death
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:18 PM
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That's extremely tragic. I've always wanted a big family but if we found out I was infertile I know my husband wouldn't leave me. We have talked about it tbh and we've said we'd just adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:16 PM
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I'd absolutely blame my husband if he pulled this shit lol. He made his vows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:15 PM
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I love shitty Christmas movies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:59 PM
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blie
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:13 PM
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hot luigi luigi was already hot he didn't need replacing 😭 https://preview.redd.it/vgqoiz83066e1.jpeg?width=201&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5c7f4de62c6cbd15bfd986daf035a7e371a93c45
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:37 AM
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Mine was still in the box and my dad assembled it for me that day. When I got to the Christmas tree that morning it was just an enormous box covered with a blanket and had a bow on it. I was little so I don't remember too much more but I still have that dollhouse haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:16 AM
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Sort of? I don't regret my first being my husband, but I do wish I had waited until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:13 AM
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tbh I think the problem when ppl use love languages is they tend to just think about how they best receive love. It's just as important to think about how your partner shows their love and how your partner receives love. It's not supposed to be a tool used to make more demands, it's supposed to aid in communication. Also everyone tends to appreciate all love languages and usually exhibit all love languages. Ppl describing their "love language" are just talking about the ones that come most natur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:07 AM
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Dollhouse. It was taller than me. I was so pumped. Tbh I'm super excited about what I got my brother this year although ig it'll all hinge on how well it's recieved. It's a sonic themed dice game and my brother is a mega sonic nerd as well as a mega board game nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:52 AM
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I get my hair cut like once a year so no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:49 AM
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wtf 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:46 AM
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I don't mind them, I have pretty broad music tastes tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:35 PM
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My entire middle school friend group of girls turned lgbt upon entering angsty teenhood. I feel like girls could play around with that shit a lot more without the same social repercussions that boys would have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:15 PM
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modern ones, anyways security kicked him out. It was actually a nice reprieve from the same 2 Christmas songs that have been cycling since late November
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:10 PM
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sad italian noises
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:08 PM
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sure but it happens with girls more than boys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:07 PM
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For me it depends who I'm with and/or my level of sobriety
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:44 PM
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Some guy with a boombox in the lobby blasting like sad ballads 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:30 PM
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I feel like if u combined their faces together it would make someone handsomer than both of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:29 PM
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does fanfic count? kekeke. Tbh I did finish a book like a week ago but it was Book of Bill and that hardly counts imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:47 PM
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what a weird dress code
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:37 PM
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FUCCCKKK i forgot to attach the documentsss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:36 PM
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FUck. I caught a dumbass sounding type right at the start of the email except I already sent it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:33 PM
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bro said: 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:51 PM
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Frumpy girls who never like to get done up or do makeup are more attractive than the girls who are always done up and fishing for likes on Instagram. hahahahahahaha this isn't true. Sincerely a frumpy girl I think you're thinking of girls who are effortlessly and naturally beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:50 PM
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you just don't know about her secret life of assassinating men in power
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:49 PM
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Mutual friend groups ig. Or online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:38 PM
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just the relationship, introverts don't "hit on" anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:33 PM
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it's a slowburn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:32 PM
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You failed them 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:40 PM
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yea tbh I feel like I should just make a float out of it. Root beer floats are so good 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:38 PM
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I mean it's not like I wanna drink straight up liquid butter. But just butterscotch doesn't feel in the spirit of butterbeer to me either. Idk the taste I'm craving is eluding me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:22 PM
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I've never been to universal studios or tried whatever their version is. But like from reading the books and seeing it in movies I feel it should be like mouthwatering buttery goodness. I tried a recipe the other day and it sorta sucked ass, so I want to actually make a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:13 PM
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I'm not very particular about noses
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:12 PM
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anyone have a good butterbeer recipe. Like actually buttery and yum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:09 PM
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client dropped off chocolates for staff cuz Christmas and I have to refrain myself from eating them all. Idk how ppl can let sweets sit out for so long 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:07 PM
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I don't mind the smell of smoking while it's fresh, but once it's set into clothes and furniture it's putrid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:06 PM
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I have one really close friend and my main friend group is me and my husband, her and her bf, and my husband's best friend. If I never got together with my husband she would probably be my only friend I regularly see. I have some other old high school friends but I see them once in a blue moon mainly for catching up At least I am very close with siblings, although since moving out recently I don't get to see them as regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:48 PM
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Idk, I feel like Lesbian absolutely has a look (stereotypically speaking of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:37 PM
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I think it's intended to mean "I don't look gay"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:32 PM
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The videogame in question is Amongus lmfao. These article writers are grasping at straws lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:31 PM
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ah yea, I commuted and I usually didn't stick around to socialize. But tbf I would have had no idea how to socialize anyways lol, I'm a very anxious/awkward person with new ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 PM
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tbh I don't pay attention to anything celebrities do cuz they live inan completely different world. It's strange that ppl like that exist tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:27 PM
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Ah covid hit my high school graduation year lol. Tbh I don't think covid was the problem tho, even when things chilled out and I was in college more like normal, I sucked ass at socializing. I have no idea how other ppl actually make friends in college. I only did 2 yrs but I made zero friends, yet I had a younger coworker telling me about her first day at the same college I went to and she said she made a bunch of friends, hung out at their dorms, got asked out and got invited to a giant party.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:11 PM
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I call my actual brother broski kek
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:04 PM
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My social life got worse in college lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:04 PM
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ah, Ig I consider 18-25 young and 25+ older. mid-late twenties I feel like less time needs to be spent between the major milestones, dating, marriage, kids. same would apply for 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:51 PM
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I wouldn't exactly say young love. I think young love works better when ppl wait longer to have children though. And given the "biological clock" is less of a concern, they may feel less pressure to start pumping out the kiddos immediately. On the other hand, I don't think older couples need nearly as much time in the getting to know each other phase because they're more mature and have more of a solid identity. Me and my husband got together young and my bro and his wife also got together quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:35 PM
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at work. Was tempting to call in but that would be dumb ig. Christmas is also on a bumfuck day this yr so I won't even get a proper break to go visit my family. I think I'm hitting my limit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:57 PM
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Can't help you there, the only thing that can get me out of bed is having plans in the morning. Maybe you should join a group/class/activity/club that meets in the mornings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:52 PM
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stay in bed until the very last possible available second leaving just enough time to get dressed for work and run out the door. Works every time 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:47 PM
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My husband looks rlly good in jeans. He also has a couple jackets that compliment his frame perfectly, bomber style. He looks amazing 🤤 Also like large work boots and I bought him a specific hoodie that fits rlly well and compliments his frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:12 PM
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fair, but like past high school I feel the hype dies down. My last sorta contact I've had with the guy from my high school was meeting his mom at my work and she mentioned he was in the car and I should say hi 💀💀💀 Also he did end up dating my friend and was an abusive ahole and is overall kind of a pathetic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:45 AM
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ah yea, I used to drive a guy home from Jazz band back in HS who was this niche and the girls were all over him. Tbh I only drove him home cuz my other friend I gave rides to was into him and kept inviting him since we all lived near each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:38 AM
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Idk what niche I am. Ik back when we first started dating my husband said he had a pattern of going after "good girls" (studious, polite, etc.) so ig he thought I filled that niche. But I'm also a tomboy Weeb weirdo nerd so... And I'm religious 😅 Back when I was crushing on my now husband he was kind of like "bad boy" but like not anything egregious (we were in high school, just drinking, smoking, parties etc.) He's always been more charismatic than me and well liked. Nowadays I'd say he's more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:36 AM
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idk who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:31 AM
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I lack the attention span unfortunately, but it's an idea. I was thinking like pretty book boy, vs jock, vs gangsta vs gym bro etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:29 AM
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hmm 🤔 Idk man I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:26 AM
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Aesthetic/style/personality niches are like weight classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 AM
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I've been away from the sub for a hot minute tbh I didn't know they discontinued it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:23 AM
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I joined the community around 4 yrs ago cuz there was some wild shit being posted during a purge and I had a hard time believing ppl like this exist 😂 Now look at me 🥲 I'm one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:21 AM
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are you sure 15 is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:04 AM
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fax
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:03 AM
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murder specifically is a sin. I am a Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:58 PM
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Black and white boys 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:58 PM
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I don't know 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:52 PM
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🥰✨murder is wrong✨🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:52 PM
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Only if ur a chad unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:41 PM
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Imagine being a "salad" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:29 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/cri8euwyxv5e1.png?width=294&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=656478c1c0bb930cd799017a64bf1c3c541ee3b5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:47 PM
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doujins and smutty fics actually kekeke
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:34 PM
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GO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:30 PM
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Sort of. It's maybe a different kind of ugly tho. Like seeing their face irritates me or disgusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:17 PM
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He is very caring and sweet. And he has a lot of responsibilities. I need to be responsible for myself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:13 AM
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uhm idk. I should be the one doing that but I don't. My husband loves me but he had a hard time saying no to me. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:08 AM
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being in college is nice. so much free shit I miss it, I wish I did more school
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:07 AM
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sorry I don't feel.comfortable sharing. I also don't have scale. I mainly try to focus on just making better decisions each day but I am so f'd up rn. Ugh, will do better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:05 AM
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I've been skiing like once in my life. I got the hang of it cause it's similar to skating, but skiing is too expensive. i should to a skate trail
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:03 AM
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damn good onya, this is good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:01 AM
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ik fuck I never usually drink. I will do better. keep me accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:01 AM
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They'r all full of ice and snow tho 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:00 AM
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Well I normally don't drink but I was trying a drink recipd so I bought some stuff for the first time in ages. Recipe sucked ass I will have to try again. Tonight is a failure ig. Man I am way too drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:55 AM
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Man I had to google what that is a nickname for. I know ppl can name children nicknames without using the full name but for some reason I always think it needs to be tied to a full name(eg. my friend wants to name her girl Charlie but I always default to thinking it's short for Charlotte) Results I got for Barry is Bartholomew kek. Probably better to stick to the nickname only lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:54 AM
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I really wish I could name my child after a videogame character but it just feels wrong lmao. My new last name after marriage is so basic a million ppl have it. It's def like 10× easier to spell/pronounce/remember than my old last name tho so there are perks kek
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:51 AM
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My best friend is dating ltr a guy and both their names start with "K" so for a while she had planned on naming all their kids starting with "K". I think she's over it now tho. It's funny cuz ik of another family who did a similar naming scheme (except with J instead of K) and 2/3 children go by their middle name except first name now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:49 AM
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firefighter gets b*tches fr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:39 AM
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sorry dw I am being hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:37 AM
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this triggered my trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:34 AM
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fuckit. quesildia 2.0. ufhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:32 AM
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fyck I wanna sit ina. field and chiil. Too mcuh snow and shitti life shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:30 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:28 AM
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Well that's good it doesn't affect you too much. I think it's interesting how some ppl choose to go by their middle name instead of first. I never rlly considered that as an option until too late (I somewhat prefer my middle name) but ik some ppl who's parents explicitly gave them the option to choose at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:27 AM
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Interesting. I never call ppl by nicknames unless they specifically state that's what they prefer tbh. Do ppl tend to call you Jamie by default? Fwiw, I think Jamie is a nice name even for a boy. May I ask what game the character is from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:22 AM
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I haven't tbh, but that makes sense now that you say it's Polish. it's pretty cute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:20 AM
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Ted or Teddy as a nickname for Theodore is adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:20 AM
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I've never heard of the name Iga, where's that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:18 AM
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I'm opposite lol. Although me and my hubby only have boy names planned [Thomas Alexander X] and [Marcus Kevin X] I lowkey think I will have a girl first. No idea what I will name her lol. Maybe Nicole
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:17 AM
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i totally agree with the classics. My boy names are Alexander, Thomas (Tom) And Marcus so. Our first son we plan to name Thomas Alexander [insert last name here] which my peers have said sounds like the name of a founding father kek
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:15 AM
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I hope you have a boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:13 AM
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I love the name Veronica. I'm a huge Heathers fan. James also mogs. My sister had that as Second choice for her new baby boy but she opted for their other option and kept it as middle name instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:07 AM
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I guess maybe my hope is if I name them that they’ll be a bit rough and tumble like I am hahha, same tbh. Tbh I should probably keep myself from naming my daughter solely because of my daughter headcanon, but it's just so fun. I actually have an girl OC named Frankie, I just think the name is soo cute. And yes OC is absolute a badass who defies gender norms in a lot of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:05 AM
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so goood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:02 AM
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These are all very original and unique, you have good taste 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:47 AM
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I'm getting the vibes you like names that start with Z lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:46 AM
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I love Bobbi. I rlly like nicknames that sound boyish used for a girl, I think It's so cute. I love the nickname Frankie for a girl, but unfortunately I am not too keen on Frances, Francine, Francheska etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:45 AM
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aww my little cousin is named Penelope. We call her Penny for short. I lovveee Xander, but I always associate it with the Fire Emblem character so I don't want to have to tell my child I named him after a videogame character kek
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:42 AM
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I want multiple kids but as of right now I only have boy names. I love Thomas, Alexander and Marcus, but for girls me and my husband can not come to an agreement. I love the name Heidi, but my husband is not keen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:41 AM
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awee very cute. I rlly like Theodore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:38 AM
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It is sleep time soon, I'm watching a show
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:35 AM
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Q4A if you had a baby rn, what would you name it (girl or boy or both names)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:34 AM
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I drank too much but I also cooked cheese in a tortilla on a pan and it was good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:33 AM
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hehehehe. Fiction is my safe place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:17 AM
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I have a friend who has had many various colours in her hair (including blue) but I don't think she's a feminist or very involved in politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:43 PM
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my eyes are similar but I don't think I have the coordination to be that precise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:35 PM
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Yes lol. I normally don't wear make-up but I'm going out with my husband today so I was giving it a try. It was rough 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:36 PM
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Mental breakdown over eyeliner this morning kek. I have no idea how girls do this shit every day. I ended up just giving up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:31 PM
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