thatusernameuwanted Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence Your first comment mentioned every person, assuming commenter believed every person had a hidden motive -not the case-, then passed judgement calling these types of pple paranoid. Commenter explicitly mentioned being able to feel out if they have a hidden motive, not every person. Someone hiding smthn usually has a way of showing it. Just think of it like poker	/r/seduction	23/01/22 03:24 PM
2	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence Neither op nor commenter said anything about mind reading. In practice, they’re just using context clues and keeping in mind cautious hunches. I agree w/ ur first comment, but what u said takes it to an extreme, making it off topic	/r/seduction	17/01/22 04:13 PM
7	[deleted by user] Don’t put all the pressure of what u want at the end of the night/date. Shoot your shot earlier at a good moment - that way u can talk about it if somethings really up w/o rushing	/r/seduction	17/01/22 03:14 PM
1	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence It’s called foresight and being smart about protecting yourself and your boundaries.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 02:42 PM
8	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your life They are not the same. Different connotations.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:10 PM
2	Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date. Reduce uncertainty, especially with strangers	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:34 PM
2	How To Talk To Women (Basics) This has my stamp of approval. Just about every word of this is what I’ve learned from teaching myself how to talk to people. My weak point is small talk. I never really thought about “Nouning” while I was doing it tho (which is what going with the flow means), but I’m going to try actively listening out for the nouns now so I can solidify this skill and do it better. Thank you for taking the time and articulate thinking energy to organize these tips into a document. This should be a good refere…	/r/seduction	29/02/20 07:16 PM
2	Its possible to understand someone else better than they understand themselves You had me in the first half, not gonna lie. (Literally exactly half I think.) Agreed: You can know someone better than they know themselves. Tentative or disagreed: your underlying reasoning of what presumably all girls want and how you connected it to nature and its behavior-dominating influence. Edit: Spacing	/r/seduction	16/01/20 10:01 PM
1	Why doesn't it come across as needy if you're texting a girl only to get her out on a date? Idk how you got this idea, but asking for something isn’t needy. It show’s humility and your first bit of resolve. Constantly requiring something of someone to feel okay is needy. Oh, but maybe you mean for the situation of repetitively trying to schedule a date/meetup but things keep coming up for her. For that, she would reassure you of her interest or give you a good time for her if she wanted to. So don’t waste your precious time waiting around for someone thinking “what if?” Best way quickl…	/r/seduction	15/01/20 10:47 PM
3	She asked me if I live alone Depends on the age group your talking about. Makes sense for a young adult to live at home.	/r/seduction	08/01/20 03:21 PM
35	She asked me if I live alone You can always add that you have your own privacy / won’t be bothered	/r/seduction	07/01/20 08:09 PM
0	Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractive This is a good first step in the safer route, especially since if the girl is into you she will pick up on those subtleties. Although, it’ll still make it harder to read her through all the ambiguity (depending on how indirect your approach is) as long as you keep pressing forward in different ways you’ll be more sure that she’s into you. And when you feel more confident and can see that you’ve been getting good reception you could go for a lot of direct-yet-still-somewhat-subtle approaches, and…	/r/seduction	22/12/19 05:24 PM
1	Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player Vibe Well, I guess I’m striving to be well-rounded then. Wish me luck! Appreciate the responses you been giving to everyone.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 03:28 AM
1	Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player Vibe “Core confidence without a doubt of his value or what he has to offer.” Thank you, I think this was all I needed to counteract all the insecure thoughts listed under boyfriend vibe. Also, I think the names of the vibes should be changed as you don’t necessarily have to be a “player” (in the negative connotation) to check off all those things. I think its more about being confident, secure, not pushy and not needy. Whereas in the boyfriend vibe, I would consider a lot of those things to be an unh…	/r/seduction	12/12/19 10:30 PM
2	Read this if you feel depressed You rock for this! I'm happy you're making progress and helping others! Wishing you the best :)	/r/seduction	30/11/19 09:49 PM
4	Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive Girls I upvoted because blatant self-contradictions to one’s own thoughts need to be more visible in society these days. They happen all the time.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 05:21 PM
2	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? Just remember that they don’t owe anything to you and nor you them. So, if they don’t feel comfortable texting back then they don’t have to. Sure, it’s less polite in general, but no situation is ever the same. It’s more likely you guys weren’t compatible for one or more reasons, so the ghosting benefits you as well. So stop trying to “fix” yourselves guys and gals. Learn more about who you are, what you really want, and only change for you, not Stacy17. When you find someone who’s compatible an…	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:50 PM