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throwaway_jevs/r/seduction13/03/14 11:46 AM
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hat seems to be the answer to my problems, I play too safe. Start taking small steps to be daring and assertive. You'll realise chicks love it (providing they are into you). The first thing I ever tried was pulling a girl into kiss me by her belt. She told me it really turned her on, so I've learnt to do more stuff like that. Don't worry about your bad Tinder date. It's one date. Just get comfortable with your own sexuality and try and telegraph that you are sexual. There's lots of ways you can …
/r/seduction16/04/14 11:40 PM
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I go down on almost every woman I sleep with, so try banging a manwhore like me.
/r/seduction16/03/14 01:18 AM
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Im 31. They were 21, 21, 24. I think it's better to be older.
/r/seduction15/03/14 10:12 AM
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I live in London. Is that where you're coming?
/r/seduction15/03/14 10:08 AM
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Well, call me a loser if you like, but I got what I wanted here shrug
/r/seduction15/03/14 10:01 AM
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Yeah. You're right, Im totally a virgin.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:17 AM
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No worries. My main problem with TRP is they think all women the same, when women can have vastly different attitudes with regards to dating and sex. They just seem like a bunch of very bitter men to me.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:12 AM
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Your point about the male/female sexual power dynamic is interesting - sure you're not a redpiller? Most definitely not. I think redpillers have some very fucked up, unhealthy views of women. The power thing is a game like I say. It's an act. I basically act like I'm raping or punishing a girl but I actually run everything by her and stop if she doesn't like anything. So she is actually in control really. Kind of tangential, but for girls you meet and fuck in the "real world," not from Tinder, h…
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:43 AM
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Yes you're right - everyone missed the point of my post! I will probably experiment further with my bio at some point anyway.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:11 AM
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I don't know why domination is fun, it just is. I can have sex normally too, but nasty sex is fun. Of course it's OK if you're both enjoying it. At the end of the day it's just a game that taps into the male/female sexual power dynamic. I only like it cos I know she likes it too and I don't do that kind of thing to girls that aren't into it.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:09 AM
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Here's what your missing. I didn't come here for your advice. I came here to share an interesting insight that I discovered on my personal journey. So if you think I have pigeonholed myself, you are just projecting your own values and views about men onto me. And I think you're wrong. It's perfectly feasible to enjoy pursuing sex and still be a challenge. Just because I don't lock my dick up in a box, it doesn't mean I'm not a challenge. Best of luck to you too.
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:37 PM
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A chick with a reputation for not being able to keep her pants on. I don't care what other people think about a girl I'm interested in. I care what I think about her. And I don't think a girl having casual sex is bad. Cheers to you too man.
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:28 PM
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In the last year I've been to three different countries, left my old job and started a business. In addition, my band is playing the major festivals and over this weekend we will play to 7000+ people. I think I've done a pretty good job of working on myself. If I fuck someone on the first date it's because he projected that he was worth fucking but I'd base any future interaction on that and not much else Then you're closed-minded. Your problem, not mine.
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:02 PM
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Do what works for you.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:45 PM
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I think that's much better than just talking about yourself.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:42 PM
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Sounds cool, good luck!
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:29 PM
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Alright, that's awesome! What did you go with in the end?
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:16 PM
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Change your pics until you start getting matches. Then work on the bio.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:16 PM
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It was a lady!
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:15 PM
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If you're embarassed, then you're not accepting your sexuality.
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:14 PM
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Just expand on the first two. But don't think about impressing her, think about what you actually like! I'd say something like this: I like to go my own way. I am not one to follow the societal path of my generation. I like to have adventures and I like to meet people that can keep up with me. Life's too short to have dull experiences, so I like to meet women that are passionate, whether it's emotionally, spiritually, or sexually. Oh, and I love a cheeky smile. Not perfect but it shows you have …
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:07 PM
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I'm not sure what advice you are giving me dude? Your assumptions are way off.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:31 PM
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Try changing your pics.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:27 PM
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That was just bad luck dude. She's a dick.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:27 PM
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I think the first two lines are good. And the very last one about laughs. The middle two lines seem a bit defensive/weird? I'd delete them. However, I'm not a chick. Why not just put it up for a week and see if you get any matches?
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:26 PM
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I've had at least 3 fuckbuddies who ended up wanting to be my gf. It's pretty much par for the course. If women don't want anything more with you, it's maybe something to do with you, not them.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:19 PM
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Yes you're probably right. And that's really what I was trying to get at with my post. I think my actual date with the girl that I talked about is way more interesting than what I put on my Tinder profile.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:58 PM
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Ahh ok. Yeah, that's just crude IMO.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:55 PM
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All 3 girls want to see me again (actually, I've already seen one of them again). Plus, I met my previous girlfriend on facebook, we became fuckbuddies and then fell for each other. So the reality is that girls like this can go in lots of different directions.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:54 PM
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I'm knocking it because it's low quality and a dead horse. So what makes it low quality? And why is she a slut? What even is a slut anyway, someone who actually wants to fuck you, rather than someone who needs to be 'seduced'? Are you more confident now? How are you a better man for what you've done? Actually yes. I went way out of my comfort zone in terms of being openly sexual with women, and I found that not only can it be acceptable, but women love it. I feel like my eyes have opened.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:52 PM
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Nah it was more like they will be having a conversation and the guy will send them a dick pic of out nowhere. It sounds like a lot of guys just dont know what to say to chicks, or they get impatient, so they go straight to the dick pic.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:45 PM
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It depends what you mean by random neckbeard? If you mean a shy, awkward, badly person, then no, probably not. But if you put a bit of effort into developing yourself, it's not rocket science.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:43 PM
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I still have a couple of band pics now, but they are not the main picture. The girls don't go crazy about it, but the band thing gives you something to talk about. And it helps feed the 'fucking a badboy' fantasy they have.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:38 PM
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Not really. That's my idea of getting someone's attention. And it worked. At the end of the day, there are very few men who have the balls to be honest and direct. If you want to stand out, that's one way to do it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:35 PM
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Surprisingly enough, I use a condom.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:32 PM
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Surprisingly enough, I use a condom.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:32 PM
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I was really trying to make a point about being honest and comfortable about your sexuality. That is way more important than the bragging side of it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:32 PM
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I've had plenty of fuckbuddies that wanted it to go somewhere serious.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:30 PM
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It's probably something to do with the kind of woman you attract to. But yes I agree that a lot of women will do it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:29 PM
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Can you define 'rude' in this context?
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:28 PM
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I ended up deleting it, but thanks!
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:26 PM
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The weird thing is I had a pic of me onstage as my main pic and I got NO matches. However, there was a girl in the shot (our singer) so maybe that put people off. When I took the band shot off and just put a picture of me in a courtyard as my main picture, I got a lot more likes.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:24 PM
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Example 1: Me: where do you live? Her: X, you? Me: X, we're neighbours! [it was one stop away from me] Me: But that doesn't mean you're going to get booty calls from me every night. Unless you're gonna wear something really slutty. Her: Ok I have this in my closet, but I promise I will wait to know you a little bit better before ;) Me: Haha thats fine. I prefer to know a girl a bit more too. Me: But I still wanna know what your slutty outfit is Her:It will break all the fun ;) let's just say I l…
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:21 PM
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Not a damn thing wrong with getting your dick wet, but bragging about it and calling it "pickup/seduction" is where you lost me. So it's not seduction unless it's hard? I don't really care because I'm not claiming to be a PUA or seduction guru, but I don't see why it always has to be skilled/hard. For the vast majority of participants, seddit/PUA is about overcoming anxiety, social awkwardness, and helping men both feel and act confident. Isn't part of being confident accepting yourself and owni…
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:06 PM
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If I was going to lie, I'd just say they were all super hot. I did actually post my bio but then I decided to take it down. I gave you the gist of it though, don't see why the exact wording is important. My post wasn't actually about how to fuck girls on Tinder. It was about how powerful it is to be honest and comfortable with your sexuality.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:04 PM
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I think it is at least partly the bio. The girls all bring it up when I start talking to them, and I have literally had a girl say 'your bio is hot'.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:46 PM
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In a city like mine, anyone can be lonely. I wasn't trying to brag about my success (well maybe a little) so much as talk about what I discovered about honesty and sexuality.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:44 PM
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One of the girls had just moved to the city and didnt know anyone. The other two just hadnt met a guy they liked in a long time. So I dont think they are sluts. I use condoms, so the only thing I gotta worry about is Herpes, and I dont think that's a big deal. Anyone could have it, and I could even have it already but not know it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:43 PM
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Disagree. Like I said, I hadn't done some of this stuff before. If you go out of your comfort zone, sometimes you discover something about yourself.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:41 PM
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Not models, but attractive. I do well enough in the world that I can afford to be a little picky.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:40 PM
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Try changing your photos. Worked wonders for me.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:39 PM
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Ah, ok. That makes a lot of sense actually!
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:37 PM
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What is SMV?
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:36 PM
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Anyone could do what I did, I just gave you the blueprint. Everyone is missing the whole point of what I was saying which is that being honest and comfortable with your sexuality will get you laid.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:36 PM
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Definitely not trp, but Models, yes.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:35 PM
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I'm pretty good looking, but I have long hair and piercings. It's a look that some girls love, and others hate. But I carry it well and it works for me. So yes looks probably did help here.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:35 PM
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I've been experimenting with 'hey cutie'. Seems to work. Im not normally agressive but I think the situation calls for it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:50 PM
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I'm attractive if you like a certain look. And it helps I'm in a band. Because if you're attractive, you could say you're a serial killer and still get chicks to fuck you. Seriously. Hmm, I disagree. These girls told me lots of stories about guys that they had talked to on Tinder, they like the look of the guys but then they just say lots of creepy awkward shit.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:33 PM
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If you're not getting any responses, try changing your photos first. At first I got no responses whatsoever. Changed my profile pics and I suddenly got lots of matches. Bio comes last.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:30 PM
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exactly. Not that you shouldnt try in the gym too, but lets not forget the goal here is to get laid.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:28 PM
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Thousands? Hmm maybe I will delete it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:26 PM
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yes
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:24 PM
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Not models but all attractive.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:11 PM
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Ha. Is it even that great? Who knows. It's probably just a lot better than saying nothing.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:08 PM
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Glad youre making it work too. I'd like to ask these guys what is so wrong with getting laid easily??
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:06 PM
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Ha, I don't mean to boast, but I do all that stuff pretty well I think. Guess I'm doing ok. Why do you think it's a gamble for women?
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:05 PM
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Edit: changed my mind about posting it but PM me if you're really that desperate for it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:01 PM
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True. At this point I'm just trying to learn to embrace my sexual side, which I think is important in any personal journey.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:38 PM
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Nothing that could kill you, so I don't mind.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:36 PM
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It re-confirmed it to me.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:36 PM
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If you have a talent, try offering a FWB situation. That way, you're having more than just 1 night a week and you can get progressively kinkier and freakier! Of course, that's always the end goal! All three girls want to see me again so it's been a good result. That said, I'd probably prefer to keep him as a FWB rather than a ONS because men who are good in bed are surprisingly rare. It's a shame for women that it's such a struggle, cos I feel like it's easier to do something about it if you're …
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:34 PM
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Yes. London.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:31 PM
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Totally. I really don't take anything that seriously on facebook/Tinder any more, maybe that's why I'm getting results with it!
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:31 PM
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if you use tinder to avoid biting the bullet and being able to take the safe path, you want to reevaluate I agree and it's definitely not the only thing you should rely on. I'm working on my day approaches too. But anything that gives you confidence helps, right?
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:47 PM
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You'd be suprised. If there's one thing Ive learnt, it's that the girls who often dress and act all slutty are the most disappointing. It's always the quiet ones who are fun.The girls who live very 'normal' lives but secretly want to be very filthy. The ones who have wanted to experiment, but never met the right guy.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:45 PM
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I don't say it's explicitly for sex. I just say I'm an unrepentant perv and I like doing things to women that would make a whore blush. That is enough to get the point across. I would say if you get 8 matches in one night then don't change a thing, that's more than I have ever got (I'm guessing you're a good looking guy). Are you just inviting them for a drink then escalating like mad? I just talk to them on Tinder/whatsapp, stay very flirty and jokey, go between totally normal conversation and …
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:10 PM
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I am 31, the girl last night was 21. The others were 21 and 24. One of them was a student, the other two weren't.
/r/seduction13/03/14 12:45 PM
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Don't wanna say my exact wording because I don't want people duplicating my bio. But it's more about what you say then how you say it. Just say that you like treating women like whores, but do it in a cheeky and unapologetic way. Basically show that you're comfortable and don't think there's anything wrong with it. After that, I don't say anything more about sex. I talk about how I like women with substance, who have a good sense of humour etc. But I make it vague enough that it could appeal to …
/r/seduction13/03/14 12:43 PM
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