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Rant/Ventingtoughloveadvicegiver/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:41 AM
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Field Reporttoughloveadvicegiver/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:58 AM
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I love how she supports me in all my endeavors. She has never doubted me once and I can't love her enough for it. Whether its work, financial decisions, or dropping everything to take a trip around the world she has always encouraged me to follow my own path. I love how she touches me and values my touch. All 5 senses are important but touch has always been huge for me. I love that after so long she still explores the nuances of my hands with her fingertips. My joints, my knuckles, my bumps, my …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/16 01:57 AM
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Quality post but I'll just say: "If you imitate those attributes without actually possessing them, women will see through your bullshit and avoid you like a used tampon." More like, quality women will do this. You can get plenty of success in the bedroom with bimbos by faking it until you make it. But settling for that grade of women says something about yourself. But yeah, none of this matters because the purpose of your post is clear.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:31 PM
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I'd like to say 99.9% is an exaggeration, but it probably is really close to the mark. Take a random group of 1000 single mothers and the majority are usually intolerable. My father who is stuck between trp and tbp fails at critics thinking here. He still wants to believe women are special and are heroic for taking the basic responsibility to care for the kid they irresponsibly had in the first place. I see a lot of people here still in the anger phase but it honestly just makes me a bit sad for…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 07:26 PM
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AWALT is not all women have slept with 20 guys at the age of 20. It means they are all capable of it. That the same instincts and motivators lie in all of them even if they are expressed in a small variation of ways. Nobody here is saying don't fuck hot sluts. Go nuts. But fuck, man if you're going for a LTR then why the hell would you settle for one? And you're not wrong. Sexual attractiveness and aesthetic beauty are the FIRST thing a man should look at. It's only natural. I don't date people …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:54 PM
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TBH you should just cut her loose. For all you know she's doing stuff on the side already but that's not the issue. She is PUSHING boundaries you two already set. Like a child. This is not acceptable. Everything was squared away the first time you had the conversation. She came up with some bullshit self-exploration logic as an excuse to pester you into an unfair situation agaiiinnnn. A good woman will not do this. You clearly like this one if you're dating her but fact of the matter is she shou…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:53 PM
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When Vasalgel comes out I'm getting it done secretly. It's on track to revolutionize male birth-control.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:41 PM
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What Coyote says is correct. Even if it has a sexual connotation, the very fact that the women are laughing and going along with it and finding sexual solutions implies that they deep down understand that they will lose any man's interest if they cannot provide him holes for pleasure. Very interesting and funny stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 09:07 AM
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I enjoy roller coasters. I enjoy my girlfriend's company and her friends. I generally enjoy myself period. I'm pretty zen. Pretty much every day of my life feels fucking amazing. I love my life. I posted this as an example because I was too lackadaisical on that particular day, but I caught myself and remedied it. Appreciate the input though.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 10:49 AM
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Really? I don't view other men as competition. Women are free to come and go as they please, just as we are. If I don't get the girl, perhaps I just need to up my value as a man. Perhaps she just had poor vision. Perhaps I just fit a look that she hates. Who cares? And even if you do see men as competition, healthy competition makes us all stronger. TRP is less about getting the girls and more about getting a life. what /u/veryhappyguy said. The mentality you described, OP, is feminine.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:04 AM
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Meh, I find something this intense only works with younger/less experienced women. Normally something lighter works better. This particular example was the most extreme I could think of so I put it up for dissection. It'd probably turn off a good population of women but this particular girl craved this kind of dominance. I theorize that it's because her mother dominated both her and her father to an extreme and she craved and even stronger male role model. Can't be sure though.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:10 PM
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Point taken. I could have pointed out that I didn't mean to generalize them as air-headed without bringing up misogyny because even thinking that a group is air-headed wouldn't be hateful. You sir are correct. I stand corrected. Won't make the same mistake again but I'll leave it in as an example to others. I appreciate the correction as I like using the English language properly and I was letting the mainstream media's warping of words affect my interpretation as well.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:07 AM
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Nah. It's the first time that's come up and I'm aware. I appreciate the advice but again, I'm no fool. I picked up on the fact that she felt agitated by how they were being as well and played everything right. I actually like her friends a lot, and this was the first time everyone was pussying out. I tell her great things about her friends and they know I like them as well. I know in text it can come off as more serious sounding than it actually was. And really, I don't care if her friends find …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:05 AM
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Woah woah woah. I am not moralizing here. I don't give a SHIT what anyone thinks. I was clarifying for CLARITY'S sake. Nothing more or less. I'm not apologizing. I am just making sure I articulated my point the way I wanted to. Not all women are airheads. There are bimbos and then there are those who are way too in their heads for anyone's good. You misinterpreted my clarification. I have nothing against generalizing. But I wanted to be clear on how they were being indecisive so this would be a …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:51 AM
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No reason to disagree. I clarified in parenthesis. They were all trying to figure out what the others wanted because they were all afraid of being perceived as selfish. I already pointed that out, though you said it more articulately. I am no fool. And yeah no worries. I'm not attached at all. I love women, and I particularly love this one. But I'm aware as AWALT and the potential they all have. My standards were forged in steel by my one bad relationship and I've never gone back since. Short ve…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:41 AM
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A few things, first off being, "good for you!" obviously. Next: You gotta format your paragraphs man. I mean you don't have to, but you should. Even my half-assed efforts are infinitely better than that blob lol. More: Good on you for realizing it's an ongoing process, a state of being, and that a relapse is just a relapse and you can pick yourself back up whenever you want. I'm all for the "not cheating" but you don't need to put it out there to keep image or anything. People are free to do wha…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:43 AM
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Intentional. It attracts those who hate clickbaity bullshit and refreshes them, and it attracts the new, the struggling, and the desperate seeking easy answers and sets them straight. Thank ye kindly
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:33 AM
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You can call it whatever you want, but in the end you still made up the majority of getting that job. If you lacked the skills and passion, you wouldn't have got it. If you didn't keep at it, you wouldn't have got it. That "luck" would have been meaningless if you gave up, hence why luck discredits us. We totally get lucky from time to time and that's great. But I don't see that "luck" existing for people who shit on themselves and don't work hard and happily. You call it luck, I call it a manif…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:07 PM
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Aw, well I appreciate the love but whether this is material for the side bar is up to the mods. I like how the side bar has so many tools and informative studies etc. So I'm not sure this fits what the mods intend for the side-bar. This is not a specialized tool. This is an over-arching philosophy that will help new-comers and strugglers find the right tools for themselves. Powers of persuasion, understanding the female mind, knowing how to attract women and the respect of you peers is FANTASTIC…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:32 PM
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This man gets it folks. I perhaps should have emphasized the point he highlighted more, but fuck it, people here need better reading comprehension. The inner monologue, the fight or flight mechanism that is the voice of your brain wanted you to take the narrow easy route (drink drink drink!). What you really wanted is to go above and beyond. In the fiber of your being you longed for more. That is the voice that one can only truly listen to on a consistent basis when they are willing to properly …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:16 PM
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I read your post, smiled, then glanced at my copy of Zen Flesh, Zen Bones. I've always felt enlightenment, while accurate it what it entails, is more detached from modern society than necessary. At the prime of our age as men we are sexual beings, with desires, and there's no reason to try and let that go if you can enjoy it all healthily. Being attached to nothing is great. Appreciating everything I have is great. But I allow myself my desires.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:13 PM
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If you honestly think luck has a big role in this then you're dis-empowering yourself and discrediting everyone here who has achieved success. Personally, I've found that on any single day the MOST luck has ever counted for would be roughly 10%. And that's for ONE strange lucky day. Most days I find it to be 0-1%. I set my own principles, stuck to them, and built my life. I've helped others I care about do the same. Luck is the lame man's excuse.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:02 PM
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I hear you, and won't argue against your point. I'll just go as far to say that Game, negging, and PUA may just be ONE route of many to get you there. But do whatever the hell feels right man, and makes you happy. I was raised my by mum who did fill my head with a lot of BS, but I have found not all of it is. However my dad is definitely an old-school strong role-model who's way of life I understand more and more as I age. He's a bit of a stick in the mud, but I've learned a lot from him. Thing …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:59 PM
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I'm literally saying it's that mentality that is the main thing keeping people people being alpha and trying to be alpha. If a 5'4 "nerd" like myself can do it, people hardly have any excuse.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:47 PM
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I was using simple as the antonym of complex, not the antonym of hard. Perhaps I should have said straight forward. Rolling a large stone up a hill may be a straight forward task, but that doesn't mean it will be easy. It took me 2 years for it all to really settle and hold, it may take some more and some less. There's no shame in it, but I will say it took pretty much as long as I made it take. It was largely dependent on my choices, taking leaps of faith in the direction of believing in myself…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:12 AM
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We're social creatures. I'd argue that learning to enjoy yourself comfortably and confidently in any social environment is part of loving yourself. Is anyone really satisfied with being an awkward fuck? And if they are, they really don't need the "extra social ability." To each their own. I don't know why you take issue with my definition when, by following my definition, you decided for yourself to improve your social abilities as a tool.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:08 AM
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It's what you think would happen, a little bit of both. I legit deleted some people from my life. Distanced others. Got to know some better and became closer. etc. etc. etc. But pertaining to what is now my MAIN group of friends. I mean my main squeezes, the people I'd take a bullet for? Honestly they're all post-beta-me. I didn't actively look for new friends. I just went to more events, explored life, and talked to people who seemed cool. Some came to me, some I went to. It all felt natural. S…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:03 AM
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Posts on TRP. Throws out a loosely aimed insult at TRP populace. I'll tell you what though, one thing I like about TRP is that they won't ban you for shit like that. I have a lot of respect for the mods here, they have a job that people will find excuses to resent no matter what they do. (Do less, you don't do enough, do more, you're censoring us!)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:17 AM
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Well just as social norms are utter bullshit. (How many people do we know that followed the grades-to-happily-ever-after path that actually lived happily ever after?) It works for some, not for others. Some people were meant to start their own business without formal education. Some people were not meant to be happy in a marriage. These irritating blanket statements sap us of our intellectual curiosity and will to question everything. One of my favorite posts here is about how if you don't like …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:11 AM
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No I lied. YES! I had an amazon woman! It was truly enjoyable and unique for me when the difference was that large. I enjoyed the look I got from men and women trying to understand what enabled a short dude like me to defy the norm. It's really two simple things : I'm a confident sensual fucker and she was an intelligent independent woman who knew a catch when she saw one. Fun excerpts: "Do you want me to not wear heels?" "Bitch, wear whatever you want." (said with a one eye squinted chuckle) ((…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:04 AM
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Right. Sure. Totally understand. Let us all take a blast to the past: Beta-me (I leave a small margin for skewing details to protect some anonymity) 5'4 me dating first taller gf, high school sweetheart. (Or so I thought) Ends up cheating on me with people I thought were my best friends. Not sex, but enough. Cut them out of my life, but don't have the strength to cut her out. In my mind she was the best I would ever get (spoiler: she aint) and I was validating my self worth from her. Funnily eno…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:50 AM
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Could wait a year or two for vasalgel, the 100% effective safe male birth control alternative.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:46 AM
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Gah. Incomprehensible. I always advocate leaving when cheating is involved.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:29 AM
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Are you kidding? The vast majority of people on this sad little globe fucking don't, that's who. Everyone's taught that they need more to be happy. I'll get that promotion and I'll be happy. I need x amount of money and I'll be happy. I need y bimbo to be happy. Etc. etc. etc. My whole point is that everyone THINKS they know what they want, but in reality they are putting time and energy into shit that society as TOLD THEM THEY SHOULD WANT instead of what they REALLY want. That's my whole fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:28 AM
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See this is the part where I disagree a bit. "automatically face the scorn and disapproval of the vast majority of women and blue-pillers...etc. etc." Maybe if you're a celeb. But otherwise, you PICK your company. After I stopped being a beta I spent a year slowly cutting people out of my life and finding new awesome people to better spend my time with. I don't find myself having this problem despite doing whatever the fuck I want and being happy. Maybe where I live it's easier, or maybe people …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:20 AM
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You sound like a beta. If the law, your "superiors" or your finances are getting in the way, either you don't really want what you think you want (because when you really want something you're fucking doing things about it) or you're pussing out. I didn't bash PUA, lifting, or nutrition. There's things to be gained and learned from all the above. But if people come here and view these things as fixes for their life, they're going about it backwards. These are just tools. You will find the approp…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:00 AM
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I advocate selfishness all the time to my friends. I'm like the fucking love guru nowadays and it gets tiresome. But I don't advocate selfishness as selfishness, I advocate it as self-love. The difference is slight but notable. Selfishness implies the neglect of how one's actions affect others. It implies a lack of care. Self-love, as I advocate it, is WELL aware of the ripples caused by one's actions, but chooses them anyways because of necessity to be true to oneself. For example: I always tel…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:14 AM
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Your rephrasing is totally fine as they are synonymous. Selling oneself out is never what one truly wants when they love themselves anyway. Hence step one. One if not qualified to ascertain how to do whatever the fuck they want until they start respecting their self. There's no integrity in selling yourself out. You're invaluable, live like it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:02 AM
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