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| 24 | I want to escape the red-pill (it makes me miserable), but I don’t know how | tsesarevichalexei | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/25 11:48 PM | |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me) | tsesarevichalexei | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 03:52 PM |
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| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?There needs to be someone that progressive who reaches young men in a way that isn’t patronizing or reek of gaslighting. He also needs to be allowed to talk raw, like a real man, or sometimes use uncomfortable language. Look at LBJ. He talked like a typical Southerner of the time, but he signed the Civil Rights Act. Sometimes you gotta allow actions to speak louder than the words. If this isn’t done, I honestly think it’s a matter of time before someone does the same thing but with young women u… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/26 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?I mean, yeah, but that’s material progress, which I consider separate from gender politics. In terms of material progress we definitely didn’t go far enough, and in fact regressed under Trump. In terms of gender, we went a bit too far, imo. Like, important GOOD progress was made and I don’t want to minimize that, but we also went too far in a few places, which led to the nasty backlash we are seeing today. Maybe some backlash would have happened regardless (there was backlash to Obama even thoug… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/26 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?People hate hearing uncomfortable truths, because it forces them to reconsider strategies that held as gospel. But in all truth, I agree. What we’ll eventually get is a fascist techno-feudal patriarchal state that will be supported by those billionaires in exchange for protecting them from anti-trust, removing some regulations, etc. In exchange for that, the billionaire will support the fascist project. That is our future unless liberals and the left change their messaging and at least try to re… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Was the red pill so wrong or right?Some of the problems they point out are very real, but their solutions are unserious memes for the most part. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/26 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Yes. That is exactly what they are internalizing. It’s very concerning. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?So your solution is killing them by sending them to die? That ain’t good. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Exactly! It’s a different phenomenon in the same world. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Someone will eventually find a way to reach young women with some subtle RP or BP subtexts or the other way around, someone will find a way to reach young men with subtle some progressive subtexts. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Black Pill | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Yeah, but the BP has taken its place, and is now the mainstream incel ideology, so the problem is still there, lmaoo. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?There was a genuine progression in the 2010s, but it unfortunately went too far in the other direction at one point and now we’re dealing with the backlash. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 02:55 AM |
| 9 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?You seem to be the only person keeping with the times here. Even assuming that the RP is still the main thing in these circles is outdated. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?All that stuff is just going to radicalize them further, lmaoo. This is like saying Germans would have other things to worry about in the 1930s, so Hitler would become irrelevant. Very unintelligent take, no offense. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Not really. It’s just evolved into the new BP, which is even more incelish and brazen than the RP. Tate, RP, Trump and MAGA are obsolete. The right and inceldom is still very much alive and embodied by the likes of Fuentes, Clav and the BP. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Y’all are kind of behind. The Tate era RP is already obsolete. We’re in the Clav era BP rn, and while not everyone uses the exact language and follow the exact script, its language is definitely mainstream now and many people, even normies, have internalized their concepts. Most young boys now just assume women are hypergamous as a law of life. Even if they don’t say the exact words, they assume women just care about looks and money. They use incel terminology casually (like looksmaxxing, sub5, … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?Oh, so men are losers and bad because of their genetics? Sounds very eugenicist of you. This is the worst possible way to approach this, and will result in having women having their rights taken away in the worst possible way. We need to be smarter about this. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?If things get worse, a worse version of patriarchy will make a comeback. That’s just men’s nature, especially when other things are getting worse at the same time. All it takes is one charismatic leader to successful weave it all together into one grand narrative and for things to get just a little bit worse for things to be forced back. This is unfortunate, but it’s true. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 6 | I fear I’m going back to my incel way of thinking.As someone who’s both short and autistic, I feel your pain. I honestly don’t know what to do at this point. I have money at least, but feeling like I’m basically just worth my checkbook is a pretty grim feeling. Knowing that, unless I flex my stuff cartoonishly, I’ll never even be given a chance because of stuff I can’t control makes me just so bitter and depressed. I don’t want to be miserable or believe in the RP or BP, but it’s hard when real life bombards me with it despite my best efforts. … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?I agree that it’s not bad for women to dress hotly in that context, if it’s just to look good, especially for the partner/husband. I don’t disagree that what a lot of men do is disrespectful, but this is a response to women being openly disrespectful too. The type of stuff women say about young men struggling or young men who are not most conventionally attractive is very cruel. Young men say bad stuff too, but when women started being like that they: a.) had the entire media and entertainment a… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 04:07 PM |
| 0 | If you have a boyfriend, does dressing sexily and enjoying male compliments mean you wanna CHEAT on him?1.) It is disrespectful. If I was in that position, especially presumably after knowing her for a bit and telling her about my insecurities and how I grew up, I’d take it as an insult. 2.) To make matters worse, you’re not just describing dressing sexily, but flirting and getting compliments from random guys. If you are that promiscuous and obsessed with getting bombarded by random dudes, why are you in a COMMITTED relationship again? The guy has every right to question that and look at her diff… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 03:30 PM |
| 0 | I realized it was all lies after years of looksmaxing and moneymaxingI feel your pain. I’m in a similar situation to you (not look wise, but money wise), and I can find sex in abundance, but real relationships feel impossible to find. It’s obvious they’re eyeing my bank account mainly. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/26 12:36 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Nah, not really. I just get sad, but it’s comfortable ironically. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/26 04:48 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I just didn’t feel the need to work anymore, and I worked so insanely hard to get to that point, that I kinda got tired. I got tired of the grind. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/26 03:37 AM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)5’4 and a half. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Hm, I haven’t tried the professional matchmaker option. That sounds… interesting. Do they work or are they commonly known as scams? At my height that seems like a tall task (no pun intended) for whoever is tasked with that. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Both. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)In one of the replies here I mention that and other stuff, but my hobbies/thing that give me pleasure/momentary happiness mainly include: Binge watching YouTube videos Scrolling on Reddit Learning about different things Eating Sunbathing (I love this) I used to anticipate movies and even though most are trash nowadays, whenever a good one comes out I like to go to the theater, even if alone. I like investing and watching my net worth go up if I succeed, and even if sometimes I flop, there’s a ce… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 06:41 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I don’t think anything or anyone is beneath me. We’re all better a different things. In the context of therapy, it on paper would be fantastic for me. A professional that I could truly vent to and another human being I could trust fully to share my deepest thoughts and fears? I’d love it. The therapist I had though didn’t seem to understand where I came from though, and we didn’t really connect on an emotional/vibes level, if you will. You gotta understand that it’s very hard for me to open up a… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 06:34 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Thank you! I send you good wishes as well! :) | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I’ll consider it for sure, since I want something different, but it’s hard since most of my hobbies involve being on my electronics, but I see your point and there is validity to it for sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Again, I can only speak for what I’ve seen, but I’m open to changing circumstances if there is anywhere where people are different. My friends might be kind of dumb, but they have been loyal to me in hard times and I’ve known them since I was a little kid, so it’s hard for me to move on from them. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Thank you for the comment. I’ll try to answer all your questions in as much detail as possible. 1.) I don’t know. I am happy about what I’ve achieved and the fact that I have ultimate material comfort. I am grateful that I have a home, when so many in my generation especially struggle with that. I am happy I was able to retire my parents. I am happy that I at least have something that makes me extraordinary, instead of nothing. But that wound of never being loved or desired is a big one, since i… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 05:00 PM |
| 0 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I tried therapy once and it really didn’t change much, sadly. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I don’t talk about it publicly actually, but I did here because the average Redditor pushback unless I mention that is that I’m a loser, so I feel the need to say that so I’m respected beforehand. But yeah, part of is slight humble bragging because it’s all I have honestly (I don’t do it publicly though because it’s kinda cringe and makes me uncomfortable). | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:43 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)The ones I know are for sure assholes, even if they are my friends from childhood. One of them is literally the bum misogynistic loser that people accuse me of being when I talk about these things, yet he drowns in women because in their words (I asked once) they like how big and funny he is (his humor is basically Andrew Tate level jokes btw, lmao). I’m sure some are okay, but most of them are not anything special. I have more success than them and they don’t have any particularly charismatic p… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:40 PM |
| -2 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I’ll look it up, but accepting boredom has always been very hard for me. Ever since I remember, I’ve always had to be doing something (even if online) or I’d go insane. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I mean, I kinda blame that to an extent, not going to lie to you, but there is realistically nothing I can do about that right now. Living in this time is just the cards that I was dealt, unfortunately (when it comes to that specifically, because in other ways I appreciate living in this time). | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:20 PM |
| -10 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)What else am I going to do then? Just sit around doing nothing? At least being online gives me something to do. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:15 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Okay, and I’ve pretty much accepted that, but what is different between that and the “red-pill” then? It’s the same concept, just different rhetoric (some people are less fortunate and therefore have to compensate in other aspects). | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)I don’t know, I guess it’s just what I’ve seen, both when I was poor and now that I’m rich. I haven’t seen anything other than that. I live in South Florida, maybe that’s the problem? Although farther north people are even taller, so I’d look even worse probably. I could move to another country, but that takes time and my business interests lie here. Also, yeah, I do that. It’s just a good cope, but yeah I know it’s not exactly healthy. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I don’t want to be “red-pilled”, but I’ve seen too much and am kinda low-key traumatized (please help me)Because I want to have a partner and feel chosen. That’s all. I want to have a loving partner and have a family. I want to feel like I also am worthy of love. Again, like I mentioned, I already go to high end strip clubs for the sexual gratification. It’s not fulfilling. I sometimes go out to events I’m invited to, but everyone there is older than me since I am always the youngest (me doing what I did at 25 is rare). | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamI agree with you somewhat, but there was a period of progression from the outset of MeToo until the rise of Andrew Tate. It lasted very little and will probably be remembered as a blip in the radar mostly, but it happened. I think the fact that the pace of change increased so rapidly all of the sudden led to the backlash being so virulent. We were already moving in that direction since women’s suffrage, then increased divorce and abortion rights, an increase in acceptance of libertine fun and mo… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamBased on a combination of real life experience (I’m a businessman and have with many) and the fact that Millennial women were the main pushers of this culture shift. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:28 AM |
| -5 | Why "pill" content has become mainstream1.) Well, a lot of them died in war, for one, before they got the chance to get married. The men that stayed behind or returned almost always got married. That + the promise of a rewarding afterlife kept them from revolting over terrible material conditions. 2.) Again, partially true. There is also a cultural shift, which OP did accurately describe. I’d pinpoint its beginning around MeToo, tbh. Obviously, MeToo’s origins were objectively noble and rightful, but it’s unintended consequence was ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:17 AM |
| -4 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamThat is absolutely not true, lmao. I’m open to being proven wrong, but the barbarism and treatment of women in most societies in human history prove this completely wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamSadly, and I say this as someone with a young sister and a young female cousin. I DO NOT want this to happen, but it’s inevitable unless the current approach by the cultural elites changes or if transhumanism all of the sudden has a surge that rapidly accelerates human evolution in a real way. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamYou didn’t explicitly say that, but you mentioned that this is simply evolution (which literally means moving on genetically) and that men who can’t get in line and adapt to this current climate are simply going to fade. I just don’t think that’s the case, unless, again, transhumanism advances to a point where human nature is fundamentally transformed. Ignoring it and not coming up with ways to solve this problem before it gets out of control makes a reversion to the mean (which is authoritarian… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:47 AM |
| -2 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamKind of. They did that to suppress revolutions many times yes, but they promised them something in return for that sacrifice. Usually this was marriage and family, combined with the religious promise of an afterlife. This motivated these men to go to war (brainwashing, ofc, but it worked and kept them from rebelling over their putrid material conditions for most of human history). Our current liberal secular society offers neither, so arming young men and equipping them to go into war-mode is a … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:43 AM |
| -5 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamThis is very well put! I think most of the blame though is on mainstream culture, though, and social media algorithms. 100% most young women are like this nowadays and it’s a problem that they have to acknowledge and hold themselves accountable for, but they are just as much of a victim, imo. The biggest culprit is modern day entertainment for celebrating this shitty attitude and the shaming and humiliation of men as a virtue and victory over the patriarchy (a revenge fantasy from Millennial wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:36 AM |
| 9 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamThe RP, and not only that but the BP, are definitely super influential nowadays. Even when not specifically invoked, the language of it has become mainstream and influenced culture, especially for young men and boys. It is now common to shame women for their sexual history and body counts again. Young women are widely viewed by young men and boys are transactional hypocrites who only care about height and money (again, I’m not arguing the validity of that, just making the observation based both … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamThis is mostly with white women, tbh. MAYBE African American women, to a lesser extent. Latina women and Asian women are still very trad, since they broadly moved here more recently. It’s a feminism and culture thing (not arguing whether that’s bad or not, just making a historical observation). Obviously my comment applies to the U.S. specifically, although it does partly apply to many other Western and Western-adjacent countries. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:28 AM |
| -6 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamThis is partially true. Yes, the exact conditions of the 50s being recreated is unlikely, barring something crazy. However, the patriarchal hierarchical order and the nuclear family have been a part of humanity for millennia. That is simply human biology, and simply ignoring the frustrations of young men, as OP implies, will only lead to an inevitable and sudden reversion. As I mentioned in my comment, a surplus of angry frustrated young men is the death knell of almost every civilization in his… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:25 AM |
| -5 | Why "pill" content has become mainstreamWe can argue the morality of this, but the fact is that this goes against human nature. My comment is by no means advocacy for red pill scams, but the fact is that every single society in history so far with a surplus of young frustrated men always collapses into barbarism. Every single one. The solution to this? Idk. But young men aren’t simply going to accept being left behind genetically, as you’re implying, unless they abandon their natural instincts. Evolution biologically simply hasn’t cau… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/26 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Personal experience matters way more than objective reality.Well, I haven’t met them ever either. I would like to believe you, but it’s frankly extremely difficult for me to do so when all the women I’ve met are the most cruel, vain and horrible people ever. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | I want to break out of the red pill/misogynist way of thinkingAnything having to do with height? Because that is what fries me. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/26 05:24 PM |
| 0 | The Demonization of Porn is misandryEh, I think porn hurts us guys too. This should actually be an issue where guys and women should agree on. Porn and OnlyFans and all forms of degeneracy should be crushed. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Which generation have more misandristic women and women who consider themselves feminist? Gen Z or Millennials?Lmao, are you stalking my profile or something, lmao? You’ve been responding to my replies on different subs for weeks, lmaooo. It’s fine. That’s your right. Gen Z is not a perfect generation, but we have no structural power. Swinging the election for Trump is literally the only gasp of relevance we’ve ever had when it comes to politics. Instead of lecturing voters, maybe try talking and trying to understand them. Mamdani did that and was very successful. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/25 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Which generation have more misandristic women and women who consider themselves feminist? Gen Z or Millennials?The Millennials ruined so much for the modern youth. Almost as bad as the Boomers. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/25 06:16 PM |
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