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Basically, treat the girl like a best friend, except you're physically attractive to her. The loving indifference part allows you to express your interest while not becoming overly attached to her. A woman is not attracted to assholes per se, they're attracted to their abundance mentality and indifference to her, especially if he trickles interest then moves on to another girl. Girls work for these guys attention in part because they look like they have options and a girl wants to selfishly make…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:39 PM
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I've need cert head issues with porn and Ed, but this convinced me to stop. Good luck dude, and thank you for your persuasive writing skills.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:12 PM
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Sounds good. Remember to think as you like but act like others. Announcing to the world you're full on Red Pill is a receipe for social disaster. A Red Pill man wouldn't give a full disclosure about the nature of his true thoughts, just as a real magician doesn't reveal the secret to his tricks, but let people wonder what magic he's preforming, and why they can't replicate it. We know communism and feminism are terrible. Act like they're great and work within a capitalist mindset. Those around y…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:44 AM
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Usually low content value. Unless the pictures illustrate some profound or meaningful insight, or show something substantive or valuable, they're pointless and trivial low hanging fruit.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:32 PM
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Does someone have the original .psd or illustrator file? I want to help make the stickers, maybe have the tagline work via reverse psychology as another poster suggested. "Censor your mind. Ban the Red Pill" or something to that effect.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:33 AM
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Quality over quantity, it should be part of your mission to find the diamonds in the rough than settle for superficial conversationalists.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 11:37 PM
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Day 11: 12:30am - 7:00am Total: 6hr 30min
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:10 AM
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Day 10: 12:30am - 8:00am Total: 7hr 30 min
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:08 AM
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Day 9: 12:15-9:10am Total: 9hr 5 min
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:08 AM
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In the real world is like Op said, nobody cares. Nobody cares because the vast majority of people's stories are boring, typical and uninspired. You grow up in the suburbs outside some big city and your parents didn't like each other. Big whoop, there's billions of stories out there and each person thinks his is worth sharing. No one cares because we have heard all the same stories already. Their story is disposable, just like their experience being a beta. No one wants to know how you grew up, t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 05:12 PM
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Day 8: 12:15am - 8:30am Total: 8hr 15min
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:53 AM
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Day 7: 12:00am - 7:30am Total: 7hr 30 minutes
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:52 AM
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only when women deserve it The problem is, many people think a certain woman is "worth it" or "deserves it" genuinely, and then they get bitten in the ass by it and turn red pillers. More like guys are taught from a young age that every girl is "worth it" and every girl "deserves" a great man and every man is obligated to take in a basket case and make her happy. Feminism 101 dictates a woman should do whatever makes her happy regardless of consequence, and a man shouldn't question her behavior …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:46 PM
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Day 6: 12:30-9:00 Total: 8hr 30min of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:59 AM
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Day 5: 1:00am-5:15am (bathroom) 5:20am-7:00am, 5:30-6:30pm Challenge: 4hr 15min, Total = 7hr 55min
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:21 AM
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Day 4: 1:00am to 6:45 am - 5:45 hours of sleep
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:23 AM
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Day 3: 1:30am-6:45am, 5hr 15 mins of sleep. 5:10pm-6:30pm, 1hr 20 mins nap. Total for day = 6hr 35 mins.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:49 AM
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Day 2: Went to bed at 12:30. Edit: woke up at 8:00, slept 7.5 hours.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:26 AM
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ubiety will take part in this challenge! July 31st - August 1st: Starting sleep at 23:15. Edit: Woke up briefly at 2:30, woke up for work at 6:45. Had about 6 hours 20 minutes of interrupted sleep.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:14 AM
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First off, quit whining and bitching. If this is the way you talk around those women, it's no wonder they're shit testing you constantly. They perceive a weakness and constantly exploit it - in this case your "inability" to solve the problem in a mature, masculine manner. Also lift if you haven't already. Bitches are less inclined to talked down to you if you're built like a fucking tank - even the ones who think they can cut off anyone's balls get off on emasculating men who bulk up their physi…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:13 AM
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It's the same logic. All men are rapists, so tread carefully with every man. If you treat every man as a potential rapist, you're less inclined to be taken advantage by him. It's on him to prove his trust to her. Who knows, a man may rape her in the future, she only has his trust in him to not be raped. Thankfully this works both ways. All women are like that, it's on her to prove to her man she's different for the same reason above. Now, like another commenter mentioned, it's socially unaccepta…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:14 PM
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I really disagree with this notion that men support each other, it's simply not true, it's a fucking jungle out there, and people do what they can to get ahead. Men will stab their fellow man in the back if given the opportunity, though most of the time collaborating and working to get shit done is mutually beneficial. Getting to the top rungs of any heiracrhy (short of nepotism) requires strong business/relationship "manipulation" to obtain that level of trust. Pure dark triads can fake this tr…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:51 PM
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School systems should actually teach kids how to think, rather than what to think, we wouldn't have such a pervasive stupidity issue. Memorization isn't very useful now that we can Google everything.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:03 AM
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Is there a word version or otherwise editable Google Doc we can collaborate in? It may mess with the pdf formatting, but it would allow us to edit the Handbook eaiser.
/r/AlreadyRed23/06/15 03:09 AM
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Have you met a women who wouldn't love or manipulate someone to get her way? I haven't, because all women are like that. Some are better at concealing their nature than others, and some are experts at doublespeak, but all women manipulate, they're all like that. Have a few beers with a women who wants to fuck you, and they'll say whatever it takes to increase their value in your eyes. Look at her actions, not her words. Using sex as a means of commitment is complete manipulation. The trick is co…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:59 AM
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I wouldn't. Gray areas arise when both parities can't consent due to mutual intoxication or drug use. All it takes is one party to claim the other side sexually harassed or raped them, and by the policy outlined above, the accused would receive disciplinary action by the school. I'm doubtful both parties would, even though in the circumstance I listed above, both parties are sexually harassing / raping because neither is capable of giving affirmative consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:38 AM
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What work needs to be done to make it a legal criminal statute?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 10:17 PM
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Some progressives (not all) pushed for prohibition, sonce they viewed it as a way to end mob rule and government corruption in urban areas. How is prohibition is similar to censorship? Progressivism advocates for openess and the exchange of ideas as a means to improve society. I'm using progressivism and censorship loosely. They're terms which can have broader meanings than the definition you're applying (kind of like how feminism claims to be egalitarian). As you've said, some progressives call…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 03:17 PM
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This thread goes to show how affirmative consent is extremely redundant for normal people. Normal people are not sexual harassers and normal people do not rape, meaning they can communicate in some form or another what they want through implication or practical human desires. But, by narrowing the definition of consent, this directly broadens what counts as sexual harassment and rape. My question isn't about how difficult it is to say a yes, but why the affirmative consent standard exists at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:52 PM
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I have a nit to pick. You probably shouldn't use the word, progressivism. Progressives would never advocate censorship. The people on the left who advocate censorship are not progressives. Leftism and progressivism are not synonyms. There may be overlap, but they are not one in the same. Not to get off topic, but progresses pushed for prohibition during the same time they got women the right to vote. I'm sure they're fine with censorship if it suits their agenda of a more ideal world, but it dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:25 PM
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The Red Pill is not new or groundbreaking advice. True, but it has been heavily censored and restricted by a blue pill society. Political correctness and progressivism have help obscure the details and make the practical aspects of the advice more difficult to tease out from the blue pill lack of advice. This type of advice has existed for hundreds of years, largely unchanged. It is not an attempt to solve a new problem. It is a continuation of a phenomenon that existed beofore any of us were bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 01:15 PM
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It should be said that nearly all campus proceedings use the "preponderance of the evidence" (51%) standard. Accused of cheating on a test? You need to prove your innocence. Accused of doing drugs? Again, you need to prove your innocence. These are not criminal proceedings, so in no way are you legally entitled to anything more than a 50/50 judgement. Correct, that's the term: "preponderance of evidence". After I wake up I'll include it in the OP. Now if the university coaims that they expelled …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:59 PM
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It might not help 'Normal' people (I don't think normal people are it's target) but I'm sure it helps those with ... not so great social skills. Why it's needed is easy. It does speed up the process - mainly because the current laws leave much in limbo, and then prosecute the accused anyway. Its faster for the victim, whichever side that might be. Yes, the administration doesn't want to take a chance on a socially inept teenager or community college kid. With the help of social media, ardent fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:52 PM
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Someone replied to you on your comment also expressing more or less my opinion: You make a good point man, but you definitely should have explained your opinion in the original post. The reason being, a lot of asstards will post "I stopped reading right there", especially radfems. You likely wouldn't have gotten downvoted if you had described how the state creates all these threats, including the insta-jail rape claim with zero repercussion even when proven false. Basically, if you had an argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 07:31 AM
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You may be butthurt that you got downvoted. I wouldn't whine/complain about it to reaffirm your viewpoint, but rather try to understand why you were downvoted, in this case expressing an opinion that wasn't on topic. How does saying "the state is the greatest threat to freedom today" contradict the other points in the article? Why would one sentence cause you to revolt in mental angst? And why would you take that one episode and blow it out of proportion? What was your argument to support your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 06:50 AM
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Never mind the fact that this behavior is carried on to adulthood and perpetuates the rape culture that's gripping society. There's no such thing as a rape culture in the West. What a girl wears has little effect on whether a man becomes a rapist. Most of the rape statistics are stretched or straight up made up. According to the Department of Justice, 20ish year old women are more likely to be raped outside of college than in college. Even so, the rate of rape is still very small, less than 1% o…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 10:25 PM
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No, you're not given me any viable reason why I should. Until you do, my points stand and I welcome other people to explain to me what I missed, if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:29 PM
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Yeah, unfortunately OP is being disingenuous and it's difficult to reason with her without a common basis to work of from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:23 PM
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You're not making an effort to understand what I'm telling you. What about what I wrote completely misses your point? Everything? I find that hard to believe. Maybe I'm not concluding what you assumed to be the obvious counter arguments, but that goes to show a lack of understanding of the implications of your question. What does valuing a guy as a human being have anything to do with your arguments? All people have inherent value with other people. Sexual value isn't equatable to human value. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 09:02 PM
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One of the things I have noticed in a lot of TRP/PPD threads is that many TRPers believe, either implicitly or explicitly, that the extent to which a woman wants to have sex with them is a direct statement about her view of their value as a human being. Well yes. Due to biological programing, having a girl have sex with us is the ultimate reward of courtship. What's wrong with this? We've developed sex organs completely dedicated to having sex. The sole purpose of the female clitorous is to plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:43 PM
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I hear this men love women for who they are and women love men for what they provide thing a lot, and I think it's silly. Why do your looks mean more about "who you are" than your ability to provide? Physical gratification for the male. Both sexes only care about each other for what they can provide. Women happen to provide vaginal sex, which relies on them being attractive and having a vagina. Men typically provide food, shelter, financial security and sperm. You provide what we cannot have, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 02:54 AM
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For practical language sakes, yes, men do not love women unconditionally by nature, but are trained to do so by "social constructs", or by the "plugged in" mentality. I agree it's important to discern what's a sociological construct versus what's hardwired in our brain via evolutionary psychology, and red pill wording conflates the two. At the end of the day, "female and male nature" have basis in both, and what you choose to belief depends on the specific concept. In the case of "love", this de…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 08:27 PM
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Note I'm not saying men love women unconditionally, but that the expectation to love unconditionally is there, at least to the plugged in male. Men are not allowed to criticize their SO, have boundaries, etc. Men are taught to be Nice Guys, and as nice guys they're not capable of discerning situational context because they think in black and white extremes. I think you're underestimating the prevalence of black and white thinkers in society, and the possibility that a huge chunk of male societie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 07:38 PM
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Umm, re-read what I wrote. I said popular media (which is impressed on us and perpetuated by society) socially conditions (trains) us to love women unconditionally. I gave examples too. Before popular media became the driving force, I'd argue culture (which typical controls society) conditioned us. Think Indian and Asian cultures for a modern day example. Note that I'm not saying men love women unconditionally. I'm saying that's an expectation impressed on us. (I'm using condition and trained in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 07:19 PM
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Do men love women for who they truly are or they just have an idealized image of women in their minds ? Generally speaking, both sexes over-idealize men and women. With their "true love", it's probably still an idealization / pedistalization. I don't believe men or women love someone for who they are, but love them for what they can offer. Can you give an example of someone who loves you for who you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 07:06 PM
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"Socially trained" means our society impresses on men the belief that women deserve unconditional love. Who does this, and why would men love women unconditionally? Well, think Disney and similar popular media that act as "role models" for little boys and girls. Parenting hasn't really been the greatest the past quarter century, so men and women turned to media to raise them. This leads to both sexes having unrealistic expectations in relationships. I wouldn't say it's either person's fault if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 06:58 PM
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Yes it's true. Men and women love each other differently. The proof comes from looking at what most men and women say versus how they act around someone. Men are socially trained to love women unconditionally. Look at how society trains us to value women for simply existing. This ranges from good looks and fashion sense to being nurturing and submissive. Usually, both men and women have a difficult time believing a woman can be a manipulative psychopath because those characteristics are typicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 06:38 PM
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When women are confronted by a man with low status behavior that is incongruent with his high status looks, Meaning when someone looks alpha, but acts beta, they will never resolve the incongruity to the benefit of his status; Women will not compromise for betas in wolf clothing; women will always resolve the incongruity to the detriment of his looks. Rather than accept a beta, women will rationalize his good looks away. Essentially, it's more important to women to act alpha than to look alpha. …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 08:56 PM
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She says structural changes are the cause of oppression, but ignores cultural reasons... But culture and structure can be interwoven pretty tightly, so much so a culture becomes the basis of a society's structure. The fact that she doesn't believe cultures (or religions) should change their practices to archive equality compromises her own arguments. Only focusing on systemic issues misses the wider cultural basis that perpetuates the alleged inequality.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 02:22 PM
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You might be misconstruing level-headedness for her submissiveness, which men feel attraction for and are lead into thinking are desirable traits, which may be used to influence your opinion about her arguments. A few YouTube comments said the same as your statement, but that calm demeanor doesn't change the fact that her statements do not hold up against the aggressive guy's arguments. Since this is a debate, focus on what she says and not on how she acts.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 02:21 PM
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You give a nice superficial understanding of the movie through a RP, lens, but lets dig a little deeper and explore the themes a bit. Caleb represents human naivete, thinking that every person (even if it's a robot) has a similar moral compass like he does. He's an excellent example of a white knight beta faggot who swoops into rescue a damsel in distress, going so far as sacrificing himself for a chance at his fantasy. The irony is the damsel is a machine and not human, but his idealized projec…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 09:54 AM
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This is the first time that I'm aware of such a preemptive censorship policy has been implemented to this extent. I think an analogy is in order to help you understand the different contextual meaning of "censorship". Imagine you're depressed one day, you feel down and out of it but the next day you shake it off and realize you were having a bad day. You use the word "depressed" because it fit the feelings you felt. Now Imagine you're depressed all the time. You can barely function or move out o…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:09 PM
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Part of the point of the red pill is to state the "non-obvious". If you want to be a dick about how the "non-obvious" is too obvious, you're not adding to the discussion. Instead say something like this: "So what you're saying is you need to differentiate the amount of pleasure you "give" a girl depending on how nicely she treats you. If she's being a cold bitch, don't treat her like a princess. You're a man of boundaries and if she crosses one you act accordingly. Make her extremely sexually fr…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:08 AM
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Well sometime I think it's because the idea is not presented in a neutral, objective fashion. People want to read their reality from a scientific journal not from something that sounds like a blog. Alright, you could think of TRP in a scientific sense but it's not beholden to such standards. At best it's a bunch of subjective empfertialata that works for most of the people who apply it. We have scientific articles to back up some of our claims, but applying dread game or going nuclear to prevent…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 01:05 AM
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If newcomers felt like victims, I don't think they would stick around very long and would quickly become repulse by TRP instead of actively seek out something so contradictory to their nature. Internalized victimhood isn't something most men who seek out TRP self-perpetuate, rather, honesty and finding the truth is what they're after. Being depressed about women isn't the same as going around shouting a victim complex and prompting a new psueo-science that magically includes you in the solution.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 04:44 PM
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For blue pillers all we tend to focus on the angry sounding men. TRP contains a diverse collection of ideas and purposes. My intention in this post was not to address all of them, but only the aspect that us BPillers get offended about. Alright, my point is this is narrow minded thinking that BPers use to discredit us ignores the wider picture... They're fixated on politically correctness, to the point where facts are sometimes ignored, with a tendency to believe what "sounds" correct versus wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:48 PM
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I want to throw out that TRP presents most of its theories as matter of fact, or "simple", but in practice to get the results that the theories propose is extremely difficult, boarding on near impossible with someone who has no prior foundation or basis to head forward. That said, incremental to significant progress can be made after say 6 months to 2 years. One should be where he wants to be after 2 years - this is a very long and taxing time for most men in their twenties. The answers may soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 08:01 PM
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TRP is ok with bashing women, because they think that women need to be taken down a notch, just like in regular society, we subconsciously believe that celebrities need to be taken down a notch. If this is your fundamental argument than you're reasoning is flawed. The entire point of TRP is to accept the natural world for what it is, not how we want it to be. By engaging in petty women bashing, TRP men waste energy they could be expending bettering themselves or setting the example for others to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 07:49 AM
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Yeah - his company should pre-screen for general competency first, that should be a prerequisite before hiring anyone. Don't hire stupid, they won't magically gain intelligence through their training.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:17 PM
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English is the lingua franca of our times... To bad not everyone is a native born speaker or graduated high school. There should be other red pill subreddits for different languages. Some things don't translate well from English to someone else's native tongue. This can't replace stupid though, that increases as the sub grows larger. Oh well, feel free to contribute good sound'n Anglish.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 09:14 PM
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This will sound stupid / obvious, but you besides the tips and techniques you could find on YouTube and from professionals, all you really have to do is speak much louder than you normally do. I'm was habitual mumbler, it got to the point where people constantly said "what" after I spoke. About a year ago I took on a leadership responsibility that required me to speak in front of groups. This forced me to speak louder, but for good reason. At first you need to be conscious of your volume level, …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 07:23 AM
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Is it more egotistical to claim you can't detect an RP man in real life, or for me to claim that I'm undetectable? Also, sex positive for who? The beliefs can only be invoked successfully by certain groups which - as shocking as they may sound - only happens with individuals attractive enough to have sex already. As other folks have written, this means sex positive attitudes helps de-demonize sexual promiscuity in women. Unattractive men probably will not benefit from this new philosophy as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 06:17 PM
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I find non-modern writing difficult to read and focus on. I read very slowly and have never been one to enjoy long form writing since often the point can be buried deep in an author's prose. I counteract this inability by listening to audio books or screen-reading software. I've never enjoyed reading so it's nice to have the option. As for understanding these type of writing, it depends on your ability to comprehend and internalize the intended meaning. You develop this skill in high school and …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 09:33 PM
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You've gotten a lot of great discussion that refutes your viewpoint pretty unequivocally for men. Under your premise, a complete pessimist should remain being a pessimist if that's just who he is - after all - he'll be happier believing his viewpoint because that's who he is. In real life however, men who constantly express negative/pessimistic viewpoints are not happy, let alone express attractive personality traits for women. Women simply have more options at their disposal than men based sole…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 11:01 PM
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A few, but CT and CBT don't seem to be catching on much. From what I read on its Wikipedia entry, it seems like a reasonable treatment for people with depression, negative thought patterns, personal biases. I have no basis, but I believe it's supply and demand. It could also be the techniques are not widely spread across the world. I don't know how Russia helps its people with depression and similar mental health issues, but maybe you know from your experience whether their popular treatment met…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:07 PM
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Does Russia have cognitive therapists, and if so, have you worked with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:04 AM
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Met this chick at a party 2 weeks ago, 7/10 with a nice ass. Liked each other and decided to hang out again so I asked her out to see furious 7 with me. (Couldn't think of anything else, I'm 18 and have little to no dating experience.) Usually movies aren't the best first date choice. You want to choose something more active (like a sport or hangout) where there's opportunities to escalate attraction. Keep that in mind for the next date. Date went terrible. I didn't escalate at times I could and…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 07:17 PM
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Let me tell you, women in this age group are DESPERATE for a guy their own age. And that desperation does come across. So now I can see why desperation is not attractive in the least bit. Now imagine yourself in your early 20s. You're a more desperate, thirsty version of yourself. Girls see through your displays of toughness with simple confidence tests which cripple you and make dry up most attraction they may have for you. When you experience their desperate nature in their 40s, which natruall…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 07:00 PM
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If a man looks physically fit, gets a high paying job, has a nice home, has adventurous hobbies, and expresses high levels of self confidence, would you find those attributes attractive? These strategies tend to heighten a man's social value (sexual marketplace value), which raises his ability to have sex with more women. Sexual strategy is much broader than simply physical attraction, which is probably the first thing that pops into your head. The strategy works because these men come off as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 07:09 PM
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Dude, red pill traits and blue pill traits lay on a spectrum. Even the reddest of alphas apply beta game if the situation calls for it. Rather than focusing on a the binary aspects of "this is clearly alpha, this is clearly beta", try to take a more comprehensive look from a social dynamics perspective and see how both behaviors can benefit you at any given time. Without social intelligence and practicality nuance, the alpha/beta dichotomy seems absolute, when in reality all behaviors absolutely…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 06:22 PM
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There's multiple forms of communication. Usually men recieve more sexual attractive through nonverbal, action based communication, which the Red Pill prefers to verbally killing the attraction with unnecessary words. Yes, there are exceptions to this, you need to talk sometimes, but less than you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 10:34 PM
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Well, if thinking I'm a schizophrenic and\or a liar helps you sleep better at night, who am I to deny you your red pill comfort? Dude, why would you lie about about trivial things like your age and weight loss? You yourself say you don't want help Not in this thread. Any thread where you do ask for help, you rarely take anything. That's OK and all, but the thousands of people you've probably communicated with over the course of your time in reddit and real life do give you "decent" advice under …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 07:29 PM
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Not that any of this matters, but how do you age from "almost 24" to 31 in three years? Also, how did you lose ~100 pounds in a month, and why do you use pounds instead of kilograms to describe you're weight if you're from Russia? Looking through your post history, the numbers don't add up and the timetables don't make a lot of sense. I believe you're a recent graduate (maybe 3 years ago), but beyond that your general story sounds fabricated - to no fault of your own. I'm pretty sure you're a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 04:29 PM
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Comedy gold right here. "No, you're not wrong. Just wrong." More like "You're wrong, just not for the silly strawman reason you made up to mock me" Your redpill persecution complex is showing. Come on man, even if red pillars have a persecution complex, it's just words meant to poke and prod you into action, you know, male encouragement. Do you have friends in real life who tease and joke with you? Haven't you had those things in your life? Full grown men should be able to help themselves after …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 03:08 AM
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If I get the studies to show you how to tie your shoes, you'll tell me I'm doing it wrong and that I'm a jackass with an unfalsifiable method to tie your shoes. Not really, no, but the "show you the studies" argument I do refute later on in the post. Comedy gold right here. "No, you're not wrong. Just wrong." It seems like you value being correct above your personal well being. What are you implying? That I should lie to myself and pretend things are better? Or that I am lying to myself and... w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 12:19 AM
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You're first paragraph describes egalitarianism, the article itself says this as well: The study, published online this week in the journal Sex Roles, relied on surveys of both college students and older adults, finding that women with egalitarian attitudes do find mates and men do find them attractive. In fact, results reveal they are having a good time, maybe a better time than the non-feminists. I'll ignore the survey aspect, but maybe you can explain why egalitarianism isn't as widely popula…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 11:12 PM
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If I get the studies to show you how to tie your shoes, you'll tell me I'm doing it wrong and that I'm a jackass with an unfalsifiable method to tie your shoes. It seems like you value being correct above your personal well being. Dude, how do you got banned from the forever alone subreddit for being too negative? Maybe try compromising your tone, or stop lying to yourself. You can physically change... If physical attraction is your be all end all just get a face transplant, or facial reconstruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 10:54 PM
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You really need to learn the difference between "demonstrate" and "postulate". Just because you think it's possible and say it is, it doesn't become true. You understand what I mean though, you're own life isn't a suitable counter argument. What about my postulation doesn't hold its weight? Exactly BECAUSE I'm a wordsmith I know how limited the power of words is. Sure, words can woo women. They just need to be words uttered by a man of appropriate appearance and\or status. Notice how all the ora…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 10:03 PM
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The thing that makes it comical to me is that I think that they are trying to marry a virgin to shield themselves from the sexual marketplace but as Rollo says that's an impossibility. These are probably new Red Pillers, most seasoned users know marrying a virgin has no guarantee of commitment later down the line, I discussed this higher up in the thread. I've seen several articles on trp and Rollos site about women who married at 18 or 19 as virgins or with a very low partner count who got arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 06:51 PM
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I was responding to whether male gender roles hurt men - for me and I think for most men they can beneficial. Sounds like you don't experience their benefit, or recognize most of their existence in your daily life as they do not apply? I'm not sure what you're exactly responding to in your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 06:43 PM
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However, I don't think you can "become" such a man. You're born with a talent and\or passion for music and pursue it independent of whether you can get laid or not. You don't go "Welp, I can't get laid. Better become a rock star then" I always thought these were attributes that could be learned and otherwise strengthen through practice. Have you read the book "Mastery" by Robert Greene? He give many examples of masters of their craft. The take away is through proper mentorship, practice and stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 06:29 PM
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Umm, yeah. What's the issue? I like reading your responses, (not that we've talked to each other, just reading your replies to others), it's a different perspective I don't quite understand, so I thought why not ask and read the response?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 10:35 AM
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There is no explicit social convention that says only other attractive people can approach attractive people. Correct. And as much as I believe that appearance is the most basic component of sex and relationships, it's still a fact that physically unattractive men can date attractive women, and it's not a social faux pas for either to do so. Also correct. What you didn't address is why physically unattractive men can date attractive women, which obviously isn't for their looks. What else can men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 09:37 AM
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do you think male gender roles hurt men in the long run and put unrealistic expectations on them? These are the gender roles I am talking about: To be muscular, strong and physically fit. To be tough, stoic, fearless, and not succumb to emotion( "Real men don't cry") To be in charge or be the leader of a group To never show weakness or laziness To be popular with the girls/ladies To overall be the best, have a competitive spirit. Based on these six gender roles for males, do you think trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 09:17 AM
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I don't understand what you mean by "childlike understanding of sexuality", though. Having sex too early in a relationship might not allow an emotional and intellectual connection to develop. The two people will eventually start thinking about each other only in the context of lust, which is destructive to a long-term relationship. I think it's a very mature understanding of sexuality and the role it plays in relationships. I agree with your response, in a relationship generally waiting a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 03:06 AM
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My guess is this vocal minority are hypocrites in your mind, as they want to fuck everything that moves but settle down and raise a family with a virgin... And you're right. See, if both parities are cool with it, then being hypocritical doesn't matter. The conversation still has to be had to make sure both parties know each other's sexual history, since it does absolutely matter, especially for marriage. Now, it's just as much an issue once the guy lies about the number of partner he has just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 02:51 AM
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good for you? this doesn't change how i view either red pill or masculinity; you can try to dress it up as something great, but that doesn't change what the red pill actually is or does (and in the end, makes its supporters appear all the more dishonest for it). Yes, this wasn't intended to change your perspective as to give you insight on what I believe male masculinity should be, instead of what society says it should be (and as a result what you probably believe). I think "what the red pill a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 02:37 AM
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Which tenets of feminism help in relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 02:23 AM
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We can comprehend that type of relationship, but question why human beings would restrict themselves to a childlike understanding of human sexuality. This girl admitted she's 16 and wants to wait until marriage to have sex. That's great if the guy submits to that, but she's essentially using sex as a bargaining chip for commitment (she said so herself) which is highly manipulative and immature. There's other ways to ensure commitment without toxic notions of celibacy. Why do people think restric…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 02:14 AM
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I think this is largely done outside of the subreddit. People who spend the time reading the material learn "alpha" and "beta" refer to personality traits and habits. Being strictly alpha or strictly beta takes out the nuance required to maintain a relationship, as both traits can be utilized to great benefit to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 02:07 AM
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I think your version of masculinity plays into male chivalry, nobility, and honor perpetuate by the judeo-christian tradition of self sacrifice for the benefit of family and community. Masculinity through sacrifice. Obviously, no man is required to sacrifice, but society expects them to do so willingly, whether it personally benefits them or not. I believe a lot of men make foolish sacrifices simply to adhere to this outdated belief of masculinity. Men must have honor, chivalry and white knight …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 01:58 AM
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I don't know how that makes sense, or is red pill. First unicorns don't exist. AWALT, but some are better matched with my personality, most aren't. It's up to me to decide what I want in a relationship, hook up or plate, just as it's on the girl to decide what she's looking for in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:59 PM
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Before taking in the Red Pill, I thought I could engage in a relationship without having sex. I figured I didn't need to have sex to be happy with my partner at the time. She was one of those types that wanted to save her virginity before marriage, which I respected and did not force her into doing something she didn't want to do. Over the course of the relationship, my attachment to her waned considerably. It wasn't until I realized that sex was an important part of a healthy relationships. A s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 08:48 PM
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Treating emotional idiots like children does work because most dumb people won't see what your doing. Naive women and some men happen to be emotionally driven, just like an undeveloped child seeking guidance from an adult who took the time to learn how people tick. These women, man-children and naive souls hold everyone to such high regard, that they couldn't spot a dark triad type in real life even if he (or her) slapped him in the face. Treating all women as children assumes all women act like…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:46 PM
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To give credence to your statement, a female friend of mine did this exact thing. She was crying and pouty with her boyfriend trying to manipulate him into getting what she wants (diamond earrings). She worked herself up so fast I was amazed at her acting ability (this happened over the phone). When we left to get food together, she looked perfectly fine. I called her out on it, but she completely denied it, said I "didn't know how she was feeling." Right. If she was actually upset, she wouldn't…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 10:34 PM
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It depends whether we want to define the sub, which as you've said already has a succint — and sufficient — mission statement, or the Red Pill concept, which is to unplug men from the Matrix-like programmation in which we bathe from birth, and which is increasingly alienating us from ourselves as men. Might as well do both: The Red Pill: The process of deprogramming societal political correctness regarding sexuality and masculinity; seeing the sexual marketplace for its amoral truths. Also the s…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:37 AM
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Hypothetically speaking, maybe in this case, a Red Pill man would threaten a perceived sense of dominance in the relationship. Maybe the partner wants to be equal, and the Red Pill man threatens that equality on some significant level. Either way, from what you've written, you clearly don't want to be submissive to some guy who puts you below him. Maybe that power reversal - to ability to bring a high status guy to your level - is enough to get the tingles flowing. Of course, no one would phase …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/15 07:19 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. I think the brevity of this subreddit's mission statement provides a near perfect definition of what The Red Pill really is - sure - we discuss how feminism and white knights misleads men in becoming the best version of themselves, but to be included in the definition? I propose the following: The Red Pill: A reference to the famous Matrix scene, the process of deprogramming societal politi…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:55 PM
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Hey /u/redpillschool , thank you for moderating this subreddit - it really has help change my perspective on life for the better, contrary to what PC popular culture wants everyone to think. The ideas expressed in here are actually productive, helpful and self motivating, and it's been a great year and a half following TRP and contributing my own content along the way. Keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:07 PM
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/r/MGTOW has slight infiltration by the political correct left (for example, reddit's FA community still plugged into PC behavior). Those individuals view TRP as dangerous at worse, and pointless at best. Personally, I embrace MGTOW as a sexual strategy, see a lot of cross over with TRP, and would like the link referenced in the side bar - whether /r/MGTOW wants that link depends on the moderators and community members.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:03 PM
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The passive and weak continue society with less respect than their fathers, in part because society thinks today's real men are brutish demons. You notice how women think all white men have privilege? These women screen for the men at the top of their financial, physical or mental game, which are mostly white. Every other white man is invisible, called a creep, and still guilt tripped for his ancestor's brutality. If you can't win against your critics with logical arguments, defeat them through …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:40 PM
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The end of the game arrives when a man turns MGTOW. As long as he does so with valid, constructive reasoning and not a reactionary forever alone type behavior, he should spread that knowledge to his fellow man. As much as I dislike tone policing, policing for those being a whiny bitch who derail topics just to circlejerk about their rough life is an allowable exception, as whining misses the point of self-help, TRP and learning to help yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:21 AM
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New people may think this is a tongue-in-cheek response, but seriously, sophism and self justification for your own insane thinking is a power talk strategy used by women to reframe the conversation away from any wrong doing on their part, onto some poor sap who's stupid enough to buy into that women's fairy tale. Look at her actions, look at the evidence. Women say a lot of things, but this doesn't make them true. Normal people do not cry rape then get a media circus to justify their actions. C…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:21 PM
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It would be sweet irony if Baney's fellow woman studies professors came out against her - but that requires a rush to judgment, an angry mob of clueless supporters, and a sensationalized media campaign to fuel the fire, they're professors! They wouldn't purposely spin a personal agenda or force the story to fit their narrative! /s
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:14 PM
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No need to elaborate, just keep improving yourself and definitely find something to do outside of the house on a regular basis - I think most RP men lift three times a week, for me, I spend my free time filming or taking photos. Gets me thinking about something other than my work.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:23 AM
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Holy shit, thanks for sharing. I know it's not talked about much in TRP, but women seem to intentionally push a man's buttons to illicit a response when he acts too passive. She desperately wants an alpha to pop out of her beta bux and lead the relationship where "he has been cutting too much slack". Sometimes instead of change, men get physical and use their actions to express what words cannot adequately communicate. I remember my mom would provoke my dad endlessly - he didn't usually respond …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:11 PM
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Another way to phase this, don't let anyone, let alone a woman, dictate the terms of anything in your life. The moment you allow someone else, (especially some random succubus who only naturally wants what's best for herself), to steer you off course from your own mission - to break your frame - is the moment you've lost. Marriage is a societal frame breaker, but it's a necessary one to raise a family. If you're a red pill man who wants a family, you need to decide how you want to incorporate a …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:19 AM
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I think outsiders read into these statements with too much emphasis on tone and not enough on meaning. They look for feeling rather than logic. Their societal condition wants to seek out the worst feeling and tone in each statement regardless of content. You can take a lot of statements out of context but those aren't useful for understanding the message. For example, when TRP says AWALT, it's not literal statement, it's an effective one. Do unicorns exist? Maybe, but I haven't met one and won't…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:43 AM
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Treating people as victims to be healed denies their humanity ... It removes their accountability to expectations, and has the effect that they do not need to behave as ... responsible [people]. Your post focuses on good/bad but I think it simply boils down to how perpetual victimhood negates personal responsibility for oneself. If you watch Boyhood, Mason Jr. Is always the victim of forces outside his control, so instead of doing something about it, he decides to let those forces control him, h…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:53 PM
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Oneitis, where the hamaster remains irrationally strong.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:14 PM
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I want to point out from a photography point of view, the models without makeup have exaggerated features because of the type of lens that was used to shoot the image. Wide angle lens distort their facial symmetry to look unnatural and larger than the model images, which look flatter and more representative of what you see in real life. Besides that, yes, most girls like their male counterparts do not look extremely attractive. Its illusion brought on by Photoshop, camera work, lighting and make…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:42 AM
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There's a discussion to be had regarding mentorship. Your claims only work if you have a good sense of self and already alpha - why not find an older man more successful than you? Not only would befriending an older man make them feel appreciated and well liked (48 laws of power) the opportunities and potential to network can only help you. Roughing it on your own when you can fast track your life in the footsteps of other people with the goal of surpassing them seems like an efficient and smart…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:35 PM
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Read "Mastery" by Robert Greene. Rather than a simple post, he details all the steps that individuals take to become the master of their craft. He has a few chapters dedicated to apprenticeship, which is essentially the same thing as mentorship except you're learning shit from people better than you. Word to the wise, once you've actualized your potential and surpass your master or mentor, you become that figure who men (and women) look up to. This may take +10 years, but through active engageme…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:29 PM
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To make this more productive for new people, this is an example of beta behavior (regardless of trolling) because bodybuilder guy loses frame over some woman. Just because you lift a few weights and look physically domineering doesn't mean anything if your still a beta a heart. Success in all aspects of manhood, not just the stuff you find easy, is paramount to your overall success. The bodybuilding boils down to a pure showcase (maybe personal gratification). Always maintain a balance between y…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:33 PM
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Imagine how independent women would become if escorts and prostitutes worked under a corporate infrastructure that paid them fairly and supplied security against the occasional weirdo or serial killer. As long as society demonizes sex and a woman's right to fuck as she pleases, men will treat women as a perpetual victim class. How come society cannot view drugs, sex or alcohol in positive a light? Women can be as loose as they please - that's their business. I don't give a shit if a women sluts …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:02 PM
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I'm partially disabled in one of my senses. It's nothing serious, but due to the nature of the impairment a special needs person from my county's office of education always checked up on me on a regular basis to make sure my needs were accommodated. I was an excellent student, near the top of my class. I never understood why they spent money helping me when I could help myself. The office of education would throw and subsequently invite me to county wide parties for my impairment. I went to one,…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:27 PM
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You're helping them for the right reasons, but the forever alone mindset pushes away practical advice, makes excuses, laughs in the face of real self-improvement to favor a victim mindset. I'm all for embracing who you are, but as another comment said, we focus too much on our nouns and not enough on our verbs.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:03 PM
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The MGTOW mindset is a natural progression of TRP: you see the world for now it is AND you live your life on your own terms. MGTOW living is hyper-individualistic, these men don't need women just as career women don't need men - doesn't mean they don't like sex or are asexuals, they prioritize themselves over everything and everyone.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:57 PM
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Remember you can employ "natural" game only after your feel comfortable with yourself. A bunch of guys have intense social anxiety and do not feel comfortable expressing themselves without always questioning their every action. They lack confidence and can't see the forest for the trees - can't enjoy the party just for the hell of it. Men who lack natural game should strengthen their sense of self and figure out immediately who they are, and not feed their depressing hamster.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:27 PM
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In both cases, the guy and girl decides if they want to continue into a relationship. The guys who do so usually lack the confidence to approach less desperate women (since they're desperate themselves); similarly, the women who get approached feel great and validated for being attractive enough to attract attention. Your devil's advocate doesn't really apply as you're assuming this works both ways... when in reality the personality of who approach the opposite gender are completely different ty…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:00 PM
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I feel really bad for men choosing to live in Canada under the irrational feminine gynocracy; simply being a man sounds worse than in the States - uglier, more entitled women controlling the conversation through the threat of radical feminism. A bunch of well known MGTOWs live in Canada, no surprise to see this article referenced in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 05:16 PM
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Classical feminine qualities, especially submissiveness, are what I'm referring to when I claim "women are easily manipulatable". Most women still fall within a classical feminine conditioning. Feminism has tried to "help" women act more like men and deal with man's chauvinist tendencies. Feminism has also help men "get in touch with their emotions", meaning feminism feminizes men to act and think more like women, which is more emotional based than logic based. I'm not sure what part relies on c…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 12:23 PM
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You've got this man. Keep chugging along and improving every day. You use to be the guy who always offered his help to your friends in real life, but now you should ask others for help or hit them up to hang out to take your mind off the divorce. Stay positive by working out, and keep yourself busy with work and hobbies - maybe pick up a few new things to do now that you're separated. Don't let her destroy you or drag you into the ground, maintain frame and be strong.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:03 AM
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Quickest way to detect a shill? She disagrees with your opinion without offering a valid alternative. If they offer an alternative, it involves making yourself feel bad for your thoughts or actions, or trying to shame your for believing a certain mindset without explaining themselves. Shills are unhelpful and misdirect attention whenever possible away from the topic.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 05:31 AM
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Women have the right to vote just like any human being. It's just frustrating because woman as a group are not independent thinkers and are easily manipulated into voting a certain way based on their neurological wiring. The same stuff that explains why TRP works also gives way to the intense female hive mentality. Overly feminized men also suffer from this issue. I truly believe the elite are slowly killing masculinity due to its difficult to manipulate mentality. Turn everyone into a weak-mind…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 05:23 AM
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I think sweeping this under a rug and ignoring it would do more harm than good - why? Because if we want to understand how men and women are different, the easiest ways are looking at the communities built around their ideals and leadership (mods). Also look at whether the community focuses on the free expression of ideas versus the communities built around sex and gender, making people feel safe and policing tone. TXC has no real focus as a community, so its noise-to-signal ratio is astronomica…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:28 PM
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If someone wants to shoot themselves in the foot, you let them. Only someone crazy and stupid enough would even consider the idea in the first place. Let those who still want marriage have it, and then smile to yourself knowing your life is much better than some redditor who didn't know better. Marriage only makes sense if both partners have assets to lose, the gap is narrowing, but men still make more than women so they'll get fucked more in court. You probably already know this.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 12:52 PM
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One's a personality trait, the other is an action you commit. It's easier to act out narcissistic personality traits than to act out rape. There's no incentive for men to rape, whereas for women being narcissistic gives them "taste" and "standards" and reasons to feel special. Society, groups, media encourage narcissism. Those same entities vehemently discourage rape. That's how they're different. Calling all women narcissists is true to an extent since all women express some degree of vanity an…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:39 PM
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True, there's no reason for intellectualism. It takes skill to communicate complex ideas as simple and to the point as possible. Purposely obscuring an argument for smart points needlessly leaves out the target audience, and causes a backlash like the one in this thread. Eloquent speech is possible, but if your comment doesn't have enough content, go be autistic elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 12:25 AM
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If you pull the "as a women" authority ethos crap on 4chan , you'll receive a much different response than reddit or more specifically twoXchromosomes. Ideally, people should judge you on the merit of your opinions. Since most of the internet still has a predominately male presence, just saying "I'm a women" will shower you with attention that most men wouldn't receive for providing the same content. I think online and offline women receive the same amount of attention, but online it's what men …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 12:02 AM
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When women usually post in TRP, they give some bullshit emotional or shaming response we can pick apart ("not all women are like that !), a very bad argument about how they think reality works versus how reality actually works, or the rare self-awareness that comes from struggle and hardship and accepting difficult truths. In all cases, women who post get unduly attention for average opinions. If the IM or GayLubeOil equivalent of a women posted and started telling us how it is, I think that wou…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:35 PM
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It's bizarre people's knee jerk response to anything that may trick someone is "emotional manipulation". No shit it's emotional manipulation, everything manipulates your emotions, food, visuals, sounds, people, media, even the weather! The purpose of GayLubeOil's "trick" is to illicit a "natural, real" response put of a girl. Like a women finding out a man is a beta in Alpha clothing (pig in a suit), women HATE being tricked by something a guy read online. They want to believe they are special e…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:32 PM
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Why so dramatic? How so you develop attraction without a little fun? Appealing to a woman's child-like nature even if she knows you're a man is a great role reversal yo short circuit her impression of you: "He's so silly around me AND has his shit together. I feel like I can joke with him about the littlest things, and confide in him deep secrets." Women want to interact with fun men, not stern assholes with dicks up their ass all the time. There's a necessary balance between fun, serious, stern…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:20 PM
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The way GayLubeOil writes, it should be pretty obvious that you have to have a strong personality for this example to work. Newbies trying this shit out have little grasp of nuance and tweaking things to fit the situation, and go full Macintosh fucking up a joke. People who say this is emotional manipulation are completely retarded. I have a friend who pulls this shit on everyone, and they all know (learned) it's a part of his personality. He's a prankster. That's the take away, girls like excit…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:14 PM
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Great post. A lot of feminine power derives from men giving women the power in the first place; obviously, since men hold most of the power at the moment, they by in large control who has access to it. Men who choose women to lead a business know she's more of a man in a pants suit than a traditional women. Given this dynamic where men are in power and women must work within this power construct, men become the gatekeepers of opportunity and finical success, and women must work within a predomin…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 11:08 PM
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Maybe pessimistic isn't the best choice of words, but to answer your question, internal change takes a much longer time if you're more accustomed to fixing external issues. From your post it sounds like you do not have a strong grasp of self, if that makes sense. You can't change something unless you know that its an issue in the first place. For example, let's say you're visiting home for the holidays, and your parents start arguing with each other. What's your immediate response? Probably sile…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 12:01 AM
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I tell my LTR nothing about my personal Internet history, bank accounts, details on where I am - nothing. I give her enough to know she can trust me, but not enough where she fuck me. Even if you're married, you need to protect yourself and assets first. Letting anyone have the ability to destroy your livelihood, or caving to similar shit tests kicks your ass mercilessly. Seriously, people think secrets are kept to cover infidelity - no bitch I don't want you knowing my Social Security unless it…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:59 PM
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Realistic blue to red timeline? Would like to hear personal stories... When you say "realistic", I think you mean detailed. Each person journey is different and a bunch of them will be entirely unrealistic because a lot of detail is usually left out and you're left to fill in the rest with your critical thinking and imagination skills. I am just now starting to analyze my predicament and my deeply embedded thoughts. Reprogramming is proving to be very challenging and unnatural. Some of my previo…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:51 PM
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Some girls are just fucking vindictive narcissistic cunts. I know if given the opportunity every girl will jump on the CC and fuck her brains out, but god damn, this is next tier shittiness. I'm impressed you're able to still fuck her knowing this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 09:57 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I still hold open doors for men and women. The difference is now I'm consciously aware that women won't thank me as often as men do. There's nothing inherently wrong with this, it's just my observation of the facts. Maybe if I looked more attractive (read: physically domineering) the girls would go out of their way to verbally acknowledge my kind gesture, but to most girls they don't notice my presence and other girls probably view me as another beta in their eyes. I'm accept…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:46 PM
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White knighting in your example assumes your friend cannot speak for herself, and relays on her male entourage to protect her from potentially feel uncomfortable. Ask yourself why you would "rescue" your friend from feeling uncomfortable. Would your female friend do the same if an unattractive "creepy" girl approached you and had the potential to make feel uncomfortable? Chances are, no, women assume men can stand up for themselves, and men assume women need help when they're placed in awkward s…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:44 PM
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They're willing to betray their own sex because for the slight possibility that they'll receive sex for their good behavior. Apologist men think it earns them a chance to have sex with women, or worse, that women are so disadvantaged that they need to sacrifice their own well being and "advantages" so women have an opportunity to achieve the same success (even though they're getting further ahead doing less amount of work). This is why I'm a major proponent in sharing red pill philosophy at a su…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:25 PM
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It's not that he's physically incapable of having the paternity test - he's so aloof and accepting of his wife's behavior that he trusts what she tells him at face value. The blind faith for his wife repulses OP as even he can see things don't add up, and a doctor of all people chooses to live in this naive blissful ignorance.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 10:14 PM
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First off, I don't think your age (after say 16) has anything to do with intelligence, insight or knowledge. You can have over idealistic naive 60 year olds and smart as fuck 18 year olds. You're ability to interpret and analyze shit is only constricted by your education level and ability to reason for yourself. I do think you're jumping the gun on your analysis, and need to read more or experience real life more on this particular topic before you can draw a credible conclusion. Secondly, there…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 11:56 AM
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A lot of guys believe they should always put everyone else before themselves, in friendship, relationship, work - literally everything. We've been more or less socially conditioned (and believe) to not desire or want things that may upset someone else or inconvenience others. Ask yourself if being so selfless and "honorable" has worked out in your life? You may feel good for acting self-righteous and keeping up fake friendships, but once this attitude places unnecessary restrictions on your happ…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:56 AM
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I think a number of commentors are missing the fundamental difference in how men and women use texting. Men text to get someone's attention and make plans, while women text to receive attention and be notified of plans. When was the last time you got a text from a girl who approached you and asked what you were up to? I'd wager never or very rarely. Texts are unlimited streams of validation for high value women, she doesn't need to give insight, much less interesting conversation because she exp…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:26 PM
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When you're so morally repugnant that your own mom encourages your downfall, you know you're an awful human being. She honestly sounds like she's bipolar or has a bad case of histrionic personality disorder. If her Dad's a druggie, it would make sense that her hormones are extremely out of wack which helps fuel her craziness. I hope your friend posts his direct account of the relationship one day as a warning post for plugged in manginas who allow women to walk all over them. They don't deserve …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:32 AM
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The Breitbart guy raises interesting points regarding race, religion and its effect on rape in the UK. The idiot populist opinion contends rape is perpetuate by men as a group, transcending race, religion and sociological reasons for rape to focus on a biological bases which they inaccurately name "rape culture". Their analysis doesn't make sense because a "rape culture" implies men share an insidious culture/tradition of raping women. What they actually mean is men as a sex are biological broke…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:09 AM
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I've been reading a few papers on emotional response, specifically the affect heuristic, which is basically the first thing that pops in your head when you hear a trigger word. Think GEICO, a gecko pops in your brain - or McDonalds, the golden arches. The affect heuristic is what advertisers manipulate in people to buy their shit. I extrapolated that data and applied to to social dynamics, so if I mention a girl's lover, and image would pop into brain, but importantly she feels an emotional resp…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:59 PM
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Thanks - I've been reading scientific papers lately on human behavior, and I've notice aside from the data, a bunch of interpretationss are pretty biased toward favorable attributes in women, and unfavorable attributes in men, even though you can find positive and negative attributes in anything. It's odd to me that when someone interprets data, they would only pick up the positive aspects of their findings, like the women did above... it's almost like they're trying to push an agenda or somethi…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:20 AM
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Good on you. She probably won't learn anything from your nexting, but at least you refined your taste to the point where you don't have to settle for that particular woman's stupid behavior. If you become high value enough, girls will want to date you just "because it feels right". If you ask her why she's attracted to you, she won't give a logically answer - it's in the tingles after all, which cannot be explained. She won't give a reason, she doesn't need a reason. She can hide behind the ambi…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:11 AM
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Women are just more receptive, more intuitive, and more plugged in, whereas men tend to be logical and sequential," she says. "In my work, I find that women are much more inclined to speculate about hypothetical situations" Noticed she says "receptive, intuitive and more plugged in" which implies these series of traits are positive, even though they can be equally negative. What she's describing is essentially a woman's herd mentality and how women play telephone with each other to the point whe…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:04 PM
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MIT is indefinitely removing retired physics faculty member Walter Lewin’s online lectures from MIT OpenCourseWare and online MITx courses from edX, the online learning platform co-founded by MIT, following a determination that Dr. Lewin engaged in online sexual harassment in violation of MIT policies. OP is not misleading. This is the first paragraph of the article, and the rest of the article goes on to explain how the allegations are "true" and how MIT responded by removing his videos. Why wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:56 PM
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I've lived in California all my life. When I was younger, my classmates didn't give a shit about other-gendered and gay people - they still called each other gay and faggot, most common slur was "that's so gay" - similar to today's "basic bitch". This was the time when "Merry Christmas" was still socially acceptable over happy holidays. Sometime after the turn of the century, it became socially taboo to use gay as a pejorative slur. Then we had prop 8, our gay rights amendment, which surprisingl…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:00 PM
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We are on the side of truth, harsh reality, and human biology. Yes We are always going to be right snd the world at large will always think we're wrong. Our words mean something to each other but mean nothing to those outside. Vague but true to an extent. We strive for the truth, but sometimes the signal to noise ratio gets out of hand. It's up to each of us to moderate our interactions and keep each other "in check", at least with respect to people we know we can influence opinion, as you said.…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 02:17 AM
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As someone who has a very tight grasp of RP concepts, I do not think this kind of behavior should be frowned upon by TRP. OK. The girl used an opportnuity available to her to (allegedly) make an extra 75K a year and (most likely) fulfill an fantasy of hers. All true. Tell me why this is a bad thing? Why would she not take advantage of the situation? She can, but flip the gender roles and now he's an evil, manipulative asshole. She's being white knighted for her behavior, but if the tables were t…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:01 AM
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Not sure if joke thread, but you can usually tell if a girl is a virgin or not by shit testing them. In my experience, easier lays resulted in poor relationship material, so playing hard to get made cracking the pussy vault feel "more rewarding". I know I'm being conditioned to work for her affection to some extent, but to the girl's credit, it speaks to her character if she's not slutting it up with easy cocks, and making guys work for her snatch. Of course, all this goes out the window if she'…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:16 AM
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I read through the comments, and none of them accurately or succinctly describes the self actualization process. Simply put, you must place yourself in situations that maximize whatever goal you're trying to actualize. You do this when you: Set goals Eliminate distractions Develop discipline Follow through Want to become a computer programmer? You need to ask yourself several important questions. What type of programming do you want to do? What are you going to change about your current life sty…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 05:07 PM
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I don't see a point to your comment other than "this doesn't feel right, so the knowledge is useless." These are not for everyday social situations. Where is this implied in the law? The laws of power are meant to be enacted at your discretion. These make sense if you are a general trying to win a war. This is one context yes... So what? There was one about "crushing your enemy totally" a couple days ago, but who is an enemy? This depends on your perspective, again, you the person heeding the in…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:24 PM
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Women throughout history have relied on men for everything, food, shelter, security, money. Now women don't want to rely on men and become strong and independent from us- well sister - if that's the case you're now responsible for everything above plus your own happiness, because that's been the male condition for a long ass time. You don't like it? Stop trying to be men and enjoy your female privilege, you'll be happier for it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:30 PM
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Observance This works best if you have skills that constantly requires your presence. If you're a disposable worker bee, your boss can easily replace you with another disposable worker bee. If you develop skills that few individuals possess, say a very niche programming skill like cryptography or being a CEO of a couple successful companies, your bosses and/or overseers will cut you significant slack. Don't think of these skills as out of reach; simply knowing the ins-and-outs of your particular…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:25 PM
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I don't understand the need for people to police tone - so what if a post or someone comes off as bitter or angry? Tone isn't one to one with meaning, if the words you read make you feel a certain way, that's due to your interpretation of the words. If we start policing tone and making reality seem fluffier (or worse) than it actually is, then we're actively misleading people from the "truth", which is amoral and toneless by its very nature. Humans feel bad whenever a pride of lions successfully…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:16 AM
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She's in eighth grade. I understood the seriousness of lying by that age, we're not unaccountable for our actions, even if we're middle schoolers. From the guy's perspective, she lied with malicious intent. She thought lying could get rid of him and cover up her "loose" reputation. Think about it, if you could cover up and get away with any wrongdoing by dissociating yourself from responsibility you would, right? Welcome to the female condition, where everyone but herself is responsible for her …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 06:19 AM
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It's like you can give contextual consent without saying a god damn thing! Feminist and socially retarded prudes are successfully sterilizing sex - they cry retroactive rape because they had regrets from a man who didn't measure up to her expectations and somehow lowered her status. OP's actions aren't rape because she obviously allows the behavior, and wouldn't be coming back for more if she felt violated by any means.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 03:45 AM
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Yes - there is acceptable content that's short and to the point, and retarded content that's not thought out an obviously wrong which drags out from paragraph to paragraph. If you feel "antagonized" from posting anything, don't post in the first place. Too many idiots coming in here posting shit content and karma whoring because unfortunately it's easy to get the newbies to up vote circlejerky garbage rather than someone that took time and energy to think out. Newbs could try to express some tho…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:43 PM
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Good job standing up for yourself. Your wife pulls the divorce card whenever she wants to win a fight, and previously you didn't contest it. Now that you have, you've established boundaries and (hopefully) she knows she still has a husband to call her put on her shit. Ball's in her court (literally) to complicate each of your lives. Is it worth it from her stand point to break up everything, essentially gamble, or keep the family intact with this "stronger" man? I can't say, I don't know the who…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:03 AM
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First off, The Red Pill isn't an academic philosophy. It doesn't hold its weight in that sphere of academia because it contains truths that are inherently contradictory - which funnily enough mirrors actual individual human nature with all of the little exceptions. Academic philosophy focuses on theoretical concepts and logical proofs, which obviously the Red Pill fails instantly. A better methodology is to view it as a spiritual philosophy, such as Buddhism, Taoism, Christianity and the like. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 03:38 AM
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Woman are good workers if the their tasks aren't difficult and more akin to busy work. Fast food workers, nurses, any server/waitress job; however, these jobs pay poorly - anyone can do them with little training and oversight. I'm not saying woman are more stupid then men, it's just they hate doing difficult work and don't feel as rewarded by their success as men interested in the same field. Plus, I've seen woman struggle with in a particular subject that men seem to understand quicker on avera…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 10:29 PM
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Few things I'll give to improve next time: If a girl arrives an hour late for a date and you don't stand up for yourself, she's going to see you as a spineless pushover. I would have left her with her friend as soon as she arrived - no need to be confrontational - but clearly let her know its her fault for ruining what could have been a good night. Then, to show how little fucks you give about tinder girl, you enjoy yourself with the Iranian girl. This shows abundance mentality. By returning to …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:52 PM
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Why are you reading a website written for women? What are you doing, searching for something to be mad at? I answered this in the first paragraph: After I read a red pill comment today about how men become more logical as they age, while women remain in touch with their emotional side, I wondered what happens to women after menopause, when their baby-making mind shuts down. I found it very relevant for a few reasons, I've extrapolated the following theory based on the current framework for post-…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:33 AM
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True, but that only happens after menopause. A woman will be in her early fifties by then, but she'll probably "understand" herself better. I wonder where fifty year old divorcees go for casual sex?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 04:27 AM
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A little dose of realism goes a long way. Your chances to financially succeed largely depends on the job market you enter and your networking abilities. Engineering is pretty much a guaranteed bet at a lot of money and stable future, that's why I'm in the field as well. However, I also have a passion for filmmaking, traveling/camping but I'm well aware I won't make money doing any of that without shear luck, innovation and connections on my side, something I can't dedicate time at the moment bec…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 07:44 PM
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My point applies to the original poster helping out low-value red pill members, the ones who fill up the majority of the sub. If you're already powerful as you claim, my advice won't help you as much as someone who has no value as a man, let alone a person. In your position, someone may try to usurp your power if you're too catty, simply by getting you to say something that can be easily misconstrued. If that's the case then you would do better by shutting up. But shutting up isn't an excuse to …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 07:19 PM
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More like the creators fear an honest debate regarding consent in the bedroom, and feminists trying to negate agency for their actions. Why treat your followers like children who can't decide for themselves? Because everyone is a potential rapist! This won't even work with a girl who decides in the future that she was "manipulated" into consent. There's no evidence, and a huge precedence of cops initially taking a girl's word over a guy's.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:14 PM
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This helps explains procrastination and why people choose to do screw around all day playing video games, watching movies, and being a fat fuck - it's easier being a slug then getting off your duff and creating something, working out, or being genuinely productive. It's easier accepting your flaws than becoming the man of your dreams. Ever wonder why you or your friends choose the path of last resistance, or the well beaten path? Because you're too afraid to go the path less traveled and be a tr…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:51 PM
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You derive meaning from every action you do. If you think talking to strangers is a pointless endeavor, you won't derive any benefit from it; however, if you spend the mental energy to learn from your experience, like a good student of social dynamics would, you'll eventually pick up the cues to carry meaningful interactions from initially meaningless first encounters. I compare it to talking to a baby - you're not having meaningful conversations with your kid, buy he's still learning and intern…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:53 PM
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Desperate times call for desperate measures - and no one but you needs to know you fucked a prostitute. Spinning morality onto a harmless act (exchanging sex for money) needlessly shames you away from obtaining the physical release that could benefit you in the long term. Imagine being an incel virgin for 20+ years and how fucking off your mental state becomes after trying and failing to have sex the "normal" way. "Just getting it over with", i.e, losing your virginity, should be done as early a…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:23 AM
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During my blue pill days, I told girls I liked all my feelings and made it very clear I didn't value myself and had that I had a ton of insecurities. They quickly picked up this and avoided me little the plague because they hate being reminded of themselves. They want a man who stands for ideals and isn't afraid of the same shit that always plague a woman's emotional brains. My current LTR has told me multiple times that she loves it when I "dominate" her and keeps telling me she loves it becaus…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 04:07 PM
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Agree and amplify whenever a girl does this. "I only date women who are 7 feet or taller." It's a shit test to weed out short guys who don't meet the imaginary Ryan Gosling standard these girls conjure up in their head whenever they go on dates. Online it's harder, but in person you can easily "stand up" to a girl by having a "larger" personality. If you lack physical height, you make up for it with a presence that fills the room. It's infinitely harder if you're 5'2, so adapt your game given yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:46 PM
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I pointed this out in the NYC post, and although some members agreed, I wasn't in the majority. When guys claim height gives a man an absolute advantage over a shorter guy, you're missing the overall point of taking TRP. From personal experiences in my beta high school and early college days, my 6'0 height didn't do shit for me. At the time I acted "small" and "unassuming". Girls pick up on the littlest insecurities, and for a lot of short guys its their height. They'll shit test you about it an…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:37 PM
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The GoPro optics makes him look taller and therefore more intimidating than he actually is - though his gym gains are undeniable. If you're short and constantly raging internally about how short you are, you're focusing your mental resources on something you can't change and it's literally pointless. Remember, good things come to those who lift AND eventually drop the victim mentality - so what if he's taller? If he's boring, shy, poor, awkward his height won't help him. Being taller only adds t…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:09 PM
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Reddit Enhancement Suite is a free add-on for desktop web browsers. You can type that into Google to find it. It allows you higher customization of the reddit experience, as well that ability to tag (give flair) to specific users.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:00 PM
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Beautifully written. I don't have an answer to your hypothetical question, but its hard to fight misandry when feminists and manginas equate masculinity with abuse and the patriarchy. In terms of a reliable sexual strategy, its best to ignore the super radical feminists and their ideology (flamboyant gays or spineless straights), while dropping subtle but important nuggets of truth to those maybe capable of fighting against current Western beliefs. Using concise logic to point out the hypocrisy …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:32 AM
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I get what you mean, but I used the word conspiracy properly. Those mods are all a bunch of Internet friends coming together to promote their agenda through selective ideals predemined by the subreddits they mod. They're not held to reddit's standard of freedom of speech, and protect one another by shadowbaning, banning or simply ignoring/ridiculing redditors they disagree with or who don't follow their agenda. When criticisms of an idea cause such an outcry, or as they call it "brigade", it beg…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:37 PM
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I've used RES to label blue pill mods, and there's a huge cross section who also mod SRD and even one member of r/undelete in their grasp. It's really shocking how blatant these SJWs are in advancing their agenda - its like that network of mods all know each other and actively suppress criticism by being mods. It's not a conspiracy theory, they're all literally conspiring together in each of their respective subreddits. It's not too outrageous to assume voting manipulation always forces TRP at t…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:28 PM
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Hey OP, this is a well reasoned post and I agree with almost everything you're saying. Fictitious red pill examples shouldn't hold any basis in reality any more than a theoretical framework should be a reasonable assumption given reality's actual complexity. In science and nature - especially engineering - mathematical theoretical models are essentially "forced" to fit the real world through empirical design. It's not that the theoretical model is wrong, it's just that real world deviates 'sligh…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:04 PM
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Of course - I wasn't explicit enough I guess. My main point is always practice game.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:54 PM
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Even if you're in an LTR, you should practice game. You may not be trying to lay with a new plate or whatever, but it keeps you on point if something happens with your current partner. Analogously, you get rusty after not hitting the gym after x months, and need to regain your loses to be where you once were. If you've been brainwashed by your current LTR, you'll need to strengthen your alpha male tendencies and become the man you once were. If you were never a man, then all the more reason to s…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:24 AM
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Simple answer, there's no intrinsic or extrinsic reason for female hamstering to stop. Feminism at large has convinced men to coddle women and treat them like special snowflakes - even when they break laws or cheat on their fiancés. AWALT because of female hypoagency and their inability to admit fault when they're in the wrong due to their feels - few women have honor, especially female cheaters. The quicker society treats women the same as men - supposedly real feminism mind you - the quicker t…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:51 PM
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By pointing out the ridiculousness of the law through your actions and hyperbolic behavior, you're doing what all good comedians do when they discuss outrageous topics. She agrees with the rhetoric and 'text on paper' aspect of the law because she's looking at the situation with her mental feels. As soon as you apply the law literally, she realizes the gravity of its implications and the huge turn off excessive explicit consent is to any and all sexy time. Actions speak louder than words - keep …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:23 PM
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Going to your grave believing lies and never admitting fault is a form of Power talk. Think Richard Nixon after Watergate or most serial killers who profess their innocence even after the evidence is clear that they committed the crime. 99% of the time they'll think utilizing carless straight talk will make their situation worse in their mind. Women are naturals at Powertalk and successfully utilize it to play victim card if they ever find themselves in situation where plausible deniability can'…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:02 AM
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I joined TRP over a year ago, and throughout my journey I've grown to understand myself better, especially acknowledging how many lies I've been told, and in turn told myself. Moreover, my choice to believe these lies tricked me into thinking my old thoughts were the route to happiness when they and my actions only brought me constant misery. Before TRP, I didn't know what I wanted, had no standards, and did things simply because I thought I needed to do them because 'that's what normal people d…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:17 AM
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The information and knowledge collected in this subreddit, the manosphere or 4chan isn't new - that's missing the point of the analogy. As harsh as it sounds, this subreddit caters to the clueless and loser workers explained in Powertalk theory. The sociopaths make up the very top of this 'social understanding' pyramid and do so because they already have succeeded in life, either mentally, socially or financially. Very few red pill users can naturally/realistically be already at the top of their…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 08:23 PM
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Being nice is often conflated with being generous. If someone's acting like a complete dick to you, and your response is 'being amicable', you're display no to low self-worth. You don't have to be an asshole to stand up for yourself, but somehow people associate not getting their way with you being a prick. A girl wants to fuck a man, not a manchild. Attraction comes from them not dictating the terms of the relationship - of course they want control and it's that loss of control that gives them …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:50 AM
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For men, loneliness is pervasive and downright unavoidable. I guess you could claim the same for women, but it's definitely not the same. Biology made us the disposable sex. Numerous men avoid this despair by filling the void with 'things' 'desires' and 'wants'. Citizen Kane shows a classic example of loneliness - a successful man goes throughout his life building a fortune and possessing a bunch of things - but in his dying breath, he utters out the name of his favorite snow sled. Not a women, …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:28 AM
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In TRP terms, although it's more advantageous to collaborate with someone over the course of relationship and mutually benefit each other knowing their history, short term wise it's more profitable to act in one's best self interest and not be taken advantage for his limited time and resources, simply because strangers place themselves first and foremost (as they have no prior reason to trust each other). As a sexual strategy, collaborating works best for LTRs where both people's interests are w…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:09 AM
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Yup. The rich get more female workers, most of who become unhappy because they want to find a rich husband to raise their family (and there's only so many of those). So these clueless/loser women lead irresponsible, vicarious sex lives devoid of self restraint because they're mentally broken from being an alpha widow, hopped up on antidepressants, and/or simply believe 'you go girl' is an appropriate long term lifestyle. They seek a life which makes them unhappy, which subsequently leads to them…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:57 PM
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It's been said before, but I'll say it again. Western Feminism doesn't have clearly defined goals and lacks a self-sustainable movement to propel its issues to Congress or most European countries legislatures. It's uselessness stems from what it deems 'important' issues, predominantly focusing on clever social constructions of the patriarchy and other institutionalized boogeymen. It's easier to criticize invisible, nebulous entities than actual oppressors because very few of those people actuall…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 02:00 PM
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They fucking hate me, shit on me at every opportunity. I walk on egg shells constantly. It's hell man. That sums up El Molino (more so Analy) and wine country pretty well - if you're physically or mentally different from the mob in any significant manner, you feel (and are) ostracized by your often wealthier, more enlightened peers. Feminism is a mental disorder, and it's fucking insane the level of mental gymnastics people jump through to justify their thoughts and actions even if it hurts othe…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:19 PM
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Wow - I'm shocked my high school would be front page red pill example, given we've been losing enrollment for the last few years and the odds of a suspected rape is next to impossible. El Molino's demographics are 80% entitled white people, and 20% Latino or other. The West county region itself is dead center in one of the most liberal sections of the country, and the cost of living is too damn high for new families to procreate. Guerneville happens to have a nasty drug problem and it's easy to …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:15 AM
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Maybe try to help him learn instead of fill his vessel with your knowledge (you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink). Make him kindle the fire. Leading questions achieve this adequately, but may be a bit too manipulative. Hopefully he finds out during his own spiritual journey and eventually get out of his narrow mindedness. Beyond that, you can't do too much.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:15 AM
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Preventive maintenance takes a forward thinking mindset. Our entire economy runs on a planned obsolescence model (fashion, electronics, etc) where corporations create and sell complicated products designed with a couple year life expectancy. Look at modern smartphones as a textbook example of this unsustainable and visceral trend. If consumers could maintain their smart phones longer, they would, but such a device comes with too many proprietary elements that essentially make fixing it unnecessa…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:10 AM
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All of your arguments can be explained away with basic critical thinking: I think TRP has its benefits but unfortunately it's often overshadowed by ridiculous sexism. You're projecting here. Most of the content is not 'ridiculous sexism' but common sense. You would see this if you thought about the following statements. when someone says something stupid like women should be held soley responsible for unwanted pregnancies This is hyperbole. Who says something this irrational? You probably confla…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:13 AM
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'That kind of thinking' makes it sound like our readership has a singular modus operandi wherein we're all rapists, child murders or white supremacists. That's blatantly false - we might express radical or downright questionable views, but each of us has the capacity to 'filter the noise' and take away what we want from the Red Pill. We think for ourselves and are not swayed by outsider's constant need to 'police tone' and sugar coat the message. The general framework of TRP works, our detractor…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:31 PM
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Think 'perpetual' governmental assistance programs, like food stamps, 'free' health clinics, unemployment and the other listed nanny state entities. If you're poverty stricken, there's little incentive to obtain a high paying job and better life for yourself when the government is willing to support you. Ideally, these assistance programs are meant to be temporary, but it's easy to take advantage and abuse your 'privileges'. The Red pill believes you should be self-sufficient to the point where …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:43 AM
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At least they held she was a whore by definition
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:31 AM
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Feminism could be taken seriously if they had copious amounts of statistical and physical evidence of rape culture, misogyny or whatever IN REAL LIFE (in western societies). Instead they need to DISTORT statistics and misrepresent facts to convince people of their lies. Idiots seem to believe whatever sob story peddled to them by uncritical namedropping retards. Do yourself a favor and watch the Hjernevask (Brainwashed) documentary in the side bar. The comedian-host provides actual evidence from…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:32 AM
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He actively chooses celibacy even though he has a friend who obviously knows something about woman. His hubris makes him go out of his way to spitefully cockblock you. It takes a special level of cognitive dissonance to dismiss you're success with women as simply 'manipulative' when you're not forcing girls into anything and there's little evidence to support his claims that you're an awful person. Women have agency over their actions even if your friend doesn't think so. A TRP mindset would 'ne…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 10:14 PM
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Louie in the hands of retards is a particularly dangerous combination. They take the examples as a critique of 'a larger societal problem' rather than viewing the behavior through an individual framework. Viewing the behavior at such an abstract level keeps you from considering yourself as a perpetrator, which naturally places the 'blame' onto others. Red pill mindsets internalize the behavior and uses it as a guide for 'what not to do'. Blue pill mindsets go throughout their day being entertain…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 05:20 PM
7

Not commanding respect really hits home for me. I thought for the longest time that being a textbook 'nice guy' (emotionally available, never complain, avoid expressing opinions, etc) would win respect from my friends and especially girls, but it just gave them impunity to abuse our friendship to their advantage. They felt no remorse asking me to do things for them, and I had no spine to stay 'no' even if it went against what I really wanted. I don't know why I thought this, but I guess it was a…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 04:52 PM
-2

"Hey you're cute - let's talk over coffee! My number is ###-###-####" For the girls interested in meeting up, I get about an 80% response rate. The other 20% use Tinder to "make more friends/meet new people" whatever that means.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 09:03 PM
19

Instead of slut shaming, feminist support Mom shaming, as if wanting to be a mom is somehow worse than shaming someone who fucks everything that moves. It's the kid's personal choice to become whatever she wants to be, whether it's being a mom, career woman, or BOTH. Seriously, fuck these narrow minded, judgmental feminists. Not everything is a 'media' or 'societal' issue.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:57 PM
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It's pretty clear what changed. Look at the opening credits. No women worked in the writing or direction of this episode, and I'll go out on a limb to claim a woman working on these episodes were very rare until 2nd wave feminism popularized / made it ok for women to enter the workforce. As Disney hired more women, they rose the ranks of the writing and creative departments and used their influence to promote the 'girl power' anti-male propaganda seen in modern day Disney productions like Frozen…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:27 PM
3

If anything, being a great man leads to an endless supply of pussy by proxy. Pussy is a good short term motivator, but in long term game, men need to have value beyond their penis and muscles. This usually comes in the form of financial wealth (and with a loss of frame, can devolve into a Beta Bux, but that's entirely the man's fault if and when that occurs). An alpha takes responsibility for his own destiny. That said, playing 'bro game' gives social proof and if done properly showcases a man's…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:23 PM
5

To broaden your scope, a woman's goal in life is to raise her sexual market value by proxy. Finding a Beta Bux in college is just one of many ways she can accomplish this. The average male is completely satisfied castrating his self worth for a pretty face, whereas the average girl will only sacrifice her tingles for cash after cock slamming every Alpha dick she can before she crashes through the proverbial Wall - got to have some fun first! Of course, she'll happily settle down if she strikes g…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:39 PM
3

TRP theory contains many basics requirements to lead healthy relationships with women. These include being physically fit, socially dominant (at least self-aware of your social standing), emotionally stoic and self-motivated. There's many more, but these basic traits generally secure feminine attraction. Don't make shortcuts for yourself. Mastery over interpersonal relationships, romantic or platonic, require the same 10,000 or so hours of active learning and understanding to properly utilize an…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:22 AM
2

I use my interpretation of the Taming of the Shrew as a template to start and maintain healthy LTRs. Feminism critique create a modern contextualization of this play, but I believe Shakespeare was on to some telling TRP truth. Shakespeare lambastes Katherine's atrocious behavior through Petruchio's unparalleled ability to hold frame. Every shit takes she makes isn't taken seriously, ignored, and played off as irrelevant, but it nonetheless keeps him persistent. The chase isn't talked about much …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:48 PM
1

I agree, with an exception. I gave a lot of my time and energy to friends and strangers, and dismissed the same in return (taking their advice). I thought I acted selflessly, helping them, but I acted purely for my benefit (meaning my ego was the reason I gave advice, not because I cared about them). My constant need for validation kept me going. "I don't need others to do things for me, I can help myself." That self deterministic attitude stuck with me. My friends look up to me for advice, but …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:37 PM
10

TRP is not an academic philosophy nor is it completely back up by the scientific method. This is OK, let me explain why: Academic philosophy deals with actual truths, which the Red Pill fails immediately because exceptions exist that do not disprove the general statements and evidence that support our claims. Outsiders believe TRP members actually think these claims succeed 100% of the time, but this is not true either. TRP is based off thousands of anecdotal evidence averaged into generalities …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 11:16 PM
1

Understand that she is a woman and you cannot change her opinion of you, she'll justify whatever actions she commits via "feelings" instead of logical reasoning. Actions (you being Alpha) speak louder than words (you claiming to be Alpha). She's not currently interested in you and doesn't hold you in that mindset, e.g. an attractive person to her, probably because she doesn't visually see your growth or change. She would eat up your dread game and be genuinely interested in you if she held you i…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:33 AM
1

Only send your plates positive affirmations (crumbs) if it rewards her for good behavior. For example, you two had amazing sex, you can send her a text that acknowledges how good she is in the sack. Throwing her crumbs when she doesn't deserve them places her on a pedestal. Be cautious not to make it turn into something more than it is, and be extra cautious if your plate wants an LTR. Set the rules of the relationship early on and stick to them. If she's afraid of losing you as a plate, invite …
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:54 AM
2

Even with the strongest frame, a girl will not jump on you if she still perceives you as a beta. That mentality will stick in her mind until she's seen tangible clues that you're actually different. She doesn't view you as an alpha, and you've let yourself be one of her beta orbiters. She's not interested in the current you. Next her and seek new woman. You have very strong oneitis and the best course of action is to move on, either by spinning plates or finding an LTR. The only way she would ta…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:30 AM
1

Stop seeing her everyday. You don't sound like you have a life without her hanging around. If you take up a hobby, get a job, and/or complete your schooling, you'll be more grateful for having her around. Your life shouldn't revolve around this girl, and that's probably why you take her for granted. Remember that you're the captain of the relationship, and she's your first mate. You can swap her out at any time, but a helpful, reliable first mate that knows your boundaries, wants and needs is ex…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:15 AM
4

When she does explode on you, which she will from the sound of it, do not lose frame. She'll throw the book at you and try to get you to break and admit fault for doing something against her will. Smirk at her logic; explain to her why she's overreacting and wrong. Be stern but firm. Simply say that you already decided to go to Valerie's place, you invited her but she declined and that's on her, not you. Call her out on her immaturity and for whining for not getting her way. She'll probably scre…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:58 AM
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Cut contact. You're not obliged to be 'friends' with any member of your family, especially if they choose to make poor life decisions. If you still live with your sister at home, limit your interactions and let her live her own life. If she comes crying to you for help, remember that she is the cause of her problems. If she cheats on her boyfriend, that's on her and she needs to face the consequences of her actions, not you. Family is not a reason to sacrifice your sanity, especially when money …
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:43 AM
1

Watch a bunch of YouYube videos and read up on different vocal techniques. If you're really desperate you can find a vocal coach in your area, similar to one Cumberbatch probably paid for during his early voice acting days. Those resources will provide you with the necessary theoretical basis and some practice to improve your voice. You speak everyday in numerous different situations (family, friends, stranger). A lot of these interactions come from basic frame control and confidence (which come…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:32 AM
2

The bitter stage should last as long as as it takes to read/watch and APPLY almost all of the side bar material, which can take a very long time if you're stubborn about making progress. I'll admit some of the theory isn't as necessary as to learn early on as the other stuff, but that's not an excuse to follow through and better your personal and romantic life given the absolute basics. Being stuck in the bitter stage can be the most unproductive part of the journey, since it's the stage where y…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:40 PM
2

Maybe not explaining your position and proposing it at face value caused the down votes. For example, you could say "Men and women are equally selfish when it comes to sex, to think only women withhold sex from men is ludicrous. Imagine a man who doesn't want to go down on his girl or kiss her after she gives him a blowjob - is that fair?" Obviously the answer would be no, for the same reason that the linked poster can't fathom how withholding sex from her man is "wrong" if she doesn't like it. …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 02:35 AM
2

Sounds like he cheated for him, look at his actions and not his words. He appears to be much happier, regardless if he cheated (doesn't seem to phase him one bit).
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:24 AM
0

Maybe if they're both religious, tried or preoccupied by work. Men generally have a higher sex drive than women, sure exceptions exist, but in general men desire/want sex and place more importance on it for successful LTR than women. The benefit of having multiple partners is to ensure you find a woman who has an equal sex drive, and satisfies all of your deal breakers in a girl and LTR. Women could do the same but they have different priories in LTRs than men, mainly finding someone with status…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:16 AM
2

Redpillschool, can the mod team please enforce analysis (text) for all external links? A number of recent posts have linked articles without analysis of their own (Dilbert post, Time magazine Feminism article, etc). I'd prefer to see less low effort/low quality posts and more high effort/quality post, especially when there are thousands of new users joining monthly trying to spam the subreddit with easily digestible, low hanging fruit content. Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 09:15 PM
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Cooltrip, can provide some personal insight on the article you linked? Linking articles without an analysis goes against basic TRP posting guidelines. In terms of her argument, a smarter author would point out how modern feminism has diverged from the goals of previous generations precisely because they have already accomplished all of woman's basic equal rights at home. Modern day feminism in western civilization has gone beyond these basic goals to the point of blatant entitlement and preferen…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:59 PM
2

Red Pill community members lie in different stages of development, from noobs to experts. Clearly your 20 year marriage allows you to see a bunch of the petty girl things as silly and selfish; however, the guys and girls entering these relationships are probably in their early 20s to 30s and have little to no experience with standing up for themselves or being shit test by their partner. I believe this situation falls into what I call a relationship learning curve. It's great your girl isn't mon…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:32 PM
14

These tips pretty much lay out all the basic things you should do to get out of the bitter stage of the Red Pill: Always act as if you're in total control. Make sure you're in total control of you life. Financial, social and mental. If someone has control over any aspect of your life you won't feel self-determined in your actions or decisions. Put aside things you have no ability to impact. Move on, learn from your mistakes and other's mistakes. See the pass as valuable training and nothing more…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:33 AM
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Equality can only exist if enforced by a governmental body. Feminist have more or less achieved that goal, but are looking for more and more things to have the government give to them for being women. The more liberal men of our society approve of this transfer of power to women in hopes that they'll be satisfied with what they are given. Unfortunately, today's feminism doesn't have an end goal in mind beyond intangibles such as 'equality' and 'fairness', so if possible they'll fight to have eve…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:47 PM
12

Hate yourself productively, self criticism is important for sustained improvement. Hate with purpose can be a powerful means to fuel your transformation from bitter blue pill beta to aspiring red pill alpha. You can't change other people for who they are but never accept the same conclusion for yourself. Unless you're severally mentally or physically handicap don't trick yourself into mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 11:54 PM
11

Coffee is an innuendo for sex. They invite you up for coffee instead of sex for plausible deniability, just in case she changes her mind at the last moment.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:19 PM
1

We watched the same movie. You don't need a girl to turn you blue pill, he did that on his own when he pedestaled the HB 10, lost frame and she set the rules of the relationship. The difference between us is you're willing to let the exception act as the rule. "See! You can find a meaningful relationships if you stop seeking hot ass! Literally anyone can provide it, don't forget life-beaten older women, isn't it much better!?" In terms of an LTR or plate, why settle for someone significantly old…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:56 PM
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There's been a few Don Jon analysis posts, more so in the movie sub, but my take is Joseph Gorden-Levitt uses the movie as a cautionary take for people who believe in PUA. It criticizes the shallowness of PUAs and promotes 'real' relationships over one night stand culture. Essentially, Don Jon's PUA lifestyle isn't worth it on a moral level, and he finds happiness and pleasure after settling for a post-wall hag. Believing that someone like Don Jon could pull a 180 and 'see the error in his way' …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:36 AM
1

It won't be easy, but like in the analogy above, that struggle is part of the eventual release and it won't be fixed the first time you think you "solved" it. Knowing you have problems is easy - doing something about them and succeeding is the real challenge. Get off the computer and make something of yourself, be it through the gym, hobby, work or friends. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:40 AM
1

There's stages to overcoming social anxiety. Diving into the deep end works for some people, but a less anxious approach is to take incremental steps and building off of little successes here and there. If you're relatively young (>25) you have plenty of time to take this route, since it takes about a year to really kill the social anxiety slowly. First thing you need to do is go out with your friends. If you don't have a friend group, you need to build a friend group. Without friends, you're le…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 10:00 AM
5

IF you're girlfriend material, then whoever man you pursue will surely see you as a catch and you can lock him down that way; however, if you take advantage of a good situation and act undesirably you'll quickly lose that guy. Go out on a few dates and do your shit tests. If he fails, find a guy who can pass them and you're on your way to a successful relationship. If you give in too easily to his sexual desires, you'll be seen as a slut; however, if you wait too long you'll be playing hard to g…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 09:28 AM
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When I'm not active with work, social spheres, or excercise, my mind wanders and things get unproductive fairly quickly - I've chosen to keep my time occupied as much as possible, even so far as budget in free time into my schedule. This may sound extreme, but it works wonders for me since I use to lack the necessary discipline to do basic tasks like eat / sleep / shower on a regular basis. In terms of overcoming anxiety, my solution came from thinking of it like my math homework. First I needed…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:26 PM

You need to kill your ego dude. If your social anxiety prevents you from talking to people, you need to suppress your insecurities long enough to be able talk to someone and build mutual rapport. It's ok to risk humiliating yourself in the beginning if it hardens your resolve and forces you to learn what to say and how to say it convincingly enough. You won't get what you want without asking for it. If you want to get an attractive girl's number, ask her for it. Don't know how? Test out differen…
/r/askTRP

He's laughing at the plugged in mentality. Enjoying those feelings are absurd so using words would be a waste of time.
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