| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | "I'm not attracted to you. But we can hang out as friends". What's my move?Yea I also thought it was a fail, but I thought it might be salvageable since she was the one who sent the "I had a good time" text in the morning. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | "I'm not attracted to you. But we can hang out as friends". What's my move?Hm, as far as I know "hang out" doesn't necessarily mean outside. And I see it differently. I didn't want to waste time on a low interest girl, so I polarized the situation in order to find out by inviting her to come to my place. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?Thanks appreciate the response | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?Ok, we were roughly 1 hour in the cafe, then I said let's go planning to possibly go somewhere. But then she mentioned she had to go soon. Surely you don't mean I should have fucked off from the cafe right away after meeting right? What would you do in place? Not even get anything to drink and suggest to go somewhere right away? Keep in mind I had no idea about the time constraint up until the point she mentioned it, 1 hour into meeting. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?I think if she was actually up for fucking she would have just stayed longer or met up at night? Getting a coffee was her idea, I dont think anybody who has fucking in mind sets up a coffee date | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Did I fuck up?It was shit logistics, but if I didn't go it would probably never happen | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?Well she had to leave though? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl treats me like a king, but has an insanely high n-count. Left stuck.You're 20, just enjoy her while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Need feedback how this first date wentCool man thanks for the insight. This situation was very new to me so I'm not really beating myself up over it too much. I don't hang out in clubs or bars much, so not much experience with dealing with other guys in this type of scenario. I literally only deal with girls 1 on 1, so this was new territory. I guess since I had met this girl like 1.5 hours before the incident, I didn't want to appear like I was overly eager or antisocial, which is why I approached the situation without aggression. … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Need feedback how this first date wentYou don't have the skills to be Mr. Smooth after making that mistake What mistake are you referencing? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Need feedback how this first date wentWhat would you do? I tried to leave with her but I didn't want to push it and make the situation awkward and make myself look like an antisocial guy/too eager. I mean just put yourself in my shoes. You come back from the toilet, she's eating some dude's fries and talking to him. I tell her "let's go?" and she says she wants to stay more. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I recently signed up as a sugar daddy, I learnt some things.You are delusional if you think "a huge portion" of women are on seeking arrangement. Get a grip man. It's hilarious you think the girls on seeking arrangement are "cute/innocent friendly looking college or traveller girls looking to make some extra cash and extra connections". You're getting played like a fiddle. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I recently signed up as a sugar daddy, I learnt some things.Ok so you fuck prostitutes, congrats? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meShe should have told me right away so I could put the guy in his place, not make me look like a clueless idiot. I even tipped for fucks sake. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meThis is all I could think of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3HH9IiHMD2M | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meCorrect me if I am wrong but I think my frame is ok. I don't care if she ghosted, I don't need her and honestly after what she pulled she's lucky to see me again. I'm not saying I didn't overreact but yea. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meYou sound like a fag | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Waiter hit on my plate in front of meShe's been blowing up my phone, do you think I should give her another chance? It really annoyed me that she didn't say anything until we left, but I guess the consensus here is that what I did was over the top | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | If I tell a girl last night the condom broke but I didn't see it, would that make her question my competence?I know it was a big fuckup and I'm never sticking my dick in without a condom again. But do you think she will see me differently because of this? Just want to know what to expect | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Is texting a girl on the weekend low value?And you know that how? Some of us are trying to refine our game, stop spamming | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Is texting a girl on the weekend low value?Idiotic reply. Doing/saying whatever you want to do/say is most often not the most optimal strategy, which is what the post is about. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 08:18 PM |
| -8 | Girl invited me to the pool with her friends. Should I go?great input genius | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Out of the blue, no reply after 24 hours from girl I've been seeing. How to proceed?Why are you always texting her first? I'm not. She actually initiates often, which is why this is really odd. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 02:59 PM |
| 43 | Girl grinning during sex?that's the stuff nightmares are made of | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 06:21 PM |
| 13 | Girl grinning during sex?these replies are helpful | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Scheduled date with 2 girls same day, how to deal with this?You hit the nail on the head, girl 1 sent me a crying emoticon many hours after I asked her if we were going to meet, no explanation given. Met up with girl 2, she was all dressed up, clearly put in quite a bit of effort, showed up on time and we had a good time. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Stealthy big tits - how to identify?Go keep banging whales with no tits, someones gotta take out the trash | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Stealthy big tits - how to identify?Thats not what I asked so stick to the topic faggot | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Stealthy big tits - how to identify?Ok and this has to do with the topic how? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust after having the best tits I've ever seen?Because other tits are not good enough? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 04:28 PM |
| 0 | ''To do what?'' Shit test? Lack of interest?Doesn't that imply that you will be doing that by yourself if she says no? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 05:14 PM |
| 0 | ''To do what?'' Shit test? Lack of interest?She's 20 I'm 23. In my mind asking in a non committed way makes no difference than not using a question though ''Hey you want to hang out tmrw?'' ''Hey let's hang out trmw'' I don't really see the difference. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 05:13 PM |
| 0 | ''To do what?'' Shit test? Lack of interest?''Hey I'm going to the bar X at time Y to get a drink. Come join me'' Doesn't that imply that if she doesn't come you will be alone? I think drinking alone is pretty lame. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | ''To do what?'' Shit test? Lack of interest?So you only invite girls out if you are already going out to do something by yourself? Doesn't seem feasible to me. I mean if you want her to come to a party you're already going to, ok, but that doesn't apply to every scenario. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to reply to this girl (she wants to postpone the date)I already have a date with another girl on Saturday, but I like to move things quickly. The way I see it, if she really doesn't want to go out because she's tired, then tomorrow or Sat works well. If she's just not interested, knowing that now is better than later. Plus I don't think suggesting another day sounds desperate, to me it's totally reasonable. She didn't get a good night sleep, so today she gets one and then we go out. Is there a flaw in my reasoning? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to reply to this girl (she wants to postpone the date)So asking her to go out tomorrow or Saturday is not a good idea? I try apply the "strike while the iron is hot" principle here. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 12:42 PM |
| 3 | I kissed her but I still can't read her? I'm mind fuckedGenius. You should write a book. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Is asking a girl whether she has a bf ok?Most of the time the girls I meet are not the type who will go out with me if they have a boyfriend though. But they will still talk to me and even might go out with me, then went I start to escalate they back away. How to deal with that? Feels like a waste of time | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend crazy?she's getting comfortable uncorking her crazy Very well put and that's what I keep thinking about. If we were in a newish rl would she pull this shit? Doubt it. Which makes me wonder whether it's a shit test or if she's just showing her true self to me. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Is my girlfriend crazy?She's actually very demure and low maintenance, she just has these tantrums sometimes, but this one was absurd even for her. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Thanks for the link, will read. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 12:48 AM |
| -1 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Update: she came over, I initiated sex and she cried a bit saying she wants me to care about her. Turns out she's menstruating. We bang anyway. I gave her her gift, did the bday cake BS and went out for some drinks. After I did the birthday crap she seemed happy again. But I can't stop thinking whether she's legit crazy or if it was me who handled it poorly. I'm confused. Seems like a lot of people think I failed her shit test, many others think she's just straight up crazy/BPD. How do I go abou… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 12:38 AM |
| 9 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Yea I can see now I just played right into her game | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 07:01 PM |
| 18 | Is my girlfriend crazy?Fuck it seems so obvious now I could have A&A right at the start with the 'I hate you' message | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 06:58 PM |
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