utleya Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Helpful Habit: "Is It Worth It?"	INSIGHTFUL	utleya	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 04:48 AM

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2	Day planner recommendations? Also recommending Erin Condren. My LifePlanner has absolutely changed my life. For the first time ever, I feel like I actually stay on top of appointments, routines, and events. For me, it also helped buying some cute stickers and decorative things to make it more fun to plan out my week. Seeing everything so pretty and colorful makes me more excited for the coming week.	/r/RedPillWives	18/04/16 03:22 AM
6	Applied example of the “Captain-First Mate” dynamic : Dancing My husband and I actually met swing dancing. One of the things my dance instructor told me once was that the "follow" (woman) doesn't just stand there waiting for the lead to do something. A great dancer creates her own flourishes and uses her body to respond to the music, she just does it within the structure created by the lead. I think this is a great analogy for a RPW relationship.	/r/RedPillWives	08/04/16 09:29 PM
3	How do I seduce men without seeming ridiculous or desperate? How do I recognize signs of interest? For me, the best answer to this question has always been: once you're in a situation with a guy, stop thinking about yourself. At all. Think about him. If he's a guy you're truly interested in, who is he? Why is at the bar, the coffee shop, etc.? What is he worrying about? What is he nervous and insecure about? What is he afraid you would laugh at him about if you knew? What troubles are running through his mind? Once that becomes your line of thinking, it becomes second nature to listen attenti…	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 09:42 PM
2	Helpful Habit: "Is It Worth It?" I've never read this quote before, but I really like it. Thank you so much for sharing!	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 09:24 PM
5	How can I encourage my man to be more ALPHA in bed? I'm going to reiterate what several have already said, and say that I don't think you can have better sex until you are having safe sex. It allows you to have discussions and experiences that really focus on preferences and sexual compatibility, without practical considerations (which should absolutely be first and foremost) getting in the way. That said, I think the best way to solve this problem is to recognize it as your problem, one that you have to solve for yourself. You can't rely on him …	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 09:18 PM
3	What Is Your Love Language? What Is Your SO's? This is one of the first conversations my husband and I had when we started dating. His giving language is gifts, and my receiving language is gifts. My giving language is touch, and his receiving language is touch. That conversation really confirmed our compatibility.	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 03:13 PM
12	WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!! Congrats!!!! I'm /u/utleya. I'm 26 and married to my best friend of almost 3 years. I'm a gamer (board games and video games), electrical engineer, and general nerd-in-residence. I'm also a stepmom to two beautiful children, one in middle school and one just starting high school. I love my family dearly, and I'm so happy to be part of a community that values that as much as I do.	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/16 04:03 AM
1	What are your experiences with birth control? I have had very positive experiences with Depo-Provera, the birth control "shot". I had never heard of it before I started using it, and I haven't seen it mentioned in any of the other comments, but I personally think it is one of the best forms of birth control I could have chosen. Two major pros: it's an injection once every 3 months, and it is also considered a prescription for period-related pain and cramping. I'm forgetful as anything, and there was no way I was going to trust myself to alw…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/16 03:43 PM