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I absolutely would expect that and I never said anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:44 PM
1

How do you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:42 PM
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If concealing what you are really like, to make someone date you, who would not date you if they knew, is not dishonest…..what exactly is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:05 AM
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You don’t want to say it, because you fear that the date is off the table then…..which is just dishonest. Why would you do that? You know that you are just wasting everybodies time. And Yes, if that came up, I would say that. I would also not agree to bs like a coffee date or a walking date or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:42 PM
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That you don’t want to say, that you don’t want to pay beforehand….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:31 PM
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It applies to you and thats why I would not want to date you. You also would not want to date me, you think I am entiteled….but you don’t want to say that out loud, because it would preclude you from extracting out of me…..guess what that makes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:16 PM
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So you don’t want to stand up for your own point of view…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:11 PM
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You do realize, that women are comparing notes and realized, that men who don’t want to pay on first dates often follow a pattern of nickel and diming later on in relationships? It’s generally not about the first dinner. It’s about, if a later relationship will be beneficial and most often those guys bring nothing but demand everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:43 PM
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How? You can just not pay and there are many women who are cool with that……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:38 PM
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The thing is that None of you ever brings up valid points…..including you. You brought up points for my position but not yours…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:33 PM
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Yeah, I am one such woman….so you and I (If I wasn’t married) have fundamentally different expectations of relationships and for that reason just should not date. I really don’t see what the problem is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:18 PM
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And equality is hindered, when men pay for Dates or when people do things you don’t want to do? What kind of bs is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:51 AM
0

Babes, I am married for a decade and that has not led to „options dry up“. 95% of women, of any age, can catch a dick by opening the front door. You are living in lala-land. And for sure, I will never be with any man who nickles and dimes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:21 PM
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Why? Nobody is allowed to do things different from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:16 PM
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Great…..so whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:56 AM
0

The question is, what exactly is mutually beneficial? For me, a guy who is penny pinching over a date, will never ever become „mutually beneficial“ anything. And you can think about that totally different….that will just not change how I think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:08 AM
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Great, when are you going to start doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:55 PM
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So lets look at it from the other side……Why would any woman not reject the guy, when her conditions are not mett?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:52 PM
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This topic has been beaten to death. If you don’t want to pay, don’t pay! Nobody can make you. If the woman expects you to pay but you don’t want to do that, for whatever reason, that woman is simply not for you.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:17 PM
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I somehow had the feeling, that you wouldn’t go through with your own dumm ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:41 PM
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Because I want to understand this madness. But this seems to be what you want, so start apologizuing for all the shit Trump says….go on, one by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:56 PM
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What would be the point in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:31 AM
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I should apologize for someone else making a comment? Do you apologize for the comments of all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:30 AM
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I am a modern woman….what exactly you want me to apologize for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:57 PM
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Have you ever tried to Look at any of the points from a female perspective? Because to me you sound something like this: Women: „Catcalling is sexual harassment, thats not fun!“ You: „But Thats not oppression!“ Women: „We do not like it!“ You: „You are so anti male and call us all rapists!“
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:56 PM
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Nobody „benefits from divorce“, especially not women, who usually taking the greater hit financially……dear God!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:35 PM
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Still, starting procedures (often enough women are forced to do) and initiating falure are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:14 PM
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„….the person who is most likely to have initiated the failure is usually the one who benefits the most.“ - Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:40 PM
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You mean women were allowed to go to actual war without suing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:42 PM
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You do know, that women had to sue again and again to get into the military in Western countries? Also neither women nor feminists implement the draft or signed it into law.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:52 PM
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Men did not „provide“ for the majority of history. Women worked at all times, just most of it uncompensated. Hell, children worked most of history. The „trad wife“, who did „not work“ was a blink in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:51 AM
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This….I will go to one in August, we will be painting pottery and go to a nice restaurant after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:50 AM
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So don‘t….whats stoping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:38 AM
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You sure about that? How are there men then who do pay with a smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:31 AM
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I don’t think, the not paying for the date, is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:57 AM
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Thats right….women don’t care if they look ugly to you 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:54 AM
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You never heard of adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 PM
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Why would any woman try that and flip the switch later? That would be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:06 PM
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One way is to make him wait a extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:18 PM
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Red pill is not an ideology? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:29 PM
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Out of curiosity: How many women have you emotionally damaged before? What stops you from damaging the current girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:37 AM
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Is it the fault and responsability of religious adults to break out of religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:18 AM
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Babes, my point was that little girls are influenced practically from the cradle…..can you break out of that sometimes? Yes, but many never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:48 AM
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You have no idea how young we are talking here…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:16 AM
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„Women can do anything they want“ and „You should want to be married“ is not exclusive to each other. It starts when you are very young, every princess in a fairytail gets married at the end and the wedding is what schown as the thing for the girl. Little girls strive to become flower girls in weddings…..not because they want that, most of them don’t know what that is but because they are told by mommy and daddy. There are endless idiomes, that little girls get to hear every day about getting ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:15 AM
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It’s no use to switch, when every channel shows the same. If you are bombarded for years, from every angle, it will show results…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:50 AM
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The social conditioning is strong. Why do you think there were and are so many reality shows about weddings, about picking dresses and all that stuff? Why do you think churches are fighting so hard to let girls think of nothing else? And that shit is everywhere you look…..in every kind of media, in every conversation, in every family. And depending on your jurisdiction, there is a little bit of protection in marriage. It does not out weight the negatives in most marriages but it’s still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:42 AM
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Social conditioning…..little girls allready get told and told again, that marriage is what they should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:26 AM
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Why would you think that ever happened to me and what has that to do with the topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:39 PM
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That Uni guy wasn’t the only one, who did shit like that and I am not the only woman, who guys did that to. And the commenter I answered to said „No man is trying to force anyone.“ Why are you trying to move the goalpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:09 AM
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No? So the guy, that followed me around in Uni, allways sat beside, out of no where started to use my busline (even though he didn’t live anywhere close) and waited sometimes hours in front of my apartment building after I told him, that I don’t want to date him (twice), did that because he had no other hobbys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:25 PM
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Why do men try to force women, that don’t like them, into relationships today?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:55 PM
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Moronic grandsons…..the granddaughters very well know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:29 AM
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No, they don’t but sure the guy who tells women to vet but doesn’t have a clue how to, knows better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:52 PM
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Babes, women don’t generally divorce good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:16 PM
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This is hilarious……YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO VET ANYONE. But you still blame women for the wrongdoings of men. And just by the way…..if he had „previous behavior“ according to you, something went very wrong is he is available after.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:46 PM
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No, otherwise dad gets an 8 hour day while mom is on duty 24/7…..also, bills need to be paid? So? Laborious chores? Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:41 PM
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So this website and the specific section surpassed your video by a lot, because its years old and some thousands every month…..what was that about critical thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:45 PM
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So how exactly do you vet for that? Let us in on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:31 AM
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But she isn’t a stay at home mom……and even if she was, that doesn’t exemt the father from parenting his own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:37 PM
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So wait, a video with 28.000 views is wildly popular but but the website with 62 million visits is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:47 PM
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You did not Listen to the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:31 PM
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It speaks especially about the Mother in law…..You should try listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 PM
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It’s not even about that but about the fact that he is praised for the most basic things BY OTHER PEOPLE but she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:43 AM
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Oh god I wish it would…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:41 AM
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She is at fault that other people see his contribution but not hers? Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:42 AM
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Did you listen to the song?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:24 AM
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You do realize that the „taking out of the gene pool“ has not worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:23 AM
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You mean the abuse, the shitty healthcare because womens bodys are to complicated, the motherhood penalty in the Job market, the constant reduction to reproduction but also the being shamed for having kids/to many kids or being a single mother? Yeah, you can have that!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:21 AM
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Fuck that……you are welcome to the monopoly of pregnancy and childbirth!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:17 AM
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You mean being praised for baby sitting your own kids? I go with her: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGdH7Jh2d/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:16 AM
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You are american right? Like every where else in the developed world, there is no such thing as Adoption Agencies (private organizations that are literally there to make money) or paying to adopt because that is trafficing. It’s not allowed to pay anything for mum or baby either, because that is buying a child. Usually there is also no catalogs or picking out families/babies. And maybe look into psychologie to understand why people joke about painful experiences…..hint, it’s not because it’s fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:32 AM
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Nope, thats a very specific type of adoption…..the trafficing kind and you may want to do some research on how the adoptees feel about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:11 AM
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You just want to sell babies…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:05 AM
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It’s not really far away to make artificial eggs? How? Where? And so noone will raise them……if you want it like that, why don’t you build robots right away……that would Save so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:04 AM
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It’s one thing to have a embryo implant into an artificial womb as implantation is a natural process but it’s a totally different thing to have it reimplant because thats not a natural process……You would have to make it do a whole new process, that isn’t part of its „programming“ if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:01 AM
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How would that work? Thats really not the way…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:12 AM
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What a dream…..imagine becoming a mom without all that…..just like a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:09 AM
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Just for funsies…..where will you get the eggs? Who will raise these kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:05 AM
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You think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:21 AM
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„if you‘re fat, dumb, an addict, or old.“ …. No, just no. Pregnancy under 20 for example is high risk, just for being young. And no, it’s not womens fault that men are violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:32 PM
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Thats just simply not true…..pregnancy in and of it self is life threatening but also a lot of pregnant women get killed by their partner/ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:39 PM
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Ok, I play…..where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:05 PM
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Born humans are killed all the time and I am willing to bet, that you will not classify a lot of that as murder…..but when a woman decides about her own body, than you think it’s murder…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:57 PM
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That doesn’t seem to apply to born humans, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:33 PM
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You make it crystal clear that you never a household to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:28 PM
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„An unborn human“……people kill „born humans“ all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:20 PM
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No form of contraception is without fail and men would be the first to cry about no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:16 PM
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Pregnancy is always a life threatening issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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Noone has an abortion „for funsies“ and no, it’s not „killing their own child“…..dear freaking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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He did in this very thread….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:07 AM
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So what I said…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:17 AM
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I read his prompt…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:16 AM
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So the „driving force“ is that women have rights and are able to take care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:26 AM
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How has that worked out until now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:26 AM
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So you are 14…..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:36 AM
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Her „biological alarm“? Let me tell you, there is no such thing….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:34 AM
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Well you did Frame it as one……
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:16 PM
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That doesnt make any sense….neither you nore I are american.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:14 PM
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That seems like a you problem…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:05 AM
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The „american divorce rate“ came up no where in you post…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:38 PM
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Ohhh, all the people who take much longer must be dumb then…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:37 PM
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A temporary process of like 25 years……
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:09 PM
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Why would the americen divorce rate then matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:08 PM
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Thats not what I asked…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:45 AM
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Do you intend to live in the US with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:42 AM
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Is that, why you post again and again about Esther Vilar and get told again and again that that is bs? Facts over feelings is hard without facts…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:41 AM
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What facts? You didn’t bring any facts….you just try to claim the next shit without any facts. Where are your facts? Where are Esther Vilars facts? Esther Vilar went out of her way to circumvent all facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:27 AM
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So you have argument for your claim….Esther Vilar had also no argument for her claim. Great, will you now stop claiming that shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:08 AM
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Oh babes, your lack of argument does not constitute a lack of understanding in your discussion partner. You have an argument for your claim or not? And why don’t you Show the discussion with that girl? Is it because she didn’t actually say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:01 AM
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We try again….the slow one is not me: How are boys conditioned by their mothers? It’s not through example, as most women with kids work. And its not through telling girls anything when no boy is even there. So how exactly? By the way, I still want to see that discussion!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:55 AM
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But no boy was taught anything in your example….he wasnt even there. And thats the problem….you (and Esther Vilar) claim, that somehow Boys Are conditioned by their mothers as a hive mind. But the only example you can come up with, is a girl being told something while daily family life would teach boys and girls the opposite. How can’t you see, that that doesnt add up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:41 AM
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But your claim up until now was, that boys are conditioned by their mothers, to only be seen as recources. That they see themselfes as resources. But your claim now is, that this one girl was told by her mom, to not pay for dates and that is the great teaching, that makes boys resources. That does not add up. I would also love to see that discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:22 AM
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So boys are conditioned by girls being „told“ not to pay for dates? Even if that was true….thats not even remotely what your statement was before…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:07 AM
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You could bring reasoning or data or anything….why don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:50 AM
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I Never said that….thats why I asked you like 12 times at this point, how that would be taught?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:47 AM
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Usually, children see what their parents are modeling and try to recreate that. Most parents today are modeling that both, mommy and daddy, are working….so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:30 AM
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At this point I think he does not want to answer…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:21 AM
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HOW? HOW ARE THEY TAUGHT THAT? Why can’t you answer that question? The example that is set, is mostly, women provide equally? So where and how does this „men are a recource“ come in exactly? WHY WONT YOU ANSWER THIS QUESTION?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:20 AM
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So how do they teach that exactly? Why are you unable to answer that question? It’s not by example as most women work. You think paying on a date is being seen as recource? The great recource of a steak dinner. I am being generous here, I am sure you are one of the „I wont even pay for a coffee“ guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:57 PM
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And what do they teach them…..mommy goes to work but your future girlfriend/wife should not? What Esther Vilar accused women of, had nothing to do with her time…..as I showed you with the legal framework back then. And condition their children how? I can tell you what I was taught by my grandmothers, who lived at Vilars time: be sure to make your own money and never depend on a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:00 AM
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I will ask you again: how do women do that exactly? Most women are working today, even with kids….so how do they do what you accuse them of. And you want to explain how they did that at Esther Vilars time? We already established that back then women were legally restrained from having their own recources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:37 AM
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They absolutly do raise their kids…..something you not seem to aprove of. But I don’t understand why up until now. You seem to just hate what women do irregardless of what that even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:41 AM
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At what point exactly? By taking care of the kids or by working?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:20 AM
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They spend more time raising Kids and showing that they equally participate in the labor market? The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:17 AM
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But it’s not….nearly 70% of households with kids under 11 are dual income and if I am not totally off women have a higher participation in the labor market then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:51 AM
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Why are you not answering my question? Is it because the answer is „most women could not do anything but live of their husbands income“? The premise of the book is falls from the start. Today things are fundamentally different, which is why nearly 70% of households with kids under 11 are dual income. The households that are not, there is reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:36 AM
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It absolutely does, she presumes women would „train“ men to do things, when in reality womens roles were the legally restricted ones but men were free to do as they wanted and to control the women around them. Lets brain storm together here: what was a woman supossed to do, when she had a child with her husband? She could not work anymore, there was no childcare that would allow a job and her husband was legally able to terminate her employment, if he said she didn’t fulfill her household duties…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:26 AM
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So Esther Vilar is German but was born in Argentina, which is a whole other can of worms. Over the course of her life she lived at times in Argentina and at times in Germany but in both countries she was unbelievably privileged. She did not have to live under the legal framework that the women she wrote about had to abide by. You might try and understand that when she wrote her book, women in Germany just had gained the right to have their own bank accounts without the oversight of their husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:08 AM
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Who ever takes Esther Vilar seriously, has lost complete control…….you do understand under what kind of circumstances she wrote that book yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:39 AM
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What do you see as „older“?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:05 PM
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So where would be the „shame“ in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:37 AM
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You mean you are cool with just giving the woman oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:15 PM
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You take being gay as shame? I would think your problems start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:12 PM
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I understand that you don’t see women as full people, like you are. Why would I want to convince you otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:59 PM
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At this point I am sure you are unable to understand what people write.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:50 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:18 AM
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So it doesnt make any sense….thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:58 AM
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Your problem lies in the „medium“: „Non-parametric kernel density estimates for the distribution of the entire sample of students’ test score achievements by gender are presented in Fig. 1. The left and right panels of Fig. 1 display kernel density estimates for mathematics and reading test performances respectively. Males’ test scores in mathematics are on average higher than those for females, whereas females on average score better than males for reading. Regarding the spread of the curves, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:33 AM
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I have no idea what you are babbeling about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:28 AM
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No, boys perform „better“ in multiple choice but multiple is not „neutral“. Also: „We compared boys' and girls' results at three different types of evaluations (teacher evaluations, national examinations, and standardized achievement tests) both in French and mathematics, from the same set of 23,451 middle school French students. We found that, across subjects and evaluation types, girls performed better than boys.“ Again: „ACROSS SUBJEKTS AND EVALUATION TYPES, GIRLS PERFORMED BETTER THAN BOYS.“
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:27 AM
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I allways have to ask: did you actually read that? Because it doesnt say what you say it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:08 AM
1

Thats literally what this is based on…….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:45 PM
3

„The gender ratio in the United States in 2024 will be 100.994 males per 100 females. There are 175,399,113, or 175.40 million, males and 173,636,381, or 173.64 million, females in the US. The percentage of the female population is 49.75 percent, compared to 50.25 percent of the male population. The United States has the 7th highest number of excess male population of 1.76 million.“ https://statisticstimes.com/demographics/country/usa-sex-ratio.php You don’t seem to understand what affirmative a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:40 PM
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Do you not know what minority means? 50.26 % of the world population are men. In countries without sexselective abortions roughly 105 boys are born for every 100 girls, in countries with sexselective abortions that ratio can go up to 120 boys for every 100 girls……men are not a minority. That boys are outperformed by girls, when girls are allowed to partake is only showing that men have been proped up for ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:14 PM
-2

I would be embarrassed of those guys too……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:43 PM
2

The thing allmost all perpetrators so „not all men but allways a man“ is absolutely right. And babes „men“ are not a minority…..you need to internalize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:39 PM
6

The thought is riddiculous……women have wishes for their partners…..the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:36 PM
6

It actually makes the „generalization“ absolutely true….. And men are the victims of who exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:33 PM
-2

So it’s not a reality that women get saed, raped and killed and that the perpetrators are actually nearly allways men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:07 PM
5

So? Let them…..If the expectations are so out of wack, ist will go no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:05 PM
4

Ohhh god what demonization of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:37 PM
9

This….there were allways people, men and women, who never got into a relationship but in past times they were more or less „invisible“. As in you knew about your cousin or aunt, who never had a man but usually you didn’t knew about everyone elses lonely uncle. Now with social media you hear from a lot more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:05 PM
2

No one can help you here, if you don’t read the comments🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:16 AM
1

She gave examples…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:34 AM
-2

Go to TikTok and look for Shanann Watts…..she was murdered by her husband, alongside their two little daughters, while pregnant with a boy and under every video about it, you find a host of comments saying „what did she do to him?“. Or look for Emily Kiser, her 3 year old son drowned in her pool, while her husband was supposed to look after him, she wasn‘t even home…..still people comment again and again that it was her fault. The freaking father, who did not look after the kid is somehow blamel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:35 PM
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Is this your first day on the internet? Women are blamed for literally everything all the time. No matter what it is. You also forget the other side of things…..men. Men still do what they want, good and bad. And men can still lie and manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:25 PM
5

Overpower her physically……what kind of relationships are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:53 AM
5

Like everything……you are usually in somewhat the same stage of life. So over Education and getting a Job when you are young. Over starting a family when you are a little older. Your parents are about the same age usually and you face the same challenges over that. And so on and so on……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:50 AM
4

You are circumventing the question….read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:28 PM
2

Because you don’t have the ability to carry children and feed them from your body and subsequently you dont suffer the aftermath, so its not really a full swap. But also most men don’t want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:56 PM
5

So why should a woman then lose everything for the same behavior that a man should lose nothing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:53 PM
21

So then you do see motherhood and home making as worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:57 AM
7

So what do you deem not traditionally masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:55 PM
5

What is „traditionally masculine“ to you? Like yes, my husband is taller than me but so is the average man where we live. He has a job and income but he also loves to cook/bake and craft. He is really good with kids and animals and all around very attentive. Is he traditionally masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:20 PM
7

Are there? Most of them seem to be paid to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:54 PM
5

Everything is always womens fault…..don’t you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:44 PM
7

This might be to much for the guys…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:44 AM
3

Thats not worth it…..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:47 PM
1

I am German…..paying for quite everything afterwards is normal. There might be a deposit for really small vendors or you might have to pay when you pick up. Like we had to pay for the wedding cake when it was picked up but that wasn’t a huge amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
1

Usually you pay after the event, not before. And its not „reimbursement“ in a classical sense but usually, what you get for the wedding will cover the wedding. My husband and I made a few thousend plus. It’s not like everyone gives the same either…..family will give more cash than friends. Parents/Grandparents will give the most money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:08 PM
5

Where is this female surpremacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:03 PM
0

My question was: what is the harm of spending money on a wedding, that you would not have without the wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:45 AM
0

That wasn’t my question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:12 AM
1

True but whats the Harm in using money for a wedding, that I wouldn’t have without one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:13 PM
1

So where I am wedding guests typically give cash gifts to pay for the wedding….you would not get the money without a wedding. Thats why I really don’t understand that line of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:07 PM
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Thats not a wedding in any way and not what we talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:50 PM
-1

So problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:48 PM
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Doesnt matter…..he does not want them🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:48 PM
0

You do know that you don’t need a wedding to be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:23 PM
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It would be but what exactly do women receive these days? Or ever for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:20 PM
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So you don’t want to be a traditionell husband……
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:47 PM
2

So how do weddings work where you are? Because where I am, the couple would not have the wedding funds without the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:43 PM
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Thats the fairytale little boys dream of…..they want a bang-maid-mommy, not actually a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:41 PM
2

Yeah, who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:30 PM
10

Didn’t Myrons girlfriend leave him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:23 AM
4

So the other Woman gets the fun parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:21 AM
2

I am from Europe, I never paid for a date in my life…..first or otherwise. But nobody makes you pay…..If you don’t want to then don’t. What are you afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:54 PM
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You didn’t know about surrogacy? Did you live under a rock? And why do you need a step mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:12 AM
13

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:56 AM
13

You want to have sex with women regardless….. And you still need women…..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:56 AM
10

So you don’t intend to raise those kids and what about the eggcells now? Without eggs no kids….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:54 AM
14

None of this makes sense….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:38 AM
9

So what will you guys do about Eggcells than and who will raise those kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:37 AM
14

What woman in the US did ever sent men into war?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:36 AM
23

But it isn’t and in quite some states republicans try to pass laws to give women the death penalty, if they have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:36 AM
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Well than, now that you know, You See that this is bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:33 AM
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So you just ignore the current laws around abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:10 AM
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Don’t confuse him with facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:08 AM
3

Since when is „ripping each other apart“ an integral part of debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:31 AM
1

Still missed the point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:29 AM
6

We need to „ripp each other apart“ now? Why would we do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:36 PM
2

You somehow missed the point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:25 PM
5

I fear thats not the problem……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:55 AM
2

Not really……but we all know that the US wants it to become that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:14 AM
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…..because they still are stealing the recources of other countries and kill everyone that is in their way. There, fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:03 AM
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Thats not a reason why that „shouldn’t be a factor“ but good for you. But that makes your story quite unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:45 AM
3

We need to agree and if we can’t it’s no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:36 AM
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Sure buba, most families need two incomes, but the womans income does not contribute to the family……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:31 AM
3

Actually I said we do two yes/one no……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:29 AM
5

So maybe, you are not the one who should tell people in successful relationships, how they should do things different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:28 AM
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I don’t see why you think people need pushback…..Why would my husband insert himself, when I want a new car? But thats also not what we initially talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:40 AM
7

What way more? I bought a new car last year…..I don’t see your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:31 AM
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I am not sure what you think that would be like? I want to go out to eat and he says yes? I want a new car and he says yes? Whats your problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:22 AM
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You mean what if he just says yes to everything I want? The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:13 AM
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I know exactly what he wants to say, but this very hard worker, who is so dominant, doesn’t want to say it with his whole chest…..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:06 AM
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So I am married for a decade now and we go by two yes/one no……no one needs to be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:56 AM
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It’s correct that the US is the wealthiest country but not because you all work so hard…..it’s because you steal and your ancestors stole…..you stole the land the US is on, you stole the labor of slaves and indigenous people, you stole the recources of other countries and you are still doing that today. That you now trying to devalue the education and work of women is nothing more than typical. So you don’t want a woman who wants the same things ….. you want one who doesn’t and you want to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:54 AM
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So to submit is being a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:33 AM
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If you say „I want to into marriage with someone who agrees with my ideas“….that sounds like you want a wife who already wants those things…..Thats fundamentally different then trying to convince a woman to that, who got an education because she wanted to work. So which one are you? By the way, that would still not be „organizing around me“. And last but not least, the US has nothing to do with hard labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:32 AM
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Why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:49 AM
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That has nothing to do with „organizing the family around you“……is there a reason why you put it into these specific words?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:49 AM
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You do know that YOU don’t have to stalemate, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:14 AM
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I just can’t…..You want to organize the family/household around you? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:12 AM
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It doesnt have to be a fight…..YOU can submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:11 AM
1

Ok but in what way? What would make it better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:05 AM
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You also have a distorted view of male fertility…..1 in 3 couples suffers only from male factor infertility and 1 in 3 couples has both pertners contributing. Male factor infertility is way more prevalent than you think and male age is a factor in way more Medical Problems for mother and baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:53 AM
3

Are you under the impression that „cougar“ is a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:47 AM
2

You canfusing a celebraty, who very publiky shows of his relationships with the average Joe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:16 PM
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So thats your answer then……mr. Law degree and mr. Mortgage don’t seem to choose much younger women, they seem to largely marry women in their early 30ies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:11 PM
12

Whats the average age for a first marriage where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:54 PM
12

Ok, go be the prize 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:44 PM
1

No, they show women do the paperwork…..nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:56 PM
2

How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:54 PM
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So? You do know, that if he leaves for another woman, she has to file for divorce, otherwise she can’t file for child support or alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:37 PM
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As if men did not leave their wifes and families for other women in all times🤦🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:05 PM
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Again, your premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:06 AM
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There is wide spread support for the idea that women should not have a right to their own bodies……there, fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:05 AM
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I don’t even think women are currently favored at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:02 AM
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But everything you think about is only to roll back womens rights. And that commenter is not me….I concede nothing as your premise is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:01 AM
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Our society doesn’t like to adopt rules that disadvantage/inconvenience women? Are we living on the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:05 AM
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I don’t control your body in labor…..I do not care, nor can I control how you pay your bills. You can work blue collar, white collar, invest in Bitcoin or have your mommy pay….no one cares. That would be stealthing…. But mostly nobody tempers with anything….birthcontrol just has a failure rate and there are people who don’t use any. Why would you need to know my country? You do not say anything about „guardrails“ because you have literally none. And sorry but in a world where Trump is President,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:47 PM
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You guys never have „guardrails“ you have if a woman can control her own body, then I have to be compensated for that…..thats all it really is. Comparable reproductive rights are, you control your body and I control mine…..not if you do something with your body, that I don’t like, I just stear clear of any responsability even though I got you into that situation in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:16 PM
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What? Where? You know that you guys can get a test? You know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:03 PM
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No it’s not the same…..you want to know why? Because having an abortion is taking responsability. And you don’t want to so the fundamental difference….there is no kid and never was. Miss me with Roe v. Wade…..I am not from the US and I really don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:02 PM
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That is leaving without responsability……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:18 PM
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So you can’t go to court and get one? Be honest!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:01 PM
1

When you believe that it’s only carrying the „baby“ around 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:01 PM
1

None of this is true…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:09 PM
1

I don’t have the cryons to draw it for you……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:05 PM
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You literally said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:47 PM
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You fundametally missunderstand or want to missunderstand…..a woman has her own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:47 PM
1

But you don’t…..you believe in men impregnating women and than leaving without responsability. And I would like to see those stats……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:46 PM
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So that is not your comment? „Slapped a wife one time, mandatory therapy Broke her nose, straight to jail. I know how DV cases go.“ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/3FQHI13wks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:12 PM
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You know that because of your multiple pregnancies and births? What are the stats on that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:10 PM
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Didn’t you just say that in your own comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:53 PM
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Oh here we are again…..women have rights to their own bodies? Men have to be compensated for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:52 PM
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Lets see what other situation can that happen in? Oh when daddy lies about his identity or when he just leaves…..I take it, that that should than also be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:49 PM
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Duty of Care is still not a principle of criminal law…..when will that sink in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:46 PM
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You broke your wifes nose? Somehow that doesnt even surprise me anymore…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:44 PM
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Oh my God……leave to a red piller to always come back to abortion. I don’t need an excuse…..my body is mine. But you don’t even realize that you invalidate your own argument. There is no kid in case of abortion and never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:14 PM
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Thats for sure…..no woman could make it less appealing than the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:32 PM
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I am in favor of the law……France has its reasons to do that. I would like my country to do the same. It’s bordering on negligence to throw around your kids dna.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:31 PM
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I know that you can read it…..it’s a little like YOU can read laws…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:29 PM
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Ok, where else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:16 PM
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Oh babes……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:16 PM
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So you couldnt find one? Huh, I wonder why that is……
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:15 PM
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You would need to read the whole thread to understand…..it was an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:14 PM
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No, most statutory rape laws don’t work like that because (say it with me) INTEND ISNT REQUIERED.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:13 PM
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Shoulda woulda coulda……has that ever happened? Do judges generally decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:11 PM
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Well she proved in british court 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:09 PM
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Show me the guys who got jail time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:07 PM
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Did you? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:59 AM
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Thats not at all true but affirmative action is also civil. And no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:59 AM
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Babes, rape practically stopped being a crime long ago….around the time it wasnt men anymore who were the „harmed party“. But I also never said what you want to put into my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:57 AM
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Babes, nobody ever said that but you really really want to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:54 AM
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„If the judge allows it“ …. so it’s not illegal. Do you guys ever read what you wright?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:53 AM
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But Duty of Care is still a civil law principle….you can’t just drag that into criminal law and men are still not minors. You are truly trying to invent a whole new criminal law system to punish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:51 AM
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As if I saw it coming…..no it’s Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:36 AM
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What changes? You don’t even know the law in France?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:35 AM
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You just never care about the kids 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:34 AM
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Statutory rape law does not work the way you think it does……1. it’s for the protection of minors….the men in your cases are overwealmingly not minors and 2. statutory rape law doesnt require intend, most of them don’t, thats a whole other thing than what you are trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:33 AM
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Actually no but I know you will scream „but France“ and than I say but France has guidlines on genetic testing and thats the reason and none of you ever is actually from France.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:26 AM
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Exactly right!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:25 AM
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That not 90% of births are women lying but that only 0,5 - 3,0 % have missatributed paternity and no statistic ever gave evidence that those are all women lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:24 AM
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Not at all……The Duty of Care is a civil law principle, not a criminal one…..big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:19 AM
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Op says „fuck them kids“ 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:17 AM
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It could be less appealing than it already is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:16 AM
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Why not? Because any kind of statistic shows the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:14 AM
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So you just want to invent new standards to prosecute women…….how original.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:02 AM
1

So now it’s face and not hight or that you are jacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:30 AM
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No the red pill propagates that you have to be jacked……When you really don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:46 PM
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I think you fundamentally missunderstand…..“looks don’t matter“ in the way that it really doesn’t matter if you have blue eyes or brown, if you are 5‘9 or 6‘2, if long hair or short……There will be a woman who is into what ever you are, so wear your hair the way you like it, wear the clothes you like and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:24 PM
1

How does that go against preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:06 PM
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It’s now red pill that women have „attraction preferences“? I just can’t….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:18 PM
5

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:24 PM
1

No you didn’t….it is what it’s allways with you guys, you feel discriminated if other people are also taken into consideration. Women are also counted? Even kids? That must be discrimination!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:20 PM
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You didn’t….you stated something. You don’t even say who supposedly does this. At this point it seems to be your problem that women and children are counted which is a prime example for misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:41 PM
1

So again, whats your problem? That they count women, men and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:21 PM
1

How does counting women separately from men and kids do anything that you claim? Like what is exactly your problem? Why do you think its wrong to have the number for each?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:41 PM
1

What? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:06 PM
2

Again how? What is this even supposed to mean? That is simply a statement .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:13 PM
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He used his own sperm, when he told the patients he would use donor sperm….that should be illegal but its not what you said. „For a variety of reasons, some patients had arranged to be artificially inseminated with sperm provided by screened, anonymous donors arranged by Jacobson.“
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:07 PM
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But you didn’t. You made statements without further explanation. Lets go point by point: How are caualties for men treated completly different? What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:59 PM
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I take things that never happened for 3000……be so fucking for real, if you worked there and knew of this but did nothing, YOU ARE AS RESPONSABLE AS THE CLINIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:15 PM
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How what would look like in practice? You can’t even imagine men doing equal work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:09 AM
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Your premise is falls…..There can’t be equality in something that does not touch you. In parenthood everything is allready leaning towards men. Men Are regularly applauded for things that women are scolded for. It could be better, if men would truly take on half the work and responsability but they generally don’t. If we want a foundation without misogyny, we have to start right there, that women are the ones who carry society has to be acknowledged and honorated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:17 AM
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Parental surrender „abortion“……abortion is not parental surrender. In fact it is not even comparable in any way. Not by method, not by outcome, not by any measure. Parental surrender happens after birth and is the same for both parents. That is equal. You want equality in a situation that does not even touch men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:58 AM
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No its not…..you guys like blame things men set up on women and thats the „who set that system up“ point. Misogyny is the foundation of our society, is a point to how deep ingrained misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:53 AM
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The problem is that you do not see equality as equal and that is painfully clear from last point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:50 AM
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How are casualties for men treated completly different? What tradition are we talking here? From what point in time? How are men easier to demonized? Like in what way? Do we need to do a deep dive on lynchings? I do not think that we shrug our shoulders at male suicide. But of kind of suicide are you talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:47 AM
1

What are the „multitude of ways in which society discriminates against men“?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:48 AM
-2

Could you get more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:43 AM
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Where do you want to start? That all which is done specifically by women is devalued? That men claim authority by the power of penis all the time? That everything seen as female is used deragatory? That Religion (especially abrahamic religions) claimed the power of bringing new life and reasinged it to the male?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:42 AM
2

How exactly relates that to this? Those Are two different topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:36 AM
1

Why don’t you agree with that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:35 AM
1

Have you ever really thought about if misogyny is the foundation of our society?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:43 AM
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So in my country we had a whole Reality Show on passport bros, some years ago. It was entertaining in a way but not the way you might think…..and thats exactly the extend in which I think about passport bros. Do as you wish, we don’t care…..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:12 PM
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I absolutly am but you just don’t have any argument…..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:13 AM
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So you can’t actually……
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:12 AM
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Shush now……you need a break. Come back when you are sober or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:12 AM
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Are you unable to do the calculations? Did you not graduate elementary school? Get you hemotions under control….. I ask again, like in elementary: where do dividends come from? You can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:43 PM
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How can you distinguish the trashi Chads from other Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:23 PM
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No no, do both calculations! And why are you so hemotional? So you need money to get into the stock market. And I ask again: where do dividents come from? I give you a hint: your broker does not print money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:22 PM
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So men are not attracted to hairless women who wear make up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:38 PM
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So all Chads are trash…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:36 PM
1

Ok Hon, you just don’t actually want to talk about marriage. Legal punishments are something different than „the threat of violence“.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:58 PM
1

So no one canes you… Can you now answer the initial question? Dear God this is like pulling teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:41 PM
1

Babes calculate this: 10 + 7 =? And 10 - 5 + 7 =? Don’t be shy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:38 PM
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Where do you live? Does someone come and cane you when you don’t pay your taxes? Sweety you need to get out. And Babes, we started off at what advantages gets the Gouvernment, that superseed the advantages we get? Do you have one or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:15 PM
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Would you have had more gains without a crash? And yes it automatically makes you lose…..math is so hard. 10% of the stock market is 401ks…..Dear God, thats not it purpose. And nope, I said you have to INVEST YOUR OWN MONEY…..THAT IS NOT PROVIDED. The stock market does also not „produce money“…..are you ok? Do you believe the brokers print money?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:11 PM
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Thats not what determents steeling……but we get a lot out of taxes so I don’t know why we should choose to not pay? So just anything that happens here is Bad because some Gouvernements might support what happens in Gaza? It does not matter if they „truly care about me“, I still get the advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:56 PM
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You seem to have a distorted way of thinking….taxes are not steeling, it’s your contribution to the greater good like streets, healthcare, education, childcare and so much more……you want to try one more time? You can not still be married, if you want to get married again but thats actually the only case you „have to tell the Gouvernement“. It’s a little funny, that you don’t have any argument but the omnious „you think the Gouvernement cares about you?“
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:40 PM
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My Gouvernement actually gets less taxes out of us because we are married…..you want to try again? And no, you do not have to alert them, when you break up. The Gouvernement actually does not care. You can even break up, live completly separated lives and still keep the advantages. My parents did that, they were separated but not divorced for 15 years. It seems like you are a little paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:30 PM
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Ok I play……whats the benefit my Gouvernement gets, from me getting married, that superseeds the advanges we get?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:22 PM
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A Crash can never be irrelevant as it diminishes your gains. I see math is hard for you. The market is there for like 10% of its value? Lets recap, the us stock market was founded more than 150 years before anyone thought of 401ks and they are only like 10% of whats traded…..but you say the purpose of the stock market is retirement funds. No sweety, it is Not and never was. It also doesn’t „provide“ 401ks, as you need to invest your own money into it…..the money doesnt come from the stock market…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:30 PM
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My country has an armee, it just wasn‘t involved in anything war for quite some time. I don’t think you truly want to talk about marriage. Otherwise you could explain why you want to keep advantages from the person you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:20 PM
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My Gouvernement doesn’t use my taxmoney to fund wars…..we are not all american here. We also talked about marriage and not wars. You didn’t answer my question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:41 PM
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I just can’t…..when the market crashes from 10 to 5, then you didn’t lose money? Are you dumb? The US stock market begann 1792 when the US Gouvernement started to sell war bonds from the revolutionary war. European stock markets are way older. The law 401ks go by was passed 1978 and actual 401ks are in existence since 1981….so no, the purpose of the us stock market or any stock market, were never retirement funds. For fucks sake learn something!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:16 PM
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We get all this and many other things because we are married and that is the law for married people. Can you explain to me why you wouldn’t want the person you love to have this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:36 PM
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They could care more for sure but having no taxes on inheritance, survivers benefits, free healthcare as a dependent spouse, tax allowance and paid parental leave is sure nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:44 PM
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Are you ok? It seems you are a little mixed up…..is dictating to demanding for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:41 PM
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From the law……have you ever lived in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:59 AM
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You seem not to understand the advantages of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:49 AM
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But you are, in most cases you are…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:07 AM
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You seem not to……
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:06 AM
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No Babes because you are not legally and financially entangled with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:20 AM
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Why would I change it? It was the answer to your claim that „to actual women“ its very uncomfortable to be „subjected“ to radio advertisements…..as if they are unable to change the station and have to „suffer through“. Like there was to alternative to that. You are truly riddiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:19 AM
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A marriage is Not a friendship…..You are usually not financially and legally entangled with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:14 AM
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And leave the advantages a marriage gives you? Why would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:09 AM
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Nope…..my husband and I did it because we know about the legal advantages it has. You seem pretty short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:08 AM
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Because nothing is this easy and marriage as a contract is about the „after“ in many points but not only. It’s about what happens when you don’t love each other anymore or when one of you is dead……If you truly love someone, you have to think about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:06 AM
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Oh babes now you are projekting hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:17 AM
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A crash means exactly that you „automatically lose money“. It also does not „provide“ retirement funds. You don’t get a retirement fund from the Stock market…..You allready have one and you try to grow it through the stock market BUT you can also lose everything there. Thats also a thing, that happened before for millions of people, so bad that many killed them selves. Whats more worrying here, is that you seem to think it was somehow made to „provide“ retirement funds and that couldnt be furthe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:16 AM
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I „projected“ nothing, you said that you even have to control the radiostation. Funny that you now can’t stand by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:34 AM
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Nobody did that….but you said men are absolutely logical but you can’t explain the logic in things men do…..huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:32 AM
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No I didn’t but by „power of your penis“ you seem to change everything…..even my intention…..sounds like you are a dictator too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:29 AM
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Now I believe that you don’t know what the Stock market ist…..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:27 AM
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But YOU said that YOU should decide „financial stuff“ because you have a penis. So its a deciding trade when you like it but not when you don’t….. Being „complicit“, what ever that means in case of Melania, is Not the same as being the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:52 PM
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But you said „men are absolutely logical“……and that calling men emotional is ironic…..You didn’t really mean all men? Can you explain the „logic“ of murder? Like when men murder their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:49 PM
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What basic concept did you „explain“ to me? You just repeat what I allready told you, that english is not my first language. But I explain to you again: the other commentor said, he should decide „financial stuff“ because his penis makes him superior……I then pointed out, that all crashes were also caused by penis havers and that does not seem superior in any way. It’s a hard one, I know. You trying to say, that crashes are „normal“ neither negates that all of them were caused by men, nor that cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:46 PM
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I never said that and if I want to insult men, I do it with my whole chest but joking about a mans penis is low hanging fruit. Funny that you think, being called a dictator is somehow not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:37 PM
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I know what the Stock market is and you don’t say that english isnt my first language (I told you several times now). It’s the same argument as in the other thread…..here again the initial commenter wants desicion making power because he has a penis…..ignoring that all crashes were also caused by penis havers……but that went over your head and you try to establish that crashes are „normal“, when that nigates nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:21 PM
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I said „its the little things“…..like choosing the radiostation. I never said he is one of the little things…..that was you. Why are you unable to differentiate between singular and plural?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:16 PM
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I didn’t say something silly….I just analized what you said. You can admit that you feel the need to dictate every aspect of your joint life…..we already understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:11 PM
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Sweetheart, „normal things“ are guten negative……death is normal and still negativ. „Normal things“ also have causes…..death is normal and is still caused by something. I can only explain it to you but not understand for you. Especially when you totally ignore the other half of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:09 PM
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You want to try a stringent argument for once or will you go on flip flopping evertime I correct you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:05 PM
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Oh dear…..“sometimes“.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:04 PM
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Oh dear…..“sometimes“.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:03 PM
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Oh dear the fuck…..as if it wasnt bad before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:02 PM
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Where can I observe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:01 PM
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Babes of you claim „all the positives“ Like you guys often do then you have to accept „all the negatives“ too……but somehow you never want to do that. Anyway „normal things“ also have causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:45 PM
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I said „its the little things“…….english is not my first language but I am able to differentiat between singular and plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:42 PM
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I never said the market goes up every day…..where did you get that from? But men dis cause all crashes…..didn’t we see that recently with Trump and his tariffs multiple times? And sometimes I think all of us would be better, if there was no Stock market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:18 PM
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Uff, you mind explaining the rationality of demolishing your own elctronics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:04 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong but you guys have only one penis each? If I meant his penis I would have said „it’s the little thing“ without the „s“ at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:01 PM
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That wasnt even me but they are still right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:59 PM
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Babes, you might think all women are, but I am in fact not acquainted with your penis. So how should I know of what size it is? But you do base your right to dictate everything on having one…..which is quite ridiculous. And why do you pity my husband? Because I just switch the radiostation when I don’t like the program?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:58 PM
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So it absolutely is a MEN issue…..who Else did it? So YOU have no reason to be the decision maker as you didn’t demonstrate any knowledge and just a comment ago you said we couldnt assume things about MEN. So you blame Melania for sheer proximity even though she is „far from capable“? You might want to decide one way or the other….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:27 PM
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Men caused all Stock market crashes…..doesn’t seem very superior to me. But what I really asked why YOU should get to make the decisions? And are you trying to say Melania is secretly ruling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:58 PM
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Look where the world is at….. Why would you get to make decisions on „financial stuff“?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:08 PM
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Lead us where though? You didn’t do a very good job……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:43 PM
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I bet he will never tell us and that somehow speaks louder, then anything he could say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:41 PM
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I am an actual woman and if I don’t like whats on the radiostation, I just change it. If the route „doesn’t work out“, I just take another. What this sounds like to me, is that you need to dictate even the smallest, inconsequential things in your relationship by the power of your penis…….its the little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:40 PM
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For funsies: what responsability is their to take for choosing the radiostation or the route?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:58 AM
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That men are not „less emotional“ at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:45 AM
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Men generally have a Hormon cycle. Men generally have their mood impacted by all kinds of things. Mass events like sportsgames make that visible, because of how many incidents there are in a Short time. But just for fun……have you ever seen a woman demolish her TV, because her team didn’t score?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:39 AM
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Scientific is also that men have a hormon cycle and their moods are not only influenced by hormons but by all other kinds of things……You might want to Look up how many men perpetrate domestic violence when their sportsteam lost a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:31 AM
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No……you can go by two-yes/one-no…..men like you just have to be adults about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:27 AM
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So you say men resent their partners, if they don’t get their way? I somehow have the feeling thats the reason for failing relationships…..men can’t cope with not getting their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:25 AM
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Funny that you answer someone who talks about his own marriage and you come back with „sounds nice in theory“…..it’s not a theory. But I have the feeling it’s theory for you……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:23 AM
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Not only less respect but less rights, less oppertuneties and in general not the ability to our lives for us……and when you look back into history you might see the groups who were seen like that. Spoiler, they were not seen as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:49 AM
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You sure? TRP sees anyone not a man as less than and of not deserving the same rights……doesn’t really sound like people to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:24 PM
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You explained what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:25 AM
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If it’s so clear, it should be easy for you to point me there…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:21 AM
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TRP says women are people? Where? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:36 AM
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Is that so? Tell me something positiv TRP says about women!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:56 AM
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You mean women resist to being treated like shit and being told they are the reason for everything wrong in this world? Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:28 AM
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It was the other way around …. the other person jumped into our convo and you did not reply to me anymore. Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:18 PM
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And it does not seem like he paid yet…..he is still trying to get the verdicts overturned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:17 PM
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By the way, she did not settle….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:06 PM
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And will he even feel it? No he wont…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:05 PM
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First of, you don’t realize that you wrote back and forth with someone else here? And I can not pick out „some cases“ but a lot…..most prominently your President but they are really everywhere….but we know you don’t want to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:03 PM
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And did he actually pay? And lets say he did pay, he now has made billions of the presidency….you think he will ever miss those millions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:51 PM
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At what point did anyone say we shouldnt have to prove it? It would be a huge progression if proven rapists would suffer consequences but they largely don’t…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:49 PM
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Because no one cares about the victims…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:20 PM
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And what exactly happened? Nothing….he was made President because the party, who screams about protecting women and children, does not actually protect anyone. He did not go to prison and I am not sure he even paid what he had to and even if, he made so much money of the presindency that it does not matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:14 PM
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Donald Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:55 PM
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Not even prooven rapists see consequences…..miss me with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:37 PM
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Whats the cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:54 PM
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But you don’t for sexuelle harrassment and thats the problem…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:44 PM
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The hive mind? You mean like the tens of thousends of men, who find each other in online groups to share methods on how to rape wives and girlfriends and share the videos of that after? I never heard of women doing that though……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:43 PM
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You are real funny……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:40 PM
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You know who rapes at alarming rates? Husbands and boyfriends, fathers and brothers….but I am sure you don’t want to talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:38 PM
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So why are you trying to put literally everything on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:01 PM
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2 or 3 times and you totally missed Kristoff? The great example of a good man and positive masculinity, who built a good male/female relationship over the film…..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:00 PM
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If men are helpless like that, they shouldnt be in charge of anything…….go and tell men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:31 AM
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I really have to ask you: how often did You watch „Frozen“?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:24 AM
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Are you really to dumb to read your own articles…..those women went through court. I said you have to proof a false accusation in court. So if anything, you proofed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:08 PM
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What do you believe to have prooven here? My point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:32 AM
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How ever it is punished, for a legal punishment to occure, you have to proof in court that it was a false accusation……which is hard to do….you know he said - she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:39 AM
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So innocent until prooven guilty is for men but not for women? Is that what You are saying. And your hypothetical doesnt work….a powder keg is an inanimate object with no control….a Man on the other hand is a person with selfcontrol….if you say men don’t have selfcontrol, then we should have you all locked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:33 AM
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You must be trolling at this point…..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:45 PM
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You would need to proof in court that it was false…..that there have been no charges is no proof of that, as only like 3 percent of perpetrators ever see their day in court. And no, that a grown man can’t keep it together is not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:54 PM
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That very much depends on where you live. I am German, our laws regarding divorce are fairly conservative I would say. But if decide today, that I want to divorce, I could moove out tomorrow and effectively be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:52 PM
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You never heard of divorce, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:04 PM
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Men do want to marry…..you are living proof of that. But not only you, many men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:55 PM
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Where would there be another ratio exactly? What country? And no, I forget nothing……women more likely label themselves as bi then lesbian…..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:32 PM
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Ohhh dear, I meant that she does not have to force anyone……men want to marry, there is no need to force them. But thats not an „advantage“.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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Of cause…..it’s never the violent man…..always the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:55 AM
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So you think being a nun your life expectancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:03 PM
1

How does it expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:28 PM
2

Big Bang theory …. And I don’t mean the Comedy Show.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:48 PM
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Fertility is not „fundamentale needed“ and it has no connection to „soulmates“ whatsoever…….attraction is really only a tiny part. And no, we are not able to create eggcells….if we were, there would be no eggcell needed to do that but it is and the „created eggcells“ would work but they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:48 PM
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It had billions of years to develop and everything that didn’t work out vanished…..you have no concept of time it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:24 PM
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But he didn’t protect or rescue anyone……he quite literally only lived out his own violent behaviors. Can you really not see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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What has any of that to do with „soulmates“? And that: „The nucleus contains the 46 chromosomes that carry the 20,000 or so genes that comprise the human genetic code. Each skin cell nucleus was placed in a healthy donor egg that had its own nucleus removed.“ is not „making“ an eggcell, it’s trying to change out the dna of an eggcell. It also did not work, as the ones they could fertilize ended up with the wrong number of chromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:44 PM
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So post the „scientific support“! Natural principles are perfectly fine tuned because the had billions of years to develop and everything that didn’t work vanished. To belief in „God“ is only pushing the unexplained one stepp further away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:27 PM
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And I want to know what this study is, Link it! And who „makes“ eggcells in laboratories? Link that too!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:19 PM
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What the fuck is eben a „soulmate“? Thats another fairytale. No, not everybody can reproduce……what kind of bs is this? If everybody could, why are there so many who stay chillest even with all the intervention we have today? Then infertile women shouldnt be attractive…..but many are. What kind of religious brain rot is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:16 PM
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So „soulmates“ are now based on „attraction“ or fertility? Does that mean that infertile people don’t have attraction? What about all the couples who can’t have kids? What kind of study is that supposed to be? Claims like this make me think you are 15 years old. Eggcells can’t be „made“….who told you that fairytail? By far not everyone can reproduce. And women are the limiting factor as in on average a woman can produce one child per year (yeah twins exist but they are rare)……like you do know a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:05 PM
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Whats the Biologie you are basing that on? All Religion tries to overthrow biologie, all the time. And no……women are the limiting factor to reproduction…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:49 PM
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You simply don’t live in reality……what does it mean when 106 boys want to couple up with 100 girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:15 PM
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Thats even less of a point then, is it. Nobody rescued a woman in your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:11 PM
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If you don’t intent to date a fetus, you will have to live with the ratio at birth. And that is 5 to 6 % less girls, in countries without sex selective abortions and more then 20% less in countries where there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:03 PM
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So nature is the variable you want to take out…… And you will not see it, if you don’t look at the numbers. This is crazy, you Cover your eyes and scream „I can’t see“.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:54 PM
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So you want to force women after all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:52 PM
2

What are these „other variables“ in your mind? You never felt it because you don’t look at the numbers…..what country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:48 PM
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Biologically speaking only a small number of fertile men is supposed to couple……religion tries to overthrow Biologie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:44 PM
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Men should have control over what women like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:43 PM
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What do you mean it’s not how it’s naturally supposed to be? It absolutely is exactly that. And there are „more women“ in the US because there are old women. Like have you never looked at a population pyramid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:38 PM
4

So when women tend to like the same then its structural? But it can’t be that women just like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:35 PM
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How is that a fallacy? You say all women you know decided against you and you are not content with that. Personal choices can exactly how be structural?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:26 PM
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Nope, without any intervention the „natural“ ratio is 100 girls to 105/106 boys at birth. In countries where there is intervention it goes up to a ratio of 100 girls to over 120 boys. Scaled up to the population of a countrie there are millions less women. In countries without intervention the ratio equals out around 50 to 55 years of age. In countries with Intervention it doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:24 PM
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So some women are allowed to have choice but not all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:09 PM
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So you don’t realize that you can’t critique one without critiquing the other…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:08 PM
2

You do not have to……girl are you seriously saying you can’t find some guy to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:05 PM
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No it’s not a „right“ because rights get legislated. You don’t want a law to make women like you? Or do you? It’s not structural, as there is no rule that make all women decide against you. And yes, it’s a personal choice. The girl next door deciding not to date you, does not harm you. And by the way, more men are struggeling because there are more men then women up to an age of like 50 to 55…….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:03 PM
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But don’t you see that you critique that the women are allowed to not choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:54 AM
3

You said that you have „the right to be liked“. So what about that „right“ if just nobody likes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:41 AM
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It absolutely has…..it’s the free will of women not to want you and thats what you have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:39 AM
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The Choice of women disadvantages you…..your problem in reality is, that you are not guaranteed a slave…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:37 AM
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So you want to force someone to „like“ you. You are nuts and I fear thats your problem……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:30 AM
7

So you beliefe you have the right to be liked by individual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:06 AM
6

You are discriminated how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:30 AM
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So your problem is that women don’t like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:32 AM
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That wasn’t my question but why exactly men had womens rights to give? And what is that video supposed to mean? And did you go an google introspection yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:50 AM
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You are not going to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:28 AM
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Men fighting men is not rescueing women. And lets imagine the story you linked is true and the boy did rape the girl, then neither the police nor the other guy rescued her from anything. She was still raped and is still not believed. Are you freaking serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:25 AM
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So you don’t understand introspection then? Is it that? And what is it now about us German women and traditionell men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:54 AM
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Ohhh for fucks sake you give us rights? Why do you have „womens rights to give“? Or who has them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:51 AM
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Your take about Jassica Valenti is quite disingenuous or you didn’t read more then the headline. And as german women….how are we complaining about men specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:38 AM
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Men don’t rescue women though….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:32 AM
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For fun: what is your persived „disadvantage“ and what do These women have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:19 AM
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So then go and date….whats stoping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:14 AM
2

It absolutely should be explained…. I find you guys like truly amusing……especially when you talk about tall. I had one of you once explain to me that my husband was „tall“…..while he is average hight for where we live. It’s the same with „attractive“……what the fuck is attractive to you? It’s most likely not the same as whats attractive to me and even more unclear is „social status“. It’s a fact that most men find partners. Is it maybe a bit more complicated then 50 years ago? Yes. But it’s far f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:47 PM
2

So not all women look for tall, attractive with social status….. Next question: what do you deem as tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:21 PM
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Do you think only tall, attractive men with social status have girlfriends or wifes? Yes? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:00 PM
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That is not how any of this works but nice try…….the fact remains that the biggest perpetrator group is intimate partners. And to try and equalize inanimate objects with criminals ist nothing but nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:48 PM
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Men do not broadcast that they are abusive……what du you believe women should look for in that regard? And no, the bar is in hell…..You do not need to be „tall, attractive and display social status“ to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:44 PM
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You don’t see reality….your claim was women would look for „tall, attractive and display social status“ but most women don’t. And neither the tall, attractive types with social status nor the guys without all that are safe and guys like Brian Laundrie show that. On top of that, abusive men don’t broadcast that they will turn abusive. What do you imagine you can look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:08 AM
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It’s silly to ignore the numbers….but thats the only thing you do. It’s silly to try and bring car accident numbers into this. Like more people die of natural causes then of car accidents….do car accident deaths now not matter anymore and we can abandon all safety measures? That would be dumb and even you have to admit that….or maybe you don’t, as common sense is not a strong suite of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:28 AM
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Because the notion of „stranger danger“ is still drilled into girls…..the patriarchy has to do that or even more women will choose to stay clear of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:55 AM
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It does mean that men, especially those in a womans house, are the biggest thread to her. You can try to explain it away, it doesnt change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:50 AM
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It absolutely does……no one is Safe and if you look at the guys, who we know killed wifes or girlfriends, you see that. Look at guys like Bian Laundrie …. Not tall, no hair and no social status. When you say these things, it makes so clear how divorced from reality you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:47 AM
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Babes, no man is „safe“…..like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:15 PM
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34 %…..it’s the biggest perpetrator group. Honorable mentions go to family members (father/brother/son) with 16%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:57 PM
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Oh sweetheart, sweet summer child……maybe you want to go and look up what occupations most perpetrators have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:40 PM
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You believe these men tell their dates that they will beat or kill them later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:38 PM
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And there we have it……I don’t kill my husband……
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:42 PM
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It proves that violent male behavior is the problem and that male intimate partners are not protectors but the biggest thread to womens safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:58 PM
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You do realize, that you want women to fix mens problems or be subjugated and then you wonder why women say „fuck that“?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:27 AM
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I do know, thats how I know. Yes you can use the company fridge or, if you are extra iffi, you can use a insulated bag with ice packs. And in most countries moms have the legal right to pump milk at work and organize work around that….even the US has that. But and that even more important…..I didn’t breath a word about the new mom working…..I said she could pump and daddy can give bottles, for example at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:45 PM
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We established that the hormon oxytocin works in men and women and does the same. Also the pump is highly practical if you are working….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:18 PM
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Nope, the reason we are Talking about bonding is your claim that „the baby is essentially Stuck to the mother 24/7. The baby needs a lot of attention and affection from the mother.“ And that is false, the Baby needs care givers who bond with baby…..the sex of the caregiver does not matter. And your persistent try, to ignore pumps and formula and all the reasons both are used, makes you really dishonest. But what to expect you seemingly also think doing women things makes you somehow less masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:13 AM
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Yes, the bonding hormon, thats the same for men and women. And yes, men and women are interchangeble in taking care of newborns. Women do not have magical abillities men don’t posess. I gonna blow your mind again…..You don’t even need to be biologically relatet to the baby……You are going to get oxytocin anyway and bond with a baby by doing skin to skin and taking care of them……wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:20 AM
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You are wrong because you said there were a „lot of hormones“…. Thats wrong, it’s one thats relevant here, oxytocin. And also „we men don’t have this“…..thats also wrong, You have the exact same hormon. You get it through skin to skin and you also get it through your partners pregnancy: „ men experience significant increases in oxytocin—the "bonding hormone"—during their partner's pregnancy, helping them prepare for fatherhood by fostering nurturing behaviors and emotional closeness. This surge,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:54 AM
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Just glazing over the breastpump as if it doesnt exists…..also there are plenty of women why either can’t or wont breastfeed….. You are absolutely contradicting yourself and like it or not, the baby is not „stuck to the mother“ but to a care giver and nothing stops daddy from being one or even the main care giver. And the whole hormon thing you Write about is fundamentally wrong. Both parents experience a rise in oxytocin while doing skin to skin with baby. While for women oxytocin is also relea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:09 AM
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You contradict yourself saying there is no primary parent but the woman still has to do it all the while there is pumps and formula and skin to skin with the father…….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:15 AM
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Why needs someone to be the mother? After a child is born there is nothing to do with the vagina any more. What exactly stops a father from being the primary parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:14 PM
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The first problem is that you already don’t know what gender roles are….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:11 PM
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Are you new to the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:07 AM
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And they endlessly spew about being „providers and protectors“ which was never true……so can they shut up about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:16 AM
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Ok but can men stop the „provider and protector“ cosplay then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:51 AM
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Which part of my personal experience is „online fuelled horseshit“?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:48 PM
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He didn’t but he left the one he had…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:57 PM
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Of cause not…..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:55 AM
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He allready had a kid and he left said kid……
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:51 AM
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So I had cancer many years ago and Yes, women are warnend. What does that look like? For example a nurse, who might tell you that she saw many female patients be left. For me personally it was my psychologist, who said it in one of my first setions. I live in Germany, usually after cancer treatment you go off to rehabilitation for 3 to 5 weeks. I saw quite some of them getting a text about their partner leaving them and I heard of more coming home after and their partner had moved out without sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:48 PM
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Why do you assume, the fact that your wife has no income and takes all the risks has anything to do with jealousie? Why would anyone be jealouse of someone in that situation? Thats quite literally ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:22 PM
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Why do you try to ignore 99% of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:11 PM
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You have to read the whole sentence….you missed the important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:46 AM
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Are you paying your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:45 AM
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The Investment banker who doesnt know, that he isn’t paying his wife……
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:00 PM
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It’s not me who dislikes facts…..it’s the investment banker, who doesn’t know what relative risk is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:59 PM
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It does not matter if women are constantly pregnant……the risk is calculated per year. If you want to say anything about data, look at them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:57 PM
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Not easier then you……
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:49 AM
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For femizide not being a „real word“ you use it a lot……. You still don’t understand risk catagories and per capita numbers. And if you believe an abortion, that leads to death is somehow not the biggest medical event in that persons life, maybe we have to discuss what „biggest“ even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:48 AM
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Seeing actual risks for what they are is not „victim mantality“…….thinking you somehow are in a riskier position because of other people, sharing your genitals, taking risks though is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:42 AM
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The numbers still don’t apply to you…..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:32 AM
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Babes, that your wife likes to be a doormat, does not change that she took all the risks while you took none or that she could do your role too. But I see why you have to hold up your cognitive dissonance and have to point again and again to the riks other men take but not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:31 AM
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So you don’t want to calculate with your actual risk…….I wonder why. This was fun…..you embody the problem perfektly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:11 AM
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You can’t follow…..I see. Your wife takes all the risks and does all the hard work in your marriage, while you overestimate your own role. Especially since your wife „did the same as you“……so if you would die tomorrow, she would be able to seamlessly assume your role too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:09 AM
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Babes, you don’t even have the number for only men……that I have to tell you that. Also, I know logic isn’t your strong suit, but lets try anyway: what do you think happens when you had the most likely biggest medical event in your life? Do you think, that weakens the body and makes you more prone for catastrophic outcomes of lets say a heart attack? And sure, there are no femizides ….. why don’t you tell that women like Amber Czech or the woman who was shott by her ex at custody exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:02 AM
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Yeah sweety, whats the actuall number for „sitting behind your desk“? You should know, as an investment banker, that you have to calculate with your actual risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:47 AM
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Sure thing……just one question: You do realize that you are in your relationship, what you presume women to be? Yes? No?……you probably don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:45 AM
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Babes, you can’t even differentiate between relative and absolute risk (as an investment banker….) while simultaneously shifting all risk to your wife…..there is only one here overestimating their role and its not your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:08 AM
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Totally, she took the risk of death or disability, while putting her body through the ringer and you sit at a desk behind a screen while whining about hezardous jobs other men have. Clearly acknowledging this risk distribution, would make her „psychopathically selfish and delusional“ 🤡.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:00 AM
2

Well, in your case your wife had the deaths risk and you didn’t but who would look at that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:36 AM
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Are you done crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:52 PM
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Leave it to a man, to tell women that carrying and birthing children is not actually that hard, even when the fucking maternal deaths rate is 22.6/100.000, which is higher then police/law enforcemebt with 11.3/100.000.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:51 PM
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Thats why I have you per capita numbers…..otherwise you can’t compare. But and I can’t stress that enough, even if 12 times the number of men died in workplace accidents, that would still not give you a point. For starters: a lot of those men are single and women die in all the same ways but then also, they are killed by partners/expartners or just men who hate women. None of that changes that a lot of men don’t show enough effort at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:45 PM
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I implore you to learn what per capita means and that men and women die from workplace injury from that……and are you trying to say men have it hard because of „deaths though criminal enterprises“? While ignoring how many women are killed by their abusive partner or expartner? You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:28 PM
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Oh babes, 22.6 maternal deaths per 100.000 life births in 2022 but 3.7 deaths through workplace injury per 100.000 workers overall (men and women) in 2022……..maternal deaths are likely way up now, but we wouldnt know, because the Gouvernement is giving it all to dismantle the boards who track that. And we didn’t even speak about femizides…..so cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:55 PM
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Well it’s a problem that many men don’t put in appropriate effort but what can we do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:25 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:16 PM
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So I hope you send a group text to your buddies every time you touch your morning wood…..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:15 PM
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Thats a trope…..like that husbands hate their wives….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:02 AM
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Because they might have very different behavior and personalities? I have a sister, we have the same parents, we are not twins but looked in our childhood/youth so much alike, that we were often mistaken for twins. But our behavior and personalities were and are very different…..that absolutely led to us being treated very different not only by family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:10 AM
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Well, you have convinced me with your impeccable arguments and I come to the conclusion that 95% of men are real trash. Do you have other news?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
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Again….why exactly should I do that? You realize you are going round and round?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:24 PM
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You mean they werent punishable…. And no, of cause women fought for laws they didn’t even need…..dear god.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:19 PM
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What exactly wasn’t „a public case“? And why do you think women fought for laws like that rape in marriage become a crime, age of consent, that marrying the victim of a rape would not nullify the crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:55 PM
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Reality….just go and look up since when rape in marriage is a criminal offense in your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:24 PM
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What makes you think I would go on dates with someone I wasn’t interested in initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:23 PM
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That is cognitive dissonance…..if they acknowledge that their husbands were „rapey“, the have also to recognise that they were voctims and often are still today. Thats very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:24 PM
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I am not holding your hand when I say this, but did it occure to you that a lot of „sex“ in the past wasn‘t sex but rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:13 PM
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45000 applicants from whom they picked 96 people…..what exactly is nicht a huge pool here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:48 AM
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So did you ever hear of the Reality Show „Married at First Sight“? I Imagine thats how that would go. In my country they had 60 weddings over the years and 51 divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:47 AM
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Where? And how are the divorce laws and societal expectations there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:40 AM
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You do realize that the purpose of a date is to get to know each other a little, so you can deside if you „like the guy“?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:51 PM
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If you think so…..You don’t have to be married to me or date me, so I am not quite sure why that is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:49 PM
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I am not sure if you know what „if“ means….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:47 PM
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Why? I am married now but even my husband would not dream of going out with me and not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:18 AM
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You said yourself, that you couldnt be friends with her anymore…… Thats the usuall outcome if you date a friend and it doesnt go well, you can’t be friends anymore….. If I would ask someone out, I would pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:04 PM
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You do realize that you just proofed my point? Someone who wants to date you isn’t your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:13 PM
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The date that I had to pay for would not happen…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:11 PM
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A guy who wants to date me isn’t my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:51 PM
2

You do realize that you are saying because men desire me, I should pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:44 PM
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No it’s not ok……and if you want to be friends, then don’t call it a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:32 PM
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You really have to let that thoughtprocess think in….guy asks me for a date, I say Yes and give him what he wanted, a date but if the date is bad now I have to pay for what the guy wanted……
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:29 PM
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Babes I insist on nothing……no man ever was forced to date me…..I just don’t see why I should get stuck with the bill for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:14 PM
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So a guy asks me out on a date, which should make it an automatism that he pays, then the date is bad and now I have to pay because it was a bad date? Are you for fucking real?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:10 PM
5

Why exactly should I pay for the man wanting a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:49 PM
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How about don’t date if you actually want a sexworker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:47 PM
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If he wants reciprocation in that sense, he should visit a sexworker…..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:45 PM
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Paying for dinner doesn’t take away my right to my body. By the way, you are not obligated to pay for dinner…….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:39 PM
1

I am saying to belief women are „incentivised“ to leave marriages is really dumb and you brought nothing to back up that claim. I am also saying especially for „lower class“ people marriage is much more important because it brings legal advantages you would not have otherwise. There is nothing secure about just a relationship. To ignore that is ideocy. Especially as the things you have your panties in a twist about is not something „lower class“ people ever have to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:34 PM
1

You are an idiot if you believe that….. What exactly does „modern marriage“ Not do security wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:16 PM
1

What about „legal marriage“ makes a mans life harder exactly? What would the „legally privileged party“ be? Whats exactly this „legal privilege“?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:59 PM
1

If you love someone, you want them secure. Why would you want to make their life harder then necessary? What exactly would be the „nice privileged position“ you are imagening?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:25 PM
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Dear fucking god, no marriage is not a business deal BUT you want the person you love secure and with all advantages. Not everything can be regulated in the same way outside of marriage and to most people financial things matter a lot as well as legal matters like who can make medical decisions or who is the legal parent of kids…… And no, my husband and I don’t have a pre nup and I actually believe that like 85% of people don’t need one because the law regulates everything pretty clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:38 PM
2

What do you mean? You think having survivors benefits or not having them is negligeable? Having health insurance or not is negligeable? Having authority as next of kin or not? Having inheritance rights or not? Having to pay taxes on that or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:25 PM
2

They are not negligeable and only some can be done by other means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:20 PM
1

No, it means a lot, in a lot of circumstances. You do know that legal rights come from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:57 PM
1

If you love them and marry them, it’s marrying for love. If you don’t love them but marry them anyway for whatever reason, then its for other reasons.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:54 PM
1

No it’s not…..If you love someone, you don’t want them to have all the rights and benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:41 PM
0

„Secure“ doesn’t mean nobody can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:40 PM
2

There is no such thing as „divorce rape“ there are only people who like to get things out of a partnership but don’t want to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:39 PM
1

Nope, secure the legal rights of your partner like surviver benefits and inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:37 PM
0

Yeah no, if you are actually in love but not willing to secure your partner with marriage than you are not really in love at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:12 PM
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And you know that because you yourself have been in so many long Term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:07 PM
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No babes, you are but you could ram Head first into it and you still wouldnt see…..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:58 AM
1

What? Your own op says otherwise……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:03 AM
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You are as delusional as op is…..You don’t even see thats your delusion on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:02 AM
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Ok, lets go step by step here: do men know that pregnancy can occure despite contraception?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:55 AM
2

Nice how you distract…….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:38 AM
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I disagree with all of it. It starts with comparing average „single men“ with average „single mothers“. Why exactly are you doing that? Because you like to „compare“ whats not compareble. By the way, you start of by ignoring 3/4 of the equation. Your average „single man“ has been a child before. You know these little humans, who go to kindergarden and school, which is mostly tax payer funded. Maybe he was even the child of a low income family or a „single mother“ (its funny how none you would ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:27 AM
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No, men are held liable for their own choices…..that goes right back to the reproductive rights men don’t want to acknowledge. I know the hard part for you is that other people have rights in this equation, not only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:49 AM
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Correct because they are not the ones pregnant……so what you really want to say is „men can’t overrule the womans right over her own body and mandate an abortion for another human“.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:33 AM
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Men don’t want to acknowledge their reproductive rights is more like it…..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:28 AM
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Ähhhhm you compare apples to suspension bridges…….
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:20 AM
3

Well of cause there is…..it’s the absent „father“.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:16 AM
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So the guys who abandon their kids …..do they have some kind of marker? Is it written on their forheads or something? And „don’t get pregnant at all“ …. are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:41 AM
1

And with who do those women fuck? It’s the fairies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:38 AM
2

Because the kids of single moms were brought by the fairies…..not like there actually was a father, no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:27 AM
5

Well chemical castration is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:36 PM
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No I worldnt say flashing someone is cheating……it’s Not something you should do but not cheating. I fear you don’t understand nude beaches…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:22 PM
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Why exactly would anyone want to police mens chlothing? I really don’t care what you are wearing….have fun. And whats your problem with nude beaches? People who go there are fine with other people seeing them naked. And why would that be considered cheating? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:50 PM
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Poor people very often have no access to family planing, abortion or a sense of choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:20 PM
1

So I am not from Afrika but it seems like common sense that they are expensive there to……why wouldnt they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:52 PM
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Kids are also expensive in nordic countries……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:00 PM
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The difference between sexually relevant and sexually apealing and why women don’t actually want to sleep with Bonobos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:05 AM
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I skimmed over that my bad but you just didn’t read all that was said before? And you make „women always orgasm from sa“ out of „sometimes genitals responding……sometimes even have an orgasm“ …… thats crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:10 AM
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So I just skimmed over these articles but you do realize that they don’t say remotly what you describe in the op, right? Your „unwanted arousel“ articles don’t talk about orgasms at all, but about lubrication and no, thats not the same. They also don’t speak on sa but why women may get wet when they actually don’t feel like having sex or from stimuli outside of what „normally turns them on“. I don’t see how you make your conclusions from this!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:29 AM
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No…….I would like to know where you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:22 AM
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Ähm…..what? Do you have examples for these articles?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:10 AM
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So Basic Bob wants to investigate a Girls past, wants to control her communication, still wants a paternity test for no reason, wants kids but doesn’t want to give the wife anything in case of divorce and on top of all that, that he pays for coffee is to much to ask…..I think Bob is better off with a sex doll because Bob doesn’t want to be with a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:51 PM
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I explizites said before the war…..37.8 was 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:56 AM
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Ukraine had about 44 million inhabitants before the war. Round about 5,8 million people fled Ukraine and about half of them are women, so like 2,9 million of those are women but through all ages. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:28 PM
4

Then men who don’t volunteer are also not loyal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:15 PM
6

Which is faulting women and how are These women exactly not „loyal to their nation“?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:15 AM
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But whats your reason to fault women for circumstances in Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:46 AM
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I can’t believe that I have to tell you this but here we are: you can’t make it even. It starts with the fact that there are not enough women on this planet to go around. And even if there were, a lot of them don’t like men or don’t like relationships at all. You need for a partner doesnt trump the need of women for selftermination.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:00 AM
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Did you ever consider that not all people are the same as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:02 PM
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Thats your first mistake, there are not as many women as there are men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:10 PM
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How many married 15 to 18 year olds should there be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:00 PM
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Do you take single and unmarried as the same? And you are aware that the oldest gen z turn 30 this year but also the medium marriage age is 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:39 AM
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You have found that 63% of men are single? Not 62?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:36 AM
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Yes, you are shaming women for their kinks……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:12 PM
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If you like……You still don’t understand that if 65% of violent porn get consumed by women, that does not mean that the majority of women like violent porn or rape fantasies or whatever. Do you understand the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:25 AM
1

Whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:22 AM
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How is this shaming? I imagine you are in bed with a girl, she tells you what she likes and you start up with „this is against feminism“…..I would say the one shaming is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:22 AM
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And you don’t understand how statistics work…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:08 AM
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You must be fun at parties……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:01 AM
1

You deny that driving a car can lead great harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:01 AM
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So is driving a car…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:29 AM
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I got that but have you tried to say „I don’t want to do this“ and then not doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:26 AM
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The „layer of saperation“ would be that you need a second person to consent……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:18 AM
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So thats not my kind of thing but I would believe thats a type of bdsm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:17 AM
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Why are you condamn peoples kinks? Its not for you and that is fine but leave others alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:16 AM
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Why wouldnt it be ok if both consent? The more I read of you, the more I believe you have the problem and you should abstain from that kind of play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:13 AM
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Have you tried to find women in Spaces where they would typically search for a pleasur dom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:53 AM
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So what is that? In a first Person Shooter you play out to kill people but you don’t really do. In cnc you play out raping someone but you don’t really do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:50 AM
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So you don’t See the difference that in cnc she actually consented and in rape she didn’t…..this is quite concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:42 AM
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Is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:37 AM
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So you like video games? First Person Shooter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:33 AM
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It’s disconnected that women want to do in bed what they like? Like you do see the difference between cnc and rape? You do? Don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:27 AM
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So what is exactly your problem? That women tell you what they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:15 AM
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That also depends very much…..but sure, most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:36 PM
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It is in the big picture but today, there are benefits for women to it. If you have kids, then its really the only protection you get as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:32 PM
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That depends….in my country there are very real legal benefits to marriage for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:04 PM
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So whats your point then at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:40 PM
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But most do…….you just don’t acknowlege societal pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:17 PM
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You are not under the impression that most women perfom femininity, even today? And that they are harshly punished if they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:27 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:20 PM
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Sure but when you are told from the cradle, that that is what you should want and should do, its more like a „directed decision“.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:23 AM
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Have you ever done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:21 PM
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Surrogacy is illegale in lots of countries (Germany, France, Spain, Italy to just name a few) and only altruistic, as in not paid, legal in others (UK for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:52 PM
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Something like that…..but I think it’s much deeper ingrained. Like where I grew up marriage is not that important in a romantic sense and still I remember that I was bombarded with it since I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:15 PM
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There is the brain washing on one hand. As a girl you are told your whole life that getting married is incredebly important and what you should want. And on the other hand, there are very real legal consequences to marriage that you might need in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:21 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:36 AM
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Gotten to what? That women say this put loud? Or that men still don’t participate equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:35 AM
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Humans don’t „pair bond“ …. we are not birds. There is a fundamental difference between „two parent cohabitation“ and „group living“ because of „the village“ that played a big role in bringing up the children. Nothing about that is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:10 AM
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Like all…..we know from Codex Ur Nammu and Codex Hamurabi that marriage was a contract between father of the bride and groom. The woman was neither party to the contract nor was her consent necessary. From antique greece we know that marriage was between the guardian of the woman and the man. From antique Rome we know marriage was a contract between the pater familias of both families…..because even if you were a man, you didn’t have the legal power over yourself before your father/grandfather d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:12 PM
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So no nuclear family……
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:29 PM
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For far longer it wasnt a contract between two people …. a lot of the time, the two people were not even party to the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:39 PM
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Marriage is absolutely unnatural……the two parent cohabitation is very new.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:37 PM
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Well you didn’t go to school? You don’t use roads? You can’t call the police or fire department if you need it? There are no Gouvernement services you use? Nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:52 PM
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Mum is more „effective“ because she does it while you don’t. That is exactly the Type of useless dad I descriped…..they are the reason for „one and done“ because women don’t fall for this shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:00 AM
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So wait kids are glued to their mother but taking them over night is short term and no problem….so what keeps fathers from doing the same amount of childcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:46 AM
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Over night isn’t „short term“ but also nobody said „take the kid away from mom for 3 days“……what was actually said is change diapers, do baths and get up at night sometimes but that is already to much for you. Legally a man can stay home for 3 years here, just like a woman…….but nobody said every man has to. What was actually said? There are 2 months only the dad can take off and there is much more time off available but men don’t even want to take those 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:44 AM
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Well I had my niece over Night the first time when she was 6 weeks old and from then every second weekend. She wasnt glued to her mom or her dad for that matter. If you think, that a dad can’t take the baby for 6 months, then you are one of the useless once. Thats right…..2 months isn’t a year. Your Job in that time is explicitly to bond with baby and look after mom. But like i said, dads could take off much more time. Up to 3 years actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:48 PM
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No kid is glued to their mother….if nothing else you can change diapers and do baths. Yes women take off work but here men do to……in Germany we have 2 months that only the dad can take off but only few do. But they could take off much more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:12 PM
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Well thats fiction…..I speak about real liefe. And thats what I meant with „useless father“ from the start. They are there and they say they will do everything before the baby is there ….. but then it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:25 PM
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Yeah no……not what I see at all. I had this conversation just last weekend. The couple in question are together for more then 10 years, they both have very good jobs, they are married and bought a house last year. They planed everything out and before baby agreed everything would be 50:50 but it is not. The best he can do is hold the kid for 10 minutes thats all. They wanted 3 at least and now would be the time to try for the next but she now says „no way!“. He wants more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:07 PM
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What is a „suitable man“ in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:18 AM
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Thats so interesting because your birthrate is 1,44 and only a little higher then 1,39 in Germany…….are you under the impression that people are going to have more kids again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:34 AM
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Thats cool…..where do you live though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:11 PM
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You can go on YouTube and look at them…..illustrats hilariously that so many fathers, young and old, literally know nothing about their kids. Not their birthdays, not their middle names, not their schools or anything else really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:02 PM
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Did you ever watch the „dad videos“ from the Kimmel Show?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:49 PM
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The majority of fathers in the US gets up at night with baby? Takes half of sick days for baby? Goes to half of doctors apointments with baby? And so on? Really? I seem to recall that statistics Point a very different picture….
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:04 PM
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Thanks! This always makes me nuts!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:17 AM
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Because they very often don’t…..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:14 AM
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Nope…….this is anecdotal but I have so many girlfriends with 1 child and a useless father to the child. They all came to the same conclusion of „no more kids because I wont do that alone again“. And then there is a bunch of them, that see this and realize there partners would be like that and they then don’t want any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:12 AM
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So you have the right to your body but I shall not have the right to mine. And no, the church is not „pro life“……they are only pro birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:01 PM
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So what are monks? If they respect Mary or don’t doesn’t really matter for the exclusion of women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:59 PM
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Nope all of These are fundamental christians and they try to control the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:57 PM
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Well they do…….who do you think is behind the fall of roe v. wade? Who do you think tries everything to get the „bible back into classrooms“? Who do you think is advocating against womens sufferage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:08 PM
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Organized religion all around the world is currently fighting to keep and widen their grip on people. No matter where you are looking … fundamental christians in the US are not any better then the taliban in Afghanistan. And the do everything to get back into power. How can I not care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:56 PM
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Women cant get into any leading position in the cathlic church.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:48 AM
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Upps sorry, I am married for nearly a decade…….he is just not an asshole, who thinks I am here to be his mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:23 AM
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My guy, why do men leave their children to be taken care of by women? In a relationship and outside of it? And what exactly is there to adress? You have a whole villain movie in your Head without any ties to reality. If you had a child, that child must still be taken care of when you separate. If it’s a small child, you will either have to pay the mother for that or a child care provider or you will have to do it yourself. No matter how, it will cost you Money and a lot of it. Because children c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:16 AM
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Baby Bear, again you can’t just pull Numbers out of your Ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:27 PM
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At what point? You didn’t make a statement, you didn’t back anything up. I still pointed you to where you can read why the statement of the other guy is wrong. So read it or leave it or stay delusionel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:36 PM
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For sure…..women have rights now and men really don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:52 PM
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So now you just plainly pull Numbers out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:49 PM
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Of the 40% across the workforce includes engeeners but it doesnt mean what you beleave it means and I explained why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:27 AM
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You must be trolling…..it’s 25,8%/27,8%. Your own link says it. „Just 18.5% of engineering and technology first degree undergraduate entrants were women, which is low compared to 56.5% of students across all subjects. Representation was higher on engineering and technology postgraduate courses (25.8% of students on taught courses and 27.8% on research courses were women) but remained much lower than in the total student population“
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:25 AM
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If it’s so exaggerated then you do it…..or you have to pay for it 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:53 AM
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„Sorry, we couldn't find that page“ Now you are just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:51 AM
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BHP absolutly counts and you were wrong on them. I showed you exactly what I said before. And all You do is deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:49 AM
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And just for shits and gigles I looked up the numbers for the UK. While only about 24 % of engeneering degrees in the UK go to women, it’s 63% of design degrees so that filling 40% of engeneering AND design roles with women is really not far fetched. Arup also has a shit loss of Job openings, so obviously they can’t fill the jobs at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:56 AM
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Baby Bear……we discussed a specific example, which was BHP. You can not refute me with totally different Companies. Are you really not able to compute?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:47 AM
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You are to dump to understand what they say. Lets make an easy example: lets say they have 100 employees. They say 40 of the 100 need to be women and 40 need to be men. Lets say they have 10 engeneers and 35 mine workers and 25 office workers, 15 truckers, 10 cleaners and 5 accountants. They do not say, that 40% of the engeneers need to be women and 40% of the mine workers and so on. THAT IS NO WHERE TO BE FOUND. In Reality they say, if we have 25 office workers, 8 cleaners, 2 accountants, 3 tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:01 AM
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„In 2016, we set an aspirational goal to achieve a gender balanced global employee workforce by the end of CY2025. We define gender balance as a minimum 40 per cent women and 40 per cent men, in line with the definitions used by entities such as the International Labour Organization.“ Across their whole workforce…..there are many more tolles then being an egeneer and they don’t even aspire 50:50.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:27 AM
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It does not say that…. If you believe it to be otherwise, the show me the offical announcement for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:09 AM
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You are done because you are wrong……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:16 AM
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You delusion doesn’t make it true….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:15 AM
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You still don’t understand quotas….go and be a victim somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:15 AM
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Are there only engeneers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:01 PM
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Where do quotas exist? For jobs with degrees. There are no quotas for the cleaning crew or the mail men. Women, for decades now, attain more degrees but are still not equally represented in those jobs. Thats why there are quotas because there are often even more qualified female candidates then male candidates but still men are preferred. Quotas don’t make it so, that a none qualified woman is employed instead of a qualified man but that qualified women are not rejected because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:01 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:49 PM
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Thats not a statement but a question 😉.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:20 PM
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Where is the child care machine? Where? When you have down making kids and raising them a 100 % without women, we can talk. Until then you have nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:51 PM
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Not at all…..you neither made a statement, nor did you back that up. But still you can read…..if you can’t, nobody can help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:31 PM
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You mean you managed to understand nothing……big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:44 PM
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„50/50 gender balance across all employees by 2025“ Do they only employ engeneers? „BHP (Mining & Engineering) Quota/Target: Announced a goal of 50% female workforce by 2025 (including engineers).“ Again 50% workforce…..are there only engeneers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:43 PM
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So none says they hire 50% in engeneering…..Great talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:35 AM
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Show me the quota for engeneering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:42 AM
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Thats still not how quotas work….are you not capable of working out quotas? And still many more women have degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:03 AM
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How is it „handing over“ if the other, better qualified half of the population gets one seat? What exactly is handed over here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:44 AM
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Yeah men get less then 40 % of degrees…..that they then shall have 50% of workplaces ist actually preferring men…..but math is not you strong suit, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:42 AM
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That wasn‘t my point….my point was that women not being allowed to say anything when they get abused, because thats misandry and that makes misogynie worse, is abuse in it’s self.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:38 AM
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Oh I did explain for him….but he made a statement and did at least try to back it up…..you didn’t even come that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:34 AM
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Maybe your argument wasnt a good one….was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:33 AM
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Yeah exactly, you want to creat a whole new level of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:42 PM
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Anecdotes don’t make a general trend…….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:33 PM
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Again, read what I told the other clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:27 PM
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So you don’t have a statement and can’t back the statement someone else made up……Great conversation. But you can read what I auswered to the original commenter. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:53 PM
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Oh babes…..do we have quotas mostly for jobs you would need a derer for? Don’t women hold more then 60% of degrees? Is the aspiration for 50:50 not still preferring men because they can only be less then 40% of candidates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:51 PM
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You get that from what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:49 PM
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How is it „funded by everyone through taxes“ but also „everyone with wealth“? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:48 PM
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Thats funny coming from someone who doesn’t Even make his own statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:59 PM
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I don’t disagree quotas exist but for what kind of jobs do we have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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So you get that your answer is a requesit for mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:34 PM
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I will, but we need groundwork to get there. So where do we have quotas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:29 PM
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„Washing machines, dish washers, stoves, hot water, vacuums, TVs, and laptops to babysit the kids, and so on" Thats not child care sweety……where is the machine that gets up at night and Feeds and changes the baby? Where is the one that takes care of the sick child? Which one attends doctors appointments? And so on and so on? „That's assuming the absolute majority of women do not break up their marriages for absolutely degenerate reasons“ The reason for a breakup has nothing to do with any of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:14 PM
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Yeah, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:02 PM
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Where do we have quotas babes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:02 PM
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Babes, the school system is made by men for boys and still run by men today……if you are still outperformed, may that one be on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:56 PM
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No babes, we need not to punish women for their potential to have kids and not hire them for that even when they are the most qualified candidate. I think it would really benefit you to first understand what a quota even is. By the way, the quotas still don’t stop men being preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:54 PM
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Thats a reason to not employ them even if they are the Most qualified candidate……are you somehow not all the way here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:45 PM
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Yes exactly……for young women it is often the speculation that they might marry and have kids soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:36 PM
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So you didnt. „The Court of Appeals' opinion, and the partial dissent, agreed that, on the record in the present case, "whites register far better on the Company's alternative requirements" than Negroes. This consequence would appear to be directly traceable to race. Basic intelligence must have the means of articulation to manifest itself fairly in a testing process. Because they are Negroes, petitioners have long received inferior education in segregated schools, and this Court expressly recog…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:35 PM
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Would It be or might these people include other factors then just qualifications? Take a guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:05 PM
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You don’t understand how quotas work. It’s for „unqualified“ people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:04 PM
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It did happen in the past but you guys dream to much of being the top predator while being pray. But hey, tell me when you guys have procreation down without women and are able to do all the work women do, paid and unpaid on top of what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:56 PM
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Great, show me the childcare mashine. Id love to have one. Until then…..custody/child support and mostly alimony are decided in the best interest of the child. It’s usually not in the best interest of the child to give them to someone who did not care for them when mommy and daddy were still together. You guys make the decision to want the woman to do Most of the care taking but you don’t want to pay for that work. Bad boys. But this is easily solved. Stay home half the time, do half of the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:52 PM
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Did You Read your Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:45 PM
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You mean my university Professor with 30 years of experience had no clue? He is a man……
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:39 PM
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Why was it not handing over when only straight, white men had a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:37 PM
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It absolutely does and that men are the minority in collage is actually the reason behind it but you don’t get that, because you don’t understand how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:20 PM
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That correct but you want affirmative action for men without the reason for affirmative action.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:18 PM
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Thats still not how quotas work but go on…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:16 PM
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Because misogynie. The same reason one of my professors told us in the first semester that as women, we needed a doctorate to not be the designated barrista for men with the same degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:15 PM
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But didn’t you argue everyone has to be a plumber first? Rules for thee but not for me, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:11 PM
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You make no sense to my question. Try again!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:10 PM
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Thats a whole lot of words when all you wanted to say was „women are not people the same way men are“. And you are still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:09 PM
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You do understand why women and minorities were held back from higher education in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:56 PM
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Sorry my guy but you can‘t possibly discuss all your grievences in depth at once. We will have to go point by point. So who do you think is the primary caregiver for a child most of the time and who stays home for the children most of the time and might that be the reason for those outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:55 PM
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Are men held back from collage because they have penisses?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:43 PM
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You spelled „evil men“ wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:40 PM
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Oh you don’t know how discussions work…..you make a statement, then it’s on you to back that up. But it’s Not even your statement……
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:39 PM
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So how Long have you been a plumber?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:38 PM
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Oh wait, the school system that was made by men for boys doesn’t work for them? Seems like men did a bad job but are still the ones running the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:26 PM
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You mean equal footing is „handing over“? How was it then not „handing over“ before anyone else but the white, straight male had a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:24 PM
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What‘s „handing over“ about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:23 PM
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When people are Not give the Same chances because they are women or black or disabled and so on, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 PM
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Lets start here: why do you believe the family courts to be rigged?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:20 PM
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Because all men have to be plumbers before they are allowed to be anything else…..thats not how that works, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:19 PM
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I think the same about that comment and you…..you guys don’t even know how quotas work but you still think it’s „anti male“.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:18 PM
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Oh babes, why did the Gouvernement have our rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:17 PM
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What „attributes“ do women lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:16 PM
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Are they? Or do they make it so that women for example are not excluded because they are women without looking at their qualifications?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:15 PM
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At what point did „daddy gouvernment“ hand anything over?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
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Than these men should go an make an OF account…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:59 PM
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At what point is it „female supremacy“?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:58 PM
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They don’t need preferential treatment but fair treatment…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:57 PM
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Who exactly „designed schools for women“ and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:05 PM
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The other half of the population wants to partake equally……thats anti male!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:04 PM
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Men repeatedly yapping about it only shows that it works as intendet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:17 PM
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FICTIONAL chads……be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:13 AM
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You are sorely mistaking, we also like the viking types…… Jokes aside, You do understand that these „men“ are fictional and some of them are actually bats? Oh and 40 year olds absolutely read those books.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:31 AM
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Good for him, that he figured things out before he got into a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:44 AM
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So we are at the point again, where you guys think paying a bill and bodily autonomy is somehow the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:43 PM
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Should a man pay the bill he caused? Yes he should.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:53 PM
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I think showing interest is not the same as seducing…….but if you want to know so bad: you barely have to do anything to „seduce“ a man. Guys usually have their pants off as soon as you hint to be interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:23 PM
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I wouldn’t „approve“ of someone leaving their new born…….that doesnt mean I think they shouldnt have the right to do that. Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:06 AM
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Yeah, is reality a bit much for you? I don’t know why you are guessing and you are wrong. You are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:18 AM
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Because women are the product those clubs actually selling. Ok. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:16 AM
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Ähm men leave pregnant women and even new borns all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:14 AM
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I wouldn‘t call showing interest „seducing“.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:59 PM
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So you say that men are generally expected to approach and pay, that are hoops? Seriously what do you guys actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:38 PM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:39 PM
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I was asking for the hoops…..showing interest in someone you are interested in, is not jumping through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:39 PM
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You still didn’t elaborate what hopps you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:04 AM
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„There should be someone for everyone“…..no and there never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:58 AM
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You mean you have to be appealing to the Person you want to be with? In what why is that a hoop?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:24 AM
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Thats funny…..what hoops?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:52 AM
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Did you read the op and my further comments? It’s Not mens rights op wants ….. it’s that he doesn’t want womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:24 AM
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Pimping is never legal…..go and Look up what that word means. A man doesn’t have the right to override the decision a woman makes for her own body……he has the right to make decisions about his own body. Do you tell the woman that you are spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:06 PM
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So pimping is illegal. I said that your critisism is that women have rights. Nobody said that a date only meant commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:07 PM
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What exactly confuses you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:39 PM
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„Managing“ OF accounts is generally Not pimping. But you said pimping. Don’t you know what that word means? No I don’t. You spoke of a date……a lot of people go on dates without being a couple. And a lot of couples don’t have sex or only rarely. And even if you are a couple a date doesn‘t necessarily mean sex……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:39 PM
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So you understand that pimping is illegal or don’t you understand that? Yes women can choose because it’s their body they choose for……the man can‘t because it’s not about his body. Whats not clicking? What? Do you go on a date and say BEFORE „I only go on a date with you if you sleep with me?“. This is a really long post when all you wanted to say was „I hate women having rights.“
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:48 PM
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The prostitution/only fans……women working for themselves is not the same as pimping……pimping actually is a crime because they control the women (mostly with violence) and take their earnings. Thats straight up illegal because women have rights. The thing with men can do nothing if they want the Baby but the woman wants an abortion……again women have Rights to their own body, the man can not override. Spinning plates/game……is straight up lying about your intentions to get sex. And yeah thats not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:14 PM
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Hey champ quick question…..You do see that all your criticism is about not being allowed to violate other peoples/womens rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:19 AM
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You mean like the Videos he had on the Internet about how to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:15 AM
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By „Game“ you mean lying about your intentions……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:03 AM
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Women staying independent adults is assuming men will be violent…..thats the biggest bull shit I read in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:20 AM
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How is bring an independent adult accusing anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:44 PM
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No, she is prepared for when the situation goes south…..the same way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:29 AM
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It’s not standard according to your own comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:28 AM
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So that is a very specific situation that calls for specific measures according to the law……a little like a paternity test for the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:41 PM
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A drug or alcohol test is mandatory on what kid exactly? But lets assume those were „mandatory“ then all of them would be necessary to treat the child medically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:35 PM
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You can be certain but don’t pretend there is any other reason than you not trusting the mother of your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:27 PM
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What other mandatory tests on kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:26 PM
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Thats what a lot of couples do with fertility treatments…..it’s such a big thing, that there are literal criminal egg farms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:27 AM
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Can you link those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:57 PM
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It is offensive no matter what you say. That doesnt mean that you can’t have one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:22 AM
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No it’s not……men who don’t support that don’t see women as full human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:13 PM
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So wanting the right to your own body is a „endless hysterical demand“?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:09 PM
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Only that trusting women are then told its their own fault if something happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:07 PM
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You just don’t consider the legal facts…….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 PM
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Thats exactly what I said and the oppsit of what you said…….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:06 AM
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So Google says something different…..if a partner resumed financial disadvantages in the marriage, aka staying home for the kids, then they do get alimony in Schweden…….may it be, that it’s only very rare because most women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:14 AM
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So you actually believe SIDS isn’t real? And accidents aren‘t real?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:28 PM
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The „causal factor“ being education…….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:00 PM
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You mean educated women not liking the guy, who wants to take their rights away, is „FAR out of step“? Are you serious ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:47 PM
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What is radicalized about women? Not liking Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:20 PM
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A lot of women don’t want kids or don’t have the right partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:50 PM
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Out of curiosity…..you saw a bunch videos that told you, you could not find a girlfriend without chopping wood?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:06 PM
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Thats all in your head but lets assume this was true….then its still no answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:14 AM
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Why should women date people they are not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:11 PM
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So your what ever she is gaslight you and „women“ should take responsabillity…..yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:06 PM
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So you say all women are gaslighters or I am specifically one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:24 AM
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So maybe you want to tell us what exactly it is women should take responsability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:38 AM
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Under your assumption that women are not attracted to any men……than obviously they shouldn‘t date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:42 AM
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I am married for nearly a decade to a man……it’s all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:11 PM
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Or maybe none at all…..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:53 PM
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How are women the main reason for men to fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:28 PM
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Don’t forget vasectomies…..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:38 AM
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Isnt it illegal to have a baby out of wedlock in Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:37 AM
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In a relationship thats a joint decision…..which is the reason for alimony in those cases. You know you both made the decision, you both get to Bear the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:07 PM
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Of cause there is a reason……it’s that you didnt advance your own ability to have a career and make money for the other partners benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:33 AM
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What you are saying is: If the „weaker“ partner has any rights its suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:12 AM
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No, I said most single mothers didnt want to be single mothers…..big difference. Also you pretend that women would all know when they get pregnant, that they would become single mothers later and that is simply not the case. And thats not even taking into account the abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:11 AM
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Absolutly…..the point is that very very few women Plan to be single mothers. Most plan to raise their kids with a father. That that doesnt happen is at least half the mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:34 AM
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Who do you think becomes a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:24 AM
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I never said they could…..are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:17 AM
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What regret are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:32 AM
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You do understand that men take also Part in this equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:30 AM
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So you don’t look at the fact that most single mothers didnt want to be single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:19 PM
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What do you want to hear? That bone of you even listened to what he had to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:41 PM
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If only some place had already figured that shit out…..oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:14 PM
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Because it already is very normalized….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:42 PM
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So your thing is people should just die….. By the way it’s not unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:32 PM
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Why do so many americans not have insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:48 PM
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To die from cancer or an accident is a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:30 PM
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Free to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:25 PM
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So how would you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:23 PM
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How do you do that as lets say a nurse? You just say fuck earning a living wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:37 AM
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The situation is that one parent has a job, that does not go with child care times……so whats the compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:48 PM
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Ok, you just don’t know what words mean….thats not „shunning“ but cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:41 PM
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How exactly would you shun a majority? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:28 PM
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So what would the compromise here be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:27 PM
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Then how will that practically work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:25 PM
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I know a lot of nurses……especially one who wanted to do that because she is a single mother…..no way for her. But also, lets say she changes to second Shift and now she will not be able to ever pick the kid up or be home in the afternoon. Does that help?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:24 PM
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They can? Where would that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:04 PM
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So then you do want to give a baby to someone who never changed a diaper or gave a bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:55 PM
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Because you text your baby daddy when he didnt change the diaper? Who exactly will witness those behavior usually……This is very naiv.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:41 PM
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What evidence would that be? A List of all the diapers she changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:36 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:14 PM
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So we don’t want to give a child to those guys but we still want default…..what will the mother have to do to change the default?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:51 PM
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So Tell me how this would work: you throw a baby or a toddler on a guy who never changed a diaper or fed said child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:32 PM
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So lets say a nurse will now be able to choose when shifts start?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:21 PM
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So you acknowlege that there are a lot of cases when it wont work. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:20 PM
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So he was at home at least 50% of the time…..thats not what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:48 PM
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You do understand that the stay at home mom is not the obsticle here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:40 PM
3

I think custody should be given according to how much care the parents provided before the split. If men don’t take 50:50 care of their children in a working relationship, they can simply not expect to get 50:50 custody after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:33 PM
3

Dad is a truck driver and away for prolonged periods of time. Parents don’t live close enough for the kids to be able to go to the same school/kindergarden from both parents houses. One parent has a job that starts so early, that child care isn‘t open before they start working. They have multiple small Kids and one parent stayed home to not have to put them into childcare. So the stay at home parent has a years Long happy in their resumee and is probably not able to earn in a way that they could…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:30 PM
2

Ok lets try the real world here…..mom is a stay at home mom and dad is a truck driver, who is regularly away between some days and some weeks. How would they do 50:50?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:21 PM
3

A lot of times it want for practical reasons alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:39 AM
4

In the real world there will a lot of situations when this can just simply not work. Don’t you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:38 AM
1

Problem is that a lot of the time This will not work…..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:23 AM
6

There is no intention to stop it actually the US is currently going backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:12 AM
5

Sexism obviously exists and your post is living proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:04 AM
1

For Royals sure……not for every day people and peasents. And Royals made up like 3% of the population. I did geneology in my own family…..I can go back to like 1650 in some lines and all of them had children before first marriage. Some of those kids would not even take the husbands name, which made it obvious that were fathered by another man. My husband and I are hands down the first couple in centuries who married without being at least very pregnant in my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:11 PM
1

Nope, certainly not. That is just your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:59 PM
1

Where exactly was this „west“ and when do you imagine this was?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:13 AM
1

Did they belief that? I don’t think the majority of the population had any thoughts on that……..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:37 PM
1

Obviously it’s there because the majority of the population thinks that adults can be exploited even if they do things consentually……..interresting that this has to be explained to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:30 PM
1

So why is it there then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:18 PM
1

Why is there a minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:20 AM
1

That also doesnt explain the „Holding accountable“ part and do you deny that men are why this was even possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:30 PM
1

That doesnt make sense with „holding her accountable“ though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:00 PM
1

You try to say this was the same as when someone hurts another person but it’s Not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:29 PM
1

For what exactly do I need a quote from you? You think thats what she feels? I thought she was planing on doing a 1000 men next? She didnt cheat though, did she? If she hurt anyone, she hurt herself and yes, it’s right to look at why someone would hurt themself. It’s funny that you talk about deflection when you are writing such a comment…..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:35 PM
0

I am starting to think that you don’t know the meaning of wrong. Wrong as an adjective means „not correct or true; incorrect“ and as as a noun means „unjust, dishonest, or immoral“……wich is it? So you want to hold her accountable for her feelings? Or for other women looking deeper then just what hits them in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:37 PM
-2

What do you mean with at fault? She didnt do anything that has fault in it? And cant you be exploited even if you do something consentually?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:40 PM
0

What is wrong about it? You didnt answer that. How is it her fault how other women see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:38 PM
2

I don’t know what are you expecting here? What do you think she is not responsable means? Nobody is actually saying she didnt do this consentually?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:25 PM
0

What about her actions was exactly „the wrong thing“? Wrong how exactly? And what kind of accountability are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:19 PM
2

What exactly are you trying to say…..give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:11 AM
1

Why can’t you tell me specific examples here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:08 AM
4

What other countries do what exactly without stripping liberties? So you deny that your whole point is „I don’t like women to have the choice to not be with me“?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:11 PM
6

Absolutely but your argument is „let’s take choice from half the population do we can conserve our civilization“……which would not even be the same civilization anymore because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:58 PM
7

Well, how about men become partners that are worth being with and having children with? How about that kind of accountability? To allow women to reach their potential is not „subsidizing their romantic choices“ by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:26 PM
8

Babes, your whole point of grievance is that women aren’t dependent on you for survival anymore and for that reason can choose to not be with you and not reproduce with you. „I can not hold over her head that she will starve without me.“ thats literally it. That’s not the civilization I want to survive…..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:04 PM
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I just can’t…..you are afraid of other cultures and your solution is to enslave women. If that’s what you think is intellectual and according to your values, I don’t want either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:57 PM
6

There are 8 billion people on earth…..are you really worried about population decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:48 PM
6

What do you think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:07 PM
12

By saying it’s unfair that women don’t have to depend on men for survival anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:58 PM
6

You do know that many people become single parents after wanting and planning a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:56 PM
4

And why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:51 PM
11

What you described is men being frustrated because women are no longer enslaved to them, as women can survive without men now. Is that really what you want to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:49 PM
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No you don’t…..you blame victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:31 AM
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That you don’t see the irony…….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:30 AM
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Ist doesn’t just sound like it…..that’s exactly what they want. Funnily enough so men never have to be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:28 AM
5

You don’t realize that abusive men also lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:25 AM
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So you have literally the same problem women have……where is your accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:23 AM
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Oh dear…..those existed way in the past, not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:06 PM
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In what way exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:26 PM
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Are young men prosecuted for going to college and face like 99 years of prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:26 PM
1

You just equated abuse and hate to wanting to have nothing to do with certain people….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:22 PM
1

The difference is that Andrew Tate doesn’t want to have nothing to do with women…..he want to use and abuse them and that’s the same his followers want to learn. You don’t see a difference here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:57 PM
1

She probably doesn’t want to live with one either or have a close relationship with one. A lot of married women wouldn’t want to live with a man if they could help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:35 PM
1

This one? Yes. She says it so clearly…..no matter what kind of man she just is not into men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:19 PM
0

Ok, explain it to me then….whats the problem with the 16 year old having feelings. At least in that article she never blames men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:11 PM
1

It sounds like she is a lesbian…. „we are not into men“
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:09 PM
4

And I don’t think the 4b ladies say that either. May it be that you lump yourself in with terrible men??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
4

She did not ever say „men were taking her rights away“ in that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
0

The article is literally her describing her feelings about all of this. Why do you feel blamed when she speaks about her feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM
0

So you feel blamed because this 16 year old girl has feelings? I am so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:27 PM
2

Why do you feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:07 PM
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If anyone ever tries to tell me that bs, I like to tell them about my husbands aunty……she is in her 70s and on husband number 4. That one she met shortly after the death of number 3, who died like seven years ago. She is not a model or anything but a granny …. A normal granny. Any woman wanting to have a man, will find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:58 PM
1

What mind reading? This women say what they think out loud and who are you to judge them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:37 PM
1

They specific women you are talking about, already decided to just not engage with men……that’s why you are butt hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:11 PM
1

My solution is for women to do whatever they believe is best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:48 PM
1

Yeah of course, women now need to be scientist to maybe choose a safe partner…..and that’s where the whole problem lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:20 PM
1

No babes, I believe you don’t live in the US……but it still bothers you to no end. So why is that? Are you afraid women where you live, could decide to not engage with you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:19 PM
1

Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:26 AM
5

Yeah, you don’t even live there and still felt compelled to but in because it doesn’t bother you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:25 AM
1

There is no minimizing with a long term partner…….the biggest group of perpetrators are long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:24 AM
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You are so unbothered that you made a whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:49 PM
2

„Yes, rape is a risk. The best way to minimize the risk is with a medium or long term partner.“ That’s what you said. For the statistics you can look that up: the numbers for rape by spouse/partner are between 30% and 50% depending on what source you look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:42 PM
2

Again…..pearl index. You believe that long term partners would always mean well, when in reality they carry the highest risk of rape. Your anecdote has really nothing to do with the topic at hand. I suggest nothing…..these women decide for themselves and that is there right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:06 PM
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Not I argue that 2 forms of birth control don’t prevent 100% of pregnancy…..the Pearl index does. And you totally ignore that the male partner might not work with you. They might stealth you, they might pressure you or they might simply rape you. And don’t tell me that the majority of men would say: „no p in v is cool with me“.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:38 PM
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Babes, you absolutely need to read up on the Pearl index!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:16 PM
4

To have someone’s body on your mind ist not considering them……or would you say that if you fantasize about eating a cutlet, you are considering the animal that died for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:50 PM
2

Poor people have more kids statistically….in the past and now. And historically most people didn’t own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:30 PM
10

Most men not considering women’s anything……
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:26 PM
8

Nope, you can’t be reasoned with….you ask the perspective of women to then tell them there perspective is wrong. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:24 PM
1

This is really interesting…..you think people don’t have kids because they don’t own houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:15 PM
3

I need to ask this: how will republicans do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:08 PM
9

Wow, read that comment out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:04 PM
4

Maybe read them out loud….you might here it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:03 PM
5

I am an individual person, with individual experience…..when men try to debunk me, how is that not an attack on me as a individual? By the way, you are doing it right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:53 PM
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And how does changing your lastname to then be called Ms. partners lastname not sever you from being your individual person and blend you with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:51 PM
7

You do realize that all your answers sound like the part that you edited in your op?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:49 PM
1

And obviously you do judge them for that…..so what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:56 AM
6

So if it’s all that unlikely, why are you thinking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:36 AM
1

Yeah cool…..nobody said otherwise. That doesn’t make your rambling an answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:47 AM
1

You might not understand how conversations work. I asked where the other commenter exactly called this guy deranged and you went with a whole rant about what you think. That wasn’t the point of my question, like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:34 AM
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Where did I say you couldn’t call that guy a deranged criminal? You can, all you want. But that you do that, doesn’t make it so that the other commenter does or even thinks that man was deranged. The other commenter pretty clearly blamed the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:13 AM
0

Which isn’t one at all…..he didn’t say it and that you said it doesn’t make it his thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:52 AM
0

You could have just said that he didn’t say that anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:47 AM
3

Where exactly does he say anything about the husband being deranged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:49 AM
0

In what way exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:39 PM
2

I just can’t with you…….its not the draft that holds up Ukraine right now. Its weapons and troups sent from other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:53 PM
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Because Ukrainen women, most likely also want no one to be drafted. And a lot of them are on the frontlines voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:41 PM
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Babes, feminists did not invent the draft, they did not hold up the draft, I showed you that they are actively against the draft and I tell you that I my self identify as a feminist and I am against drafting anyone. What du you base your shit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:20 PM
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Nobody said it was…..that’s why feminists are against drafting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:54 PM
1

No i don’t, I told you the same from the start. The law is there but hasn’t been invoked for more than 52 years. Women have fought for being equal….neither men nor women get drafted but can choose to serve. And feminists want to abolish that inaktiv law all together. I do not know what you don’t understand. I would nearly bet that you are also to old for being drafted even if the law would be invoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:50 PM
1

It’s not invoked. Women fought for things being equal and want to abolish the draft…..I don’t have enough crayons to paint it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:29 PM
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What has the for 52 years non existent draft to do with equality today?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:22 PM
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Could you imagine for just a second to not play victim? I said you weren’t drafted, neither was your daddy and you just told me pop wasn’t either. If you want to play victim Olympics with the trauma of other people: my grandma was raped by opposing soldiers as a child. My greatgrandma was raped by her employer as a minor, while his first wife was dying of cancer. She fell pregnant and had them to marry him as she had no where to go unmarried and pregnant. She had 14 more kids by him and had to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:12 PM
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It’s no inequality….THERE IS NO DRAFT RIGHT NOW! Neither you , nor your daddy and possibly not even your pop were ever drafted. And maybe, just maybe you could imagine that in a fight for female equality women, for once do not center what men want. Could that be possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:00 PM
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You said feminists are not against the draft….now you moved the goalpost. „It’s not my decision, it’s about objective equality.“ Right now there is objective equality, men and women choose to serve and no one was drag for the last 52 years. „If women have the option to serve but no obligation, there no equality. Why is that so hard to understand?“ Men have no obligation either, not right now and not for the last 52 years. „Why should women be excluded from the draft? Is it because they’re weaker…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:20 PM
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You are moving the goalpost. Why do you think it’s your decision how feminists should think about the draft? women did fight tooth and nail to be included into combat roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:00 PM
1

Don’t you think they always were?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:58 PM
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https://nnomy.org/index.php/en/content_page/item/931-feminists-against-the-draft.html Do you actually expect feminists to abolish the draft, that they neither installed nor uphold, by themselves? https://cepa.org/article/ukrainian-women-seek-an-equal-right-to-fight/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:47 PM
1

I don’t think that feminists don’t give a fuck for disadvantaged men but why would you expect them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:37 PM
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Neither women nor feminists installed the draft and feminists are actually against it. If we talk America the draft has not been invoked for 52 years but in the mean time it was women who fought for being allowed in combat roles and to make things equal. That’s a really bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:33 PM
4

You can just say that it was bullsh….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:30 PM
2

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:00 PM
5

Try starting with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:00 PM
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What’s your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:59 PM
2

You didn’t read further, did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:59 PM
0

At what point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:57 PM
7

What’s not about equality in feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:35 PM
5

„all pussies are not made equal and it’s honestly dumb that this is even up for debate. I shouldn’t have to explain to adults that a 90 lb woman most likely has a smaller pussy than a 6’5 300 lb woman.“ This is not how vaginas work, like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:14 AM
5

Is the serious issue in dating in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:31 PM
3

So I am German, prostitution is legal here for more than 20 years and way before that it was decriminalized……still most prostitutes are believed to be in human trafficking situations with pimps…..there is nothing safe about it. What’s worse is that the pimps are safer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:29 PM
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Where do you get this from? Less depression? Less suicides? How do you know it’s from legalizing prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:44 PM
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How do you come to the conclusion that legalizing prostitution would make it safer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:42 PM
6

And other times you get „do we know each other“…….can go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:46 PM
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We do know but often we just want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:19 PM
2

Her mother actually was from Nuremberg and she went back to live there with her daughter until the end of the war and after that they went back to Argentina. Or that’s what is officially known. So it is strange to me actually. Like what was the thought process here? Germany under the Nazis was to dangerous for Esther Vilars father, as a Jew, even though the Nuremberg laws weren’t in effect yet. So the whole family fled to Argentina but it was not to dangerous for her mother and Esther herself as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:22 PM
2

I really don’t know. But it is strange that her mother went back to Germany with her after the Nuremberg Laws went into effect, as those made marriages/sex/children with Jews illegal. Like she did all the illegal shit and had the proof right there in form of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 AM
1

So the priests do what they have always done ….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:33 PM
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True, the east block was mich more equal. But it wasn’t because they were feminist but because they needed women working. But true east Germany was much more equal then west Germany. Men could not but into their wives employment. Abortion was legal and divorce quiet easy. But it’s more complicated then just the political system. I believe that religion had much less influence helped too. That’s changing now, at least in Poland, no? The abortion laws in Poland are right back to 200 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:03 PM
3

No she isn’t dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:03 PM
2

Today we would say rage bate. Like I am German and when she published the book in 1971 women couldn’t work without the permission of their husband, who also could terminate her employment at any point in time without even telling her. Women couldn’t get an abortion but also couldn’t get custody of their kids if they were unmarried. Rape in marriage was legal. And women could only get divorced if they proofed fault on the husbands side. But sure, women had the upper hand in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:01 PM
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Whoever believes in Esther Vilar can not be taken seriously, like at all. That woman never lived in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:25 PM
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You mean for 95% of human history when 95% of people were not nobility or clergy nearly all women worked. That upper class women didn’t work was a blink in time and even that depended much on were you lived…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:38 PM
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Please go and read a fucking book…..women always worked. They had no right to their earnings and their husbands had to allow them to work but they always did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:09 PM
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Men weren’t better or more viable in the past…..women just needed them to not starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:20 PM
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