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If jeff wants to approach I'd rather it's because he thinks I'm clever/funny/interesting/etc. in addition to being hot. Jeff can't tell you are clever funny interesting just by looking at you, just how you can't tell what kind of person he is by looking at him. You're effectively offshoring your entire first impression of his personality on his opening line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:46 PM
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That 30% number is for men aged 18-30. Most of them will not be married. So 30% of men are, at the very least, sexless. Since PPD feels that incels are mostly guys who want to go ER and hate women and whatnot. And I doubt even 20% of men aged 18-30 are asexuals or in a relationship with an asexual. I know that the western world has these weird ass "relationships" where the girl has sex with other men or has no sex at all (the UK seems to have plenty of these couples). And 15-20% of marriages bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:29 PM
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Yeah there are a few weird chicks who have fetishes for dudes considered conventionally unattractive. But there's a few tens of thousands of these women and MILLIONS of unattractive men at any given time. it's also a biological reality that individual neuronal landscapes are highly varied Perhaps, but culture is a great terraformer of these landscapes. so generalizations when it comes to sex and gender should be taken with huge grains of salt. There's just too much variance to draw any real obje…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:51 PM
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For what it's worth I'm an INTP-T, basically the worst personality type you can possibly have if you actually want to have meaningful relationships or friendships. Understanding people is a worthless art unless you are a good looking sociopath. If you are ugly or weird people just expect you to be a slave at work, in life, etc. The moment you have an opinion, right or wrong, you are cast out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:40 PM
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If they're not in an LTR, then casual sex is really the only way to achieve this. Casual sex is a lot harder to achieve for an average guy than a LTR is. But even a LTR requires lying and jumping through hoops, because no woman actually wants a LTR with a man she perceives as having a lower value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:08 PM
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people who learn early and fix their shit I honestly don't think there's all that much shit to fix. You have to meet a person who's somewhat balanced around what you're balanced. PPD loves to act like there's something supremely wrong with the bottom 80% of men and they all need "fixing". But most of they young soldiers in the army come from that bottom 80%, as do most of the young men entering the workforce this year. Chads also play video games as a hobby, they even stream on twitch. And nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:59 PM
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It’s really not as bad as people make it out to be. You keep telling yourself that. I'm buying myself a celebratory bucket of popcorn for when the figure for men not having sex hits 45%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:26 PM
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Some guys get 100+ women in a year yet 30% of men can't even get a fat ugly chick to fuck them willingly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:24 PM
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I think they're ignoring a common sexual dynamic that applies to a large percentage of the population. Which is Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:14 PM
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while your job title matters in office relationships Beta bucks deluxe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:12 PM
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Wow, well I love it when people give me even more of a reason to stay of the dating market. Given these dynamics is it any surprise most men in a relationship are basically beta bucks? I won't call it out as unfair. We all have our different lives after all, but I am a bit jealous of guys who can easily vibe with other people (not just women) and actually get somewhere with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:10 PM
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as if there's any true science of human relationships Relationship science making people uncomfortable does not mean it doesn't exist. Everyone likes to think they are special and different, but we exhibit a lot of very similar behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:05 PM
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Good for them. The number of increasing incel men is, for now, just a spike. We'll see in the years to come how much of an effect OLD and lookism have over men and women. Those stats likely include older men as well. And lookism was not as big of a thing back then. So to say that 5'5" men report 7 sexual partners (which was considered the norm IIRC) is definitely interesting. Unless the guy just paid 7 different hookers to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:00 PM
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I've seen guys who are definitely shorter than their GFs (they just didn't wear high heels). Just not very often. The idea was that is "the norm" not that outliers don't exist. And I've also seen fat guys with good looking girlfriends, again, not the norm, but outliers don't dictate the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:40 PM
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Outliers exist, obviously, and quite a number of them. Maybe you'll be an outlier. But that's sort of "the norm".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:36 PM
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I don't see or hear about men killing eachother over women so often today. The number of women who attack eachother over a man are however increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:09 PM
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Yeah, dosh is money. Ideally you could earn the money of an engineer by working 3-4 days a week and find a side gig as a DJ, band performer, stand-up comedy, or something else that looks "cool". But that's a very high bar to reach. A video game producer from my old job dated and ultimately married a pretty, young girl by doing just that. In the weekends he found some friends and they all started a band. All these guys looked pretty "incel"y too. None of them are over 6'1" (the lead singer is a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:07 PM
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They have, but mostly in mythologies. Sometimes you get a woman like Aspasia that can fan the flames of an actual war. But a woman just being pretty, nah, not really. Maybe a couple of idiots dueled and killed each other, with the second dude dying of a bullet wound infection a couple of weeks later. And then Chaddington Jr. III swooped in and got daddy to pay the girl's dowry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:58 PM
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No it boils down to bullshit. Go to the gym, get jacked, make some dosh, don't act like a sperg, then gun for a young woman who doesn't have a lot of debt yet and is not full of tattoos and make her fall hard for you. That's the only way to get a woman who will stay with you for a long time. Or don't, fuck it and go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:54 PM
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Blue pill and niceguy shaming in one fell swoop. I'd love to say TL;DR but I did actually read this. This is a big large dump of bull shit. Sorry mate but I as a man am AGAIN the one tasked to build the relationship? It falls on ME, THE MAN to set ALL the boundaries and the rules? Do women have LITERALLY NO AGENCY? the hot guy who acts like a narcissist or the hot guy who can charm her through a conversation for two hours until she's dripping with the idea of actually being able to relax enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:49 PM
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No, I need NSA For Reasons What if the reason is that he wants to fuck a bunch of women before finally settling down, given most women also fuck a bunch of men. And he doesn't want to go all in on the first woman who lets him hold her hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:29 PM
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Make-up comes off hard. It's designed not to easily wash with water and many cleaning products just make an even bigger mess. Put a bit of makeup on your mirror and try wiping it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:24 PM
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Hey I wipe the seat every time I use it at work / the gym and make sure not to leave a mess behind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:08 PM
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And obviously he isn't an incel. LOL you felt the need to mention that. Why would a guy who dated two women be an incel? I was just wondering if there was a disparity in your sexual experience as opposed to his.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:06 PM
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Hey I'm just playing along.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:46 PM
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Ouch! I am a manlet in this brave new world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:38 PM
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I accept what I see in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:34 PM
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"Never forget what you are...." - some dwarf Somehow this reneges on both your points. You have to constantly reaffirm your acceptance AND realize there are limits to what others will allow you to do (even if you could otherwise do it).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:37 AM
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And those women "absolutely hate" it... Many if not most women today enjoy and encourage some form of rough sex... But it's men who are to blame, yet again. He should have known better than to respond to an invitation to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:25 AM
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You could just as well go the opposite (and more natural) route. Compensating is actually very normal in nature. People love to say (especially about unattractive men) that they are compensating. As opposed to what, "accepting" their "flaws", laying their head down and accepting their "place" in society? If all undesirable men did that we'd still be living in huts made of shit & straw in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:04 AM
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lol, men are not entitled to sex You mean ugly men are not entitled to sex. For that matter people are not entitled to food, shelter or medical care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:54 AM
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Much like wealth is pooling in the hands of the top rich after the economic revolution known as the gig economy, sex is also pooling in the hands of the top desirable males after the sexual revolution known as Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:52 AM
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That depends on your definition of variety. Women have a lower craving for fucking total strangers, yes. But that doesn't mean women have a lower craving for fucking new guys they haven't fucked before but who are vetted by her social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:40 AM
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Single women can get sex anytime they want. Of course it's going to be like that. And women do tend to have an overall somewhat lower craving for sex than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:38 AM
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If you're talking about single men that's a pretty different point. Of course a single guy in his 20s will want to have more sex if the option presents itself. Most single men are sex starved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:29 AM
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Human woman's sexuality was reigned in relatively early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:21 AM
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Women prefer jerks because women are Great Apes, just like men. And ALL Great Ape females have a preference for fucking the alpha, dominant males.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:19 AM
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Most of that is just wishful thinking. Kind of like I wish I could fuck a young Sasha Grey. Doesn't mean I can get the opportunity, or that even if I got the opportunity I would not back out of it. Just like most women, I doubt most men would want to star in porn shown on the world wide web. There are so many hookers and it's very unlikely he'd be found out unless he was famous, that, really only men who don't actually want to cheat don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:16 AM
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Does casual also include FWB & swingers? Because a lot more people are banging people who are not their SO than you might believe. I think it was even a feminist publication that came to the conclusion women are much more open to cheating than men are. Men mostly love to boast and talk a big game. Women keep it under wraps but actually play another man's flute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:46 AM
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Definitely Chad. Lots of men dream of Stacy, but women actually stab eachother to death over Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:40 AM
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Incels won't disappear if all of them die, just like gay men won't disappear if all of them die. Ugly women still have sex and give birth to ugly men. People with the necessary genetic changes to have a same sex preference will still be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:38 AM
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Must be lucky to actually be desired enough where you can choose if you want to date or "spin plates", or just call it in and not do a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:58 AM
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Douchebag-to-women No more douchey than any other guy. The difference between the incel and the fuckboy are good looks. Personality is very similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:30 AM
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Chads are obligate polygamists. Men are obligate polygamists. Betas don't cheat mostly because they can't. Even then, after 10 years of marriage, most betas will start going to hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:29 AM
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They would essentially manipulate me into spending time with them (i.e. I bought us plane tickets to this festival and you’re coming, I decided to audit the class you’re taking so see you every week, never “asking” to spend time together per se). If an ugly or even average looking guy acted like this you would consider him Creepy and call the cops on his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:57 AM
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know that they're just guys. who just happen to have 30+ relationships before they settle down. "just" ordinary guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:55 AM
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Does your husband know you've slept with a ton of dudes? Would he take that well if you told him? Did he also have a healthy sex life or was he generally deprived and dated one or two women before dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:53 AM
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So much bullcrap... But they are still people and how they view things and behave in the world differs. The are not above caring about women, loving them, being vulnerable, being damaged etc etc.. So Chad has a heart of gold. But if an ugly man cares about women it's Creepy and he's only doing it to try and get in her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:47 AM
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if someone gets freaked out and does some fucked up shit. Violence from incels is far from the biggest problem. This is 5' o'clock news type sensationalist shit. Any organized violent incel group would be taken down by the US intelligence (or at worst the US army) in a matter of days. That's assuming the local cops were all fat lazy bastards overfed on doughnuts. The bigger problem is loss of workforce, incels tend to go NEET way more often than they tend to go ER. And replacing them all with im…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:28 AM
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Undoubtedly, for a 4'5" woman a man who's 6' might be too tall. So men who are under 6' can now compete over women who are 4'5" and shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:24 AM
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insecurity LOL, I love how overused this word has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:58 AM
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Unless you're talking about Pygmy women from Africa, 6' is not going to be too tall for any able-bodied woman in the West. Even a midget will want to date a 6' tall guy. Why? Because she can. it doesn't matter that it's feasible or not, getting a really tall guy to be interested in you is like a trophy to many women. “Average male height” is too vague. Average male height in what context? In the case of my post it was average white US male and average white US female. You can add or take away in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:54 AM
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For me, personally, I'm so low value that not even Brad is a problem for me, much less Chad. Heck I'm so low value I can't even compete with the local weed dealer over women. And you'd be surprised how many people feel a sense of pride in lording their successful marriage or healthy sex lives over incels. If PPD didn't like to lord it over us, they would be banning incels left and right just for admitting to being incels, regardless of how polite or impolite they are. Heck PPD would IP gate itse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:48 AM
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Google average women's heel size. Google average men's heel size. Google average male height. Google average female height. And 6' has been popularly considered "pretty tall" since at least the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:39 AM
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Not necessarily, maybe some of them payed a hooker 2 years ago, but one third of men under 30 failed to find a willing sexual partner who didn't upfront charge them $200 for 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:33 AM
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play a mixed sport, join a political movement that does activities, volunteer, throw parties, walk a relative's dog down to the dogpark, help out at your church, go to community events, go to parkrun. play a bullshit, join a bullshit, throw bullshit, walk a relative's bullshit, help out at you local bullshit, go to community bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:28 AM
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Have you been to a bar at closing time? Who the hell wants to do that when there's a stack of unopened PS4 games taller than I am waiting for me at home. If I want to get shitfaced, might as well be able to fall asleep on the spot rather than awkwardly make passes at women who think I am creepy and rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:25 AM
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These are the kinds of questions that I don’t think many people think about Women preferring tall men is not vague or subjective. How tall is variable, because it depends on the woman's height. 6' is often picked because it's: a) generally considered to be pretty tall and b) it's a round figure and US centric. In Europe the preferred height is over 1.80m (which is 5' 10 55⁄64"). If you want the real answer, women prefer men who are a head taller than them when they wear high heels. What does "hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:12 AM
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Virtue signaling, to put it short. PPD is full of virtue signaling people. This is reddit, most people on PPD are nerdy guys and girls who were one mishap away from being incel / femcel and use the opportunity to brag about how socially adept they are to "lower class" nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:57 AM
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Is there such a thing though? Very rarely. A golddigger's #1 goal is $$$. Not finding a good enough man that also happens to have good enough $$$. That's what women normally do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 03:59 AM
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And marrying rich is getting harder by the year, since wealth is pooling up in the hands of the top 1-5% while for the rest of us the (low paying, low benefits) "gig economy" keeps expanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:43 PM
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Undoubtedly, but this guy was in the top 20 richest in the country. In a country with roughly 18 million people that pans out to the top 0.0001% of men. I highly doubt you need $160 million to give your kid a good life. And after 6 years of marriage (and his fortune taking a small hit) she divorced him too (LOL) taking half of his shit (LMFAO). A few months after the divorce she garnered press sympathy by coming out with a previously unknown sob story about her stepdad touching her inappropriate…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:11 PM
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LOL. So why "love is possible" more often with a guy 8-10 years her senior who has money than "love is possible" with a guy her age who is studying at the same college? Love is like LOTTO. The more tickets you can buy, the higher the chance to win. First one is free to get you hooked. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:02 PM
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Is it though? Most famous gold digger in my country only had a single kid (if that) with the dude. And people doubt the kid is actually his (dude was in his late 60s). He bought her multiple cars, a couple of houses, and financed a bunch of her businesses. She was 19 (and a runway model) and he was 57 when they first met. :|
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:54 PM
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If you look good, have high endurance and lots of money getting young girls is not that hard. Especially in college towns, if you show a 6 pack and a 6 stack of dosh, there's plenty young, thin freshman girls who will climb in your car, little to no questions asked. You can even be as old as 40. And for some men, that's just what they want. Young, fresh pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:38 PM
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Golddiggers are not simply women who want high status men. They are those who monkeybranch from high status to higher status and those who date men they would not look twice at if they didn't have the do$h. These are the women who want a nice car as a birthday gift. Who want their lover to fund her business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:34 PM
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I look like a frog. Bit of fat on my thighs, good legs, decent arms, decent chest but a very big belly (that gets even bigger when I eat). Probably keto + gym + fasting are my only real options. If that's your pic, congrats on being in decent shape. You look okay compared to the average guy out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:30 PM
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80/20 means that 80% of women fantasize being with 20% of men. In reality casual sex is closer to 60/20 or even 50/20. A high value guy is swamped with offers and physically unable to have sex with all women who show interest in him. And "80"/20 also includes women with low N counts (< 7) but who had flings with only a few alphas before marrying a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 07:31 PM
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Nerdy wins my bread, you don't just become an MBA dudebro overnight. As for being out of shape, I try to exercise but eat too many calories so my weight is mostly stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:55 PM
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Yes, after being fucked by Chad. 80/20 does not mean exclusively. A woman can fuck Chad and then marry Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:03 PM
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Living in Eastern Europe opened my eyes to a lot of shit. And even in the US, the majority of marriages who fail are among the poor and middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:45 PM
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For beta bucks maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:41 PM
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Being gay must be fucking amazing. Gay men care even more about looks than women do. If all you want is to have your mouth and anus used as warm holes and have no standards then yeah sure. But if you actually want decent sex, no grindr is no better for average looking gay dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:32 PM
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I'm happier single. As a low value (because I'm nerdy, ugly and out of shape) male married life would be hell for me and inevitably end in divorce a few years down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:21 PM
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No, most marriages trudge along because it's cheaper to keep it going. Social pressure, financial pressure means a lot of 'working" marriages are dead bedrooms with either the man, woman or both cheating on the other. There are plenty of cases where the mother can'y get the home (because it's rented) and the alimony is not enough to cover rent + living costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:16 PM
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Everyone wants to do the easy things. Most interior designers and architects are men. A woman will not want to pick a color for 100 different items that have to go together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 04:29 PM
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what’s the selling point of “my kids come first”? She's looking for beta bux. She can still get old flame Chad to fuck anytime she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 03:26 PM
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Maybe women would rather get fucked by other women. For many women the only choices they feel they have are bad boy players or other women. It's not like there's a shortageof cock. It's just cock most women don't want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 08:41 AM
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Men are lining up to have sex with this woman...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 07:14 PM
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First of all, thanks for sharing that. It's certainly interesting to read. Though I'm not so sure about what lesbian women are rebelling against. On one hand, sure, you have the conservatives who want to dock people for sinning more than they actually want to solve moral and social problems of modern society. OTOH you have feminist men who already support (sometimes blindly) pretty much whatever the alpha bitch (and I don't mean that in a derogatory way) discusses at the latest TEDTalk. Then we …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 11:09 PM
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Because it's not PC. And really it's none of my business what some woman does with her coochie and if it's fake or not. I have far more pressing problems. Yes, it's hypocritical, but ultimately it won't change anything. And I don't want to have "points" docked from my social standing. Being a fat nerdy guy already puts me below feral dogs in the eyes of most people (gotta love that body positive movement). Hell I already lost a job because a bluepiller at my last workplace thought I was trying t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 08:48 PM
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"Obligate" lesbian women ABSOLUTELY exist. I've even met a couple myself IRL. But a significant number of lesbians are indeed "fake", bisexuals maybe, certainly not opposed to having same sex relationships and often "fed up" with men. They also tend to have a history of abusive alphas as boyfriends/husbands/etc. Why do lesbians have such a reputation for being ugly?? Because they actively strive to repel men's attraction. I think it's more likely they just no longer care for themselves as much s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 07:57 PM
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Because, unlike men, women are more attractive both men and women. Same-sex sexual relationships with a woman also involve a different set of expectations and brain circuitry. There is no drive to seek "the alpha woman" since she won't be penetrating your vagina (not with with her penis at least). So standards for "fake" lesbians to start a relationship are much lower than what they expect of a man. Which is why you hear a significant amount of stories of supposedly "lesbian" women who have sex …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 07:47 PM
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There have been at least 2 studies proving the women show subconscious signs of arousal even when seeing other animals have sex at a much higher rate than men do. Women are also more dependent on social relationships, so many a woman would rather eat clam chowder vs going at it alone or settling for a man she's not attracted to, especially as same-sex relations become more acceptable. For men OTOH, most would rather live alone forever than get into a same-sex relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 07:28 PM
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Women only "love" the top 5% of men and even that only when they are ovulating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 04:41 PM
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I have but they are rare. Most "lesbians" are women who've been "let down by men" (i.e. abused by Chad)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 04:39 PM
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Many lesbians are the "leftovers" of abusive Chads who now see all men as pigs. Even though their only real experience with men has been abusive Chads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/19 04:36 PM
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Maybe this does happen, but it would also imply women don't go into, say, welding because women have no opportunities in welding? That sounds a bit gauche. Men don't really get into these jobs for career advancent either, it's for the hazard pay. "Loading the truck" should also be a the job of a machine that's operated by a person (or at least a person having proper tools) and no man or woman should risk injury by carrying heavy boxes manually. That would be understandable maybe in India, Bhutan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 06:27 AM
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Yet the burden of performance is still on men. I don't mind overcompensation, but why are most feminists clammoring only about Forbes 500. Where's muh women welders, electricians, engineers, factory workers, plant workers? My employer has 70% of management staff female, but only 30% of engineers are women. And 15% of ground level workers have a vagina. Women expect men to do all the hard work while they enjoy both equal rights and social privileges men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:23 AM
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2002-2015 @ around $300 (starting out) to $2000 (the last ~6 years) per scene. These girls also get invited to all sorts of parties, private shoots, etc. (for $$$, obv.) and they also work as high end escorts ($500+ per hour). She's probably dumped at least 5 boyfriends after she extracted their resources.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 09:43 PM
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Go read Sandra Brown for some old school red pill coated in blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:23 PM
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youth googles More firm boobs 7 butt, skin is softer and more supple. Girl only really cares if you're hot, confident and sweet. Versus saggy boobs, mouth smell (from 10-15 years of smoking), harsh skin, baby rabies, baggage, desperate for commitment and status, but you also need to be hot and your dick has to be 7 inches (shower, not grower too) and work like that of an 18 yo stud. But yeah... youth goggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:38 PM
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Jenni Lee
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 05:57 PM
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"Your sample is not the entire human race" argument. "Instead here, look at these outliers and base your conclusions around them."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:18 PM
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Career choices can be limited by IQ. Neither american schools nor european ones teach fiscal responsibility. A McMansion is one thing, but most poor live in the projects. And when you're poor, selling everything and uprooting so you can get on a Greyhound bus and change states is not very easy either. Basically rich people tend to be born rich (wealth generally takes generations to accrue). And they have financial education from their parents. Poverty OTOH is the default condition of mankind. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:27 PM
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Women into the gym look want your body to look like that "naturally" (since, obviously, pressing benches are found in nature at the base of weight lifting trees). Many of them don't realize that less than 3% of men can achieve that look naturally due to a gene mutation (which is technically a genetic defect). Just look at gym bodies from the 70s and 80s to see how much you can push a body without modern steroid use.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:13 PM
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Well it does vanish as soon as I wipe... something else with a kleenex. Ever heard of post nut clarity? Especially If there's no feelings involved other than lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:58 PM
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Yeah. Laptop so potato video card (950m). Most games run... at "very low"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:56 PM
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The only games I play are on PS4. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:55 PM
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Also, don't forget some women tell a flirty "no" (which with western laws is stupid, thanks to feminism) I'd rather be a "beta" and not risk following up on a 'no'. After all it may be my toxic masculinity interpreting it as flirtatious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:46 PM
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Of course there are. When girls suddenly start asking you about commitment or bring up aspects of their sex lives, or they try to nail a label on you. And these are just basic shit tests. Basically many shit tests are non-sequiturs or orthogonal interjections where the woman tries to assert your responses against her internal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:40 PM
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It's not like a person who wants but can't have sex has a say in the matter. Attraction is not negotiable and every other option is either illegal or immoral. At least with masturbation you're only acting it out on yourself even if it's immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:32 AM
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I mean you can deal with it on your own and after a while you realize sex is not worth the hassle. Incels have to learn how to live without sex and most succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:15 AM
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It's not common but it's not exceedingly rare either. Most cases of false accusations (not just sexual ones) are just not documented in mass media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:07 AM
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At least they are honest and upfront about being a single mom. Doesn't make a lick of a difference. Dating a single mom is bad for a man who wants a family because that will never be your family. Unless the kids are very young they will never respect you and you are likely not their first "new dad" either. Many single moms act like they're still in college if not HS and see themselves as hot stuff enough to not only attract Chad but get him to care for her kids too. Which life proves her, is fal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 06:11 AM
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What I'm arguing is that for a middle class couple divorce is bad for both sides. The man loses a large chunk of his income while the woman no longer has access to the man's full contribution. Both sides also lose access to other benefits like sharing household chores and parenting. They also have to pay higher taxes (though single moms have some benefits here IIRC).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:36 AM
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I don't think you can necessarily define status on a quantitative scale. But you could define it qualitatively, in degrees of status: Are you recognized / greeted among your peers? +1 point Does your opinion hold sway? +1 point Does your work have fans / is it quoted / is your brand recognized (this really depends on your line of work)? + 1 point When you say "jump", how many people say "how high" ? +1 point Can you get away with mistakes and how many of them ? +1 point These are not the best qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:27 AM
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then she’s turned up with something a lot more convincing than a he said/she said. No, police have to investigate any formal complaint they receive. They need reasonable suspicion to arrest, but the standards for that are not all that high either. https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/what-can-you-do-if-someone-falsely-accuses-you-of-rape-31767 Then you have situations like Brian Banks' case. Heck even I had the cops on my doorstep as a kid once for a fabricated accusation against one of my parents.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:09 AM
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Which do you think cops prefer doing? Arresting guys women regret having sex with or patrolling dangerous neighborhoods?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:16 PM
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Women are consistently worse off post divorce because they keep all of the children. And often alimony, child support & mom's salary can't cover her own costs as well as 2 extra mouths to feed, clothe, pay tutoring. Beta males who end up with single moms can pony up as high as $80.000 a year to help her cover all her needs and that's WITH child support AND alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:10 PM
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That's because status is subjective. No one man can attain all forms of power unless he's a literal god. And education/money are going away as status markers the higher you go up the ladder. Family business models are no longer prevalent. Generally you're going to have the poor, the corporate proletariat (replacing blue collar workers), independent business owners (on the fall) and the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:04 PM
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Men risk homelessness and even future revenue in many cases. There have been cases of men who were sued because a business they created years after the divorce was founded on contacts from a business the couple co-owned while they were still married...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:29 PM
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On NAWALT, women who are more educated and don't require government assistance often end up alone because they see themselves as unattainable prizes. And as your second point shows, these women want top shelf men in terms of genetics. Hypergamy is not dead at all, it has merely shifted from a socioeconomic perspective to a "sociogenetic" one. Many women hold out for a man who, even if he earns quantitatively less than her, has more status than she does. I.E. a businesswoman dating a male model, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:26 PM
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Passing the test gains an alpha male prestige in her eyes, possibly even sex, if that's what's on the table. Passing the test as a beta male means you simply get to go home unharmed in your own car instead of being beaten up by some dude who wants to impress the girl, or worse, taking a free trip to the local police station for "VIP" treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:16 PM
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Women love to be "gauche-subtle" as they feel that will weed out the "weirdos", when in fact it only filters out men who don't want to second guess and end up in a cold cell with their name & face plastered over the local papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:06 PM
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Heck it's even murkier nowadays. Say she changes herb mind mid-sex. You stop, get dressed leave her a little privacy to get dressed, then call a cab to take her home (or for you to go home) and even text her an hour later to make sure she's home safely. Then, the next day you have the cops at your door accusing you of coercing her into sex. Yeah, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:04 PM
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Then when one likes him(has sex with him) he makes her his girlfriend. No shit, most men are starved of both outright sex and intimacy. But let's compare that to your local attractive/charismatic/popular dude You know this comparison is baseless at best, why do it? He's had the experience to know what is out there and what he likes. The average guy doesn't have that kind of experience. No fu**ing shit, sherlock. That's pretty lame if you ask me Yeah, not having top-tier genetics is pretty lame. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 05:42 PM
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That's usually true for men who are tall and handsome. Unnatractive guys in a bar will be made fun of or thrown outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:28 PM
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At the rate we're going women might start breaking into zoos to fuck actual gorillas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 03:01 PM
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he’s gotta be above average looks + very smooth lines, ideally funny + superb eq and body language... "..." indeed. That's pretty much saying only top shelf males can approach you without being creepy. And your tolerance in a bar is a bit higher because you're likely tipsy and willing to have fun at the expense of the dude approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:19 PM
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Through friends LOL. At least this is what PPD endorses. But in all honesty, of you're not good looking or can otherwise compensate (money, status, social proof) cold approaching is likely to get you labeled as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 10:13 AM
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You Cold Approach a Woman What do you think she's thinking? "Oh God I hope he doesn't try talking to me." "That was awful, why didn't he ask a man that." "Oh God I hope he doesn't try talking to me." "What a fat weird disgusting creep." "Oh God I hope he doesn't try talking to me." "What a loser flirt move, he could've ask that of a guy." "Oh God I hope he doesn't try talking to me." "Bouncer, this creep is bothering me."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 10:09 AM
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Yeah the ever elusive 1000 year old loli waifu :))
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:27 PM
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Women seen to understand and accept realism as they age quite well. AFTER their looks fade. A 90 who looks like a 20 yo will just act as a spoiled schoolgirl for the rest of her life. She'll learn how to exploit her sexuality far better than any other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 08:44 AM
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milked 89 cows you had me up until this point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 08:30 AM
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Being the recipient of sexual attention is not the same thing as being sexually harassed. From what I've seen and heard from women, for most of them getting unwanted sexual attention feels like being harassed, to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:55 AM
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But would you date a woman so obese that her arms are thicker than your thighs? Besides, moral character is a wash. I've been "friends" with all sorts of people: thin, fat, tall, short, men, women and even ex-cons. Pretty much the only things I didn't do for many of these people was to steal, kill or peddle drugs. I got a lot of abuse. Fat, ugly women are just as likely to he assholes as thin, pretty women. And they are JUST AS likely to abuse your trust and goodwill. So the idea that dating an …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:21 PM
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I'm insecure about myself or have low self-esteem. This is why you have to love yourself first. OH, FFS! Will this BS ever stop being said? People can only love themselves if they benefit from consistent positive reinforcent. If all a person gets in life is crap it's very rare to love themselves. Maybe they become narcisistic, survivalists or selfish, but simply putting "numero uno" ahead does not mean a person "loves themselves"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:05 PM
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I mean lots of women eventually settle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:15 PM
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Top 20% is WITH PUA and TRP. Only 5% of men would be desirable without these.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:50 PM
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All women are swayed by SMV. In fact, decent women require SMV + EXTRAS. If you want a good looking woman who also brings other things to the table at least. Back when I had tinder I had plenty of 280-300 lbs chicks messaging first. But I'm not looking for women with arms as big as my thighs unless she's Ms. Olympia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:17 AM
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You can find women via the Anime path but you need to be a very succesfull fanfic author or cosplayer or artist. Watching Anime in your bedroom won't get you a GF or even casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:15 AM
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Having hobbies doesn't help you get sex. Being succesful and having status does that. I won't argue agains being fit and healthy. That's an absolute since sex is very much a physical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:13 AM
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So you gave your best years and sex to the asshole and then found a Chadlite-simp who's willing to deal with your baggage. If only you'd used your frontal neocortex and didn't choose the asshole first...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:03 AM
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So what's the alternative? Women "compete" for the top 5% of men who are naturals (i.e. they reject every other guy) and a large portion of both men and women end up single and sexless. But at least we're honest with one another. Being an introverted, passive incel, I wouldn't mind that, but it's just not going to work longterm, especially not when 60% of men would be raging with pent up sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:57 AM
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It's not that women aren't people. But relationships make everybody act wonky. The way men behave towards a woman who's a friend vs a woman they want to date are very different. And FOMO is a very big thing nowadays. All people want quality partners (even if it's casual) but women go above and beyond and only want the best. So if you want a healthy sex life, as a man who's not top 5%, you NEED to apply SOME red pill principles in your life. Wouldn't it make more sense to max your SMV so that mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:53 AM
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I mean for some women that's the only choice of man they are left with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:41 AM
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So you're Chad enough to just pull a condom on your dick and go in dry. Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:38 AM
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Resorting to underhanded tactics to get sex (lying, coercion Most men would die virgins if they didn't lie to get sex. Polygynous nature So, complementary to women's nature of sharing a Chad over exclusively dating a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:46 AM
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This is a point where you could arguably tell someone to lower their standards. Having a fetish for redheads doesn't mean the guy won't end up married with a dark or brown (since they are the most common colors) haired girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:34 AM
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Actually many of them have various forms of trauma. How much it contributes to their desire of humiliation is hard to say. But imagine a guy growing up with an overbearing single mom and little to no male influence in his life. At the extreme there are guys who are so lonely for interaction they prefer being insulted by a woman to being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:37 PM
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Here's a video from this eastern European woman who's worked both in academia and as cam girl. Financial Domination 101 - What is Findom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:50 PM
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Relationships are not worth it if you are not Chad. You put in full effort and get very little out of it. As a bonus you get to pay for it but get NONE of the perks Chad gets for free. And to top it off you're also doing it with a person you're not attracted to AND incompatible with... just so that you don't live alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:12 PM
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Ah that's really the thing in the end, isn't it. Guess what, rich republicans also don't like people complaining of unfair or exploitative work conditions Landowners don't like people complaining of high rent prices either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:57 PM
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You can accept your life alone without being mad at the world. There are many people for whom relationships just don't work but they have access. And many people who would do great in a relationship but have poor luck in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:54 PM
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Having a fetish for something doesn't mean you find other people unnatractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:25 PM
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Yeah and a similar number got scammed too (e.g.: the woman had some men in a back alley who jumped the guy). But it was sort of a viable strategy, to a point. Just how tinder was a sort of viable strategy in the beginning. Really most online dating services broke down as soon as Chad and Stacy came into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:51 AM
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Living in Eastern Europe showed me a lot of stuff. Young women willing to do porn level stuff for rich old Italians (early 90s) and rich old Muslim men (2000s). Heard a lot of backroom talk among divorced women and what they thought of the men in dating catalogs as well as dating services. I didn't even post on reddit until 2018 which is also when I learned "incels" was a term. Before that men like me were simply called "losers". My issue with "happines" doen't stem from not having women in my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 02:10 PM
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Grew up in Eastern Europe. The place was relatively well off and quiet. Went to one of the better schools in the city and a middle of the road highschool. BB having "no problem" getting women is well inside overstatement territory. A more accurate statent is they can get a woman, eventually, after a lot of effort courting her. the sex is bad cuz she only gives good sex to bad boys. It couldn’t possibly have anything to do with what I’m doing or not doing. Well, yeah it's his fault (partly due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:50 PM
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So, should being bottom of the barrel be grounds to bar me from discussing the pills? Women have a broad spectrum of men to choose from once you eliminate the bottom of the barrel, yet a sizable portion of them STILL try to get the AF until they panic and settle for BB around 30-35 yo. A bunch of people here on reddit have even told me before that women have little choice since "all the other guys are too boring and she's happy to finally get some excitement".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:34 PM
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Fine, "the women I grew up around, by and large preffered bad boys". Marrying an average dude at 28 doesn'tean a woman did not prefer bad boys when she was young. Does stuff like "fat nerdy gamer girl marries fat nerdy gamer guy happen"? Absolutely but it's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:28 PM
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The thing isn't that all women have sex with bad boys all the time. Just enough women (a sizeable plurality), often enough for it to matter. Not all gangsters are petty drug dealers. Look up "Palos Verdes Estates gang". Basically there is a bad boy for Shaniqua and there is a (different) bad boy for Elizabeth-Catherine-Anne. As for me, I don't aspire to any particular woman. I have issues and am self aware that they make me bottom of the barrel in the eyes of any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 01:05 PM
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How do you get this out of it? On the contrary, men are absolutely responsible for their behavior. But if women, on average, prefer badboys, men are, on average, going to ape bad boy behavior. We have laws and I support their application.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:51 PM
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Those aren't male problems. They are "modern, polite soicety's problems". Traditionally, men have killed eachother for mistakenly getting on the wrong horse while coming out drunk from the saloon. Sexual competition (many times to the death, unlike herbivores) is the norm among most great apes. Just 15000 years ago a man would crack your skull open, kill your kids and take your wife away to make her his wife. Women don't particularly enjoy seeing the cracked skull, but many have evolved to be ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:25 AM
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Can I blame them? There is no "blame" to assign. Attraction cannot be negotiated. Now what you can blame is how many women don't filter their emotions through logic, but that is a different can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:17 AM
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Toxic masculinity is an ideology that men should act a certain way. Yeah, straighten should act in the way that maximizes their chances of getting sex from and having kids with a high quality woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:12 AM
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Ah, I get it now, you're part of the "undesirable men should emasculate themselves" crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:11 AM
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Toxic masculinity exists because women unwillingly encourage it. The number of men exhibiting toxic masculinity is at an all time low. Yet women, especially influential women, date and have sex with men displaying toxic traits. So they really only incentivize men to ape and adopt these traits. Another class of people who act toxically masculine are criminals. But social norms alone cannot make them dusappear 100% from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:08 AM
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i mean most people are kinda sexy Most women are kinda sexy to most men. But otherwise no, most men are ugly to most women. Ask women, and many would rather pick up dog shit bare handed for a month than date or sleep with an unnatractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:39 AM
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Why go through with it though? Just to get your dick wet? Isn't the general message here to improve yourself until you can land the quality of women (or men) you actually desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:37 AM
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Because not taking more shit than a strawberry patch is now seen as arrogance. At least admit engineers creep you out and get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:12 AM
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People want fun, excinting, attractive people in their lives and are willing to put up with a lot of shit to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:15 AM
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That was one way a lot of guys got scammed 16 years ago, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:15 AM
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I don't know what they were fighting about, but damned sure wasn't over chicken salad! Repressed issues. And we're still monkeys. Ultimately many relationships are power struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:20 PM
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Having to compete with 5 other men to be 2nd choice, Plan B (because you can't beat Chad, and he's always 1st choice, Plan A). Payoff is at best a normal relationship and at worst you lose time and money, she cheats on you, you lose custody to your kids. It sucks. Honestly a friend of mine forgave his cheating girlfriend multiple times, he also sometimes hits her when he gets angry. That's a double whammy for me. Sure the monkey inside me craves companionship. But unlike a monkey I also have a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:15 PM
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No LOL. I mean the red pill in the 90s. Rollo Tomassi entered it in 2000s iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:04 PM
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Your username is white knight... oof First off how you'd describe yourself has no bearing on how women actually see you. And as you've said, women don't fond you appealing. Second point, especially regarding women who've been married or in a LTR for a while, they likely dated through friends, not online. Third their husbands / BFs were likely more manly when they met than they are now. Check out pair bonding and husband goggles. I'd cetrainly reccommend taking dating advice from anyone who's bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:26 PM
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No shit Dogbert. The idea was that a lot of guys can't get to that point because women see them as creepy. Look at all the metoo accusations made by various women about how they were travelling or alone in a hotel room with some thirsty guy (especially vloggers, streamer, etc.) and he tried hitting on her. Being attractive to women is only going to get harder from here on out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:11 PM
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Women will rebuff the advances their beta husbands maoe, previsely because they are not attractive or have small dicks, or whatever other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:03 PM
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Too much work, too little payoff, modern LTR is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:32 AM
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It's funny how women make fun of unattractive men for being gamers, but it's okay for good looking men to be gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:27 AM
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Jokes aside I see this as something that will start happening more often as time goes on. Many men who are not very desirable to women still want to father their own children someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:19 AM
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There are many men who would want to do this. But many men are seen as pedos if they want to adopt. Still assuming a really dedicated man, he really can't act out as a mother would. When a man adopts the best he can be is a surrogate father which is often not enough. If the child is too old, they're likely going to steal from them, given they are single men. And if the child is too young, being raised by a single man is going to mess with them just as much as being raised by a single mom, but in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:18 AM
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Everything you wrote is a great recipe to get #metooed nowadays. You have to understand, many (and I mean MANY) men cannot get a woman to the point where your advice would actually matter. Think about it. To fumble a sensual encounter (cause it hasn't gotten sexual YET), there has to be an encounter to begin with. But for a lot of guys, when they try to escalate, the woman already feels cornered since she's not really attracted to the guy. Again, for a lot of guys women can't wait for an opening…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:57 AM
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Rollo Tomassi is NEW in RP history. That's not "always". The more you go back the more focused on sex TRP is. TRP was started out, after all, by decent looking "losers" who wanted to break a multi-year-long dry spells or lose their virginities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:52 AM
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Incels take note. LOL no woman wants to get eaten out by an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:45 AM
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That's still just a small % of men. It's funny how a lot of women nowadays say "just don't be all around average". Which basically means the man has to be exceptional on at least some level for him to be worth having a relationship with. But how many men who are exceptional at any one thing are there out there. Sure they may be good at their job but exceptional? That's women simply saying, if he's a beta he should at least be a rockstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:43 AM
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Women have always thought they could do what they want. They may not want to SEE violence unfold, but KNOWING her boyfriend can beat up the whole neighborhood makes her wet. Another thing many women seem unable to do is put 2 + 2 together and realize that for a man with violent tendencies, it's only a matter of time until he will hit her as well. Lots of men who just sleep around are actually quite smart, they just also happen to be good looking and have a high libido. As for the man looking lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:39 AM
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Uniates huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:29 AM
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what RP misses I think RP doesn't really care about, more than it misses this aspect. A lot of RP was written about how to have multiple attractive sex partners as a man. At best there were a few texts on how to continue gaming your wife. It's only recently been the point that RP has started covering LTR in greater depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:58 AM
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They don't want to do that though. Can it even be done when a man isn't Chad, though? Many, MANY times men have been told that they are lucky to have a woman around and other stuff like this. Basically, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Men's expectation of good sex is also, historically, a relatively new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:49 AM
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By that standard, there's a chance that when you kiss a girl you kiss all the dicks she's had before in addition to your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:10 PM
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Sven Thündärcökkën
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 06:03 PM
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I'm on the phone right now so I can't post links (google amp) but both jezebel and a survery from openminded.com seem to say that is the case. Namely that women are more into polyamory than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:35 PM
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Most of the people I know who are very fit either go to the gym like crazy and only eat protein with limited amounts of fiber from grains OR they have very good metabolisms and also go to the gym like crazy. I don't know of one person who cares for the back of the box. Again, they're either omnivores with great genes or they're extremely "picky" eaters. Everyone I know who has a "balanced" diet has at least some flab.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:26 AM
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which is why it's handy that food is labeled You're already asking too much of the average person, if they have to read the label. After 9 hours of work people just go to the grocery store and buy a loaf of bread, a jug of milk, fruit, vegetables or whatever else they finished and are lacking from the fridge or pantry. Nobody is going to read the tiny print on the back of the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:39 AM
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"beans" as in "bean counter" AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:00 AM
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Our brains aren't very good at counting calories though. If you got used to a slice of bread having 30 calories, and 10 years later it has 65 calories, your brain still sees it as a slice of bread. But the same slice of bread makes you fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:58 AM
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Chad genes and dad beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:18 AM
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Except in those scenarios both the man and woman in the relationship are having sex with other people. Not necessarily. Many open relationships come from a toxic place (where it would be better for the couple to just break up). In open relationships where the man is bisexual, yeah, both parties have sex with other people. But the majority of open relationships with a straight male are cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:17 AM
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Why would Chad want to run 4 households when he can just plate 4 women and live on his own terms. Women pushing for it will not make men take more of them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:14 AM
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The blame falls on both parties. Most people have not increased their food intake, but the food is less nutritious than it was 10 years ago. I certainly don't eat more than 10 years ago, but there's more empty calories in the same servings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:34 AM
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Refugees who are leaving "heavily farmed" areas have also traditionally practiced subsistence agriculture together with monocultures. It's not like that soil is 100% unsalvageable, but it would take about 10 years for food to start growing there again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:30 AM
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I see the light... of my TV waiting at home with the PS4 hooked up to it. Unlike women, gaming's always been there for me. :))
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/19 07:30 AM
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When she's done with the club life and it looks like a club sandwich down there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/19 01:18 PM
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Oh yeah absolutely, it's just most people will tell men to lower their standards and give less attractive girls a shot. And ugly women are desperate for status even more so than attention. I don't think there were more than two girls in college who failed to date an those two looked like beached walruses. Meanwhile almost half the male student body were quasi-incels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/19 01:14 PM
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Well I mean don't give them that marriage, don't be a simp for these women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/19 07:19 AM
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What's shameful about starting your PhD at 30? Other than that, good grief, this is perfect to show to all people who say that fat, nerdy girls don't fuck around as much. They do, in this day, unless the girl is from the upper class, she's usually fucked around a lot. And these aren't one time mistakes either. Relationships with modern women just aren't worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/19 06:52 AM
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(8000 years ago) only 1 in 17 men reproduced That statistic did not account for male eunuchs and slaves which were barred from reproduction. A statistic closer to reality was that 1 in 8 free men reproduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:24 AM
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At least he tried. That would happen to a lot of these men. Drive needs push, in the form of success. You can't take a man who's failed most of his life and expect him to have endless supplies of will because a Sergeant screamed at him and he, maybe, shot a few people in Irak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:15 AM
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the work ethic there is so brutal and the women there so money focused And that's different from 2019 USA how? If anything Japan was the canary in the coalmine, not an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:08 AM
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I agree and would love to see the population cut in half. You can start with yourself and not have to see anything anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:03 AM
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Its like a 17 year old going MGTOW, its not smart, its sad. And sometimes it's necessary. I'd rather teen boys go MGTOW than sucide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:17 PM
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even not being that much of either Because teenage girls are all smart and pretty... obviously. And as they age they become even smarter and prettier. LOL sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:16 PM
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Charming in that its easier to give up and think the deck is stacked so far against you, you can't win, rather than fix the problem which takes work, introspection, and self improvement. The deck is stacked against you, and since I'm a programmer let me quote an often ignored nugget of wisdom: Hard problems are hard. And, ultimately, no amount of abstraction will make them any easier. The burden of performance on men is heavier than it's always been, even as we are closer to equality today than …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:13 PM
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It's not a prison of belief. It's exhausting and it takes up too much time unless the man is gifted with lots of energy to fit all that in his day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:00 PM
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My life has gotten much better ever since I stopped worrying about treating people how I wanted to be treated and instead just took whatever I want no matter who I had to step on to get to it. I can't do that even if I wanted to because of health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:16 PM
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IDK, because the education I got as home told me to treat people with decency and to generally "do unto others as you'd have them do unto you"? And since I was still a kid it mostly worked with adults (didn't work with other kids, but they were kids). Well now that I'm finally an adult I have become the creepy, chubby, nerdy "mister", most people avoid. Oh well, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:04 PM
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Most of the time a woman is not attracted to the average guy. Not to mention a lot of girls feel like they are already in a relationship with a guy who's actually just casually hanging out with & fucking them. Since there are slightly more men than women, and a bunch of women are also dating the same guy without realizing it, it's pretty clear that a bunch of men will almost always approach women who are not immediately interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:35 PM
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Women don't see guys doing favors for them as acting like a doormat. They see that as the normal way of things. Guys do things for you because you're a girl and they don't ask for a lot in return. Obviously a real friendship should never be quid pro quo but there has to be some balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:32 PM
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And lots of men in the US have had GFs' daddy chase them away while drunk with a potentially loaded gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:19 PM
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nor do I plan on getting married or having a relationship with a woman exactly because of it. To quote Jurassic Park: "Clever girl!" I also don't care that much, per se, if someone else signed a shitty agreement. But it does make me feel sad, in a general sense, for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:18 PM
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I thnk most of them are trolling. Almost any scoentific, nonbiased sex-ed resource will explain that sex for men and women is different. Growing up I haf a sex-ed book written by a biologist-turnef-pastor and even THAT book (which advocated abstinence) explained most women don't orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:17 PM
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Also most people are cowards so it is extremely unlikely to happen. You know what else is extremely unlikely to happen? A woman being raped by a stranger on the street. Yet it's something many women fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:57 PM
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If people want to fuck others they should make things clear with their partner. Would you like it if your bank rented out your house while you were gone because took out a mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:55 PM
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he looked at me and said look how much she is loving that (LOL) Dude was likely messing with you or doing a poor job at suggesting you have a threesome with him and a couple of pals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:41 PM
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think that female porn stars have real PIV orgasms on the set (lol, bless their hearts), Maybe when they're 14. But most men who use porn know that it's both fake and simply a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:40 PM
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Your ACE score is 6 Given I'm also weird and autistic, what's that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:18 PM
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No, your post is very much on point, but most men almost never get approached. I was approached maybe twice in my life by a woman and she was a drunk foreigner on business the second time it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:04 PM
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Minor but crucial. If 2 similar guys compete over a woman, the guy with more money will usually get her. Obviously money won't make a 2/10 into a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 08:54 PM
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Even as far back as 2006 newer research showed that bonobos are nowhere near the bohemian, hippie species we view them as. But since you brought this up, here's an article explaining that bonobos are, after all, governed by the same natural laws all other mammals abide: https://www.popsci.com/bonobo-ladies-get-to-choose-their-mate-and-they-do-not-choose-you/ "But bonobos are much more peaceful, so the lower-ranked fellas don't even get a chance." And, well, this: "Dominance is sexy to bonobos th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 08:53 PM
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We're apes, and in apes the burden of sexual competition is on males. We can debate it until the cows come home but women by and large simply have no need to put in much effort to get approached. And most women claiming no man approaches them ignore most men who approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:56 AM
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Money is a part of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:48 AM
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Then, one day, when she got me alone, she mustered the balls to tell me how she felt about me and ask me if I wanted to go out with her. You're probably pretty good looking for this to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:42 AM
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I mean he's gotta learn that at some point in life and 22 is pretty late for the rejection lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:39 AM
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So, how'd it go? Getting into game as a high functioning guy on the spectrum is pretty hard. At least in my case, the way I process things is different, my sense of humor is different. If it helps him get over anxiety and start experimenting more it's a good thing. Though, honestly, for autistic guys, the best advice is to hit the gym and get in shape, it does wonders for self esteem and makes it easier to get a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:31 AM
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Alcohol I get but drugs could literally clock me out or even kill me because of an existing health problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:25 AM
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Before marriage, open your eyes wide. Before marriage, open your eyes wide. And don't get married. Better advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:09 PM
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And I said that women hate his white lies because he is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:05 PM
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Well I know a lot of guys who lied their pants off to get laid and it worked. Because they were not ugly. Stuff like renting an expensive car and bragging that they own it. This one guy playing trumpet in a local orchestra talked a few other guys into vouching for him as a bassoon concertmaster to impress the girl. You name a lie, I saw a variation of it. And women "fell" for the lie and bombast. Because the guy was not ugly. Being ugly makes people feel justified about not trusting a man if he …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:04 PM
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The minute I noticed a guy lying, and he's not hot, even if it was just stupid stories? FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:37 PM
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“He’s such a liar” and “I just don’t like him” are huge red flags for me. Women think he is being nice to get pussy since he is ugly, therefore they feel very wary of him due to their instinct telling them something is "off". That could be anything. People perceive ugly men as mean, scheming, backstabbing etc. So if an ugly guy is nice, our ape brain tells us HE MUST be hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:35 PM
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If you want to be seen and used as a provider maybe. For status game to work today you need to be a local gang leader or otherwise have some fame to your name in other industries. Again, assuming you're fat and/or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:35 PM
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But hierarchy is intrinsic to humankind. If anarchy were instituded tomorrow, you would likely have robbers at your doorstep before the ink on the declaration had a chance to dry. Most of our politicians would also be killed by the army the same day. Not being ruled is nice, but how many people / guns / ammo do you have to defend yourself with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:22 PM
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Sure but people who are not devout will mock men for veing virgins past their teens. Even amngst Christians they mock Christian men who cannot find a wife past 30 and pity women who fail to do the same. I grew up in a fairly devout country & city. At least on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:15 PM
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Yeah it's only for those who can see themselves as leaders or enforcers. Vote anarchy if you want to call your local drug leader "Yes, Master!".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:12 PM
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For most people anarchy would mean death or enslavement. After all, it's anarchy. Former cops will only protect their group, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:02 PM
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Yeah, because the sexual interest of men and women is mostly antithetical. Women want sex, but only on their terms. That's aboslutley fine. Still, this leaves a large number of men sex-starved. That is also fine. In spite of these things both being fine, they will collide. And there is no polite good will solution. This conflict will continue to persist for as long as we are a sexual species.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:00 PM
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Being fat and wanting an attractive woman is being a hypocrite. Unless you can already attract such women. But we're not talking about statistical anomalies. Most fatasses I know are good with women used to be muscular as teens but let themselves go or had a thyroid problem suddenly flare up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:50 PM
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If you want an athletic girl, as a rule of thumb, you have to be athletic yourself. Have fatasses fucked athletics? Sure. Is it a common occurence? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:43 PM
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No even for non religious people women's virginity is judged differently from a man's virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:41 PM
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If you want a hot body, generally, you have to offer a hot body. You'll say that you can buy sex and that's certainly true, but money can't buy genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:40 PM
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What about a man who no longer finds it worthwile dating at all? Is that seen as hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:35 PM
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It makes for good chat. Not to trivialize people's suffering (I've seen my fair share too), but no matter what and how we debate here (we could do it until we turn purple in the face) nothing will change. Not as a result of our debates anyway. And it is, not fun, but still laughable how much people don't want to learn from the mistakes of those who came before them. I mean in each new generation teens and kids make the exact same mistakes, proving that a lot of what we are dealing with is deeply…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:43 PM
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Y'all never get tired of this do you? Oh, I do but it's still fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:31 PM
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She said that she's heard all the stories and excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:28 PM
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You won't want to hear about the girl on the phone saying "Mike is great and all but I'd like to try doing it with some other guys" *Mike is not the real name
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:09 PM
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Not by men. INTP women still get with the hot guys when they feel like banging a smart woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:50 PM
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Women denying TRP is the biggest hangup. I literally caught a conversatuon between 2 women gong by me and one said "If only this guy was taller".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:47 PM
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Yeah yeah, it's all about personal effort and in your control. Except genetivlc traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:43 PM
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Isn't that similar for INTP men? At least INTP women are invited to socialize and leave of their own accord. INTP men are shamed and bullied into leaving the party, only invited for others to have fun at their expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:39 PM
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In my case the persona I show here is very much unlike me IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:36 PM
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This is why you make a fake account and never tell things in too much detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:35 PM
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I've been mugged or intimidated into giving groups of beggars money more than once. I think people who are “jealous” of Chads are really just upset at themselves No shit... Have I ever denied that I am upset with aspects of my genetics and circumstances? Being a 9/10 Chad is easy, it just takes hard work. It's very easy actually, a man need only be born from the right parents. and displacing those feelings into what they envy, and the “reason” why they are upset at themselves What? I mean envy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:43 PM
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Because there are slightly more men than women out there. And desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:34 PM
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Why not be jealous of Chad? You can say he's got his own problems, but he's also equipped to deal with them. I'd much rather be a Chad than be myself if I had the choice, so forgive me for being a bit jealous. Not all Chads are bad but they are all assholes (to different people in different circumstances) because they have to defend their spot in the human hierarchy. Imagine not having to run away from groups of agressive beggars. Or having to give them money because your body is not good enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:11 PM
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In practice a lot of women married men for their status and money or for stability without being attracted. Even nowadays millions of women have sex with men they are not attracted to every day. I'm talking about sex workers and porn stars. Cooking and cleaning don't require marriage. Friends (good ones) will help their friends cook and clean at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:06 PM
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The idea is that pretty people earn more pay as a rupe of thumb. Of course pretty women can be cashiers if they have no experience or notable skills. Looks can't cover for a lack of skills. But attractiveness is an advantage in getting hired for the se position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:53 AM
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Did the pretty cashiers earn less than ugly cashiers with similar seniority?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:39 AM
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Attractive people get better starting pay to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:39 AM
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Women can have missing limbs and other handicaps and still get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:36 AM
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It’s quite rare to see unattractive women with attractive men. If I were to take pictures of such couples you lot would call me creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:32 AM
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Right after this study Alicia Walker went out with her friends for a girls' night out and cheated on her boyfriend. This all flied right over her head, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:00 AM
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If someone gave someone else oral herpes to their genitals, there will not be a sore on the lips. Not the UPPER lips anyway. And a cold sore can be masked with a bit of ingenuity. The stigma exists in Europe too, but it's just that nobody says anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:42 AM
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Not touché at all. Women prefer the kind of men who are more likely to rape them. Given that most rapes are done by a man the woman knows, and a disproportionate amount of rape is consensual behavior that got out of hand, women actually prefer "rapists". And not wanting to be always-on confrontational is not wanting to be a giant pussy. Why would I risk getting my nose broken and having blood all over my shirt? Because some woman's pussy has to get wet from seeing men duke it out like we're in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:38 AM
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Marry and fuck a man she is not very physically attracted to LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:33 AM
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Oh girls like the attention, don't be fooled. But it has to be attention from a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:33 AM
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Imagine, u/pnadlerlaw if only not for DeltaFosB, men would do all those things u/darksoldierk said. Except they wouldn't because the addiction molecule is just a tool. If a man is addicted to the right thing, it's suddenly a good thing. Without an addiction molecule, men just wouldn't care. And why should men care, work and study? To make society a more comfortable place for women? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:26 AM
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Yeah, but doesn't the US have cutting edge medicine. The guy/gal can just visit the doc, get a test (for peace of mind), and get some topical cream. And, you know, NOT HAVE SEX FOR THE 2-4 WEEKS it takes the sores to clear up, since it's HPV1 and not HPV2. But I can see how keeping it in your pants can be very hard for people with easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:00 AM
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They didn't give them genital herpes as much as oral herpes on the genitals. It sucks but literature says HPV1 on the genitals is nowhere near as bad as HPV2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:49 AM
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I don't tell those type of jokes anymore. Did it a few times when I was younger, but learned it wasn't the way to go, obviously. Also learned there was no way to go. You're either desirable or you're not. It's not exclusively all about your height, or exclusively about looks. Whether your personality fits your looks is another thing that's very important. Obviously this can be corrected for by being famous and having lots of money. But women will give you a shot only because of your fame and mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:43 AM
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Women don't really dig nerd jokes nor stories about how I was bullied, mugged or sexually assaulted as a guy. And other than that my life's generally quite boring. Even on the professional side it's not like my achievements as a coder compare to say John Carmack. Or even Douglas Crockford for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:44 PM
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When an unattractive guy tries the same women get a spell of dry vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:39 PM
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Well a lot of men are screwed at 30 something in terms of looks. Thankfully there are a lot of single moms desperate to be swindled with beta bucks game for men who're OK with the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:25 AM
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Because OLD does not work for most guys. With or without fatasses who only make up 20% of men on OLD. One of the players I know is 75 lbs overweight but he used to be good looking so his FB is FULL of pics of him with women. So he still fucks around with women who are married or in relationships due to previous validation. The average guy IS having problems dating online. I know because I asked plenty average guys. For every 50 to 70 matches they get a number. And they get a date with less than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:20 AM
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Biologically men are women - vagina + penis. Which is why a lot of younger women are attracted to more feminine men. While older women are attracted to feeling small and protected. Women are a lot more physically attracted to women than they are attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:03 PM
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And still women end up having sex with the wrong man very often anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:00 PM
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Women need more than just visual stimulation. But women are more discerning about men's looks than viceversa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:59 PM
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Well my ideal weight would be 145lbs given I'm 5'11. The problem is a lot of that extra weight is visceral fat. Maybe not as low as 1300 but definitely 1600. Sometimes I eat so much that I feel sick without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:56 PM
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Uh, they told me? And not all of them did that obviously. But I also used to hang out with some women in my group who told me they had made tinder profiles just for validation (and I knew they had boyfriends). So I assume many of the women who didn't tell me were just looking for validation. Plus women are almost never single here. The most autistic women I've found turned out to have a 6ft tall, skinny, art major boyfriends who listen to heavy metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 10:19 AM
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You can get HPV-1 for free just by kissing cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 10:13 AM
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I used to be more in shape but sedentarism... :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:09 AM
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Oh yeah, I sort of knew that since HS. There was a guy who'd been to prison and had a carpentry business. He fucked a lot of the engineer's wives while they were at work. He'd go to screw in the furniture as well as the lady of the house. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:11 AM
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Oh I tried most of the apps. Got some matches on tinder, a few on bumble. Hinge is 100% nerd unfriendly (unless you're an artsy nerd). Almost got a few dates even. But I have nothing in common with 99% of the women I meet there. Plus I'm 60 lbs overweight and quite out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:08 AM
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I don't have the morals for that. Now, sure, we're not exclusive until we talk it out, but I won't sleep with someone who I know for a fact is not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 08:02 AM
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Just do it until it works you get arrested and fined. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:20 AM
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That's life. It's tough shit but learning how to live alone will only help you in the long run. Or maybe find other people with common hobbies over meetups, maybe you can make friends or even find someone there, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:16 AM
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Ads have an entirely different problem. I almost always get ads for things I already bought. And when I don't it's that fucking garbage GoT browser game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:08 AM
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Online dating doesn't work out for most guys. There's a number of studies and articles, not just the OKCupid one. Google them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:03 AM
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at least everyone on tinder who matches with me is single, mutually attracted, and open to dating. Most women who matched me were just looking for some validation and already had boyfriends. But I'm glad it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:02 AM
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The attitude of women that men who don't look like Brad Pitt and aren't over 5'9" should "know their place". The fact that men are punished if they use their traditional evolutionary ways of locking down a partner and that makes women feel uncomfortable (#metoo). Men being seen as potential kiddie diddlers if they DO approach a single mom (unless they guy is hot, then nobody cares even IF he's one - until it's too late). Now, we all know that according to Reddit feminist women, there is a near u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:57 AM
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Andrea Dvorkin fled the US and shacked up with a Bad Boy revolutionary type who put her into prostitution and beat her. She chose her man poorly and, as a result, she condemned all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:43 AM
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"Sexy bum" in Cali, LA, San Fran != "sexy bum" in the rest of the world. A woman may have objectively attractive features, blond hair, blue eyes, etc. But say she's a homeless single mom who's addicted to drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:38 AM
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I wouldn't have sex with a hot beggar woman. And neither would most men. The idea that most men would fuck anything with a hole is a huge exaggeration. Just like the idea that fat chicks fuck any guy. Yeah as a 4/10 or 3/10 guy you can get a fat desperate chick to fuck you. And a lot of desperate men will have sex with a 2/10 woman. But these are not "most men".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:24 AM
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I want to fuck belle delphine. Begone male thot. Who in their right mind would want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:20 AM
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Women have an easier time finding short AND long term relationships. As for marriage, that ship has sailed a long time ago. Most men no longer see any value in LLTR ( long long term relationships :) ) like marriage, which is WHY many countries are expanding child support and alimony to cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:18 AM
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IDK the guy looks like a 4/10 to me. And the girl simply let herself go and she's a 2/10 at best (because she's not deformed). She could probably kill a guy by riding him hard enough. Like many fat girls who "try" to diet, she kept snacks on hand and that's what made her grow even more fat. In my case there are veggies I keep as snacks just in case there's an episode of compulsive eating, it's better to eat a carrot or a bell pepper than chocolate fudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:57 PM
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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/EIqEKB_J6hI/maxresdefault.jpg Aparently these two people can somehow have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 07:12 PM
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IDK if the landwhales get dick or if they can even have sex but many of them have boyfriends and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:17 AM
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No, I don't visit prostitutes. Are you the SRI agent who takes pics of me when I step out of the shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:14 AM
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Fat chicks still get dick no problem tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 08:16 PM
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seeing relationships as 'getting what I want' instead of smthg that both people build so what they end up with Yes but many women are unable to build a relationship with men they are not attracted to. For all the good self introspection does mutual attraction is still a key pillar of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:44 PM
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Well not a lot of cars to race nowadays. You have EPA regulations as well as a bunch of other codes. If you performance tune & race cars nowadays you're either in the scene or obscenely rich. The part about cars was from a historical standpoint, as a parallel to what young men did before easy access to video games was a thing. And in the 80s & 90s when arcades were big, guess what, even the alpha guys would drop a quarter in Pac-Man, Pole Position, Hang-On, Pinball Machines, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:33 PM
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Not really. Many "mentally ill" people will always seem a bit "off", which is a trigger for the creepiness instinct. I'm not talking about dudes who self-harm or continuously harass and intrude on personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:28 PM
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Well it's not hopeless, if I was willing to basically become "beta bucks" for some woman there are takers. But I don't really want that. They’re talking about the ones who could easily have sex and gfs if they’d drop the entitlement and defeatist attitudes. I know a few men who fit this mold but they are not the majority of men who have trouble dating. Most guys who have "bad luck" with women I know of are not "diamonds in the rough" and usually have legitimate mental issues (autism, OCD, bipola…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 07:15 PM
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But a disproportinate number of black people are part of that culture. And with the help of backroom gentrification the numbers are only going to swell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 06:09 PM
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Yeah... total BS LOL. I agree with one thing. Racist law enforcement policies have fanned the flames of black crime. But going in a lot of those hoods as a timid white man is a good way to get a cap popped in your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:57 PM
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I think his smile looks sad and forced, but also clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:26 PM
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I mean most of our generation played FIFA on playstation and Halo on Xbox, even the linebackers. Guys mature a bit slower than girls so it's no surprise that they enjoy video games in to their 20s. You wanna know what most guys did before video games existed? They raced cars, they raced bikes, they built computers in their shed, they played D&D. Men leaning towards more techie stuff is not something new. Back in HS I was on the soccer team so no I didn't spend most of my day inside. But, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 05:06 PM
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This is so fucking 90s it makes me cringe. These guys are just undesirable. It's just that easy. Most of them do not live in their mom's basement or anything like that. Take me for example, I live alone, have a well paying job, cook and clean for myself. I am, by definition a self sufficient adult. But I also have health problems and that makes me an undesirable mate from a sexual dynamics perspective. And I know that. Short of me raising a few million dollars and coming to the US for life chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:49 PM
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I'd say it matches up pretty well with fourth wave feminism :) Hold frame and spin plates trays. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:46 PM
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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/EIqEKB_J6hI/maxresdefault.jpg This is how fair the SMP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:43 PM
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For black women it's also a cultural element.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:24 PM
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Yeah. And we've probably met before too, given this is my 6th account or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:22 PM
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full contribution of a man's labor and resources towards her offspring For a young woman, access to Chad far outweighs the benefit of having a man bring in his resources. Besides, most women have relatives who will help them (built-in social security net) when they need it. If they are poor you can also add in welfare. And older women, who care less about access to Chad, do not want to cook and clean for another person just because he brings a bit of extra income in the house. A man who earns $5…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:14 PM
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Christianity allows widows to remarry...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:08 PM
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I didn't finish college and I have job... as a programmer. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:07 PM
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Single mom families != matriarchal families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:05 PM
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Moving isn't always that easy. First of all, who do you sell/rent to in a dead town? Second of all, the cost. You have to buy a new home or rent. Third: the things you collected. Doing a few yard sales to get rid of all your old shit takes time. And 30 mins of commuting is less than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:54 PM
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I'm not from the US so the hot/cold sensibilities aren't something I'm deelply acquainted with. But, first of all it has to be a job I'm qualified to do or can take classes for in a meaningful time frame. If a guy is, say, a carpenter but there's only demand for plumbers or micro mechanics... yeah Second of all where I live the only towns with cheap housing are former mining towns that are slowly becoming ghost towns as we transition away from coal and the mines are being decommissioned. Third o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:07 PM
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Yay a 1k discount to a 17k price LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:28 AM
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Housing is quite reasonable elsewhere Housing is not reasonable anywhere. If it's cheap there's usually no jobs around. If there are jobs around, it's usually expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:21 AM
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Going out to eat used to be treat, now it's a daily thing Do you have time to cook everyday? And cooking doesn't come out that much cheaper unless your diet consists of bread and soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:15 AM
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However, if the woman has a real change of mind through reading, and it comes out in pro-male and pro-marriage actions, then it would be a genuine relevant change from her previous behavior. This reads like you're trying to convince yourself to go back to the plantation. If that's what you really want nobody can convince you otherwise. But the majority of single women today are NOT worth marrying. What you can do as a man is build up value and a thick hide and either go monk mode or go to town o…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre13/07/19 07:56 AM
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You can't grow taller without invasive surgery. And therapy can only help so much. So the only thing the guy can do is learn to ignore people mocking him for his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 01:56 PM
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I get you, but insecurities don't come from the blue. The man either compared his size with other men in the locker. Or he compared it to pornstars. There are a lot of ways a guy can feel insecure about his dick. And insecurity is an evolved trait. Under normal circstances it's supposed to deter you from attacking the tiger after you saw a bigger guy than you fail to kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:59 AM
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Well, first of all she tells all her friends the man has a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:48 AM
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A voicecel? Damn. It really is over for men, huh? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:46 AM
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I mean if a guy throws his weight around and has none it's one thing. If the same guy is bullies for throwing his inexistent weight around because of preconceptions... Many people instinctively think a short person has a napopeon complex without having even interacted with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:35 AM
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Those fucking incels again. They started it all being ugly short or mentally ill, they make it so easy to bully them. It's not our fault it's theira for being unable to take a joke... every day... for 12 years. A secure, mentally stable person would endure it, maybe even embrace it^/s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:30 AM
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I mean if everyone laughs at it it's likely not so mighty. But people could stand to be more considerate. A grown ass adult laughing at another for being short is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:22 AM
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He was't born with that chip though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:15 AM
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White knight dispensing justice for strong independent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:45 AM
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Well SJW call them microagressions when they are directed at fat, unattractive women. When they're directed at men it's what "those perverted pigs deserve".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:44 AM
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So It's on the ugly guy to learn to deal with being mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:40 AM
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Which is why netflix & amazon prime are so succesful. And why public venues are losing more money than ever. Because modern people are super extroverted and love making new friends and hanging out...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:19 AM
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Being decriminalized for sex workers and police turning a blind eye most of the time does not mean it is legal. If you happen to hire a sex worker during a bad financial time for cops they will not hesitate to arrest and fine the shit out of the john.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:07 PM
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while most of the human population is extroverted. whut? most of the human population is more introverted than extroverted. They're just not quite shut-in gamers. Extroverted people make up less than 1/4 of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:58 PM
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It matters as a heads-up. If you only care about the sex, it doesn't. But ugly/weird men are made fun of both by the "normal" woman and the sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:50 PM
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Bruh prostitution is illegal most everywhere. Consequences may vary, sure, but that doesn't mean it's legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:45 PM
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Yet a lot of these men can't get a woman to date them consistently? Why do you think this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:40 PM
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TBH plenty of escorts make fun of their customers afterwards. Seen it in a "red light district"-ish part of the town where I live. Working girls on a smoke or coffee break making fun of the john's penis size, his social awkwardness, his life problems, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:38 PM
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The date was not only older and overweight [...] So the worst part is not that he was unkempt and had no shame or manners but that he was old and fat. In fact, had he been a young fit man, you'd have chucked it up to him being a hipster. It's a horrifying image to be sure, and even if you hire a sex worker, being clean is a sign of self-respect and self-esteem (especially when you drop 3 to 4 figures on the service).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:36 PM
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On the internet being overweight makes a person an automatic 3/10, therefore ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:28 PM
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Nobody says anything about Instagram models LOL. And I'm not saying normal dudes don't get laid, but you described him as being a sloppy looking 30 yo guy with the attitude of a dudebro. And I don't see that type of guy having a lot of success with women unless those women somehow found him to be the best option out of all the 100s they have on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:59 PM
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They are most likely thinking of college educated women coming from middle class families or above Yet an increasing number of college educated women are undergoing IVF in their mid-late 30s and even early 40s. They might not have had the kid directly with a man, but a not insignificant number of college educated women from middle class families do in fact choose to become single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:56 PM
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Must be the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:53 PM
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Obviously the pairing of these two people would've been impossible 100 years ago. The woman would be sent to a monastery and the man would either become a monk himself or get used for some simple, repetitive task.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:48 PM
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Hey, I get there were circumstances. Fell for the pleas of se less than great women myself (tried being the nice guy because I'm dumb). No, sex was never involved and I was just trying to lend a helping hand. Untill I was asked to do illegal shit and broke contact off instantly. Obviously I got threats by phone, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:26 PM
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So how did he get cute women from Tinder then LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:24 PM
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And they're not gay? She's pretty and has a nice voice but her songs... don't really resonate with me. Maybe when I was 12 and still dumb about female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:52 PM
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Well they can. The problem is that many of them can't stay fatithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:29 AM
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shit, so the baseline is now to look like a 22 yo fratboy but live like a 30 yo CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:23 AM
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Because men who are players will actually have some women who reject them. Very good players have a success rate of maybe 1 in 5 women they approach, but often lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:19 AM
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IDK, my experience says otherwise. Chad picks Becky to have kids with because she's a devotes wife but keeps having sex with other women on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:07 AM
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I wasn't interested in a picture because it could change how I view things. It's good that you're working through it now and it seems like you've been through a lot of shit. Thankfully the meds I need can be bought over the counter so I can't say for sure how it's like not to have your prescription cause the doctor is in jail. But that's hardly your fault. And yes if the guy was stalking you, you could, say buy a small camera, film him and get a restraining order. The idea was not to lie to him …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:35 AM
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Maybe you're aiming beyond your abilities. After all some people have a PhD by 32. Shit talking aside (not that I'm in a better situation) chads are going to have fun and then marry a woman who didn't fuck more guys than years she's lived. And he will keep side plates to keep his knob well lubricated when his wife is going through hard times. Women still have a line of simp but it is drying up because they are waking up and going MGTOW. Besides it's better to be single than with a woman who was …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:34 AM
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That's what I'd expect a modern princess to say. :) You can't make this shit up. Thanks for making my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:47 AM
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I sort of get where you're coming from, but at the same time the question remains, why did you let yourself get in these circumstances? Honesty is important to me - despite his constant onslaught of bullshit, including threatening to kill himself over me, I've remain honest with him. If a fool wants to cap himself, fucking let him. This wasn't the case of a desperate family man at his limit. Assuming he had the balls to do it, it'd be one less issue in your life, no? That's more than most girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:42 AM
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To me it sounds like a polite admission that she's bipolar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:19 AM
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That's just contrarian rethoric. If she doesn't need a man why did she fuck at least 12 of them? And if she's so comfortable she can go on chasing Chad. It's not my life nor my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:09 AM
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Maybe they are just trying to get laid. About half these so called “Chads” stick around and express serious interest and/or are available on an ongoing basis. That is such a "loose" way of looking at life though. Yeah they are available on an ongoing basis, but they won't build a life with these women. I mean if a woman wants to live like a free cat lady spirit, with Chad (and his thunder-cock) interjected at various points in her life, that's her choice. But most women seem to regret this in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:06 AM
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Because girl entertainment is full of soppy crap that can get you to feel down. You like Post Malone music because on some level it makes you feel things vicariously. boy entertainment is for everyone For everyone who wants to partake in it. I'm not going to shoot people up after playing GTA. But I have seen grown women get into fights with their BFs after listening to a song about breakups and cheating. If we go the capitalist route we'd probably be better off educating women to be more like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:59 AM
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I will only say this "You make me so happy, it turns back to sad.". Her 12 relationships (that we know of) have fucked her up for LTR. Hopefully it works out for both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:55 AM
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I mean if the state and society did its job you would be entitled to at least life and liberty but... yeah... By default the human creature is not entitled to anything. But it's funny how people tend to only scream this at ugly subhumans. Why isn't anyone telling Taylor Swift or Jake Gyllenhaal that people aren't entitled to everything? Right, because they are pretty, rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:35 AM
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Why not all three? How come so many women seem to date guys with alcohol problems? Do you people meet in seedy bars or something? You see a dude with a bottle of Jack and think "gee whiz, he'd make a great long term partner!" :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:26 AM
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Someone from her extended entourage? Who's not so poor to see her as a meal ticket but not so rich that she's just another pump and dump? I'm sure she comes across a lot of guys who make around or over $200,000 a year on their own in a stable job and don't feel desperate for her money. And when her career ends they could still live a comfortable life. But Taylor Swift's problem seems to get a LTR to be her personality, not her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:21 AM
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Yeah but why does having had sex change things if we live in a "sexually liberated" society? She gave her pussy to Chad on a platter and now expects him to get in a relationship with her because she got his dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:44 AM
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Or people who whine about people who feel entitled or people who whine about other people/complete strangers feeling entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:41 AM
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That's a lot to unpack... the guy obviously hits a lot of bad boy stereotypes, but you seem to be hitting some clangers of your own even though you claim people tell you that you're pretty. You sound just as bad to date as this last guy you dated...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:37 AM
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Many women don't wait for the best. They give Chad their pussy and get pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:30 AM
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Being the silly idiot that I am, I thought to myself "Aww, this is nice, we're having a conversation and bonding about our pop culture interests." It so happened that on the very same day the Avengers came out, Taylor Swift had released a new song for the first time in two years. Taylor Swift is to me as the Avengers is to my husband, so in the interest of sharing our excitement over the things going on in our respective fandoms, I began babbling about the new Taylor Swift song. The Avengers is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:16 AM
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Isn't that the same thing TRP men are doing about female nature? No covert contracts Biology is a covert contract in humans. We don't have visible estrus, and pregnancy is hidden for a while even to the woman. Don't put words in my mouth. If I didn't say it, then I didn't mean it. TRP does the same about women though. It uses things we learned about female nature to infer things women never actually say. Don't put toughts in my head. If my motives are not clear, ask, don't assume. This is pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:10 AM
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but if that 4 works hard he can maybe hook up with a girl who is like 80 pounds heavier than him. Better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:05 PM
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No not friendzoned. These two girls rejected me at first but wanted to talk to me again some months later. And I'd found out that they were themselves rejected by the guys they had in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 12:53 PM
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what a woman is like at least from some perspective except TRP's. "What can you do for me?" "Gimme, gimme"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:45 AM
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Does translating letters for foreign personals serving divorced women count? Does getting Plan B'd for taller more muscular guys count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:37 AM
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Women are nice to the Don Juan for a while. The typical basement bargain "uggo" man sees women's true face though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:32 AM
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Nope, likely has baggage, possibly a kid or two as well. Which is why I don't encourage modern marriage. If you're not a divorced or single dad yourself many modern women ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:50 PM
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fuck / goof around with pretty much whenever you want You must be young, rich or both and/or a Chad. Bro, for the average guy relationships are a chore. My best friend from childhood stood by his GF even after he found out she cheated on him. He slapped her around a bunch, but he remained with her still. What self respecting man wants that? Most of his friends are cucks too. AND, it turns out, his only interes for reconnecting was that he wanted $1000 "on loan".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:36 PM
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Most fit men I know are married to obese women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:28 PM
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If sex work was normal work it wouldn't be illegal. And ancient cultures wouldn't have banned it. The question stems from how women ultimately view sex individually. For some women having sex for money is degrading, for others it's business as usual. Most people would do janitorial work if it was their last shot at a job. But how many would do it without gloves? For most women having sex with a man she is not attracted to feels like having to pick up a turd log with their bare hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:23 PM
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Not if you also get some free^* bacteria along for the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:22 AM
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Sex isn't typical work. I'd maybe fix a friend's PC for a beer. I wouldn't let him fuck me in the ass for a beer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:13 AM
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But we don't, we give our work in exchange for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:06 AM
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Guys who are well sexed and grew up in a modern mindset don't marry. Or they marry a Becky who worships him. They spin plates well into their 50s and even beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:26 AM
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Biology is the reason. They want a pillar and a safety net. Obviously when girls are young they just want a fun, good llooking guy who gives them tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:23 AM
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Given you keep mentioning sex, why would a desirable man hurry up to commit when he can get much higher quality sex (more variety, more positions, younger and more vigorous women)? Because ultimately this is the battle of sexes. Women try to get the top% of men they can access to commit and put a ring on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:20 AM
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What do you disagree with? On the contrary you see men who want a relationship as being men who "get enough sex", so it's still through the lens of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:15 AM
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Perhaps, but there's a double standard in society. And women's desire for commitment is seen as more "pure" than men's desire for sex. However a man's desire for commitment is also seen as dirty because it's viewed through the lens of sex (i.e. "a man wants to lock down a woman to exclusively fuck him").
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:57 AM
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Consent is a two part concept: legal and moral. Legally you can buy consent only in places where prostitution is legal. Morally, from a humanist POV, consent can never actually be bought. From a base level "kill or be killed, it's the law of the jungle" yeah, consent can be bought and it's even a mating strategy for some species.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:54 AM
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Depends on how desperate you are. Sex costs money one way or the other for most men. Paying for sex is not silly because other men get it "for free", it's silly because, ultimately, you don't really get anything from it plus you risk getting an STD. Sure clam is treatable and you can get herpes 1 from just kissing a relative. But a risk is still a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:48 AM
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No matter how skilled a woman is at makeup it's easier to learn thatn it is for man to get the body most women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:17 AM
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And men who are not 6ft tall with a 6 pack are also "gross".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:19 AM
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Because, in the abstract, men are more "desperate" to have sex then women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:11 AM
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The market for men to do sex work is only for gay men, and maybe a few mature women. In my city there are 15 gigolos, 10 gay prostitutes and a few hundred regular hookers. At least on the "reputable" (i.e.:unlikely to get AIDS if the condom breaks) websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:10 AM
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Before the 90s: You buy her ice cream and juice and she lets you put it in her butt. After the 90s: A rich(er) old italian man buys her a Gucci purse and a second hand Fiat Punto and she lets him put it in her butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:16 PM
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Women had taken on all kinds of jobs and they were good at them. Cough automation cough. Most of those factory jobs were untenable for women because a lot of the work was done purely by hand before the two world wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:07 PM
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It's all a character LOL. Wish men had that easy a way to make paper...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:03 PM
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Still you get mogged by ChadThundajaCock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:44 PM
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How would that be? Cashing all your valuables in and marrying a post wall single mother is very blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:39 PM
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Why would you send someone a picture of your dick though? It's irrational. Second of all, assuming you still want to do it, blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:59 PM
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describing any and all "unwelcome sexual behavior" as "sexual harassment" regardless of location or context? A dick pic is probably pretty close to a notion of "civil sexual harassment". But yes, feminists do see "sexual harassment" as a subjective thing. Basically, in the feminist acception, if a woman feels harassed, then it must be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:21 PM
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Have you ever sent an unsolicited d*ck pic? You kidding me? I haven't even sent a solicited dick pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:18 PM
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I know another guy who also practices RP and he almost went steady with this one girl but she got angry at him for buying a Playstation VR and left him. The guy found some new girls to bang about a month or so later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:17 PM
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Does the personal experience of people I know count? Used to fix PCs as a side "job" in HS for a guy who did just this. And another guy I know also regularly meets women in relationships or married on FB & instagram and fucks them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:05 PM
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The 40 Year Old Virgin Was a neon-glowing blue pilled mess of a movie. "The 40-Year-Old Virgin, on top of everything else, purposely rejects that implicitly commercialized view of youth, adulthood, and generational divide. Its ending, if you don’t mind the 10-years-on spoiler, is a happy one: Andy’s waiting pays off. He commits to his girlfriend, Trish. He sells his dolls—perfect symbols of commercialized immaturity—and uses a chunk of the money he gets in return to pay for that most traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:00 PM
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Maybe they were? Some guys just can't resist sticking their dicks in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:49 PM
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Another FF fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:48 PM
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TBF most of the women RP men fuck are in committed relationships or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:47 PM
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My dad ended up with a woman 18 years younger than him. She kept him around for his pension but didn't take care of him at all. He also never contacted us anymore so I only found out that he was very ill AFTER he died. She also fed his drinking problem and basically killed him with neglect. I'd recommend /u/reluctantly_red to double down on self discipline and only get with a woman who brings actual value into his life. Otherwise it's best to gather money for when he's 80 and retire to a luxury …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:35 PM
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How exactly did women make themselves the enemy? By refusing to be chattel? By demanding the right to hold jobs and own property? By rebelling against having their whole lives dictated to them? No, by not controlling their own hypergamy. Women absolutely deserved these rights, BUT, women also want to date, marry and breed UP NOT ACROSS. So what happens when the status of the average woman is equal (and even a bit above) that of the average man? Simple, the average woman sees herself as too good …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:48 PM
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Renting a sex doll is disgusting and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:30 AM
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I’m into being sexually weak as a guy Enjoy getting findommed and fapping. VERY few women want a guy who is sexually weak. On average women want to be dominated and manhandled by a bigger stronger guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:16 AM
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Lift, get fit, lose the gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:09 AM
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It was a pun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:52 AM
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The bigges issue being that men are human doings while women are human beings. But equality is changing things and many women are starting to see how it is to only be valued for what you perform and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:42 AM
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I responded by working on being a more well-rounded and friendly person and learning to make friends. So you became a jolly fat man stereotype? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:39 AM
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So is it just the legality? If so, what's stopping dudes from taking an weekend vacation somewhere it is legal? Becauae that shit is expensive. I won't throw $1000 just for 30 minutes of sex. I can afford to, but it's still a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:31 AM
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The only woman available to guys on the low end of SMV is usually a single mom. Most women can't date Pietro Bosselli either but still have more options. Guys don't really get to choose who they date compared to women. From what I've seen most people end up in a sexless miserable or a cheaper-to-keep'em marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:38 AM
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This woman I told you about hadn't even taken her SAT (they're called bachelor exams here). So she had to do that as well at 51. At least it's good that she raised her kids well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:32 AM
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It is a ridiculous law created by a female politician to dissuade reporters. But any woman could troll a guy she was regularly seen with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:29 AM
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Not really. Many women I see in the subway on the way to work have tramp stamps, medium to large upper back tattoos. Even girls who aren't "in the scene" are getting tatted out nowadays. A girl doesn't need to have tattoos like Bonnie Rotten (since you brought up porn) for it to be off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:25 AM
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Back when people who got married today were born the number of live births was ~3.8 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:22 AM
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Time to attend a course and learn something new maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:01 AM
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Been turned down by women who were not hot, it wasn't an ego blow, it's not like I don't know I have low SMP value LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:57 AM
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Even socially shit girls want nothing to do with socially shit guys. Chad. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:56 AM
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Too bad the socially shit guys won't bother approaching socially shit girls. You mean all 10 of them? I don't think there's anything you can do to get guys who never approach to start approaching unfortunately. Get rid of #metoo laws that take a woman's word as the truth, no proof required? Last year my country passed a law where a man can be fined if he makes a woman feel harassed when he approaches her. Any woman I know could literally go to the police, give them my name and boom, say I made h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:52 AM
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How could a guy possibly fuck that up? Be autistic, that's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:48 AM
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Yeah, traditional relationship = she has a low n count or is a virgin. She has little debt and her body isn't encrusted in tats. Being a beta man is not traditional, it means he is a cuck. He is wifing up and paying for the bills of a woman who fucked around with men that have more SMP value than he ever has or will. He is paying the college debt (and other debts) of this woman. And at best he maybe gets to father a kid, but even that is more helpful to that woman than him. Because if he is rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:38 AM
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men who have little to offer Women who are extremely shallow and primitive. The average Chad doesn't have that much more to offer other than his looks. A Chad could say the most vile things incels say AND HE'D STILL get women to fuck him. Certainly hating on women won't help incels/TFL/FAs get laid but it's not like they are born that way. Not being hateful towards women didn't really help them in the past either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:34 AM
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And you know what, most people end up just fine. 51% is technically most people too. But I'm not so sure a world where 49% of men can't find a relationship is a very nice world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:29 AM
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He's a very polite military brat from the Midwest. Yep, he's just a good-looking high-status guy. These guys are the ones who monopolize all the girls. He'll probably "date" 1/5th of all the girls on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:26 AM
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How many guys has your GF fucked before you? Smells like she just wants your SS money, old-timer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:21 AM
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Even committed sex is not easy to come by. Your GF would rather travel around Europe fucking all the Julios, Pierres, Vlads and M’Bayes she can get her hands on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:20 AM
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Some women don't even beat around the bush and will straight up ask for sex. It happens. If the guy is hot. We're currently at an all time low for marriages. Yet the divorce rate is still ~50%-ish I don't really disagree here. All the casual sex in the world doesn't replace an actual connection. In fact, banging a bunch of random girls makes you feel empty past a point. Having a "connection" with most modern women is impossible for a lot of men. The average man either spent most of his 20s & 30s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:17 AM
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Maybe she should learn how to do something now that her kids have grown up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:10 AM
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Just work your ass off to woo an obese woman who thinks about the Chad who raw-dogged her for fun but doesn't want to be seen with her in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah, if those women could, they would gladly ride the CC. For many guys I know were "players" years ago, their sex diet mostly consisted of bored wives of blue & white collar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:03 AM
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STEMlord bravetheists That made me laugh, but it's false. STEM guys who are Christian just don't like to be preachy online. Especially since it's unwelcome. and who will insist she not be on the deed to the house she raises their Chad's children in FTFY If the marriage survives for 15 years, sure she'll be on the deed to the house. But in practice it doesn't even matter. The judge will throw you out on your ass anyway (even though 1/2 of the house's value should be yours) and force you to pay no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:01 AM
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Women made themselves "enemies" of men. Most men are still somewhat courteous and respectful towards women, and most metrics that should correlate with increased satisfaction and happiness in women are up. But many women feel far more miserable in their condo drinking wine single at 38. Yet they refuse to date anyone but Chad, even as they clock in at 44. It's funny to see all these middle aged, well off women bitch and moan about not wanting to date engineers or technicians because they are too…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:50 AM
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because they're not friends with any girls either Because girls don't want boys seen as losers in their social circles? They did it to themselves. Yeah I'm pretty sure they flushed their own head in 5th grade. And that incident in 7th grade with the broken locker door? They also did it to themselves. And all those high-school beatings... man those guys would just clock themselves out in the yard ruthlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:37 AM
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Most men don't get regular sex from "fatties" on POF/Tinder either. @truespirit89 most likely looks okay for his age and could improve but doesn't have the time or doesn't want to put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:32 AM
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No, not really. You have to gradually improve your fitness and get some discipline in, that will help somewhat. You can't really increase your energy by a lot, and a lot of it is tied to how introverted you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:44 PM
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Why is it a problem for men to be interested in sex? And for most men it's not just being interested ONLY in sex. Another factor is that lots of people hookup nowadays with little care about whether they have anything in common with one another. Even for the "Chad", his first few relationships are unlikely to be motivated by pump'n'dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:36 PM
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Even in countries where 30% of men don't actually father their children, *"the vast majority of men father the children produced in their marriage". That doesn't mean it's not a problem. And in the US the practice is much less prevalent because of the social shame a woman who does this will incur, even if she is paid child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:32 PM
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I was referring to the idea that most people don't get necessarily marry the person whom they love. And the rate of cuckoldry (in terms of paternity) is far worse at the low end, 48% in the UK, 30% in Nigeria. In the US it is CONFIRMED that mating cuckoldry is at least 4% (some studies put the figure as high as 10%).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:37 PM
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Awesome, but that's not true for most 55 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:25 PM
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Where is my "theory" wrong? That ugly men find mates? Alpha fucks, beta bucks is as old as time. And for the rare situation where a woman gets with an ugly man regardless his status or resources? Outliers do exist, but it's dumb to pine on finding an outlier woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 01:23 PM
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No women don't find 70% of men gross, just sexually invisible. Only the bottom 15-30% of men are seen as gross by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:47 PM
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New Relationship Energy There is no such thing. A mouse experiment proved that provided with new females in heat, a male mouse will have sex to physical exhaustion. It's biology, and in humans it's somewhat moderated by our larger brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:41 PM
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its not really your attitude towards women It's not though. Unless he is a sociopath, no man starts out hating women or society. And hate for society usually comes first because people like to bully the fat kid whose mom only gives him crap cheap food because she's poor. And by the time he's old enough to pick a healthy diet for himself it's often too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:36 PM
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A lot of red pill men are scammers looking to sell false hope to ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:33 PM
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Not of that woman adores you. Obviously, LOL If she thinks you're her hypergamic optimal, she'll treat you like a god. If you're a Chad most women will treat you like a god. Also, a 2/10 is pretty low. Like bottom 10% Yep but that's how low some men would have to aim. Given that 6/10 men will sleep with and date 3/10 women, what is a 4/10 man to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:28 PM
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"your" offspring Lots of men today are unknowingly cucks, so it's not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:19 PM
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But her body is only stimulated by men in the top < 30%. And her mind will not allow you to stimulate her if she finds your presence as a sexual being gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:16 PM
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Your mission has to be normie, cool, and lead to acquisition of social status. So basically do shit that looks cool even if it has zero actual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:14 PM
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It's not worth it though. You still get nothing, but you also chase women you're not attracted to. And remember men are attracted to 60-70% of women. You're saying these men should aim for women who are 2/10 and 1/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:12 PM
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most women offer more than looks Yeah, entitlement and open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:09 PM
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Bro, plenty of fat chicks in my town are dating well built guys who are taller than me. It's hard to justify putting in the same amount of effort to woo and marry a fat ugly woman as you would an average woman when she's actually still thinking about the hot guys who picked her up and the club 2 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:02 PM
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What does that have to do with consent? You say that a guy might want to wait, but how many women are there will take the lead and push for sex unless she is really drunk. Even then if the guy is more sober than her, he can physically enforce his lack of consent and discourage the woman if he wants to wait. As for using a condom what does that have to do with consent? Women don't usually pull the condom off a guy's dick. Most women are not forward enough (and even for those who are the man has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:46 PM
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It's across their whole lifetime. It doesn't mean that 60% of the women are having sex with 22% of the men in this second.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:23 PM
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men are not willing to put the effort This is male shaming at its finest. Men aren't manning up to go to the gym and get fit. Men aren't manning up to marry single mothers. Men no longer want to do dangerous jobs or join the army. It's all about how men are not putting in the "required" effort, while 22% of the men are cleaning house with 60% of the women without doing all that much other than simply socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:37 PM
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And yet most people still get married to one person whom they love LOL, sure, keep believing that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:33 PM
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Most women can only have GOOD sex during ovulation with a top % male. Everything else will generally feel mediocre to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:30 PM
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No, there are more men than women in the world in the age range of 18-40. Which is the prime age range for plentiful sexual activity. Sure people over 40 still have sex but their libidos tend to decrease and for women 40-45 is the age around which they often stop having sex entirely. SOME women might still have sex on occasion up to the age of 50-55 but after that it's pretty rare (taking into account the "normal" population) to find women who are still having an active sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:28 PM
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Well a man pursuing a woman has already given his consent by default. Unless he's drunk out of his mind, or she pulls out a giant dildo and shoves it up his ass during sex without asking him, the man has likely already consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:25 PM
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if it was as reliable as math there would be no incels. Math is 100% reliable yet we have tons of kids failing at it. Math is hard. RP is also hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:16 AM
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Kind of destroys that sprezzatura. There are not enough alpha males to go around though. Regardless of how much the sprezzatura gets destroyed. You gotta learn some suspension of disbelief. Just like in movies, very few people are capable of those acts IRL and even actors usually have stunt doubles. Desiring a man who has it all, i.e "Holding out for a Hero" has it's merits, but the risk is ending up a bitter "cool" wine aunt with 5 cats, asking where all the good men have gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:10 AM
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The basis of PUA and TRP lays in observing what Chads do to be successful with women and trying to "reverse engineer" it. Most men are not naturals because most men are not alpha males. who has the good stuff from trp but has no shoulder-chip or bitterness because he hasn’t been rejected a ton Oh the irony. You could also say that women create these men who have shoulder-chips by never giving them a chance in the first place. When most women are vying for the attention of the two naturally alpha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:04 AM
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Don’t be afraid to say hi to that cute girl she may be single and find you cute as well! Or you might be beaten up by her male orbiter who you didn't know was with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:42 AM
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Yeah bro, the "you should have worked harder" argument. Great shot right there. Because people end up in random shitty situation because they were lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:44 PM
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I mean if you see that as a good thing. A lot of these "neurotic" men are in properly earned leading positions. Unless you propose hiring men based on their social skills and good looks instead of the ability to do their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 12:07 PM
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A man tried to force me into his car when I was 8 years old. When I managed to escape, he threw a full soda can at my head and called me a whore. That was the first time I heard that word, I had to ask my then 17 year old brother what it meant. Just a few months later, a group of teenage/perhaps college age boys followed me in their car from the park making lude comments and telling me to get in the car. Things like that would continue happening after that point, up until today. Five men have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 12:04 PM
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Where is the choice for women being mistreated in so many ways In the nature of the sexual market. As long as the burden of performance continues to be on men, women will continue to suffer through, at the very least, some awkward approaches. Tougher laws won't deter that many men from approaching women. On one hand I feel for women who feel uncomfortable and do my part by not approaching women randomly on the street. OTOH women have creeped themselves out just being in my vicinity without me ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:58 AM
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All these social retards should just go to the social gym bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:46 AM
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Why do you assume I live in my mother's basement though? The idea was to point out that while "not living in mom's basement" isn't really an achievement in the eyes of women, it's also irrelevant to sexual or social success. Lots of women in big cities still live with their parents well into their 30s simply because the rent costs have soared. Even with these high rent costs most men are forced to rent anyway, otherwise they are seen as basement dwellers. Which is another double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:09 AM
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This situation is actually better for men who just want a life of hedonism. The average man has to work himself to the bone to compensate for not being a top % male.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:58 PM
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Yeah that was pretty funny actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:54 PM
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You can't call large swathes of participants to society losers when the rules of the game are rigged.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:44 PM
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In your acception everyone who isn't a winner or fails to achieve their goals are a loser. Most losers never even got the chance to take a play at their goals. I just "love" the modern mindset: if you try and fail, you're a loser, if you don't try and fail you're a loser. The only winners are those who try and succeed AND those who don't even try but somehow still succeed. So it's all down to either talent or luck, neither of which have anything to do with work ethic, equality of opportunity, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:43 PM
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Why though? Women today ask A LOT from a man for him to compensate for his looks (Having a fat woman tell a man "You don't look like Brad Pitt"). In the days of our parents women's apparent choice was limited to more or less their real choice. So there wasn't a lot asked out of a man, as long as he wasn't retarded and could handle himself. People also made friends easier since there was, again, a lot less choice and communities HAD to work properly. People marched through initial impressions and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:35 PM
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Except plenty of hot men still live with their parents (due to rent prices and housing shortage) or on their parents' property but they get a lot of action coming their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:27 PM
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Stockholm syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:19 AM
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Finding something gross does not make it invalid. smooth-head blobfish could be seen as gross too, that doesn't mean their existance is invalid. It appears to me, that the sentiment of many women is that undesirable men (when confronted with such a man) should accept their station and make themselves scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 03:07 PM
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Losers have a reason to be thirsty as well: women don't want them. You can't say that because a guy was unfortunate to look ugly, gross or just weird, he has no reason to be thirsty. You can say that a woman doesn't want to fuck him, but not that he shouldn't be thirsty and shouldn't be thinking about sex because he's ugly. That's pretty much tumblr-feminist level of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:48 PM
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become an unfeeling zombie. It's not so bad. Personally, I'm halfway there just by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:40 PM
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The BDSM community was tearing apart how the contract scene was written and how the sex acts unfolded. I'm pretty sure most women in the BDSM would go crazy for a Dom like Christian Grey IRL if he'd act closer to the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:31 PM
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I hope OP bears in mind that Christian Grey is a fictional character designed BY A WOMAN to be a fucked-up Chad-Barbie fantasy, and The. Only. Reason. That he gets away with weird shit is because he's created live inside a totally imaginary world that women enter to willfully project their fantasies. Uhh... yeah... totally imaginary https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/frenchman-68-fooled-women-sex-5636762 As the old meme says: http://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/050faaa740515542043714f8a27217e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:29 PM
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Britney Everyone knows she's a skank though, so many men wouldn't date her just on principle. Would you date the music industry's bycicle? If she had taken even a modicum of care of herself she'd look MUCH better today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:07 PM
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90% of the population is unfuckable by 30, especially women Women have no problem getting dick after 30. But they don't want dick, they want LTR, marriage & children (if they don't already have them).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:01 PM
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Krillin and Android 18 Sexbots...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:53 PM
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Friend game is bullshit. Ask women to get together (with a group) and do some other kind of endeavor that involves some amount of effort (photography, painting, songwriting, biking, working out, etc.). Most women will absolutely reject that sort of proposition 9/10 times. In fact many women have told me they'd rather just get together and watch a movie or talk about whatever. I'll be her friend and just wait Enjoy your sloppy thirties. If you want to get laid consistently, go to the gym, get fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:39 PM
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Women don't really buy technology all that often. Unless the tech also doubles as a fashion/social accessory most women will not even touch it. The few times I saw women buy laptops they went for ones that looked slick, slim and had vibrant color cases (red, pink, blue, etc.), with less regard on the performance of the machine. It's the same for cars, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:26 AM
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Women spend more than men but only in a few sectors of industry. Men generally buy a larger variety of things than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:58 AM
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Yeah but most men work so they can get better status and end up with better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:01 AM
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22% of men "clean house" on 60% of the women on these sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:57 AM
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To see her extended profile "UPGRADE NOW". Thanks but I've seen enough already.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 06:43 AM
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Being a single mom is the new hot thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 06:36 AM
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I'm a guy with a moderately attractive face and I've been turned down by a lot of women for being chubby (even chubby women) even though my face looks better IRL than in pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:03 PM
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If you are fit there ARE MANY women who will date a man just because he's fit. I've seen a lot of chubby women dating men who are slim and toned as well as men who are ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:36 PM
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I think people end up liking what the media tells them to like. Weighing 23 stone was NEVER universally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:03 PM
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men aren’t trained to notice what makes a man good-looking Not having a gut is in the top 3 things. For many women out there, if you're not fat, look well groomed and fit in your hang-out group, they'll give you a shot (well, they GAVE it, before tinder).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:51 PM
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A single mom to bail out, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:26 AM
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China has engineered... a lot of things to try and stay on top. Ideally, the treatment shouldn't kill adults. We already have experimental retroviral gene therapy but if the patient is an adult the treatment may well lead to a death worse than just living with the disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:00 PM
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If a 40 yr old man is a decent catch he can just get a hot woman close in age, who takes care of herself and looks younger than her age and they’ll be in a similar place in life. Goodbye having a family. Unless he's already had kids in a previous marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:42 PM
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After 40 it's better to just stop dating if you're not an Alpha male and not settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:41 PM
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If they cower when their bosses raise their voices or try to wring their arms into unfeasible deadline, then no, they are beta. I'm pretty sure Carmack wouldn't stand much of a chance in a fight against, say, Donald Cerrone. But that doesn't make him a beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:30 PM
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https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/John_D._Carmack Seems pretty Alpha to me (in the context of STEM, at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 01:13 PM
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Women appreciate honesty. From an attractive man. Be a Chad and then you can be as honest as you want. It will even be seen as "cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:28 AM
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Also you said nothing about actual fact - 2/3 of men agreed to bang random girl they never met before. I thought I did, oh well, must've been a different reply. The idea is that those studies were made on college students, so yeah they are in the perfect place to be horny as fuck. Oral herpes isn't dangerous. Blowjob / cunnilingus from someone with a cold sore. Sure you won't get HSV-2? But blisters on your genitals are probably not fun either way. https://www.doctorspring.com/question/had-blowj…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:24 AM
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after all back then there weren't any #metoo or social pressure against womanisers Yes there was, quite a lot of social pressure. Affairs were had with WAY more discretion than today and many men AND women would rather "satisfy themselves" or just go without than risk being found out by their social group. Being known as a player actually hurt your chances at marriage & LTR. Not as much as being known as a slut, but it did. BTW it seems you don't know much about STDs - it is safer to fuck 500 wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:29 AM
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He's an Alpha nerd. Of course he's not that Alpha compared to a former football player turned business owner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:16 AM
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It's good I pass for younger then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 03:14 AM
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Men don't really fantasize about 50 women or so. And while more men than women would agree to sex with a hot stranger, it's still only a minority. In tests, about 6-10% of women and ~18-22% of men. Getting back to your point porn is cheap and easy. Competing over women is difficult, costly, socially risky. And, thanks to metoo, potentialy legally risky as well. One steady, consistent fuckbuddy is worth more than 50 drunk slut ONS. And those can end in novel, drug-resistant STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 04:05 PM
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Then most women have too by that standard. Since women consume lots of literature involving Alpha Bucks sexing up Plain Gym Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:15 PM
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Bill Gates WAS a harmless nerd. He was at the right place and right time. You can say he had the balls/guts to move forward. But if he'd tried his strategy just 5 years earlier (or 5 years later for that matter), he'd have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 12:10 PM
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This is Jeff Bezos, in his prime: https://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/660/cpsprodpb/11001/production/_102633696_gettyimages-51042947.jpg Even his power pose is a joke: https://cdn.i-scmp.com/sites/default/files/styles/1200x800/public/d8/images/methode/2019/05/29/1e48112c-81c7-11e9-bda2-8286175bc410_image_hires_182133.jpg I respect the man for his ideas, business drive and character. But he nails the "Beta Provider" look 100%. Even Elon Musk and Bill Gates look more alpha than Jeff Bezos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:26 AM
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Jeff Bezos is "Beta" because he's a weak nerd. Jeremy Meeks is a very successful AND alpha. An example of an "Alpha" nerd would be John Carmack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:20 AM
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A man celebrated for sleeping with 300-600 women? Not really. I doubt most men in general want to sleep with that many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:00 AM
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That's a fair bit more than some hookers. It'd be interesting to see her STD antibodies, we could probably find better, faster cures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 09:59 AM
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What exactly is humilating? Well, most women don't need many regular sexual partners. What does a secondary sexual partner man to you? Is he the guy she calls when the one who she actually wants to fuck is busy? Is he there to sit around as an accessory as part of a cuckoldry fetish? Is he there to get gagged, pegged or otherwise placed in a submissive pose (again, used as an accessory)?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:59 AM
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I do but Pandora's "box" could have an alternate meaning. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:55 AM
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Humans fuck outside the fertility window too, no? secondary partners in group sex. Yeah women would be okay with a less attractive guy placed in a sexually humiliating posture. But most men don't have that fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:25 AM
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Most men do not care who they have sex with. Bowl of warm jello? Woo hoo. Hole in the wall? Woo hoo. Come on mate, you watch too much american pie. Besides you're confusing TEEN BOYS (who would put their dick in anything warm and soft) with ADULT MEN (who realize that sticking your dick in at random comes with consequences).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:06 AM
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Bonobos have visible estrus, humans have hidden estrus. Also humans have lots of mores around sexuality that bonobos don't have. You could compare us more to chimps in terms of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:02 AM
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That is BS though. Men don't feel the need to hump everything 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:00 AM
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Women are more likely to be bisexual, they are the baseline template of human life. So it's no wonder that women find other women attractive more than men find other men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:58 AM
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There is no real love, authentic connection or real cooperation between men and women. Once you understand that you understand the futility of sharing emotions or baggage or potentially damaging info. Whats the point? Its all fake anyway. May as well have it be a pleasant fake for as long as possible. Sooner or later one of you is going to become a disappointment to the other. You cant avoid it, so why hasten it? So then, why bother dating in the first place? Hell, why bother trying to have ANY …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:48 AM
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don’t complain about the plagues You're at risk of catching them anyway if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 07:45 AM
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We got a badass over here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:45 PM
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Is it some 0 knowledge, useless experiment where all we can say is "what did you expect, some women want casual sex with hot dudes. And what ?" Well, if this was a funded study we'd have academically validated proof that "some women want casual sex with hot dudes" regardless of everything else. But since this wasn't a funded study, so all we have is a well documented anecdote. Is it some revealing experiment where the amount of girls accepting degrading terms from chads is unbelievably high ? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 02:11 PM
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Older women are even more picky than younger ones. Young women only want small variations over "he's a hot guy". But older women tend want the guy to basically be Christian Grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:58 AM
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she doesn't want a relationship, and she doesn't want a fuck boy, what does she want? $$$💸💵💴💶💷
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 08:29 AM
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initially catallaxy Nah it's sociopaths whom others either choose to put in charge (or do nothing about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:47 AM
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He also talked to them about cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:25 AM
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I meant becoming a politician to have sex with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 10:18 PM
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I never said "lifting" but "working out" (which includes treadmill, squats, crossfit, etc.). And I know they're not that crazy about discussing workout routines. I have a Chad-looking friend (buff, blue-eyed blond) who lost a bunch of women by boring them with talk about lifting, protein shakes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 10:10 PM
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Because atheles use performance enhancing drugs (don't kid yourself) and spend A LOT of time in the gym & training. Because that's their JOB. Now if you want to date an athlete, that's fine. But most men don't have that on their resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:08 AM
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Yeah I'm a baby as far as politics is concerned. Mostly because politics makes me want to barf sometimes. And Hollywood is a conspiracy: TO MAKE MONEY!. As for the apparent SJW lean of Hollywood, that's mostly because a lot of the new blood comes from left-leaning universities. But even they backpedal on the SJW dial as soon as it hurts their pockets. IDK about "racial realism", we need more data on people raised in similar environments to make any definitive inference on "the IQ of different ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:01 AM
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Lean athletic builds, muscles earned from sports or labor. Doesn't exist. That body type is either genetic or earned through YEARS spent in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:28 AM
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and raise her kids Fck you! You're not my real dad!*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:16 AM
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Why the heck would any man go for those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:14 AM
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Why would you be nazi-leaning as a geek, libertarian or incel? On the contrary, enjoy the fuckery while it lasts. Because sooner or later, the money runs out and those happy-go-lucky left leaning politicians will "suddenly" become a lot less tolerant to anything that doesn't bring home the bacon & cheddar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:13 AM
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Run for a local political office [...] get to know some local celebrities or become one yourself. That's just being beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:09 AM
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you’re rural so like rodeos? Holy presumptuous batman! Are you assuming his favorite sports event!? :) like whatever attractive archetype suits you Some men don't have an attractive archetype? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:07 AM
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Fake trad women make the best alimony beneficiaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:05 AM
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all you’ll find in rural areas is uneducated sloppyfat baby mommas looking for a meal ticket. That's most of what a not-so-hot looking, post 30 yo guy will find in the city too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:01 AM
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average skinny girls The average in the US is overweight though...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:58 AM
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and if the woman doesn't work out Why bother going after women who don't work out at all given you put in so much effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:46 AM
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It seems to me a lot of women want the body a dude who works out seriously, but want him to just be naturally fit without putting any real work in. Of course, women want the guys who won the genetic lottery. And they tend to wait for a guy who's already got it made. Rarely do you find women who are willing to walk (or even be dragged) the distance with their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:44 AM
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Yeah, something with Big Sausage. But jokes aside, many women have at least one FWB on dial if she feels lonely or in need of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 07:51 PM
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Yeah it is. People won't insult a man grieving a relative in an emotional way, but they will lose respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:11 PM
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Also I forgot to say that all of the married guys were at least 5 years older than me. None of the guys my age were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:56 PM
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Where I worked most of the software engineers were married too: to fat, ugly women who treated them like shit. And only one of these guys was actually fat. Women marry stem nerds, sure. But lots of women hate their husbands. And most women do hate engineers even if they are married to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:41 PM
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There is a BIG difference. Women now are incentivized to cheat by modern divorce laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:34 PM
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Yeah but that's on women's expectations. Many of their parents could outright buy a house or apartment (on mortgage) with just two blue collar salary. Or if the father worked a white collar job, his salary alone would often be enough for a comfortable existence. Women expect a man who just has to meet too many demands for him to be seen as "worthy" of her. Besides, if she's feeling lonely she can call the hot Uber Eats delivery guy for some netflix and chill. The winners are the highly attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:30 PM
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Yeah but women still cheat on them on the side unless they look like Chris Hemsworth, Brad Pitt or Pietro Boselli. Putting "engineer" as your job in any dating app will halve your matches. Believe me I've tried it on multiple apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:17 PM
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This is man blaming at its finest. Men can become providers, there are plenty of opportunities in high paying jobs like the various types of engineering. But women hate dating engineers worse than they hate men who expose their sexual history. Not to mention you conflate "medium or lower men" with poverty, something that is decidedly not true. Among these men you can find McDonald's workers but also College Professors. Not to mention the ever hated programmers and software engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 01:02 PM
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She could easily date a fat 5'8" balding dude who makes 70k a year. But she wants white Chad to commit to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/19 08:15 AM
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She's somewhat cute so there's at least 7 betas orbiting her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/19 08:01 AM
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Ask any woman if “if you’re not interested in me would you like me to leave you alone” the answer would be a resounding yes. Given how much thirst there's around, what do you expect. Most women have so much apparent choice that just the idea of dating a "lame", average looking guy becomes gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:48 AM
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Nope, I'm nice to people around me when they need help and I can help them. And it's been well over a year since I got out of "the dating game" and have no horses in that race.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:16 PM
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do you have autism? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:00 PM
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162cm isn't that small, it's normal. A man taller noticeably than you in heels (by average heel height ~7.6cm) means over 178cm tall (~37% of men). You also want him to be fit but not overly muscular (a.k.a doesn't spend too much time playing sports or in the gym), have decent skin, good teeth, a great skull or good hair genetics. You're not AS picky as most women, but the men you find attractive are still only the top ~27-25%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:53 PM
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Autistic women have an easier time anyway since it meshes more easily with societal expectations from women than it does for men. Still it's commendable she's adapted to the world. It's not looks or intelligence, that's reductio ad absurdum, to reduce or simplify to the abusrd. No it's a complex mix of looks, personality, social capital and chance. If you are a horrible person doesn't matter how good you look, you're going to be kicked to the kerb repeatedly. But most people are not that horribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:43 PM
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Is he carrying the groceries to go in her apartment and rob her? Or is he helping her purely to help her. Going for the extremes again. Of course I'm not talking about people who trick the elderly into robbing them. The same could be said about a man helping a mother carry her stroller up the stairs. Is he also helping her because he wants to rob her? Some people are not necessarily nice because they have a saintly aura. They can simply feel empathetic, they like being helpful. Others can even g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:38 PM
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And the guys who are nice but not hot are invisible, which divides them into "genuinely" (hot) nice guys and "nice" (ugly) guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:26 PM
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I just walk away. And if they give chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:25 PM
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and just letting other people be who they are Given how our world is going, we need to learn tolerance. I get it that many people want the creeps to go away, but the number of creepy men will continue to increase. And even the nicest guy won't stand by and starve to death because society doesn't like interacting with creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:23 PM
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A genuine nice guy is going to have an all around good aura. What? Hahaha, that's a good one. A person who is balanced, doesn't suffer from mental illness and is extroverted will have a good aura. You can be nice simply because you want to help others, but that doesn't mean you will have a good aura. A man can carry old people's groceries up the stairs and still be seen as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:16 PM
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Fake people are exactly like that, they are emulating a behaviour Autistic people are like that as well. Unless you are genuinely an extroverted, attractive, charming person there's some degree of fakery involved. And the worse off you are in looks and charm the more you need to compensate through wisdom, intelligence and servitude. You're either a nice person or you are not. So people can't be nice only part of the day? If someone is not nice to someone else who spits in their face they are fak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:12 PM
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Ive been in this situation, at a Playboy party So you were at a party largely attended by very attractive men and women... And you're probably quite attractive yourself, just not an 8 or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 12:44 PM
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I’d date the average guy provided he was actually average and not ugly and that there was initial sexual attraction. So at least a 7/10, which is what women see as "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 12:41 PM
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Nah, not even desperate guys fall for this as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:51 PM
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Because AWALT. And most men are lucky to get duty sex a few times a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:50 PM
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That is top dog nowadays. GG man!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:48 PM
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Every girl I have ever dated I’ve essentially stolen from some other dude who was talking to her first. Women will rarely break up before starting to date again. Which is why this shit isn't worth getting your jaw dislocated over. Stay safe and stay single my friends. Only date where you can ghost'em in a cloud of kush.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:46 PM
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I'd fall on one knee and ask her to marry me and let me get zinc shots from her BFs. /s I'd just leave her on the spot. Just turn around and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:43 PM
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Must love desserts Can't be anti-sugar Must love food Also, has to be fit and show a 6 pack.That's just her way of ensuring she gets top 3% genetic stock of men who can eat a whole cake and stay fit.At the age of 30 to 45. What a lunatic! Do you like quiet time? You're gonna have a lot of it. Legendary roast.
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