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Question For Menwayna00/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:04 PM
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why did u respond like 10 times chill out uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:07 PM
13

U right imma make jokes about men getting ball cancer too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:30 AM
1

Oh, I agree with you, I believe that also applies to men tho, if you cant find a relationship, then you're the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:27 AM

Its how they get what they want from men, and men who haven't managed to stop being controlled by their sexual desire are very easy to manipulate from the perspective of women. And the sad thing is most men are so hooked on sex and controlled by their biological urges that they don't really mind. "The basic principle of 'sex as a reward' does not vary from woman to woman. They all offer themselves to a man, stress their charms and then, providing he has performed his 'tricks' satisfactorily, rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:32 PM

well you're clearly whining about it on reddit.. man up!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:20 PM
3

that depends on people, I know women who date ugly men and have low standards, I also know women who have super high standards and only date specific attractive men, I know dudes who do the same too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:20 PM
4

I know a lot of average to "below average" men who fuck a lot, if you take care of urself and is GENUIENLY cool and fun to be around, you're set, but if u spend ur time on forums to talk trash about women and complain all day, yeah, that makes sense no one likes u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:19 PM

that's just sad then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:23 PM

this is why y'all don't attract women btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:31 PM

bro u gotta be hideous to say shit like that, holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:29 PM

yall out here believing women don't enjoy sex bc they don't like u LOLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:27 PM

yall b saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:25 PM
-1

u dumb autistic af dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:25 PM
0

could say the same about men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:22 PM

Acting like men notice ugly women LOLL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:50 AM
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I'm confused, did y'all not talk about the time u were meeting ? To me, "night" can mean from 7pm to like 5am or something, and if I'm hooking up with a guy, I'd make sure we'd meet at like 8pm or something, then it's a bit late lol but that is a personal preference, it seems like you guys didn't talk that much before, always settle a time before u meet someone..
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 06:13 AM
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Men in general don't HATE men, but men in this subreddit are often angry and bitter about being single, we are literally seeing the worst men out of the bunch on this sub. And most women irl don't actually hate men, just the bitter chronically online ones. But women have been oppressed by men, historically, and I think it's why it's seen as worse when men critize women as a group, because a lot of dudes in here will talk about women like they talk about an animal. You don't see that often with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:26 PM
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zzzz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:36 PM
1

did a woman tell you that..? or is this what the algorithm is feeding you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:35 PM
0

That happened to me before, so.. Also, this is what "nice" guys means. Fake nice guys. If you read my comment you would've understood it but oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:29 PM
-2

Let's say you've been told personality matters the most. Why would "being nice" be your only personality trait ? Men who are ACTUALLY nice are amazing, but they often have other qualities, anyone can act nice, it is not that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:50 PM
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The issue is some men think only being nice will get them a date or sex, which is FALSE, I've talked to one dude who I could describe as a "nice" guy , I didn't dislike the fact he seemed nice at first, I thought it was actually rare and very sweet, but the issue is when the mask slips and the dude started acting ENTITLED, pretty much showing me he thought he was the best person ever because he acted nice, he wasn't nice, it was performative, and women don't want to put it with that, I don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:44 PM
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they sound so rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:42 PM
1

How is this related to my comment, again ? I wouldn't date you either, my "advice" if we can call it that was just an observation, if you think most women MAKE thirst trap content, then it's on YOUR algorithm and what YOU watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:57 PM
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Interesting reponse.. Why would I want to date you ? You're acting like I'm asking for it.. ugh.. that male inflated ego coming out again. Good luck to ur gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:52 PM
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to me, at least, if we look at gender roles, a man that is too feminine would be a man who waits for women to court him, isn't that self confident, won't step up, play games, etc.. My issue is a lot of YOUNG men want "feminine" women, but they themselves don't fit the gender roles. it's hard for women to act feminine with a man if the man's energy doesn't match, it creates an imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:51 PM
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most YOUNG men are super feminine, it is off putting, it's hard to act feminine as a woman when most men can't keep up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:44 PM
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You have a distorted view of women and relationships.. I kinda feel bad for you gf, I know she can do better!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:36 PM
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maybe you need to fix your porn addiction, just because you WATCH thirst trap content doesn't mean most women post them. Get off social media, you'll probably feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:33 PM
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these men are too feminine themselves, tho..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:32 PM
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Is this what u tell urself at night so u can sleep better..?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:31 PM
0

This is a well written post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:31 PM
1

maybe you're just a creep, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:30 PM
2

The real question I'm wondering is ; do YOU think most women dislike men or are YOU just offended women aren't trhowing themselves at you ? because I can assure you most women are neutral about most men and do not hate them. And I still don't see how this is related to a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:37 PM
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I don't understand your point tho, you might have to develop a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:22 PM
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a sex worker is NOT a regular woman.. are you serious right now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:16 PM
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your comment is ON POINT!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:11 PM
2

how is this related to my comment ? Also why would random women like most RANDOM men ? Do we owe random men something..?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:06 PM
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most men on this sub legit HATE themselves.. it's so sad to see
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:08 PM
1

maybe get better social skills and you'll see when a woman isn't into you ? not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:37 PM
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wait so men don't have any empathy and basic social skills ? now that u say it it all makes sense this post makes the whole male gender seem stupid.. like how come you don't realize sex workers don't actually like you..? most men I know are smarter than that and actually have emotional intelligence..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:35 PM
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only 60 percent is crazy... it's so even a high percentage bro.. Also, doesn't answer why y'all look so ugly..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:31 PM
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if men are so visual then why do most of y'all look ugly and don't wash ur ass tho, I'm being dead serious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:06 PM
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you're literally a man what the fuck do you even know about women LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:10 PM

Okayy rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:13 PM

sexuality isn't nasty, you're just straight up weird, sex for men isn't a need and women will never have sex with a man because it's "a need" and it "helps their mental health. Get off pornhub weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:13 PM
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exactly, this is a porn addict post lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:11 PM
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porn addicts are actually nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:10 PM

"basic needs".. you sound sooo rapey right now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:09 PM

this comment is NASTY please go jerk off instead of bothering women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:08 PM
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I love how it's somehow always the woman's fault..LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:34 PM
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because they're gonna be less tired, since they don't have to take care of the house, kids, and a bum ass husband
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:31 PM
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for real tho.. like except if you have very low self esteem, random men hitting on you everyday isn't validating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:29 PM

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:56 PM
-2

boy PLEASE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:48 PM
-1

this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:18 PM
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You hate yourself LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:12 PM
1

Maybe you need to ACTUALLY talk to women, dudes on this sub mostly repeat things they heard on internet and aren't experienced with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:17 PM
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that's why u can't get laid also we know ur a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:35 PM
1

do men do that ? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:30 PM
1

Ok mister autism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:03 PM
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here's a RANDOM comment I just stole about misogyny. Females aren’t “real” people like men. They don’t have thoughts n feelings like men and only go by what their silly female nature makes them do, whereas men are the only ones who make logical decisions and if it turns out wrong, it was a woman’s fault. Women living independently is wrong because they will make silly decisions like having sex with the wrong men etc sounds familiar to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:02 PM
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getting ready tbh then I'll have a story to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:30 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:29 PM
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are they ? or are you just projecting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:53 PM
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Yk we are human too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:56 AM
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"men have it WAY more harder" = they can't get laid easily :((((
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:16 PM
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I think no one should expect people to coddle them in general, what I hate is when men come on internet and think people are gonna coddle them because they can't find a gf, or when they make up random statistics to prove they have it worse and women are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:08 PM
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y'all think you know women better than them even tho you never talk to them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:45 PM
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They're allowed to have preferences and not date fat women but when we have preferences and want to date tall men it's the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:11 PM

bro used a youtube video as a proof, get off the internet, shorty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:06 PM

they're projecting LOLL they want women to fuck ugly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:55 PM
1

u should drink more soup it'll make u grow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:55 PM

Why are you so short ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:01 PM

Because women want tall men ? Men like big breasts, it's the same thing, it's biological. Also most women aren't crying bc men want a woman who didn't have many partners, stay mad, shorty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:52 PM

u act like it's a crime to like tall men, LOLLLLL yes women like tall men, cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:00 PM
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LITERALLY!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:54 AM
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the "imbalance" was always like that, it's biology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:53 AM
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And yeah, tbh only 5 % of men are probably like genuinely attractive to me, that's normal, women aren't gonna fuck dudes they don't find attractive.. come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:01 AM
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I don't really care for it, like I said in another comment, on the red flag spectrum, if u asked me it was a red flag, then I'd lean towards it, but I promise you women don't care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:33 PM
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This isn't the average for where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:22 PM
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And that's totally fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:21 PM
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If you're 35 or 40 tho, you probably worked for a while, saved up money etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:20 PM
-1

I don't think these are crazy standards tho, it's not a deal breaker at all, but if I had to say if it's a red flag or not I'd lean towards the red flag area if you're like 35 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:19 PM
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Because at 35 you're "supposed" to be independant, have an ok job, take care of yourself, and over the years you probably have some money on the side. I think it's one big step into adulthood. I wouldn't say it's a huge red flag tho, that depends on the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:17 PM
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It's a red flag if he's like 35 or something.. but if you're in your 20s I'd say it's pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:10 PM
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yeah and that's what I'm doing ? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:37 PM
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why are men in this sub just realizing looks do matter in dating ? men want beautiful women themselves.. like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:45 PM
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I'm glad I don't have sex with random ugly men. Women should never lower their standards tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:21 PM
4

understand what ? that y'all are porn addicts who can't control yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:48 PM
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No lies were told
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:38 PM
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LMAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:38 PM
2

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:21 PM
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LOLL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:19 AM
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"all the time" LOL let the victim mindset go, it doesn't look good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:45 PM
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it's over for you bro give up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:32 PM
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I just explained why I don't date unattractive men tho.. no mental gymnastics ; I js don't want a dude with low self esteem because I know how it ends most of the time. And yes! i care about appearence, I worked in the beauty world for years and I take care of myself, most men who take care of themselves aren't ugly. It's rare to see ugly dudes, like actually ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:55 PM
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Why would u be labeled as a rapist if you did nothing wrong ? hello?????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:52 PM

Yeah I'm not different than most women, I am a woman LOL, also I'm just answering the "attractive men are evil and uggos are angels", my point is : it isn't true, and you are right, I don't date unattractive men anymore because it doesn't change anything, they're still their own person, and also I can't stand people's low self esteem slipping in the relationship. So yeah, it's for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:52 PM
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Bc it's mentionned in the post ????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:49 PM
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?? what? desire is basic human nature?should populations die then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:28 PM
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??????? rape isn't all about attractuon, a normal man doesn't rape women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:25 PM
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no, u need to go therapy, men aren't supposed to rape women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:21 PM

like y'all aren't rapists bc u like women, it's bc you're sick in the head, so maybe fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:13 PM

y'all need help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:03 PM

Being unattractive doesn't make you a good boyfriend, especially given the fact a lot of desperate dudes only want a gf and not an actual woman to spend time with, they're just obsessed with the label because they wanna prove themselves they can get a gf. Ugly dudes aren't always nice and hot dudes aren't always mean, that sums it up?Also idk why you're talking about my view on what's attractive or not tbh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:02 PM

what? Ugly men are often SUPERRRR insecure, I've been negged by ugly dudes, and I've dated attractive dudes (who weren't that tall btw?) and while sometimes we weren't super compatible, I got mistreated less by attractive dudes. That's my experience tho. But I know I'm not the only woman who experienced that. Unattractive men be threatened by you the moment you start showing confidence because they know you're out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:28 PM

Thing is unattractive men can also be abusive.. I've seen it happen, it can happen because of insecurity, ressentiment.. like this is not exclusive to attractive men, and from my own experience, attractive men weren't the ones who treated me like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:50 PM

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:13 PM

I don't wanna date a short bald man I'm NOT attracted to. It's so funny how y'all tell women to date HIDEOUS men while y'all won't date ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:11 PM

I'm good with my standards, never had a problem bc of it LOLL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:08 PM
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this is why u need to transition bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:30 PM
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u gotta be ugly asl man I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:18 PM
-1

this is the best post on this sub tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:16 PM

Have you ever thought about transitioning ? Since you're so jealous of women LOLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:00 PM
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I guess it's acceptable until the man is like 27 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:58 PM
1

Dude actually believes OF models are being real to him, like this isn't social awkwardness anymore, this is just odd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:37 PM
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You wanna be the victim so bad it's kind of pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:25 PM
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Personally every time I get approached, in the streets etc it's just creepy dudes, that's why I'm saying that, but at parties it's already safer, yk, friends of friends, dudes my age, I guess it also depends WHERE women are getting approached, because in the streets it always comes off weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:12 PM
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Comparing dating and money isn't the same thing tho. Dating isn't necessary, having money is. Getting paid less is gonna have more bad consequences on your life than getting rejected sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:05 PM
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And that's fine, you're not gonna have chemistry with 90 % of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:04 PM
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PUA advice is crazy LMAO, I don't rlly mean it in that way, I don't mean u need to approach 100 random chicks and suck it up if u get rejected, I mean that men often MAKE the first move, it's a fact, because society pushed this down on men. There isn't really another way to change it, so yeah.. Taking it less personally will help better than taking it personally and ending up ressentful!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:22 PM
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Honestly I believe that, men often have to make the first move so they're gonna get rejected more. But I do think some men should learn not to take rejection too personally, because if they're the one always making the first move, it WILL happen to them, which is normal, not everyone will like you, even if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:10 PM
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Here's the thing, when people say "everyone faces rejection" they often mean in general, not only in dating. But I have girl friends who got rejected romantically, I got rejected when I was younger too, it hurts more than rejection for a job for example because it FEELS more personal, but most women will experience rejection romantically in their lives, it's just less upfront than for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:01 PM
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Did I lie tho ? Bc the way you view sex is very telling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:49 PM

u need to invest into DL trades
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:47 PM
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you're def a virgin, no shade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:37 PM
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this is a dangerous way of thinking because while it can be true for many women, not every woman likes that.. like y'all need to think before you DO things like this, don't joke w consent, esp bc a lot of men in this subreddit have bad social skills..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:35 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:27 PM
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I meannn... Rejection isn't exclusive to dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:57 AM
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tbh when men approach us it's 90 % not gonna be a good time LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:54 AM
1

that's just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:45 AM
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i'm glad I'm not American tho, I have free healthcare and stuff.. no wonder why you're so miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:37 AM
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americans thinking everyone else lives in their shitty country
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:45 AM
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u literally missed the whole point of my comments, are you per chance a middle school drop out ? Bc you clearly CANNOT read, ugly boy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:35 AM
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are you on anti psychotics ? like this is worrying..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:14 AM
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It's still related to dating tho so I don't see your point ? My original point still stands and still says everything about you and how you see women, you'd date a miserable ugly chick bc YOU have no options, and that's why you think women are content with getting matches with ugly dudes who only wanna fuck. That's pretty much it. To you, any kind of attention, even bad, is better than nothing. Tell me wrong then, or will you dodge the point like you did with my first messages ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:17 AM
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I mean.. I didn"t lie tho.. Like u openly admit u get no matches on dating apps dude, women are not the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:09 AM
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just ignoring my entire paragraph, and it's ok dude, idk wtf is a 7 or whathever, but atp if ur a male and can't get laid then maybe something's actually wrong w you, humans are supposed to reproduce and all so if u cannot attract a woman then something's wrong in ur human nature. That's why u blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:16 AM
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Why would I fuck a man I don't find handsome ? Bc let me tell u something : women don't wanna fuck ugly dudes just so y'all feel better about yourself. So, my point is, you probably don't get attention from women, can't get sex, whathever, and you're pretty much jealous of women. That's why to you it seems like heaven, because even a tad bit of woman validation would make you feel less ugly, and that's okay, but for the average woman, small ugly dicks and bad sex aren't validation, we know dudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:17 AM
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Most women don't enjoy casual sex and we actually have standards, no one likes ugly loud horny dudes yapping in their ears. You're literally jealous of women it's hilarious, ever thought about transitionning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:06 AM
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you're right I'm a woman and I don't care about men, you sound like a mess, no wonder u don't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:00 AM
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No they don't, you're obviously not attractive so any kind of attention would make you feel better, most women who have okay self esteem don't care about horny dudes hitting on them, they hit on ANYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:57 AM
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dude should not date at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:15 PM
-2

dating apps are full of miserable horny men tbh, this kind of attention isn't flattering for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:29 PM
0

you can't back up your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:12 PM
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u wanna be the victim so bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:11 PM

And y'all aren't shallow ? Oh okay !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:56 AM
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they are OF MODELS, not regular women, they're trying to seell their bodies to you, they don't care about you, it's like if you believed a stripper actually liked you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:51 AM
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How corn rotted do u have to be to act like this wtf LMAO?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:54 PM
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?? they are OF MODELS. They are not here to be truthful, they want your money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:44 PM
1

I am so confused, of course women on OnlyFans lie to you to get you to pay for the subscription, their job is to sell themselves, I thought you were talking about actual everyday women.. I am so confused??? Why would u believe an onlyfan model
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:43 PM
1

I mean.. are you earning A LOT ? Bc majority of women aren't trying to get random dudes money, also if it's women really OUT of your league, like model like then I'd believe u
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:30 PM
1

I think u need to start working on ur confidence dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:09 PM

young yall fit looking men often only just want sex or are boring, want an ego boost.. like come on let's put our thinking caps on, most women don't want casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:08 PM
1

"super handsome" lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:15 AM

why not tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:12 AM

you "call them out"? for what ? having preferences ? this is crazy dude this is why u don't have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:08 AM

the dating options of women are literally terrible, but you wouldn't know bc you're imagining some kind of fantasy, but out of 100 dudes, like 2 dudes are decent and somewhat respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:07 AM

abour what LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:06 AM
1

Yeah tbh I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:43 PM

are we supposed to feel bad ? like I'm sorry you're autistic but how is it women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:38 PM
1

Why would I settle for an ugly man??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:05 PM
6

this is the realest comment ever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:05 PM
8

this is unirocally the most valid take on here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:02 PM
-1

this is soooo LMAOOOO omg no wonder yall r single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:17 PM
5

yeah, the point of my comment was to show how ridiculous this rethoric is, but you go!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:16 PM
14

men get falsely accused because of their own choices in women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:37 AM
1

worded it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:30 PM
1

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:33 PM
2

exactly LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:27 PM
1

No I like big dicks LOLL, most men prefer big boobs and big butts and most women like big dicks, or average size. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:39 PM

That's my opinion, I think it looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:54 AM

you seem so insecure..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:53 PM

Tbh, especially for shitty casual sex, or maybe she lives in a shitty area
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:47 PM

I mean rage baiting on this sub is kinda hilarious because people get mad super quickly, and I can tell OP is using specific words to troll so specific people will get mad, it's not that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:34 PM

Atp just delete and download again, idk where you live but when I used tinder there was a shit ton of handsome men on here, also use the age filter if u don't want old fucks to appear on here for real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:32 PM
1

Bc it looks better tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:30 PM

If you're looking for an actual answer,then I'm gonna say stay on tinder lmao?? like just go hookup with a cute guy, why bother posting this on THIS subreddit ? Yknow the incel men on here are gonna get mad Or you're ragebaiting which I admire lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:28 PM

A man wrote this btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:23 PM
1

If I talked to a man and he told me he used to raise his voice when mad, I'm out, bye LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:59 PM
1

you're so insecure it's actually disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:50 PM
1

You need to take ur meds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:48 PM
1

who cares??? men like huge bobbs too and no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:45 PM
1

sooo..majority of young women are in a relationship... with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:30 PM
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I mean.. I'm a woman telling you why that is.. people don't care that much about forming a family and women settle less for men. Not to mention how horrible pregnancy is. And how expensive a kid is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:39 PM
8

y'all just don't see women as human beings period
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:24 PM
19

Maybe because there's less pressure on women about that, and women don't feel the need to settle down with shitty men just to have a "family life" anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:22 PM

sex isn't a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:44 AM

they just porn addicts fr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:41 AM
10

I remember when I went on a date with this dude back in march and he started kinda.. bragging about his body count and I was so uncomfortable.. who told you men this was attractive ? It comes off as "I date every woman I see and fuck anything because I'm bored and desperate" to answer the question, I'd be upset about the lying like hello? but I guess I could understand if it comes from deep insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:20 PM

Did I write this LMAOO girl we're twinning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:11 PM
1

I think he REALLY hates himself.. this is sad no wonder women don't fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:58 PM
0

Can I get a Amen up in here ??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:57 PM
1

I'm single and I can confirm that FOR ME, it's not that important
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:55 PM

I can get sex pretty easily but I'm not interested in that, I do get a lot of attention and compliments from both genders, BUT long term dating isn't really easy for me because I'm pretty young and I don't wanna rush myself into shitty relationships, a lot of men I dated in highschool or whatever were superrrr insecure so I'm very careful about men I talk to romantically. So yes, I'd say dating is easy to access. But getting into a long term relationship is not, and I'll keep being single until …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:30 PM
4

this comment hit a nerve huh LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:52 PM
7

it's never gonna be easy to find the perfect match, relatinships are not easy, just because you're an attractive woman doesn't mean you're compatible with 80 percent of men, come on now..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:22 AM
1

#bald #short
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:56 PM
1

okay uggo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:51 PM
1

you're ugly and no one wants you #suckitup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:47 PM
1

you're so mad you're commenting again after 5 hours.. it's giving short, bald, and ugly #suckitup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:11 PM
1

suck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:36 PM
2

Wait I do agree on the esthetic side of tings tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:36 PM
1

suck it up babe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:34 PM
-2

you are about to get death threats in 3,2,1......................
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:32 PM
1

suck it up LOLL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:30 PM

I would pull out huge arguments against this but I just can't believe this is happening in 2025. Literally mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:22 PM
1

Oh please. I don't feel bad for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:21 PM

A male saying patriarchy never oppressed women.. literally disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:06 PM

bro wanna be the victim so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:56 PM

ew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:52 PM
1

bro what.. not the revenge fantasy I'm sick of you incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:37 PM
1

I would worry about his grades, future jobs, health.. why would I care about his dating life ? This is just weird, dating is personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:03 PM

Girl I'm not a republican, I'm not even american, please.. Also when I talked about coworkers and classmates not being allies, I was referring to the original comment that said men get hated on when they don't support women, I was saying that in the sense that men in real life don't have to show they care about women and they don't get hated on. Also! most people in real life date their equivalent, this is literally just men in this sub who get into these conspiracy theories about women dating..…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:01 PM

Annnd.. why would I care ? How is it my problem if my FUTURE son doesn't get a gf in like 30 years ?????????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:19 PM

I do not understand your comment, I didn't say anything political, I said get your shit together and stop expecting PEOPLE to care about your problems. Everyone is trying to focus on their own issues, not yours. Also you are no one to tell women they should date men they don't consider options, wanna know why ? because you are not entitled to woman validation, sex, or a relationship, that's just how it is. A lot of men wouldn't date their gf if she wasn't attractive to him. It's the same for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:17 PM

most men legit don't care much about women's problems..like in real life I don't hear male classmates or coworkers being super feminist allies or anything... they don't get called haters or anything. I would agree women usually don't care about "male issues" but at the same time, as a woman, every single time I hear about a male issue, it's you guys, in this subreddit, complaining women don't want you....and that you're short... Like what do you want people to do ? What can women even do about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:52 AM

how is "early male pattern baldness" oppression tho? and dating lives ??? like there is so much more to fight for, regarding men and their struggles.. Also a lot of men straight up don't care about women's struggles, that's just how people are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:37 AM

Life is hard, it sucks but you have to get over it. If i have a son, the first thing I will worry about will not be his dating life, that is just weird and intrusive ???????most people face challenges in life, not only in dating, just overall, like come on........
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:35 AM
0

you ate them up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:23 PM
3

Yeah no the dudes who got the most aggressive with me were the short average looking dude, let's not lie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:58 PM
1

Girl i have no idea what a blue piller is, please, get off internet this is juts a flair LMAOO and yeah keep doing it !! so women know which "man" they should avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:14 PM
1

u sound dumb as hell, go ahead and act like a dick and you'll see what will happen LOLL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:10 PM
0

so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:42 PM
1

I mean this is true tho likeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:20 PM
1

oh so being a narcissistic asshole is an option? are actually retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:19 PM
2

r u missing the point on purpose.. babe this is why u don't get laid, you're insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:21 PM
1

You don't have to "act autistic"... just get better social skills and stop fantasizing about being a narcissist in a unhealthy relationship w a woman who will put up w it bc she has no confidence, it's giving insecureeee LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:02 PM
1

You say that, but this post promotes ACTING like a narcissist, especially the original comment I responded to. I fear you're projecting my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:38 PM
-1

I wanna see the people who have applied this so bad, I doubt it's successfull. Atp, autistic or not, if you're physically attractive there are so many ways you can attract women, it's a shame you guys don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:37 PM
-1

yeah you're right this is what normal people feel when they look at this sub actually AHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:35 PM
-2

righhttt.................
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:34 PM
3

I can assure you these types of men are miserable.. narcissism comes from deep insecurities, but oh well, not my problem. These types of posts make me grateful for my life and the people I surround myself with. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:54 PM
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are people supposed to want a unhealthy relationship? y'all that desperate ?what the hell is going on LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:50 PM
7

yeah this will make your social life even worse than before... you'll actually look retarded now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:49 PM
1

Who cares.. y'all are so entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:24 PM

what is going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:36 AM
5

girl let him be he seems crazy LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:04 AM

gah damn you're an incel this is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:02 AM
1

tbh it's not ridiculous to say that.. just not on this sub LOLLL they gon harass ur ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:00 AM
1

this is a pretty good comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:56 PM
1

What the hell is this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:00 AM
2

Because they hate themselves and they're trying to prove to themselves they can actually attract a woman.. and it doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:20 PM
1

period
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:14 PM
-2

This dude seems delusional ngl, he doesn't seem to understand that women are not just one group, but individuals, how embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:13 PM
1

boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:44 PM
1

Literally what the fuck are talking about dude LOLL what is going on ? You're just jumping from one thing to another, I don't give a shit about your article, one woman doing one thing doesn't mean every woman is doing that ? Also great, you skipped my point about marriages in muslim countries ! How smart, you even managed to make it about yourself! Also dating in highschool and having 4 submissive wives that probably didn't even choose to be with you is NOT the same thing, also not my fault you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:42 PM
1

Hey dude, the debate was about how men and women sexuality are seen. I'm telling you men in Islam ARE ALLOWED to have multiple women. Women can't have multiple husbands or anything; Also, yes if you're a woman in most muslim countries and you talk about sex, then it's pretty much over for you, it is NOT seen as normal. I have muslim friends dude. Also wtf is this pedo link ?? you're hella weird ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:34 PM
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So these men are jealous ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:23 PM
2

Same things happen to women in muslim countries, even WORSE. Like far worse, men are allowed to have multiples wives in Islam btw. Also I have lost interesting with a dude because he kept bragging about his past body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:22 PM
2

Yeah, so ? you confirmed what I was saying by admitting that's normal for men , go ahead and tell these guys in my replies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:15 PM
0

You're literally reversing the whole thing.. Since when was male sexuality seen as bad and women good ? Women get shamed for their sexuality since... HUNDREDS OF YEARS? Men can talk about fucking 50 chicks and it's seemed as normal and masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:14 PM
-2

yes..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:53 AM
2

Why is everything a conspiracy theory to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:48 AM
1

I don't disagree with some people having it harder, I asked a question tho, what should we do about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:45 AM
1

Most women rlly don't, at least not super often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:07 PM
2

What did I admit, exactly ??? You quoted me saying I don't want to get pregnant by a random stranger ? Like.. I fear that's normal. Also, average dudes fuck and date everyday, I dated average dudes, I have friends who dated average to unattractive dudes.. The point is, if you're GENUINELY unattractive, then yes, women are not gonna FLOCK TO YOU and fuck you. Just like men don't like unattractive women. But being average is... literally normal, that's why it's called average.. Look at your own fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:14 PM
3

Dude I'm a woman stating MY experience, how the hell are you just going to say "well... NO ADMIT IT !!!!!!!!!"??? that's crazy go outside and you'll see ugly men with ugly women, ugly women with averager women, ugly men with pretty women, pretty women with blablablaa... like come on. I've had crushes on dudes who did not look like greek gods.. Also, of course women are not going to be attarcted to unattractive dudes, just like men. But if you're average, then you'll still be attractive to women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:53 PM
6

People can't take no for a no, some people ENJOY harassing others, some men will legit sexually harass u in the streets just to get attention or feel powerful or funny. Some people just don't care, that's it. Or they don't have the social skills to understand how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:32 PM
11

Dude people in the real world just figure it out.. it's social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:09 PM
0

I mean yeah.. probably because MOST WOMEN don't want to risk getting pregnant by a stranger ? Also a majority of women don't enjoy hookups, some do, but from my experience it's hard to have any orgasm or actual pleasure with someone you don't really know, attractive or not. Sex for men will almost always end up in pleasuring THEM, for us it's different. And yeah women are more picky, but it's really not just looks wise.. I've talked to some handsome men but the personality sometimes just doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:04 PM
0

As a woman I agree, it's literally the same for both genders, there's attractive men and women but it varies on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:56 PM
0

This also applies to women btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:34 PM

real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:20 PM
2

??? I literally JUST engaged with it ????????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:31 AM
1

Yeah dude, keep whining and making generalizations of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:51 AM
1

So..? Same could be said about disabled people, obese people, any form of difference..That's just life, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:50 AM
3

boringgggg take booooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:33 AM
1

I don't think that's how conversations work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:17 AM
1

Yeah pretty much, but this will probably never happen, so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:14 AM
1

Yeah I made this post then woke up with 400 damn comments, it calmed down now but I will not reply to incel/troll type of comments. Or anything I already answered, sorry dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:14 AM
1

More like actual advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:13 PM
1

Yeah it should've and it didn't. Now what? Are we gonna cry about it all day ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:52 PM

awww this gives me faith. I hope I'll have a relationshp as good as yours sound for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:40 PM
1

So are we supposed to feel bad ? Or are you guys gonna continue to whine about it ? What's the end goal ? Most people aren't super model like attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:51 PM
15

Bro is comparing women to objects, god damn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:39 PM
-1

That's sad then. God bless your heart
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:20 PM
-2

YES!!!! Thank you for understanding that, really adds to this post and the debates around it! keep it up!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:04 AM
-1

Wooh! manipulating women to get some sex! healthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:49 AM
2

Yeah but I feel like it validates EVERY emotion, hate, anger, ressentment. It's like an unhealthy echo chamber, if these men keep staying in places where their opinions are all the same, they're validating each other on EVERY aspect. This is why you see so many entitled men who spill the same rethorics ALL THE TIME on this sub, they hang out with people like this so much that they believe it's the truth. The secret conspiracy against men..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:47 AM
0

I totallly agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:44 AM
0

what a sad life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:43 AM
2

Um.. Yes there is ? The "debates", the "podcasts", the "masculinty advices", these are the surface of the redpill spheres. This is typically how people start getting into it. It's everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:39 AM
1

Are you saying you should spend your time in the gender war? what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:37 AM
1

Right.. keep telling yourself that. this is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:09 AM
-1

This is such a selfish way of thinking, wow. You should read my comment again, porn destroys your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:14 AM
0

What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:49 AM
0

Bro wished I got reincarnated and is talking about beta and alpha.. how is this normal people behavior. Also probably like 1.70m?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:48 AM
-3

Oh god that's it this post officially reached the actual incels, why are all of you popping at the same time LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:32 AM
2

And who set that system up ? Women ? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:19 AM
3

Yeah no.. the sexualization of women and the porn industry are big problems, I would even say one of the biggest problems in today's society. First of all, have you heard of all of the women being trafficked into this? Also porn addiction ? How is it normal for men to have erectile dysfonctions before even hitting 20? It does actual damages on the human brain, and it will keep you from having a healthy sex life with your partner. I think men should start here. This isn't a problem because societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:19 AM
1

Can you list some of those behaviours? "cringy".. uh.. here's your answer on the guys that are redpill ahhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:55 AM
-3

Whatever, that's on you. You should go outside and talk to women more, you seem a bit lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:47 AM
3

Why would you describe random women's behaviours as a meme ? Name one redpill guy that is actually successful and seems confident with himself, I wanna laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:46 AM
0

I don't spend time with men from these spaces online, actually, like I said I discovered this subreddit a month ago. I don't worry about them but I do worry seeing some of these mindsets split into mainstream everyday culture, seeing normal attractive men I know having weird redpill like content on their timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:44 AM
1

I don't know any red pill men that has good self esteem and good relationships with women, usually, playing wicked tricks on people you're dating does that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:42 AM
2

I totally see what you mean, BUT, here's the nuance First of all, I think this wave of feminism in 2015 to 2019 , created some EXTREME spaces for people to say the most unhinged takes ever. I also think this is when a lot of men started to get into these redpill spaces etc too, I've seen it. Now, about the porn stuff, I don't understand how this is demonising to men, the porn industry IS oppressive, and the sexualization of women is a real topic, a real struggle, it demonises women wayyy more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:41 AM
-7

I care because these ideologies have a strong tendencies of slipping into mainstream media, it effects EVERYONE. Even average and good looking dudes. Also I have been confronted directly to men with these mindset IN REAL LIFE. I am not talking about full on incels. But clearly some mindsets and ways of approaching that leans towards redpill tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:26 AM
1

Touched a nerve huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:19 AM
2

"Dating advices" that are super unhealthy by the way LOL? Like yes dude try to date 10 women at the same time and don't forget to use negging on them!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:17 AM
-5

Don't agree, there are other ways to cope with it instead of making conspiracies about women..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:14 AM
3

I actually put it in the discussion category LOL idk if I can change it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:13 AM
1

I didn't understand the thing about LGBTQ people, sorry. Actually, if there was a way to prove it, then yeah, I would accept it, thing is from my own experience, it is not true, for men and women, and I will believe my personal experience over theories or things that are not proved. And I don't feel bad, I just don't believe it, I prefer to see people as individuals, that's why I tend to avoid generalizing men, EVEN if I clearly see common patterns and behaviors, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:12 AM
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Here's the thing ; I have never met a redpill man who had a successful dating life, back in highschool I talked to like 3 different guys that I noticed were clearly into this whole redpill thing, I could feel it. (just personal experience) Guess what ? I stopped talking to them because something was telling me it wasn't right, and these men (they're probably like 23 now so not over yeah) didn't have good reputation with women and gave off entitled vibes. If the redpill worked, then you wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:09 AM
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Ooh, what a bitter comment. Don't have the energy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:00 AM
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I do believe there is a major shift in how people view masculinity, but seeing women as the ennemy doesn't really help, I actually said that in another comment, but looking for sa few advices linked to confidence, improvement and masculinity isn't bad in itself, the trick, for men is when it turns into ressentment and it starts looking like a war between two genders; Actually, I'm curious, how do you feel you're being demonised for the fact of being a man ? Do you feel like it's overall in socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:57 AM
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I not trying to generalize it, but you gotta admit that the algorithm pushes redpill content A LOT onto mainstream media, so most people that are exposed to it see the surface. I don't blame men for taking SOME elements from these communities, but I do blame some of them for taking all the damn elements from them, I feel like there is a lack of nuance from a lot of these men. How do you go from self improvement as a man to "women want the top 10 chad it's over you're short" I feel like there's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:51 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:47 AM
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That's the thing, I don't believe it works. How is making caricatures of both genders objective ? I would never assume men are all the same, even if men, by nature, share some common traits and behaviors, every men's personality isn't the same, their life, choices, tastes aren't either, Like I said, dynamics matter A LOT in relationships, so I don't believe you can predict every single behavior of women and men because people are so different. I don't believe redpill is the solution, most redpil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:47 AM
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My point here, it seems like most "redpill" men spend a lot of time whining about stuff. It does not seem to work from my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:43 AM
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Agreed, it's heartbreaking for me to see random dudes in my class slipping random redpill ideologies in discussions because it's legit all over their instagram feeds etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:42 AM
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What a disappointing comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:40 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:39 AM
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They can use them I don't care, but I don't see the point, just go outside and try to socialize, to me dating apps were mainly for 30 years old or something, when it can get harder to date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:22 AM
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The initial topic was men looking better than the women they date. Stop acting like a toddler that doesn't understand shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:40 PM
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Bro if the city you live in is full of ugly people in general, then y'all are just ugly and that's fine LOL but don't bring other cities and countries with you. Like no I'm not gonna believe that in South America specifically, there's a city where super model like handsome dudes date unattractive obese women with three teeth and you're just noticing that, that's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:09 PM
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Dude.. your job is to.. push people around on beds and stretchers. First of all they're not your patients Of course people look ugly as fuck when you push them around on a bed in a hospital! Do you actually believe that an hospital is an actual way to compare attractiveness ? Ugh boring debate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:02 PM
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How tho ? I feel like women are often seen as more attractive, especially because of hair, makeup, skincare, clothes (these play a huge difference), I don't see unattractive people a lot, but I'd say that when I see a couple walking down the streets, it's often an average man and average woman, people date within their league, if chads were the only ones dating then most of y'all wouldn't be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:58 PM
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You have patients ?! This is brutal I feel sorry for them, I would never speak about my clients or anyone I'm supposed to take care of like this. This is deep insecurities talking I guess. Also, you're right, I don't believe you because where I live, people are literally decent. But whataver. God bless your patients !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:53 PM
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I actually didn't say you were gay, actually, I'm implying that saying every woman you see in a relationship is uglier than the man she's dating (because that's the original point, right ?) means that maybe you don't like women. Because it's very unlikely that it's true.. I fear it's like basic observation and common sense, but hey, you people will twist anything to confirm your perception bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:44 PM
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louder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:36 PM
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Why are you downvoting my comment ? LMAO Also, overall, people tend to date in their league, there are exceptions of course, but it's very rare to see a very attractive model man with a genuinely unattractive girl, there is no way y'all are saying this happens everyday. Or maybe you just don't find women attractive ? or have crazy standards ? because I look at people around a lot and I don't see that on every corner of the streets. My opinion tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:32 PM
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France, what about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:28 PM
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That's actually insane bc it's the opposite for me, I see average looking dudes with average women, or hotter women. Saying that "chads" (hate this incel ugly term) are the only ones having relationships is literally just wrong loolll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:18 PM
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This has to be delusion at some point.. go outside and look at the couples I'm begging you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:39 PM
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wdym you're proud of being an incel I swear I can't take this sub serious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:24 PM
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Because bc you're not attractive idk..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:34 PM
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No..? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:46 PM
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No I mean he can do whatver he wants but he should start dating irl, dating apps are a mess and not helpful in a lot of cases in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:46 PM
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I'd tell him get off the dating apps, you're too young
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:35 PM
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You just insulted this person and me but saying "sped" btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:10 PM

Go ahead and google the definition of the word insult for me please... If I called someone tall and skinny that wouldn't be an insult...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:09 PM

I wish I cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:08 PM

What insults did I post, exactly ? Also I do have pics of me on internet, that I'd OBVIOUSLY never post on reddit because I do not care about weirdo's validation, sorry. Also you could call me the ugliest person EVER to my face and I don't think I'd care. you, on the other hand... I'm sure you'd care, this comment HIT a damn nerve huh?? AHHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:19 PM
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prove what LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:44 PM
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I mean.. Am I wrong tho? When I say the usual suspects, I mean it, most dudes in this sub always complain about being unattractive or bald or short, like to me this just confirms that these types of delusional posts are mostly made by dudes like this, it's just facts atp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:29 PM
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no offense but don't understand your comment, what blame game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:20 PM

I checked your profile history and you're short and balding, the usual suspects....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:03 PM

boring post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:52 PM
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Yes dude, as a woman I intentionally LIE to random men so they get their hopes up. That's totally how 50 percent of the world population works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:29 AM
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Most women literally don't do that, in what reality some of you guys live in????????Can't i just enjoy sex ??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:21 AM

GET HIMMM
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:25 PM

Last time I was attracted to someone was back in May, i don't think you're picky..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:23 PM
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I'm wondering.. Do you believe you should get a woman without doing anything and making no efforts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:45 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:29 PM
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You ate him uppp
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:39 PM
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Women say this about men, it's just both genders attacking the other tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:30 PM

the rethoric is tired
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:19 PM

Tinder isn't real life, never has been
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:27 AM
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This is the best response to this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:21 PM

For me it was the mindset, most of the time they were men that were superrrrrr insecure, handsome dudes that thought they were ugly, actual not attractive men etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:17 PM

Says you.. the incel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:52 AM

Funny how "all men" supposedly want 20 years olds, yet it's mostly bitter, inexperienced guys on Reddit who keep saying that. Men who are actually happy and respected in their relationships don't sit around fantasazing about other people's youth, they live their lives. This probably explain why your post sounds so insecure and also why you probably get no play. Also most women in their 20s wouldn't date some 60 years old, let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:45 AM

That says more about yourself and how you see women and relationships than reality. Reducing women to their age is not a fact, it's your personal insecurity projected, if you actually respected women as human beings instead of "expiration dates", you wouldn't be writing posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:36 AM
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Are you gay...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:43 PM
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It's giving incel
/r/MensRights27/08/25 10:34 AM

is this some kind of psychosis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:33 AM

What the hell is this p*rn addict post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:10 AM
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There are unambitious men like that too, it's not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:32 AM
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This dude is just trying to waste my time for real. No wonder he gets no play.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:09 PM
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the point of working on personality is to attract women in the first place ? People don't get into relationships without talking to each other first and women aren't gonna want to talk to you more if you don't talk to them.. or have a shit personality, like I said. I do believe it's about your attitude first. Also, I don't assume you're some kind of evil misogynist man BUT I do think you're biased and you're stuck inside a rabbithole of redpill idealogies or something, or whatever you call it, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:52 AM
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I'm actually super confused, how is this article related to what we were talking about ? Also, I think you should focus on yourself, the fact you openly admitted you weren't going to work on your personality or anything.. why should a woman date you if you can't have a decent personality ? You know relationships aren't just RELATIONSHIPS, they're also hang outs, conversations, social situations etc... like you have to maintain it and if you have a SHIT personality, why the hell would any woman g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:23 AM
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Maybe the reason you feel like women have been ‘gatekeeping’ from you for 10–20 years is simply because you’ve been focusing on the wrong things the whole time.. I don't know any woman that wants some emotionally immature guy..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:54 AM
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Okay so my question is, if you don't want to sit on your ass and wait for chemistry and compatibility to happen.. What do you want to do ? This is the real question here, I haven't experienced your life, I don't know you, but I can guarantee you that there isn't some secret "evil playbook" women are gatekeeping from you. And there isn't an alternative wicked way or a cheat code to guarantee a relationship. Really. Sitting around and complaining about women, dating, etc WILL keep you in this whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:42 AM
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This is where I think there’s an actual lack of empathy. The whole concept of “rewarding” a man with sex isn’t something that happens in real life, it just sounds like something that could happen in some weird sex roleplay. Attraction just happens, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Women don’t fully understand male attraction either, the same way men don’t fully understand female attraction. The difference is, we don’t turn that mystery into some weird conspiracy theory. At least i don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:33 AM
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You keep framing attraction like it’s a video game reward system, "low tier guys grinding XP until they earn sex." That’s not how relationships work. Nobody is ‘rewarding’ anyone. Attraction isn’t a privilege or a prize, it’s literally just chemistry and compatibility. If you can’t see it that way, you’ll always feel like women are gatekeeping something from you, instead of realizing desire can’t be forced or earned like a paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:27 AM
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This is still not a "reward", that's just cause and effect. If someone changes something and I happen to find them more attractive, that doesn't mean I handed them a prize. Attraction isn't a transaction, it's not a conscious '"here you earned this" it's just chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:07 AM
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I think you're twisting it, attraction isn't a "reward", it's literally mutual desire. A reward is something you hand out on purpose, attraction is something you feel, it's not negotiable or transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:56 AM
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Not randomly at all, I'm attracted to people I connext with, physically and mentally. That's how most people choose, men included (again). Mutual attraction isn't random, it's just chemistry and compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:47 AM
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I have sex with people I'm attracted to and connect with, just like men, it's called mutual desire, which is the point, both people want it, not one of them earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:40 AM
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I'm not going to "reward" a man for anything, I'm going to do it because I want to and I care about my own pleasure, like what the hell???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:22 AM
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Lacking ambition isn't a moral failure, but let's be real, EVERYONE in society is somewhat pressured to have ambition, it's always been associated with being a stable and successful person. and personally, I'd considered myself an ambitious person, I always worked hard, did my best to study, have friends, maintain a job I like, like I'm not the best, but I'm trying. And yes, a man that doesn't do anything all day would literally not fit me, because that's not how I live my life. I think most peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:16 AM
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Totally changes the dynamic tho, I don't think it's supposed to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:45 PM

When I said not really, I meant that I wouldn't be 21 when I get out of college. Here's the thing, people evolve with age, right now I am 20, I'm not even THINKING about a family or babies, because I'm not at that point yet, which is.. totally normal. Right now, my priorities are my education, my friends and my health. Finding a man will probably come later in life (MAYBE at 24-25 who knows?) I don't want to settle for anyone, I'd like to take my time because I don't feel rushed, I'm young, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:39 PM

not really, I will probably graduate college at like 24-25.. I'm not WAITING, if I meet a guy and it matches, then why not, but what I'm trying to say is I'm not actively looking for a relationship, it's not a priority for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:20 PM

This is a crazy way to see people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:32 AM
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Zzzzzz boring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:29 AM

I'm tired of reading the same shit over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:43 AM

I always thought the same thing ! I'm 20 and I don't see myself in a long-term relationship with a man right now, I feel like it requires some work to maintain one and you gotta prioritize it. I'm in the middle of my studies and about to enter college so that'd make no sense for me to settle down now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:41 AM

exactlyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:00 PM
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